90 Day The Single Life S05E01 (2026)

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00:00:00Vanya, can I just...

00:00:02No, just don't talk to me.

00:00:03My last two years have just been

00:00:06one dating disaster after another.

00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.

00:00:11I should be jaded at this point,

00:00:13but I'm still here, ready for love.

00:00:17And your hat, I should be on my knees.

00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.

00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your fit?

00:00:25I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.

00:00:28I was like living in hell.

00:00:31After everything that I've been through,

00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.

00:00:37Woo!

00:00:39What are you doing?

00:00:40We're just not good together.

00:00:43I think that's pretty much it.

00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,

00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.

00:00:51Girl strip!

00:00:52Girl strip!

00:00:52Woo!

00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?

00:00:57The men.

00:00:58What happened in the Dominican Republic?

00:01:00Stay in the Dominican Republic.

00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.

00:01:08You guys remember B, right?

00:01:10I have plans to hook up right now.

00:01:13A booty call.

00:01:14A booty call.

00:01:15Oh, sexy.

00:01:18Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.

00:01:24I hope things can be different with Kourtney.

00:01:27I'm sorry.

00:01:27I feel like you're using her.

00:01:29Using her?

00:01:30Yes.

00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.

00:01:35His name is Pedro.

00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santana Pedro.

00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.

00:01:42Ha, ha, ha, ha.

00:01:44I want my wife.

00:01:45I want the house.

00:01:46I want the kid.

00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be softball.

00:01:53Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.

00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.

00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.

00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.

00:02:04But now I have to be...

00:02:05I wish you did too.

00:02:06I've been living a f***ing lie.

00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.

00:02:11A guy starts out one way,

00:02:12and it turns out they were just hiding their real personalities.

00:02:15So it's just who you are.

00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love life?

00:02:20No.

00:02:20I am just here,

00:02:21go stare about him,

00:02:23and ask you about it.

00:02:24Okay, you can be concerned.

00:02:24But don't get the love of me, Hush, love.

00:02:26No, no, no, you're gonna stop doing it like that.

00:02:27No, you can't stop doing it like that.

00:02:29You guys have a f***ing great relationship.

00:02:31Okay, bye.

00:02:32Yeah, yeah.

00:02:33Trust me.

00:02:33I was very respectful.

00:02:34Yeah, yeah.

00:02:35Okay, whatever.

00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.

00:02:39Damn.

00:02:57Hola.

00:02:58Hola, hola.

00:02:59¿Es posible un pina colada?

00:03:00Sí, claro.

00:03:01Gracias.

00:03:02Everything I got now,

00:03:03know you want it,

00:03:03you want it,

00:03:04you want it,

00:03:06come and get it.

00:03:07Ha,

00:03:07I'm on my mission to get in your face.

00:03:09Got nothing to lose when I'm taking the stage.

00:03:11I fly like a Pegasus

00:03:12and straight out the gate.

00:03:14Do I have your attention?

00:03:24Hey, bitches!

00:03:26Click, snap, look at that.

00:03:30I'm here!

00:03:32Look at that.

00:03:34Check, check, check, check it out.

00:03:36Look at that.

00:03:37Girl strip!

00:03:38Girl strip!

00:03:39Woo!

00:03:40Do I have your attention?

00:03:42I'm Sophie.

00:03:43I'm 26 years old.

00:03:45I'm from London and I live in Texas.

00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls.

00:03:48It's so hot.

00:03:49It's so beautiful here.

00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years

00:03:53and that marriage didn't go very well.

00:03:56Cheers!

00:03:56So I've recently filed for divorce

00:03:58and what better way to celebrate

00:03:59than with a girl's trip?

00:04:01I've never traveled, so this is like...

00:04:03You're gonna have to take the will on this.

00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks

00:04:07and just have a good time and not stress

00:04:09and just actually have some fun.

00:04:11What are you guys most excited for?

00:04:13The men.

00:04:15Me too.

00:04:16And the guys here are fine.

00:04:19Even the workers are cute.

00:04:20The hotel people are cute.

00:04:21People on the beach, everyone's just cute here.

00:04:24How do you think it's an upgrade for me, ladies?

00:04:26I met Liz at the No Limits Tell All.

00:04:29At first, we didn't get along, like, at all.

00:04:31But after that, me and Liz actually connected

00:04:33and we kind of became a support for each other

00:04:35because we were both going through such tough breakups.

00:04:37And, yeah, now we've actually become friends.

00:04:40Liz, what kind do you like?

00:04:42I still like the older man.

00:04:44Older?

00:04:45How old?

00:04:4693 is fine.

00:04:47Let's stick with it.

00:04:4894.

00:04:4997.

00:04:4994.

00:04:5094.

00:04:52I'm Liz.

00:04:53I'm 33 years old, and I'm from San Diego, California.

00:04:56But I currently live in Seattle, Washington.

00:04:59I've never actually really dated.

00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship.

00:05:05But I'm single, and it feels really good to be single for once.

00:05:11Sophia, I know you're, like, a Latinian guy, right?

00:05:15Latinian?

00:05:17Latinian.

00:05:18Latinian.

00:05:18I want to say Caribbean and Latino.

00:05:20Oh, no, yeah, I like that.

00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.

00:05:22Yeah.

00:05:23So, you like them.

00:05:24Okay.

00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip,

00:05:27obviously both single, ready to have a great time.

00:05:29And then Julia is married, but she's so fun.

00:05:33When we met, when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona,

00:05:35we immediately just, like, hit it off.

00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends,

00:05:39and I feel like she's the perfect person to have as a wingwoman.

00:05:41I'm going to be your coach, babysitter,

00:05:44whatever you want to call me.

00:05:46Annoying bitch.

00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?

00:05:51He's fine.

00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me,

00:05:53Sophie, the single, not you.

00:05:57I'm Julia.

00:05:57I'm 31 years old.

00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar,

00:06:00and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.

00:06:04My husband, Brandon, very protective.

00:06:07But he have a reason because we have secrets.

00:06:10I'm pregnant.

00:06:12I doesn't tell anybody yet

00:06:14because I believe in superstition.

00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed at Jink and Mockdell's.

00:06:21So let's have fun.

00:06:22Yeah.

00:06:23Let's have Jink and Mockdell's.

00:06:26After dealing with this divorce

00:06:27and the stress with Rob and everything,

00:06:29like, I need this.

00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob

00:06:33towards the end of the marriage

00:06:34that it's really hard for me to even believe

00:06:37that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.

00:06:46I miss you so much.

00:06:48Give me a kiss.

00:06:48I miss you.

00:06:49Six years ago, when I first met Rob,

00:06:52I just fell in love with him so quick

00:06:53that I didn't even think twice

00:06:54about moving to another country to marry him.

00:06:57Yeah!

00:07:00But even though he was married,

00:07:01I found out he actively had a dating profile

00:07:04on a dating site.

00:07:05I found this.

00:07:08You're down to be adventurous.

00:07:11Let's explore.

00:07:13I was only on a dating app

00:07:15after Sophie told me

00:07:16to go talk to other women

00:07:17ten times.

00:07:20He was just never going to be the man

00:07:22that I feel I deserve,

00:07:23and I had to walk away.

00:07:25We're going to do everything.

00:07:27We're just not good together.

00:07:30Well, I think that's pretty much it.

00:07:38I was only 20 years old

00:07:39when I first started talking to Rob,

00:07:41and there's definitely something scary

00:07:43about getting back out there

00:07:44because I've only known my life

00:07:46as an adult really with Rob.

00:07:48I haven't really seen

00:07:49what life looks like without Rob.

00:07:50But it's also very exciting.

00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you,

00:07:54and we have a special guy

00:07:56who we come to see.

00:07:59For the past four months,

00:08:01I've been talking to this guy,

00:08:02and it's been going really great.

00:08:08He has, like, dark features

00:08:10that I like.

00:08:10He's tall, he works out.

00:08:12He's very funny.

00:08:14If you could write on paper,

00:08:15the perfect guy,

00:08:17it's literally him.

00:08:20His name is Pedro,

00:08:21and, yeah,

00:08:23it is that Pedro

00:08:24from Chantelle and Pedro.

00:08:26This is for me.

00:08:28Oh, my God.

00:08:30How did you guys

00:08:31even start talking?

00:08:32I started, like, swiping on social media,

00:08:34and then I saw this really cute guy.

00:08:36And I was like, okay,

00:08:37like, I followed him.

00:08:38And then when we started talking,

00:08:40I was like, wait, like,

00:08:42it's Pedro.

00:08:42Like, I've heard about Pedro, you know?

00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking,

00:08:46I didn't know the ins and outs

00:08:47of what happened between him and Chantelle.

00:08:49I do know

00:08:50he doesn't have a great reputation,

00:08:53but I know better than to judge someone

00:08:54based on other people's opinions.

00:08:57We have been talking a lot,

00:08:58and then we ended up meeting up

00:09:00three times or so in person.

00:09:02He basically was like,

00:09:03oh, like, what's your ideal date?

00:09:05Like, and I told him, like,

00:09:06what type of food,

00:09:07what type of restaurant,

00:09:08what type of gift I want,

00:09:09and he just, like, did all of it.

00:09:10And I was like, oh.

00:09:11So what was the gift?

00:09:13He basically took me to a jewelry store,

00:09:15and then he bought me a $2,000 necklace,

00:09:17and that was the first time

00:09:18we met in person, so.

00:09:20Oh, my God.

00:09:21I know.

00:09:21So I was just, like, in shock, you know?

00:09:23He's just so, like, romantic,

00:09:25and I like that he's, like,

00:09:27trying to win me over, kind of,

00:09:28because, like, he doesn't buy me flowers,

00:09:29like, once.

00:09:30It's like every week,

00:09:30I get new flowers at my door,

00:09:32and then he leaves, like,

00:09:33this little, like, love note

00:09:33in the flowers.

00:09:34You see that smile?

00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta

00:09:38and me in Texas,

00:09:39we don't hang out much.

00:09:41We've only hung out, like,

00:09:41a couple times.

00:09:42So he invited me here

00:09:43to the Dominican Republic

00:09:44for his sister's birthday,

00:09:45and I wanted to do this girl's trip

00:09:48for a while now,

00:09:48so it kind of made perfect sense

00:09:50to just combine the two.

00:09:52This is gonna be the most amount of time

00:09:53you're spending with him.

00:09:54Yeah, but also,

00:09:55I'm not trying to jump into, like,

00:09:57something super serious immediately,

00:09:58because I only met him, like,

00:09:59a couple times.

00:10:00You just finished your relationship.

00:10:01He doesn't need to jump.

00:10:03Like, my end goal is a relationship again,

00:10:04but right now,

00:10:05I also want to be single,

00:10:07and I want to make sure

00:10:08I know what I want this time.

00:10:09Yeah.

00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro,

00:10:13but at the same time,

00:10:14I've been through hell

00:10:15with my own marriage,

00:10:17and his marriage was a train wreck,

00:10:18obviously,

00:10:19so I want to make sure

00:10:20I don't rush things.

00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time

00:10:23and giving myself the time

00:10:24I need to figure it out.

00:10:25We're all gonna see him tonight,

00:10:26which would be fun.

00:10:27All of them have fun.

00:10:28Is he bringing friends?

00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.

00:10:31Friends, yeah.

00:10:32I've been very clear to Pedro

00:10:34about what my intentions are.

00:10:35I want to just come here

00:10:36and have a good time

00:10:37and get to know him,

00:10:38but I feel like

00:10:39he's catching very strong feelings

00:10:41very early on

00:10:42and I really just want to make sure

00:10:44that I don't let someone force me

00:10:47into something that

00:10:48I'm just really not ready for yet.

00:10:50So, let's have fun!

00:10:52Yay!

00:10:54We're happy in Dominican Republic.

00:10:56Stay in Dominican Republic.

00:10:57Come on.

00:10:58Come on.

00:11:17All right, cadets.

00:11:19Your mission today

00:11:20is to infiltrate this valley.

00:11:21It's full of enemies.

00:11:22They're gonna be on all sides

00:11:24and surrounding you.

00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.

00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.

00:11:28Let's go play laser tag!

00:11:29Whee!

00:11:32I'm gonna get you.

00:11:36Ooh, I like this.

00:11:47Get around to the left.

00:11:48I'm gonna go to the right.

00:11:49Star Wars side.

00:11:50Not Star Wars.

00:11:51We're not in the Navy.

00:11:54My name is Kim.

00:11:55I'm 55 years old.

00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California.

00:11:59And for the past probably 10, 20 years,

00:12:02I've just been feeling

00:12:02really down about myself.

00:12:04And now I can say

00:12:05Kim is 55 and fabulous.

00:12:14For the past year,

00:12:15I've been on this weight loss journey

00:12:16and I've lost 57 pounds to dates.

00:12:20And it's been life-changing.

00:12:22I have more energy

00:12:23and it's like I'm just tapping

00:12:26into this young,

00:12:27more adventurous Kim again.

00:12:30When I was 19 years old,

00:12:32I went into the military

00:12:33and I was a sharpshooter

00:12:36and I jumped out of planes.

