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00:00Oh, now this is noise.
00:03Previously, a 1,000-pound sisters.
00:06So pretty.
00:07It sucks that Amanda and Tammy wasn't able to come,
00:10but we're gonna go to New Orleans.
00:11Now we are walking right through the fire.
00:15When she said to walk in the flames, I was like...
00:18Okay, what's going on?
00:20I really don't know how much more I can take,
00:22I'm being honest with you.
00:24Tammy's mood swings are totally out of control.
00:26I can't put myself through this.
00:28It makes me think about breaking it up with Tammy.
00:33We thought we might throw you a bachelorette party.
00:36How are we gonna do that without the main arm?
00:39Hell to the no.
00:41Like, I'm about to go bride diva on y'all,
00:42because if Lili ain't here, we ain't doing it.
00:48All that I want is for you to get better.
00:52I'm stressed, you're stressed, it's just...
00:55I can't live like this.
00:58I'm at my breaking point.
01:00Do you need to tell where I'm going?
01:15So far, this trip has been an absolute dream come true.
01:19But I'm about to go off on one of these mother .
01:22It ain't right doing the bachelorette party without my maid of honor.
01:29Well...
01:31I know you didn't think you was gonna party without me.
01:34Yeah.
01:36Lili, I was just talking about you.
01:39I kind of overhear her saying you can't do this without my maid of honor.
01:43So I just kind of felt like, man, I need to hurry up and get out here.
01:46She's about to just flip out.
01:47I'm here.
01:48What's up, Lili?
01:49What are you doing?
01:50What are you doing?
01:51I'm here, what are you doing?
01:52What are you doing?
01:54What are you doing?
01:56What is Billy doing here?
01:59Surprise!
02:01How are you?
02:02What's up?
02:04Yeah, I'm really glad you're here.
02:06Damn.
02:08I see Lili and Billy walking in, and I'm like, what the ?
02:10Curse and Missy actually pulled something off.
02:13They surprised the out of me.
02:15And Lili keeping it a secret was even more, like, shocking because she tells me everything.
02:22I'm talking about, we talking about poop.
02:25Lili got a big mouth.
02:26She can't keep nothing from me.
02:28I just literally said, I cannot do this without you.
02:31We figured that.
02:33How did y'all come up with it?
02:34Like, what happened?
02:35I'm your maid of honor, so.
02:36Right.
02:38When I found out that the family was going to New Orleans, I got this idea.
02:42Why not have Amy's bachelorette party there?
02:44You know, so me, Chris, and Missy have been planning this for some weeks now.
02:49What better place than New Orleans for a bachelorette party?
02:52The way I see it is, y'all about to party.
02:56Leave the bail money on the table before y'all go out.
03:00I'm on probation.
03:03Are all of us going?
03:04Oh, no, no, no, negative.
03:06Me and Brian got something to do.
03:08I've been cooking up a little something special for Brian.
03:11It's way off the beaten path, and Brian just ain't ready.
03:15I don't mind you having a stripper, just don't put all your money in it.
03:19All I can say is, you'll find out soon enough, homie.
03:35You okay?
03:39I was kind of nervous to ask Tammy to come to the park and open up with her feelings because
03:44she's not the greatest at that, but I'm not either, so I understand it.
03:49But this is not the same Tammy that I fell in love with.
03:53Something has to get better.
03:55I don't want to feel like this anymore.
03:56I just can't.
03:58You just seem so stressed lately.
04:01You can't even tell I'm not been the same.
04:03No, I can tell you ain't been the same.
04:07But, you know, we got to get it taken care of, you know?
04:13So, what do you think?
04:16Like, how would you feel about seeing, like, a therapist?
04:24Do you feel comfortable doing that?
04:27I mean, it might be good for you, like, to, you know?
04:32It's up to you, though.
04:42Yeah.
04:44I don't know how it's a relationship.
04:50Even though I don't like therapy.
04:53Andrea has been dealing with my mood swings for at least six months or longer.
05:00So, if I'm really trying to be with her, then I need to do this for us as a couple,
05:08and not just myself, because I don't want to continue taking things out on my partner
05:14that doesn't deserve it.
05:18I think that's the best thing.
05:20And I'm proud of you for, you know, admitting that and, you know, trying to take the steps to get
05:27better.
05:28I'm so relieved that Tammy decided to go to therapy.
05:34I'm going to take the next step and, you know, call the therapist for her.
05:38And hopefully, therapy's going to help.
05:41We got this.
05:42We got this.
05:45I agree.
05:46I do need to see a therapist.
05:48But it's just time for me to get some kind of help or do something.
05:53I knew it was bad, but I didn't know that she was wanting to break up,
06:00because I was getting that bad.
