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00:09Previously on It's Not Like That.
00:10Don't worry. Just because our parents want us to be friends doesn't mean we still have to.
00:14What are you going to write about?
00:16Maybe this.
00:18Did you do that?
00:19A few years ago.
00:20Look, you want to walk away from therapy, you've already walked away from the church.
00:23Being in church actually makes it worse.
00:25Hey, a pastor and an alcoholic walk into a bar.
00:28We are all so close to risk, all of that.
00:34We can't.
00:35The woman from your office.
00:36Sarah?
00:37Yeah.
00:38Wouldn't hurt to have a cup of coffee with her, right?
00:40Claire Leslie, our favorite shared client, super psyched about your promo materials.
00:44Is it possible I miss my wife?
00:47Malcolm and Mom are hooking up.
01:10Hey guys, thank you so much for coming today.
01:12It was wonderful seeing your faces.
01:14Hey gentlemen, I didn't see your mom there today.
01:15Is she okay?
01:16Yeah?
01:17Alright, good.
01:18Hey guys, how are you?
01:20You good?
01:20I owe you a phone call.
01:21I apologize.
01:22I'll get back to you.
01:23Promise.
01:26Hey.
01:27Hey, how are you?
01:28I'm good.
01:29That was beautiful.
01:30Oh, thanks so much.
01:30Oh, hey Merit.
01:34Oh, I'm so sorry.
01:35Sorry.
01:36Forgot we were in public.
01:37Let's go.
01:38Okay, well, just give me a few minutes.
01:40Okay, well, I'm going to walk.
01:41Okay.
01:43And I'm going to start to go to the 11 o'clock service with Dad.
01:47Oh, uh, okay.
01:49Yeah, well, I'll see you later.
01:54Hey.
01:55Excuse me.
01:56Hey, you guys made it.
01:57First time.
01:58I'm so happy to have you here.
02:00Hope I see you next week.
02:03Hey, Case.
02:06So, what's the deal with Claire Leslie tomorrow?
02:08Oh, yeah.
02:09Yeah, sorry.
02:10My mom couldn't get the tickets.
02:12What?
02:12She said that next time she toured, she can get us, like, backstage.
02:15I mean, I told Dakota.
02:17Yeah, well, um, she couldn't.
02:20Well, you know, what about your dad?
02:22Isn't he, like, Claire's manager?
02:24Yeah, he is, but he couldn't either.
02:27It's fine, though.
02:28I didn't really want to go anyway.
02:30What?
02:31I'm just not into her anymore.
02:32I liked her when I was, like, 12.
02:33Well, you were 12 last year.
02:36Sorry.
02:39Yeah, great.
02:40Excuse me.
02:54Hey.
02:55Hey.
02:56Are you okay?
02:57Oh, oh.
02:58Yeah.
03:00David introduced me to someone, a woman.
03:02Oh, wow.
03:04Really?
03:04Yeah.
03:05Oh.
03:06We've been texting a bit.
03:08Now we're going to lunch, and I...
03:10Service today passed him out.
03:11Oh, hey.
03:11They're moving.
03:11Always a pleasure to see you, Travis.
03:13Thanks so much.
03:14See you.
03:16Coffee shop later?
03:18Yes.
03:18Yes.
03:19Definitely.
03:20Excuse me.
03:25She sent me a photo of herself.
03:27I should send one back, right?
03:29I mean, it is the polite thing to do.
03:31Also, if you don't, she's going to assume the worst.
03:34About?
03:34About what you look like.
03:36Right.
03:37Yeah.
03:37Yes.
03:39Why didn't I agree to this?
03:41Every picture I have, I'm with the kids, or I'm at church, and I haven't exactly told
03:46her that I'm a pastor yet.
03:48Right.
03:49I'm not hiding.
03:50You know, it's just that when it's the first thing people learn, they tend to want to be
03:55on their best behavior.
03:56They act like they get called into the principal's office.
03:59I don't know.
03:59Well, I get it.
04:00It makes things weird.
04:01Yeah.
04:02Can you save it for the second date?
04:03After you figure out if you even like each other?
04:07Okay.
04:07What do I do if she asks what I do?
04:10You tell her you are the CEO of a non-profit organization.
04:16No, it's not a lie.
04:18It's just different words.
04:21Oh, it's just different words.
04:23No.
04:23Malcolm, this is why I get paid the big bucks.
04:25I'm sure it is.
04:26Yes.
04:26I know how to position somebody.
04:29Ridiculous.
04:29Yes.
04:30What are you doing?
04:31Mm-hmm.
