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Southern Hospitality - Season 4 - Episode 06: Ruckus On The River

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00:05Previously on Southern Hospitality.
00:07All right, everybody, let's get out of here.
00:09Y'all ready to roll?
00:10We clocked out at Republic for an overnight down by the river.
00:14Hey, let's play volleyball games type shit.
00:18And while Justin was still floating the idea of a romance with Mia.
00:22You should go on a date.
00:23Let's go.
00:24Type shit.
00:25Emmy was trying to figure out how to unmuddy the waters with Brad.
00:29I would like to pull Brad aside and have a conversation with him as soon as possible.
00:33After he learned, I'm sorry, her apology was BS.
00:36And he was like, if I don't make amends with Brad and TJ.
00:39They could really try and with my life.
00:42That's what she said?
00:43But it was Lake who really stepped in it with Michaels.
00:46I can't trust her and I can't have a friendship with somebody I can't trust.
00:49After he caught her running her mouth.
00:51Lake was still talking about the microaggression.
00:54And it's like, I ask you not to talk about it with anybody.
00:56Pot meet kettle much?
00:57Now I look like when G. Smalls told me.
01:00And it all set late crying to her mama.
01:03You don't talk to white people about black people's business.
01:06Mom.
01:07Gotta learn to keep your mouth shut.
01:10Are you coming out tonight?
01:15That was so fun.
01:17I see your eyes.
01:18Get me out of here.
01:20I know my ass crack is out.
01:21Open the door.
01:22Yeah.
01:23It's warm in the house.
01:24We're chefing it up tonight, me and you.
01:26Yeah.
01:26Type of s***.
01:28Damn, who drank all the tequila?
01:30That might have been me.
01:31This is a good seasoning.
01:32It's a spicy mama.
01:32Yeah, it is.
01:3360% of the seasoning comes off in the cooking process.
01:36It's a lot more than I initially thought.
01:38I'm just waiting for everybody to shower.
01:40It's going to take forever.
01:42Is it too early to get in the costume?
01:44I like it.
01:44You're missing a strap, brother.
01:46That's how you're supposed to wear it.
01:48You look very hoedown throwdown.
01:50Hoedown throwdown.
01:55I'm like real anxious about Michael's.
01:58What is happening?
02:00It's him choosing to keep his distance from me.
02:03I'm sorry I told Ella everything with Brad.
02:07Next time I tell you something, please do not say it to me.
02:10Did I f*** you over really bad?
02:13Ella is one of those people that I can call a best friend.
02:16Did she go and tell Emmy what happened?
02:18Yes.
02:19Am I mad at her?
02:20No.
02:20For my mom to tell me you shouldn't have told Ella, yeah, she's right.
02:24Maybe I should have just kept it to myself.
02:26But I didn't think it would tumble down into Michael's just being a b***h.
02:30This whole thing just comes back to a conversation starting with Michael's because he's like your brother.
02:35And that's why you're so upset about it.
02:36And again, it's okay.
02:37But you do just need to talk to him.
02:39I've tried talking to him.
02:40He just walks right past me.
02:41I have dealt with crippling anxiety for a majority of my life.
02:47I had to take medication for years.
02:50One of my coping mechanisms would be to talk to friends.
02:53And Michael's is usually that trusted person that is physically there to comfort me.
02:58But he's the person that's giving me anxiety in this moment, not talking to me.
03:02Like I have a big ass mouth.
03:03I'm very self-aware of that.
03:06You're like, I know.
03:07Like I know.
03:08I have my big ass mouth.
03:09I know.
03:09I know I like to talk to people.
03:11That's just who I am as a person.
03:13You need to have a conversation with Michael's because this will snowball into something bigger.
03:19You guys like, can I not be the only one?
03:21Was this like a practical joke that like there's no theme?
03:23I'm just the only one dressing like this?
03:25No, I'm going to get in theme.
03:30Holy hunk alert.
03:32You like that?
03:32I was just going to show like a little side nip, you know, a little side boob.
03:36I like showing nip.
03:39Is this enough for everybody?
03:41Yeah, there's 12.
03:42Wait, do the fours and the naps go on the same side?
03:46No.
03:47You sure?
03:48Yeah.
03:49Do you take cotillion?
03:51Mm-hmm.
03:52Really?
03:52Yeah.
03:53And ballroom dancing at Fred Astaire.
03:56I learned how to waltz.
03:57When I moved from New York, my twin sister Michelle and I were only six years old.
04:02We ended up getting in trouble at school.
04:03They called my mom and said that we didn't properly speak because in the South, we were
04:08supposed to respond to our teachers, yes ma'am, no ma'am.
04:11My sister and I coming from the Bronx, we're sitting here getting our name called and we're
04:15like, what?
04:16What?
04:17What do you want?
04:17Are you calling for me?
04:18Because when you grow up in the Bronx, the way you respond is like, yeah, what?
04:22But my mom didn't around with us.
