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Southern Hospitality - Season 4 - Episode 07: Sip Happens
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00:01.
00:05Previously on Southern Hospitality,
00:07things got steamy on our trip to the swamp.
00:11When Nia and Justin swapped spit.
00:14Oh, my God!
00:15And when we all clocked back in.
00:17Four tables, that's pretty weak.
00:19Joe got chewed out.
00:21Yeah, I guess I've been a little preoccupied
00:23planning my 30th birthday.
00:25I don't need someone breathing down my frickin' neck.
00:28Meanwhile, Michaels was prepping for his close-up.
00:31We have been working with this brand-new LGBTQ magazine.
00:34They want to make you the cover star.
00:38But it was Joe lying to Maddie
00:40that was the real cover story.
00:42Joe told me he was working this weekend.
00:45Check his location and it's at another bar.
00:47Making Maddie question everything.
00:50You show up and you leave.
00:51It's all in your brain, by the way.
00:52It's all in your head.
00:54I don't know if, like, I'm mentally okay
00:57with being with the town drama.
00:59Lots of drama going on today.
01:05All know.
01:17Oh, yeah!
01:19I got enough gel?
01:21It looks like a lot but it's not.
01:24You guys need the steamer?
01:26You missed it. I just dropped my pants.
01:28Oh.
01:31Hey, what's up? Happy Thursday. I hope everybody's having a good day.
01:44Feeling some tension. You good?
01:50Yeah, I just like staring at you. It's like, I think you're pretty.
01:54I wish it looked at me like that.
01:58This is like the shittiest feeling in the world.
02:00This is like our first real fight that has stretched over several days.
02:05She knew who she was getting in a relationship with.
02:08I love to drink. I love to party.
02:10I'm not in the market for like, a sober boyfriend.
02:14But Joe was out drinking and lied to me about it, saying he's going to work.
02:19Maybe, yeah. Technically, I lied by omission because I didn't keep her updated the entire night.
02:24But I'm not sneaking around or anything. He got my location.
02:27I mean, obviously I have trust issues. It's triggering.
02:32So for tonight, we have six VIP tables coming in.
02:35We have TJ behind the bar.
02:37Joe, Lake, Justin, and Maddie are going to be at the door.
02:41Let's have a good Thursday night. Let me know if you guys need anything.
02:43Howdy ho!
02:49Hi. How are you?
02:50Good. How are you?
02:51I just was checking up on you, and I want to make sure you're okay.
02:53I'm good.
02:54Are you going to talk to the devil?
02:58I don't give a about him. Period.
03:00I mean, people are going to figure out who he is eventually.
03:02He's on good ice. Like, period.
03:07You okay? You're like, oh, my uterus hurts.
03:10I'm with you.
03:12How are you?
03:13I feel like I'm about to be put in a blender right now.
03:16What did you do to get blended?
03:17I don't know. I feel like I've been so upfront with her.
03:19I've never, like, had a headache like this with a situation shift.
03:24I think Jordan's been going around telling everybody that we're a bit more of an item than the reality is,
03:31which is that she comes over for three things.
03:34She calls it, like, the three Fs.
03:35We have fun, you feed me, and you me.
03:38And she, like, giggles away.
03:40But I think now it's time to kind of, like, sever things completely between me and her.
03:46I got your back.
03:47Love you, man. I'm here for you.
03:48Let me see.
03:48Ready, ready, ready.
03:49Let's go. Let's do it. Let's do it.
03:52Awesome. Welcome, welcome.
03:53Welcome.
03:54So you guys were saying yes to the table?
03:57Yes.
03:58Okay, awesome.
03:59You guys can follow me.
04:00Alright, light us up.
04:22Hey, how are you?
04:23Nice to meet you.
04:24We're going to get you in makeup and get kind of everything going.
04:28I'm excited.
04:29It's going to be an amazing launch for you.
04:32I have to.
04:33It's lip balm.
04:34It's not flavored.
04:36I was recently asked to do a cover shoot for a virtual magazine.
04:43And, of course, I said yes.
04:44They have over a million subscribers.
04:46So hopefully I get more deals out of it.
04:49We'll see.
04:49I don't know.
04:50I'm like, I'm nervous.
04:53I have to call my mom and tell her about it in a few, but...
04:56You haven't told her?
04:56Uh-uh, I haven't told her.
04:57Like, I texted her yesterday and I was like,
05:00I have to show you a surprise tomorrow.
05:02I'm going to FaceTime you.
05:03Do you think you'll send her the cover?
05:04Oh, yeah.
05:05She better frame it and put it in the living room.
05:07Okay.
05:07We're all done.
05:08Alright, perfect.
05:11It's been almost five years of, like, barely having a relationship with my mom.
05:15And with the things that I was saying on the show, it just progressively got worse.
