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00:00:01Previously...
00:00:01Welcome home!
00:00:03The homestays saw some lock-in plans for their lives beyond the experiment.
00:00:08I'm open to moving now.
00:00:10I've got everything that I want in an apartment.
00:00:12I've got my reassurances.
00:00:14We are coming out stronger.
00:00:16Stephen stepped up, giving Rachel reassurance for their future.
00:00:20What I see is a wife outside the experiment.
00:00:26After a tense few days on the farm, Sam and Chris made a shock decision.
00:00:32I can't see this working.
00:00:34It's all good. It is what it is.
00:00:35It's not how I envisioned it would end.
00:00:38I really thought Chris would fight for me a bit.
00:00:41You want to have a family.
00:00:43You don't want to keep putting it off.
00:00:46Following advice from her mother, Alyssa began to spiral.
00:00:49I'm just getting very overwhelmed with what I have at stake here
00:00:54and what I could potentially be walking away from.
00:00:56Leaving David disheartened...
00:00:58The way Alyssa is handling the situation, it is making me uneasy.
00:01:03Tonight...
00:01:04Throughout this experiment, I have been patient.
00:01:06But when you're dealing with the mum, the family, friends,
00:01:10they all said that I'm a great guy for her,
00:01:12and she still sees negatives, there's nothing else I can do.
00:01:16Has David reached his limit?
00:01:18That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:01:21You never say space.
00:01:24It's the second last dinner party of the experiment.
00:01:28I can see we can do life together,
00:01:30but I feel a lot more confident now that we can take this out onto the outside.
00:01:34Have Rachel and Stephen become this year's new power couple?
00:01:38Who would have thought?
00:01:39Who would have thought?
00:01:41The person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.
00:01:45But babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:01:48Tensions rise when Sam and Chris air their concerns.
00:01:51You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour, honey.
00:01:55And I've never been aggressive to you.
00:01:58And then...
00:01:59I think, like, for me, as a man, I feel like...
00:02:03Oh, God.
00:02:04Oh, my God.
00:02:06What are you on about?
00:02:07Yeah.
00:02:08It's the shock debate that will divide the table.
00:02:12That was not what I was getting at.
00:02:14Are we serious for this?
00:02:30Our couples have returned from their homestay.
00:02:33And our brides and grooms are enjoying a new sense of closeness.
00:02:38After stepping into the life that could be waiting for them outside the experiment.
00:02:43Hi.
00:02:45Hey.
00:02:45Bonjour.
00:02:46Bonjour.
00:02:47Recharged and hopeful, the couples now turn their attention to the second last dinner party
00:02:53of the experiment, eager to reconnect after time apart.
00:02:58Are you excited?
00:02:59I am excited because it's been a very long time since we caught up with everyone.
00:03:05We don't know what the hell is going on.
00:03:08It's going to be exciting.
00:03:10A lot of guys to come up.
00:03:12This is...
00:03:12I'll be straight up with you.
00:03:13This is the most anticipated dinner party I'm looking forward to.
00:03:17Yeah.
00:03:17Really?
00:03:18How come?
00:03:18We went through...
00:03:20The ups and downs.
00:03:21We went through the ups and downs.
00:03:21The trenches.
00:03:23But coming out of the end of it, good.
00:03:25Yeah.
00:03:26Everything's...
00:03:26Everything is exactly where it needs to be.
00:03:28For Rachel and Stephen, Homestays sparked a breakthrough in their marriage, unlocking a new confidence
00:03:35in their relationship.
00:03:37Hello, hello.
00:03:38Hello, sexy.
00:03:39Looking good.
00:03:40I appreciate that.
00:03:41I like the red.
00:03:42Right now, we've just come off the back of Homestays and it was amazing.
00:03:46Something definitely clicked for Stephen and I.
00:03:48It was that this could work.
00:03:51I think that's really what it is.
00:03:53I'm ready to, like, load up the boat again and get straight back up to the Central Coast
00:03:57and just, you know, start hanging out and yeah.
00:04:01So, it was really good.
00:04:02We had such...
00:04:04It was such a great Homestay and I'm actually just really excited to share that with everyone.
00:04:09And that's it.
00:04:10I'm glad you had a good time and you could see, you know, a little bit of my lifestyle.
00:04:16After Homestays, it's given me confidence.
00:04:18I feel a little bit better outside the experiment now.
00:04:21Like I said to Rachel, can I see myself falling in love with you?
00:04:26Yes, I can.
00:04:27And I mean that and Homestays really gave me confidence in that.
00:04:32I think we're really lucky.
00:04:34You know, other couples may not have had a good Homestay,
00:04:37so we're really lucky to have had the good experience that we did.
00:04:42While Homestays brought some closer...
00:04:46For Scott, welcoming Gia into his home presented new challenges.
00:04:51What's that?
00:04:52It's a neck brace.
00:04:54Why is it pink?
00:04:55Why is it pink? Why not?
00:04:57You're trying to find a problem.
00:04:59Is it your ex or something?
00:05:00Yeah.
00:05:00Do you trust me? Like, do you trust my words?
00:05:03Do you trust me as a person?
00:05:04Yeah, I trust you.
00:05:06Yeah, why?
00:05:08I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells because I feel like if I want to bring up something,
00:05:12I feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way.
00:05:15I know I trust you, but can I commit to moving and everything if you never feel like, you know,
00:05:21that you love me?
00:05:22But back at the apartments, eternal optimist Scott is determined to hit reset and look on the bright side.
00:05:29I feel great.
00:05:31I just feel good walking into this dinner party, being able to share, like, good moments that we've had.
00:05:36I feel like it'll be good.
00:05:37Like, I feel like tonight's going to be a really good, positive night to share what we've done for Homestays.
00:05:43Yeah.
00:05:44At the end of Homestays, we had a bit of a discussion, but we hashed it out.
00:05:50Today, we're going to the dinner party with positive attitude, we're great, we're in a really good place.
00:05:54I want to keep it like that.
00:05:57Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty happy with where we're at.
00:06:01I'm coming to the end now, this is the last or second last one.
00:06:04Mm.
00:06:05So, yeah.
00:06:07Do you think it would cause problems if you, you know, raised some concerns?
00:06:12Oh.
00:06:16Pretty much.
00:06:18Let's just do it, get it done.
00:06:20I'm excited.
00:06:21You look good, we feel good, and I'm ready to walk into a nice dinner party.
00:06:27Yep, me too.
00:06:30For Bec and Danny, what began as a promising homestay took a dramatic turn.
00:06:36If my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you, they would.
00:06:43I think, obviously, because Danielle fancied me, she didn't want to, like...
00:06:49I'm joking.
00:06:51I'm joking.
00:06:52I'm joking.
00:06:52It's like a serious moment.