06:02I mean, it's scary.
06:04It's scary.
06:09You mean this world.
06:12I love you.
06:13I love you.
06:23Tonight, Lily's got the surprise arranged for Amy's bachelorette party.
06:27That I don't know what we're doing.
06:29I'm just along for the ride.
06:39My gosh.
06:41Girl, this is amazing.
06:42That is.
06:44I'm still in shock that Lily surprised the out of me.
06:48And the next thing I know, I'm here in this warehouse full of all these wonderful parade floats.
06:53As far as the eye can see, it's parade floats.
06:56There's so much stuff to look at.
06:58It's like Mardi Gras threw up in here.
07:02Yeah.
07:03Hi, everybody.
07:03Hello.
07:04How are y'all doing today?
07:06If y'all want to have a seat, we'll get y'all started on a little mask making.
07:10So we're at Mardi Gras World.
07:12We make a bunch of different floats for that ride and all of the different parades here at Mardi Gras.
07:18This is nowhere like the ones we got at home.
07:21No, it's not.
07:22No.
07:22We got a little duct tape and Hammers glue.
07:25Yep.
07:26Hell yeah.
07:27So today, we're going to be making our very own Mardi Gras masks.
07:31So what we are going to do, we have some glue and some brushes.
07:35And we also have a bunch of glitter over there.
07:39It's just supposed to be a bachelorette party.
07:41We're in hell with the strippers.
07:43This is not your typical bachelorette party.
07:45This is not something that I would do, per se.
07:47Like, I definitely wouldn't be crafting.
07:49But I'm her maid of honor, and I'm here to honor what she wants me to do.
07:53If Amy would have asked me to plan a bachelorette party, we would have start with strippers.
07:57Sorry.
07:58Just that's what would have happened.
07:59She could draw on the strippers.
08:01Let me just put it that way.
08:03Body art.
08:04Body art, girl.
08:05They could wear a mask too.
08:07I don't care.
08:08I'd rather not use glitter.
08:10I don't like glitter.
08:11Well, we have rhinestones.
08:13Here, look.
08:13We will put the rhinestones right by you.
08:16There you go.
08:17There you go.
08:17And look, the glue is right next to you, too.
08:21You know, New Orleans is a party town.
08:25They do have nudie bars and, you know, a lot of drinking all the time and other things.
08:32And we're playing with glitter and feathers.
08:34That don't make a lot of sense to me.
08:36But then again, it was for Amy.
08:38She acts like a kid.
08:56Boy, he's taking his sweet ass time today.
09:00I've spent a little bit of time with Brian, but I haven't had good quality time to see whether I'm
09:07going to like him or not.
09:08So, with the girls having a bachelorette party, we got a two-man bachelor party running.
09:15And we about to have some fun in the country style.
09:18Copy that.
09:19What's the plan?
09:19I figured we'd do something that was kind of different.
09:23And since this is New Orleans, why not go frog gigging?
09:30We got some guys going to take us out in the middle of the bayou somewhere and catch some frogs.
09:35To be honest, I chose frog gigging just to see if he'd be game for it.
09:40Because, let's keep it real, I see Brian as a total city boy.
09:48This is part of Louisiana I ain't been to.
09:52I can't say we're going to do some country bull .
09:55You wouldn't lie.
09:57I mean, I think Chris is very protective.
10:00And it's a little nerve wracking.
10:02We're driving out to the middle of nowhere and just keep going further and further to nowhere.
10:08I don't know what's about to happen.
10:23If y'all want to seal your glitter in, just put a layer of glue on it so the glitter
10:27won't fall off.
10:29Girl, I flew down here all the way from Kentucky.
10:33Where did we go layover?
10:34The glue and paint.
10:37What's next?
10:38Knitting?
10:40Would y'all like some drinks or no ones we like to drink?
10:43Yeah, I can't drink.
10:44I'm on probation, girl.
10:48Oh, wow.
10:49And I got a drug test Tuesday.
10:50There.
10:51We can definitely do a little mocktail for you.
10:53Would you like a hurricane?
10:55Sure.
10:56Would you two ladies like a hurricane?
10:57No, ma'am.
10:59So, I guess we're the only ones that's drinking and having a good time.
11:03But that's okay.
11:05To Amy and Brian, may you have a fantastic future.
11:08We'll be in love forever.
11:10Don't let y'alls pour in mine.
11:13My cup wants to spill in yours, so you're gonna loosen up a little bit.
11:17Could you imagine if we put a little alcohol inside Brittany's drink?
11:22Let's do it and see.
11:26She looks like Stevia.
11:30So, I talked to Tammy.
11:34You know, she said, let you know she loved you.
