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00:00:04J-J-J-J, please stop.
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00:05:18J-J, I'm sorry, I'm just letting him walk me to my bus.
00:05:22Okay.
00:05:24Hi.
00:05:25Thanks.
00:05:27Will you be my valentine?
00:05:30Sure.
00:05:57Jose.
00:05:58I'm sorry.
00:05:59I changed my mind.
00:06:00I'm interested in this girl.
00:06:08So let me get this right.
00:06:10You went on a date
00:06:11with someone who's not your man?
00:06:14What's wrong with that?
00:06:17Feels so stupid.
00:06:19Feels like I got caught cheating.
00:06:22Girl, that is not cheating.
00:06:24That was barely even a date.
00:06:28Hold on. That's Robin.
00:06:35Don't tell me you are smoking again.
00:06:39Why'd you text me 9-1-1?
00:06:41I went on a date with my wig off and the guy just walked out on me.
00:06:46You mean Terrence?
00:06:48No.
00:06:51Hold on. It's Trish.
00:06:56Do not leave me on hold for that girl.
00:06:58Like I'm supposed to wait on you and Robin.
00:07:01She don't give good advice no way.
00:07:03Just stop.
00:07:05Well, my advice?
00:07:06Is stop worrying about these men.
00:07:08Cause I promise they're not worried about you.
00:07:10Look.
00:07:11You're so worried about this so-called date.
00:07:13For all you know, Terrence could be cheating on you.
00:07:16You think so?
00:07:18No. No, he's not.
00:07:21And how do you know?
00:07:23Hmm?
00:07:24Proven.
00:07:29Hold on. That's Robin.
00:07:31Hang up on her.
00:07:34Get off the phone with her.
00:07:36Get off the phone with her.
00:07:36Cause all she does is sleep and fill your head with nonsense.
00:07:39Will you leave her alone?
00:07:42Okay, who did you go on this date with?
00:07:45Well, some guy named Chad.
00:07:47Chad?
00:07:49How did this date come about?
00:07:51Like where did y'all go?
00:07:52We went to Meemaw's.
00:07:55Meemaw's.
00:07:57Terrence's ex family restaurant.
00:08:00No, I know.
00:08:01I'm so stupid.
00:08:04I was just trying to build up the confidence to tell Terrence.
00:08:09Taya.
00:08:10Taya.
00:08:11I mean, you sound crazy right now.
00:08:14I mean, one, you went on a date with not your man.
00:08:17Two, you went to Terrence's ex family restaurant.
00:08:23Three, you talked to Trisha.
00:08:26Girl, you just need to go to Terrence and tell him.
00:08:51You look nice.
00:08:53Thanks.
00:08:57What's wrong?
00:09:01I haven't been completely honest with you.
00:09:06What do you mean?
00:09:09I mean, I haven't lied, but I haven't told you the whole truth.
00:09:16Omitting certain details is lying.
00:09:20What's up?
00:09:21You know how I always wear wigs.
00:09:24And I told you that it's because I don't like my hair.
00:09:29Did it ever cross your mind that you haven't seen my hair?
00:09:34I mean, yeah, but what are you saying?
00:09:40That's not the case.
00:09:43I don't have any hair.
00:09:48Okay.
00:09:55I have alopecia.
00:09:58I'm sorry I lied to you.
00:10:04You think I didn't know?
00:10:10Is this why we haven't been intimate?
00:10:12It's because you haven't seen the real me.
00:10:17I've seen enough to know that I want you.
00:10:42I can't.
00:10:43You can't what, baby?
00:10:46I just told you I have alopecia.
00:10:48There's so much to talk about.
00:10:50When I told you I don't care.
00:10:54I do.
00:10:57If you think you're about to keep stringing me along, I don't think so.
00:11:02I wasn't stringing you along.
00:11:04It was hard to tell you because I love you.
00:11:10You expect for me to believe that?
00:11:11Why not?
00:11:15You know, ever since we started dating, you've been claiming that you were saving yourself for marriage.
00:11:21Let's be honest, Judea.
00:11:23This has nothing to do with the Lord and more to do with your hair.
00:11:28Do you seriously think that me wanting to save myself for marriage is only about alopecia?
00:11:34I mean, just now you were quick to give it up after you told me.
00:11:37I was not.
00:11:41You're not a virgin, Judea.
00:11:43We just haven't had sex.
00:11:52I'm just trying to do the right thing here.
00:11:55I wasn't expecting you to throw it in my face.
00:12:17Let's start with how your week went.
00:12:20My week was pretty good.
00:12:24No one night stands.
00:12:26Well, that alone is progress.
00:12:31How do you feel about our last conversation?
00:12:34To be honest, it's all still a lot for me.
00:12:43I know, I know.
00:12:45That's why I want to make sure that if you tell her that you're prepared for what's to come next.
00:12:55Now, I'm not recommending it.
00:12:57I know.
00:12:59I mean, she's a really great friend.
00:13:02It's just this ongoing, hidden jealousy, I guess.
00:13:09I understand.
00:13:12It's like I said before, you do seem a bit jealous of her at times.
00:13:18And I don't want that influencing you telling her that you slept with her boyfriend.
00:13:27What?
00:13:28What was her name again?
00:13:35Judea.
00:13:37Judea Townsville.
00:13:41Judea Townsville.
00:13:41Judea Townsville.
00:13:42Judea Townsville.
00:13:51Judea Townsville.
00:13:52Judea Townsville.
00:13:53Judea Townsville.
00:13:54Judea Townsville.
00:13:54Judea Townsville.
00:13:56Judea Townsville.
00:13:56Judea Townsville.
00:13:57Judea Townsville.
00:13:57Judea Townsville.
00:13:57Judea Townsville.
00:13:57Judea Townsville.
00:13:58Judea Townsville.
00:13:58Judea Townsville.
00:13:59Judea Townsville.