04:31Oh, come on.
04:33Here.
04:34Send her this.
04:36Come on.
04:38Who couldn't love that face?
04:48I don't know how you did it, man.
04:50You got me through my divorce.
04:53I didn't do that.
04:54You did.
04:56One day at a time.
04:58That's still my advice.
05:01Somehow this Malcolm and Lori together thing, I'm really struggling with it.
05:08Look, hey.
05:12Remember how close you were to drinking when that band fired you without talking to you about it first?
05:17Feelings aren't facts, but they're definitely triggers.
05:20Right?
05:21She's your ex-wife.
05:22He's your friend.
05:24And your trigger is betrayal.
05:26And that's what this feels like.
05:28But I opened the door.
05:31I opened the door.
05:32Okay?
05:32Malcolm is literally the best person I know, and I'm like the worst.
05:35Of course she's going to choose to.
05:36Okay, shame doesn't help anything.
05:38The divorce was your decision.
05:42You were in control.
05:44Whatever's going on between Lori and your friend, that was her choice.
05:50Right?
05:50And his.
05:51And maybe that's why this, you know, feels so hard and difficult, because it was out of your control.
05:58These are the moments that you need to be working your program.
06:01Hear me?
06:05Yeah.
06:06I do.
06:09Tell me you love me before you go.
06:12I've got that springtime sorrow.
06:15I need you to know.
06:17It's just my springtime sorrow.
06:18I got that springtime sorrow.
06:23Look, kids, I am all for you guys flexing your poetry muscle.
06:30But if you think I am too old to recognize you just changed a few words to a Lana Del
06:34Rey song, you're wrong.
06:36Poetry's cool.
06:38Lana Del plagiarism, it's not cool.
06:45Okay, looks like we have time for one more share.
06:51Flora, how about you?
06:54Uh, I thought you were going in alphabetical order.
06:58I'm going in Mr. Watson order.
07:00So, Flora.
07:04Uh, I'm, uh, I'm not ready.
07:07I mean, the work isn't ready.
07:08I'm sorry.
07:13What do you mean?
07:14You said we were in.
07:15The concert is tonight.
07:16It's Claire Leslie.
07:17I know it's Claire Leslie.
07:18I'm obsessed.
07:20Yeah.
07:20And I already posted about going backstage, so.
07:30Hey, bud.
07:31Let's go.
07:31I've got to get you to a youth group, and then I have a coffee date meeting thing.
07:36Mr. Jeffries?
07:37Um, sorry.
07:39Pastor Jeffries, do you have a moment?
07:41Uh, hold that thought.
07:43I'll be right there.
07:43Hi, Miss Colasanté.
07:45Sorry, I'm in a bit of a rush, and Malcolm's fine.
07:48Right, Malcolm.
07:49I just wanted to talk to you about Justin.
07:52Oh, there's not a problem, is there?
07:54No.
07:54No, no.
07:55More of a concern.
07:57He is a great kid.
07:58So sweet, and it's not just because he still brings me baked goods at recess and helps me clean up.
08:04Well, he is a trauma.
08:05He always has been, especially with the teachers.
08:09It's just I'm not noticing him socialize with other kids very often.
08:13Hmm.
08:14I mean, he hasn't been in my class since third grade, but here at Aftercare,
08:17and at recess, he usually sticks pretty close to me.
08:21Mm-hmm.
08:22Yeah, well, he's always been a little more comfortable around adults.
08:26You know, Mr. Jones hasn't mentioned anything.
08:28It's just something I've noticed.
08:30Right, well, I was the same as a kid, and he takes after me in that way.
08:35I guess I'm a bit of an introvert, too.
08:36It's not a bad thing.
08:37Oh, no, no.
08:38No, I'm not saying that.
08:39I am an introvert.
08:40I would take a book over a person any day.
08:43They're easier.
08:45Yeah, they are.
08:47So, um, is that it?
08:49Uh, well...
08:50Sorry, I'm literally taking him to youth group right now,
08:52where he will be around a whole bunch of other kids.
08:54Okay.
08:55Okay.
08:56And I'm just, uh, Justin's pretty zen.
08:59He's not the one I usually worry about.
09:01I understand.
09:02But I hear you.
09:03I do.
09:04And I will, um, I will keep an eye out.
09:06Thank you so much.
09:08All right, Justin.
09:09Come on, bud.
09:11I'm so used to doing everything on my own.
09:14Not into the neighbors with my headphones on.
09:17In my own world.
09:18Hey, our girl sounds great up there.
09:21Yep.
09:24Uh, Gail and I booked her some press after the show.