11:36She wished she was here, but that bitch.
11:42Billy's telling Amy that he was talking to Tammy and she sends her best wishes and all this and that.
11:48And Amy just kind of shut down because she didn't want to hear it.
11:51He meant well, but it's a very, very bad idea to say the T word tonight.
12:02Well, to be perfectly honest, I don't know how to feel about seeing Tammy for the first time since we've
12:07been come back from vacation because I don't know what kind of mood or headspace she'll be in.
12:13Hey, sis, what's up?
12:15Hey.
12:16Hey.
12:30I really don't want to be talking about Tammy right now because I feel like myself just getting pissed off.
12:36But she did miss out on a good old time.
12:39Right.
12:46So, when we done our masking, you know what's happening next?
12:50What?
12:51Bourbon Street.
12:55All I know about Bourbon Street is there's a lot of partying and there's a lot of temptations.
13:01Let's be real.
13:02I don't want to see any more jail cells, even in New Orleans.
13:14Lead the way, homie.
13:16So, the signs say costume, but not say what for.
13:19Well, pay attention to details.
13:22Save your life someday.
13:24The plan for tonight is we're going on a boat ride to go frog gigging.
13:29And if Brian don't act right, he might just get left in the bayou.
13:34Hey, guys.
13:35Hey, what's going on?
13:36How are y'all?
13:37Captain Mitch.
13:37Brian, y'all ready to catch some frogs or what?
13:40Yes.
13:41We're going to try like hell.
13:43These good old boys are taking us way out in the swamp.
13:47I'm excited because I'm used to running trot lines at night.
13:50So, it just reminded me of my childhood.
13:52But four years ago, I wouldn't have been able to enjoy this.
13:56At 520 pounds, we going under, buddy.
13:59I mean, floats.
14:00I'd have been fine.
14:02As long as no gator come around.
14:04Then I'd probably be a fat man walking on water and .
14:09A little frog right there.
14:11Hey.
14:12Look.
14:13Y'all see him?
14:14Look, look.
14:15Right there.
14:17See him, Chris?
14:18No, I don't.
14:19He's right against the grass.
14:20Oh, he just went down.
14:21I've seen him about the time he moved.
14:24That's a nice one.
14:25Get on.
14:26Oh, my God.
14:26Hey, we're going to have to hit these son of bitches fast.
14:29There's definitely an art to this .
14:34Look at this.
14:36Have y'all ever?
14:38This is crazy.
14:39Oh, this looks like Vegas.
14:41Girl, this ain't nothing like Vegas.
14:43Vegas is.
14:43But this is amazing.
14:46Look up here.
14:47That's where they be throwing him beads.
14:49And they said, Malcolm is open.
14:52Beads is a very Mardi Gras thing to do, I guess.
14:55I don't know.
14:55It's like being at a bike rally.
14:57You flash your , you get beads.
15:00New Orleans would be a dirty place
15:01if I was maybe a year and a half ago.
15:05I would have been flashing my and getting drunk,
15:07showing my cooter.
15:09Now I'm more grown up, more mature lifestyle.
15:13But the Sturgis bike rally, I got a lot of beads that day.
15:17Let's just say that.
15:19Here they come.
15:21Okay.
15:22Hello, girl.
15:24Woo!
15:25I'm getting bad bitches!
15:28Damn!
15:29Sorry!
15:30Whoa!
15:32Sorry!
15:33Sorry!
15:33Sorry!
15:34Sorry!
15:35I feel bad I hit people.
15:37As I'm throwing the beads, I'm really hitting people with them.
15:41It wasn't my vision.
15:42It was my terrible aim.
15:44Oh, there's a gator up there, just so you know.
15:47Right there, a Louisiana gator.
15:50It is scary tonight.
15:52Yeah, super scary.
15:56Got one!
15:57Yeah!
15:59Got one!
16:00Chris, got one!
16:01Oh, Chris got one!
16:03We're on fire now!
16:05I ain't going home skunk tonight, dammit!
16:08Green frog leg tonight!
16:14Nothing better than fresh frog legs.
16:17They say it tastes like chicken.
16:19I don't know.
16:21Frog legs taste like frog legs to me.
16:23They taste like they're supposed to.
16:25They're good.
16:25But the best thing on the table that they served that night
16:28was the barbecue shrimp.
16:31And I turned around and got the recipe from him.
16:35I just want to thank you again and thank all you guys.
16:38I mean, this was awesome.
16:39Yeah.
16:39I appreciate this.
16:41I ain't worried about nothing else.
16:46Is that that shrimp party?
16:48What am I missing here?
16:51Where's your ?
16:53Oh, Lord.
16:56Did you see that?
16:57Yes, I did.