04:24She was like, after school, you're going to cotillion.
04:27You're not from the Bronx anymore.
04:28So, I'm a hoe and I like to have a good time and I like to dress slutty, but I
04:32got manners.
04:33Wait, so Michael's mom sent him to ballroom and cotillion classes, but she didn't think
04:38that he was going to be gay?
04:40Duh.
04:43I think I'm going to go and approach Brad and just be like, hey, like, I just want
04:48to let you know, like, whenever you're ready, I would love to have a conversation with you.
04:50Just go into it level-headed, say your piece, see what he says, and then you go from there.
04:55Yeah, and if he does have the conversation, I would say what you want to say, but be like,
04:59hey, I'm sorry if I use this word, miss, properly, but this is how I felt.
05:03This is what I felt and this is what I meant.
05:05So, what is it that you want to explain to Brad?
05:08Yeah, I don't want to fight with him anymore, but I'm not going to take accountability for
05:12something I didn't do.
05:14I feel like f***ing Bourdain.
05:16Yeah?
05:17Learning the secrets to culinary success.
05:20Look, I can do it without looking at it, you know?
05:22I can just look at you and just pound it out.
05:25I want you to look at me and pound it out.
05:27All right.
05:28You lost me.
05:30Okay.
05:33Damn, this door.
05:37Hi.
05:38Oh, hot.
05:40You need to be on Love Island right now.
05:43Yeah, I got my boots.
05:46We're all wearing red boots.
05:57That was insane.
05:58That was a little crazy.
06:01Um, I obviously want to, you know, respect, you know, you and whenever you want to talk,
06:09I just wanted to let you know that I'm open to having a conversation with you whenever you
06:13feel comfortable.
06:17Okay, we can go talk about it right now.
06:19Let's go.
06:21I'd rather listen to Nails on a Chalkboard than talk to Emmy.
06:23Do you want to go on the rocking chairs over here?
06:25Wherever, you lead the way.
06:26But I am a man of my word, and I know that this has to happen.
06:30But my mindset going into this conversation, this is probably the last conversation that
06:34I'm going to have with Emmy.
06:36I would just really like to start the conversation off by letting you know that I did not mean
06:41to offend you.
06:43I wish when we were having a conversation that I would have changed the word that you
06:48had brought up, which was unsafe.
06:50It wasn't, like, my safety or the fact that I felt unsafe.
06:53It was the fact that I can't.
06:54No, that's what you said.
07:00Yeah, I just want to clarify with you, like, my safety was never, like, my concern.
07:07It just feels like you're talking out of both sides of your mouth.
07:11I think that I've been a little passive in my apology.
07:17It's not passive.
07:19The problem is you're saying one thing, and then later on, you're changing your mind.
07:24It feels like you're saying one thing to me, and then a day later, you're saying something
07:29to Justin that is contradictory to what you already said to me.
07:33I don't believe a word that comes out of your mouth at this point.
07:35That's the most frustrating part, because we've been friends for a very long time, and
07:39I loved you.
07:40And it hurts to hear what you said about me behind my back when you could have said
07:45everything to my face.
07:46You said, I'm sorry and folly, and then less than 24 hours later, you're like, oh, well,
07:50I mean, I really feel like I'm only apologizing just so Brad doesn't ruin my life.
07:53Like, that doesn't feel...
07:55Let me be very clear about the context of that.
07:56It's not context, Amy.
07:58It should just be black and white.
07:59You should have just said, I'm sorry, and then that's that.
08:03But there is context to it.
08:04No, there's no...
08:05I'm tired of context and the excuses.
08:07It should just be, I'm sorry, so we can move forward.
08:09It's infuriating.
08:10Brad, I'm trying to explain this to you, and I want you to...
08:13I'm trying to...
08:13Go.
08:16I meant my apology in folly.
08:18I would rather make up and have a good summer with you guys than have us attack each other.
08:24No, no, no, no.
08:25There is no attacking.
08:26I'm not plotting against you.
08:27I'm f***ing hurt.
08:29And the I'm sorry's just do not feel genuine.
08:32It just feels like bulls*** time and time and time and time again, and I'm f***ing tired of it.
08:37I'm over it.
08:39I'm done talking about it.
08:41I'm done.
08:42I'm done.
08:55I'm done.
08:58Brad.
09:00You okay?
09:02Yeah, I'm fine.
09:03How was it?
09:05I just told her to f*** off.
09:06Really?
09:07Once I found out, she didn't really mean her apology.
09:10There's no fixing it.
09:12It's torched.
09:14You not letting me speak and not letting me get my point out is so silencing.
09:21Why are you crying?
09:23I just tried to pull up a side conversation.
09:27Breathe.
09:27I'm trying, dude.
09:29He got so f***ing upset.
09:31F***ing enough.
09:32Yeah.
09:32I'm over it.
09:33He got so angry with you.
09:35I said, I'm tired of the excuses.
