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Love & Marriage: Huntsville - Season 11 Episode 8 - Inter-Twan-ed
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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
00:03I miss a lot of the things we do,
00:05but it's not to the point where I'm like,
00:06damn, I need to go back home.
00:07I can't do this no more.
00:09When you create space from somebody,
00:12you can't dictate what they do.
00:14When he came and asked me, was I talking to someone,
00:17I was honest.
00:18I said, yes, I was, and I have.
00:21But I do love him.
00:22So I was like, if it's meant to be,
00:24it'll circle back around.
00:25Am I supposed to get on a bullhorn
00:27and alert everybody that my license revoked?
00:29No, no, no, no, no, just me, just me.
00:32Who the are you?
00:35Some of these adult children are having a hard time
00:38understanding what boundaries are.
00:41Lance asked you to keep his kids.
00:43He does not pick up when he tells you he's going to pick up.
00:47After this party, I think you've probably done enough partying.
00:51No, the 4th is right around the corner.
00:53What do you mean?
00:54Congratulations for your first listing.
00:57Yeah, no, this isn't my first listing.
01:00You wanted me to defend you against grown people
01:02that you're beefing with?
01:03Jesus Christ.
01:04You delusional.
01:05I'm going to be delusional about this relationship.
01:06I'm great.
01:07Yeah, because it's too much worse.
01:08Too much worse?
01:09Too much worse.
01:10Why not have to put in with you?
01:12You a liar, Tisha.
01:18We keep it moving.
01:21All day, all night.
01:23Yeah.
01:24Ain't no stopping.
01:25I've dropped that.
01:27We ain't stopping.
01:29You know, you know.
01:32We keep it moving.
01:37All day, all night.
01:39Yeah.
01:42All day, all night.
01:45Yeah.
01:46Ain't no stopping us.
01:49Yeah.
02:14Thank you so much, babe.
02:16Yeah, baby.
02:17Good?
02:18Yeah.
02:18All right.
02:19Whew.
02:19I love it.
02:21I invited Destiny out.
02:23Oh, really?
02:24Yeah, Destiny's going to come hang out with us this morning.
02:27Oh.
02:28Yeah, she said she wanted to talk to me about something.
02:31I don't know.
02:32I'm getting a call.
02:33Huh?
02:34I'm getting a call from Trish.
02:36Trish?
02:37Yeah, Trish called him and let's see what's going on.
02:39Hey, Trish.
02:41Hey, lady.
02:42What's going on with you?
02:44Nothing much.
02:45Nothing much.
02:46You know, life is always life-ing.
02:48Oh, Lord.
02:50What's going on?
02:51No, it's always life-ing.
02:53Yeah, that's true.
02:53I agree.
02:55But I wanted to, you know, get all the ladies together
02:58and just have a girls' ladies just let our hair down moment.
03:05Okay.
03:05A girls' lady, we're going to let our hair down.
03:07What are we doing with it?
03:08Let our hair...
03:09I don't know.
03:10I don't know yet.
03:11Okay, I'll be more than happy to be in attendance.
03:14I really appreciate you calling and inviting me.
03:17And if not, I'll give you a call back
03:20when I leave here with Fletcher from Brunch.
03:23Okay.
03:23Okay.
03:24All right.
03:25Bye-bye.
03:31Well, how do y'all have you?
03:33What's up, girl?
03:34Hello.
03:35How you doing?
03:36How you doing?
03:37I was just talking about you.
03:39Oh, Lord.
03:39I just said I invited Destiny out, so...
03:43Oh, well, thank you.
03:44I'm the, um, two-piece and a biscuit on the side.
03:48What you been doing, girl?
03:50Just take the Band-Aid off.
03:52So I had an open house for one of the properties that's listed under my brokerage.
03:56And Tisha came by.
03:58She immediately walked in throwing jabs.
04:01She was like, oh, I bought you a bottle of wine to celebrate your first listing.
04:05But I realized that this isn't even yours.
04:08And I guess I can take it back.
04:10What she mean it's not yours?
04:12And it's my first.
04:13After 19 years, I ain't never had a listing before.
04:16And that just ain't cool.
04:18No.
04:19Tisha was out of line.
04:21She know Destiny's been in real estate for, you know, some time now.
04:25And Tisha is a broker, but maybe she don't really practice being a broker.
04:30That's Scott bull they do all the time, so I'm not surprised.
04:33After all the shade, she sat down and she was like, I met with Nell and, you know, I just
04:39feel like she has a lot going on and I feel like I should, you know, me, I should support
04:43her.
04:44Because this is about the sisterhood and I was like, so the whole time I was saying
04:48that Nell had a lot going on when y'all was beefing and you need to go sit and talk
04:51with her.
04:52Now you have this whole epiphany that she got a lot going on.
04:56And I just, we never got anywhere.
04:58Tisha called themselves.
04:59I'm going to say how to talk, I'm going to say N.
05:01With a couple of yous and, um.
05:04You and Leticia.
05:05You know what I'm saying?
05:06That's how the conversation ended.
05:07I was like, this is too much work.
05:09Oh, she lost her damn mind when I said that.
05:13Too much work?
05:17What?
05:19Like, what is really going on?
05:21Because I'm still trying to figure out what we was fighting about.
05:24Do you have any insight?
05:26Just ask her.
05:27Point blank, what is your issue with me?
05:32Period.
05:33I did that.
05:33You called me a hoe in a box?
05:35That's not supporting me.
05:36Did they call you a hoe?
05:37Yes, you did.
05:38You, uh, I know what box put you in.
05:39A hoe in a box.
05:40Am I a hoe to you?