16:59She had to have beans to cover that.
17:01What was that?
17:03It was hilarious.
17:04We was up there on that balcony
17:05and that girl did that.
17:06And I looked over at Brittany
17:07and her eyes was about like this
17:08and she stepped back.
17:10And I looked over at Billy
17:11because he was on my other side.
17:12He goes, hurry up,
17:12throw her some damn beans.
17:13She got to cover that up.
17:17Oh, give her some beans!
17:19There you go!
17:21Thank you!
17:22Good night!
17:24Thank you!
17:24Sorry if I hit you!
17:26Thank you!
17:27Thank you!
17:28Did you see that girl show that ?
17:30She really show her .
17:31Oh, fuck!
17:32Bitch, I was joking, man.
17:35Bourbon Street was like the pinnacle of the party.
17:38Not only were they showing us ,
17:40they were showing their nasty ass.
17:42Like, dude, they were showing everything.
17:44Missy and Brittany were both mortified at this whole ordeal.
17:48But the bottom line, I could tell my kids one day
17:52I got to work down Bourbon Street at my bachelorette party.
17:56That's so cool to me.
17:58They're getting on my last nerve.
18:00I need to go.
18:01Yeah.
18:06Chris, thank you again.
18:07This was fun.
18:10You know, all in all, I think tonight went very well.
18:13Brian definitely surprised me by being so good of a sport.
18:18He's kind of game for anything.
18:20But the real true test for Brian
18:22would be how he navigates the family,
18:26especially when it comes to Tammy and Amy.
18:29All bull****** aside,
18:31you are aware of what the hell you're marrying into, right?
18:34From one day to the next,
18:36you don't know if they're fighting her for loving.
18:38You know what I'm saying?
18:39Yeah, I'm aware.
18:41But I do think Amy's in a great place.
18:43I mean, she just doing her art,
18:45had her first art show,
18:47which went amazing, I thought.
18:48But it definitely hurt Amy,
18:50Amy not showing up.
18:53Well, my problem is,
18:54how much is it going to bother
18:56when they don't come to the wedding
18:57because they don't feel invited or whatever?
19:02You know what I'm saying?
19:03Yeah, I hear you.
19:04They need to make sure they get invitations,
19:07and Amy's not going to send them out
19:09because she's pissed off at them.
19:11So regardless if Amy sends them or not,
19:13you need to make sure they get in the mail.
19:21Yeah, I hear you.
19:22But Amy's happiness is what matters to me, so...
19:27If Tammy doesn't get an invitation from Amy,
19:31it will be the final nail in the coffin.
19:34It can go from being two peas in a pod to nothing.
19:38And that's just not the way we were raised.
19:52Today's the last morning in New Orleans before we roll out.
19:55Billy and Lele has already left,
19:57but the rest of us are going to squeeze one more good meal in
19:59before we roll out.
20:01So I'm taking them on a riverboat
20:03for the last memory of the trip.
20:05It'd be better if it was a casino.
20:07Don't none of us like giving up our money?
20:10We like winning it.
20:12So how was the bachelorette party?
20:14Was there any strippers or...?
20:15No, there wasn't...
20:16Well, I did get flashed.
20:18I closed my eyes.
20:21It was funny.
20:23It's hard to pick the best part of the trip
20:25because everything is so memorable.
20:28We even got a bird, the only bird was true.
20:30But she didn't enjoy the boobs.
20:33Who doesn't enjoy boobs?
20:36I played with gators.
20:37Oh, Lord.
20:39And missed catching frogs.
20:41Felt like a little T-Rex out there trying to catch them.
20:45Other than that, we did some arts and crafts.
20:48Well, I know you like that.
20:50Like, that was fun.
20:52I'd say Amy had the best time
20:53because she had her bachelorette party.
20:56And it was supposed to have been my trip.
20:58So if it was about me,
21:00then why were we doing the bachelorette party
21:01and all that stuff?
21:02Like, do something that tours me.
21:06Brilliant.
21:09Sorry, I was looking at the bridge.
21:11The drop-off bridge.
21:12Oh, that's better.
21:14Wind's going y'all's way.
21:16Not mine.
21:16Y'all fed me where it bings around.
21:19I'm not expecting me to fart.
21:22Damn it.
21:23I can tell Brittany back this one.
21:26It's heavy.
21:27This trip has absolutely been probably the smoothest
21:30that we've ever taken.
21:31Why is that?
21:32Because the mother****** to stir the pot didn't go.
21:37But the whole time we've been in New Orleans,
21:39we haven't heard much out of Andrea or Tammy.
21:42So I'm going to hope like hell
21:44that no news is good news.
22:21You know them pants look girly on you, right?
22:23You know what?