09:38I'm tired of the I'm sorry's.
09:39I don't believe a word that's coming out of your f***ing mouth.
09:41I didn't get to say my p***.
09:43Excuse me.
09:45It didn't go well.
09:47It didn't go well.
09:49I'm like, I haven't been able to give you a true apology.
09:53And he just wouldn't acknowledge what I was saying.
09:55I'm trying to have a conversation with you one on one.
09:57Go over there.
09:58We don't need an audience.
10:01What the f***?
10:03I mean, we can coexist in the same space.
10:05I mean, we have the same friends, but we are not friends.
10:07And that's fine.
10:08Okay.
10:08Cool with that.
10:09Fair.
10:09Period.
10:10Period.
10:10Was there any way that it could have went where you could have had a friendship with her?
10:15I don't need friends like that.
10:16I'm not starving for friends.
10:17I'm good.
10:17Yeah, true.
10:18You know, whatever.
10:19I don't even know what's real and what's fake.
10:20If you're willing to sit there and give me these white women tears to get out of a situation,
10:25that's it for me.
10:26All right.
10:27Well, let's go to dinner.
10:29Happy dinner.
10:31Yeah, set the table because I'm gay.
10:33What is that?
10:37Ladies, go sit down.
10:38We're going to serve y'all.
10:39And by serve y'all, I mean serve y'all.
10:42He walked away and was like, I don't want to hear.
10:44I don't believe anything you say.
10:45And I'm like, but I haven't actually said anything yet.
10:48I do think she deserves to say her feelings.
10:51I haven't told you how you've hurt me.
10:52How can I move on when I haven't gotten my apology?
10:55But this is the thing.
10:57Justin told him that you said that the only reason why you apologize to him and TJ is so
11:03that they wouldn't ruin your life.
11:06As your friend, stop saying things like that.
11:09Like, you have to put yourself in a position where you're not putting your foot in your mouth.
11:15Dinner is served.
11:17Y'all are missing dinner.
11:19Sorry for the wait.
11:20All right, it's a little bit rude that they're not down here by now, but, um...
11:24Dinner's ready!
11:25Dinner!
11:26I'm going to take a breather in my room.
11:28Okay.
11:29Do that and then just come out whenever you're ready.
11:35Is everything okay?
11:36Yeah.
11:36Yes.
11:37That didn't sound too convincing.
11:39Sweet potato?
11:40Thanks, guys, for cooking.
11:42Oh, good.
11:42Yes, thank you.
11:42This is a collaborative effort.
11:44Let's say grace.
11:45Should we wait till Mia gets back out?
11:47Yeah.
11:47No, I get it.
11:48I feel the power from here.
11:49Go ahead.
11:50I just would prefer not to call it grace.
11:53Wait, what?
11:56Let's say prayer.
11:57Wavy, baby, wavy, baby.
12:01Yes, no, yes.
12:02Oh, that was good.
12:04Listen to me.
12:05Take two big, deep breaths.
12:06I'm trying.
12:07We don't want to eat dinner without you.
12:09Brad feels a certain way that is valid, right?
12:12You're not him and he's not you,
12:13and you can't control the way he feels about what you said.
12:16It was just such a good day.
12:18I don't think Emmy is helping her situation
12:20by isolating herself from the group.
12:21We can all sit around a table
12:23and share a meal with each other.
12:24If you were him, Brad,
12:25you probably wouldn't like you either.
12:28Okay?
12:28Yeah, I think you got a good point.
12:29Okay?
12:30That's okay.
12:30I was trying to take accountability for...
12:33I know.
12:34I was trying.
12:34I know, I know.
12:35And he said that, and he said that, and he said that.
12:37It's the most I can do.
12:37You know, I've realized that I can't apologize
12:41and then not mean it just because
12:44I didn't get the apology back that I wanted.
12:46No, and that's it.
12:48How long did that conversation last, Brad?
12:51Like, three minutes?
12:52Yeah, right around 2.45.
12:55He said 2.37.
12:56We're all together.
12:58That's what this is about.
12:58We're about to have a wholesome dinner because...
13:00Exactly, yes, and then we are.
13:01Excellent.
13:02So I feel like we go outside,
13:04and you show face,
13:05and you're like,
13:05I'm willing to push through things.
13:07Yeah.
13:07Okay.
13:08Come on.
13:12Oh, here she is right now.
13:14I'm going to scooch on in.
13:15I think it's about time I invest in waterproof mascara.
13:21The steak is pretty good, though.
13:22It's good.
13:23It's a little medium.
13:29Lake, what's going on?
13:31Hmm?
13:31What's going on with you, girl?
13:33I'm eating.
13:34She ate.
13:35I just ate.
13:37And I'm drinking a Coke.
13:38You got fat attitude at that river.
13:40You have, like, teenage girl angst, emo attitude.
13:44I'm done.
13:45I'm done playing.
13:46We need the ball.
13:47What?
13:47Why?