05:20I thought sharing my story would make my relationship with my mom better.
05:26And my mom hasn't reached out once.
05:28But since last summer, I've actually made some progress with my mom.
05:32I think that hearing it on a national, like, TV level hurt her feelings, but also in return, kind of
05:38motivated her to, like, at least try.
05:42She comes to Charleston from time to time and, like, will come and surprise me and take me to dinner.
05:46Or we'll go shopping.
05:47Or she'll give me money, which is nice.
05:50Oh, those boots are fired.
05:51And I'm hoping that, like, this is something that my mom can see and be like, oh, wow, you're really,
05:55like, doing something for yourself.
05:58Um, we're gonna add a little smell.
06:00You're gonna have to pose me because I'm like a rock.
06:01That's fine.
06:02Look right at me.
06:04Just spread your legs just a little bit.
06:06I can do that.
06:08Relax the face.
06:09Great.
06:11So look a little more towards me.
06:14Great, yep.
06:15I think you got it.
06:17It is so good.
06:18Dude, that is literally it.
06:19That's so sick.
06:21I'm gonna call my mom.
06:29Oh.
06:35Yeah.
06:37Okay, can I FaceTime you now?
06:41I'm trying to call you so I can show you something.
06:44Why?
06:46Well, I'm gonna tell you about it.
06:50Okay.
06:52I'm not, but okay.
06:53I'll see you when you come.
06:55How did it go?
06:57She just, she was like, I don't wanna be on FaceTime right now.
07:00I was like, whatever.
07:06I feel like I'm a little kid all over again and I'm just being disappointed.
07:13It's frustrating.
07:15She knows that I'm filming right now and I don't think that she wants to be on camera.
07:19I don't know.
07:20It just sucks because it's like, this is your opportunity to kind of show the world that you're supportive of
07:25your son.
07:26Maybe that's selfish, but like, this is something that I've been wanting to get into.
07:30This is something that I'm passionate about.
07:32And the only thing that I ever wanted was to make my mom proud, but I honestly just feel let
07:39down.
07:39You know when you just want, like, your parents to just be proud of you for something?
07:43It's like, never enough.
07:58Hello.
07:59Good morning.
08:00How are you?
08:00Welcome to Cameo.
08:0110.30 for TJ and Joe.
08:03Botox and facial scanning.
08:05Yeah, you got it.
08:06Sweet.
08:14Hello.
08:14Yo.
08:15How are you?
08:16Morning.
08:17Oh, dude.
08:18What are you feeling?
08:19I'm not, not good.
08:21I, um, yeah, it's, it's been a rough week.
08:25And what happened?
08:26Like, it's been kind of hard to, like, date this sober girl recently.
08:29I feel like even though I, like, went to one bar, she, like, looks at that, I was like, I
08:33was in some giant vendor.
08:34And I really had, like, four drinks.
08:36I mean, I saw you out on Saturday, and you were way more sober than me.
08:40Yeah.
08:41Like, I don't want you to, like, beat yourself up about it, because I feel like you have changed a
08:44lot.
08:45Hey, guys.
08:45Hi.
08:46How are you?
08:47Good.
08:47Are y'all ready for your busiest scan analysis?
08:50Yes.
08:50Yes.
08:51Yes, absolutely.
08:52It's gonna be great.
08:54Y'all are gonna love it.
08:54So this thing scans our face, and then tells you how old we are.
08:58What?
08:59When I turned 30, I was like, oh , I'm not a twink anymore.
09:02I have to do something about my face.
09:04And once I started getting Botox, there was no turning back.
09:07Does the system factor in the fact that we work in nightlife?
09:11Joe is turning 30, and he needs to take care of his face.
09:15That's his money maker.
09:16Does it factor in food and bed, stress, our friend groups?
09:21Just skin.
09:22Just skin.
09:22Okay, cool.
09:22Let's see what it says.
09:23It may be great.
09:25Easy peasy.
09:26All right.
09:27Okay.
09:27I'm ready.
09:28You ready?
09:28Yeah, I'll go first.
09:29Okay, I'll have you take a seat right here.
09:30Okay.
09:31You can stay right there.
09:32I'm just gonna move the angle.
09:34Perfect.
09:34And you can bring your head back.
09:36It's intense.
09:37It's intense.
09:38We're going into skin age now.
09:43Oh, dude.
09:45There we go.
09:48I'm almost 35, so I'll just put that in there.
09:51So that's your good side.
09:52Yeah, my right side.
09:53I look at, like, Kevin from Home Alone when I see TJ.
09:56He looks like a 12-year-old boy.
09:57He's like one of those memes, like, this guy's somewhere between 12 and 40.
10:01Okay, we're gonna look at simulation.
10:04Here we go.