05:41And then you go back and you talk about me to Kimmy!
05:45So you clearly asked her what is her issue with you.
05:48Multiple times.
05:49Maybe she's the feisty one and she just, like, arguing.
05:52She gotta have somebody to be into it with.
05:54Yeah, that means that you're deflecting from your real .
05:58But with that said, you know, I had talked to you earlier on about, when I met up with
06:03you, about some things Marceau said to Fletcher.
06:07You came at me like, when you found out about the change, the status change of your license,
06:12why you didn't contact me.
06:14Y'all got some deals together that y'all working on?
06:16Not one deal.
06:18Not one.
06:19It was a thought two years ago.
06:23So he thinks you had the answer to him about your license?
06:26I didn't.
06:26I'm like, who the are you?
06:28Oh.
06:29Why the would I call you?
06:32Well, first, I mean, I guess I think more about friendship than you and da-da-da.
06:37What the?
06:38What are you talking about, dude?
06:39They're trained in the same class, him and Tisha.
06:41The same thing, that's my whole point.
06:42What alternate reality are y'all living in?
06:44Exactly.
06:45Sounds like there's an issue with the scars.
06:48I think that Tisha and Marceau both have a lot of misplaced energy.
06:53I think that they probably should work that out together and stop projecting on other people.
07:00Like, honestly, it's hurtful more than anything.
07:03And so I think I left that conversation confused and, like, hurt.
07:14Tisha's been a great friend to me.
07:16She has showed up for me.
07:17And I hate to say this, because I hope that it's not true, but she showed up for me in
07:21my lowest.
07:21And now that I'm glowing up again, it's like, I'm going to beat it down.
07:27Oh, you doing real estate?
07:28I didn't even know you had a license.
07:30You were my bro, like, what?
07:32Like, what are we doing?
07:34I have been a loyal friend.
07:35I try my best with everybody.
07:38And, like, I told her I don't always get it right, but at the same time...
07:41And that's probably, you hit it right there.
07:43You try your best with everybody.
07:46I do.
07:47Sometimes that's just not enough.
07:49Enough, and then I don't need to be your friend.
08:18Come in.
08:24What up?
08:27So after my talk with Will, I spent a lot of time thinking about, you know, me and Tisha's situation.
08:32And I think it's time we really have a good, deep conversation.
08:36And hopefully with this talk, we can figure out, you know, what we're going to do in the future.
08:49I don't like the space for you, Kenny, because it's different.
08:55I ain't going to lie, I've been conflicted.
08:56Like, you know, as much fun as we had, like, I think some of the bad times has kind of,
09:05like, stuck.
09:07And, you know, I get caught up thinking about him, you know, and I ain't going to lie, I've, you
09:12know, Will, that's my dog.
09:14So I've kind of been doing a lot of talking to him and, like, not really knowing where I want
09:20to go, not really knowing what I want to do.
09:23Kind of felt like I was at that, that, that breaking point to where I was like, man, I don't
09:29even really want to do it no more.
09:31And I don't know.
09:34I know we've had arguments in the past, but the space that we're in now just feels a lot different.
09:44I feel like if I got, I don't know, like, one of the things I really want to do is
09:55I just really want to apologize for my, my part, the role that I played in it.
10:01I could have been a lot better in a lot of situations.
10:05As far as, like, not allowing myself to get caught up in the emotion, not allowing myself to get angry
10:11about certain things, being a little more patient in areas.
10:15But I feel like everybody got a breaker point.
10:18And I was in the middle of a damn tornado.
10:22And back and forth between you and your ex and then trying to, I don't know, it just kept me
10:27on edge.
10:28And I got caught up and just, I don't know.
10:34The thing is, is I messed up.
10:37I ain't gonna lie, I have been kicking it with old girl a little bit.
10:39What's she do?
10:40She's a nurse, a traveling nurse.
10:42I mean, she cool.
10:43She a cool chick.
10:44I mean, she's really pretty.
10:45She's definitely pretty.
10:46Now, you said someone sent Trish the picture of you and...
10:49Yeah, she got it on her phone.
10:50She showed me.
10:51So she showed you the picture?
10:52Showed me the picture.
10:53What'd she say?
10:53I was like, I mean, I can't deny it.
10:55That is me, you know?
10:58I feel like I started to become the evil person that I said you were being.
11:05And it's not cool, you know what I mean?
11:07Like, I can't call you evil and then do evil things.
11:10Now, this wasn't like I was doing it blatantly, but in essence, I was.
11:13Because I didn't care, you know?
11:16I think I was hurt, frustrated.
11:18I just felt like in the moment, it felt right.
11:30I was hurt when I saw you communicating to somebody because I thought we were working
11:36on fixing things then.
11:38I mean, this might sound crazy, and I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but that
11:50was my whole point.
11:51I wanted to see if I could hurt you for this.
11:57Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
12:00Do not bring anyone to my home that you're not serious about.
12:06I think everybody deserves a fair shot.
12:08That's your problem.
12:11What rumors have you heard?
12:13About anything.
12:14About me.
12:15Um, I read a few rumors about you.
12:18I've been hearing this one little rumor about me, man.
12:20What is it?
12:21About me and Kayla.
12:22You and Kayla?
12:29I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but that was my whole point.
12:34I wanted to see if I could hurt your feelings.
12:39So you intentionally tried to hurt me.
12:42That pissed me off.
12:44Hell no.
12:45I didn't think you would give up.
12:46Like, I didn't think you cared.
12:48I was like, you know, because you've never been, I don't know, you're not super emotional.
12:54And it was, like I said, it was stupid.
