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Welcome to Plathville Season 8 Episode 5
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00:00I'm moving to Wisconsin. Does she know you're coming to Wisconsin?
00:05I really want us to be together, you know, and I really want to be up there.
00:08If I move my life and then Tegan says no, that's just a risk that I'm willing to take.
00:15A few days ago, me and Isaac ended up breaking up.
00:19I have a lot of guilt from what I did, so it's just a matter of if we can unscrew
00:25what I screwed up.
00:26I really don't know if I will get her back.
00:30That really scares me.
00:33Have you dated anyone yet?
00:35I have not dated anybody yet, right?
00:38I've been waiting for him to like, you know, say he's going to start dating.
00:42It's like, yeah, it's about time.
00:46I'm here in Wisconsin. I drove over here yesterday and she doesn't know I'm here.
00:51To me, if you don't tell her, the worst thing that can happen is she finds out and then she
00:55thinks you're really weird.
00:57I would seriously consider talking to Tegan.
01:12Tegan knows you on this car.
01:14Oh, yeah.
01:16Are you purposely not?
01:19Not.
01:19That was her.
01:20No, was it?
01:21Yeah, it was.
01:23I don't think she saw me, though.
01:25She never took her eyes off the front of the road.
01:29I just can't believe how lucky I was that she didn't see me.
01:34I didn't tell Tegan that I was moving up here because I wanted to have action already behind it, which,
01:41like, a place that I've already found that I'm going to live, you know.
01:46It's getting in the game pretty much, and then tell her after, I'm sure it looks impulsive, but I spent
01:54months thinking about it every day, and I couldn't let it go.
02:04Hello.
02:07Wanted to order a dozen roses.
02:09I want to get her roses, but I don't know if I just leave the roses with a note or,
02:14you know, if I'm there.
02:16I guess I haven't figured that out.
02:19I'll do this one.
02:23I'm just, of course, a little nervous because I haven't seen her in a few months now.
02:28I haven't talked to her in forever.
02:30I don't know what's going on in her life.
02:33I mean, anything could have happened.
02:37What did you do that she's no longer your girlfriend?
02:42We pretty much summarized in putting her last on the list for, like, a year.
02:48At least that's how she felt.
02:49Oh.
02:50Yeah, not good.
02:52It's not there.
02:54The ladies at the flower shop, they're asking me, you know, like, who I'm getting the roses for, and they're
02:58like, do you think these will get her back?
03:00I was like, no, I don't think getting her roses is going to get her back.
03:05I could see it in both their eyes.
03:07They're like, oh, God, another one.
03:10That's how I felt.
03:12I mean, if you run a flower shop, you'll probably see that every day.
03:15The dude's coming in, screwed up, and, you know, aren't going to apologize unless they have some flowers.
03:24She doesn't know I'm here, and I drove past her on the road this morning.
03:28Really?
03:29Yeah.
03:29And she had no idea?
03:30She didn't see me as far as I know.
03:32I love that.
03:33I think I'm just going to drop the flowers off with a note.
03:38I don't know.
03:38It's a little exciting because it could be the start of a new chapter, but it could also be a
03:43hard no, final note.
03:46I'll be rooting for you.
03:47You have to come back and let us know.
03:48I will.
03:50But either way, I'm just excited to get to see what happens, even if it was a no.
03:55Good luck.
03:55Thank you very much.
03:56I appreciate it.
03:57Thank you, guys.
03:58Have a great day.
03:59You too.
04:01You too.
04:13All right, guys.
04:14You ready?
04:15Just be ready to sweat.
04:18Today we're at the gym, and it's a HIIT class session.
04:21So it's just a lot of high-intensity workout stuff until you basically puke.
04:27We got four rounds for time.
04:29So you know that means fast as you can go, hard as you can go.
04:32We're going to get you sore today.
04:34Jason is the instructor, and he's a motivator, right?
04:37And so he likes to push us.
04:39Let's go.
04:39Go.
04:40Come on.
04:41Nice.
04:42If your butt don't touch, it don't count.
04:45All right, tie flips.
04:47If you're ready, 25.
04:48Go.
04:50Nice.
04:55Five years ago, I wasn't working out at all, right?
04:58And then the divorce happened.
04:59They needed an outlet.
05:00And then all of a sudden, it became what it is today.
05:03Ready?
05:04Go.
05:05We got a good group of people with the HIIT class.
05:08Barry, you touch that line!
05:10What?
05:12Come on, guys.
05:13What do you mean?
05:14You got to touch it?
05:15Yes, Barry, touch it.
05:16If you don't touch the ground, it'll count.
05:18Everybody's such a legalist around here this morning.
05:20Yeah, Allison, she's the unofficial drill instructor of the HIIT class.
05:25Everybody knows you always touch the line.
05:28We love Barry.
05:29I mean, we kid with him.
05:31We joke with him.
05:32Come on, Barry.
05:33Round two.
05:34Let's go.
05:35Come on, Barry.
05:35You're going a little slow today.
05:37You must have partied too hard last night.
05:39We've always known Barry because he kind of comes to the gym.
05:42And, you know, he didn't talk a whole lot.
05:45You know, he didn't conversate with people.
05:47And then all of a sudden, he comes in and he had on, like, a tank top.
05:51And we were like, what happened to this guy?
05:55Like, he's, like, jacked up.
05:56Oh, bust out.
05:58And, like, oh, my gosh.
06:11Barry has a nickname in our family, and he's called Plath Daddy.
06:16He is Plath Daddy, and he will always be Plath Daddy.
06:21So here's the name of Plath Daddy.
06:23Plath Daddy.
06:24He does not know that, y'all.
06:27He does not know that.
06:30Barry.
06:32Come over here.