22:24They're comfortable.
22:25I really don't give a damn.
22:27Since we ain't seen Tammy for a while,
22:29we're going to meet her for lunch today.
22:31To be perfectly honest,
22:32I don't know how to feel about seeing Tammy
22:34because I don't know what kind of mood
22:36or headspace she'll be in.
22:40I've talked to her a couple of times,
22:41but not much more than what's in the group text.
22:44What's the matter?
22:44About all I've talked to her is in the group text.
22:47A few days ago, Tammy sent out a group text
22:50and she talked about getting some help.
22:54She did give out everybody an apology
22:56for being the bitch that she's been for a while.
23:01Okay, I'm going to cut in there.
23:03She never said I'm sorry.
23:05Tammy's group text said that she was having a moment
23:08and that's her way of apologizing.
23:10It's not an apology.
23:13You don't know what kind of mood she is
23:15when she walks in and sits down.
23:16Yeah, whether she's giving off the ass vibe or not.
23:19Pretty much.
23:20Pretty much.
23:25I haven't seen my siblings in a little while
23:28and I'm very apprehensive about being around them.
23:33There's been so much going on with me.
23:35I haven't even told my family.
23:39I'm just, like, really nervous.
23:43Hey, sis, what's up?
23:45Hey.
23:46Nothing.
23:48Oh.
24:16TAMMY'S LOOKING SKittish.
24:18THE WHOLE MENTALITY SHE GIVES OFF IS PULLED BACK.
24:23THERE YOU GO.
24:24THANK YOU.
24:24YOU ARE VERY WELCOME.
24:26AND WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO EAT, MA'AM?
24:28I WANT A COUPLE CHICKEN THIGHS.
24:30I WANT A PORK JOB.
24:32DO YOU HAVE AN IDEA OF WHAT YOU LIKE, MA'AM?
24:35OK.
24:35YOU WANT ME TO COME BACK LATER?
24:36YES, MA'AM.
24:38I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU'RE NOT GOING TO EAT.
24:41I HATE THAT YOU MISSED THE VACATION, BUT...
24:44ME TOO.
24:50I DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT BECAUSE NOT TWO OR THREE YEARS AGO THAT WAS WHERE YOU WANTED TO GO.
24:56YEAH.
24:58TAMMY'S ACTING LIKE SHE DON'T WANT TO HEAR NOTHING ABOUT THE VACATION.
25:01AT ANY OTHER TIME, SHE'D HAVE BEEN THE FIRST ONE IN THE CAR, READY TO GO.
25:05MM-HMM.
25:06SO, FOR HER NOT WANTING TO TAKE OFF AND GO ON A TRIP, THAT RIGHT THERE TELLS YOU SOMETHING AIN'T
25:12RIGHT.
25:13SO, WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN UP TO?
25:17I'VE BEEN GOING TO THE THERAPIST.
25:22SINCE I TALKED TO ANDREA, I'VE HAD A COUPLE APPOINTMENTS FOR THERAPY.
25:28ALSO, I WAS TO THE DOCTORY.
25:30THEY'VE DONE A BUNCH OF BLOOD WORK.
25:32AND MY MEDICATION, IT WAS SUCH A HIGH DOSE FOR MY BIGGER BODY.
25:39AND NOW THAT I'M NOT SO BIG, IT WAS TOO HIGH FOR MY BODY SIZE.
25:47IT JUST KIND OF PUT ME IN, I GUESS, MANIC DEPRESSION STATE.
25:53IT WAS MAKING ME HAVE LIKE A MENTAL BREAKDOWN.
25:57SO, THEY TOOK ME ALL FIVE PRESCRIPTIONS THAT I DIDN'T NEED ANYMORE.
26:05AND THEN THEY LOWERED THE REST OF THEM.
26:09CAN YOU TELL A DIFFERENCE?
26:11IS THE, YOU KNOW, WHATEVER THE DOCTOR DID, HAS IT MADE A CHOICE DIFFERENCE?
26:16I'M STILL TRYING TO GET USED TO MY NEW MEDICATION.
26:21SO, I STILL DON'T FEEL LIKE MYSELF.
26:25WELL, YOU GOTTA REMEMBER THE SURGERY THAT WE HAD.
26:28OUR BODIES DON'T ABSORB LIKE THEY SHOULD.
26:31AND YOU MIGHT NEED TO LET THE DOCTOR YOU'RE SEEING KNOW THAT.
26:34SO, YOU KNOW, IF FIVE MILLIGRAMS WORKS ON HIM, IT MIGHT TAKE TEN FOR YOU BECAUSE OF THAT.
26:41I WAS REALLY CHOCKED AND SURPRISED ABOUT THEM ADJUSTING AND CHANGING MEDICATION.
