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00:17Let's do a quick recap, shall we?
00:19Victory and Toria had their very first couple fights.
00:23To cool the rising temperatures, the couples were treated to a relaxing painting and yoga session.
00:28Meanwhile, Igwe and Shekina secured the love nest win.
00:32Romance upgrade unlocked.
00:34But peace didn't last long because Sione pulled up with questions for Alvin about certain outside world secrets.
00:42The girls stepped out for their time out and the guys stayed in the love pad.
00:46And as they say, boys will be boys.
00:49And after a fun day, Alvin confronted Shekina.
00:52And what started as a conversation quickly turned into a full-blown emotional WWE Smackdown.
01:14Let me feel all right.
01:22Let me feel all right.
01:27Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:30Let me feel all right.
01:37Let me feel all right.
01:40Let's go, let's go, let's go.
01:55Do I feel sorry for telling Sione that you had something going on outside?
02:00Like you said, everybody knows.
02:01So where's the secret?
02:02Alvin and Shekina decided to bury the hatchet.
02:05And by bury the hatchet, we mean gently place it on the table just in case.
02:10Did I also find out in a good way?
02:13Hers wasn't even about me trying to spoil whatever that was going on.
02:17It was just me telling her what it was.
02:18Because I had a conversation I was supposed to have with her, which I did.
02:22Up until that time, I don't think I needed to go hard to have any conversation.
02:25I don't even have that time.
02:26Like, do you?
02:27I've never had any issue with anybody that you're with in this house.
02:30I don't.
02:31But having to play dirty, the way you play dirty, trying to bring up conversations I had,
02:35when you know that day was day two or week was still coming at me.
02:39The last time we had a conversation, I never said anything about playing games with a n***,
02:42but you just wanted to play dirty.
02:44I make me look bad in front of everybody that information doesn't even concern.
02:48I've already the wrong information from spreading.
02:51You talk to the person directly, so I know what it is that you're saying,
02:54and I can hold you for your words, not what you have said to somebody.
02:57That's complicating me here.
02:59Because everything I've f***ing said to anybody has been said to me that you've said.
03:05Every other thing was what we probably discussed personally.
03:10The accusations in there was just not worth it.
03:14Loda never made it known to me that she was the one coming to me to have conversations.
03:19Until you mentioned it and I'm in shock.
03:21A lot of things you said I was in shock because I'm like,
03:23from where to where are these things happening?
03:26Because I'm surprised at this point.
03:28People just come to me and tell me,
03:29I want to tell you this one or this one or...
03:32I'm like, I'm fed up of it because I don't even know what they were getting at.
03:35You see me trying to move on.
03:36You see me trying to be with someone else.
03:38You still keep on bringing a conversation about Alvin every garden time.
03:41Up until the day we were supposed to pick partners.
03:45I don't think you understand why the lingering feeling is still lingering.
03:48Because there's so much, it's been dragged between both of us silently.
03:52I don't think I want to waste my time, you know,
03:55thinking that that could be deep when I never got to explore it.
04:00A lot of things has been said, Shekinah, and I just don't understand why.
04:06That's just, I kept asking myself like, why?
04:11If you heard something that I said, you said, oh, why can't I come to you?
04:16Why am I going to everybody else?
04:18I'm not talking to anybody else.
04:19If your friends come to me and they talk about stuff,
04:22I can tell them, I can talk to them and say, oh, this, this, this, this, this.
04:26Do we like Shekinah?
04:26Yes.
04:27Do you want to talk to her about it?
04:28No.
04:29But does she know?
04:30Of course.
04:33Because what am I going to tell you?
04:35Oh, I like you.
04:36You already have stuff going on.
04:37So like, what's the point of that conversation?
04:39It's not going to give you closure.
04:40It's not going to give me closure.
04:42It's just going to make things a lot more complicated.
04:44It's okay that we tried and we gave it a shot and it didn't work.
04:50If it's not insecurity, that, okay, you feel like, okay, you are too good for her,
04:54that she did not still pick you, then you are sensing what she ended up with.
04:57That thing will never ever sit right with me.
04:59Whether I would not be settled or both of them are talking now.
05:03Words hold water when it comes to, when you have this thing with people.
05:07There are some things you say you can never take back.
05:09He came to me that he's like, that thing he said, that ugly baby.
05:11He said that a headache, Alvin just shut him up.
05:13She did not even feel like he did anything wrong.
05:19He said, I told him I have resentment.
05:20So he was asking me why.
05:22I'm like, really?
05:23Then he was like, can we have the conversation?
05:25I'm like, I have nothing to say to you.
05:27Because I already, I feel like I've moved past that.
05:29So coming to talk to you is like opening old wounds.
05:31And I don't even want to do that to myself.
05:34I'm good with you.
05:35Where we are, like, oh, after, after, totally, that you wish out.
05:37Yes, I will heal ourselves apart.
05:40Yeah, you know, this is down.
05:41We don't get away soon with the talk again.
05:43I think that's why you're saying something like that to him today.
05:45Yes.
