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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 11: The Art of Dragging
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00:01Previously on The Single Life,
00:03we have so much in common.
00:05We do, yeah.
00:05We converse very well.
00:07Yeah, we do.
00:07And it's been like that from the beginning, too.
00:10Wayne is so cute.
00:11This legit might be my person.
00:13We got to do this more often.
00:15I know, definitely.
00:16But do I really want to invest my time and money
00:19to go over to another country to have my heart broken again?
00:25We are in Hollywood.
00:27Oh my god, look who's here.
00:29Yeah.
00:30I can't wait to spend time with Natalie again.
00:32And I'm going to meet her daughter, Bella.
00:34I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
00:36I didn't expect that.
00:37Well, I'm surprised you're even here, to be honest.
00:40Yeah.
00:40I know how close Natalie and Bella are.
00:43And if there's going to be any chance for our relationship
00:46to work, I'm going to have to win Bella over.
00:51So first of all, Cole wants to apologize.
00:54Maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
00:58you could work this out.
01:00I'm not going to be one of his options in his love triangle.
01:03It's like you had me, and you lost me.
01:07I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom,
01:09but I need to be honest with her.
01:11There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
01:14I'm done.
01:16Like...
01:20Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
01:21Are you serious?
01:22You said that you don't want to dance.
01:24If this is how he's acting in the middle of a freaking dance class,
01:28we might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
01:31I'm just, like, really done with this .
01:48Good morning, beautiful.
01:49Good morning.
01:50How are you feeling this morning?
01:52I'm feeling good.
01:53I'm feeling good, too.
01:55That was one wild, crazy night.
02:07That was pure madness.
02:09How'd you like your lap dance?
02:10Ah, the lap dance was amazing.
02:13Good, I'm glad.
02:15Last night, Natalie took me to a strip club in LA,
02:18and we had an amazing, terrific time.
02:21Both of us were, like, hot and sweaty by the time it was done,
02:25and we were horny and excited to, like, have some real fun.
02:29I unleashed the beast last night.
02:32You were a wild and crazy man.
02:34The sex was so much better than the first time.
02:38Seeing this freaky side of Natalie took all my anxiety away.
02:42I had no problem throwing my hat off and getting down.
02:47So, yeah.
02:51So, what are we going to do today?
02:53Plan for the day is to meet my family.
02:55Do you know where we're going or anything?
02:57It's a surprise.
02:58But we need to get going because the reservation's coming up soon.
03:01Okay.
03:01Let's hit the road.
03:03Today, Gino and I are meeting up with my daughter, Bella,
03:06and my brother, Nick.
03:08Do we have a car picking us up?
03:10We're walking.
03:11Are we walking?
03:12We're walking.
03:13Oh, my goodness gracious.
03:15Bella is skeptical about Gino because what's happened in the past,
03:19but I'm hoping everybody can have fun,
03:22just let their guard down,
03:23because my feelings for Gino are only getting stronger,
03:26and I really need for everybody in my family,
03:30especially Bella, to be on board.
03:32Nick!
03:34Nick!
03:35Oh, hi.
03:36Hey.
03:36How you doing?
03:37How are you?
03:39I'm doing good.
03:40Oh, nice to meet you.
03:41This is Gino.
03:42How are you doing? Nice meeting you, finally.
03:44Nice meeting you, too.
03:45This is my twin brother.
03:47Twin brother.
03:47Yeah.
03:48She's a pretty twin.
03:49Yeah.
03:51No, I think you're the pretty twin.
03:53I can see the resemblance.
03:56The first time Natalie dating Gino, everything went to crap.
04:00Everything was a nightmare.
04:01She was calling me, crying all the time,
04:03and, I mean, he broke her heart.
04:06So when Natalie told me she was dating Gino again,
04:08I thought she was crazy.
04:10This is going to be a whole huge drama mess,
04:13like every other relationship she's been through.
04:16We're going to see some entertainments.
04:19Have you ever seen a drag show before?
04:20Drag show?
04:21I have, I've heard of them, but I've never seen one.