26:47BUT NOW THAT SHE SAYS SOMETHING ABOUT IT, THE WAY SHE'S BEEN ACTING IN THE LAST SIX OR EIGHT MONTHS,
26:52IT'S JUST KIND OF A EYE OPENER.
26:56YOU NEED TO CONTINUE TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF AND WHATEVER THAT MIGHT ENTAIL,
27:01INCLUDING THERAPIST, DOCTOR, MEDS, CHANGE, WHATEVER IT TAKES.
27:06BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY, IF YOU FEEL BETTER, IT'LL MAKE OUR LIVES BETTER TOO.
27:12YEAH, BECAUSE YOU AIN'T SUCH A CRABBY BITCH.
27:16FOR THE PAST FEEN MONTHS, I'VE BEEN VERY STRESSED OUT, OVERWHELMED.
27:22JUST EVERY EMOTION POSSIBLE.
27:26AND WHEN I WAS GETTING ANGRY OR MAD, I WOULD BLACK OUT.
27:31AND I WOULD SAY THINGS THAT...
27:37IT WAS ME, BUT IT WASN'T ME.
27:40I DON'T KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN IT.
27:43I'M GLAD TO SEE YOU TODAY.
27:45AND I'M GLAD YOU ARE STARTING TO FEEL BETTER.
27:47THANKS.
27:49AND I APPRECIATE THE GROUP TEXT, APOLOGY, BUT HAVE YOU TALKED TO AMY ABOUT IT?
27:54NO, I HAVE NOT, AND I'M NOT GOING TO.
27:56I JUST WANT TO LET IT GO.
27:58IF AMY REPLASES ME, OR IF SHE DOESN'T, I UNDERSTAND.
28:03HAVE YOU EVEN BEEN INVITED TO AMY'S WEDDING?
28:07MM-HMM.
28:10I JUST KIND OF FEEL LIKE IT'S JUST MAINLY FOR ANGRY.
28:15I TRULY FEEL LIKE SHE WAS JUST INVITING ME, BECAUSE SHE WANTS ANGRY THERE.
28:23BUT I JUST DON'T WANT TO GO SOMEWHERE THAT I'M NOT WANTING.
28:29WHATEVER Y'ALL GOT TO DO TO IRON OUT THE BULL HAS GOT TO BE IRONED OUT.
28:33SHE JUST WANTS A SPECIFIC APOLOGY.
28:36AND I GET IT.
28:37I'VE ALREADY APOLOGIZED.
28:39I'M NOT CONTINUING TO APOLOGIZE.
28:41LIKE, YOU EITHER ACCEPT WHAT IT SAID AND DEAL WITH IT, OR THEN YOU DON'T ACCEPT ME IN YOUR LIFE
28:48ANYMORE.
28:51THE APOLOGY TAMMY SENT OUT WAS VERY GENERAL AND BROADCASTED TO ALL OF US.
28:58SO TAMMY'S WANTING MORE OF A PERSONAL APOLOGY THAN ANYTHING.
29:02AND I DON'T BLAME HER.
29:03AND I DON'T BLAME HER EITHER.
29:05THE PETTY BULL NEEDS TO STOP.
29:07SOMEBODY, SOONER OR LATER, IS GONNA HAVE TO STAND UP AND BE THE BIGGER PERSON,
29:11OR YOU'RE GONNA END UP MISSING SO MUCH ON BOTH OF Y'ALL'S LIFE.
29:20I HAVE A MEETING WITH THE EYE DOCTOR IN A FEW DAYS, AND IF THAT GOES WELL,
29:25I'LL BE HAVING EYE SURGERY WITHIN THE NEXT COUPLE DAYS.
29:29WHEN I HEAR THAT MY BRIDE IS HAVING AN APPEARANCE-ALTERING SURGERY ONE WEEK BEFORE HER WEDDING,
29:34IT RAISES SOME CONCERNS.
29:37.
29:40.
29:40.
29:40.
29:40.
29:40.
29:52Oh, she's here, babe.
29:55Our wedding is literally two weeks away, and it's like, God, everything is set in motion, and it's crazy.
30:02So today, Kelly's coming over to talk about last-minute details, stuff that we haven't done,
30:06stuff that we need to add to our do-do list because we've somehow forgotten about them.
30:11Hey, lady, how are you?
30:13Good, how are you?
30:14I'm good. Getting excited?
30:16Yeah.
30:17Coming up, isn't it?
30:18Oh, yeah.
30:19Being in Amy's house reflects her spooky vibe exactly.
30:26Skulls and a ghost and every kind of haunted Halloween thing you can imagine in this house.
