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06:12you really do look very well in your spectacles
06:16especially when you smile
06:21ah I do not think my mother will agree
06:24but I have a great passion for reading
06:26and I would have been sad to stop
06:30I hope they will help you better enjoy the upcoming Meriton assembly
06:34an assembly?
06:35yes in a month
06:37I heard this morning
06:39my sisters will be pleased
06:43perhaps I shall see you there
06:51Miss Mary you ought to get on
06:53of course he'll
06:54I'll settle affairs here
06:55thank you
06:56thank you and thank you Mr Sparrow
07:07I have news
07:11there's going to be an assembly in Meriton in a month
07:13we know
07:15I'm going to be the one to tell Mama
07:17this will mark my first assembly
07:20my first venture into society
07:24so it will
07:28how would I secure a partner for dancing I've always wondered
07:31oh Mary I'm sure your clever mind can work out something as simple as dance partners
07:36do not fret
07:37do not fret
07:38do not I'm not fretting
07:49I'm not fretting
07:56Lizzie
08:03I'm not fretting
08:06I need to fill my cart with dances.
08:08Jane, do you think I shall be allowed to dance?
08:09Mary! Move!
08:11Do you hope you're not going to stand this close at the assembly?
08:14Oh, we should have taken the long route.
08:16Oh, these are my good boots.
08:20I'm all for you for wearing them.
08:23Damn.
08:28Do you think russet would be too harsh for my complexion?
08:32I don't see why it should.
08:33It would match my eyes, I suppose.
08:35Your eyes are green.
08:38You are so inattentive.
08:44Mr. Thompson told me himself I was the first to know that the ball is confirmed.
08:48We were the first?
08:49I was the first, he was stood a little behind me.
08:51It is wonderful.
08:53What will I wear?
08:54Are Kitty and Lydia allowed to attend the ball, Father?
08:57Why would we not be?
08:57I was the one that found out about it.
08:59Am I allowed?
09:01Jane, Lizzie, you will of course go and marry.
09:04Father, I shall die if I do not go.
09:07I'll probably die too.
09:08I very much doubt that.
09:09Mr. Bennet, Kitty and Lydia will also need to find husbands.
09:14After Jane and Lizzie, of course.
09:19I don't see what the fuss is all about.
09:21Those horrible, sweaty affairs.
09:24Mary, you will attend.
09:27Oh.
09:29Oh, well, of course, Mother, if you wish.
09:32Lady Lucas and I will need someone to fetch us our drinks.
09:35As long as I am not expected to attend.
09:37Mr. Bennet.
09:38I told you, I will not attend another of those insufferable muddy little dancers.
09:43I wonder if Mr. Bingley will be going to the Meryton Assembly.
09:47Oh, he must be.
09:49Who would admit it?
09:50Me, apparently.
09:52You shall all go to the ball, as long as I am obliged to hear no more about it.
09:58I shall never be rid of you otherwise.
10:01Perhaps I shall dance with Bingley, too.
10:03And me.
10:03This excitement over a man you've never set eyes on is quite ridiculous.
10:06Oh, Mary, we're only indulging ourselves.
10:16Mary is wearing spectacles.
10:18What on earth?
10:20Very good.
10:21I hope you find them most useful, Mary.
10:23I do, Father.
10:25Mr. Bennet, did you know about this?
10:28We discussed this at length.
10:30Mary was to visit the optician.
10:31Yes.
10:32But I did not know that she would actually need to wear glasses.
10:36You seem to forget, my dear, that I wear spectacles myself.
10:40But she is a woman.
10:42Nevertheless, she ought to be able to see.
10:45I think they look very well.
10:50Potatoes, Mary.
10:50Mary.
10:54In case she couldn't see them.
10:57I think you're very brave to be prepared to look so ugly.
11:00Lydia.
11:00But Papa, who is going to dance with Mary with those things on her face?
11:03Pleased to be able to read.
11:07Oh, I do hope you are to meet him.
11:09Surely we must.
11:11Spectacles, indeed.
11:13I wonder who is that?
11:15It's a shame.
11:16It's a shame.
11:17It's a shame.
11:17It's a shame.
11:17It's a shame, Lizzie.
11:19Mama?
11:20Kitty and I will meet new dresses before.
11:22Mine still.
11:32No, not as long as you brought too old, table of dress or palace.
11:33That's good.
11:39Otherwise, it's a shame.
11:39It's a BEAST.
11:39It's aplete hole.
