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The She-Devil's Mistake- Her Robe Slipped At Breakfast And She Didn’T Even Care
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00:00:00The first thing I noticed was that she was not wearing what she had been wearing the night before.
00:00:04The second thing I noticed was that the robe silk, the color of bruised plums,
00:00:09tied at the waist with a sash that was not quite holding,
00:00:11had slipped at the left shoulder while she reached for the kettle,
00:00:14and that the slope of skin from her collarbone to the edge of the silk
00:00:17was the kind of thing a person should not be looking at across a kitchen table at 7 in the
00:00:21morning
00:00:21when she is the older sister of the woman whose ring you had been wearing for 6 months.
00:00:26She caught me looking. She did not fix it.
00:00:28She just lifted the kettle, poured the water into the press, and said,
00:00:32in that particular low voice of hers,
00:00:35Coffee, Lynn? Or are you still pretending you only drink tea in this house?
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00:00:56Her name was Vida Marchetti, and she was 36 years old,
00:01:00and she had been, until approximately 14 hours ago, my future sister-in-law.
00:01:05That had stopped being true at 6.20 the previous evening,
00:01:08in the rear pew of an empty Catholic church on the east side of the city,
00:01:12when a woman I had never met before that day sat down beside me and asked,
00:01:16very calmly, if I was Lynn Tran, and if I was,
00:01:19did I know that my fiancé had been seeing her partner for two years?
00:01:23And would I like to see the photographs, because she had brought them?
00:01:26And she felt I deserved to be the one to decide what to do with them,
00:01:30rather than finding out from a wedding guest in three weeks,
00:01:32the way she had found out from a hotel receipt in a coat pocket six days ago.
00:01:36I had looked at the photographs.
00:01:38I had thanked her for her courage.
00:01:40I had walked out of the church into a parking lot that smelled of asphalt and lilac
00:01:44and called the only person whose voice I trusted to hold what I was about to say without breaking it.
00:01:48Not my mother.
00:01:49Not my best friend, who would have arrived in 15 minutes with rage and a plan.
00:01:54Not my therapist, who would have made me name what I was feeling before I knew the word for it.
00:01:59Vida.
00:01:59She had answered on the second ring.
00:02:01She had not said hello.
00:02:03She had said,
00:02:04Where are you, Lynn?
00:02:05And I had told her.
00:02:06And she had said,
00:02:07I am 38 minutes away.
00:02:09Do not move.
00:02:10And I had not moved.
00:02:11She had arrived in 35.
00:02:13She had not asked me to explain.
00:02:15She had taken one look at my face,
00:02:17and the photographs spread across the passenger seat of my car,
00:02:20and she had said,
00:02:21Get in mine.
00:02:22We are not staying here.
00:02:24Yours stays.
00:02:25We will come back for it.
00:02:26I had gotten into hers.
00:02:28She had driven me to her house,
00:02:30which was a narrow brick row house on a quiet street in the part of the city
00:02:33where old families had lived for four generations and would live for four more,
00:02:37and she had walked me up the steps with one hand at my elbow that was not steering me
00:02:41and not soothing me, just present,
00:02:43and she had taken the photographs out of my hand at the door
00:02:46and put them face down on the entryway console without looking at them and said,
00:02:51You will tell me when you are ready.
00:02:53Not before.
00:02:54She had made me eat.
00:02:55A bowl of pasta with butter and pepper,
00:02:58the most basic thing in her pantry,
00:03:00because she had said correctly that I would not be able to swallow anything more complicated.
00:03:04She had run a bath.
00:03:05She had laid out a clean t-shirt and a pair of sleep shorts that I did not ask where
00:03:09they came from.
00:03:10She had put me in the guest bedroom on the second floor,
00:03:13the one with the window that faced the small garden in the back,
00:03:15and she had said,
00:03:16I am two doors down.
00:03:18Knock if you cannot sleep.
00:03:20Do not stand on ceremony.
00:03:21This is not the night for ceremony.
00:03:23She had closed the door.
00:03:25I had not slept.
00:03:26I had lain on top of the duvet with the t-shirt smelling faintly of her laundry detergent,
00:03:31clean cotton,
00:03:32something herbal,
00:03:33nothing perfumed,
00:03:34and I had cried in the silent way that adults cry when there is no one in the room to
00:03:38perform for.
00:03:39I had watched the sky get gray at the window.
00:03:41I had watched it get pink.
00:03:42I had heard, at some point near six,
00:03:45the careful sound of her downstairs in the kitchen water running,
00:03:48a cabinet,
00:03:49the low scrape of a chair pulled back from the table.
00:03:52I had come down at five past seven because I could not lie in a strange bed any longer
00:03:56and I could not stay alone with my thoughts,
00:03:58and I knew,
00:03:59the way you know things in a house you have been to enough times to have a coffee mug you
00:04:03always use,
00:04:04that she would not ask me anything I was not ready to answer.
00:04:07She had been at the counter.
00:04:08The robe had been tied properly then.
00:04:10Her hair was up in the loose knot she wore when she was working,
00:04:13dark with one streak of silver at the temple that she had not dyed because Vida did not dye anything.
00:04:18Vida did not perform.
00:04:20Vida was the older sister of the woman who had been planning a wedding to me for six months
00:04:24and to someone else for two years,
00:04:26and the difference between the two of them,
00:04:28between Carmen Marchetti,
00:04:29my fiancé,
00:04:30who performed warmth and intimacy and partnership,
00:04:33the way a concert pianist performs a sonata,
00:04:35and Vida Marchetti,
00:04:37who simply was warm and intimate and present without ever announcing it had been a piece of information
00:04:41I had been refusing to fully absorb for the entire duration of my engagement.
00:04:46Last night had absorbed it for me.
00:04:47She had heard me on the stairs.
00:04:49She had not turned.
00:04:50She had said,
00:04:51into the kitchen and the morning and not over her shoulder.
00:04:54There is a clean mug on the second shelf and a pour-over on the counter.
00:04:58Take whichever feels right.
00:04:59I had taken neither.
00:05:01I had stood in the doorway and looked at her in the morning light,
00:05:03and the robe had been tied properly,
00:05:06and her hair had been up,
00:05:07and she had been entirely a person making coffee in her own kitchen at seven in the morning,
00:05:12the way she did every morning.
00:05:13And I had thought,
00:05:14Carmen has been pretending to love me for six months,
00:05:17and I have known for 14 hours,
00:05:18and the first place my body went was here.
00:05:20The second place my body went was looking at her shoulders.
00:05:24She had been reaching for something in the high cabinet,
00:05:26a tin,
00:05:27jasmine green,
00:05:28the loose-leaf kind she preferred to bagged.
00:05:30The reach had pulled the silk an inch higher up her hip on one side
00:05:33and an inch lower at the shoulder on the other,
00:05:35and the sash,
00:05:37which had been a careful knot when I came down the stairs,
00:05:39had slipped half a turn while she stretched.
00:05:41When she came down off her toes and turned,
00:05:44the left side of the robe had gone with her.
00:05:46The slope from her collarbone to the edge of the silk was suddenly visible pale skin,
00:05:51a single mole I had no business cataloging,
00:05:53the suggestion of a shoulder blade I should not have been thinking about.
00:05:57I looked.
00:05:58I looked for one second too long.
00:06:00Two.
00:06:01Maybe.
00:06:01Three.
00:06:02She caught me looking.
00:06:03There was a moment,
00:06:04a very particular,
00:06:06suspended moment,
00:06:06in which I understood that she had registered my looking,
00:06:09and that I had registered her registering,
00:06:12and that the next thing that happened in the kitchen
00:06:14was going to be either entirely ordinary or entirely not.
00:06:17She did not fix the robe.
00:06:19She did not pull it up.
00:06:20She did not adjust the sash.
00:06:22She did not even break eye contact with what I had been looking at.
00:06:25She lifted the kettle.
00:06:26She poured the water into the press.
00:06:28She said,
00:06:29in that particular low voice of hers,
00:06:32Coffee Lynn?
00:06:32Or are you still pretending you only drink tea in this house?
00:06:36I could not speak for a moment.
00:06:37I said coffee.
00:06:39She said,
00:06:40Sit down before you fall down.
00:06:41I sat.
00:06:42She poured.
00:06:43She brought the cup over to the table and set it in front of me,
00:06:46and her hand grazed the back of mine for less than a second,
00:06:49the briefest possible incidental contact.
00:06:52And then she sat down across from me and pulled the sash of the robe tight again
00:06:55with one practiced motion,
00:06:57not an apology,
00:06:58not in correction,
00:06:59just because she had finished what she was doing at the counter,
00:07:02and the robe was now a robe again instead of whatever it had briefly been.
00:07:06She said,
00:07:07How long did you sleep?
00:07:08I said,
00:07:09I did not.
00:07:09She said,
00:07:10Okay,
00:07:11we will deal with that.
00:07:12She did not ask about the photographs.
00:07:14She did not ask about Carmen.
00:07:16She did not ask whether I was going to call off the wedding,
00:07:18because the question would have been an insult.
00:07:20Vita did not ask questions whose answers were already visible.
00:07:23She asked the questions she did not already know the answer to,
00:07:27and she did it quietly,
00:07:28and she waited.