00:12:39I was the bad bitch back then.

00:12:43I got you.

00:12:44You said, ugh.

00:12:45And now, 30 years later,

00:12:46I'm trying to get my groove back.

00:12:49Especially in my dating life.

00:12:51Boo!

00:12:52You're shot.

00:12:52Oh, crap.

00:12:55Do you think we should just call a truce?

00:12:57Just call a truce

00:12:58and we'll work together.

00:12:59You know how I use a gun?

00:13:00I do.

00:13:00So I'm on a date

00:13:01and this is Javier.

00:13:03I'm excited to be here.

00:13:06I like women when they take charge.

00:13:07Oh, do you?

00:13:08Do you?

00:13:09Okay.

00:13:10So you got the right kind of woman then.

00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah,

00:13:14that kind of set us up, right?

00:13:15Like a little blind date.

00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman too.

00:13:20Try to.

00:13:20When I saw Javier for the first time,

00:13:22I was like,

00:13:22well, he's kind of handsome.

00:13:24A little bit.

00:13:25No, I'm just joking.

00:13:26He's so handsome.

00:13:27Gracias.

00:13:28De nada.

00:13:30Oh, no, it's me!

00:13:32No!

00:13:34I've been casually dating

00:13:36for the last few months,

00:13:37but it is hard as

00:13:39to find a good man

00:13:40in your 50s.

00:13:42Okay, we're done.

00:13:44I'm done.

00:13:45I'm putting my gun down.

00:13:46I feel like I can see

00:13:47through all your games

00:13:48and let's just be honest,

00:13:49I was with the biggest game player

00:13:51ever in the world.

00:14:00I met Usman on social media

00:14:02about five years ago.

00:14:05He's a singer-rapper in Nigeria

00:14:07and after 11 months

00:14:09of talking on the phone,

00:14:10my ass was on a plane

00:14:12to Africa

00:14:12to go meet Usman in person.

00:14:14Oh, my God!

00:14:17Oh, my God!

00:14:18Oh, my God!

00:14:19From the beginning,

00:14:20Usman and I went through a lot.

00:14:21We had a lot of challenges,

00:14:23a lot of disagreements.

00:14:24Why would you bring me down here

00:14:26to shoot a video

00:14:27about another woman?

00:14:28Oh, my God!

00:14:30This is funny.

00:14:31Is this funny, too?

00:14:32you!

00:14:33But eventually,

00:14:34we worked it out

00:14:35and he put a ring on it.

00:14:37Will you marry me, babe?

00:14:38Yes!

00:14:39I knew that Usman

00:14:40wanted to have a couple kids

00:14:42and my baby-making days

00:14:44are over,

00:14:44but I loved Usman so much

00:14:46that I was willing

00:14:47to let him take

00:14:47a second wife

00:14:48to have a baby.

00:14:49And it's crazy

00:14:50when I think about that.

00:14:51When I get married

00:14:53to the second wife,

00:14:54I should take her child

00:14:56to you in this state.

00:14:57No, sir.

00:14:59That will bring you guys

00:14:59more closer

00:15:00and you love each other

00:15:02like close friends.

00:15:03No.

00:15:03But he wanted me

00:15:05and the second wife

00:15:06to, like, coexist

00:15:07and, like, make biscuits

00:15:08or something,

00:15:09I don't know,

00:15:09and, like, raise this baby together.

00:15:11What the ?

00:15:14Luckily, I came to my senses

00:15:15before this became

00:15:16a whole sister-wise

00:15:18kind of thing.

00:15:19You're a asshole.

00:15:20You are a asshole.

00:15:22I'm done.

00:15:25We tried.

00:15:26We tried, right?

00:15:28We tried.

00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.

00:15:31I really don't need

00:15:32a man too much

00:15:33for anything,

00:15:34but I miss having a man.

00:15:35I want to feel

00:15:36emotionally supported.

00:15:37I want to feel

00:15:38the comfort

00:15:39and feel safe.

00:15:41Safe is, like,

00:15:41my biggest thing.

00:15:44So, how do you like it?

00:15:45It was so much fun.

00:15:46Oh, my gosh.

00:15:47It reminds me

00:15:47of my military days.

00:15:49You were in the military?

00:15:49Yes.

00:15:51Wore the little uniform,

00:15:52wore the little beret,

00:15:53jumped out of planes.

00:15:54I've done a lot.

00:15:55I mean, that's very sexy.

00:15:57Do you want to see me

00:15:57in my uniform?

00:15:58Do you have your uniform?

00:15:59No, but I'll get one.

00:16:03So, where do you live?

00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.

00:16:06Okay.

00:16:06Do you, like,

00:16:07live by yourself?

00:16:08I have two roommates.

00:16:09Oh, two.

00:16:10So it's, like,

00:16:11a big bachelor pad.

00:16:13No, no,

00:16:13not really.

00:16:15I live with two

00:16:16young women.

00:16:19So, like,

00:16:20how did you end up

00:16:21with two girl roommates?

00:16:23I used to date

00:16:24one of them.

00:16:25You used to date

00:16:25one of your roommates?

00:16:26I used to date

00:16:26one of my roommates.

00:16:27Okay.

00:16:28What happened?

00:16:29If you don't mind me asking.

00:16:31Sadly,

00:16:31I cheated on her.

00:16:33Oh, man.

00:16:33She dumped me.

00:16:35Well, I would have, too,

00:16:36if you would have cheated

00:16:37on me, too.

00:16:37Yeah.

00:16:39Javier is really cute,

00:16:41but there's a lot

00:16:42of red flags here.

00:16:44He's a man in his 50s

00:16:45with roommates.

00:16:47And, like,

00:16:47what is the situation

00:16:48with his ex, right?

00:16:49He lives with her.

00:16:50He cheated on her.

00:16:52They're still banging.

00:16:53There's something

00:16:53going on there.

00:16:54It's not even a red flag

00:16:55at this point.

00:16:56It's like an ambulance

00:16:56siren going,

00:16:57Kim, get out of here.

00:16:58Kim, get out of here.

00:17:00Thank you so much.

00:17:01It was fun.

00:17:03It was fun.

00:17:04Yeah, you, too.

00:17:05In my past relationships,

00:17:07I let so much slide,

00:17:08and I'm just not

00:17:09going to do it now.

00:17:10I'm not going to do it.

00:17:12I'll text you.

00:17:13Okay.

00:17:13Or text me.

00:17:14Okay, got it.

00:17:15Thank you for taking me out here.

00:17:16It was fun.

00:17:17So, I'm not going

00:17:18to see Javier again,

00:17:19but some woman

00:17:20is going to snatch him up.

00:17:21It's just not going

00:17:22to be Kimberly.

00:17:23Sorry.

00:17:24Bye-bye.

00:17:26Bye-bye.

00:17:41Hello.

00:17:42What are you doing?

00:17:43I ran out of groceries

00:17:44at my house.

00:17:44Oh.

00:17:45So, is my house

00:17:45the grocery store now?

00:17:47I actually need

00:17:47to take him to his bins.

00:17:48You do?

00:17:49Mm-hmm.

00:17:50Oh.

00:17:51Jamal is my son.

00:17:53He's 30 years old.

00:17:54I don't think anybody

00:17:56could be prouder

00:17:57of their son

00:17:58than I am of Jamal.

00:17:59He is everything to me.

00:18:05You have a ranch?

00:18:06Yeah.

00:18:07But you're not taking my ranch.

00:18:09I use that.

00:18:11I feel like we don't

00:18:12hang out anymore.

00:18:13You just come over

00:18:14when you need stuff.

00:18:14That's not true.

00:18:15I'm going to hang out here

00:18:16while I get my stuff.

00:18:17It's like a two-for-one.

00:18:20Do you need two potatoes?

00:18:22No, would you like

00:18:23to take a potato?

00:18:24Yeah, I'll leave you one.

00:18:25Thanks.

00:18:27So, yeah,

00:18:27I went on, like,

00:18:28a little laser tag date.

00:18:30Oh, yeah?

00:18:31Yeah, it was fun.

00:18:34Maybe dating isn't

00:18:35something you should be

00:18:36stressing too hard about.

00:18:38I just feel like

00:18:39I still need...

00:18:40I just think you have

00:18:41a lot of other things

00:18:42going on.

00:18:45Indeed.

00:18:48Things have been

00:18:49feeling really tense

00:18:49and, like,

00:18:51really difficult

00:18:52between Jamal and I

00:18:53right now.

00:18:54Can you tell me

00:18:54what's been going on

00:18:55with him?

00:18:57I mean,

00:18:57there's no easy way

00:18:59to...

00:19:02say what I have to say,

00:19:04you know?

00:19:04Or discuss

00:19:05what I've done.

00:19:08Love you.

00:19:09Love you, too.

00:19:09I'm going to go

00:19:10head out.

00:19:12I've kept things

00:19:13from him

00:19:13that have broken

00:19:15his trust with me.

00:19:16Text me later

00:19:17or something.

00:19:17Gotcha.

00:19:18I'll be pretty

00:19:18busy, but I will...

00:19:20Make time

00:19:20for your mom,

00:19:21Jamal.

00:19:23I'm ready.

00:19:24See you later.

00:19:24I preach

00:19:25authenticity.

00:19:26I preach

00:19:27being genuine,

00:19:28and I've been

00:19:29living a lie.

00:19:30And when the truth

00:19:31comes out,

00:19:32these things

00:19:33that I'm hiding

00:19:33are going to hurt

00:19:34other people.

00:19:35I'll never forgive

00:19:36myself for that.

00:19:38Never forgive

00:19:39myself.

00:19:45Let's go,

00:19:46little puppy.

00:19:48The first time

00:19:48I see something

00:19:49online,

00:19:49you know,

00:19:50I say,

00:19:50oh my God,

00:19:52like,

00:19:52she look fine.

00:19:54The hair,

00:19:55the eyes,

00:19:55the lips,

00:19:56the ass,

00:19:57the leg.

00:19:58Maybe,

00:19:59if we love it,

00:20:00we get some.

00:20:02Nice to meet you.

00:20:03Nice to meet you.

00:20:03I'm Gino.

00:20:04I have never been

00:20:05to a singles event

00:20:07before.

00:20:07Well,

00:20:08I'm not divorced yet.

00:20:10Oh.

00:20:12I knew meeting

00:20:13women in person

00:20:14would probably

00:20:15be difficult,

00:20:16but how did this

00:20:17all end up

00:20:18in such a disaster?

00:20:29Step down.

00:20:31Let's go.

00:20:32What you drinking,

00:20:33what you want?

00:20:33Two cups are here.

00:20:36Let's go.

00:20:42Come on,

00:20:43Gino,

00:20:43you got this.

00:20:55All right,

00:20:57last 10 seconds

00:20:58before the end.

00:21:00I'm Gino.

00:21:00I'm 56 years young

00:21:02and I'm from

00:21:03Camp Michigan.

00:21:04One,

00:21:04let it all go.

00:21:06Nice job.

00:21:08I'm newly single

00:21:09and I'm looking

00:21:10for the love

00:21:11of my life.

00:21:12I'm way out of shape.

00:21:15I'm working out again,

00:21:17getting myself in shape.

00:21:19I mean,

00:21:19after everything

00:21:20that I've been through,

00:21:22I want some young,

00:21:23beautiful,

00:21:24single ladies,

00:21:25baby.

00:21:26Woo!

00:21:27Would you mind

00:21:27taking just a couple

00:21:29selfies for me?

00:21:30Of course.

00:21:31If you don't mind,

00:21:32could you try to get

00:21:32my calves in it

00:21:34a little bit?

00:21:34Sure.

00:21:35Give me a big smile.

00:21:37I really want to find

00:21:38a woman that has

00:21:39a good heart,

00:21:41who's very much

00:21:41into me just how I am.

00:21:43Nice job.

00:21:44I just have to do

00:21:45a better job

00:21:46at choosing women

00:21:47because I have

00:21:49failed miserably

00:21:51in the last,

00:21:53well,

00:21:55last four years anyway.

00:21:59Oh my God.

00:22:00Is it?

00:22:01Jasmine?

00:22:02Is it you?

00:22:03Oh my God.

00:22:05I met my soon-to-be

00:22:07ex-wife,

00:22:08Jasmine,

00:22:09online

00:22:10about four years ago

00:22:11and went to Panama

00:22:12to meet her.

00:22:13You're still

00:22:14in your foot.

00:22:15Yeah.

00:22:20But looking back,

00:22:22I should have never

00:22:22married Jasmine

00:22:23and brought her

00:22:24to the U.S.

00:22:25There were some

00:22:26huge, serious red flags.

00:22:28You trash.

00:22:30I don't want

00:22:30to see you anymore.

00:22:31That's your choice.

00:22:33You guys?

00:22:36I'm going to

00:22:36kill this

00:22:37all goddamn

00:22:38the president.

00:22:39Stop.

00:22:40Jasmine,

00:22:40I'm not going to be

00:22:41live.

00:22:41Stop it, liar.

00:22:43I hate him.