04:24You're in Bird Tree.
04:25Oh, yeah.
04:25Is Bella there already?
04:27Have you talked to her?
04:27I haven't seen Isabella since yesterday.
04:30You haven't talked to her?
04:31Not since yesterday.
04:34I'm just going to text her real quick.
04:38Yesterday, when Bella dropped her mom off at the hotel,
04:41she was really cold to me and had an attitude.
04:46I can't help but wonder if the reason is because of me.
04:50OK.
04:52I texted.
04:53All right.
04:54So we're good to go?
04:55Yeah, let's go.
04:56We're going to miss the show.
04:57OK.
04:58Stop worrying.
04:59I'm not.
04:59Yeah, don't worry about anything.
05:01It's not good for that pretty face.
05:03Stop.
05:06I'm the girl you see on the street.
05:08Drove low boy down to my feet.
05:10I like when you're under me.
05:12What?
05:15How's everybody doing today?
05:17Woo!
05:19Are you all ready to get started?
05:21Yeah!
05:21Yeah!
05:22Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the stage, Penny Ridge Rapper!
05:27Woo!
05:28Woo!
05:29Woo!
05:29Woo!
05:30Woo!
05:31I have never been to a drag queen show before.
05:35Being here in person is freaking amazing.
05:39Woo!
05:46Woo!
05:51Woo!
05:51Woo!
05:52Woo!
05:52Woo!
05:53Woo!
05:53Woo!
05:53Woo!
05:54Woo!
05:54Woo!
05:56Woo!
05:59even out of my comfort zone.
06:01She can do that to me.
06:11Yeah!
06:12You all had a good time with us today?
06:14Yeah!
06:14Oh, yeah!
06:15Have a great day, everybody.
06:17I'm sure you're out.
06:22After the show, it really clears out, doesn't it?
06:24Yeah.
06:25Man, I wish Bella was here.
06:26She's not responding to me.
06:28Really?
06:29That's weird.
06:32She's not coming.
06:33She texted you?
06:35Yeah.
06:39Bella arranged the whole thing to come here.
06:41And at the last minute, something just went off.
06:44She just doesn't like Gino.
06:46She doesn't trust him.
06:47All she wants to make sure is her mom is happy.
06:50And she doesn't think Gino is that person.
06:54I'm sad myself because I wanted to get to know her a little bit.
06:57It seems like she doesn't want to meet you.
06:59You think so?
07:01She's told me she does not like him.
07:03And that's the reason why she'd not come.
07:05I mean, you're still married.
07:07Your ex attacks Natalie.
07:09That's ridiculous.
07:09But we came to where she lives so that she could see we've gone past it.
07:15But she hasn't gone past it.
07:17That's the problem.
07:18We don't have to deal with Jasmine anymore.
07:20So take Jasmine out of the equation and everything has been progressing really good.
07:25Like, we are having fun together.
07:27So have you filed for divorce?
07:32Um...
07:37Bella has a lot of anger towards me and Nick, he's kind of questioning if I'm the right person
07:45for her as well.
07:45So everything I did to rebuild my relationship with Natalie is falling apart.
07:52I mean, I don't blame Isabella.
07:54You're still married to another woman and she doesn't want to see her mother hurt.
07:59I get it.
08:00She wants to look out for me and I love her and I appreciate that.
08:04But I still would like her to give him a chance.
08:08You're just going to have to show her it's not like the other relationships that you had in the past.
08:15She comes first.
08:17She comes first.
08:19Bella has never seen me happy with a man in my entire life.
08:23They are toxic.
08:25They're liars.
08:26They're not honest.
08:27I had an ex that was a serial cheater and I... and I knew it.
08:33So when it comes to Gino, Bella has her guard up.
08:36I think she is very protective and very leery of his intentions.
08:42You're going to have to win her over.
08:44She's the hard one to win over.
08:46I, I, I, yeah, and I, and I...
08:47And don't piss her off.
08:52Trying to find out what it is that makes it always feel like this.