13:48You're like, I'm going to my room.
13:50I feel like she wasn't feeling okay
13:51because she overheard y'all talking about her.
13:54Yeah.
13:55Um, it's not a secret
13:57that I've 1,000% been very frustrated with you recently.
14:02You broke my trust.
14:03It's not okay for you to sit there
14:06and continuously talk about something
14:07that does not involve you
14:08when I literally sat here.
14:10No, but it got involved of me
14:11when Brad felt like I wasn't defending him
14:13in that situation.
14:14I got involved.
14:14Yes, when I told you not to talk to anybody about it.
14:17How am I supposed to trust you and be your friend?
14:19It was not already out there.
14:20You went to her after you came to my apartment.
14:23Why are you lying?
14:27What do you mean?
14:28You're lying.
14:29Stop lying.
14:31Y'all are speaking in Morse code to me.
14:33I have no idea what's going on.
14:35I think that just went to zero to 100 way too quick.
14:37That's Michael.
14:38Yeah.
14:38What the ?
14:41You don't get to play the victim
14:44when it's not you.
14:46Look at him.
14:46Why is he all build up like that?
14:49That's the top in him.
14:51Like that former Joe-ass outfit.
14:55Why are you crying?
14:57You don't get to cry, Link.
14:58It's not about you.
14:59You talked about it with Ella.
15:01You're breaking my trust.
15:03I cannot be friends with you
15:04if you're going to continuously break my...
15:06Okay, cool.
15:07I'm sorry.
15:08I'm sorry.
15:09I'm sorry.
15:09I'm sorry.
15:10Just leave me alone.
15:11Okay.
15:12That's cool.
15:14Do not speak to me.
15:15I don't care.
15:27Do not speak to me.
15:28I don't care.
15:31Can you just leave me alone, please?
15:37Lake, more than anybody in this group,
15:39is like my family.
15:40I don't have a great relationship with my family,
15:43so my friendships are very important to me.
15:45And I hate that I lost my temper,
15:47but when my trust is broken
15:49by somebody that I've let in so deep,
15:51it hurts me to a deeper level.
15:54It's just like you don't get to sit there
15:55and play the victim
15:56and like cry about a situation
15:57that didn't happen to you.
15:58Breathe.
15:59It's so frustrating.
16:00Take a deep breath.
16:00I'm exhausted.
16:01I'm more than exhausted.
16:02Michaels can be super cold
16:05when you cross him,
16:06but can't judge.
16:08I'm the same way.
16:10You're not willing to take accountability.
16:12Like, I don't feel bad for you.
16:14Just breathe.
16:16You broke my trust.
16:16You had a conversation with Ella about it.
16:18It's not her place.
16:19Catch your breath.
16:21I can't be friends with somebody
16:22that is continuously going to be breaking my trust.
16:26I'm so sorry.
16:27He's like,
16:28I can't be friends with somebody like you.
16:32It's not your fault.
16:33And it's just,
16:34what's the craziest part about all this is like,
16:36this had nothing to do with Brad's skin color
16:38and I never will get to express that to him.
16:41Like, I'm not denying Brad's feelings,
16:43but at the end of the day,
16:44it's like,
16:44I need to say my piece.
16:46Like,
16:47I'm not entitled to feeling uncomfortable.
16:50You know what I mean?
16:51It's like,
16:51okay,
16:51like now I'm not even allowed to vocalize how I feel.
16:56Emi.
16:58Moment,
16:59time,
17:00place.
17:00Brad's about to feel his way,
17:02but you have to acknowledge how I feel too.
17:09I have a genuine,
17:10authentic friendship with Michaels
17:12and I believe that he is my best friend.
17:15And so like,
17:16for him to look at me and say that like,
17:18he doesn't want to be my friend.
17:19Trust me,
17:19I know how,
17:20I know how like it hurts
17:21and I'm,
17:22I'm sorry.
17:22Here,
17:23give me a hug.
17:24Give me a big hug.
17:26I'm not like,
17:27slow.
17:29I'm sorry.
17:34You can't say you don't want to be talked about
17:36and still talk about other people behind their back.
17:39I feel bad for Lake
17:40because Michaels is masquerading his anger with Lake
17:44in the name of me being upset.
17:47But at the end of the day,
17:48I forgave Lake.
17:49Like we were good.
17:50Whatever is going on between those two
17:52is way deeper than what's going on with me and Lake.
17:55So we're talking in circles.
17:56We are talking in circles.
17:59I honestly just want to go down there and defend myself.
18:07Do you mind coming to the table?
18:09Yeah.
18:11Thanks.
18:19So, I'm back.
18:25When it comes to it being almost painted like,
18:30like I wasn't defending you,
18:33my way of coping
18:35is through confiding in others.
18:38And I'm sorry that that broke your trust.
18:49This hurts.
18:51It hurts.
18:52To see how angry you were with me
18:55when I'm really not trying to make you angry with me.
