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Dubai Bling - Season 3 - Episode 03: Moment of Truth? Or Not Yet!
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00:19Hello, I had to look for you there for a minute.
00:23I'm trying to find a dress for Safa's event.
00:25Today, Hasan and I are getting ready for Safa's event.
00:29She told us that the dress code is black,
00:32and she hasn't really shared too many details.
00:35So I am searching for the perfect black dress,
00:40but I'm really struggling to find the dress I'm looking for.
00:44I feel very, like, overwhelmed.
00:46I feel like there's so many things,
00:48and I just can't find, like, what I'm looking for.
00:51Of course, she struggled to find a dress,
00:53because there's 8,578 outfits in there.
00:59It's honestly about time you seriously start to think
01:03about how you reorganize your closet,
01:06because there's just a lot in here.
01:09Mona needs to first cut down significantly
01:12how many things that she has in her closet.
01:15Ultimately, you know, I'm hoping that as well, you know,
01:17she'll treat her calendar better.
01:27Do you need this?
01:28Need what?
01:30Of course I need this.
01:32For what?
01:33I wore that to the Gucci event.
01:34Look, I think we trim a good amount of this,
01:42and then we get you some new stuff.
01:48I'm not gonna lie.
01:49That really gave me a panic attack inside.
01:52It's scary.
01:53Whatever we put you on needs to highlight your biggest asset.
01:58If she has a simpler outfit that accentuates her beauty,
02:03that's the most important adjustment
02:06that I think she needs to make to her style.
02:08I feel like, you know,
02:10I've gotten these hoarding tendencies from my mom.
02:13That's my learnt behavior from her and my family.
02:15Like, my mom's a hoarder.
02:17Me, Alia, hood over hoarders, you know?
02:19It's how I'm wired now.
02:21Growing up, my parents went through
02:23really tough financial times,
02:25and, of course, my circumstances have changed,
02:28but I'm still a hoarder.
02:29Think of it as, like, what a waste of money.
02:33So, since you're gonna help me with everything,
02:35why don't you start by dressing me for Safa's party?
02:37I need a black dress.
02:45I've actually been looking for this.
02:48Super simple, but not simple at the same time.
02:52Yeah, you're done.
02:55Okay.
02:56Job done.
02:57Now we go to this mysterious event
03:00and find out what we're heading towards.
03:15Last year, finally got my push present, my new car,
03:19but Fahad has been non-stop telling me
03:22to remove the Lamborghini from my life.
03:30The car is just a symbol of a big part of my materialism.
03:34So today, I'm bidding farewell for my beloved Lamborghini,
03:38my beautiful car that I love so much,
03:41trying to release some of my materialism in this world.
03:45Fahad and everyone is finally going to know
03:47why they're here today.
03:50Safa was acting very strange.
03:52She told me just wear black
03:53and she asked me to come to a park
03:55which I don't understand what's happening.
03:58Hi, baby.
03:59What's happening?
04:02What's wrong?
04:03You'll see.
04:04I'm so excited for everybody to join me.
04:07I can't wait to see their reaction
04:08to see what's going on today.
04:10Dying, dying, dying, dying, dying, dying, dying.
04:12Diamonds for a princess.
04:13Today is a good event.
04:15I took a look at the theme from A to Z.
04:20Let's give a look.
04:21Buitons and the black dress.
04:24How are you?
04:28How are you doing?
04:30I'm managing.
04:31Black dress.
04:33What is the event when we're going to do something?
04:35And what is going to happen?
04:36A drama queen.
04:41Black dress.
04:41Thank you for being here.
04:54Do you know what it is?
04:58No.
05:13LJ, how come you came?
05:16Because you missed a few events.
05:19No, I didn't.
05:21I'm thinking that if you're here, you don't like it.
05:24No.
05:25What makes you think like that?
05:26Was it the issue between you and her?
05:28But there's no issue.
05:29He does.
05:30Who thought there was an issue?
05:38You were, like, a topic yesterday when we met up
05:41of discussion, but it wasn't bad.
05:43It was just some observation.
05:46But I don't live by their observations.
05:48Exactly.
05:49I have no problem.
05:50They can talk about me.
05:56Thank you for all coming today.
05:59Fahad has put the most pressure on me to bid farewell.
06:05To bid farewell.
06:07Sofa and her events, she never fails to surprise me.
06:11For me, my car, it's not just a car,
06:16but a bank of memories.
06:27This car was my first luxury car.
06:30I put pink stripes on it so that he couldn't drive it.
06:34Safa being dramatic, this is the drama queen that Safa is.
06:38It was very tragic.
06:40It was also tragic for my time.
06:42All that time, Farha and I went to Ibrahim's cafe
06:46to confront him.
06:47Hi.
06:57Ibrahim was shocked.
06:59It's not funny, Ibrahim.
07:04I can't.
07:05I'm in a new era of my life.
07:07I want to release myself from material things.
07:11It's very Safa.
07:13She's extra.
07:14I want to be more resourceful and cut down on unnecessary spending.
07:20I wanted everything.