00:22:45During our relationship,

00:22:47Jasmine always found

00:22:48a way to beat me down.

00:22:50And then last year,

00:22:51I found out

00:22:52that Jasmine

00:22:53was having a baby

00:22:54with a random dude

00:22:55down the street

00:22:57two months

00:22:58after we separated.

00:23:00I want you to know

00:23:01that I am pregnant.

00:23:05and Matt and I

00:23:06agree that

00:23:07we want to have

00:23:08the baby

00:23:08and that's

00:23:09what we're

00:23:09going to do.

00:23:11Well,

00:23:15I thought

00:23:16she loved me.

00:23:19I thought

00:23:20she wanted

00:23:21to have

00:23:22a child

00:23:23with me.

00:23:26She's such a liar.

00:23:36I was knocked

00:23:37down,

00:23:38but I got

00:23:38back up

00:23:39on my feet

00:23:40and now

00:23:40I just want

00:23:41to look forward

00:23:42to living

00:23:42my best life.

00:23:56Today I'm going

00:23:57to an event

00:23:58that is hosted

00:23:59by a singles group

00:24:00that I found

00:24:01on social media.

00:24:27I have never

00:24:28been to a singles

00:24:30event before.

00:24:30In fact,

00:24:31I haven't met

00:24:32a woman in person

00:24:33and asked her

00:24:34out on a date

00:24:35in probably

00:24:36a good 30 years.

00:24:38Hi.

00:24:40Got Michelle

00:24:41over there

00:24:41and Rachel here.

00:24:43What's up?

00:24:44Before the internet,

00:24:45I used classified ads.

00:24:47It was scary

00:24:48because I didn't

00:24:50really know

00:24:51what they look like.

00:24:53In hindsight,

00:24:54it's probably

00:24:55not the safest

00:24:56thing to do

00:24:57and I'm lucky

00:24:58I never got scammed.

00:25:00So this is Amy.

00:25:01Hi.

00:25:02Hello.

00:25:02Hey, this is Gino.

00:25:03Nice to meet you.

00:25:04Nice to meet you.

00:25:05I'm Gino.

00:25:05But even now,

00:25:07I prefer

00:25:08to meet women

00:25:09online.

00:25:10Being rejected

00:25:11in person

00:25:12is the worst,

00:25:13right?

00:25:14You feel so small

00:25:15and it's hard

00:25:16to take.

00:25:16So I am way

00:25:18out of my comfort

00:25:19zone being here.

00:25:20I think we need

00:25:21to go play

00:25:22some kickball.

00:25:23Yeah, let's go.

00:25:24Let's go.

00:25:25Let's go.

00:25:31Can we get Gino up here?

00:25:33Let's go.

00:25:33My bat?

00:25:35Gino, you're on.

00:25:36Go, go, go.

00:25:37Gino, Gino.

00:25:39Gino.

00:25:40Gino.

00:25:54Gino.

00:25:54What's your name?

00:25:56What's your name?

00:25:57Gino.

00:25:58I'm Aaron.

00:25:59Nice to meet you.

00:26:00Nice to meet you.

00:26:01I think the women

00:26:02are finding me

00:26:03pretty sexy.

00:26:05Awesome.

00:26:05Oh, nice job.

00:26:07I think this is

00:26:08a very good

00:26:08first step for me

00:26:09because it got me

00:26:10out of my comfort

00:26:11zone.

00:26:12But now that I have

00:26:13to have conversations

00:26:14with them,

00:26:14I hope I don't

00:26:15mess it up.

00:26:16We're so excited

00:26:17to have you here.

00:26:18Every time a guy

00:26:19joins, we're like,

00:26:20oh my God,

00:26:20another normal guy.

00:26:21Oh, that's good.

00:26:22It's 70% women.

00:26:2470%?

00:26:25I like that.

00:26:25I know, right?

00:26:26That's why I get

00:26:27excited.

00:26:28I'm like, a guy?

00:26:33So tell us,

00:26:34like, what brought

00:26:34you here?

00:26:35What brought me

00:26:36here?

00:26:36Well, I mean,

00:26:37I'm single now.

00:26:39When did you get

00:26:39divorced?

00:26:41When I get divorced?

00:26:42Um, well,

00:26:44I'm not divorced yet.

00:26:46Okay.

00:26:48Well, I'm married

00:26:49but separated.

00:26:50We don't live together.

00:26:53I don't do well

00:26:54with someone

00:26:55who's still

00:26:55technically married.

00:26:56What if they're

00:26:58not done?

00:26:59What chance

00:27:00does it have

00:27:01for me to leap

00:27:02forward and try

00:27:03to start something

00:27:04if he's not ready?

00:27:05I'm with you

00:27:06on that.

00:27:06He seems so

00:27:07nervous.

00:27:08He's shaking.

00:27:09His voice is cracking.

00:27:10What the hell

00:27:11is going on here?

00:27:11What is he hiding?

00:27:13So tell us

00:27:14what happened.

00:27:15So basically

00:27:16what happened is

00:27:17five months

00:27:17after our marriage,

00:27:19she met a guy,

00:27:21a random guy

00:27:21at the gym

00:27:22and cheated on me

00:27:24and cheated on me

00:27:24with him.

00:27:24What?

00:27:25And then while

00:27:25she was married

00:27:26to me,

00:27:26she got pregnant.

00:27:30What the hell

00:27:31am I saying here?

00:27:32I'm supposed

00:27:33to be telling

00:27:34them something

00:27:34that's going

00:27:35to attract them

00:27:36to me,

00:27:36not telling them

00:27:38about my

00:27:39nightmarish,

00:27:41miserable

00:27:42relationship

00:27:42that I just

00:27:43went through.

00:27:44I think it's

00:27:45kind of turning

00:27:46off the ladies

00:27:46here.

00:27:47But anyway,

00:27:48the changes

00:27:49suck like a little.

00:27:50What are you guys

00:27:51looking for

00:27:52in a man?

00:28:09I knew meeting

00:28:11women in person

00:28:12would probably

00:28:13be difficult,

00:28:14but how did

00:28:15this all end up

00:28:16in such a disaster?

00:28:29all eyes

00:28:29don't mean

00:28:30what you're

00:28:30looking at?

00:28:31Yeah,

00:28:31I'm sticking my teeth

00:28:32like a big cat.

00:28:32Only give you

00:28:33un poquitito,

00:28:34un poquitito

00:28:35lo que está

00:28:35bien rico.

00:28:36Flying so high

00:28:37I'm on in the night.

00:28:39Mama show you

00:28:40what I like.

00:28:42Pedro's bad,

00:28:43baby.

00:28:44Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha.

00:28:45Muy mala,

00:28:47mala, mala,

00:28:48mala, mala.

00:28:49Muy mala.

00:28:50You bad, honey.

00:28:51Got bad money.

00:28:52You bad, honey.

00:28:53Muy mala.

00:28:56You okay,

00:28:57you okay?

00:28:59What's up, bro?

00:29:00How are you?

00:29:01It's so cool, too.

00:29:03My name is Pedro.

00:29:04I'm 33 years old.

00:29:05Originally,

00:29:06I'm from Dominican Republic,

00:29:07but right now,

00:29:07I live in Atlanta, Georgia.

00:29:09Trae la van.

00:29:10Sí, ya estamos aquí.

00:29:11Sí.

00:29:12Since my divorce

00:29:13with Chantel,

00:29:14I've been keeping

00:29:15a love profile.

00:29:16I need a time

00:29:16to myself.

00:29:18Dale, dale, dale.

00:29:21Eso, papá.

00:29:21But now,

00:29:23I put everything behind me

00:29:25and I'm ready

00:29:26for the next shot

00:29:26of my life.

00:29:28Bam.

00:29:28That's Dominican

00:29:30engineer over there.

00:29:31Just like that.

00:29:31Así mismo.

00:29:33¿Qué vamos a hacer con la van?

00:29:34Vamos a agrar la van,

00:29:35ponerla bien bonita.

00:29:36Para Sofi.

00:29:37Tú siempre está dispuesto

00:29:38a darlo todo por una mujer.

00:29:40Pero yo soy un tipo romántico.

00:29:42I'm putting my best effort

00:29:44in this, okay?

00:29:46Sí, claro.

00:29:47I'm so excited.

00:29:49I'm very happy

00:29:50because Sofi arrive

00:29:51in the yard with her friends

00:29:52and they're going to meet

00:29:53with me and my friend

00:29:54at the club tonight.

00:29:55I really want to impress Sofi

00:29:56when she is in my own country.

00:29:58That's why me and my friends

00:30:00are going to decorate the van.

00:30:01They're going to drive

00:30:02Sofi and her friends

00:30:03around the yard.

00:30:05Pedro,

00:30:05la verdad es que te gusta

00:30:07esa mujer.

00:30:08No me gusta, papá.

00:30:10Me encanta.

00:30:11Oye, man.

00:30:13The first time I saw something

00:30:15online, you know,

00:30:15I said,

00:30:16oh my God,

00:30:17like,

00:30:18she looks fine.

00:30:19Like,

00:30:20she has everything

00:30:21that I was looking for.

00:30:22The hair,

00:30:22the eyes,

00:30:23the lip,

00:30:24the ass,

00:30:25the leg.

00:30:26And she got,

00:30:27you know,

00:30:27the waist.

00:30:28You know,

00:30:29like,

00:30:29it's going to go me here,

00:30:30go me down,

00:30:31you know,

00:30:31like a guitar kind of style,

00:30:32you know,

00:30:33that's made me a little crazy.

00:30:36¿Tú estás enamorado?

00:30:38Definitivamente tú estás seguro

00:30:39que ya te podías considerar

00:30:41con ella

00:30:41para tener una familia.

00:30:42Creo que sí.

00:30:44I have a strong feeling

00:30:45for Sofi

00:30:45and I really,

00:30:46really want a relationship

00:30:47with her.

00:30:48She has very kind heart.

00:30:50She has the full package.

00:30:51Es momento de tú

00:30:53reiniciar tu vida otra vez.

00:30:54Sí.

00:30:55Y espero que los errores

00:30:57que se pudieron cometer

00:30:58no se vuelvan a repetir.

00:30:59No,

00:30:59todos los errores

00:31:00que se metían en el pasado

00:31:00fueron errores,

00:31:01tú me entiendes.

00:31:02Ahora yo aprendí mis errores.

00:31:03When I met Chantel,

00:31:05I thought my life

00:31:05was set

00:31:06for forever.

00:31:07And then,

00:31:08you know,

00:31:09everything went

00:31:09to the drain.

00:31:13Ah!

00:31:15Pedro!

00:31:16Ah!

00:31:17Baby!

00:31:21Nine years ago,

00:31:22I packed my life

00:31:23from the yard

00:31:24and moved

00:31:25to the United States

00:31:25for love.

00:31:26Hola,

00:31:27son,

00:31:27mamá y baby.

00:31:28Mwah!

00:31:29Mwah!

00:31:30Mwah!

00:31:31But Chantel's family

00:31:32caused so much drama.

00:31:33They went freaking crazy.

00:31:34Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.

00:31:35What'd you say,

00:31:36?

00:31:36I tried my best,

00:31:38but I wasn't perfect

00:31:39and nobody else.

00:31:40Let's go!

00:31:41Hey!

00:31:42Hey!

00:31:43Hey!

00:31:44Hey!

00:31:45Chantel never

00:31:46stand up for me

00:31:47with her family.

00:31:48That drove in

00:31:49a wage between us

00:31:50to the point

00:31:52our marriage

00:31:53couldn't survive.

00:31:55I feel that

00:31:56we go different ways

00:31:57in life.

00:31:58I want my divorce.

00:32:02I can't.

00:32:05I can continue

00:32:06with this.

00:32:07I learned a lot of things

00:32:08from my marriage.

00:32:09Put more time,

00:32:11more effort,

00:32:12listen more,

00:32:13be more flexible,

00:32:15you know,

00:32:15and that's helped me

00:32:16right now

00:32:17to mature.

00:32:19Hey!

00:32:21Hey!

00:32:22Hey!

00:32:48I need a thought

00:32:49that this is going

00:32:50to be my life.

00:32:51The fact that I'm

00:32:53three years old,

00:32:54not a kid,

00:32:55not a man,

00:32:55it made me feel

00:32:56a little devastated.

00:32:58We are three

00:33:00nice and clean,

00:33:01what you never know.

00:33:03I want

00:33:03the type of life

00:33:04that everyone

00:33:05dreams about.

00:33:06I want my wife,

00:33:07I want the house,

00:33:08I want the kid.

00:33:10Maybe

00:33:10if we love it,

00:33:12we get some.

00:33:13If not,

00:33:15we try again.

00:33:17I want to show Sophie

00:33:18a time of her life

00:33:19in the yard,

00:33:20and I hope

00:33:21at the end of the street

00:33:22we can be a relationship

00:33:23forever.

00:33:25Okay.

00:33:26Yeah.

00:33:28We're ready.

00:33:31What the f*** is

00:33:32a picture friend?

00:33:33We are going to have

00:33:34some of San Diego's

00:33:36finest lead men

00:33:37and lead women

00:33:37pitching their

00:33:38wonderful single friend.