00:14:01Judea Townsville.
00:14:04Judea Townsville.
00:14:26Girl, I was just thinking about you.
00:14:29I think I left my keys at Terrence's house.
00:14:32Then, uh, go get them.
00:14:33Um, I can't.
00:14:35We had a weird morning.
00:14:37You told him.
00:14:39I don't want to talk about it.
00:14:41Then, uh, what's up then?
00:14:43Well, I'm locked out and I need the spare key that I gave you.
00:14:48It's in your house.
00:14:49Why would the spare key that I gave you be in my house?
00:14:53Because it's the spare house key, silly.
00:14:56In case you needed it.
00:14:58I gave it to you, so...
00:15:00Pfft, never mind.
00:15:02Woo woo...
00:15:04I hope that I get one big thing.
00:15:182nd..
00:15:19Ah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:15:22Bye, bye, ya, yeah.
00:15:22Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye!
00:15:22Bye, bye, bye.
00:15:22Everybody bleep, bye, bye, bye.
00:15:23Bye, bye, bye, bye.
00:15:23Bye, bye, bye to bye.
00:15:24Bye, bye.
00:15:25Bye, bye.
00:15:35Surprised to see you back here.
00:15:39I left my keys.
00:15:42Why didn't you call? I could have looked for her.
00:15:45I just need my keys.
00:15:49Well, since you're here, let's talk.
00:15:54Please, don't.
00:15:56Talk to me.
00:15:57You want to talk?
00:15:59Yes.
00:16:07Have you slept with anyone since we've been together?
00:16:12Why are you so insecure about yourself?
00:16:15Have you slept with anyone since we've been together?
00:16:21I don't understand why you're asking me this.
00:16:47What? Why are you looking at me like that?
00:17:08Sondra. Dad.
00:17:10Hey, son. It's Ramiya.
00:17:13Jadea. Who?
00:17:15Did I miss a call or something? I wasn't expecting you to.
00:17:19Well, when you texted us that you was working from home, we decided to-
00:17:22Drop some lunch.
00:17:24Mm-hmm.
00:17:24We had a feeling you were working.
00:17:28Yeah.
00:17:28Where?
00:17:29We-we just weren't expecting you to have...
00:17:32Guests.
00:17:34So?
00:17:35You gonna let us in?
00:17:47You gonna let us in?
00:18:02In surprise.
00:18:05Go to calculators.
00:18:06I'll give you the way all fun.
00:18:06Oh, I won't fit.
00:18:33I don't know who you think you are fooling.
00:18:37what are you talking about? I can tell you have alopecia. I'm not trying to fool
00:18:47anyone. You're doing something with that crooked wig on. Why'd you come here?
00:19:02How are things going with you and Jediah? Is that how you say her name?
00:19:07Let's not do this.
00:19:10Sandra says she's sick and she's got a real knack for sensing that kind of stuff.
00:19:15She's not sick first and foremost and even if she was that's nobody's business.
00:19:21You my son. So that still is my business. Would you expect me to just stand around and watch some
00:19:25woman bring you down?
00:19:28When did you become so judgmental? You never even took the time to get to know her.
00:19:33I know. We the successful family and she's the one trying to be a part of us. Or maybe she
00:19:39trying to take a part of us.
00:19:43Once again projecting your crazy thoughts on the people. You know more and more it sounds like you just really
00:19:51only care about yourself.
00:19:52Only care about myself? What? Did you grow up being humiliated because you were poor and raggedy like I was?
00:20:01I don't care about myself. You better be glad you don't have a father like I did.
00:20:05He was a drunk.
00:20:06He had a reason. He worked for this man that ripped him off. You know how humiliating that is for
00:20:13him to come home and not even have the money to feed his family?
00:20:17I don't blame my mother for leaving him the way she did.
00:20:21How you left? Like how you left mom?
00:20:25Sometimes you gotta lose one to gain something.
00:20:29I invested a lot into Terrence's life. I can't afford to have someone come in here and mess that up.
00:20:35How am I messing it up? I have my own business and my own money.
00:20:42You're serving those little low budget weddings.
00:20:48You know, you're not even brave enough to show the world who you are. How can you be brave enough
00:20:53to run a successful business?
00:20:56Life is not just about running a successful business.
00:21:01That's what people with unsuccessful businesses say. Don't touch my hair.
00:21:14I loved your mom. It was real, okay? But when things didn't work out, I stopped trusting real and start
00:21:24trusting stability.
00:21:27Right, right, right. So stability made you forget all about those long nights that mom was sick.
00:21:34I was sick too. I was sick of taking care of a woman I couldn't afford.
00:21:39See, Dr. Bills having to stay off of work to stay home to take care of her. Man, we was
00:21:45almost homeless ourselves.
00:21:48Did you really love mom? Why does that matter at this point?
00:21:53Love always matters. Love conquers all, right? That's what you're talking about.
00:21:59Oh, yeah. Well, I don't care who you love, buddy, but you better stop believing in them cliches because all
00:22:04is a hell of a lot to conquer.
00:22:06Mm-hmm. Yeah. And forgetting where God is taking someone versus only accepting people who have, what, 800 credit scores
00:22:15and pretty privilege, right?
00:22:17I mean, Dad, come on now. Even for you, that's pretty sour.
00:22:19Yeah, I know. Wasn't it Sandra's credit score that co-signed for this chalet? Hmm?
00:22:26I guess privilege is pretty sweet for you. And don't forget, Elizabeth's family owned them restaurants.
00:22:34No, no, no, no, no, no. You can love whoever you want to. You know, you want to let her
00:22:39make up your bad? Good.
00:22:41But you got to lay in it, too. Hmm? She wind up looking like a fool, you gonna look like
00:22:47a fool, too.
00:22:49Sandra! Let's go!
00:22:59Enjoy your lunch.
00:23:02Terrence.
00:23:03Elizabeth called.
