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00:01No, I'm going to pour my drink on her.
00:03Can you muzzle me, woman?
00:05You're not coming for my husband.
00:08Dinner is served.
00:10Welcome to MAPS.
00:11After the dinner party, I'm Jules,
00:13here with Laura and Brittany.
00:15Drumroll, please.
00:17Teach yourself, because...
00:19Gia is finally in the building.
00:21Yes, you heard right.
00:22She's watched Scott's interview,
00:23and she is ready to have her say.
00:27This is the full, uncut, raw interview with Gia
00:30that we just didn't have time for in the show.
00:33It's been seven weeks, six no-shows,
00:36and more complex negotiations than an 8-0 peace agreement.
00:39Let's not waste any time, not another second.
00:41Let's bring Gia out.
00:52Gia, Gia, Gia, Gia.
00:56Hi.
00:57Hi.
00:58I'm here.
01:00You're here.
01:01I'm here.
01:01You made it.
01:02It's like meeting Santa.
01:04It is.
01:05I know.
01:05Santa's real.
01:06So I'm trying to guess, right, how are you going to play today?
01:09Are you going to be apologetic?
01:10Are you going to be cagey?
01:11Are you going to be combative?
01:12No, I'm not playing it anyway.
01:13I'm just going to be myself.
01:14Okay.
01:15That sounds good.
01:15Yeah, no game plan.
01:16Why have you decided to come on now?
01:19You know, you guys have spoken about me,
01:21and I'm like, I've just got to take ownership
01:23and be accountable and show up.
01:24Like, at the end of the day,
01:25I can't grow unless I face the music, really.
01:29Okay.
01:29So when you say accountability,
01:31you've just watched that conversation with Scott.
01:34Yeah.
01:35How do you feel about that?
01:37Um, it was really difficult because, you know,
01:40I was in love with him.
01:42Watching it now, I'm like, oh, he was falling for me.
01:44Like, I was self-sabotaging and running away,
01:46and I maybe missed that.
01:48And so I'm like, I want him to know that it was real for me as well.
01:51It was real.
01:52Scott had a lot to say in the interview.
01:54I guess calling a bit of BS on the whole relationship.
01:56He said he doesn't believe anything you said.
01:58He was saying that it was a showmance for you.
02:00And I do believe that there were feelings there.
02:02Like, I see those moments.
02:04But then you absolutely unleash on everyone,
02:07and Scott included.
02:08Can you see why he's confused?
02:10It's hard for me because some of the things he was saying before,
02:13I'm like, well, I didn't know this.
02:15I didn't know that.
02:16Like, I'm not deflecting, but he just never, ever told me.
02:19So I...
02:19Why do you think that was?
02:21I think he was scared of me.
02:22Why do you think he was scared of you?
02:23Probably because he thought if he was to bring something up,
02:26I would run off or I would not take it on.
02:28Do you think it was that you would run off or do you think it was...
02:31Because, I mean, one of the reoccurring conversations
02:34that we've had with Scott is that when the cameras went on
02:37and if you didn't get what you wanted from him,
02:39you were really mean to him.
02:40The insults, the emotional manipulation,
02:43talking down to him, calling him not a man.
02:45Like, did your memory, I guess, and your version of that,
02:49do you take accountability for saying those things?
02:52I don't think it was to the degree that he's saying what I said.
02:55We've seen so much.
02:56No, I mean, I've said things, yeah.
02:58But then there's also things that he would say
03:00that, you know, made me feel a certain way.
03:02But I haven't spoken on any of that
03:04and I don't really want to shit talk him.
03:08I don't know if I believe that.
03:11And I say this because I sit here and say,
03:13oh, well, he did things,
03:14but I don't want to tell you what it was.
03:15Well, can we pull up some Mike moments of Scott
03:17where he was talking about the other women in the experiment
03:20and telling me that he hates my hair curly
03:21and he doesn't want my hair up
03:23and that I look a bit fat?
03:24Can we show any of that?
03:26He said you looked fat.
03:27He said you looked fat?
03:28Yeah.
03:28I would love something shown of him to look bad for once
03:32because I feel like...
03:33But why did you never bring that up in the experiment?
03:35How we were, it was a little bit fake.
03:38We both acted like we were so good all the time
03:40and I protected that.
03:42I'm not going to shit talk him,
03:43but I was protecting him
03:44and I should have just been honest.
03:45You cannot sit here and say,
03:47I didn't want to make him look bad
03:48because you said probably the worst thing
03:50that you could say about a guy,
03:51which was that they used you for sex.
03:53So you did go there.
03:55So if he had said those things,
03:56why didn't you bring them up?
03:57I felt like he already was so mad
03:59about so many other things.
04:00He wasn't falling in love with me.
04:01I'm like, I'm not going to throw more shit on this
04:03and then it's just another reason.
04:06But I guess in that instance,
04:07when Scott spoke at the commitment ceremony
04:09and said that you had been calling him names
04:11when the cameras weren't on,
04:14that's your opportunity.
04:15I didn't want to.
04:16I just didn't want to.
04:16I guess it's hard because in all the footage,
04:19we don't ever see that from him
04:20and then we don't see it when he's on his own
04:22and he can express those feelings to the camera.
04:24He doesn't do it then either.
04:26He speaks really well about you.
04:28It's actually you that's not speaking well about him.
04:30Yep.
04:32Like, it just doesn't make sense.
04:34Okay.
04:35But can you see,
04:36can you understand why from the outset
04:38it just doesn't make sense?
04:40Yeah.
04:40I mean, it doesn't make sense.
04:42I wish you could see more,
04:43but you couldn't.
04:44I mean, I don't know.
04:45I don't know what else to say.
04:46I guess what we're trying to ascertain is,
04:48is when you're saying, like, you know,
04:49why don't you show those videos?
04:51We actually don't have them.
04:52They do not exist to us.
04:54So are you potentially trying to find things
04:58to justify the behaviour that we've seen?
05:01No.
05:01If there's no footage of it,
05:02there's no footage of it.
05:03I don't know what else I can say.
05:04Do you feel as though
05:05we're not seeing the real Scott then?
05:08I think you're seeing the real Scott.
05:09I just think there's some moments
05:10that I wish was shown more.
05:14Like, I don't know how else to put it.
05:16Talk to us about, though, that moving.
05:18Like, obviously, you've made a big move,
05:21which is a revelation to us.
05:23You got your daughter.
05:25You moved to the Gold Coast.
05:26You moved within a very close proximity
05:28to where Scott was.
05:29What was your intention?
05:30Well, like 30 minutes from Scott,
05:31the Gold Coast is small.
05:33Throughout the experiment,
05:34I told my daughter we'd move back to the Gold Coast.
05:36Her dad lives on the Gold Coast.
05:38So my ex that I was with for 10 years
05:39lives on the Gold Coast.
05:40What do you think of the rumour
05:41that you'd moved to the Gold Coast,
05:44intended to rekindle things with Scott?
05:46No, that's ridiculous.
05:47I didn't move there for Scott.
05:49I moved there for the ex situation
05:51with my daughter.
05:52And because I told my daughter
05:53we'd live on the Gold Coast,
05:54I moved there for that.
05:55Coming off the back of me and Scott breaking up,
05:57I'm like, she needs a male figure.
05:58That didn't work out.
05:59I need to encourage more of her father with her.
06:01And then, yeah, it was just too hard.
06:04I relied on my mum and my family too much.
06:06And they're like, you need to be in Melbourne
06:07so we can help you.
06:08That's fair.
06:09And I get that.
06:10But at that time,
06:11did you also try and rekindle things with Scott?
06:13I definitely did.
06:14Yeah, 100%.
06:14Like, we'd come off that last dinner party
06:18and I think, I don't know what the time was
06:20that I ended up moving there.
06:21But I did reach out to him.
06:22He did know I was there
06:23and literally begging to see him
06:25because I was still in love with him.
06:27And he even said to me,
06:28I can't see you because I still have feelings
06:30and I'm confused, but I can't be friends.
06:32But I want to be friends.
06:33And I'm like, okay, this is just like,
06:35it's just too fresh.
06:36Because I, at that point,
06:37either wanted to rekindle or wanted closure
06:39because I still wasn't over it.
06:40I wasn't.
06:41But then you just told us,
06:43you said, I wish you could all see how he treated me
06:45and what he said to me,
06:46what he said behind closed doors
06:47and the extra footage, pull it up.
06:49If he was so bad,
06:50why did you want to go rekindle?