00:07:29She said,
00:07:30What do you need to do today?
00:07:32I said,
00:07:32I do not know.
00:07:33She said,
00:07:34Then we are not going to do anything today.
00:07:37We are going to drink coffee.
00:07:38We are going to eat something with protein.
00:07:40You are going to take a shower and put on the clothes I am going to lend you
00:07:44because you came here with nothing.
00:07:46We are going to sit in the garden if the light holds,
00:07:48and then we are going to think about tomorrow.
00:07:51Not today.
00:07:52Tomorrow is the earliest we are thinking about anything.
00:07:55I said,
00:07:56Vita.
00:07:57She said,
00:07:58Yes.
00:07:59I said,
00:08:00You have not asked me anything.
00:08:02She said,
00:08:03I know.
00:08:03I said,
00:08:04Why?
00:08:05She set her cup down.
00:08:07She looked at me across the table.
00:08:08Her eyes were the dark, calm gray they had always been.
00:08:12The gray that I had told myself for months was her sister's coloring,
00:08:15even though it was not.
00:08:16Even though Carmen's eyes were brown.
00:08:18Even though I had been performing a small daily lie about which Marchetti woman I was actually paying attention to.
00:08:24She said,
00:08:25Because if I ask you anything, you will try to answer it, and you have not slept, and the answers
00:08:30you would give me right now would be the wrong ones.
00:08:32Not because they would be untrue, because you have not had the time to know which of them are the
00:08:36true ones yet.
00:08:37There is no rush.
00:08:38We have time.
00:08:39I am not going anywhere, and your life is not going anywhere, and Carmen and at her sister's name her
00:08:44mouth did something I had never seen it do.
00:08:46A small, contained thing, not a flinch, more like a closing Carmen is not going anywhere either.
00:08:52But she is not in this kitchen this morning, so we do not have to discuss her until you are
00:08:57ready.
00:08:57I drank the coffee.
00:08:59It was very good.
00:09:00Vita made coffee the way she did everything exactly, unhurriedly, without theater.
00:09:04I said,
00:09:06The photographs are still in the entryway.
00:09:08She said,
00:09:09I know.
00:09:09I have not looked at them.
00:09:11I said,
00:09:11You should.
00:09:12She said,
00:09:13No.
00:09:14They are not mine to look at.
00:09:15If you want me to know what is in them, you will tell me.
00:09:18I am not going to find out about my sister from a photograph in a hallway.
00:09:22I said,
00:09:23You already know.
00:09:24She said,
00:09:25Yes.
00:09:26The shape of it.
00:09:27Not the details.
00:09:28I have known the shape of it for longer than I have been comfortable knowing it.
00:09:31I set the cup down.
00:09:33The kitchen was very quiet.
00:09:34The morning light was doing something to the room,
00:09:37the white walls were warm,
00:09:38the dark wood of the table was warmer,
00:09:40and the silk of the robe across from me was the color of plums.
00:09:43I said,
00:09:44How long?
00:09:45She said,
00:09:46Lynn.
00:09:46I said,
00:09:47I am asking.
00:09:48She held my eyes for a moment.
00:09:50She said,
00:09:51A year.
00:09:52Maybe more.
00:09:52I did not have the photographs.
00:09:54I had a feeling.
00:09:55I had two phone calls she did not explain.
00:09:58I had a hotel charge I was not supposed to see on a card that was supposed to be for
00:10:02our mother's
00:10:02birthday gift.
00:10:03I had a way she said someone's name once at a dinner that was not the name of any of
00:10:07the people
00:10:07we were discussing.
00:10:08I said,
00:10:09You did not tell me.
00:10:11She said,
00:10:12No.
00:10:12I said,
00:10:13Why?
00:10:14She said,
00:10:15Because I had a feeling and not a fact,
00:10:17and you were planning a wedding,
00:10:19and the cost of being wrong about my own sister to the woman she was about to marry was not
00:10:23a cost I could pay if I was not certain.
00:10:25And because and hear her voice did the smallest possible thing,
00:10:28a barely audible adjustment,
00:10:30and because I have been told all my life that I see things that are not there in this family,
00:10:34and I have learned to not say anything until I can prove it.
00:10:38Carmen is very good at making the people who notice her seem like they are the ones with the problem.
00:10:42I said,
00:10:43That is true.
00:10:44She said,
00:10:44I know.
00:10:45I said,
00:10:46I should have known.
00:10:47She said,
00:10:48You knew.
00:10:49I looked at her.
00:10:50She said,
00:10:51You knew.
00:10:52You are not certain.
00:10:53There is a difference.
00:10:54I am not going to let you sit at this table and add to today the work of pretending you
00:10:58did not know anything for six months,
00:11:00because that is not what happened.
00:11:02What happened is that you suspected something and you trusted her instead,
00:11:05which is what people who love other people do,
00:11:07and you do not get to call yourself a fool for that.
00:11:10Not in this kitchen.
00:11:12Not in front of me.
00:11:13I started crying.
00:11:14It was not a performance and it was not a release.
00:11:17It was just the honest accounting of a person who had been holding something in for 14 hours
00:11:21and had finally been seen accurately enough that the holding was no longer a job she had to do alone.
00:11:27Vida did not move from her chair.
00:11:28She did not come around the table to hold me.
00:11:30She did not perform comfort.
00:11:32She just sat across from me with her hands around her coffee cup and her eyes steady on my face,
00:11:37and she said,
00:11:37In that low voice,
00:11:39You can do that here.
00:11:40You can do that for as long as you need.
00:11:42I am not going to ask you to stop and I am not going to make it about me.
00:11:46I cried for a long time.
00:11:48When I finished,
00:11:49the coffee was cold.
00:11:50My eyes were swollen.
00:11:52The morning had moved approximately one hour forward without any of us doing anything about it.
00:11:57Vida said,
00:11:57I am going to make you breakfast now.
00:11:59I said,
00:12:00I am not hungry.
00:12:01She said,
00:12:02I know,
00:12:02eat anyway.
00:12:03She got up.
00:12:04The robe stayed tied.
00:12:05She moved through the kitchen with that same quiet competence eggs,
00:12:09butter,
00:12:10a pan,
00:12:11bread from a paper bag on the counter that I knew she got from the bakery two streets over
00:12:15because I had walked there with her on a Sunday morning four months ago when Carmen was supposedly
00:12:20at a yoga retreat and Vida had said very lightly that there were always more pastries than she
00:12:25could eat alone if I wanted to come over and help.
00:12:27I had gone.
00:12:28I had eaten two croissants.
00:12:30I had sat at this table with her for two hours talking about a book we had both read
00:12:34and Carmen had come home that night and asked how I had spent my Sunday and I had said,
00:12:38at your sister's,
00:12:40we had pastries.
00:12:40And Carmen had said,
00:12:42oh,
00:12:42with a tone I had not at the time known how to read.
00:12:45I knew how to read it now.
00:12:46I said,
00:12:47that Sunday in February,
00:12:49the croissants.
00:12:50Vida did not turn from the stove.
00:12:52She said,
00:12:53I know.
00:12:54I said,
00:12:55Carmen was not at a yoga retreat.
00:12:57She said,
00:12:58no.
00:12:59I said,
00:13:00you knew that day.
00:13:02She said,
00:13:03I had a feeling that day.
00:13:04I did not know.
00:13:05I said,
00:13:06you invited me over knowing the feeling.
00:13:09She did turn then.
00:13:10She held the wooden spoon and looked at me across the kitchen and her face did something
00:13:14complicated.
00:13:15Not guilt,
00:13:16exactly,
00:13:17but the thing that lives next to guilt,
00:13:19which is honesty about your own motivations.
00:13:22She said,
00:13:22I invited you over because I liked having you in this kitchen and I had been finding reasons
00:13:27to invite you over for longer than I should have been finding reasons.
00:13:30The feeling about Carmen was a separate thing.
00:13:32I did not invite you over because of the feeling.
00:13:35I invited you over despite the feeling.
00:13:37I said,
00:13:38Vida.
00:13:38She said,
00:13:39I am going to finish making your breakfast and I am going to put it on a plate and you
00:13:43are going to eat it.
00:13:44And then we are going to talk about the difference between those two things at a moment when you
00:13:48have eaten something and slept something.
00:13:50And I have not just told you a thing I have been not telling you for an unspecified number
00:13:55of months.
00:13:56Is that an acceptable arrangement?
00:13:58I said,
00:13:59yes.
00:14:00She said,
00:14:01good.
00:14:01She finished the eggs.
00:14:03She buttered the bread.
00:14:04She put the plate in front of me with a fork and she sat down across from me and she
00:14:08did
00:14:08not touch her own food until I had taken the first bite, which I noticed but did not comment
00:14:12on, because Vida did things like this without announcing them and the noticing was its own
00:14:17kind of intimacy.
00:14:18I ate.
00:14:19The eggs were soft.
00:14:21The bread was good.
00:14:22The coffee refilled was hot again.
00:14:24The morning was no longer the morning I had walked into.
00:14:27It was a different morning, in a different kitchen, with a different woman across the
00:14:31table from me than I had been telling myself was across the table from me for the past six
00:14:35months.
