00:0097% of rapists will not spend a single day in jail.
00:04That is a real statistic.
00:06That is fucking abhorrent.
00:08So how do we fix that?
00:10How does society, how do we fix this?
00:12How do we stop this happening?
00:13The only thing I can think of is it has to involve us.
00:16And by us, I mean men.
00:18Now to the women in the room, I know you know this.
00:20None of this is new information.
00:21And to the men in the room, I want to make something crystal clear.
00:24This isn't an attack.
00:25I'm just trying to tell you my experience.
00:26I knew this man for eight years, and he fucking did it.
00:31There are monsters amongst us, and they look like us.
00:34If you are sick of the narrative that is currently going on about men,
00:36feel free to change it, but you have to get involved.
00:39Don't make the same mistake I did for years,
00:40which was just sitting back and be like,
00:42well, I'm not part of the problem, therefore I must be part of the solution.
00:45Because that's just not how this fucking shit works.
00:47I believe, and deep down I know that most men are good.
00:49Of course we are.
00:50But when one in ten men are shit, and the other nine do nothing,
00:53they might as well not fucking be there.
00:54Instead of having this fucking hero complex of being like,
00:57I'm going to beat up a rapist, fucking prevent one, stop one.
01:00Because I know it can be done, because I know how I've fucking failed at it.
01:03Because if I'm being 100% honest with myself,
01:07were there signs in my friend's behavior over the years towards women that I ignored?
01:12The answer is yes.
01:14And then he raped my friend, and that's on me until the day I die.
01:18Talk to your fucking boys, get involved.
01:20Because I'm going to be honest with you lads,
01:21women are trying their hardest to not get raped.
01:24I think it's their priority.
01:26Mine's is wifi.
01:27I can't do much, I just won't do nothing anymore,
01:30and I'm just suggesting that you do this.
01:32If you think this does not affect the women in your life,
01:35talk to them after this show,
01:37and watch your world crumble before your very eyes.
01:39If you think this does not affect the women in your life,
01:42it's not because it's not happening to them,
01:44it's because they don't trust you enough to talk to you about it.
01:47And that's the single worst thing I ever learned about myself.
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