10:08Oh, wow.
10:10My God.
10:11Dude, you're a gilf.
10:14Talk about washed up gay.
10:16That screen right there.
10:19If I wasn't scared enough being 34 and alone, this really didn't help.
10:25You ready?
10:25You ready for this?
10:26Yeah.
10:27Let's just rip it off like a band-aid.
10:29It's gonna be great.
10:32What is that one?
10:33Oh, my God.
10:34That is your bacteria.
10:35I'm a dirty boy.
10:37He's Maddie's pillowcase.
10:38Okay, let's take a look at your skin age.
10:41Okay.
10:43What the ?
10:45Let's go.
10:46That's a commonest boost I needed.
10:48There we go.
10:50This machine is bull .
10:51It doesn't know what the it's talking about.
10:53Turns out skincare is not that important.
10:55I got that Italian skin.
10:57It's all about the olive oil, you know?
10:59Joe, you can take a seat in the pink chair.
11:01Thanks.
11:01And I'm gonna grab Cam and Clay and we'll get started.
11:03Amazing.
11:04Yes.
11:05Of course.
11:06Wait, so what triggered Maddie to, like, get upset all of a sudden?
11:09I think with Maddie, it's weird.
11:14It's like, we're in love.
11:17It's butterflies and rainbows.
11:20And then, like, something will, like, trigger her.
11:22You know, I feel like she's just been, like, you know how she can get.
11:25She can just kind of see red sometimes.
11:28Right.
11:28I almost feel like, does she have trust issues?
11:30Well, I feel like you haven't also given her a reason not to trust you.
11:33Surely she knows I would never cross any boundary.
11:36Yeah, I feel like you're finally at a point where, like, you're healthy, but also you're
11:40working on yourself internally.
11:42And you don't, I mean, you don't drink like you used to.
11:46I feel like I used to be a drunk guy, but maybe I still am.
11:49I don't know.
11:50I don't think that you're still a drunk guy.
11:52Joe, I really think you're not the same person that you were a year ago.
11:56I've progressed a lot with my partying, Sunday through Thursday.
11:59If I'm not around it, I don't even think about it.
12:01The moment I'm around it is when I'm like, all right, I'm a sales guy.
12:05These people are drinking a little bit.
12:07Let me have one or two because it loosens me up.
12:09Like, I see where she's coming from because she's 11 years sober.
12:12But sometimes I'm like, can you just help me instead of you're yelling at me?
12:16And I feel attacked.
12:18I don't want to be, like, prima donna, but, like, it's my birthday week.
12:22Yeah.
12:23I mean, I'm stressed out.
12:24Like, I want this event to go really well.
12:25Yeah.
12:25But I've only sold 100 tickets.
12:28Okay.
12:28And, like, in order for me to profit, I need to sell...
12:32100 more?
12:33300 more.
12:35Perfect.
12:37Hey, guys.
12:38Hi.
12:39All right.
12:39So we're going to do your talks first?
12:40Yeah.
12:41Okay.
12:41And you do like a little bit of movement in your forehead?
12:44Yep.
12:44Okay.
12:44Perfect.
12:45Look this way for me.
12:50You're all done.
12:52You know, all the rules.
12:54Yes.
12:55Can't work out.
12:56Can't lay down.
12:56Make sure you stay upright today.
12:59Could you pop something?
12:59Well, we really just want the Botox to settle so we don't get some kind of unwanted result,
13:07right?
13:07Yeah, so one of his eyebrows doesn't go like this.
13:09Right.
13:09That's exactly right.
13:10Boy in the eye.
13:11Yep.
13:13Coming up.
13:14Literally, look at this.
13:16What?
13:17That's Mia and Justin.
13:19So they actually went on a date?
13:21Yeah.
13:22Are you kidding?
13:24Hello.
13:38I heard someone called for an event planner.
13:40Hi.
13:41Hi.
13:42How are you?
13:44It's good to you.
13:45I like this dress.
13:46It literally came straight from the office.
13:48Wait.
13:48Before we sit down, let's just like walk around the space and then we can sit down.
13:52Yeah, okay.
13:52So let's start from the entryway.
13:56Okay.
13:56What's the theme?
13:57What's the event?
13:58So the party is like paint and sip.
14:00Okay.
14:00And so I want it to have like a name.
14:02I was thinking like sip happens.
14:05Like sip happens, why not paint about it?
14:08Isn't that cute?
14:09When Leva approached me about this idea, I was super excited.
14:13I would really like you to host a paint and sip evening to like pull people in here.
14:18So Zach Stacks is our newest place on King, right next to Republic.
14:22The space is light and airy, very Charleston.
14:26We wanted to start throwing events in there and I immediately thought of Lake and her art
14:29background.
