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90 Day The Single Life S05E11
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00:01Previously on The Single Life,
00:03we have so much in common.
00:05We do, yeah.
00:06We converse very well.
00:07Yeah, we do.
00:07And it's been like that from the beginning, too.
00:10Wayne is so cute.
00:11This legit might be my person.
00:13We got to do this more often.
00:15I know, definitely.
00:16But do I really want to invest my time and money
00:19to go over to another country to have my heart broken again?
00:25We are in Hollywood.
00:27Oh my god, look who's here.
00:29Yeah.
00:30I can't wait to spend time with Natalie again.
00:32And I'm going to meet her daughter, Bella.
00:34I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
00:36I didn't expect that.
00:37Well, I'm surprised you're even here, to be honest.
00:40Yeah.
00:40I know how close Natalie and Bella are.
00:43And if there's going to be any chance for our relationship
00:46to work, I'm going to have to win Bella over.
00:51So first of all, Cole wants to apologize.
00:54Maybe if you two were together alone for a few days,
00:58you could work this out.
01:00I'm not going to be one of his options in his love triangle.
01:03It's like you had me, and you lost me.
01:07I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom,
01:10but I need to be honest with her.
01:11There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
01:14I'm done, like...
01:20Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
01:22Are you serious?
01:23You said that you don't want to dance.
01:24If this is how he's acting in the middle of a frickin' dance class,
01:28we might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
01:32I'm just, like, really done with this .
01:40What'd her sudden other?
01:48How am I really holding it to come?
01:48Good morning, beautiful.
01:49Good morning.
01:51How are you feeling this morning?
01:53I'm feeling good.
01:54I'm feeling good, too.
01:56That was one wild, crazy night.
02:06that was pure madness how'd you like your lap dance ah the lap dance was amazing good i'm glad
02:15last night natalie took me to a strip club in la and we had an amazing terrific time both of
02:22us
02:22were like hot and sweaty by the time it was done and we were horny and excited to like have
02:28some
02:28real fun i unleashed the beast last night you were a wild and crazy man the sex was so much
02:36better than
02:37the first time seeing this freaky side of natalie took all my anxiety away i had no problem throwing
02:44my hat off and getting down so yeah so what are we going to do today plan for the day
02:54is to meet my
02:54family do you know where we're going or anything it's a surprise but we need to get going because
02:59of the reservations coming up soon okay let's hit the road today gino and i are meeting up with my
03:05daughter bella and my brother nick do we have a car picking us up we're walking are we walking we're
03:12walking oh my goodness gracious bella is skeptical about gino because what's happened in the past
03:19but i'm hoping everybody can have fun just let their guard down because my feelings for gino are
03:25only getting stronger and i really need for everybody in my family especially bella to be on board
03:53the first time nally dating gino everything went to crap everything was a nightmare
04:01she was calling me crying all the time and i mean he broke her heart so when nally told me
04:07she was
04:08dating gino again i thought she was crazy this is going to be a whole huge drama mess like every
04:14other
04:14relationship she's been through we're going to see some entertainment have you ever seen a drag show before
04:20drag show i haven't i've heard of them but i've never seen one you're in bird tree oh yeah is
04:26bella
04:26there already have you talked i haven't seen him sabella since yesterday you haven't talked to her
04:31not since yesterday i'm just going to text her real quick
04:38yesterday when bella dropped her mom off at the hotel she was really cold to me and had an attitude
04:46i can't help but wonder if the reason is because of me okay i texted all right so we're good
04:54to go
04:55yeah let's go we're gonna miss the show okay stop worrying i'm not yeah don't worry about any
05:01it's not good for that pretty face how's everybody doing today
05:19are you ready to get started ladies and gentlemen welcome to the stage penny
05:31i have never been to a drag queen show before being here in person is freaking amazing
05:46and they're putting their in my face
05:54this is what i love about natalie she brings me out of my shell or even
06:00out of my comfort zone she can do that to me
06:11yeah