05:46I know if he had, I told him because he was like, oh, that, oh, does me, um, lashing out
05:51with music because I miss him.
05:52I said, no, I can't miss you, my love.
05:54I do not.
05:55There's nothing like that.
05:56I have moved on from you in a long time.
05:59Why is that where his mind went?
06:01The boy has ego, he has ego issues.
06:04He's like, ego worrying him, like, much, like, as an illness.
06:14I have been screaming the most about wanting to see a movie, and now we're having a movie night.
06:23Finally, we're enjoying some puff puffs while we are making some notes on the places, experience, and things we want
06:31to do together when we leave the love pass.
06:34I don't know if he even started to say, I could not even watch most part of the movie because
06:42he just kept talking and...
07:03The main priority for us is to get a genotype test done.
07:09That's crucial information, especially if, in the future, we decide we want to have kids.
07:15I want to say something about grabbing cocktails together, probably when we come back.
07:18I'd like to take her on perfume shopping, precisely in Abuja.
07:22One of the things on our list as well is potentially a trip to South Africa, but that's, like, in
07:29the future.
07:33Bowie.
07:33That's a good bowie.
07:34I don't know how to go.
07:36I'll teach you now.
07:38A week trip to Abuja, because I personally haven't been to Abuja before, and...
07:43I wanted to show her around, so I want to take her to a trip to Bali, then some fine
07:49dining.
07:50Yeah.
07:50I don't know if fine dining.
07:51Ice cream and cake.
07:53You're not going to be with it, but you're sadi.
07:56Ice cream and cake dining.
07:58Would you like to travel to her now?
08:00Eh, you are this now.
08:01I'm not a traveller now.
08:03So that's when you come in.
08:06What's your country?
08:09Singapore, Tokyo...
08:12Um...
08:13I think...
08:13I think you added Venice.
08:15Yeah, yeah, yeah.
08:16Yeah?
08:16Skydiving.
08:18You are who?
08:19Me are you.
08:19What was a piece of the air?
08:23I think I just want to stay in bed all day with you.
08:25On the weekend, all day, whatever, however.
08:31You want to...
08:32That's what I'm doing.
08:33You want to give me.
08:34Okay.
08:35What is...
08:35What is...
08:36I'm a prag-liding.
08:38Bungie-jumping.
08:40We are going to go cancelling together.
08:43We are going to try new recipes together.
08:47Bake.
08:48I'm going to teach him some of my recipes, because I'm sure he doesn't know how to cook.
09:08Then came therapy session day.
09:10Yes?
09:11Feelings were unpacked, and walls came down.
09:14Do you feel that there's a future here for both of you?
09:18That's going to be tough.
09:20I feel like I have work to do on myself, for myself, to be able to...
09:27Because there are, like, some characters I...
09:30You've imbibed?
09:31Yes, that I don't like about me.
09:35And if I don't love certain things about me, I understand when others don't also.
09:41So I need to work on that.
09:42What are those kind of characters?
09:43Like, how I respond sometimes.
09:45Like, I'm always defensive.
09:48Why are you defensive?
09:50I have been hurt so many times.
09:53So dealing with men, to me, is just, like, hard work.
09:56If you don't forgive those who hurt you, you're going to bleed on those who love you.
10:01I think you like how you're interested in her.
10:03What would you do differently?
10:04I don't know.
10:05Like I said, you have to fight her to get her.
10:08What does fighting her mean?
10:09Like, make her see how something she says can be an obstacle to wanting to build something strong with her.
10:19And make her understand how some things can, you know, completely...
10:22Sometimes I tell her, this thing you did or this thing you said, throw me off, it's not a good
10:26thing.
10:26But she doesn't see it that way.
10:28You know, she said, tough not to crack.
10:31Here's my counsel.
10:32Yeah.
10:32I think after now, you guys should pursue something outside, even if it's just friendship.
10:37And build on that.
10:38I think there's something really wonderful going on.
10:41Of course, it's in the very, very young, little stages.
10:45I think she needs to heal, like you said.
10:48Yeah.
10:48I think you need to be the bigger...
10:51Person.
10:51Person.
10:52Just relationship.
10:54I hope we do make something work and we can get to a common ground.
11:00I've just been to be patient, so I'll remain patient, I guess.
11:06Where do you see this going to?
11:08We definitely see it continuing on the outside.
11:10Okay.
11:11It's going to be long distance because I'm based in London.
11:13Kenna will be based in...
11:14In Lagos.
11:16In Abuja.
11:16Yeah, in Abuja, yeah, remember?
11:17I live in Abuja, yes.
11:18Yeah, so it'll be six-hour flight distance.
11:21Doesn't matter.
11:23Love brings the heart close.
11:25There's no way that's really far when your heart is there.
11:29I believe it's one of my strong problems because of...
11:32Let me use my past relationships, for example.
11:35It's been as a result of long-distance relationship and then, for some reason, it doesn't work.
11:44Well, have you seen long-distance relationships like this work?
11:48You see, love finds a way.
11:51If it's strong enough and you give it its energy, it will find a way to bring you both together.
