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00:00:31I hate to break it to you, Gerald, but I think we've reached the end of our rope.
00:00:37What do you mean?
00:00:40What I'm trying to say is, I think we're going to have to let you go.
00:00:45You're letting me go? Why?
00:00:49Spit it out! Don't freeze up now!
00:00:52You brought me all the way out here to fire me?
00:00:56Nah, we are firing you because you haven't fulfilled what we hired you to do.
00:01:00We called you in to increase the men's attendance at a church.
00:01:05Is this a joke? I mean, is this for real?
00:01:11Are you here to get the men in order with God, or are you here for your, oh, I mean
00:01:17the church's finances?
00:01:18Don't try to turn this on us.
00:01:19This is about you.
00:01:22You haven't asked one time how all the families in this church are doing.
00:01:28Okay, when is your little retreat?
00:01:31The fifth of next month.
00:01:33You got until then to prove us wrong.
00:01:35Three weeks?
00:01:36That's been added on to the two years we've already given you.
00:01:39Expect us to show up at any moment.
00:01:42You're always talking about kingdom men, kingdom men.
00:01:46Now prove it.
00:01:51The fifth of next month.
00:03:47Why are you getting fresh with me?
00:03:49Because I'm a pastor, I can't enjoy my wife.
00:03:52Yes, you can, but my sister will be here in a few.
00:03:58All I need is a few.
00:04:01And that's your problem.
00:04:03And what are you trying to say?
00:04:05If you preach that fast, there would be no reason for people to show up.
00:04:09You still show up.
00:04:11That's because you're good.
00:04:13I know.
00:04:22Hello?
00:04:28I'm on my way.
00:04:39You don't care about Eddie.
00:04:41Nobody cares.
00:04:44I care about, I take care of me.
00:04:46You all take care of me.
00:04:50Pastor, can I speak to you for a minute?
00:04:52Sure.
00:04:52Because for some reason, we all as a community are doing our part to rebuild a community.
00:04:57But every time I look around, I got people around here acting a plumb fool.
00:05:01And you're supposed to be making a difference.
00:05:02Last I checked, you're supposed to be getting them some help.
00:05:04I did.
00:05:05It's not a magic trick.
00:05:07A magic trick?
00:05:10Pastor Smith, God bless the dead, he was no magician either.
00:05:13But I don't recall having these same problems when he was pastoring the church.
00:05:17His fault is not mine.
00:05:19You can't blame his problems on me.
00:05:21Your church member, who come to you for spiritual guidance,
00:05:24attend your church every Sunday,
00:05:25is around terrorizing the community,
00:05:27disrupting the properties,
00:05:29and all you got to say is it's not my fault?
00:05:31Now, Tom, you ain't serious, are you?
00:05:33Can't be serious.
00:05:34All I know is since he's been pastoring the church,
00:05:37a lot of men in this community ain't been getting the help they deserve.
00:05:40Well, whoa, whoa.
00:05:41Now, I don't know what problem you have with me,
00:05:43but don't blame it on the church.
00:05:45Pastor, at the end, can't nobody judge you, the church,
00:05:48or even Eddie, but God.
00:05:50However, he's still a reflection of the fruits of your labor.
00:05:54Now, would you please so kindly remove him from my property?
00:05:57Eddie.
00:05:59Eddie.
00:06:09Let's not do this right now, Eddie.
00:06:11Pastor Gerald, Mr. Hotshot.
00:06:14I'm your friend, Eddie.
00:06:15Friend?
00:06:17Friends don't send church members to random meetings with random strangers
00:06:21and tell them that he's a drunk.
00:06:22You're not a drunk, Eddie.
00:06:24Hey, Eddie.
00:06:25Sir!
00:06:27Aren't you supposed to be here to help me?
00:06:34Eddie, you're just a man with issues, like me.
00:06:37Issues?
00:06:39Mr. Riding on your high horse pastor?
00:06:41You know nothing about issues.
00:06:44You know, people cater to you.
00:06:45Everyone caters to you.
00:06:47I didn't like to pay for,
00:06:49and they give you all the money.
00:06:50Whoa, now, Eddie, you know I don't make no money at that church.
00:06:55Eddie, come on, now.
00:06:56We family.
00:06:57We can't.
00:06:57Don't do this.
00:06:58We family, Eddie.
00:06:59Family?
00:06:59When was the last time you called to check on me?
00:07:02Huh?
00:07:03Listen.
00:07:05Ain't you, pastor.
00:07:07I'd have called you way too many times than I should have.
00:07:10When was the last time you returned one of my phone calls?
00:07:14None.
00:07:15None, Eddie.
00:07:17And I apologize.
00:07:21All I'm asking is that you please forgive me
00:07:24and understand that I have a lot of people in here.
00:07:27I'm talking about me!
00:07:28Me right now, pastor!
00:07:30Me!
00:07:32I'm just trying to...
00:07:33man.
00:07:35I'm just kidding.
00:07:36I'm just kidding.
00:07:37You family.
00:07:40Well, at least you can go home to yours.
00:07:42Ain't that right?
00:07:57Eddie!
00:08:00Eddie!
00:09:01He wants to play pro football like his dad.
00:09:03No, I don't. I want to go to culinary school.
00:09:05You love football, Mike.
00:09:07I didn't say that.
00:09:14Let me give you one of our pamphlets, honey.
00:09:16Yeah.
00:09:18Yeah.
00:09:19Just like that dress you got on.