00:23:06I think you should call her.
00:23:25When's the last time you spoke with her?
00:23:26Who?
00:23:29You know who.
00:23:35A while ago.
00:23:38Not according to your mom.
00:23:41Have you been sleeping with her this entire time?
00:23:47That's not my mom.
00:23:50And I didn't say anything this whole time because I knew we had a rough day.
00:23:54All right?
00:23:55But since you want to throw dirt in my face off of assumption.
00:24:02Explain this.
00:24:04How did you get that?
00:24:06Yeah.
00:24:06But it took me a whole year and a half to see you without your wig.
00:24:11And here you are on some date with some clown clearly without your wig.
00:24:14It's not what it looks like.
00:24:15How long have you been dating him?
00:24:17We're not dating.
00:24:18Are you sleeping with him?
00:24:19No.
00:24:19Explain.
00:24:21I went on a blind date to see how the guy would respond to my alopecia before I told you.
00:24:27Oh, really?
00:24:28Yes. I swear.
00:24:30Give me my phone back, Jadeve.
00:24:32Give me my phone back.
00:24:36Elizabeth sent you this?
00:24:40Jadeve, listen.
00:24:41I can't do this anymore.
00:24:43I can't compete with her.
00:24:45Your parents love her.
00:24:47She has a nice family business.
00:24:49She's beautiful.
00:24:50She has long, beautiful hair.
00:24:52Nobody is asking you to compete with her.
00:25:01Oh, my goodness.
00:25:04Give me my keys.
00:25:05I don't have your keys.
00:25:07Terrence, give me my keys.
00:25:09I don't have your keys.
00:25:26I don't have your keys.
00:25:27I don't have your keys anymore.
00:25:28I don't have your keys anymore.
00:25:28I don't have your keys anymore.
00:25:29I want all electrons andkun sage andppi over it.
00:25:34I celebrate your box.
00:25:34Be with me.
00:25:37Just give me one more care, evangelists.
00:25:39It gives me an answer to your key, well, to sign up on your page.
00:25:43so you're going to the club with skank trisha don't start
00:25:49wait aren't you going i'm going to keep you safe
00:25:55okay
00:26:03hey when do you got a lighter what do you need a lighter for
00:26:06to smoke smoke what and where
00:26:10my stuff and here uh-uh you're not smoking anything illegal in my house
00:26:17you're not smoking anything illegal at my house
00:26:21girl group of judaica calm down
00:26:25i'm on your back porch relax girl she's not asking you to smoke
00:26:34i have a lighter but do you mind if i participate
00:26:39i thought you were stopping no problem
00:26:44didn't you used to smoke
00:26:46mm-hmm look at her she's quiet now
00:27:04oh what's wrong is this me
00:27:12of course it's you just be yourself
00:27:18you know i got you you can trust me
00:27:23thanks
00:27:26can i tell you something
00:27:29yeah girl what's up
00:27:39what's up
00:27:40what's up
00:27:42what's up
00:27:43god said his strength shows up in our weaknesses
00:27:48but i don't feel strong in my weakness
00:27:54girl you can't make everything about you
00:28:00look what i mean is tonight is about us
00:28:05not some bible story or alopecia or terence
00:28:12terence has nothing to do with this
00:28:15look jadea i know but
00:28:18you're my girl
00:28:19tonight is girls night
00:28:22look we're gonna have so much fun tonight
00:28:24you won't even be worried about tomorrow
00:28:27come on girl let me get you right
00:28:36munchies again
00:28:36don't start
00:28:46jay you still not down here
00:28:48hurry up
00:28:50you're taking too long
00:29:06go back to your room
00:29:08take that dress off
00:29:10start again tomorrow
00:29:13you know what you just need
00:29:15one thing
00:29:24you just need a little bit here
00:29:27is that necessary
00:29:29and a little bit there
00:29:31mmhmm
00:29:32she looks like she's going to the ebt awards
00:29:35stop
00:29:36look don't listen to her
00:29:37okay
00:29:41she's a hater
00:29:42girl you look stunning
00:29:44this is the real jadea
00:29:47hmm
00:30:07let's get some margaritas
00:30:09reposado
00:30:10you excited?
00:30:13i guess
00:30:16yes
00:30:18yes
00:30:48Cheer up.
00:30:56So, what'd you drink tonight?
00:30:58Oh, um, I'll take a martini.
00:31:00Sorry, I wasn't asking you.
00:31:02Talk to your friend.
00:31:03Excuse me.
00:31:04That's my friend.
00:31:05I own the club.
00:31:07She'll be okay.
00:31:09I'll make it up to you.
00:31:10Promise.
00:31:14Martini, can I get another water, please?
00:31:17Hey, thank you.
00:31:18Appreciate it.
00:31:19Excuse me.
00:31:20Did you want something?
00:31:21No, I'm good.
00:31:22Okay.
00:31:23You're welcome.
00:31:24You're welcome.
00:31:28You look absolutely gorgeous, by the way.
00:31:32You look all right, I guess.
00:31:34Wow.
00:31:35All right.
00:31:37You know what?
00:31:37Coming from you, I'll take that.
00:31:39That's cool.
00:31:40I'll take it.
00:31:45I heard of your business.
00:31:47You the wedding planner, right?
00:31:50Yeah.
00:31:50That's me.
00:31:51Your hair a little different, but don't forget a pretty face.
00:31:56You did an amazing job with Kevin Skye in the wedding.
00:32:00I really appreciate that.
00:32:01The whole centerpiece thing?
00:32:02I didn't like that at all.
00:32:04Until I saw the ones you did.
00:32:06And you could actually see the people across from you?
00:32:11There go that smile.
00:32:13Hey, can I ask you a question?
00:32:15Yeah, what's up?
00:32:17What you hoping to happen tonight?
00:32:21To live without caring so much.
00:32:25You know what I mean?
