00:01Let's pray.
00:38It is a sad fact of life that if a young woman is unlucky enough to come into the world
00:43without expectations,
00:44she had better do all she can to ensure that she is beautiful.
00:52To be poor and handsome is misfortune enough.
00:56But to be penniless and plain is a hard fate indeed.
01:03Or so my mother taught us.
01:07Mr. Bennet, have you heard?
01:09Netherfield Park is lit at last.
01:12I have not.
01:17Do you want to know who has taken it?
01:20You want to tell me, and I have no objection to hearing it.
01:23I would like to know.
01:26It has been led to a Mr. Bingley, a single man of large fortune, four or five thousand a year.
01:37I heard someone came down on Monday in a chaise and four.
01:41From whom did you hear this?
01:43Girls, you must prepare yourselves.
01:47Mrs. Long told me he is from the north of England.
01:50He saw Netherfield Park, fell in love with it and snapped it up straight away.
01:54In order to understand my mother's enthusiasm for this stranger's arrival,
01:59we must start at the beginning.
02:04With cake.
02:06In Meriton, England.
02:12Where a wealthy boy met beautiful girl.
02:16Father, meet mother.
02:19Sadly, the happiness of this union was to be undone by an archaic entail that meant only a male heir
02:25could inherit my father's estate.
02:27And what followed was girls, after girls, after girls, after girls, after girls, after girls.
02:39That's his fortune, and her beauty were worthless.
02:44Mother spent her days trying to involve father in how to overcome their dire situation.
02:49But father hid in his newspaper, indifferent to the cause.
02:53Why should he engage?
02:54When the time comes...
02:55I'll be dead anyway.
02:59Our mother, not known for giving up easily,
03:02found a chink of light.
03:04A saving grace.
03:06Each of her children possessed a certain je ne sais quoi.
03:10Be it Jane's beauty,
03:14Lizzie's wit,
03:17Kitty's good humour,
03:18or Lydia's
03:20spirit.
03:23If she could secure advantageous marriages for each of us girls,
03:27it would be enough to save us all from destitution.
03:32Although I had not found my own best quality,
03:37I was quite sure that I would.
03:40My fault, Mary.
03:42Until the day my mother's true opinion of me was confirmed.
03:45Mary has an awfully...
03:47ruddy complexion.
03:49She does not have the complexion of her sisters, that is true.
03:53And she is clumsy.
03:55Ungamely.
03:56Maladroite,
03:57as they say.
03:59Four good marriages will have to do.
04:02I only hope she does not ruin her sister's chances.
04:30I only hope she does not ruin her sister's chances.
04:34I think she does not ruin her sister's chances.
04:38I do not ruin her sister's chances.
04:43If you're not the beautiful one, the quick-witted one, or the ones that are good at games and full
04:51of youthful energy, then who are you?
04:55And what can you do if you're the odd one out?
05:00Is it possible you'll ever find a way to fit in?
05:07Worse, I think.
05:22Worse still.
05:24Do not fret, Miss Bennet.
05:36Have we found it?
05:39I think we have, Mr. Sparrow.
05:41Oh, thank goodness for that.
05:51You see, the lenses here correct your vision by bending light rays.
05:55Well, I never.
06:12You really do look very well in your spectacles.
06:16Especially when you smile.
06:21Ah, I do not think my mother will agree.
06:24But I have a great passion for reading, and I would have been sad to stop.
06:30I hope they will help you better enjoy the upcoming Meriton assembly.
06:34An assembly?
06:35Yes.
06:35In a month.
06:37I heard this morning.
06:39My sisters will be pleased.
06:43Perhaps I shall see you there.
06:45Hmm.
06:51Miss Mary, you ought to get on.
06:53Of course, he'll.
06:54I'll settle affairs here.
06:55Um, thank you.
06:57And thank you, Mr. Sparrow.
07:07I have news.
07:11There's going to be an assembly in Meriton in a month.