14:30Hosting the paint and sip and then maybe doing a monthly party or something like that follows
14:34up.
14:35At the end of the day, hospitality is moving towards experiences.
14:38So the paint and sip is a wonderful thing for Zach Stacks.
14:41Slow down, put your phone down.
14:43You know what I mean?
14:44With the painting process, I want there to be stations and that can be at the booth.
14:50I say the back three.
14:51Yeah.
14:52I'm currently trying to incorporate my studio art degree into business because, you know,
15:00working at the front door, there is an art to that.
15:02But my parents did not pay for four years of school for me to work at the front door.
15:07Well, thanks for asking for my help and collabing with me.
15:11It's going to be so fun.
15:12But I do think, like, the...
15:14Oh.
15:16Period.
15:16That's me.
15:19Mia at us though.
15:22Speaking of, I walk into my apartment and Jordan was tweaking about something I didn't
15:30even know about.
15:31Was what?
15:32That Justin and Mia hooked up.
15:34But I didn't...
15:35They made out.
15:36But I...
15:37Yes, you did.
15:38You knew that, girl.
15:39No, I didn't.
15:41I have absolutely no recollection of seeing Mia and Justin kiss.
15:53I do not remember that at all.
15:55Well, I have spoken to Jordan and I understand why she is so upset.
16:01With me?
16:02With everybody.
16:04Everyone knew what the situation was.
16:07Kissing your friend is not a good person.
16:09And that friend isn't a good person either.
16:11I just thought it was real for a second.
16:14I know.
16:19Nobody was accounting for Jordan's feelings.
16:21And so my piece in all of this was being a friend that Jordan can confide in.
16:28And so I was that friend to her.
16:30And you don't think I was?
16:31I told her that you were there for that kiss.
16:35I was literally not.
16:37Well, you just happened to be involved in it because you're friends with Mia.
16:42What you can do is just say, Mia, maybe don't go for Justin.
16:47I don't think you need to tell me what I should be doing with my friend.
17:05It's actually nice today.
17:06It's actually way nicer down here than I thought it was going to be.
17:09The breeze is really nice over here, too, actually.
17:11You know, I come here three times a week.
17:13Yeah.
17:13I love sitting here.
17:15And what do I always say?
17:17Body of water decreases anxiety by 70%.
17:20Do you always say that?
17:21Yep.
17:22Oh, okay.
17:22Yeah.
17:22Can I have a sip of that?
17:24Yeah.
17:25I'm so thirsty.
17:26That's very sweet.
17:27I know.
17:28It's pineapple.
17:29It tastes like pineapple.
17:30It's good for the cooch.
17:33Why?
17:34Like, why?
17:35I need to talk.
17:36All right.
17:37Tell me.
17:37Tell me all the stuff.
17:40I...
17:43I feel like sometimes I struggle with Joe.
17:48Okay.
17:49Why?
17:50Because I feel like I struggle with enabling.
17:54And I feel like I've been trying to, like, advocate for Joe to reel it back.
17:59Because if he wants a business and he wants to fulfill his dream,
18:03like, his bosses want him to reel it in a little bit with leaving the bar and all of that
18:09stuff.
18:10And, like, it's never, like, personally, like, affected me.
18:13But, you know, there is always a small part of me that's a little jealous of, like,
18:17oh, like, you can cope with your problems.
18:20Yeah.
18:21In a way that I can't.
18:23I feel that way sometimes, too.
18:25Yeah.
18:25I do.
18:26Like, I get jealous sometimes, too.
18:28Like, how nice would it be to, like, be able to just shut it off sometimes?
18:33No, I know.
18:33There's a misconception that because you're sober, you should have your feelings on lock,
18:41when, if anything, you're feeling everything.
18:43I think a lot of people also think that you would have a lot of patience because you're sober,
18:46but it's almost like you run out of patience really quick, especially when people are, like, really drunk.
18:50Oh, yeah.
18:51Yeah.
18:51Oh, yeah.
18:52Yeah.
18:52I write a daily inventory where I write down where I've felt resentful, where I have fears,
18:58and I like to write things out.
19:00I journal.
19:01I make PowerPoints.
19:03I write emails I don't send.
19:06And I usually burn them and don't send them, unlike my PowerPoint, which I wanted to show.
19:13Being with someone that drank, like, I've always been with people that drank.
19:17Yeah, me too.
19:18You know what I mean?
19:18It just is what it is, and it's never been a problem for me or, like, a temptation.
19:23But it's hard sometimes not to feel, like, triggered a little bit.
19:29I don't know.
19:31I feel like the Joe thing is, like, he's talking about marriage and moving in and all these things.
19:37But, you know, I get scared of, like, not breaking a generational chain.
19:44Yeah.
19:45That's, like, my worst fear.
19:46I know.