11:48Let's open up the room.
12:10Maybe I could help you pick out a dress for the Meriton Assembly, Miss Mary.
12:15Oh, hell.
12:19What am I to do at a dance?
12:21Dance?
12:23What if no one wants to dance with me?
12:28Then you'll eat lots of ices.
12:31Such fripperies are not for me.
12:33I wonder, Miss Mary, if you don't see yourself clearly.
12:36If you're saying I don't bear comparison to my sisters, I've known that for years.
12:40A daffodil might look plain next to a lily, but on its own there is much to be admired.
12:46Now I am tall and yellow.
12:48Miss Mary, I wonder if you wouldn't be a little happier if you went out in the world and saw
12:57yourself how other people see you outside of your family.
13:04Well, that's decided.
13:06I am picking you out a new dress for the Assembly.
13:11And I will not hear another word on the subject.
13:25Hang on!
13:26I've lost my ribbon!
13:30Madam!
13:33Madam!
13:38Madam, please remain still if you can.
13:47Does the gold make me look like...
13:53A little.
13:56Kitty!
13:57What is it?
13:58Those are my books, Lydia.
13:59I cannot reach my jewelry box.
14:01I need something to stand on.
14:03This is important, Mary.
14:04You need to start getting ready, Miss Mary.
14:15Jane is first.
14:17That's not fair.
14:17I'm always last.
14:19Mary can go last.
14:24Do you think I'll be able to dance on it?
14:26Does it still hurt?
14:28Yes.
14:28It was two weeks ago.
14:29I know.
14:31Should we eat beforehand?
14:34Perhaps a small meal.
14:35Perhaps a very small meal.
14:35And don't drink too much.
14:36But what if I'm thirsty?
14:38Lydia, I don't suppose you want to relieve yourself behind a screen in front of everyone?
14:42Listen!
15:19Is it too fine for me, do you think?
15:22You look very handsome in it.
15:35Kitty!
15:36We have tiki!
15:37We're parking!
15:38We are!
15:39We have!
15:39Miss Lydia!
15:39You have plenty of parking!
15:41We have a tent.
15:55It's 4th.
16:56I like your dress, Mary.
16:58Oh, Charlotte.
17:01What's on route?
17:02I swear, the crowd gets bigger every season.
17:04You should limit entry to those young ladies.
17:06Fortunate enough, you'll secure the parties.
17:09I thought the very same thing.
17:36I think it's in my garden.
17:45Mr. Bingley, welcome.
17:48These are my sisters, Louisa, and this is Caroline.
17:51This is Mr. Hurst and Mr. Darcy.
17:53And if I may present, Mrs. Bennet.
18:00Miss Jane Bennet.
18:02Miss Elizabeth Bennet.
18:07Kitty and Lydia.
18:11Oh, and this is Miss Mary Bennet.
18:18Mr. Campbell's girl in the whole neighborhood.
18:21That is a great achievement, to be sure.
18:24Study clearly trumps all other considerations in your mind.
18:28What an example to us all.
18:38If I can be silver, I want to ask if I start this.
18:40Oh, God.
18:41I did.
18:42MissėØ detto.
19:03Hey!
19:05Hey!
19:06Hey!
19:07Come on!
19:09Hey!
19:10Oh!
19:22You will not believe the insufferable company that Mr. Bingley keeps.
19:27What has happened?
19:28I overheard, quite accidentally, Mr. Bingley talking to that conceited gentleman lent against the wall there, a Mr. Darcy, who
19:39said of me...
19:41...she is tolerable, but not handsome enough to tempt me.
19:53And round we go!
19:59Excuse me, Miss Bennet.
20:03I do not mean to intrude, but it is very bad for your eyes to screw them up in such
20:07a fashion.
20:08Mr. Barrow!
20:10Perhaps I may be permitted to help you find what you're looking for.
20:14I was looking for, uh, my scissors.
20:22I'm quite exhausted from all the dancing.
20:24I just chose to sit this one out.
20:28That is a shame.
20:30I was going to ask if you would do me the honour of standing up with me for the next
20:34dance.
20:35Actually, I'm now feeling much rested.
20:38And I would be delighted.
20:40Well then.
20:41Yes.
20:41I thank you.
20:43Oh, yes.
20:46Shall we remain here until the next session?
20:48Oh, that's exactly what I thought.
20:51Yeah.
21:00How are your spectacles?
21:02Very well.
21:02Yes.
