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Married at First Sight Australia - Season 13 - Episode 13
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00:00:0418 singles from across the country
00:00:07Will you marry me?
00:00:08Took the ultimate leap of faith
00:00:10Let's go!
00:00:11This is the one I've been looking for
00:00:13This is a true love story right now
00:00:16I don't want to be with anyone that gets arrested
00:00:18Where's my husband?
00:00:20Sorry I'm late everyone
00:00:21He was chewing gum sort of with his mouth open
00:00:25Alessandra's intimacy week
00:00:27Definitely has brought me closer to Luke
00:00:29Helped some couples progress their relationships
00:00:32How was it?
00:00:33It was good
00:00:35Intimacy comes in many shapes and forms
00:00:38But things stalled for Rebecca
00:00:40He doesn't want to try it
00:00:41It's just all lip service
00:00:43Before Alessandra helped Steve to account
00:00:46I don't have an earpiece in my ear
00:00:47I'm not waiting for someone to tell me what to say
00:00:49Really tread lightly
00:00:50I don't take to this well
00:00:53And in a dramatic turn of events
00:00:55Brooke made a sudden exit
00:01:00Only to make a surprise return to the dinner party
00:01:03Just 24 hours later
00:01:05I think you're a very rude bitch
00:01:08Brooke went on the attack
00:01:10This is an ass
00:01:11Shut up Alissa
00:01:12Loser!
00:01:15Oh!
00:01:16Leaving her husband isolated and confused
00:01:19Brooke is not back for me
00:01:22And then
00:01:23He says I'm strong
00:01:25A shock allegation about Danny preferring Gia
00:01:29There was nothing of that I ever said
00:01:30Why would I make that up?
00:01:32Caused Beck to spiral
00:01:33You made a fool of my relationship
00:01:35Unsure whether to believe her husband or not
00:01:39You should trust me first
00:01:40I'll take offence to that
00:01:43Tonight
00:01:44Are you falling in love?
00:01:46I think
00:01:46Yeah
00:01:47Love is in the air
00:01:49It's been really good
00:01:51That's when the kissing started
00:01:52Made her blush
00:01:53So
00:01:53Some will celebrate incredible breakthroughs
00:01:57This morning
00:01:57I kissed him
00:01:59As Mel and Luke's transformation continues
00:02:02We're doing so good
00:02:04I don't even know who you are
00:02:06The experts unpack the question on everyone's lips
00:02:10Did you say that Danny?
00:02:12It threw me that she'd even believe a comment like that
00:02:15Absolutely not
00:02:16You're not going to gaslight a woman right now
00:02:18You know what you said
00:02:19You have zero credibility
00:02:21She wouldn't make that up dude
00:02:23And
00:02:24Obviously
00:02:24Yeah
00:02:25Got carried away
00:02:26The experts call out Brooke's bad behaviour
00:02:30In all my years working on Married at First Sight
00:02:34I have never experienced a woman
00:02:37Be so vicious toward other women
00:03:02It's the morning of the second
00:03:04Commitment ceremony of the experiment
00:03:07And our couples are feeling the shockwaves
00:03:10Of last night's intense dinner party
00:03:14Glad we dressed up for that
00:03:16I could have gone in my jammies
00:03:18Might as well have
00:03:19At least I would have been comfortable
00:03:21That was a wild night
00:03:23I would describe that as unhinged
00:03:26A lot of insults thrown from Beck, Gia, Brooke
00:03:31Towards, you know, Stella
00:03:33Towards Alyssa
00:03:35And it was hard to listen to
00:03:37It did bother me
00:03:38I didn't like it
00:03:38But I've definitely felt bad for Alyssa
00:03:41Because like
00:03:41I just see this girl
00:03:42That's just getting slammed
00:03:43And it's pretty intimidating
00:03:44I'd imagine
00:03:47I care about what people think
00:03:50I care about people's feelings
00:03:52You know
00:03:53I don't want to have this conflict
00:03:57You know
00:04:03Man, if I could sum up last night's dinner party
00:04:06I feel like it was a pack of wolves
00:04:09Let loose on a village
00:04:11All they wanted to do
00:04:13Was come in and tear everything apart
00:04:17Alyssa is really rocked
00:04:18By the dinner party
00:04:21And I just want to support her right now
00:04:23Like it feels crap
00:04:26You know
00:04:26This is damage control right now
00:04:31I feel like
00:04:32You know
00:04:32I just need to be the hands
00:04:34Around her
00:04:35And just to comfort her
00:04:35Because it's been a rough night
00:04:40Oh, God
00:04:43Brooke is bullying
00:04:45I'm not going to the war zone again
00:04:47Last night was enough
00:04:48I put on a front
00:04:49And I handled it
00:04:52But I'm not doing it again
00:04:56It's mean
00:04:58And if you can't find anything nice to say
00:05:00About someone
00:05:00Just say nothing
00:05:02You don't even know me
00:05:03You don't know David
00:05:05I don't have to sell you
00:05:07This relationship
00:05:09I don't have to sell it to you
00:05:12Because this is my love story
00:05:16And it's me
00:05:21Alyssa wasn't the only one
00:05:22At the receiving end
00:05:24Of Brooke's unsolicited attacks
00:05:26Cheers
00:05:27Cheers
00:05:28Good morning
00:05:28Good morning
00:05:30Oh, what a night
00:05:34Literally
00:05:35In a way
00:05:36You're just bringing to her top of mind
00:05:39She's like
00:05:39Oh, hang on
00:05:40I didn't get what I want in this experiment
00:05:41And it pisses her off
00:05:42I don't know
00:05:43Like it would be only her
00:05:45That knows the reasons
00:05:46Why
00:05:48Um
00:05:50I don't know
00:05:51What was their beef with you?
00:05:53Why did they turn on you?
00:05:54What's your crime here?
00:05:56Um
00:05:59The funniest thing
00:06:00That there was no crime
00:06:01There was actually no crime
00:06:03They just needed to create a drama
00:06:05In
00:06:06Out of thin air
00:06:07And
00:06:07They did it
00:06:11I did have my heart rate up
00:06:12Absolutely
00:06:14I'm not psychopath
00:06:16You know
00:06:16But
00:06:18I do not give power to people
00:06:20To antagonise me
00:06:21In any way, shape or form
00:06:22If I lower myself to your standard
00:06:25I lost
00:06:27Obviously there's something
00:06:28For her to deal with
00:06:29Her
00:06:29With herself
00:06:30Internally
00:06:32She's got work
00:06:32She's got work to do
00:06:34Work to do
00:06:34This is just childish behaviour
00:06:36It's not even worth the air
00:06:38It's not even worth
00:06:40The effort
00:06:41That's
00:06:42That's
00:06:43No good
00:06:44That's not good
00:06:45It's not good
00:06:46It's not
00:06:53It's not good
00:06:53Despite Chris's best efforts
00:06:55During intimacy week
00:06:56Brooke left the experiment
00:06:58But made a surprise appearance
00:07:01At last night's dinner party
00:07:03With some unfinished business
00:07:05To attend to
00:07:06The runaway bride returns
00:07:07The runaway returns
00:07:11The funniest thing is
00:07:12I didn't have a plan
00:07:13Going into the dinner party
00:07:14Last night
00:07:15I was like
00:07:15I'm just going to surprise everyone
00:07:17And see how the night takes me
00:07:18There was some crazy emotions
00:07:21Yesterday
00:07:22I mean I was going with a bang
00:07:24And I definitely did that
00:07:25You did the whole night
00:07:26Well you can hear it in the hallways
00:07:28Everyone's like
00:07:30Crying and shit
00:07:31Oh really
00:07:32Yeah
00:07:32Being called a bully
00:07:34I then react to that
00:07:36Which I need to not react to that
00:07:38But I can't help it
00:07:40I don't regret having a voice
00:07:42And speaking my opinion
00:07:45But at the end of the day
00:07:47Obviously I'm glad
00:07:48That's over and done with
00:07:49Ship sale
00:07:49I'm dropping that now
00:07:51How are you feeling about Chris?
00:07:54I don't even know
00:07:55I just don't feel it
00:07:57I don't know if Chris is ready
00:07:59To let this go
00:08:01But it doesn't change anything for me
00:08:03I still feel how I feel
00:08:05And I'm not ready for this
00:08:06And he's not either
00:08:07But I still went in here
00:08:09With 100% effort
00:08:10And it's not like I didn't
00:08:14As Brooke looks back on last night
00:08:18An even bigger accusation
00:08:20Came to light
00:08:20That rocked the experiment
00:08:23I reached out to Brooke this morning
00:08:25After the dinner party last night
00:08:27Just to see where she's at
00:08:30And I said
00:08:31How are you going?
00:08:32And she said
00:08:33Not good
00:08:34You've ruined my relationship
00:08:35I'm devastated
00:08:37Leave me alone
00:08:45Did it happen or not?
00:08:52Shut up
00:08:54Be honest
00:08:55Be honest Danny
00:08:55Watch your mouth girl
00:08:58I'm being honest
00:08:59Don't lie about me
00:09:00But you said that
00:09:01But you said that
00:09:03In the outside world
00:09:04You would be my type
00:09:05That is what Danny said
00:09:09Brooke obviously was on
00:09:10One last night
00:09:13Brooke said it
00:09:14Told her not to
00:09:14Brooke said what she said
00:09:17And now
00:09:18For some reason
00:09:19This is all my fault
00:09:20That they're not
00:09:20They're not good
00:09:21Can you make that make sense?