19:46Like, I got sober to break a generational chain.
19:49I know, you say it all the time.
19:50Yes.
19:51Yeah.
19:51Like, that was, like, a huge motivation, because my family's not perfect.
19:55I'll tell you that.
19:56Like, they are not perfect.
19:58Very few families are.
19:59Yeah.
19:59Yeah.
20:00My parents had me when they were really young.
20:02They were having fun still.
20:06And when I was a little kid, my parents would party.
20:09And I just picked up that it's okay to drink when you're happy, when you're sad, when you're lonely, when
20:15any type of feeling you're having, drink.
20:17And they always say that, like, alcoholism and drug addiction starts from, like, childhood development.
20:25And I don't want my future children to look at their dad and think it's okay.
20:34Not saying that that's Joe.
20:36But, like, I don't want to set that type of example for my future children.
20:42I think that Joe, like many of us, and myself included, always thought that if you work in hospitality, this
20:50is just par for the course.
20:52Like, this is the lifestyle that you choose to live.
20:54Yeah.
20:55You'd think, though, him dating me, he'd be like, oh, no.
20:58Well, it's not that easy.
20:59I know.
20:59You have to keep in mind that, like, from the outside looking in, it's so easy to pick apart other
21:04people.
21:06Sometimes, does he miss the mark?
21:07Yeah, but he's human.
21:08We all struggle.
21:09We all struggle in different ways.
21:12You have to just talk to Joe because you can't hold your dreams and your drink in the same hand.
21:17And, like, thank you.
21:19I love that.
21:20Put that on a banner.
21:22And make a t-shirt.
21:32I'm here for my ship.
21:37You're wearing a bathing suit?
21:38Yeah.
21:39See, this will get some hot dogs.
21:42Yeah.
21:43Somebody come get your hot dogs.
21:45Take my shirt off.
21:46Yo, yo.
21:48How are you?
21:49Good.
21:50Hello.
21:50How are you?
21:51Good to see you.
21:52Good to see you.
21:53How can I help?
21:54How can I help?
21:55Get a degree in finance and economics and you end up selling hot dogs.
21:59Second Sunday in Charleston is amazing.
22:01The second Sunday of every month, they shut down King Street for about six to eight blocks,
22:05and small vendors like Sir Wieners get to set up.
22:07We're going to sell the most wieners.
22:11Wieners!
22:12Would you like your seat?
22:14What's a good name?
22:15Wieners.
22:16It's about networking, building a clientele.
22:20Oh, what's up?
22:21How are we doing?
22:21How are you guys?
22:22Get a wiening.
22:23Outstanding.
22:24Get a wiening.
22:25Y'all ready to get wet in Wiener?
22:26It's not easy to sell hot dogs, but add a downpour, thunderstorm on top of that, it's
22:33not looking good.
22:34Beautiful.
22:34Let's see what happens with the rain.
22:35Got it.
22:36Hot dogs, ladies.
22:37Hot dogs.
22:38Weenies.
22:39Hot dogs.
22:40Emphasis on the hot.
22:41This weather is perfect hot dog weather.
22:43Really.
22:43I talked to a weatherman.
22:45He told me.
22:45He told me.
22:46We're losing sales.
22:48We're losing sales.
22:49Hot dogs!
22:50Come get your hot dogs!
22:52Ayo!
22:53Tight .
22:56First order of the day.
22:58You want a meanie weenie?
22:59That's a great choice.
23:01Thanks for the support.
23:06Oh, wow.
23:08It is like pouring, like tsunami.
23:11What tables are we setting up?
23:1330, I guess.
23:14Putting them outside?
23:16This weather sucks.
23:17I got a DJ inside.
23:19F*** this weather.
23:20I'm all by myself.
23:21I want to be outside.
23:22I want to be outside.
23:23I want to be with the people.
23:24Come get a hot dog.
23:25Most delicious hot dog.
23:26Come on.
23:27Get a hot dog.
23:27Come on.
23:27You want one.
23:28Hot dog.
23:28Yeah, you want one.
23:29Come on.
23:29And they're fire.
23:30Three people can share one wiener I've seen and done before.
23:33Right.
23:33Yeah, same.
23:33Don't ask me how.
23:35Hot dog.
23:36Come get your hot dog.
23:37Time for a hot dog.
23:38Support black business.
23:42Support small black business.
23:45I'm the small.
23:46He's the black.
23:46He's the business.
23:47He's the business.
23:49My lovely ladies.
23:51Are you guys excited for paint and sip?
23:55So excited.
23:56We are artists.
23:56I love art.
23:57I love art.
23:58It's going to be fun.
24:00Wear your pink.
24:01Have your smiles on.
24:03Bring your artistic talent.
24:05I almost went to High Point University for interior design.
24:09You did?