06:21after this show really clears out doesn't it yeah man i wish bella was here she's not responding
06:28to me really that's weird she's not coming she texted you yeah
06:39bella arranged the whole thing to come here and at the last minute something just went off she just
06:45doesn't like gino she doesn't trust him all she wants to make sure is her mom is happy and she
06:51doesn't think gino is that person i'm sad myself because i wanted to get to know her a little bit
06:57it seems like she doesn't want to meet you you think so she's told me she does not like him
07:03and
07:03that's the reason why she did not come i mean you're still married your ex attacks natalie that's
07:09ridiculous we came to where she lives so that she could see we've gone past it but she hasn't gone
07:16past it that's the problem we don't have to deal with jasmine anymore so take jasmine out of the
07:22equation and everything has been progressing really good like we are having fun so have you filed for
07:36divorce um bella has a lot of anger towards me and nick he's kind of questioning if i'm the right
07:44person for her as well so everything i did to rebuild my relationship with natalie is falling apart
07:52i mean i don't blame isabella you're still married to another woman and she doesn't want to see her
07:58mother hurt i get it she wants to look out for me and i love her and i appreciate that
08:04but i still
08:06would like her to give him a chance you're just gonna have to show her it's not like the other
08:12relationships that you had in the past she comes first she comes first bella has never seen me happy
08:21with a man in my entire life they are toxic they're liars they're not honest i had an ex that
08:29was a
08:29serial cheater and i and i knew it so when it comes to gino bella has her guard up i
08:36think she is very
08:39protective and very leery of his intentions you're gonna have to win her over she's the hard one to win
08:45over i i i yeah and i and i don't piss her off
08:52trying to find out what it is that makes it always feel like this i'm so tired
08:59six seven walk her through we go one two we go forward tap what the i just don't freaking get
09:07it
09:23i asked you if you want to dance and you said no so then i told you i'm going to
09:27dance with somebody
09:27else and i did and then you interrupted me in the middle of the dance so like i wanted you
09:31to have
09:31fun and i wanted you to come come into my world i was i enjoyed the dancing i was having
09:37the problem
09:37then i mean we just talked about coming to his class learning how to dance and social was out
09:45nowhere and all of a sudden we talk about that and then you storm off find some vin diesel guy
09:50or
09:51actually a guy looks just like your ex and you're just having a good time are you kidding me so
09:58here's
09:59gonna be many socials in ibiza too and there's gonna be many socials in croatia as well so you
10:04think i'm gonna go cheat on you with a guy in ibiza what i'm trying to say is like if
10:07you're going to
10:07dance with random guys what's going to happen and they want to have a good time they want to have
10:13a
10:13good time so because they want to have a good time i need to be punished and i'm going to
10:18be and
10:18i'm going to be yeah so you're trying to accuse me of something that i haven't even done yet so
10:22you
10:22have freedom of reigns to do whatever you want to dance i just don't understand tony because it's like a
10:26vacation
10:27listen i danced with a guy after a dance class after you said that you don't want to dance
10:31and now you're accusing me of of of dancing with random guys in ibiza and like potentially cheating
10:36on you you said you would like you're literally putting words in my mouth i never said that
10:44he knew i was a dancer when we started dating he knew i was a dancer when we were friends
10:51i feel like
10:52at this point in our relationship he should trust me he should know who i am he should know what
10:56i
10:56stand for he should know that i would not do anything to disrespect him or put our relationship
11:01in jeopardy tony is projecting his own insecurity on me and i'm really hurt by that i don't think i
11:09deserve it you don't see a problem here at all you're not even looking at it from my perspective
11:15what is the freaking problem the problem is actually us because you look at it as hey this is my
11:21everyday
11:21life this is what i've been doing for years this is my passion i see it as this is not
11:25appropriate
11:26for a new relationship that's the problem so you're stopping me from being who i am because
11:31i'm in a relationship with you i think there's compromise there's compromise we're not having
11:35it this is unbelievable tony this is really it's it's not it's compromised you ruined everything