07:13We know.
07:14Oh.
07:15I'm going to be the one to tell Mama.
07:17This will mark my first assembly.
07:20My first venture into society.
07:24So it will.
07:28How would I secure a partner for dancing?
07:30I've always wondered.
07:32Oh, Mary, I'm sure your clever mind can work out something as simple as dance partners.
07:36Do not fret.
07:38Do not.
07:38Not fretting.
07:49Yes, I thought it was.
08:05I'm going to fill my card for dancers.
08:08Jane, do you think I shall be allowed to dance?
08:09Mary, move.
08:11Do you hope you're not going to stand this close at the assembly?
08:14Oh, we should have taken the long route.
08:16Oh, these are my good boots.
08:20All for you for wearing them.
08:23Dan.
08:28Do you think russet would be too harsh for my complexion?
08:32I don't see why it should.
08:33It would match my eyes, I suppose.
08:36Your eyes are green.
08:38You are so inattentive.
08:44Mr. Thompson told me himself I was the first to know that the ball is confirmed.
08:48We were the first?
08:49I was the first.
08:50He was stood a little behind me.
08:51It is wonderful.
08:53What will I wear?
08:54Are Kitty and Lydia allowed to attend the ball, Father?
08:57Why would we not be?
08:57I was the one that found out about it.
08:59Am I allowed?
09:01Jane, Lizzie, you will of course go.
09:04And Mary.
09:04Father, I shall die if I do not go.
09:07I'll probably die too.
09:08I very much doubt that.
09:09Mr. Bennet, Kitty and Lydia will also need to find husbands.
09:14After Jane and Lizzie, of course.
09:19I don't see what the fuss is all about.
09:21Those horrible, sweaty affairs.
09:24Mary, you will attend.
09:27Oh.
09:29Oh, well, of course, Mother, if you wish.
09:33Lady Lucas and I will need someone to fetch us our drinks.
09:35As long as I am not expected to attend.
09:37Mr. Bennet.
09:38I told you, I will not attend another of those insufferable muddy little dancers.
09:43Oh.
09:43I wonder if Mr. Bingley will be going to the Meryton Assembly.
09:47Oh, he must be.
09:49Who would admit it?
09:50Me, apparently.
09:52You shall all go to the ball, as long as I am obliged to hear no more about it.
09:58I shall never be rid of you otherwise.
10:01Perhaps I shall dance with Bingley, too.
10:03And me.
10:03This excitement over a man you've never set eyes on is quite ridiculous.
10:06Oh, Mary, we're only indulging ourselves.
10:16Mary is wearing spectacles.
10:18What on earth?
10:20Very good.
10:21I hope you find them most useful, Mary.
10:23I do, Father.
10:25Mr. Bennet, did you know about this?
10:28We discussed this at length.
10:30Mary was to visit the optician.
10:31Yes.
10:32But I did not know that she would actually need to wear glasses.
10:36You seem to forget, my dear, that I wear spectacles myself.
10:40But she is a woman.
10:42Nevertheless, she ought to be able to see.
10:45I think they look very well.
10:50Potatoes, Mary.
10:54In case she couldn't see them.
10:57I think you're very brave to be prepared to look so ugly.
11:00Lydia.
11:00But Papa, who is going to dance with Mary with those things on her face?
11:03Pleased to be able to read.
11:07Oh, I do hope you are to meet him.
11:09Surely we must.
11:11Spectacles, indeed.
11:13I wonder who he is.
11:14I wonder who he is.
11:15I wonder who he is.
11:15I wonder who he is.
11:17I wonder who he is.
11:17I wonder who he is.
11:19Mama?
11:20Kitty and I will meet you dressed as before.
11:22I wonder who he is.
12:10Maybe I could help you pick out a dress for the Meriton Assembly, Miss Mary.
12:15Oh, hell.
12:18What am I to do at a dance?
12:21Dance?
12:23What if no one wants to dance with me?
