00:01作词 作曲 李宗盛
00:58作曲 李宗盛
01:00作曲 李宗盛
01:36作曲 李宗盛
01:40作曲 李宗盛
01:47作曲 李宗盛
01:54作曲 李宗盛
01:56刘老师 按你说的
01:58我心平气和和我太太谈了
02:00我没有提任何要求
02:04她倒是跟我多聊了几次
02:05这是一个好的开始啊
02:07其实你们俩现在最要注意的
02:10就是千万不要伤害到孩子的情绪
02:12对对对对
02:13人一旦觉得自己会受到威胁
02:15结果像刺猬一样开始保护自己
02:20所以你一定要安抚好你前妻的情绪
02:21然后再跟他谈孩子的事情
02:23好的 好的 好的 好的
02:24谢谢
02:26不客气
02:28那下回再见 吴主任
02:29再见
02:43谢谢
02:45忙生
02:45单跳停
02:53Hello, my brother.
02:54Hi, my brother.
02:55I got a phone call.
02:56He said he would like to make a video.
03:01Okay, I'll talk to you tomorrow.
03:03Okay, I'll talk to you tomorrow.
03:05Bye-bye.
03:06Bye-bye.
03:27Bye-bye.
03:29Hi, my brother.
03:31Hi, my brother.
03:32Hi, my brother.
03:32My brother, I'm filming the show.
03:34Really?
03:36You told me how to do it?
03:38I'm sorry for my brother.
03:40I'm sorry.
03:41If you say to him, he can't believe it.
03:43I'll talk to you tomorrow.
03:44I'll talk to you tomorrow.
03:46We need to experience the show.
03:48He'll be able to help us.
03:49Is that true?
03:51He's going to be taught at you?
03:53He's got a problem.
03:54What's the problem?
03:55You're going to talk to me.
03:56You're going to talk to me.
03:57I'm going to get you out of my mind.
03:58You're going to get me.
04:00You're going to get me.
04:03I'm going to get you.
04:05I'll do it.
04:08I'll do it.
04:08I'll do it.
04:09I'll do it.
04:09Bye-bye.
04:11Okay, bye-bye.
04:12Bye-bye.
04:13Bye-bye.
04:16Okay, bye-bye.
04:37Guerrero.
04:38No, no.
04:39I'm not.
04:39You don't have to get me.
04:41No, I don't want to get me.
04:42No, I don't want to get me.
04:43You don't want to get me.
04:43You're not going to get me.
04:46I want to get you.
04:48But I don't want to use this way.
04:49What's wrong?
04:53I don't know what you mean.
04:55You don't need to use this way to forgive me.
04:58I think if I get married like this,
05:01I don't have to be able to get married.
05:05You don't want to get married.
05:08You don't want to get married.
05:09I don't want to get married.
05:12I don't want to get married.
05:13We'll get married.
05:15What's wrong with me?
05:18What's wrong with me?
05:19I'm a girl.
05:20I'm a girl.
05:20You're a girl.
05:24And,婚式
05:25is a big deal. The parents don't
05:27know what to do. We can't make
05:28a big deal. No.
05:31No.
05:33I'm so proud of you.
05:33I'm sure you should know.
05:34I'm not joking.
05:36I'm not joking.
05:36I'm joking.
05:36I'm joking.
05:37You're listening to me.
05:40I can share your love with you.
05:43It's my life's joy.
05:46Really?
05:49But,
05:50you're not so rude to me.
05:57You're a girl.
05:58I'm a friend.
05:59Howdy.
06:00We'll go back.
06:00Put your hands on the phone.
06:01What do you mean?
06:04You're so rude to me,
06:05Juliet.
06:06You're not...
06:07You haven't thought about me?
06:10Yes.
06:11I don't think so.
06:13You're right.
06:15I am.
06:18I don't know.
06:19I don't know,
06:20Don't worry about it.
06:21Are you kidding me?
06:23Don't worry about it.
06:24Don't worry about it.
06:24Come back.
06:26I want to give you two choices.
06:28Don't you want to marry me?
06:29Don't you want me to marry me?
06:42I'll ask you once again.
06:47Do you really think about it?
06:50What are you going to do?
06:54Okay.
06:55Let's get married.
07:02I'm sorry.
07:04Why are you going to marry me?
07:06Let's get married.
07:07Let's get married.
07:08Let's go.
07:09Let's get married.
07:09Let's get married.
07:10Let's go.
07:10Let's go.
07:10Let's go.
07:28Let's go.