09:26Mm-hmm.
09:27You're pulling up right on time like you already knew.
09:29Everything okay?
09:32You tell me.
09:34Tell you what?
09:38Anyway, Charlotte Gallo from Pop Music World has been DMing me,
09:42so I just gave her a full half hour and booked her on their pod.
09:45You didn't think to maybe ask me about that first?
09:47Well, I...
09:48I mean, why share any of your PR plans with Claire's manager, right?
09:51He doesn't matter.
09:52No, I'm...
09:55I'm sorry.
09:56Uh, look, I didn't mean to piss you off.
09:59And I will make sure to run things by you next time.
10:03Whatever, Lori.
10:13Oh, it's Penn.
10:15She wanted to get a couple passes for tonight,
10:18but then Casey told me that she didn't want me to give them to her.
10:21I just feel bad.
10:22You know, Penn loves Claire.
10:24Yeah, and it's Malcolm's daughter, so...
10:27So...
10:28So why worry about your own daughter when this will make Malcolm happy?
10:31What are you talking about?
10:32Well, I'm just talking about you hiding things from me.
10:35Talking about you going behind my back and making plans for Claire without even telling me.
10:39I...
10:40Or hooking up with Malcolm.
10:42Yeah.
10:43What?
10:44Yeah, I heard about that, Lori, from our son.
10:47Interesting enough, he'd be the one to fill me in.
10:49Sorry, wait.
10:51Merit told you that Malcolm and I...
10:54He said you and Malcolm were together.
10:56He heard you two talking about it, and then he saw Malcolm leaving my townhouse Friday night after the two
10:59of you got those...
11:00Wait, sorry, after the two of us what?
11:02Because we didn't do anything.
11:05Well, that's not what Merit thinks.
11:12Oh...
11:13Okay, look, we're not...
11:17We kissed.
11:18Okay, but not the other night.
11:20A few weeks ago.
11:21We are not together.
11:22Mm-hmm.
11:25Well, is this you trying to get back at me?
11:26Is that what this is?
11:27No, of course not, okay?
11:29God, no one is trying to hurt you, David.
11:31This actually has nothing to do with...
11:33Of course this has something to do with me.
11:36We were all friends, Lori, and our kids.
11:39Are you serious?
11:41Just because we're divorced doesn't mean I'm out of your life.
11:42Okay, it was one time.
11:44One time.
11:44That is it.
11:44Really.
11:47Uh-oh.
11:48Hey.
11:49Hi.
11:50Do I...
11:51Do I need to leave?
11:52No.
11:52No, no, no.
11:53All good.
11:54No.
11:54Oh, honey, you sounded so good up there.
11:56She is going to light up the stage tonight.
11:58You got that right, Dee.
11:59Come on.
12:00Bring it in.
12:00Yeah.
12:01Oh.
12:03Oh, I can't believe this tour is actually in me.
12:06Right.
12:07Don't get too comfy, Claire.
12:09David and I are already into it with the label about a Southwest leg in the spring.
12:14That's right.
12:14She's about to get busy.
12:16These two would keep me on the road 365 if they could.
12:19Only because they love you so much.
12:21Mm-hmm.
12:21Anyway, I have downloaded David on the rest of the press schedule, so I'm gonna...
12:26Can you get it on, baby?
12:27I got mom duty, but Dee's got you covered.
12:30Okay?
12:31Break a leg.
12:32Okay.
12:33Okay.
12:34Bye-bye.
12:36Bye.
12:37Bye.
12:38Bye.
12:38Bye.
12:39Bye.
12:39Bye.
12:42Bye.
12:43Bye.
12:43Bye.
12:43Bye.
12:43Bye.
12:44Bye.
12:44Bye.
12:45Bye.
12:54Bye.
12:54You're getting good.
12:55Nah.
12:56You are.
12:57You should legit join a band or something.
13:00Maybe after, like, a thousand more hours of YouTube videos.
13:05I mean it.
13:06You think that you're not creative, but you are.
13:09Dude, this just lets me pound on something.
13:13I'm not like you.
13:15I'm...
13:15I don't have anything to say.
13:17Hmm.
13:18I don't think that's true.
13:20I think you have a lot to say.
13:24Why wouldn't you get up in class today?
13:27Oh, um...
13:29I don't know.
13:31I just couldn't...
13:33I already feel like there's a spotlight on me.
13:35You know?
13:36The girl with a dead mom.
13:38And my dad just makes it so much worse the way he hovers.
13:41Like, I'm gonna crack it any second.
13:46Can I hear it?
13:47Your poem?