11:41so i hope you're happy i need to go find my freaking phone i'm taking an uber home and this
11:46is it i'm done
11:51with this she's been single for a very long time she still does things her own way i'm concerned that
11:57sometimes vanya may not look at the big picture of when you're in a relationship it's about compromise
12:01and to me dance is very essential dance has a lot of feelings attached and you know it's very easy
12:08to
12:08fall in love with your dance partner you're just gonna storm off again no i just i'm done tony
12:13i'm calling an uber and i'm going home i brought up concerns about her traveling and dancing with
12:18other guys and other clubs and she completely said hey that's my prerogative is to have fun
12:23hey by the way tony just trust me uh when i can't even trust her when i'm watching her and
12:28with her
12:29so that's it that's it she's gonna storm out again yeah
12:32really yeah there's no compromise there's no resolution to anything now is there what compromise
12:37is there really you're accusing me of being somebody who's who has nefarious intentions in
12:42mind you said you can do whatever you want you said i can have fun i can dance whatever and
12:46that's
12:46what do you want me to do then just stay in my hotel room the whole time i'm there
12:51maybe you should enjoy join a visa you know we'll see how it works out when you get back then
12:58it's what now you're threatening me what
13:05you obviously don't trust me and i'm going home
13:20seriously
13:24this guy is acting like a complete control freak trying to tell me how to live my life
13:30it is unacceptable i'm a grown woman i can make my own decisions i'm not going to be told what
13:35i can
13:35and cannot do
13:41i'm capable of having a dance with someone and not have sex with them i mean what else do you
13:46think is
13:46going to happen here this is really making me worried about our relationship going forward because
13:52if this is how tony is acting when we're together i cannot even imagine what he's going to be like
13:58once we're apart for two weeks it's really scaring me
14:20i can't go
14:37now what do we need these for what do you want avocado we're on a diet okay put them off
14:42I'm going to put them back.
14:44Huh?
14:44We're on a diet.
14:46Yeah.
14:59I'm going to get a cabbage.
15:00We're going to make some cabbage rolls.
15:03So I talked to Colt.
15:05Oh my gosh.
15:06Where is he at now?
15:08He's in Brazil.
15:09He went to Brazil?
15:10Yeah, to see the other woman, yeah.
15:13For the last month, I haven't been in touch with Colt
15:16because I needed a break from that dumpster fire
15:19of a relationship.
15:21But he called me out of the blue this morning from Brazil.
15:25Did he go back to Canada when Gabby told you?
15:28I guess he went straight from Florida to Brazil.
15:31Oh my gosh.
15:33Seriously?
15:34Yeah.
15:35I thought Colt went to Canada to live with his mom.
15:38I found out the whole time he's been in Brazil with Diana,
15:42the woman he's been sending videos to.
15:46OK.
15:46They're saying the ligaments in his knee need to be replaced.
15:50Oh my gosh.
15:50So he has to have another surgery.
15:52But he said he's found a doctor here that will accept the insurance
15:56and stuff like that.
15:57Yeah, in Orlando, so I guess he's coming back.
15:59He's not staying with us.
16:01He's not staying at our place.
16:02No.
16:02No.
16:03OK.
16:05Oh my gosh.
16:06One thing we've learned from this experience
16:09is there's no strangers going to stay at our house again, ever.
16:13It's not going to happen.
16:14Not going to happen.
16:16Is he still in the wheelchair or is he?
16:18Yeah.
16:18Well, I guess the doorways are small there.
16:20So he's been using crutches because the wheelchair and walk
16:23are too big.
16:23How's he going to get around?
16:25Yeah.
16:26He can't drive.
16:26No, I said I'd go pick him up and, like,
16:29help him get situated in the hotel.
16:32Picking up Colt from the airport is going to be torture.
16:35You know, we had a really strong connection.
16:38There's still some type of bond, which is maybe really dumb.
16:43But I feel responsible for him.
16:45Does he want to try to get back with you?
16:47I don't know what he wants.
16:49Don't let it happen.
16:53He's not going to be faithful.
16:55Yeah.
16:55Yeah.
16:56No, I think he's going to lie and keep lying and lying and lying.
16:59Right, right.
16:59I don't trust him.
17:01So it's like, how can I be with somebody I don't trust?
17:04When you keep lying about stuff, you're not sincere.
17:10Yeah.
17:10No.
17:10I don't see any sincerity at all to this.
17:13No respect.
17:15I mean.
17:15Leave our God alone, I mean, bottom line.
