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00:00:03a visit from their family and friends have YouTube said I love you I think he
00:00:09has to say first gave our couples fresh perspective she's like this on Steve and
00:00:14Steve's are sitting here like this and saw Rachel and Steven deepen their bond
00:00:18beautiful tea for a beautiful girl Tyson 2.0 bring it in advice from the experts
00:00:25gave his marriage a much-needed boost I'll just stand here for another three
00:00:29minutes but the final crash course task gay guys coming up to me I don't like that
00:00:33saw he and Stephanie clash you like gay people I'm not gay myself you know each
00:00:39to their own but um I know that I hope so what I need more from you is space the
00:00:48eye gaze not gonna stand to your devil eyes and following a disastrous move-in
00:00:53week you don't see the star in me you don't see the light in me it's metaphor
00:01:00Juliette vented her rage at Joel at a fiery dinner party very disgusted by
00:01:05you I'm not I'm not married to a man I actually like the teddy more than I like
00:01:11Oh my god I am absolutely disgusted tonight welcome everybody to the fourth commitment ceremony love is in
00:01:26the air my husband told me last night you look sexy our couples continue to make significant progress
00:01:34we share that first patch thanks to you guys we love a patch so what's the issue with
00:01:38the words of the feelings are there Philip's moment of truth man has to say it first
00:01:43that's a Puerto Rican opinion too I get it is this the night he drops those magic words first of
00:01:53all I'm not
00:01:53against gay people I just feel like that whole topic can can really be pushed on us Tyson's unfiltered
00:01:59opinions I think you have much empathy cause tension amongst the group having awareness is
00:02:05not pushing anything I need but is this the hill he is willing to die on I'm done with this
00:02:10experiment
00:02:12and all we are hearing our excuses sorry seems to be the hardest word you were giving me devil eyes
00:02:20you should apologize to me Juliette's version of events leaves the whole room speechless I certainly
00:02:27understand what that means okay are you even listening to what I'm saying over Alessandra show some respect
00:02:57what's the fact of having an a sneeze or an orgasm what's happening
00:03:03it's the morning of the fourth commitment ceremony all right here give me a cuddle
00:03:09how's that coffee it's all right like a drink I'm drinking it
00:03:16another week following a successful family and friends week for Rachel and Stephen the pair are on
00:03:22cloud nine thanks for the pancakes you're very welcome coffee soothes the soul I don't think
00:03:30there's much to soothe this morning though their family and friends lunch was a huge step forward
00:03:36for the couple with Stephen receiving some much-needed advice from his family about his levels of
00:03:42affection towards Rachel feel like when they were sitting this she's like this on Steve and Steve's
00:03:48just sitting here like this like come on dude she obviously is really into you let your wall down a
00:03:55little bit and equipped with mum's words of wisdom Stephen is now seeing Rachel in a whole
00:04:00new light even like I feel like we've just shot forward in our relationship in a really great way like
00:04:07last night when we were going to bed Stephen was so happy pretty fun it was delightful that was a
00:04:15bit
00:04:15funny it's amazing what you when you just have a glass of wine and you talk for a few hours
00:04:20how you
00:04:21can feel about someone or you just have a little moment or bantering on you go oh you're awesome
00:04:28well I think we've had the best work we've had to be honest yeah you know that's why I'm sort
00:04:32of
00:04:32really looking forward to the commitment ceremony I want John to be like yeah good on you mate
00:04:39despite Rachel and Stephen's positivity last night's dinner party left many of the couples reeling
00:04:46as tensions between Juliet and Joel reached breaking point
00:04:50you see the way she speaks to me this is how it is I mean right now I'm like disgusted
00:04:57I'm not married to a man is what we're trying to say I actually like the teddy more than I
00:05:02like Joel
00:05:09Joel and Juliet that was a disaster it was it was chaos that was bad the way they communicated
00:05:15was horrible last night I felt really sorry for Joel yeah for her to just disrespect him like that in
00:05:23front of a whole group I think was out of order to be honest no I agree she was nasty
00:05:28she was so
00:05:29nasty to him yeah and like he was never ever ever disrespectful last night he didn't even say to
00:05:36her you know your braids at the front of your head are stupid like he didn't say anything I reckon
00:05:41the
00:05:41experts are gonna have a bit to say to Juliet yeah she's gonna get more heat than a sauna yeah
00:05:46but
00:05:47I think she's gonna have a lot of regret to be honest with you good I felt bad for Joel
00:05:52for him to
00:05:53be attacked that badly by his partner that would be tough I hope he's okay
00:06:02waking up alone the effects of Juliet's words are taking their toll on husband Joel yeah feeling a bit
00:06:09dazed and confused and perplexed and my heart is hurting the biggest impact coming from Juliet being
00:06:20adamant that Joel declared himself the star of married at first sight fine you're getting all
00:06:26of that from me no you're not getting a you know okay you don't understand I'm gonna give you you
00:06:30don't see the star in me you don't see the light in me yeah literally it's a metaphor he looked
00:06:39at me
00:06:39like deadpan me in the eyes and said well I'm the star Juliet has behaved appallingly I came into this
00:06:51experiment with an open heart and an open mind and it's very clear that we have hit rock bottom
00:07:01um um I'm not really feeling good about seeing Juliet at the moment the way Juliet is treating me