11:57There are no irreconcilable distances when it comes to love.
12:02Only unwilling hearts.
12:04If you're willing to be patient, which is a characteristic of love, by the way.
12:10Well, we've had issues in here where we can't ignore the problem because we're living...
12:15It's almost like because of the nature of the love pads.
12:18Because that's a simulation of the environment.
12:21Yeah, so where we've had challenges is our style of arguments.
12:29So, we can have arguments or misunderstandings and then she'll be like,
12:33you know what, I don't think we're compatible.
12:36We never see a relationship where you do not feel you are not compatible at some point.
12:42You would always have that feeling.
12:43It's such a different experience going as a couple to a therapist
12:47and discussing some of the main concerns we've had.
12:51He's a man who must take care of his house.
12:55As a mental syntax talking.
12:58And he wants to take care of his queen.
13:02You understand?
13:05You're also a very independent queen who can take care of herself.
13:10There's a conflict of territory there.
13:14And it's a beautiful conflict.
13:15It's love.
13:16This has given us the opportunity to grow closer.
13:19And one thing that's been really important for us hearing this therapist speak is
13:23him saying that he thinks we're going to work on the outside, even though we're long distance.
13:29Of course.
13:30Yeah.
13:32So, on a scale of one to ten, you're certainly the same outside of here.
13:36What number?
13:37Maybe eight, seven.
13:41Okay.
13:41How about you?
13:43Things have been good, actually.
13:45All right.
13:45Siena is amazing.
13:47You know, like, she compliments me in a lot of ways.
13:52Aww.
13:52Did you hear that?
13:54Yeah, yeah, yeah.
13:54Like, she's an amazing person.
13:55You know, I have been my highest self with her.
14:00Man.
14:01Yeah, so, like, you know.
14:02You've been your highest self with her?
14:03Yeah.
14:04You need to hold your hands and say that in 12.
14:06Sisters.
14:07I have been my highest self with you.
14:09Aww.
14:10Yeah.
14:11I'm totally excited for you.
14:13Yes.
14:13What are the things you enjoy?
14:15Me?
14:16Together.
14:17We like similar things.
14:19She claims to be a homeboy.
14:21What?
14:23I'm a homeboy.
14:25And if I'm not at home, it's, like, night driving.
14:29There's, like, a lot of fun stuff you can do together.
14:32But, hey, I'm a very fun person.
14:34Like, very fun, actually.
14:36Side eye.
14:37Right.
14:37Yeah.
14:38Side eye.
14:38So, all kinds of fun.
14:39I'm down.
14:40I think one of you are doing well.
14:43I think I'm looking forward to a powerful experience.
14:46A much more powerful experience.
14:47Because I think that you should try to blend more by discovering your points of compatibilities more.
14:56Before we went in, we said, you know, there's a very high chance we would be, like, in and out.
15:01Like, within five minutes.
15:02That is the case because we are currently in therapy.
15:05And...
15:05And then we're done.
15:06We're done.
15:28So, where do you see this going, both of you?
15:30Let me hear from Shekana first.
15:31Where do you see this going?
15:33I really don't know, like, his...
15:36His personality is a lot.
15:40I've seen the way he can be around women.
15:43And I don't have security with that.
15:45The ladies love him.
15:47Yeah.
15:48And he loves the ladies, too.
15:50So, would you rather be with him than any other person in the house?
15:54Currently, yeah.
15:58Igui, so, what do you see after now?
16:01Are you interested in building long-term with Shekana?
16:05Yes, I am.
16:10However, all the complaints she has, all the issues she has, is from the Igui that came into this house.
16:19So, there's a way you can both feed on each other with negatives.
16:23Where she can say, I'm not sure, that you two now pick, I'm not sure.
16:26That's the vibe I don't want us to go towards.
16:28Because, based on what she said now, you also throw some of all of these guarantees.
16:33No, no.
16:34You can go from, I'm not sure, that she's saying I'm not sure, that you are complaining to say, yeah,
16:40I'm also not sure, based on your being not sure.
16:42I said what I said about wanting to continue this outside, and it perceived or received the message as me,
16:50you know, not being entirely sure.
16:52It's just me putting it out that these are my concerns.
16:57It's like giving you the plates.
17:00So, what are you going to serve in the plate?
17:02Oh, she has fears.
17:05She probably has relationships in the past that she's comparing you with.
17:11But, are you worth the future for her?
17:13She wants to be the only woman there.
17:17And, she's not going to negotiate that.
17:19She can even negotiate, she doesn't have too much money.
17:23She's going to follow you to the ends of the world.
17:25I can't lie, it's quite valid.
17:28You're not conversing enough.
17:30You're not talking, you're, there's some facade.
17:34And, I think you will do well to please lead, lead her.
17:37I would be sad to say you're not together.
17:41There's too much chemistry going on for us not to have physics and eventually biology, which is true.
17:47Sometimes, you know, these men, they can be really frightful, strong-headed.
17:51So, sometimes you just need somebody to, like, communicate, whatever it is.
17:54We don't do now.
17:55We're not happy.