17:18Yes.
17:20Well, if it was me, I would be over with it.
17:24But it's you, I think you're strong enough.
17:29But when he casts that fishing line and reels you back in and you know he's going to try.
17:34You don't revolve your life around him.
17:38Yeah.
17:38No.
17:39Because he could care less about you.
17:41I know.
17:41He's just using you once again.
17:55Yeah.
17:56Yeah.
17:56I just want to, you know, get him from the airport to the hotel.
17:59Yeah.
17:59Right.
18:00Okay.
18:01Set boundaries.
18:02Like all the crying and stuff I've been doing, I think it's just like feeling sorry for him.
18:06Like he might be permanently disabled.
18:08So I cry more about his leg than about him dating other women.
18:13I know my parents are worried about Colt breaking my heart again.
18:17They see that he still affects me.
18:20And like the truth is, I don't know what I'm going to feel when I see him.
18:25We had such a deep, intense connection and you can't just turn that off.
18:31I feel like Colt has some type of crazy power over me and I don't really trust myself with him.
18:37Life is way too short to be putting up with that.
18:40Fill your life with happy things.
18:43I will.
18:44You want the donuts?
18:45No.
18:48No, I think I need the wine.
18:50The wine.
18:52Oh.
18:59Yay.
19:00Stockings.
19:01Here, you can hang your own stocking up, son.
19:05All right.
19:05Boom.
19:08Okay.
19:09There we go.
19:09Look at that.
19:10Look at that.
19:12I have stuff in here.
19:13You already have stuff in your stocking.
19:14Is it candy?
19:15Oh yeah.
19:16Yeah.
19:16I gotta get one.
19:17Okay.
19:19This isn't good.
19:21It's been in there since last year.
19:24I've been naughty.
19:25I've been nice.
19:26I've been Santa's daddy.
19:27Bring me everything I like.
19:29Milk and cookies.
19:30Wanna bite?
19:31Wanna bite?
19:32Give me lit.
19:32I want a shingle bell a night.
19:35Here we go.
19:37Grand Illuminate!
19:39Whoa!
19:40This actually looks pretty good.
19:41Do you remember this monkey?
19:43Grandma bought this for you, so I'll let you hang that.
19:46Just hang it, like, near her picture.
19:48Put it.
19:48Yeah, it's cute, huh?
19:50There we go.
19:50Christmas is in a few weeks, and I'm really, really excited,
19:53because it's my favorite holiday.
19:55Everything's all sparkly.
19:57Everybody's just nice, and it brings back so many happy memories
20:00of my mom and my sister and previous holidays.
20:03When I do stuff like this, it reminds me of Grandma,
20:06because this was, like, our thing, and my grandma.
20:08It was, like, our thing was to, like, decorate, you know?
20:10So it's gonna be our thing now?
20:11I think so, and I think we should include Larry in this as well,
20:14because he doesn't know any of our stuff.
20:16He doesn't know anything.
20:16You wanna call him?
20:17Yeah.
20:19Christmas is all about family,
20:21and this Christmas is even more special,
20:24because my family just got bigger.
20:27My relationship with my son that I placed for adoption
20:29is just getting better and better.
20:32We video chat all the time,
20:33and it's really become a special part of my life.
20:37Hey!
20:39What's up, y'all?
20:40What's up?
20:41How are you?
20:42I'm doing good, man.
20:43It looks like y'all in the Christmas spirit.
20:45Yeah.
20:46I'm really excited to talk to him today
20:48and show him my Christmas decorations,
20:49but I also have some news to share with both him and Jamal.
20:53So we thought we would call you
20:55and get you in the Christmas spirit with us.
20:57Yeah, for sure.
20:58So Jamal's gonna carry you around.
21:00Let's go for a tour.
21:02All right, look.
21:02So this is my little tree.
21:04I like bling.
21:05You know I'm all about the glitter.
21:06I love the sequins and stuff.
21:08So this is, instead of doing a star, I do a top hat.
21:10Isn't it cute?
21:12Isn't it cute?
21:13Yeah, I know.
21:13I don't know about that.
21:15It's so cute.
21:16And then I do stockings.
21:18Am I gonna get a stocking?