00:14:36I said,
00:14:37Your robe slipped earlier.
00:14:39She said,
00:14:40I know.
00:14:40I said,
00:14:41You did not fix it.
00:14:43She said,
00:14:44I know.
00:14:45A pause.
00:14:45The kitchen hummed.
00:14:47Somewhere in the house, the radiator clicked the way old houses click when they are waking
00:14:51up.
00:14:51She said,
00:14:52Lynn.
00:14:53I said,
00:14:54Yes.
00:14:54She said,
00:14:55I am not going to do this with you today.
00:14:58I said,
00:14:58I did not ask you to.
00:15:00She said,
00:15:00I know.
00:15:01I am telling you anyway, because if I do not tell you now, you will spend the day wondering,
00:15:06and I do not want you to wonder.
00:15:08There is no version of this morning, or this week, or this month, in which I do anything
00:15:12with you that requires you to be making decisions.
00:15:14You are not in a place to be making decisions.
00:15:17The person who walked into my kitchen this morning is not the person you are going to
00:15:21be in a month.
00:15:21I am not going to take advantage of the gap between those two people, not because I am
00:15:26noble.
00:15:26Because I have wanted you in this kitchen for longer than I have been willing to admit,
00:15:30and I have waited this long, and I am capable of waiting longer if waiting is what is right.
00:15:35I set the fork down.
00:15:37I said,
00:15:38Vida.
00:15:38She said,
00:15:39Eat.
00:15:40I said,
00:15:40I want to know what you are saying.
00:15:42She said,
00:15:43I am saying that I noticed when you looked at me this morning.
00:15:46I am saying that I did not fix the robe.
00:15:48I am saying that those two facts are facts, and we are going to sit with them as facts,
00:15:53and we are not going to do anything with them until you have done the things you actually
00:15:57have to do today, which are calling Carmen, which you do not have to do today either,
00:16:02and calling your mother, who is going to find out one way or another, and calling whoever
00:16:06else has to be called, and giving yourself the dignity of grieving the wedding you were
00:16:10planning to have before you decide anything about anything else, including me, especially
00:16:16me.
00:16:16I said,
00:16:17That is the most patient thing anyone has ever said to me.
00:16:20She said,
00:16:21It is not patience.
00:16:22It is the bare minimum.
00:16:24Anything else would be cruelty.
00:16:25I started crying again.
00:16:27Quieter this time.
00:16:28A different kind of crying.
00:16:30The kind where you are not grieving, you are recognizing.
00:16:33Vida reached across the table.
00:16:35She did not take my hand.
00:16:36She set her own hand, palm down, on the wood near mine, close enough that if I wanted to
00:16:41put my hand on top of hers, it would have been one small motion, far enough away that
00:16:46I did not have to.
00:16:47I did not put my hand on hers.
00:16:49I looked at her hand on the table for a long time.
00:16:52The fingers were long.
00:16:53The knuckles had a small scar on the second one of the right hand that I had asked about
00:16:57once and she had told me was from a kitchen knife when she was 22 and not paying attention.
00:17:01The nails were short.
00:17:03There was no ring on any finger.
00:17:04I said,
00:17:06She said,
00:17:07You do not have to thank me.
00:17:09I said,
00:17:09I am thanking you anyway.
00:17:11She moved her hand back.
00:17:12She picked up her fork.
00:17:14She started to eat.
00:17:15We ate the rest of breakfast in a silence that was not the silence of strangers and not
00:17:19the silence of avoidance.
00:17:21It was the specific silence of two people who had said an honest thing to each other and
00:17:25were sitting with the weight of it without trying to resolve it before its time.
00:17:29When we were done, she took the plates.
00:17:31She would not let me help.
00:17:33She said,
00:17:34Go sit in the garden.
00:17:35I will bring fresh coffee.
00:17:37The light is going to be good for another hour.
00:17:39I went out through the back door.
00:17:41The garden was small, a brick patio, a wooden bench under a fig tree that was too old for
00:17:46the size of the yard.
00:17:47Three terracotta pots with herbs I knew Vita grew because she was the only person I knew
00:17:51who grew her own time and the morning light was, as she had said, very good.
00:17:56I sat on the bench.
00:17:58I tilted my head back.
00:17:59I closed my eyes.
00:18:28I thought about the photographs in the entryway.
00:18:30Palm down, near mine.
00:18:32I thought about the robe and the slope of her shoulder and the fact that she had not fixed
00:18:37it.
00:18:37I thought about her saying, we are going to sit with them as facts.
00:18:41I sat in the garden for a long time.
00:18:43Vita came out at some point with two fresh coffees and sat on the other end of the bench,
00:18:47leaving a careful amount of space between us, and we did not talk.
00:18:50We just sat.
00:18:51The fig tree dropped a single leaf onto the brick.
00:18:54A bird I could not identify made the same small sound four times and then stopped.
00:18:59I said eventually, I have to call my mother.
00:19:02Vita said, do you want to do it from here?
00:19:04I said, yes.
00:19:06She said, use my phone if yours is too loud with notifications.
00:19:09I said, mine is fine.
00:19:12I turned it off last night.
00:19:13She said, smart.
00:19:15I called my mother.
00:19:16It took 40 minutes.
00:19:17My mother cried, which I had expected, and then she got angry, which I had also expected,
00:19:23and then she said the thing I had not expected, which was, are you safe?
00:19:27Who are you with?
00:19:28Where did you sleep?
00:19:30And I said, I am at Carmen's sister's house, and there was a very long pause, and my mother
00:19:34said in a tone I could not read, Vita.
00:19:37I said, yes.
00:19:39She said, good.
00:19:41Stay there.
00:19:42Vita is the only one of them who has ever been honest.
00:19:44I said, I know.
00:19:46I hung up.
00:19:47Vita had walked to the other end of the patio while I was on the phone, giving me space.
00:19:51She came back when I put the phone down.
00:19:54She did not ask what my mother had said.
00:19:56I said, my mother says you are the only one of them who has ever been honest.
00:20:00Vita said, your mother is very perceptive.
00:20:03I said, I think I am going to stay here for a few days.
00:20:07If that is all right, she said, stay as long as you need.
00:20:11The guest room is yours.
00:20:12There is no clock on this.
00:20:13I said, Vita.
00:20:15She said, yes.
00:20:16I said, I am going to call Carmen tomorrow.
00:20:19Not today.
00:20:20She said, good.
00:20:22I said, and after I call her, after I do all of the things I have to do, I would
00:20:26like to
00:20:26come back to this kitchen and sit in the garden and have another version of this conversation
00:20:30with you.
00:20:31The version we are not having today.
00:20:33She held my eyes for a long moment.
00:20:35She said, I will be here.
00:20:36I said, I know you will.
00:20:38The morning moved another hour forward.
00:20:41Eventually, we went inside.
00:20:43Eventually, Vita made lunch.
00:20:44Eventually, I slept actual sleep.
00:20:47Dreamless.
00:20:47The deep kind that comes after you have been holding something in too long and have finally
00:20:52been allowed to put it down for four hours on the couch in her living room with a blanket
00:20:56I did not ask the origin of.
00:20:57When I woke up, she was at the kitchen table with her laptop and a stack of papers from the
00:21:01architecture firm she ran, working quietly the way you work when someone is asleep in
00:21:06the next room and you do not want to wake them.
00:21:08She looked up when I came in.
00:21:10She said, hi.
00:21:11I said, hi.
00:21:13She said, you slept.
00:21:14I said, I did.
00:21:16She said, how do you feel?
00:21:18I said, like a person who has just lost the version of her life she thought she was going
00:21:23to have.
00:21:24She said, that is exactly correct.
00:21:25I said, and like a person who is sitting in a kitchen she would like to keep being in.
00:21:30She did not say anything to that.
00:21:32She just looked at me.
00:21:33The look was steady and warm and entirely without strategy.
00:21:37And it was the look of a woman who had decided a long time ago that she was going to
00:21:41wait
00:21:41for me to know what I wanted and who was going to keep waiting for as long as it took.
00:21:45I said, tomorrow I have to call Carmen.
00:21:48She said, I know.
00:21:50I said, will you be here when I do?
00:21:52She said, I will be wherever you need me to be.
00:21:55I said, here.
00:21:56I need you to be here.
00:21:58She said, then I will be here.
00:22:00I sat down at the table across from her.
00:22:02She pushed her laptop aside.
00:22:04She closed the folder of papers.
00:22:06She did not say anything else.
00:22:08The afternoon light came through the kitchen window at the angle it comes through, old
00:22:12kitchens and old houses on quiet streets.
00:22:15And the silk robe was long gone.
00:22:16She had changed into jeans and a cream sweater hours ago.
00:22:19And the slope of her shoulder was no longer visible to me, but I had seen it and she had
00:22:24not fixed it.
00:22:25And we both knew that we were going to sit with that fact for as long as we needed to
00:22:28before either of us did anything with it.
00:22:30And that the sitting itself was a kind of honesty that I had not had with any other person in
00:22:35a very long time.
00:22:36The phone was face down on the table between us.
00:22:39Tomorrow, I would turn it on.
00:22:41Tomorrow, I would call Carmen.
00:22:43Tomorrow, the actual disassembly of the life I had been planning would begin.