00:09:23For your man saying
00:09:24Something Saturday night drunk
00:09:25In front of me and a girl
00:09:26And the girl brings it up
00:09:27So why is this my fault?
00:09:29I just think it's
00:09:30Bec's insecurities coming out
00:09:31Because she's trying to
00:09:32Protect her own relationship
00:09:34She's acting as if
00:09:35I lured Danny in
00:09:37And said
00:09:37Do you want to sleep
00:09:37With me in the bathroom?
00:09:39I have no interest in Danny
00:09:42He's disgusting
00:09:43Yuck
00:09:44Their relationship's a bit fake
00:09:46And full of it
00:09:48So she'll put it on
00:09:49Other people's relationships
00:09:50Why don't you look at
00:09:51Your own relationship?
00:09:53Bec's going to bring it up
00:09:54Tonight
00:09:54And she's going to
00:09:56Use me as a way to
00:09:58I guess bring them
00:09:59Back together
00:10:00In a way so that
00:10:01She can blame someone else
00:10:02Other than her
00:10:03And Danny
00:10:03Because you're scared
00:10:05To really face the fact that
00:10:06Maybe he isn't into you
00:10:08I hope at the
00:10:09Commitment ceremony
00:10:10They're open
00:10:10And they actually tell us
00:10:12What's going on
00:10:13Danny's a liar
00:10:14And that's all there is to it
00:10:16He's going around
00:10:18Doing everything
00:10:19But being accountable
00:10:20And I'm sick of it
00:10:21And she's a fool
00:10:23A total fool
00:10:26Danny was frustrated
00:10:27With Bec
00:10:28For believing
00:10:29Gia last night
00:10:30And slept in
00:10:31A separate apartment
00:10:32Um Bec
00:10:33What's happening this morning?
00:10:43Gia and Brooke
00:10:43Have definitely set out
00:10:44To rock my relationship
00:10:45And they are succeeding
00:10:47I've not felt this low
00:10:50For years
00:10:54Gia and Brooke
00:10:54Have made this up
00:10:55It's not true
00:10:57I know it's not true
00:10:58I knew it wasn't true
00:10:59Last night
00:11:02He would never have
00:11:03Said that to her
00:11:07Ever
00:11:08Ever
00:11:09Don't accuse me
00:11:10Of doing things like that
00:11:11But there's no
00:11:12Truth in that whatsoever
00:11:13I need to ride or die
00:11:14You should trust me first
00:11:15I knew that you were
00:11:16Going to do this
00:11:17I'm done
00:11:29What's going on?
00:11:31How are you?
00:11:34Not the best
00:11:35How are you?
00:11:36Alright
00:11:36I'm always good
00:11:39How was your night?
00:11:41Shocking
00:11:41How was yours?
00:11:44You want me to start?
00:11:46Yeah
00:11:46Okay
00:11:48Last night
00:11:51When Gia whispered to me
00:11:53At the dinner party
00:11:54At the dinner party
00:11:55That you had supposedly
00:11:57Told her on Saturday night
00:12:00That on the outside world
00:12:03She would be
00:12:03You would want to be with her
00:12:34I didn't believe it for a second
00:12:35God
00:12:36Is this
00:12:36Is this a thing
00:12:38And then I brought myself
00:12:39Back down to earth
00:12:40And thought
00:12:40No it's not
00:12:41You
00:12:42I'm obviously not the man
00:12:43You think I am
00:12:44For you to believe that
00:12:45Oh Daniel
00:12:46Stop it
00:12:47That's what I believe
00:12:48And I have to say the truth
00:12:49Bec
00:12:49This hurts me as well
00:12:50Do you not think I'm hurting?
00:12:52It was like a dagger
00:12:53Through the heart
00:12:54For you to believe her
00:12:55For one millisecond
00:12:56Over your husband
00:12:57I know
00:12:57You threw
00:12:58You threw
00:12:59Our trust away
00:13:02For her to believe
00:13:03A blatant lie
00:13:04Over her husband
00:13:06It just hurt
00:13:07And I just need a space
00:13:08Simple as that
00:13:10Like what I said
00:13:11At the end of the aisle
00:13:12When I married you
00:13:13Was like
00:13:14The number one thing
00:13:15I want in a relationship
00:13:17And with a wife
00:13:18Are two things
00:13:18Trust and ride or die
00:13:21Like
00:13:21Because
00:13:22I am ride or die
00:13:24Ride or die
00:13:25Is not believing a lie
00:13:26About me for one second
00:13:27That's ride or die
00:13:30I view women
00:13:31How I view my mum
00:13:32My mum would never
00:13:33Ever betray my dad
00:13:34Not in a month of Sundays
00:13:35Not if a thousand people
00:13:36Were saying bad things about him
00:13:37She'd never believe it
00:13:38For one second
00:13:39And that's how I
00:13:40I view women off my mum
00:13:42Because that's what
00:13:43I grew up watching
00:13:44That's what I'm looking for
00:13:45In a woman
00:13:45A ride or die
00:13:46Like my mum
00:13:47So what does this mean for us?
00:13:49I don't
00:13:49But I honestly
00:13:50Like to be honest
00:13:51My head's scrambled
00:13:52Like
00:13:53With all due respect
00:13:54Like you did betray me
00:13:55In that moment
00:13:56Like
00:13:58What do you want me to do
00:13:58Is sit here in line
00:13:59Say everything's fine
00:14:00Bec
00:14:01Everything's fine
00:14:01I don't care
00:14:02I'm done
00:14:04What I need from Bec now
00:14:05Is to prove to me
00:14:06That she is ride or die
00:14:07And I don't know
00:14:08How she's going to do that
00:14:09She's just got to
00:14:09Come up with something
00:14:12I can't go
00:14:17I just don't know how
00:14:22A comment
00:14:24Which is a lie
00:14:27That I believe for a minute
00:14:30And then rectified
00:14:34Could take us from being
00:14:35Where we were
00:14:37To where we are now
00:14:46I feel like we've worked so hard
00:14:48To get to where we are
00:14:51And now I just feel like it's ruined
00:15:07Our couples are getting ready
00:15:09For tonight's commitment ceremony
00:15:12The stakes have never been higher
00:15:15We are lions
00:15:17And you know
00:15:18Lions don't worry about
00:15:19What mice have to say
00:15:21Can I say a smile on that doll?
00:15:23I don't feel like smiling today
00:15:26It's a sad day
00:15:29What's the aftermath of
00:15:30What you guys have chosen to do?
00:15:32Like they made a choice last night
00:15:34And so are they happy
00:15:36With how things have gone?
00:15:45Will they stay
00:15:47Or leave the experiment?
00:15:55But for one couple
00:15:56There has been a complete 180 overnight
00:15:59We went through some challenges
00:16:01In intimacy week
00:16:02It's a bit rough around the edges
00:16:04That's fair
00:16:05But there were some really beautiful moments
00:16:07As well
00:16:08Grayson and I
00:16:09Really did tie up
00:16:11Our intimacy week
00:16:12In quite a beautiful way
00:16:13We have shared our first kiss
00:16:15Which was really beautiful
00:16:17Yeah it kind of naturally happened
00:16:18I just sort of
00:16:20Lent in
00:16:21And here we are
00:16:24I'll see you there
00:16:25Hopefully there's not as many fireworks tonight
00:16:27He is hoping
00:16:30Should we
00:16:31Get this show on the road
00:16:32Say goodbye to you
00:16:33See you there
00:16:34Bye
00:16:36I'm going to get in there
00:16:38Look amazing
00:16:39You too
00:16:39You look like a good snack
00:16:56Greetings gents
00:16:57Hello
00:16:58How are you?
00:16:59Hello boys
00:16:59How are you doing?
00:17:01Good to see you all
00:17:03Well
00:17:14What you doing?
00:17:27See you there
00:17:28I'm going to get to them
00:17:28I'm going to get you there
00:17:31Bye
00:17:39How are you going?
00:17:40Good, how are you?
00:17:41All right.
00:17:46I like your dress.
00:17:56Well, welcome, everybody, to the second commitment ceremony.
00:18:00And if last night's dinner party is anything to go by,
00:18:04tonight we have a lot to get into.
00:18:10Now, just a heads up,
00:18:11our lovely expert Alessandra has indeed lost most of her voice.
00:18:18And therefore tonight, you may hear a limited amount from her.
00:18:25And if she feels the need to jump in, she certainly will try.
00:18:31First up on the couch,
00:18:34Alissa and David.
00:18:40Hello. Hello.
00:18:42Hey, you two.
00:18:45Last night was pretty heavy going for the two of you.
00:18:49Yeah, absolutely.
00:18:52What was it like for you?
00:18:56Oh, I'm just, uh...
00:19:00I'm pretty disgusted.
00:19:13Last night was pretty heavy going for the two of you.
00:19:18Yeah, absolutely.
00:19:27What was it like for you, Alissa?
00:19:35Oh, I'm just, uh...
00:19:38I'm pretty disgusted.
00:19:42Just the disrespect.
00:19:45The low-grade comments.
00:19:47High school, mean girl, energy.
00:19:53It was yelling, screaming, storming off, banging on the table.
00:19:59It was toxic behaviour.