06:33Do you want to know your nickname?
06:35You are officially nicknamed Plath Daddy.
06:40Yeah.
06:41See, that's good.
06:43So somebody ginned up the term Plath Daddy.
06:47Maybe it came from, you know, some youngster or two or three.
06:53Who knows?
06:53Plath Daddy.
06:55Easy.
06:55There we go.
06:57Maybe give them some eye candy.
06:59Sometimes they like the bulging biceps.
07:03We got a great group, don't we?
07:05You guys are great.
07:05You killed it.
07:07Congratulations.
07:08So I was thinking of dipping my feet back in the dating pool again.
07:14That'll be good.
07:14So I think I'm about ready to try.
07:15You want to find somebody that's your best friend, right?
07:17Yeah, exactly.
07:19That we love doing like that.
07:21Mm-hmm.
07:22Would you say Barry's a catch?
07:23Yeah, he's a good-looking older guy, right?
07:26We're trying to push him about him getting out there, dating.
07:29Just do a speed date.
07:31I'm not going to do a speed date.
07:34That way you don't have to spend but a minute with each one or so.
07:37Yeah, it's like a sampler platter.
07:39Yeah.
07:40I think Barry's going to be picky because he was married for so long.
07:43He knows what he wants and what he don't want now.
07:46We try to keep an eye out, but, you know, in a small town,
07:48it's hard to find somebody really compatible.
07:52I mean, really, it is, to me, a lot about common interests.
07:55Well, you just need to find somebody who likes to work out.
07:58That'd be fun.
08:00I'll keep you posted.
08:02Yeah, man, that feels good!
08:04Ugh!
08:11Since we broke up, I've just been thinking about all this
08:15over and over and over and over again.
08:17In my heart, I didn't really know what I should do
08:19and what I shouldn't do
08:21because I didn't know how she felt.
08:23You know, I didn't know if she would think
08:25it was maybe inconsiderate to move up here.
08:30I mean, it's very possible that it's too late.
08:36But I don't know if I'll ever have an answer to us
08:40if I don't do this.
08:42You have a bunch of flowers sitting in the car.
08:47What's the next move?
08:50I don't know.
08:51I guess next move is to call her and tell her.
08:55But she's going to start asking me,
08:57well, are you here?
08:58And then I don't know what I'm going to say.
09:02I just didn't want to call her up and be like,
09:04hey, I haven't talked to you in forever.
09:05I'm going to move there now.
09:07I fully realized that not telling her could backfire,
09:10and so I definitely am nervous to call her.
09:13And part of me is hoping that she doesn't pick up.
09:29Yes, she didn't answer.
09:30I don't have to do it now.
09:35Damn, I feel like this is such a soap opera.
09:39Oh, she's calling you back.
09:40She's calling you back.
09:42You got this.
09:48Hey.
09:49Hey, are you good?
09:51Yeah, I had something to ask you.
09:55Okay.
10:01If we get up far enough, I'll let you run.
10:04Oh, my gosh.
10:05I moved to Montana, and now my life is perfect.
10:08It's not at all perfect.
10:10This is some snow.
10:12Being so scared of the future
10:15sometimes ends up holding you back.
10:18And trust me, I spent a lot of years running.
10:20I would know.
10:23Today I'm out here to meet Kaylin.
10:25I never really knew how much she meant to me
10:27until she was gone.
10:29She's ready to meet up,
10:30so I'm really anxious and nervous.
10:46I had something to ask you.
10:48Oh, okay.
10:52Um.
10:55Well, I have something for you.
10:59I just want ever...
11:02I'm sure you're probably busy tonight.
11:05Yeah.
11:06Anyways, just let me know
11:09when you go pick it up.
11:13I was just wondering...
11:14When I can pick it up?
11:15Yeah.
11:16At the park that we used to go to.
11:22Pick it up from there?
11:23Mm-hmm.
11:27Oh, okay.
11:29Uh, probably tomorrow night.
11:31Okay.
11:32I'll make sure it's there by then.
11:37Okay.
11:43All right.
11:45Well...
11:45Oh, that sounds like a plan to me.
11:49Just let me know.
11:51Okay.
11:53Okay.
11:55That sounds good.
11:56Okay.
11:57All right.
11:58Bye.
11:59Love you.
12:00Bye.
12:01She didn't ask if I was here.
12:02That's good.
12:04I love her dearly,
12:05and I want nothing more
12:06than to spend the rest of my life with her,
12:08but I'm not expecting her
12:10to just pick it up
12:11right where we left it off.
12:12I'm perfectly fine and happy
12:14starting from square one.
12:18I think it was good
12:19because she didn't hang up
12:20or, like, make me tell her everything,
12:22you know.
12:24Do you think she knows you're here?
12:27She could.
12:28It's not impossible.
12:30I think the call was very good.
12:32Surprisingly,
12:33she didn't push me too hard.
12:35I was like,
12:35I'll make sure that it's there.
12:38It's so dumb.
12:40Definitely
12:42leaves me feeling hopeful
12:43and excited.
12:45I did.
12:58If we get up far enough,
12:59I'll let you run.
13:00Or you're not going to run
13:01and terrorize anyone.
13:03I moved to Montana
13:05going on nine months ago.
13:08Montana has been so healing,
13:11so good for me.
13:13Starting over really did teach me
13:14to trust myself again
13:15and have more confidence
13:16in myself knowing, like,
13:19I did it all alone.
13:21Blackjack loves it out here.
13:23Isn't this pretty, Jackjack?
13:26Well, I didn't do it all alone.
13:28I had God,
13:29and I had people
13:30who came into my life
13:32and just looked out for me
13:33for no reason.
13:35That was what I needed.