08:57I'm so tired.
08:59Six, seven, walk her through.
09:01We go one, two, we go forward, tap.
09:05What the ?
09:06I just don't freaking get it.
09:22I asked you if you want to dance and you said no, so then I told you I'm going to
09:27dance with somebody else and I did and then you interrupted me in the middle of the dance.
09:30So like I wanted you to have fun and I wanted you to come, come into my world.
09:34I was having fun.
09:34I was.
09:35I enjoyed the dancing.
09:36I was having fun.
09:37So what's the problem then?
09:38I mean we just talked about coming to his class, learning how to dance and social was out of nowhere
09:45and all of a sudden we talk about that and then you storm off, find some Vin Diesel guy or
09:51actually guy looks just like your ex and you're just having a good time.
09:54Are you kidding me?
09:55So here's the thing.
09:56You're going to Ibiza in a couple of weeks.
09:58There's going to be many socials in Ibiza too.
10:00And there's going to be many socials in Croatia as well.
10:03So you think I'm going to go cheat on you with a guy in Ibiza?
10:06What I'm trying to say is like if you're going to dance with random guys, what's going to happen?
10:10And they want to have a good time.
10:12They want to have a good time.
10:14So because they want to have a good time, I need to be punished and I'm going to be.
10:18Punished?
10:19Yeah.
10:19So you're trying to accuse me of something that I haven't even done yet.
10:22So you have freedom of reigns to do whatever you want and dance with whatever you want.
10:24I just don't understand, Tony.
10:26Because it's like a vacation.
10:27Listen, I danced with a guy after a dance class after you said that you don't want to dance.
10:31And now you're accusing me of dancing with random guys in Ibiza and like potentially cheating on you.
10:36You just said you would.
10:36Well, like you're literally putting words in my mouth.
10:40I never said that.
10:44He knew I was a dancer when we started dating.
10:48He knew I was a dancer when we were friends.
10:50I feel like at this point in our relationship, he should trust me.
10:54He should know who I am.
10:56He should know what I stand for.
10:57He should know that I would not do anything to disrespect him or put our relationship in jeopardy.
11:03Tony is projecting his own insecurity on me.
11:07And I'm really hurt by that.
11:09I don't think I deserve it.
11:11You don't see a problem here at all.
11:13You're not even looking at it from my perspective at all.
11:15What is the freaking problem?
11:17I think the problem is actually us.
11:19Because you look at it as, hey, this is my everyday life.
11:22This is what I've been doing for years.
11:23This is my passion.
11:24I see it as this is not appropriate for a new relationship.
11:27That's the problem.
11:28So you're stopping me from being who I am because I'm in a relationship with you.
11:32No, I think there's compromise.
11:33There's compromise.
11:34We're not having it.
11:35We're not having compromise.
11:36This is unbelievable, Tony.
11:37No, it's not.
11:37This is really...
11:38It's not.
11:39It's compromise.
11:40You ruined everything.
11:41So I hope you're happy.
11:43I need to go find my freaking phone.
11:45I'm taking an Uber home and this is it.
11:46I'm done with this .
11:51She's been single for a very long time.
11:54She still does things her own way.
11:56I'm concerned that sometimes Vanya may not look at the big picture of when you're in a relationship.
12:00It's about compromise.
12:02And to me, dance is very sensual.
12:04Dance has a lot of feelings attached.
12:06And, you know, it's very easy to fall in love with your dance partner.
12:10You just gonna storm off again?
12:11No, I just...
12:12I'm done, Tony.
12:13I'm calling an Uber and I'm going home.
12:15And I brought up concerns about her traveling and dancing with other guys in other clubs.
12:19And she completely said, hey, that's my prerogative is to have fun.
12:23Hey, by the way, Tony, just trust me.
12:25When I can't even trust her when I'm watching her and with her.
12:29So that's it.
12:29That's it.
12:30She's gonna storm out again.
12:31Yeah.
12:32Really?
12:33Yeah.
12:33There's no compromise.
12:34There's no resolution to anything now, is there?