00:09:21How you doing?
00:09:22Did you enjoy the service?
00:09:23Are you going to use these?
00:09:25Because these wasn't handmade.
00:09:27No, these was made.
00:09:28They're ghosts.
00:09:29Okay, if you're not, get back.
00:09:32Okay, thank you.
00:09:33You be blessed.
00:09:38Hey, what's going on, superstar?
00:09:40I'm busy, you know.
00:09:41Just trying to feed the family.
00:09:42I heard that.
00:09:43I see.
00:09:44I saw that caddy you pulled up in.
00:09:46That's nice.
00:09:47Pretty, ain't you?
00:09:48Oh, yeah.
00:09:49Think about getting a Bentley next.
00:09:51I saw one in Atlanta.
00:09:52Hmm.
00:09:53Hand cut.
00:09:54Stitched.
00:09:55Mirror-like black piano finish.
00:09:57Hmm.
00:09:5820-way seats.
00:10:00Innovative 48D electronic active road control system.
00:10:04Active all-wheel drive.
00:10:06Brand new.
00:10:07All right, big time.
00:10:08So, um, how do you like your daughter's new teacher?
00:10:12Miss Winner?
00:10:14Miss, Miss Winner?
00:10:17No, no, no.
00:10:18Miss Winner, she left two years ago.
00:10:22You know all the teachers at Sunset Park.
00:10:24You know, it's hard to remember that name.
00:10:26Sunset Park?
00:10:27Yeah.
00:10:28Sunset Park?
00:10:29Sunset Park, yeah.
00:10:31Son, that school closed years ago.
00:10:34All the kids in the neighborhood go to snipe school now.
00:10:38Come on, Brother Bernard.
00:10:39How is it you know about a $200,000 car six hours away,
00:10:44but you don't know what school your daughters go to?
00:10:50Hello?
00:10:52Hey, yeah, we're gonna close on your house in the next week.
00:11:11Babe, you looked poop since you left church.
00:11:15I'm fine.
00:11:17Just relaxing.
00:11:19It's the minute of church, huh?
00:11:22Is it that obvious?
00:11:26Some of the women may have mentioned a few things,
00:11:29and plus the look you had on your face in the lobby,
00:11:33it said a little bit.
00:11:36I feel like I let God down.
00:11:39I'm the pastor of this church.
00:11:41You can't blame men for being men.
00:11:44Well, that's not men being men.
00:11:48Babe, do you know Bernard knows everything about a $250,000 car,
00:11:54but don't know what school his daughters go to?
00:11:57What?
00:11:58Yeah.
00:11:58He still thinks Miss Winter is their teacher.
00:12:02Look, you cannot beat yourself over the head because of it.
00:12:06I feel part responsible.
00:12:11Responsible?
00:12:12Those men know exactly what they're doing.
00:12:16And all you have to do is continue to do what you've been doing.
00:12:20Make sure that this retreat goes off without a hitch.
00:12:24I don't know if that's gonna happen.
00:12:28You gotta have enough people to qualify for it,
00:12:30and we only got seven.
00:12:33Yeah, and I agreed to pay six of their wage.
00:12:40I know I didn't hear what I just thought I heard.
00:12:44You said that you paid for six men to go act like children?
00:12:50You know that this church only pays you pennies.
00:12:52Baby, I'm sorry.
00:12:56I should have told you first.
00:12:58I suggest that you go down to that church
00:13:02and ask Sister Shirley if the church has the money to pay for your little boy retreat.
00:13:19Come in.
00:13:22Hey, Sister Shirley.
00:13:30Sister Shirley, I need a favor.
00:13:32I need a favor.
00:13:43I need a favor.
00:13:46I need a favor.
00:14:02I'm falling apart.
00:14:03I believe that a men's retreat is a big start to help them regain their focus on God and his
00:14:14church.
00:14:15Now that's a big stretch, Pastor.
00:14:17You mean to tell me a men's retreat gonna do all that?
00:14:21I need a retreat fundraiser.
00:14:24I need a retreat fundraiser.
00:14:24But there's only one problem.
00:14:28We need about $920 for the men's retreat.
00:14:37$920 million?
00:14:38No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:14:42$920.
00:14:44That's what I said.
00:14:47$920 million.
00:14:49Do you know what we can do with that, Pastor?
00:14:52We can do that.
00:14:53We can use that for the building fund, transportation fund, the after school fund, and guess what?
00:14:59And the choir shoes fund.
00:15:01Wait, wait.
00:15:02Why do we have a choir shoe fund?
00:15:05Because, Pastor, we can't keep traveling and representing the church wearing them Jesus Sanders.
00:15:11We need some new shoes.
00:15:14We need some Jordans.
00:15:15Some air Jordans.
00:15:17With the 23 on the bottom and the strap.
00:15:21Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:15:22Wait, Sister Shirley.
00:15:22Hold on.
00:15:25Let...
00:15:25Seriously, let's pray on this.
00:15:27Oh, let's pray about it.
00:15:29Choir shoe fund.
00:15:30Men's retreat.
00:15:31Okay.
00:15:32Let's pray on this.
00:15:33Let's pray on it.
00:15:34Okay, let's pray.
00:15:36Lord, touch Michael Jordan, Lord.
00:15:40Bless him.
00:15:41Bless him, Lord.
00:15:43Let his cup run it over to the soles of the feet of this choir, Lord.
00:15:49Please, Lord, do that.
