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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
00:03I miss a lot of the things we do.
00:05But it's not to the point where I'm like, damn,
00:06I need to go back home.
00:07I can't do this no more.
00:09When you create space from somebody,
00:12you can't dictate what they do.
00:14When he came and asked me, was I talking to someone,
00:17I was honest.
00:18I said, yes, I was.
00:20And I have.
00:21But I do love him.
00:22So I was like, if it's meant to be,
00:24it'll circle back around.
00:25Am I supposed to get on a bullhorn and alert
00:28everybody that my license revoked?
00:29No, no, no, no, no, just me, just me.
00:32Who the are you?
00:35Some of these adult children are having a hard time
00:38understanding what boundaries are.
00:40When Lance asks you to keep his kids,
00:43he does not pick up when he tells you he's going to pick up.
00:47After this party, I think you've probably done enough partying.
00:51No, the 4th is live right around the corner.
00:52What you mean?
00:54Congratulations for your first listing.
00:57Yeah, no, this isn't my first listing.
01:00You wanted me to defend you against grown people
01:02that you beefing with?
01:03Jesus Christ.
01:04You're delusional.
01:04I'm going to be delusional about this relationship.
01:06I'm good.
01:06All right, yeah, because it's too much worse.
01:08Too much worse?
01:09Too much worse.
01:10Why would I have to put in with you?
01:11You are a liar, Tisha.
01:18We keep it moving.
01:21All day, all night.
01:23Yeah.
01:24Ain't no stopping us.
01:26Drop that.
01:27We ain't stopping.
01:29You know, you know.
01:32All day, all night.
01:32We keep a moving.
01:37All day, all night.
01:39Yeah.
01:42Yeah.
01:42All day, all night.
01:44Yeah.
01:46Ain't no stopping us.
01:49Yeah.
02:14Thank you so much, babe.
02:16Yeah, baby.
02:17Good.
02:18Yeah.
02:18All right.
02:18Whew.
02:19I love it.
02:21I invited Destiny out.
02:23Oh, really?
02:24Yeah, Destiny's going to come hang out with us this morning.
02:27Yeah.
02:28OK.
02:28Yeah, she said she wanted to talk to him about something.
02:31I don't know.
02:32I'm getting a call.
02:33Huh?
02:34I'm getting a call from Trish.
02:36Trish?
02:37Yeah, Trish called him and let's see what's going on.
02:39OK.
02:39Hey, Trish.
02:41Hey, lady.
02:42What's going on with you?
02:43Nothing much.
02:45Nothing much.
02:45You know, life is always life.
02:48Oh, Lord.
02:49What's going on?
02:51It's always life.
02:52Yeah, that's true.
02:53I agree.
02:55But I wanted to, you know, get all the ladies together and just have a girls' lady just
03:02let our hair down moment.
03:04OK.
03:05A girls' lady, we're going to let our hair down.
03:07What are we doing?
03:09I don't know.
03:10I don't know.
03:11I don't know yet.
03:11OK.
03:11I'll be more than happy to be in attendance.
03:14I really appreciate you calling and inviting me.
03:17And if not, I'll give you a call back when I leave here with Fletcher from brunch.
03:23OK.
03:23OK.
03:24All right.
03:25Bye-bye.
03:25All right.
03:30All right.
03:31Well, how are you?
03:33Hey.
03:33What's up, girl?
03:34Hello.
03:35How you doing?
03:36How you doing?
03:37I was just talking about you.
03:39Oh, Lord.
03:39I just said I invited Destiny out, so.
03:43Oh.
03:43Well, thank you.
03:44I'm the two-piece and a biscuit on the side.
03:48What you been doing, girl?
03:50Let me just take the Band-Aid off.
03:51So I had an open house for one of the properties that's listed under my brokerage.
03:57And Tisha came by.
03:58She immediately walked in throwing jabs.
04:01She was like, oh, I bought you a bottle of wine to celebrate your first listing.
04:05But I realized that this isn't even yours.
04:08And I guess I can take it back.
04:10What she mean it's not yours?
04:12And it's my first.
04:13After 19 years, I ain't never had a listing before.
04:16And that just ain't cool.
04:19Tisha was out of line.
04:20She know Destiny's been in real estate for, you know, some time now.
04:25Letitia is a broker, but maybe she don't really practice being a broker.
04:30That's Scott bull they do all the time.
04:32So I'm not surprised.
04:33After all the shade, she sat down and she was like, I met with Nell.
04:38And, you know, I just felt like she has a lot going on.
04:41And I feel like I should, you know, me, I should support her.
04:44Because this is about the sisterhood.
04:45And I was like, so the whole time I was saying that Nell had a lot going on when y
04:50'all
04:50was beefing and you need to go sit and talk with her.
04:52Now you have this whole epiphany that she got a lot going on.
04:56And I just, we never got anywhere.
04:58Yeah, I was going to say how to talk.
05:00I'm going to say N.
05:01With a couple of you's and, um.
05:04You and Letitia?
05:05Yeah.