18:58And I know I broke your trust
19:00by confiding in my friends about this.
19:02And like, I think it was just my way
19:04of like trying to figure out
19:06how to defend myself in this situation
19:07because the last thing I wanted
19:10was to be painted as someone
19:11who doesn't constantly defend people of color.
19:15And I am that person that is a defendant.
19:18Like I will always be here.
19:20I will always stand as an advocate.
19:22I will always, like always.
19:25And so I, I hate that it did this
19:29to our relationship
19:30because I hate not talking to you.
19:32I hate when you walked by me
19:33and didn't even acknowledge me.
19:35Like.
19:37I'm not good with like
19:38faking my emotions.
19:41Like I can't, I can't just like
19:42smile on your face and be fake.
19:44Like that's not me.
19:45I don't move like that.
19:47Like I can't do that.
19:48I don't move like that either.
19:49I go mute and you know this about me.
19:51And I'm like, I'm sorry to everybody.
19:53Honestly, like I'm just,
19:54I'm sorry.
19:55It's okay.
19:56It's okay, Lake.
19:56It's okay.
19:58It's okay.
19:59It's okay.
19:59It's okay.
20:00I think what you said was great.
20:02And I do accept your apology.
20:03I didn't, and Lake.
20:05You're good.
20:05Hey, Lake.
20:06People love you.
20:07Yeah, you're fine.
20:08Wow.
20:10Brad accepted Lake's apology.
20:11You're good.
20:12And I'm right here.
20:13I'm literally right here.
20:14I deserve to have a conversation.
20:17I'm not getting any of the same respect
20:19or courtesies that everyone else around me is getting.
20:21That was good, Lake.
20:22Oh yeah, Lake.
20:23Well done, Lake.
20:25You're getting a shot.
20:27I'm sorry.
20:28Like.
20:32I love you.
20:34I miss those.
20:37Are we okay?
20:39Yeah.
20:39We're gonna be fine.
20:41Stop being dramatic.
20:42I cannot imagine a world when me and Michaels are not friends.
20:45There is no world where me and Michaels aren't friends.
20:48We're friends in every universe.
20:50Flumber party.
20:51Woo!
20:52Woo!
20:53Woo!
20:58I don't know if you want full frontal, brother.
21:01I didn't think so.
21:05You're sexy.
21:07Dude, are you kidding me?
21:08Look who's talking.
21:09I feel like I won't say much about myself, but I will say that I'm good energy.
21:13And I think that, like, if we went out, we'd have, like, an unbelievable time.
21:16So, that's all that matters.
21:23What are you making, Brad?
21:24Welcome to Waffle House.
21:26We having burgers tonight.
21:28Where's Justin and me at?
21:30It's time on the videos.
21:31Are we gonna look?
21:32Just come over.
21:33We'll go to the pool.
21:38Kiss!
21:40Kiss!
21:42Oh, my God.
21:44If y'all kiss, we'll kiss.
21:45If we kiss, you'll kiss?
21:48Yeah.
21:49You guys kiss first.
21:50You guys kiss first.
21:56It's crazy.
21:56Yes, sir, yes, sir, yes, sir.
21:57Crazy!
21:58You're ass.
21:59Oh, my God.
22:07You said you wouldn't do it.
22:10You did, you did, you did, you did, you did.
22:12Oh, my God.
22:14Oh, my God.
22:15Oh, my God.
22:22Where's Molly?
22:29It's kind of chilly.
22:32That was electric.
22:33I love that.
22:34Type s***.
22:36Type s***.
22:43We need to watch Salt Lake City.
22:48Hey, I'm a nice ass.
22:50Hey, you.
22:51Don't act dumb.
22:56Is that your teenager?
22:58Yeah.
22:59Don't be scared of him.
23:01He's nice.
23:03The stuff you put in your butt taste good.
23:27Don't look at the back.
23:27Brad, let's go.
23:28Time to get up.
23:31Let's go, let's go, let's go.
23:36It's time to wake up.
23:40Everyone's all grumpy this morning, huh?
23:42Shower.
23:43Yeah, you guys need a shower.
23:45After what I heard happening here last night.
23:48Couldn't get any sleep.
23:50Too much headboard pounding.
23:57Wakey, wakey, Joe and company.
23:59It's a beautiful day in Edisto.
24:04Everyone's just so sick of me.
24:08Who's making mimosa?
24:10OMG, I need coffee first.
24:14Okay.
24:14To Edisto!
24:16Yeah, girl.
24:17Woo-hoo!
24:19I want to leave.
24:21Why are your shorts six sizes too short for you?
24:24They just keep getting smaller.
24:26Does anyone else's body hurt them?
24:28Yes!
24:29Yeah.
24:30Michael's about to work on my bruise.
24:34Where's Molly?
24:36He's sleeping.
24:37He's asleep.
24:38Jealous.
24:39She was literally pouring Esplen in a red Solo cup at like 1 a.m.