17:56Set up.
17:57We're happy now.
18:00Are you guys having plans for the future?
18:04Um, we haven't necessarily, maybe we've tackled just a bit of that conversation, but we haven't had to talk so
18:14much about it out here.
18:15Why not?
18:17Well, because I think, like I've been saying, the room wasn't built in one day, so we're just taking it
18:23one step at a time and seeing where it goes.
18:27Yeah.
18:27Baby steps.
18:29Mm-hmm.
18:31What do you think can tilt those baby steps into giant steps?
18:35I think we'll get there, but we still want to take our time just a little bit more.
18:41No, I feel like we're good.
18:43We're getting each other better, so I feel like we're good.
18:45Is there any other girl you're interested in?
18:47Yeah?
18:48Yeah.
18:48No, no, no, not at all.
18:50How about you?
18:50No.
18:51So you're exclusive to each other?
18:53Yeah.
18:54Wow.
18:55So really, we should expect something at the end of this show.
18:58Hopefully.
18:59Fingers crossed.
19:01Did you have a relationship before you came in here?
19:03No, I did.
19:04Did you?
19:04Mm-hmm.
19:05So you guys are free with each other?
19:07Yeah.
19:07So what's stopping you?
19:09I mean, we should be talking, well, next steps, what are we going to be doing?
19:13Are we going to meet someone in Accra?
19:15Are you coming to Lagos?
19:16It should be...
19:17Oh, we've had that conversation about coming to Nigeria and all that.
19:20We've done that.
19:21I'm totally excited for you both.
19:24And I'm checking the timeline and you guys both look very happy.
19:28Of course, with some trust issues on your side.
19:31So currently, we're actually at a very good place right now.
19:34And I think the therapist is seeing that for himself.
19:38And he understands the need for baby steps with both of us.
19:43It's just adding, you know, spice to a good food already.
19:50They're still gathered around each other.
19:52They're trying to master each other.
19:53They're trying to figure each other out.
19:56And they're not rushing to do it, which is a good sign.
19:59Although I wanted to push them to the next level.
20:02And they still want to test the waters with each other, which is totally fantastic and fine.
20:06I'm excited at their future, too, because it seems like a mature couple.
20:10And I want to take the energy very slowly.
20:15Covered.
20:15Yeah, very interesting.
20:17What are the curves?
20:19I think there's...
20:21She doesn't really trust me.
20:23Trust my intention sometimes.
20:25And with me, I feel like...
20:27Sometimes he's not being true to himself.
20:30I mean, I feel like he's so distracted.
20:36Ken is someone that can just switch up on you at any time.
20:40And because of how he's feeling at that moment.
20:43And not even sit to think for a minute, is this really what it is?
20:48How is this going to make this person feel?
20:50So, in the very beginning, Ken seemed like someone who likes to communicate, be transparent, and just honest.
21:02And that's a thing for me.
21:04I like it when I can just talk to my partner about any and everything.
21:08He made the journey really easy in the beginning.
21:10You know, by the traits I saw.
21:12These traits that I mentioned.
21:14But then at some point, it was just like, what is going on?
21:19Where is that you that I fell for?
21:23Now, it's like, no, I don't believe nothing about you.
21:28The couples therapy section is not great right now.
21:32I'm getting roasted and cooked.
21:33I don't understand that my actions...
21:38It hasn't always been good.
21:41But I am trying to be better.
21:44One of my actions that I took, that when it came to light,
21:49I wasn't very proud of.
21:52But I know before doing some certain things, I told her,
21:55initially, we got coupled up together from the first couple.
21:59So, and I told her, look, even if we're together,
22:01let's, because we do communicate a lot.
22:03And she said, oh, there's someone else she also likes.
22:06I said, yes, there's someone else I also do like in this place.
22:08So, let's explore.
22:10I think we are here to find love.
22:13So, when I say explore, I would assume you would take this.
22:16Exploring does not necessarily mean you have to be intimate
22:19or build romantic interest with people.
22:23It was crossing the line.
22:25Making, sending letters to a girl, telling her,
22:28my own friend, supposedly,
22:30you're the most amazing girl in this house.
22:34Telling another person,
22:36you feel like, oh, they're, they're,
22:39coming back to even tell me,
22:41oh, he's on the same,
22:42he feels like they connect mentally.
22:44They're on the same level.
22:45They are similar on a lot of things and that, that, that.
22:48And I'm just looking at this man like,
22:50do you even realize what you're doing?
22:53Do you realize what you're saying?
22:55Why are you making it so deep with these people?
22:59It's like, there's an inch that was given
23:01and you're taking a mile.
23:02You know what is irritating her?
23:05She actually loves you more than being disgusted with you.
23:08With this lady, what you see is what you get.
23:11If she doesn't want to be with you,
23:12she doesn't want to be with you.
23:13She is into you.
23:15Bro, you can't irritate her this much.
23:17If you're not, if she's not into you,
23:18she's into you.
23:20Can you just tell her straight off what you want to see?
23:23The kind of behavior she wants to hear?