06:52I'm not saying he was so bad though.
06:53I'm not saying he was so bad.
06:54I'm saying there's moments that,
06:55of my bad moments,
06:57I feel like nowhere near in the same amount,
06:59but there was a couple of moments that were similar.
07:01That's all I'm saying.
07:01He's not a bad person.
07:02I don't think he was horrible.
07:04I still wanted to be with him.
07:06I was still in love with him.
07:07But yeah, I mean,
07:08he said a couple of things here and there that were bad.
07:10I don't think he was as bad as me.
07:12I'm not saying that.
07:13I'm not saying he's just as bad.
07:14Definitely not.
07:15Let's go back to Melbourne.
07:16Let's go back to why you lied about going to Melbourne.
07:19Yeah.
07:20I, you know,
07:21I ran out however many times on the experiment,
07:23but this time that I left,
07:24I wanted him to chase me.
07:26It was toxic.
07:26You know,
07:27I wanted him to be like,
07:28oh, she's in Melbourne.
07:29I'm worried.
07:30How can I get her back?
07:31And he didn't.
07:32Basically,
07:32that was it.
07:33And I wanted to stay in Melbourne,
07:35hoping that he would reach out and be like,
07:37I miss you or whatever.
07:38And then I'm like,
07:39hey,
07:39well,
07:39I'm actually in Sydney.
07:40But he already said that.
07:41He said,
07:41don't go.
07:42Like,
07:42so you're saying,
07:43I want him to chase and fight for me.
07:44He was fighting.
07:45He's like,
07:45I don't need you to go to chase you to come back.
07:47I'm telling you now,
07:48stay with me.
07:49Stay to the final commitment.
07:50It's hard because the morning of the final date,
07:53he was packing with me and he was saying,
07:55yeah,
07:55we're leaving and everything.
07:56So in my head,
07:57and I,
07:59I'll be honest,
07:59I did.
08:00My daughter wasn't well.
08:00My mum was pressuring me going,
08:02you know,
08:02you've got to fucking call more.
08:03You've got to be home.
08:04Like,
08:04and I was like,
08:05okay,
08:05I feel like I'm being a shit mum.
08:07I'm a shit daughter.
08:08I,
08:08this relationship's not good.
08:09I'm like,
08:10I've just got to go.
08:11Like,
08:11and looking at it now,
08:12I shouldn't have made him leave with me or tell him to leave with me.
08:16I should have just gone.
08:17When you went back,
08:18you went to Melbourne.
08:19Yeah.
08:20Melbourne lied,
08:21came back.
08:22What was the purpose of you coming back?
08:25I don't know if I can say that production wanted me to come back for the dinner party to confront
08:29Scott.
08:30Did you want to come back?
08:31So you didn't,
08:32you didn't want to come back at all?
08:34How does production make you come back if you don't want to?
08:37it's not make me.
08:38It's the only opportunity I could see Scott though.
08:41I'd reached out,
08:42called,
08:42texted,
08:42didn't hear anything from Scott.
08:43Basically I thought,
08:44I don't know what else to do.
08:45I'm still in Sydney.
08:46The dinner party's tomorrow night.
08:47I'm like,
08:48fuck it.
08:48I'll go to the dinner party.
08:48You just said to us,
08:50the production made you.
08:51Was that bullshit just then?
08:52Did you just lie to us?
08:53I'm trying to talk a way around it.
08:54No,
08:55you can be honest.
08:55No,
08:56be honest.
08:56I'm genuinely trying to understand this.
08:58Yeah.
08:58So production took you to the airport.
09:02Like they booked you a flight.
09:03They took you to the airport.
09:04You got dropped off.
09:05They sent you off to Melbourne.
09:07You got your bags off that flight.
09:09Yep.
09:10You stayed in Sydney.
09:12You didn't go home and see your daughter,
09:13who you said that that was the reason why you wanted to go home.
09:16Yeah.
09:16But now you're saying production made you go to the final dinner party.
09:19Production doesn't sound like they made you do any of that.
09:21No,
09:21they thought I was going to be in Melbourne.
09:23Obviously,
09:23then I turned around and stayed in Sydney.
09:25So then how did they make you go to the final dinner party?
09:27Because they knew I was in Sydney because I went to the apartment.
09:29So to try and talk to him,
09:30he wouldn't talk to me.
09:31And basically I thought,
09:32he's not going to talk to me unless I'm there with the camera
09:35because he will not speak to me any other way.
09:36I was like,
09:36well,
09:37fuck it.
09:37I'll go to the dinner party.
09:38So regardless,
09:39you're going to,
09:40you're in a car and you're going to the dinner party.
09:44Why?
09:46To confront Scott.
09:47And I wanted another chance.
09:49Confront him or get another chance?
09:51Because they're two different things.
09:52I either wanted closure or another chance.
09:54I didn't know how it was going to pan out because,
09:56you know,
09:56I had Beck telling me,
09:57oh,
09:58he's at the gym with Danny and,
09:59you know,
10:00there's probably a shot there.
10:01And so I'm thinking,
10:01okay,
10:01I'm going to write a letter.
10:02I'm going to do this.
10:03So if you had one,
10:04I mean,
10:05your,
10:05your wish,
10:06you could have had that pan out any way you want.
10:07Was it to get back with him?
10:09Yeah.
10:10A hundred percent at that time.
10:11Talk me through the scene that we saw in the bathroom where you are talking to
10:16Beck and you obviously think you're off camera,
10:18but you're very much mic'd up.
10:19Yeah.
10:20And you have a game plan of out victiming Scott.
10:23You have to out victim him.
10:24You have to make yourself seem like you're more hurt than he is.
10:29Anyone who was there would know I was.
10:31I mean,
10:31I was,
10:32I wish you would play some footage of that,
10:34of,
10:34of how I was.
10:35But anyway.
10:36But someone who's a victim doesn't have to out victim someone.
10:38You never have to say that.
10:39You don't have to,
10:40Hey,
10:40can you cry?
10:41Can you do this?
10:41Like there was a strategy to it.
10:43Beck was telling me that I should,
10:45and it wasn't in the way of like,
10:46be a victim to make the group like you.
10:49It was like,
10:49be a victim so that he would see that.
10:51But it also said be a victim.
10:52So Australia,
10:53I mean,
10:54Australia was put in there as well.
10:55Look,
10:56I,
10:56I think in that situation you were both as bad as each other,
10:58but Beck literally said,
10:59the best thing you can do is also cry.
11:01And you said,
11:02Oh babe,
11:02don't worry.
11:02I'll be crying.
11:03I was going to cry.
11:04I was crying all day.
11:05I mean,
11:05that's not how it came across.
11:06It came across as a conversation that was very manipulative.
11:09Like,
11:10okay.
11:11Yeah.
11:11Shit.
11:12They know that I lied about it.
11:14What am I going to do here?
11:14I'm going to have to outplay him.
11:16You know,
11:16the conversation was even right now,
11:18everyone is poor Scott.
11:19We need to turn that to poor Gia.
11:21So that doesn't play like somebody that is like,
11:23thinks that they lost the love of their life.
11:25That's fine.
11:26That's your perception.
11:27He was,
11:27and I,
11:28I did love him.
11:29So I'm not going to deny that I was in love with him.
11:32I was.
11:33Just interesting though,
11:34the moment you realize that the letter didn't land and you couldn't win him
11:40back,
11:41he walked away and then you cut sick saying he was using you for sex and it
11:46was a showmance.
11:47Yeah.
11:48You can understand why we're confused.
11:50So tell us about why you would do that.
11:54I,
11:54you know,
11:55use it as a defense mechanism when I'm,
11:57I'm hurt and I don't feel like,
11:59you know,
11:59I'm protecting myself.
12:00I'm like,
12:01okay,
12:01well he doesn't want me now.
12:02So just unleash.
12:03I've got nothing to lose.
12:04He doesn't want me.
12:04Who cares?
12:05Like,
12:05I just felt like I lost everything and I didn't,
12:08I didn't know what else to do.
12:09So do you think you were lying then?
12:11Like,
12:11About what?
12:12About those things about Scott saying that he was using you for your body and
12:15saying that it was a showmance to him.
12:16No,
12:17that was wrong.
12:17I don't believe at all Scott was using me.
12:19I think I was just projecting in that moment and I wanted to hurt him how I
12:22hurt.
12:23I absolutely don't think Scott used me.
12:25No.
12:25Scott felt like you used him.
