00:00I am a victim of vicar violence
00:04and I am currently facing one of the most important battles in my life
00:09which is to recover and fight for my children.
00:34Please prolly.
00:43I am a victim of a victim of a victim,
00:47forced the victim of lack of violence,
00:47and I am not the victim of a victim of a victim of a victim of a victim of abuse.
01:14I was deceived because I gave a permission for them to go on vacation,
01:19for the same thing, so that they could share quality time and love with their father,
01:25not for them to take care of them, not for them to take care of them,
01:28not for them to begin to give the idea that I was a bad mother.
01:32People can't imagine the impact that generates this emotional violence
01:39through words, comments, humiliating comments, because one starts to believe.
01:45And that's where the psychological damage begins.
01:48Because finally, there can be coups, but sometimes the coup is more visible.
01:52But the emotional damage that one has within you is to believe
01:56that if I'm a good professional, I think I'm the crazy that I'm abording this issue,
02:01I think I'm exceding, I think I'm very extremist,
02:06I think I'm a good mother with everything I'm listening to,
02:10I'm wrong too.
02:19With all of you, in order to solve the problems by the way of dialogue,
02:26you, in several opportunities, continued responding
02:30with attacks and verbal attacks.
02:33During 2018,
02:36there began to be episodes of sexual violence
02:40that even lasted until when they separated in 2021.
02:59Well, to listen to the story of the Fiscalía of the Eligencia and Imputations,
03:04I think it was very hard.
03:08And the other way, honestly, I have to go away from them,
03:09I have to take care of the moments that I have to feel,
03:14I have to live in the anymore and feel.
03:15But I have to feel, and feel humiliated.
03:15It's difficult also because one feels like
03:19the fear that I have to feel publicly.
03:21And in this process, I have to take care of my dogs as a child,
03:30But also when I look at my parents as a woman,
03:34Because there is an imputation in this sense, I also recall a little bit of hope and believe that justice
03:43is possible.
03:45Also, I'm going to think that you were not crazy as you were saying, right?
03:50And if you were subject to violence, then you began to normalize, call and ocult.
04:07I think the institutional violence that one suffers through this jurisdiction, in my case, has been awful and brutal.
04:19I have some evaluations of their mistakes without a gender focus,
04:24but the most important thing is to analyze entirely the tests that there are in the process.
04:30With decisions surprising.
04:32Actualmente, this judge has declared that I don't have time to answer the demand,
04:37although it is still in litis.
04:39This process niega pruebas that they ask.
04:44No listens.
04:46It does not listen.
04:48It is partial to what it has in the process.
04:53It does not even have the task to review the content of the imputation.
04:59And it is also when one says how the judicial system of Colombia
05:06begins to be an aggressor of the victims of a vicarious victim.
05:12These processes of family, which are also garrafal, because they are only one person,
05:19where a man, I don't know if I'm saying it correctly,
05:24but one would consider that this judge of gender focus has no knowledge of any individual.
05:31I feel totally abated by the justice of the family.
05:50The Procuraduría
05:52The Procuraduría
05:52Inició de oficio una investigación disciplinaria
05:55contra mi agresor, porque en su momento se desempañó como embajador en otro país,
06:02y en diligencias donde él ha estado acompañado de su abogado,
06:11pero también en presencia de representantes de la Procuraduría.
06:15Y uno ha tenido que incluso soportar expresiones denigrantes del agresor frente a mí, ¿no?
06:27Como expresiones diciendo que yo no soy una mujer que se pueda violar.
06:33Pero se hacen ese tipo de expresiones en una diligencia virtual,
06:37donde a mí me enseñaron que uno también tiene que respetar a los estados judiciales, ¿no?
06:42Y a los estados administrativos, pero no pasa nada.
06:47Uno tiene que darle a lucha por sus hijas, porque toda lucha por los hijos es legítima.
06:54Y también por uno como mujer, ¿no?
06:57De reivindicación y de propia dignidad.
07:00Y claro que se puede hacer, a pesar de que se derrote.
07:04Ahora estamos hablando de un proceso penal favorable.
07:07Uno no sabe cómo termina siendo.
07:10Pero hay que luchar con las herramientas que existen.
07:15Y a pesar de sentirse uno victimizado por la justicia,
07:20o por un sistema o una jurisdicción especial,
07:23uno tiene también que darle legitimidad al sistema y a la democracia que tiene este país.
07:55¡Gracias por ver el video!
07:55¡Gracias por ver el video!