00:20:02Last night was really hurtful.
00:20:04Like, really disgusting, disrespectful behaviour, and I am just gutted.
00:20:13I just didn't want to be here today.
00:20:15I did not want to walk into this room, but I would be letting my husband down if I didn't
00:20:19show up for him, and if I didn't stand up for myself.
00:20:24She was right.
00:20:26I was so harsh in her.
00:20:30What is it about your relationship that you think is getting under people's skin?
00:20:35I don't know.
00:20:36And I don't know where the comments are coming from.
00:20:42I haven't said one nasty thing towards any of these people sitting in this room.
00:20:50If there was a reason to come at me, come at me, but talk to me.
00:20:54Let's resolve this as adults.
00:20:55Like, we're not in the high school playground.
00:20:58Like, let's just talk.
00:21:02Yeah, it's really hurtful.
00:21:08Alyssa, I need to apologise to you, because my delivery of what I said to you was unacceptable.
00:21:14The way I spoke to you last night, I need to take accountability for how cruel I was to both
00:21:20of you.
00:21:27I'm sorry for the way that I spoke to you last night.
00:21:30It wasn't acceptable.
00:21:31It was mean.
00:21:32And I can assure you it won't happen again.
00:21:36And I'm really, genuinely sorry to you both that that's the way that I came at you.
00:21:44I mean, it's...
00:21:45Yeah, what's your response to that?
00:21:50I just, I'm lost for words.
00:21:53I actually don't even want to sit at a table with half of the people in this room, because I'm
00:21:57embarrassed.
00:21:59I'm embarrassed to sit at the table and share space with the disrespectful, the cattiness, the fire starting, the interrogation.
00:22:08That is just immature behaviour, and I'm just not here for it, and I'm not standing for it.
00:22:17The three of us observing you were so impressed.
00:22:22Watching the two of you work as a team, not buy into the comments, stand your ground as a couple.
00:22:31You turned toward each other, you supported each other, and you were a real team.
00:22:40You showed real dignity and grace.
00:22:43It was so incredibly impressive.
00:22:48So credit to you both.
00:22:50At the end of the day, you can talk crap, throw all those stupid insults all you want.
00:22:56Doesn't mean anything, but if you're going to come at my wife and, you know, talk about women that way,
00:23:03it says a lot about you.
00:23:05You know, she's a sensitive person.
00:23:08She comes across as very bubbly, outspoken, but when you get to know her, she's really a sensitive soul.
00:23:14So I think she didn't deserve that.
00:23:20You know, I'll thank myself for sitting on this couch next to my husband and, you know, standing up for
00:23:26us and what we've felt along the way.
00:23:30So, things seem to be going pretty well.
00:23:32Honestly, fantastic.
00:23:34I feel like last night made us even stronger.
00:23:37Closer together again.
00:23:38It just made us stronger.
00:23:39It's like nothing's going to stop us.
00:23:40Just go away.
00:23:41Don't burst a bubble.
00:23:43Like, just leave us alone.
00:23:44Like, we're here because we are totally into each other and we are giving this 100%.
00:23:53I'm actually falling for this man.
00:23:55I'm falling hard for him.
00:23:59I feel the exact same way.
00:24:01We are definitely on that cusp of falling in love.
00:24:05And it's crazy.
00:24:06It's crazy to actually say that.
00:24:08And I have so much more to offer her.
00:24:10And I'm just grateful that, you know, you guys matched us together.
00:24:14And, yeah, I'm definitely falling for her for sure.
00:24:21So, with that said, we're going to go to a decision.
00:24:25Let's start with you, David.
00:24:27Oh, okay.
00:24:29You was coming at me.
00:24:30Well, I mean, I've already said a little bit of what I want to say about this woman.
00:24:35She is an amazing woman.
00:24:36And I can't wait to see how the rest of this experience goes.
00:24:40And I am really falling for her.
00:24:41So, with that said, pretty obvious.
00:24:47Strong statement.
00:24:48Love it.
00:24:51And to you, Alyssa.
00:24:52I'm not here for the BS.
00:24:53And I'm here to really test this relationship and to find something rock solid.
00:25:00This man keeps showing up for me every day.
00:25:02And I really am falling for you.
00:25:05So, stay with her.
00:25:07Love that.
00:25:11Look, the two of you, just keep doing what you're doing.
00:25:13Keep turning toward each other.
00:25:15Wherever you can, lock out that external noise.
00:25:18Because, as you've said, what's important is what's here between the two of you.
00:25:22So, continue focusing on that.
00:25:24Thanks a lot.
00:25:25Appreciate it.
00:25:26Well done.
00:25:36Our next couple up on the couch.
00:25:41Mel and Luke.
00:25:46Oh, I've been looking forward to this.
00:25:48Hello, too.
00:25:49We've been looking forward to talking to you guys, too.
00:25:52I have been.
00:25:52It's a whole new couple.
00:25:54So much has changed.
00:25:55Well, I don't want to speak in front of us, but I feel like a different person.
00:25:59You look and sound like a different person.
00:26:02I don't even know who you are.
00:26:04I don't know either.
00:26:05It's so crazy, isn't it?
00:26:09What feels different for you, Mel?
00:26:11Well, I just feel more positive.
00:26:14I feel lighter.
00:26:16And do you know why?
00:26:17It's because, like, obviously at the first commitment ceremony, like, I listened to everything you all said to me.
00:26:22I acknowledged your advice.
00:26:24I took it on board.
00:26:26I changed my attitude.
00:26:28I changed my outlook.
00:26:30And that's why it's changed our relationship.
00:26:32We're doing so good.
00:26:35We just have just been more curious with each other, more open-minded.
00:26:40When we're speaking to each other, we've got eye contact.
00:26:43Just keep in mind, like, us a week ago, we didn't even look eyes.
00:26:47Oh, we don't.
00:26:48Yeah.
00:26:50Kind to each other, positive with each other.
00:26:53Love that.
00:26:55We love it too.
00:26:56Seriously.
00:26:58Yeah.
00:27:01Mel, I'm so impressed with you.
00:27:04Thank you, John.
00:27:05I really appreciate that.
00:27:06You had checked out.
00:27:08I was.
00:27:09You listened.
00:27:11And you let go of, I guess, all your sort of expectations.
00:27:17And you said, I'm going to begin now.
00:27:20Yeah.
00:27:21We really, really did reset.
00:27:25We drew a line in the sand and we said, we're not going back and looking at anything that's
00:27:29happened in the past.
00:27:30We can not forget what's happened, but there's no point talking about it.
00:27:34So we tried to keep it super light.
00:27:36Super light, yeah.
00:27:36Super positive.
00:27:38And that's about it.
00:27:41Mel, you intrigued me when I first met you because you talked to me about pink and blue
00:27:47jobs in a relationship, which I'd never heard of before.
00:27:51Do you understand what we're talking about?
00:27:53No.
00:27:53No.
00:27:54Can you tell them, please, Mel?
00:27:55Yeah, basically what it is, being pink makes you feel feminine.
00:28:00It makes you feel girly.
00:28:02It makes you feel light.
00:28:04It makes you feel like a pretty fairy, basically.
00:28:07And then a blue person makes you feel that way because they take sort of the weight off
00:28:13your shoulders.
00:28:17Is Luke someone who is a blue guy that makes you feel pink?
00:28:24If you asked me a few weeks ago, I'd have been like, no, Luke doesn't make me feel pink
00:28:29at all because I wasn't sort of in my feminine energy.
00:28:33I was really in that sort of negative energy and negative mindset.
00:28:38But yeah, Luke is definitely a blue guy.
00:28:44It's cute.
00:28:46Wow.
00:28:48I gather you two haven't been living together this week.
00:28:51No, we haven't.
00:28:52Are you ready to make that next step of moving back in?
00:28:56I'd be fine to do it.
00:28:57I just feel like I'd want to move in if I felt wanted to move in.
00:29:04Yeah, right.
00:29:07I definitely do feel nervous about it.
00:29:10We've actually developed a great relationship.
00:29:13What if it just goes bad again?
00:29:18You know what?
00:29:19You'll never know until you do it.
00:29:23I mean, the experiment is all about getting out of your comfort zone.
00:29:26Yeah, that's really all right.
00:29:28Moving forward.
00:29:29You may as well keep going with that process because it's working.
00:29:33Exciting.
00:29:34We've got a plan.
00:29:35Yeah, we do got a plan.
00:29:38How about we go to a decision?
00:29:39Yes, let's do that.
00:29:40I'll say first, well, it's an obvious one.
00:29:42I wrote stay because we've had such a good week.
00:29:44Yeah.
00:29:45So it makes sense.
00:29:48I also think that because we've had such a good week, it'd be silly for me to write anything else
00:29:53but stay.
00:29:54Look at that.
00:29:54Love that.
00:29:55Good stuff.
00:29:58Thanks, guys.
00:29:58Can I also say, it's a great example for the rest of the group that they were critical.
00:30:06They were ready to break up last week.
00:30:08A week on, look at them now.
00:30:10So it is possible to turn it around if you invest and go with it.
00:30:15I see great things.
00:30:17Go back to the group.
00:30:18I can't wait to see you next week.
00:30:20Yeah, me too.
00:30:21Likewise.
00:30:22Enjoy.
00:30:23Enjoy.
00:30:28Still to come, a surprising breakthrough.