13:40Oh, no, your jacket!
13:43I still have my moments.
13:46I'm not saying, like,
13:46oh, my gosh,
13:47I moved to Montana
13:48and now my life is perfect.
13:50It's not at all perfect.
13:52This is some snow.
13:55Well, you're being good.
13:57But I remember one day
13:58I was driving home.
13:59I was smiling
14:00and just, like, happy.
14:02I was like,
14:03nothing special had happened
14:04that made me happy.
14:06You know?
14:06I'm just, like, happy.
14:12It feels so good
14:13to have found a place
14:15that I realized, like,
14:16this isn't temporary.
14:18Who knows?
14:19There might be a time
14:19in the future
14:20I gotta start over again.
14:21But at least I know
14:22I can do it.
14:23There you go, honey!
14:26Ethan and Isaac
14:27have kept their promise
14:28and they're coming out
14:29to see me.
14:31I was absolutely heartbroken
14:33finding out that
14:34Galen and Isaac
14:35broke up and
14:37called Isaac
14:38and told him.
14:38I was like,
14:39I don't want to tell you this
14:41but I think
14:42I think this is a bad decision.
14:45I think he feels right now
14:46like he's
14:48just not
14:50in the place
14:51that he wants to be.
14:53But you're never
14:54gonna be ready.
14:56and don't let anyone
14:57pressure you
14:58but if you
14:59wait your whole life
15:00to be ready
15:01for things
15:01you're gonna regret
15:02not taking certain leaps.
15:10that's just one of the ways
15:12that you end up
15:13building a great life
15:14is by taking
15:16chances
15:16and taking leaps
15:18that you don't feel ready for.
15:20And I'm not saying
15:21get married now
15:22I'm not saying
15:23propose to her now
15:24but
15:26being so scared
15:27of the future
15:31sometimes ends up
15:32holding you back
15:33and trust me
15:34I spent a lot of years
15:35running
15:35I would know.
15:39Blackjack
15:39there you are.
15:52Today I'm out here
15:52to meet Kaylin
15:53and just talk about
15:55you know
15:56everything that's
15:56happened lately.
16:02There were a few reasons
16:03why I broke up
16:05with her
16:05that you know
16:06were running around
16:07in my head
16:08but
16:08I never really
16:10knew how much
16:11she meant to me
16:11until she was gone.
16:13All I've heard
16:14from her
16:14is that she wanted
16:15to take some time
16:16didn't know if it'd be
16:17a week
16:17a month
16:18but it's only been
16:19a few days
16:19and she's ready
16:20to meet up
16:21so I'm really
16:22anxious
16:23and nervous.
16:41So Isaac
16:42has been texting me
16:43and
16:44I just didn't
16:45necessarily know
16:46when
16:46would be
16:47the right time
16:48to talk
16:48just because
16:50him
16:51you know
16:51dropping me
16:52like
16:53out of nowhere
16:54I do kind of
16:55feel like
16:55that was a little bit
16:59yeah
17:02just wondering
17:03what the heck
17:03is going on.
17:07Hey Kayla
17:08Hey
17:11You want to sit
17:12in my truck
17:12and talk
17:13or
17:13Yeah we can
17:14Okay
17:29Well over
17:30the past few days
17:31I've talked to
17:32a bunch of
17:33my family members
17:34and they're like
17:35well after what
17:36you just told me
17:37it sounds like
17:38you shouldn't
17:38have broken up
17:39with her
17:40and then
17:42I
17:46I realized
17:46I mean
17:47they were right
17:49and
17:50I'm just really
17:51sorry I put you
17:52through that
17:53you don't deserve
17:54that.
17:55You said that
17:56you
17:57were
17:58overthinking
17:59about a lot
17:59of stuff
18:01about what
18:02happened with
18:02Ethan
18:03and Olivia
18:04and Micah
18:05and Veronica
18:06and that kind
18:07of got to
18:07your head
18:08and
18:09Yeah I know
18:10I know that's
18:11different lives
18:12there's nothing
18:13to do directly
18:14with me
18:15other than
18:15just seeing that
18:16for the past
18:16several years
18:17just
18:18kind of scared
18:19me
18:22I try to be
18:23a very
18:23understanding person
18:24and try to see
18:24it from both sides
18:25you should have
18:27just communicated
18:28with me about it
18:28I know I should have
18:30and I don't want
18:31anybody else
18:35I thought of
18:37trying to
18:38build something
18:39with somebody else
18:40makes me sick
18:41and I don't want
18:41that
18:43the ball's
18:44in your court
18:45I'm just
18:46letting you know
18:47where I stand
18:49I don't take
18:50bull crap
18:50I know my
18:51self worth
18:53I know what I
18:54will and won't
18:54take
19:10I would give anything
19:14to be able to have
19:15one more chance
19:15to make it right
19:16because I know
19:17that that's what I want
19:20what else
19:20were you like
19:21overthinking about
19:22like
19:23because you had
19:24mentioned something
19:25about marriage
19:27like did you think
19:28that
19:29I wanted it
19:30like right away
19:31or something
19:32well not right away
19:33but with you being
19:34older and stuff
19:35that you know
19:38you know
19:38like I mean
19:39obviously marriage
