00:02Hello, my people. Welcome back to Nollygistee. If you never ready financially, this gist go touch
00:07your soul's small O. Because Nollywood veteran Chiwetalu Agun dropped one serious advice for the
00:13guys. And trust me, not the kind advice we go reset your brain sharp sharp.
00:51According to him, before you carry Bell, give anybody, check your account balance first.
00:56Because as EB now, pampers they cost. School fees they rise. Fuel price no even get joy again.
01:05And then, you no get shishi. But you still they enjoy life? My G, now you go cry past the
01:11baby-o.
01:13Uncle Agu no hold back at all. He said when billings start to land, reality go hit you like trailer.
01:19The best advice I can give you as a lady before you embark on the journey of marriage is be
01:25a
01:26complete woman before you marry. Establish yourself as a woman before you marry. Make sure you are
01:33mentally, physically, spiritually and financially stable before you marry. Emphasis on financially
01:40and spiritually stable. It is not marriage that completes you as a woman. Your world, identity
01:47or sense of completeness as a woman does not depend on being married. You don't need marriage to feel whole,
01:55valuable or fulfilled. Marriage should complement you, not complete you. Marriage should be a beautiful
02:02addition, not a missing piece. Before you marry, build yourself for... Even if you are not financially stable,
02:11at least, make sure you have something to do in. At least, make sure you have a handball. At least,
02:17make sure you have a business idea or a proper insight of what being independent is all about. God
02:24forbid if you marry into a family where your in-laws don't like you and you have nothing to bring
02:30to the
02:30table. Then, sorry will be your name. God forbid if your husband divorces you over a small
02:36misunderstanding and you are not stable in any way. My dear, you will have to start life all over again
02:43because you live with nothing. God forbid your husband dies and you have nothing of your own. If
02:50your in-laws happen to be a wicked set of people, they will strip you of everything your husband left
02:56for you. A huge reminder that society is cruel to widows. A huge reminder that the world is unkind
03:04to divorce women. A huge reminder that the universe often mistreats single mothers. The earlier you open
03:11your eyes to establish your brand, your identity, your dreams, and your strength as a woman, the better
03:19for you. It's self-development, independence, and self-worth. The former race. When a woman
03:26wholly relies on a man emotionally, socially, or financially, she becomes vulnerable to losing her
03:33sense of self, stability, and control over her life. If the man withdraws his support emotionally,
03:40physically, or financially, she may find herself helpless. A woman who sees marriage as her ultimate
03:47goal is likely to lose her sense of purpose, settle for less than she deserves, and limit her personal
03:54growth. The choices and decisions you make today determine what your tomorrow will be like. Be
04:00a complete woman before you marry. Establish yourself as a woman before you marry.
04:07But make we talk true. Is he being harsh or just saying the truth nobody wants to hear?
04:15One thing sure, Chiwetalu Agudan dropped wisdom we know be small. Better plan well before responsibility
04:22plan you. This is Nali Gista, where the gist is hot, the advice is real, and the street always learns
04:29the hard way.
04:54My name is Cross and Die.
04:57I want to teach me to be at a chicken branch where it comes and reads my knowledge.
05:04There you go.
05:04Do you understandjmiet You hear that?
05:05How wake up your life again?
05:08There you go well.
05:09You're Gill donald's family과 quotes to introduce you to熟 Maya.
05:17Do you hear anything?
05:18Do you see the man'sippeness technology?
05:20Gonna!
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