00:07:10right now it makes me feel less than and it makes me feel like I'm not valued so things have
00:07:15to change
00:07:15for sure going into this commitment ceremony I really hope that Juliet has been able to reflect
00:07:24on her behavior I'm hoping that Juliet can apologize to me yeah I don't deserve to be treated like this
00:07:35everyone's got their limit and I'm close to mine
00:07:45down the hall in a separate apartment Juliet remains convinced that Joel said he was the star
00:07:51of the show and questions his authenticity in the experiment well yeah I'm not apologizing for last
00:07:58night no way what I saw of Joel at the dinner party I was completely disgusted by you um he
00:08:10just
00:08:10completely gaslit me in front of the whole entire group and then tried to create a smear campaign to
00:08:16paint me out to be some crazy bitch and by the way you're gonna get crazy bitch when you're giving
00:08:21me
00:08:21crazy bitch idiot I think my anger was fair for what I was faced with yeah so tonight I'm hoping
00:08:35that experts see Joel for what he truly is he wants to be perceived as like the star of the
00:08:44DM show and he
00:08:46was not giving stardom he was giving loser he was giving meanie poop he was not behaving like a man
00:08:54he
00:08:55was behaving like a scared little boy he didn't have his teddy bear with him this morning the atmosphere
00:09:07is tense in Stephanie and Tyson's apartment with Stephanie feeling a growing distance
00:09:16between her and husband Tyson just like just a few little things that have like been bottling up I
00:09:23suppose I'm a bit upset by some of his comments some of his views on things like the whole submissive
00:09:31topic and this whole submissive role that Tyson says he wants which he brought up again last night at the
00:09:37dinner party like I look at it this way I'm the writer I'm the protector like I'm the one that's
00:09:42bringing in
00:09:43the money I'm the one that's protecting for my family and my wife should stay home you know clean
00:09:48look after my kids she can't multitask with three kids like she needs a focus on the kids who says
00:09:53that you can't like my husband my husband says I can't he's the most raging man I've ever met in
00:10:01my
00:10:02life but every time I have spoken up he's always like so listen Steph this is how it is Steph
00:10:09so I
00:10:11feel like I'm somewhat suppressing my emotions in order to not have arguments with Tyson how did you
00:10:16feel like we went to last night um I feel like we weren't pretty good um it's really good just
00:10:25to I
00:10:26know be amicable and go in as a united front um opposed to you know having a heated debate with
00:10:33you over something silly this week's dinner party was successful for Tyson and I because I didn't speak
00:10:47out if I had spoken up we would have argued you know Tyson doesn't like to be challenged this week
00:10:54I think um yeah it was a lot more mature environment do you what do you think about David mentioning
00:11:01the
00:11:01submissive thing yeah the whole submissive thing like I just don't think it was something that
00:11:08necessarily had to get you know brought up once again like we've spoken so much about that so yeah
00:11:16let's just get on with that not even I'm not even gonna bother talking about that anymore but um yeah
00:11:22look I think with Danny um he's actually quite a nice guy so I feel a bit at my wits
00:11:35end everything
00:11:36it's Tyson's way out of the highway I will raise a few issues with the experts this evening it seems
00:11:41that the only person he listens to is John not even Mel and Alessandra because they're women
00:11:50stay positive Steph and um yeah yeah going into this commitment ceremony I'm feeling good I think
00:12:00me and Steph are definitely at a more a better place I'm looking forward to speaking to most of
00:12:06be John um Alessandra's she's a sexologist so it's kind of irrelevant Mel Mel's Mel but I'm all ears
00:12:15for John yeah it's going to be interesting yeah
00:12:29the countdown is on to tonight's fourth commitment ceremony yeah which marks the first time that our
00:12:36three new couples can decide whether to stay you're looking sharp ah thank you you too thank
00:12:42you so much or leave the experiment I was going to try not ruin your lipstick yeah you're wearing it
00:12:55on your cheek now babes no badge of honor
00:13:14greetings gentlemen hello guys come on in looking fabulous all ears
00:13:33greetings gentlemen welcome ladies hey hello ladies hello
00:13:44how are you put that pillow behind you so
00:14:02welcome everybody to the fourth commitment ceremony the honeymoon is absolutely over now
00:14:12this week has been a big week for our original couples of course you've had the opportunity to
00:14:18meet with friends and family and our new couples who have just moved in of course just went through
00:14:24crash course week we'll be here tonight to go over everything that happened what didn't happen
00:14:30and what should be happening moving forward first up on the couch
00:14:42philip and stella
00:14:48hello hello how are you two going yeah we're going we're going great how did this week go with friends
00:14:56and
00:14:57family and family and everything i went great um but we've got a heart hitting question asked by one
00:15:05of philip's good mates straight away he's like oh guys i have an important question to ask did you
00:15:12already said i love you and i was like okay i need to get a drink i was like i
00:15:16need to get away
00:15:17how did you manage that we just said that we do communicate without
00:15:22words but we do both agree like the feelings are there for sure so what's the issue with the words
00:15:29if the feelings are there i have an opinion
00:15:34that man has to say first oh that's a puerto rican opinion too i get it
00:15:40yeah yeah yes yes yeah her belief system is that you know if it's going to come out of anyone
00:15:45first