00:30:32I kissed him.
00:30:33Oh.
00:30:33Yay.
00:30:34Woo.
00:30:35And later.
00:30:36Did you say that, Danny?
00:30:38Absolutely not.
00:30:39Of course not.
00:30:39Danny doubles down.
00:30:41You know what you said.
00:30:43Why the hell would I say?
00:30:44Gia.
00:30:45Stop.
00:30:45I'm talking.
00:30:54All right, let's get our next couple up on the couch.
00:31:02Rebecca and Steve.
00:31:04You guys, you got this.
00:31:07All right.
00:31:09Help us understand what's going on.
00:31:13I don't know where to start, John.
00:31:14Like, I'm...
00:31:15OK, sorry, guys.
00:31:17I don't want to...
00:31:18Take your time.
00:31:19Tell us what particularly has been disappointing for you.
00:31:24I came into this experiment wanting to find love.
00:31:27I was open.
00:31:28I've been authentic.
00:31:29I was here for all the right reasons.
00:31:32When I first met Steve, like, we had a connection.
00:31:34I thought the experts have got it right.
00:31:39We had a great wedding, great honeymoon.
00:31:42As soon as I started saying to him, I need this from you,
00:31:45really voicing my needs and my wants,
00:31:48telling him how I...
00:31:50I said, please let me finish.
00:31:51Sorry, it was just...
00:31:52Yeah.
00:31:55I felt unheard in the relationship.
00:31:58I felt like every time I tried to voice how I was feeling,
00:32:02I was getting shut down and spoken over.
00:32:04I feel like he wasn't vulnerable.
00:32:07He didn't show up for me.
00:32:08And I just feel that I've been matched with someone
00:32:11that hasn't been all in with me.
00:32:15How hasn't he been all in?
00:32:17He's too concerned about what everyone else's perceptions of, Steve.
00:32:21The intimacy week, we didn't do a lot of it.
00:32:24And when I asked him, why not?
00:32:26It's like fruit salad, just lip service.
00:32:28It didn't make any sense.
00:32:30Steve, what do you say to that?
00:32:32I just disagree.
00:32:34We did have, again, what I would consider to be a personality clash on...
00:32:39I'll stop you there.
00:32:43You use the term personality clash.
00:32:45That's a cop-out?
00:32:48What do you mean by that, though?
00:32:49I'll tell you what I mean.
00:32:50Yeah, please.
00:32:51What is the clash?
00:32:53What is it about the personality?
00:32:54It's a very general term.
00:32:56It's a throwaway comment.
00:32:57Get specific.
00:32:59The discussion started off being around, you know,
00:33:03look, I'm sure a lot of people have, you know,
00:33:05not come in here with, you know,
00:33:08knowing that they're going to find the one.
00:33:09Surely they've got, you know, other motives and whatnot.
00:33:12Rebecca said, not me.
00:33:14I came in here for love only.
00:33:15And, you know, it became very fiery.
00:33:18Both of us, we don't communicate well in those circumstances.
00:33:24There's a complete disconnect
00:33:26with how Rebecca sees a situation and how I see it.
00:33:30To be honest, there's no winning or losing in that conversation.
00:33:34It's almost like...
00:33:34OK, so you're...
00:33:35It's not about personality.
00:33:37It's actually about a communication style.
00:33:39Yeah, OK.
00:33:40And everyone has different patterns,
00:33:42but they can certainly be adjusted.
00:33:46After the last commitment ceremony where I said to you,
00:33:49you've got your partner sitting there saying,
00:33:52I don't feel desired, do something about it,
00:33:55what have you done?
00:33:58I got in touch with Rebecca
00:34:00and invited her to lunch on the Sunday.
00:34:04Rebecca decided to go out with other people on the Saturday
00:34:06and I got cancelled on on Sunday morning.
00:34:09It emotionally sets you back a little bit
00:34:11and so we didn't get to bond
00:34:13when other people had some time together.
00:34:16And then we had a good Monday when we came back together.
00:34:19I think all came good together.
00:34:20So, Steve, after the commitment ceremony,
00:34:22you had the ability to...
00:34:24Monday, Tuesday, today...
00:34:27What have you done?
00:34:29He hasn't done anything for it.
00:34:30I know.
00:34:32It's ridiculous.
00:34:34Well, Tuesday, we had the dinner party,
00:34:36so we didn't really...
00:34:37Steve, since you last saw me sitting on this couch...
00:34:41Yeah, yeah.
00:34:41It's a very simple question.
00:34:43Have you taken her out for coffee, a walk,
00:34:46woken up saying, how was your sleep
00:34:47and showing the nice gestures yet?
00:34:49Because I haven't heard it.
00:34:50Always.
00:34:50Oh.
00:34:52I have done that.
00:34:53Rebecca, has he done any little favours
00:34:55to show that he's interested?
00:34:57No, Scott, he hasn't.
00:34:58There's your answer.
00:34:59I get up in the morning, I give you a kiss
00:35:00and I get you a coffee or I say,
00:35:02can I go get your coffee and bring your takeaways?
00:35:04He has made me a coffee a couple of times.
00:35:06What have you done to make her feel desired?
00:35:09Apart from the organising lunch, nothing.
00:35:13Why?
00:35:15Because I'm not romantically, you know,
00:35:18wanting to lead Rebecca on.
00:35:21I was kind of given the impression
00:35:23I now have to be a bit more genuine
00:35:25with myself and with Rebecca.
00:35:27And so after meeting with Alessandra,
00:35:29it did make me think, be honest with myself.
00:35:32I'm going to take you back to the first time
00:35:35you and I met via video.
00:35:37Yes.
00:35:38And we had a pretty open conversation
00:35:40about your past relationships.
00:35:41Yeah, we did.
00:35:41And the fact that you described yourself
00:35:43as being pretty selfish in past relationships.
00:35:45It was all about you and your needs
00:35:47as opposed to your partner.
00:35:49You made yourself a bit of a promise
00:35:50was that you were going to come into this experiment
00:35:52and try things differently.
00:35:54Mm-hmm.
00:35:56How do you feel about that now?
00:35:58I think I've tried very, you know, in my own way.
00:36:01I think I've tried and I think I've tried to progress
00:36:03faster than...
00:36:04Do you think you've been selfish in this relationship?
00:36:06No, I don't think I've been selfish.
00:36:08No, I don't.
00:36:10I've always asked Rebecca to be herself.
00:36:12I said, you do you.
00:36:14You know, Rebecca's needs...
00:36:16Sorry.
00:36:16Look at her now.
00:36:17What's that?
00:36:18Look at her.
00:36:19I know, and I've been literally with Rebecca
00:36:23for the last few weeks
00:36:24and I've always been there for her
00:36:26when she's feeling this way.
00:36:28Oh, can I say...
00:36:28It's all lip service.
00:36:29It's all fruit salad and Caesar salad
00:36:31and Greek salad, all mixed in.
00:36:33All right, all right.
00:36:33It really is, it really is.
00:36:36Steve, you tell us now,
00:36:38how have you contributed
00:36:40to the problems in this relationship?
00:36:42Oh, I miscommunicate with Rebecca
00:36:44as much as she miscommunicates.
00:36:45With me, it's half-half.
00:36:46I want you to stop talking about her
00:36:47because that's a real problem.
00:36:49OK.
00:36:51Spotlight is on you.
00:36:52Yep.
00:36:53What do you do to contribute
00:36:55to the problems in this relationship?
00:36:58You alone.
00:37:03I don't know.
00:37:05That's why I ask you.
00:37:07Because you should know.
00:37:09What we hear now is a guy
00:37:12that's sitting there going,
00:37:14you know,
00:37:16I'm not selfish.
00:37:17I've given it my all.
00:37:19I don't think you have given it your all.
00:37:24You are not able to answer the question.
00:37:27I thought I had answered the question.
00:37:29You haven't.
00:37:29You've just said...
00:37:30I don't know the other reasons.
00:37:32So from your expert point of view,
00:37:34tell me what you've seen
00:37:35that I'm not doing
00:37:36and what I need to do.
00:37:36I need you to tell me.
00:37:37I'm not sure.
00:37:38I can't give you the answer.
00:37:41Other than the fact
00:37:42that I thought I was trying.
00:37:45This is a very important time
00:37:47for you, Steve.
00:37:49Because
00:37:52this moment
00:37:53you can actually start
00:37:54looking inwards.
00:37:55What else
00:37:56might be a problem
00:37:58in terms of
00:37:59this relationship
00:38:00and what you contribute to it?
00:38:04Obviously,
00:38:05I've said no.
00:38:08If we pivot
00:38:09and go to the intimacy week,
00:38:11there was an exchange
00:38:12between you and Alessandra.
00:38:14Yes.
00:38:14Can you tell me
00:38:15why it is
00:38:16that you became
00:38:17so fixed
00:38:19against what Alessandra
00:38:20was telling you about?
00:38:23I don't know.
00:38:23I wasn't sure
00:38:24if I was fixed
00:38:25against what you were saying.
00:38:26To refresh your memory,
00:38:29what actually happened,
00:38:30you had a very difficult time
00:38:32listening to an opinion
00:38:33that differed from yours.
00:38:35It was about
00:38:36not Steve's desires
00:38:38and Steve's space,
00:38:39but understanding
00:38:40what Rebecca wanted.