12:36What compromise is there?
12:38Really?
12:38You're accusing me of being somebody who has nefarious intentions in mind.
12:43And I don't.
12:43She said you can do whatever you want.
12:44You said I can have fun.
12:45I can dance with a burger.
12:46And that's...
12:46What's...
12:48What do you want me to do?
12:49Then just stay in my hotel room the whole time I'm there?
12:51Maybe you should enjoy.
12:53Enjoying Visa.
12:54You know?
12:55We'll see how it works out when you get back then.
12:59Is...
12:59What?
13:00Now you're threatening me.
13:01What?
13:01What?
13:05You obviously don't trust me and I'm going home.
13:20Seriously.
13:24this guy is acting like a complete control freak trying to tell me how to live my life
13:29it is unacceptable i'm a grown woman i can make my own decisions i'm not going to be told what
13:35i can and cannot do i'm capable of having a dance with someone and not have sex with them
13:44i mean what else do you think is going to happen here this is really making me worried about our
13:50relationship going forward is because if this is how tony is acting when we're together i cannot even
13:56imagine what he's going to be like once we're apart for two weeks it's really scaring me
14:17mama didn't raise no food she let me walk in my own shoes so double down and let me lose
14:23there ain't no
14:24mountain i can't move
14:36now what do we need these for what do you want avocado we're on a diet okay put them off
14:42put them back huh hey we're on a diet yeah
14:58i'm gonna get a cabbage we're gonna make some cabbage rolls so i talked to colt oh my gosh
15:06where is he at no he's in brazil he went to brazil yeah to see the other woman yeah
15:13for the last month i haven't been in touch with colt because i needed a break from that dumpster fire
15:19of a relationship but he called me out of the blue this morning from brazil did he go back to
15:26canada
15:27when no i guess he i guess he went straight from florida to brazil oh my gosh seriously yeah i
15:35thought
15:35colt went to canada to live with his mom i found out the whole time he's been in brazil with
15:41diana
15:42the woman he's been sending videos to okay they're saying the ligaments in his knee need to be replaced
15:50so he has to have another surgery but he said he's found a doctor here that will accept the
15:55insurance and stuff here yeah in orlando so i guess he's coming back he's not staying at our place
16:02no no okay oh my gosh one thing we've learned from this experience is there's no stranger's gonna
16:11stay at our house again ever it's not gonna happen it's not gonna happen is he still in the wheelchair
16:17or is he yeah well i guess the doorways are small there so he's been using crutches because the
16:22wheelchair and walker are too big how's he gonna get around yeah he can't drive no i said i'd go
16:28pick
16:28him up and like help him get situated in the hotel picking up colt from the airport is going to
16:34be
16:34torture you know we had a really strong connection there's still some type of bond which has made me
16:41really dumb but i feel responsible for him does he want to try to get back with you i don't
16:48know what
16:48he wants don't don't let it happen okay he's not going to be faithful yeah yeah no i think he's
16:57gonna
16:57lie and keep lying and lying i don't trust him so it's like how can i be with somebody i
17:02don't trust
17:03when he you keep lying about stuff is you're not sincere yeah i don't see any sincerity at all to
17:13this no respect i mean leave our daughter alone i mean bottom line well if it was me
17:22i would be over with it but it's you i think you're strong enough but when he
17:30cast that fishing line and reel you back in and you know he's gonna try
17:36don't revolve your life around him no no because he could care less about you he's just using you
17:42once again i feel he can't use me because i'm offering help i'm offering to do this for him i
17:48want to do this for him so it's like he's not using me it's like he's not playing me he's
17:52playing himself
17:53but then how far are you gonna take this yeah yeah i just want to you know get him from
17:58the airport
17:58to the hotel right okay set boundaries like all the crying and stuff i've been doing i think it's
18:04just like feeling sorry for him like he might be permanently disabled so i cry more about his leg
18:10than about him dating other women i know my parents are worried about colt breaking my heart again they
18:18see that he still affects me and like the truth is i don't know what i'm gonna feel when i
18:24see him
18:25we had such a deep intense connection and you can't just turn that off i feel like colt has some
