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00:00This programme contains strong language and themes of an adult nature.
00:05This is a no-holds-barred conversation.
00:08Do you know what I mean? If you meet someone and you get that automatic buzz in your spark and
00:12stuff like that,
00:14I think you tend to know in your gut.
00:16I really thought that story was going to end in a massive part, did you?
00:21If someone's a bit insecure, they want to feel more comfortable in their own skin,
00:25then, you know, you kind of go down the little tweakments.
00:28I'm Sophie Gravia.
00:30I'm Christine McGuinness, and we're here to talk all things situationships.
00:34Sophie, how would you define a situationship?
00:38Oh, a situationship, I would define it as this sort of...
00:42You're speaking to someone and then you're not actually in a relationship,
00:46so you don't really know what they are, so they're sort of your situationship.
00:51It's that grey phase in between.
00:53Yeah, in between dating and having a relationship.
00:56Yep.
00:57So you don't really know what you are.
01:00Do you know what I mean?
01:01But, like, what you're in or what your situationship is.
01:04Yeah.
01:04Like, what is it? It's a situationship.
01:06I think if you haven't put a label on it...
01:09Yes.
01:09...and you're more than dating, then you're in a situationship.
01:14And I know loads of people in situationships purely because of the locations.
01:19Yep.
01:20But I think for me, if I'm being completely honest, a part of the reason I like being in a
01:26situationship over a relationship is because of the added expectations that I feel I would not be able to live
01:35up to right now.
01:36Yep.
01:36Like, I'm loyal, so you get loyalty, commitment, you know, definitely just like to spend my time with one person.
01:45Yes.
01:45I haven't got a lot of time, so it's only ever going to be another one person.
01:49Yeah.
01:49But the part of it that I don't like relationship-wise is things that I would feel like I must
01:56have let down if there was an emergency and I couldn't be there.
01:58Right.
01:58If it was a special day of Valentine's, a birthday, Christmas, for example, I couldn't be there.
02:05There's days where I have got to be with my children, like, there's half terms every two minutes, there's summer
02:10holidays.
02:11So all of that, for me, I feel like I can't give some of the stuff that is expected, like,
02:19in a relationship, in my opinion, it's what would be expected and I can't do it.
02:24In a lot of situations.
02:25Yeah.
02:26I get that.
02:27I think it makes sense.
02:28I would feel like I let down all the time if I couldn't be there as someone, if I was
02:32supposed to be there as someone's partner and I couldn't be there.
02:34Yeah.
02:34I'm going to feel like I had massive let down.
02:36I think a lot of situationships happen though because it's basically, they're testing you out, it's like a trial run
02:44to see, are they going to be my girlfriend, are they going to be my partner, are they going to
02:48be anything.
02:49That's a good thing though, isn't it?
02:50I don't know because then it's sort of, I think when you know, you know, do you know what I
02:57mean?
02:57If you meet someone and you get that automatic buzz and your spark and stuff like that, I think you
03:03tend to know in your gut.
03:04Yeah.
03:06I think, I think, I think, I think a situation before you go into a relationship is a good thing
03:12because you could have that, you can have that feeling with lust.
03:16Yeah.
03:16Where you think, you know, at the beginning it's always exciting, it's always amazing.
03:20Yeah.
03:20I love everyone in the first two weeks.
03:22Yes.
03:23That's great.
03:23We're getting married and everything.
03:25Well, you'd have a situation to give it time to see if it actually works with your life because sometimes
03:30the fantasy and the reality isn't quite the same.
03:34Yeah.
03:34So do you think there's going to be a set time?
03:37Hmm.
03:37Well, you know, there's this thing in the sunset clause.
03:40Have you heard of it?
03:41Yes.
03:42So basically people, it's like a deadline.
03:44Yeah.
03:44Yeah.
03:45So in situationships, it's when one person or both maybe have agreed and said, right, okay, let's just check in
03:51in a couple of months.
03:52Let's on our three month or six month, whatever.
03:55Let's, let's.
03:55I don't like, I don't think I like that.