23:26What does affirmation mean for you?
23:27What would have meant, you understand?
23:30And she's obviously feeling jealous
23:33about other women around you.
23:35I really like this therapist.
23:37He's able to just read through this man that I'm with
23:41and just read through me.
23:43It's like, hmm, how is it that this man I just met
23:48can read me more than the man I have been with in this pub?
23:53Please, can you look at each other?
23:55And tell me all the statements.
23:57Look at him.
23:58Look at him.
24:00I want to look at him and tell him what you just said now, openly.
24:04Okay, in this house, Ken...
24:06I swear to God.
24:07There is no...
24:10Ken, in this house,
24:11there is no other person that I feel attracted to
24:14or feel anything for
24:17or careful
24:18or want more than you.
24:21There's no other person that I get in the house too.
24:23In this house,
24:24that I'll place above you.
24:26You are the only one at that that I see
24:28and I want.
24:29And I want to be with.
24:30Mm-hmm, okay.
24:32That's sweet.
24:33It's a really good therapist, I'll say.
24:35He's reading us really well.
24:37And we're learning a lot about each other
24:38and about our flaws
24:40and our omissions.
24:46Yeah, that works.
24:47No, you rubbed my head.
24:48I mean, I...
24:49You don't even mind, I don't rub your head.
24:52That's why you're rubbing your head.
24:53That's why.
24:59Okay, so the thought is in.
25:02When we went out that day,
25:03I said to her,
25:04she's the first young guy.
25:06She's doing...
25:07She's not even beating, like,
25:08having stuff to do.
25:09For therapy, though,
25:10Toria and Victory decided
25:12that gossip actually brings couples closer.
25:15When she was 17,
25:16she dated 36 years.
25:18When she was 17?
25:19Yes.
25:2019 years, two friends.
25:22Exactly.
25:22Ah, hmm.
25:23She has never ever dated anybody now before.
25:26So, tell me.
25:27The way she is with him,
25:28all that baby baby baby baby baby baby,
25:30that she's...
25:31Like, she will live in her younger self.
25:34Mm, it's making her feel young again.
25:36Exactly.
25:36Cover the old man she has been with.
25:38Yes.
25:39That's right.
25:39But you can tell the attack position
25:40was very heatable,
25:42intense, like,
25:43you can't stop.
25:44Because the way
25:45the two of them are right,
25:47you saw the kid.
25:48Give them the truth.
25:50Five days.
25:51Mm-hmm.
25:52So, what did you ask
25:53the good attack does?
25:54She can answer your national answer.
25:57No, what?
25:58Did they find it helpful?
25:59Oh, okay.
26:00No, she can ask...
26:01It's not like there was
26:04any...
26:04The question wasn't in the program.
26:06She's not happy with me.
26:08I know, I know, I know.
26:10I think I clocked that eventually.
26:12It was that fight day.
26:13I told you, you know,
26:14she called me before the fight.
26:16Before...
26:16Before the confrontation.
26:19Like, she feels something...
26:20Oh, it's called the destination.
26:21Yeah, like, she feels something is wrong.
26:23Like, what's going on victory?
26:25I was like, I don't know.
26:26I can't say anything for now.
26:28Mm-hmm.
26:57Another night,
26:58another night,
26:58activity this time doing something special for their significant order tonight i decided to
27:06play something very special for syoni i'm not a good reason i just i can play some some things
27:12here can i call you baby can you be my friend can you be my lover who puts you to
27:22the very end
27:24let me tell you love i won't pretend i don't really care if i embarrass myself on that stage
27:31as long as what i want to do gets achieved because it's only you nobody knew i'll put you first
27:40i'm for you girl i say i'll do the most he had me smiling from ear to ear i'm blushing
27:48like little
27:49baby i'll climb every mountain swim every ocean just to be with you fix what i've broken
28:08because i need you to see that you are the reason
28:25i broke my back while i tried to marry her it's a sweet accident
28:39this is not a love poem or a speech this is an appreciation message
28:46this is toria saying thank you for being patient with me
28:50thank you for being kind to me despite how mean i may come off
28:54sometimes thank you for looking out for me always
28:57this may sound weird but i love our bands a little argument here and there like literally
29:03heals me oh bro i don't want to cry it's okay the words were very very true i wrote them
29:10in seconds we may not have or be where the other pairs are at yet
29:15but believe me when i say i love what we have
29:19is special and unique to me we have chosen to take baby steps and build this face by face
29:25which i would say is the best way to get anything good or real
29:29she's never said those kind of words to me before hearing them in that moment is very encouraging
29:35and it's giving me you know the ginger to keep going
29:39i don't remember saying i don't like him but i remember telling him i don't hate him
29:44i tried writing something i felt like let me just go with the flow
29:48in the moment victoria my first impression of you when i saw you tell me speak to me baby was
30:01a calm
30:02bizarre lady but you got it wrong
30:07i got something you know even better someone who is very outspoken and i believe you are one of
30:13genuine people here and i want to let you know that i see you some people might not like you
30:19for
30:19you know some certain things but the thing that makes them not like you will make thousands love you
30:26i went in blind because you know i also wanted to give a very genuine heartfelt message to her
30:34too many girls when they say me they say i love you because you're sexy
30:39me i know that they like me
30:41bling bling bling bling
30:44ding ding ding ding
30:46bling bling bling bling
30:49ding ding ding ding
30:56one thing i've always wanted to do is pole dance for him and lucky me the opportunity has come
31:15we actually speak so much about it and i fantasize so much about the moment so it's prepared to have
31:33this is a background that he comes from so he's no stranger to making it rain
31:39yeah and one of these days it will be real money you're spraying with
31:57oh god
32:01my baby my baby i missed you so much forget what i said about needing space i was wrong for
32:07that i'm so sorry i miss you
32:09See I need you more than life can imagine. I'm so sorry. Let me do the poem. I wrote from
32:15my heart
32:15babe, God alone. The moment I met you. Fange, what's up now?