05:06That's how the conversation ended.
05:07I was like, this is too much work.
05:09Oh, she lost her damn mind when I said that.
05:13Too much work?
05:17What?
05:19Like, what is really going on?
05:21Because I'm still trying to figure out what we was fighting about.
05:24Do you have any insight?
05:25I just asked her.
05:27Point blank.
05:28What is your issue with me?
05:32Period.
05:32I did that.
05:33You called me a hoe in the box?
05:35That's not supporting me.
05:36You called me a hoe?
05:37Yes, you did.
05:38You, I know what box put you in.
05:39A hoe in the box.
05:40Am I a hoe to you?
05:41And then you go back and you talk about me to Kimmy.
05:45So you clearly asked her what is her issue with you?
05:48Multiple times.
05:49Maybe she's the feisty one and she just like arguing.
05:51She got to have somebody to be into it with.
05:54Yeah.
05:55That means that you're deflecting from your real .
05:58But with that, with that said, you know, I had talked to you earlier on about,
06:02when I met up with you, about some things Marcel said deflect you.
06:07You came at me like, when you found out about the change, the status change of your license,
06:12why you didn't contact me?
06:14Y'all got some deals together y'all working on?
06:16Not one deal.
06:18Not one.
06:19It was a thought two years ago.
06:23So he thinks you had to answer to him about your license?
06:26I'm like, who the are you?
06:28Oh.
06:29Why the would I call you?
06:31Well, I mean, I guess I think more about friendship than you and da-da-da.
06:37What the ?
06:38What are you talking about, dude?
06:39They're trained in the same class.
06:41The same thing.
06:41That's my whole point.
06:42What alternate reality are y'all living in?
06:44Exactly.
06:45Sounds like there's an issue with the scars.
06:47I think that Tisha and Marcel both have a lot of misplaced energy.
06:53I think that they probably should work that out together and stop projecting on other people.
07:00Like, honestly, it's hurtful more than anything.
07:03And so I think I left that conversation confused and, like, hurt.
07:14Tisha's been a great friend to me.
07:15She has showed up for me.
07:17And I hate to say this, because I hope that it's not true.
07:20But she showed up for me in my lowest.
07:22And now that I'm glowing up again, it's like, I'm gonna beat it down.
07:27Oh, you doing real estate?
07:28I didn't even know you had a license.
07:30You were my bro.
07:31Like, what?
07:32Like, what are we doing?
07:34I have been a loyal friend.
07:35I try my best with everybody.
07:38And, like, I told her I don't always get it right.
07:40But at the same time...
07:41And that's probably...
07:42You hit it right there.
07:43You try your best with everybody.
07:46I do.
07:46Sometimes that's just not...
07:49Enough?
07:50And then I don't need to be your friend.
07:58I was thinking, can I be a lily pop?
08:01And that's what's blown my heart.
08:03See, I'm in control.
08:05In your world, it's in my force for you.
08:08Oh, oh, oh.
08:18Come in.
08:24What up?
08:27So after my talk with Will, I spent a lot of time thinking about, you know, me and Trisha's
08:31situation.
08:32And I think it's time we really have a good, deep conversation.
08:36And hopefully with this talk, we can figure out, you know, what we're gonna do in the future.
08:49I don't like the space of red, Kenny, because it's different.
08:54I ain't gonna lie, I've been conflicted.
08:56Like, you know, as much fun as we had, like our...
09:02I think some of the bad times has kind of, like, stuck.
09:07And, you know, I get caught up thinking about them, you know.
09:10And I ain't gonna lie, I've, you know, Will, that's my dog.
09:14So I've kind of been doing a lot of talking to him and, like, not really knowing where
09:20I want to go, not really knowing what I want to do.
09:22Um, kind of felt like I was at that, that, that breaking point to where I was like, man,
09:29I don't even really want to do it no more.
09:30And I don't know.
09:34I know we've had arguments in the past, but the space that we're in now just feels a lot
09:39different.
09:44I feel like if I got...
09:50I don't know.
09:52I, like, one of the things I really want to do is I just really want to apologize for my,
09:59my part, the role that I played in it.
10:01I could have been a lot better in a lot of situations.
10:04Um, as far as, like, um, not allowing myself to get caught up in emotions,
10:10not allowing myself to get angry about certain things, being a little more patient in areas.
10:15But, um, I feel like everybody got a breaker point.
10:18And I was in the middle of a damn tornado.
10:22And back and forth between you and your ex and then trying to, I don't know, it just kept me
10:27on edge.
10:28And I got caught up and just, I don't know.
10:34The thing is, is I messed up.
10:37I ain't gonna lie, I have been kicking it with old girl a little bit.
10:39What's she do?
10:40She's a nurse, a traveling nurse.
10:42I mean, she cool.
10:43She a cool chick.
10:44I mean, she's really pretty.
10:45She's definitely pretty.
10:46Now, you said someone sent Trish the picture of you and...
10:49Yeah, she got it on her phone.
10:50She showed me.