24:10Yeah.
24:10Period.
24:11The military?
24:14The military?
24:15No, High Point's not a military school.
24:17West Point.
24:18West Point.
24:19West Point.
24:20That being said, I love art.
24:21I love art.
24:22Well, it's going to be so much fun.
24:24No drama allowed.
24:26Is Mia invited?
24:28I mean, maybe Molly invited her, but I didn't.
24:31Well, we know where we stand, so we're going to have a good time.
24:34We ain't got no fake ass titties over here.
24:37No fake titties.
24:38And she's exiting.
24:39I'm going to do a little lappy lap.
24:42Oh, my God.
24:44High dogs keep you dry.
24:46Oh, no.
24:49Ladies, stand under the tent.
24:50Ladies.
24:51Oh, my God.
24:52Go, go, go, go, go.
24:53Good luck out there.
24:53Stay dry.
24:54Stay dry.
24:54Good luck.
24:56Literally, look at this.
24:58What?
25:02Justin posted on Instagram last night.
25:05What?
25:05What do you mean?
25:06No way.
25:08What?
25:08That's Mia.
25:09What do you mean?
25:11That is Mia's fake titty.
25:13Fake titties over here.
25:14That is Mia's titty.
25:17That is her split ends.
25:20But yeah, that's at Malagon.
25:22So they actually went on a date?
25:25Yeah.
25:26Are you kidding?
25:28What the ?
25:30Mia and Justin went on a secret date.
25:33Who in the ?
25:34I was in shock.
25:36Like, what the ?
25:37Silicon going to her head.
25:41How was your date?
25:48What date?
25:48What date?
25:49Didn't y'all go to Malagon?
25:51No.
25:53I got like three screenshots sent to me.
25:54So who's lying?
25:55Me.
25:56I didn't go.
25:57So last night I was scrolling on Instagram and I saw Justin posted a story.
26:02And I saw Justin's post.
26:03I'm like, hmm, that's weird.
26:05It looks like Mia.
26:06You know, I see two wine glasses on the table.
26:08And then I look even closer and I realize, wait, that's Malagon.
26:12That's Mia's favorite restaurant.
26:13So then I check Mia's location.
26:15Mia's location is at the restaurant that Justin tagged.
26:17And then I put two and two together then.
26:20They're on a date.
26:21I knew what was happening.
26:22I didn't go there.
26:23I went to Malagon.
26:24Okay.
26:24I didn't go to Malagon.
26:25So we're lying.
26:26Ooh.
26:30A couple of days ago, I woke up and I said, it.
26:33I want to go on this date with Mia.
26:35And I said, why not give the guy a chance?
26:38It was amazing.
26:39We had a really beautiful dinner.
26:41We went out after and, you know, it gets blurry after that.
26:45Hey, the lamb was fantastic.
26:47That's what I'll say.
26:48Yeah.
26:50Hot dog ladies.
26:51I was taking a picture of my lamb chops.
26:54They were unbelievable.
26:55I was being intentional, cropping Mia's face out.
26:59But in doing so, caught her, uh, her double Ds in the, uh, the frame as well.
27:06How'd they even know it was my boobs?
27:07I mean, seriously.
27:08My face wasn't in it.
27:10It could have been anybody.
27:12It's just up that Mia does this with Justin knowing that Jordan, like, she likes him.
27:18She likes him.
27:19Yeah.
27:19And now you're going on dates with him.
27:21Yeah, messy.
27:22Mia told Jordan that she wasn't interested in him.
27:25So much for being a girl's girl and for the woman.
27:29I'm a friend.
27:30You're TJ and your broad.
27:31Yes, I'm a friend.
27:32You're constantly defending them instead of the women.
27:34No!
27:35You're supposed to be my friend.
27:36I was, I was team woman.
27:39I'm always careful of women that say that.
27:42Because they tend not to be.
27:43Why?
27:44Why is she doing this?
27:45Why?
27:59Call Maddie.
28:26It's pretty clear that Maddie is very pissed off at me.