32:20What's up now, Fange? I'm interested. Fange, what's up now? What's up now? Fange, what's up now?
32:26Fange, what's up now? I like you now. I like you. I want to get to know you now. Fange,
32:30what's up?
32:31What's your name? This boy is Fange. He's Fange. I like him, but I'll make it easy for him.
32:36I'll do Shakara. Well, I'm Latifa. What do you want? Fange, I definitely need your number.
32:46Definitely. I'm not going to lie. After I got dressed up as her, I got scared. I didn't want to
32:52beat anymore.
32:53I was afraid of what I found in Europe. That's why she's laughing. It has to take a lot of
32:57convincing to get me out of love pad state.
33:00But I had a lot of fun. I'm not going to lie. I had no plans to feel, but now
33:04I feel even deeper than the Pacific.
33:06My journey in here with you has brought me nothing but joy, peace, and pure bliss.
33:11You make me a better person, Latifa. You complete my existence. And I don't know if you'll ever forgive me
33:17after what I've done to you.
33:18I look forward to further exploring this journey with you. Definitely. I love you, my dear.
33:23I love you so much.
33:26So cute.
33:28I look at the audience and I see some waver of emotions.
33:35They are great.
33:36We've been doing great.
33:37I love you, my dear.
33:38I love you.
33:39I love you, my god.
33:41I love you.
33:48I love you, my good deal.
34:10man I like she's moving like
34:34it's teasing you are the warmth that lingers long after the sun has slipped away the hush between two breath
34:43where truth often hides when your eyes meet mine the world forgets its noise time settles and suddenly everything makes
34:55sense
34:55if love is a journey then let my steps be drawn to you
35:01this is my very first time hearing a poem that's been written to me
35:07for in you I have discovered a home made not of woes but of a heartbeat that welcomes mine
35:17I like that part like it's like okay come here baby oh my god this is it sounds really good
35:49I'm beauty period and he looks like a beast of course
35:57from the beginning boss I walked into the house I saw him as the king that he is now
36:02but then something happened and he turned into a beast for me
36:06and then I forgave him and he's now a king
36:15there's a beast in every man
36:17so boy it takes a very special person to want to cure your beast for
36:21and you guys my person
36:24sweet gestures everywhere some romantic some dramatic it's the effort that counts right
36:32it's about Harry actually like you guys ever talk about me except for the time you asked him
36:39and like if you're still interested back off if you're not interested back off whatsoever
36:45Chad said you guys have history
36:48and me and Harry yeah we're pretty close but like we don't talk in details like we don't talk much
36:55in my head like I'm cool with Henry right like I'm good being friends with him like I care about
37:01him
37:01right and I don't want to see him get hurt or anything like that like in terms of relationship like
37:08I'm over it because
37:11like it's something that we've done like we've tried like it's not just working
37:18so I don't want to waste my time because I've prepared my mind to come in here and look for
37:25somebody else like
37:26not to be dragged back like I'm over it
37:29I don't see him as a threat I never saw him as one
37:32when he came to Henry all I did was
37:37stretch the
37:39hand of respect
37:41and I told him I asked him
37:42are you still moving to Sioni
37:45because I want to move to Sioni
37:47I didn't owe him that
37:49but like I do I always
37:51respect people and I felt
37:53like it was the right thing to do given that you all
37:55have history and it's very very
37:57possible that you know seeing
37:58you here
37:59because I know he's had like a hard time connecting with anybody in the house
38:02so you coming in I was like
38:04maybe he's saved after all
38:06so like when he said
38:09there's nothing
38:10that's when I came to you that's when I moved to you
38:13and you also gave me a hint
38:15you were like make a channel say
38:16since they sub
38:17since they gone on the low
38:19I don't know how he said it
38:20I didn't know what that meant until that happened
38:24so I felt very insulted because I came to you
38:27as a man that I thought you were
38:30to say this thing to you
38:31I didn't owe you I could just have easily moved to Sioni
38:33and tried my luck or tested my chances
38:36but I said it to go to you first
38:38and you saying that was very very disrespectful
38:41but then I can understand if his feelings are not as dissolved as mine
38:45he might have been so in love with me
38:48or still are in love with me
38:50it doesn't mean they were compatible
38:51like I'm so over it
39:01I'm not really
39:02you know
39:04it's all deep into your mind
39:06do you want to?