00:32:26I know what you mean.
00:32:27You know what?
00:32:28Drink up.
00:32:29I can toast to that.
00:32:36You smoke?
00:32:38Yeah, just vaping.
00:32:40That's smoking.
00:32:41Is that a problem for you?
00:32:43I don't know.
00:32:47I'm just saying you're too pretty to smoke.
00:32:55Can I ask you a question?
00:32:57Sure.
00:33:00Would you go to church with me?
00:33:03Yes.
00:33:04Yes, church.
00:33:05I just asked that again.
00:33:07I don't know.
00:33:09I'll tell you what.
00:33:10Where's your phone?
00:33:13I'm going to give you my number.
00:33:18Take that.
00:33:20And you call me
00:33:22when you want to go to church.
00:33:29You'll like it.
00:33:31I guarantee you.
00:33:33I guarantee you.
00:33:34I guarantee you.
00:33:37I guarantee you.
00:33:38I guarantee you.
00:33:40I guarantee you.
00:33:43I guarantee you.
00:34:09We're giving up on, giving up on love, oh, we're giving up on, giving up on love, oh, we're giving
00:34:18up on, giving up on love, oh, we're giving up on, giving up on love, oh, we're giving up on,
00:34:26giving up on love, oh, we're giving up on, giving up on love, oh, we're giving up on, giving up
00:34:32on love, oh, we're giving up on, giving up on love, oh, we're giving up on, giving up on love.
00:34:55Oh, come on. Don't be scared now.
00:34:59I'm just, uh, I'm a little caught off guard.
00:35:02What? Why?
00:35:06Yeah, I, hey, hey, no, no, no, hey, hold on, hold on.
00:35:16Take a deep breath, relax.
00:35:22Don't hide your face.
00:35:26Girl, you are bad.
00:35:28You don't need that wig.
00:35:33There she is.
00:35:34That's only getting in the way of your beautiful face.
00:35:40Girl, I could eat you up.
00:35:44Correction, I'm going to eat you up.
00:36:17Dang, woman.
00:36:19I said you look beautiful, and you made Waffle House breakfast?
00:36:26Sweet tea, lemonade?
00:36:28I, um...
00:36:29You're just having a drink.
00:36:30Yes, okay.
00:36:32Oh.
00:36:35Are we having guests?
00:36:38No, it's just us.
00:36:40Okay.
00:36:42So, how is it being an influencer?
00:36:46I mean, it's cool.
00:36:47I'm just getting started, so it's, like, getting my views and my followers up, you know?
00:36:53So, do you get, like, a 401k, health insurance, life insurance?
00:36:59No, I, uh, I upload videos to YouTube.
00:37:02I don't, like, work for YouTube.
00:37:06Gotcha.
00:37:07Sorry.
00:37:11So, do you have any kids?
00:37:13No.
00:37:14Do you want any?
00:37:17Did I not just meet you last night?
00:37:23Well, if I'm getting that reaction now, I need to start doing stand-up, like, tomorrow.
00:37:28I know, but seriously, do you want any?
00:37:31No, look, kids can go either way for me, to be honest.
00:37:35Yeah.
00:37:37Have you been to jail before?
00:37:39Wow.
00:37:40Um, slow down.
00:37:46Hey, no, I've never been to jail.
00:37:48I'm, like, too pretty for jail.
00:37:50But, no, no, no.
00:37:51Seriously, I'm not going anywhere.
00:37:53So, let's just enjoy breakfast, okay?
00:37:59Let me use the restroom real quick.
00:38:01I'll be back.
00:38:05Wow.
00:38:09Wow.
00:38:18Wow.
00:39:05I'm sorry if I said anything to upset you earlier.
00:39:10It's not you, it's me.
00:39:14What's you?
00:39:16This.
00:39:19Talk to me.
00:39:23I've allowed alopecia to ruin everything.
00:39:27I mean, you've seen me.
00:39:29It's like I've never been on a date before.
00:39:32You gotta stop being so hard on yourself.
00:39:35It's just hair.
00:39:37If it's just hair then why is it so stressful to take pictures?
00:39:42I mean, the look on your face when you see me when my wig was off.
00:39:47Well look, you just caught me off guard, that's all.
00:39:50Imagine if I had dentures on and they fell out in the middle of us kissing.
00:39:54You would have had the same look on your face.
00:39:57So I'm glad your wig fell off.
00:39:59I wouldn't have gotten the hood buffet that was delicious.
00:40:01So thank God for alopecia.
00:40:06Look, you gotta love you the way God made you.
00:40:09Love yourself for who you are.
00:40:12Look, I'm not perfect and don't expect me to be, but God made us, not our hair.
00:40:19So forget all that.
00:40:25I want you to cheer up, okay?
00:40:27Come on.
00:40:30You know what?
00:40:31I have an idea.
00:40:34We gotta get you out of that funk.
00:40:35Let's take a picture together.
00:40:37Oh no.
00:40:40Listen, believing in yourself starts somewhere, so why not start here?
00:40:46So let's start together.
00:40:48Okay.
00:40:50Alright.
00:40:52Waffle House on three.
00:40:54And don't post it.
00:40:57One, two, three.
00:41:00Waffle House.
00:41:01I know I act up sometimes.
00:41:04I'm maybe not who you thought I was.
00:41:07But baby don't pay me no mind.
00:41:10Cause I don't wanna miss out on your love.
00:41:14And some days I might be foolish.
00:41:17Kinda jealous.
00:41:18Even at times insane.
00:41:21Don't write me off to make another list, girl.
00:41:24Let it be you and me.
00:41:25Forever and always.
00:41:27I don't wanna miss out on us.
00:41:31It's a special kind of love.
00:41:33I just want that for everything.
00:41:36I just want that for everything.
00:41:52What are we doing here?
00:41:54Well, we never really had our official first dance at the club, so I wanted to do something special for
00:41:59you.