21:21Yes, you're gonna get a stocking.
21:22Of course you are.
21:24There was never a holiday, a birthday,
21:28or any other day in 35 years
21:31that I did not think about Larry or my daughter.
21:34I always wondered, like, what kind of life they had,
21:37how they celebrated their birthdays,
21:40how they celebrated their holidays.
21:43That's my hair.
21:44It's a little flat.
21:47I'm so grateful to Larry.
21:49that he gave me the chance to make up for lost time.
21:54I'm really glad that you can enjoy some of this with us.
21:57Yeah, for sure.
21:58So, yeah.
21:59And I'm glad that we have communication.
22:00Especially now, I think the communication's a lot better
22:03now that I've been.
22:04Yeah, I agree.
22:04I'm free.
22:05So speaking of that, I told you guys about the guy
22:09that I've been talking to in England, and I'm going.
22:13He invited me to come, so I'm gonna go and meet him.
22:16I mean, everybody deserves a chance at love,
22:19so I don't see why you wouldn't take it.
22:22Just don't get your hopes up.
22:23No.
22:24You know what I'm saying?
22:25A little bit.
22:25Don't get your hopes too high.
22:26Just a little bit of hope.
22:27No, let's just stay neutral.
22:29I mean, just go over there with an open mind.
22:31Yeah.
22:31You know what I'm saying?
22:32I like him, but I'm not doing what I did with Usman.
22:35It's a totally different thing.
22:36I've learned from my mistakes.
22:39Don't look so skeptical.
22:42No, I am.
22:43I can't help but naturally be concerned
22:45when you take these trips for men that you haven't met.
22:48You're gonna fly by yourself.
22:49You're gonna be there by yourself.
22:51I remember even when you go to Nigeria by yourself,
22:53you would call me and be like, I wish you were here.
22:56Why don't you go with me?
22:58What are you doing?
22:58No.
22:59Why?
23:00Is that not too much?
23:01Why don't you go?
23:01You don't have to meet him like the first day,
23:03but you should, maybe you should go with me.
23:05Go Jamal.
23:06You should go?
23:07Yeah, you should go.
23:08You should definitely go.
23:09I do wish I would have went to Nigeria sooner.
23:12Me too.
23:12Because maybe I could have helped in that one faster.
23:15The men you've met, they're so nice to you in the beginning
23:18and they trap you because you get stuck and you fall fast.
23:22Yeah.
23:22So luckily when I'm there, maybe I'll be able to talk to her
23:25and be like, just remember to not give too much in the beginning.
23:28Yeah.
23:29Because you do that all the time.
23:30Yeah, for sure.
23:30For sure.
23:31Yeah.
23:32In the past, once my mom really starts to like a guy,
23:35she starts believing whatever they say.
23:38So I really do hope Wayne is this nice guy that he's been telling her that he is.
23:43Because my mom's heart cannot take much more.
23:46I feel like now everybody's in place and I'm working on myself.
23:50It's time for me to go and find love.
23:52Well, I think you've had a lot off your shoulders.
23:55Yeah.
23:55It's helped.
23:56Yeah, you have, man.
23:57Like telling you about your sister and everything.
23:59Telling me about him and telling him about her.
24:01Yeah.
24:02Speaking of sister, I reached out to the adoption agency like we all agreed upon to try to find
24:08her.
24:08Well, they sent me a letter.
24:10Her adopted mom had wrote me a letter.
24:13So I have the letter.
24:15It's like 10 pages long and I was waiting for an opportunity to just kind of bring it out.
24:19I wanna see it.
24:20All right.
24:21When the adoption agency told me they had a letter about my daughter from when she was
24:26six years old, I was stunned.
24:29This was dated November 26, 98.
24:34Okay.
24:35It says, to the birth mother of our beloved daughter, R.
24:40She came home with us in January of 93.
24:43She was then and has continued to this day to be a healthy and happy child.
24:50I can't read this.
24:51I can't read it.
24:52Yeah, I want to stop.
24:53This is crazy.
25:13I haven't seen Tony since our dance class a few nights ago.
25:16And obviously things ended on a really bad note.
25:20I'm really nervous.