10:51So she showed you the picture?
10:52Showed me the picture.
10:53What'd she say?
10:53I was like, I mean, I can't deny it.
10:55That is me.
10:56You know?
10:58I feel like I started to become the evil person that I said you were being.
11:05And it's not cool.
11:06You know what I mean?
11:07Like, I can't call you evil and then do evil things.
11:10Now, this wasn't like I was doing it blatantly, but in essence, I was.
11:13Because I didn't care.
11:15You know?
11:16Um, I think I was hurt, frustrated.
11:18I just felt like in the moment, it felt right.
11:29I was hurt when I saw you communicating to somebody because I thought we were working
11:36on fixing things then.
11:38I mean, this might sound crazy, and I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but that
11:50was my whole point.
11:51I wanted to see if I could hurt your feelings.
11:57Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
12:00Do not bring anyone to my home that you're not serious about.
12:06I think everybody deserves a fair shot.
12:08That's your problem.
12:11What rumors have you heard?
12:13About?
12:13About anything.
12:14About me.
12:15Um, I read a few rumors about you.
12:18I've been hearing this one little rumor about me, man.
12:20What is it?
12:21About me and Kayla.
12:22You and Kayla?
12:29I don't want you to take this the wrong way, but that was my whole point.
12:33I wanted to see if I could hurt your feelings.
12:39So you intentionally tried to hurt me.
12:42That pissed me off.
12:44Hell no.
12:45I didn't think you would give up.
12:46Like, I didn't think you cared.
12:48I was like, you know, because you've never been, I don't know, you're not super emotional.
12:54And it was, like I said, it was stupid.
12:56I was being childish.
12:57I was being immature.
12:58Like, I was responding like a young adult.
13:01And pushing 40, I shouldn't be doing certain things like that.
13:06Yeah.
13:11Trisha has let me talk.
13:12And it's kind of scary because she typically, you know, interjects a lot.
13:15But I can tell that she's hurting.
13:17And, um, I can take full responsibility for that.
13:21Us not being able to communicate properly, definitely, we definitely didn't set ground rules or expectations.
13:27I'm going to apologize and will apologize in the future if I have to because it was, it was just
13:31outright childish.
13:34We started off so fast.
13:36We did.
13:37And we started off, like, 24-7, it was me, 24-7.
13:44We never really had the space.
13:47Like, I think up until recently, this is the most time we've spent away from each other in the entirety
13:53of our relationship.
13:54And it's kind of, it was peaceful, but it kind of was like, ah, yeah, this ain't there for me
14:01either.
14:02I would rather be sitting in the middle of that damn couch, you know?
14:05You know me, I'm a family man.
14:06I enjoy being at home.
14:10I agree.
14:11And then there's a little thing of trust.
14:15We gotta, gotta get back to where we trust each other.
14:20Because, I think I kind of lost that.
14:25And you have to be honest with me.
14:28Because, I mean, I'm not innocent either.
14:33Well, are you still seeing her?
14:40No.
14:41Absolutely not.
14:43And it wasn't even, like, serious like that.
14:47Like, I wasn't gonna hop in a relationship after, like, what?
14:51Come on.
14:52I'm not interested.
14:55I prefer to be right here if I'm allowed to be.
14:58So what do we do from here?
15:02I want us to fix it.
15:06We do have to communicate.
15:09Even when arguing, we have to communicate better.
15:11For sure.
15:15Probably ain't gonna, it ain't gonna happen overnight.
15:17But, I think, you know.
15:22I don't really know what you want to do as far as, like, keeping the space, keeping, you know.
15:27No.
15:29We're gonna fix it together here.
15:32You sure?
15:33Positive.
15:36I had to sit there and think about it.
15:38And the kids and everything.
15:41Just a whole big grin of it all.
15:44Our good times definitely outweighed our bad times.
15:47I think at the end of the day, I just always think about what we did have.
15:52And it's kind of hard to really want to fully let it go.
15:55And again, I love him.
15:57So it's like, you try to fight for stuff you truly love.
16:02You know, someone you truly love.
16:04So we cool?
16:05We are.
16:07We got this.
16:10For the 10th time.
16:13It ain't been that many.
16:15Alright.
16:16Come here.
16:18I ain't did this in a long time.
16:39Oh, this hill.
16:41I know.
16:43Damn hill.
16:44Every time I come to this house.
16:47I'm meeting at Lance's house today with my sons.
16:50I'm very sick and tired of talking about these boundaries.
16:54The boundaries have been thrown out the window several times.
16:58I'm going here on a more softer approach.
17:01So I'm hoping Lance is doing everything he needs to be doing and then I can keep my tone at
17:09room temperature and not have to raise my voice.
17:12Well, hello.
17:14Hey, beautiful.
17:15Hey.
17:16What's going on?
17:16You got my cologne.
17:17You looking great.
17:19We knew he was coming over here.
17:21So we figured we might as well represent.
17:23Represent.
17:24We put on the green.
17:25Hello to you.
17:26You gorgeous.
17:28Hey.