07:22I wanted every bag.
07:24I wanted every piece of jewelry.
07:26But is this life?
07:28Of course not.
07:29Why was I attaching myself to material things?
07:33And I hope my husband understands how hard this is for me.
07:47You may throw your flowers in memory of my material things.
08:01Farewell. Farewell.
08:12At least now when someone asks me what's the craziest thing you've ever seen, I can answer.
08:19I've never forced her for anything in life.
08:21All I did was I discussed with you that we don't need.
08:24You pressured me.
08:25You don't even drive it.
08:26Since two years, she's not even driven it.
08:27But it looks nice in my outfits.
08:29Anyways, you made a decision.
08:32Proud of you.
08:33Should we give her a round of applause?
08:35Woo!
08:36I completely understand Safa.
08:39I've been a hoarder my whole entire life.
08:41I am really excited for her new chapter to stop being materialistic.
08:46It's hard to get rid of things.
08:48Very hard.
08:48We understand.
08:49I definitely understand that too.
08:51I really felt for her.
08:55Not because of their materialistic value,
08:57because of their emotional value.
08:59So good for her and thank you.
09:06I'm just going to take my last photo shoot with the car.
09:12I left my life for this.
09:18It's very silly.
09:20I don't have to get rid of her.
09:21It's very silly.
09:22I don't have to get rid of her.
09:23It's very silly.
09:24I don't have to get rid of her.
09:25I didn't have to get rid of her.
09:26I took her in a position.
09:26Because if I didn't take her in a position, it was a problem.
09:31We're coming to talk to her today.
09:32What?
09:33Safa?
09:34Safa, honestly, I appreciate the invite.
09:37Danny, thank you so much, Angela.
09:38That's Tafaa.
09:39None of us would have been invited to something like this.
09:42We appreciate it.
09:43But our friends are supposed to support.
09:44No, of course, we come to support you.
09:47That's why.
09:47No, we come to support you,
09:48but we're going to say that in Arabic, this name is Safa.
09:51It's OK.
09:51It's good that you're honest and you're saying it to my face.
09:53We care about you, really.
09:54Yeah, but I find material things very difficult,
09:57because I don't have many friends.
09:58So I get very attached to things.
10:00Well, I understand your pain of letting go.
10:03We're many hoarders.
10:05Yeah.
10:06So we understand.
10:07Yeah, I don't know.
10:08I feel like because I dreamed so much as a young girl,
10:10and when I finally got them, I find it even harder to lose them.
10:13Anyway, we are so proud of you.
10:16Thank you, my lord.
10:19I think it's not about the ceremony.
10:22It's about the message behind it,
10:23stopping this attachment to materialistic things.
10:26Yeah, so true.
10:27It's not just about the car.
10:29The car is a mere symbol of what I want to release
10:32and who I want to be.
10:34I'm so proud of myself.
10:35I have no command, but may God give more wisdom
10:41and brain to some people.
10:42Amen.
10:43Amen.
10:44Let's all pray.
10:45Amen.
10:46Amen.
10:47Let's pray.
10:53Let's pray.
10:54Daniel was telling me,
10:56no, they are talking about me.
10:57So I decided to go and talk to her.
11:00Yeah, so you want to tell me what happened?
11:02Sof and Zeina were asking Joanna if you and her have an issue,
11:05and Joanna said no, and they kept insisting,
11:08no, there's something.
11:09And I respect Joanna for not saying anything.
11:11Well, there's nothing to talk about.
11:13Sometimes there are people in your life that you feel like,
11:16you know, you've been friends with them for a while,
11:18but then the friendship kind of drifted,
11:20and it's normal.
11:20You know, this is life.
11:21Me and Joanna, we used to be really good friends.
11:25There are things that they don't talk to me today.
11:29But...
11:29You look at it.
11:31You look at it.
11:32Priceless.
11:32LJ, can I talk to you a little bit?
11:35What's wrong?
11:37There's something I love to do.
11:39It's good.
11:40There's a tension between me and LJ.
11:43After that, it happened in the last couple of years
11:45with Hannah and the comment of Zarafay.
11:47So I decided to have a conversation with her.
11:50I'm not a person who would tell me a comment.
11:53I don't want to talk about it.
11:56I'm a topic of Zarafay,
11:58and the thing that happened in the social media
12:00is not a lot with me.
12:04This is Zarafay, Zarafay.
12:06I'm a topic of Zarafay.
12:07I'm a topic of Zarafay.
12:08I'm a topic of Zarafay.
12:08When you deal with these things,
12:10or at least...
12:11Come, let's have a seat.
12:14I'm Cinderella.
12:16And Farha and Malha, those are the stepsisters
12:19who are always trying to bring like Cinderella down
12:22and poke her.
12:24I don't want to date me or miss me.
12:27But yes, she's especially when it comes to my personal life.
12:30We did what I had come for the action.
12:32You also don't have a light way of talking to people,
12:34and you expect people to be okay with that.
12:36And then, when I give a comment,
12:38you have a problem with that.
12:39But look, what did you think of Zarafay?
