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00:18Just before we get into this, can I get your name?
00:21Jasmine Daunson.
00:23I have a really odd situation.
00:26I have quite a big online following and there was this man who lives in the Netherlands
00:33and found my forest file, messaged me non-stop about how obsessed he is with me.
00:37He's come to New Zealand.
00:38Just pretend someone's chasing you.
00:40He's literally flown here to find me.
00:42It's terrifying.
00:44Yeah, yeah.
00:45No, that's completely understandable.
00:46And I am so sweaty.
00:48This is the police.
00:49What is the emergency?
00:51Hi there.
00:51Yeah, I was just on the phone to 105 about a man who's been stalking me and has flown
00:57over from the Netherlands to try and find me.
01:02He's sitting down at the beach by my house at the moment, looking up at our balcony.
01:06And this person has been stalking you?
01:09Yep.
01:10Yep.
01:10Good job.
01:12Good job.
01:12I didn't.
01:13I didn't.
01:13I don't know how he got my address.
01:15Like, it's, you can't find an E where you're at and you should put, yeah.
01:18Yeah.
01:19Okay.
01:20Is he there now?
01:21Can you still see him on the beach?
01:23Yeah.
01:43I was 16 when I met him and he was 24.
01:47I would never have looked at him and thought that he was a romantic interest.
01:52I was young and a little bit boy crazy.
01:55I know that he's watching me through the day.
01:59It's crazy.
02:00It went from this weird harassment to, I'm going to kill your cat.
02:07And he just says, I bet you're happy to see me, bitch.
02:35I remember there was so much talk around this new show that had come out.
02:40We binged it and I remember sitting on the couch with my flatmates and just being like,
02:44this is crazy.
02:46Like, this is nuts.
02:48And you're like, almost screaming at the TV to be like, like, dude, go, go tell the,
02:54like, go tell the police.
02:55What are you doing?
03:00One week later, it was me.
03:04Yeah.
03:15I don't feel like a celebrity at all.
03:17I don't know if we, if we have those in New Zealand.
03:20You're just kind of like people, people know me, but no, not celebrity.
03:27I don't like that.
03:30I downloaded TikTok, as I think a lot of people did in COVID lockdown.
03:36I kind of got to share all parts of my life.
03:39Six years ago, I was sitting in the intensive care unit of a psych ward after trying to take
03:43my own life.
03:44From more kind of serious mental health things to just making an absolute fool of myself.
03:56It blew up.
03:58I get recognised in most countries that I go to.
04:03I had a massive viral incident with the UK where I bit into a Terry's chocolate orange.
04:08I think you just have to, like.
04:11Didn't know you weren't supposed to do that.
04:13I'm getting tagged in every freaking news outlet possible.
04:16This, this is where I draw the line.
04:18I was Aussie TikToker.
04:20Aussie.
04:21You ready?
04:22We just.
04:23Jokes.
04:24You're supposed to smash a Terry's chocolate orange.
04:27And then it falls out into segments.
04:29I did not know this information.
04:32It feels like there's a lot more eyes on me now than there used to be.
04:36I would say 99% of the time people are really lovely.
04:42Can we stop when Survivor starts again?
04:44I remember my flatmate at Aina being like, there's this guy that's messaged me saying
04:52that he's coming to New Zealand to find you.
04:55And I was like, what are you talking about?
04:58He messaged my business account.
05:00So I started getting messages on my business account.
05:03Being like, hi, can you put me in contact with Jess?
05:07I was like, no.
05:09Yeah.
05:09Then you went back through everything, eh?
05:12Because you get so many messages all the time.
05:14I never saw them.
05:15It never seemed like anything weird.
05:16Yeah.
05:17And so I looked up his username on my profile.
05:20And when I opened it, I just saw all of these messages that I hadn't seen before.
05:30I've definitely had some weird messages in the past.
05:34You get people asking for feet pics and like really weird stuff.
05:39This was so different.