28:31oh bro this is like the longest we've ever gone without talking to each other it's been a few
28:35days now jesus christ and it's it's like eating me alive when i don't talk to maddie i get that
28:46pit in my stomach what if we can't come back from a fight like this damn i'm just freaking out
28:51because the thought of losing maddie is my biggest fear it'd be like losing a part of me i don't
28:56know
28:57if i would ever be able to get over her i don't think i would ever be able to look
29:01myself in the
29:01mirror all right martini glasses are you excited yeah a little bit anxious yeah welcome to my world
29:19there's already so many people here i know i love it oh hi y'all is there room for the
29:25event
29:26yes of course of course the event's gonna start at seven you guys look amazing i love the thing
29:31i love the thing we saw the memo we were like yes yay i'm so excited i'm hoping that if
29:37this event
29:37is successful leva will allow me to do more events in the future i can show her that i can
29:42host a good
29:42party and have a good time and have a good peyton girl sip paint and pour paint it girl take
29:51off your
29:52shoes and do this wait you're taller here
29:55hi
29:58wait molly do y'all need help no no no you're a guest i will however take a tequila shot
30:04got you
30:05oh two tequila
30:08welcome here here's a bucket filled with paints with you guys and you guys can sit over here
30:13and paint away
30:16oh my gosh it's so busy already let me get for you a martini glass
30:20you look so cute barbie i love it it looks so good hey
30:27congratulations it's busy in here right how are you gorgeous you look so pretty
30:35hi take me to the event i need to know i need to know here's the first station where you
30:40grab your
30:41supplies there's gonna be paints in there you can choose the different paintings then you walk over
30:47here and you grab your water when can we start painting you guys can start now okay now i'm so
30:53how are you such a nice girl tonight yes it is i love it thank you so much for everything
31:06like this is just really nice and beautiful and i loved being a part of this i feel like there's
31:11so
31:11much more potential for art hospitality you notice that no one's looking at their phone really like
31:16yeah i love it i'm really impressed with what lakes pulled together with short notice
31:22the room's full the energy's high everyone's having a good time and it's great for zack
31:27stacks because that's a different pace than republic they're just enjoying the experience
31:31yeah i love that they're all over here and they're just like chatting and painting i know i love it
31:37you guys did good it's so cute it's so cute you know the vibes are so good in here yeah
31:46hello hello hello where's your pink i came from something else
31:53i haven't seen you in so long how are you i'm getting a drink
32:06hi jordan good to see you hi how are you good good good to see you
32:13for jordan to be so upset with me i don't understand it if anything this anger should
32:19be directed at justin not me i didn't do anything wrong we went and shared a steak we had a
32:24funny
32:24kiss there's no crazy affair there's no crazy love moment happening why am i the bad guy put this one
32:31out
32:31so do you all want to pay over there with yeah yes girl i'm in there
32:39what's your deal i need to talk to you okay you talk to me now so do you get one
32:42of these no where are
32:43they right here okay i like can't do it do it anymore do with what jordan's my roommate
32:53mm-hmm and you are my friend and i just like want it to not be weird she's making it
32:59weird i don't care
33:00we're not friends she's a good friend of mine can you guys just have a conversation like because he
33:06loves me i said to go on a date with him i know and i shouldn't have that was i
33:12should not have said
33:12that you should go on the date with justin for fun do you need jordan be mad i wouldn't sleep
33:18with him
33:19my intentions were to show jordan that this man sucks and he's not for you saying it out loud
33:25it's like sounds kind of crazy but jordan and i had a conversation and we laid it all out i
33:32think
33:32i was trying to be a good friend i should not have said that to me so i'm really sorry
33:37for my part in
33:38that i forgive you we're good can you just have a conversation with her because you love me
33:45like please do you see where i'm coming from though that this is ridiculous literally because
33:49you love me please i'm not going to be a martyr in that i'm not going to put my name
33:52on the line
33:53that i'm like some of the other woman or whatever never never
34:21like we got in a fight because joe this weekend wasn't at
34:26work yeah and i know that's his like number one priority is republic and working and all of that
34:32but then like you leave and like if he wants the bar with leva so bad i feel like not
34:37showing up to
34:37work is like not a way to do not the way to do that and i just want to know
34:41where love is coming
34:41from in the sense of like is she upset that he's leaving is that why love is not like going
34:47into
34:47business with him kind of thing and i want to know where i can like hold him accountable yeah because
34:52i want to see joe's like dreams come true you want to see him succeed and that's normal for a
34:57partner i understand that i can be very harsh on joe but i love him and i care about him
35:04and i just
35:04want to see him get everything that he wants out of this life i think that you should go up
35:09and have
35:09a candid conversation about her but i think the business side of it do not bring that up terry
35:13that is the only thing you should say is like how can i support joe in getting a business that's
35:18a great
35:18idea she's like i like that one you're gonna do it you're good at that one i've been craving the
35:25buffalo dish it's so good are we gonna look out hey sorry to interrupt is there any way that i
35:33could
35:33get a moment with levo real quick thank you girls have you had this oh it's glowing gray yes there's
35:38another one good how are you i'm good yesterday was rough obviously you had a rough night no i definitely