12:56I was being childish.
12:57I was being immature.
12:58Like, I was responding like a young adult.
13:01And pushing 40, I shouldn't be doing certain things like that.
13:06Yeah.
13:11Trisha has let me talk, and it's kind of scary, because she typically, you know, interjects
13:15a lot.
13:15But I can tell that she's hurting.
13:17And, um, I can take full responsibility for that.
13:21Us not being able to communicate properly, definitely, we definitely didn't set ground
13:25rules or expectations.
13:27I'm going to apologize, and will apologize in the future if I have to, because it was,
13:31it was just outright childish.
13:34We started off so fast.
13:36We did.
13:37And we started off, like, 24-7.
13:42It was me, 24-7.
13:44We never really had the space.
13:47Like, I think up until recently, this is the most time we've spent away from each other
13:51in the entirety of our relationship.
13:54And it's kind of, it was peaceful, but it kind of was like, ah, yeah, this ain't there
14:01for me either.
14:02I would rather be sitting in the middle of that damn couch, you know?
14:05You know me, I'm a family man.
14:07I enjoy being at home.
14:10I agree.
14:12And then there's a little thing of trust.
14:15We got to, got to get back to where we trust each other.
14:20Because I think I kind of lost that.
14:25And you have to be honest with me, because I'm not innocent either.
14:33Well, are you still seeing her?
14:41No, absolutely not.
14:43And it wasn't even, like, serious like that.
14:47Like, I wasn't going to go hop in a relationship after, like, what?
14:51Come on.
14:52I'm not interested.
14:55I prefer to be right here, if I'm allowed to be.
14:58So what do we do from here?
15:02I want us to fix it.
15:06We do have to communicate.
15:09Even when arguing, we have to communicate better.
15:12For sure.
15:15Probably ain't going to, it ain't going to happen overnight.
15:17But I think, you know, I don't really know what you want to do as far as, like, keeping the
15:25space, keeping, you know.
15:27No.
15:29We're going to fix it together, here.
15:32You sure?
15:33I'm positive.
15:36I had to sit there and think about it.
15:38And the kids and everything, just a whole big grin of it all.
15:44Our good times definitely outweighed our bad times.
15:47I think at the end of the day, I just always think about what we did have.
15:52And it's kind of hard to really want to fully let it go.
15:55And again, I love him.
15:57So it's like, you try to fight for stuff you truly love.
16:02You know, someone you truly love.
16:04So we cool?
16:05We are.
16:07We got this.
16:10For the 10th time.
16:13It ain't been that many.
16:15All right.
16:17Come here.
16:18I ain't did this in a long time.
16:20Keep on.
16:28Hey, you can't stop me anytime I'm running down.
16:31We got your whole team looking like some clowns.
16:34We'll pull up in here and we'll meet you in your town.
16:37Yeah, we don't want you to be coming for that crown.
16:40Oh, this hill.
16:41I know.
16:44Damn, hill.
16:45Every time I come to this house.
16:47I'm meeting at Lance's house today with my sons.
16:50I'm very sick and tired of talking about these boundaries.
16:54The boundaries have been thrown at the window several times.
16:58I'm going here on a more softer approach.
17:01So I'm hoping Lance is doing everything he needs to be doing
17:05and then I can keep my tone at room temperature
17:10and not have to raise my voice.
17:13Well, hello.
17:14Hey, beautiful.
17:16Hey.
17:16What's going on?
17:16You got my cologne.
17:17You looking great.
17:19We knew he was coming over here,
17:21so we figured we might as well represent.
17:24Represent.
17:24We put on the green.
17:25Hello to you.
17:26You gorgeous.
17:28Hey, what's up?
17:29We already got bones to pick.
17:30Wait a minute.
17:32Popped up on me.
17:33She popped up on me.
17:34I wasn't expecting.
17:35Yeah.
17:36Yeah.
17:37Wait a minute.
17:37I come over here trying to be calm.
17:40I didn't know everyone was coming.
17:43Not to chop nobody's head off today,
17:45just to have some small talk
17:48and say I was going to do better.
17:50You trying to go in on me before I get in the door?
17:52Nah, it sounds like y'all already been going in on me.
17:55I'm a bit annoyed because I'm kind of tired
17:57of talking about the same old thing,
17:59but my mom is going to be my mom.
18:00My dad is going to be dad,
18:01and, you know, there's really no way around it,
18:04so I'm going to try to do my best to sit in
18:07and just listen to the corrective criticism.
18:09This is kind of funny.
18:10I got all y'all here at someone else's house,
18:13at Lance's house, not mine.
18:16Okay, so I have some things I need to talk to you about.
18:20Kayla come in.
18:20She tell me, she's like, you know,
18:22mama feeling the way about my timing
18:24in reference to when you watch my baby.
18:27But I feel like, I'm just like, dang,
18:29that's the first I'm really hearing of that.
18:30I think it's more so just us girl talk
18:33because, you know, I'm her daughter,
18:34so it's like more girl talk,
18:36so she just venting more.
18:38I am over it.
18:40I do not want no more grandkids from Lance.
18:43No time soon.
18:45He got three baby mamas.
18:46That's enough.
18:49Chris, he does not need none.
18:51He got one.
18:53With Lance, you're not picking up
18:56when you're supposed to.
18:59With Chris, you just feel like mom just catered more
19:02to Lance's kids instead of your child.
19:07I mean, if we're going to be truthful,
19:09actually, I've been trying to juggle both of them.
19:11And I feel like I have twins.
19:13Yeah.
19:14Okay.
19:15Well, going forward, I'll do my due diligence, you know.