17:28What's up?
17:29We already got bones to pick.
17:32Popped up on Lenny.
17:33She popped up on me.
17:34I wasn't expecting.
17:35Y'all here.
17:37Wait a minute.
17:37I come over here trying to be calm.
17:40I didn't know everyone was coming.
17:42Not to chop nobody's head off today.
17:44Just to have some small talk and say I was going to do better.
17:50You trying to go in on me before I get in the door?
17:52Nah, it sounds like y'all already been going in on me.
17:55I'm a bit annoyed because I'm kind of tired of talking about the same old thing.
17:59But my mom is going to be my mom.
18:00My dad is going to be dad.
18:01And, you know, there's really no way around it.
18:04So I'm going to try to do my best to sit in and just listen to the corrective criticism.
18:09This is kind of funny.
18:10I got all y'all here at someone else's house, at Len's house, not mine.
18:16Okay, so I have some things I need to talk to you about.
18:19Kayla come in and she tell me, she's like, you know, mama feeling the way about my timing in reference
18:25to when you watch my baby.
18:26But I feel like, I'm just like, dang, that's the first I'm really hearing of that.
18:30I think it's more so just us girl talk because, you know, I'm her daughter.
18:34So it's like more girl talk so she just venting more.
18:38I am over it. I do not want no more grandkids from Lance no time soon.
18:45He got three baby mamas. That's enough.
18:49Chris, he does not need none. He got one.
18:53Well, Lance, you not picking up when you're supposed to.
18:59With Chris, you just feel like mom just catered more to Lance's kids instead of your child.
19:07I mean, if we're going to be truthful, actually, I've been trying to juggle both of them.
19:11And I feel like I have twins.
19:13Yeah. Okay.
19:15Well, going forward, I'll do my due diligence, you know.
19:20Okay, that's acceptable.
19:22Chris, what you been doing? You dating?
19:25I mean, I'm a young man, so I'm always, like, out there like this.
19:30You said out there. Are you out there? But are you, so are you...
19:34I guess dating is... Are you exclusive?
19:37No, you're outside.
19:38Outside?
19:39Sure, yeah. I'm out there, yeah.
19:40Okay, so you just not tied down to no one person.
19:43That's what I'm, yeah, that's what we're getting to, yeah.
19:45Okay, so...
19:46But I guess I just be trying to feel people out.
19:51I'm not into rushing things.
19:53Thank you. Do not bring anyone to my home that you're not serious about.
20:02You're not going to take serious. You know you're just playing around.
20:06But, you see, but that's...
20:11I think everybody deserves a fair shot.
20:14Everybody?
20:14That's your problem.
20:16No, I'm saying that, no, everybody who I'm interested in, not everybody.
20:18You know what I'm saying? If I have interest in it, then yeah, you just...
20:22You always doing life. Doing life.
20:24We all do life. Don't you do life?
20:26Yeah, but you...
20:27God damn it.
20:28Put a saran wrap around it, some bubble wrap.
20:31I don't give a .
20:32Put something on that .
20:33Let's be clear.
20:34Put something on it and seal it up.
20:36Let's be clear. I'm 34 years old.
20:38I have three children.
20:40I know.
20:40There is nothing.
20:41That is not a bad number for a 34-year-old man.
20:46If I was married, we wouldn't even be talking about this.
20:48Exactly!
20:49But that's the point.
20:49But that's the point!
20:51Because you would be married with one baby mother, not three baby mothers.
20:55I don't...
20:55That doesn't bother me.
20:56Everybody throws that around.
20:57Three baby mothers, that don't bother me.
20:59That don't bother me at all.
21:05Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
21:07I did run into Twine and we were talking about rumors and he brought up that people think him and
21:14Kayla are dating.
21:17What the is going on right now?
21:26Let's be clear.
21:29Let's be clear.
21:30I'm 34 years old.
21:32I have three children.
21:33I know.
21:34There is nothing.
21:35There is...
21:35That is not a bad number for a 34-year-old man.
21:39If I was married, we wouldn't even be talking about this.
21:41Exactly!
21:42But that's the point.
21:43But that's the point!
21:44Because you would be married with one baby mother, not three baby mothers.
21:48I don't...
21:49That doesn't bother me.
21:50Everybody throws that around.
21:51Three baby mothers, that don't bother me.
21:52That don't bother me at all.
21:56But the situation has affected your life.
22:00Yeah.
22:01So it has to bother you somewhere.
22:03You got about three different women.
22:05You got to deal with three different situations.
22:07Honestly, the way I've digested it is that everybody has a task and a battle that they're going to have
22:12to, you know, try to conquer and overcome.
22:14This is just my battle.
22:16My situation is always so magnified.
22:19And it's...
22:20Honestly, it's just...
22:21It's overwhelming.
22:23No.
22:24You can meet someone and you think you're good.
22:27That's with anybody.
22:28Exactly.
22:29I've been married twice.
22:30But that's why you...
22:32So you should know better than anybody.
22:33You have to be careful with dating.