00:42:14Let's go.
00:42:17Let's go.
00:42:19Let's go.
00:42:25Let's go.
00:42:28Let's go.
00:42:28I love this.
00:42:30Oh.
00:42:32Yeah.
00:42:33It's a special kind of love.
00:42:35I just won't fight for everything.
00:42:38I can't even get it.
00:42:39I just won't fight for everything.
00:42:50What's good? What you need?
00:42:52Yo, I got your money.
00:42:58Robin, what's this?
00:43:00It's $20.
00:43:02$20?
00:43:03Look, it's all I got.
00:43:05You don't sell CBD.
00:43:07Playing around these streets, you're going to get in some trouble.
00:43:10But I like him.
00:43:12We'll do something special for you.
00:43:14Well, I like them shoes.
00:43:16Take one step back for me, I got you.
00:43:20Wait, where are you going?
00:43:22No!
00:44:26I just had the longest day.
00:44:34What's wrong? Everything okay?
00:44:39I can't stop thinking about Judea.
00:44:41Your niece.
00:44:43Mm-hmm.
00:44:45I had this dream last night that she was at the salon, and the stylist handed her a mirror.
00:44:52And in her reflection, all I could see was tears all over her face.
00:44:59I believe that's a sign. You need to give her a call.
00:45:03You're right.
00:45:05I'll be in my office.
00:45:15Are you okay? What's wrong?
00:45:19I got some from the White School Beach.
00:45:25You keep saying you're going to stop smoking.
00:45:28Why don't you go stop judging?
00:45:31No, Robin. I'm serious.
00:45:36I'm serious, too.
00:45:40I'm bound to pick with you, though.
00:45:43What are you talking about?
00:45:46Miss out of the closet.
00:45:50No.
00:45:51Seriously, Robin, what are you talking about?
00:45:53Missing is your new man.
00:45:58Hmm.
00:45:59Dancing in the wilderness.
00:46:03And videos.
00:46:05And social media.
00:46:08Just send me the video.
00:46:30Oh, my God.
00:46:36Oh, my gosh.
00:47:01What's up?
00:47:02How's your career going?
00:47:04It's fine. It's good.
00:47:05Cut the crap, Darren.
00:47:07Oh.
00:47:07Do you really want to be with me?
00:47:09Yes?
00:47:11What's this?
00:47:13This is us having fun.
00:47:15On social media.
00:47:17I told you not to post it.
00:47:18Girl, look at those responses.
00:47:21Wow.
00:47:22You used me.
00:47:23Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:47:24Hold on. Hold on. Hold on.
00:47:25If I knew you were going to react that way,
00:47:28I wouldn't have.
00:47:28Okay? I'm sorry.
00:47:30I'm sorry.
00:47:32I'm sorry.
00:47:34You know what?
00:47:35Let's just put this behind us.
00:47:38All right, that's what's up.
00:47:40You're going to delete it.
00:47:42That's not what's up.
00:47:43Why not?
00:47:45Girl, it'll hurt the algorithm in the channel.
00:47:48Delete it.
00:47:49I can't.
00:47:51Delete it now.
00:47:52Look, it was only supposed to be a one-time thing, okay?
00:47:55I'm sorry.
00:47:56You have Waffle House and everything.
00:47:58What was I supposed to do?
00:47:59You used me.
00:48:00I...
00:48:01I didn't use you, okay?
00:48:03I don't think you understand.
00:48:05You go on social media,
00:48:06and you get mad with the negative comments
00:48:08and negative reviews,
00:48:09and then they say positive things about alopecia,
00:48:12and you still get mad.
00:48:14I don't get it.
00:48:15It's not the alopecia.
00:48:17Girl, it's you.
00:48:19But I can't.
00:48:20I don't think you're going to be the same.
00:48:22Oh, boy, there's got to be more to this.
00:48:26Just tell me that I'll hold you in my arms again.
00:48:31Giving up on, giving up on love, on love.
00:48:35We're giving up on, giving up on love.
00:48:39We're giving up on, giving up on love, on love.
00:48:42We're giving up on, giving up on love.
00:48:46Giving up on, giving up on love, on love.
00:48:51We're giving up on, giving up on love, on love.
00:48:55We're giving up on, giving up on love.
00:49:01You there?
00:49:03Who are you?
00:49:05I'm hoping I'm your future husband.
00:49:07What?
00:49:08What's up?
00:49:10Oh, you a little feisty.
00:49:13He who finds a wife finds good things and becomes a favor of the Lord.
00:49:18A stranger using scripture as a pick-up line?
00:49:22That's a little weird.
00:49:24What can I say?
00:49:26Can you use some company?
00:49:27How do I know you?
00:49:29I know that you're a wedding planner.
00:49:33You coming?
00:49:39You look nice today, by the way.
00:49:41Oh, thank you.
00:49:42You're welcome.
00:49:45What's wrong?
00:49:47Liz.
00:49:51You and I have history.
00:49:53Right.
00:49:54But I'm really trying to take Jadea seriously.
00:49:57So I really need you to stop messaging me and my family.
00:50:02She saw your call the other day.
00:50:05You know, I cannot help that she was on a date at my father's restaurant.
00:50:16Oh, my God.
00:50:18Look who I done spoke up.
00:50:19Let's go.
00:50:22Oh, man.
00:50:22Of course, you need you jogging, but I can't with you and all these jokes.
00:50:27That's crazy, because I'm not even the funny guy with all the jokes.
00:50:29All my friends tell me I'm way too serious about it.
00:50:32I mean, that could mean you care.
00:50:35See, that's exactly what I said.
00:50:37But for some reason, all my friends just keep dwindling away.
00:50:41You'll find new ones.
00:50:43You're right.
00:50:44I did.
00:50:45Today.
00:50:46No, seriously, you can't take for granted when you make new friends.
00:50:49It's not easy, especially when you're the oddball.