05:42It was only a space of like a couple of weeks between when he sent his first message
05:46to the ones that were saying how obsessed he is with me and that he can't stop thinking about me.
05:52And just that really quick progression was like, what is going on?
05:59My flatmates and me tried to like research everything we could to find anything out about this guy.
06:06And he just kind of was almost like erased from the internet.
06:11He had a locked Instagram profile.
06:14He had to really zoom up and he had like sunglasses on.
06:18So we didn't even really know what he looked like.
06:20We can't find anything about him except that he literally lives on the other side of the world.
06:25In the Netherlands.
06:27I think he told you that he was going to come to New Zealand and he wanted to find me.
06:34But I felt like I was still so blase about it.
06:37Because it was overseas.
06:39There's no way that he was like coming to New Zealand.
06:43And then I think within like 48 hours he had messaged again saying I booked the flights.
06:55Oh, he's here.
06:57Like he's, he's in the country.
07:00New Zealand's a beautiful country.
07:02I was like maybe he's always wanted to come here.
07:04Maybe he wants to come and do the walks and he wants to come and see Queenstown.
07:09Who am I to say that this person's flown from the other side of the world to find me?
07:18Now that I know that he's in the country, I decided to check his messages.
07:35I start freaking out like what the hell does this mean?
07:41And then very quickly after that, I get another message that says I'm mentally not in the place at the
07:48moment.
07:49And I don't want to do something to scare you.
07:53And I can't promise myself not to do something with the information that I've gathered, even if it's affecting your
07:59well-being, I think.
08:06And that was when I knew this is not good.
08:13I was so terrified.
08:15And then because everyone else was trying to stay calm, I felt like I was screaming into a void of
08:22like, this is really bad.
08:26I don't, I don't know what to do.
08:31I was like, look, there's nothing to be gained from freaking out.
08:35He's either found us or he hasn't.
08:37And I kind of.
08:38I remember you saying.
08:39Mansplained to you something to that extent.
08:41But you said the worst thing that could happen is he finds our house and that's not going to happen.
08:52I did not sleep at all that night.
08:54I went downstairs and got the knife from the kitchen and brought it up and slept with it.
08:59That knife.
09:00That Japanese knife.
09:05We decide that the next day I could maybe do like a written police report because it felt too dramatic
09:12to go to the police now.
09:15Like he hasn't directly done anything.
09:46My name is Xenie Gibson and I'm 25.
09:49I met Greg when I was 16 and shortly after meeting me, Greg confessed his love for me, unsolicited, and
09:56I rejected him.
09:57Greg began to harass me online and this harassment has continued for eight years.
10:02I do not know Greg and I have never provoked him to behave as he has.
10:14Reading Xenie's story for the first time, it shattered me.
10:22Reading everything that Greg put Xenie through.
10:28He was saying these things, some of the most horrific things that I've ever read in my life.
10:50She was so happily curled up.
10:52Hello.
10:54Hi.
10:56Oh my goodness.
10:58Isn't she cute?
10:58You're so cute.
11:00Hello.
11:02Greg was my boss's boyfriend when I worked at the Ara Valley School holiday program.
11:13We'd always come out here and play the, um, like all the children, you know, in summer or whatever.
11:17So it'd be around here.
11:22He used to wash windows down at the end of our street, you know, when the cars are parked and
11:27they come out with a squeegee bottle.
11:30I kind of knew of him.
11:31He used to hang around in the park.
11:33And I guess I'd like, you know, walk past and see Greg and, hi Greg.
11:37He was my boss's boyfriend.
11:39So, you know, I'd smile at anyone.
11:41So this is where you first met Greg?
11:43Yeah, yeah.
11:44It would have been either in there or here.
11:45I don't remember.
11:46It was so insignificant.
11:51I was 16 when I met him and he was 24.
11:5624 felt like 40.
11:58He was so far removed from me.
12:00I would never have looked at him and thought that he was a romantic interest.
12:10One day after work, it was raining and my mum offered to take my boss home and Greg was there.