00:38:42And you pushed back hard.
00:38:44You spoke over me.
00:38:45You disrespected me
00:38:46with your words
00:38:47and also with the tone
00:38:48of voice that you spoke.
00:38:49You were skirting
00:38:51around issues.
00:38:51And of course,
00:38:52when you don't give
00:38:53clear, concise answers,
00:38:54I will push back
00:38:56and try and get
00:38:57something precise from you.
00:38:58And that was
00:38:59impossible to get from you.
00:39:02And tonight,
00:39:03it's been pretty impossible,
00:39:05again,
00:39:06for you to give
00:39:06any precise definitions
00:39:09to these things
00:39:10that sound very much
00:39:12like lip service.
00:39:13Okay.
00:39:16Rebecca has been
00:39:17very forthright
00:39:18about liking
00:39:20the possibility
00:39:21of creating something
00:39:22with you,
00:39:23wanting to move forward,
00:39:24really championing
00:39:25and cheering for that.
00:39:26And you putting the brakes,
00:39:28and if it's not
00:39:29at your pace,
00:39:30then it becomes
00:39:30a problem.
00:39:32Every time she's
00:39:32tried to speak up,
00:39:33it has become a problem.
00:39:35So I think you have
00:39:36a little reflection
00:39:37to do as to where
00:39:38this miscommunication
00:39:39really stems from
00:39:40and how it is
00:39:41that you get here.
00:39:43Oh, okay.
00:39:51Okay.
00:39:52Well, look,
00:39:52I think it's time
00:39:53that we go to a decision
00:39:54with the two of you.
00:39:56Steve.
00:39:57John.
00:39:58We started off
00:40:00fantastically well,
00:40:01and, yeah,
00:40:02and since then,
00:40:02it's been
00:40:03going downhill.
00:40:06I chose to leave.
00:40:10And to you, Rebecca.
00:40:12Okay.
00:40:13Well,
00:40:14thank you
00:40:15for finding me a match.
00:40:17Hasn't quite worked out.
00:40:19Came here for love
00:40:20and I didn't get
00:40:21what I wanted.
00:40:22I'm not going to settle
00:40:24and waste any more
00:40:25of my time.
00:40:26I wrote,
00:40:27leave with a kiss.
00:40:33I think
00:40:34this experience
00:40:35is going to bring up
00:40:36some opportunities
00:40:38for reflection.
00:40:39I really hope
00:40:40that there are some,
00:40:41you know,
00:40:42really valuable
00:40:42lessons here
00:40:43that you can take
00:40:44on board
00:40:44in terms of moving
00:40:45into this next chapter.
00:40:46You both know
00:40:47what you need
00:40:48in your next relationships.
00:40:50Go out and get it.
00:40:52Thank you so much.
00:40:52And Alessandra,
00:40:54I never meant to,
00:40:55you know,
00:40:55any,
00:40:55you know,
00:40:57speaking over you,
00:40:58I apologise.
00:40:59It was something
00:41:00I need to get better at
00:41:01and that's something
00:41:02I've taken on board.
00:41:03I really have.
00:41:04So, you know,
00:41:05thank you for the feedback.
00:41:06OK.
00:41:07While there's apologies
00:41:08going around,
00:41:08is there an apology
00:41:09for me for being,
00:41:10robbing me off
00:41:10of the experience?
00:41:11I've enjoyed
00:41:12being doing this
00:41:13with you.
00:41:14You know that.
00:41:14We've had some great times.
00:41:16We have.
00:41:17It's been amazing.
00:41:17I just,
00:41:18anyway.
00:41:18It's not the ideal finish,
00:41:19but we've been doing well.
00:41:22It's been f***ing fight.
00:41:34Well,
00:41:34let's get our next couple
00:41:35up on the couch.
00:41:39Grayson and Julia.
00:41:40Yay!
00:41:42Hello.
00:41:43You look so amazing.
00:41:45I need this outfit.
00:41:47Well,
00:41:48I've got to say,
00:41:49the energy
00:41:50between the two of you
00:41:51is very different
00:41:52from last week.
00:41:53Yeah?
00:41:54OK.
00:41:55What's going on?
00:41:57So,
00:41:59this morning,
00:42:00I kissed him.
00:42:02Oh.
00:42:02Yay!
00:42:03Woo!
00:42:06Grace seems happy
00:42:08about that.
00:42:10Well,
00:42:11what did the kiss
00:42:11do to your relationship?
00:42:13It was very unexpected
00:42:14for me.
00:42:15I was like,
00:42:16this isn't going to happen
00:42:17unless I
00:42:18let him know
00:42:19that I'm open to that.
00:42:21Yes.
00:42:21And so that felt
00:42:21really necessary
00:42:22for me to be
00:42:23the one
00:42:24to do that.
00:42:25And I think
00:42:26it was necessary
00:42:26for Grayson
00:42:27to have that
00:42:28very clear cue
00:42:29that this is now okay.
00:42:31Yeah.
00:42:33So,
00:42:33in having the kiss,
00:42:35did you feel
00:42:35there was chemistry
00:42:36between the two of you
00:42:37in that sense?
00:42:38Yeah.
00:42:39Yeah, yeah.
00:42:39I love the way
00:42:40both your faces
00:42:41light up
00:42:41when you talk
00:42:42about this kiss.
00:42:43Which is lovely
00:42:44to see.
00:42:45And with that
00:42:45being the case,
00:42:46let's get to the decision.
00:42:48You first, Grace.
00:42:49Me?
00:42:50Alright.
00:42:51Stay or leave?
00:42:52I'm fully in this,
00:42:53so I'm going to
00:42:53stay.
00:42:54Good.
00:42:57Jules,
00:42:57what are you going to do?
00:42:58Stay or leave?
00:42:59So,
00:43:00I've written stay.
00:43:01Great.
00:43:02Oh, a little apart.
00:43:03So here's to
00:43:03more snogging.
00:43:05Well done, guys.
00:43:06Good stuff.
00:43:10Alright, let's get
00:43:11our next couple up.
00:43:12Rachel and Stephen.
00:43:13Woo!
00:43:14I love it.
00:43:15Let's go.
00:43:17Hello.
00:43:18Hello, you two.
00:43:20Hello.
00:43:21Johnny, you're out.
00:43:22Yeah, hello.
00:43:23Got a story
00:43:25to tell you.
00:43:27So, tell us
00:43:28about this intimacy week
00:43:29because clearly
00:43:30it had an impact
00:43:31on you
00:43:31in a positive way.
00:43:33I rejected
00:43:34a simple kiss
00:43:36on that
00:43:37ultimate fantasy
00:43:38and
00:43:39essentially
00:43:40rejected her.
00:43:41She was standing
00:43:42there vulnerable
00:43:43and I
00:43:44hurt her feelings
00:43:45and I
00:43:46felt terrible
00:43:47how I made
00:43:48Rachel feel.
00:43:49When it comes
00:43:50to intimacy,
00:43:51I'm a bit of a dope
00:43:52when it comes to it.
00:43:54But
00:43:54I took
00:43:55Alessandra's
00:43:56advice on
00:43:57very seriously
00:43:58through the workshop
00:43:59and I'm really
00:44:00leaning into
00:44:02the tasks now.
00:44:04Intimacy week
00:44:05has made me feel
00:44:07a lot more
00:44:08comfortable
00:44:08around Rachel.
00:44:10Fantastic.
00:44:11It's a step
00:44:12forward for me
00:44:13and it's a massive
00:44:13step forward.
00:44:15After your workshop,
00:44:16Alessandra,
00:44:17turns up at my door
00:44:1812 long stem roses.
00:44:20What's a girl
00:44:21to do but
00:44:22swoon?
00:44:22Like,
00:44:23I'm sorry.
00:44:24She was
00:44:24floating like a
00:44:25schoolgirl.
00:44:27What I love
00:44:28is that you
00:44:30persevere and
00:44:30move closer to her.
00:44:32There are times
00:44:33when you drop
00:44:34the ball
00:44:34but what you
00:44:35don't do is
00:44:36give up
00:44:37and you can see
00:44:37him doing that.
00:44:38I can.
00:44:39That's why,
00:44:40look,
00:44:40it's why I'm still
00:44:41here.
00:44:41It's why I moved
00:44:42back because I
00:44:43could feel
00:44:44him trying.
00:44:45I could feel it.
00:44:46So you did
00:44:47move back in?
00:44:47I'm back in the
00:44:48house.
00:44:49You're back in?
00:44:49And I was very
00:44:50happy to be back.
00:44:51And how's it been?
00:44:52It's been good.
00:44:53It's been really
00:44:53good.
00:44:54That's when the
00:44:54kissing started.
00:44:57Made her blush.
00:45:00Made me blush a bit
00:45:01or two, I think.
00:45:04I thought it was a
00:45:05sweet, sweet moment.
00:45:06Well, that's nice.
00:45:07That's a nice way
00:45:07to describe it.
00:45:08Yeah.
00:45:09So, Rachel,
00:45:10how do you feel
00:45:10about Stephen right
00:45:11now?
00:45:12I like Stephen.
00:45:13The crush grows
00:45:14for me.
00:45:15The feelings are
00:45:15growing for me.
00:45:15The crush grows.
00:45:16The crush grows.
00:45:17It grows.
00:45:18It's getting bigger.
00:45:19And that's because
00:45:20he's trying with me.
