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Paco and Hanu share personal experiences of navigating cultural differences and societal expectations within their relationship. Through an intimate conversation, they explore the complexities of finding comfort in one another and the importance of familial support when building a life together across borders.

#BL, #Romance, #Drama

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00:02I think we're the only gay couple here.
00:04Hey, we're just a couple, Karim.
00:09But I'm nervous, babe.
00:13Hey, I'm here.
00:15No need to be nervous.
00:18Hi, thank you both for being here today.
00:24I think a lot of people are going to connect with your story.
00:28Hi, I'm Paco, and I'm from Mexico.
00:31Hi.
00:34I'm Hanu.
00:35I'm from South Korea.
00:38What scared you the most at first?
00:41In Korea, sometimes love is quieter.
00:48You don't always say everything out loud.
00:52And I thought I wasn't enough.
01:02And I thought I was too much for him, but I didn't know how to be different.
01:11How to be less.
01:16But then we realized love doesn't have to be only one thing.
01:30Sometimes it's quiet and calm.
01:40And other times, it's loud and open.
01:48And neither one are wrong.
01:50They're just different ways of loving someone.
01:58You don't always say anything.
02:03You don't always say anything.
02:04You don't always say anything.
02:23Yo también tenía miedo de no saber cómo amarte
02:37Pero cuando sonreĂ­as asĂ­, todo se volvĂ­a suave
02:51No importa el idioma, mamán gatunica
02:58Different world, same love
03:06Did you ever feel afraid to be together?
03:09Yes
03:13Yes
03:15Not because of him
03:20But because the world can be unkind sometimes
03:25And I never wanted him to get hurt because of me
03:38What about you, Hanu?
03:41Were you ever afraid of being in a relationship with someone from another culture?
03:48Yeah
03:50I think I was scared
03:51Our families maybe wouldn't fully understand us
04:01Because it's not only dating someone from a completely different culture
04:06But also loving another boy
04:10But honestly
04:14Our families ended up being the exact opposite of what we feared
04:18Maybe surprised at first
04:22But they never made either of us feel unwanted
04:26And I think we're really lucky for that
04:29Because not every couple gets that kind of support from their family
04:34Honestly, honestly
04:35Honestly, sometimes I think my mom loves Hanu more than me
04:43That's not true
04:46No, seriously
04:51They disappear into the kitchen together for like three hours
04:58And then suddenly I'm being kicked out
05:00Because apparently I got vegetables wrong
05:07But seeing him become part of my family like that
05:14Means everything to me
05:22Is there something final you'd like to say?
05:30Maybe for other couples watching this?
05:33I think
05:36Don't be afraid
05:39If your love looks different from other people's
05:43The most important thing
05:45Is finding someone who makes you feel safe being yourself
05:59And someone who can feel like home
06:12Even when you're far away from it
06:19Thank you both for being so happy
06:21So open today
06:21I think a lot of people are going to feel comforted by your story
06:26And thank you for coming
06:28Thank you
06:32You were really brave today
06:47I was nervous the whole time
06:50I know
07:02But I've never loved you more
07:14Doesn't matter
07:15That's why I think Luke's still alive
07:16Please stayed in love
07:18And your mama's sad
07:20So black
07:22You loved that way
07:22Even if the world feels cold
07:26You were wise about you
07:30The world feels cold
07:33We are here tonight
07:36Molido era un good day
07:40Que algo no yo soy
07:43Y ahora tu mano
07:46Se siente como casa
07:54Different words
07:57Same heart
08:02Same love
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