12:17I sat in the back seat with Greg and my boss's five-year-old daughter.
12:24I was looking out the window and I was thinking about my high school crush and I was daydreaming about
12:29him.
12:31He did become my boyfriend.
12:33I started drawing hearts in the window's condensation, just like mindlessly thinking, oh, I wonder if he's going to text
12:40me.
12:42And then Greg and my boss and the little girl jumped out of the car and me and mum went
12:48home.
12:49When I think back to that time, there was nothing scary about it.
12:53The car ride was perfectly normal.
12:55If anything, a happy memory should be associated with it because I was falling in love.
13:11If there's one thing that I, that time and time again, I have played back in my head, why, what,
13:21just why did I do that?
13:22That one thing, oh, it's raining, have a lift, you know?
13:27And isn't, yeah, fucking hell.
13:30Yeah, why couldn't have I said, would you like a raincoat?
13:34Here's a broly.
13:36It's Wellington.
13:38Good luck.
13:39I can't believe that that car ride led to where we are today.
13:51It feels like there's been a mistake somewhere.
14:02Mum carries so much guilt for taking Greg home in the car that day.
14:06She thinks it's her fault and she wishes she could go back and not offer that ride.
14:13A couple days later, when I was at home, I found a note in my letterbox, like, unfolded in it,
14:19said, I love you too, with all of these hearts all over it.
14:22And I thought, oh, God, this is one of my guy friends from school pulling my leg.
14:27God, I wish that was what happened.
14:31Soon after the letter arrived, I got a text from an unknown number.
14:36I replied, who is this?
14:38Ha, ha, ha.
14:39They responded, it's Greg.
14:42Why are you laughing?
14:43I thought, oh, how bizarre.
14:47There was not even a slither of possibility in my mind that he could have sent me this letter.
14:53It said, I love you too.
14:54I thought, I don't love you.
14:57What do you have told you I love you?
14:59But he texted me and he said, come to the park.
15:03And I remember thinking honestly very little about that.
15:06I thought, okay, like, what?
15:10I was so confused.
15:15So, with my little 16-year-old pep in my step, I ran over to the park, thinking, ha, ha,
15:21this is going to be so funny.
15:23It wasn't.
15:24Spoiler alert.
15:28Greg was sitting just up here, and I was kind of like, I don't know, if anything, I was like,
15:33you know, I just clocked out of work.
15:35Like, I was a little bit springing my step or whatever, and just kind of like, came up here like
15:39this to him.
15:40He was sitting with his dog, Toby.
15:43I kind of just like, sat down next to him, and said, what's this about?
15:47Like, what are you doing?
15:47And he was deadpan.
15:49And I just remember him sitting here and saying, I saw you drawing the hearts in the window.
15:55I love you too.
15:59Yeah.
16:00That he wanted to be with me and that he loved me.
16:01And I just remember being so, um, like, whoa.
16:09I felt so uncomfortable.
16:12I was patting Toby and patting Toby and patting Toby.
16:16I couldn't let him go.
16:17He was the only physical barrier between me and Greg.
16:20I was very polite, and I said, oh, no, like, that's not what I, that's not what I meant.
16:27I, no, like, you're dating my boss.
16:30Like, sorry, sorry you've misunderstood me.
16:34Like, apologising.
16:34You were just a kid.
16:36I was just a kid.
16:39Oh, I want to go back and give her a hug.
16:41I didn't think it was going to be so weird.
16:44But, oh, I wish this is what happened.
16:48Yeah.
16:49Yeah.
16:50And I remember getting up to leave, and my hands were just coated in that dirty dog grease.
16:57I felt so disgusting.
16:59I wanted to scrub, like, everything off me.
17:02And I wanted to just get as far away from that moment as I could.
17:12A couple of weeks ago, there was a man from literally the other side of the world
17:15that was messaging me about his obsessions with me,
17:18sending some very scary messages,
17:19and he then flew all the way to New Zealand to physically find me.