12:28Then you'll eat lots of ices.
12:31Such fripperies are not for me.
12:33I wonder, Miss Mary, if you don't see yourself clearly.
12:36If you're saying I don't bear comparison to my sisters, I've known that for years.
12:39A daffodil might look plain next to a lily, but on its own there is much to be admired.
12:46Now I am tall and yellow.
12:49Miss Mary, I wonder if you wouldn't be a little happier if you went out in the world
12:56and saw yourself how other people see you, outside of your family.
13:04Well, that's decided.
13:06I am picking you out a new dress for the Assembly.
13:11And I will not hear another word on the subject.
13:25Madam, please remain still, if you can.
13:47What does the gold make me look like?
13:53A little.
13:56Kitty!
13:56What is it?
13:58Those are my books, Lydia.
13:59I cannot reach my jewelry box.
14:01I need something to stand on.
14:03This is important, Mary.
14:05You need to start getting ready, Miss Mary.
14:07Miss Mary.
14:15Jane is first.
14:17That's not fair.
14:18I'm always last.
14:19Mary can go last.
14:24Do you think I'll be able to dance on it?
14:26Does it still hurt?
14:28Yes.
14:28It was two weeks ago.
14:29I know.
14:32Should we eat beforehand?
14:34Perhaps a very small meal.
14:35And don't drink too much.
14:36But what if I'm thirsty?
14:37Lydia, I don't suppose you want to relieve yourself behind a screen in front of everyone.
14:42Listen.
14:43Listen.
14:44Never.
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15:19Is it too fine for me, do you think?
15:21You look very handsome in it.
15:35Katie!
15:36We have taken my party!
15:37We have you!
15:38We have, we have it!
15:39Lillian, you have plenty of party!
15:41Well, we have a cent!
15:42Yes!
15:43Yes!
15:54Yes!
15:56Yes!
15:57Yes!
16:59Oh, Charlotte!
17:01What's that about?
17:02I swear, the crowd gets bigger every season.
17:04You should limit entry to those young ladies fortunate enough to secure the parties.
17:09I thought the very same thing.
17:45Mr. Bingley, welcome.
17:47These are my sisters, Louisa, and this is Caroline.
17:51This is Mr. Hurst and Mr. Darcy.
17:53And if I may present, Mrs. Bennet, Miss Jane Bennet, Miss Elizabeth Bennet, Kitty and Lydia.
18:11Oh, and this is Miss Mary Bennet.
18:17Who is the compass girl in the whole neighborhood?
18:21That is a great achievement, to be sure.
18:24Study clearly trumps all other considerations in your mind.
18:28What an example to us all.
18:38What an example to us all.
18:40And this is what we call the two-year-old ladies, and I love the two-year-old ladies,
18:46and I love the two-year-old ladies and gentlemen.
18:51I love the two-year-old ladies.
19:06I love the two-year-old ladies.
19:22you will not believe the insufferable company that mr bingley keeps what has happened i
19:28overheard quite accidentally mr bingley talking to that conceited gentleman lent against the
19:34wall there a mr darcy who said of me she is tolerable but not handsome enough to tempt me
19:59excuse me miss bennett i do not mean to intrude
20:04but it is very bad for your eyes to screw them up in such a fashion perhaps i may be
20:11permitted to
20:11help you find what you're looking for i was looking for uh my sisters
20:22i'm quite exhausted from all the dancing i just chose to sit this one out that is a shame
20:30i was going to ask if you do me the honor of standing up with me for the next dance
20:35actually i'm now feeling much rested and i would be delighted well then i thank you
20:46shall we remain here until the next session
21:00how are your spectators very well yes um i'm able to study for hours without disdain i am delighted to
21:07hear
21:15perhaps you could recommend a book to me what do you read with such enjoyment
21:22well mrs catherine mccauley has written a wonderful account of british history it's a fascinating read
21:27i will seek it out are you a scholar sir i like to read but science rather than history
21:34i have a plan to study medicine in london bart's or maybe morpheus
21:40what a noble ambition but it is not a thing widely known i have not mentioned it to anyone before
21:46you
21:48i should speak of it to no one
21:50so
21:53thank you
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22:56thank you
23:01i'm regretting visiting the supper table so early i should have had less oyster passes
23:08thank you
23:08it's fewer
23:10it's fewer oyster patties
23:13it's fewer oyster patties
23:15here we go
23:16oh
23:17oh
23:18oh
23:18oh
23:18oh
23:18oh
23:19oh
23:20oh
23:24oh
23:27Oh, my God.