12:28I don't know how he feels that way.
12:33Sounds financial.
12:34But I paid for stuff.
12:35Like,
12:36I don't get that.
12:38I don't get that.
12:39Do you look back now and knowing how much Scott did actually feel for you and this thing
12:44that you,
12:44you guys got,
12:45you got stuck on,
12:45like you got stuck on the fact that he wouldn't say,
12:47I love you.
12:47And it seemed to be this thing that you kept pushing and pushing and pushing.
12:50Yeah.
12:50How do you feel about that now?
12:52Do you regret all of this?
12:54Yeah.
12:54Yeah.
12:55Cause watching it play out,
12:56I'm like,
12:57oh,
12:57well like he really was in love with me.
13:00I see the Mike moments and I've seen the boxes that obviously I'm not there to see
13:03all those things.
13:03So hearing him talk about me when I'm not there,
13:05I'm like,
13:06oh God,
13:06like he did have feelings for me.
13:08And I don't know why I felt the need to keep pushing that on him.
13:12I just think,
13:13I just,
13:14I just think I was self-sabotaging and I was projecting and I'm trying to,
13:17I was insecure and I'm,
13:18I'm trying to make him,
13:20you know,
13:21say he loves me back.
13:22And I just think I don't have an excuse.
13:24Yeah.
13:24There was a lot with that,
13:26the test,
13:26right?
13:27The final test that was,
13:28we all saw the grass is greener.
13:30Yeah.
13:30Do you look at that now and think you were flirting?
13:34I do look at it now that I was flirting.
13:36I think it was inappropriate.
13:37If I'm in a relationship,
13:38that's not how I should be acting.
13:42I denied that I did to Scott.
13:44I'll admit that I was trying to soften the blow.
13:47And act like it wasn't as bad as it was,
13:49but watching it,
13:50I'm like,
13:50yeah,
13:50it was,
13:50it was pretty bad.
13:51Why,
13:52why were you flirting like that?
13:53I feel like I'd reached a point in my relationship where I,
13:56I,
13:56I was spiraling way too hard.
13:58I didn't feel that he felt the same about me.
14:01And I was just like,
14:02this person was giving me so much heavy attention.
14:04I was like,
14:06all right,
14:06you know,
14:07I'm getting kind of a little bit of what I want right now.
14:10But some of the comments where I'm like,
14:12how much money do you make?
14:13And I want a man to pay for everything.
14:14I want to make that clear.
14:15That's not how I would act on a date with a normal person.
14:18I was trying to put him off.
14:19He was so incredibly pushy.
14:21And I'm like,
14:22I'm just going to throw everything at this guy to,
14:23to get him off.
14:24I'm like,
14:24oh yeah,
14:24how much money do you make?
14:25I'm like,
14:25no way am I going to say that to someone I'm interested in.
14:27Do you believe that?
14:28Yeah,
14:29but I was trying to get him away.
14:30He would not stop.
14:31That makes sense.
14:33I know that she was flirting and other things.
14:34No,
14:35I was.
14:35But on those particular points,
14:36that makes so much sense.
14:37I think that there was push and pull to the flirting.
14:39Of course.
14:39Do you think that there was any,
14:41I guess,
14:42in your mind,
14:43like nothing to do with the final test,
14:45was the,
14:46the reason why you were trying to get out of there?
14:48Like,
14:49you weren't worried about your behaviour?
14:50No,
14:51no.
14:52Like,
14:52I know it's flirting.
14:54I know that we would have had an argument about it.
14:55I know it looked bad,
14:56but I didn't think that that was,
14:58I've seen people say,
14:59oh,
14:59she wanted to leave so she could get away from like,
15:02not showing him that video.
15:03I didn't even know that video was going to be shown.
15:05I left.
15:05And then the next day,
15:06Bec's like,
15:06oh,
15:07they're showing the videos.
15:07I'm like,
15:08oh shit.
15:09You said to James and the grass is greener,
15:11I'll see you in a week.
15:12Like,
15:12I'm out in a week.
15:14Did you see him in a week?
15:15No.
15:15Did anything happen?
15:16Has anything happened?
15:17Anything eventuated?
15:18He sent me a DM.
15:19And it was like,
15:20I'll see you when,
15:21when you're done with Scott or whatever.
15:22And I just gave Scott my phone.
15:23I was like,
15:23oh my God,
15:24reply to this idiot.
15:25And Scott sent her finger up,
15:27text,
15:28like photo back to him.
15:29And then he ended up blocking him.
15:30So he tried to,
15:31he tried to like slide back into DMs and reignite something and you just put it to bed.
15:35You were like,
15:35no.
15:35Yeah,
15:36because,
15:36oh God,
15:37like,
15:37no,
15:37looking at it now,
15:38I'm like,
15:38yuck.
15:39Like,
15:39he was not,
15:40I wasn't interested in him at all.
15:42Gia,
15:42I'm going to stop you there.
15:44We spoke to James earlier.
15:46Yeah.
15:46And we actually know that you were having more contact with him.
15:52When I left Scott and I was on the Gold Coast.
15:54Actually on the final date,
15:57when you stormed off from Scott.
16:00Yeah.
16:00We know that you called James and spoke to him that day.
16:04Mm-hmm.
16:04James,
16:05you've given the team copies of your receipts,
16:07which they have cross-checked with the timestamps on footage and Gia's travel itinerary to build a picture of what
16:13exactly went down on the final date day.
16:15At 1.20pm,
16:17Gia left your final date to go back to the apartment and leave the experiment.
16:22Now,
16:2230 minutes later at 1.55pm,
16:25Gia rang you with an ultimatum.
16:27You either leave or it's done.
16:30James,
16:30according to your screenshots,
16:32Gia did call you three times that day.
16:34Now,
16:34you missed her call at 3.06pm,
16:36but she calls you straight after that again at 3.07pm.
16:40This time you do answer.
16:42Then at 3.19pm,
16:43she calls you for a third time and you speak on the phone.
16:45Again.
16:47Why did you just lie to us?
16:50Well,
16:50Scott and I were done.
16:51When I was with Scott,
16:52I wasn't.
16:53You said you blocked him and you weren't done.
16:56No,
16:56I unblocked him,
16:57100%.
16:57Okay,
16:58so you've unblocked him now.
16:59Well,
16:59I don't talk to him now,
17:00obviously.
17:01But it was a day after.
17:02So you've had a date with him at the final test.
17:05Yeah.
17:05And then the next date,
17:06you've got the final date.
17:08Yeah.
17:08And so you've blocked him for a single night.
17:11In other words,
17:12you've blocked him in front of Scott.
17:13Yeah.
17:14And now the next day,
17:15you're in with Scott.
17:17We're going to the airport.
17:18Scott goes,
17:19no,
17:19we're two days out.
17:20Let's see this through.
17:21I want to hold your hands
17:22and I want to express my commitment to you.
17:26Yeah.
17:26And then instead of you saying,
17:28I'll stay with you,
17:29Scott,
17:30you unblocked James
17:31and you call him three times.
17:33What are you talking about?
17:34What was your reason?
17:36I called him because
17:37we had just had the final date.
17:38Scott didn't leave with me.
17:39So this was like two,
17:40three days later.
17:41No,
17:41it was one hour later
17:43you called James.
17:44Was it?
17:44Okay.
17:45We had the grasses greener.
17:46Then the very next day is the final date.
17:47Well,
17:48I don't remember with filming
17:48what day exactly it was.
17:50I know you might not remember,
17:51but it's super important
17:52from the proximity
17:53of all of these feelings.
17:54Yeah.
17:54You've had a one hour breakup.
17:55Like you've literally
17:56just had an argument on the street.
17:57Why call him?
17:58Not your mum,
17:59not your best friend,
18:00not Chris.
18:01I did call mum first
18:02because mum and my daughter
18:03flew to Sydney.
18:03So I called them
18:04and said go to the airport.
18:05Yeah,
18:05I definitely called him.
18:06So why?
18:06A random guy that you didn't know.
18:07I rang him on Instagram.
18:09He didn't have my number.
18:10Rang him on Instagram
18:11and I said to him,
18:12this guy said he was going to leave with me.
18:14He's not leaving with me.
18:15Like,
18:15what do I do?
18:16I asked him literally
18:17as a male friend advice.
18:19you don't know him.
18:20So why would you call him?
18:21Because he was giving me good advice.
18:21You didn't see the whole,
18:22we were there for like four hours.