00:15:46so i'm gonna have to say it so just for my own clarification just so that i understand this well
00:15:54you were mentioning that you guys feel things and that you know because you know and you're
00:16:00communicating that by morse code and looks but no words yeah yeah we're tiptoeing around like we ask
00:16:10some random questions like i guess do you think i love you and she's like yeah and i'm like
00:16:14oh yeah he's using it in a sentence yeah he started to use word love it's been dusted off
00:16:21i'm not allergic to say yeah yeah so we're just alluring i guess around it
00:16:26we're in a good place the friends and family when i was sitting there i was like looking around
00:16:31everyone's getting along and like a dream everyone's eating and stuff i'm like yeah but
00:16:34we this could totally work in the the real world you know it just just it feels right you know
00:16:40and
00:16:41we're still in the experiment but i'm like yeah this is this is for me you know what do you
00:16:45think
00:16:45yeah i agree it's beautiful yeah it's just easy so what is holding you back philip from telling her
00:16:53how you feel uh the feelings are super strong but i know that sometimes you can get caught up in
00:17:01the
00:17:01whole experiment and um i want it to be genuine like i personally like i've only said i've only
00:17:08said it to someone just living in the outside world like not in an experiment i understand that he is
00:17:12real this is real have you ever been an experiment i don't know all right i don't know in this
00:17:21environment in another environment if you're feeling then you're feeling and i think that needs to be
00:17:27celebrated now there's definitely yeah there's good vibes around it with us yeah it's i don't
00:17:32know yeah we'll see no yeah we'll get back to this that's right well i don't think we're going to
00:17:40be
00:17:40very surprised then no we should go to the decision stella you go ahead i adore him he's beautiful and
00:17:46um
00:17:46yeah up uh upwards and up uh whatever the saying is stay brilliant uh this week's been great and um
00:17:57just it all leads to this is gonna work you know so i'm i'm loving it i'm gonna be hanging
00:18:03around here
00:18:04loving it staying we're loving it too for you guys well done have a great week appreciate you cheers
00:18:09thanks thanks thank you thanks love all right let's get our next couple up joel and juliet hello you
00:18:29two come and grab a seat how was your week it was okay
00:18:42that's putting it mildly we've had a few a few nice moments
00:18:51apart from that it's been really bad
00:18:59okay tell us uh joel what has been the the difficult moments through the week
00:19:13i said to her juliet i'm not a fake person you just don't see the real me you don't see
00:19:19the light in me and you don't see the star in me
00:19:26and she's like aha see you think you're the star of the show and i'm like juliet it's a metaphor
00:19:32it's a
00:19:32figure of speech i'm what i mean by that is you don't see the true essence in me so she
00:19:39has twisted
00:19:40that whole thing no yeah juliet i remember the exact words i used so you've misinterpreted my words and
00:19:48used them against me to publicly slander me can i speak thanks you are painting me out to be a
00:19:55liar
00:19:56you said you are the star and you definitely don't see me as the wife you see me as your
00:20:02way onto this
00:20:03show because you again want to be the star of the show no no that's not true i never said
00:20:09that
00:20:12there's just constant reputation savaging like last night the way she talks down to me in public in front of
00:20:22everyone it shows that she has no respect for me last week we did the physical intimacy challenge that
00:20:31was set and i read out the first envelope and i read step one stare into each other's eyes for
00:20:38three
00:20:39minutes and then she screamed at me i'm not staring into your devil eyes that was very hurtful did you
00:20:45say that yeah it does feel like i'm getting the devil vibes from him sometimes
00:20:52sorry gonna call it how i feel are you not apologetic about that do you know i'm not
00:20:58apologetic at that moment you were giving me devil eyes
00:21:05all you've done is is is degrade me and demean me and disrespect me and put me down
00:21:09and i've never retaliated once not once in two weeks not once have i said i have said one mean
00:21:16thing to you not one not one insult wow honestly like feels like i'm always at fault for everything
00:21:25you haven't earned up to anything you should apologize to me
00:21:55i think i should have apologized after the dinner party last night yeah 100 percent
00:22:08so just to be clear you would hope for joel to apologize tonight to you
00:22:19i would hope that he takes accountability um
00:22:25i don't think joel thinks he has done anything wrong like i don't think he thinks he's hurt me in
00:22:31any way i think he thinks he's the the realest one here
00:22:37and the one that's the most evolved and there's nothing he's ever done wrong in his life
00:22:45but i feel like last night was just very uncalled for um felt like we were doing a um smear
00:22:53campaign
00:22:54against me at the end of the table with the guys and tried to make me look bad like that
00:23:01doesn't
00:23:01seem like a good husband to me what were those specific moments what were those things that he
00:23:07was saying or doing to you that really was designed to make you look bad
00:23:18i don't know i guess maybe when we were talking about like the star comment
00:23:40and he just kept gaslighting me and lying me saying that i was the one that was lying that i
00:23:46was one
00:23:47making up all of that stuff but we've already established that i use the word star to describe
00:23:52a metaphor you said you are the star um and you know you are the theatrical man it's like it
00:23:59just
00:23:59feels like i'm not talking to a human being joel you're shaking your head in disbelief what's going
00:24:05on for you i think at the core of it juliet does not accept me for who i am you