19:40is on the table
19:40for me one day
19:41but
19:42I never pressured
19:43you about marriage
19:44or
19:45really anything
19:47I know
19:48I just got caught
19:49up in my head
19:49about certain things
19:50and that's what
19:51it led to
19:52but
19:53I really got
19:54a bunch of questions
19:55and a bunch of
19:56thoughts I was having
19:57all cleared up
19:58and answered
19:59in just the past few days
20:00I just hate that
20:01I had to hurt you
20:02you know
20:02in the process
20:05the day after it happened
20:07obviously you know
20:07I was crying
20:08I was upset
20:09and
20:10he called my parents
20:12and I was like
20:13why the heck
20:14did he call you
20:14mama was like
20:16Kaylin you could tell
20:17he was really confused
20:18and he was hurt
20:19and really bad
20:20and he was really upset too
20:22she was like
20:23I could tell
20:23that he kind of thought
20:24shoot
20:26what did I do
20:28there are trust issues
20:31now
20:32and
20:32it's not something
20:34that you just give away
20:35it's something that
20:35you have to earn
20:37over time
20:38with your actions
20:38I know
20:42are you even willing
20:44to earn that trust
20:45back and everything
20:48I'm willing to do
20:49whatever it takes
20:51actions over words
20:55I can tell
20:56you know
20:57just from
20:58the way she's looking
20:59at me
20:59that you know
21:00she's not here
21:00to mess around
21:01now I've
21:02done a number
21:03on her
21:04you know
21:05it's up to her
21:05I put myself
21:07in this situation
21:08I can't
21:09I gotta be able
21:10to accept
21:10the results
21:13and then you know
21:14one conversation
21:14is not gonna
21:16obviously not
21:17I don't care
21:18if it takes a year
21:20I mean
21:20it doesn't matter
21:21what I have to do
21:22all I need
21:23is one more chance
21:30I don't give
21:31second chances
21:32out easily
21:35I know in my heart
21:36that I do still love him
21:37and I
21:37you know
21:38I want to
21:39back together with him
21:40but
21:42I think right now
21:43I am just trying
21:44to set some boundaries
21:44just because
21:46I just don't want
21:47to get hurt again
21:50I'm willing
21:50to try every day
21:51to do better
21:53than I did
21:53the day before
22:03okay
22:05okay
22:10well I won't
22:11let you down
22:11I promise
22:14better not
22:15I won't
22:18better not
22:20he's my best friend
22:22and
22:24we were just so close
22:25so fast
22:26and
22:27obviously I do want
22:28to get back to that
22:30I know for a fact
22:31he sweated it out some
22:32even if it was
22:33for a short while
22:34but I'm not gonna sit here
22:36and drag it on
22:36because that's not fair to me
22:37that's not fair to him
22:38and I don't want to
22:39I don't want to do that
22:41I'm just hoping
22:42it's one of those things
22:43that will end up
22:43bringing us closer
22:48I don't know
22:48I'm at a loss of words
22:49I don't know what to say
22:50I really don't deserve
22:51a second chance
22:52but
22:53that just gives me
22:55all the more
22:55you know
22:57motivation
22:58to be the man
22:59she needs
23:00would you wanna
23:02get out
23:03walk around a little bit
23:03or
23:05yeah we can
23:05it's really nice out
23:07the only thing I want
23:08is to be able to
23:09build something
23:10real with her
23:12I'm gonna you know
23:13just
23:13be honest with her
23:15communicate with her
23:16and
23:16and stay true to her
23:18but it's really good
23:19to just you know
23:20be able to hold her hand again
23:22after thinking
23:23I may never
23:23see her again
23:25I mean we're not
23:26in Hawaii
23:27see that looks good
23:30you're squishing it now
23:33no
23:34it's fine
23:48I texted Tegan
23:49and she texted me
23:51like 10 minutes later
23:51and said
23:52what's tomorrow about
23:53and she texted me
23:54and said
23:54okay do I get a hint
23:56about
23:56what it's about
23:58cause I'm mildly
23:59stressed out
24:00with a
24:01sweating emoji
24:04now I don't know
24:05what to say
24:13I kinda need
24:14somebody to talk to
24:15like
24:16if there's something
24:17seriously wrong
24:18that's a
24:18flag I'm not seeing
24:20to tell me
24:23hi
24:24hey
24:25I was just gonna
24:26ask you a question
24:27I got some roses
24:28for Tegan
24:29and
24:30I'm gonna
24:31meet her tomorrow
24:32and give her the roses
24:33and tell her
24:33what my plans are
24:35but
24:35I asked her
24:36if she could
24:37come to the park
24:38at some point
24:39cause I had a surprise
24:40for her
24:40but now she's all
24:42stressed out about
24:42what the surprise is
24:44and she wants a hint
24:44I don't know
24:45what to tell her
24:47you could just say
24:48I'm in town
24:49visiting
24:49and I just
24:50wanted to see you
24:52does she know
24:52you're in town
24:53no
24:56she knows
24:56you're gonna
24:56be in town
24:57tomorrow
24:59no
25:02she's
25:03knows
25:03she's
25:04meeting you
25:04at the park