18:33type of crazy power over me and i don't really trust myself with him life is way too short to
18:39be
18:39putting up with that fill your life with happy things i will you want the donuts
18:45no i think i need the wine the wine
18:59yay stockings here you can hang your own stocking up son all right boom
19:08okay there we go look at that look at that you already have stuff in your stocking is it candy
19:15oh
19:15yeah i gotta get one okay this isn't good it's been there since last year
19:35here we go grand illuminate
19:40it's actually looks pretty good do you remember this monkey grandma bought this for you so i'll let
19:44you hang that just hang it neck near her picture yeah it's cute huh christmas is in a few weeks
19:52and i'm
19:52really really excited because it's my favorite holiday everything's all sparkly everybody's
19:57just nice and it brings back so many happy memories of my mom and my sister and previous
20:02holidays when i do stuff like this it reminds me of grandma because this was like our thing and my
20:07grandma it was like our thing was to like decorate you know so it's going to be our thing
20:11now i think so and i think we should include larry in this as well because he doesn't know any
20:15of our stuff doesn't know anything you want to call him yeah christmas is all about family
20:21and this christmas is even more special because my family just got bigger
20:26my relationship with my son that i placed for adoption is just getting better and better
20:31we video chat all the time and it's really become a special part of my life
20:45yeah i'm really excited to talk to him today and show him my christmas decorations but i also have
20:51some news to share with both him and jamal so we thought we would call you and get you in
20:56the christmas
20:56spirit with us yeah for sure so jamal's gonna carry you around let's go for a tour all right look
21:02so this is my little tree i like bling you know i'm all about the glitter i love the sequins
21:07and stuff
21:08so this is instead of doing a star i do a top hat isn't it cute isn't it cute
21:15it's so cute and then i do stockings am i gonna get a stocking
21:21yes you're gonna get a stocking of course you are there was never a holiday a birthday or any other
21:29day in 35 years that i did not think about larry or my daughter i always wondered like what kind
21:36of
21:36life they had how they celebrated their birthdays how they celebrated their holidays
21:42how's my hair a little flat
21:47i'm so grateful to larry that he gave me the chance to make up for lost time
21:53i'm really glad that you can enjoy some of this with us yeah for sure so yeah and i'm glad
21:59that we
21:59have communication especially now i think the communication is a lot better now than i've been
22:04i agree i'm free so speaking of that i told you guys about the guy that i've been talking to
22:10in england and i'm going he invited me to come so i'm gonna go and meet him i mean everybody
22:18deserves
22:18a chance at love so i don't see why you wouldn't take it just don't get your hopes up no
22:24you know
22:24what i'm saying a little bit your hopes too high it's a little bit of hope no not let's just
22:28stay
22:28neutral i mean just go over there with an open mind yeah i'm saying i like him but i'm not
22:33i'm not
22:33doing what i did with usman it's a totally different thing i've learned from my mistakes
22:39don't look so skeptical no i am i can't help but naturally be concerned when you take these trips
22:46for men that you haven't met you're going to fly by yourself you're going to be there by yourself
22:51i remember even when you go to nigeria by yourself you would call me and be like i wish you
22:55were here
22:56why don't you go with me what are you doing no why is that not too much why don't you
23:01go you don't
23:02have to meet him like the first day but you should maybe you should go with me go jamal yeah
23:06you should
23:08go you should definitely go i do wish i would have went to nigeria sooner me too because maybe i
23:13could
23:13help end that one faster the men you've met they're so nice to you in the beginning and they
23:18they trap you because you get stuck and you fall fast so luckily when i'm there maybe i'm able to
23:24talk to her and be like just remember to not give too much in the beginning because you do that
23:29all
23:29the time yeah in the past once my mom really starts to like a guy she starts believing whatever they
23:36say
23:38so i really do hope wayne is this nice guy that he's been telling her that he is because my
23:44mom's
23:44heart cannot take much more i feel like now everybody everybody's in place i'm working on