30:34I have never met with a bride under the ambiance of a severed limb over my head while we are
30:40discussing her wedding.
30:42So what we'll do tonight is we will just go through each part of it.
30:47All right.
30:47A responsible person for setting up the ceremony decor.
30:51I believe that the tavern sets everything up?
30:54The tavern, yeah.
30:55So we're good there?
30:55Okay.
30:56And these are your centerpieces?
30:58Yes.
30:58Okay.
31:00So I would describe the style of Amy's centerpieces.
31:06Eccentric.
31:07Very different.
31:09I know she's an artist.
31:11So I believe that, you know, they're part of her artwork that she does.
31:17They are centerpieces that I have never seen before in my 14 years of wedding planning.
31:27And I seriously doubt I will ever see them again.
31:33So the food options, we've got country fried steak, we've got her salmon, and then we've got just barbecue pork.
31:39Hmm.
31:41Is there a salad bar?
31:43Um, a lot of people are going for the country of red steak so far.
31:48It's good stuff.
31:50Is it?
31:50Mm-hmm.
31:53What is your head count?
31:54Let's go ahead and talk about that.
31:5556 people.
31:5756.
31:57Okay.
31:58And like 17 Zara SVP'd so far.
32:04Oh, you only have 17 to say yes?
32:06So far, yeah.
32:07Oh, okay.
32:09I got 56 invitations out, and only 17 people RSVP'd, including the bridal party.
32:17So that means there's going to be a lot of empty seats in this house as of right now.
32:21Okay, well, we're getting close.
32:23We have to let the caterer know how many people are going to be eating.
32:26They'll need to know that.
32:28You don't want to pay for 56 people.
32:30And only 17 show up.
32:31And only 17 show up.
32:32I can't eat that much country fried steak.
32:34Yeah.
32:36Our RSVP is online, and most of my family ain't computer savvy.
32:43They're barely phone savvy.
32:45Tammy will be coming now.
32:48Oh, good.
32:48They RSVP'd.
32:49I got made to accept them.
32:52Chris has Brian to ask Tammy to the wedding, and I agreed to get people off my back.
32:58But to be honest with you, I don't give a f*** issue, Cubs.
33:03Do you think there'll be any issues?
33:05They better not be, or they will be asked to leave.
33:08Hmm.
33:09Let's just hope it goes smoothly.
33:11Yes.
33:13Okay, let's go ahead and go through the order of events for the reception.
33:17So you are going to come in and go right into that first dance.
33:20We do have a choreographed dance.
33:23It's kind of a waltz into a salsa.
33:26It's a waltz.
33:26Oh, I can't wait to see that.
33:29Are you going to show it to me tonight?
33:30No.
33:30We do not have it down yet.
33:34Me and Brian have been practicing the choreographered dance lessons.
33:40Whatever.
33:41But we are not prepared to do a dance.
33:44I can barely stand on two feet, let alone do a whole damn choreographed number.
33:49So we start like this.
33:51No one else.
33:52Just doing a slight turn each time.
33:55Other way.
33:56One, two, three.
33:58Oh.
33:59And you're going to do a spin towards Brian.
34:06And then we're going to cut the cake.
34:09You all just had eye surgery, so we'll keep the knife from you.
34:13Yeah, let's keep the knife from me.
34:15I have a meeting with the eye doctor in a few days.
34:18And if that goes well, I'll be having eye surgery within the next couple days after that.
34:25They said, I'll be fine.
34:26I won't need a patch.
34:28What are you having?
34:28Where my eyes go to the sides and stuff.
34:31Uh-huh.
34:31They're going to tighten that muscle where it will remain, like, straight.
34:35So how long between that and the wedding?
34:38Like a week.
34:40Oh, goodness.
34:41Okay.
34:41A little over, but yeah.
34:45Okay.
34:46You sure you want to plan that, like, a week before?
34:48Well, I mean, you said it'll be fine.
34:50It's so important for me to get the eye surgery before I get married because I've been bullied about it
34:54my whole life.
34:56And in my wedding pictures, I want to look beautiful.
34:58Aw.
34:59Yeah, that's good.
35:00So I don't want to look back.
35:00You're going to look beautiful either way, but yeah.
35:02I don't want to look back 10 years from now and see my wonky eye.
35:05Right.
35:07How do you think your eye will be swollen for the wedding?
35:10No, I think it would just be dry mostly.
35:12Well, we may be able to place the veil where, you know, it wouldn't be seen.
35:18Come on.
35:19Only her.
35:20When I hear that my bride is having an appearance-altering surgery one week before her wedding, it raises some
35:27concerns because, you know, what if something goes wrong?
35:31I mean, I pray that it doesn't, but you never know.
35:36So you feel good?
