00:00What are you thinking?
00:01Like, we don't have to stop having sex with each other to fix things, right?
00:11I have a really intense group of couples.
00:14She found out that I had been cheating on her.
00:17I thought we were happy.
00:18Anxious.
00:19I want the freedom to explore.
00:22Craze.
00:23She is very mean to me.
00:25Are you crying?
00:25I feel bad.
00:26Pushed to the edge.
00:27Are you here playing to me?
00:29Please.
00:30I'm not going to play that game.
00:32Let's start again.
00:35Notice it immediately fell apart, our conversation.
00:41In couples therapy, nothing is what it seems.
00:43Are you positive that you're not lying?
00:45Do you really want to say that?
00:46It's very hard to decipher what to believe in.
00:49I'm allowed to believe what I believe.
00:51It shows up in people's anxiety about their partner.
00:55I don't feel the sincerity.
00:56I don't feel it.
00:57It can put a couple at war with each other.
01:00You're emotionally tying yourself to people who aren't even present with you.
01:05I'm here.
01:06I'm here in real life.
01:09I think what's painful and why it makes me angry is I don't know who you are.
01:17All I hear is just, she's ready to be done with me and move on.
01:24Really intense feelings come up.
01:26It frustrates me.
01:28That was on me.
01:28It's the stupidest thing I've ever heard.
01:30This doesn't mean it's the only way.
01:31Come on.
01:32I can't pretend all you want.
01:34I don't think there's anything left.
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