00:22:46And it would take weeks.
00:22:48And it would cost me money and dignity and a number of friendships that had been Carmen's
00:22:52first and mine second.
00:22:54Tonight, I was going to sit in this kitchen.
00:22:56Vita poured me another coffee.
00:22:58I did not ask for it.
00:23:00She knew.
00:23:01She said, is there anything you want to tell me about yesterday, about the photographs,
00:23:06about anything?
00:23:07I said, not yet.
00:23:09She said, okay.
00:23:10I said, but there is something I want to ask you.
00:23:14She said, ask.
00:23:15I said, how long have you been finding reasons to invite me over?
00:23:19She held my eyes.
00:23:20She said, since the first dinner, the one at our mother's house, the one where you laughed
00:23:25at something I said about the architecture of the church across the street and Carmen rolled
00:23:29her eyes and you noticed her rolling her eyes and you did not say anything about it, but
00:23:33you looked at me differently for, the rest of the night.
00:23:36I said, I remember that night.
00:23:38She said, so do I.
00:23:40I said, that was 11 months ago.
00:23:43She said, I know.
00:23:44I said, you have been finding reasons to invite me over for 11 months.
00:23:49She said, yes.
00:23:51I said, and not one of those times did you say anything.
00:23:54She said, no.
00:23:56I said, because I was engaged to your sister.
00:23:58She said, yes.
00:24:00And because I was not certain what I was doing was anything other than enjoying the company
00:24:04of a person I liked.
00:24:05And because the moment I let myself be certain, it became the kind of feeling I would have had
00:24:10to do something about.
00:24:11And there was nothing I could do about it that was not going to cost someone something.
00:24:16So I did not let myself be certain.
00:24:18I let myself enjoy your company.
00:24:20I let myself make pastries.
00:24:22I let myself walk to the bakery on Sunday mornings hoping you might come.
00:24:26That is the honest accounting of what I did with 11 months of finding reasons.
00:24:30I said, Vida.
00:24:32She said, eat your toast.
00:24:34I said, there is no toast.
00:24:35She said, there will be in a moment.
00:24:38She got up.
00:24:39She made toast.
00:24:40She put it in front of me.
00:24:42I ate it.
00:24:43The kitchen was warm.
00:24:44The afternoon light was long.
00:24:46The robe was a memory and not a present fact.
00:24:48And the silence between us was the silence of two women who had said exactly as much as
00:24:53they could afford to say in a single day and had agreed, without naming the agreement,
00:24:58that the next thing they said to each other was going to be said tomorrow.
00:25:01I was going to call Carmen tomorrow.
00:25:03I was going to do it from this kitchen.
00:25:06Vida was going to be here when I did.
00:25:07I had walked into this house 14 hours ago carrying a folder of photographs and a wedding I no
00:25:12longer had, and I was going to walk out of it eventually carrying neither of those things
00:25:17and a great deal more, and the in-between was going to be sat in this kitchen with this
00:25:21woman, who had waited 11 months without saying a word, and who was going to keep waiting as
00:25:26long as I needed her to.
00:25:27The toast was good.
00:25:29The coffee was very good.
00:25:30The silk robe was upstairs in a hamper somewhere, no longer relevant to the present moment,
00:25:35and yet entirely relevant to the present moment, the way a small thing that happens at the
00:25:39right time becomes the thing the rest of the day is organized around.
00:25:43I said, Vida.
00:25:44She said, yes.
00:25:46I said, thank you for not fixing the robe.
00:25:49She set her cup down.
00:25:50She looked at me across the table.
00:25:52The afternoon light was on her face.
00:25:54The mole on the slope of her shoulder was not visible anymore.
00:25:57The cream sweater was a high crew neck, but I knew where it was, and she knew I knew,
00:26:01and the not fixing of the robe was a small, honest thing she had done in a moment when
00:26:05neither of us had been ready to do a larger one.
00:26:07She said, you are welcome.
00:26:10She said, not yet, but you will be.
00:26:13She said, we have time.
00:26:15The kitchen was quiet.
00:26:17The light moved another inch across the table.
00:26:19Somewhere upstairs, a radiator clicked.
00:26:22Somewhere in the city, my fiancé was sitting in our apartment trying to write a message
00:26:25that could not be written.
00:26:27Somewhere in my chest, a thing I had been refusing to name for 11 months was beginning,
00:26:31very slowly, to allow itself to be named.
00:26:34Vida poured the last of the coffee into my cup.
00:26:36I let her.
00:26:37I called Carmen at 10 the next morning.
00:26:40I did it from the bench in the garden, with the fig tree above me and a cup of Vida's
00:26:44coffee
00:26:44on the brick beside me and Vida herself in the kitchen at the far end of the house,
00:26:48doing dishes that did not need to be done because she had washed them already,
00:26:52which was Vida's way of being available without being present.
00:26:55She had told me before I went outside that she would not listen, that she would not hover,
00:27:00that I could come in whenever I was ready, and that if I needed her in the middle of
00:27:03the call, she was 30 steps away.
00:27:05I had said, I know.
00:27:07She had said, I am saying it anyway.
00:27:09I dialed.
00:27:11Carmen picked up before the first ring finished.
00:27:13The way you pick up a call when you have been holding the phone in your hand for 14 hours
00:27:17waiting for it.
00:27:18She said, Lynn, Lynn, please, Lynn.
00:27:21I said, stop.
00:27:23She stopped.
00:27:23I said, I am calling once.
00:27:25I am going to say what I have to say.
00:27:27You are not going to interrupt me.
00:27:29If you interrupt me, I am going to hang up and we will do this through lawyers, and I
00:27:33do not want to do this through lawyers, but I will, and you know I will.
00:27:37A long silence.
00:27:39Then she said, very small.
00:27:41Okay.
00:27:42I said, I know about the woman whose partner came to the church on the east side at 620 on
00:27:46Sunday evening and gave me a folder.
00:27:48I have seen the photographs.
00:27:50I have seen the hotel receipts.
00:27:51I have seen the two-year timeline.
00:27:53I am not going to ask you to explain any of it because there is no explanation that
00:27:57would matter.
00:27:58I am calling off the wedding.
00:28:00I am moving my things out of the apartment by the end of the month.
00:28:03I am keeping the deposit on the venue because my mother put it down.
00:28:07You are keeping the ring.
00:28:08Sell it.
00:28:09Do not send it back to me.
00:28:11I do not want to look at it again.
00:28:12She was crying.
00:28:14I could hear her crying.
00:28:15I let her cry.
00:28:16I said, I am going to give you one piece of information because I think you have earned
00:28:21the right to have it confirmed rather than guessed at.
00:28:23I am at Vida's.
00:28:25I have been here since Sunday night.
00:28:27She did not know about us.
00:28:28She had a feeling she did not act on.
00:28:30She is the one I called from the parking lot.
00:28:33She is the reason I slept last night.
00:28:35I am telling you this because I do not want you to find out from someone else and decide
00:28:39that the story is something other than what it is.
00:28:41The story is that your sister has been a better person to me in 36 hours than you have been
00:28:46in two years and I am going to spend the next several weeks figuring out what that means
00:28:50and you are not going to be part of that figuring.
00:28:53She said, Lynn.
00:28:55I said, I am not finished.
00:28:56She stopped.
00:28:58I said, you do not get to call me.
00:29:00You do not get to come to Vida's house.
00:29:02You do not get to send your mother to talk to me.
00:29:04You do not get to write me a letter.
00:29:06If you have something to say that is not contained in a logistical email about furniture and shared
00:29:10accounts, you are going to have to sit with it for as long as it takes.
00:29:14The way you should have sat with whatever it was that made you start this two years ago.
00:29:18She said, I love you.
00:29:20I said, I know you think you do.
00:29:22That is not the same thing.
00:29:24I hung up.
00:29:25I sat on the bench.
00:29:26The phone was face down on my thigh.
00:29:28The fig tree was very still.
00:29:30A leaf fell.
00:29:31Another leaf fell.
00:29:32I had thought I would cry.
00:29:34I had been ready to cry, but the crying did not come.
00:29:37What came instead was a kind of quiet I had not had inside my body for at least a year.
00:29:41The quiet of a thing that has been pulling at you finally being put down.
00:29:45I sat with it.
00:29:46I sat with it for a long time.
00:29:48Eventually, the back door opened.
00:29:50Vida came out with a glass of water and set it next to the coffee on the brick.
00:29:54She did not sit.
00:29:55She did not ask.
00:29:56She stood at the edge of the patio and waited, which was the shape Vida's care took, making things available
00:30:02and not requiring you to use them.
00:30:04I said, it is done.
00:30:05She said, I heard you hang up.
00:30:07I did not hear what you said.
00:30:08I said, I know.
00:30:11She said, are you all right?
00:30:13I said, not yet, but I will be.
00:30:16She said, drink the water.
00:30:17You will dehydrate from crying.
00:30:19I said, I did not cry.
00:30:21She looked at me.
00:30:22She said, you will.
00:30:24Drink it anyway.
00:30:25I drank it.
00:30:27She sat down on the bench.
00:30:28She left the careful amount of space she had left the day before.
00:30:31We did not talk for a while.