13:49Come on.
13:50It's just me.
13:51Audience of one.
13:55You promise not to laugh?
13:59Good.
14:14In the darkness, I saw the light.
14:17It shined like your eyes.
14:20In my weakness, I found my strength.
14:23An extraordinary surprise.
14:25I hurt myself to feel.
14:29I felt myself disappear.
14:31I vanished into space.
14:32But left space for you.
14:35I'll always have...
14:37I'll never fill the space I keep for you.
14:40I'll keep it warm.
14:42I'll make it whole.
14:43I'll always love the space I keep for you.
14:49That's all.
14:52It's cheesy.
14:53Um, I hate it.
14:55You hate it.
14:56It's...
14:56Flora...
14:57It...
14:58It's amazing.
15:00You have to say that.
15:02No, I don't.
15:04That part about having a space for you, it's...
15:08It's like a chorus.
15:10That's weird.
15:12You're weird.
15:14Don't...
15:15Don't call me that.
15:16What?
15:16You are.
15:17I like that you're weird.
15:19It's a good thing.
15:20And I mean it.
15:22You could turn that poem to lyrics.
15:24It's...
15:24It's that good.
15:26Okay.
15:27Hey, you're...
15:28You're the musical one, not me.
15:30You just need to put a melody to it.
15:36I'm sure it's been such a tough road for you.
15:39My God.
15:40Oh, thanks.
15:41Yeah.
15:42I hear that a lot.
15:43I mean, it has been.
15:44Yes.
15:44But...
15:45But I'm here.
15:47Yes, you are.
15:48Mm-hmm.
15:49And I just think it is so brave of you to be putting yourself back out there.
15:55You seem as wonderful in real life as you do in your texts.
15:58Oh.
15:59Yeah, you too.
16:03Speaking of, you, um, never mention what you do.
16:07Well, uh, I'm the... I'm the CEO of a, uh, not on...
16:14No.
16:17Oh, good.
16:19For a second, I thought you were going to say non-profit and I am done with non-profit
16:22dudes.
16:23Oh.
16:24I went out with this Greenpeace guy and he totally stuck me with the check.
16:26Oh, no.
16:29Yeah.
16:30I'm a pastor.
16:34Oh.
16:36Of the Grace Community Church.
16:39David didn't mention that.
16:40Yeah, I, uh, I grew up Methodist.
16:43I went to seminary.
16:44I always knew I had a calling.
16:46Mm-hmm.
16:47And then I saw Lucas Mason preach and I knew that that was my path.
16:50I've been with Grace Community ever since.
16:53It's a, it's a very welcoming place.
16:57You don't look like a priest in your photos?
16:59No.
16:59Pastor.
17:00Not a priest.
17:01Oh.
17:01I think, I think you're thinking Catholicism, but I'm allowed to date.
17:06I think we are.
17:08Right.
17:16Oh, Merit.
17:18Good.
17:18What's up?
17:21I talked to your dad.
17:22He's very upset.
17:23Yeah, I, I shouldn't have said-
17:24No, you think you know something, but you don't.
17:26Okay?
17:27Malcolm and I were just friends.
17:28I, what, wait, wait a moment?
17:30A moment.
17:31But that's it.
17:31Mom, he's like swooping in and he's trying-
17:33No, no, no, no, he's not.
17:34Okay?
17:35Because Malcolm has done nothing wrong.
17:36I mean, I have done nothing wrong.
17:38Okay.
17:38I, I don't want to talk about this.
17:41I'm sorry.
17:42I'm sorry I said something to dad.
17:43I, I was pissed.
17:44No.
17:44At you.
17:45At him.
17:46Just the way he puts it on us to fix his mess.
17:50You can do whatever you want.
17:51No, but I'm not doing anything.
17:52Okay?
17:53That's the point.
17:54What happened between us, it, it was a mistake and it was one time.
17:58And I'm really sorry if it upset you.
18:01Okay?
18:01But nothing has changed.
18:03I, I don't care.
18:03All right.
18:05Where are you going?
18:07For a run.
18:09Honey.
18:13Give me a shot.
18:22Oh.
18:24Ask for Tennessee honey, not Tennessee rye.
18:28Fix that.
18:29No, what you want?
18:30You want Tennessee honey?
18:31Hey.
18:31I'm kidding.
18:32Hey.
18:33Excuse me.
18:34Tennessee honey in here, please.
18:36Hey, don't sweat it deep.
18:37This whiskey's whiskey, man.
18:44Woo!
18:55Am I drinking alone?
18:58Come on, man.
18:59End of the tour.