39:08they just had a conflict
39:08and they both were shouting
39:10exactly
39:11Shiva insulted you in front of everybody
39:14and you're still giving room
39:16right
39:17and it's something that I have done before
39:20like you don't make me look stupid
39:22especially after tonight
39:23like
39:27exactly after tonight
39:28do you know what I'm saying?
39:29after tonight
39:29my girl brain is going to
39:31do you know what I'm saying?
39:32yeah
39:33my mind is going to like
39:35a lot of places
39:36and I'm trying to keep me connected
39:38because I almost went down there
39:40to have to like crash out real bad
39:41like what the f*** are you like
39:43what are you still doing here?
39:45but you're not going to make me look like an insecure person
39:48back to bed
39:49you are more than allowed to say to him
39:52oh I
39:52when I went downstairs
39:53I saw you and
39:53I'm speaking
39:54you can have these feelings about
39:57what I think
39:57it's actually
39:57it's actually contradicting
39:59the said truth
40:01that you said you
40:02you have
40:03of not exploring outside
40:04they're very
40:05they're exploring downstairs now
40:06exactly
40:06well hold on
40:08Sioni is brewing with jealousy
40:10like you're making me feel insecure
40:11and I'm not an insecure person
40:13like you're not going to make me
40:14act a certain way
40:15key word though
40:18whilst you may feel insecure
40:20the word
40:21he doesn't deserve to hear that
40:22but what he deserves to hear is doubtful
40:24because when you feel insecure about a situation
40:26you have questions
40:27you have doubts about it
40:29you deserve to express yourself
40:30and still maintain
40:32your like queen status
40:34I don't like hanging around
40:36people who
40:37have great minds
40:38and not try to like
40:39dig into them
40:41because that's the whole point
40:43so this is just saying
40:44I have a great mind
40:45you guys are in a good place now
40:47well we're ever in a bad place
40:50it's okay
40:51it's alright
40:52what do you think that actually
40:53about that conversation
40:54you didn't say anything
40:55because there was nothing much to say
40:57it was like
40:58much is something
40:59much?
41:00as in nothing much is something
41:02where are you coming home?
41:04I went to the club
41:06oh yeah
41:07I went back there
41:08I went to the concert
41:10I was downstairs
41:11what does that mean?
41:18what were you doing downstairs?
41:20talking
41:20sure
41:21she kinda
41:22why?
41:24because I can't
41:26because you can't
41:29can't I?
41:32of course you can't
41:34but why?
41:39first there was nothing in that direction
41:41why?
41:42second
41:42which there?
41:43I don't know
41:44whatever
41:45the office is saying
41:47what does my face say?
41:51what else do I have to transfer this one?
41:54looky
41:54no I don't have to transfer this one
41:56exactly
41:57exactly
41:57but like
41:58I think you or me
42:00at least
42:01a wee what?
42:03an explanation
42:04for telling me
42:06to go
42:07shop
42:09come
42:09you're waiting for me
42:10then you go downstairs
42:12to have a conversation
42:13for more than
42:15for more than
42:16for more than
42:17how many minutes?
42:18they timed me and she kinda
42:20spoke
42:20I also like the timing
42:21was not the greatest
42:23that's all
42:24the message you sent was looking like
42:26I'm not supposed to be talking to this person
42:28at all
42:32you see how today ended right?
42:35very good
42:35very beautiful
42:37you now
42:38went ahead
42:40said
42:41go have a shower
42:41I'm waiting for you
42:42la la la la la
42:43you could not even say
42:45in the midst
42:45I don't know whether you're playing here
42:47for this person
42:49that you had to sit down there
42:50and have a whole
42:5130 minutes conversation
42:53or more
42:54it's like you
42:55it's like you
42:56right now
42:57you made a priority
42:58instead of
42:59me
43:00for yourself
43:02so
43:03do you see how that looks?
43:05yeah I see how that looks
43:07exactly
43:09I'm sorry
43:09that face that you're giving
43:12I'm serious
43:14I mean I already explained myself
43:16I don't know what else to hear
43:17actually
43:17oh okay
43:20so apparently
43:20we're not done
43:21with that situation
43:22so we can just ask the next question
43:24for not creating boundaries
43:27with this said person
43:30it was very
43:36wrong of me
43:39and I should have thought better
43:41should have used my head
43:45and I take full responsibility
43:47for my actions
43:49and
43:59I'll see to it that
44:01it doesn't happen again
44:03forgive me
44:06I want to deal
44:08forgive me
44:21I'll see you
44:21I'll see you
44:21bye
44:21bye
44:21bye
44:29bye
45:15Why are your eyes like that?
45:17Oh my God.
45:19You just have this look.
45:21This I want to eat you look.
45:23Okay.
45:25Okay.
45:42You're so silly.
45:44You're so beautiful.
45:47I can't take you seriously.