00:30:33The morning was warm enough now that I had taken the cardigan she had lent me off and was sitting
00:30:37in just the t-shirt, and the small quiet of the garden was doing its work, and I thought, this
00:30:43is the first morning of the rest of my life, and the woman I want to be sitting next to
00:30:47while I have this thought is sitting next to me.
00:30:50Eventually, I said, I told her I was here.
00:30:52Vida said, good.
00:30:53I said, I told her you did not know.
00:30:56That you had a feeling and did not act on it.
00:30:58She said, thank you.
00:30:59I said, I told her you were a better person to me in 36 hours than she had been in
00:31:04two years.
00:31:05A pause.
00:31:07Vida said, Lynn.
00:31:08I said, I am sorry.
00:31:10I know we said we were not going to do this today.
00:31:13She said, yes.
00:31:14We said, I said, I will not say it again.
00:31:18She said, I am not asking you not to say it again.
00:31:21I am asking you to mean it the way you would mean it on a different day, not because of
00:31:25how today feels.
00:31:26I said, I know the difference.
00:31:27She said, I know you do.
00:31:29I am asking you to know the difference louder than you know it now.
00:31:33I said, okay.
00:31:34We sat for another long moment.
00:31:36The fig tree dropped a third leaf.
00:31:38Vida said, I have a meeting at noon.
00:31:40I am going to push it to next week.
00:31:42Do not argue with me.
00:31:44I am the principal of the firm.
00:31:45The meeting can move.
00:31:47I said, I was not going to argue with you.
00:31:50She said, I know.
00:31:51I was anticipating.
00:31:53I said, Vida.
00:31:54She said, yes.
00:31:56I said, I am not going to fall apart.
00:31:58You can keep your meeting.
00:32:00I am going to walk to the bakery and get something for lunch and bring it back here.
00:32:03And I am going to sit in your living room with the book you have on your coffee table that
00:32:07I have been wanting to read since Sunday.
00:32:09And I am going to be a person in a house.
00:32:11And you are going to be a person at a meeting.
00:32:14And we are going to come back together at the end of the day and have the dinner that you
00:32:17keep threatening to make me, which I am told involves something with lemon.
00:32:21She looked at me for a moment.
00:32:23She said, are you sure?
00:32:25I said, I am sure that I do not want to be a project.
00:32:28Not even your project.
00:32:30She said, understood.
00:32:31She said, the bakery.
00:32:33The croissants are better in the morning.
00:32:35Get the focaccia.
00:32:36The one with the rosemary.
00:32:38I said, will do.
00:32:40She got up.
00:32:41She brushed nothing off her jeans because there was nothing to brush off.
00:32:44She paused at the door.
00:32:46She said, Lynn.
00:32:47I said, yes.
00:32:49She said, I am proud of how you handled that call.
00:32:52I said, thank you.
00:32:53She went inside.
00:32:55I sat on the bench for another 10 minutes by myself.
00:32:58Then I got up.
00:32:59I walked to the bakery.
00:33:00I got the focaccia.
00:33:01The woman behind the counter, who had seen me four times in the past year, always with Vita and had
00:33:06probably wondered, asked where my friend was.
00:33:09I said, working.
00:33:11The woman smiled.
00:33:12I smiled back.
00:33:13I walked back to Vita's house in the early afternoon light with a paper bag warm against my chest.
00:33:18And I thought about the fact that I had a key.
00:33:21Vita had given me one in February.
00:33:22A quiet thing.
00:33:24No announcement.
00:33:25Just a small brass key on a small ring that she had set on the entryway console one Sunday and
00:33:30said,
00:33:30In case you ever come over and I am not back from a run, do not stand on the steps.
00:33:34And I thought about the fact that I had never used it, because Carmen had always been the reason I
00:33:39came over.
00:33:40And Carmen had always been the one to ring the bell.
00:33:42I let myself in.
00:33:43The house was empty.
00:33:45Vita was at her meeting.
00:33:46The folder of photographs was no longer on the entryway console at some point in the last day she had
00:33:51moved them somewhere I would not see them.
00:33:53Without asking me.
00:33:54Without announcing it.
00:33:56The way she did everything.
00:33:57I did not know where they were.
00:33:59I did not need to know.
00:34:00I put the focaccia on the counter.
00:34:02I made myself a cup of tea.
00:34:04There was a tin of jasmine green on the second shelf.
00:34:06The one she had been reaching for yesterday morning.
00:34:08And I went into the living room.
00:34:09And I sat on the couch with the book she had on the coffee table.
00:34:12I read for two hours.
00:34:14Vita came home at four.
00:34:16She came in through the back door because she had walked from the bus stop the way she always did
00:34:20when the weather was good.
00:34:21And she set her bag down on the kitchen island and took off her shoes and said, in her low
00:34:25voice,
00:34:26You are still here.
00:34:27I said,
00:34:28Where else would I be?
00:34:30She said,
00:34:30Anywhere.
00:34:31I said,
00:34:32I told you I would be here.
00:34:33She said,
00:34:34You told me a lot of things in the last day.
00:34:36I set the book down.
00:34:38I looked at her across the open archway between the living room and the kitchen.
00:34:42I said,
00:34:42Vita,
00:34:43Come in here.
00:34:44She came in.
00:34:45She did not sit on the couch with me.
00:34:46She sat in the armchair across from it.
00:34:48The professional distance, again, the careful arrangement of furniture between us,
00:34:53which I was beginning to understand as the architecture of her patience rather than her reluctance.
00:34:57I said,
00:34:58I am going to be here for a few weeks.
00:35:00I called my mother on the way back from the bakery.
00:35:03She is going to come down on Saturday and help me move my things out of the apartment.
00:35:07She has a friend with a truck.
00:35:09Carmen has agreed in writing,
00:35:10I have it in an email to be out of the apartment when we come,
00:35:13and to leave her key on the counter,
00:35:15and to not contact me for 30 days.
00:35:17I am going to find a sublet by the end of the month.
00:35:20I am going to keep my job.
00:35:21I am going to see my therapist on Thursday at 6.
00:35:24I have a list.
00:35:25She said,
00:35:26You have a list.
00:35:28I said,
00:35:28I have always had a list.
00:35:30I used the four hours I slept yesterday afternoon while you were working at the kitchen table to start a
00:35:35list.
00:35:35I am that kind of person.
00:35:37She said,
00:35:37I know what kind of person you are.
00:35:39I said,
00:35:40I am telling you my plan because I want you to know that I am not collapsing in your guest
00:35:44room.
00:35:44I am working a plan.
00:35:46The plan happens to be located in your house for the next few weeks because your house is the place
00:35:50I trust to do it from,
00:35:52and I do not have anywhere else that is,
00:35:54and I had to stop,
00:35:55here,
00:35:55because the next word was going to be safer.
00:35:58And safer was a word I did not want to use carelessly that is mine.
00:36:02She said,
00:36:02This house is yours for as long as you need it.
00:36:04I said,
00:36:05I know.
00:36:06I said,
00:36:07And I want to be very clear with you about something.
00:36:10She said,
00:36:11Yes.
00:36:11I said,
00:36:12I am not staying here because of you.
00:36:14I am staying here because of me.
00:36:16The fact that you are also in this house is,
00:36:18and here I had to stop again,
00:36:19because I was already in the territory of the conversation we had said we were not going to have today
00:36:24relevant.
00:36:25But it is not the reason.
00:36:26The reason is that I need a kitchen and a garden and a guest room and a person who is
00:36:31not going to ask me questions until I am ready to answer them,
00:36:33and you happen to be the version of all of those things that I trusted most in the world.
00:36:38She said,
00:36:38Lynn.
00:36:39I said,
00:36:40I am not finished.
00:36:41She said,
00:36:42I know.
00:36:43I was just saying your name.
00:36:44I said,
00:36:45Oh.
00:36:46She said,
00:36:47Keep going.
00:36:48I said,
00:36:48I am also telling you this because I want you to know that I am not going to do anything
00:36:52before I am ready.
00:36:53Not because I am being careful with you.
00:36:55Because I am being careful with me.
00:36:57The first time I do something with you that is not something I would have done six months ago,
00:37:01I want to know for certain that it is something I would also have done six months ago if six
00:37:06months ago had been a different shape.
00:37:08Do you understand what I am saying?
00:37:09She said,
00:37:10Yes.
00:37:11I said,
00:37:12Say it back.
00:37:12She said,
00:37:13You are saying that you do not want to be the person who falls into the arms of the next
00:37:17available kindness because the previous arms turned out to be a lie.
00:37:20You are saying that whatever happens between us has to happen because you choose it on its own terms,
00:37:25not because I am here and Carmen is not.
00:37:27I said,
00:37:28Yes.
00:37:29She said,
00:37:29I have been saying the same thing to myself for 36 hours.
00:37:33I said,
00:37:33I know you have.
00:37:34She said,
00:37:36I am glad you are saying it out loud.
00:37:37It is easier to hold to a position when two of you are holding to it.
00:37:41I said,
00:37:42That is the most Vita sentence you have said to me yet.
00:37:45She almost smiled.
00:37:46She said,
00:37:47I have more.
00:37:48I said,
00:37:49Tell me one.