19:20Okay, that's acceptable.
19:22Chris, what you been doing?
19:23You dating?
19:25I mean, I'm a young man, so I'm always,
19:29like, out there like this.
19:30You said out there.
19:31Are you out there, but are you,
19:34so are you dating?
19:36Are you exclusive?
19:37No, you're outside.
19:38I'm a girl.
19:38Outside?
19:39Sure, yeah.
19:39I'm out there, yeah.
19:41Okay, so you just not tied down to no one person.
19:43That's what I'm, yeah, that's what I'm getting to, yeah.
19:46Okay, so.
19:46But I guess I just be trying to feel,
19:49feel people out.
19:51I'm not into rushing things.
19:54Do not bring anyone to my home
19:59that you're not serious about.
20:02You're not going to take serious.
20:04You know you're just playing around.
20:06But to see what that's...
20:11I think everybody deserves a fair shot.
20:14Everybody?
20:14That's your problem.
20:16No, I'm saying, no, everybody who I'm interested in,
20:18not everybody.
20:19I'm saying, if I have interest in it,
20:21then yeah, you just...
20:22You always doing life.
20:23Doing life.
20:24We all do life.
20:25Don't you do life?
20:26Yeah, but you...
20:27God damn it.
20:28Put a saran wrap around it,
20:30some bubble wrap.
20:31Let's be...
20:31I don't give a...
20:32Put something on that mother...
20:33Let's be clear.
20:34Put something on it and seal it up.
20:36Let's be clear.
20:36I'm 34 years old.
20:38I have three children.
20:40I know.
20:40There is nothing.
20:41There is...
20:42That is not a bad number for a 34-year-old man.
20:46If I was married,
20:47we wouldn't even be talking about this.
20:48Exactly.
20:49But that's the point.
20:49But that's the point.
20:51Because you would be married with one baby mother,
20:53not three baby mothers.
20:55I don't...
20:55That doesn't bother me.
20:57Everybody throws that around,
20:57three baby mothers.
20:58That don't bother me.
20:59That don't bother me at all.
21:05Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
21:08I did run into twine,
21:09and we were talking about rumors,
21:10and he brought up that people think
21:14him and Kayla are dating.
21:18What the is going on right now?
21:25Put something on that mother...
21:27Let's be clear.
21:27Put something on it and seal it up.
21:29Let's be clear.
21:30I'm 34 years old.
21:32I have three children.
21:33I know.
21:34There is nothing.
21:35There is...
21:35That is not a bad number for a 34-year-old man.
21:39If I was married,
21:40we wouldn't even be talking about this.
21:42Exactly.
21:42But that's the point.
21:43But that's the point.
21:44Because you would be married with one baby mother,
21:47not three baby mothers.
21:48I don't...
21:49That doesn't bother me.
21:50Everybody throws that around,
21:51three baby mothers.
21:51That don't bother me.
21:52That don't bother me at all.
21:56But the situation has affected your life.
22:00Yeah.
22:01So it has to bother you somewhere.
22:03You got about three different women.
22:05You got to deal with three different situations.
22:07Honestly, the way I've digested it
22:09is that everybody has a task
22:10and a battle that they're going to have to,
22:12you know, try to conquer and overcome.
22:14This is just my battle.
22:16My situation is always so magnified.
22:19And it's...
22:20Honestly, it's just...
22:21Because you always do it.
22:23No.
22:24You can meet someone
22:25and you think you're good.
22:27That's with anybody.
22:29Exactly.
22:29I've been married twice.
22:30But that's why you...
22:31But that's exactly.
22:32So you should know better than anybody.
22:34You have to be careful with dating.
22:35You have small children.
22:38And everyone does not need
22:40to be around your small children
22:41or introduced to your small children.
22:43You know, I don't care.
22:44When it comes to kids
22:45and you're no longer with the mother,
22:48there is a double standard, right?
22:49For whatever reason,
22:51it's okay
22:52when a woman is dating someone else.
22:56Maybe it's the woman you're laying down with.
23:00You got to choose the women carefully.
23:02That's why you take your time
23:04before you rush it to anything
23:05and get to know people.
23:06I kind of think...
23:07It takes time.
23:07I think it's hard for you.
23:08It should be months.
23:09I think it's hard for you.
23:10Take your time.
23:10I think it's really hard for you
23:11to really put a lot...
23:13Like, you're very seasoned
23:15when it comes to marriage.
23:17Dating, not so much.
23:20So, therefore...
23:21Hell, I know about dating
23:24and I know about marriage
23:25and I know there's things
23:27you just don't do.
23:28So, how...
23:29How has times changed?
23:31Like, drastically?
23:31Oh, yeah.
23:31Times have changed.
23:32So, therefore...
23:33Y'all whole world, really,
23:34if you ask me, it's up.
23:35The internet, social media,
23:38all this...
23:39Y'all online,
23:40trying to see what...
23:41All y'all...
23:41Just, all y'all...
23:41Everybody looks to see
23:43what the other one's doing.
23:44If you put the goddamn phone down
23:45and pay attention to your kids
23:46and what's going around in your world,
23:48then you wouldn't have these issues.
23:49We need to bear the f***ed up generation
23:51and also...
23:53Like, that...
23:53No, you don't need to bear
23:54the f***ed up generation.
23:55No.
23:55You need to choose.
23:56There's four few left
23:58in this generation
23:59that you can decipher through there
24:01and find...
24:02Some people have raised
24:04still good women.
24:05And I know I'm raising one.
24:09And like I told her,
24:10don't get yourself involved
24:11with nothing.
24:12Don't bring no kids here.
24:13You ain't married.