12:41That it's small?
12:42I don't have to say that it's small.
12:44I don't feel like it's small.
12:46You meant it as an insult, though.
12:48No, it's not an insult.
12:49This is what you thought,
12:50but this was not my intention.
12:52LJ is selfish.
12:54She's trying to get rid of it,
12:56but we don't want to get rid of it.
12:58Now, you know, I know what you don't like,
13:00you know what I don't like,
13:01and then maybe we can make it nicer.
13:06Don't you think?
13:07Mm-hmm.
13:09It needs effort both ways.
13:11I'm starting to understand how you guys think.
13:14It's good.
13:15It's us getting to know each other more.
13:19I miss you, girls.
13:20Come here.
13:22Come.
13:22Just break the ice.
13:24Come on.
13:24Stop being like this.
13:25LJ was doing a big effort
13:28to not reduce the problems between us.
13:30I would say,
13:32it's 70% of the pain.
13:35There's a lot of things I love to know very much.
13:38LJ and her partner,
13:40who's wrong with this relationship.
13:43To understand more the world around me.
13:45LJ, just a piece of advice to you.
13:47There's been a lot of people.
13:48I don't need a piece of advice.
13:49A piece of advice for the general.
13:50No, I'm being very distant with everyone.
13:53Is it because of Joanna?
13:54No.
13:56She told us that you misused her trust.
13:58I really have no command.
13:59I really, really have nothing to say.
14:01But if the other person is talking,
14:03you're going to look like you're not defending yourself.
14:06Okay, let her talk. It's fine.
14:08There's definitely an issue between Joanna and LJ,
14:11and we need to get to the bottom of this.
14:13We should all be able to sit in the same place,
14:15not avoid each other.
14:16Bring her here in front of me,
14:18and let her say it in front of my face.
14:19If there's anything that Joanna has to say,
14:22she's sitting just behind me,
14:23she can come and say it in my face.
14:25Joanna, what do you want?
14:28This is right.
14:45Wow. Great.
14:48I'm not a problem.
14:49I'm not a problem.
14:51We're not a place.
14:54We're not a place.
14:55I know what I'm doing.
14:57I'm not going to come to see you.
14:59I'm not going to come to you.
15:05I'm not going to come to you.
15:06Of course.
15:07I'm going to come to you.
15:09We want to come to you.
15:09We know what the story is.
15:21I want to go far from the group because, like,
15:24I want to talk to you in private.
15:37I still don't understand why he did it.
15:39The other day, I went out with Safa and Zeyna and Joanna,
15:44and Zeyna stops and looks at me, and she's like,
15:48so, how's the besties' cafe?
15:50I didn't tell them something
15:58that they don't already know.
15:59Yes.
16:01Do you acknowledge that I'm upset?
16:03Do you acknowledge that I'm hurt?
16:04You're hurt about what exactly?
16:06That was because...
16:06The conversation that I had with you...
16:08That, Dania, that was...
16:09Went to Safa and Zeyna,
16:10the people that we became friends two hours ago.
16:12I thought you are late, though.
16:13Yes, but why are you talking to them?
16:14So what if I talk to them?
16:15Everyone knows you're late.
16:17They know you're late all the time.
16:18But you don't need to talk to them about me, Ibrahim.
16:20So you don't want me to be friends with them?
16:21So you need to gossip about me to be friends with someone?
16:23That's not gossiping.
16:24Not gossiping, but bonding over talking about me.
16:27Ah.
16:28So it's jealousy now.
16:30Is it jealousy really?
16:32I am your friend, and you hurt my feelings.
16:35That's what I'm trying to explain to you,
16:37and you're just trying to run away from that.
16:39Did you tell Marwan what happened between me and you in the cafe?
16:42Of course.
16:43Do you think that is a logic thing to do?
16:45And you know Marwan wasn't supporting the business.
16:47For you to go and you tell him that?
16:48He's my husband.
16:49I have to tell him.
16:51I don't go tell my wife everything.
16:52That's your decision and your relationship.
16:54Yeah, but as a business, you're not supposed to, Dania.
16:58Dania knows that we're not happy.
17:11When you complain to Bliss, I felt to know he has a problem, you know, with me.
17:15Me, you, and Bliss, there's no problem.
17:18We're family.
17:19I'm going to talk to Bliss.
17:20We're going to fix this.
17:22I hope, like, we get over this because if this doesn't get fixed,
17:26it's about to get really, really, really messy.
17:30I think I'm going to leave.
17:31Yeah?
17:31We need to leave, yeah.
17:32Yeah.
17:38Bye, my love.
17:39See you.
17:40Bye.
17:44Bye, babe.
17:53How are you?
17:54Good, how are you?
17:55Good.
17:56Good.
17:56Mycm, how are you?
18:00Bye.
18:02I'll remove your self-help Mycmhorus.
18:07Zeana told me that you got the rights to...
18:10I'm the company in London.
18:12She says, but he's going to hand it over to me.
18:14Then I said to her, what's the point?
18:16Why would he do that?