00:45:24All right.
00:45:25Let's go to the
00:45:26decision.
00:45:28Rachel.
00:45:28I said to Stephen
00:45:29that I'd give him a
00:45:31chance to show me
00:45:32that he's trying
00:45:33and he has.
00:45:34I'm staying.
00:45:36Love it.
00:45:37Fantastic.
00:45:38Stephen, over to you.
00:45:39I don't want to be a
00:45:40quitter.
00:45:41I know I'm going to
00:45:42stuff up along the
00:45:43way and I hope I don't
00:45:44stuff up much more
00:45:45because I've done a few
00:45:46stuff ups and, you
00:45:48know, hopefully next
00:45:49week is a much better
00:45:50week and I can come in
00:45:51and go, I aced it and
00:45:53no road to stay.
00:45:54Yes.
00:45:55Yes.
00:45:57You are going to make
00:45:58mistakes, both of you.
00:45:59Yeah.
00:46:00Don't quit.
00:46:01I'm not going to be
00:46:01perfect.
00:46:02I'm just going to try
00:46:03here.
00:46:03And if I make mistakes,
00:46:05I'll pick myself up.
00:46:06I'll keep going forward.
00:46:07Thank you, guys.
00:46:08Thank you all for
00:46:09well done.
00:46:10Good on you.
00:46:11Good work.
00:46:11Thanks, John.
00:46:12Beautiful, Rachel.
00:46:21All right, let's get
00:46:22our next couple up.
00:46:24Julia and Scott.
00:46:25Oh, we're here.
00:46:26Let's go.
00:46:31Good evening.
00:46:33Evening.
00:46:34Hello.
00:46:37Where do you want to
00:46:37start?
00:46:40Firstly, I want to
00:46:41apologise to the entire
00:46:42group.
00:46:43Yesterday, my behaviour
00:46:45was really not OK.
00:46:49Especially I want to
00:46:50focus on Alyssa and
00:46:51David, though, because
00:46:52I really, I came at you
00:46:53and I didn't have enough
00:46:54information to go off.
00:46:56I went crazy and I
00:46:58really want you to know
00:46:59that I am genuinely
00:46:59sorry.
00:47:00and I think you
00:47:01guys are like this
00:47:03and I'm really happy
00:47:04for you guys.
00:47:06And Stella as well.
00:47:07I'm sorry about last
00:47:09night joining in with
00:47:09Brooke and like going
00:47:10over the top like it
00:47:11was just not OK, my
00:47:13behaviour.
00:47:14So, sorry.
00:47:16Well, thank you for
00:47:17that, Gia.
00:47:19Your behaviour last
00:47:20night was ugly.
00:47:22It was mean.
00:47:24This is something that
00:47:26you need to take on
00:47:27board.
00:47:28I cannot stress that
00:47:30enough.
00:47:31Yeah.
00:47:33I am curious to know
00:47:34where that came from
00:47:35because I haven't seen
00:47:36that before.
00:47:38Um, I've had a quite
00:47:40an emotional few days.
00:47:41Like, we had our
00:47:42first argument.
00:47:44Ah.
00:47:45Yeah.
00:47:46We'll be able to have
00:47:47one.
00:47:47It was going to happen.
00:47:49But, you know, we
00:47:49went out.
00:47:50He was really tired and
00:47:51wanted to go home.
00:47:52Obviously, he doesn't
00:47:53drink.
00:47:54So, you know, sober
00:47:55person in a room full of
00:47:56drunk people is like not
00:47:57always a fun time and I
00:47:58probably should have
00:47:59listened to him and gone
00:48:00home at eight o'clock
00:48:00when he said.
00:48:01And I didn't.
00:48:02I totally apologised to him.
00:48:04I was accountable for my
00:48:06behaviour and it, like,
00:48:07would never do that again.
00:48:08It, like, made him
00:48:09uncomfortable.
00:48:11And what did that do to
00:48:12the two of you?
00:48:16Um, in reflection of the
00:48:18weekend, it's actually
00:48:19taught me a lot on a
00:48:20positive note because it's
00:48:22I've experienced now
00:48:23social environments and
00:48:25just how do we handle one
00:48:26another around people.
00:48:28And I think it was just
00:48:29it was more the aftermath,
00:48:31you know, a big night the
00:48:32next day, emotions start
00:48:34coming out and just, you
00:48:35know, some things hurt me
00:48:36a bit, which we
00:48:39communicated with and I
00:48:40faced it straight away
00:48:41because it really did hurt
00:48:42me.
00:48:42And what sort of things?
00:48:46Just, um, and it could be
00:48:49a thing of emotions start
00:48:50coming out.
00:48:51But words I didn't
00:48:52appreciate was, you don't
00:48:55like me, you're here for
00:48:56the wrong reasons and I can
00:48:56get any go I want.
00:49:03Coming up.
00:49:04I just wanted to do the
00:49:05right thing.
00:49:06I have never experienced
00:49:09a woman be so vicious
00:49:11toward other women.
00:49:14What the heck?
00:49:23Words I didn't appreciate
00:49:24was.
00:49:27You don't like me, you're
00:49:29here for the wrong reasons
00:49:29and I can get any go I
00:49:30want.
00:49:35I'm not putting you on
00:49:36the bus, it's because I
00:49:37really care about you.
00:49:38Wait, you're talking about
00:49:39what I said when I was
00:49:39drunk?
00:49:40No, this is the next
00:49:41day.
00:49:44And it could be a thing
00:49:46of, you know, it's been
00:49:47a big night.
00:49:48Yeah.
00:49:48You know, words do hurt
00:49:50me.
00:49:51And that's kind of what's
00:49:52taken me a step back.
00:49:55Do you explain to me why
00:49:58you would say to Scott
00:50:00that you could get any
00:50:01guy you want?
00:50:05I do tend to self
00:50:06sabotage.
00:50:08If something's going too
00:50:09well, I find a reason to
00:50:11like push back a bit.
00:50:13Oh, it's too good.
00:50:14Like, it's not, you know,
00:50:15let me throw some shit at
00:50:16it and see what happens.
00:50:18And you certainly did
00:50:19that.
00:50:20Yeah.
00:50:20It was like self-destructive
00:50:21behaviour.
00:50:23So do you feel like you're
00:50:24testing him a little bit?
00:50:25A little bit, yeah.
00:50:26And I know it's bad, but I
00:50:28feel like I am to see, like,
00:50:29if he'll hang around.
00:50:32You're doing these self-sabotage
00:50:35type of behaviours.
00:50:36And I'm wondering what you're
00:50:37scared of.
00:50:39I'm, like, scared to fully
00:50:41let him in because I'm scared
00:50:42I'm going to get hurt.
00:50:45It's hard for me because,
00:50:47like in my previous
00:50:48relationship, the wall had to
00:50:50stay up because I was never
00:50:51protected.
00:50:54I don't want to go into this
00:50:55and do the same thing, but
00:50:56it's just, it's harder for me
00:50:57to pull the wall all the way
00:50:58down.
00:51:00It's really scary for me, to be
00:51:02honest.
00:51:02I can see that.
00:51:03Yeah.
00:51:06What are you afraid that might
00:51:07happen if you let the wall
00:51:09down?
00:51:10That I'll get hurt.
00:51:17But if you notice how I speak
00:51:20to your daughter, I speak to
00:51:21your mum, I show efforts, I'm
00:51:23there every day for you, like,
00:51:25there's no reason to not allow
00:51:26me in.
00:51:28It's one of them things where,
00:51:30like, we're still a little bit
00:51:30early in the experiment.
00:51:31We've now had a hurdle.
00:51:33We've had such a beautiful
00:51:34time.
00:51:36Like, I keep saying I'm all in
00:51:38on this and I see so many more
00:51:41positives.
00:51:42Some things that weren't meant
00:51:44to be said happened.
00:51:45And I know you don't mean it,
00:51:47but as long as you're self-aware,
00:51:48I just don't want it to happen
00:51:49again.
00:51:50But it's very, it's very
00:51:51important what you've heard from
00:51:53Gia tonight, is that she's
00:51:55testing you, not because she
00:51:56doesn't like you, but you're
00:51:58also pushing him away.
00:51:59Yeah.
00:52:00And so you're on notice with
00:52:02that.
00:52:03Yeah.
00:52:03You've got a guy that adores you
00:52:05right now, who fits exactly what
00:52:08you want, but if you keep doing
00:52:10what you're doing, he's going to
00:52:12start to lose interest.
00:52:16Gia, how do you feel about Scott?
00:52:22I really like Scott.
00:52:24Everyone would probably agree,
00:52:26like, genuine, kind-hearted.
00:52:29I've let him in my whole life and
00:52:31I mean, he's met my daughter on
00:52:32FaceTime.
00:52:33Yeah, I don't want it to end, to be
00:52:36honest.
00:52:38It's funny, because I feel like we're
00:52:39in a 10-year marriage already, the
00:52:41way we carry on our lifestyle and
00:52:43our routine, you know what I
00:52:44mean?
00:52:44Yeah.
00:52:45We wake up in the morning, as soon
00:52:46as we get up, we're both in the
00:52:48other side, we pull the sheet over,
00:52:49it starts there and it's like, we're
00:52:51aligned.
00:52:51It makes me feel complete, because
00:52:53it's like, that's what I was missing
00:52:54and I just can't stop smiling.