00:24:12think i'm fake i'm
00:24:13not a fake person juliet i've treated you this vibe feels very character right now no it's not character
00:24:18i'm not a character i've worked hard to become this man and i have a very strong sense of self
00:24:24and
00:24:24i'm happy i'm joyful i spread positivity wherever i go and i make people feel better about themselves
00:24:32you think you do that is what i do i spread love and i spread joy you haven't been doing
00:24:36that with me
00:24:37i've been trying but you push me away juliet you've been pushing me away and you've been putting me down
00:24:42you've been rejecting me and you've been very nasty are you actually listening to yourself
00:24:49the way you speak is is vicious and with venom you know the way you speak is condescending and
00:24:55belittling no no it's not yes it is no it's not juliet yes it is okay
00:25:03we've heard enough we know from what we saw last night and from what we see on the couch that
00:25:12it's
00:25:12time particularly for you juliet to listen this is something that you need to take on board
00:25:23i find it breathtaking that you juliet want an apology from joel for last night
00:25:36your behavior last night towards joel was ugly
00:25:46and if i'm being totally honest it was mean and cruel
00:25:57we're not sure if we've ever seen someone on the attack in such a way as you did to joel
00:26:03last night
00:26:05you called him a liar you said he wasn't a man
00:26:12you said he was embarrassing
00:26:16and you found him unattractive
00:26:25you said actually tonight that he launched a smear campaign against you last night
00:26:34and what we saw was you going around to different groups of people and destroying his character
00:26:43and at no point did he say anything derogatory about you and yet you sit here saying i want an
00:26:52apology
00:26:53from him
00:26:55do you see how unusual that request is yeah i don't think you understand the magnitude of it yeah
00:27:06no no i'm telling you this because you need to learn that regardless of whether there's a he said
00:27:13she said going on in a relationship regardless of whether you feel like there's an injustice
00:27:21you can never talk to your partner in that way because that is absolutely inappropriate and unacceptable
00:27:31to happen in a relationship yeah
00:27:38i'll tell you what my concern is and it is one among many what we witnessed last night was so
00:27:44incredibly vile
00:27:46if that is the way that you dare to speak to joel in public i shudder to think how you
00:27:51can speak to him
00:27:52behind closed doors it was shocking
00:27:56yeah i mean i definitely was unkind last night unkind is really really throwing a lot of sugar on top
00:28:06of
00:28:07it but yesterday it feels like i was fully crashing out yeah if you saw what i was saying the
00:28:14fact that
00:28:14you're justifying any of it and still still have not with profound shame and remorse turned to your
00:28:25partner and apologized is beyond me no i definitely think i was unkind for sure because i was angry
00:28:31i was hurt like you know when we're fighting i do say mean things in the heat of the moment
00:28:37but like
00:28:38that's that's normal like everyone does that all we are hearing right now are excuses you are not
00:28:46taking any of this feedback on board yeah um you're sitting there and you're saying yep yeah and you're
00:28:52saying okay but you're sitting there with your arms crossed absolutely closed off to anything that we are
00:29:00saying look i have not heard a word of acknowledgement and not an apology yeah absolutely not an apology
00:29:06okay i'll do that now if i can
00:29:23um
00:29:27look last night i obviously involved all of you guys
00:29:36i'm very sorry honestly like not one to be dragging every single person down
00:29:51i don't think you need to apologize to us you need to apologize to him julia i'm about to i'm
00:29:56about to
00:29:57be
00:29:58so
00:30:09last night
00:30:10i obviously involved all of you guys
00:30:16um
00:30:17I'm very sorry, honestly, like, not one to be dragging every single person down.
00:30:27She should apologize to him.
00:30:32I don't think you need to apologize to us. You need to apologize to him, Julia.
00:30:36I'm about to. I'm about to.
00:30:38Ah, I thought I would be first.
00:30:45Um, Joel.
00:30:52I have always said definitely the wrong thing.
00:30:59Um, and I don't feel that much hatred towards you.
00:31:07I guess maybe I just felt watered down and tired and exhausted and it just came out in a disgusting
00:31:13way.
00:31:14And I really apologize for hurting your feelings.
00:31:18You're definitely a man.
00:31:23You're not, you're not, you're shaking your head.
00:31:25I don't accept your apology.
00:31:29I think it's insincere.
00:31:32Okay.
00:31:34I guess when I was feeling so hurt, I completely didn't see how much hurt and pain I was giving
00:31:40to you.
00:31:40You've been doing that from day one.
00:31:42No, I haven't.
00:31:43Yeah, this is how it's been from day one, behind the scenes.
00:31:46No, it has not.
00:31:47Juliet, what I'm saying to you, feedback that you need to hear is you talk in a very toxic fight
00:31:55style.
00:31:56You can't say sorry.
00:31:58I've apologized.
00:31:59Not really.
00:32:02I'm confused why you think that.
00:32:04I can give you a really good example.
00:32:06Just now you were apologizing in your apology.
00:32:09Part of the words you used were, I don't even feel that much hatred towards you.
00:32:16Yeah, no, because there's been moments that I definitely did feel hatred.
00:32:18I don't even feel that much hatred.
00:32:21There's definitely, I'm...
00:32:22It's not my first language, but I certainly understand what that means.
00:32:26Guys, I'm always honest and I definitely feel like I have been feeling hatred at times.
00:32:28Are you even listening to what I'm saying?
00:32:29Don't speak over Alessandra.
00:32:31Show some respect.
00:32:35You're proving our point.