00:06:56These moments make me feel like shit.
00:06:58It's serious for me.
00:07:00You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it and then not say,
00:07:04oh, your cousin wants to me.
00:07:06Like...
00:07:07I never said that.
00:07:08Yeah.
00:07:08I'm done.
00:07:09You're a f***ing boy.
00:07:10F***ing thingy.
00:07:12F***ing boy.
00:07:14F***ing.
00:07:15And now back at the apartment, an even bigger shock awaits.
00:07:23So, since we got back to Sydney from homestays, things are great.
00:07:28Cheers, baby.
00:07:30Cheers, girl.
00:07:31The last night, like, since we've been back, like, there's not really any need to talk
00:07:35about it.
00:07:35Like, he made a joke.
00:07:37It frustrated me.
00:07:39He got frustrated with me.
00:07:40And then we wake up the next morning.
00:07:42We give each other a cuddle.
00:07:43We have a shower.
00:07:45Can we move on?
00:07:46Cheers.
00:07:47It's all blown over.
00:07:49Like...
00:07:50Shocking.
00:07:51Oh, stop it!
00:07:54For most couples, homestays brought them together.
00:07:58But for one couple, it marked the end of the road.
00:08:02Going to the dinner party tonight, yeah, I'm going alone.
00:08:06And obviously Chris and I left each other at homestays.
00:08:09I wrote some questions down and maybe we could just be, like, really raw and honest with
00:08:14each other about all the answers.
00:08:18First question is, do you accept full responsibility for your defensiveness and the aggression I felt
00:08:23from you last week?
00:08:27Yeah.
00:08:29You don't have to agree.
00:08:30Yeah, no, I agree.
00:08:31Yeah.
00:08:31I just feel like we've just...
00:08:33I've already suffered enough from this.
00:08:35I honestly felt like I was, um, 15, getting in trouble by a teacher or something.
00:08:39Do you have feelings for me?
00:08:43Um...
00:08:44Okay, um...
00:08:47In the beginning, uh, yes.
00:08:49But I just think, um, yeah, we also have some, um, differences as well.
00:08:55And I just wanted to put my dad hat on and, like, live my best life.
00:09:01Homestays was my last plea to see if he was going to fight for me at all.
00:09:06But Chris just kind of gave up.
00:09:10So, I did break up with Chris on the farm.
00:09:12But I'm going to the dinner party because I want that last chance to sort of just, like, find out
00:09:19why Chris actually didn't want this relationship.
00:09:23I just want clarity on what the hell happened.
00:09:27But Sam isn't the only one struggling with the fallout of their homestay.
00:09:33During their trip to Adelaide, Alyssa received a wake-up call.
00:09:37Obviously, I want to settle down in Adelaide, but what are your thoughts about me moving to Sydney just for
00:09:43a couple of years?
00:09:45I would hate that.
00:09:49Um, you know, you want to have a family and you don't want to keep putting it off.
00:09:56People sometimes take ten years to fall pregnant.
00:09:59That's the truth.
00:10:00Yeah, I know, but, Mum, I don't know that yet. I've never tried.
00:10:02That's right.
00:10:03But you don't know that.
00:10:05A couple of years?
00:10:06A couple of years.
00:10:07I don't think you've got a couple of years to wait.
00:10:12It's really stressful now.
00:10:13A couple of years.
00:10:15And after a confronting conversation with her mum, Alyssa unravelled and David was left wondering where he fits.
00:10:23I will be honest with you, I started to spiral.
00:10:29Like, I want to have a family in the next few years.
00:10:32I don't want to miss out on being a mum.
00:10:34And if we're going to make this thing work, David might have to move to Adelaide.
00:10:39Alyssa, I'm really sorry, babe, I have to ask this to you.
00:10:42You've sat here and you've talked a lot about what your wants and needs are.
00:10:49What about...
00:10:50Yeah, David.
00:10:52Now back at the apartments, David has had a wake-up call of his own.
00:11:01Oh, man, I'm feeling at my limit post-homes days.
00:11:09Can I see myself living in Adelaide?
00:11:12Absolutely.
00:11:12But, you know, after having, you know, come back to Sydney and having time to just come down from the
00:11:19high of homestays, I am feeling a bit low.
00:11:22And that is because there were a couple of things that have still, like, trinkled in the back of my
00:11:28mind.
00:11:29Could you see yourself living here?
00:11:33To be honest, yeah.
00:11:36I know that you're willing to move here, which is great.
00:11:40But, I don't know, I feel like I'm getting overwhelmed with it because you're, like, literally...
00:11:45Spiralling.
00:11:46I am, I am, I am, because it's, like, a lot.
00:11:50David actually is everything that you've asked for.
00:11:53I know.
00:11:53Right now, this is too good to be true.
00:11:55Like, and that is also another reason why I'm scared too.
00:11:59Throughout this experiment, I have been patient because I know there is something in this relationship to fight for.
00:12:06But when you get to that point where, like, you're dealing with, like, the mum, the family, friends, they all
00:12:13said that I'm a great guy for her.
00:12:15And she still sees negatives.
00:12:17There's nothing else I can do.
00:12:20I've hit my limit and I'm not going to push any further.
00:12:24It's getting very real that I could potentially be putting everything on the line for someone who doesn't want to
00:12:31meet me halfway.
00:12:33So, today I know I need to be honest.
00:12:36For me, I think it's important to just express how I feel.
00:12:40Looking handsome.
00:12:41Thanks, babe. You're looking gorgeous. I love the dress.
00:12:44Thank you. Well, we're kind of almost matching.
00:12:48How are you feeling going to the dinner party after homestays?
00:12:54Homestays was a massive, massive week.
00:12:58So, I'm at the point where, like I said, you know, I'm happy to give all the space you need.
00:13:05I'll take the space I need, because I definitely need space.
00:13:08Yeah, like, I feel like I've just gone and put it all on the line.
00:13:13And, you know, at the end of the day, I'm not going to force anything.
00:13:18That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:13:21I know, but I do.
00:13:22You never say space.
00:13:24Yeah.
00:13:24You're always like, you're more like, let's, like, whatever.
00:13:27This is the first time you've ever said space.
00:13:29Yeah, I know.
00:13:31That kind of, like, rattled me a little bit.
00:13:34Normally I'm the one that needs space.
00:13:35So, you know what?
00:13:37If he needs space, gladly.
00:13:39Because I need space right now, just from my head.
00:13:42And I don't need any of this pressure right now.
00:13:44I feel like I'm at my tether.
00:13:46I feel like he's at his tether.
00:13:47We're both tired.
00:13:49And he's been snoring louder than usual.
00:13:51Like, it's just been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster.
00:13:55The reason I need space because, yeah, I am a calm person.
00:13:58But I'm getting to my limit where I just need to take some space for my own brain.