18:24He was telling me
18:25if the guy's not saying
18:26he's in love with you,
18:26if the guy's not obsessed with you,
18:27the guy like,
18:28you didn't see the whole footage
18:29of all those guys
18:30come up and hug me at the end
18:31and they were like,
18:32you know,
18:33we feel bad for you.
18:33He gave his good advice.
18:35He was there to be set up with you.
18:36I didn't know who else to ring.
18:38I didn't want to tell people on the show.
18:39No one knew I was going to stay in Sydney.
18:41They all thought I went to Melbourne.
18:42Why wouldn't you call a guy best friend?
18:43You've got friends who are guys.
18:44A girl best friend.
18:45I don't have guy friends.
18:46You don't have one Chris.
18:47You just made best friends
18:48with Chris on the show.
18:49Why didn't you call him?
18:50Chris was on the way to the airport.
18:52It just doesn't check out
18:53that you have had this breakup
18:55with someone that you love
18:56and you actually wanted him to chase you.
18:58Yeah.
18:58Then you call this random stranger
19:00you met the day before
19:01that was there to be set up with you
19:02that you floated with
19:03and said,
19:03I'll be available in a week.
19:04Only to then,
19:06faking 180 at the airport,
19:07get your luggage back off,
19:08not tell anyone
19:09and go back to fight for Scott.
19:10Throw Scott back under the bus.
19:12Yeah.
19:13And then storm out
19:14and then re-kindle it with James.
19:17Make it make sense, Jia.
19:18I was like,
19:19fuck it.
19:19I wanted to feel wanted.
19:21I was so rejected by Scott.
19:23You have no idea.
19:23I was begging him.
19:25No, no, but that's...
19:26I was begging him.
19:28So embarrassing
19:28that I was begging him.
19:29Like, it's actually fucked.
19:31I was begging him
19:32to just even sleep with me.
19:33I needed something from him
19:34and I wasn't getting anything.
19:36Like, I wasn't.
19:36Like, and at that time
19:37this person was giving me attention
19:39and I took the attention.
19:41I think...
19:42That's the truth.
19:44I understand
19:44and I think, you know, look,
19:46I say this as someone
19:47who in a very past life
19:49used to monkey branch.
19:50If I got rejected here
19:52I would have something else
19:53to back up.
19:54Look, I know what that feeling's like.
19:55I've done that.
19:56Yeah.
19:56And so I actually,
19:58I can recognise it
19:59when I see it
20:00and I don't think it's because
20:01you were really into James
20:03even necessarily
20:03but it filled a hole.
20:05No, not at all.
20:05Where do you think
20:06that insecurity comes from?
20:07Oh, God.
20:08It's so horrible.
20:09I don't want to talk about it.
20:12Yeah.
20:14I just have,
20:15things have happened in my life
20:16and I just don't, yeah.
20:17Are you okay?
20:18Yeah, it's just,
20:19I don't want to excuse any of this.
20:21Like, I'm taking on
20:22what you guys are saying
20:23but, like, you know,
20:24there's always more to a story.
20:26Like, there's reasons.
20:27I didn't just wake up
20:28and decide to act like this.
20:30Yeah.
20:30You know?
20:31I do think that you guys
20:32got into an extremely toxic cycle.
20:35Yeah.
20:35Like, and I don't think
20:37you had big feelings for James.
20:39I think it was a,
20:40I'm lonely, I'm hurting
20:41so I'm going to get my attention
20:42from someone somewhere else.
20:44I do think that that's what you did.
20:46However, I guess the reason
20:47why we're holding you
20:48so much to account on this
20:49is because the story changes
20:52as soon as we share
20:53a little bit more information.
20:54You said you blocked him.
20:55Then when we say we know more,
20:57then we,
20:57the story stretches
20:58a little bit further.
20:59I think you guys
21:00just really wanted me here
21:01to grill me
21:01and just call me a liar
21:02and it's just like...
21:03We didn't.
21:04We don't want you here
21:05to grill you.
21:07We want you here because...
21:08No, because
21:10every person
21:11that experiences a situation
21:13experiences it different.
21:14That reality is different to them
21:15and we understand that.
21:17Like, two people can go through
21:17exactly the same thing
21:18and have a completely
21:19different reality.
21:20Yep.
21:21Evidently,
21:21that has happened
21:22with you and Scott
21:23and I guess the problem is,
21:24like, when we want to understand
21:26and ask you
21:26but you just tell
21:28a little porky pie
21:29and then we're like,
21:30well, we know that
21:31that's not true
21:31so that's what the problem is
21:33and I...
21:33I knew that this would happen.
21:34That's why I haven't
21:35wanted to come here.
21:36Like, you've got to remember
21:37this was last year.
21:38I'm trying to move on from this.
21:39This is why I'm not
21:40watching this show.
21:41Like, I'm in a different place now.
21:43I've got a great partner
21:44and I'm trying to just focus
21:45on being a mum.
21:46I don't really need to sit here
21:47and, like, back and forth
21:49about, like, some shit
21:50that happened last year.
21:50I know it was bad.
21:51I can be accountable.
21:53I can do all that
21:54but, like, give me a break.
21:54Like, fuck, I know it's bad.
21:56I don't know what else
21:57you want me to do.
21:58Like, I've tried to be accountable.
22:00Like, I know I'm wrong
22:01and I really...
22:03Like I said,
22:04I don't even want
22:05to shit talk Scott.
22:06I feel bad.
22:07I've seen him hurting
22:09and I'm like,
22:10I don't want to be
22:11the cause of that to anyone
22:12and even some of the shit
22:13I've done to these women,
22:14I feel fucking terrible.
22:15Like, I do.
22:16But what can I do?
22:17Like, I didn't want
22:18to come up here
22:19and be a beck
22:19and crocodile tears
22:21and, like, all...
22:22I'm just, like...
22:23But this is just...
22:24This is it.
22:25Like, I don't know
22:26how else I can fix it.
22:27I've apologised
22:27to everybody behind the scenes.
22:29I've done as much as I can
22:31and, like, you know,
22:32moving forward,
22:33yeah, I've lied.
22:34Yeah, I've done the wrong thing.
22:35Yeah, I was involved in drama.
22:37Like, but, like,
22:38I'm trying to move on now.
22:39Like, I don't...
22:40You know, I don't know
22:41what else to say, guys.
22:42Like, I fucked up.
22:43Well, gee, I'll tell you what,
22:44no-one's judging you
22:46for having insecurities
22:47and I hope that you know
22:49that the lesson
22:52that you're taking from this
22:53is where your insecurities drive you,
22:56which is trying to control
22:58or trying to manipulate.
23:01I think what you're feeling right now
23:03is very real
23:04and I think you've been awesome
23:06to come on this couch.
23:07You're saying that
23:08the more that you lie,
23:10the more things come undone for you
23:13and I hope that you take that
23:15from here, you know,
23:16to be able to attract someone
23:17with authenticity
23:18because that's what you're going to
23:20be able to take forward
23:21and so how are you feeling just...
23:24How are you feeling right now?
23:26Take a deep breath.
23:27I don't want to keep crying like that.
23:28I don't know.
23:29I just...
23:29I didn't want to come here.
23:30Like, I didn't want to, like, cop it.
23:33I know I needed to cop it.
23:34I know you guys needed to grill me
23:36and I know people want to see that
23:37because I don't think
23:39my behaviour was good either.
23:40I think I need to be called out for it.
23:42It's good
23:43but it's just hard
23:44because, like,
23:44I've tried to move on from this.
23:46I'm in such a different place now
23:48and, like...
23:49You've got to get off social media then
23:50because if you're trying to move on...
23:52Well, see, even my boyfriend's
23:53deleted his Instagram.
23:54He hasn't watched anything.
23:55We don't talk about maths.
23:56I'm not watching the show.
23:57Obviously, my TikTok is different
23:59but we're trying to just...
23:59But I know
24:00but it's a dangerous message
24:02because I think it's really important
24:04for you to demonstrate,
24:05I think,
24:07demonstrate that, yeah,
24:08you might have done some things
24:09that are bad.
24:09You've been, you know,
24:10been nasty to certain people
24:13but you've actually watched that,
24:15acknowledged it
24:15and moving forward
24:17to be a better person
24:17and a better future bride.
24:20When you lean into it
24:22for the clicks
24:22and the engagement on TikTok
24:24because it is funny.
24:25Don't get me wrong.