25:22It's not an easy thing to like have that huge blow up and then off I go for half a
25:28month.
25:45Tony is coming over to take me to the airport and it's awful because I'm leaving for a two and
25:51a half week vacation to Europe.
25:54This is not how I wanted to leave things between us.
26:00Hi.
26:08I made us a little snack.
26:11So have a seat.
26:11I'll go grab it.
26:14Having seen Tony and his reaction during the dance class, it has me worried that this kind of jealousy and
26:22control is only going to get amplified while I'm gone.
26:26Then it could be the end of us.
26:32So how are you feeling?
26:34I mean, I know you're leaving soon so I thought we at least talk about, you know, what's going on
26:43and I just don't want this tension anymore.
26:48So what's, what's, what's on your mind?
26:51I do trust you, but the words escalated, the emotions escalated and all of a sudden you left and I'm
26:57like, wow, are we really just throwing it away?
27:03Yeah, I agree that that wasn't the best thing to do.
27:07I shouldn't have done what I did, like stormed out, but I, you know, I was, I was very upset.
27:14But at the end of the day, you, you mean the world to me and I want to make sure
27:20that when I'm away that you feel comfortable that you're not, you know, thinking, what am I doing?
27:25What's going on?
27:26Am I putting our relationship in jeopardy?
27:29Because I would never do anything like that.
27:35I mean, that means a lot to me.
27:37I'm not trying to say, hey, listen to either you dance or it's me.
27:41I just really want to make sure that we're on the same page going forward.
27:45And, you know, this upcoming trip, I just don't want it to be about us not talking, a lack of
27:50communication or if there's tension, I just don't want it to just linger.
27:54I agree.
27:56We're not going to go sleep angry.
27:58We're not going to let the day end with us not having a resolution.
28:03Okay.
28:03I like that.
28:05Okay.
28:05I'm just going to put this in the kitchen and then we can skedaddle.
28:11We both took responsibility for what we did wrong and feeling a little bit more secure.
28:17Vanya, I'm going to help grab your luggage, okay?
28:19Okay, thank you.
28:20All right.
28:21But at the same time, our relationship is just starting to take the next step.
28:25We even started saying I love you to each other.
28:28And now I'm leaving immediately for two and a half weeks.
28:31I mean, this gives us no time together to hug and kiss and just be good.
28:39It sucks.
28:52Baby.
28:53I'm going to miss you so much.
28:56Oh my God.
28:56I can't believe we're here already.
29:01All right.
29:03I'm going to try as much as possible.
29:05Let's keep in touch.
29:05Let's keep in touch.
29:06Right?
29:07Right?
29:08Welcome, baby.
29:11Welcome, baby.
29:15The next trip is going to be a together trip.
29:18Absolutely.
29:19Okay.
29:20Miss you already.
29:21Miss you too, baby.
29:23All right.
29:24Bye.
29:25Bye, man.
29:28I feel like our relationship is so new that there is worry.
29:33The last few weeks, we've had a great foundation.
29:36And I really hope this trip is not going to test it to the point where she's going to realize
29:40that the single life is better for her.
29:42I would be in shambles if I lost Vanya.
29:45It would break me apart.
29:48There are so many variables that could go wrong on this trip.
29:52And I hope we can get through it.
29:54But I would be lying if I said I wasn't concerned.
29:57Because if he has another meltdown while I'm away, I don't think our relationship can survive.
30:04There's blood in the water.
30:23To the birth mother of our beloved daughter, R.
30:29I can't read this.
30:31This is crazy.
30:42This letter was not delivered to me almost 30 years ago because I moved around a lot.
30:47I was in the military, so I just never received it.
30:50It's very emotional for me because it's like me getting to know her.
30:54It means so much to get a glimpse into what her life was like growing up.
31:00I got it.
31:03Her developmental skills progress normally except in one area where she proved exceptionally gifted.
31:10She's very verbal.
31:11I guess she talks like her mama, right?
31:13R's vocabulary is tremendous.
31:16Her thoughts and desires at a level beyond her six years.
31:20We hope to keep her in private school as long as we can afford it.
31:24R's favorite food is pasta, pasta, pasta.