00:33:40Are you ready

00:33:41to meet

00:33:42Kimberly?

00:33:43She has

00:33:44the biggest heart

00:33:46and she loves

00:33:47cats.

00:33:47Yes.

00:33:52Who's that beauty?

00:33:54Who's that beast?

00:33:55Dirty mouth

00:33:56but conscience clean.

00:33:57All in one,

00:33:58a king and queen.

00:33:59Who's she?

00:34:01I must admit,

00:34:02that's me.

00:34:04I know

00:34:05what I bring

00:34:06to the table.

00:34:06I got my plate on

00:34:08when Linda Nabel

00:34:09to make my own bread

00:34:10and eat it

00:34:11all alone.

00:34:12That's me.

00:34:13How was everything?

00:34:14It was great.

00:34:15Thank you so much.

00:34:16I'm going to go ahead

00:34:16and get you checked out.

00:34:18Have a great day.

00:34:19Okay.

00:34:19Bye.

00:34:21For about two years now

00:34:22I have been

00:34:23the spa supervisor

00:34:24in a hotel casino.

00:34:27It's closing time.

00:34:28I really like it.

00:34:30I like scheduling.

00:34:31I like keeping

00:34:32things organized

00:34:33and I think I get that

00:34:35from my military training

00:34:36because you have

00:34:37to be organized

00:34:38when you're in the military.

00:34:40Are you almost done?

00:34:41We got to go.

00:34:41It's girls night.

00:34:43Yeah,

00:34:43I just got to clean up

00:34:44this stuff

00:34:45and then fold the towels

00:34:46and put them away.

00:34:47Lily's my closest

00:34:47work friend

00:34:48and I love the fact

00:34:49that like I can confide

00:34:50in her about things.

00:34:51I'm so glad

00:34:52we're all going out tonight.

00:34:54I haven't been out

00:34:55in a while

00:34:55so I think it'll

00:34:56do me a lot of good.

00:34:57Tonight,

00:34:58Lily and I

00:34:58are going to meet

00:34:59some of our other friends

00:35:00and we're just going

00:35:01to have a little

00:35:01ladies night.

00:35:03I really wasn't

00:35:03a part of the planning

00:35:04but I'm just down

00:35:05for whatever

00:35:06at this point.

00:35:07So if you see

00:35:08any guys tonight,

00:35:08you going to try

00:35:09to talk to him?

00:35:10I actually went

00:35:12on a first date

00:35:12the other day.

00:35:13Really?

00:35:14How'd that go?

00:35:16Girl, he lives

00:35:17with his ex.

00:35:20Would you ever

00:35:21live with your ex?

00:35:22No.

00:35:24But that's

00:35:25a different story.

00:35:27I don't know.

00:35:28I just feel like

00:35:29I'm not going to just

00:35:30settle for anything

00:35:31less than I deserve.

00:35:31You have to be

00:35:33like financially

00:35:34and mentally stable.

00:35:36Yeah.

00:35:36You have to be

00:35:37in your upper 40s,

00:35:3950s.

00:35:40No more 18 years

00:35:41younger than me.

00:35:42Yeah, you're going

00:35:43to need someone

00:35:43to match your vibe.

00:35:44I really want

00:35:45somebody to love me

00:35:46for me.

00:35:46Like I've never had that

00:35:47and I really need

00:35:49to feel that love

00:35:50like once before I die.

00:35:53Kim says that

00:35:54she's never experienced

00:35:55love.

00:35:57It hurts me

00:35:58as a friend

00:35:58because, you know,

00:36:00she's been through

00:36:01so much in her life

00:36:02that she does deserve

00:36:03to find love.

00:36:04Not someone who's

00:36:06going to try

00:36:06to take advantage

00:36:07or use her.

00:36:08She's a beautiful person

00:36:09so I believe

00:36:09she should find someone

00:36:10who is going to cherish

00:36:11her and treat her

00:36:12like a queen.

00:36:14All right, let's go.

00:36:15Let's go.

00:36:16Pretty girls around

00:36:17the world,

00:36:18they're waking up,

00:36:19they serving up,

00:36:19you couldn't catch

00:36:20just one if you tried.

00:36:21Oh, we serve,

00:36:21we serve spicy.

00:36:23Yeah, we know it's allowed.

00:36:25Going right up here.

00:36:27What is this?

00:36:29You don't see

00:36:29where I'm getting tired.

00:36:36We love you.

00:36:38We love you.

00:36:38Hello, baby.

00:36:41Hi, girl, babe.

00:36:43What are we doing?

00:36:44What are we doing?

00:36:44What the is it?

00:36:46Pitch a friend.

00:36:46Just chill out.

00:36:48What is this?

00:36:49We are going

00:36:51to pitch you

00:36:52the single woman

00:36:53in front of a crowd

00:36:55of single men.

00:36:57The group chat

00:36:58was not talking

00:36:59about this.

00:37:00Just calm down.

00:37:02We got you.

00:37:03You knew about that.

00:37:05I did.

00:37:05I knew.

00:37:06She's in on it.

00:37:07I hate it.

00:37:08Uh-oh.

00:37:09Uh-oh.

00:37:10Oh, no.

00:37:11Here we go.

00:37:12Here's the boys.

00:37:13Did you hear me?

00:37:17Welcome.

00:37:18Welcome to Pitch Up,

00:37:19friend.

00:37:21All right.

00:37:21So,

00:37:22we are going to have

00:37:23some of San Diego's

00:37:24finest wingmen

00:37:25and wingwomen

00:37:26on this very stage

00:37:27pitching their

00:37:29wonderful single

00:37:30friends with

00:37:31the PowerPoint

00:37:31presentation so

00:37:33that you know

00:37:33who is available

00:37:34and looking for

00:37:35love in this room

00:37:37tonight.

00:37:38Give it up.

00:37:44Kim is still single

00:37:45because she's

00:37:46guarding her heart

00:37:47a bit.

00:37:48However,

00:37:49she's definitely

00:37:49ready to get

00:37:51back out there.

00:37:52And that's why

00:37:54we thought an event

00:37:55like this would be fun.

00:37:56We made a slideshow

00:37:58of Kimberly's

00:38:00likes,

00:38:00dislikes,

00:38:02bullet points

00:38:02about different

00:38:03things that we

00:38:04love about her.

00:38:05And who knows?

00:38:06Magic could happen.

00:38:08All right.

00:38:09Let's get started

00:38:10and Pitch Up Friends

00:38:11starting with

00:38:12Rachel pitching.

00:38:16So,

00:38:17I am introducing

00:38:18my friend Alex.

00:38:20We just celebrated

00:38:21his 42nd birthday.

00:38:23Oh, it's 42.

00:38:26What do you think?

00:38:30Wait, wait, wait.

00:38:31Isn't that kind of

00:38:32on the line?

00:38:32Can we go a little

00:38:33bit lower?

00:38:34You have a strong line.

00:38:37Standards.

00:38:37Okay.

00:38:39Boundaries.

00:38:41Alex,

00:38:42come on up here.

00:38:45Questions for Alex.

00:38:47Question.

00:38:49Alex,

00:38:50do you like

00:38:52older women?

00:38:55I don't discriminate

00:38:57whatsoever

00:38:57at night food's age.

00:38:58Okay.

00:38:59Give it up for Alex!

00:39:03Coming up here,

00:39:04we've got a duo.

00:39:06We've got Jody

00:39:06and Lauren pitching

00:39:07Kimberly!

00:39:09Kimberly!

00:39:12I don't know

00:39:13what they're going to say.

00:39:14I know it won't be

00:39:14anything bad,

00:39:15but all these little

00:39:1720-somethings

00:39:17and my 55-year-old ass

00:39:20is going to be

00:39:20on this damn screen.

00:39:22Why the

00:39:22am I here?

00:39:23I'm so nervous

00:39:25now.

00:39:25I'm sweating.

00:39:27Are you ready

00:39:28to meet Kimberly,

00:39:31the most authentic,

00:39:35funny military vet,

00:39:37yo?

00:39:38She has the biggest heart

00:39:40and she loves her son,

00:39:44Jamal.

00:39:45The other thing she loves

00:39:46more than anything

00:39:47in the world,

00:39:49cats.

00:39:51Her cats.

00:39:52You have to love cats.

00:39:54If you do not love cats,

00:39:56if you are allergic to cats,

00:39:58no,

00:39:59you cannot date him.

00:40:00You cannot date him.

00:40:01They sleep.

00:40:03Okay,

00:40:04could we have picked

00:40:05better pictures of Kim?

00:40:06First of all,

00:40:07could we have said

00:40:08not so much about the cats

00:40:09because now people

00:40:10probably think

00:40:10I'm a cat lady.

00:40:12Kind of true,

00:40:13but, you know.

00:40:15Questions for Kimberly?

00:40:16Raise your hand.

00:40:18Well, hello.

00:40:20Unfortunately,

00:40:21I'm under 45.

00:40:22Damn it.

00:40:23I just want to say

00:40:24thank you for your service.

00:40:25Oh, thank you so much.

00:40:26Thank you so much.

00:40:29So embarrassing.

00:40:30More questions

00:40:31for Kimberly.

00:40:34Hey,

00:40:35why if my dad

00:40:36lives in New York

00:40:37have you dated

00:40:37a man that lives far away?

00:40:40I mean,

00:40:41I dated somebody

00:40:42in Nigeria,

00:40:43so why would I not

00:40:44go to New York?

00:40:45Why the not?

00:40:48This girl wants me

00:40:49to date her dad

00:40:50and all the other guys

00:40:52here are, like, 20.

00:40:54I know my friends

00:40:55want me to find a man

00:40:57and I know

00:40:57they have the best

00:40:58intentions,

00:40:59but this crowd

00:41:00is just making me

00:41:01feel hella old.

00:41:03Next up,

00:41:04we've got

00:41:05the Isabel

00:41:05bitching moment!

00:41:16We're the wind beneath your wings, girl.

00:41:20Oh,

00:41:21yep, I gotta go.

00:41:22Wait, wait, wait.

00:41:23What?

00:41:25What?

00:41:27I have plans

00:41:28to hook up

00:41:30right now.

00:41:31Oh!

00:41:32Wait, wait.

00:41:34So, like,

00:41:35a booty call.

00:41:36A booty call, yeah.

00:41:39People think

00:41:40that middle-aged women

00:41:40don't have sex.

00:41:41Like, it's just cobwebs

00:41:43down there,

00:41:43but I like to have sex.

00:41:46I like to lay in bed

00:41:47with somebody.

00:41:48I like to have orgasms.

00:41:50Especially now

00:41:50I got all this energy

00:41:51and lost all this damn weight.

00:41:52I'm like,

00:41:52hello, come to Kim.

00:41:54You guys remember B, right?

00:41:59I'm going to

00:41:59them.

00:42:00Oh, ho!

00:42:01Whoa!

00:42:02Okay!

00:42:16This is a great deal.

00:42:18Two for five.

00:42:18How can you beat that?

00:42:20I mean,

00:42:20I am budget conscience

00:42:21and some girls

00:42:22will hate it

00:42:23and say,

00:42:23why are you being so cheap?

00:42:25So, if I'm so lucky enough

00:42:26to find a woman

00:42:27that is all about value,

00:42:29we're going to get along

00:42:30at the grocery store.

00:42:42Hey, excuse me.

00:42:43Do you know

00:42:45where the package meat

00:42:47is at?

00:42:48Like, hamburger?

00:42:49Yeah, it's going to be

00:42:50down here on the left,

00:42:51all the way down.

00:42:52All the way down?

00:42:52Uh-huh.

00:42:53I'm really excited

00:42:54because my soon-to-be

00:42:55ex-wife was vegan.

00:42:57Oh.

00:42:59And, like,

00:42:59I could not just go

00:43:01to the grocery store

00:43:02and buy meat

00:43:02because she's vegan,

00:43:04you know?

00:43:04But now that I'm single,

00:43:07I mean,

00:43:08it's no problem.

00:43:09I feel so happy.

00:43:10You know what I'm saying.

00:43:11Yeah.

00:43:12We'll fall in chain.

00:43:14Fall in chain, right.

00:43:15But thanks a lot.

00:43:16Nice talking to you.

00:43:18Sure.

00:43:18Enjoy your meat.

00:43:20Things are really

00:43:20looking positive nowadays.

00:43:22I don't feel the stress

00:43:23that I used to feel.

00:43:24I have the freedom

00:43:25to do anything I want

00:43:27and be who I really am.

00:43:29Even if it's as simple

00:43:30as going to the grocery store

00:43:33and buying meat

00:43:34and throwing it in the fridge,

00:43:35I have the freedom

00:43:36to do that now.

00:43:38Hmm.

00:43:38I think this will work.

00:43:42Take that, Jez.

00:43:44The one thing

00:43:45that does stress me out

00:43:46a bit is dating.

00:43:48I had a lot of fun

00:43:50at the singles event

00:43:51playing kickball,

00:43:52but maybe not

00:43:53the best situation,

00:43:55like, to find a date.