25:05tomorrow
25:06no
25:09you're gonna
25:10tell her
25:10that you're
25:10gonna meet her
25:11at the park
25:13no
25:14I wasn't
25:14going to
25:14I was just
25:15gonna surprise her
25:17just tell her
25:18you're having
25:18flowers delivered
25:19to the park
25:20tomorrow
25:20okay
25:21and then she
25:22knows that
25:23it's headed
25:23in a direction
25:24of something
25:24sweet
25:26you know
25:27but then
25:28when she
25:28sees
25:29you're the
25:29one
25:29delivering
25:30the flowers
25:30that'll
25:31be her
25:31surprise
25:32to me
25:33it's
25:33important
25:34to not
25:34lie
25:34yeah
25:35you know
25:36and that's
25:37something that
25:37you could
25:37say that
25:38is true
25:39what do you
25:40think
25:40I'll just
25:41read you
25:41I'll just read you
25:41what I wrote
25:42and I haven't
25:42sent it yet
25:43but you tell
25:43if it's
25:43good
25:44I don't
25:45want you
25:45to be
25:45stressed out
25:46or anxious
25:46so I'll
25:47give you
25:47a hint
25:47I'm having
25:48flowers delivered
25:49to the park
25:49on the bench
25:50we sat
25:51on in July
25:52along with
25:52something else
25:52I think
25:53you'll like
25:53do you think
25:54that's good
25:54or no
25:54yeah
25:56my mom
25:57bless her
25:58heart
25:58she's been
25:58very supportive
26:00it means a lot
26:01to me that
26:02she's there
26:02just for like
26:03a woman's
26:04perspective
26:05you know
26:06let me know
26:07how it goes
26:07I will
26:08okay
26:09I've waited
26:10for many months
26:11you know
26:11it's not like
26:12waiting another
26:13day is gonna
26:15kill anything
26:16but
26:16I am like
26:17pretty
26:20nervous
26:20so I'm gonna
26:21have to
26:21sit with that
26:22nervousness
26:22for another
26:23day
26:23but
26:25but that's
26:25okay
26:27thanks
26:27the plan
26:34is I'll just
26:34stay
26:35you know
26:35in my car
26:36why not
26:37just get a
26:37hotel
26:38you can afford
26:38it
26:38no
26:39yeah
26:40but
26:41that's the
26:41thing
26:42like
26:43even if
26:44you have
26:44money
26:44if you get
26:45a hotel
26:45that's still
26:46money you
26:47could keep
26:47which why
26:48not
26:48what I
26:49really want
26:49to do
26:50with my
26:50money
26:50is
26:50be able
26:51to
26:53very comfortably
26:53take care
26:54of
26:55the person
26:56I love
26:56and have
26:57you know
26:58family and
26:58all that
26:59I just stay
27:00dressed
27:00wrap up in a
27:01blanket
27:01it's very
27:02comfortable
27:02I just
27:02can't stretch
27:03out
27:04you're asleep
27:05anyway so you
27:06don't know if
27:06you're in a
27:07hotel or if
27:07you're in a
27:08car
27:11feel a little
27:12anxious about
27:12tomorrow
27:13it's not
27:14easy
27:14but I'm
27:16definitely
27:17willing to
27:17meet her
27:18where she's
27:18at and
27:19just see
27:20where things
27:21go
27:25Kaelin
27:25said she
27:25wants me
27:26to prove
27:26to her
27:27with my
27:27actions
27:28I am
27:28kind of
27:29nervous
27:29you know
27:33I've
27:34had
27:34a few
27:35of my
27:36close
27:36friends
27:37tell me
27:37you know
27:38just move
27:38on and
27:39remember
27:39it for
27:40what it
27:40was
27:42but
27:44I just
27:44can't
28:01Kaelin's
28:02going to be
28:02here soon
28:02I got a lot
28:03of flowers
28:04I got some
28:05candles as
28:05well
28:07tonight I'm
28:07here at my
28:08mom's apartment
28:08that she uses
28:09as a vacation
28:10rental to do
28:12something a little
28:12nice for Kaelin
28:13I think she
28:14definitely
28:14deserves it
28:15I am kind
28:16of nervous
28:16you know
28:17Kaelin said
28:18she wants me
28:18to prove
28:19to her
28:20with my
28:20actions
28:20part of me
28:21is doing
28:22this because
28:22I said I
28:23would but
28:23making her
28:24happy makes
28:24me happy
28:25probably even
28:26more so than
28:26her so
28:27the least I
28:28can do is
28:29something like
28:29this for
28:37her
28:38hey
28:38honey
28:38here you
28:39go
28:40oh my
28:41god
28:44I
28:45spent a
28:46little time
28:47putting stuff
28:47up
28:51Isaac
28:51he's always
28:52been a romantic
28:53but I
28:54would say
28:54you know
28:55him building
28:56back that
28:57trust
28:57it's a
28:57work in
28:58progress
28:58you know
28:58it's not
28:59something that
29:00you can have
29:00overnight
29:01it's something
29:01that you
29:01have to
29:01work on
29:02but honestly
29:03I've never
29:04had somebody
29:05do something
29:05like this
29:06for me
29:06so I
29:06think it's
29:07like very
29:07very sweet
29:19what do you
29:19think baby
29:20oh I
29:21love it
29:22it is
29:24a portrait
29:25of us
29:26and you
29:27paint it
29:27with numbers
29:28and stuff
29:28like that
29:29and that's
29:30actually what
29:30I had
29:31gotten him
29:31before we
29:32broke up
29:34where's
29:35that painting
29:35now that
29:36you got
29:36him
29:38in the
29:39dumpster
29:41I know
29:41the story
29:42of you
29:42getting the
29:43other one
29:43and why