00:15:51Lord, let the soles of his shoes comfort us.
00:15:54Lord, like you did with the man that outran the horse.
00:15:59When he outran the horse, he had on a pair of Jordans, Lord.
00:16:02You know.
00:16:03You know, Lord, because you tell me things.
00:16:06And guess what, Lord?
00:16:08You told me when David knocked Goliath out, it wasn't a stone.
00:16:13Lord, it wasn't a stone.
00:16:15It was a pair of flight 23s.
00:16:18You know, even, even when Jesus walked on the water, he had on a pair of what?
00:16:25What, Pastor?
00:16:26Even when he walked on the water.
00:16:28Say it with me, because I can't hear you, Pastor.
00:16:31Let's go.
00:16:31Jordan's.
00:16:32Yeah.
00:16:33Come on, Pastor.
00:16:34Come on.
00:16:34It's the shoes.
00:16:36It's the shoes.
00:16:38It's the-
00:16:38Okay, Sister Shirley.
00:16:39No.
00:16:39It's not the shoes.
00:16:40It's not the shoes.
00:16:42Okay?
00:16:42It's not the shoes.
00:16:44Okay.
00:16:45It's not.
00:16:46Focus.
00:16:47Okay.
00:16:49Not the shoes.
00:16:51Can we get the money or not?
00:17:09You all right, David?
00:17:10Hey.
00:17:11Yeah, I'm all right, Pastor.
00:17:12What's going on?
00:17:14What's with the tire?
00:17:15Well, Mrs. Fisher was in there with the ladies the night and she came out and she noticed
00:17:20she had a flat, so she gave me a call.
00:17:24What are you still doing?
00:17:26What do you mean?
00:17:28David, your business is eight miles away.
00:17:30Are you trying to tell me that the janitor or security couldn't help you fix the tire?
00:17:35Couldn't help Mrs. Fisher?
00:17:39What about Brother James?
00:17:43Look, look, Pastor.
00:17:45All I know is she gave me a call and I came to help.
00:17:47That's all I know.
00:17:53David?
00:17:54Yeah?
00:17:55You're a good man.
00:17:59I just thought it was the right thing to do, Pastor.
00:18:11Have you come back to this place when I left you?
00:18:18Bye.
00:18:20Maybe that's a biguard.
00:18:29I Penguin.
00:18:44Eddie, this has got to stop.
00:18:48You can't blame Pastor Gerald.
00:18:51You can't blame yourself, either.
00:18:55Just because Sasha died, doesn't mean, doesn't mean we have to die with her.
00:19:03I know it's hard, it's hard for me too, but we have to move on.
00:19:23What?
00:19:23We got the money!
00:19:26Oh, we got it, we got it, we got it, we got it, we got it!
00:19:32Hey, did you know we had a choir to shoot fun?
00:19:42Really?
00:19:50Do me a favor while you're gone.
00:19:53Now what's that?
00:19:55Don't let me hear that you choked one of those guys.
00:19:58Now why would I do that?
00:20:00I know you better than you think.
00:20:03Be safe.
00:20:04Tell everybody what?
00:20:04I'll give you plenty.
00:20:05I want you guys to hit this one too.
00:20:05а
00:20:24What about him?
00:20:51All right.
00:22:21Good.
00:22:21Come on in.
00:22:22How was the trip?
00:22:22I mean, it was good, man.
00:22:23I'm just hungry.
00:22:24All right.
00:22:24Lunch is right around there.
00:22:25This way?
00:22:26Get this door.
00:22:26Yeah, right around there.
00:22:27Yep.
00:22:29What's going on, Patrick?
00:22:30Hey, Mr. David, how you doing?
00:22:31Good.
00:22:32You need some help or something?
00:22:32Oh, no.
00:22:33I'm all right, my man.
00:22:33All right.
00:22:34Yeah.
00:22:34Go ahead and get lunch around there.
00:22:35Oh, I appreciate it.
00:22:36Lance, how's it going, my buddy?
00:22:38I'm sorry, my pants tied up.
00:22:39I see that.
00:22:40Did I hear you say full?
00:22:40Yes.
00:22:41Lunch is around the corner.
00:22:44Hey, Mac, you can leave your bags in the car.
00:22:46We're eating first.
00:22:54Hey, little Michael.
00:22:55How's it going?
00:22:59Good to see you.
00:23:00Same to you.
00:23:00All right.
00:23:02Michael, it seems like he didn't want to come.
00:23:05He wanted to go to a culinary school.
00:23:07Why didn't he go?
00:23:08He wanted to get with some guys, throw the football, you know, not cook no soup.
00:23:14I don't know.
00:23:16Okay.
00:23:16Well, it's all right.
00:23:17Lunch is being served, and I'll give everybody the keys once we're done.
00:23:21All right.
00:23:23Oh.
00:23:25I wish anybody else came.
00:23:29Oh, oh, my phone.
00:23:31All right.
00:23:32Good to see you.
00:23:33Yeah.
00:23:33It's good to be seen.
00:23:35All right.
00:23:35All right.
00:23:35I see you got your luggage and everything.
00:23:37Lunch is going to be served right around the corner there.
00:23:39I'll give everybody their keys after lunch.
00:23:42Now, the church is saving a little bit of money, so you can be rooming with Lance.
00:23:46I mean, that's okay, ain't it?
00:23:48Nah, nah.
00:23:49I mean, nah, that's okay.
00:23:50All right.