18:18Yeah, this was only year ago.
18:19I felt upset that she used that whole instance
18:24and to make me look like the bad one
18:26when I just went to go tell her how I felt.
18:28And I said, OK, I'm going to teach her a lesson,
18:30and I'm going to do it at the same time.
18:32I said, it's better I do it than someone else does it.
18:35Then she can't get it back.
18:39He wants to maintain control.
18:40That we're going to play it cool.
18:44Let's give him the benefit of the doubt.
18:45Let's be mature about this.
18:48So you took the papers? You're going to bring them back?
18:51I have the form.
18:52I'm going to have my team to help her to transfer.
18:55OK.
18:55Hannah, if you choose to have a battle with me,
19:01I will give you a war.
19:03I'm playing it cool for now.
19:06I don't know if I want to play a game,
19:10but I'm not going to play a game.
19:37And so we're IV drip for energy, rejuvenation.
19:41And so we're IV drip for energy, rejuvenation.
19:41And so we're IV drip for energy.
19:41And we'll be out.
19:53Really?
19:54The four of us, we needed to, like, reunite.
19:56It's been a while.
19:57We should do this more often.
19:59Yeah.
19:59Oh, I'm doing party, by the way.
20:01Oh, yeah?
20:01Yes.
20:03It will be something very Joana.
20:07Me.
20:19Farhana, you missed Safa's event.
20:21You mean the farewell?
20:22Yeah.
20:24Oh, my God.
20:26It's all a shit show.
20:28Who does a farewell for a car?
20:31She's trying to, like, change, hopefully for the better.
20:34Babe, she can fool the world, not me.
20:36Everyone I spoke to was like, it's so boring.
20:38Like, what was she thinking?
20:39She just proved it to the world that she's a stupid one.
20:41It was definitely interesting.
20:43You know, it was different.
20:44I've never been to a party like that before.
20:47It was interesting.
20:47Once in your life, be honest.
20:49No, voila.
20:50Honestly, like, me and Farhana are cool,
20:53but today I feel a little bit attacked.
20:55I'm gonna let it slide,
20:56because there's a lot of emotions in this room.
20:59But this better not happen again.
21:03Joana, I noticed at the party,
21:05Zayna asked you to go talk to LJ,
21:07and you said you weren't interested.
21:09What happened?
21:22I had no idea there was a history between Joana and LJ.
21:26I didn't even know they were friends before.
21:28When did this happen?
21:30Because I didn't even know you guys were close.
21:31They were very close.
21:32They were like sisters.
21:33Yeah.
21:34Like sisters?
21:34More than that.
21:35They were like family.
21:37I met her in the fight for now,
21:38and I've been told her.
21:39No, I am not the one that I had to face.
21:41It's the mistake.
21:42Maybe she's not the one that knows.
21:44No, she knows.
21:44What does she know?
21:45You have to listen to the other person.
21:48I am.
21:48She went back and looked back.
21:50She came back and saw this.
21:52If I didn't have a lie,
21:54and I'm going to hold the eyes and see my eyes,
21:57I'm not going to be careful.
21:59Why do you feel like everything?
22:08I know you were very close.
22:11I know you were very close.
22:35To be honest, they both are my friends.
22:37And you know, I'm extremely close to Joanna,
22:39and I also have a very special bond with LJ.
22:42I really wish that I could put them together in a room
22:45and just let them talk.
22:46I would love to.
22:47I know, but you know what's happening?
22:49That she's made mistakes. You have made mistakes.
22:51I did mistakes?
22:52No, mistakes.
22:52No, no, no. This is not acceptable.
22:54She crossed this line.
22:56But, babe.
22:56And you know.
22:57I don't know. Yeah, you told me.
22:58Don't let me be angry, really.
23:00She has her side of story.
23:01You have your side of story.
23:02No, but you're not my side of story.
23:12Babe, shit happens in life.
23:17This is not any mistake.
23:19It happens.
23:20Sisters fight.
23:21You will be fine if I will go out with your ex.
23:43Listen. Stop. Huh?
23:50Has LJ ever apologized to you?
24:04Yeah, I mean, you do have to protect yourself.
24:14Yeah.
24:14Right?
24:15For sure.
24:17Can I give you a hug?
24:18Calm down.
24:19I feel like Joanna is really hurt.
24:21It's very obvious from her energy, and it's hard.
24:24I feel very sad to hear this story because it sucks.
24:28I can break your heart like you broke me.
24:34Ooh.
24:36Ooh.
24:37Ooh.
24:38Like you broke me.
24:42How are you?
24:43How are you?
24:43How are you?
24:44Tea?
24:45Yeah, please.
24:45Again?
24:47Fahad struggles with weight.
24:50I am so worried about Fahad's health.
24:52So, today I have an unconventional way of helping Fahad on his weight loss journey.
24:58He has a little surprise coming ahead.
25:00How many sugars are in here?
25:03It's only one teaspoon.
25:05How many teasers has it been so far?
25:08Tea is like drinking water.
25:09No, it's not drinking water all the time.