31:27That's her Italian side.
31:28She is also a great vegetable eater.
31:31We have a large vegetable garden.
31:32She loves to go out and pick vegetables for dinner.
31:36She had a pretty nice life.
31:38Wait a minute.
31:40I think reading this letter and finding out these things about her,
31:44like now we know her name starts with an R.
31:46We know she had a vegetable garden.
31:48We know she went to private school.
31:53Sorry.
31:58And it's like a bittersweet feeling, right?
32:00Like it makes her more real to me.
32:03And it just makes me so happy to know that she was raised so well.
32:09We are indeed thankful for having her in our lives and love her very much.
32:13With best wishes to you and yours.
32:18It's really intense.
32:20I'm really glad that she's had such a good life.
32:23Like that's why I did what I did, you know?
32:26Because I know I couldn't provide that for you or her.
32:29Like I can't say like I regret what I've done.
32:31I can't say that now.
32:32I can say that the way I handled it was up.
32:35But I can't like, I can't like feel bad for what I did, you know?
32:41Yeah, and that's what I keep trying to tell you since, you know, day one.
32:45So I'm glad you finally kind of, you know, seeing it for yourself too.
32:49Yeah.
32:51The decision to place my children up for adoption was the most heartbreaking decisions I've ever had to make in
32:57my whole life.
33:01Now, 34 years later, I can honestly say I'm at peace.
33:06I feel like I did what was best for my children.
33:12And really at the end of the day, that's all that matters to me.
33:16All we can do now is just wait.
33:19Yeah.
33:20We'll see what happens.
33:22I do have a feeling we're going to find her.
33:24I hope so.
33:25Like I'm very positive about that.
33:27I hope so.
33:32I'm going to try calling her.
33:35Hello?
33:36Hi, Bella.
33:37I just wanted to know why you didn't show up today.
33:40I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself by associating, you know, with such a troll like Gino.
33:46Whoa.
33:47I care about Gino, but this is a lot bigger than my daughter not wanting to meet a guy that
33:53I'm dating.
34:10Oh, you want to sit down?
34:12Yeah.
34:12For a moment?
34:13Enjoy this beautiful fire pit.
34:17Oh, they got blankets.
34:20This is kind of like camping or something.
34:22I don't know.
34:23We just don't have a tent.
34:24I keep telling you, take one step for today.
34:28Take two steps for tomorrow.
34:31Just stand back, let the vow for me.
34:37That was rough.
34:38Yeah.
34:39I'm a little bit, I don't know, concerned now because Nick was saying that she doesn't like me.
34:47Well, she doesn't know you.
34:51One of the big reasons that I came to L.A. was to get to know Natalie's daughter, Bella.
34:57But when it was time to hang out, she never showed.
35:03Apparently, Bella's mad at me because Jasmine attacked Natalie last year.
35:09You definitely want to have approval of the family members or, you know, the chances of this relationship working is
35:16not very good.
35:18But I'm going to try calling her.
35:26Hello?
35:26Hi, Bella?
35:28Hi.
35:30It's Mom.
35:30How are you?
35:31I'm fine.
35:34I just wanted to know why you didn't show up today.
35:39I just want to say what I have to say, honestly, and then you can do whatever you want.
35:45I love you, but I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself by associating, you know, with such a
35:51troll like Gino.
35:54I don't see why you feel the need to extend any grace to him at all after how badly he
35:58disrespected you in Michigan.
36:01You're a grown woman.
36:02You can make your own decisions.
36:03But at this point, don't expect me to support it anymore.
36:07Well.
36:09And I just think you're just too beautiful and smart and successful to be with such a spineless loser like
36:14him.
36:15And I wish you saw that, too.
36:18I love you, but that's just really all I want you to hear from me.
36:25Whoa.
36:29She does not like me.
36:36Are you okay?
36:37No.
36:41I want to throw up.
36:44That was a lot of nasty words that Bella was saying about me.
36:48How bad of a person I am, what trash I am, loser, whatever.
36:55She didn't even give me a chance.
36:56She didn't even show up and meet me.
36:58I mean, come on, you don't judge me based on, you know, what you hear for one incident.