17:23It was terrifying, and the reason that I'm posting this...
17:25Thank you for sharing your personal story with us, Jazz.
17:29I, too, was stalked for months in 2010 by an ex-boyfriend.
17:33He travelled across the country and eventually kidnapped me.
17:37My case was highly publicised, and I always stated stalking was the beginning
17:42and the result that could have been mitigated had we criminalised this behaviour.
17:50There was nowhere to go, no one to hear.
17:53He pushed me out, and he's screaming at me.
17:57You know, he's like, you slut, you slut, I'm going to teach you a lesson.
18:00I kept getting knocked out and then coming back into consciousness.
18:04Tessa's story was, it was completely avoidable.
18:10It's like what horror movies are.
18:18Aotea FM 94.6 will put a smile on your dial.
18:26Well, it's a very special day today because we have the wonderful Nortessa in the FM house.
18:32Welcome, Nortessa.
18:33Thank you. Thank you for having me.
18:35Now, we have a bit of a sensitive topic today.
18:39Today's conversation includes kidnapping, violence, and trauma.
18:43But there will be no nudity.
18:45No, unfortunately.
18:54I grew up on Great Barrier Island, and I was a little maniac.
19:00I spent a lot of time outside, and I really loved being in nature,
19:05and I loved creating and singing, and it was a beautiful upbringing there.
19:27It's a small community, so everyone is just there for each other.
19:33It doesn't matter how long you've been gone, you're considered a barrier, right?
19:40It's always got such a special place in my heart.
19:43Hi, see you.
19:44You're welcome.
19:46Thanks so much.
19:47Come on, see you.
19:47Good morning.
19:48Good morning.
19:48Good morning.
19:49Good morning.
19:50Hello, Skilly.
19:51Cheers, mate.
19:52Cheers, mate.
19:52Good to see you.
19:53Welcome home.
19:56Lovely to have you back.
19:58I've already cried once today.
20:01I bet you have.
20:01I can't even cry.
20:01I bet you have.
20:04Yeah.
20:05Lots of memories good, eh?
20:06Not so good.
20:07Yeah.
20:09It's been over a decade since I was stalked and eventually kidnapped.
20:27So in 2010, my mum was renting a property and her shower smashed, and a glazier arrived to
20:37come and fix it.
20:40And she got talking to him and thought, you'd be great for my daughter.
20:49I came over to the house and met him.
20:54I was 18, and he was maybe only a year older than me.
21:00I was young and a little bit boy crazy.
21:05He was handsome and had a charming smile, and I didn't look for much more than that at the time.
21:22I thought, okay.
21:23I thought, okay, I'll let this person take me out on a date.
21:28Um, yeah.
21:30And that proceeded to haunt me for over a decade.
21:46He did fix the shower. It was probably the only good thing he really did.
21:56Yeah.
22:04On our second date, we were sitting in his car.
22:11And he kissed me, and we proceeded to make out in his car like teenagers do.
22:22And then the next thing I know, he was holding me down and giving me this horrific hickey.
22:38I felt like I had been branded.
22:43He said to me in that moment, he was like, you're mine now.
22:54This person had come into my life, and it was like a tornado.
23:01This is what we should do. This is what we should do.
23:03I need to be around you. I want to be around you.
23:05And I felt like I couldn't hear myself think.
23:08It was within weeks that we were living together.
23:13I thought if it didn't work out that I could just ask him to leave, and that would be fine.
23:21Boy, was I wrong.
23:22Boy, was I wrong.
23:52Boy, was he good at the time was he had a crush on me.
23:53Boy, was he good at the time.
23:53Boy was he good at the time.
23:54Boy, was that he had a crush on me.
23:55For the first years, they were pretty inconsistent.
23:58He sent me messages saying I'm not trying to date you, by the way, but if you wanted to date
24:05me, of course I'd want to.
24:08Often I'd get a message on Valentine's Day, or when he'd see me walking around Wellington.