00:32:37Sure, I'm sorry guys.
00:32:41Let's go to the decision.
00:32:47We're gonna go with you first, Joel.
00:32:56I have too much respect for myself.
00:33:04Uh, Juliet, what have you got for us?
00:33:08Um...
00:33:14I'm really sorry.
00:33:15But I did write state...
00:33:28I didn't obviously realize how...
00:33:34...awful and vile my actions have been.
00:33:39Um, I've always liked the glimpses we've had.
00:33:44I've seen why the experts connected us.
00:33:48Like, we've...we have the best time sometimes.
00:33:51And so those were the bits where I'm like, okay, I wanna work towards that more.
00:33:56Um, I obviously didn't realize to the extent I was hurting you.
00:34:02So I'm hoping that I can make it up to you.
00:34:11I guess we have another week together.
00:34:14And you set boundaries with me on the second night of the honeymoon.
00:34:19So...
00:34:20It's my time to set boundaries.
00:34:22Sure.
00:34:23And I will not be disrespected like that again.
00:34:27I will not tolerate it.
00:34:29I will always treat you with kindness and respect.
00:34:32And I expect the same treatment back.
00:34:34Of course.
00:34:36So that's my boundaries.
00:34:38Yeah.
00:34:40And it's a one strike policy.
00:34:41There's no second chances.
00:34:43So that's it.
00:34:44Mm-hmm.
00:34:46Now, Joel has very clearly laid out his boundaries to you.
00:34:52Are you able to respect those this week?
00:34:56Definitely.
00:34:58Do you wanna re-say them?
00:35:03I mean, it was the bare minimum.
00:35:05I don't quite know how you've forgotten.
00:35:08We're talking about respect.
00:35:10Basic respect.
00:35:12Yeah.
00:35:13I mean, we can, I guess, have a chat about it tomorrow.
00:35:18My biggest worry
00:35:19is that everything that you've heard from us
00:35:23has fallen on deaf ears.
00:35:26Definitely not.
00:35:29Well, there's only one person
00:35:30that's going to be able to prove us wrong.
00:35:34Understood?
00:35:35Yeah.
00:35:37You can go back to the group.
00:35:38Thanks.
00:35:48Do I wanna be with a person who disrespects me like that?
00:35:51No, I don't.
00:35:54So if I'm gonna feel differently towards Juliet,
00:35:58she needs to drastically change.
00:36:05It's time for action.
00:36:10Coming up...
00:36:12Gotta love that laugh, eh?
00:36:15Romance is blooming.
00:36:17We shared our first patch, thanks to you guys.
00:36:19I think it was like 25, 30 seconds.
00:36:20Yeah, it's like, yeah.
00:36:21Yeah, keep practicing.
00:36:23Yeah, keep practicing.
00:36:25Before...
00:36:26We bicker when I speak up and share my opinion
00:36:29and you don't like it...
00:36:31Stephanie finally speaks out.
00:36:34So, am I supposed to be quiet?
00:36:36Am I supposed to be quiet?
00:36:49Next couple up on the couch.
00:36:56Rachel and Steve-o.
00:36:58Hey!
00:36:59Hello, you two.
00:37:03Hello.
00:37:05Get rid of that negative energy.
00:37:06It's a bit of drama on this lounge today.
00:37:09Shake it off.
00:37:13Oh, look at you two all coming up on the couch there.
00:37:16Oh, that's posy.
00:37:18We noticed that.
00:37:22Previously,
00:37:23we haven't seen any real physical affection between you two.
00:37:27So, what's changed?
00:37:28What's going on?
00:37:29Well,
00:37:31we had a good, um, family and friends,
00:37:34um, day.
00:37:36My brother, you know, gave me some wise words.
00:37:39He was observing, um,
00:37:42the body language between me and Rachel.
00:37:44And he goes, well, I'm watching Rachel.
00:37:46She's really leaning into you and giving these cuddles
00:37:48and you're just standing there like a stunned mullet.
00:37:51And he goes,
00:37:52do you realise how this could be making Rachel feel?
00:37:55Like, you're sort of subtly rejecting her.
00:38:00Wow.
00:38:01So, took that on board and sort of, you know,
00:38:04my brother's holding the mirror up to me going,
00:38:06look what you're doing.
00:38:09Go, brother.
00:38:10This is good.
00:38:11It's amazing.
00:38:12That small little bit of advice can really change things around.
00:38:15Um, I feel like now I'm starting to change my ways
00:38:19and I'm showing a bit more, you know, affection towards Rachel.
00:38:22You know, we had a pretty good kiss
00:38:24and a bit of a chat and a cuddle on the bed last night,
00:38:27so it's definitely a step in the right direction.
00:38:29Oh my God.
00:38:33That's a big step forward.
00:38:35That's a different approach from you.
00:38:39Yeah, it's a good feeling.
00:38:44Can I brag for a second?
00:38:46Just allow me a subtle brag.
00:38:48My husband told me last night before we went to sleep,
00:38:51had a little kiss afterwards.
00:38:53I said, you look so handsome tonight.
00:38:55And he's like, and you look sexy.
00:38:59Love it.
00:39:01It's one thing for your man to call you beautiful, right?
00:39:04It's another to be called sexy.
00:39:07Oh, yeah.
00:39:08I was like, okay, okay.
00:39:11Love it.