00:14:03Because I feel like I put my cards on the table.
00:14:06But it almost felt like you were just looking for the negatives.
00:14:09And when someone's looking for the negatives too much of why things can't work,
00:14:13like, I'm not going to force that.
00:14:15I'm not going to force a connection if it's just me looking for the positives
00:14:18and someone else is looking for anything to be like, why this can't work.
00:14:24I would be lying to you if I said I wasn't questioning things right now
00:14:29and questioning our relationship.
00:14:31I am in that headspace.
00:14:34So I'm not going into the dinner party with Alyssa feeling my best self.
00:14:39I'm sure you're in a similar boat.
00:14:41Babe, I'm just as tired as you.
00:14:43Yeah, exactly.
00:14:44I'm just as tired as you.
00:14:45Exactly, yeah.
00:14:46I'm just as tired as you.
00:14:48Mm-hmm.
00:14:49I get it.
00:14:58It'll be the honor of getting up.
00:15:00Let's get out of here.
00:15:00Yep.
00:15:01Let's go.
00:15:05After you.
00:15:05After me.
00:15:06Thanks.
00:15:08Off to the gallows we go.
00:15:13I don't want to do this.
00:15:28Well, dinner party number seven, the second last one before we wind this all up.
00:15:35And it is a very important one because they've come back from the homestays.
00:15:40As they start to get a glimpse of what their life will be like with this person in the real
00:15:45world.
00:15:46This is a really crucial part of the experiment for them because some of them will bond closer together through
00:15:53the homestays.
00:15:54I think it's going to be really good.
00:15:56What about you?
00:15:57Are you excited?
00:15:58I'm excited.
00:15:59Whereas others will start to really fall apart and question their overall compatibility with their matches.
00:16:08It's noisy.
00:16:10They'll hear that in the mics, they'll hear that.
00:16:12And you do that all the time, you don't even realize.
00:16:19Well, the homestays throws up the ultimate question.
00:16:22Could this relationship last in the outside world?
00:16:25Mm-hmm.
00:16:26We're going to see you tonight.
00:16:32Aw, first in.
00:16:34First one's in.
00:16:36Ha ha.
00:16:38Rachel and Steve-o.
00:16:39No one to talk to you, but ourselves.
00:16:41Are you sick of talking to me yet?
00:16:43Ha ha ha.
00:16:44Ha ha ha.
00:16:45Straight to the bar.
00:16:46Straight to the bar, babes.
00:16:47I don't think I've seen Stephen look so relaxed and so really walking in with Rachel.
00:16:53Yes.
00:16:54As he is today.
00:16:55Very unified.
00:16:56Tell me when.
00:16:58That's good.
00:16:59Oh my gosh.
00:17:00Thank you so much.
00:17:02Yeah.
00:17:02Gotta look after you.
00:17:03Aw.
00:17:04I appreciate it.
00:17:05Ha ha ha.
00:17:06Me and Rachel, we're good.
00:17:07We've walked into the cocktail party.
00:17:08We're first in there.
00:17:09We're pouring drinks.
00:17:10We're cracking jokes.
00:17:11I'll just take this with me.
00:17:12Oh, you're going to take that?
00:17:13Okay.
00:17:14It's probably the most relaxed I've ever been in a cocktail party.
00:17:17We're in a good place.
00:17:19Mmm.
00:17:20Yeah.
00:17:20Do you want me to open it?
00:17:23Do you want me to open it?
00:17:24Is there a real opener?
00:17:27Got it?
00:17:27There you go.
00:17:28We're both so keen to get out of this experiment.
00:17:32See where life takes us.
00:17:34Especially after the homestays.
00:17:36Alrighty.
00:17:36Oh my gosh, babes.
00:17:38Here we are.
00:17:39Cheers.
00:17:40Hopefully, uh, you know, it's just us.
00:17:43We can have all the food and the drink.
00:17:45I mean, I wouldn't be mad about it, babes.
00:17:49I mean, I'm just, I think I'm just really, really excited to share how much fun we had.
00:17:54And like, and how good ours was.
00:17:58Isn't that nice that a couple is sitting here talking about themselves?
00:18:02Not everybody else?
00:18:03Yes.
00:18:04This is great.
00:18:05Chicken.
00:18:06Chicken.
00:18:06Yeah.
00:18:06Bye.
00:18:07Gonna make you blush.
00:18:09And the enthusiasm.
00:18:10Yeah.
00:18:11In Rachel's voice and face as she is just excited to tell people the good news.
00:18:15They had a good week.
00:18:18Oh.
00:18:26Stop rubbing your name.
00:18:28Oh, f*** me.
00:18:32I'm trying to understand you because I don't understand you.
00:18:34We are confusing the f*** out of me.
00:18:35That's it.
00:18:36Well.
00:18:51This whole, I'm at my limit.
00:18:53I need space.
00:18:56It sounds really bad.
00:18:58Does it?
00:19:00Yes.
00:19:01So maybe we've got to word it differently.
00:19:03It's not taking space from each other.
00:19:05It's just taking space to process everything.
00:19:25It's just taking space to process everything.
00:19:38Okay.
00:19:41Oh, look who it is.
00:19:42Oh, my God.
00:19:44Oh, my God.
00:19:45Oh, my God.
00:19:46Oh, my God.
00:19:47Oh, my God.
00:19:47Oh, Alyssa and David.
00:19:48Oh, my God.
00:19:50Oh, my God.
00:19:51Oh, my God.
00:19:52Oh, my God.
00:19:52Oh, my God.
00:19:52Hang on.
00:19:52How are you, mate?
00:19:53Dude, that's all I can do.
00:19:55Oh, good to see you, bro.
00:19:56Likewise, man.
00:19:57Looking good.
00:19:58Oh.
00:19:59That's some energy there, isn't it?
00:20:01Oh, at first.
00:20:02Yeah, at first.
00:20:03You got it.
00:20:03We got so much done.
00:20:04Oh, my God.
00:20:05Oh, yeah.
00:20:06We've got a lot to evaluate.
00:20:07Let's just get some...
00:20:09Evaluate?
00:20:10Okay.
00:20:10Okay.
00:20:18So, are you prepared for everyone to find out that I'm a better fisherman than you or...?
00:20:22Oh, hang on.
00:20:23Whoa.
00:20:28Walking into the cocktail party tonight, you know, I was...
00:20:32Obviously, I've been on a low post the homestays.
00:20:36I've sort of just been feeling deflated.
00:20:39Ooh.
00:20:40Right in my face.
00:20:41And I did make it known to Alyssa that, you know, I am sort of one in my own space,
00:20:46you know,
00:20:46in my head just to sort of figure things out.
00:20:49So, I did walk in on a low.
00:20:55Oh, who is it?