03:57Well, I get it, but yeah, I don't like it.
04:00I think it cuts off the natural progression.
04:03Yeah.
04:04And I think it can feel a little bit more like a transaction.
04:07Yeah.
04:07So it's not organically getting better because you're thinking, fuck, I've got a check in in two weeks.
04:12I better really try hard.
04:14But it's just, I know, yeah.
04:16I'm getting the sexy undies at the night.
04:18I've got my fucking check in.
04:20Absolutely.
04:20If you want to keep, if you want it to keep going a bit longer, you're definitely going to be
04:23watching that date.
04:24But what if you're not ready to move forward after you've set your sunset clause, but you don't really want
04:33to end it, then you're potentially cutting off something that was naturally developing beautifully.
04:40Why does it need a deadline to move on to something?
04:43Because I don't know, maybe your friend or your mom or someone has said, oh, you need to make this
04:49official now.
04:50You're either a couple or, you know.
04:52Mm-hmm.
04:53But you're not, you're not sure.
04:55I think the not sure, for me, it would make me feel a wee bit insecure.
05:01I think I would need, because I need somebody to want to, like, think I'm the best thing in the
05:06world.
05:06I would, I need that.
05:08I'm a Leo.
05:09I need people to praise me and be like, Sophie, you are 100%.
05:13I really want to be with you.
05:14I need the reassurance.
05:15Whereas if somebody was like, let's just wait for another till March and then we'll check in.
05:22Yeah.
05:23But I think a lot of situationships out there, they don't put a label on it because they want to
05:28explore other connections.
05:30And I think that's wrong because you're not giving it a fair chance and somebody's going to get hurt.
05:34Yeah, and that's when you've just got to, you've just got to be single.
05:38Yeah.
05:38But I think that's where the sunset clause is a positive.
05:42Mm-hmm.
05:42Because somebody might have a bit of a, their own personal deadline where they kind of think, okay, you know,
05:48let's just say, for example, you've been in a situationship for two years.
05:52I might just get to that point where someone's going, okay, I need to know what I'm doing with my
05:59future.
05:59What's happening?
05:59I'm in my late thirties, wherever I might want to go and move country or have a baby or get
06:04married or what.
06:05How long do you just see if, if things keep progressing?
06:09Yeah.
06:10Until it gets into a relationship.
06:11But do you think situationships so hold you back?
06:15There is research that say that they hold you back from achieving goals because you became less motivated.
06:22You're, you're doubting like your relationship.
06:24It's not a strong, stable relationship at home because it's a situationship.
06:29So you're then less productive in your work life and like basically your general life.
06:34It can.
06:35And I've experienced it and obviously I've experienced being in a situationship and being completely single.
06:42And when I was on my own, I was the most productive I've ever been.
06:46Yeah.
06:46I absolutely smashed work.
06:47I was on time for everything.
06:49Yeah.
06:49My energy was better.
06:50My self care was better.
06:51I was in the gym every day.
06:53I looked after myself better than I have ever looked after myself.
06:56Yep.
06:57The way I did when I was just completely single.
06:59I think when you, as soon as you start dating someone, well, if you're anything like me, you've got tunnel
07:04vision.
07:05So that's it.
07:06This is, this is the best thing in the world.
07:07Yeah.
07:07Everything's amazing.
07:08You're so excited and it's going to be incredible.
07:11And all of my focus is on that person.
07:14So the, the text and the phone calls, all of that time and energy is coming from me.
07:21And that's my choice.
07:23I'm, I'm giving it to somebody and, and obviously the hope is that you would receive it back.
07:27So I think when you share in the same kind of energy where you're pouring into each other, it can
07:32be a really positive thing.
07:34Yeah.
07:34But it's when you, when you add in worrying, traveling backwards and forwards, financial strain.
07:41Yeah.
07:42On going up and down, dating.
07:44But I'm obviously I'm in a situationship.
07:47So I have to say, situationships are great.
07:51Don't rush into relationships.
07:53We love situationships.
07:54Yay.
07:55Yeah.