24:45Good morning, Molly.
24:46Oh, .
24:48Good morning.
24:49Good morning.
24:49It's Cruella de Vilk, guys.
24:51Good morning.
24:52Coffee.
24:53Eggs are ready.
24:54Wonderful.
24:55Did you make out with TJ?
24:57Yeah, out there.
24:59Whenever y'all were sitting outside, I said, if we make out, you guys have to make out.
25:04You would have with Justin?
25:05A little spark just went.
25:07Oh, my God.
25:08Jordan's okay with this?
25:09Oh, stirring the pot a little bit, huh?
25:12You talked to Jordan?
25:13Yeah.
25:14Did you?
25:14Don't lie.
25:15Yeah, I have.
25:16Are you gonna talk to Jordan, too?
25:18No, my friends are here like that.
25:19I thought you, Molly, and Jordan were all friends.
25:22Molly is my friend, and then Jordan's her roommate.
25:25Jordan and I have never, like, we don't send each other memes.
25:27We don't hang out.
25:27Send each other memes?
25:31That's my friend.
25:32If I send you memes, we're friends.
25:33Yeah.
25:33I don't have a relationship with Jordan at all.
25:35And Justin is giving no signs that he's a taken man, okay?
25:39He's single as a mother Pringle.
25:42I called Jordan to explain what had happened, you know, before Lake goes scurrying off to Jordan about it.
25:48And, uh, just got cussed out.
25:53F yous, you're a this, you're a that.
25:55I think I probably dragged this situation ship on for a bit too long.
26:00Are we packing so we can get up out here?
26:02Yes.
26:03Joe, let's go.
26:05Yeah.
26:06We have a lot to do for the party.
26:08Oh, I almost forgot about my birthday.
26:10Like, yeah, two weeks.
26:13I still got a lot of to do to, like, make sure this is a big success.
26:16Do, like, a hundred comp ones, and then we can sell, like, probably up to 400, right?
26:20Yeah.
26:20Yeah, 500, I think, is awesome.
26:22You know, it's my birthday party.
26:24I'm not gonna charge my best friend, but I still need to sell all the tickets.
26:27So promoting it to strangers is also important.
26:29No way.
26:31No way.
26:32I think we should hang outside the gate at Republic, and then you do a TikTok.
26:36On three.
26:37Ready?
26:37One, two, three.
26:43I think people are gonna see that, and they're gonna buy tickets.
26:46Thank you, Nani.
26:46I am putting, like, five months of my rent into this event, so it better work out.
26:52I'm curious about what happened last night.
26:53So am I.
26:55About what?
26:56Ooh.
26:56Did you see each other's penises?
27:01Yes.
27:01Oh, my God!
27:04You know, there was a lot of moaning and panting.
27:08There were sounds there that I don't think I could humanly replicate.
27:12I did not eat booty.
27:13Did he eat your booty?
27:15Oh, my God!
27:16Oh, my God!
27:17I didn't say anything.
27:19Two young, beautiful men exploring each other's bodies.
27:22Ugh.
27:22I'm all for it.
27:24Eat mine while you're at it.
27:25Just kidding.
27:27I'm never kissing you again, Michaels.
27:29What the ****?
27:32Damn.
27:33Let's get out of here before the storm.
27:34This is an omen.
27:36We gotta go.
27:37Oh, my God!
27:38Oh, me!
27:39Are you all right?
27:41Welcome to the Thunderdome.
27:43Get in the car.
27:44Let's go!
28:02Ouch!
28:27I'm a little hungover.
28:29Good boy.
28:30I'm not.
28:31Yeah.
28:32Don't miss that.
28:34Try and do better at that.
28:35What?
28:37Never mind.
28:40I also had, like, I've had a hell of a week at a cell.
28:45And then working at my birthday party, my event, you know, having all of this in the back of my
28:49head.
28:50I know Joe is going through a lot.
28:52He's turning 30.
28:54He's really lost in his career.
28:56But it's almost like he goes to alcohol to cope with it.
29:00I'm just at a little, like, bump in the road where I feel like I'm plateauing and I'm just kind
29:04of losing my fire.
29:05Getting bombarded by hundreds of people every night.
29:07I love it for, like, an hour or two.
29:10And then I want a drink.
29:12Yeah.
29:14The only thing that, like, I'm nervous about turning 30 is, like, where's my career right now?
29:20I want to marry you one day.
29:22I don't want to be proposing to you while I'm, like, working the door at a club.
29:25I want more.
29:26And I told Leva, I'm like, I'd love to partner with you and Lamar.
29:29But she told me if I, like, didn't go to a few of her DJ sets, that, like, they would
29:34have considered to, like, partner with me for the new location on King Street.
29:39Everyone's like, Joe, like, when are they going to give you a place?
29:42You know, we have this new spot.
29:43Like, that spot should have been Joe's spot.
29:45But, like, you just left with Maddie.
29:48It's a little codependent.
