00:00I didn't realize how much a large segment of men hate women.
00:05Like, I didn't, I realized, maybe I was naive.
00:08Did you always know, do you know what I'm saying?
00:10Yeah, I'm thinking about it all the time because I just saw today, like,
00:13it was like 120 million men went on this rape academy site
00:19to teach each other and to watch videos of men raping their wives
00:23or how do you drug and rape your wife.
00:26I mean, when Grok came out, millions and millions of non-consensual sexual images
00:31of women and girls and kids were made immediately.
00:36And then you look at the Epstein situation,
00:38or you look at all of this out-of-control sexual assault and coercion
00:45and entitlement and anger, and you look at these podcasters
00:49and all these people that are, like, teaching boys to hate girls.
00:54And I really think we need to have a lot of conversations
00:57about what's happening right now, what's happening with sex.
01:03You know, I also am seeing really weird things like some 65-year-old man
01:08who's having a relationship with some 20-year-old Ukrainian girl
01:12who's a bot, who doesn't really exist, who's being catfished,
01:17but he feels entitled to this 20-year-old beauty.
01:21There's a very weird entitlement thing happening,
01:23and I don't know that we can exactly just blame families
01:29because I think society is teaching us this.
01:31But what we do have to teach our kids is to question authority, question society.
01:37Don't let them brainwash you.
01:39Don't listen to a bunch of men who don't have healthy relationships
01:43teach you what it is to have a beautiful relationship.
01:48If it doesn't sound beautiful for both people, it's not.
01:52So I do think we have to almost have a different kind of sex education,
01:56which is a sex education about mutual respect.
02:00What consent really means?
02:02Because I think even cheating is a part of non-consent.
02:05So we become normalized to so much of it,
02:09and I think we've got to work on all that.
02:11How did you, I mean, it's kind of interesting
02:15that you have these feelings and, you know, your positions,
02:18and yet you were in an industry that really commodified your looks
02:24and, you know, you were the dick girl.
02:27Yeah, I mean, listen, I think throughout art, throughout history,
02:32and young people are sexually attracted to each other,
02:35I don't think that's weird.
02:38I think that's kind of normal, honestly.
02:41It's a part of life, and it's part of the, like, procreation and the desire.
02:47So, yes, I've been in movies that kind of have that as the central element,
02:54but then I have also done now half my career where I was the mother
02:58or I was the bad woman or I was the undesirable person.
03:03So I don't think we can say it's all one thing.
03:07And I don't want kids to feel bad about looking at porn
03:10or being interested in sex or their own sexuality.
03:14There's a healthy balance of interests.
03:18But I think what happens is you think your parents raised you,
03:23and at a certain point when you become a preteen, teenager,
03:27you don't listen to your parents.
03:29What nobody tells you is you have to start developing yourself
03:35outside of your friend group, outside of society,
03:39outside of some man in the manosphere, whatever it all is,
03:44some mean girl, any of it.
03:46You have to start developing yourself.
03:48Who do you want to be when you're 30?
03:50Who do you want to be when you're 40?
03:51Who do you want to be when you're 50?
03:53Who is that person?
03:55What are their attributes?
03:57How do they treat you?
03:59Like I said, I think I'm older than you,
04:02but I, as much as like, oh, I wish, you know,
04:06you're not as physically able as you were,
04:09like I found that,
04:10but I do love kind of being in a kind of no-f***ing era,
04:14like where I just don't care.
04:15Like I feel like now that I'm older,
04:18like I know my f***ing,
04:20I know what I'm capable of,
04:22I don't take force.
04:23Yeah, I really enjoy getting older.
04:25I'm still coming to terms with trying on new things,
04:28like saying no, I still sometimes feel bitchy
04:31and maybe I don't deliver it the best way.
04:33It's like having boundaries and how do you deliver that?
04:37I'm learning about all that.
04:38But it's like Planned Parenthood is such an incredible organization
04:42with these people who say,
04:44yeah, this big government juggernaut is saying no.
04:48And we say, yes,
04:49we are going to provide health care for people.
04:52Yes, we care about people.
04:54Yes, we're going to challenge you in court.
04:57Without Planned Parenthood,
04:59they're the number one health care provider in America
05:01and we've closed down so many.
05:03And so many young people are going to get deadly cancers.
05:07Throat cancer, mouth cancer, uterine cancer,
05:11because of HPV, which is very prolific.
05:14So this is problematic,
05:17not just access to abortions or health care,
05:21breast exams, all of these things.
05:24And it impacts men and women and our young kids.
05:27And it impacts men and women and our young kids.
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