25:12Chai karak, chai karak.
25:13What happened?
25:13Why?
25:15We recently went through a roller coaster.
25:17And when he came down, he was really feeling dizzy and faint.
25:21Basically, this is his blood thickening from obviously not eating well.
25:25For me, it's time we do something.
25:27You promised you were gonna start looking after your weight.
25:30You can.
25:31You're not exercising.
25:32You've moved the office to the house.
25:34You're not moving around.
25:35We're ordering food all the time.
25:36You're not doing anything to watch out for your weight.
25:38And I do everything for you, but you don't want to at least take care of yourself for me and
25:41the kids.
25:42Safa, relax.
25:45Losing weight is a challenge on its own.
25:48It's very difficult, you know, to make those changes in your lifestyle.
25:52Obviously, Safa has her concerns when it comes to health.
25:54This is a health issue.
25:56You're being dramatic.
25:57I can't imagine my life without this man.
26:01And I can't imagine this man not being there for me and the kids.
26:05I do need him to take care of himself for me and the girls.
26:08I have a guest for you.
26:10Guest?
26:10I have the best solution for him.
26:13I need the teeth sweet, the sweet teeth sweet.
26:17I found the best hypnotherapist in the industry with lots of experience.
26:22Her name is Marissa Pierce.
26:23I got Marissa's number from Mona.
26:25She's been Mona's therapist for years.
26:27She's here to help Fahad.
26:29Fahad, this is Marissa.
26:31Hi.
26:31Hello, lovely to meet you. How are you?
26:33And she's a specialised hypnotherapist.
26:36You're trying it?
26:37You.
26:38So she's here to help you.
26:41Okay, help me sleep better?
26:43Whatever you want.
26:45Okay, sure.
26:45No, no.
26:45We're gonna go for a healthy lifestyle.
26:49It's weird.
26:50At the same time, do I need this?
26:54So what hypnotherapy does, gets your mind to send a different message to your body.
26:58And they're trying to use willpower to battle a desire.
27:01But what hypnosis does, it goes straight in and takes the desire away.
27:05It's actually pretty good.
27:07Describe a difficult day for me.
27:08So you wake up at what time in the morning?
27:10About 10-11.
27:11And then what's the first thing you eat or drink?
27:14First thing, tea.
27:14And let me tell you, he has a method.
27:16What method?
27:17He gets a bunch of biscuits.
27:18Yes.
27:19And he dips them in the tea.
27:20So it's like literally marinated in the tea.
27:22It becomes like a biscuit tea.
27:24See, this has been a lifestyle since I was a kid.
27:26He does relate food to his mother a lot.
27:29His mother was very passionate and really an amazing cook.
27:33He's also lost his mother, and I think that might also be something.
27:36Of course.
27:37So there probably is something in there that since your mother died,
27:40you're drinking much more of the tea because it's drinking a memory of being happy,
27:44having an easy life.
27:45When she suggested that resonating food and resonating tea with memories of my mother,
27:51subconsciously, I don't think it's that reason.
27:53Like, you do it, and eventually you keep doing it for such a long time.
27:57It becomes a habit.
27:58Her professional opinion, if it's suggesting that, maybe it is.
28:02I need you to look up as high as you possibly can,
28:06as if you're literally trying to look into your very own eyebrows.
28:10Keep your eyeballs rolled up.
28:12Close your eyelids right down, all the way down.
28:16Just close your eyelids down.
28:18Try to open your eyes, man.
28:20They're locked tight, sealed shut.
28:22Go deeper, deeper, deeper.
28:24On the count of five, four, three, two, one,
28:27you are going way back to a scene, place, event, time
28:31that is all to do with how, why, where, when
28:34you learnt some unhealthy eating habits.
28:38This scene, Fahad, where you are right now,
28:41is it daytime or nighttime?
28:43Daytime.
28:44Inside or outside?
28:46Outside.
28:47On your own or with people?
28:49My friends.
28:50I was actually physically trying to push my eyelid open and I couldn't.
28:53And that's when I was a little bit, you know, panicking inside.
28:56But I can hear her.
28:58I can speak to her.
28:59That's it.
29:00What are you doing, seeing, feeling with your friends?
29:03Sneaking out to eat food.
29:06Why are you sneaking out to eat food?
29:08Boarding school, we didn't get food.
29:10When we were young, I went to boarding school.
29:13So after boarding school, when I came back home,
29:15I found comfort in mom's food.
29:17What's the food like at boarding school?
29:20Vegetables, green, green, green.
29:21When you went home in the holidays, what did your mother immediately do?
29:25Make my favorites.
29:26So can you see that you've created a pattern in your head
29:29of trying to be healthy is like being at boarding school
29:31and breaking is like being back at home with your mother.
29:34And now you can see it, you can change it.
29:37It's what you desire, it's what you crave, it's what you make happen.
29:42I was laughing.
29:44I mean, this is our first step to the well-being journey
29:47and you decide this is the perfect time to sleep.
29:50Is this what's supposed to happen?
29:52I want you to go, that's not me.