00:20:56Hey!
00:20:57Here we go!
00:20:58What's up?
00:20:59Scott and Gia.
00:21:00Do you want to spin?
00:21:01A little hotness right here.
00:21:03Oh, so pretty are you both.
00:21:06Hi!
00:21:07I'm going to give you some love.
00:21:08Gorgeous!
00:21:12Walking into the cocktail party tonight with Gia, like, you know, we're not perfect.
00:21:16We still have a couple of things to work on.
00:21:17Get a drink and get in here, brother.
00:21:19I always look at the bright side.
00:21:20If there's something that's really bad, I just see the more good in someone.
00:21:24Can we carry that?
00:21:25Thanks.
00:21:29Alright, Chris, why don't you tell me what's running through your head and going into this?
00:21:33One saving grace for me is that last time I was in this car with Sam, it was just so
00:21:38yucky and awkward.
00:21:39So, I'm grateful not to have that, you know, at the moment.
00:21:44Well, it was so awkward you could cut the tension with a knife and I could not wait to get
00:21:48out of the car.
00:21:49I just hope this, you know, situation with Sam and I can get squashed pretty quickly so I can have
00:21:56a couple of shams and try and enjoy my night.
00:22:01Yeah, no, this is definitely not how I expected to be going to a dinner party in the experiment.
00:22:05I think Chris and I started off really strong and everything was going good and then at some point he
00:22:09just flipped and it all just sort of fell apart and I don't really know what that flip was into
00:22:14him.
00:22:17Do you know if Sam's coming tonight?
00:22:19Oh, I definitely know he'll be going.
00:22:21Yeah.
00:22:21He wants to go to get the whole group's opinion and two cents on our dirty laundry.
00:22:28But, you know what, there's two sides to this story and coming to the dinner party to back myself and
00:22:34say my side of the story.
00:22:47Oh, Chris is alone.
00:22:50Ew, how you going?
00:22:51Okay, that's a surprise.
00:22:53Hi.
00:22:54Hey, bud.
00:22:55So Chris walks in solo.
00:22:58Well, shit.
00:23:00That's not my prediction.
00:23:02Drink, drink, let's go drink, let's go drink, let's go drink.
00:23:04I mean, they were very bad at the commitment ceremony.
00:23:07Chris had written leave, Sam was absolutely in tears about it all.
00:23:10There was a hope at the homestay they might be able to turn it around, but this looks like it's
00:23:15actually not been salvaged.
00:23:18The brown's orange.
00:23:19Yeah, yeah, I'm alright.
00:23:20You look very tan.
00:23:21Thanks, babe.
00:23:22The fit's good.
00:23:23The fit's good.
00:23:23My life's not.
00:23:24I would love one, babe.
00:23:25Your life is okay.
00:23:27Yeah, thanks, babe.
00:23:27You got this shit, babe.
00:23:28You got this shit.
00:23:29Yes, obviously it didn't work out.
00:23:31Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:23:33I feel like maybe Sam and I can unpack it together.
00:23:36Okay, alright.
00:23:37So you don't want to talk about that?
00:23:38No, I'll give you a little run.
00:23:40I'll give you a little rundown.
00:23:41It's really hard seeing them not walking together because I genuinely had hope that they would get past this.
00:23:48Seeing Chris walking in by himself, like, it was genuinely, like, pretty heartbreaks.
00:23:54Basically, yeah, Sam ended it with me two days into homestays.
00:23:59He ended it with you?
00:24:00This is the second day.
00:24:01He ended it?
00:24:02Yeah.
00:24:02He ended it with you?
00:24:04Yeah.
00:24:04Oh, Sam ended it.
00:24:07I wonder why.
00:24:08Yes.
00:24:08I wonder why.
00:24:09Obviously, we had, like, a, you know, pretty bad couch session.
00:24:14I took accountability.
00:24:15I decided that I wanted to learn and grow from the feedback that I got.
00:24:18Yeah, that's what you said.
00:24:19Um, so I went into homestays trying to turn it around.
00:24:21Gia knows.
00:24:22I spoke with you about it.
00:24:23Yep.
00:24:24Boarding flowers, made him dinner.
00:24:25I tried everything that I could to turn it around.
00:24:27But unfortunately, um, yeah, it didn't work for us.
00:24:30And it was really, it was a real shock because I thought we were actually doing quite well.
00:24:33Like, you know, I started to get those feelings back for him again.
00:24:36So...
00:24:37So Chris was saying he started getting feelings for Sam again.
00:24:40Okay.
00:24:41So he was shocked by it.
00:24:43Blindsided.
00:24:45So it's pretty, it's pretty sad.
00:24:47Um, but I respect Sam's decision to exit.
00:24:50Um, and we actually weren't even going to come tonight.
00:24:52Like, they, we, he left the farm and we were just going to leave it at that
00:24:55because we unpacked a lot of it.
00:24:56Um, but I've decided to give Sam the respect of coming tonight so we can both...
00:25:01...talk to you guys about it and, um, let you know what's happened
00:25:04and then sit in front of the experts and get their advice.
00:25:07But like, no ill feelings towards Sam.
00:25:08I respect his decision.
00:25:10But yeah.
00:25:11She's single again.
00:25:13Oh!
00:25:13Thank you!
00:25:15I love you.
00:25:15I love you.
00:25:16Yeah.
00:25:18Alyssa, how was yours?
00:25:23Uh...
00:25:23I feel like I'm still processing everything.
00:25:26Yeah.
00:25:26It's crunch time, right?
00:25:28It's crunch time!
00:25:28For you guys.
00:25:31Um, but we'll talk about it later at the dinner party.
00:25:36Okay.
00:25:41Hey!
00:25:43Hey!
00:25:44Hey!
00:25:46Hey!
00:25:46Hey!
00:25:48Hey!
00:25:49Hey!
00:25:49Hey!
00:25:51Hey!
00:25:52Hey!
00:25:52Hey, buddy!
00:25:52Jeg tiresome unden用 den hand at Tim Sophie!
00:25:53Oh, hey!
00:25:53For the best part, we had a really good home state, you know?
00:25:57I got clarity, so it's been decided.
00:26:00Uh...
00:26:00I will be making that move happen sooner rather than later.
00:26:03He looks tan.
00:26:04Do you not spray tan?
00:26:06Huh?
00:26:06No, no...
00:26:06Do you not spray tan?
00:26:07We went to the beach!
00:26:08What the hell?!
00:26:08And I just thought, you know what, like, it's time to go for an adventure.