07:29等我了
07:36有什么可看的呢
07:37哎 看见没
07:45哦 这说明什么
07:51我觉得很有讲究的
07:54你比方说哎 张总发泡圈
07:55哎 我就回去点一个赞
07:57嗯 我为什么不评论呢 为什么呢 因为评论 他万一不回我 我就很舍面 但是点赞 不好意思 你回复不了我一个点赞 对不对 但是所有认识我和张总共同的朋友 大家就知道 哦 原来贾珍跟张总是这种可以互相点赞的关系 说明他们是很熟的 对吧
08:17我跟你说 还有一种情况 还有一种情况呢 就比方说 张总发一条朋友圈 哎 吕总上给他评论了 但是好长时间过去了 张总也没回复他 我就在这儿等着 我看他评论完了一直不回复 这是我评论一条给张总 张总回复我吧 哇 那吕总能看到啊 他一感觉说 哎呦 看来贾珍跟张总的关系很不错啊 他们是会互相评论和互动的
08:46那下次我再找吕总谈事的时候 不就容易很多了吗没有道理是不是啊
08:53我最近一直在研究这个事
08:54我跟你说啊 朋友圈 朋友圈是个什么地方 绝对不仅仅是那种 晒晒美食 晒晒漂亮衣服 晒晒包的地方对于我们生意人来说 朋友圈
09:07那就是修我厂
09:14你以后随时要带个录音笔啊 我说这些话的时候 你都得给我记下来 我将来这出书的时候用得着吗嗯那一开始呢
09:33就是把工作室搬到这个古镇里面
09:34是因为 就是想让我的来访者可以把城市的那个喧嚣全部都忘记找到这个古镇的宁静让他们可以先放下所有对生活的一些焦躁才能进入我的咨询室好
09:53停
09:56刘霞啊两个问题啊首先
09:57你太紧张了啊完全放松下来啊
10:00放松下来完全放松下来放松啊
10:07放松下来第二就是你现在的情绪吧太低沉了你再饱满一点
10:08好不好再饱满一点哎哎好
10:11辛苦了来来来
10:12再来一遍啊不留了
10:13咱们再来一遍好
10:13来 再来一遍啊再来一遍大家互员员好再来一遍啊
10:23来
10:41准备准备准备准备准备准备那我决定把工作室放在古镇就是因为想让我的来访者都可以再踏进古镇的这一瞬间忘记城市里的喧嚣在古镇可以享受到片刻的安静停
10:43停 停别吃螺丝我吃螺丝了吗不是
10:50反正再来一遍再来一遍不太顺反正再来一遍吧我吃螺丝了吗不是
10:57再来一遍别吃螺丝想好你要说什么来
11:05准备快点开机3
11:062 1 开始
11:15我当时之所以想把工作室放在一个古镇里呢就是希望所有的来访者可以忘记城市里的喧嚣刘霞你太快了
11:30你知道吗你要这么快的话你配合不了机器我机器运力感完全就没有了知道吗你怎么还那么多运力啊你怎么演什么导演你坐下这个就是
11:38怎么是运力感呀坐那个行吧就这样吧看见签了一条素材也可以用来吧
11:40专程专程好的
12:00大家专程走楼上走楼上
12:01我还有点瘦的行
12:02没事 你先忙去有时给我发微信啊行
12:08好嘞拜拜我走了走了走了
12:28拜拜拜拜拜拜走走走走走走走大家好这里呢就是我的工作室了那我平时的生活起居和来访者
12:58作为这个咨询呢都是在这里进行的台阶上面呢就是我平时的一个工作的区域这份表格呀就是来访者初次来到这里的时候会填写的一些表格上面有他的基本资料还有一些基本的情况那这个沙盘呢也是让来访者可以在这里上面用这个沙盘的小人摆放不同的姿势让我了解来访者内心的真实想法也为之后我跟他做咨询包括跟他聊天的时候
13:26有更多的素材和了解他内心最基本的一个诉求吧还有那边做心理咨询师呢是需要经过非常多考核的把这些奖状挂出来呢也是为了可以让来访者看到这些奖状之后有更安心的一个感觉就是知道啊我们心理咨询师原来是有这么多培训这么多考核所以我在这里呢就会非常的安全
13:41还有放松那说到咨询呢就来到这个区域这个区域就是我平时和来访者进行一个咨询和聊天的一个地方那我们这里有一些小工具可以帮助自由联想甚至是催眠
13:50包括这个香薰啊也是可以帮助来访者进入一个更放松的一个状态干嘛呢
14:02干嘛呢什么情况啊亲场能不能宽住啊不好意思啊有没有人亲人啊不好意思啊我今天在这里录节目要借用一下客厅哦
14:03录节目啊先 那你录吧不好意思啊
14:11那赶紧把人亲手抓紧时间了快来
14:12再来一条好的
14:13好的 好的那个 导演从哪里开始啊从头开始吧这根本没法捡全都忘了我再提醒一遍啊反正都宽住了好了
14:21对不起 导演来
14:29抓紧时间再来一条来吧快
14:30快 做个准备
14:30好 啊好
14:40啊好
14:40啊好
14:40啊啊
14:42啊听我妹说你是个编剧
14:43是吧啊啊
14:55啊刘霞是我妹妹亲妹啊自我介绍一下啊啊连景云电视台著名编导你手机一搜就能搜实事求是看没看过哦
14:57我没看过那个啊
14:58没看过啊
15:16没事反正那节目就是我做的还有这个节目呢咱们是帮个同行你看啊你是写电视剧的我们是播电视剧所以你这行我了解喜欢咒服夜书是吧不好意思啊打扰你休息了多包含啊多包含
15:17多包含没事 没事大哥
15:23你不用这么热情对了
15:27对了就应该叫大哥这一听多亲切啊
15:28你看
15:49刘霞是我妹妹以后你就是我弟弟了咱们都是一家人好不好弟弟啊你看咱们都是一家人了帮大哥一忙呗录一下录什么别紧张啊千万别紧张完全放松下来就当是你自己家一样千万别紧张