29:50You have been bussing your ass for them for five years now.
29:54You've been a manager.
29:55You've been a bar back.
29:56You've been the hostess.
29:58The hostess.
29:59Literally every job.
30:00You know a hostess is a female.
30:03A host.
30:03Whatever.
30:04No, I hear you.
30:05But I don't know what to do.
30:08I'm kind of stuck.
30:09But do you ever think that, like...
30:10It's fine.
30:11All right, let's get up.
30:17It's gonna be okay.
30:18It's gonna be all right.
30:19Promise.
30:33You good?
30:35Yeah, I'm just, like, too tired just to chill.
30:37Yeah, I know.
30:38I'm so tired, dude.
30:39You just want to get out of here?
30:40Yeah.
30:41Hi.
30:43Hi.
30:43Hi.
30:44How are you?
30:46Good.
30:46How are you?
30:47Hey.
30:47Your hair looks good.
30:49Welcome in.
30:52How is everyone?
30:53Great.
30:55We're all a little tired.
30:56We are.
30:57I'm probably gonna have everybody set up.
30:59Make sure everybody gets on the floor in 20 minutes.
31:02What do you got here?
31:03Apple tables.
31:03Those four.
31:05Mm.
31:06Weak.
31:07Last job.
31:08Yeah.
31:08He did book one, though.
31:09I'm gonna sit in there.
31:11Okay.
31:11Let's go.
31:14Oh, hi.
31:15Hi, hi, hi.
31:16Hello.
31:16Hey, guys.
31:17I saw four tables.
31:18That's pretty weak.
31:19You know?
31:20Let's maybe try to sell some tables and get some people in here before.
31:24Yeah?
31:26Damn.
31:27I feel like there's no one else in the room right now.
31:29She was talking directly to me.
31:31Joe knows by my eyes.
31:33He knows he needs to book at least five tables.
31:36That's the bare minimum.
31:37Yeah, I guess I've been a little preoccupied with planning my own event.
31:41But I don't need someone breathing down my frickin' neck.
31:44For somebody who is looking to go into the hospitality business,
31:48I mean, I know they just went on a little trip.
31:51But four?
31:52That's lame ass.
31:59Let's get the floor set up.
32:00Let's go make some money.
32:01Beautiful.
32:02Woo!
32:05Oh, we need two more.
32:06Just getting s*** done.
32:08You guys ready to go?
32:10Thanks, babe.
32:16My back.
32:19Teach, do you have any VIP menus back there?
32:23Oh, perfect.
32:24I don't know which one is, like, works, but...
32:26I feel the sexual tension.
32:29Oh, they're both good.
32:39Hi, y'all.
32:40Hi, hi.
32:41How are y'all?
32:43You guys can follow me.
32:45Have you talked to me?
32:47Um, no.
32:48Has he said anything to you today?
32:50No.
32:51Hello, hello.
32:52How's it going, guys?
32:53Hi, guys.
32:54How are y'all doing?
32:55I'm looking for a big group.
32:56We gotta get a big group.
32:57Type s***.
33:03Okay, done.
33:04Got it.
33:05Period.
33:06What's going on?
33:07What are y'all celebrating?
33:07The building.
33:09Your 30th birthday.
33:10I love you.
33:12Beautiful.
33:13If you guys want to get a VIP table,
33:15we can do, like, a bottle of sparklers,
33:17a sign and all that.
33:19That's how I would do it.
33:20Hell yeah.
33:20Sparklers?
33:28You're saying yes to the table?
33:29Yes.
33:30Okay, awesome.
33:31Leva, haven't I proved to you that, like,
33:34year after year, I get the job done?
33:36Let me cook.
33:37I got this.
33:38This last-minute attempt is like
33:40he's operating from a place of fear and insecurity.
33:44Come on in.
33:45It's just like he's really not doing much to impress me.
33:50I'm good.
33:52Me, I'm good.
