00:00With that person, like we have made the decision and then we reach a point where we don't feel the
00:05need, then?
00:06Then that's life, that's life.
00:09Then still, like it should be with that person.
00:12You see, a natural human compassion must still exist, but the relationship, the nature of the relationship must evolve now.
00:20So while being with that person, we can still be...
00:23Yes, I mean, it's not as if it's a use and throw kind of situation where you used someone for
00:30your growth and once you have outgrown that person, then you decide to kick him away.
00:35Not that thing, but the nature of association should definitely mirror the reality.
00:43You were one person when let's say the relationship started and now you are another person and this change must
00:49reflect in the nature of the relationship.
00:52You cannot say because I used to behave in this way with this person five years back.
00:58So I'll continue to hold the same practice, the same mode, the same ritual, the same identity, the same mask.
01:05Even after I have graduated to being somebody else, there's no need to do that.
01:10If you have evolved, improved, let that show in the relationship.
01:14So we can be a different person in the same relationship.
01:17Yes, you have to be. That's the demand of truth.
01:19Otherwise, you are...
01:21Not evolving.
01:22We are deceiving not just yourself but even the other.
01:26We say we don't want to hurt the other.
01:29Therefore, we must act like the person we were in the past.
01:33But if you don't display who you really are, aren't you deceiving this very person you are aiming not to
01:40hurt?
01:40Yes.
01:42And we have to anyway keep evolving.
01:45So...
01:45And therefore, the relationship must have enough space for truth.
01:50If the two of you have to lie to each other, then the relationship must have no use.
01:56Yes.
01:56Thank you so much.
01:57You're welcome.
01:58Can you...
01:59Yes.
02:01Thank you very much.
02:09Thank you very much.
02:10Thank you very much.
02:11Thank you very much.
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