24:26We've shared videos
24:27where we're like, you know,
24:28when you're making jokes
24:28about not coming on the couch
24:29and stuff
24:30and it seems like
24:30the remorse isn't real
24:31or the accountability
24:33isn't real.
24:34So it's like the switching
24:35between I'm sorry
24:36but ha-ha
24:36is a real emotional whiplash
24:38for people
24:38who don't know
24:40where you're at
24:40with everything.
24:41Do you feel embarrassed
24:42by your behaviour at all?
24:44Yeah.
24:45God.
24:45But if you feel embarrassed
24:46by it
24:47and you feel remorseful for it,
24:48why is your MO now
24:50to get on TikTok
24:51and make jokes about it
24:52and to kind of like
24:52not take accountability?
24:54I feel like
24:55I'm rage baiting,
24:57I guess,
24:58and just being
24:58like funny on there
25:00just to really get clicks.
25:02It's not anything deep.
25:03I'm just like,
25:04whatever,
25:04I'll make fun of myself.
25:05Everyone says I walk away.
25:06Everyone says I'm not accountable.
25:07I'll just,
25:08then what are they going to say
25:09if I make fun of myself?
25:11But it's also making fun of Scott.
25:12You're calling him dumb
25:13and illiterate.
25:14Can I just say
25:14the radio thing's
25:16so cute.
25:17It's sweet of you, Scott.
25:19But
25:21elephant in the room,
25:22the bigger problem here
25:23that we probably should address
25:24is why you don't know
25:25how to spell
25:26or read or write.
25:28It's not a momentous
25:30and
25:30an epiphany
25:31is something
25:32that is a moment
25:33that comes to you
25:34in your brain,
25:35like a light bulb moment
25:35of,
25:36oh my God,
25:36I've got a thought
25:37that's crazy.
25:38It's an epiphany.
25:39So when you use epiphany
25:40as Jira and I
25:41had a big epiphany
25:42last night
25:42but we got through it,
25:43you mean Tiff.
25:45You mean Tiff
25:46and
25:47it's anonymous
25:49and things aren't,
25:50you're not setting the stone,
25:52you're setting the tone.
25:53So how about
25:54we do radio interviews
25:56about that?
25:58Being self-deprecating
25:59is one thing
25:59and like I'll root for that
26:00but I think it's
26:01when you're attacking
26:02somebody else
26:02that you just went
26:03through this experiment with.
26:04Yeah,
26:04I posted it
26:05and deleted it
26:05like 10 minutes later
26:06obviously somebody got it.
26:07It lives forever
26:08on the internet.
26:08I know when it's out there
26:09it's out there
26:10but yeah,
26:11I regret that video
26:12and I am sorry to Scott.
26:13I think that was just
26:14a low blow.
26:15Again,
26:16I'm still hurting
26:17and I'm not really
26:18watching it
26:19but I'm seeing clips
26:19here and there
26:20and it hurts
26:20because now
26:22when I see
26:22some of the things
26:23like I said
26:24him talking about me
26:25when I'm not there
26:26I'm like
26:26he really was into me
26:28I didn't want to believe it
26:30I just didn't
26:30I feel bad.
26:32It's cheap engagement
26:33it really is
26:33like it's cheap engagement
26:34it won't last
26:35and it won't get you
26:36anywhere in the future
26:36it'll only continue
26:38to perpetuate
26:39that Australia thinks
26:40you actually don't care.
26:41Yeah.
26:41The only way to make a change
26:43is to make a change
26:44and so you need
26:45to be showing up
26:45differently.
26:47You need to show Australia
26:48that you're not
26:48that person anymore
26:49and you're
26:50that's only
26:51you can do that
26:51and you're just
26:52not doing that
26:52online at the moment
26:53and I just
26:54will you
26:55to think about that
26:57in a broader sense.
26:57No, it doesn't make sense
26:58because I'm
27:00I'm so different
27:01in my real life
27:01and I'm
27:02you know
27:02I'm preaching
27:03that everything's different
27:04but then online
27:05I'm showing a different version
27:06so I get that it's confusing
27:07and I just think
27:07I haven't thought of that
27:09I just thought
27:10oh it's clicks
27:10it's whatever
27:11but I won't say anything bad
27:12about him moving forward
27:13I'm not going to
27:14do any of those TikToks
27:15or any of that
27:16and how can I change
27:18but then show this other side
27:19of myself
27:19it doesn't make sense
27:20You were given
27:21in my opinion
27:24a great groom
27:26you were given
27:27someone who was amazing
27:28all the way through
27:29to the end
27:30right
27:31so my question is
27:33why do you think
27:34he couldn't say
27:35I love you
27:36I think it was
27:37the outside noise
27:38and all the drama
27:38I was involved in
27:39and that behaviour
27:40that I was displaying
27:41that was the reason
27:42why he couldn't
27:42fall in love with me
27:43I think it was just
27:44I really needed
27:45to focus on Scott
27:46and not all of that shit
27:48and I just
27:48I couldn't
27:49It was some of the worst behaviour
27:50Gia
27:51I have seen
27:51on TV in Australia
27:53between you and Bec
27:54and I hate it
27:55I was almost rooting
27:56for you from the start
27:57thinking okay
27:58she's just had a moment
27:59she'll move past it
28:01but we were three months in
28:02and you just never
28:03moved past it
28:04when you watch this back
28:06how do you feel
28:07because you were like that
28:08to the very end
28:10Well I haven't really
28:11been watching it
28:12I've had to just
28:12watch clips here and there
28:13I think like
28:13you're both grown women
28:15like grown
28:16we should not be behaving
28:17like that
28:17and that is just
28:18it's truly vile
28:20to think that two people
28:20would treat each other
28:21like that
28:21Yeah I mean
28:22I literally can't watch it
28:24it's too confronting
28:25like my daughter
28:26eventually she's going
28:27to grow up
28:27and want to watch it
28:28like I'm
28:30extremely embarrassed
28:31One thing I can't get past
28:32is the sheer
28:33calculation of those
28:35screenshots
28:35so you played
28:36Bec
28:37you played Juliet
28:38you played everyone
28:39what do you have to say
28:40to that?