07:56And they don't, they don't take any energy off you.
08:03Okay.
08:04Time for our hot mess hotline.
08:05Okay.
08:05This is an 18 year old female.
08:07She wants to remain anonymous and it's been voiced up.
08:11Okay.
08:12So I was having sex with my boyfriend when I suddenly got really bad, trapped wind.
08:19Um, I was in a lot of pain, so I had to stop.
08:23My boyfriend and I were then lying next to each other in bed and he was all restless.
08:29And he let out a deep sigh and said, I can't do this.
08:33He got up from the bed, went over to his drawer and pulled out a fleshlight.
08:39He then went to the bathroom to finish himself off with it.
08:43It upset me that he was so unsympathetic to the fact that I was in pain and more concerned with
08:50his own pleasure.
08:52I also don't know how to feel about him using a fleshlight.
08:57What do you guys think?
08:59I really thought that story was going to end in a massive fart.
09:03Did you?
09:05No, I thought he's going to finish himself off.
09:08No, I really, why did I go straight for that?
09:09I was like, she's going to have like ended up farting or something during sex.
09:14And that was the drama, but I did not expect the fleshlight.
09:18We've discussed flashlights before.
09:21I don't think we're discussing the flashlights, Sophie.
09:24I think we're discussing.
09:28Though, is it unsympathetic?
09:31Is it not, is it not right that he's gone to finish himself off rather than comfort her
09:37when she's been holding a farting during sex?
09:45I mean, I kind of get it though.
09:48I don't, I don't, I think it's, it would be a frustration, wouldn't it?
09:53It would be frustrating.
09:56Which, holding a farting or needing an empty?
10:00Just stop them.
10:02Yeah.
10:03So I get it.
10:04I get it.
10:05But I feel like, I don't, I don't want to come across as mean in any way,
10:11because she must've been in absolute agony to stop.
10:14Or it's a really good excuse because she just went and joined it.
10:16Why did she, I know.
10:17Why did she not just go into the bathroom and fart and then go and finish the job?
10:22Because you might not have wanted to after that.
10:25Yeah.
10:26Oh, it's one of the, it's an embarrassing situation to be in.
10:30It's an, it is an embarrassing position to be in.
10:32Yeah, it is a shame to be fair.
10:34So, yeah, I don't think I would like, I've discussed this.
10:38I don't think I would like the idea of my partner having a fleshlight.
10:42And I don't know why, so I think it's probably quite sexist of me.
10:45Because I don't think it's weird that women have sex toys.
10:49But I feel like that's, there's something about that that I don't like.
10:52And I don't know why.
10:54But I think, yeah, it's lack of sympathy.
10:58So you're referring to a fleshlight as a, as a sex toy for men that is...
11:03It's basically like an artificial fanny.
11:04It's a mold of a woman's vagina.
11:06An artificial fanny.
11:06Yeah.
11:08But what if she meant you just went and got a flashlight to go to the bathroom to go and...
11:12No!
11:12It's a fleshlight!
11:15A fleshlight.
11:15That's what it's called.
11:16It's basically a wee...
11:17I've seen them and it looks like a flashlight, which is why it's a fleshlight.
11:22But I thought she meant...
11:24Oh, I don't...
11:24He took a torch to go to the bathroom to have a wank in the dark.
11:27No!
11:28He took...
11:28He went into his drawer, pulled out the fanny and then took it in the bathroom to shag.
11:35Yeah, it's just not sexy, is it?
11:37It's not nice.
11:39But, anyway, he's...
11:41I...
11:41I completely understand where he's come from, where if he's been laid there going,
11:44I can't do this, I'm going to have to go.
11:46And because he's kind of halfway through the job, that...
11:49He's on the brink.
11:50...build up is there.
11:51He's on the vinegar strokes that he just needs to empty,
11:54because they'll find it's going to be painful.
11:56So I understand he's needed to do that.
11:59It's a shame that she's felt so uncomfortable.
12:02Genuinely, I do feel bad that she's felt so uncomfortable.