19:00We gotta celebrate.
19:10Yeah, we do.
19:14She was my friend.
19:15Come on.
19:43What's happening?
19:51Hey.
19:52Hey, hey, hey.
19:52Why aren't you out there playing with the other kids?
19:54Looks like they're having a ton of fun.
19:56Okay.
19:57I'm good here, Dan.
19:58Virginia needs my help.
20:00I ain't not sure to appreciate it.
20:02Oh, I get it.
20:03Virginia is the best.
20:04But I, you know, I can help her finish up.
20:07Why don't you go get in here for a few minutes before we leave?
20:11No thanks.
20:13You know, you used to hang out with Alex and Mateo.
20:19Something happened?
20:20Oh, I don't know.
20:22Did I do something wrong?
20:23No.
20:24No, no.
20:25Of course not.
20:25It's okay.
20:26You're good.
20:26Go on.
20:35We are just friends.
20:37I mean, if that's all you want it to be.
20:39I don't think it's up to me.
20:41I don't think it's up to me.
20:41He's like...
20:42He's crushing.
20:44Flora.
20:45He liked your poem.
20:46He was being nice.
20:48He said he wants you to turn it into a song.
20:51Guys don't say that when they're just being nice.
20:54He wants more.
20:55Of you.
20:56I don't know.
20:58Deal with the girl.
20:59Deal with it.
21:00Dude is thirsty for you.
21:02And not just any dude.
21:04A hot dude.
21:05A hot...wrestler dude.
21:08No, he's not a wrestler anymore.
21:12And that's not even what I like about him anyway.
21:15Oh, so you do like him.
21:19Gotta go.
21:21What?
21:32Oh, hey man.
21:34How many is that?
21:35I wish you got another bottle.
21:37No.
21:38I'm good.
21:39I think you're good too.
21:41I'm not good.
21:47I'm not good, man.
21:48Hey, you know what?
21:49I got something for you.
21:53Love it.
21:54Not me.
21:57Are these...
21:58My AA chips.
21:59Mm-hmm.
22:00Two years.
22:02Almost made it to three.
22:04Keep them.
22:05They're yours.
22:07Don't mean anything now.
22:12Oh!
22:13Epa!
22:14Woo!
22:15Come on, girl.
22:16Look at you.
22:17They're gonna love you tonight.
22:20Thanks, D.
22:21Hey, you know what?
22:21You should write a song about...
22:23You should write a song about a guy who finds out that his...
22:26ex-wife is hooking up with his friend.
22:28Right?
22:29Hey, isn't that like every country song?
22:32You can't have too many.
22:34Right?
22:36I got you, buddy.
22:38Come on.
22:39There we go.
22:40There we go.
22:42You know a lot of those.
22:45You earned them.
22:48It's amazing.
22:49I...
22:49I got sober and then I left my wife.
22:53Maybe I'm just stupid when I'm sober.
22:55Right?
23:08Are you physically gonna be able to eat all that?
23:10Mm-hmm.
23:11I have to.
23:12You know, coach says I'm giving away six pounds the second I step on the mat.
23:19Message from Bridges.
23:20911.
23:21Come to the show ASAP.
23:24Oh, shoot.
23:25Oh, I'm sorry, sweetie.
23:27Uh, quick pit stop before we go home.
23:36Hey.
23:37What's going on?
23:38Your husband.
23:39What?
23:40Ex.
23:41I'm sorry.
23:42I wouldn't have offered him a drink if I'd known.
23:44Oh, if...
23:45Hey.
23:46Hey, there she is.
23:48Oh, David.
23:50Oh, yep.
23:51That's about right.
23:52Oh, David.
23:54Look, I'm sorry.
23:56Uh, Casey, your dad and I need a minute.
23:57Is he drunk?
23:58He'll be fine.
23:59You wanna check out the stage?
24:00No.
24:01It's okay.
24:01Hey, come on.
24:02Let's get you out of here.
24:03No, I'm working.
24:04No, you are not working anymore.
24:06I'm working!
24:07Oh!
24:09Okay.
24:10Fine.
24:11Okay.
24:12We're back.
24:13Hey.
24:13It's fine.
24:15Hey.
24:17Hey, Bug.
24:18Hey.
24:21Wait, you here to see the show?
24:23Oh, look.
24:23Look at Claire.
24:25If you need to, Casey can stay with me if she wants.
24:28We got her.
24:29Is it cool?
24:30Yeah, okay.
24:31Yeah.
24:32Okay.
24:33Gail is on her way.
24:34Um, look.
24:35Your death's gonna be alright.