24:14Pay attention
24:15to what you're doing.
24:16Don't bring no babies.
24:17Because now they got to go
24:18to separate homes.
24:20And then really,
24:21once that starts,
24:22you're going to get some chaos.
24:24Because you got a mom over here,
24:25a daddy over here,
24:26and the baby in the middle.
24:27And who got to suffer the most?
24:29The child.
24:31So that's why
24:32you don't do no one-night stands
24:33and overnights
24:34and one-night onlys
24:35and f***ed kumbayas
24:37and three months down the road,
24:39you damn broke up and f***ed.
24:40Choose carefully.
24:41Choose wisely.
24:43They just don't get it.
24:45I do not even know
24:47it's settling down.
24:48It's in their vocabulary.
24:50When our adult kids
24:51date someone,
24:52it affects pretty much
24:54all of us.
24:54And it does.
24:55I agree.
24:56Yeah, because they like
24:56to intertwine them
24:57in their relationship
24:59within the family
25:00for some odd reason.
25:02I'm out, goddammit.
25:03Let me go check
25:03out my granddaddy.
25:08I feel sometimes
25:10y'all do tend to ignore
25:12red flags
25:13in y'all situations
25:14when it comes to
25:16who y'all date.
25:17Listen, I say it with a...
25:18That's how this goes.
25:22Coming up
25:22on Love and Marriage
25:23Huntsville.
25:24Just for the sake
25:25of the rumors,
25:26it's like...
25:28I don't know.
25:29It's just kind of weird,
25:30you know?
25:31Isn't that like
25:31your little sister?
25:34Let's get something
25:35understood.
25:35At my dinner table,
25:37Kiki always, like...
25:39Flirt.
25:40Flirt with Twan
25:41or whatever.
25:42So I thought
25:42it was Kiki,
25:43but not...
25:44not f***ing damn.
25:45I got nothing to lose
25:48And you know,
25:49yeah, you know
25:49that it's true
25:50Gotta do whatever
25:52I gotta do
25:53Cause I got,
25:54yeah, I got
25:55Cause I got nothing
25:57nothing to lose
26:04Well, hello there.
26:06Hello, mamas.
26:07How you doing?
26:08I'm good.
26:08How are you?
26:09I'm good.
26:11So Twan gave me a call.
26:13I haven't seen him
26:13in a minute.
26:14He wanted to catch up
26:14and do lunch,
26:15so he's now
26:17my friend in the box.
26:18Why not?
26:21How have things been?
26:23Things have been
26:24super califragilist.
26:27Ex-pialidocious.
26:27Oh, Lord, man.
26:29My favorite word is rape.
26:30Yeah.
26:30Yeah.
26:31How about for you?
26:32Uh, it's been straight.
26:34So you know
26:35I told Nell
26:36that we had
26:37our little business lunch
26:39and that we
26:39shut the restaurant down.
26:41You know,
26:41him and I both agree
26:43there's an attraction there.
26:46It's like
26:46forbidden fruit
26:47because of
26:48even though Lance
26:49gave us blessing
26:49but we
26:51shut the restaurant down.
26:52Like, didn't want to leave.
26:54Oh,
26:55I was not
26:56expecting that.
26:57And I don't think
26:58he was either.
26:59Ooh.
27:00Scared
27:01out of me.
27:03So unexpected.
27:04I don't know.
27:05Did you expect that?
27:06Nah, I mean,
27:07but we was having
27:08a good conversation.
27:09We were having a good time,
27:09man.
27:10We was chilling.
27:10And I ain't gonna,
27:11after a while,
27:12I had to look around
27:13to realize that
27:13it wouldn't.
27:14That nobody was there?
27:15I was like,
27:16oh, okay, bad.
27:17It was a good time, though.
27:18I wasn't expecting,
27:19um,
27:20first of all,
27:21you'd be that silly.
27:22What?
27:23Come on.
27:23Well done.
27:24And,
27:24and,
27:25I don't know.
27:27I'm trying to express myself here,
27:29and it's kind of hard for me,
27:30but.
27:30Oh, now it's all right.
27:31That's great.
27:32Yeah.
27:32I don't be like,
27:33yeah, you know.
27:34Really, honestly,
27:35I think your presence is just,
27:36it, like,
27:37brings what I feel like,
27:39protection.
27:39I don't know if it's because
27:40of your size,
27:42you know,
27:42maybe that has something
27:43to do with it.
27:44But,
27:44um,
27:46no,
27:46seriously,
27:47though,
27:47like,
27:47I was able to,
27:48to let down my walls,
27:49and I normally don't.
27:51So,
27:52it was a reminder to me
27:53that I can be,
27:54you know,
27:55in a soft place.
27:57A soft place,
27:58okay.
27:58I mean,
27:58I appreciate the ability
28:01to be myself.
28:02I like what,
28:03for real,
28:04for real.
28:04So,
28:05if I haven't said thank you
28:06for that,
28:07I appreciate it.
28:08And I know we just friends,
28:09and,
28:10you know,
28:10I like where we are as friends,
28:12and what we're building
28:13as a friendship.
28:14I appreciate you.
28:15I really do.
28:16I appreciate you, too, man.
28:17Like,
28:18you allow me in your space.
28:20Most women,
28:20I mean,
28:21of your caliber,
28:23you know what I'm saying,
28:23and stuff like that,
28:24you know,
28:24it's like,
28:25who am I?
28:26Thank you for that.
28:27Thank you for listening
28:28to some certain advices
28:30that I gave,
28:30and all the times
28:32I was right
28:32when I said what I said,
28:33you know what I'm saying,
28:34and stuff like that.