00:52:57Let's go to the decision.
00:53:00Gia?
00:53:02I'm obviously going to stay.
00:53:04Good.
00:53:06Scott?
00:53:07Stay or leave?
00:53:09Of course I'm staying.
00:53:10Good.
00:53:12Yes!
00:53:14Well done.
00:53:14Well, you've learned a lot.
00:53:15You kind of know exactly what direction
00:53:17you need to go in.
00:53:18Yep.
00:53:18I'm going to let him in.
00:53:19I know it's scary, but that's where
00:53:22the fairy tale lies.
00:53:23Yep.
00:53:24And you've got to embrace it if you
00:53:25want it.
00:53:25Yep.
00:53:26All right, back to the group.
00:53:27Well done, you guys.
00:53:29Wee-hee-hee-hee-hee.
00:53:32Our next couple up on the couch.
00:53:36Bec and Danny.
00:53:42Hi, guys.
00:53:43Hello.
00:53:44How are we?
00:53:46We're doing pretty well.
00:53:48What about you two?
00:53:51Not good.
00:53:54Bec, you look like you're really
00:53:58struggling.
00:54:01Help us understand what's going on.
00:54:04Mm.
00:54:05We had, like, the best week.
00:54:09Alessandra's intimacy week was amazing for us.
00:54:12And then last night, Gia made a comment to me that on Saturday
00:54:18night, Danny said to her, in the outside world, you would be the type
00:54:24of girl that I would be interested in, not me.
00:54:30Did you say that, Danny?
00:54:32Absolutely not.
00:54:33Of course not.
00:54:37I walked off, and then he stayed somewhere else last night.
00:54:41And then today, when he came in, he basically said to me that, we've got no trust because, because
00:54:53he wants someone that's a Bonnie and Clyde kind of love.
00:54:58And that, because I believed him for a minute, that, basically, I have to rebuild the trust and
00:55:07he doesn't know what I can do to do that.
00:55:18Sorry.
00:55:26It's horrible for her that he's just making her believe it's her fault.
00:55:32So, Danny, you were saying that Beck had broken your trust.
00:55:36For me, obviously, when we spoke this morning, it was just, like, it threw me that she'd even
00:55:45believe a comment like that.
00:55:50And, Beck, where do you sit on this?
00:55:53Do you believe Danny at this point?
00:56:00I don't think he would do that, because I know how loyal he is, and that's something
00:56:04that we're basing our whole relationship off of.
00:56:06And I know I've broken your trust, and I'm sorry.
00:56:11I was just in a, on a different, I was a space cadet last night.
00:56:15I was on a different planet.
00:56:19Sorry.
00:56:23You're joking.
00:56:29Absolutely not.
00:56:30You're not going to gaslight a woman right now.
00:56:35You know what you said.
00:56:36Why the hell would I make...
00:56:37Gia, Gia, Gia.
00:56:38Stop.
00:56:38I'm talking.
00:56:50Absolutely not.
00:56:51You're not going to gaslight a woman right now.
00:56:55You know what you said.
00:56:57Why the hell would I make...
00:56:58Gia, Gia, Gia.
00:56:59Stop.
00:56:59I'm talking.
00:57:02Why would I make this up?
00:57:03I'm so happy in my match and my relationship.
00:57:08You're making her feel like she can't trust you now when you lied.
00:57:13Gia, you have zero credibility.
00:57:15I swear on my daughter's life.
00:57:17Do not lie.
00:57:19You and I both know the truth, and you know what you said.
00:57:23And now you're trying to cover your ass.
00:57:28It's gone.
00:57:30You was there with me the whole night.
00:57:32She wouldn't make that up, dude.
00:57:36Gia, Gia.
00:57:37No, I'm not going back and forth on this.
00:57:39Can I just say one thing?
00:57:40Not interested anymore.
00:57:41You're not interested.
00:57:43It's going to go round and round.
00:57:45Like, he's never going to admit it.
00:57:46He's never going to.
00:57:47He's saying I lied.
00:57:49Why would you lie?
00:57:50Please get a lie detector test.
00:57:51Please.
00:57:54So, Danny, you're saying that Gia's description of you didn't happen?
00:57:59That didn't happen, no.
00:58:02It's just weird how no one else heard it.
00:58:05And, Bec, if you did say that, would that be something you could move past?
00:58:11No.
00:58:13No, it's not.
00:58:15Why is that?
00:58:17It's hard for me because we've had such a good week where it felt like the connection was so intense
00:58:24and amazing.
00:58:25And I feel like we've got a real connection.
00:58:28So, like, I...
00:58:32No, I'm not going to believe that.
00:58:35I'm not going to believe it.
00:58:39I would be doing our relationship an injustice if I didn't believe him and respect him.
00:58:45We're in this relationship.
00:58:48I'm so dumb with her.
00:58:50I'm sorry.
00:58:51Do you trust me?
00:58:54Yeah, I do.
00:58:57Why do you say that?
00:59:01Because I...
00:59:02Like, I do.
00:59:03I don't think she'd betray me on no major level.
00:59:07It frustrated me.
00:59:08Do you know what I mean?
00:59:09But it's not nothing that can't be fixed.
00:59:12That's why I'm still here.
00:59:15All right.
00:59:17What you're going to need to do this week particularly is be kind.
00:59:22Have that mindset.
00:59:24That's all you've got to focus on.
00:59:26Make sure you're there for each other.
00:59:32We're going to go to the decision.
00:59:34We're going to start with Danny.
00:59:35Stay or leave?
00:59:36Obviously, it's been a bit of a rough 24 hours, but I still want to stay and work through this.
00:59:41Oh, it's good.
00:59:41I like that.
00:59:44And for you, Bec?
00:59:47It's 100% stay and there's a little adore you next to it.
00:59:52Yeah.
00:59:55On that, you can go back to the group.
00:59:57Thanks, guys.
00:59:57Thanks, guys.
01:00:07Next up on the couch, Stella and Philip.
01:00:14Totally.
01:00:15Woo!
01:00:17Hi.
01:00:18How are we going?
01:00:18Good?
01:00:19How are you?
01:00:20Great.
01:00:21How are you?
01:00:22You're going all right.
01:00:23I'm just, yeah.
01:00:25Stella, you know, last night was, you know, pretty intense for you.
01:00:31The spotlight hit and they came for you.
01:00:38I watched closely to see how you would act under that sort of intense challenge.
01:00:45Mm.
01:00:46And you didn't react.
01:00:49You stayed very calm.
01:00:52And you were very mature.
01:00:55And it was quite outstanding to watch.
01:01:00Now, you've had some apologies since then.
01:01:04How's that landed?
01:01:06How do you feel about it?
01:01:07The apologies?
01:01:08Yeah.
01:01:09Um.
01:01:14Hmm.
01:01:23Look, apology is worth nothing without change behaviour.
01:01:37So, unfortunately, I can't witness change behaviour just yet, if ever.
01:01:44I don't hold grudges.
01:01:45But, yeah, you know, apology without change behaviour is nothing.
01:01:53And what did that do to you, Philip, when you saw her in that sort of situation and how
01:02:00she responded?
01:02:00When she's getting pressed and when, you know, when things are not comfortable, you know,
01:02:05she keeps her cool.
01:02:08But I just really want to put it out there and just say, I really respect how you handled
01:02:13yourself.
01:02:14Like, how you talk to people and approach life, I dare say that that's, like, your greatest
01:02:18superpower.
01:02:20She held her own and, like, yeah.
01:02:22And now we just choose to, we're just in our own lane.
01:02:25We've got the horse blinkers on.
01:02:26We're just doing our thing.
01:02:27Yeah.
01:02:27You know, like, we're just up in each other's grill, having a good time and it's good.
01:02:33Stella, how deep are your feelings for him now?
01:02:37Um.
01:02:43Whatever future holds.
01:02:44It's good, yeah.
01:02:45Yeah, I've never met a man like him.
01:02:48Wow.
01:02:49How I'm feeling, it just unlocks so much more beauty to my life.
01:02:54Like, so, as much as it feels surreal, I feel like, um, it was just meant to happen.
01:03:04So, are you falling in love?
01:03:05I think, yeah.
01:03:08Wow.
01:03:09I feel very mushy, very vulnerable, you know, and that obviously means, that obviously means
01:03:16that, you know, so, yeah.
01:03:21What about you, Philip?
01:03:22Do you feel the same way?
01:03:24Um.
01:03:27She knows that I definitely feel a certain way about her and, um, yeah, it's, I can definitely
01:03:33see myself starting to fall for her, for sure, definitely.
01:03:38Well, I don't think, uh, there are going to be any surprises here, but we're going to
01:03:43go to the decision, stay or leave, and we're going to go with you first, Stella.
01:03:50Obviously not a question, right?
01:03:52So, great.
01:03:54A mere formality.
01:03:55Uh, for you, Philip.
01:03:58Every week keeps getting better and better with you, no doubt.
01:04:02Uh, and I'm looking forward to the next one.
01:04:05So, I'm going to write on stage.
01:04:08Love it, guys.
01:04:10Off you go.
01:04:11Yay, guys!
01:04:17And last up on the couch.
01:04:22Brooke and Chris.
01:04:24Up to you.
01:04:25Thanks.
01:04:28Hello, you two.
01:04:29Hello.
01:04:31Hi.