00:37:49She said,
00:37:51The focaccia is better warmed up.
00:37:52I am going to put it in the oven for 10 minutes.
00:37:55You are going to come into the kitchen and keep me company while I do the rest of dinner.
00:37:58And we are going to have an evening that is just an evening in which two people who have known
00:38:03each other for a year and a half are going to eat a meal together and talk about a book.
00:38:07One of them just read and not say a single thing about anything that has happened in the last 72
00:38:12hours.
00:38:13Is that an acceptable arrangement?
00:38:15I said,
00:38:16Yes.
00:38:17She said,
00:38:18Good.
00:38:19She got up.
00:38:20She went into the kitchen.
00:38:21I followed.
00:38:22We had the evening she had described.
00:38:25The focaccia was good.
00:38:26The lemon thing turned out to be a chicken with preserved lemons and olives, the kind of dish that takes
00:38:31attention but not effort, which I was beginning to understand was Vita's whole approach to everything.
00:38:36We ate at the kitchen table.
00:38:38We talked about the book.
00:38:39It was a novel about an Italian widow, which Vita had picked up because the writer was someone her mother
00:38:44had known 40 years ago, and which I had picked up because it had been on the coffee table and
00:38:49we did not talk about Carmen, and we did not talk about the photographs, and we did not talk about
00:38:53the robe.
00:38:54We did not have to.
00:38:55The not talking was its own conversation.
00:38:57The way two people sit at a table when they have already decided that a great many things are true
00:39:02and are waiting only for the right moment to act on those truths is a particular kind of sitting.
00:39:08It has its own weather.
00:39:09After dinner, she put on a record.
00:39:11She had a real record player, because of course she did, and she put on something instrumental that I did
00:39:16not recognize, and we did the dishes together, and she washed and I dried because that was the arrangement in
00:39:21this kitchen, and we had had it before.
00:39:23On Sundays, when Carmen was at her yoga retreats that had been hotels, I dried a plate.
00:39:29I handed it back to her to put away.
00:39:31I did not know which cabinet and our hands brushed.
00:39:33It was the smallest possible contact, a second, less.
00:39:37Neither of us said anything.
00:39:38I dried the next plate.
00:39:40I handed it back.
00:39:41Her hand was already there.
00:39:43She took it.
00:39:44She put it away.
00:39:45The third plate.
00:39:46The fourth.
00:39:47Her hand.
00:39:47My hand.
00:39:48The brush.
00:39:49The not saying.
00:39:50By the end of the dishes, my pulse was in my throat in a way I had not felt in
00:39:5411 months, which was the same length of time I now understood, that I had been refusing to feel it.
00:40:00Vita turned off the water.
00:40:02She dried her hands on the towel.
00:40:04She turned to face me.
00:40:05She said, I am going to bed early.
00:40:07I have an early meeting tomorrow.
00:40:09The actual one, not the one I moved.
00:40:11I said,
00:40:13Okay.
00:40:13She said,
00:40:15Good night, Lynn.
00:40:16I said,
00:40:17Good night.
00:40:17She did not reach for me.
00:40:19She did not come closer.
00:40:20She passed me on the way to the stairs, and she did not even brush my arm, which was the
00:40:25most pointed thing she could have done given how thoroughly we had brushed hands for the last 15 minutes, and
00:40:30the not doing it was the loudest thing she had said to me all day.
00:40:33I went to the guest room.
00:40:35I lay on the bed.
00:40:36I stared at the ceiling.
00:40:38I thought about her hand.
00:40:39I thought about the slope of skin the morning before.
00:40:41I thought about her saying,
00:40:43We have time,
00:40:44in that low voice that was the voice she used when she was being entirely honest and not caring whether
00:40:49the honesty was convenient.
00:40:50I went to sleep.
00:40:52Two weeks passed.
00:40:53I will not narrate the two weeks in detail because the two weeks did the work that two weeks do.
00:40:57I moved my things out of the apartment on a Saturday.
00:41:00My mother came.
00:41:01My mother hugged Vita for a very long time at the front door of the house when she dropped me
00:41:05back off, and Vita stood inside the hug with the patience of a person who was being thanked for something
00:41:10she did not believe required thanks.
00:41:17I found a sublet, a studio 12 blocks away, owned by a friend of Vita's friend, a woman who taught
00:41:27at the conservatory, and was on tour through August.
00:41:30The sublet started in three weeks.
00:41:32Until then, I was at Vita's.
00:41:34Carmen did not contact me.
00:41:36Once.
00:41:37Her mother contacted me.
00:41:38I did not respond.
00:41:40Carmen's mother contacted Vita.
00:41:41Vita responded with a single sentence that I did not see and Vita did not show me, and the contact
00:41:46stopped.
00:41:47I went to my therapist on Thursday.
00:41:49I went again the next Thursday.
00:41:51The first session, I cried for 45 minutes.
00:41:54The second session, I did not cry at all.
00:41:56My therapist, who had been seeing me for three years and had met Carmen twice and had once said, very
00:42:02carefully, that she found Carmen's relationship to direct questions interesting, did not say I told you so.
00:42:08She did say, very gently, that the speed of my recovery was not a sign of suppression, but a sign
00:42:14that I had been grieving the relationship for longer than I had been admitting to myself.
00:42:17I told her about Vita.
00:42:19I did not tell her everything.
00:42:21I told her enough.
00:42:22She said, is Vita being careful with you?
00:42:25I said, Vita is being so careful with me that I am beginning to think she is in love with
00:42:29me.
00:42:30My therapist said, from everything you have told me about Vita over the last three years, and you have told
00:42:35me a great deal more about Vita over the last three years than you realized, I would say that the
00:42:40carefulness is exactly proportional.
00:42:42I said, you are saying she is in love with me.
00:42:45She said, I am saying that you have been describing a woman who has been arranging her life around your
00:42:50presence for a long time.
00:42:52Whether that constitutes love is a question for her.
00:42:55Whether it is something you want to receive is a question for you.
00:42:57The carefulness suggests that she knows the difference between those two questions and is not going to mix them up.
00:43:02That is rare.
00:43:03That is also why I would gently say, you have spent a lot of your therapy hour today talking about
00:43:09her instead of about Carmen.
00:43:11I said, hmm.
00:43:12My therapist said, we have 10 minutes.
00:43:14Use them however you want.
00:43:16I used them on Vita.
00:43:17I went home and the word home, when I used it in my head walking back from the therapist's office,
00:43:23meant Vita's house, and I did not correct the word because correcting it would have been a lie.
00:43:27I sat in the kitchen and waited for her to come back from work.
00:43:29She came in at 6.30.
00:43:31She set her bag down.
00:43:33She saw my face.
00:43:34She said, therapy day.
00:43:36I said, yes.
00:43:38She said, hard one.
00:43:39I said, clarifying one.
00:43:42She said, different thing.
00:43:44I said, I want to take you to dinner.
00:43:46She said, you take me to dinner all the time.
00:43:49I said, this time I want to take you to dinner.
00:43:51She held very still.
00:43:53She said, Lynn.
00:43:55I said, not tonight.
00:43:57Saturday.
00:43:57Saturday is two and a half weeks from when I called Carmen.
00:44:00I have moved my things.
00:44:02I have started the sublet paperwork.
00:44:04I have done two therapy sessions.
00:44:06I have a list and I am working the list and Saturday is the day on the list.
00:44:10She said, you put me on the list.
00:44:12I said, you have always been on the list.
00:44:15She looked at me for a long moment.
00:44:17The kitchen was warm.
00:44:18The evening light was coming through the window, the way evening light comes through
00:44:22a kitchen you have started thinking of as yours.
00:44:24She said, what kind of dinner?
00:44:26I said, the kind where I am not your sister-in-law's almost wife and you are not the older
00:44:31sister
00:44:31of the woman who lied to me.
00:44:33And we are two women who have known each other for a year and a half and have been carefully
00:44:37not having a particular conversation for almost as long.
00:44:40And we are going to sit at a table that is not in this house and drink wine and have
00:44:44the conversation we have been not having.
00:44:46She said, that is a very specific kind of dinner.
00:44:50I said, I told you I was a list person.
00:44:53The corner of her mouth moved.
00:44:54The way it had moved across that kitchen, at the breakfast table, the morning the robe
00:44:59slipped.
00:45:00The barely millimeter that had taught me to read her face in the first place.
00:45:03She said, Saturday.
00:45:05I said, Saturday.
00:45:07She said, where?
00:45:09I said, you pick.
00:45:10Somewhere you have wanted to go and have not gone because none of the people you would
00:45:13have gone with were the right person to go with.
00:45:16She said, there is a place.
00:45:18I said, then we are going there.
00:45:20Saturday came.
00:45:21I had nothing to wear.
00:45:23Everything I owned was either in storage or still being sorted in boxes in Vida's basement.
00:45:28And the things I had with me at the house were the soft, careful things you bring to
00:45:32a guest room sweaters, a pair of jeans, a t-shirt I had bought at the grocery store on
00:45:36a Tuesday because I had needed a clean one.
00:45:39None of them were for the kind of dinner I had asked for.
00:45:41I told Vida this at 3 in the afternoon while we were having coffee in the kitchen.