00:50:53At least you have a choice to be an oddball.
00:50:58Jadea.
00:51:02Mike.
00:51:05Jadea.
00:51:06Hi.
00:51:07This is Terrence.
00:51:09I'm Liz.
00:51:10Looks like you two are on a nice little workout date, huh?
00:51:13Y'all look so cute.
00:51:14We bumped into each other.
00:51:16This is not a date like you two.
00:51:19This is not a date.
00:51:21We met up to talk so we can clear things up.
00:51:24Right.
00:51:25I'm sure your mom is happy that you're clearing things up.
00:51:30She is.
00:51:33Michael.
00:51:35Yep, it's Mike.
00:51:37You look familiar.
00:51:41Aren't you the guy I saw today on the date with?
00:51:46What date?
00:51:47No, no, no.
00:51:47Like she said, we just bumped into each other.
00:51:50Just bumped into each other, huh?
00:52:01I know who I saw.
00:52:04Liz, what was that?
00:52:06What?
00:52:08Don't worry about that.
00:52:10Just a hater.
00:52:11Was that your ex?
00:52:13Yeah, but it meant nothing.
00:52:16Seemed like something.
00:52:18We just met.
00:52:20I didn't know.
00:52:21You know what, you're right.
00:52:22Once you handle that,
00:52:25then get with me.
00:52:41You know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know
00:52:45what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you
00:52:45know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what,
00:52:45you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know
00:52:45what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you
00:52:45know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what,
00:52:46you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know
00:52:46what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you know what, you
00:52:47know what, you know what, you
00:53:14Thanks, Terrence.
00:53:16Good weather, huh?
00:53:18What do you want?
00:53:20How are you in Judea?
00:53:23Why do you care?
00:53:27Look, I'm just seeing how you're doing.
00:53:29I'm making sure you're okay.
00:53:31You know, small talk.
00:53:33You don't small talk.
00:53:34And I hate it.
00:53:36So get to the point.
00:53:38Look, I...
00:53:41I've been seeing this counselor.
00:53:43And there's a few things I should ask for forgiveness for.
00:53:48Trish, what does this have to do with me?
00:53:51We...
00:53:52We slept together, Terrence.
00:54:01I was drunk and out of my mind.
00:54:03You know my mother had passed a few months before that.
00:54:06I was vulnerable.
00:54:07Yeah, I hear you.
00:54:08But I'm going to tell Judea.
00:54:12No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:54:13Trish, you are not about to tear somebody else down to make yourself feel good about your guilt.
00:54:17My guilt?
00:54:18This is about setting us free.
00:54:20No, stop.
00:54:22All right, we both know you were always jealous of our relationship.
00:54:28I'm telling her whether you're with it or not.
00:54:30You are one miserable person.
00:54:34And you want everybody else to be just as miserable.
00:54:37This isn't fair to Judea.
00:54:39Her friend.
00:54:41Slept with her boyfriend.
00:54:44We both know you were never her friend.
00:54:50Where'd you get that necklace from?
00:54:52Did Judea give you that?
00:54:55Do you know how much money I spent on that necklace?
00:54:58Did she give it to you?
00:55:00Well, I can help you get over her.
00:55:06We both know she'll never forgive you like I did.
00:55:15Think about it.
00:55:23Baby girl.
00:55:25Hey, it's so good to see you.
00:55:28Good to see you, auntie.
00:55:29It's been so long.
00:55:30I got a lot planned for us today.
00:55:31Okay.
00:55:32But what if you couldn't tell me until you got here?
00:55:40Why don't you slow down?
00:55:44I just don't understand you.
00:55:46It's called self-love, auntie.
00:55:49That type of self-love?
00:55:51It's called conceit.
00:55:52And it's rooted in insecurity.
00:55:54I didn't teach you that.
00:55:55Me wanting a BBL does not make me a bad person.
00:55:58I believe that it will give me self-confidence.
00:56:01Confidence.
00:56:03Come sit down.
00:56:04Just come sit down.
00:56:08Please tell me you know that self-confidence cannot be surgically implanted.
00:56:13It comes from knowing who you are in Christ.
00:56:16I just don't feel good enough.
00:56:18I want to do this.
00:56:21Okay.
00:56:22Does Christ want you to do it?
00:56:25Did you pray about it?
00:56:26I haven't prayed about it.
00:56:28I guess I'm just tired of the way I look in the mirror.
00:56:33That's because you don't understand how God sees you.
00:56:37He's your creator.
00:56:39And he doesn't make a mistake.
00:56:43Come on.
00:56:46Come on.
00:56:49Look in the mirror.
00:56:51Tell me what you see.
00:56:53Did you dare?
00:56:58No.
00:57:00Relax.
00:57:07Now tell me who you see.
00:57:10Judea with alopecia.
00:57:14I see one of God's most beautiful creations.
00:57:20His masterpiece.
00:57:23His lovely handiwork.
00:57:25Why don't I feel that way?
00:57:28You don't see yourself how God sees you.
00:57:30And once you realize who you really are in Christ,
00:57:33you won't be anymore.
00:57:35I know who I am.
00:57:37I'm Judea.
00:57:39So, when you want to know what something is,
00:57:42who do you ask?
00:57:46The person who made it?
00:57:47Exactly.
00:57:50So, when you want to know who you are,
00:57:53who do you ask?
00:57:56My mom?
00:57:59No.
00:58:00You ask God.
00:58:02He's your creator.
00:58:05He knows all about you.
00:58:07You're his masterpiece.
00:58:11Hmm.
00:58:13I realize I've been listening to everybody else.
00:58:21Social media, friends, and even my own doubts,
00:58:24but never God.
00:58:27That's the problem.
00:58:30You need to go to God in prayer,
00:58:32fasting, reading his word,
00:58:35tuning everything else out,
00:58:37and focusing on him and him only.