29:44you threw
29:45it out
29:45and everything
29:45but I
29:46hope you
29:47like this
29:47one
29:47and this
29:48picture
29:48because I
29:49picked a
29:49different
29:49picture
29:49but I
29:50did like
29:50this
29:50picture
29:51of us
29:51I
29:51do
29:51like
29:51that
29:51picture
29:52too
29:53oh I
29:54just
29:54saw
29:54that
29:57that's
29:57cute
29:57what
29:58where it
29:59says
29:59I
29:59love you
29:59I
30:00thought
30:00you
30:00would have
30:00noticed
30:01no I
30:01didn't
30:02until now
30:04Haylin's
30:04really happy
30:05and that
30:05makes me
30:06feel like
30:06I've done
30:06a good
30:07job
30:07and I'm
30:07glad she
30:08appreciates
30:08it
30:08she sees
30:09and appreciates
30:10what I do
30:10and that's
30:11why I'll
30:11I continue
30:12to do it
30:13are you
30:14excited to
30:14go to
30:14Montana
30:15I'm
30:15very excited
30:16I've always
30:17wanted to
30:17go to
30:17Montana
30:18definitely
30:18looking forward
30:19to seeing
30:20Mariah and
30:21Ethan
30:22in the
30:22big skies
30:23Isaac
30:24invited me
30:24on a trip
30:25to see
30:26Mariah in
30:26Montana
30:27a few
30:27months ago
30:28and I
30:29am so
30:29excited
30:30because it
30:31feels like
30:31it's been
30:31forever
30:31since I
30:33seen her
30:34I'm sure
30:34you heard
30:35Ethan's
30:35moving to
30:35Wisconsin
30:36yeah
30:38we're gonna
30:38try to work
30:39stuff out
30:40again or
30:40something
30:40because he's
30:41going back
30:41but
30:42were you
30:42surprised
30:42when you
30:43heard that
30:43Ethan was
30:44going to be
30:44moving back
30:44up there
30:46a little bit
30:46but I also
30:47figured it
30:48he would at
30:49some point
30:49since he
30:50didn't seem
30:50to be able
30:50to move
30:51on from
30:51her
30:52I am
30:53you know
30:53a little
30:53worried
30:54because Olivia
30:55was the
30:55whole
30:55show for
30:56several years
30:56and then
30:57it kind of
30:58got rough
30:59with Tegan
30:59after Olivia
31:00and then
31:01they broke
31:01up
31:01I want
31:02him to be
31:02able to
31:02stand up
31:03for himself
31:03yeah I'm
31:04gonna miss
31:05Ethan
31:05him being
31:06around so
31:06much but
31:07you never
31:07know he
31:07may move
31:08back
31:09I do think
31:10that Ethan's
31:10been a little
31:11bummed out
31:11I know that he
31:12does love Tegan
31:13and he wants
31:14things to work
31:14out but I do
31:16have sympathy for
31:17Tegan with
31:18everything that's
31:19going on but
31:20certain things that
31:21have been said and
31:22done I don't agree
31:23with that she
31:24has done
31:24I just want to
31:26make sure that
31:28you know like
31:29motives are what
31:30they should be
31:31and that
31:31everything works
31:32out the way
31:33she wants them
31:34to and how
31:34Ethan wants
31:35them to and
31:35that they're
31:35both gonna be
31:36good
31:38I guess he
31:39has to go
31:39shoot his shot
31:40and see
31:40he's doing
31:41what he thinks
31:42is right
31:43and following
31:43his heart
31:44I am very
31:45glad that you
31:46did this it
31:47was really
31:47really sweet
31:48you're welcome
31:49it turned out
31:51beautifully
31:52well I tried
31:54can't say
31:54I didn't try
31:55that does
31:56remind me
31:56I do have
32:03something for
32:03me
32:06oh that is
32:07a huge
32:08shot
32:08there's two of
32:08them
32:08two
32:10figured I'd get
32:11two so that's
32:11one for you
32:12and one for you
32:13I would say
32:14this date night
32:15is a 10 out
32:16of 10
32:16he gets a lot
32:17of brownie points
32:18for this one
32:19I just hope
32:20that this
32:21makes our
32:22relationship
32:23even stronger
32:24and I'm
32:25looking forward
32:25to a lot
32:26more dates
32:26just like
32:27this
32:39I'm gonna
32:40go to the
32:40park
32:41and hopefully
32:47see Tegan
32:48in a minute
32:50I haven't
32:51seen her
32:51in a long
32:51time
32:52so I'm
32:52just really
32:53excited
32:53I don't
32:54even know
32:54what I'm
32:54going to
32:55see
32:56I'll
32:56see
32:57something
32:59yeah I was
32:59just gonna drop
33:00the roses on
33:00the bench
33:01when she says
33:02she's coming
33:02over and then
33:04I'll pull away
33:05so she doesn't
33:05see me there
33:06right away
33:07and then
33:08I'll wait
33:08for her
33:10to get there
33:11and pick
33:11them up
33:12and then I'll
33:13pull up
33:14and get out
33:14and say
33:15hi
33:17what do you
33:18think she's
33:19thinking
33:20well I think
33:21she's thinking
33:21he's probably
33:22here and is
33:23up to
33:23something
33:27I think Tegan
33:28may
33:29maybe just
33:29not say much
33:30or
33:31be really
33:32happy and
33:33excited
33:33or
33:36I don't know
33:37I feel like
33:37I'm invading
33:37her personal
33:38space
33:39I don't know
33:41I really
33:42really hope
33:44with everything
33:45that I am
33:45that there's
33:45a little
33:46something left
33:47and I can
33:48maybe give it
33:48another shot
33:49and do it