00:45:46She said, there is a dress in my closet that will fit you.
00:45:49I said, Vida.
00:45:50She said, it will.
00:45:52It is an old one.
00:45:53I have not worn it in years.
00:45:55It is the wrong color for me.
00:45:57It will be the right color for you.
00:45:59I said, how do you know it will fit?
00:46:01She said, Lynn, we have been in the same house for two and a half weeks.
00:46:05I have eyes.
00:46:06I said, you have been measuring me with your eyes.
00:46:09She said, I have been noticing you with my eyes.
00:46:13Measuring is an active thing.
00:46:15Noticing is what you do when a person is in your kitchen for two and a half weeks and
00:46:18you have been catching yourself looking at her since 11 months before you had any right
00:46:22to.
00:46:23I said, bring me the dress.
00:46:25She brought me the dress.
00:46:26It was deep green, the color of a fig leaf in late summer, the kind of green that has gold
00:46:31in it when the light hits it right.
00:46:33It had a high neck and long sleeves and it did, as she had said, fit.
00:46:37It fit the way a thing fits when someone with a very good eye has chosen it for you without
00:46:41telling you they were choosing it.
00:46:43I came down the stairs at seven in the dress and Vida was in the entryway in a charcoal suit
00:46:47and a white shirt with the top button open and the silver streaked hair was down for
00:46:51the first time I had ever seen it down outside the kitchen.
00:46:54And she looked at me for a long moment without saying anything.
00:46:57She said, eventually, the green works.
00:47:00I said, you knew it would.
00:47:02She said, I hoped.
00:47:04We went to the restaurant.
00:47:05It was a small place in the part of the city where there are no signs above the doors because
00:47:09the people who go there know which doors to walk through.
00:47:12Vida had not been there in years.
00:47:14The owner came out from the back when he saw her and embraced her without surprise.
00:47:18The way you embrace a person you have been waiting to see again.
00:47:21And he said something to her in Italian that I did not catch, but Vida laughed at, which
00:47:26was a sound I had heard before and had not heard often, and which I was beginning to
00:47:29collect the way I had once collected her millimeters.
00:47:32He sat us at a corner table, two candles.
00:47:35A bottle of wine arrived without us ordering it.
00:47:38Vida did not protest.
00:47:39She poured.
00:47:40She said, to Saturday.
00:47:42I said, to Saturday.
00:47:45We touched glasses.
00:47:46We talked for three hours.
00:47:48We talked about the year and a half, but from her side of it.
00:47:52She told me about the first dinner, the church architecture one, and what she had thought
00:47:56when she had heard me laugh.
00:47:57She told me about the Sunday in February with the pastries and what she had been hoping when
00:48:01she had invited me.
00:48:03She told me about a moment last August, at her mother's birthday, when I had reached
00:48:07across her to pick up a glass and the inside of my wrist had brushed her arm and she had
00:48:11spent the rest of the night unable to look directly at me, which I did not remember and
00:48:16now did.
00:48:16I told her about my side.
00:48:18I told her about the times I had driven home from her house and sat in the car in our
00:48:22parking
00:48:22lot for 15 minutes before going up to the apartment because I needed the gap between
00:48:27the version of me that had been at her kitchen table and the version of me that was about
00:48:31to walk through the door.
00:48:32To Carmen.
00:48:33I told her about the day in March, six weeks before the wedding, when I had been trying
00:48:37on the dress for the third fitting and the seamstress had asked me what I was thinking
00:48:41about and I had been thinking about Vida's hands and had said, Carmen, with such automatic
00:48:46ease that the lie had not even registered as a lie until I was driving home.
00:48:50She said, Lynn.
00:48:52I said, I know.
00:48:53She said, why did you not say anything?
00:48:56I said, to you or to her?
00:48:59She said, either.
00:49:00I said, to her, because I was supposed to be marrying her and I thought what I was feeling
00:49:05was the normal pre-wedding terror that everyone says you are supposed to feel.
00:49:09To you because you had never given me an opening and I would not have crossed the line first.
00:49:13She said, I would not have crossed the line first either.
00:49:17I said, I know.
00:49:18She said, so we would have stood on either side of it forever.
00:49:21I said, probably.
00:49:23She said, I am very angry at my sister tonight.
00:49:26I said, you are allowed to be.
00:49:28She said, she has hurt you in a way that is not survivable as a sister.
00:49:32I am not pretending I will not see her again.
00:49:35We have a mother.
00:49:36We have a holiday calendar.
00:49:38But what she did to you is not something I will recover the same Carmen from.
00:49:41I said, I am not asking you to.
00:49:44She said, I know.
00:49:45I am telling you anyway.
00:49:47We finished the bottle.
00:49:48The owner brought a second one.
00:49:50Vida shook her head.
00:49:51He left it anyway.
00:49:52We did not open it.
00:49:53She said, eventually, Lynn.
00:49:55I said, yes.
00:49:57She said, I am not going to do anything tonight that we cannot undo.
00:50:01I said, I know.
00:50:02She said, I am going to take you home.
00:50:05I said, who's home?
00:50:06She said, mine.
00:50:08Where you have been living.
00:50:10Which is what I meant.
00:50:11I said, just checking.
00:50:13She said, I am taking you home.
00:50:15And we are going to walk in the door.
00:50:17And I am going to say goodnight to you at the bottom of the stairs the way I have said
00:50:20goodnight to you for 15 nights.
00:50:22And then tomorrow morning, I am going to come down to the kitchen.
00:50:25And you are going to be there making coffee.
00:50:27And we are going to have breakfast.
00:50:28And after breakfast, I am going to ask you a question I have been not asking for 11 months.
00:50:33And you are going to answer it however you answer it.
00:50:36And we are going to live with the answer.
00:50:38I said, tomorrow morning.
00:50:40She said, tomorrow morning.
00:50:43With sleep.
00:50:44With a clear head.
00:50:45With the wine out of both of us.
00:50:47With the dinner already a memory rather than a present pressure.
00:50:50Tomorrow morning.
00:50:52I said, you are infuriating.
00:50:54She said, I know.
00:50:55I said, I love you for it.
00:50:57The word landed on the table between us.
00:50:59I had not planned it.
00:51:00I had not been going to say it tonight.
00:51:02It had come out the way honest things come out when you are tired and full of wine and
00:51:06sitting across from the person you have been not saying it to for 11 months.
00:51:10Vida did not flinch.
00:51:12She said, tomorrow morning.
00:51:14With the wine out of both of us.
00:51:16You will say it then or you will not.
00:51:18And I will hear it then or I will not.
00:51:20Tonight it does not count.
00:51:22Tonight you are allowed to say anything.
00:51:24But it does not count until tomorrow.
00:51:26I said, you are not going to let me get away with anything.
00:51:30She said, I am not going to let you get away with the version of love that gets you into
00:51:34trouble.
00:51:35I am going to wait for the version that does not.
00:51:37I said, take me home.
00:51:39She paid.
00:51:40She helped me into my coat.
00:51:42The owner kissed her on both cheeks and looked at me and said something to her in Italian
00:51:46that made her laugh again.
00:51:47We went out into the street.
00:51:49The night was cool.
00:51:50She did not take my hand.
00:51:51She walked me to the car.
00:51:53She opened the door.
00:51:54She closed it.
00:51:55We drove home in silence with the radio on low and the streetlights moving across her
00:52:00face.
00:52:00In the entryway, she took my coat.
00:52:02She hung it next to hers.
00:52:04She did not turn the lights on past the small one in the hall.
00:52:07She said, good night, Lynn.
00:52:08I said, good night, Vida.
00:52:11She started up the stairs.
00:52:12I said, Vida.
00:52:14She turned.
00:52:15Halfway up.
00:52:16I said, the robe.
00:52:17She held very still.
00:52:19I said, that morning, when it slipped.
00:52:22And you did not fix it.
00:52:23Why?
00:52:24She looked at me down the stairs in the half-light.
00:52:26She said, because for the first time in 11 months, you looked at me.
00:52:30And I thought, if I fix the robe, she will know that I noticed she looked.
00:52:35And if I do not fix the robe, she will know that I noticed she looked and that I do
00:52:40not
00:52:40regret it.
00:52:40And I had spent 11 months making sure you never knew.
00:52:43And I was tired of the 11 months.
00:52:45And your sister had broken your heart 14 hours earlier.
00:52:48And I thought, she should know, even if nothing happens.
00:52:52Even if she walks out of this kitchen and never comes back, she should know that someone
00:52:56in this house has been seeing her this whole time.
00:52:59I said, Vida.
00:53:01She said, tomorrow morning, Lynn.
00:53:02She went up the stairs.
00:53:04I went into the guest room.
00:53:05I took off the green dress.
00:53:07I hung it carefully because it was hers.
00:53:09I lay down.
00:53:10I did not sleep for a long time.
00:53:13When I slept, I slept all the way through.
00:53:15I came down at 7.
00:53:16She was in the kitchen.
00:53:18She was in jeans and a soft white shirt.
00:53:20No robe.
00:53:21The robe was gone.
00:53:22The robe had been a one-time event and had served its one-time purpose.
00:53:25And her hair was up in the loose knot.
00:53:27And she was making coffee.
00:53:28She turned when she heard me on the stairs.