24:15Happy Valentine's Day.
24:16I hope you got treated like the beautiful queen you are.
24:18But I also hope not because that would mean you have a potential love interest.
24:21But still hope it happened.
24:22But just maybe from someone you aren't interested in romantically because I wish it was me.
24:26Okay, bye.
24:29There was one point he sent me a bunch of memes.
24:32He clearly found a website that had a meme creator on it.
24:36Yo dog, I heard you like ignoring and blocking me.
24:39So I made you some memes to ignore before you block me.
24:42So you can ignore me and then block me.
24:45They were so stupid.
24:54During this time he used his dog to try and emotionally manipulate me.
24:59Why won't Zini date my dad?
25:01Did I do something wrong?
25:02Does she know how amazing he thinks she is?
25:05She's the most beautiful girl inside and out to him.
25:07Even though she laughed in his face and mocked him with her friends.
25:09Does she know he'd do anything to be with her?
25:12I thought she loved animals.
25:13I just want my dad to be happy.
25:19His messages weren't mean.
25:23They were annoying.
25:26They were invasive.
25:30They were weird.
25:33Straight ahead, get over Zini and move on.
25:36Swerving off, Greg, the guy with the dog Toby.
25:39Keep trying even though she shows no interest.
25:53While Greg's harassment was in his kind of love bombing phase, I didn't know where he lived.
26:01It felt like he could be anywhere.
26:09Wellington is this really unique landscape where it's just surrounded in hills.
26:14And it felt like I was just kind of trapped in this fishbowl.
26:27It felt like everything was caving in on me.
26:33I felt like anywhere I went I was being observed.
26:44Every message I got over those years, I just kind of put into this invisible bag on my back.
26:52And it just kept getting heavier and heavier and heavier.
26:56My anxiety slowly crept up and crept up and crept up.
27:06I felt so anxious all the time.
27:14My nervous system was fucked.
27:23Everything in my life just kind of dimmed.
27:27I was finding it really hard to leave my house.
27:30And I found it really hard to get out of bed.
27:33I started spending all day every day in my room.
27:38Stopped hanging out with friends.
27:45I was feeling really targeted, but the thought of walking into a police station and showing them these memes made
27:52me cringe.
27:56I could see them laughing in my face.
28:03I definitely thought that if I could ignore it for long enough, he'd stop.
28:09I don't know why, but his fixation just intensified throughout the years.
28:21And I felt like I had no control over that.
28:37I didn't sleep at all that night.
28:42Like, what the hell does this mean?
28:46The next morning, I was due to be filming for a campaign that I was doing.
28:51That was all about getting out with your friends and having fun and trying new things.
28:54Okay, we have our hat with all of our options.
28:56Who's going to pick it out?
29:00Rock class!
29:02We were just all having fun.
29:05I'm scared.
29:06I'm on the ground. I'm on the ground. I'm not looking down.
29:10Filming us conquering our fears, not knowing that our biggest fear was about to happen.
29:22Me and Irena are driving home together to get to our house and you would turn and there's like a
29:26beach in front of you.
29:28We saw this guy sitting on the beach and I remember making a joke to Irena and being like,
29:33Hey Peter, not thinking it's Peter.
29:37But the second that the house comes into view, we see this paper bag.
29:44Before you even opened it, I just knew.
29:48For some reason you had your camera out, which, like, I don't know what-
29:52My brain went into, I have to document this if it is him.
29:56Yeah. I have to.
29:56I know true crime. I need to.
29:59Irena, she's Dutch.
30:01She starts opening the bag.
30:02That's Dutch treats. That's Dutch treats.
30:04And she's just like, these are Dutch treats. These are Dutch treats.
30:07And I just start panicking.
30:09And there is a letter and a card in there.
30:13This is Dutch treats.
30:15And my eyes just darted immediately to the bottom.
30:18Oh!
30:20Where I saw his name.
30:23I don't think I've ever felt fear like that in my life.