24:37Alright?
24:37Don't worry.
24:38I got him.
24:38Okay.
24:39I'll see you in a bit.
24:40Okay.
24:42Come on.
24:43I'm sorry, okay?
24:45I'm sorry.
24:50Hey, Art.
24:51Are you okay?
24:53Yeah.
24:54It sucks when someone you love is going through something like this, huh?
25:00But your dad's a good guy.
25:02He loves you.
25:04I can tell.
25:05Yeah.
25:07You know, my friend Penn, she's a super huge fan of yours.
25:10Really?
25:10Yeah.
25:11Way more than me.
25:16Penn, no devices at the table, please.
25:18This is a live stream.
25:20This is happening now.
25:21Claire's gonna come on any minute.
25:22Mm-hmm.
25:23Well, this is a live dinner.
25:24No, we're almost done.
25:25The more you do this, the longer it's gonna take for me to get a phone.
25:28Yeah.
25:29Hey, Dad, I was thinking of going by the church tonight.
25:33Oh.
25:34No, relax.
25:34It's just to use the piano.
25:36Yeah, of course.
25:38Sure, that's great.
25:39Okay.
25:47I got it.
25:56I cannot believe I'm back here.
26:00You can't believe.
26:07Hey, give me my phone back.
26:09Who are you calling?
26:09Stop.
26:10David.
26:11Stop.
26:16Hey.
26:17Hey, buddy.
26:19Hey, guess who I'm with?
26:20David?
26:21What's going on?
26:21Malcolm, do not listen to him.
26:22He's drunk.
26:23Hey, you know what?
26:24You could've just told me.
26:25Stop.
26:25You could've just told me you had the hots for my wife.
26:28No, David, it's not, uh, that's, it's not what you, what it-
26:33Well, mouth butt it is!
26:34Okay, look, Malcolm, I will call you later, okay?
26:37Just, please, I'm getting him home, alright?
26:39I'll, I'll call you.
26:52Take me home.
26:56Yes, to your townhouse.
26:59It's bad enough that Casey saw you like this.
27:01I don't want Merritt to.
27:05It's really not the example he needs right now.
27:35You could've just let me go into your classroom to speak.
27:36No way more.
28:01And you're looking for the people you could've just...
29:43Space, space.
30:20I'll always keep this peace for you.
30:40Come on.
30:41Let me help.
30:42Oh, no, Malcolm, you shouldn't have...
30:44I don't want your help.
30:45David, come on.
30:46Okay.
30:47Hey, I would never do that with a friend of yours.
30:49You know what, David?
30:50You don't get to tell me who I can and can't kiss.
30:52If I want to kiss Malcolm, I'll kiss Malcolm.
30:55You lied to me.
30:56I didn't.
30:57No.
30:58When I called you, you were here with her, weren't you?
31:00We were just talking, but yes, I was.
31:03And you just, what, just felt the need to leave that little part out when you were talking
31:07to me?
31:11You were a pastor.
31:12Mm-hmm.
31:13Yeah.
31:14You were my friend.
31:15Okay, you've said your piece.
31:16You know what?
31:17Come on.
31:17Do me a favor.
31:20Stay away from my family.
31:21Stop.
31:22You don't have to.
31:22Focus on your own.
31:23Stop.
31:23Okay?
31:23And tell that mean girl daughter of yours to stop hurting.
31:26Okay, that's enough.
31:27All right, I've got him.
31:28Just go.
31:29Stop.
31:41Okay, come on.
31:51Okay, just so you know, this is as far as I take this with you.
31:55All right?
31:56I'm not going back to the days where, you know, you're just, you're on your own from
32:01here.
32:02All right.
32:06This case, you're going to be okay.
32:10Yes, you will be.
32:21Honestly, it is different.
32:25I'm not going to be a picnic, not some kind of fiction, full-life kind of friendship.
32:31Yeah, that kind of friendship.
32:33I just want to be my, I just want to be my, I just want to be myself.
32:40I just want to be a, I just want to be a, I just want to be a, wanna be
32:46original.
32:56Can I just want to be my, I just want to be my, I just want to be myself.
33:15Thank you so much for covering.
33:17I just wanna feel, wanna feel, can you ever get?
33:29Hey.
33:32What?
33:33I know things haven't been great between you and Casey lately,
33:38but I still expect you to be kind.
33:40Right, so it's all on me.
33:42Meanwhile, Casey's with my favorite singer.
33:45Not hers.
33:46You know, the one that she said that she couldn't get me backstage to meet?
33:49No, she's doing this to hype herself and then make me look bad.