21:03Um, I'm able to study for hours without dissing.
21:06I am delighted to hear that.
21:09Can I turn?
21:12Woo!
21:14Woo!
21:15Woo!
21:15Perhaps you could recommend a book to me.
21:17What do you read with such enjoyment?
21:22Well, Mrs. Catherine Macaulay has written a wonderful account of British history.
21:26It's a fascinating read.
21:27I will seek it out.
21:29Are you a scholar, sir?
21:31I like to read.
21:32But science rather than history.
21:34I have a plan to study medicine in London.
21:37Barts or maybe Morpheus.
21:40What a noble ambition.
21:42But it is not a thing widely known.
21:44I have not mentioned it to anyone before you.
21:48I should speak of it to no one.
23:01I'm regretting visiting the supper table so early.
23:04I should have had less oyster patties.
23:08It's fewer.
23:10It's fewer oyster patties.
23:15Here we go!
23:34Here we go!
23:39Here we go!
23:41Here we go!
23:48Here we go!
23:52Here we go!
23:55Here we go!
23:56Here we go!
23:59Here we go!
24:01Would you like a cold drink, Miss Bennet?
24:04Yes, that's an excellent idea.
24:18It looks as though you are enjoying yourself, Mary.
24:22Your partner is the young John Sparrow, isn't he?
24:25Yes, the optician's done.
24:29And you have danced with him twice.
24:33Mary, you are very young, and perhaps do not fully appreciate how things are understood.
24:41If you are to dance with him again, it will be remarked upon.
24:43Two dances in succession suggest a liking, three might imply something more.
24:52I'm very happy dancing with him.
25:07I see that you have stood up twice with the Sparrow boy.
25:11Yes, Mama.
25:14You will not dance with him again.
25:20But, Mother, he's been most attentive. He's quite the gentleman.
25:25Mary, his father, owns a shop.
25:29Yes?
25:31With a bell.
25:35Mother, I have danced with him twice. I have no wish to marry him.
25:39You may not object to lowering yourself, but I will not have you ruin your sister's chances of a match.
25:45I have no wish.
26:08Would you care to dance again, Miss Bennet, once we have finished our ices?
26:14Mrs. Sparrow, I am afraid that I shall...
26:19I shall not be able to stand up with you again this evening.
26:22Oh.
26:24But I thought...
26:26I thought...
26:29I hope I have not offended you.
26:30No, no, no, not at all, sir.
26:32I've...
26:34I've very much enjoyed dancing with you.
26:37It's, um...
26:40That is to say, that, um...
26:44My mother is...
26:45Concerned.
26:46Concerned?
26:48For my sisters...
26:49And I.
26:51It's important that we make an...
26:53Appropriate social, um...
26:57One might say...
26:58Financially, um...
27:00Well...
27:01A suitable match.
27:03Mrs. Bennet, there is no need for an explanation.
27:05I shall not pursue the matter.
27:07I've...
27:08Enjoyed.
27:08I've enjoyed my time.
27:10Um...
27:10Good evening to you.
27:14I'm sorry.
27:15I'm...
27:16Sorry.
27:22Season one off?
27:28Corpsist.
27:29Plasist.
27:32Mr.
27:33Oh my...
27:44d
27:45your keys...
27:47James! James stood up with him twice.
27:51I had little time for his friend.
27:54Please do not hold that against Mr. Bingley.
27:56Do you want me to go against you? Yes.
27:58I danced with tea soldiers.
28:00I'm not very good with faces, so I'm not sure how many times I stood up with anyone.
28:04Ew!
28:05As my mother and sisters happily dissected every moment of the ball,
28:09I felt a terrible sense of shame.
28:12I had caused hurt to a man whose only crime was being kind to me.
28:20Who was I?
28:22A coward who lacked the courage to follow her own inclinations?
28:27It was time to find my own way.
28:30To look for a new version of myself.
28:33As a serious-minded woman.
28:37From now on, knowledge and reason would be my guide.
28:42No more ribbons, ball gowns or dance cards.
28:46The old Mary would be no more.
28:48I would transform into the intellectual one.
28:52That was how I would stand out.
28:54As the other Bennet sister.
28:57Wow.
29:02Not long to wait.
29:04More of Mary's story on BBC One in just a moment.
29:08While on iPlayer, sisterhood through Irish eyes.
29:11Fearless, fraught and affectionate family life with the Walsh sisters.
29:15For her murders.
29:16To speak to...
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