29:54That's not me.
29:55I'm not that kid.
29:56I'm not that kid.
29:57I can have whatever I want.
29:59I can have whatever I want.
30:00So just open your eyes.
30:02You slept.
30:03You enjoyed your nap?
30:05Yeah.
30:05So you need to play this recording 21 days.
30:08You can put it on and go to sleep immediately
30:10because the subconscious will take it all in regardless.
30:14All right.
30:15I'm actually glad I met Marissa.
30:16I'm excited to try the audio that Marissa has given me.
30:20Let's see if it's going to help.
30:39Hey.
30:40How are you, Mahira?
30:41I'm good. How are you?
30:42Thank you for reaching out.
30:43Welcome to my office.
30:44Mahira contacted me.
30:45She's Fahana's friend.
30:47She was kind enough, sweet enough to say that she's going to try and help solve this situation.
30:50So I set up a meeting in the office.
30:52Let's see what comes out of it.
30:55So today I'm here as the devil's advocate.
30:58Because I only hear one side of the story.
31:00I want to hear your side of the story.
31:03From my side, you know, as I say, especially with Farhana.
31:06Yeah, it was a bit of a tougher divorce than usual.
31:10It's been four and a half years.
31:11Okay, I understand.
31:12Things didn't work out.
31:12I know.
31:13I missed Aiden's beginning, right?
31:15I was in Africa.
31:16That was a choice.
31:17You made a choice.
31:18I take self-responsibility for all my actions.
31:20And my goal is to make it right.
31:22So the first thing I can do to make it right to my son
31:24is at least spend some more time with him in my own way.
31:27You know, because I missed out.
31:28Yeah, but that's one of the things that really also bother Farhana,
31:32that you were not there.
31:33And now all of a sudden you're back and you want to claim,
31:36you know, the fatherhood banner.
31:38I know what a good father I am.
31:39I take care of Aiden.
31:40I take care of his school.
31:42I take care of things that have to be taken care of.
31:44I do more than enough.
31:46I've listened to her rules stating for so many years,
31:49don't do this, don't introduce, don't do this, don't do that.
31:51I followed them because it's okay.
31:52It takes time to heal.
31:53I get how much he loves Aiden.
31:55There's no denying that.
31:55But again, she's not the only one who's ever had a heartbreak.
31:57She's not the only one going through a divorce.
31:59I'm his father.
31:59I just want two weeks I want Aiden.
32:01Two weeks you have Aiden.
32:03Forget all of the rest.
32:04Forget all the extra side bits.
32:05Why?
32:06You know, that doesn't work.
32:07That's not good for any child.
32:09A child needs stability.
32:11I'm trying to find a solution.
32:13But that's not a solution.
32:14I'm sorry.
32:14My issue is that she shouldn't be setting the rules.
32:17I'm not with her.
32:17I can't spend time with Aiden and my other half.
32:19That's her rule.
32:20She forgets I'm his father.
32:22I find that rule ridiculous.
32:24Well, one of the main reasons I'm here is I'm a mother.
32:27I'm going through my own issues in my relationship.
32:30So I put myself a lot in her shoes.
32:32I would hate for me to have to ever go through this.
32:36Since right now I'm in the middle of a divorce,
32:38I kept thinking while Herois was talking,
32:41what if this was me?
32:44I'm going to fight only to leave my daughter in my life.
32:48If there's a war on my daughter's house,
32:51I'm going to stop the fire.
32:54Farhan has a problem with this person.
32:57Correct.
32:57In your life.
32:58And you know why she has a problem.
33:00No, no.
33:00I don't.
33:01That's what I'm saying.
33:01I don't.
33:02She said she's the reason your marriage broke up.
33:04That is not true.
33:04That is not why the marriage broke up.
33:06The marriage broke up because there were
33:08too many fights,
33:09too much toxicity.
33:10It's just it's all.
33:11The hearts are,
33:12they're not together anymore.
33:13We just stay in there.
33:14Yeah, you want your different parts.
33:15I tried my best.
33:16To be honest,
33:16I tried my best for years.
33:17And it wasn't enough.
33:18I couldn't do anymore.
33:19It was close to ending anyways
33:20about seven to eight years ago.
33:22Then I was literally going to tell her,
33:23listen, let's sit down.
33:24I don't think this is working out.
33:25And then I just got a,
33:27oh no,
33:28I'm pregnant.
33:30Had to stay with her.
33:32The best thing
33:33I've ever got from her
33:34is my son.
33:37So,
33:38for Hana,
33:39it's okay that
33:40any boyfriend she has,
33:42she can introduce to Aiden.
33:43All of them.
33:44Then that's okay.
33:44Don't do it out of spite.
33:46No, no.
33:46Spite is the other department.
33:48If she gets married tomorrow,
33:50I will be the first person there
33:51happy for her.
33:52I'm a big supporter of her.
33:53Of course,
33:54she's the mother of my child.
33:55All I'm saying is,
33:55please do what's fair.
33:57Forget that someone exists.
33:58Just do what's right
33:59for your son.