28:41I had instant regret
28:42when she came back
28:43through with the paperwork
28:44and I saw Bec sitting
28:45there alone
28:45because it was a time
28:46when Bec wasn't really
28:47close with many of the girls
28:48and I felt terrible
28:50knowing that they were
28:51going to be revealed
28:51even though I was
28:52planning on doing it
28:53with Juliet
28:53even though I was
28:54involved in it
28:55and I'm the one
28:55who provided the screenshots
28:56I felt bad
28:57and I went behind
28:58Juliet's back
28:59to tell Bec
29:00about the screenshots
29:01But you said
29:02firstly
29:03that production
29:04had given them
29:04you tried to blame
29:06it on production
29:06that the screenshots
29:07had come through
29:08that way
29:08No they came through me
29:09No but originally
29:10you blamed it
29:11on production
29:11On the show
29:12You told Bec
29:13they came from production
29:14I didn't want
29:15either of them
29:15well I didn't want
29:16Bec knowing
29:17that I was involved
29:19in it
29:19because I knew
29:20Juliet was leaving
29:20with a commitment
29:21ceremony
29:21coming up with Joel
29:22I knew she was leaving
29:23Bec and I were
29:25like somewhat friends
29:26behind the scenes
29:26so I was playing
29:28a little game there
29:29where it was like
29:30I was friends with Bec
29:31I was friends with Juliet
29:31Juliet didn't want me
29:32being friends with Bec
29:33after the retreat
29:34it was just like
29:35But you weren't friends
29:36you weren't friends
29:36with Bec
29:37because you might have
29:38been to Bec's face
29:39but like everything
29:39we saw was viciousness
29:41and I think
29:42even just what you said
29:43then you knew
29:43that Juliet was leaving
29:44Yeah
29:45It's like you purposely
29:46threw her under a bus
29:47Yeah no
29:48and that was wrong
29:49and I'm not justifying
29:50my behaviour
29:50I wasn't the best
29:52version of myself
29:53Has that made you
29:54question Gia
29:55like I think
29:55one thing that this
29:57has done
29:57is put a spotlight
29:58on the behaviour
30:00and it's put a spotlight
30:01on your behaviour
30:01particularly
30:02Yeah
30:02and you say
30:03that you look back
30:03on it now
30:04and you're embarrassed
30:04and you regret it
30:05like do you actually
30:07think that that is
30:08who you are
30:09and that this is
30:10the way that you
30:10behave without
30:11potentially realising
30:12it in your normal life
30:13because I just
30:14don't believe
30:15I don't believe
30:16that someone goes
30:17unmarried at first sight
30:18and has a personality
30:19transplant
30:19and all of a sudden
30:20they're just an arsehole
30:21I don't believe that
30:22Yeah
30:22So then
30:23if you've behaved
30:25like this
30:25surely you're capable
30:26of this
30:27in your normal life
30:28yeah
30:28I mean
30:28it's shown me
30:30sides of myself
30:31that I need to grow on
30:31and improve on
30:32definitely
30:32I watch it now
30:33and I'm like
30:34I can't
30:35you know
30:36facilitate normal friendships
30:38acting this way
30:38or like having a good
30:39relationship this way
30:40like it's
30:41some of the things
30:42that I've done
30:42I've done
30:43I realise
30:44that's not okay
30:45and I'm in therapy
30:47working on all that now
30:48but yeah
30:49I mean
30:49it's embarrassing
30:51I don't know
30:51what else to say
30:52like I'm humiliated
30:53I don't think
30:54I act like that
30:55all the time
30:56I mean
30:57I'm also a mum
30:58I also
30:59like to think
31:00I'm somewhat
31:01of a good person
31:02I'm not just
31:02a horrible person
31:03every single day
31:04of my life
31:04I wish
31:05more of the good
31:06was shown
31:06but you know
31:07it is what it is
31:08all I can do
31:09is grow from
31:09the show
31:10you know
31:10you know
31:11it's one thing
31:11that has come up
31:12a few times
31:13on this couch
31:13about maths
31:14and the experiment
31:14in itself
31:15is that
31:15a lot of people
31:16talk about how
31:17the pressure cooker
31:18of the experiment
31:21makes you have to
31:22break cycles
31:22that you have
31:23in your relationships
31:23right
31:24because it makes
31:24you unpick
31:25okay what are the
31:26things I'm doing
31:26in my relationships
31:27on repeat
31:28and why is that
31:28that I'm single
31:29yeah
31:30maybe this is an
31:31opportunity
31:31for you
31:32where the pressure cooker
31:33didn't necessarily
31:34work in
31:35the experiment
31:36but everything
31:37that you're experiencing
31:38afterwards has been
31:39the thing that's
31:40going to make you go
31:41okay I don't want
31:42to be that version
31:42of myself ever again
31:44I don't want to be
31:44that person anymore
31:45I don't
31:45otherwise I'll have
31:46another relationship
31:47that doesn't work
31:48and another friendship
31:49that doesn't work
31:50or whatever
31:50like I have to
31:51work on things
31:52yeah and I think
31:53that the realisation
31:54comes from knowing
31:55that there isn't
31:56a TV geoversion
31:58and a real life
31:58geoversion
31:59and that they're
32:00not separate
32:00it's like
32:01this is what I am
32:03capable of being
32:04when I'm my worst self
32:05and I want to be
32:06a better version
32:07not having this
32:08duplicious life
32:09you know
32:10yeah I'm glad
32:11you guys have
32:13pushed me to this
32:13because it's made
32:14me realise
32:15like I can't
32:16I can't
32:17I can't
32:17do this kind of shit
32:19it's just
32:19and again I'm
32:20raising a daughter
32:21like I need to be
32:23better
32:23it's commendable
32:24that you would
32:26come on the show
32:26and say that
32:27and I truly do
32:28believe that
32:29yeah
32:29like we've said
32:30to everyone who's
32:31sat here and
32:32taken accountability
32:32like it's a really
32:33hard thing to do
32:34I guess that's what
32:35I mean
32:36I really want
32:38to see you succeed
32:39I really do
32:40want that for you
32:41I don't want to see
32:42anyone sit here
32:42and feel that pain
32:43and feel what
32:44you're feeling right
32:45now
32:45it's horrible
32:45and I want to see
32:46you turn this
32:47around
32:47and I think
32:48you can
32:49I guess it's
32:49be the change
32:50be that change
32:51so Gia
32:52any regrets
32:53oh my god
32:54like absolutely
32:56every single regret
32:57everything you're
32:58ever going to see
32:58on the show
32:59is a regret
32:59yeah
32:59I
33:00what isn't
33:01what isn't
33:02a regret
33:03um
33:04well
33:06I have a couple
33:07friends from the show
33:08that I adore
33:09and I love
33:10like but I think
33:12you know what the
33:13biggest thing is
33:13with the
33:15homestays
33:15there was a moment
33:16where I broke down
33:17with Scott
33:17and I said to him
33:18even if we break up
33:19I want to thank you
33:20for opening up my heart
33:21again because I haven't
33:22been able to
33:22put my walls down
33:23and be vulnerable
33:24with a man
33:24since I was like
33:2518 years old
33:26he opened up
33:26this side of me
33:27that made me believe
33:28in love again
33:29and want love
33:30obviously I did
33:31the wrong thing
33:31with that
33:32but like that was
33:33it that was the
33:34best part of it
33:35for me
33:35do you now know
33:36that when you
33:37open up
33:40you feel
33:41vulnerable
33:42yeah
33:43and it's terrifying
33:44yeah
33:44and then if you
33:46try to close up
33:48and take control
33:49or even go on
33:50the attack
33:51you lose out
33:52yeah
33:52because no one
33:53falls in love
33:54without that
33:55terrifying moment
33:56of going
33:57I am exposed
33:58is that a lesson
34:00you can take
34:01from this
34:01and I was at one
34:02point exposed
34:03and fully vulnerable
34:04but then again
34:05like you said
34:06I would try and
34:06control situations
34:07and I would then
34:08do drama
34:08and do things here
34:09and then that would
34:10close me off again
34:11to Scott
34:11and so
34:12so so true
34:13that's exactly
34:13what happened
34:14but yeah
34:15now I'm just
34:16I'm not focusing
34:17on any drama
34:19with people
34:19or like
34:20even you know
34:21I know Bec's
34:22very strongly
34:23trying to hold on
34:24to all the friendships
34:24of people on the show
34:25I don't care to do
34:26any of that
34:27for me
34:27I'm just trying
34:28to move on
34:28with my real friends
34:29my real family
34:30outside of the show
34:31and the bubble
34:32and also
34:33I feel like
34:33there were so many
34:34things that happened
34:34with all of us
34:35on the show
34:35that I'm like
34:37I'm not proud of that
34:38and you shouldn't
34:38want to be friends
34:39with me
34:39I was fucked
34:40I was fucked
34:41like you shouldn't
34:41want to be friends
34:42with that Gia
34:42I want to grow
34:43and have other
34:44friendships
34:44and water my real
34:46friends that
34:46they know me
34:47and they know
34:48all the sides of me
34:48and you know
34:50like
34:50what have your friends
34:51and family said
34:52watching it back
34:53because it must be
34:53confronting for them
34:54as well
34:55yeah well
34:55they're all watching it
34:56I'm not
34:56they're telling me
34:57about it
34:57what do they say
34:59I mean
35:00yeah I mean
35:01Will
35:01you guys saw
35:02Will at my wedding