16:14啊不是这本来就是我家哈哈哈哈你不说我都胖了你就帮忙说说好话啊回头搁着你路串去好吧就这么定了不是你看你怎么这么勉腆小霞小霞等等等等小霞那个什么我素材不够你让你邻居点帮忙录一段你跟他交代一下说什么啊就这么定了啊帮忙忙啊
16:44来机器准备那个那你就帮个忙吧不是那我说什么呀就是随便说点生活上的琐碎的事比如说你觉得我是一个什么样的人跟我合作是什么样的感受之类的哎呀反正你就随便夸夸我你怎么夸我呢我之后就怎么答谢你不是我现在有一个问题想问问你啊我也没有上过电视
17:13我应该怎么说呀呃三二一开始我的作息和其他人并不一样我都是白天睡觉晚上工作所以很多时候会打扰到刘老师但刘老师从不介意醒了吗
17:26你在里面装睡啊刚才人在的时候哭了这么大声人走了就没事了对了有个事我要跟你说一下我每天都要做饭我有的时候四五点就起床了所以我下午可能就要用厨房
17:48要是我这没有来访者的话可以但如果我再给人做咨询的话我希望你可以在房间等我一下等你一下是等多久啊我这里最晚六点下班六点那你的意思是我从四点起床到六点我在屋里等两个小时啊我们当时合作协议签得非常清楚
18:07早上九点到下午六点这个客厅是属于我个人使用的身边的人如果遇到心理问题的话呢我一定会第一时间呢就去开导他去开解他因为我觉得这是一个合格的心理咨询师首先要具备的一个基本素养
18:35我有问题找他他从不收费他这个人可热情了呢那个刘老师你有时间吗现在干嘛我想找你按摩按摩上回是免费的这次我会付钱的但我不办卡了行想聊什么价位的都有什么价位那就要看你的症状了
19:03那就最便宜的吧我的症状很轻应该没那么难我自己啊我自己当然也会遇到一些心理状的问题了就比如说前阵子有人把我的录音放到网上但是那段录音不是一个完整的录音它是被人断章取义的当时网上就有很多的人攻击我是我这个不好那个不好是个没有良心的心理咨询师我看了之后也确实挺打破的
19:28但是后来呢我就告诉自己其实别人只管做好自己不要去管别人说些什么毕竟生活已经很苦了为什么不能给自己一个好心情她特别的阳光跟她住在同一个屋檐下我感到特别的幸运她就像清晨的第一里阳光满满的正能量
19:58哎呀你不怕长就喝来来来干了干了干了干了干了干了干了干了干了干了干了干了
20:19哎那个我哥说晚上一块吃饭你有时间吗啊我就不去了你闻去边哎别提也都说好了哥他让你白帮忙吗快快快快快去说我还要写剧本你写剧本回来再写行来行行行人家快我说她不好使呀不是
20:25那就吃一口就回来吧对呀快点我快点拿衣服快快快快快去快去拿衣服去
20:26I'll take a look at my clothes.
20:30This guy is very soft.
20:33I'll wait for you.
20:34Come on, come on.
20:35Come on.
20:44I don't know what you're talking about.
20:46He didn't have a meeting at the table.
20:48I don't know what Lian Jigun did in the background.
20:51That's right.
20:53Lian Jigun is your brother's interview center.
20:56I know.
20:58Can you talk to the show?
21:00If you talk to the show, why don't you talk to the show?
21:02You have to talk to the show?
21:04No.
21:05She's recently out on the internet.
21:08I'm afraid she's taking a look at the show.
21:11It's hard to talk to the show.
21:14It's all out.
21:16It's easy to talk to the show.
21:17It's easy to think about the show.
21:20I won't let you talk to the show.
21:49Oh
21:52Thank you
21:54Now I'll tell you
21:56The most important thing
21:58is to build the world
21:59The world is built
22:00Let's build a new plan
22:02Don't worry
22:03Let the audience understand you
22:06But the guy
22:07I think this show
22:08is not the same as I thought
22:10I thought it was a live show
22:12You now
22:13Would you feel like
22:15my personal ability?