00:39:16Gotta love that laugh, eh?
00:39:18And your smile, Steve-o.
00:39:21My smile?
00:39:21You're grinning from ear to ear.
00:39:24Awesome.
00:39:25It's really good to see.
00:39:27And on that note, Rachel, stay or leave?
00:39:31I shock.
00:39:33I'm going to shock you all.
00:39:35I'm going to stay.
00:39:37Shock, shock.
00:39:39Love that.
00:39:43Do I need to make a speech before I say it,
00:39:45or should I just blurt it out?
00:39:46I wrote stay.
00:39:50It's an exclamation point.
00:39:52Take note.
00:39:54Three.
00:39:55Nice one.
00:39:59It really feels that you are connected this week.
00:40:04And now we want to see the romance grow.
00:40:07Yes.
00:40:08So go back to the couch and next week keep working on that.
00:40:12Have a great week.
00:40:15Nicely done, you two.
00:40:16Good stuff.
00:40:17Yes.
00:40:21Oh my gosh, I've got to stop smiling.
00:40:24My jaw starts to hurt.
00:40:28Nice.
00:40:29Our next couple up on the couch, Chris and Sam.
00:40:33Woo hoo.
00:40:35Woo hoo.
00:40:39Hello boys.
00:40:41Hello.
00:40:42Welcome.
00:40:44A couple of big smiles.
00:40:47Yeah.
00:40:48How are we?
00:40:48Well, we're very well, but we're more interested in how you two are doing.
00:40:52I don't know.
00:40:53We're going well.
00:40:54The crash course was good.
00:40:56Great.
00:40:58Um, yeah, we really opened up and were vulnerable with each other and just threw ourselves in.
00:41:03I think that's why, um, we shared our first Pash, thanks to you guys.
00:41:07We love a Pash.
00:41:08Uh, the three minutes was a bit crazy guys.
00:41:11Thanks.
00:41:12We opted for just the normal.
00:41:13I think it was like 25, 30 seconds.
00:41:15Yeah.
00:41:15Yeah.
00:41:16Keep practicing.
00:41:17Yeah.
00:41:18Keep practicing.
00:41:19I'm really enjoying the playfulness that's developing between the two of you.
00:41:24It's a sign that, you know, you're starting to drop the walls and starting to build some trust.
00:41:29Every day, the tasks that you guys gave us brought us so much closer together, um, which is probably something
00:41:34I wouldn't do in the real world.
00:41:35Um, so thank you and I need that.
00:41:39And we do have a lot of fun together.
00:41:41Yeah.
00:41:42And as you know, we're always watching the dinner parties.
00:41:46Mm.
00:41:46And we saw, Chris, that you shared some pretty big news.
00:41:51I did.
00:41:51Yeah.
00:41:53Um, so obviously I shared the news that I've got children coming.
00:41:56Um, the group received it so well and they were so supportive.
00:42:00So I just want to say thank you guys so much.
00:42:02It was really amazing to have that support.
00:42:05Congratulations.
00:42:10Yeah, they just took it so well, which was really great.
00:42:12Um, and Sam took it great as well.
00:42:15Some people may see that as a red flag or, you know, a bit of an inconvenience.
00:42:19I don't know.
00:42:20So the fact that Sam was really supportive of my decision to do that, um, meant the world to me.
00:42:25I just feel so proud of him.
00:42:28You know, he's wanted something in his life and he's made it happen, which is really cool.
00:42:33Yeah.
00:42:33Um, I'm like always been open to kids and kids are saying that I possibly want in the future.
00:42:37And so at the end of this experiment, if we are together, which I hope we are, then we can
00:42:42look at how that's going to look.
00:42:43I love the maturity that the two of you are using in your approach here.
00:42:48You know, you've, you've, you've set yourselves up for a positive experience, regardless of what the outcome is.
00:42:54Yeah.
00:42:57Yeah.
00:42:58Well, look, I think we will go to the decision.
00:43:00Yeah.
00:43:00We'll go with you first, Sam.
00:43:01Uh, I wrote...
00:43:05Stay.
00:43:06And a big smile.
00:43:08Love it.
00:43:09And Chris.
00:43:10Well, funny that, because...
00:43:13I also wrote stay.
00:43:14Oh, with a smiley face.
00:43:15With a smiley face.
00:43:16What the hell?
00:43:17Matchy Matchy.
00:43:21Very cute.
00:43:24Um, I think that you guys really have found your groove and what is actually working for you.
00:43:29So I will encourage you to keep doing some more of that.
00:43:32And I would highly, highly, highly stress how important it is that you continue having fun with one another.
00:43:38Yeah.
00:43:38Have a great week.
00:43:41Thank you guys so much.
00:43:42Enjoy.
00:43:44Thank you for everything.
00:43:51Our next couple up on the couch.
00:43:56Gia and Scott.
00:43:57Yes.
00:44:01Welcome to the couch.
00:44:03How have you guys been this week?
00:44:05We had our first little run in.
00:44:07Ooh.
00:44:07We did.
00:44:08But we're all good.
00:44:09We survive.
00:44:09We're good.
00:44:11Yeah.
00:44:11What happened?
00:44:13So we had family and friends.
00:44:15Um, overall it was good.
00:44:18There was one hiccup on the way.
00:44:20Um, it was a bit of a smart comment my friend made in regards to comparing Gia to my ex.