34:00It's time we grow up.
34:02Get rid of this narrative.
34:03Just don't think about your ego.
34:04Don't think about,
34:05I don't want this,
34:06I don't want that.
34:07Don't,
34:07just,
34:07it's not about ego.
34:09Have you tried asking nicely?
34:10Many times.
34:12What's nice for you?
34:12I tried nicely saying,
34:13Hi Farhana.
34:13Show me asking nicely.
34:15Hi Farhana Bodhi.
34:16Yes.
34:16Queen Farhana Bodhi.
34:18Sarcastic.
34:18Can I please have some time
34:19with the child that I created?
34:21Remove the sarcasm.
34:23Yes.
34:24Just remove the ego.
34:25Yeah.
34:26You can make a message.
34:27Hi Farhana.
34:27Hi Farhana.
34:28I would love to spend more time
34:30with my child.
34:31I would love to spend more time
34:32with my child.
34:33How about that?
34:34Yeah?
34:35I'm going to give you
34:35the slow clap.
34:37Let's do this.
34:38I'm going to listen to
34:39what Mayra said
34:40and I'm going to try nicely.
34:41Maybe it'll work.
34:49So proud,
34:51so fresh,
34:52we ball,
34:53no stress,
34:54cause we're making that money.
34:56You're making that money.
34:57Yeah,
34:57we do so.
34:59May Hassan and Hana,
35:00the friendship that we have
35:01is developing quite a bit.
35:03So we made a plan
35:04to go sailing.
35:06King Farhana,
35:07you're going to help us out finally?
35:10Sometimes it's nice
35:11for guys to hang out
35:12just to speak
35:13their minds freely.
35:16We good?
35:17It's good.
35:18You're growing up.
35:22Ooh!
35:27Wow,
35:28that's exciting.
35:39How are things with Mona?
35:41How's work?
35:41How's life?
35:42We're doing all right.
35:44It's obviously interesting to be married.
35:47A very busy, independent woman.
35:50Obviously, it comes with some funny quirks.
35:54Like, for example, Mona is someone that organizes her calendar
35:58in an interesting way.
35:59She puts everything into her calendar,
36:02from the very beginning of the day to, like, you know, waking up,
36:05going to work.
36:06So now, if I actually want to do anything with her,
36:10she literally wants me to send her a calendar invite.
36:13What?
36:14Yeah.
36:14And this is the part where it gets interesting.
36:17She wants it three days in advance.
36:19What?
36:20Yeah.
36:21You're joking.
36:22I wish I was.
36:25Personally, I love the fact that I'm married to a hyper-successful woman.
36:29But I think it starts to get a bit challenging
36:32when that starts to come into the dynamic of the relationship.
36:37And this is where our approaches differ.
36:41I can somehow relate.
36:43I mean, with Zeyna, obviously, being so busy right now,
36:45she's just working crazy hours.
36:47With the businesses and everything that's happening in our lives,
36:50I'm afraid I'm not surprised.
36:52It's very big for Zeyna to motivate her.
36:55But, Allah, you'll see her reaction.
36:58How's it been going for you?
36:59The other day, I started on a roller coaster,
37:01and my head went spinning.
37:03I'm like, what the?
37:03Why am I feeling dizzy?
37:05Over the last few years, I've put on a lot of weight.
37:07So, by putting on a lot of weight,
37:09also makes the blood thicker.
37:11So, that creates problems.
37:13Good vertigo.
37:14So, Safa invited a hypnotherapist yesterday at home,
37:17which was another experience.
37:20Oh, gosh.
37:21That's Safa's character.
37:22With Safa, there is always something new.
37:26So, she said that, you know, by trying this,
37:28it'll help you focus on your health.
37:30Have they given you, like, a tape or something,
37:32a recording that you have to hear?
37:33So, I have to hear this tape every night before I sleep?
37:35I'd be very interested to know how this works.
37:38If you need personal trainers, we can...
37:41We're just talking about how much we can bench.
37:43I hate training. I hate going to the gym.
37:45We can make it fun.
37:46If you literally do 15 minutes three times a week,
37:49you feel good.
37:50Give it a shot.
37:51I know Hassan.
37:52I love the gym.
37:54And we're going to talk to Fahad.
37:56So, we're going to push him hard to motivate him.
37:59We're looking forward to helping him out.
38:02Let's grab another drink before we go out.
38:04It's...
38:05That's a good idea.
38:06It's dehydrating me quite a bit.
38:07Be careful, it doesn't have sugar.
38:09Or that's the next step of the hypnosis.
38:11Yeah, another thing about sugar.
38:17Yo, I'm bringing the energy.
38:28Since Bliss has been so busy now producing music,
38:32working on his music, I thought,
38:34let me go to the studio and catch up with him.
38:37You want to hear some of my music?
38:38Yeah.
38:44I love it.
38:48That's a song.
38:52That's a good song.
38:56I love it.
38:57It's good, right?
38:58It's actually been a great year.
39:00I'm trying to focus on my own career.
39:02I have four businesses already.
39:03And I just signed a record deal.