22:35You have small children.
22:38And everyone does not need to be around your small children or introduced to your small children.
22:43You know, I don't care.
22:44When it comes to kids and you're no longer with the mother, there is a double standard, right?
22:49For whatever reason, it's okay when a woman is dating someone else.
22:56Maybe it's the woman you're laying down with.
22:59You got to choose the women carefully.
23:02That's why you take your time before you rush into anything and get to know people.
23:06It takes time.
23:07I think it's hard for you.
23:08It should be months.
23:09I think it's hard for you.
23:09Take your time.
23:10I think it's really hard for you to really put a lot.
23:13Like, you're very seasoned when it comes to marriage.
23:17Dating, not so much.
23:20So, therefore...
23:21Hell, I know about dating.
23:24And I know about marriage.
23:25And I know there's things you just don't do.
23:28So, how have times changed?
23:31Like, drastically?
23:31Oh, yeah.
23:31Times have changed.
23:32Y'all whole world, really, if you ask me, is up.
23:35Okay.
23:36The internet, social media, all this shit.
23:39Y'all online trying to see what everybody...
23:41This is how everybody looks to see what the other one doing.
23:44If you put the goddamn phone down and pay attention to your kids
23:46and what's going around in your world, then you wouldn't have these issues.
23:49We need to bear the up generation and also...
23:53No, you don't need to bear the up generation.
23:55No.
23:55You need to choose.
23:56There's four few left in this generation that you can decipher through that and find...
24:02Some people have raised still good women.
24:05And I know I'm raising one.
24:09And like I told her, don't get yourself involved with nothing.
24:12Don't bring no kids here.
24:13You ain't married.
24:14Pay attention to what you're doing.
24:16Don't bring no babies.
24:17Because now they got to go to separate homes.
24:19And then, really, once that start, you got to get some chaos.
24:24Because you got a mom over here, a daddy over here, and the baby in the middle.
24:27And who got to suffer the most?
24:29The child.
24:31So, that's why you don't do no one-night stands and overnights
24:34and one-night onlys and kumbayas and three months down the road?
24:38You damn broke up and .
24:40Choose carefully.
24:41Choose wisely.
24:43They just don't get it.
24:45Um, I do not even know it's settling down.
24:48It's in their vocabulary.
24:49When our adult kids date someone, it affects pretty much all of us.
24:54And it does. I agree.
24:55Yeah.
24:56Because they like to intertwine them in their relationship within the family for some odd reason.
25:02I'm out, goddammit. Let me go check on my grandmakes.
25:08I feel sometimes y'all do tend to ignore red flags in y'all situations when it comes to who
25:16y'all date.
25:17Listen, I say whatever. That's how this goes.
25:21Coming up on Love & Marriage, Hinesville.
25:24Just for the sake of the rumors, it's like...
25:28I don't know. It's just kind of weird, you know?
25:31Isn't that like your little sister?
25:34Let's get something understood.
25:35At my dinner table, Kiki always, like...
25:39Flirt.
25:40Flirt with twine or whatever.
25:41So, I thought it was Kiki.
25:43But not... not damn.
25:45I got nothing to lose.
25:48And you know, yeah, you know that it's true.
25:51Gotta do whatever I gotta do.
25:53Cause I got, yeah, I got.
25:55Cause I got nothing, nothing to lose.
26:04Well, hello there.
26:06Hello, mamas. How you doing?
26:08I'm good. How are you?
26:09I'm good.
26:11So, Twan gave me a call. I haven't seen him in a minute.
26:14He wanted to catch up and do lunch.
26:15So, he's now my friend in the box.
26:18Why not?
26:21How have things been?
26:23Things have been super califragilist.
26:27Ex-pialidocious.
26:28Oh, boy, man.
26:29My table was great.
26:30Yeah.
26:31How about for you?
26:33It's been straight.
26:34So, you know, I told Nell that, uh,
26:37we had our little business lunch
26:39and that we shut the restaurant down.
26:41You know, him and I both agree
26:43there's an attraction there.
26:46It's like forbidden fruit because of...
26:48Even though Lance gave his blessing,
26:49but we shut the restaurant down.
26:53Like, didn't wanna leave.
26:54Ooh.
26:55I was not expecting that.
26:57And I don't think he was either.
26:59Ooh.
27:00Scared the out of me.
27:03So unexpected.
27:04I don't know. Did you expect that?
27:06Nah.
27:07I mean, but we was having a good conversation.
27:09We was having a good time, man.
27:10We was chilling.
27:10And I ain't gonna lie after a while.
27:12I had to look around to realize that it wouldn't...
27:14That nobody was there?
27:15Yeah, I was like, ah, okay, bet.
27:17So, it was a good time, though.
27:18Cool.
27:18I wasn't expecting, um, first of all,
27:21you'd be that silly.
27:22What?
27:22Come on. Well, now, yeah.
27:23Yeah.
27:24And, I don't know.
27:27I'm trying to express myself here,
27:29and it's kind of hard for me, but...