00:23:51I mean, unless you want to be by yourself because you sleep upside down like a bat.
00:23:54That's cool.
00:23:55You sure?
00:23:56Yeah.
00:23:56All right.
00:24:00All right.
00:24:03All right.
00:24:27Well, here we go.
00:24:36So, we supposed to eat that?
00:24:42Hey, what's wrong with you?
00:24:50Yo, I could've sworn that thing just weeped at me.
00:24:54I gotta spend the whole weekend with you?
00:24:57What's that on your arm?
00:25:00That? That's nothing, little man. My cat scratched me.
00:25:08Has anybody seen Eddie?
00:25:30What's wrong with you?
00:25:34What's wrong with you?
00:25:38Whats wrong with you?
00:25:58That's not anywhere, bro.
00:26:00said, Behold, the people is one, and they have all one language, and this they begin
00:26:09to do, and now nothing will be restrained from them which they have imagined to do.
00:26:18And the Lord said, Behold, the people is one, and they all have the same language, and now
00:26:28nothing will be restrained from them which they have imagined to do. It says it right
00:26:34here in the Bible. Genesis chapter 11, verse 6. As long as we are one, we speak the same
00:26:43language, the gospel. Man, there is nothing that we can't do.
00:27:05There is a problem in this church. Simply put, we're not being responsible in this church,
00:27:12and I know you're not being responsible at home because nobody's watching.
00:27:19This is up to us to change. Everyone form a circle. Come on, get up. We got a long day
00:27:27ahead of us. Come on.
00:27:31David, I'm handing you this ball. Now, I need you to pass this to someone that's not beside
00:27:36you. It has to be the same person every single time you throw the ball. And that goes for
00:27:41everyone. Say it again? Get focused, Mike. I need you to throw the ball to the same person
00:27:49every single time you throw the ball. We're going to try to do this for five minutes. You ready?
00:27:57Let's go. Come on, Mike. Catch the ball. Win.
00:28:09It's not about winning. It's about responsibility. It's about doing your part so the family can
00:28:16function properly. Let's go. Let's go again. And this isn't about goofing off. Let's go.
00:28:43Well, I'm a little disappointed that it's just us few, but if that's what God wanted, I accept.
00:28:54There's two rules for these next two days. One is whatever happens here stays here. Can
00:29:03we agree on that? Do you agree, Craig? Huh? Do you agree? Yeah. Yeah, I agree. Accept change. Agree?
00:29:26Guys, I have a confession to make. Before I say it, I want to apologize. I want to apologize
00:29:33to the church, and I want to apologize to you guys. We all know I went to the university
00:29:41in Maine. What was I doing way up there? I'm just a boy from Georgia. Well, there was this
00:29:57young girl. This girl was a high school girl who would come on campus and flirt with the
00:30:05college guys. I was one of those college guys. Now, I'm not going to blame the devil
00:30:14and, you know, deny the fact that I knew what was going on between me and her. What I didn't
00:30:24realize that she didn't even attend a university. Long story short, she comes to my dorm one
00:30:32one day with a cup full of alcohol. This college guy gets drunk with this high school girl, has
00:30:44sex, and she ended up pregnant two weeks later. Yeah. Scared to tell the parents that, well, who
00:30:56seemed to be more frustrated that she had sex with a black guy than anything else. They said
00:31:07I raped her with no proof of rape, no proof of a fake ID, and a long list of other
00:31:18guys that
00:31:19she slept with on campus. I was the one who served 5 years. I thought I was going to feel
00:31:31better
00:31:32after saying that. Thanks. Thanks. Do your wife know about this? No.
00:31:56You know, Pastor, I think I speak for all of us when I say we honor and we respect your
00:32:01honesty
00:32:02in here tonight. And if it's all right with you, I'd like to pray for you. Yes, sir.
00:32:25Go ahead and pass it to your boy so he can drop it. Don't worry about him. We got this.
00:32:34Stay focused, Mike. What are you doing? You can't even catch the ball. What are you doing? Stay focused,
00:32:41man. Mac. Mac, we're just having fun. That's all. Winners never quit. Just let him have his moment
00:32:51to himself, right? Hey, you know you need a case on that, man. You could have broke it.
00:33:05Well, my friend owns a cell phone store and I don't have a case. What type of friend are you?
00:33:10This kind of friend.
00:33:14For real? Are you serious? It's just a case, man. I can get another one on Monday when I go
00:33:18to the store.
00:33:18It ain't no big deal. Oh, man. Yo, I appreciate that.
00:33:47Hey. What do you want from me? Huh? You don't love me. You love Pastor Gerald. His happy wife. Happy
00:34:10family.
00:34:12You let him keep his girls and you took mine away from me. You don't love me. You don't.
00:34:47All right. Hard work dedication, Mike.
00:35:24Wow, that must have been some dream you were having.
00:35:29I keep having this weird dream, man.
00:35:35Craig, who could you be talking to at 2 o'clock in the morning, Craig?
00:35:40Craig. Oh, it's nobody. I was just playing a game.
00:35:48I'll be right back. I'm going to the bathroom.
00:36:17Who is it?
00:36:19Nick?
00:36:21Come in.
00:36:23Hey, Pastor.
00:36:25What's up?
00:36:27Yeah, um...
00:36:28Can I have a word with you for a moment?
00:36:31Now?
00:36:32Yes, now.
00:36:35Sure, come on in.
00:36:36Have a seat.
00:36:38How's it going?
00:36:41It's good, good.