39:05Let's see what it's going to be like.
39:07Tell me, like, how are you feeling now?
39:10You know, having to manage, like, all these businesses that I have,
39:12it takes a lot of your time.
39:13So I don't want to be in the situation that I was last year.
39:15I felt like last year went by very fast,
39:18and I felt like I didn't get a chance to speak my mind about what was going on.
39:22And I think today's the right time to open up these subjects
39:25and speak with Dania about how I felt last year.
39:28I was going through a really tough time last year, you know?
39:31You weren't there, and Ibrahim, who's my friend, wasn't there.
39:35You also know that, like, you know, what I'm going through with as far as my dad.
39:39Mm-hmm.
39:40Um, so...
39:43About two years ago, my father suffered a stroke,
39:46and as a result, he has memory loss,
39:50and it's really tough when you know your dad, the man of the house,
39:55the father just suddenly becomes so weak.
40:01And...
40:03you're also dealing with being the strong person,
40:08but also, you know what your dad's going through?
40:12It's just tough.
40:17I didn't know what you were going through.
40:19Yeah.
40:19The best way to move forward is communication.
40:23I think one of the main challenges in our relationship was communication.
40:27If I was upset, I wouldn't tell him, or if he was upset, he wouldn't tell me.
40:30But that's the wrong approach, because after a while, everything adds up,
40:34and then you just let it all out, and it might be too late.
40:37You are the dream husband.
40:39And, you know, the best thing about us and our relationship
40:42is that we are friends first...
40:45Yeah.
40:45...and then we're partners.
40:48Dania knows me better than anyone else.
40:50She knows what I've been through.
40:51She knows my character, and she knows my values.
40:54So I've got a gift for you, because I know you love gifts when you come to the studio.
40:58Oh, my God.
40:59I hope you're gonna like it.
41:00And now I have a surprise for her.
41:03I got you this.
41:05What is that?
41:06Every time I come, I get a gift.
41:07This is to show you how proud I am of you,
41:11to acknowledge how well you're doing,
41:14and I hope you're gonna like it.
41:16Okay.
41:17I'm nervous.
41:21What is that?
41:24It's the key to Karak Inc.
41:26What does that mean?
41:28That means it's all yours.
41:29What?
41:30Yes.
41:30No.
41:31Yes.
41:32I had an idea to open a Karak Cafe.
41:34It was also taking a lot of my time,
41:36and I want to spend my time working on my music and my production.
41:40Me and Dania, we're in a great place right now,
41:41and now that Dania is in the F&B business,
41:44I thought this would be a perfect combination.
41:47At the end of the day, our legacy is for our kids,
41:50so whether it's with me or with you,
41:51it doesn't make a difference.
41:52This means more to me than like any jewelry or any car,
41:57or it's like the fact that you trust that I can run your business.
42:02It means like, it means so much to me.
42:06I was in total shock.
42:08Never in a million years did I expect him to just hand over one of his businesses to me.
42:14I love you.
42:16It's the best gift of my life.
42:20I think this is the most romantic thing Bliss has ever done for me.
42:24Talking about business.
42:25I'm going to talk to Bliss.
42:26Tell him what I've been going through with my business partner.
42:29I'm going to talk to you about the whole Ibrahim thing.
42:32Mm-hmm.
42:33It's really bothering me,
42:34because I heard that he was talking about me to Zina and Safa.
42:37So when I spoke to him, I asked him like, is it true?
42:42And he's like, yeah.
42:43And then he got mad at me for telling you.
42:46You're my husband. Obviously, I'm going to tell you everything.
42:49He's like, yeah, if you told Marwan, then I can tell Safa and Zina.
42:53I'm like, you can't compare.
42:55That's different though.
42:56That's what I said.
42:56Sometimes, I think Ibrahim forgets that me and Dania are actually married,
43:02that we're not three friends, that it's husband, wife, and friend.
43:07And then after, I thought we were fine.
43:09I told him, me, you, and Bliss are going to sit.
43:11There's no issue.
43:12Because when I ask you, you tell me there's no issue with you and Ibrahim, right?
43:15Yeah.
43:16So then I told him, don't worry.
43:18Like, me, you, and Bliss are going to sit.
43:19We're going to talk about this.
43:21Like, it's just a misunderstanding.
43:23Then three hours later, I thought we were fine.
43:26Then he posted online that he's going to sell the Besties Cafe.
43:30I saw that.
43:32I was shocked, honestly, like, that he would do that.
43:34But at the end of the day, like, it's a partnership.
43:37Yeah.
43:38I didn't even know that he'd even talk to me about it.
43:45I'm 50% owner.
43:46You should, you know, pick up the phone and call Ibrahim.
43:50And if you think that he feels a certain type of way about me as well,
43:53like, let's all get together.
43:56It's sometimes brushing.
43:57You need to arrange that, because I'm not talking to him.
43:59I don't know how to differentiate between the friendship and the business.
44:02You're going to sell the Besties Cafe, and you're selling our friendship, too.
44:05Look, is this gonna end?
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