27:30Oh, now it's all right.
27:31That's great.
27:32Yeah.
27:32I'm gonna be like, yeah, you know?
27:34Oh.
27:34Really, honestly, I think your presence is just...
27:36It, like, brings what I feel like protection.
27:39I don't know if it's because of your size, you know?
27:42Yeah.
27:42Maybe that has something to do with it.
27:44Yeah, yeah, yeah.
27:44But, um...
27:46Nah, seriously, though.
27:47Like, I was able to let down my walls,
27:49and I normally don't.
27:51So...
27:52It was a reminder to me that I can be, you know,
27:55in a salt place.
27:57Salt place, okay.
27:58I mean...
27:59I appreciate the ability to be myself.
28:02Nah, likewise.
28:03For real, for real.
28:04So, if I haven't said thank you for that,
28:07I appreciate it.
28:08And I know we just friends, and, you know,
28:10I like where we are as friends,
28:12and what we're building as a friendship.
28:14I appreciate you.
28:15I really do.
28:16I appreciate you, too, man.
28:17Like, you allowed me in your space.
28:19Most women, I mean, of your caliber.
28:23You know what I'm saying?
28:23And stuff like that.
28:24You know, it's like...
28:25Who am I?
28:26Thank you for that.
28:27Thank you for listening to
28:28some certain advices that I gave.
28:31And all the times I was right
28:32when I said what I said.
28:33You know what I'm saying?
28:34Stuff like that.
28:34Thank you for admitting that.
28:36All those things, you know what I'm saying?
28:37Like...
28:37Wait a minute.
28:38Wait, what?
28:39That's what makes friendships work.
28:42All the times you were right?
28:43Can you give me an example?
28:47Right, right, right.
28:48It's so him.
28:49Right, right, right.
28:51Right, right, right.
28:51No, no, no.
28:52No, no, no.
28:52You just said right.
28:53Right.
28:53You see?
28:54Twan and I are good friends.
28:56Although, it's no relationship.
28:57I'm having a good time.
28:59I enjoy his presence.
29:00It makes me feel, like, soft and girly again.
29:04And I can be goofy like a piece of fun guy.
29:06You know, I definitely still want to do business.
29:09Still, I know, we got to do some training.
29:11Yeah.
29:11If you can hang, you know, in the gym with me.
29:15And also, you know, I don't mind you still guarding my body.
29:19I don't know about touching it, because, you know...
29:21I mean...
29:22You still fine now.
29:23I got to stay away from you, okay?
29:24We got to keep the friendship, you know?
29:26I guard your little body, man.
29:28That's cool, man.
29:29Little...
29:29My...
29:31Little fine body.
29:32Okay, thank you.
29:33Okay, I appreciate it.
29:34Hey, hey.
29:35All right.
29:36I got that curry run for you.
29:37I got the big...
29:38More food than anybody.
29:39You like garlic?
29:41Y'all doing okay?
29:41I'll take a water with lemon, as well.
29:43Water with lemon?
29:43Yes, ma'am.
29:44I'll get that for you.
29:45Will somebody be offended at me guarding your body?
29:50Who?
29:51I don't know.
29:53You think anybody will be offended if you, uh...
29:56Continue to guard my body?
30:00Nobody has the right to be offended.
30:02Mm.
30:03That's right.
30:03You know, it could be your lady friends, your girlfriends.
30:12What rumors have you heard?
30:13About you.
30:14About anything.
30:15About me.
30:16Um, I really don't hear rumors about you.
30:18I've been hearing this one little rumor about me, man.
30:21What is it?
30:22About me and Kayla.
30:24You and Kayla?
30:25Yeah.
30:27Nell's daughter.
30:28So it's Godmother's daughter?
30:30Uh-huh.
30:31That's not gonna work.
30:32Isn't that like your little sister?
30:33I mean, God, sister, it's the type of situation.
30:36You know what I'm saying?
30:37It's a separation, because it ain't no blood.
30:39But at the same time, you know, just for the sake of the rumors, it's like...
30:44I don't know.
30:45It's just kind of weird, you know?
30:47Only because I think she posted...
30:49Like, every time we finish a workout, because I just started training her,
30:53every time we finish a workout, she posted on IG.
30:56Like, some little whatever.
30:57I seen y'all working out on IG.
30:59Yeah.
30:59I am kind of akin to the family.
31:03Like, I'm always around.
31:05If not them, I'm Lance, Chris.
31:07Like, you know what I'm saying?
31:09That's the thing about Huntsville.
31:10For me and what I realize is that I can stand next to somebody and that's my boyfriend.
31:14Just gonna say that.
31:15Everybody can do what they want to do, but it's to sit there and try to paint narratives
31:18or push something for whatever.
31:24So, uh...
31:28You and Kayla, that's so cute.
31:31Has she heard about it?
31:32What's she say?
31:33I mean, she told me about it, too.
31:36I mean, I'm around pretty often.
31:38You know what I'm saying?
31:39Whether it be her, whether it be all of them at one time, whether it be me and Flett
31:43singing.