00:36:42Alright.
00:36:45What can I help you with, Nick?
00:36:46So look, I just, I have to just come out and say this.
00:36:50Um...
00:36:51I have an issue with watching inappropriate things online.
00:36:56Your what?
00:36:59I have a problem with watching inappropriate things online.
00:37:04Yeah, I heard that.
00:37:06What do you mean by inappropriate things?
00:37:11What I mean is adult content.
00:37:18Hmm...
00:37:19Adult only content.
00:37:23Adult...
00:37:23Only...
00:37:26Stuff...
00:37:28Stuff...
00:37:28Stuff...
00:37:30So, why didn't you tell me that when you came in and shook my hand?
00:37:37Huh?
00:37:39You know, I've been having this problem for a while and I, you know, I just feel guilty.
00:37:46You know, me and my wife...
00:37:49We have...
00:37:51Like, I become addicted to watching.
00:37:56I thought you and your wife were happy.
00:37:59I just assumed your sex life wasn't an issue.
00:38:01You know, she's...
00:38:03She's insecure.
00:38:05And she's becoming depressed and...
00:38:08It's affecting that part of our life.
00:38:12So, what are you gonna do?
00:38:14What do you mean?
00:38:15What do I mean?
00:38:17One thing I always try to make clear to my daughters is that whatever man they choose to marry, make
00:38:25sure that he makes them better.
00:38:29If a woman doesn't improve from being with the man she's with, then why is she with him?
00:38:37Not...
00:38:38And I don't mean richer.
00:38:39I mean her flaws should become more flawless.
00:38:43If she's the type to gossip every day to other people, that should cease.
00:38:48Because when she comes home to you, you're all ears to her.
00:38:52And if she was insecure before you met her, she should be even less insecure because you tell her she's
00:39:01beautiful every day.
00:39:02See, men always come to me about what their wives are doing wrong.
00:39:08In all honesty, it's...
00:39:10What you're not doing.
00:39:13You see?
00:39:14I think I do.
00:39:19Yeah, I know.
00:39:23Don't come in here.
00:39:24Shake my hand knowing you've been on the internet.
00:39:43Hey, why are you not out there playing with the guys?
00:39:52What's going on, buddy?
00:39:53My dad.
00:39:55Your basketball situation?
00:39:57It's every day with everything. I don't want to play sports like he did. I want to be a chef.
00:40:02Well, have you told him?
00:40:03I did.
00:40:04He said I was supposed to play football.
00:40:07Well, some people only believe in signs and wonders.
00:40:10What do you mean?
00:40:12No matter how many times a person goes to church or listens to the word, their stubbornness or lack of
00:40:20prevents them from understanding.
00:40:23And sometimes it takes a miracle for them to believe.
00:40:27Sometimes you just have to show them.
00:40:30Are you ready to show them?
00:40:33I mean, you can cook, right?
00:40:35Yes, I'm a beast in the kitchen.
00:40:37Okay.
00:40:37Well, if you're a beast, show them you ain't a beast.
00:40:40So, you want me to cook?
00:40:43Why not?
00:40:44I got a kitchen full of food and I'm about to burn it all.
00:40:47I mean, at least if you do it, they won't be as hard on you as they will on me.
00:40:51Don't let me get my stuff.
00:40:53All right.
00:40:54Let's go.
00:40:56Here.
00:41:21All right.ري,
00:41:35Now, Dad, that was good.
00:41:37It was three times better than lunch.
00:41:46What?
00:41:47Food was good, huh?
00:41:49That's something I need to tell you all about that meal.
00:41:51What, you didn't cook it?
00:41:52You're right.
00:41:53I didn't.
00:41:55I knew it.
00:41:56What restaurant you get it from?
00:41:59Here.
00:42:00Chef Ramsay?
00:42:02Where he at?
00:42:05He's right there.
00:42:09Yo, that's crazy.
00:42:11Your kid cooks like a pro.
00:42:14Mike, you got a gift, son.
00:42:17Seriously.
00:42:17Mike?
00:42:18Mike cooked this?
00:42:20Yes, he did.
00:42:23He been here the whole while.
00:42:25But you made us eat this livestock earlier.
00:42:28Your son is a genius in the kitchen.
00:42:36I know what my son is.
00:42:38Is this some kind of sick joke?
00:42:40You trying to persuade my son to be a chef?
00:42:42No, man.
00:42:43I just wanted to give him a chance to show you his true gift.
00:42:47So you're his father now.
00:42:49Because you run the church, now you're trying to run my house.
00:42:52I'm trying to pull rank in your house, man.
00:42:54I was born to be a chef.
00:42:55Boy, be quiet.
00:42:58But you did.
00:43:00I'm sick of this chef, Miss.
00:43:02But that I'm good at it.
00:43:04I thought I told you to shut up.
00:43:07Look at what you've done.
00:43:10I'm the daddy in my house, not you.
00:43:12You want to know what, Mac?
00:43:13You're absolutely right.
00:43:15I'm not the man in your house.
00:43:17And neither are you.
00:43:19You're a bully in your house, and everyone in here knows it.
00:43:23I mean, let's just get right down to the truth, Mac.
00:43:26You're trying to live out your little football dreams by stuffing it down your son's throat.
00:43:30It didn't happen, Mac.
00:43:33Let it go.
00:43:35He's a chef.
00:43:37And let's just keep it 100.
00:43:39You want to keep it 100?
00:43:41Football wasn't a dream for me.