33:49better
33:50you know
33:50be
33:50who Tegan
33:51needs in
33:52a relationship
33:52be there for
33:54mentally
33:55emotionally
33:56physically
34:02I hope
34:03that she
34:04is open
34:05to hear
34:05what I have
34:05to say
34:05and
34:07we just
34:08go from there
34:08that's about
34:09all that I'm
34:10hoping for
34:21it's an option
34:22that I could
34:23do all this
34:23and you know
34:24that door
34:25is closed
34:25the chapter
34:27is over
34:27I mean
34:28that's a very
34:28real possibility
34:29but I
34:31certainly
34:31hope and pray
34:32that that's
34:33not the case
34:35if she called
34:35me I was like
34:36okay
34:36I've thought
34:37about it
34:38this just
34:38isn't gonna
34:39work
34:39don't come
34:42I still
34:43would
34:43you know
34:46just to
34:46show her
34:47like
34:48at least
34:49for once
34:50I was
34:51serious
34:51and I did
34:52do what I
34:53said I
34:53was gonna
34:53do
35:16I've had
35:17a few of my
35:18close friends
35:20tell me
35:20you know
35:22just move on
35:23and remember
35:24it for what
35:24it was
35:25but
35:26I just
35:27can't
35:32and
35:32if nothing
35:34ever happens
35:34then
35:35I guess
35:36that's my
35:37answer
35:39but
35:40I'll never
35:41know
35:41unless I
35:41try
36:05his mic
36:06is not
36:06on
36:28feel the air
36:31go cold
36:32on
36:33this empty
36:34road
36:35no way
36:37I can
36:38turn
36:38around
36:41this is
36:42crazy
36:44in a good
36:45way
36:45hopefully
36:47last night
36:48I was a
36:49nervous wreck
36:50we went to
36:51my car
36:51and we
36:51started
36:52talking
36:53after not
36:54talking to each
36:54other
36:55seeing each
36:55other for so
36:55long
36:56it was good
36:57to have a deep
36:58conversation
36:58about
36:59where both
37:00of us
37:00are at
37:00and
37:01me moving
37:03there
37:03and everything
37:05I was just
37:06shocked
37:07seeing him
37:09I don't know
37:10I think
37:10just too
37:11shocked
37:11to really
37:11feel
37:12anything
37:13else
37:13you know
37:14nice
37:15seeing
37:15an old
37:15friend
37:16I don't
37:17know
37:18what to
37:18say
37:19yeah
37:20just
37:20shocked
37:21and I mean
37:22we aren't
37:22dating
37:23so
37:23he's supposed
37:25to be
37:25down in
37:25Georgia
37:25not here
37:26so
37:32I told
37:33him
37:33when we
37:33broke up
37:34that I
37:34would never
37:35date him
37:36again
37:36if he
37:36wasn't
37:37living
37:37here
37:37or nearby
37:38so
37:38that was
37:39and is
37:39a deal
37:40breaker
37:40for me
37:41I also
37:41talked
37:42to him
37:43when we
37:43broke up
37:44and I
37:44reminded
37:44him
37:44last night
37:45that I
37:46don't
37:46want to
37:47date him
37:47if he's
37:48still
37:48married
37:48and so
37:49those are
37:50just the
37:51two main
37:52I guess
37:52deal breakers
37:53per se
37:54with him
37:54exactly
37:58is he
37:59still
37:59married
38:00Ethan
38:00is still
38:01married
38:01as far
38:02as I
38:02know
38:04there's a
38:05good rock
38:05to stand
38:05on
38:05I know
38:06but
38:07I gotta
38:08get there
38:11now that
38:12I'm here
38:12and I've
38:13told Tegan
38:13everything
38:15she's waiting
38:16to see
38:17me actually
38:18move here
38:22is that
38:22right or
38:23no
38:24yeah
38:24I just
38:25mean like
38:26I'll believe
38:26it when I
38:27see it
38:27and that
38:28our
38:28current
38:29relationship
38:29isn't gonna
38:31change
38:31for the
38:32time being
38:32and so
38:33if he moves
38:33here
38:34he moves
38:34here
38:34if he doesn't
38:35he doesn't
38:36move here
38:37move to
38:37Minnesota
38:38stay down
38:38there
38:39move to
38:40Africa
38:40like
38:41whatever
38:41you need
38:42to do
38:42move to Africa
38:43yeah
38:44I'm moving
38:45weird
38:45okay
38:51I don't
38:52think
38:52it's a matter
38:53of believing
38:53or not
38:53I don't
38:55think you
38:55should
38:55distrust
38:56people
38:56I think
38:56you should
38:56just trust
38:57people
38:57based on
38:58what
38:58they've
38:58showed
38:59you
38:59so
39:00like
39:00just
39:01I trust
39:01already
39:02how he
39:02is
39:02so
39:03we'll
39:04see
39:05if the
39:05patterns
39:06change
39:06I guess
39:06I don't
39:07really
39:07know
39:10that's
39:11perfectly
39:11fair
39:16I think
39:17it's just
39:17a personal
39:18choice
39:18I need
39:19to make
39:19this all
39:20happened
39:20yesterday
39:20and
39:22so
39:23I sort
39:23of
39:23need
39:24some
39:24time
39:25have
39:26you
39:26changed
39:26your
39:26mind
39:27in
39:27any
39:27way
39:27Ethan
39:28or
39:28are
39:28you
39:29sticking
39:29to
39:29the
39:29plan
39:29no
39:30my
39:30plans
39:31have
39:31not
39:31changed
39:31at
39:32all
39:32I'm
39:33just
39:33very
39:33excited
39:34I
39:34can't
39:34wait
39:35regardless
39:36of
39:36whatever
39:37our
39:37future
39:37looks
39:38like
39:38I
39:38know
39:38that's
39:38what
39:38I
39:39need
39:39to
39:39do
39:39that's
39:39what
39:39I'm
39:39going
39:40to
39:40do
39:40and
39:40I