00:43:58In person, you know,

00:44:00I might be a little bit

00:44:01too anxious.

00:44:02So I've been posting

00:44:03more things

00:44:04on my social media nowadays.

00:44:07It lets me curate the image

00:44:09I want women to have in me.

00:44:11It makes me a lot more confident

00:44:14going to meet someone

00:44:15if I know this person

00:44:17is already interested in me.

00:44:20Check this out.

00:44:21I posted a picture today

00:44:23of me working out.

00:44:25This woman says,

00:44:27sexy man,

00:44:28I definitely would not

00:44:30be able to go with you

00:44:31because I'll be looking at you

00:44:34instead of the trainer

00:44:35while I'm drawing.

00:44:38I'm pissed with it.

00:44:41I have lots of women

00:44:43sliding into my DMs lately

00:44:45and I love it.

00:44:46I freaking love it.

00:44:50Oh, someone's messaging me.

00:44:54Who is it?

00:44:56Natalie's replying

00:44:57to my workout post

00:44:59and she says,

00:44:59great job.

00:45:01She's proud of me.

00:45:03Natalie is a woman

00:45:04that I dated

00:45:05about eight months ago

00:45:06when Jasmine and I

00:45:08were on really shaky ground.

00:45:11You're like a super amazing person.

00:45:13Sorry, Ian.

00:45:14He's just so adorable, too.

00:45:17Look at your smile.

00:45:18It's so cute.

00:45:19Oh, you're so sweet.

00:45:23I thought Natalie and I,

00:45:24we could have

00:45:25a real future together,

00:45:26but when I brought her

00:45:27to my cousin's birthday party

00:45:29and Jasmine showed up,

00:45:30everything went to hell.

00:45:32Why are we bringing

00:45:33the horse from Vegas?

00:45:35Oh, really?

00:45:36You should watch her.

00:45:38Don't touch her.

00:45:40Relax, relax.

00:45:41No, no.

00:45:42Don't you listen.

00:45:43It's so hard.

00:45:45Get off it.

00:45:46We didn't talk

00:45:48for almost a year

00:45:49and then Natalie and I,

00:45:51we reconnected

00:45:52at the Happily Ever After Tello.

00:45:54And we've been texting

00:45:55each other ever since.

00:45:58Yeah, I responded to her.

00:45:59But I added some emojis to it,

00:46:01like the heart emoji

00:46:03and the heart head

00:46:05with the three hearts

00:46:05around the head.

00:46:06You know, I want to get

00:46:08her attention, like,

00:46:09hey, you know,

00:46:11I'm still interested in you.

00:46:13I still like Natalie a lot,

00:46:14so I asked her

00:46:16if I could visit her next week

00:46:18and she said yes.

00:46:20You know, this is soft.

00:46:22I mean, it's exactly

00:46:24how I like my women, soft.

00:46:26This is my chance

00:46:28to build a relationship with her.

00:46:30But after everything

00:46:31that's happened,

00:46:32it's going to take

00:46:33a lot of work.

00:46:34I really feel like

00:46:36I have a lot to prove

00:46:37with Natalie,

00:46:38like, with actions,

00:46:39not just words.

00:46:40I know it's my last shot

00:46:42and I cannot mess it up.

00:46:44Now, that I could post

00:46:46on my Instagram,

00:46:47that big-ass cucumber.

00:46:52Pedro's arranged a van

00:46:53for me and the girls

00:46:54to get around with.

00:46:56Oh!

00:46:58Candle in the car!

00:46:59The van alone, cute.

00:47:01But the other stuff,

00:47:03I feel very overwhelmed.

00:47:04He's coming on very strong.

00:47:06Ah!

00:47:06Pedro!

00:47:07He has a ring in his hand.

00:47:28This is my first night

00:47:30in the VR

00:47:31and I am going out

00:47:32with Sophie and Julián

00:47:34and we are actually

00:47:36going to go meet Pedro.

00:47:38I was told that Pedro

00:47:39is bringing some single friends

00:47:41so I'm super excited right now.

00:47:50I need to get a spark

00:47:52back in my life.

00:47:54I live in Washington.

00:47:56It's always gloomy.

00:47:58There's hardly any sunshine

00:48:00and it can be

00:48:01very depressing at times.

00:48:03So when Sophie planned

00:48:05a girls' trip,

00:48:06I was all about it.

00:48:08I need sun kisses

00:48:09from head to toe.

00:48:11I am really excited.

00:48:13I want to get dressed up.

00:48:13I want to go out.

00:48:14I want to meet people.

00:48:15I want to mingle.

00:48:16I want to flirt

00:48:16and I want to feel sexy.

00:48:19I have jumped

00:48:19from relationship

00:48:20to relationship

00:48:21to relationship

00:48:22and looking back,

00:48:24I've never picked

00:48:25the right guy

00:48:25and I've given

00:48:26the wrong guy

00:48:27way too many chances.

00:48:30Um, I think you're amazing

00:48:33and I want to ask you

00:48:34out on a date.

00:48:36One of my last

00:48:36relationships was Ed.

00:48:39It just took me a while

00:48:40to get used

00:48:40to your beautiful face

00:48:41but, um...

00:48:42It took me a while

00:48:43to get used to you.

00:48:45Burn!

00:48:46We were kind of always

00:48:47a hot mess.

00:48:48Hi, go f*** yourself.

00:48:50Bye.

00:48:51Liz, Liz, Liz.

00:48:52You are out of control,

00:48:54you drunk.

00:48:54Shut the f*** up.

00:48:56You don't give a f***, Ed.

00:48:58But, despite all that,

00:49:00I truly had fallen in love

00:49:02with Ed

00:49:02and always wanted

00:49:03to make it work.

00:49:05Will you marry me?

00:49:10But then Ed

00:49:11ended the relationship

00:49:12one month

00:49:13before the wedding.

00:49:14You're going to be

00:49:15the best person

00:49:16of yourself

00:49:16and it's not going

00:49:17to be with me.

00:49:19Liz, rest assured,

00:49:21I'm always going

00:49:22to be an asshole.

00:49:25Then came Jason.

00:49:27You're in the past.

00:49:28We're going to move forward.

00:49:29Starting today,

00:49:30you will never

00:49:31disrespect her again.

00:49:32Otherwise,

00:49:32you're going to have

00:49:33to deal with me.

00:49:34Four months

00:49:35into dating Jason,

00:49:36I found out

00:49:37that he had

00:49:38another girlfriend

00:49:39that he was dating

00:49:40for a year.

00:49:41And then,

00:49:42the time that I needed

00:49:43him to step up

00:49:44and be there

00:49:44for me the most,

00:49:46like, he didn't.

00:49:46He couldn't.

00:49:48A couple months ago,

00:49:50right before I broke up

00:49:50with Jason,

00:49:51um,

00:49:52I didn't get

00:49:52the best news.

00:49:55I had a mass

00:49:56that was growing

00:49:57in my stomach.

00:49:59It turned out

00:50:00to be pre-stage one

00:50:02ovarian cancer,

00:50:03which I actually

00:50:04found out

00:50:04through a miscarriage

00:50:06that Jason and I had.

00:50:09And I'm so grateful

00:50:10for that

00:50:10because it helped

00:50:12me catch me being sick,

00:50:15but...

00:50:19I think I can touch it.

00:50:25Being sick

00:50:26took a huge toll

00:50:26on me.

00:50:28But I also know

00:50:29that I'm gonna

00:50:29overcome it.

00:50:31I'm really hopeful

00:50:33about my future.

00:50:34I don't wanna waste

00:50:36any moment.

00:50:38I want to

00:50:39live my life,

00:50:41and I really do

00:50:42wanna find love again.

00:50:45Girls' Night!

00:50:47I deserve the best,

00:50:49and I've definitely

00:50:50learned that life

00:50:51is too short

00:50:52to accept anything else.

00:50:53I'll bet you're

00:50:54missing me now.

00:51:00Right now,

00:51:01I'm beyond my soul!

00:51:04Do y'all remember

00:51:04the last time

00:51:05I went clubbing?

00:51:06Really?

00:51:07Yeah.

00:51:08Mine was like

00:51:08two days before this trip.

00:51:10It's my first night

00:51:11in the DR,

00:51:12and I have my girls

00:51:13with me,

00:51:14but I'm also really

00:51:14looking forward

00:51:15to just spending

00:51:15some time with Pedro.

00:51:16Hello?

00:51:17Oh my gosh.

00:51:19Pedro's arranged

00:51:19a van for me

00:51:20and the girls

00:51:21to basically use

00:51:22in the DR

00:51:22and get around with,

00:51:24which I feel like

00:51:24that's really thoughtful

00:51:25and sweet.

00:51:25Bye.

00:51:27Hello!

00:51:29Oh!

00:51:33Oh my god!

00:51:36Oh my goodness!

00:51:37Oh my goodness!

00:51:38Okay, should I hop in the back?

00:51:40I'm sorry,

00:51:41that is like

00:51:41candle in a car!

00:51:45Candle in a car!

00:51:47The van alone,

00:51:48cute,

00:51:49but the other stuff,

00:51:50I feel very overwhelmed

00:51:51and I just feel like

00:51:53he's coming on very strong.

00:51:56I feel like that's

00:51:56his welcome to his country.

00:51:58I don't think that's too much.

00:52:00Candle in a car, okay.

00:52:02Candle in a car

00:52:03has blown my mind.

00:52:05Can I just applaud

00:52:06how adorable

00:52:07and sexy this is?

00:52:09No, it's really cute.

00:52:11It's cute.

00:52:12It is cute.

00:52:13Okay, I'm back.

00:52:15Did he do the ball as well?

00:52:19Pedro put this

00:52:20in more sexy vibe,

00:52:21but he forgot

00:52:22we will be there too.

00:52:23It's a sexy vibe

00:52:24for me and my friends.

00:52:26Nani nani, Pedro.

00:52:28She's trying to say naughty.

00:52:30I speak Julia language.

00:52:32Yeah.

00:52:33This translator.

00:52:33Yeah.

00:52:35Do you want to gaze him?

00:52:36Yeah.

00:52:37If he goes in,

00:52:37he'll probably go.

00:52:38Well, yeah,

00:52:39we haven't done anything yet,

00:52:40you know,

00:52:40so it's like,

00:52:41I'm going to hug him.

00:52:42Do we keep the tequila

00:52:43out of your hands

00:52:44or do we put it in your hands?

00:52:45Put it in my hands.

00:52:46Okay.

00:52:47In my hands.

00:52:56Let's go.

00:52:57That's it.

00:52:57Dain some mosh.

00:52:59Honey,

00:53:00I don't know

00:53:00if I can't make it long.

00:53:04Cause I'll be watching you

00:53:05while the DJ plays your song.

00:53:08It's been two and a half months

00:53:09the last time I saw Sophie.

00:53:11I hope that she still

00:53:12had the same feeling for me.

00:53:14Maybe you could show me

00:53:16cause I've been waiting so long.

00:53:22Ah, it's Pedro.

00:53:24Where is he?

00:53:25He has a ring in his hand.

00:53:26Shut up.

00:53:27He has a ring of flowers

00:53:28and the red carpet.

00:53:30He's been dying.

00:53:31I'm going to go film.

00:53:35You got this, girl.

00:53:39Wow.

00:53:42You look good.

00:53:44How are you?

00:53:45How you been?

00:53:45I'm good.

00:53:46How are you?

00:53:46How was the fly?

00:53:47As long as okay.

00:53:50She looked

00:53:51like

00:53:52stunning.

00:53:53She looked stunning.

00:53:55Oh.

00:53:55The hug that she gave me

00:53:57was very awkward.

00:53:58Huck like a brother.

00:54:00She looked like a

00:54:00like a

00:54:01like a

00:54:02like a

00:54:02side hug.

00:54:05Even the baseball

00:54:06they give you a little spanky.

00:54:07Oh, good job, boy.

00:54:09Bam.

00:54:12Introduce me to you.

00:54:13Oh, yeah.

00:54:14That's

00:54:14Smith.

00:54:15Oh, yeah.

00:54:16I want to see you.

00:54:16Sorry.

00:54:18How's it going?

00:54:19How's it going?

00:54:20How's it going?

00:54:21That's the first time

00:54:21I met Julia

00:54:22and then she hugged me

00:54:23with so much sight

00:54:24like,

00:54:24God damn it.

00:54:25Like,

00:54:25Sophie,

00:54:26come on.

00:54:27Get Julia's energy,

00:54:28please.

00:54:28You love it?

00:54:29I'm ready to be here.

00:54:31Nice to meet you.

00:54:32Liz.

00:54:33Okay, ladies.

00:54:35We're going to go

00:54:35out there

00:54:36to the rooftop.

00:54:37You're going to meet my

00:54:38friends,

00:54:38enjoy the night,

00:54:40follow me, ladies.

00:54:41Okay, which way should we go?

00:54:41How you doing?

00:54:43Very good.

00:54:43How are you?

00:54:44Good, good, good.

00:54:45Is it this way?

00:54:46Yeah.

00:54:52Okay.