30:32Hey Jazz, first of all, I'm sorry.
30:36It is kind of creepy, but I just couldn't hold myself back from doing this.
30:43I really wanted to give you this letter and some Dutch snacks as a gift for you.
30:48I hope you will like them.
30:52I will try not to slide into your DMs or at your house again,
30:56because I do feel bad for invading your own space.
30:59I am sending...
31:02I am sending you a hug through these words.
31:05Yours sincerely, Peter.
31:14It was like a really, really fast escalation.
31:20I never thought in a million years he'd be able to find me.
31:26That he knows where I live.
31:28That he found it.
31:29And he found it so quickly.
31:38Part of it, he's trying to be so nice and then he's so creepy at the same time.
31:43You will try.
31:43You will try to not come to my house.
31:45Like, what the...
31:47I'm sending you a hug just gives me this visceral, like,
31:51I don't want you near me.
31:52I don't want you to touch me.
31:53I don't want you near me.
31:54I don't...
32:02He's literally flown here to find me.
32:05It's terrifying.
32:06Yeah, yeah.
32:07No, that's completely understandable.
32:09My address is so hard to find...
32:11I don't...
32:11I have no idea how he's done it.
32:15He's potentially sitting down on the beach,
32:17but I'm not sure if it's him.
32:19Okay, just hold on for me.
32:24I just remember you going, Jeremy, he found us.
32:26He's down at the beach.
32:28I said, cool, I'll go down and scope him out.
32:30The worst decision we could have made
32:32was to send you to the stalker.
32:39Jeremy starts taking photos
32:41and he's like, I'm like 99% sure that it's him.
32:47Oh, my God.
32:49How did he find out, please?
32:51What the fuck?
33:04If you do see him at all,
33:06or if he makes any approach to you,
33:08anything like that,
33:09you'll have to call triple one straight away.
33:11Okay.
33:11All right.
33:12Thank you for calling.
33:13Thanks.
33:14I think he wanted me to be scared.
33:19He was going in between, like,
33:22what looked like writing notes
33:23and then looking up.
33:25He was observing and he was,
33:27he could see us and he's found me.
33:30He seemed very, like, cold.
33:35Like, he, you know, I'm not in his head, I don't know,
33:38but it felt like he was kind of enjoying the show.
33:42And then I called 111.
34:10I don't know how long it took.
34:12It felt like maybe an hour before.
34:13the police got there.
34:14And by that point, he had gone.
34:20Police took, like, a really thorough report.
34:22You could see this almost, like, panic in their faces.
34:30This is bad, but legally we can't do anything.
34:39Because stalking is not illegal.
34:51Yeah, they said that there's nothing that they can do
34:54until he does something.
34:56So it was kind of like,
34:58we just wait until he does what?
35:03God knows what.
35:04I don't know.
35:04But you shouldn't stay in this house.
35:32The first time I tried to leave him,
35:34we had been dating for maybe six weeks.
35:41And he had gotten jealous about me going out with some friends.
35:54He essentially thought that my friends were sluts and that I would go out and be a slut.
35:59And he didn't want me hanging out with these people.
36:08I was on the phone to a girlfriend of mine.
36:14He started to get more and more aggravated.
36:19And then he pulled out a knife.
36:27It was a threat of, this is what I can do if you don't conform.
36:37If you want to go out with your friends, you won't be.
36:49I remember at first thinking, this is ridiculous.
36:54What are you doing?
36:58And then I looked in his eyes and I just saw black.
37:09I said to my friend, I have to go.
37:12He's got a knife.
37:14She called the police.
37:20And then about five minutes later,
37:22the armed defenders were breaking down our door.
37:27He was arrested.
37:29And I truly believed that he wouldn't come back after that.
37:48When I heard him knock on that window two hours later, I was like, what in the world?
37:57He stayed out there that whole night, constantly knocking, calling my name, asking to be let in, apologising.
38:08Saying he'll never do it again.
38:10By the morning, he'd just worn me down.