35:46say how i feel and i show it yeah i feel like i tried to hold him accountable for like
35:52this past
35:53weekend and i feel like he just kind of got defensive yeah no but i wanted to ask you what
35:58you think is the best way i could support joe and like what your frustration is with him because
36:05i know his dream is to like have a business and to have a bar and like build an empire
36:11and you could
36:11be really good at it and that's the thing joe was so consistent and then all of a sudden he
36:15just
36:15kind of fell off yeah well i wanted to take accountability for like my part to play in that
36:21if you didn't know i was like in the hospital for a little while this year so i feel like
36:24he was there for me with that you had some well stuff i totally know that but then he kind
36:30of just
36:31like never came back consistently i physically want him there i need to consistently see that this is
36:37your home booth and it's like joe will leave and then not come back yeah so he thinks he's like
36:42networking and it's not but can i tell you narrative in his brain no i know i don't think business
36:48is
36:48happening at a bar at two in the morning it's not happening at an after party it's not happening at
36:522 a.m in the bar and it's not happening when you're all drinking yeah bro if you open your
36:57own club you
36:58have to be there my ass at 46 put my heels on and my hoochie outfit and schlepping my ass
37:05to the club
37:05i have to be easy he just walks in when he wants to he just like shows up from time
37:10to time but this
37:11is a business of reliability we need to regain that trust again joe has like a mattress about him
37:17because he can work the room and everyone loves him he says hi to every person yeah he's such a
37:22people
37:23like literally but he just gets lost in his thought yeah and so we don't know what to do anymore
37:29i just need him to have some boundaries i think you're so good at boundaries your whole sober
37:35yeah journey and i know how to have those boundaries and like say
37:39no or like you can help him because if you have navigated having boundaries and something that's so
37:45difficult if joe could pick up your sense of boundaries joe could be opening a club in six months
37:52leva says to me all the time like i have this beautiful self-control i just think she wants
37:57to see that a little bit in joe and it's not like i can control joe but i can help
38:01hold him accountable
38:03and guide him to learn simple self-control and the word no you will get like chewed up and spit
38:11out by
38:11this industry if you feel like you need to go everywhere you'll eventually put yourself in a
38:15really bad situation and that situation will ruin everything important in your life
38:30it's art
38:37okay i made it i won't let a car i won't let a car t-boning me stop me from
38:42getting here
38:43because i got hit he reversed into me
38:46no i had to call 911 i had to call the cops i got t-boned i'm like and i'm
38:53already having
38:53a week my life feels like a car wreck literally okay wait so um catch me up
39:00um mia didn't apologize to me she won't me it does not give a jordan's a gazelle and she is
39:06a lion
39:07you look like bambi to her can i come sit over here yeah of course
39:13what's going on ladies we're yapping chit-chatting what's happening
39:22can i sweep my fat ass in here okay can you guys get over
39:27like how are you feeling you're very uh avoiding icon the little thing that you do where you're like
39:31this yeah mia i'm not trying to start anything with you but you didn't even apologize to jordan
39:40apologize for what
39:45i'm truly trying to figure out where lake fits in this situation other than the pot stirrer and
39:53someone talking me they asked if you apologized to me and i said no she didn't for what jordan's
39:59issue is that she fell for a guy that she's hooking up with and he doesn't want anything more to
40:03do
40:03with her and when people are embarrassed they're hurt and when you're hurt you act out you try to
40:08attack the person nearest you unfortunately for her the last person that she wants to attack is me
40:15she feels hurt by the situation with justin because she saw you as a friend
40:19you got to understand that you're hurting people look at her she's about to cry
40:26oh my god mia feels no feeling she could go be a bitch and be like sorry i'm a
40:31bitch she hasn't cried since like 2008 like when's the last time you cried that's the
40:38insensitive that i am you know i don't say things that i don't mean he played your ass and he's
40:44a
40:44dickhead he is not worth it he's not worth it i know he's not worth it and so for you
40:48to feel
40:49like you have some sort of qualm with me i can have a conversation with a woman and then between
40:53me and her i don't need backup one backup two backup three i'm not a backup i'm just a good
40:59friend to
40:59jordan do you feel like molly's a good friend to jordan i think that there was moments where she was
41:07a bad
41:08friend to jordan because i had one bad moment when you've seen all the other moments of me being an
41:14amazing friend to jordan what i value in real friendships and what i value in people are not
41:20characteristics that you guys have exhibited molly wants to be mia so bad it's weird and she's getting
41:29there like they're both fake as like i rather not surround myself with fake bitches with fake titties
41:43like you're that is oh my god next time at your paint and zip you can paint a middle finger
41:51bitch we were not cool before and guess what we're not cool after okay we don't have to be
42:00sick bitch you're the bitch goodbye you can leave
42:11bitches next time on southern hospitality a very popular dating app we're ready to offer a deal but
42:16it turned out that you have been banned from the platform is anything i should know
42:23i have to apologize you were screaming i was not screaming this is screaming welcome to emo night
42:30it's my dirty 30. no stop pointing on me
42:34what can i do put your hand in my face
42:38you
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