28:34Thank you for admitting that.
28:36All,
28:36all those things,
28:37you know what I'm saying?
28:37Wait a minute.
28:38Wait, what?
28:39That's what makes
28:40friendships work.
28:42All the times you were right.
28:44Can you give me an example?
28:47Right, right, right.
28:49But you're right, right, right,
28:51right, right.
28:51No, no, no.
28:52No, no, no.
28:52You just said right.
28:53Right.
28:54You see?
28:54Twan and I are good friends,
28:56although it's no relationship.
28:57I'm having a good time.
28:59I enjoy his presence,
29:00and it makes me feel,
29:01like,
29:02soft and girly again,
29:04and I can be goofy,
29:05like,
29:05piece of fun guy.
29:06You know,
29:07I definitely still want
29:08to do business,
29:09still,
29:10I know,
29:10we got to do some training,
29:11if you can hang,
29:12you know,
29:13in the gym with me.
29:15And also,
29:16you know,
29:16I don't mind
29:17you still guarding my body.
29:19I don't know
29:20about touching it,
29:20because, you know,
29:22you're still fine now.
29:23I got to stay away from you,
29:24okay?
29:24We got to keep
29:25the friendship,
29:26you know?
29:26I, I, I, I, I, I guard you
29:27a little body,
29:28man, it's cool, man.
29:31A little fine body.
29:32Okay, thank you.
29:33Okay, I appreciate it.
29:35Hey, hey.
29:35All right.
29:36I got that curry run for you.
29:37I got a bit more food
29:39than anybody.
29:39You like garlic?
29:41Y'all doing okay?
29:41I'll take a water with lemon as well.
29:43Water with lemon?
29:43Yes, ma'am,
29:44I'll get that for you.
29:45Will somebody be offended
29:47at me guarding your body?
29:50Who?
29:51I don't know.
29:53You think anybody
29:53will be offended
29:54if you, uh,
29:56continue to guard my body?
29:59Nobody
30:00has the right
30:01to be offended.
30:02Mm, that right.
30:04You know,
30:04it could be
30:06your lady friends,
30:08your girlfriends.
30:12What rumors
30:13have you heard?
30:13About?
30:14About anything.
30:15About me.
30:16Um,
30:17I really don't hear rumors
30:18about you.
30:19I've been hearing
30:19this one little rumor
30:20about me, man.
30:21What is it?
30:22About me and Kayla.
30:24You and Kayla?
30:25Yeah.
30:27Nell's daughter.
30:28So it's
30:29Godmother's daughter?
30:30Uh-huh.
30:31That's not gonna work.
30:32Isn't that like
30:32your little sister?
30:33I mean,
30:35God's sister,
30:35it's the type of situation.
30:36You know what I'm saying?
30:37It's a separation
30:37because it ain't no blood.
30:39But at the same time,
30:40you know,
30:41just for the sake of
30:42the rumors,
30:43it's like,
30:44I don't know,
30:45it's just kind of weird,
30:46you know,
30:46only because
30:48I think she posted
30:50like every time
30:50we finish a workout,
30:52because I just
30:52start training her,
30:53every time we finish
30:53a workout,
30:54she posted on IG,
30:56like some little whatever.
30:57I see y'all
30:58working out on IG.
30:59Yeah,
31:00I am
31:02kind of akin to the family.
31:03Like,
31:03I'm always around.
31:05If not them,
31:06I'm Lance,
31:07Chris,
31:07like,
31:08you know what I'm saying?
31:09That's the thing
31:09about Huntsville,
31:10for me and what I realize
31:11is that I can stand
31:12next to somebody
31:13and that's my boyfriend.
31:14Just gonna say that.
31:15Everybody can do
31:15what they want to do,
31:16but it's to sit there
31:17and try to paint narratives
31:18or push something
31:20for whatever.
31:22So,
31:23uh,
31:28you and Kayla,
31:29that's so cute.
31:31When she heard about it,
31:32what'd she say?
31:33I mean,
31:35she told me about it too.
31:36I mean,
31:37I'm around pretty often.
31:38You know what I'm saying?
31:39Whether it be her,
31:40whether it be all of them
31:41at one time,
31:41whether it be me and Fletch saying,
31:44you know what I'm saying?
31:44It's just,
31:46like,
31:46what do you expect?
31:47You wouldn't tell nobody.
31:49No.
31:49I mean,
31:50not unless it was,
31:51not unless it was to be told.
31:52So what you're saying
31:53is that there is something going on,
31:54you're just not gonna speak on it.
31:55Never said that.
31:56Good try, though.
32:00Oh, okay,
32:01I got it.
32:01That's what I have to do.
32:02I get it.
32:03Ain't nobody's business, right?
32:04Y'all post
32:05and people are gonna
32:06automatically start talking.
32:08So if it's true,
32:09then lean in it.
32:09If it's not,
32:10it is what it is.
32:12But if it is,
32:12y'all young,
32:14y'all are attractive,
32:16you know?
32:16It ain't even about that.
32:17If it's just family,
32:18it's just family.
32:19It ain't about that.
32:20But no,
32:20I just, you know,
32:21since we're friends,
32:22you know,
32:23and
32:26sometimes it's cool
32:27to get ahead of the store.
32:30Coming up
32:30on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
32:33Everybody make rumors
32:34and
32:34you know what?
32:37I'm not gonna
32:38do this.
32:39Y'all can do this.
32:41She usually does
32:42everything right.
32:44She's not doing
32:44anything wrong in this
32:46because it's a rumor, right?
32:47How the hell
32:48is it a rumor?