33:52So she's the one that's not being kind, okay?
33:54Okay, okay.
33:54I'm sorry I'm not living up to your expectations.
33:56No, hey, listen, I understand that you're angry right now and jealous,
34:00but I'm less concerned about you living up to my expectations
34:04than I am about you living up to your own.
34:07What about just being happy for Casey?
34:10You know, find some grace in your heart. That's an option, too.
34:13And it takes a lot less energy.
34:30Hey.
34:32What's up?
34:34Uh, turn that off. We need to talk.
34:36Uh, I don't really...
34:38How often do you drink?
34:39What?
34:42I don't.
34:43Uh, come on.
34:45Um, I went to high school, too.
34:50I... I have a beer.
34:53A couple at parties. I mean, that's it.
34:57You don't have to worry.
35:00I'm not dad.
35:01Not like that.
35:03Good.
35:03Um, because you should know that he fell off the wagon tonight.
35:06At the show.
35:09Was Casey there?
35:10Yeah.
35:12Okay, she's okay.
35:14And so is your dad.
35:16It's my fault.
35:17No.
35:18No, no, no, no.
35:19It is not.
35:20It is not.
35:20You have absolutely nothing wrong.
35:23Okay, this isn't about you.
35:24And it's really...
35:25It's not even about me.
35:26But your father is responsible for his own choices.
35:30Just like you are responsible for your choices.
35:35And for what it's worth, I know that he feels terrible.
35:41I'm sorry.
35:43It's neither one of us are winning any parenting prizes right now.
35:50But however today went down, um...
35:54And we love you.
35:58Love you, too.
36:00Yes.
36:08OMG, Casey, I can't believe they're posted about you.
36:11What was she like?
36:15You guys, she was so sick.
36:18I mean, honestly, like, she was...
36:20I'm just obsessed with her, you know?
36:22Like, that was the best.
36:27Yes.
36:46Hey, bud.
36:48Good day?
36:49Yeah.
36:50Yeah?
36:51You know what I was thinking?
36:53What about if we invite some of your friends over to our house?
36:55Whoever you want.
36:56On your home turf.
36:58Okay.
36:59To do what?
37:00To do whatever you want to do.
37:02It's gotta be better than hanging out with me, right?
37:07Thanks.
37:08Yeah, of course.
37:09Hey, pack this up. I'll be right back, okay?
37:12Okay.
37:12Ms. Colasanti.
37:14Hi, Pastor Jeffries.
37:16Malcolm.
37:16And, uh, Grace is fine.
37:19Oh, okay, Grace.
37:20Uh, like my church.
37:22Look, I just wanted to say that, uh, I'm sorry.
37:25You were right to say something about Justin.
37:27I'm glad you didn't.
37:28Uh, well, uh, okay.
37:32It's just, uh, parents don't usually apologize.
37:34Like, ever.
37:36So, this is, uh, it's a new feeling.
37:38Really? That's horrible.
37:39Yeah, guys are the job.
37:41Uh, I love the kids, though, so I'm, uh, I'm stuck with it.
37:46Right, well, uh, if I'm being honest, and it's important for me to be honest, um, I think I got
37:52defensive because I didn't want to believe that there could be something wrong with my good kid.
37:57Justin is a good kid, Malcolm.
38:00Justin is a good kid, Malcolm.
38:00I, I really didn't mean to suggest otherwise.
38:03As long as there's balance, gravitating to adult women might be what he needs right now.
38:09Well, he's got good taste.
38:11Sorry, uh, uh, that sounded like I was trying to flirt with you.
38:14But, that's, that's okay.
38:19Oh, it is.
38:21Is, uh, okay, is that allowed?
38:24It's not, not allowed.
38:26I mean, Justin hasn't been a student in my class for two years.
38:31So.
38:34So?
38:35So maybe you might, um, what, my number?
38:39Oh, yes.
38:41Yes.
38:41Please.
38:42Um, I don't, I don't have a, how do, yeah?
38:51Now you have my number.
38:54Okay.
38:56Okay.
39:05Now it's time for newcomer's shares.
39:08Any newcomers?
39:20Hello, everyone, I'm David.
39:21Hi, David.
39:23I was two plus years sober, and, uh, well now I have one day.
39:31Guess that makes me a newcomer.
39:41See you tomorrow.
39:48Hey.
39:50Hey.
39:51It's good to see you back in a meeting.
39:52Mm-hmm.
39:53Yeah.
39:56I'm sorry, David.
39:58You were right.
40:00I should have been upfront with you.
40:01I should have been honest, trusted our friendship.