00:26:20He's Beck and Danny Beck and Danny I'm feeling phenomenal walking into this
00:26:28cocktail party tonight Danny and I are in a great spot we are planning our
00:26:34future together we had great homestays and I've got no
00:26:38beef with anyone oh my god pigs fly what the hell I'm not arguing with anyone
00:26:55well I got back and I was a bit drained to tell you the truth it was it's a lot
00:26:59like I felt a bit
00:27:01uncomfortable in our house and I felt a bit out of place and it made me did think about like
00:27:05the
00:27:06logistics of the move more like how it's gonna work jaw or because I'm not just gonna move in with
00:27:11that of course and live like our put my feet up this is brand free like yeah that doesn't sit
00:27:15well
00:27:16with me so it just solidified there's more things we need to talk about of course
00:27:23so yeah we're gonna do that thing yeah awesome crazy love it I think Danny and I are probably the
00:27:31strongest in the experiment if I'm honest with you and like it feels like it can only go up from
00:27:36here
00:27:41coming up I would never just move in Danny's jaw-dropping confession from my point of view anyway I
00:27:48suppose everyone looks at it different but it makes you feel like a has the whole table talking
00:27:53what are you on about oh god oh my god
00:28:11here we go
00:28:17when did you talk to him last the last time he spoke to me was
00:28:21um the Friday after he left and he and all he said was that he wanted to come to the
00:28:26dinner party
00:28:26community ceremony
00:28:29yeah I don't know what the energy is gonna be like with Sam I hope he comes in like nice
00:28:34I just yeah I just can't deal with any more you know
00:28:47hello everyone oh here's Sam here he is how you going good how are you good you look nice yeah
00:28:54how are you not too bad hello Sam hi Matt I'm hugging like just hot but I've got a vertical
00:29:04problem
00:29:06hey look look at me brother thanks thanks thanks let's get a drink
00:29:10I hope he doesn't come at me all right why are you worried oh I just just don't worry
00:29:14yeah I just can't deal with it like all right now you're okay how are you yeah are you okay
00:29:24uh I just feel a bit like there was no real effort while we're away but we'll get into it
00:29:30at the
00:29:30table yeah no no he's given us a bit of a grief
00:29:35what was he said um that you guys you know went to homestays and like he put dinner one night
00:29:40or you
00:29:40guys have dinner together one night and he thought the first night was going okay um and then obviously
00:29:46you guys both had a chat and decided that it was yeah yeah dude he didn't drive you're eating up
00:29:55this bullshit don't eat up this bullshit dinner is sir okay let's go babes you got it let's go
00:30:07mate all righty well let's hope that now that dinner's about to begin we will get to the bottom
00:30:16of what actually happened at the homestay between Sam and Chris yes we need to understand what actually
00:30:22went on there cheers guys cheers you got the um you got the tits out again oh yeah tits are
00:30:37for the
00:30:38boys yeah wow it's very tense isn't that Chris Sam
00:31:07I really want to talk about from our perspective what led me to the decision to end things
00:31:11yeah and how I felt the whole homestay so yeah
00:31:18tonight is going to be i
00:31:24Sam and i've already hashed this out at the farm um we're revisiting it in front of the group so
00:31:30for
00:31:30me this is not comfortable um i'm hoping that we can get it out of the way quickly and i
00:31:35just want
00:31:35to get this over and done with
00:31:39hope sam gets the closure that he needs and we can um yeah move on
00:31:44i feel like we both just need to say everything that got us to this point
00:31:48um especially with meeting the experts tomorrow i want to get as much as i can out of this experience
00:31:53um yeah we've mentioned it at the cocktail party that we you know well you decided to
00:31:59um end it so um yeah like i i didn't really fight that at all you were like
00:32:06also just like okay because i i had given so much to try and make it work i don't want
00:32:11to come
00:32:15oh my god here we go again
00:32:20if chris thinks that's loads of effort i feel sorry for anybody he ends up with in the future like
00:32:27yeah
00:32:31can i ask a question how did sam end the relationship and where and how did it happen
00:32:37i could i tell the whole story i want you guys both to say it yeah
00:32:41yeah so homestays obviously you all saw the last commitment ceremony um i wrote stay and chris
00:32:48wrote leave and that was really hard for me to battle with personally because i did have
00:32:52feelings for chris so i like obviously now i'm very nervous going into homestays and we get to the
00:32:57car to drive down and i'm like just sitting in the car and it's so uncomfortable and i'm i like
00:33:04literally just like shut my eyes and kind of pretend that i'm sleeping and then i get to the
00:33:08farm and then i do try to have fun and have a good time i'll wake up the next morning
00:33:13and chris is
00:33:15nowhere to be seen no message no no i'm just there sitting for an hour in his house at his
00:33:24place with
00:33:25no car just by myself and then he rocks up he's oh i just went to the gym this morning
00:33:29it was really
00:33:30windy last night and i'm like okay cool and like this is when i'm starting to feel like are you
00:33:34really do you really want me here do you like really want to show me how much you want this
00:33:38relationship to work look for me it was letting him sleep a little bit longer
00:33:48we're not interrupting each other tonight right oh god okay can i keep going with my story then yeah
00:33:58so then um we come to the fire the next night and this is when i'm like this is my
00:34:02last plea here
00:34:04like i'm gonna try and see if he really wants to fight for this if he really wants this relationship
00:34:08to work and i had written down questions that were all just about what the expert said going through
00:34:15all these questions and then he starts to get a bit shorter with him because he's sick of talking about
00:34:18it and then i'm like chris do you even have feelings for me and he goes oh you know with
00:34:25what's
00:34:27my feelings are pretty damaged and like i don't really know if i do anymore
00:34:35then i'm like well then what am i doing here
00:34:40then i was just like well then do we just end it here and you were just like yeah i
00:34:43think
00:34:43that's probably like right to do and what i don't understand is where i hurt your feelings and where you
00:34:51lost your feelings for me what i honestly feel like happened is that you just like did the bare
00:35:00minimum got me flowers so that you could come here tonight and say i did this for sam i tried
00:35:06but like
00:35:07i know that you were checked out of this relationship already i know you didn't want to give it a
00:35:10go
00:35:16if i'm honest and i'll have to be honest it seems like you're putting a lot on chris yeah and
00:35:24just
00:35:24because we have expectations to fill our cup fully doesn't mean this other person is not trying hold on
00:35:30a second
00:35:33let's not forget that like the week before sam was in a world of pain alone being
00:35:41yep correct but hang on a second hang on a minute sorry i've got to say something here
00:35:49beck needs to mind her business i don't know how her homestays went but that should be her focus
00:35:54for a couple weeks out of final bowels worry about your man doll i'm not going to sit let anyone
00:36:00sit
00:36:00here and say your expectations are too high when sam sat there in tears by himself not knowing which
00:36:07way was up and which way was down for a whole week because the person that he has these feelings
00:36:12for
00:36:12was quite aggressive to him like let's all just take a step back but you've been aggressive too at the
