00:00How would you react if you got, like, the ugliest ring in the world?
00:03I just feel like I don't want to manifest that.
00:06I don't want to put that out into the universe.
00:09My fiancé proposed, and I'm thrilled to marry him.
00:12Good.
00:12But I hate the ring.
00:14Do I say something, or is this one of those things you're supposed to just accept?
00:18Are you kidding me?
00:19Just be quiet and accept the ring and say thank you.
00:22It's beautiful.
00:23This whole thing is like the weddings, the bachelor parties, the destinations, the ring.
00:27That's not what marriage is about.
00:29You know, somehow, if you know the proposal is coming anyway, and most people do,
00:33say, you know, if you're going to pick something out for me, I love the round or I love a
00:38pair.
00:38Maybe throw it out there.
00:39Just once.
00:40Don't keep repeating until it's annoying, but, you know, suggest it.
00:44But once it's on your hand, it's yours, and say it's beautiful.
00:48Yes.
00:49A few thoughts.
00:49If you are somebody who cares, like this person, about what shape ring you get,
00:54you have to say something before.
00:56Right, probably.
00:56And as the person proposing, if you know your fiancé is someone who will care,
01:01you should probably ask.
01:02Yeah, but sometimes the guys don't think about it.
01:04They go in, they're overwhelmed anyway because it's so expensive.
01:08But I would hope that he says, do you have a preference?
01:10I think most men do.
01:12Your first ring doesn't have to be your only ring.
01:15Like, it's not something that you're tattooing onto your body.
01:18Except the first ring is the most emotional.
01:20Of course.
01:21Yeah, after it's already on your finger, there's absolutely no way you could then be like,
01:25actually, can I change it?
01:27No, that would be terrible.
01:29That would be hurtful, I think.
01:30How would you react if you got, like, the ugliest ring in the world?
01:33If I got an ugly ring...
01:36I think you just have to keep it.
01:37And you'll eventually just put it on a pin or something.
01:41Right.
01:42Wear it around your neck.
01:42I just feel like I don't want to manifest that.
01:44Yeah, I don't.
01:45Like, I don't want to put that out into the universe.
01:47Right, good idea.
01:48So I'm not going to get an ugly ring.
01:51Modern problems.
01:52Classic solutions.
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