23:49myself it's time for me to go and find love well i think you've had a lot off your shoulders
23:54yeah
23:55like telling you about your sister and everything telling me about him and telling
24:00yeah him about her yeah speaking of um sister i reached out to the adoption agency like we all
24:07agreed upon to try to find her and well they sent me a letter her adopted mom had wrote me
24:12a letter
24:12so i have the letter it's like 10 pages long and i was waiting for an opportunity to just kind
24:18of bring
24:18it out i want to see it all right when the adoption agency told me they had a letter about
24:24my daughter
24:25from when she was six years old i was stunned this was dated november 26 98
24:34okay it says to the birth mother of our beloved daughter r
24:40she came home with us in january of 93 she was then and has continued to this day to be
24:45a healthy and
24:46happy child
24:49i can't read this i can't read this yeah i just i want something this is crazy
25:13i haven't seen tony since our dance class a few nights ago and obviously things ended on
25:19a really bad note i'm really nervous it's not an easy thing to like have that huge blow up and
25:25then
25:26off i go for half a month
25:45tony is coming over to take me to the airport and it's awful because i'm leaving for two and a
25:51half
25:52week vacation to europe this is not how i wanted to leave things between us
26:00hey
26:08i uh i made us a little snack so have a seat i'll go grab it
26:14having seen tony and his reaction during the dance class it has me worried that this kind
26:21of jealousy and control is only going to get amplified while i'm gone and it could be the end of
26:27us
26:32so how are you feeling i mean
26:37i know you're leaving soon so i thought we at least talk about you know what's going on and
26:44i just don't want this tension anymore so what's what's what's on your mind
26:51i do trust you but the words escalated the emotions escalated and all of a sudden you left and i'm
26:57like wow are we really just throwing it away
27:03yeah i i agree that that wasn't the best thing to do i shouldn't have
27:08done what i did like stormed out but i you know i was i was very upset
27:14but at the end of the day you you mean the world to me and i want to make sure
27:19that when i'm away
27:20that you feel comfortable that you're not you know thinking what am i doing what's going on am i
27:26putting our relationship in jeopardy because i would never do anything like that
27:34thank you i mean that means a lot to me i'm not trying to say hey listen to either you
27:39dance or
27:40it's me i just really want to make sure that we're on the same page going forward and you know
27:45this
27:46upcoming trip i just don't want it to be about us not talking a lack of communication or if there's
27:52tension i just don't want it to just linger i agree we're not going to go sleep angry we're not
27:59going
27:59to let the day end with us not having a resolution okay i like that okay i'm just going to
28:06put this
28:06in the kitchen and then we can skedaddle we both took responsibility for what we did wrong and feeling
28:15a little bit more secure one i want to help grab your luggage okay okay thank you all right but
28:21at the
28:21same time our relationship is just starting to take the next step we even started saying i love you to
28:27each other and now i'm leaving immediately for two and a half weeks i mean this gives us no time
28:33together to hug and kiss and just be good
28:39oh sucks
28:53baby i'm gonna miss you so much oh my god i can't believe we're here
28:57we're ready
29:03we're gonna try as much as possible let's keep in touch
29:06all right all right you want to look pretty
29:10welcome baby
29:15next trip is gonna be a together trip absolutely okay okay i miss you already
29:21miss you too baby all right bye bye
29:28i feel like our relationship is so new that there there is worry the last few weeks we've had a
29:34great
29:35foundation and i really hope this trip is not going to test it to the point where she's going to
29:39and i realize that the single life is better for her i would be in shambles if i lost van
29:44you it would
29:45break me apart there are so many variables that could go wrong on this trip and i hope we can
29:53get
29:53through it but i would be lying if i said i wasn't concerned because if he has another meltdown while
29:59i'm away i don't think our relationship can survive
30:23to the birth mother of our beloved daughter r
30:29i can't read this this is crazy
30:42this letter was not delivered to me almost 30 years ago because i moved around a lot i was in
30:47the