00:43:42It was my life.
00:43:43I gave football everything I had.
00:43:46And it almost cost me everything.
00:43:47You don't know what it's like at the age 15 having to be the band of the house
00:43:52because your father decides to leave the five kids with their sick mother.
00:43:57To go have fun with a 21-year-old girl?
00:44:00You don't.
00:44:03Football was everything I had.
00:44:06It was all I knew.
00:44:08It's all I know.
00:44:12Pastor, I can't let my son see me cry like this.
00:44:24Come on, now, Mike.
00:44:25You know your daddy loves you.
00:44:28He just wants what's best for you.
00:44:30That's all.
00:44:31That's what all fathers want.
00:44:32You got to listen to him at some point.
00:44:34Just try to see where he's coming from, Mike.
00:44:38He's not going to tell you nothing wrong.
00:44:46Talk to him.
00:44:47He won't listen to me.
00:44:48He just needs to hear it from you.
00:44:57You did a good job in there with the food and all.
00:45:01I was very depressed.
00:45:03I couldn't cook like that if I had to.
00:45:06I guess that is your gift.
00:45:08Why do you hate me?
00:45:11I don't hate you.
00:45:13I hate myself.
00:45:14I just take it out of you.
00:45:16I'm sorry.
00:45:17I'm sorry I almost ruined you.
00:45:20You're a smart kid.
00:45:24I'm sorry if I suck at being a dad.
00:45:26You don't suck.
00:45:28Man, you're a smart kid.
00:45:31God doesn't say what you wanted like he said what you need.
00:45:34I need you, Dad.
00:45:50Hey, Denise.
00:45:52So nobody's heard from him?
00:45:54Yes.
00:45:55Nick said he talked to him and he was on his way.
00:45:57When was that?
00:45:59That was when we first got here.
00:46:02First got here?
00:46:03A whole day has went by.
00:46:05Nobody called me.
00:46:07Yes, Miss Denise, I apologize.
00:46:09You're absolutely right.
00:46:10We should have called.
00:46:12It's just been a lot going on.
00:46:14A lot going on?
00:46:15My husband could be dead on the side of the road.
00:46:18We didn't think much of it because he's always late or he never shows up.
00:46:22What?
00:46:22That's your excuse?
00:46:23That's how you're going to shepherd your people?
00:46:26We'll try and contact him.
00:46:27What kind of man are you?
00:46:29You know, all the men at this church are trash.
00:46:32You know the women do all the work.
00:46:34You men are lazy.
00:46:36You are useless.
00:46:37My husband could be dead.
00:46:39And you're just going to look for him a day later?
00:46:43I hate this church.
00:46:45And I hate you.
00:46:46I hate you.
00:47:14I hate you.
00:47:31Hey, man. You okay?
00:47:46Yes, I got a guy over here. I don't know if he's asleep or unconscious, but he's not waking
00:47:51up. Yeah, yeah, I checked, but it's really weak. I can't really tell.
00:48:10Unless you too, baby. You play too much, man. Good, good, good. Everybody's doing good.
00:48:26Yes, sir. See, y'all, they're practicing. That's good. All right. Pastor, I've been meaning
00:48:32to ask you something. What makes you feel like God told you to have it? Like, do you talk
00:48:38to him or something? It's called relationship. What do you mean relationship? Well, the more
00:48:47time I spend with him, the easier it is for me to hear his voice or to understand his word.
00:48:56It's like a mother and child. A mother can notice her child's cry amongst a bunch of kids
00:49:02because she has that relationship with the child. She spends time with the child. See,
00:49:08I understand all of that, but I guess what I'm really trying to ask is, like, do you hear
00:49:17his voice or something? Yeah, I do. It could be any way God wants me to hear it.
00:49:25It could be through a sign on the street, something that someone says, a dream. So, okay, so God spoke
00:49:34to me in a dream one. Oprah was stalking me. Anyway, I'm asking because I think God's trying to talk
00:49:50to me. I can't explain it, but I just, it's this dream I keep having. It's me, my wife, and
00:49:59a snake.
00:50:01Yeah, so you've been drinking more of that old holy water again, huh? Red wagons, snakes,
00:50:09Dr. Seuss dreams. Man, you know, I'm going to head about it. Wait, wait. Before you head out,
00:50:16I want to show you all something. You see where those lights are over there? Where those lights
00:50:29are used to be an abandoned church years ago. The city was about half the size that it is now,
00:50:36but they had a bad flu outbreak. I read about that. I read that it was the worst the city
00:50:44had ever seen
00:50:45and, like, they said it was in the air or something like that, and, like, as soon as people stepped
00:50:50outside, they got sick. The city had never seen anything like it. The hospitals couldn't handle it,
00:50:56didn't have enough staff or equipment. But that church, the women of that church, they took in
00:51:04those who were sick, those who couldn't wait days to be treated. There was something special about
00:51:10that story. The men. The men stepped in and helped. They saw it as a responsibility. I want you all
00:51:23to do
00:51:24something for me. All right, come on, form a circle for me. Come on. Right now. Right now.
00:51:32Form a circle, please.
00:52:11You guys have a rough practice here. Hey, let's get ready to go to last service, okay?
00:52:17Y'all ready? I'll take that. You must do it at my back. Thank you, sir. Good practice. Good
00:52:24practice. Good practice. All right, my man. David, I think this is your phone. Yeah, I think this is yours.