00:36:17dinner at the dinner at the dinner parties you're in no position to be giving someone feedback about
00:36:23their behavior honey so just pipe it down a little bit
00:36:34sam sat there in tears by himself not knowing which way was up and which way was down for a
00:36:40whole week
00:36:40because the person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him like let's all just
00:36:46take a step back but you've been aggressive too at the dinner at the dinner parties you're in no
00:36:52position to be giving someone feedback about their behavior honey so just pipe it down a little bit
00:36:58and i've never been aggressive to you
00:37:02can i speak now first of all like hand on heart i tried my hardest to turn it around
00:37:10i got the feedback from the experts i took it on board i took accountability i realized that i
00:37:15wanted to grow and learn as a person and i wanted to come out the other end and i'm sorry
00:37:19but
00:37:19i was doing that and i thought we had a good day and like you pulled the notepad out and
00:37:24then asked
00:37:25me the questions and i just for me i felt like you know like can we just live in the
00:37:30moment can we
00:37:30just have a bit of fun and but do you understand with the questions they're things that were burning
00:37:34inside of course but he needs answers too yeah cool i'll keep talking babes
00:37:40so i i i felt uncomfortable but i stayed calm and i answered the question i answered the questions
00:37:45as best as i could but you ended it with me you said like yeah no yeah can i just
00:37:51say it's like
00:37:52the reason i ended it is because i asked chris do you still have feelings for me if if you
00:38:00were
00:38:00trying so hard and you thought that everything was what you're saying then at that point you should
00:38:05have said sam yes i had feelings for you can i ask a question do you feel like when chris
00:38:15said leave
00:38:16the other week at the last commitment sir i know really hurt you like you were really upset we could
00:38:20see that do you think that that really hurt you to a point where had you already made up your
00:38:26mind i
00:38:27made my mind that just hurt me to the point where this is why i think i needed so much
00:38:31for chris because
00:38:32i was really hurt that he said he wanted to leave that he had already given up so i'm like
00:38:36i need to
00:38:36see from you that you haven't given up completely and i i get maybe for you what you did was
00:38:40enough
00:38:41but for me it wasn't and then i decided that based on the fact that what you did wasn't enough
00:38:45my expectations to call it happened i i ended things because i wasn't getting what i wanted from chris and
00:38:50if that's not what he can give because he's got kids and he's got fun he's got everything else then
00:38:54you're not ultimately a good match
00:39:02it's really upsetting that it hasn't worked out between sam and chris because i care for both
00:39:07boys but listening to both sides of the story i'm like they're not speaking the same language and
00:39:15they're seeing different things and i don't think they're gonna align tonight
00:39:22just unfortunately it hasn't worked i don't want this to be yucky i just want to be amicable
00:39:26i don't want it to be yucky either it's not yucky though is it it's not yucky don't mistake passion
00:39:31for anger i think you're both passionate it's not yucky in my opinion you're both just ironing it out
00:39:37we do love you both we love you a lot yeah 100 kings i think it's really sad what's happened
00:39:44with
00:39:44him chris i love them as people and i love them together and i'm getting this feeling of like chris
00:39:51did try the way he knew how and it wasn't enough for sam it's it's it's a hard one
00:40:07so beck and danny how about you guys you're next how was your homestays we had such a good
00:40:14homestays didn't we if my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you they would i think
00:40:24obviously because danielle fancied me i'm joking you should be able to say something nice and be
00:40:32genuine about it and then not say oh your cousin wants to me i never said that there's a camera
00:40:37in
00:40:37my face and you're abusing me over a joke dude there's a camera in my face and you're making a
00:40:41joke of what i'm saying yeah i'm done me well we have like a like two perfect things and then
00:40:51like the top we had a little argument at the end we had a tiny little ding dong at the
00:40:58end
00:41:00it lasted about 15 minutes i think like for me i don't know for anyone else who experienced like
00:41:07going into your partner's home in that moment i felt like a bit out of place in the house like
00:41:13up
00:41:14until that point i felt so comfortable like so welcome not that i was ever like unwelcome but in
00:41:21that moment arguing like hardly an argument a ding dong but yeah or whatever you want to call it
00:41:29whilst danny did call it an argument beck called it a ding dong so she's wanting to really contain
00:41:34it yes when we had the disagreement at the house i felt really uncomfortable because it's not my space
00:41:39it's your space yeah do you know i don't know if anyone else can like yeah so that was sort
00:41:45of
00:41:45something that stuck with me in in the sense of like moving forward it made me look at it things
00:41:51in a different way in the sense that i'd probably want to i don't know how i'd want to navigate
00:41:59if i was to move to adelaide how the logistics of it would look as a man
00:42:06oh that's a man i feel like like do you know what you mean like it's more beck's house than
00:42:14it is
00:42:14like moving into her house yeah correct like like i'd want to sit down and speak to beck on a
00:42:19deeper
00:42:19level about that because like i feel like if you move in with a woman and like i would never
00:42:27just move in
00:42:30like we have to talk about that on a deeper level in the sense that like i'm not moving out
00:42:36of my
00:42:36house no i'm not asking you to but what i'm saying is like it's how he fits into it babe
00:42:44like yeah
00:42:44how i fit into it that's that's more and to you right now you're probably like that that like that's
00:42:51easy i know like it's just but like i get from danny's perspective he's like yeah i move in so
00:42:56like
00:42:56he's got to get his stuff out where does he put his stuff and like and we would make space
00:43:00100
00:43:00for that from my point of view i suppose everyone looks at it different but it makes you feel like
00:43:06a bit of a bitch moving in with a woman what are you on about
00:43:33what are you on about oh no that's not what i was getting at oh god oh
00:43:40my god he's talking about feeling emasculated if she was the one who owned the house
00:43:46and let's not use the term in that way either daddy not cool we're on 800 square meters five
00:43:53minutes from the city with a 97 000 mortgage and a three million dollar house hey
00:44:03whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa like firstly you've never said that to me women have worked really
00:44:11really hard to make sure that we've got this multi-million dollar home in the most affluent
00:44:17suburb of south australia so yeah you're not going to be a moving into my house
00:44:22that was not what i was getting at are we serious for this we're in the 2020s
00:44:31emasculated by moving into a home with your woman
00:44:36let's grow up you like to be a provider correct correct yeah i'll be honest i couldn't go to hers
00:44:42i want to i'm gonna buy the house i'm gonna pay for everything like that's just a manly thing
00:44:46right dan's a bit like me he likes to feel like the man the boss the alpha male so i
00:44:53understand
00:44:53where danny's coming from he just wants to feel more vasculated in the relationship we're more
00:44:58traditional in that way too no but like i get it like i have it my house is bigger than
00:45:03yours but