35:02he's
35:03me and him
35:04still have lunch
35:04every week
35:05he's been like
35:06babe
35:06like
35:07you need to
35:08fix this shit
35:08like
35:09he loves Scott
35:10and he was like
35:10babe
35:10you're gonna
35:11lose another person
35:12in another relationship
35:13if you do this
35:14because he saw me
35:14when I was married
35:15as well
35:15like you know
35:16he's clocked me
35:17where I'm like
35:18shit you're right
35:19actually like
35:19this did happen
35:20before
35:20this did happen
35:21so
35:22if you had a redo
35:24who would be
35:24the G
35:25we would see
35:26in the experiment
35:27oh my god
35:28I would do like
35:28absolutely everything
35:30different
35:30if I was on the show
35:31talk to me
35:32I would have just
35:33focused on Scott
35:34I would have been
35:34a stellar
35:35I would have been
35:35in the background
35:36I wouldn't have
35:36raised my voice
35:37I wouldn't have
35:37got involved
35:38in the girl drama
35:38I would have
35:39just focused on Scott
35:40because I do believe
35:41I got matched
35:42with someone
35:43that you know
35:44we were pretty good
35:46like the wedding
35:46was amazing
35:47my family
35:48loved his family
35:50I think we were
35:51pretty good
35:51and I think
35:52if I just
35:52continued to focus
35:53on that
35:54and shut out
35:54all the drama
35:55we probably
35:55would have lasted
35:56I also think
35:57as a viewer
35:58like you know
35:59behaviour aside
36:00it is so disappointing
36:01because there was
36:03so much in the start
36:04when you guys met
36:05there was so much
36:06that was potential
36:07everyone could see it
36:08everyone could see
36:09that you were
36:09into each other
36:10and I know
36:11that there was
36:11this rule like
36:12we're the king and queen
36:13of married at first sight
36:14we're the power couple
36:16but you actually
36:17were the power couple
36:17and then you
36:18self-sabotaged it
36:19you know
36:19and you've ruined
36:20something that could
36:20have been really amazing
36:22yeah I want to believe
36:23that I've grown
36:24and even watching this
36:26now I'm like
36:26oh my god
36:27why am I running away
36:28why am I doing this
36:28why am I doing that
36:29but at the same time
36:30I didn't feel
36:31completely safe
36:32in that relationship
36:33to flourish
36:34and be the best version
36:35of myself
36:36like I am now
36:37because I felt like
36:38you know
36:39I didn't feel
36:40the same energy back
36:41and I know that's
36:42putting pressure
36:42on the love thing
36:43but I just didn't feel
36:44the same
36:45I felt like
36:46for me to keep
36:47doing that
36:47it just made me
36:48like you know
36:49that just wasn't for me
36:50I shouldn't have to ask
36:51for all that
36:51and he shouldn't have
36:52to be with someone
36:53who runs away either
36:53I just think
36:54it was a great situation
36:56but we just weren't
36:58for each other I think
36:59but I wish him all the best
37:01I really do
37:01I do have another little
37:03bone to pick
37:04I really love this show
37:05as an audience member
37:06and you effed up
37:08with the spoilers
37:09you revealed
37:10that you were seeing
37:11someone else
37:12way before you
37:13and Scott
37:13it got leaked
37:14it got leaked
37:14it did not get leaked
37:16you are the Daily Mail
37:20you're puppeteering them
37:21but
37:22yeah you got paid
37:23didn't you get paid
37:24for that
37:24no we didn't get paid
37:25okay
37:25do you know why
37:26we didn't get paid
37:27yeah do you know why
37:28we were going to get paid
37:28you can't say
37:31oh we got papped
37:31you just admitted
37:32you were setting it up
37:33well no the thing is
37:34we were so worried
37:35every week
37:36that it was going to be leaked
37:37cut the shit
37:37the reason you did it
37:38is because you had
37:40a guy that you loved
37:42on TV
37:43who was having
37:43second thoughts about you
37:45because you'd just been
37:46creating so much drama
37:47and you felt vulnerable
37:49and so you tried
37:50to get ahead of it
37:51by saying
37:52hey
37:52I've got someone better
37:54no
37:54and you optically
37:56wanted to look like
37:57you had already moved on
37:58nah and this
37:59this really
37:59this really pisses me off
38:01how people are going on
38:02about it being a PR thing
38:03and like
38:04close it was
38:04no I just
38:05am in love with my boyfriend
38:06and I was like
38:06fuck it let's leak it
38:07I don't want to keep
38:08pretending I'm with Scott
38:09that was literally it
38:10you just admitted it
38:11yeah
38:11well
38:11I took the photos
38:13knowing they were going
38:13to be leaked
38:14didn't know they were
38:14going to be leaked
38:15that early
38:16I know
38:16no I knew that they came
38:18for absolutely spoiling
38:20a show we love
38:21apologize
38:21where's the which camera
38:22any camera
38:23here
38:23that one
38:23number one
38:24I'm sorry Australia
38:25for ruining
38:26for spoiling the show
38:27and the ending of Scott
38:29and I'm sorry
38:29is there anyone else
38:30you want to apologize to
38:31while you're down there
38:33Scott maybe
38:34yeah I am sorry to you
38:35Scott I genuinely feel bad
38:37I feel like I did
38:37break and hurt this man
38:39I hope he finds happiness
38:41he's got a beautiful heart
38:42and he'll make someone
38:43really happy
38:43one day
38:44beyond Scott
38:45the other relationship
38:46that really defined your time
38:47in the experiment
38:47was your relationship
38:49with Beck
38:49now that is one of the most
38:51perplexing things
38:52I have ever seen
38:53I feel like from the get go
38:55whenever you guys could
38:56you were tearing each other down
38:58at every opportunity
38:59but then this week
39:01I don't know
39:02not know what happened
39:03but you were best friends
39:04and you were sick of
39:05squirreling in the bathroom
39:06we need to know what happened
39:07but I want you to have
39:09a look at this
39:12Chills
39:13love you
39:14love you
39:15fuck these men man
39:16literally fuck them
39:17Gia and I have come together today
39:20because
39:21after last night's
39:22commitment ceremony
39:23Gia and I both feel
39:24underappreciated by our husbands
39:26we may have had beef
39:28in the past
39:29Beck
39:29like
39:30relax
39:31like you're
39:325 out of 10
39:33who have you got beef with
39:34Gia
39:35I like you in green
39:36I don't think she looks
39:37good in green
39:41don't come
39:42come for him
39:43don't we fucking dare
39:44you nearly caused
39:46my relationship to end
39:47I couldn't give a fuck
39:48about Beck
39:49no I will never
39:50have a relationship with her
39:51but when it comes down to it
39:53women need to support women
39:55cheers
39:56cheers babe
39:58cheers
39:58to the women
39:58in this experiment
40:00and these
40:01half ass men
40:02what's going on with Scott
40:03yeah so obviously
40:05commitment ceremony last night
40:06was a bit fucked
40:07he kind of threw me
40:07he threw me under the bus
40:08he's being a pussy
40:10yep
40:10and
40:11you told him you loved him
40:13I told Danny that I love him
40:14they haven't said it back
40:15neither of them are that hot
40:17Danny's not that hot
40:18he looks like a frog
40:19fucking Scott's not that hot
40:21he's got a pointy nose
40:23and
40:23right now
40:24we're in a situation
40:25where both of our husbands
40:26are duds
40:28but we found each other
40:29I'm actually glad
40:30this has happened
40:30cheers
40:31you too cheers
40:44stay for the dinner party
40:45what's the point babe
40:46what's the fucking point
40:47like you're kidding me
40:50you know what you need to do
40:53out victim him
40:56what am I saying
40:58I love you
40:59I'm sorry
41:00and
41:00if you can cry
41:02that would be great
41:03of course so long
41:07Scott I'm gonna be completely raw with you
41:09I came back tonight
41:10to not leave
41:11and to show you that I'm here
41:13to bare my soul
41:14not for the cameras
41:25but for you
41:26Gia I must say
41:27this is so confusing
41:28because you guys just hated each other
41:31the entire time
41:32this week your besties
41:33what happened
41:35I don't know
41:36I've no answer for that
41:37I think both of us
41:38wanted to relate to each other
41:40in some way
41:40when we were going through shit
41:41with our relationships
41:42everyone else was pretty good
41:43and it was just really us
41:44that were at that time
41:46not good with our partners
41:47and I think we just leaned on each other
41:48not rightfully
41:50like we shouldn't have
41:51but we did
41:52all we've seen
41:53is truly how horrible
41:55the two of you have been
41:55to each other
41:56so surely when the cameras
41:58aren't rolling
41:58even if you have to be
41:59in the same room as each other
42:00even if you do catch up
42:01with other people
42:02surely that hatred
42:03is still there
42:04or that dislike for each other
42:05is still there
42:06like you don't just switch into
42:07oh okay now the camera's off
42:08we can be friends babe
42:09like what's going on
42:13I don't know
42:14I generally don't know
42:16and I feel like confused
42:17watching it as well
42:18because I know
42:18there were times where