12:05Yeah.
12:05Because, ideally, even me, I'm not okay with the farting thing.
12:10I'm not okay with it.
12:11I don't do it.
12:12I am a lady.
12:14Yeah.
12:14It doesn't happen in my body.
12:15Yeah.
12:16But, like, I'm not offended by it.
12:18I will piss myself laughing at it.
12:20I'm one of them people of people who have someone farts.
12:21I'm like, you're disgusted and you're vile, but I will laugh so much.
12:25Yeah.
12:26I love farting.
12:27Like, I don't go about farting, but I love when people send me a fart meme.
12:33I think they're so funny.
12:34Yeah.
12:34So if you'd done this in bed, if you were just uncomfortable, would you be comfortable
12:38with Chris saying, like, baby, I love you, but I'm going to have to go and finish myself
12:43off because these balls are going to be bruised if I don't sort it out.
12:46So that's a nice, I'm saying that's a nice way of putting it, kind of.
12:51Yeah.
12:51So that would be a nicer way of dealing with it than the way that that guy sounded more
12:58frustrated, didn't he?
12:59Yeah.
13:00So he sounded a wee bit selfish.
13:01So he was like, for fuck's sake.
13:02Seems annoyed that she was uncomfortable in pain.
13:04Get out.
13:04Ideally, in that situation, you want to be laughing it off together.
13:08Yep.
13:08And sort of go, look, I'm really sorry, but I can't carry on.
13:12I'm in pain.
13:13I'm going to need to go to the bathroom.
13:14If you want to go to the bathroom is all you can.
13:15Say aye.
13:16Yeah.
13:17Yeah.
13:17So I think he could have been a bit more sympathetic.
13:20Yeah.
13:20Yeah, definitely.
13:22But.
13:22Bless her though.
13:23I know.
13:27Have you heard of this latest trend called Lux Maxone?
13:31Yes.
13:32When men are, they're going to the extreme in some circumstances.
13:36It's like plastic surgery for guys.
13:38Yeah.
13:38But it's not just plastic surgery.
13:40So obviously, women for years have been more known to care about what they look like.
13:45And I think most men would probably assume that it's for them.
13:49But I think really, I always wanted to just look good for being around girls.
13:53I think even just your own confidence.
13:56Yeah.
13:56Whereas men are doing this Lux Maxone thing where it's not just about looking after your
14:03body, going to the gym or what food you're eating.
14:05They're doing skincare.
14:06All of that.
14:07All of that's great.
14:08It's healthy.
14:08And they're not just going to the extreme of surgery, but they are also doing quite
14:14dangerous methods of hurting themselves, trying to break their own jaws.
14:19I've seen a guy on TikTok who basically coaches it.
14:25Yeah.
14:25So they smash things off their jaw bones and their cheek bones and stuff and thinking that
14:31the bones will grow stronger, therefore more defined.
14:34Yeah.
14:35So they'll get the jaw line and the cheek bones.
14:38Yeah.
14:39By causing trauma to them.
14:41Impossible.
14:41Disfigurement.
14:42But obviously, it's not the way to do it at all.
14:47It's not ideal.
14:48It's not safe.
14:49It's quite dangerous.
14:50You could disfigure your whole face.
14:52But where has this come from?
14:54Where is the pressure come from?
14:57Is this something men are doing to themselves to try and prove how manly and masculine they
15:01are?
15:02Because as far as I'm aware, now I know I'm dating women, but I don't remember, even if
15:08I was into a man or looking around, I don't remember ever thinking that I would find something
15:13like that attractive.
15:15I don't think there is anything wrong with somebody wanting to change their appearance
15:19if they're unhappy with it.
15:20Yeah.
15:20I do not care who goes and gets a hair transplant.
15:23Yeah.
15:23I don't care who goes.
15:25Like, if they then walk into a room after they've had that surgery done and it makes
15:30them feel more confident and it makes them feel happier within themselves, then I think
15:36amazing.
15:37Well, shouldn't there be some kind of duty of care involved?
15:41I think if you're in the public eye.