32:51I don't want this
32:53no trouble
32:54makes you think
32:55you're important.
32:56Maybe get up
32:58and fantasize
32:59too far
33:00going to be
33:01hypnotized.
33:14Hey,
33:16I was trying to finish
33:17folding the stuff
33:18and push it out
33:20the way
33:20before you got here.
33:21How you doing?
33:22Fine.
33:23You almost got me
33:24doing everything.
33:25So I received a call
33:26from Lance
33:27to finish up
33:28the conversation
33:29that we had
33:30at his home
33:31and
33:31I am hopeful
33:33that we will
33:34find some
33:34common ground.
33:35How's it been going
33:36for you?
33:37It's been alright.
33:38I just wanted to come
33:38check in on you
33:39and see how you doing.
33:40I know the last time
33:41we met
33:42we kind of had
33:43a little bit of
33:46friction.
33:46It seemed like.
33:47Guess I've been
33:48taking your advice.
33:49Lil' O' Diesel
33:50he's over here like
33:51you who dad
33:51hey I'm playing ball
33:53now.
33:53He was six.
33:54You know so he's
33:56he's requiring
33:57a lot of time
33:58from me with him
33:59you know
34:00playing sports
34:00and he's like
34:01dad well I need you
34:02to show me how to do
34:02this amount of pushups
34:03so that I can be
34:04this strong.
34:05You know so he's
34:06requesting a lot
34:07of my time too
34:08so therefore I
34:09appreciate you
34:10giving me that
34:11gym that I need
34:12to sit back
34:12and take the time
34:13from the kids
34:15so that I can be
34:16more assertive
34:17and actually involved
34:18in my kids day to day.
34:19Oh so you are
34:20taking my advice
34:23to try and
34:24be more
34:26organized
34:27as far as
34:27your kids
34:29choosing days
34:30that's designated
34:31to them
34:31not your work
34:32because you do
34:33have to sit work
34:34aside
34:35when it comes
34:36to your kids.
34:37It doesn't matter
34:38you have to.
34:39So during my
34:39conversation with Lance
34:40I noticed he said
34:42he's going to
34:43spend more quality
34:44time with his kids
34:45and you know what
34:47for now I'm
34:49pleased with that
34:50but I noticed
34:51he didn't say
34:52anything about
34:53his dating
34:54he kind of went
34:55around that
34:57but I'm going to
34:58give him some grace
34:58right now
34:59and I'm just going
35:00to let him have
35:02it but we will
35:03circle back
35:03to this.
35:05Let me get the door
35:06here.
35:09Well hello.
35:10Hey beautiful.
35:11Look at you.
35:12No look at you.
35:13You came through
35:14going like
35:15gone with the wind
35:15girl.
35:17Oh oh oh twirl.
35:19Twirl.
35:20So listen
35:21I'm here
35:21because Nell
35:22invited me
35:23she wanted me
35:23to be the buffer
35:24between her
35:25and Lance.
35:26I think that
35:26she needs to
35:27establish some
35:27boundaries.
35:28What that looks
35:29like for her
35:29I really don't
35:30know but there's
35:31also this other
35:33non-rumor rumor
35:34about Twan
35:35and her daughter
35:37so I'm like
35:38here I am.
35:40You must know
35:41I was here
35:41you going to come
35:42looking like this.
35:43What's up gangsta?
35:46How you doing?
35:47Uh uh I was
35:48sitting there with you.
35:49Sit right there
35:49so I can see
35:50both of y'all.
35:51Are we in a high seat?
35:52Put y'all right there
35:53together
35:53so I can lay
35:54eyes on you.
35:55But yeah I was
35:56I was talking to Lance.
35:57Hey how you doing?
35:58Oh lord here we go
35:59there goes that chemistry.
36:01It was just
36:01say hello.
36:02Yeah just hi
36:03just.
36:04I enjoyed your birthday
36:05party.
36:05Did you enjoy your
36:06birthday?
36:06It was cool.
36:07I think it was
36:08it was good.
36:09I liked it.
36:09I do remember
36:10you having a
36:11conversation with
36:11his old lady.
36:13I got an old lady?
36:15You don't?
36:16Uh they're not
36:17so exclusive anymore.
36:18Right.
36:20Well
36:21quickly how things
36:22change.
36:23I did run into
36:24Twan and we
36:25was talking
36:25about rumors
36:25and
36:27he brought
36:28up
36:29that people
36:30think him
36:30and Kayla
36:31are dating.
36:32Who the hell?
36:37Oh how you
36:37looking at me
36:38like that?
36:38Damn!
36:48That's some
36:49bullsh**.
36:51What the
36:52is going on
36:53right now?
36:59I did run into
37:00Twan and
37:01he brought up
37:02that people
37:03think him
37:03and Kayla
37:04are dating.
37:04What the
37:05is going on
37:06right now?
37:09It's like
37:10that's my
37:11hell I thank
37:12my godson.
37:14What all did he
37:15say?
37:15He said
37:16it was a
37:16yeah I want
37:17to know
37:17because let's
37:18let's get
37:18something understood
37:19at my
37:19at my
37:20dinner table
37:21at one point
37:22Kiki always
37:23like
37:23flirt
37:24flirt with
37:25Twan or whatever
37:26so I thought
37:27it was Kiki
37:28but not
37:28not
37:29Kayla
37:31not Kayla
37:32That's it
37:32y'all worry
37:33about me
37:33and Kree
37:33It's kind of
37:34refreshing to hear
37:35Destiny you know
37:36come in and
37:36just mic drop
37:38like that
37:38so I appreciate
37:39it.