42:19we would hang out
42:20but then we would hate each other
42:21and hang out
42:22and hate each other
42:22so I didn't know
42:23half the time before friends
42:25or if we weren't friends
42:25or what
42:26so it was just a messy situation
42:28it was like
42:30not like keep your enemies closer
42:32but it was like
42:32she was a friend
42:33like at arm's length
42:35or whatever
42:36like how
42:36I don't know how else to put it
42:37but like
42:38we were friends
42:39but I knew
42:40I couldn't trust her
42:41I knew it was a friendship
42:42based on both us
42:43kind of backing each other
42:44on the show
42:45I knew
42:45it wouldn't last
42:46it wasn't a friendship
42:47what about now
42:48definitely not
42:49your trust to it
42:51did you trust her
42:52no
42:52nah
42:53I mean you did put your trust
42:55in Beck at the dinner party
42:56and it backfired explosively
42:58but that might not have been
43:00the case for Beck
43:00so I want you to take a look
43:02at this unseen footage
43:03that she gave
43:04after the dinner party
43:06everyone was like
43:07why are you friends with her
43:08why are you friends with her
43:09what are you doing
43:09my husband was like
43:10what's going on
43:11she's not your friend
43:12she's not your friend
43:13I don't want to sit
43:14at a dinner party
43:15and have issues with people
43:16I want to see
43:17Jira and Scott
43:18have it out with each other
43:21the only person
43:21that was going to get her here
43:22was the only friend she had
43:24was me
43:27yeah she fucked me over
43:29and now you look like dicks
43:30I see her
43:33oh my god
43:34I feel sick
43:34whoa
43:36they're around her husband
43:37who would have thought
43:38absolutely
43:39what do you think
43:39what do you think
43:40I've kept the
43:40what would have thought
43:41what would have thought
43:42I'm framing them
43:43I'm selling them
43:45jeez
43:46it's all been
43:46oh rainbows and lollipops
43:48the whole time
43:49and then you run away
43:50no no no
43:51you come back
43:51and show what your
43:52relationship really was
43:53because I've worked
43:54on my relationship
43:55you've worked on
43:55your relationship
43:56but you've come for mine
43:57you've come for yours
43:58you've come for everyone else's
44:00let's see what the reality
44:01of the situation is
44:03the only way to get her
44:04there was me
44:04mic drop
44:07mic drop
44:09bitch
44:11that's how we started
44:12and that's how we're gonna end
44:13isn't it
44:16oh my god
44:17I feel sick
44:17yeah that's so savage
44:18how do you feel
44:19watching that
44:22well I look like an idiot
44:29I genuinely thought
44:30she was my friend
44:30at that point
44:31that's fucked
44:32it is
44:33like I wish I didn't
44:34like outside of the show
44:35I continued to try
44:36and be her friend
44:37she was at my birthday
44:37like you guys know that
44:39that's fucked
44:41that's fucked
44:42so in that moment
44:43you believed
44:43that you were friends
44:44yeah
44:46at that point in time
44:47I did
44:47yeah
44:48but you still said
44:48you didn't trust her as well
44:49was it
44:50yeah
44:50I didn't fully trust her
44:52but you know
44:53we had so many conversations
44:55off camera
44:55with the whole Scott thing
44:57and like she acted
44:58like she had my back
44:59and was telling me
45:00it would be a good thing
45:01to write the letter
45:01and that it would work
45:02and that I'd get through to him
45:03I really believed her would
45:05at that time
45:05but did you really believe
45:07Beck though
45:07you might have believed
45:08that you could have
45:08gotten through to Scott
45:09yeah
45:10surely
45:10surely
45:11of all of the things
45:13that she was doing
45:13and saying
45:14and the way
45:15the drama was unfolding
45:16like
45:16oh that is so fucked
45:17like I don't understand
45:19how you could get
45:19to the end of this experiment
45:20and think
45:22you know who
45:22whose advice I'm going to trust
45:24Bex
45:24Bex the person
45:25who I'm going to
45:26put my trust and confidence in
45:28like it doesn't make sense
45:29I don't know
45:30Scott and I would have
45:31so many conversations
45:32where he'd be like
45:32I'm trying to protect you
45:33she's not your friend
45:34she's not this
45:35and I'm like
45:35oh stop telling me
45:36what to do
45:36stop telling me
45:37who he'll be friends with
45:38and I'm like
45:39oh my god
45:39I'm like
45:40he knew this all along
45:42again because I wasn't
45:43focused on my relationship
45:44and Scott
45:45I wasn't able to take
45:46that on board
45:47I was focused on
45:48all the other girls
45:48and the drama
45:49I don't know
45:49what I was thinking
45:50I really don't
45:51do you think
45:51do you think
45:52that's how
45:54Juliet felt
45:54when she watched you
45:56whisper to Chris
45:58don't back her up
45:59yeah
46:00do you think
46:01that's how
46:01Sam would feel
46:02when you and Chris
46:03are standing next
46:04to each other
46:05and
46:05share accommodation
46:06thing
46:07yeah
46:08there's a fair few
46:09people that would be
46:10feeling exactly like you
46:11it's very ironic
46:12that you're sitting here
46:13shocked
46:14at someone
46:15who has out calculated
46:17you
46:17don't you think
46:18poetic
46:19yeah
46:19yeah
46:21look I think
46:22that the biggest thing
46:22to take home
46:23and take away from this
46:24is like
46:24it is a very good thing
46:26that you and Bec
46:27are not still
46:27in this frenemies
46:29friendship
46:30because
46:31that behaviour
46:32is so deeply toxic
46:34just when I think
46:35I can't be shocked
46:35anymore by this show
46:36and by behaviour
46:37I am
46:37and also
46:38to validate you
46:41two things can be true
46:42at once
46:42I understand
46:43that you can now
46:44recognise
46:44the way you made people
46:45feel with your behaviour
46:46but you can also
46:47feel hurt
46:48by somebody else
46:49bringing that back to you
46:50and so
46:50it's
46:51when as much as
46:52we say to you
46:52like surely
46:53you can't be shocked
46:54that can still cut deep
46:55when you realise
46:56someone's lied to you
46:57even if you've
46:57dished out the behaviour
46:58but I guess
46:58it's then
46:59what you're going to do
46:59with that feeling
47:00and if you're going
47:00to recognise
47:01that oh
47:01this feels terrible
47:02I'm never going
47:03to make anyone
47:03feel like this again
47:04yeah
47:04totally
47:04because exactly
47:05what you said
47:06about Juliet
47:06now I'm imagining
47:08Juliet in that moment
47:08watching me say
47:10let's not back her
47:11like
47:12I needed to see that
47:13to know this
47:14because now I feel
47:14fucking terrible
47:15for Juliet
47:16Gia
47:17in your audition
47:18you said you love drama
47:20you certainly brought it
47:21you brought it
47:22and got plenty of it
47:23but secondly
47:24you're still very young
47:26you've got a whole life
47:27ahead of you
47:27and this has given you
47:29some phenomenal
47:30life lessons
47:31it's made you more aware
47:32of some of your blind spots
47:33you've shared them
47:34with us today
47:35and lo and behold
47:36at the end
47:37you said I do not trust Bec
47:39and all along
47:40I should have trusted Scott
47:41yeah
47:41and that is a pretty
47:43amazing bit of discovery
47:45so was it as bad
47:46as you thought
47:47sitting with us
47:48no
47:49I appreciate you guys
47:51and I appreciate
47:51the feedback
47:52and it's actually helpful
47:54I think
47:54moving forward
47:55now I can recognise more
47:56and seeing that
47:58I need to work on
47:59who I can trust
47:59and stop trying to look
48:00for drama
48:01and look for problems
48:02like there wasn't
48:03any problems with Scott
48:04I was looking for them
48:05but just to reiterate
48:06it's never too late
48:07to start fresh
48:08to realise that
48:09you've learned things
48:09to put them into play
48:10be a better person
48:11be a different person
48:12and be the person
48:12that you want
48:13your daughter to see as well
48:14and thank you for coming on
48:16and taking that accountability
48:17as well
48:17because we all had bets
48:19actually
48:19who won $50
48:20oh me
48:20I did
48:21you owe me
48:21what did I say
48:22I said you'd be here
48:25on the last episode
48:26yeah yeah
48:27I said you'd be here
48:28and it was a $5 bet
48:29that you owed me
48:30great not $50
48:31okay
48:31I should have kept that up
48:33anyway thank you so much
48:35thank you
48:35it's been an absolute
48:35whirlwind watching your journey
48:37and if this final dinner party
48:39is anything to go by
48:40I can only imagine
48:41how reunion
48:42is gonna go down
48:44thank you Gia
48:45and look we know
48:46that you are in a new relationship
48:48and we genuinely
48:49we made it
48:50we do hope that you get
48:51everything out of this relationship
48:52that you have always wanted
48:53and take the lessons
48:55from this whole thing
48:56and are able to implement them
48:57in your new relationship
48:58yep
48:58yep
48:59I'm trying to
49:00thank you so much
49:01I'll see you next time
49:03I'll see you next time
49:05I'll see you next time
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