00:45:03it's like yeah like it's different vibe i do agree with danny i think for a man to feel masculine
00:45:11and his masculine energy they want to have the house and the woman move into it i know that's
00:45:15not like the norm these days but like i like that and that's what me and scott are doing so
00:45:20i do agree
00:45:21with danny on that i think he wants to feel like the man and he has every right to feel
00:45:26like that
00:45:26i feel like it's emasculating like i get what you're saying like yeah you want your place to be like
00:45:30here babe like come to me like i'm i'm the man like i think that's like where you're coming from
00:45:36yeah
00:45:36that's what i'm saying i felt uncomfortable when we argued and it sort of it made me feel
00:45:42demasculated to like be in her house yeah like a bit of a bitch i've had that discussion with
00:45:47beck two or three times i'm not as hit hit 1990s song on r&b radio what keeps repeating itself
00:45:54do you know what you mean i i didn't feel uneasy until we had the disagreement then i was just
00:45:58like
00:46:00no i don't know what you mean danny i do wonder if danny's showing a little insecurity there
00:46:05you know i think some men would not see a barrier to moving into a house owned by the woman
00:46:12it's
00:46:12it wouldn't feel emasculating he's really dropped the ball here and i'm old school too i'm exactly
00:46:18the same i can proudly say it as well that if me and rachel do something i would feel i
00:46:23would feel
00:46:24more comfortable rachel moved into my place feel like a provider well i don't think that's very fair
00:46:29because at the end of the day it's the difference is is that i've got a massive house with a
00:46:34lot of space
00:46:35five minutes out of the city with a mortgage of 97 grand i feel like you're a team i feel
00:46:40like
00:46:40you're a team a hundred percent i was brought up on those values that's just the way i think if
00:46:44i
00:46:44moved badly i'd be gambling yeah but i wouldn't like you get away together yeah i know we work together
00:46:56but as a man it's just what i do as a man maybe i'm old school like that but i
00:47:02believe like the man
00:47:03should be the man of the house and take care of the big bills it's nice to have your own
00:47:08thing but
00:47:08ultimately you work together right exactly yeah ultimately it's about how can we work together how
00:47:14can we make this work what are your needs you know vice versa it doesn't have to be a demasculating
00:47:20thing it just has to be teamwork like you're a team no you're a team for some reason it's just
00:47:27a mental thing uh it's just it just works like that uh females feel more secure when that it is
00:47:33like that it's just how it is unfortunately it's a double set it's just how it is
00:47:37gays don't have that problem yeah
00:47:41i understand where danny's coming from don't agree with it but i understand where um danny's coming from
00:47:47beck and danny's homestay i don't think was as great as they made it out to be
00:47:53there's something there's something not right there this is a serious conversation you guys
00:47:57need to talk uh yeah i know for a dinner party
00:48:02don't like shut up excellent so glad we're talking about it with everyone
00:48:09oh goodness no i said it to you already not to that level babes
00:48:14i have a hundred percent no
00:48:25still to come i did spiral a little bit dave what's going through your head bro david finally
00:48:32finds his voice i've hit my wall i've been calm throughout this whole thing but i'm at my limit
00:48:39this is really a relationship in peril yeah before beck confronts danny i would have
00:48:46appreciate you having been that open it's in a lot of relations it's just made me that whole
00:48:52table of people experiment now before homestay
00:49:03how about you alissa how was yours um
00:49:10do you know what alissa and david really have not spoken about themselves at all no
00:49:16that is not usual for them david looks quite uncomfortable actually yeah
00:49:23i feel like we had highs and lows i did spiral a little bit like i did get in my
00:49:30head
00:49:31because you know as soon as we touched down in adelaide i felt like this weight
00:49:39i felt like oh my goodness i you know i said i was going to move to sydney and like
00:49:44we're going
00:49:44to make this thing work in sydney and we'll meet halfway but i have a lot of responsibilities in adelaide
00:49:49i have contracts in place i have my business i have a house i have a cat but i'm almost
00:49:5534 and in the
00:49:57next few years i want to start a family so i kind of put pressure on myself and that's where
00:50:01i started
00:50:02to spiral on homestays because i was like this is not going to work like i don't think i'm going
00:50:08to
00:50:08be able to stretch myself out of adelaide um like in the next three months it might look like six
00:50:13to
00:50:1312 months if we're going to make this work in the real world beforehand you were saying potentially
00:50:22you'd give it three months to move to sydney is it the move to adelaide now well that's what it
00:50:27would
00:50:27probably be it'll be adelaide yeah oh we haven't heard that from her before a lot came out of
00:50:38homestays but it's just like how do we move like forward but i feel like the way that we process
00:50:44things
00:50:45are very different and i'm wondering why am i spiraling you know we're all under pressure but some
00:50:50people also deal with pressure differently when i need to just process my mind's going bing bing bing
00:50:55bing i retract things have kind of turned on its head a little bit elissa's now saying i can't move
00:51:03david's gone look i'm willing to sacrifice everything and move down to adelaide to give this relationship
00:51:09the best chance but her retracting and pulling away from dave freaking david you know i sort of felt for
00:51:15dave a little bit if anything all the risk is on david and there was one other thing i know
00:51:23that i
00:51:23can be a bit full on and like he does ground me but maybe i'm finding a little bit sometimes
00:51:30too much
00:51:31where i feel like i'm not myself like it's really shifting my my energy and that's not something i'm
00:51:38used to my husband also snores so i've had like lack of sleep the last three months like it's just
00:51:43it's
00:51:44it's a compiling thing i feel like right now elissa is trying to look for any little thing she can
00:51:54pull from the sky to question things in the relationship and that is pushing me away she says
00:52:00she doesn't want to push me away but her throwing all these doubts there's only so much i can take
00:52:06before i start feeling like an idiot you know i think i was fine with just continuing to be that
00:52:14emotional
00:52:16shoulder to lean on until home stays we've been on this experiment for two months
00:52:21and it's been long enough for her to like be a bit more certain you know if this ultimately isn't
00:52:27going to work i'm not going to force anything like it's up to her to come from her head into
00:52:32her heart
00:52:33for this to work long term dave what's going through your head bro
00:52:45i've hit my wall i've been calm throughout this whole thing but i'm at my limit
00:52:51you know and i sort of need that mental space as well just as much as she probably needs it
00:52:55from
00:52:55coming back from home stage and it's something we both need but it's at the point emotionally i don't
00:53:01have much to give i'm invested in this relationship i am prepared to move for this relationship but
00:53:07for me i bonded with her mom and her two best friends and i've got her mom saying this is
00:53:13all
00:53:13good for you her friend saying this is good for you i really love david a lot so i'm just
00:53:18like
00:53:19what other green checks do you need ticked off like you know
00:53:27well this is david being really raw isn't it i mean he's saying that he's exhausted