00:54:56Okay, okay.

00:54:59Guys,

00:55:00let me introduce you.

00:55:02That's my friend Villas.

00:55:04Darling.

00:55:05And this is

00:55:06Raphael.

00:55:07Okay.

00:55:08She's

00:55:08Sophie.

00:55:10Julia.

00:55:11And Liz.

00:55:13Nice to meet you.

00:55:15Well,

00:55:15how was the band?

00:55:16Was good?

00:55:17Yeah, yeah.

00:55:18It was here.

00:55:18Good job, guys.

00:55:19They helped me.

00:55:20Oh, yeah.

00:55:21It was super cute.

00:55:24I can tell Pedro's

00:55:25very excited

00:55:26for all his friends

00:55:27to meet me,

00:55:28which,

00:55:29it's nice.

00:55:30But it feels like

00:55:31I'm, like,

00:55:32walking in

00:55:32to, like,

00:55:33a job interview

00:55:33or, like,

00:55:34I'm supposed

00:55:34to give a speech

00:55:35or something

00:55:35because they were

00:55:36just sat there

00:55:37like this at me.

00:55:39Okay.

00:55:40Make sure you sit.

00:55:41All right, let me.

00:55:45I already feel

00:55:46like there's

00:55:47expectation of me

00:55:48and I'm kind of

00:55:49brought here

00:55:50as Pedro's girlfriend.

00:55:52It's just kind of

00:55:53freaking me out

00:55:54a little bit.

00:55:57One.

00:55:58Let's just go pee.

00:55:59Okay, yeah.

00:55:59We're just gonna go to the bottom

00:56:00real quick.

00:56:00Okay, go to the bottom.

00:56:02You know where the bottom at?

00:56:03We'll find it.

00:56:05Huh?

00:56:05We'll find it.

00:56:11That's...

00:56:14That energy, bro.

00:56:15I don't know.

00:56:16What's, like...

00:56:17I don't know.

00:56:18I don't know.

00:56:19I don't know.

00:56:21What's very awkward?

00:56:23I'm just excited

00:56:24that Sophie's here,

00:56:25but right now

00:56:26it's feel cold,

00:56:29indifference,

00:56:30weird,

00:56:31you know,

00:56:31like,

00:56:32awkward.

00:56:34Sophie's an entire

00:56:35different person

00:56:35that I met before.

00:56:41Sexually,

00:56:41he is...

00:56:41He's good.

00:56:42He's great with me.

00:56:43And his is big,

00:56:44so there you go.

00:56:46Even though I'm in my 50s,

00:56:48I still have urges.

00:56:49I still have needs.

00:56:53Ooh.

00:57:07I have plans to hook up

00:57:10right now.

00:57:11Oh, oh!

00:57:12Whoa!

00:57:14I'm feeling too flat.

00:57:16Yeah.

00:57:17I've been going way up.

00:57:18Yeah.

00:57:19Give me my paper

00:57:20because you already know.

00:57:21Wait, wait.

00:57:23What?

00:57:23So, like,

00:57:25a booty call.

00:57:26A booty call.

00:57:27Yeah.

00:57:28So, a booty call

00:57:29is when you're not

00:57:30in a relationship

00:57:31and you just

00:57:32meet up

00:57:32with one of your

00:57:33little friends

00:57:34and, you know,

00:57:35you have some

00:57:35drinky drinks

00:57:36and then do the deed

00:57:38and then you just

00:57:39go home.

00:57:40Even though I'm

00:57:41in my 50s,

00:57:42I still have urges,

00:57:43I still have needs

00:57:44and it, like,

00:57:45gets the needs met.

00:57:46You know what?

00:57:47It's a step

00:57:48in the right direction.

00:57:50Why not?

00:57:51I'm meeting up

00:57:52with Benjamin,

00:57:53or as everybody

00:57:53calls him, B.

00:57:55He's a really good

00:57:56friend of mine

00:57:56and I dated him

00:57:57for about six months

00:57:58before I met Usman.

00:58:01Once Usman and I

00:58:02broke up

00:58:02and he knew it,

00:58:03he just slid

00:58:04right in the DMs

00:58:05and we've been

00:58:06banging it out

00:58:07ever since.

00:58:10It's tricky

00:58:11with me and B

00:58:12because the connection

00:58:13is there.

00:58:13Like, you can feel it,

00:58:14you know?

00:58:15But he's just

00:58:15a friend with benefits.

00:58:17I just don't feel

00:58:18like we're at that

00:58:19point to make

00:58:20it a relationship.

00:58:21When B and I

00:58:22tried to date

00:58:23like five,

00:58:24six years ago,

00:58:25we were doing

00:58:26pretty good.

00:58:27We have a lot

00:58:27of things in common

00:58:28and then about

00:58:29six months in,

00:58:30B hit me up with

00:58:31he wanted to be

00:58:31like in a thropple.

00:58:33He wanted me

00:58:34to have sex

00:58:35with the woman

00:58:36and I was just like,

00:58:37are you high?

00:58:39No, I'm not doing that.

00:58:40He was very

00:58:41free-spirited back then

00:58:42and Kim was not.

00:58:43Sexually,

00:58:44B is good.

00:58:45He's great,

00:58:45with me.

00:58:46And his

00:58:46is big,

00:58:47so there you go.

00:58:48You had that

00:58:50with Usman though.

00:58:51It was the same thing.

00:58:52You had the connection

00:58:52but there was

00:58:53all these other

00:58:53red flags.

00:58:54That's how I feel

00:58:55and I don't want

00:58:55the red flags.

00:58:57Being a woman

00:58:59of a certain age

00:59:00that we all are,

00:59:03it is refreshing

00:59:06for me to see her

00:59:09having a little bit

00:59:10of a hoe phase.

00:59:12You know what?

00:59:13I'm all for that.

00:59:14Are you for that?

00:59:14Yeah, I think she,

00:59:15I mean,

00:59:16get it out of her system

00:59:17for a little bit

00:59:17until she finds

00:59:18the right one.

00:59:19Friends with benefits,

00:59:20whatever they have

00:59:21is a good connection.

00:59:22I'm down for it.

00:59:23Yeah.

00:59:23Okay, love you.

00:59:24I love you.

00:59:25All right, bye.

00:59:25I love you.

00:59:26Love you too.

00:59:26But we want her

00:59:27to find somebody

00:59:28that is truly special

00:59:30and truly someone

00:59:31that she can fall

00:59:32in love with

00:59:32and that loves her.

00:59:34True.

00:59:35He ain't the one.

00:59:36No.

00:59:36But for tonight,

00:59:37he is the one.

00:59:45B and I have been

00:59:46hooking up

00:59:46every couple weeks

00:59:47in some really nice hotels

00:59:49because he has roommates

00:59:50and with my house,

00:59:51I never know

00:59:52if Jamal's gonna show up

00:59:53or not.

00:59:59At first,

00:59:59it was a little inconvenient,

01:00:01but I have to tell you,

01:00:02like, hotel sex

01:00:02is kind of hot.

01:00:03Nice hotel sex.

01:00:13Ooh.

01:00:14Ooh.

01:00:16Yay!

01:00:17Come on in.

01:00:18I've been waiting to see you.

01:00:22It's good to see you.

01:00:23I know.

01:00:25I know.

01:00:25Hell yeah.

01:00:26Come on in.

01:00:27This is nice, B.

01:00:28I know, right?

01:00:29So much nicer

01:00:30than those old hotels

01:00:31we used to get.

01:00:33Man.

01:00:34Back in the day.

01:00:35Isn't that crazy?

01:00:36Absolutely.

01:00:36Look at us now.

01:00:37You look beautiful,

01:00:38as usual.

01:00:39I try.

01:00:40My name is Benjamin,

01:00:42but everybody calls me B

01:00:44because I'm like the bumblebee.

01:00:46I'll always be buzzing around

01:00:48and you never know

01:00:49where I'll land at.

01:00:50This is a good bed.

01:00:51This is nice.

01:00:52Look at this.

01:00:53This is a big bed.

01:00:54This is a big bed.

01:00:55The reason why me and Kim

01:00:56keep coming back

01:00:57to each other

01:00:58is definitely because

01:00:59of the friendship

01:00:59that we have together.

01:01:01She's somebody

01:01:01I definitely like.

01:01:03I rock with.

01:01:05So I went to this

01:01:06dating event thing.

01:01:08Today?

01:01:08You know what I'm saying?

01:01:09Yeah.

01:01:09See, this is why I love you

01:01:10because we can talk

01:01:11about this stuff, right?

01:01:12Of course.

01:01:13Of course.

01:01:13So it was Laura and Jody

01:01:14and my friend Lily.

01:01:15Right.

01:01:16And they pitched me.

01:01:17So it was called

01:01:18Pitch a Friend.

01:01:19It was a slideshow presentation.

01:01:21Like a real slideshow?

01:01:23Yes.

01:01:23Like with pictures?

01:01:24Yeah, of me.

01:01:25And then like my likes

01:01:26and dislikes

01:01:27and all this stuff.

01:01:28So it was cool.

01:01:29It was very touching,

01:01:30but it just was not my thing.

01:01:32Sometimes I tell B

01:01:33about me like meeting other guys

01:01:35or like this whole

01:01:36Pitch a Friend thing

01:01:36because I want to see

01:01:37what he's going to say.

01:01:38Like, don't do that.

01:01:40Let me try to be your man.

01:01:41B and I are good together

01:01:42and I know he sees it.

01:01:44And I was kind of hoping

01:01:45that with age

01:01:46that B would like,

01:01:47you know, calm it down

01:01:48a little bit

01:01:48with the sexcapades

01:01:49and want to be

01:01:50in a monogamous relationship.

01:01:52We've known each other forever.

01:01:54Yeah, I miss you so much.

01:01:55I miss you too.

01:01:56Like, we're cool.

01:01:57Like, we're friends

01:01:57with benefits now

01:01:58and I love that.

01:01:59But like, I'd like maybe

01:02:00to see it grow

01:02:01to see what else it could be.

01:02:04We've always talked about it,

01:02:05you know?

01:02:06And the only way

01:02:07we're going to find that out

01:02:08is with more time.

01:02:09Mm-hmm.

01:02:10We should plan like

01:02:11once every two weeks.

01:02:14When we can.

01:02:17So you haven't even

01:02:17been to my house yet.

01:02:19No, but I'm...

01:02:19It's so crazy.

01:02:20I'm coming.

01:02:26Yeah.

01:02:27Okay.

01:02:28I am tired

01:02:29and I just want to go

01:02:30take a shower.

01:02:30Is that okay?

01:02:31Yeah, of course.

01:02:33Okay.

01:02:33I'll give you a massage

01:02:34once I get out of the shower.

01:02:35So,

01:02:36I'm just...

01:02:37I'm just...

01:02:39Baby, baby, please.

01:02:40Baby, baby, baby, baby, please.

01:02:41What?

01:02:42Can you show me, like,

01:02:44what that might feel like?

01:02:46Yes.

01:02:46Let's go.

01:02:47Let me see.

01:02:48Let me see.

01:02:50I have a good hand.

01:02:52I love B to death

01:02:53and I would love

01:02:54to be in a relationship

01:02:55with him

01:02:55and I'm putting out the vibe

01:02:57but he is not picking up

01:02:58what Kim is putting down.

01:02:59So, I mean,

01:03:01where do we go from here?

01:03:02Oh, dang.

01:03:03All right.

01:03:04I'm going to go

01:03:05take a shower.

01:03:05I don't want to be

01:03:06shuffling with my walker

01:03:08up to a hotel room

01:03:09when I'm 80 years old.

01:03:11I just want more

01:03:12for myself.

01:03:12So, if B doesn't

01:03:13step up soon,

01:03:14I mean, this whole relationship

01:03:15is going to have

01:03:16an expiration date.

01:03:17I'm not going to keep waiting.

01:03:22Traveling today

01:03:23to see Natalie again.

01:03:25God, aren't these sexy?

01:03:27I mean, holy cow.

01:03:28I hope she gives me

01:03:29a second chance

01:03:30and more importantly,

01:03:32I hope I don't mess it up.

01:03:44You know I'm working, working

01:03:46cause I'm going to earn it, earn it.

01:03:51Why are you packing up shampoo?

01:03:53Well, I got to wash the hair, right?

01:03:55The little hair that I have,

01:03:56the patch of hair

01:03:57on the back of my head.

01:03:59I shampoo it,

01:04:00I condition it,

01:04:01I take very good care of it.

01:04:03That's the only hair

01:04:04I got left on my head.

01:04:06I've got a good thing going

01:04:08and I'll never slow them down.

01:04:17I want to look good for Natalie,

01:04:19you know,

01:04:19so I bought a couple of new shirts.

01:04:23Hopefully she'll like them.

01:04:26I can't wait to hop on a plane

01:04:27and go see Natalie.

01:04:29They're colorful.

01:04:31That's for sure.

01:04:33Definitely colorful.

01:04:34I visited Natalie in Vegas previously

01:04:37because that's where her home's at.

01:04:40This time,

01:04:41I'm going to travel to D.C.