37:39Thanks Destiny.
37:40I'm not sure
37:41how Kayla's
37:41going to feel
37:42but it
37:42feels good
37:44to have
37:45the you know
37:46spotlight
37:46off of me
37:47for once.
37:48Y'all have
37:48had several
37:49friends
37:49always from
37:50being young
37:51I've always
37:51had boys
37:52around the
37:53house
37:53and that
37:54and that
37:54and everybody
37:55know that
37:56even with
37:56whoever you
37:57brought around
37:58y'all's friends
37:59the gentlemen
38:00or guys that
38:01have been
38:02been around
38:03in the past
38:04everybody
38:04looked after
38:05look Kayla
38:06Kayla's usually
38:07the one
38:07everybody
38:09protect
38:09Wait
38:10whoa whoa
38:11I'm always
38:12protecting
38:12I don't
38:12get
38:13we ain't
38:13doing that
38:14you know
38:14what I
38:14mean
38:14we're
38:15talking
38:15about
38:15when we
38:16were younger
38:16and like
38:17teenagers
38:18we're all
38:19grown now
38:19I'm still
38:20over everybody
38:21and still watch
38:21after what
38:22everybody does
38:22but at the
38:23end of the
38:23day she's
38:24she's grown
38:24I can only
38:26do and say
38:27so much
38:28and right now
38:28for one it
38:29sounds like
38:29it's a rumor
38:30right
38:31or it sounds
38:32like there's
38:33something that's
38:33undeveloped
38:34so what
38:34you met
38:35with Twan
38:35and asked
38:36him something
38:36no he brought
38:37it up
38:38looking back
38:39me telling
38:40Nell and Lance
38:41about Twan
38:42telling me
38:43about the rumor
38:44of him and Kayla
38:44I didn't think
38:45it was that
38:46serious
38:48I just didn't
38:49think it was
38:49gonna be that
38:50serious
38:50I really didn't
38:51if it looks
38:52like a kill
38:52I would have
38:53been dead
38:53yeah
38:56I'll go
38:56I'll go to Kayla
38:58that's what
38:58I'll do
38:59but it sound
38:59like neat
39:00to do
39:00I sure
39:01it was
39:02really
39:02he said
39:03it was
39:03nothing
39:03I am in a
39:06awkward
39:07effed up
39:08situation
39:10the Twan
39:11and Kayla
39:12rumor
39:13hits me
39:14like a
39:14gut punch
39:15it really
39:16pisses me
39:18off
39:18because
39:19me and Kayla
39:20do not
39:21normally
39:21have
39:22secrets
39:23this is
39:24getting
39:25crazy
39:26by the moment
39:27everybody
39:28in their
39:28rumors
39:29and
39:30you know
39:31what
39:32I'm not
39:32gonna do this
39:33y'all can do
39:34this
39:36she usually
39:37does everything
39:38right
39:38she's not
39:39doing anything
39:39wrong in this
39:40because it's
39:41a rumor
39:41right
39:42how the hell
39:42is it a rumor
39:43what is it
39:44I don't know
39:45if I knew
39:45I'd tell you
39:45you her big brother
39:46you supposed to know
39:47if she doesn't
39:48disclose everything
39:49with me
39:49she's
39:50trust me
39:50she doesn't
39:51he said
39:52nothing
39:52he said
39:52it was nothing
39:53you saying
39:54that
39:54but then
39:54you talking
39:55about
39:55you
39:55pay attention
39:56it's always
39:57me
39:58and Chris
39:58what the hell
39:59the that's supposed
40:00to be
40:00this ain't the same
40:01thing I've always
40:01said
40:02you're like
40:02mama
40:02you're like
40:03Lance
40:03you're doing
40:03this
40:03Lance
40:04you're doing
40:04that
40:04you need
40:04to do
40:05this
40:05you need
40:05Chris
40:05you're doing
40:06that
40:06and it's
40:06like
40:06okay
40:07so
40:07I'm just
40:08only because
40:08you don't
40:09have no kids
40:10but I'm lying
40:11you know
40:11that's our
40:12daughter
40:13and for
40:14something
40:14to be said
40:15I need to
40:16hear it
40:16from my daughter
40:21next on
40:22Love and Marriage
40:22Huntsville
40:23Destiny said
40:24something to the
40:25fact of
40:26Torrance says
40:27that
40:27he's
40:28dating
40:29Kayla
40:29to clarify
40:30um
40:33I am
40:35lost for words
40:36I am too
40:39did you get
40:39that text from
40:40Trish about
40:41her party
40:42yeah I got
40:42it
40:43you going
40:43yeah I like
40:44a theme party
40:45it's gonna be
40:46fun
40:46ladies
40:49if you are ready
40:50for some drag
40:51make some
40:54do you feel like
40:55you can trust
40:55Kay
40:56do you feel like
40:56he'll be telling the truth
40:57um
40:58I feel like we can't
40:59so that y'all sleep
41:00with somebody else
41:00that's the thing
41:01y'all did
41:02well
41:04it's obvious
41:05that both of y'all
41:06have been hurt
41:06by each other
41:07I get that
41:08I'm not on the page
41:09of like
41:09everybody did
41:10something wrong
41:11do you feel like
41:12you owe her an opponent
41:13no
41:13no
41:14horrible friend
41:15horrible friend
41:15yo you sitting
41:16right here
41:16if you're kidding
41:18you think I'm
41:19trying to
41:19confront you
41:20if you're sitting
41:21right here
41:21don't mind the
41:22mouth is through
41:23the door
41:23not one time
41:24did you give me
41:25a heads up
41:26and all this
41:26all this
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