00:53:32and also he's hit his limit and i know that they talk about it in relation to the experiment but
00:53:41actually you know the experiment for some people it brings them closer right now and i i get some real
00:53:46worries that he's started to step back we got cracks man we've got crack like everyone but that's
00:53:54something that you know we will talk to the experts about we actually haven't seen them in this state
00:54:00before have we i'd say absolutely more questions than answers we got tonight so that's where we got
00:54:07to go tomorrow night we are going to need to ask about the homestays and particularly where they see
00:54:15themselves in the future this is really a relationship in peril yeah
00:54:28how are your homestays guys i went out on his harley like i grew up there so i'm i'm like
00:54:34i went to
00:54:34school there i had my first kiss there i did this there and it's like it's not like a foreign
00:54:38place
00:54:38for me yeah it's just easy the fact that she's lived there before so it's pretty big for us that's
00:54:43amazing yeah it's really good the taste of the outside world you know what i mean like we know yeah
00:54:49so what's your plan i'll retract god after the experiment i do like crinola yeah yeah i could
00:54:56see myself there that's very important that's that's the whole point of it the home visit it's like
00:55:00can i see myself there yes i can let's just do it let's just give it a go yeah just
00:55:06give it a go
00:55:06like and um that was a realization i had and you have a plan moving forward and like you guys
00:55:12are
00:55:12great yeah rachel and steven homestays hey guys who's talking who's talking captain steve-o all right
00:55:21rachel go first and i'll i reckon steve-o go first please i reckon i think steve-o can go
00:55:26first thank
00:55:27you i'll go first i always talk yeah can you hear me down there yeah yeah boy loud and clear
00:55:33all right
00:55:33so look i'm happy to say that rachel and my family did get along everyone loves each other a lot
00:55:39the
00:55:39drinks were flowing everything was fantastic and yeah we had a really good time and took rachel out on
00:55:45the yard the boat and she got to experience a little you know a little snapshot of what my life
00:55:51is um about and what i'm passionate about so i took her out fishing and you're definitely so very
00:55:57impressive impressed with rachel she she's a country girl full-on leaned in she's a catch i am the
00:56:04catch she's a guy that's right the catch of the day right yeah and um and look i was very
00:56:10impressed
00:56:10with the fishing skills she kissed a couple fish but i'm looking at this woman going look it's not
00:56:16just that she's leaning into fishing it's more the fact that i'm seeing a woman there that is having a
00:56:23crack and i can see that outside fishing rachel will have my back in things i can see we can
00:56:34do life
00:56:35together but i feel a lot more confident now that the foundation has been laid on my side anyway with
00:56:40rachel that we can take this out onto the um outside here you go and have somewhere to start
00:56:48because it's been been done and dusted i'm still going to meet her side um but i feel more confident
00:56:53on my side that rachel and my family and my lifestyle will match now so we had a good time
00:57:04who would have thought he would have thought hearing stephen talk about our homestay and like the
00:57:12beautiful things she was saying yeah you sound emotional i am emotional i'm so emotional about
00:57:19it because i've got this guy that i truly truly care about and i'm developing such strong feelings for
00:57:28and every time he talks about us with the group and everything it's beautiful it's just so nice and
00:57:37what what an amazing journey and opportunity we've had
00:57:42and the fact that we get to be with each other is just even better
00:57:48some guys are going to buy girls flowers my guy bought me a fishing rod
00:57:52oh rachel looks so happy look at steven yeah we've never seen him smile like this we've never seen him
00:58:07as relaxed and as confident as he has been tonight that was a full-bodied smile he's really transformed
00:58:15but watching him now is just such a joy and he's so comfortable in her space look we went through
00:58:23hard
00:58:23times at the start of our relationship you all saw it and you know what we we've just saw it
00:58:29and you
00:58:30know we're now hitting weeks where it should test us and instead it's strengthening us and it's really nice
00:58:36i love it yay well done
00:58:53at the dinner table tonight danny we said that he
00:59:00would feel like a bitch moving into a girl's house i hadn't heard that yet and like i would hope
00:59:09that
00:59:10my husband knows that he can talk to me like we talk about everything so yeah
00:59:18i feel blindsided by him
00:59:23i feel completely utterly betrayed by my husband
00:59:35if i was to move to adelaide as a man it makes you feel like a bit of a
00:59:41each moving number of a woman
00:59:51i've never experienced a slow burn before and here i am with a slow burn and like i said we
00:59:59we went
00:59:59through hard yards earlier and now we're so strong because of that and so yeah i'm not to that level
01:00:06like i think i think i would have appreciated having been that open it's in a lot of relations
01:00:12it's just made me that much more confident out of the experiment yeah before home stage
01:00:17frankly danny time and time again has not stepped up and made the commitment that she
01:00:22wants and craves she's been transparent yeah he hasn't said that he loves her back
01:00:27he's now saying i don't want to live in your house
01:00:31so there's a number of things that are now adding up yeah that beck's starting to worry
01:00:35about when it comes to danny's level of commitment yes and rightly so i mean
01:00:44the idea of like that it like that you like you basically just said if i was to move to
01:00:52adelaide
01:00:52i don't know if i'd want to move into my house i don't know how long i was saying i
01:00:58would i would have
01:00:59rather you said that to me before announcing it to a table of people i didn't say i didn't say
01:01:03that i was saying we have to like i'd put money into a house and we'd renovate it or i'd
01:01:09pick up
01:01:09the mortgage because we're just moving on how it is would make you feel demasculating right
01:01:13yeah that's okay i'm excited because i was like you said just then i'm like that's how i heard it
01:01:27i think beck revealed how hard that conversation was for her you know when she said oh here we are
01:01:33having this conversation in front of everyone she felt really uncomfortable and i think after the
01:01:38dinner tonight they'll be going home for quite a big conversation
01:01:59okay so the purpose of this conversation is to talk about what's been happening within
01:02:04the group of women hello ladies welcome to your hens night not to make comparisons between men and
01:02:13women and who does it better wow i just hope that there's some insight here with with the ladies that
01:02:18yes in the future you are going to be in contact with other women who have strong personalities
01:02:24have strong judgments about you or opinions about you
01:02:31but that doesn't mean that you have to play dirty as a woman i think it's important that
01:02:36we support each other what each other love that
01:02:44that we empower each other are each other i'm so excited this is amazing
01:02:50that we don't compete with each other
01:02:56that we give other women an opportunity to shine jules were you married
01:03:06just like we do i'm falling in love with you and that does not take away any of our power
01:03:23so
01:03:23i'm so excited to see you guys
01:03:26so
01:03:26we're going to be here
01:03:26in the future
01:03:26so
01:03:26we're going to be here
01:03:26to be here
01:03:26to be here
01:03:26to be here
01:03:26to be here
01:03:27to be here
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