38:14I let him in.
38:16He was all apologies.
38:19He had said that the issue was that we were living with other people.
38:26And, you know, if we were on our own, we could create a beautiful life.
38:30It was all these other people that were causing this trouble.
38:35I was feeling disorientated by everything.
38:40And that's when he suggested, why don't I get a place and come stay together?
38:47And so he had convinced me to move in with him into an apartment.
38:53And things got significantly worse after that.
39:09In March 2022, Greg's harassment completely flipped.
39:17I have no idea what triggered the change.
39:23And I don't think I ever will.
39:24But from that day forward, the harassment became gruesome.
39:49It's my favourite thing in the world.
39:50My animals like you.
39:51Oh, she loves you.
39:53Hi, darling.
39:54Oh my God.
39:55She's dribbling all the way down.
39:56I'm so sorry.
39:57You know what?
39:58It's an honour.
40:00Lola is my family's cat.
40:02We adopted her as a kitten.
40:11My mum and dad live very close, but they were separated.
40:14And my dad had a child.
40:16And Lola was like, this is way too loud.
40:19I hate this.
40:19So she came to the park.
40:21And that's how everyone met her.
40:22Oh.
40:22Yeah.
40:24Lola just started hanging out there and she never came home.
40:27She made so many friends.
40:30The drunks in the park loved her.
40:32Everyone knew who Lola was.
40:33People started drawing murals of Lola.
40:36She was royalty.
40:38Lola.
40:39Lola.
40:40Queen of Arro Park.
40:41Lola has a whole mural.
40:43Yeah.
40:43Someone gave her that.
40:45My gosh.
40:46Lola has more legs there than Lola has in real life.
40:49I know.
40:50Aren't they generous?
40:50I don't know if it was before the attack or not.
40:57She was tragically attacked by a greyhound.
41:01She lost a leg in that.
41:03So Lola became a three-legged cat.
41:06And that just, you know, sparked even more popularity amongst the community.
41:13Lola's the original Aro Valley influencer.
41:192,000 followers, all organically growing.
41:25She kind of became like an icon of Aro Valley.
41:33Oh, I love it when she sits like this, like a sphinx.
41:38Hello, beautiful.
41:40What do you think of that?
41:42Oh my God, I love her.
41:45Hi.
41:47Natalie.
41:49Here we go.
41:51Here we go.
41:52She lives the best life.
41:56I was getting ready for bed one night and my phone led up to a message from Greg.
42:05Last chance to get back to me or your mum's going to find Lola's head in her letterbox.
42:16I was flatting about a 10-minute drive from my mum's house and my heart sunk.
42:22I was so scared.
42:25I couldn't comprehend that someone could be that evil.
42:32That was a real outcome.
42:35I thought Lola's head was going to be in the letterbox.
42:44Decapitation of your cat is not something that you can just go to sleep and think, oh, well, you know,
42:50it's not.
42:50I think that that's one of those sort of alarm bells when people start saying they're going to hurt your
42:54animals, you know, that means you can do other things as well.
42:59I took that particularly seriously, I must say.
43:02She really likes that he's wrong.
43:04She's mad on them.
43:06She does.
43:06Are you just the most precious thing in the world?
43:09The answer is yes.
43:12When he made those threats, it became real.
43:20And I thought if he's willing to do that, what else has he been willing to do?
43:27He's threatening to kill me, kill himself, everything.
43:31I hope to meet you in the next life soon.
43:33There's a chance that this guy is actually going to hurt me.
43:37You sent me hundreds and hundreds of messages that were violent and gruesome.
43:44I was forwarding those emails to the police and they didn't respond.
43:48Look at what the police do.
43:49What are they there for?
43:50And I thought, oh, it's never going to end.
44:14I think that's what he was going to happen.
44:15I think there's aan with her to use.
44:15It's really weird.
44:15Or this guy is still pretty well.
44:15But these thousands of emails just kidding me.
44:21But, what do we do right away or your colleagues?
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