15:42I think for a bone smashing is ridiculous.
15:44Exactly.
15:45So I don't believe even people in the public eye should have to ever really confirm or
15:50say whatever treatments they want to have.
15:52I'm pretty sure.
15:53I just want another surgeon.
15:54We just want another.
15:56Oh, girls.
15:56Just help us out.
15:58But I don't think they have to.
16:00Like, they don't have to.
16:03Some people think, well, yeah, you're in the public eye so we deserve to know.
16:06Yeah.
16:07It's of interest.
16:07But no, it's not.
16:09You don't have to share everything.
16:09But I think what you shouldn't do is lie or false advertise.
16:14Whereas, with this Lux Maxson thing, they're using blunt objects to break it.
16:21Smash their face.
16:22Yeah.
16:23And they start at a very, very young age.
16:26It's like body dysmorphia, isn't it, really, for guys to think that they need that?
16:30I think it's taking advantage of vulnerable guys.
16:35There's also, you know, they rate each other.
16:37They rate other people.
16:38Yes.
16:38And they rate each other.
16:40They rate girls.
16:40So they'll walk in nightclubs and they'll be like, you're a 3.5 because you've got bags
16:46under your eyes.
16:47You've got a hooked nose.
16:49It's very, it's very narcissistic influencing for this guy.
16:57It's like they're trying to prove something to each other rather than even impress anybody
17:04like women or anyone they're interested in dating.
17:06It seems more of like a very masculine, egotistical circle.
17:12Like judging each other on how they look when these, the ones that I've seen were openly
17:19straight men who talked about what you've just said, like how women look and what they
17:25like and what they perceive as beauty.
17:26And then they went on to comment on each other and their physiques and all of this.
17:31And I just sat there watching it thinking, you're all trying to impress each other.
17:35Yeah.
17:36So there's some guys online who are saying that they've taken that much testosterone
17:40that they're now infertile because their bodies stopped producing it themselves, which
17:45is too far.
17:46Like it's like 19, 20 year old men.
17:49Yeah.
17:50It's crazy.
17:51They're so young.
17:52That's insane.
17:53Yeah.
17:54Messing with the body.
17:54So I feel like that has took it too far.
17:58Yeah.
17:59When you're doing stuff like that.
18:00It's such a young age.
18:02What about the safer side of it?
18:04So, you know, there's a guy that just wants to look and feel his best.
18:09Yeah.
18:09Yeah.
18:10All of that.
18:11But now he wants a bit of lip filler.
18:13Yeah.
18:14I think if that's going to make you happy and if it's for your personal growth and not
18:18because you're looking at some crazy influencer.
18:22Yeah.
18:23In America that thinks that that's, that's telling you basically that's how men should
18:27look and this is how women should look.
18:29Yeah.
18:29But if it's something you felt insecure about and you've been thinking about it and researching
18:34it, going to the best place, the safest place, realising the risks that are involved, then
18:40go and get your lips done, babes.
18:42That's what I think.
18:43It's kind of like the new latest click thing to be part of.
18:47From what I've seen, it is quite misleading.
18:50It is quite unhealthy.
18:52It is quite dangerous.
18:53Yeah.
18:53I think if you're doing something like that, that's going to change your body, then just
18:58do it in a safe way.
19:00Yeah.
19:00And if like even surgery, like for instance, if you were insecure about your nose from a
19:06young age and it was something that you always wanted to do and you getting plastic
19:10surgery, getting a nose job and then being able to go somewhere and having the confidence
19:15to walk in a room and not feel like everybody's staring at you or whatever it may be, hair
19:20transplant, whatever, then I think that's really positive.
19:24And there's clinics out there.
19:26There's everywhere out there that can provide that safely.
19:30Yeah.
19:30If it's just, you know, if someone's a bit insecure, they want to feel more comfortable
19:33on their own skin, then, you know, you kind of go down the little tweakments.
19:37Yes.
19:38But a lot of the conversations I've heard and I've seen around this, it's a lot of
19:44it is talking and what they say to each other and the way the beliefs, what they're making.