31:44You know what I'm saying?
31:45Just...
31:45Like, what do you expect?
31:47You wouldn't tell nobody.
31:49No.
31:49I mean, not unless it was...
31:51Not unless it was to be told.
31:52So, what you're saying is that there is something going on, you're just not gonna speak on it.
31:55Never said that.
31:56Good try, though.
32:00Oh, okay.
32:01I got it.
32:01That's what I'm deduced.
32:02I get it.
32:03Ain't nobody's business, right?
32:04Y'all post, and people are gonna automatically start talking.
32:07So, if it's true, then lean in it.
32:09If it's not, it is what it is.
32:11But if it is something, y'all...
32:13Y'all young, y'all are attractive, you know?
32:16It ain't even about that.
32:17If it's just family, it's just family.
32:19It ain't about that.
32:20But, nah, just, you know, since we're friends, you know?
32:24And...
32:26Sometimes it's cool to get ahead of the store.
32:30Coming up on Love & Marriage Huntsville.
32:32Everybody make rumors, and...
32:36You know what?
32:37I'm not finna do this.
32:39Y'all can do this.
32:41She usually does everything right.
32:44She's not doing anything wrong in this,
32:46because it's a rumor, right?
32:47How the hell is it a rumor?
32:49What is it?
32:51I don't want this, my child.
32:54What makes you think you're important?
32:57Leave me here to fantasize.
32:59Too far gone to be hypnotized.
33:04The things that never have to do.
33:08Okay.
33:15Hey, Lance.
33:15Yo, yo, yo.
33:16How you doing?
33:16I was trying to finish folding the stuff and push it out the way before you got here.
33:21How you doing?
33:22Fine.
33:23You almost caught me doing everything.
33:25So I received a call from Lance to finish up the conversation that we had at his home.
33:31And I am hopeful that we will find some common ground.
33:35How's it been going for you?
33:37It's been all right.
33:38I just want to come check in on you, see how you doing.
33:40I know the last time we met, you know, we kind of had a little bit of, you know, friction,
33:46it seemed like.
33:47I guess I've been taking your advice.
33:49Lowell Diesel, he's over here like, you who, Dad?
33:51Hey, I'm playing ball now.
33:53He was six.
33:54You know, so he's, uh, he's requiring a lot of time from me with him, you know, playing sports.
34:00And he's like, Dad, well, I need you to show me how to do this amount of push-ups so
34:03that I can be this strong.
34:05You know, you know, so he's, he's, he's requesting a lot of my time, too.
34:08So therefore, I appreciate you giving me that gem that I need to sit back and take the time from
34:14the kids.
34:15So that I can be more assertive and actually involved in my kids' day to day.
34:19Oh, so you are taking my advice, um, to try and be more organized as far as your kids.
34:29Choosing days that's designated to them, not your work.
34:33Because you do have to sit work aside.
34:35Yeah.
34:35When it comes to your kids.
34:37It, it, it doesn't matter.
34:38You have to.
34:39So during my conversation with Lance, I noticed he said he's going to spend more quality time with his kids.
34:46And you know what?
34:47For now, I'm pleased with that.
34:50But I noticed he didn't say anything about his dating.
34:54He kinda went around that.
34:57But I'm gonna give him some grace right now.
34:59And I'm just gonna let him have it.
35:02But we will circle back to this.
35:05Let me get the door open.
35:09Well, hello.
35:10Hey, beautiful.
35:11Look at you.
35:12No, look at you.
35:13You came through going like gone with the wind, girl.
35:17Oh, oh, oh, twirl, twirl.
35:20So listen, I'm here because Nell invited me.
35:23She wanted me to be the buffer between her and Lance.
35:26I think that she needs to establish some boundaries.
35:28What that looks like for her, I really don't know.
35:30But there's also this other non-rumor rumor about Twan and her daughter.
35:36So I'm like, here I am.
35:40You must know I was here.
35:41You gonna come looking like this.
35:43What's up, shawty?
35:44What's up, gangster?
35:45Sit right there with you.
35:46How you doing?
35:47Uh-uh.
35:47I was sitting there with you.
35:49Sit right there so I can see both of y'all.
35:51Are we in the high seat?
35:52Put y'all right there together so I can lay your eyes on you.
35:55But yeah, I was talking to Lance.
35:57Hey, how you doing?
35:58Oh, boy, here we go.
36:00There goes that chemistry.
36:01Just say hello.
36:02Yeah, just hi.
36:03Just...
36:04I enjoyed your birthday party.
36:05Did you enjoy your birthday?
36:06It was cool.
36:07I think it was good.
36:08I liked it.
36:09I do remember you having a conversation with his old lady.
36:13I got an old lady?
36:15You don't?
36:16Uh, they're not so exclusive anymore.
36:18Right.
36:20Well, quickly how things change.
36:23I did run into Twan and we were talking about rumors and...
36:27He brought up...
36:29People think him and Kayla are dating.
36:32Who the hell?
36:37Why you looking at me like that?