00:53:31She said, good morning.
00:53:33I said, good morning.
00:53:35She said, how did you sleep?
00:53:37I said, eventually.
00:53:38Well.
00:53:39She said, coffee.
00:53:41I said, yes.
00:53:42She poured.
00:53:43She brought it to the table.
00:53:45She sat across from me.
00:53:46She said, Lynn.
00:53:48I said, yes.
00:53:50She said, this is the question I have been not asking for 11 months.
00:53:54I said, okay.
00:53:56She said, will you let me see you?
00:53:58Not as my sister's almost wife.
00:54:00Not as the woman I have been being careful with for two and a half weeks.
00:54:03As you.
00:54:04As a person, I would like to know on the terms that we make for ourselves,
00:54:08which will be careful terms and slow terms,
00:54:10and terms that we both understand are going to involve a great many people in our families
00:54:14being a great many things about it for a long time.
00:54:16Will you let me see you on those terms?
00:54:19I said, yes.
00:54:20She said, you are sure.
00:54:22I said, I have been sure for longer than I have been allowed to be.
00:54:26She said, last night at dinner, you said something.
00:54:29I said, I know what I said.
00:54:31She said, do you mean it in the morning?
00:54:33I said, I mean it more in the morning.
00:54:36She held very still.
00:54:37Her hands were around the cup.
00:54:39The morning light was coming through the kitchen window
00:54:41the way it had come through 15 mornings before.
00:54:44The fig tree was visible through the glass.
00:54:46The radiator in the hall clicked.
00:54:48She said, Lynn.
00:54:50I said, yes.
00:54:52She said, I have been in love with you since the church architecture dinner.
00:54:56I have been not saying it for 11 months and 20 days.
00:54:59I am going to say it now, and you do not have to do anything with it.
00:55:03You can take it and hold it and decide later.
00:55:06You do not have to say it back this morning.
00:55:08You said it last night, and that is enough for me to live on for as long as you need.
00:55:12I said, I want to say it back this morning.
00:55:14She said, then say it.
00:55:16I said, I love you, Vida.
00:55:18I have loved you for a long time.
00:55:20I did not know how to know that I loved you while I was also planning a wedding to your
00:55:24sister, and I am sorry that the way I came to know it cost everyone what it cost, and
00:55:28I am here, and I am going to be here, and I am going to keep being here in whatever
00:55:33shape
00:55:33this turns out to be, and I want you to know it in the morning, with the whine out of
00:55:37both
00:55:37of us the way you asked.
00:55:38She closed her eyes for a second.
00:55:41She opened them.
00:55:42She reached across the table.
00:55:44She put her hand on mine, palm down on top of mine, the way she had set her hand near
00:55:49mine the first morning, except this time she was not leaving the space between.
00:55:53This time she was closing it.
00:55:55She said, okay, she said, slowly.
00:55:59She said, we have time.
00:56:01I turned my hand over under hers.
00:56:04Palm up.
00:56:05Our fingers laced.
00:56:06It was the first deliberate touch we had ever had, and it was the smallest possible
00:56:10one, and it was the most enormous thing that had happened in that kitchen in 11 months and
00:56:1520 days.
00:56:15We sat like that for a long time.
00:56:17The coffee got cold.
00:56:19Eventually, she said, I am going to make us breakfast.
00:56:22I said, okay.
00:56:23She said, you are going to keep holding my hand, or you are going to let go, and either
00:56:28is fine, but I would like to know which.
00:56:30I said, I am going to keep holding it.
00:56:33She said, then I am going to make breakfast one-handed.
00:56:37I said, you can let go to make breakfast.
00:56:40She said, I would rather not.
00:56:42I said, okay.
00:56:43She got up.
00:56:44I got up with her, our hands still joined, and we moved together to the counter.
00:56:49She cracked eggs with one hand.
00:56:50I did not help, because helping would have required letting go, and letting go was not
00:56:55what either of us was doing this morning.
00:56:57She made breakfast one-handed.
00:56:59She was very good at it.
00:57:00She had clearly been practicing for this exact morning her entire life without knowing it.
00:57:05We ate at the table with our hands joined between the plates.
00:57:08After breakfast, we went out to the bench in the garden.
00:57:11We sat.
00:57:12The fig tree dropped a leaf.
00:57:14Another.
00:57:15The morning light moved across the brick.
00:57:17I said, what now?
00:57:19Vita said, now we keep going.
00:57:21Slowly.
00:57:22We keep being careful.
00:57:24We tell your mother first, in a few weeks, when it will not be a thing.
00:57:28We tell my mother eventually, when I am ready to tell her, and we let her be however she
00:57:33is going to be about it, which is going to be complicated.
00:57:36We let Carmen find out from one of them, because we are not going to be the ones to tell
00:57:40her.
00:57:40We move you into your sublet at the end of the month, and we do not pretend you live
00:57:44here, even though you sort of will.
00:57:46We have dinners.
00:57:47We have Saturdays.
00:57:48We have a great deal of time, which we are not going to waste, and which we are also not
00:57:53going to rush.
00:57:54I said, that sounds like a list.
00:57:57She said, I have been making it for 11 months and 20 days.
00:58:01I said, of course you have.
00:58:03She said, Lynn.
00:58:04I said, yes.
00:58:06She said, I am very glad you came down the stairs that morning.
00:58:10I said, I am very glad you did not fix the robe.
00:58:13She said, I will not fix it next time either.
00:58:16I said, I am holding you to that.
00:58:18She kissed me then, the first time, in the garden, in the morning light, with the fig
00:58:24tree above us, and our hands still joined on the bench between us.
00:58:27It was patient, and it was earned, and it was nothing like the kiss of a person who was
00:58:31trying to take advantage of a gap.
00:58:32It was the kiss of a person who had waited 11 months and 20 days, and was finally doing
00:58:37the small, honest thing she had been not doing, in the way she did everything exactly,
00:58:43unhurriedly, without theater.
00:58:44When she pulled back, she did not go far.
00:58:47She said, good morning.
00:58:49I said, good morning.
00:58:50She said, I love you.
00:58:52I said, I love you.
00:58:54She said, is that the version of it you wanted to hear in the morning?
00:58:58I said, yes.
00:59:00She said, good.
00:59:01We sat in the garden for another hour.
00:59:04We did not talk much.
00:59:05There was not much to talk about, in the immediate moment, because the immediate moment had said
00:59:10everything it needed to say.
00:59:11Eventually, we went inside.
00:59:14Eventually, the day became a day.
00:59:15Eventually, the next day became the next day.
00:59:18And the day after that became the day after that.
00:59:20And the weeks turned into months in the way they do when you are not counting them anymore
00:59:24because you have stopped being afraid of running out.
00:59:26I moved into the sublet at the end of the month, the way the list had said.
00:59:30I stayed there for four months.
00:59:32At the end of the four months, when the conservatory teacher came home from her tour, I did not
00:59:37look for another sublet.
00:59:38I moved my things, in three slow, careful trips with my mother and a friend, into the
00:59:43brick row house on the quiet street.
00:59:45I did not move into the guest room.
00:59:46The guest room became the guest room again.
00:59:48The room down the hall, the one with the silver-streaked woman in it, became the room I lived in.
00:59:54I am writing this from that kitchen.
00:59:56The fig tree is still there.
00:59:57The mug I always use is on the second shelf, where it has been since the first morning.
01:00:02The robe a different robe, but the same idea is upstairs in the closet.
01:00:06And Vida wears it in the morning when she wants to.
01:00:08And she does not always tie it tightly.
01:00:10And I do not always look away.
01:00:12And she does not always fix it.
01:00:14And we have agreed that this is the small, private weather of our kitchen, which belongs to
01:00:18us and to no one else, and which we have built one careful, unhurried morning at a time.
01:00:23Carmen is fine, I am told.
01:00:25We do not see each other.
01:00:26The holidays are managed.
01:00:28Her mother and I have had one conversation, three Christmases ago, that was hard and necessary
01:00:33and is now behind us.
01:00:35Vida's mother loves me, which I had not expected and have come to receive.
01:00:39The thing I think about most, when I think about that first morning, is not the robe.
01:00:44It is the question Vida did not ask.
01:00:46It is the way she sat across from me with her hands around her coffee cup and waited for
01:00:50me to know what I needed before she gave it to me.
01:00:52It is the way she did not perform comfort.
01:00:55It is the way she said, you can do that here, and meant it without conditions and held it
01:00:59without calling it holding.
01:01:01The robe was the small, visible thing.
01:01:03The not asking was the actual love.
01:01:05I have learned in the years since that those two things are always the shape of it.
01:01:10The visible thing that lets you finally see the person and the invisible thing that has
01:01:14been there the whole time, holding you, while you were not yet ready to look.
01:01:18She caught me looking that morning.
01:01:20She did not fix it.
01:01:22Eleven months and twenty days of not saying ended in a kitchen on a Monday at seven in
01:01:25the morning because a silk robe slipped and a woman did not fix it.
01:01:28And I let myself look.
01:01:30And she let me.
01:01:31And that was the beginning.
01:01:32Everything else has been since.
01:01:34And explain to my word.
01:01:34I don't have almost nothing about one else.
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