37:06It's not fair.
37:09After all of that, you know, how do you feel about me, I guess?
37:17My feelings for you haven't changed.
37:22However, I would like her blessing.
37:27Okay, so, okay.
37:31So basically our relationship is kind of like on hold until you get her blessing.
37:38She's my number one.
37:39She's my number one priority.
37:43So what happens if she doesn't change her mind and she doesn't give her blessing, what would happen, you think,
37:51between us?
37:52I need to talk to her.
37:54And then as soon as I get the answer, I'll talk to you.
37:58Are you going to stay over at my place tonight?
38:03I'm going to try to go over to see Bella.
38:05Okay.
38:05It's important to me that we don't end a conversation on a negative note.
38:11Okay.
38:13That's fair.
38:15I get it.
38:18I care about Gino, but this is a lot bigger than my daughter not wanting to meet a guy that
38:24I'm dating.
38:25All right.
38:26Let's go.
38:28Let's go.
38:30Bella doesn't trust my judgment.
38:33She's never seen me in a healthy relationship.
38:36All right.
38:36Well, let me get packing.
38:39And it makes me feel like a failure as a parent, that I was not able to show my daughter
38:45that I am capable of being in a good relationship.
38:51And I just want to go, and I want to comfort her, and I want to let her know that
38:55I'm okay and safe.
38:56She's my priority.
38:59Okay.
38:59Well, I better get going.
39:02Well, I had a really good time.
39:04Me too.
39:04So, the last two days have been awesome.
39:11Aw.
39:12Yeah.
39:12I know they have.
39:14Yeah, they've been awesome.
39:17The hardest thing is, what if my daughter never accepts him?
39:21Where would this relationship go?
39:23And I think he knows the answer.
39:27That's something I really don't want to deal with at this moment.
39:33I don't want to talk about this anymore.
39:35We'll have to see each other again soon.
39:38Yeah.
39:39Bye.
39:40Take care.
39:44I thought that this trip would bring Natalie and I closer together.
39:48I could use a drink.
39:50I imagine hitting it off with Bella, and then in the future, potentially becoming a father
39:57figure to her.
39:59I've always wanted to be a dad.
40:01So, her daughter not wanting anything to do with me, it's impacting the dreams that I had
40:08for my life.
40:10And it makes me really sad.
40:12But these eyes won't cry, no fear, I'll fight.
40:23God.
40:29Next time, on The Single Life.
40:32Let me touch it.
40:34Oh, wow.
40:35Okay.
40:37Going into this day, I don't really have any expectations.
40:40He's cute, he has a good body, he seems fun.
40:42Like, this is literally one of the reasons I came to DR, to just have fun.
40:52Whoa, is that the Queen of England?
40:54Hello, peasants.
40:55Hello.
40:57After talking to Wayne for the past three months, I am in jolly old England to meet him in person.
41:03Oh, wow.
41:04I'm really hopeful that by the end of this trip, I do go home in a relationship.
41:09Now, I have to ask you.
41:11Okay.
41:11Are you dating now, here?
41:16Hey, Natalie, what's up?
41:19After Natalie's daughter disapproved of our relationship, I don't know where things stand.
41:24I was hoping that at some point you would talk to Bella to see how she feels.
41:30Because I know at the time, you were saying, if she didn't like me, that, you know, we wouldn't have
41:36a relationship.
41:38Has that changed at all with her?
41:43I mean...
41:46Hey, Courtney!
41:49I'm going through a lot of internal conflict right now.
41:52I still care about Colt, and I still have love for him.
41:56Really, it is nice to see you.
41:58But then my mind's like, this lying, cheating, manipulative son of a bitch.
42:02Did you sleep with Diana?
42:04Can't say I didn't do that.
42:07Well, I'm glad you're d*** for her.
42:12Here we go, Ibiza bitches.
42:14I'm trying to go with Sanela, listen to some music, and then they send me a message, and another, and
42:19another.
42:20You're ruining my night, but on top of it, I'm there with my cousin, and I'm embarrassed in front of
42:24her all over again.
42:26I need to understand what caused you to do what you did.
42:29If Tony wants to be with me, he's going to have to change fast.
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