01:04:43because she's currently

01:04:44working remotely there.

01:04:45God, aren't these sexy?

01:04:47I mean, holy cow,

01:04:49that's some sexy-ass underwear

01:04:50right here.

01:04:51A lot of our talks

01:04:53through text and such

01:04:54has been a lot of small talk

01:04:56to be honest

01:04:57and hasn't been very deep.

01:05:00So I really, really don't know

01:05:02how Natalie feels about me.

01:05:05But I don't think

01:05:06she would invite me

01:05:07to her apartment

01:05:08if she didn't have

01:05:09any feelings for me.

01:05:12I don't need my little blue pills

01:05:14and I'm not packing any

01:05:17because the little blue pills

01:05:18I need for someone

01:05:19that is ugly on the inside

01:05:22and a constant bitch.

01:05:24Then I need something

01:05:25to pump me up.

01:05:25But Natalie is a different story

01:05:27because just her personality

01:05:30and attitude,

01:05:31the way she is,

01:05:32I'm going to get it up, man.

01:05:35All right.

01:05:36I think we got it.

01:05:39Woo-hoo!

01:05:43I'm in the thrift store

01:05:45wondering what to do with my life

01:05:47Been through the black door

01:05:49and she comes sharp as the knife

01:05:51Time to board.

01:05:53I'll see you soon, Natalie.

01:05:54I've been through so much misery

01:05:56and heartbreak

01:05:57for the last two years

01:05:58so trying to put myself

01:06:00out there again,

01:06:02it's not easy.

01:06:03Woo-hoo!

01:06:04Woo-hoo!

01:06:08But there's not many times

01:06:10that you can get

01:06:10a second chance

01:06:11and especially

01:06:12with a woman

01:06:14that's high quality

01:06:15like Natalie is.

01:06:17Woo-hoo!

01:06:18Everything is possible now

01:06:23Good morning.

01:06:24Good morning.

01:06:25How are you?

01:06:27Doing great.

01:06:28Doing great.

01:06:28My first time

01:06:29in Washington, D.C.

01:06:30I'm excited.

01:06:31Excited.

01:06:31I hope you enjoy your stay.

01:06:34I'm so excited

01:06:34to be here to see

01:06:36who I'm meeting today.

01:06:38On top of her

01:06:39having that great personality

01:06:40and caring

01:06:41and fun

01:06:42and kind,

01:06:43she is a hot,

01:06:44sexy, passionate Latina,

01:06:46let me tell you.

01:06:47She's on fire, man.

01:06:48She's on fire, baby.

01:06:53Oh, is this it?

01:06:54Yeah, this is it.

01:06:57You're welcome.

01:06:57I'm meeting Natalie

01:06:58at a tea shop

01:06:59near her office.

01:07:00The plan is to catch up

01:07:02a little

01:07:02and then go check

01:07:03out her apartment.

01:07:17How are you feeling?

01:07:19Well,

01:07:20I'm super excited

01:07:21to see her

01:07:23and hang out with her

01:07:24and...

01:07:24But I have some nervousness.

01:07:26It's a little nerve-wracking.

01:07:32My heart's racing a bit.

01:07:35That's what Natalie does to me.

01:07:48I hope that Natalie gives me

01:07:49a second chance.

01:07:51But more importantly,

01:07:52I hope I don't mess it up.

01:07:55Hey!

01:07:59What was your name again?

01:08:01Via.

01:08:01Via?

01:08:02Nice to meet you.

01:08:02Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?

01:08:05No, there you go.

01:08:06There you go.

01:08:07Via is very good looking

01:08:10and he smells expensive.

01:08:14Honestly,

01:08:15if I never wanted

01:08:16to get divorced,

01:08:16like, he would still be mad.

01:08:18Any hookups with him?

01:08:20I don't want to be

01:08:21collateral damage

01:08:22for somebody

01:08:23that don't know what it wants.

01:08:24What the f***

01:08:25are we doing here?

01:08:36How do you feel right now?

01:08:38I don't know why

01:08:39his energy just gives me,

01:08:40like,

01:08:40I just feel like

01:08:41in his head

01:08:42we're in a relationship.

01:08:44Like, if you ask him,

01:08:44I feel like he's like,

01:08:45yeah, that's my girl.

01:08:48Uh-huh.

01:08:55They take a long time,

01:08:56the restroom.

01:08:57What are they doing?

01:08:59Nobody tell you,

01:09:00you can have fun.

01:09:02Just have fun.

01:09:03I feel like he won't

01:09:04let me have fun now.

01:09:06Like, now he's gonna feel like

01:09:08she's in my country,

01:09:09she's meeting my friends.

01:09:11Like, I feel like maybe

01:09:12it's giving off

01:09:12the wrong vibe.

01:09:14You just loosen up

01:09:14a little bit

01:09:15with a couple drinks

01:09:15and you'll be good.

01:09:18That's just the other goes.

01:09:20It'll be a good night.

01:09:21Yeah.

01:09:22You know what?

01:09:23Don't be me, my man.

01:09:24Don't be me.

01:09:25Kitty's thirsty.

01:09:28Me and the girls

01:09:29just arrived at the club

01:09:30to meet Pedro

01:09:30and his friends

01:09:31and it's a very

01:09:32overwhelming environment.

01:09:34Sorry, uh,

01:09:35you can sit down.

01:09:37Um, uh,

01:09:38you can see over here.

01:09:39Sophie.

01:09:40I already started

01:09:41to feel overwhelmed

01:09:41in the van

01:09:42and now I just feel

01:09:43like he's thinking

01:09:44this is my girlfriend,

01:09:45she's meeting all my friends

01:09:46and it's not the vibe

01:09:47that I've been in

01:09:48with him before.

01:09:49Which, that's what I loved

01:09:50before.

01:09:51It was so easygoing

01:09:51and this feels a little bit,

01:09:52a little bit pressure.

01:09:55Lisa, I'm going to introduce

01:09:56you to my friend, Villa.

01:09:58What is your name again?

01:09:59Villa.

01:09:59Villa?

01:10:00Nice to meet you.

01:10:01Oh, you don't do

01:10:01the kiss thing?

01:10:02You know, okay?

01:10:03I don't think

01:10:03that's what we're doing.

01:10:04You can't make a picture.

01:10:05No, there you go,

01:10:06there you go.

01:10:08Villa is very good looking.

01:10:11He's very well groomed,

01:10:13like his haircut's on point

01:10:15and he smells really good.

01:10:17He smells expensive.

01:10:20Cheers, thank you

01:10:22for inviting us out.

01:10:23Okay, ladies, let's go.

01:10:25Arriba, everywhere!

01:10:26Arriba, abajo,

01:10:29pal centro,

01:10:30pal destro.

01:10:31Go upstairs.

01:10:35That's it.

01:10:35Bachata de Jota!

01:10:37You dance?

01:10:38Yes.

01:10:39That's when our videos look like.

01:10:40One, five, two.

01:10:46There, you got it.

01:10:53As we're dancing,

01:10:54I can tell we're both

01:10:55very attracted to each other.

01:10:56Get close, get close,

01:10:57get close to me.

01:10:59No, get close to me.

01:11:00No water.

01:11:01He just smells really good.

01:11:03He dresses well

01:11:04and he's just hot.

01:11:06But even though

01:11:07I'm attracted to him,

01:11:08I don't want to like

01:11:08be all over him

01:11:09the first night

01:11:10and lead him on

01:11:11because I still don't really

01:11:12know what I want yet.

01:11:13Hey, hey, hey.

01:11:15So you've never danced

01:11:16bachata before?

01:11:16I was trying to sign up

01:11:18for bachata lessons

01:11:19while I'm out here.

01:11:19It's so easy.

01:11:20I can teach you that.

01:11:21Okay.

01:11:24We can start here, right?

01:11:26So it's one, two, three.

01:11:29Oh, you do know.

01:11:33One, two.

01:11:34One, two.

01:11:35One, two.

01:11:36And bam, bam, bam, bam, bam.

01:11:43You lied to me.

01:11:45You said she didn't know.

01:11:46She said she was going to

01:11:46take classes.

01:11:47I said I wanted to do a lesson.

01:11:49No.

01:11:53Let's go over here better.

01:11:56Everyone just left.

01:11:58That's okay.

01:12:00They needed that alone time.

01:12:01Yeah.

01:12:02You look beautiful.

01:12:03You look gorgeous.

01:12:05I'm super happy

01:12:07that you're here.

01:12:08Oh, yeah.

01:12:08That you take the invitation

01:12:09to come in here,

01:12:10to spend a little time with me.

01:12:12I know you're going to have

01:12:13the best time.

01:12:15I woke up and I had a pina colada

01:12:16for breakfast

01:12:18because I'm in the DR.

01:12:21Wow.

01:12:22That's a lot.

01:12:24You don't need classes.

01:12:25No class?

01:12:26No.

01:12:27I think Liz likes your friend.

01:12:29Yeah, look.

01:12:29Yeah.

01:12:30Yeah.

01:12:32So are you from here?

01:12:33I was born in Atlanta.

01:12:36Which class, Fia?

01:12:38When's your birthday?

01:12:39September.

01:12:39September?

01:12:40I'm May, baby.

01:12:41I'm a Gemini.

01:12:42You're a Gemini?

01:12:43Yeah.

01:12:44What is your size?

01:12:45I'm a Libra.

01:12:46Okay.

01:12:46I feel like us Libras

01:12:47are pretty well balanced,

01:12:50which is...

01:12:51Is this your only tattoo?

01:12:53Oh.

01:12:53Yeah.

01:12:53Wow.

01:12:54It's a whole sleeve.

01:12:55It's a Libra.

01:12:56So a woman with a blindfold

01:12:58and a scale.

01:13:01What's this?

01:13:02Oh, it's my son's name.

01:13:04I have a kid.

01:13:08Riley Leanne.

01:13:09You have a kid?

01:13:10Yeah.

01:13:11Really?

01:13:11She's gonna be 12.

01:13:13You have a 12-year-old?

01:13:14Yeah.

01:13:15My baby means everything to me.

01:13:16Same.

01:13:17Yeah.

01:13:17Same.

01:13:17He is my reason for everything.

01:13:20Definitely.

01:13:22Oh.

01:13:23I'm feeling butterflies talking to Via.

01:13:26There'll be eight in July.

01:13:27He's sweet.

01:13:28He loves his kid.

01:13:30He's making eye contact with me.

01:13:33We're having great conversation.

01:13:35I think we need a drink to that.

01:13:37I think we need a shot.

01:13:39Is your friend a home?

01:13:41He's...

01:13:42I know.

01:13:43He is a home.

01:13:44It's okay.

01:13:45This isn't her single era.

01:13:47So this is her time

01:13:48to just, like,

01:13:49live her life a little bit.

01:13:50Same with me.

01:13:51I'm not in a toxic relationship.

01:13:53You're separated right now.

01:13:54Are you still married?

01:13:55Are you divorced?

01:13:58How...

01:13:59How that goes?

01:14:01Like, I'm still suddenly married,

01:14:02but I'm, like,

01:14:03starting the process of divorce.

01:14:05But we're still...

01:14:06How far you are at that?

01:14:07Like,

01:14:09just now.

01:14:11So it's very new.

01:14:13It never really felt like

01:14:15it was the end

01:14:15because he would still call me.

01:14:17He still called you?

01:14:18He called me two days ago,

01:14:19four in the morning.

01:14:20For what?

01:14:21It was an unknown number

01:14:22because I had me blocked.

01:14:23And he was like,

01:14:23why do you have me blocked?

01:14:25I'm, like,

01:14:25for getting divorced.

01:14:28Why...

01:14:29Why are you so upset with you?

01:14:30Like,

01:14:30why are you not going to move on?

01:14:31Honestly,

01:14:32if I never wanted to get divorced,

01:14:33like,

01:14:33he would still be mad.

01:14:35I told that Sophie

01:14:36and her husband's divorce

01:14:38was more fired alone

01:14:40because she told me

01:14:42he was the worst husband,

01:14:44that he...

01:14:44he made her, like,

01:14:46miserable all the time.

01:14:48If that guy threw you that bad,

01:14:50why you get the phone calls

01:14:51and answer the phone?

01:14:53Any hookers with him?

01:15:00Yeah.

01:15:03We, like, hooked up

01:15:04after a few months

01:15:05because as much as

01:15:06that guy was horrible to me,

01:15:08I still had love for him.

01:15:09When he was being nice to me,

01:15:11I forgot about

01:15:11all the bad memories.

01:15:13And so we slept together.

01:15:17They've been hookups.

01:15:18And she never told me

01:15:19they did hookup before.

01:15:21I am speechless.

01:15:23It's hard when you love someone.

01:15:24I can't just be like,

01:15:25I'm you.

01:15:26Bye, you know?

01:15:27Look,

01:15:28if you want to be with Rob,

01:15:29okay, be with Rob

01:15:30or be with...

01:15:30with every guy

01:15:31that you want to be.

01:15:33But I don't want to be

01:15:34collateral damage

01:15:35from somebody

01:15:36that don't know what it wants.