34:16hey how's it going good surviving i feel like you're kind of going into this new
34:22phase in your life and as you're kind of getting into this next chapter are there kind of goals
34:26that you're trying to accomplish yeah for sure i mean i kind of told you when we were in la
34:30i definitely want to get into modeling like a big bucket list would probably be like
34:35tommy hilfiger calvin klein ralph florin i made a bunch of connections when i was out in la
34:40and one of them happened to be like a talent manager and he was like you're a person of color
34:45you're living in the south and like you're working hospitality but you're still sexy and fun and young
34:50and we want to emphasize all that and i was like oh my gosh yes like sign me up i
34:54would love to see
34:54you in times square in a giant billboard yeah that would probably make me like cry the modeling
35:00industry in charleston is very non-existent it's mainly new york and la so this could be like a
35:05really big opportunity for me we have been working for a couple months with this brand new lgbtq magazine
35:11called so.gay and they want to make you the cover star
35:16so i think this would be a great first step to establish your story and get that out in front
35:21of as many people as possible yes let's do it modeling is definitely something that i've been
35:26wanting to get into for a very long time i've just never really had the confidence to do so and
35:32i think
35:32feeling more comfortable and secure in my sexuality it's given me like a different level of confidence
35:37that's really helped me we'll make this a really big success and make this kind of the launching point
35:41for something a lot bigger oh my god i'm so excited two weeks i'll see you then okay yeah i
35:45need to get
35:45on the reformer
35:49there's some truth in this madness
36:07i'm like it's pouring rain to the point where i'm like scared to get my equipment
36:11wet this weather sucks
36:14i got a dj inside
36:20go maddie go dj get it girl get it girl
36:25oh yeah no way she said it
36:40i'm like i'm exhausted today your outfit's though it's fire thank you but i'm also like a little
36:46pissed because joe told me he was working last night and like of course like i have his location
36:53like check his location and it's at another bar
36:57i'm not like a uber tracker i only track joe when he's not responding to make sure he's not
37:04dead in a ditch
37:06yeah no he didn't come in last night
37:09but he told me that he was working
37:12yeah because he's like out drinking that's not okay no and i hate that leva has this perception
37:18that like i have anything to do with him missing out on work to like come on tour with me
37:22or to
37:23like hang out with me or something like that when he's like going out do you know what i mean
37:28yeah 100 percent all righty
37:33are you playing in here today
37:38are you djing inside do you want me to help you move it out
37:42no it's a pouring rain if you didn't notice
37:44so i called d and he told me to play in here
37:48okay
37:51do you want any food or anything
37:55you okay
37:56no no really
38:05she's obviously pissed off at me i have no idea why but i don't know if i'd rather have maddie
38:10yell
38:10at me and embarrass me and for everyone or to be silent like this this is the most annoying part
38:14about our relationship is when she gets mad and i don't know why like what did i do
38:19what's wrong
38:25all right i'll talk to you later
38:38all right well okay see you later i think we're yeah we're done peace out
38:47hey hey how are you i just got off yeah same
38:54well i'm kind of ready to go home but yeah i want to go home too
38:58there's just something i want to talk to you about i'm just pissed because i feel like i constantly
39:03check your location and you're not at republic
39:08you're out at the bar and i like don't find it that appropriate
39:13i support you starting a business and you bettering your life i do not support you saying
39:18that you're doing that but then you're out drinking and going on a bender
39:23i wasn't on a bender i went home at 11 p.m is that a bender
39:27okay so that bender 11 p.m i know i'm turning 30 but holy
39:33if you literally stopped going out and you spent some time at home i think you would have had a
39:37proposal
39:37together already i think you've already would have had a bar open i really think so
39:43friday i worked to 1 a.m and then i went to lamar's which is work
39:48i just talked to michael's he said you left work on friday you didn't work last night
39:52i did not tell you i was going to work
39:54not a single time did i tell you i was going to work yesterday
39:57okay so you didn't communicate with me that on thursday friday and saturday and sunday this weekend
40:02you have to work at republic that's not true
40:04joe that's a lie
40:06why are you lying i'm not lying what's your deal like how can we solve this
40:10what do you want me to like stay at home with you all night to be honest i think that
40:14we need
40:14space i think our realities aren't matching up i think it's inappropriate that you're going out
40:22going to after parties well after the business is closed i see you a picture of me in bed last
40:26night
40:26at 11 15. no you did not i swear i'll show you my uber it's in your head you're spiraling
40:33this is the first time in any relationship i've been more worried about my boyfriend
40:37getting wasted than cheating on me and it's extremely triggering to my sobriety
40:44look 11 30 not 11 30 august night you don't even remember last night
40:50okay cool i'm going i'm leaving i can't deal with this why would you do this you begged me not
40:55to
40:55work here and then when i like go to work i have never begged you not to work here i
41:00begged you on my
41:01hands and knees you begged me not to work here you don't work here you show up and you leave
41:06it's all in your brain by the way it's all in your head yeah this is all in my head
41:21he's gaslighting me that's not true he's saying oh i work all the time oh i work and do this
41:27i never
41:27leave why are you coming after me why would you do this
41:34i'm like sober and it sucks because i feel like he's going out all the time getting hammered and
41:41then i feel like i'm enabler i don't know if like i'm mentally and emotionally okay with being
41:48with the town drunk yeah and i'm not surprised that levitt wasn't taking him seriously his behavior
41:55hasn't changed now i don't think it's going to change anytime soon oh you're gonna make me cry
42:01stop i don't know i don't like to see you like this i don't know what to do i don't
42:09know what to do
42:12next time on southern hospitality i would just spread your legs i can do that i was raised by people
42:19that drink a lot he's talking about marriage and moving in and i get scared of not breaking a
42:24generational change yeah how's your date what date what date mia and justin went on a secret date
42:31holy you're hurting people look at her she's about to cry he played your ass and he's a dick
42:38you're the bitch sick bitch goodbye
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