30:47military so i just never received it it's very emotional for me because it's like me getting to
30:54know her it means so much to get a glimpse into what her life was like growing up i got
31:01it
31:03her developmental skills progressed normally except in one area where she
31:08proved exceptionally gifted she's very verbal i guess she talks like her mama right
31:13our vocabulary is tremendous her thoughts and desires at a level beyond her six years
31:20we hope to keep her in private school as long as we can afford it
31:24ours favorite food is pasta pasta pasta that's her italian side she is also a great vegetable eater
31:30we have a large vegetable garden she loves to go out and pick vegetables for dinner
31:36she had a pretty nice life wait a minute
31:40i think reading this letter and finding out these things about her like now we know her name starts
31:45with an r we know she had a vegetable garden we know she went to private school
31:53sorry
31:58and it's like a bittersweet feeling right like it makes her more real to me and it just makes
32:04me so happy to know that she was raised so well we are indeed thankful for having her in our
32:11lives
32:12and love her very much with best best wishes to you and yours
32:17it's really intense um i'm really glad that she's had such a good life like that's that's why i did
32:24what
32:25i did you know because i know i couldn't provide that for you or her like i can't say like
32:30i regret what
32:31i've done i can't say that now i can say that the way i handled it was up but i
32:35can't like i can't
32:37like feel bad for what i did you know yeah and that's what i keep trying to tell you since
32:43you know day
32:44one so i'm glad you finally kind of you know seeing it for yourself too yeah
32:51the decision to place my children up for adoption was the most heartbreaking decisions i've ever had to
32:57make in my whole life now 34 years later i can honestly say i'm at peace i feel like i
33:08did what
33:09was best for my children and really at the end of the day that's all that matters to me
33:16all we can do now is just wait yeah we'll see what happens i do have a feeling we're going
33:23to find her
33:24i hope like i'm very positive about that i hope so
33:32i'm gonna try calling her hello hi bella i just wanted to know why you didn't show up today
33:40i can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself by associating you know with such a troll like gino
33:47whoa i care about gino but this is a lot bigger than my daughter not wanting to meet a guy
33:53that i'm dating
34:10oh you want to sit down yeah for a moment enjoy this beautiful fire pit oh they got blankets
34:19it this is kind of like camping or something i don't know we just don't have a tent
34:36that was rough yeah i'm a little bit i don't know concerned now because nick is saying that
34:45she she doesn't like me well she doesn't know you one of the big reasons that i came to la
34:54was to get to know natalie's daughter bella but when it was time to hang out
35:00she never showed apparently bella's mad at me because jasmine attacked natalie last year
35:08you definitely want to have approval of the family members or you know the chances of this
35:14relationship working is not very good but i'm going to try calling her
35:21house
35:26hello hi bella hi it's mom how are you i'm fine
35:33um i just wanted to know why you didn't show up today
35:39I just want to say what I have to say, honestly, and then you can do whatever you want.
35:45I love you, but I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself by associating, you know, with such a
35:51troll like Gino.
35:54I don't see why you feel the need to extend any grace to him at all after how badly he
35:58disrespected you in Michigan.
36:01You're a grown woman. You can make your own decisions, but at this point, don't expect me to support it
36:05anymore.
36:06Well, and I just think you're just too beautiful and smart and successful to be with such a spineless loser
36:14like him.
36:15And I wish you saw that, too. I love you, but that's just really all I want you to hear
36:20from me.
36:25Whoa.
36:29She does not like me.
36:36Are you okay?
36:37No.
36:41I want to throw up.
36:44That was a lot of nasty words that Bella was saying about me.
36:48How bad of a person I am, what trash I am, loser, whatever.
36:55She didn't even give me a chance.
36:56She didn't even show up and meet me.
36:58I mean, come on.
37:00Don't judge me based on, you know, what you hear for one incident.
37:06It's not fair.
37:09After all of that, you know, how do you feel about me, I guess?
37:17My feelings for you haven't changed.
37:22However, I would like her blessing.