01:15:37What the we doing here?

01:15:42I wish I would have

01:15:43just handled

01:15:44this whole situation better,

01:15:46you know,

01:15:47but now I have to just...

01:15:48I wish you did too.

01:15:48I've been carrying

01:15:49a really big secret

01:15:51for about 30 years.

01:15:52I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.

01:15:54I don't know...

01:15:55I up, you know?

01:16:10I'm just getting home

01:16:11from my night with B.

01:16:13Even at 55,

01:16:14I'm still doing

01:16:15the Walk of Shades.

01:16:26Come on, let me give you some treats.

01:16:29Hi, my baby.

01:16:31Here.

01:16:34Last night was pretty amazing.

01:16:36B's really good in bed,

01:16:37I have to say.

01:16:39And usually after a night like that,

01:16:41I'm feeling all zen

01:16:41and woosah

01:16:42and, you know, calm.

01:16:44But right now,

01:16:45I'm feeling a little anxious

01:16:46and nervous

01:16:46because Jamal's coming over.

01:16:48So good to be out of those clothes.

01:16:51Oh, my God.

01:16:51He thinks he's coming over here

01:16:53to help me build a dresser,

01:16:54but really,

01:16:55I have some things

01:16:56I need to talk to him about.

01:17:04Ding-dong.

01:17:04Hey.

01:17:05What's up?

01:17:06How are you?

01:17:07Good.

01:17:08How are you?

01:17:09I'm good.

01:17:11So this is a dresser

01:17:12I want to put in my guest room.

01:17:14See?

01:17:14Is it big?

01:17:15It's...

01:17:16Look at the picture.

01:17:17Okay, here we go.

01:17:18So they go A and C-E.

01:17:21It goes like this.

01:17:22Yeah, this is E, see?

01:17:25This is so fun.

01:17:27So I went out

01:17:28for girls' night last night

01:17:29with Laura, Jody,

01:17:30and Lily.

01:17:31You know my friend from work, Lily.

01:17:32So we went to Mavericks

01:17:34and they had this event

01:17:35called Pitch Me.

01:17:36Oh, no way.

01:17:37So they did like a presentation

01:17:38of like what I'm looking for

01:17:40in a guy.

01:17:40And all the guys

01:17:41were like 12, Jamal.

01:17:42They weren't even like grown,

01:17:43you know?

01:17:44Well, I feel like

01:17:45your last couple guys

01:17:46have been younger, so.

01:17:49My last one guy

01:17:51was younger.

01:17:53So, well, B's not really.

01:17:54B's 44,

01:17:55so I mean, he's, you know.

01:17:57What's his real name?

01:17:58Benjamin.

01:17:58Oh, yeah.

01:17:59B sounds better.

01:18:00Yeah, but so then

01:18:02he texts me

01:18:03and I went over

01:18:04to a hotel

01:18:05with him last night.

01:18:08Sure you don't want to know?

01:18:09Yeah, I don't need

01:18:10to hear that.

01:18:13Things have been tense

01:18:14between me and Jamal lately.

01:18:16I've hid things from him

01:18:18for so long

01:18:19that when I told him,

01:18:21it just devastated him.

01:18:24As long as we're not

01:18:25talking about these things,

01:18:26Jamal and I are fine.

01:18:28But it's like

01:18:28everything's hidden

01:18:29under this carpet

01:18:30and I have to pull

01:18:31that carpet away

01:18:32every now and then

01:18:32and talk about it.

01:18:34But Jamal will just

01:18:34hang up on me.

01:18:35He won't answer a text.

01:18:36He'll walk out the house.

01:18:38It's been very uncomfortable.

01:18:42You know, Larry's

01:18:43coming out here.

01:18:46Why is he coming out here?

01:18:48Just to see, like,

01:18:49you know, where I grew up at

01:18:50and, you know,

01:18:52get a little more

01:18:52of my family history.

01:18:55I wish I would have

01:18:56just handled

01:18:56this whole situation better.

01:18:59You know,

01:18:59but now I have to just...

01:19:00I wish you did too.

01:19:04You hid him for so long.

01:19:09I've been carrying

01:19:10a really big secret

01:19:11for about 30 years.

01:19:16I did what I thought.

01:19:18Yeah, but why'd you hide him

01:19:19for so long?

01:19:25Just give me a second.

01:19:29Jamal is not my only child.

01:19:34This is really hard for me.

01:19:42Jamal's dad and I

01:19:43were never married.

01:19:44We were together

01:19:45for seven and a half years.

01:19:47We were in the military together

01:19:49and he was just cheating

01:19:51all the time.

01:19:52It was just like

01:19:54every day

01:19:54there was like

01:19:55a different girl.

01:19:58When I got pregnant

01:19:59with my first son, Larry,

01:20:00first thing his dad said

01:20:01was abort it.

01:20:04And I just couldn't do that.

01:20:06When I was only 21 years old,

01:20:08I couldn't imagine

01:20:08being a single mom.

01:20:09I was not mentally ready.

01:20:11I was starting

01:20:12my military career.

01:20:13I was just not ready.

01:20:14So I decided to put my son

01:20:16up for adoption

01:20:17and I never told Jamal

01:20:18until last year

01:20:19when Larry found us

01:20:21through an Ancestry website.

01:20:23I don't think you ever

01:20:24would have told me.

01:20:25I would have told you.

01:20:26I don't think so.

01:20:27And that's a huge thing

01:20:28for me is like

01:20:31I don't think you ever

01:20:32would have told me.

01:20:34because like

01:20:35there was no reason

01:20:36to not tell me.

01:20:37I just didn't know

01:20:38how to say it.

01:20:39You know?

01:20:40And it's always been

01:20:41like me and you,

01:20:42me and you,

01:20:42me and you.

01:20:42And I finally got

01:20:43our relationship

01:20:44to where like

01:20:45I've always wanted

01:20:45it to be, right?

01:20:47So it was better for me

01:20:49to just keep

01:20:49this big dark secret.

01:20:51I felt like in my head

01:20:52I was just like

01:20:53trying to protect myself

01:20:55and then trying

01:20:55to protect you too

01:20:57because I just didn't

01:20:58I don't know.

01:20:59I just didn't know

01:21:00how to handle it.

01:21:00I didn't.

01:21:01That's

01:21:02that is the complete truth.

01:21:04I did not know

01:21:04how to handle this

01:21:05at all.

01:21:06At all.

01:21:09Last year

01:21:09I found out

01:21:11I had an older brother

01:21:13full blood

01:21:14mom and dad

01:21:15and my first thought

01:21:16was that she was lying

01:21:18and it was a joke

01:21:19or something

01:21:20because

01:21:22why would you hide this

01:21:24for so long

01:21:24when we're so close?

01:21:26And then when I found

01:21:26it was true

01:21:27I was just really pissed off.

01:21:29I have this whole other

01:21:29family and you knew

01:21:30about it.

01:21:32and I'm like

01:21:33how could my own mom

01:21:35like

01:21:36look me in my eyes

01:21:37when she knows

01:21:38I have a whole

01:21:38brother.

01:21:41Dude

01:21:42that's just not something

01:21:44I'm like

01:21:46even thought about

01:21:47forgiving yet

01:21:47because I just

01:21:48I just don't know

01:21:49who would do that

01:21:49so I'm like

01:21:51damn.

01:21:58I don't know

01:21:59I feel like

01:21:59your mom's the person

01:22:00you're supposed to trust

01:22:00like only

01:22:01like

01:22:02if you can't trust anyone else

01:22:03you can trust her

01:22:04but now it's like

01:22:05wow I can't trust anyone

01:22:07in the world anymore

01:22:09oh I'm like shaking

01:22:14it's like hard for me

01:22:15to look at you

01:22:15when we even talk

01:22:16about this whole thing

01:22:17you do make a lot

01:22:18of excuses

01:22:20I'm sorry

01:22:21that I hurt you so bad

01:22:22I don't know

01:22:23what else

01:22:23I up

01:22:24you know

01:22:26like I don't

01:22:26I don't know

01:22:27what else to say

01:22:27to fix it

01:22:30I know

01:22:31keeping Larry

01:22:31from Jamal

01:22:32was not the right

01:22:33thing to do

01:22:34it ended up

01:22:35just hurting him worse

01:22:37Jamal had every right

01:22:38to know that he had

01:22:39a brother out there

01:22:40and now

01:22:41all I'm trying to do

01:22:42is just repair

01:22:43what I f***ed up

01:22:45last year

01:22:46Jamal and I

01:22:47went to North Carolina

01:22:48to meet Larry

01:22:49his wife

01:22:50and his son

01:22:52meeting Larry

01:22:53for the first time

01:22:54was like

01:22:54crazy

01:22:55because I'm looking

01:22:56at him

01:22:57I'm like

01:22:57okay

01:22:57this is my blood

01:22:58this is my son

01:22:59and he has my face

01:23:01he looks just like me

01:23:02but he's a total

01:23:03stranger to me

01:23:05and technically

01:23:06I'm a grandma

01:23:09it's a surreal feeling

01:23:12but I'm so

01:23:13relieved

01:23:14because he was

01:23:15such a good man

01:23:16and

01:23:17I don't know

01:23:18how he would have

01:23:18turned out

01:23:19if I would have

01:23:19kept him

01:23:20you know

01:23:20it makes me feel

01:23:21certain

01:23:22that I did

01:23:23the right thing

01:23:25since then

01:23:26Jamal and I

01:23:27have been talking

01:23:27with Larry

01:23:28and I invited him

01:23:29to San Diego

01:23:30so I could get

01:23:31to know him more

01:23:32and he could see

01:23:32where I'm from

01:23:36what do you think

01:23:36you even want to do

01:23:37with Larry

01:23:38once he comes out

01:23:38here like

01:23:39what's next

01:23:39you think you're

01:23:40gonna have like

01:23:40a deep talk

01:23:41with him

01:23:41I have to have

01:23:42a deep talk

01:23:42with him

01:23:43about what

01:23:48about the other

01:23:49one

01:24:04how do you think

01:24:05he's gonna react

01:24:06I think he's gonna

01:24:06be pissed

01:24:07he's gonna be

01:24:08really upset

01:24:09with me

01:24:09hey

01:24:10by the way

01:24:12you have a sister

01:24:13like the

01:24:16Larry wasn't

01:24:17the only child

01:24:18that I put up

01:24:18for adoption

01:24:21I also had

01:24:21a daughter

01:24:31this season

01:24:32on the single

01:24:33life

01:24:37this is the kind

01:24:38of life

01:24:38that I want

01:24:39where I can have

01:24:40fun with my

01:24:41partner

01:24:45this is my

01:24:47Dominican fling

01:24:48that I've been

01:24:48looking for

01:24:49nice to meet you

01:24:50I'll never see you

01:24:52again

01:24:53I was helping him

01:24:54upload something

01:24:55on social media

01:24:56and it shows me

01:24:57all the women

01:24:58he's been messaging

01:24:59something's fishy

01:25:00about this

01:25:01Courtney's worried

01:25:02that I'm just

01:25:02gonna leave

01:25:03or cheat

01:25:03or whatever

01:25:04one day

01:25:04are you still

01:25:05living that way

01:25:06dude

01:25:06be honest with me

01:25:07well

01:25:10how are you

01:25:11a wreck

01:25:12I'm like shaking

01:25:14I didn't tell

01:25:15my son Larry

01:25:16about his sister

01:25:16when he first

01:25:17found me

01:25:18here

01:25:18but I want

01:25:19to tell him

01:25:20now and I'm

01:25:20really scared

01:25:22what if he just

01:25:22turns around

01:25:23and leaves

01:25:23what if he never

01:25:24speaks to me again

01:25:30do you mind

01:25:31if I have a dance

01:25:32it's my girl

01:25:33are you serious

01:25:34I do feel jealous

01:25:36watching her dance

01:25:37with someone else

01:25:38I just don't see

01:25:39how that's respectful

01:25:40the guy that you're with

01:25:41so you're

01:25:42stopping me

01:25:42from being

01:25:43who I am

01:25:43you don't see

01:25:44a problem

01:25:44here at all

01:25:45what is the

01:25:45freaking problem

01:25:46the problem

01:25:47is actually us

01:25:47I'm done with this

01:25:50yesterday

01:25:51I was talking

01:25:52police

01:25:52and she made me

01:25:53feel

01:25:53maybe I do

01:25:54how I know

01:25:55the guy

01:25:55you mind

01:25:55but why does

01:25:56she tell you

01:25:56that

01:25:56I don't want

01:25:58Sophie to play

01:25:59games with me

01:26:00I'm not

01:26:00interesting

01:26:02hell no

01:26:03not with me

01:26:05everything I've

01:26:06told you

01:26:06he knows

01:26:07you've never

01:26:08had my back

01:26:09yes I have

01:26:09you've never

01:26:10had my back

01:26:11that's breaking

01:26:12girl code

01:26:12like you don't

01:26:14do that

01:26:14go the

01:26:15home Liz

01:26:16adios

01:26:17adios

01:26:18adios

90 Day The Single Life S05E01 (2026)

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