35:38Yeah.
35:39You feel good?
35:39I feel good.
35:41Okay.
35:44Y'all take care.
35:46Hopefully you get up there and back safely.
35:50I never know how Tammy's going to react.
35:52I try to calm her down, but it's hard sometimes.
35:59You okay?
36:16Are you ready to do some shopping?
36:18Yeah.
36:22Hello.
36:22How are you all today?
36:23Good.
36:24How y'all doing?
36:25Good.
36:25What can we help you find?
36:27Her sister's wedding's coming up, so what were you saying?
36:32Something blue, because her favorite color is blue, and then now that she's getting married.
36:39The past few weeks, I've been going to therapy and gotten help with my mood swings and stuff.
36:46So a few days ago, I decided to go to Amy's wedding because I needed to support her.
36:55Like, I love her, I'm proud of her, I support her, so why not go?
37:04Look at that necklace.
37:05It's cool.
37:08Tammy's been on new medications, and I have noticed changes in her.
37:13I did not expect that Tammy was going to want to buy something for Amy for her wedding.
37:18I didn't think that at all.
37:20I do feel like that's a very good sign.
37:23It's getting better.
37:26I'm really glad we decided to go, because, I don't know, I think it's going to be cool.
37:30I think it's going to be all right.
37:33I hope they go on their shows where I'm trying to keep peace and not start crap.
37:38It will, I'm telling, totally, totally.
37:41Like, you probably don't know how much this probably means to her deep down inside.
37:47It does.
37:49It can't be negative like that, I'll try.
37:53You know?
37:55Amy and I still aren't talking, so sometimes I seriously have my doubts about going to the wedding.
38:02I guess I'm just nervous.
38:05I did find a bracelet that's got blue.
38:09Ooh, that's nice.
38:10It is in sterling silver.
38:12Okay.
38:13Let me show Tammy that.
38:15Look at this one.
38:17Ooh.
38:18That's so pretty.
38:22My mom's calling.
38:27Hello?
38:29Hello, what are you up to, sis?
38:32Nothing, just sitting here.
38:33So how did your, uh, last doctor's appointment come?
38:38Fine.
38:39Fine.
38:43So they just checked over your medicines and stuff?
38:47Mom, I'm not talking about that right now.
38:50Oh, okay.
38:53Whenever somebody asks Tammy, like, how she feels, usually she don't like talking about that kind of stuff.
38:58I think Tammy thinks people are rushing her to get better, and I get it, I understand that.
39:04But, like, sometimes gets old, you know?
39:11Hey, Mama D.
39:13Hey, Andrea, what are you up to?
39:15Oh, none, just hanging out.
39:18Are you going to the wedding?
39:20Yeah.
39:22And you still having to stay overnight?
39:24Yeah.
39:26Where at?
39:27In the hotel, apparently.
39:30I don't know, Mother.
39:31I don't know.
39:32It's near the place they're getting married.
39:35As far as I know.
39:36More than likely.
39:40Well, y'all take care.
39:43We will.
39:43We will be up there and back safely.
39:48We will.
39:49Love y'all.
39:50I love you.
39:50Love you.
39:53Bye-bye, Andrea.
39:54Bye.
39:58That was cute.
40:00She's always cute at the end.
40:02Bye, Andrea.
40:19Do you want to go grab that necklace and get that for her?
40:28Yes.
40:37I feel like we're making progress, and then she backtracks.
40:42I hope she's still planning on going to the wedding, but I never know how Tammy's going
40:47going to react.
40:49I try to calm her down, but it's hard sometimes.
40:54So...
40:55You okay?
40:58You okay?
41:01Thanks.
41:02Bye.
41:04Bye.
41:05Bye.
41:05Bye.
41:10Bye.
41:12Bye.
41:13Bye.
41:28Next time on 1,000 Pound Sisters.
41:30I want you to just look down there.
41:32I'm going to look and see how your pupils are reacting.
41:35Today I got an eye doctor's appointment for my eye surgery.
41:38I'm, like, really anxious because I really want this so bad.
41:42I want to put something out to you.
41:44Next thing I know, curveball comes out the left field.
41:50Have you decided to go to the wedding?
41:52I already SPPed, but I don't want...
41:54I mean...
41:55You don't know if you're going to go or not?
41:58I just need signs to know that she still wants me to be a part of their life.
42:02If you didn't go, you would regret it in the long run.
42:08I can't believe we're finally getting married tomorrow.
42:11Amy, have you heard of Tammy's coming?
42:14I have no clue.
42:16You have all your family here, you've got your sister.
42:19If she does show up, I hope good mood Tammy comes to the wedding
42:24and bad mood Tammy keeps her ass at home.
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