36:38Damn!
36:48That's some .
36:51What the is going on right now?
37:09It's like...
37:10That's my...
37:11Hell, I think it's my godson.
37:14What all did he say?
37:15He said it was a...
37:16Yeah, I want to know because...
37:18Let's get something understood.
37:19At my dinner table, at one point, Kiki always like...
37:24Flirt.
37:25Flirt with Twan or whatever.
37:26So I thought it was Kiki, but not Kayla.
37:31Not Kayla.
37:32That's it.
37:32Y'all worry about me and Kree.
37:34It's kind of refreshing to hear Destiny, you know, come in and just...
37:37Mic drop like that.
37:38So I appreciate it.
37:39Thanks, Destiny.
37:40I'm not sure how Kayla's gonna feel, but it feels good to have the, you know, spotlight off of me
37:47for once.
37:47Y'all have had several friends, always from being young.
37:51I've always had boys around the house, and that, and that, and everybody know that.
37:56Even with whoever you brought around, y'all's friends, the gentlemen or guys that have been around in the past,
38:04everybody looked after little Kayla.
38:06Kayla's usually the one everybody protect.
38:10Wait, whoa, whoa.
38:11I'm always protecting.
38:12I don't get the...
38:13We ain't doing that.
38:14You know what I mean.
38:14We're talking about when we were younger and, like, teenagers.
38:18We're all grown now.
38:19I'm still over everybody and still watch after what everybody does.
38:22But at the end of the day, she's grown, huh?
38:25I can only do and say so much.
38:28And right now, for one, it sounds like it's a rumor, right?
38:31Or it sounds like there's something that's undeveloped.
38:34So what, you met with Twan and asked him something?
38:36No, he brought it up.
38:38Looking back, me telling Nell and Lance about Twan telling me about the rumor of him and Kiki,
38:44I didn't think it was that serious.
38:48I just didn't think it was going to be that serious.
38:50I really didn't.
38:51If it looks like a kill, I would have been dead.
38:54Yeah.
38:56I'll go.
38:56I'll go to Kayla.
38:58That's what I'll do.
38:59What it sound like need to do.
39:00I sure didn't hear real.
39:01It was...
39:02Really, he said it was nothing.
39:04I am in a awkward, effed up, up situation.
39:09The Twan and Kayla rumor hits me like a gut punch.
39:15It really pisses me off because me and Kayla do not normally have secrets.
39:23This is getting crazy by the moment.
39:27Everybody in their rumors and...
39:31You know what?
39:32I'm not gonna do this.
39:33Y'all can do this.
39:36She usually does everything right.
39:38She's not doing anything wrong in this because it's a rumor, right?
39:42How the hell is it a rumor?
39:43What is it?
39:44I don't know.
39:45If I knew, I'd tell you.
39:46You her big brother.
39:46You supposed to know.
39:47If she doesn't disclose everything with me, she's...
39:50Trust me, she doesn't.
39:51He said nothing.
39:52He said it was nothing.
39:53It was nothing.
39:53You saying that, but then you talking about...
39:55You need to pay attention.
39:57It's always me and Chris.
39:58What the hell the that's supposed to be?
40:00This ain't the same thing I've always said.
40:02You're like, mama, you're like, Lance, you're doing this.
40:03Lance, you're doing that.
40:04You need to do this.
40:05You need...
40:05Chris, you're doing that.
40:06It's like, okay.
40:07So I'm just saying...
40:08It's only because she don't have no kids.
40:10Bottom line, you know, that's our daughter.
40:13And for something that needs to be said, I need to hear from my daughter.
40:21Next on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
40:23Destiny said something to the effect of...
40:26Twan says that he's dating Kayla.
40:30To clarify.
40:33Um...
40:34I am lost for words.
40:36I am too.
40:39Did you get that text from Trish about her party?
40:42Yeah, I got it.
40:43You going?
40:43Mm-hmm.
40:44Yeah, I like a theme party.
40:45It's gonna be fun.
40:47Ladies!
40:48Hi!
40:49If you are ready for some drag, make some motherfuckers!
40:54Do you feel like you can trust Kayla?
40:56Do you feel like he be telling the truth?
40:58Um...
40:58I feel like we can't...
40:59So did y'all sleep with somebody else?
41:00Is that the thing y'all did?
41:04Well...
41:04It's obvious that both of y'all have been hurt by each other.
41:07I get that.
41:08I'm not on the page of, like, everybody did something wrong.
41:11Do you feel like you owe her an opponent?
41:13No.
41:13No.
41:14Horrible friend.
41:15Horrible friend.
41:15Oh, you sitting right here...
41:17If you didn't, what?
41:19I didn't help me confront you.
41:20If you're sitting right here...
41:22Somebody left me through the doorway.
41:23Not one time did you give me a heads up and...
41:26All right.
41:26All this .
41:28Getaway...
41:29Bye.
41:30Nothing to ask for.
41:30Are you ready?
41:30Can't be a good place...
41:31Please don't check me out...
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