00:52:48That's your wife, right? Yeah, that's my wife. Nice picture.
00:53:30This is your wife. This is my wife. Right now. Your wife, right? Yeah, I think this is my wife,
00:53:34right?
00:53:34Whatever, I want to do. This is my wife, right? Yeah, I thought that she looks good.
00:53:38This is my husband's husband, brother. I know you're old. He going to take the next group,
00:53:39This is my wife, right? No.
00:53:40I don't know you're old. So I thought that she's the whole family, I thought that she's the same name.
00:54:14How you doing, son?
00:54:15You all right?
00:54:15Yeah, I'm fine.
00:54:17You sure?
00:54:18Now you know you're leading us in prayer today.
00:54:21You got it.
00:54:22Looks like the spirit already hit you.
00:54:24Something did.
00:55:12You sure?
00:55:15What's wrong with you?
00:55:17Man, that's my wife, Craig.
00:55:19That's my wife.
00:55:19I trusted you with everything.
00:55:21Wait a minute.
00:55:21I'm sorry.
00:55:22Yeah, you are sorry.
00:55:23I hate you and everything about you, Craig.
00:55:26No, maybe if you wasn't spending so much time in the church with Liz, it wouldn't happen.
00:55:31I don't want to go to church.
00:55:32She keeps sending me to church when she can be with you.
00:55:35I call you for help, but you don't call me.
00:55:36You know why?
00:55:37You're too busy helping my wife.
00:55:39Right?
00:55:41Let me go.
00:55:42Let me go.
00:55:46David, hold up.
00:55:48Not right now, Lance.
00:55:51I love you.
00:55:58What?
00:56:00Like I really love you.
00:56:06Awesome.
00:56:07He loves you like a brother in Christ.
00:56:09Hallelujah.
00:56:14No, Nick.
00:56:15Like a relationship.
00:56:17What?
00:56:18What?
00:56:19What?
00:56:19Well, Lance, I ain't game.
00:56:23And what are y'all looking at me for?
00:56:33Well, so you get this under control, Pastor.
00:56:37We told you what would happen if this didn't go well.
00:56:40It's a work of progress.
00:56:42We never wanted you to have this retreat.
00:56:45But you said God called on you.
00:56:48You were just trying to save your job.
00:56:50Dragging these men down here for your own suffrage plan.
00:56:55But you said God called you.
00:56:57He did.
00:56:59Then why is he saying something different?
00:57:02See you on Sunday.
00:57:04I mean, the beginning of your notice.
00:57:17I have been dancing tonight.
00:57:18Well I'm just interstellen of you.
00:57:21That you were all 좀 deeper.
00:57:27See you later.
00:57:29So this is the midquet's a legacy that came upon us.
00:57:31About all the broken brooms and gears will be there.
00:57:31Well, when you saw a car Danke on you.
00:57:38If that was on Sunday.
00:57:45I'll spend some time, really good to find a way.
00:57:46Mind if I come in? Yeah. You know, sometimes we get so caught up in ourselves that we
00:58:01don't realize what's going on around us. I'm sorry. You know what the rainbow
00:58:12really stands for? I mean, look, this isn't easy for me either. You know, sometimes when
00:58:24people voice their opinions about homosexuality, it's like we're the scum of the earth. They
00:58:35treat us just like we're not even equal. We're all children of God. Did Jesus say love
00:58:42all? Yeah, but it doesn't mean that God agrees with everything that we do. I mean, it's like
00:58:55our parents who love us dearly, but they don't always agree with everything that we do. I
00:59:11same reason we're all born the way that we are, Lance. When a child is born and when
00:59:20they're growing, they're not taught to lie or steal. They just do it. God has a plan for
00:59:29all our lives. And he expects us to do right. Therefore, he gives us the ability to do right.
00:59:43People treat us just like we're not even normal. Like yourself, you walk around here thinking
00:59:49you better than somebody. Don't you think you should get the log out of your eye before
00:59:52you try to come get the log out of mine? It's not that I, it's not that I don't agree
01:00:01with homosexuality because I think it's wrong. I don't agree with it because I don't think
01:00:07God agrees with it. I wish you could do anything and without hurting anyone. But again, I don't
01:00:17think that aligns with God. But that has nothing to do with me being your friend, Lance. Me denying you
01:00:28friendship or rights because you're gay is insane. Me not agreeing with your homosexuality is my
01:00:40relationship with God. It has nothing to do with me loving you. I love you, Lance.
01:00:58I love you too, Pastor.
01:01:12Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, with all thy soul, with all thy mind. This
01:01:22is a great commandment.
01:01:30I love you too, Pastor.
01:01:32I love you too, Pastor.
01:01:37Craig. Craig. What?
01:01:39I need to talk to you guys together before we get out of here. Let's go. I messed up. I
01:01:50know. Jesus and everyone in here knows. You know, David was a good guy. He would...
01:02:01He would give you the shirt off his back. That's true. Son, what you did was very dangerous. And I
01:02:11know you're brave enough to try to fix it. Let's go.
01:02:16But what do you expect, though? Hmm? Celebrities cheat on their wives all the time. And some of them are
01:02:24beyond beautiful and they still cheat.
01:02:27So what are you saying, Craig? If celebrities cheat on their spouses, what makes you think that normal people like
01:02:34us won't? Normal people? So you're trying to tell me that a spouse's beauty determines if her husband is going
01:02:44to be faithful to her or not? Son, you got to be dumb as a brick.