19:50I don't think, I mean, they're all just very manly, manosphere type people.
19:59It's more about making them believe in their heads that they are so amazing and incredible
20:05and everybody should want them.
20:07And obviously males are the superior.
20:09And so there's that side of it that I really, really don't like.
20:14A couple of tweakments for yourself if you're insecure, go for it.
20:17But don't be dangerous.
20:18Don't be daft.
20:18Don't smash your face in.
20:20And don't judge other people.
20:22Stop judging random people on the street.
20:24I know it's so bad.
20:25But if you were secure yourself, I think you would know that.
20:28You don't need to do that.
20:29You don't need to do that.
20:30You don't need to do that, babes.
20:31Yeah, no, absolutely not.
20:36Okay, we have a game to finish us off.
20:40Oh, micro cheating game.
20:42Okay.
20:44I'm actually dying to hear these ones for you.
20:48Is it cheating if, okay, your partner likes a swimwear post of the sex that they're attracted to?
21:02No.
21:03No.
21:03I've had this conversation with my current situationship because I'm fine with it, basically.
21:12Exactly.
21:12But to understand each other's boundaries, to be fair, aren't it?
21:15But we both know a lot of women.
21:18Yeah.
21:20Who look great, go on holiday, post the pictures.
21:23I think it would be, yeah, I think it would be micro cheating if Chris had to do that.
21:30It depends on if it's friends or not.
21:32If it's, I suppose if it's some random, then it's like, why are you liking that picture?
21:36And you don't need to like someone standing in the scud, really.
21:40No, I know.
21:41Do you know what I mean?
21:41I don't like it.
21:42It would make me feel uncomfortable because I'd be like...
21:44Yeah, but Sophie, if I posted a photo on holiday...
21:47And I would like it.
21:48And you liked it.
21:50That's okay.
21:51That's all right, but if some guy...
21:57So it depends who you're attracted to, doesn't it?
22:00Because I'm obviously attracted to males.
22:01Of course, yeah.
22:02Yeah.
22:02So I could like your somewhere post and I wouldn't be thinking of it.
22:05And that's purely platonic.
22:06So it's fine and he wouldn't be bothered.
22:08But if...
22:09Or if you liked a man's...
22:10I think that would be micro cheating.
22:12Right.
22:13Buying someone you don't know a drink and a night out.
22:18Oh, Christine, we're going to be like, just exactly the same here.
22:21Because I'm going to say, if it's buying someone of the, obviously, the opposite sex,
22:27it's like, yeah, why would you buy someone a drink on a night out?
22:30It's micro cheating to me.
22:32Clearly, I think everything's cheating.
22:34I feel like the other way.
22:36But yes, I think that is.
22:38I buy everyone a drink on a night out.
22:40I don't even drink, but I'll buy everyone else a drink because I'm overly polite.
22:44Yeah.
22:45But if you were just in a bar and this really hot gal walked up and sat beside you, blah,
22:51blah, blah.
22:52And would you say...
22:53I buy her a drink.
22:54And you found her attractive, would you say do what I drink?
22:59Yeah, I buy her a drink.
23:01But it depends on like why and what the reasons are.
23:04The intention.
23:04If I'm just being friendly, whether I fancy her or not, I wouldn't cross the line if I'm in a
23:09situation.
23:10I trust myself enough to keep the door open.
23:15No, I'm just slightly ajar.
23:19I trust myself enough.
23:20I'll be coming back for you.
23:24Right, okay.
23:25The advice I want to drink I wouldn't think is micro cheating, no,
23:28because I know that I wouldn't go further than that.
23:30Okay.
23:31Saving a contact under a different name.
23:34Oh, see, now I've got shitloads of these.
23:38I've got loads and I don't know who they are.
23:40This podcast is going to be your downfall.
23:42Now, do you know what I've learnt from this podcast?
23:48I've learnt loads.
23:50But what I've learnt is that I've subconsciously always got one foot out the door.
23:56I think I am always ready to start again or be on my own.