39:40want
39:40to
39:41very
39:41much
39:45I
39:46should
39:46probably
39:46get going
39:47so
39:48maybe
39:48see you
39:49in
39:49Montana
39:50I
39:50really
39:51hope
39:51you
39:51do
39:51come
39:52we'll
39:52see
39:53maybe
39:54Ethan
39:54and I
39:55talked
39:55about
39:56going
39:56to
39:56visit
39:56Mariah
39:57in
39:57Montana
39:57before
39:58we
39:58broke
39:58up
39:59I've
39:59never
39:59been
39:59to
40:00Montana
40:01I
40:01enjoy
40:01his
40:02family
40:02so
40:03I
40:04sort
40:04of
40:04want
40:05to
40:05go
40:07a lot
40:07of
40:07time
40:08with
40:08Ethan
40:08and I
40:09know
40:09I
40:09can
40:10be
40:10friends
40:10but
40:10I'm
40:10more
40:11worried
40:11about
40:11can
40:11he
40:12be
40:12not
40:13weird
40:13just
40:14be
40:14friends
40:17well
40:19can I
40:19hug you
40:20for a
40:20bit
40:20nope
40:22goodbye
40:23goodbye
40:24I hope
40:25you have
40:25a safe
40:25trip
40:26back
40:27down
40:27I
40:27will
40:29good
40:30goodbye
40:31goodbye
40:43yeah
40:43I
40:43think
40:44there's
40:44definitely
40:44a possibility
40:45he doesn't
40:45move
40:45it's just
40:47Ethan
40:47Plath
40:48so I
40:48never
40:48really
40:49know
40:49to
40:49think
40:49you
40:50know
40:50sometimes
40:51when you
40:51get told
40:51things
40:52you know
40:52time and
40:53time
40:53again
40:53it's
40:53sort
40:54of
40:54hard
40:54to
40:54believe
40:54them
40:54so
40:55I
40:55believe
40:56it
40:56when
40:56I
40:56see
40:56it
41:12I'm
41:13seeing
41:14you
41:14again
41:18I'm
41:19seeing
41:19you
41:20again
41:27cheers
41:28to
41:29being
41:30back
41:30at
41:30the
41:30farm
41:30here
41:31here
41:33if we
41:34were
41:34a horse
41:35and a
41:35cowboy
41:35who
41:36would
41:36ride
41:36who
41:39what's
41:40a more
41:40family
41:40friendly
41:41answer
41:41all this
41:42vibrating
41:42is
41:42causing
41:43my
41:43butt
41:43to
41:43itch
41:45dad
41:46has
41:46recently
41:46started
41:47talking
41:48to
41:48ladies
41:48all
41:49I
41:49knew
41:49was
41:50you
41:50were
41:50blonde
41:50and
41:51very
41:52good
41:52looking
41:52keep
41:53these
41:53compliments
41:53coming
41:54I
41:55like
41:55what
41:55I
41:55see
41:57Montana
41:57is
41:57going
41:57to
41:57be
41:58fun
41:58well
41:58you
41:59know
41:59I
41:59asked
41:59he
41:59going
41:59to
42:00come
42:02are
42:03you
42:03friends
42:03I
42:04don't
42:04like
42:04you
42:04behind
42:05me
42:05you're
42:05so
42:06close
42:06wake up
42:07what
42:07do
42:07you
42:07think
42:09why
42:10come
42:10to a
42:11whole
42:11different
42:11state
42:12with
42:12your
42:13ex
42:13boyfriend
42:13and
42:13his
42:13family
42:14if
42:15you're
42:15not
42:15going
42:15to
42:15make
42:16that
42:16effort
42:17oh
42:18my
42:18god
42:18what
42:18am
42:18I
42:18doing
42:19here
42:21Kim
42:21is
42:22definitely
42:22dealing
42:22with
42:23some
42:23guilt
42:23and
42:23some
42:24shame
42:24you've
42:24got
42:25to
42:25release
42:25it
42:26because
42:26it's
42:27time
42:28is
42:28this
42:28a
42:29bad
42:29conversation
42:31I've
42:32heard
42:32things
42:32just
42:33around
42:33you know
42:33a lot
42:34of
42:34money
42:34you've
42:34spent
42:35with
42:35her
42:35apparently
42:36you and
42:37Zach
42:38have sat
42:38down
42:39people
42:39and
42:39explained
42:40to
42:40them
42:40that
42:41they
42:41weren't
42:41godly
42:42enough
42:42or
42:42whatever
42:43they're
42:44only
42:44going
42:44to
42:44end
42:45up
42:45alienating
42:45themselves
42:46from
42:46the
42:46family
42:47and
42:47I
42:47don't
42:47want
42:47that
42:48do
42:49you
42:49know
42:49what
42:49Zach
42:49told
42:50me
42:50about
42:50you
42:52okay
42:52that
42:53definitely
42:53pisses me
42:54off
42:56I'm
42:56experiencing
42:57something
42:57wrong
42:58and
42:58I feel
42:59the need
43:00to speak
43:00up
43:00about
43:00it
43:01we are
43:02all
43:02family
43:02so
43:03we're
43:03going to
43:04talk
43:04about
43:04each
43:04other
43:05Lydia
43:05Zach
43:06are
43:06doing
43:06what
43:06they
43:06asked
43:07us
43:07not
43:07to
43:08it's
43:08just
43:08not
43:09always
43:09pleasant
43:09when
43:10you
43:10are
43:11given
43:11a list
43:12of
43:12things
43:12that
43:12like
43:12someone
43:13doesn't
43:13approve
43:13of
43:14you're
43:14exporting
43:15your
43:15opinion
43:15into
43:16lands
43:16that
43:16don't
43:17want
43:17to
43:17import
43:17man
43:18so
43:18I'm
43:19a
43:19problem
43:19for
43:19the
43:19whole
43:19family
43:20got
43:20cool
43:21Zach
43:22you're
43:22part
43:23of
43:23the
43:23family
43:23now
43:23try to
43:24build
43:24a
43:24relationship
43:25with
43:25you
43:25and
43:26you're
43:26making
43:26it
43:27hard
43:27to
43:27do
43:27that
43:28am I
43:29supposed
43:29to
43:29just
43:29wrestle
43:30them
43:31and
43:31just
43:31I don't
43:32know
43:32I don't
43:33know
43:33what to
43:33do
43:36this
43:36is
43:37going
43:37to
43:37be
43:37uncomfortable
43:46I don't
43:47know
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