45:49I'll take you very seriously.
45:56Oh my God.
45:57He's killing me.
45:57You're making my so hard.
45:59Don't you give up?
46:01You get like this.
46:02Deserves to hard.
46:06Okay.
46:06You're so silly.
46:07Like very, very.
46:20And just when you thought things couldn't get hotter, the couple threw a party.
46:25A very steamy one.
46:31Let's go.
46:34Let's go.
46:49Oh my God.
46:52Let's go.
46:55One, two, one.
46:56Leave new lenses.
47:10I'm talking about this baby.
47:12I mean, every girl that's a good dance guy always have beef with me.
47:16Like, there are a lot of people that don't f**k with me in this place.
47:20I don't know that.
47:20But I don't come here and make it a conversation.
47:23Because you don't want to.
47:25So why should you want to?
47:26I don't even know that there's nobody here.
47:28There's a lot of people that don't f**k with you.
47:29I've seen your name over there.
47:32Mine is very obvious.
47:39I feel like the bad thing I did was to share that with you
47:41because it just came as a thought.
47:43But something that happened this evening, that's why I actually spoke about this.
47:47What happened?
47:48I was going to share that with you.
47:50I just received this one.
47:52Taking you back to the guy that is not even the main thing that I was talking about.
48:22That's ok.
48:27you're connecting it wasn't
48:38hello chicago hi alvin i'm sure you know by now that he's in case to care about you
48:45for no reason i'm sure you know that right
48:50and i'm very very sure that the whole you confronting me out there was due to him
48:56pulling all the men together only to bring out information because if this is not toxic i don't
49:01know what it is she kind of because he's trying so much to bring out a bad side i'm sure
49:07you can
49:07understand what i'm saying he's trying so much to bring out a bad side because it's like i don't
49:14get it make it make sense keep your voice down please i'm begging i don't go around confronting
49:21women or meeting women that he has had likeness for in this house information of theirs come
49:26to me you're the only one who has access to me in this house consider consider consider consider
49:38you he's the only one that has access to me in this house he's the only one that touches me
49:41he's
49:42the only one that kisses me he's the only one what more does he want
49:47you're i have my own problems because now pulling you for a conversation is all about shekinah
49:53who told you of course it is i know what we had upstairs just now so who told you it
49:58was about
49:58shekinah it's the shekinah that brought him here he knows what he's doing just don't just
50:02you guys so what do you want to do about it you want me to raise my voice like you
50:05do raise your
50:06voice if you want to like you think keep raising your voice you think it's very you think it's
50:10mature to sit down here i'm having a concern that you always try to bring to me she kind
50:15of in different ways please go upstairs if you need to go hell sleep on the bed i don't
50:21give it
50:30i got my own problems
50:33oh
50:35oh
50:36oh
50:38oh
50:39oh
50:41oh
50:54oh
51:04I wasn't talking to Alvin because of any insecurities, just to put it out there, but just as you
51:14hate confrontations, I also hate confrontations. I reached out to Alvin to find out what exact
51:21cause you will see any situation that you mentioned when we went to the show. I took advantage of it,
51:32asking exactly what you guys spoke about during the conversation you had.
51:43But I'm sorry for her. I'm telling you to go to bed if you want to and work out.
51:54But I'm not going to bed until we're smiling with each other. Even if you have to be like,
52:07I'm going to bed. I'm not going to bed. I'm not going to bed. I'm not going to sleep.
52:13But it's the one I really, actually came about.
52:18Breaking news, Igwe don't fall in love. Our guy has entered the deep end.
52:42Finally, it was time for the truth.
52:47Lie detector test activated.
52:52Regarding your love for Chef Kimah, do you intend to answer truthfully about it?
52:57Yes.
52:58Does something about Alvin and I scare you?
53:03No.
53:05Just straight questions, nervous laughter, and heartbeats louder than the background music.
53:15Do you have a situationship outside?
53:19No.
53:27I don't have a reservation about the situation at Chipengi,
53:31because, thank God, we did have a proposition prior to this time.
53:34Are you real with me just for the show?
53:36No, I'm real with her.
53:42I feel something strong to what she kind of.
53:47Are you looking to explore with Alvin outside his house?
53:51No.
53:57Would you have been happier with Alvin?
54:01No.
54:03Whatever that's there with Alvin, for me,
54:06it's just me being a sweet girl, you know, to the man.
54:17Hopefully, this gives him as much assurance and security that he probably didn't have before now.
54:23Do you love me?
54:25Yes.
54:31I never would have preferred having this feeling with any other person in here.
54:36Yeah, I found my heartbeat.
54:39Is there anyone in a relationship with you?
54:43No.
54:48Do you have a child?
54:54Yes.
55:06That is crazy.
55:09Would you stick by me through financial hard times?
55:12No.
55:14Are you here for the cameras?
55:18No.
55:20Chakam.
55:21I also won't fault you for how you feel.
55:24And like I said, I'm sorry I didn't tell you sooner.
55:28Just in case I never get the chance to again.
55:33I really do have your best interests at heart.
55:36Please.
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