01:04:32Hi.
01:04:37All right.
01:04:38Where do we start with you two?
01:04:44Oh, gosh.
01:05:05All right.
01:05:06Where do we start with you two?
01:05:09Oh, gosh.
01:05:12Um, before we start, I just want to say, um, especially to Alyssa, Stella, I'm extremely
01:05:21sorry for my actions last night.
01:05:24I feel so much guilt and, um, you know, regret today.
01:05:29Um, I, you know, I didn't take it too far last night.
01:05:35Um, um, there's no excuse for that behaviour and I'm really sorry.
01:05:40I took it too far and I should not.
01:05:42So, I'm sorry.
01:06:01Well, just on that, Brooke, why did you react like that at the dinner party?
01:06:05Um, I think for me, walking in, there was a lot of things that I was a little bit upset
01:06:09with that had happened and there were things that I wanted to vocalise, but my emotions
01:06:15got the better of me and I came out and attacked.
01:06:20Um, no one's perfect.
01:06:22I know I'm definitely not perfect.
01:06:24Um, that's not who I am.
01:06:26I don't even do that in the outside world.
01:06:28So, I was like, why did I do that in here?
01:06:33I mean, I can only apologise and take accountability.
01:06:36So.
01:06:39I wasn't even going to be there to start with.
01:06:42Well, just on that, Brooke, you decided to up and leave.
01:06:46Yeah.
01:06:47Take us there.
01:06:47What was that all about?
01:06:49Um, since the video, I have had my guard up still.
01:06:54I had tried to let it go down.
01:06:56Um, I felt really sad.
01:06:58I think also sad because I know how hard Chris is trying as well, um, to, you know, get us
01:07:04progressing, but at the same time, there's things and actions that Chris has done that
01:07:08I can't move past.
01:07:10As much as I've got a lot of work to do on myself, um, you know, Chris and I have
01:07:14discussed
01:07:15he's got a lot of work to do on himself as well.
01:07:17We get along like a house on fire.
01:07:19We enjoy each other's company, but it's friends.
01:07:24Chris, if I jump in, what impact did it have on you when Brooke left?
01:07:28I just, it was just a little bit rushed.
01:07:30And that was probably the only part that sort of made me a little bit uneasy, but saying
01:07:35that again.
01:07:35Did it hurt?
01:07:37Not, not, not hurt, no.
01:07:40It wasn't like I was blindsided in any means.
01:07:46What would be the feeling?
01:07:47Just the feeling of that void that was left.
01:07:52Did you feel rejected?
01:07:54Not, not really rejected.
01:07:56Purely because I knew to get to where we are now has been mostly my fault.
01:08:01I know that Brooke is, is an amazing person and, and giving as, as much as she can.
01:08:08I know, I know that I've been more or less the problem in this.
01:08:14So I've never, I've never once felt blindsided by Brooke.
01:08:26Chris, do you have romantic feelings for Brooke?
01:08:31Um, describe, I've got, I've got feelings for Brooke, yes.
01:08:35Romantic ones?
01:08:36What, what defines romantic?
01:08:39Well, more than a friend.
01:08:43I care, I care, I care a lot about her, yeah.
01:08:47If she was interested in exploring that with you, is that something that you'd be keen to do?
01:08:53I think, I think throughout the experiment we've had issues, obviously with the video and things
01:08:58like that, that it's, it's gotten Brooke to this point where she, her guard is up and she
01:09:03just doesn't really see, especially in this experiment, anything progressing with us.
01:09:09I know exactly how she feels towards me and towards this whole experiment.
01:09:14So it means to feel- How does she feel towards you?
01:09:17She knows she's got a lot of care and, and emotional respect for me.
01:09:21Yeah.
01:09:22We just know that it, it won't work in here.
01:09:24But I'm, I'm more at the point where I'm like, it's not that it won't work in here, it's
01:09:29the fact that it's like, it won't work on the outside either, Chris.
01:09:35I'm not saying that like, we're ending this and we're going to be a hundred percent on
01:09:38the outside.
01:09:39Like, that's not it.
01:09:40Like, you're going to go off, live your life, do better for you, you work on yourself.
01:09:45If you want to do whatever you want to do, do that and I'll do the same with me.
01:09:49Yeah.
01:09:49You know, we have such a beautiful friendship and there's things and actions that Chris has
01:09:53done that I can't move past.
01:09:55I have had to hold your hand the last couple of weeks.
01:09:59I have to ask you to apologise to people and like, things like that and I'm not, I didn't
01:10:04come here to hold your hand and in my life I've always had to hold my own hand.
01:10:09And so I want my hand to be held now.
01:10:12Just saying, you're all right.
01:10:18And Brooke, why did you come back?
01:10:21Um, I mean, I left and within like two hours of being home, as much as I was enjoying the
01:10:26sun and the Gold Coast, I felt guilty for leaving Chris.
01:10:30I had guilt that I'd left and I was like, I need to get back there.
01:10:33And so that's why I decided to come back.
01:10:38I just wanted to do the right thing.
01:10:45Just whatever.
01:10:52I share an observation with you, Brooke.
01:10:55So you're saying that, you know, you felt guilty about, about leaving Chris, so you wanted
01:10:58to come back.
01:11:00But observing you coming into the dinner party, you quickly acknowledged him and then shifted
01:11:07your focus to the rest of the room.
01:11:10And we didn't see you interacting with Chris much.
01:11:13Could you see how it might have looked like you came back to have a go at people?
01:11:18100%.
01:11:23Why do you think you did that?
01:11:26Why did I not talk to Chris at the beginning?
01:11:29Yeah.
01:11:30Yeah.
01:11:32Obviously, yeah, got carried away.
01:11:40So at the last commitment ceremony when we were here, you had some issues with the way Chris
01:11:46spoke about women in his audition video.
01:11:48Mm-hmm.
01:11:49I guess I'm just reflecting on last night and observing you, Brooke.
01:11:52I know.
01:11:53And I've taken full accountability.
01:11:54And the way that you spoke to women.
01:11:58Can you see how that feels a little bit at odds with the attitude you were having toward
01:12:02Chris last week?
01:12:03100%.
01:12:04And I get that you're sitting here and saying that, but I'm like, also, it was a tough week
01:12:08and I wasn't feeling myself.
01:12:09Um, you know, it was a difficult situation, like there's been a few things that I've just
01:12:15kind of struggled to get past in this experiment, but I've still gone out of my way to go and
01:12:22apologise.
01:12:23Sorry, can I just jump in there?
01:12:25I've got to say, in all my years working on Married at First Sight, I have never experienced
01:12:32a woman be so vicious toward other women.
01:12:36Oh.
01:12:47In all my years working on Married at First Sight, I have never experienced a woman be so vicious
01:12:55toward other women.
01:12:58Oh.
01:13:02It was relentless.
01:13:04Mm.
01:13:06And to continue doing that for several hours without barely taking a breath.
01:13:12It was vicious.
01:13:15Mm.
01:13:23I'm going to go to the toilet quickly.
01:13:25She's coming back.
01:13:26She's coming back.
01:13:27She's coming back.
01:13:30She's coming back.
01:13:30She's coming back.
01:13:31She's coming back.
01:13:32What the heck?
01:13:32What?
01:13:35I'm just going to the Lou.
01:13:46oh dear
01:13:49so dramatic
01:13:59oh it's not a good look for her you know you got out you got a carpet unfortunately you got
01:14:05a
01:14:05little bit run up and deal with it you just got to come up with my back time
01:14:15yeah
01:14:39she's been ages in the toilet
01:14:47she shouldn't be taking this long like it's not good I think books gone I didn't know there was a
01:14:53snowy bride to hopefully not what's happening I don't know
01:15:12oh geez we're okay
01:15:18yep yep yep yep yep yep
01:15:35whoops style
01:15:37you put that behind you
01:15:39yeah once girl gets back
01:15:49I think she's late Mel said I've never seen a woman be so vicious to another woman
01:15:53and she was like see you later she knew they were about to get into her and she went and
01:15:57run
01:15:57yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah
01:16:05Chris I've got some news unfortunately Brock is not coming back
01:16:18she's decided to do a runner
01:16:23a lot no no oh no no no it's a hurt man
01:16:41yeah he's whipped oh he's so he's so into her it's really sad to see it's remarkable
01:16:48but not surprising no far out it's just not how it should have ended for them
01:16:55it just shouldn't have ended that way for them
01:16:59tomorrow night the experiment enters its next exciting chapter
01:17:07to fall in love with this experiment would mean everything over two big nights love will be in
01:17:13the air i'm definitely ready to share my life with someone when three brand new couples enter the
01:17:20experiment i'm just ready to go all in first we meet the regimented groom who's struggling to find
01:17:30true love she needs to bring femininity i want submissive vibes if they have children that's
01:17:36the first red flag i'm not here to look after someone else's kids that's not my job if the
01:17:41person across from me today embraces woke culture will have a problem plus
01:17:50this outgoing bride is looking for her eccentric class clown
01:17:55shall we get married i'm hungry but will the groom's wedding vows i've actually got many floors
01:18:01carpet tiles wood you name it baby or his mother's unusual tribute and you turn into a gluttonous pig
01:18:14derail the wedding day
01:18:15monsieur hielo
01:18:17thank you
01:18:29do
01:18:31you
01:18:31you
01:18:31you
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