22:16Your personal ability
22:17This is necessary
22:17If you're a素人
22:19You're not willing to watch
22:21It's not the same
22:21It's not the same
22:23It's not the same
22:24It's not the same
22:25I'm just going to
22:27through this show
22:27to build a new brand
22:29You don't have any confidence
22:31right?
22:34I think
22:35this show is the best
22:37It's an example
22:38Yes
22:40You don't know
22:41I'm going to ask you
22:43Do you think
22:44we should give the audience
22:45a whole sense?
22:46What kind of show?
22:48What kind of show?
22:49We're going to show you
22:50to the audience
22:50to show you
22:51what kind of show?
22:53It's like a show
22:53Do you understand?
22:56You said
22:57about the events
22:57and the guests
22:58we need to find out
22:59We need to find out
23:01We need to find out
23:01that kind of talk
23:01and we need to
23:03this show
23:04It's too late
23:05I'm going to
23:07I'm going to give you
23:07some time for yourself
23:09Hey
23:09I know
23:11I'm going to be
23:11there's some
23:11some events
23:12I'm going to be
23:12No, you're still
23:13You're still
23:15We're still
23:17that's a show
23:17It's a show
23:18It's not a show
23:18You know
23:19I'm thinking
23:20I'm going to send
23:23a show
23:23a show
23:24I'm not a show
23:26Then we'll be ready.
23:30What?
23:36What are you doing?
23:37You've been working for a few years?
23:40Five years.
23:42I see that you've been using this piece
23:44and it's not the same for us.
23:45It's very professional.
23:49Japanese people?
23:51I don't know.
23:52I'm still speaking in Chinese.
23:55Do you speak Chinese?
23:57I don't know.
23:59What?
24:01We're using this piece.
24:03What?
24:04We've used this piece.
24:05What?
24:07What?
24:07What?
24:09What?
24:10We're using it.
24:11We're using it.
24:12We're using it.
24:13We're using it.
24:13We're using it.
24:18Your music is pretty good.
24:20How do you speak Chinese?
24:22I'm doing it.
24:23I'm doing it.
24:24You're listening to it.
24:24You're listening to it.
24:25Don't think so.
24:26I'll be here.
24:28You're listening.
24:29We're on TV.
24:29You're listening to it.
24:31Please.
24:32I'm just talking to you.
24:33I'll give you an example.
24:41I'm sorry.
24:42I'll give you an example.
24:43You're listening to it.
24:49You're listening to it.
24:50You're listening to it.
24:53You're listening to it.
24:54I'm sorry.
24:56I'm sorry.
24:56But if you're listening to it,
24:58I'm not going to be doing it.
25:01I'm not going to be able to do it.
25:01I know you're worried about it.
25:03I was talking to you about the show.
25:05I was talking to the show.
25:06It's just going to give us the show.
25:07It's not going to be done with your music.
25:09It's true.
25:11It's not going to be done with you.
25:12My music?
25:12What?
25:14I'm not going to be able to understand.
25:16You're listening to it.
25:17You're listening to it.
25:17I'm listening to it.
25:25Hey, Yuen.
25:26What's your name?
25:28What time did you write?
25:30What time did you write?
25:31I haven't written it.
25:32I know you haven't written it.
25:34Where are you?
25:35Why are you so angry?
25:37I'm going to eat dinner.
25:38I'm going to write it.
25:39When I'm going to write it.
25:40What?
25:41You're not writing?
25:43I'm not writing.
25:44You're not writing.
25:45I'll be trying to write it.
25:46You're not writing something.
25:47Don't be sitting there.
25:49You're not writing it.
25:53I know you're doing it.
25:54You're doing it.
25:55You don't have to worry about anything.
25:56You're doing it.
25:57I'll be away.
25:58Bye.
26:08What's your name?
26:10How long are you chatting?
26:12I'm talking about a movie.
26:13you can buy the goods, right?
26:16Oh,
26:16I'm so happy to buy the goods.
26:18I'm so happy to buy the goods.
26:22Oh,
26:22You said you'd like to eat such a expensive food?
26:27This is the first time.
26:28And I'm not going to invite you.
26:30I'm not going to invite you.
26:31You're not going to let anybody see you.
26:33You're not going to die.
26:35I'm going to die.
26:35Hello,
26:38you've been buying the goods.
26:40I've been buying the goods.
26:41That's why?
26:42He's already left.
26:44I'm going to buy the goods.
26:45you're right?
26:49Oh,
26:50You're left.
26:52You're right.
26:53I will buy the goods.
26:56Well,
26:56it's a big deal.
27:01The staff,
27:03let me take this money.
27:04Yes.
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