00:05Hello, my people.
00:06Welcome back to Nala Gisti.
00:08Why I haven't remarried.
00:10It has been eight long years
00:13and so much has happened in my life.
00:16I really threw up on a billionaire son at work today.
00:19Are you all right?
00:19Yes, I'm fine.
00:20I really just need to get back to work.
00:22He's home.
00:25One, two, three, come on.
00:27Do you believe in showmates?
00:29Do you believe that you're mine?
00:32Do you believe that you're mine?
00:36Sometimes silence no be loneliness,
00:39not intentional decision.
00:40Nollywood actress Dama Lola Adigbite
00:42has opened up on a question many people have been asking.
00:45Why hasn't she remarried?
00:46And her answer?
00:47Deep, honest, thought-provoking.
00:50According to her,
00:51when you're a single mother,
00:53you're no longer choosing just for yourself.
00:55You're choosing a second parent for your child.
00:58And that changes everything.
01:00She made it clear.
01:01Love alone is not enough.
01:03It's not just about vibes, attraction, or butterflies.
01:06The real question is,
01:08does this person have the values,
01:10the character,
01:11the mindset I want my child to grow up around?
01:14Because at the end of the day,
01:15you're not just building a relationship.
01:18You're building a home.
01:20And she didn't stop there.
01:21She emphasized that whoever comes into her life
01:24must be someone who can truly love
01:26and care for her child like their own loan.
01:28No half measures.
01:29No assumptions.
01:30Just intentional, careful decisions.
01:33And honestly, that kind of thinking,
01:36that's not weakness.
01:37That's wisdom.
01:39Now let's talk.
01:40Do you think single parents should be extra careful
01:42when choosing partners?
01:43Or is love still enough to build a family?
01:46Because this one?
01:47Nah, real life matter.
01:48Not just movie script.
01:51Oh, wow.
01:53Baby's a big responsibility.
01:55And you can just dump it
01:56like one of your boy toys.
01:58I'm not you, Aisha.
01:59I am not gonna get bored of my child.
02:01Bitch.
02:02Call me a fucking bitch one more time!
02:07Tell me.
02:09Hey, Jo.
02:10I actually hear about a wedding too.
02:12On the same day.
02:14On the same day?
02:16How do you guys know each other?
02:18You destroy everything.
02:20No, we know we got...
02:21Madam, why are you going to dress like this?
02:23You think I don't know your kind?
02:24But from your marriage.
02:30I don't know what I'm talking about.
02:36This?
02:37Mommy!
02:38I don't know what I'm talking about!
02:39Child of God, what are you?
02:41What are you talking about?
02:44I don't know what I'm talking about.
02:48I don't know what I'm talking about.
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