40:03I'm really sorry that I didn't.
40:07It's like I said, you chose Lori, right?
40:09No, I choose you both.
40:14You probably don't want to hear this right now, but I'm proud of you.
40:18I think I haven't told you that enough.
40:21You're in a battle I know nothing about personally, and I really respect that you're here.
40:25I'm still fighting.
40:28That storm you're in, Jesus' presence is your peace.
40:35I'm praying for you, always.
40:36Always.
40:39You're my friend, David.
40:43Yeah, you're right.
40:46You're right.
40:47I don't want to hear that right now.
41:08You're my friend, David.
41:09I just wanna guess that you're missing.
41:17You must have a Cash-Songer on the other side.
41:19I could tell you how I'm saying that I'm trying to figure out what's going on.
41:21You're right.
41:21You're right, David.
41:21You're right.
41:21Uh, and...
41:28Oy, what happened?
41:30Oh, my...
41:31Oh, my...
41:31Oh, my...
41:33Oh, my...
41:34I was...
41:35Oh, my...
41:35Oh, ma, oh, my...
41:36Oh, my...
41:55Mm.
41:57Oh, hi.
41:59Hey.
42:01Hey.
42:02Oh, man.
42:04Uh, I saw David go into a meeting.
42:06Good.
42:07Yeah.
42:08Thank you for coming to help.
42:10I am so sorry I was short with you.
42:13No, no, no, no, no. Look, I feel terrible
42:15that we were what triggered him, you know? I mean...
42:18Well, this was not his first setback.
42:21Hopefully it will be his last,
42:23but I can only take so much responsibility for that.
42:27I mean, our actions do have consequences.
42:30We did kiss.
42:32You know?
42:34But...
42:35It's not like it's gonna happen again.
42:37Yeah, no, of course not.
42:39So...
42:43So...
42:44So...
42:46So how'd your date go?
42:48You never told me.
42:49Oh, yeah, uh...
42:51Well, um, let's just say we're not gonna make it to a second conversation.
42:55I can't do different words.
42:56I led with Pastor,
42:58and then I gave her my entire origin story.
43:01Okay, so...
43:02I mean...
43:02All the words.
43:05I'm realizing just how hard it's gonna be to start with someone from ground zero.
43:10Yeah.
43:12We have to go through so much stuff,
43:14and then all the texting just to get to the coffee.
43:17Yeah.
43:18Why can't we just fast forward past all that and see if we're any good together?
43:21Yeah.
43:22Where's that app?
43:23I want to sign up for that one.
43:24Yeah.
43:28Look.
43:29Hmm.
43:29You're gonna be fine.
43:31Right?
43:32You just need to find someone who hears you're a pastor, and...
43:36it doesn't get weird.
43:43Yeah.
43:44Yeah.
43:48So, I talked to my mom.
43:50She and your dad aren't a thing.
43:53If they ever were.
43:55See?
43:56I told you.
43:57My dad doesn't lie.
44:05Although...
44:06I've been thinking about it.
44:10I think that if two people are into each other,
44:16they shouldn't let anything stand in their way.
44:19You know?
44:21Okay.
44:24Can I play you something?
44:27Or sing you something?
44:30Yes.
44:31Yeah.
44:32Okay.
44:43I hear your song when no one's near,
44:46cuts through the silence, draws you clear.
44:53I talk to stars, I look for signs,
44:56they all still with me in my mind.
45:02Put your bags to the side.
45:05Stay.
45:07Stay as long as you like.
45:11When it gets dark,
45:14and I feel alone.
45:17There's still a place with you inside of my soul.
45:21I keep it warm.
45:24I make it whole.
45:26Next to my heart,
45:28I feel your love and I'm home.
45:31The creak in the stairs, the hum in the air
45:36I leave a light on cause I know that you're there
45:41You're all I want, so I bear the cross of making room
45:51Long as I breathe, I'll always keep space for you
46:04I don't know what to say
46:07That you like it?
46:13I love it
46:16You are
46:35I love it
46:37I love it
46:41I love it
46:41I love it
46:43I love it
46:49I love it
46:53I love it
46:53I love it
47:19I love it
47:20I love it
47:21I love it
47:23This is moving really fast
47:26No, coffee's fine
47:27I didn't mean that we had to have a
47:30I'm kidding
47:32I would love to have dinner with you
47:37Great
47:38Great
47:43I've been fine
47:43I gave it
47:53Heaved
47:54With that
47:54I love it
48:00It's a very cold
48:00I'm drivingrule
48:07I'm
48:09getting loin
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