00:04When you decided to leave,
00:09did you finish your relationship now?
00:12Was there a phase where you were talking to each other?
00:15I didn't really finish it.
00:19But you came to the time that I had a smile.
00:24I had a smile.
00:26Yeah, it was like on and off sometimes.
00:29It was like on and off sometimes.
00:32I was always here.
00:34But she's always like,
00:37She's a little bit.
00:39Ah, okay. I get it.
00:41It's a smile because it's a feeling.
00:44It's a smile because it was the best choice
00:47while moving forward.
00:50Because, right?
00:50Yes.
00:51So, when we're going to lose,
00:53let's give one another space.
00:56Like that.
00:56Yes.
00:56Do you have any resentment?
01:00No.
01:01Or me, no?
01:02I don't even know.
01:04It's like moving on.
01:06Like we just had to grow as individuals?
01:09Yes.
01:10Like that.
01:12You two.
01:13For example, like last Holy Week.
01:15It's amazing.
01:16You know, in some of my interviews,
01:17I would refer to, you know, the videos, the photos I saw.
01:22You'll be together.
01:23And then you had this vacation with your daughter.
01:27How fun was that?
01:28And how did you come back to becoming a friend?
01:35How did it happen?
01:37How did it happen?
01:38Communication.
01:39Communication.
01:40And yun nga.
01:42Nabanggit ko din before na, last year kasi ang dami ko din realization.
01:47Minsan, magsasorry ako kay Katie na ang dami kong pagkukulang sa kanya.
01:52Ganyan kasi lagi ko inuuna yung trabaho.
01:56So, parang tapos natatakot ako na paano pag nawala ako.
02:00Ganyan.
02:00Andami kong mga gano'n.
02:02Existential questions.
02:04Oh, last year sobrang sensitive ko.
02:06Parang gano'n.
02:06Ay.
02:08So, ayan.
02:09So, parang narealize ko na.
02:10Sige na nga.
02:11Kung ano man yung mga parang inis ko.
02:13Parang feeling ko kulang na ginagawa ni Chris.
02:16Okay na nga.
02:17Parang okay na.
02:19Parang ako rin naman nakasama ni Katie mismo.
02:21May mga pagkukulang din.
02:23So, parang sige.
02:25Parang okay na.
02:26Magtulungan na lang tayo for Katie.
02:28Kasi before, pupuntahan niya kung kailan niya gusto pupuntahan.
02:31Sige, gano'n.
02:32Okay.
02:32Pero hindi ako sasala sa kanila.
02:33As in nod lang kami.
02:34Puna siya sa bahay.
02:36Gano'n lang ako.
02:37Maakit ako sa taas.
02:37Ganon dito po.
02:38Hindi ko siya ka nakausap.
02:39Hindi ko siya ka nakausap.
02:41Hindi ko siya ka nakausap.
02:43Or minsan pagdating ko.
02:45Akit.
02:46Akit siya baga ako dumating.
02:48Hindi ko siya ka nakausap.
02:49As in, itong 2026 na kami nagusap.
02:52January.
02:53Pero yung realization mo nga yun na, dali, maikli lang ang buhay.
02:57Yes.
02:57Anong pinagalingan nun?
02:58Hindi ko alam dito boy.
03:00Basta last year sobrang parang ang sensitive ko.
03:02Ang dami kong natatakot ako na pag tumanda ko, paano si Katie, ganyan.
03:08So parang sa akin, sige eh, magtulungan na tayo para at least mas maraming magbabantay kay Katie.
03:13Maraming titingin kay Katie.
03:17And you got that.
03:18And for that, I'm super grateful.
03:20Because like to add to what she said last year, she gave me like the hardest year ever.
03:26We were not in good terms last year.
03:29So this year, it was it was her birthday that changed everything.
03:33She invited me like we were not in good terms.
03:35And then she invited me to her birthday.
03:38So of course, when she invited me, I was like, should I go?
03:41I was like, no, I'm not gonna go.
03:43She was like being so mean to me.
03:45This is not.
03:45So I just realized, you know what?
03:48It's her birthday.
03:48I'm gonna show up.
03:50I'm gonna show up.
03:51She invited me.
03:52It probably took her to swallow a little pride just to invite me.
03:56So I'll go.
03:58And I'm very thankful that I went because I feel like my presence at her birthday is when everything changed.
04:03What was the time, Chris?
04:05In your words, she gave you hell.
04:10Because that's right, Tita Boy.
04:12Of course, as I, Katie's Nanay, you know that?
04:15I would say that I would say that I would say to you like that.
04:18But it's okay.
04:21It's okay.
04:22It's okay.
04:24It's okay.
04:24It's okay.
04:24Let's do it for Katie.
04:26Of course, I also have a lot of people who have to say that.
04:29Ito ginagawa niya.
04:30Kasi tatay siya eh, ganun.
04:32Andami kong ganun.
04:32Pero huwag naisara na natin ito.
04:34Tama na.
04:35Maging magkaibigan na lang tayo na.
04:37Okay na.
04:38Okay.
04:38Kaya ganun ako kay Chris.
04:39Hindi ako bastos.
04:41Marami din talaga.
04:42Oo.
04:42And ayoko na rin ilabas.
04:44Kung ano, wala naman po.
04:45Basta syempre, diba?
04:46Parang kung yun, ikaw sabihin mo rin.
04:48Dapat ganito ka, ganito ka.
04:49Syempre may mga ganun po tayo, Tita Boy.
04:50Right.
04:51Oo.
04:52So yun.
04:52So parang okay, sige na, okay na to.
04:54Meron na pag-usapan niyo ito, na kayo lang.
04:56Tito Boy, alam mo yung ano nga dito, kung ano man yung napapanood ng mga tao.
05:00Sobrang authentic kasi talagang, first time nila naririnig.
05:03First time din namin nag-uusap.
05:06Hindi kami nag-uusap ever.
05:08Okay.
05:08Kaya kung natutuwa sila, wala kami, hindi kami nag-uusap.
05:12Hindi kami scripted.
05:13It's not scripted.
05:14It's just roll.
05:15Everything's just rolling.
05:16It's just, it's like reality.
05:18Yes.
05:18It is reality.
05:19It's super.
05:20Patulad niyo yun.
05:21Oo.
05:22Oo.
05:22Pero ng mga panahon na nahihirapan ka, you didn't stop seeing your daughter.
05:28Uhm, I saw her whenever I could.
05:32So there was some times when, especially like last year, and I understand where she's coming
05:37from.
05:37I really do.
05:38Thank you for saying that.
05:39I really understand.
05:40Kasi yun ang dugtong doon sa iyong linya.
05:43I really understand where she's coming from.
05:44And, you know, I, over the years, I also go, going back to the self-reflection, I have
05:52to be, I wanted to be a better human being.
05:54I wanted to be a better father.
05:55I wanted to be a better dad.
05:57So, you have to show up.
06:00Yeah.
06:00You have to show up.
06:01Because you can only be better as a human being and as a father if you actually show
06:05up and be present in the life of.
06:08It's hard to do.
06:09Right on.
06:22See you next time, everybody.
06:23We'll be good.
06:23Bye.
06:32Bye.
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