00:58:40No distractions,
00:58:41so that you can hear him clearly.
00:58:44Romans 12,
00:58:46and 2.
00:58:47And be not conformed
00:58:50to the patterns of this world,
00:58:53but be transformed
00:58:55by the renewing of your mind.
00:58:57Today is a wonderful day.
00:58:58Bye.
00:58:59Bye.
00:59:09Bye.
00:59:13Bye.
00:59:15Bye.
00:59:18Bye.
00:59:19Bye.
00:59:21Bye.
00:59:22Bye.
00:59:24Bye.
00:59:26Bye.
01:00:33Listen, I really enjoyed you today.
01:00:36Thank you for inviting me.
01:00:37Now promise me you'll come back to see me soon.
01:00:40You're welcome anytime.
01:00:41I promise.
01:00:42Don't lie to me.
01:00:43I promise.
01:00:44I love you.
01:00:45Love you too.
01:01:01Hey.
01:01:03Hey.
01:01:06Get off of me please.
01:01:09Jada, how are you?
01:01:12What are you doing here?
01:01:15I was just in the area.
01:01:19In the area at 11 p.m.
01:01:24All right.
01:01:26I wanted to see you.
01:01:28We need to talk.
01:01:30Talk?
01:01:33Can we go inside?
01:01:36Talk.
01:01:40How's your business going?
01:01:43Fine.
01:01:46Okay.
01:01:48Have you talked to Trisha?
01:01:51Why are you concerned about Trish?
01:01:54I was just trying to have a conversation.
01:01:56Have you talked to her?
01:01:57Robin?
01:01:58Your mom?
01:01:59What are you talking about?
01:02:01Did you get my gifts?
01:02:14I'm not welcome here.
01:02:16I leave.
01:02:49Robin, you have gum disease.
01:02:59I brush and I floss every day.
01:03:03Yeah, but you smoke every day too.
01:03:09Okay, how can I fix this?
01:03:12Unfortunately, there's no solution.
01:03:14You can't fix this.
01:03:15But with treatment, we can slow down the progression.
01:03:19What is my teeth going to look like?
01:03:22Well, for starters, you have to quit smoking.
01:03:25All of it.
01:03:26The cigarettes, the vapes, the bongs.
01:03:29All of it.
01:03:32Or else your teeth will look like this.
01:03:44They sell it.
01:03:46I understand.
01:03:48But that doesn't make it healthy.
01:03:56It's going to be okay.
01:03:58Together, we can come up with a treatment plan.
01:04:01Okay?
01:04:02As a team.
01:04:11I'm just going to come back and check on you later, okay?
01:04:26I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:27I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:29I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:29I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:30I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:31I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:32I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:32I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:33I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:33I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:34I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:34I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:35I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:04:39I'm just going to come back and check on you later.
01:05:03I have something really important to tell you.
01:05:06What's up?
01:05:09I don't know how I'm going to say this.
01:05:11What is it?
01:05:13I didn't think it was a big deal at first.
01:05:16What is it?
01:05:18No.
01:05:20Let her speak.
01:05:21You know we're good friends, right?
01:05:25Don't say what I think you're going to say.
01:05:34I slept with Terrence.
01:05:48It happened the first couple of months that y'all were together.
01:05:51Trisha.
01:05:57Jada, I'm sorry.
01:05:59Listen to me.
01:06:01Listen.
01:06:02It was a long time ago.
01:06:05Right?
01:06:06I was vulnerable.
01:06:08I was drunk.
01:06:09I was out of my mind.
01:06:10And it just, it just happened.
01:06:15It meant nothing.
01:06:16I promise you.
01:06:17I don't feel anything.
01:06:25I'm running out of words.
01:06:26Can you please just say something?
01:06:29No, no, no.
01:06:30Put it down.
01:06:31Put it down right now.
01:06:33The damn put it down.
01:06:34The cop down now.
01:06:37Just trying to do the right thing.
01:06:40I wasn't expecting you to throw it in my face.
01:06:43Get it, please.
01:06:45You're doing something with that crooked wig on.
01:06:48Please, don't you get it.
01:06:51It's not the Alopecia.
01:06:53Girl, it's you.
01:06:55Jada, what are you doing?
01:06:56Jada, what are you doing?
01:07:46I know who I am.
01:07:49Because I know who made me.
01:07:54One, Peter, two and nine.
01:07:58But you are a chosen people.
01:08:01A royal priesthood.
01:08:04A holy nation.
01:08:07God's special possession.
01:08:22You can leave now.
01:09:01God's special possession.
01:09:03A holy nation.
01:09:03You can leave now.
01:09:04Amen.
01:09:05Amen.
01:09:07Amen.
01:09:11Amen.
01:09:12Amen.
01:09:13Amen.
01:09:15Amen.
01:09:16Amen.
01:09:18Amen.
01:09:46Oh, here she is.
01:09:50How are you?
01:09:51I'm good.
01:09:51How are you?
01:09:52Good, good.
01:09:53You look beautiful.
01:09:55Very welcome.
01:09:56You look very dapper.
01:09:59Appreciate that.
01:09:59You know what?
01:10:00Appreciate that.
01:10:00You know what?
01:10:01Once in a while I try to, you know.
01:10:03I was admiring your wine selection.
01:10:06I like it.
01:10:08So is that going to be a problem for you, Mr. Blazer?
01:10:12Not at all.
01:10:12You just took me more as a Chateau Lafitte type.
01:10:16That's all.
01:10:17Okay.
01:10:18Well so.
01:10:20Yeah.
01:10:21So we're really going to church?
01:10:23We are.
01:10:24We definitely are going to church.
01:10:25Which church are we going to though?
01:10:28That's a good question.
01:10:30I guess we'll see when we get there.
01:10:43You leaving me?
01:10:45You know how this goes, Carl.
01:10:47You brought me to this $1.50 wedding.