24:01Would you like a cold drink, Miss Bennet?
24:05Yes, that's an excellent idea.
24:18It looks as though you are enjoying yourself, Mary.
24:22Your partner is the young John Sparrow.
24:25Isn't he?
24:26Yes, the optician's on.
24:29And you have danced with him twice.
24:33Mary, you are very young.
24:36And perhaps do not fully appreciate how things are understood.
24:41If you are to dance with him again, it will be remarked upon.
24:44Two dances in succession suggest a liking.
24:46Three might imply something more.
24:52I'm very happy dancing with him.
25:07I see that you have stood up twice with the Sparrow boy.
25:11Yes, Mama.
25:14You will not dance with him again.
25:20But, Mother, he's been most attentive.
25:23He's quite a gentleman.
25:25Mary, his father owns a shop.
25:29Yes?
25:31With a bell.
25:35Mother, I have danced with him twice.
25:37I have no wish to marry him.
25:39You may not object to lowering yourself,
25:42but I will not have you ruin your sister's chances of a match.
26:08Would you care to dance again, Miss Bennet?
26:11Once we have finished our ices.
26:14Mrs. Sparrow, I am afraid that I shall...
26:19I shall not be able to stand up with you again this evening.
26:22Oh.
26:23But I thought...
26:26I thought...
26:28I hope I have not offended you.
26:30No, no, no, not at all, sir.
26:32I've...
26:32Oh, I've...
26:34I've very much enjoyed dancing with you.
26:38It's, um...
26:40That is to say that, um...
26:44My mother is concerned.
26:46Concerned?
26:47Uh, um...
26:48For my sisters and I, um...
26:51It's important that we make an, uh, appropriate social, um...
26:56One might say, uh, financially, um...
27:00Well, a suitable match.
27:03Miss Bennet, there is no need for an explanation.
27:05I shall not pursue the matter.
27:07I've enjoyed...
27:08I've enjoyed my time with, um...
27:10Good evening to you.
27:13I'm sorry.
27:15I'm sorry.
27:17I'm sorry.
27:48James stood up with him twice.
27:51I had little time for his friend.
27:54Please do not hold that against Mr. Bingley.
27:56Do you want me to go against you?
27:57Yes.
27:58I danced with tea soldiers.
28:00I'm not very good with faces, so I'm not sure how many times I stood up with anyone.
28:04Ew!
28:05As my mother and sisters happily dissected every moment of the ball, I felt a terrible sense of shame.
28:12I had caused hurt to a man whose only crime was being kind to me.
28:20Who was I?
28:22A coward who lacked the courage to follow her own inclinations?
28:27It was time to find my own way.
28:30To look for a new version of myself.
28:33As a serious-minded woman.
28:37From now on, knowledge and reason would be my guide.
28:42No more ribbons, ball gowns, or dance cards.
28:46The old Mary would be no more.
28:48I would transform into the intellectual one.
28:52That was how I would stand out, as the other Bennett sister.
29:02Not long to wait.
29:04More of Mary's story on BBC One in just a moment.
29:08On an iPlayer, sisterhood through Irish eyes.
29:11Fearless, fraught and affectionate family life with the Walsh sisters.
29:15Fearless, fraught and affectionate family life with the Walsh sisters.
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