01:02:49Okay, look. Just because you're my pastor. Dumb as a brick. You heard what I said. A woman's beauty has
01:02:57nothing to do with a boy's self-control.
01:02:59Who are you calling a boy? Men? Men and women don't cheat, son. They don't put themselves in situations to
01:03:05cheat. They don't put their spouse in situations to cheat. And they don't hang around people who are okay with
01:03:12cheating. Boys cheat.
01:03:18I got you, boy.
01:03:31Come on, fellas. We are men and God is holding us accountable. Who did God ask about eating from the
01:03:40tree?
01:03:40It was Eve the devil lied to, but God questioned Adam because at the end of the day, he is
01:03:47responsible.
01:03:48We are responsible. It needs to be seen throughout our children's lives, neighborhoods, city, county, state, and the whole world.
01:03:59We got to be the example. Did you know that most children spend more time in school than with their
01:04:05parents?
01:04:06Did you know three-quarters of teachers are females?
01:04:10It's worse than elementary and middle school.
01:04:12Ninety-two percent of childcare workers are females.
01:04:16The child already spends its first nine months in the woman's womb.
01:04:21Goodness gracious, when are we going to step in?
01:04:24When are we going to step in and lead and try not to control?
01:04:29When are we going to be men?
01:04:44Have you seen Dan?
01:04:46Oh, they're actually in the room having a conference over there, girl.
01:04:50Probably football.
01:04:53Hey, how are you?
01:04:54Hey, good. How are you?
01:04:55Alright.
01:04:56Good.
01:04:59Hey, David. Pastor's got to talk to you really quick.
01:05:03I talked to another church.
01:05:06Wait, David, please. It's super important. He's got to talk to you.
01:05:16Disabilities. Don't lose sight of it. Be responsible for who you're throwing the ball to, and also be responsible for
01:05:24your own catch.
01:05:47Wait, what sort of mess steps?
01:05:52I probably won't win coming when we grow day.
01:05:52Bye, sweet old actions, and all sons
01:05:53and sisters, Lenteri and Srivastain are thrown away.
01:06:08Yeming and add in details that we take in Relationship There are all kinds of things.
01:06:33Miss Jones?
01:06:36Miss Jones?
01:06:39Um, wait a minute, babe. I'm sorry. These kids are keeping me busy.
01:06:42Oh, you can go.
01:06:45What?
01:06:46I mean, your job is done. You can go.
01:06:49I can go?
01:06:51Oh, no, no. I'm sorry. I mean, like, you can actually go and enjoy service. You don't have to sit
01:06:56here and work like a slave every Sunday.
01:06:58I gotcha. Yeah. I gotcha.
01:07:09We'll make sure that all the diapers are put away so we have them for next Sunday.
01:07:14You won't be coming back here next Sunday.
01:07:16Why? I thought we were doing a good job.
01:07:19You do. You are. Look, you and all the women always do, but the men don't appreciate it and that's
01:07:25not being a man.
01:07:28But yeah, you're more than welcome to come back here anytime because I know you love doing your job.
01:07:33The truth is the men just need to be a little more active in the church.
01:07:38You took the words right out of my mouth.
01:07:40And I thought you'd see it like that. Go enjoy yourself.
01:07:46Don't say it like that. You have no more active in the church.
01:07:50I thought you'd be a man.
01:07:57I'm back and I thought you were a man.
01:07:58I thought you were like, Oh, no.
01:07:59I thought you were going to make it easy now.
01:08:00I thought you were like the way I thought you were like, oh, yeah.
01:08:54Hey, what's wrong?
01:09:02Hey, I need to tell you something. I'm just going to be mad enough and apologize for you for not
01:09:11having told you sooner. Remember when I told you I attended school in Maine?
01:09:18Yeah.
01:09:21I did, but I'm lying.
01:09:26It's because this girl named...
01:09:29Susan McKay, ma'am. She lied and said it's true right there. Her family lied and...
01:09:40Because they didn't want anybody to know that a well-to-do family had a daughter that was lying about
01:09:48her age, skipping school and sleeping around.
01:10:05I didn't mean to hurt you, baby.
01:10:10You didn't hurt me.
01:10:13I'm just relieved that you stepped up and admitted it.
01:10:20Why didn't you tell me you knew?
01:10:23That was not my job.
01:10:26That was your job.
01:10:29My job was to be the best godly wife I could be.
01:10:38How did you know?
01:10:41How did you find out?
01:10:43Y'all men think women are stupid.
01:10:47I researched you before our first date.
01:10:53You were in cell block 2017.
01:10:57And your inmate number was 421-882.
01:11:04I can tell you one better.
01:11:07When you first got there, when you first got there, you were in a cell with Jeremiah Dawson, and then
01:11:12after 18 months, you were in the cell with some guy with the last name of Zachary.
01:11:18That dude was crazy.
01:11:21I don't know how you stayed in there with him.
01:11:24Were you like some kind of FBI agent in your former career or something?
01:11:29No.
01:11:31I am a woman, not a girl, but a woman.
01:11:37I had to know what I was getting into.
01:11:41Okay.
01:11:44Being an FBI agent isn't that bad.
01:11:49So how about I start by inspecting you?
01:12:00Mmm.
01:12:00Hmm.
01:12:01Oh.
01:12:04Hmm.
01:12:09Hmm.
01:12:10Hmm.
01:12:11Hmm.
01:12:11Hmm.
01:12:13Hmm.
01:12:14Hmm.
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