01:10:48You're the king.
01:10:51Be careful who you choose to be with.
01:10:54You'll carry their troubles also.
01:10:56My troubles?
01:10:57After all I did for you?
01:11:00I left my wife for you.
01:11:03No, Carl.
01:11:05You left her for you.
01:11:15Can I pray?
01:11:20Or...
01:11:28What if you find out who I really am?
01:11:32What are you doing in the art room?
01:11:36What's wrong?
01:11:39My future husband doesn't even know who I really am.
01:11:43What do you mean?
01:11:50Forget me.
01:11:54Gorgeous.
01:11:56I'm just saying that.
01:11:57No, I mean it.
01:11:59I wasn't even planning on taking your wedding because I was so booked.
01:12:04But the Holy Spirit told me to and I am so glad it did.
01:12:10No, you just don't...
01:12:11Listen to me.
01:12:12You just don't understand.
01:12:14But I do.
01:12:20You...
01:12:27You weren't made to be defeated by alopecia.
01:12:30You were made to inspire others.
01:12:34Okay?
01:12:35So you go on out there to your amazing future husband
01:12:38and you show him your true self.
01:12:42Your true beauty.
01:14:04I mean, no.
01:14:06Thank you so much.
01:14:08Well, thank you for what?
01:14:10Thank you for always having my best interests.
01:14:13Of course.
01:14:14Girl, I always looked at it as if you were criticizing me or judging me.
01:14:18But you wanted the best for me.
01:14:20Of course I did.
01:14:22Come here.
01:14:24Thank you, of course.
01:14:27Plus, I'd rather have you judge me now than the Lord later.
01:14:31Exactly.
01:14:33Wow.
01:14:34Okay.
01:14:35I'm going to get you some water, okay?
01:14:37Okay.
01:14:37Two ice cubes.
01:14:38I'll meet you outside.
01:14:40All right.
01:14:40Okay.
01:14:44Hey, you all right?
01:14:45Yes, I'm okay.
01:14:46I'm here early.
01:14:47I hope you don't mind.
01:14:48No, I do not mind.
01:14:49You were supposed to surprise her, but now she's like out here.
01:14:52Jatayah!
01:14:53Oh my, okay.
01:14:54You guys are the only two here.
01:14:56And she deserves the world.
01:14:57She's been through a lot, okay?
01:14:59She deserves true, true love, happiness.
01:15:01And I just think you can give that to her.
01:15:03You know, no pressure, no pressure.
01:15:05Okay?
01:15:05So it's meant to be ugly.
01:15:08Okay.
01:15:09Go for it.
01:15:09Anybody else comes.
01:15:10Okay, you look good.
01:15:11I see the beard.
01:15:12I'm going to talk to you.
01:15:13Katie, I got you.
01:15:15She's Katie.
01:15:16I got you.
01:15:20I got you.
01:15:21I'm going to talk to you later.
01:15:23She's like...
01:15:27All right.
01:15:46What are you doing here?
01:15:48I work with Robin.
01:15:50What?
01:15:52I did not know that.
01:15:54Small world.
01:15:55Yes.
01:15:56Wow, you look amazing.
01:15:57Well, thank you.
01:15:58And so do you.
01:16:00Oh, stop.
01:16:02So did you ever get things figured out with your friends from the park?
01:16:05Right.
01:16:07I'm letting God deal with them.
01:16:11Okay.
01:16:11But do you have any room for any new friends?
01:16:17I'm not sure.
01:16:19I'm still finding my faith.
01:16:22I was pretty lost and slowly finding myself.
01:16:27So who are you now?
01:16:29Well, I used to be a woman who begged the world to tell me that I was enough.
01:16:35Listen, I can assure you that you're more than enough.
01:16:40No offense, but I'm assured by grace.
01:16:45Fair enough.
01:16:49So how about you tell me more about grace?
01:16:51I know I act up sometimes.
01:16:54I'm maybe not who you thought I was.
01:16:57But baby, don't pay me no mind.
01:17:00Because I don't want to miss out on your love.
01:17:03And some days I might be foolish.
01:17:07Kind of jealous.
01:17:08Even at times insane.
01:17:10Don't write me off to make another list, girl.
01:17:13Let it be you and me forever and always.
01:17:17I don't want to miss out on us.
01:17:21It's a special kind of love.
01:17:23I just want that forever thing.
01:17:25I just want that forever thing.
01:17:52You know some days you act moody.
01:17:56And you can't make up your mind.
01:18:00But I don't want to put up with anybody else.
01:18:03It would just be a waste of time.
01:18:06Because even when we argue.
01:18:08And even when we try to leave.
01:18:12See, nobody else gets us like us.
01:18:15So baby, let's make the best of this.
01:18:19I just want that forever thing.
01:18:24I just want that forever thing.
01:18:31I can't see myself nowhere else.
01:18:36Never do my final rest.
01:18:38I just want that forever thing.
01:18:40I just want that forever thing.
01:18:49That's what I want, yeah.
01:18:52That's what I need, yeah.
01:18:56Forever with you.
01:18:58Yeah, yeah.
01:19:01Nobody else will do.
01:19:05It's about me.
01:19:07It's about you.
01:19:08Let's forget everybody else.
01:19:11Let's put our problems up on the shelf.
01:19:14It's all about us, girl.
01:19:17It's all about us, girl.
01:19:20Oh.
01:19:21Oh, I don't want to miss out on us.
01:19:25Oh, it's a special kind of love.
01:19:28And I won't have that forever thing.
01:19:30I just want that forever thing.
01:19:32I just want that forever thing.
01:19:35I can't see myself nowhere else.
01:19:37I can't see myself nowhere else.
01:19:39Nobody else will do my final rest.
01:19:41Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, yeah.
01:19:43I just want that forever thing.
01:19:45Just give you that forever thing.
01:19:47Ooh, baby.
01:19:49Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh.
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