37:27Okay, so, okay.
37:31So basically our relationship is kind of like on hold until you get her blessing.
37:38She's my number one.
37:39She's my number one priority.
37:43So what happens if she doesn't change her mind and she doesn't give her blessing, what would happen, you think,
37:51between us?
37:52I need to talk to her.
37:54And then as soon as I get the answer, I'll talk to you.
37:58Are you going to stay over at my place tonight?
38:02I'm going to try to go over to see Bella.
38:05Okay.
38:05It's important to me that we don't end the conversation on a negative note.
38:11Okay.
38:13That's fair.
38:15I get it.
38:18I care about Gino, but this is a lot bigger than my daughter not wanting to meet a guy that
38:24I'm dating.
38:25All right.
38:26Let's go.
38:28Let's go.
38:30Bella doesn't trust my judgment.
38:33She's never seen me in a healthy relationship.
38:36All right.
38:36Well, let me get packing.
38:39And it makes me feel like a failure as a parent, that I was not able to show my daughter
38:45that I am capable of being in a good relationship.
38:51And I just want to go, and I want to comfort her, and I want to let her know that
38:55I'm okay and safe.
38:56She's my priority.
38:59Okay.
38:59Well, I better get going.
39:00Well, I had a really good time.
39:03Me too.
39:05So.
39:07The last two days have been awesome.
39:11Aw.
39:12Yeah.
39:12I know.
39:13They have.
39:13Yeah.
39:14They've been awesome.
39:16The hardest thing is, what if my daughter never accepts him?
39:21Where would this relationship go?
39:23And I think he knows the answer.
39:27That's something I really don't want to deal with at this moment.
39:32I don't want to talk about this anymore.
39:35We'll have to see each other again soon.
39:38Yeah.
39:39Bye.
39:40Take care.
39:44I thought that this trip would bring Natalie and I closer together.
39:48I could use a drink.
39:50I imagine hitting it off with Bella and then in the future, potentially becoming a father
39:57figure to her.
39:59I've always wanted to be a dad.
40:01So her daughter not wanting anything to do with me, it's impacting the dreams that I had for
40:08my life.
40:10And it makes me really sad.
40:12But these eyes won't cry, no fear, I'll cry.
40:23God.
40:29Next time on The Single Life.
40:32Let me touch it.
40:34Oh, wow.
40:35Okay.
40:37Going into this day, I don't really have any expectations.
40:40He's cute, he's a good body, he seems fun.
40:42Like, this is literally one of the reasons I came to DR, to just have fun.
40:52Whoa, is that the Queen of England?
40:54Hello, peasants.
40:55Hello.
40:57After talking to Wayne for the past three months, I am in jolly old England to meet him in person.
41:03Oh, wow.
41:05I'm really hopeful that by the end of this trip, I do go home in a relationship.
41:09Now, I have to ask you.
41:11Okay.
41:11Are you dating now, here?
41:16Hey, Natalie, what's up?
41:19After Natalie's daughter disapproved of our relationship, I don't know where things stand.
41:25I was hoping that at some point you would talk to Bella to see how she feels.
41:30Because I know at the time you were saying, if she didn't like me, that, you know, we wouldn't have
41:36a relationship.
41:38Has that changed at all with her?
41:43I mean...
41:46Hey, Courtney!
41:49I'm going through a lot of internal conflict right now.
41:52I still care about Colt, and I still have love for him.
41:56Really, it is nice to see you.
41:57But then my mind's like, this lying, cheating, manipulative son of a bitch.
42:02Did you sleep with Diana?
42:04Can't say I didn't do that.
42:07Well, I'm glad you're d*** for her.
42:12Here we go, Ibiza bitches!
42:14I'm trying to go with Sanela, listen to some music, and then you send me a message, and another, and
42:19another.
42:19You're ruining my night, but on top of it, I'm there with my cousin, and I'm embarrassed in front of
42:24her all over again.
42:26I need to understand what caused you to do what you did.
42:29If Tony wants to be with me, he's going to have to change fast.
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