00:44:26What was the comment?
00:44:28He kind of said like, well, how do you compare to his ex?
00:44:32How are you different to his ex?
00:44:34And I'm like, whoa.
00:44:38Knowing you have had struggles with feeling insecure at times in your past, I'm wondering what that brought up for
00:44:46you Gia.
00:44:48Um, it just made me feel like I wasn't good enough to be honest.
00:44:53How?
00:44:54Ugh.
00:44:55I don't know.
00:44:56Like, it just hurt because, um, I've had this happen before with my ex-partner where it's like, a certain
00:45:07type of looking girl was like, always brought up and like, I'd be finding out he'd been looking at this
00:45:11and looking at that and it's like, I just felt like, oh my God.
00:45:14Am I in the same situation again where I'm being compared?
00:45:18Like, it just made me feel like, honestly, like I'm less than.
00:45:23So, I had all these things in my mind.
00:45:25And then the next step was very upsetting.
00:45:29I'm sitting in the car, there was a song on that, like, we didn't like and I was like, oh,
00:45:34he's like, oh, change my, change the song.
00:45:36I do that.
00:45:37You know how your phone comes up with a camera roll memory?
00:45:40Came up with his ex-partner, like, in lingerie.
00:45:44And I'm like, oh my God, what's going on?
00:45:47Why does he have them?
00:45:48Like, I'm being prepared.
00:45:50So, I said, if you want to be with me and you want this relationship to work, I need you
00:45:54to delete all those photos.
00:45:55And he said no.
00:46:00After what happened with the friends, I thought, oh my God, I'm not hurt at all.
00:46:05I'm not seen.
00:46:06I'm not important.
00:46:07I just felt gross.
00:46:12There's no excuse.
00:46:13I'll take full accountability for this.
00:46:16At the time, I was lazy.
00:46:18I was stubborn.
00:46:18I have 71,000 photos on my phone.
00:46:20I don't go digging for that stuff.
00:46:23But I wasn't putting myself in her shoes.
00:46:25And I didn't think through it enough.
00:46:28So, once G was just explaining her full emotions, it obviously made me realise these photos need to go.
00:46:36I raised every single one of them.
00:46:37And then we hugged it, we kissed, and it was the best thing that we felt.
00:46:41We both moved on from a straightaway.
00:46:45And I think the biggest lesson...
00:46:47Well, just on that.
00:46:49I don't know if you have moved on.
00:47:09Because tonight, what I'm watching with you two is a different ending.
00:47:10I don't know if you have moved on.
00:47:18Because tonight, what I'm watching with you two is a different energy.
00:47:22Previously, you've been very much a team, and you've been very present on the couch.
00:47:27Whereas tonight, particularly you, Gia, you seem flat, as though you've got a lot on your mind.
00:47:40I thought I was over it, but I still feel, like, deeply hurt.
00:47:48I think Scott's kind of grazing over it.
00:47:51Like, for me, it was very hard.
00:47:55He came to the realisation too late for me, you know?
00:47:59I've let you into my whole world, my whole life, and, like, you can't just delete some photos.
00:48:05I just, for me, it was, like, I felt like shit.
00:48:10And I just started rethinking everything.
00:48:14I was prepared to leave the whole experiment.
00:48:22Scott, did you know that she was so rattled by this that she was thinking about leaving the experiment?
00:48:30I'll be honest.
00:48:32I thought everything was right.
00:48:34Like, I didn't know.
00:48:37That's why we're going there.
00:48:38Yeah.
00:48:38Because you need to see this, and you need to hear this.
00:48:42Yeah.
00:48:43I personally didn't know that, because I feel like when we talk through things, I feel like we've talked through
00:48:48enough of what the problem is.
00:48:50We hug, we kiss it out, we move on with the date, and we're actually smiling and we're happy.
00:48:53So I didn't know Gia felt this hurt.
00:48:56I personally didn't.
00:48:58Or else I would cater and do anything I can to bring the smile on her face.
00:49:02The thing with Scott is, like, we'll have this disagreement and, like, I'll voice how it's made me feel and
00:49:07we'll resolve it.
00:49:09But there's residual feelings, like, the next day where I still might feel like I need just a check-in
00:49:13because I feel like, yes, we apologise and we moved on, but, like, I can't just forget how I felt
00:49:20because it was quite deep for me.
00:49:49And I'll vouch for that.
00:49:51If you're happy, I'm happier.
00:49:54Gia, what's your feelings towards Scott right now?
00:49:59Um, yeah, I really like Scott.
00:50:02Like, I want to continue being with Scott.
00:50:05This wasn't enough for me to throw the whole relationship in the bin.
00:50:08In fact, before the dinner party, I introduced him to my daughter.
00:50:11Wow.
00:50:12That's huge.
00:50:13Seeing the mother she is draws me more towards her because she's such a good, bloody mum.
00:50:20Her daughter is so freaking beautiful.
00:50:22She comes up and hugs me, says please and thank you.
00:50:25The mannerism I see is from the upbringing of what Gia's given her.
00:50:29I just, I really like her and I didn't think I could walk in.
00:50:33I didn't know I was going to come in this experiment and I was going to have a kid and
00:50:36I fully accept it.
00:50:37Like, um, it makes me a bit upset.
00:50:39No, I don't want to cry because I love that.