24:00But that's probably because you had to do that.
24:04Yeah.
24:05Yeah.
24:05Of course it is.
24:06It's that just protecting yourself.
24:09Yeah.
24:09And making sure that you're going to be safe because you've went through that traumatic
24:13ideal.
24:14Yeah.
24:14And I don't want to go through that again.
24:16So you need to know that you're, so it's just you're making sure you're safe.
24:19Yeah.
24:20So then kind of, I think, like what we were talking about earlier, do situationships hold
24:25you back slightly or are you pointless or whatever.
24:28I suppose in a situationship you hold back some emotional, you hold back probably quite
24:37a lot of the emotional side of it.
24:38Yeah.
24:39Like you can be emotionally invested, but you're not-
24:41There's always four parts, isn't there?
24:43You're keeping a bit just in case you get hurt.
24:45Yeah.
24:45Which isn't a bad thing.
24:47It took me years and years to be able to do that because I used to always meet someone,
24:53get that initial excitement and then think, nah, nah, I don't want to.
24:58Because I think I was just always like, I liked my life with my children.
25:04Yeah.
25:04And I liked knowing that I was in control of that life.
25:07Yeah.
25:07And I didn't want to risk anyone else coming in and possibly upsetting that.
25:12So it took me years and years to probably 14 or 15 years to do it.
25:18So let's hope it's less time for you if you decide, but I don't think there's anything
25:23wrong with the way that you've done it.
25:24I think it's a red flag that I'm subconsciously happy to be alone or start again because
25:29I trust my path.
25:30No, I think trusting your path is the main thing.
25:33Yeah.
25:34But I think as long as, and you are obviously very upfront, so as long as everyone's up-
25:39you're upfront with everyone in that path, then I don't think you're doing anything wrong.
25:45Yeah.
25:46Gorgeous.
25:46No, no apologies.
25:48No micro-cheating.
25:49No red flags.
25:50No.
25:50Nothing, nothing to see here.
25:52Yeah.
25:52Just-
25:53Just a constant situationship.
25:55Situationship.
25:56Cruising along nicely.
25:57It's gorgeous.
26:02So that is it for season two.
26:04Don't believe it.
26:05I'm actually so sad.
26:07I am.
26:07I really am.
26:08I've loved it.
26:09I've loved having a routine.
26:10Yep.
26:10I've loved travelling up here.
26:12Yeah.
26:12We have had a great time.
26:14I've absolutely loved it.
26:15It's been amazing.
26:16Been amazing.
26:17I feel like I've learned so much as well.
26:18Like, I think sometimes I get quite black and white in terms of situationships and what
26:24people should do.
26:24And you just kind of think, well, if they're not doing that, if they wanted to, they would.
26:29But Christine, you're the complete opposite of that.
26:32So it's really showed me open minds a wee bit more in situationships.
26:36And I've learned that I'm not as messy as what I feel like I am sometimes.
26:42Sometimes I feel like because I'm in a situationship and I live with my ex-husband
26:46and I've got three little kids and I'm divorced and I'm this.
26:48And there's like loads of things to me.
26:50I think, God, people must think I'm a nightmare or I'm all over the place or something.
26:55But actually, it's just everyone's life is different.
26:59Everyone's situationship is different and unique.
27:02Like, they all are.
27:03So you can't really compare.
27:05But what you can do is listen, be open minded, be empathetic, offer support.
27:10All the things that we've done throughout this series.
27:13Yes.
27:13And talking about that, you can still contact us on our Hot Mess hotline
27:18or email us in at BBC as well because we'll still be looking at all your stories.
27:23I know.
27:23And hopefully be back soon.
27:25I need it.
27:26Please keep in touch.
27:26It makes me feel like I've got my life together.
27:30See you soon.
27:31Take care.
27:32If you would like advice on your situationship, then contact us at situationships at bbc.co.uk
27:39and on WhatsApp on 0800 224448.
27:43Please only contact us if you are over 18.
27:46Further information can be found at bbc.co.uk forward slash Radio Scotland.
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