00:50:40No, because you're a good mum.
00:50:45Gia, how do you see Scott fitting in with you and your daughter and your world after the experiment?
00:50:55Um, I see it working.
00:50:58I've never introduced my daughter to a guy before ever.
00:51:02And I've checked in with my daughter a million times.
00:51:04I was like, do you like him?
00:51:05Um, and she's like, I love Scott Dog, Mum.
00:51:08He's so fun.
00:51:08Scott Dog.
00:51:09She calls him Scott Dog.
00:51:11It's my nickname.
00:51:11So, yeah.
00:51:12He, he did fit in well.
00:51:13All my friends and family love him, so.
00:51:15Wow.
00:51:16That is fantastic to hear.
00:51:19You've been through a lot this week.
00:51:21Uh, but we're going to need to go to a decision to find out whether you want to stay on
00:51:25or not.
00:51:27Go with you first, Scott.
00:51:30Well, yeah, it was a really tough week.
00:51:32But we always, we resolve our issues and, um, and I like to draw little things that give memory and
00:51:38feedback from the past week.
00:51:39So I put stay with me, Gia and the daughter.
00:51:41Oh, that's so cute.
00:51:43Oh, that's so cute.
00:51:44That's so cute.
00:51:46Oh, my God.
00:51:47Oh, what about you, Gia?
00:51:48What have you got for it?
00:51:49Stay or leave?
00:51:51Yeah, like we had a big hiccup, but I think he gets a better understanding of me through this.
00:51:57And it's forcing us to have a deeper connection that I wanted.
00:51:59I didn't want easy surface level.
00:52:02I really like Scott and I'm glad we got through this.
00:52:04So with that, I'm going to stay.
00:52:11It's lovely.
00:52:13That's why we have these commitment ceremonies, to open up your relationship and to essentially get you looking at things,
00:52:20sometimes for the first time.
00:52:22So that's a very important moment for you tonight.
00:52:24Well done.
00:52:25You can go back to the group.
00:52:27Thank you so much.
00:52:28Appreciate it.
00:52:29Good work.
00:52:34Little stick figures.
00:52:35That's cute.
00:52:35They're so cute.
00:52:37I don't know how to actually draw so stick figures as it is.
00:52:39Hey, that's pretty cute, but.
00:52:40Still to come.
00:52:42David ticks so many boxes, but there's some things that he can't give me.
00:52:48Alyssa's jaw dropping confession.
00:52:50I'm missing that stimulation to make me happy.
00:52:55And later.
00:52:57I'm done with this bickering.
00:52:58I'm done with this bullshit.
00:53:00Tyson is at breaking point.
00:53:02I'm done with this experiment.
00:53:15Next up on the couch.
00:53:24Alyssa and David.
00:53:29Hello.
00:53:31Hello.
00:53:31Hello.
00:53:31How are ya?
00:53:32Oh, good evening.
00:53:33Well, you two are looking rather happy and relaxed.
00:53:36Yeah.
00:53:36Yeah.
00:53:38David and I are getting stronger and stronger.
00:53:40He ticks so many boxes in my life.
00:53:47He's the calm.
00:53:48He is my home.
00:53:51But there's some things that he can't give me.
00:53:56I function at a higher frequency.
00:53:58And sometimes I feel like I'm missing that stimulation, that high frequency that I would normally get from my relationships
00:54:07to make me happy.
00:54:12I feel like Alyssa, she's used to past relationships where the guys are louder, probably more chaotic, a lot of
00:54:19noise.
00:54:20I'm calm, not reactive.
00:54:21Like I'm not going to like cause drama.
00:54:24And I feel like deep down you might be sort of like uneasy because it's not something that's natural to
00:54:30you.
00:54:32Maybe David's onto something there.
00:54:34When you were coming into this experiment, you talked about past relationships and all the arguments that happened.
00:54:40Yeah, there were a lot.
00:54:41And maybe because you're now in a relationship that is healthier, that's not full of arguments.
00:54:46I just wonder if the thing that's missing is actually the toxicity that comes with drama in a relationship.
00:54:52Maybe I'm just not used to it.
00:54:53Yeah.
00:54:54I wonder if there's something about sitting in that discomfort.
00:54:59Because there's something about that calm and that peace that's actually really probably quite good for you.
00:55:07Okay, I'm going to work on it.
00:55:09We're going to sit in it.
00:55:10Brilliant.
00:55:11Alright, well let's go to the decision.
00:55:13Let's kick off with you, Alyssa.
00:55:15I'm giving this thing a real crack.
00:55:18I'm staying for the long haul.
00:55:20David.
00:55:21I'm going to stay.
00:55:22Love it.
00:55:23Yeah.
00:55:25Well done, you two.
00:55:27Sit in the uncertainty.
00:55:28We're sitting in it for another week.
00:55:30Well done, you two.
00:55:31Enjoy.
00:55:35Our next couple on the couch.
00:55:41Bec and Danny.
00:55:44Let's do it.
00:55:46Hello, you two.
00:55:48Hello.
00:55:50I've got to say, I've been enjoying glancing over and looking at the two of you tonight, looking very cuddly,
00:55:57very relaxed together and very supportive of each other.
00:56:01It's like a whole different view.
00:56:03Yeah, the realities I got from you guys at the last commitment ceremony showed me that I was in the
00:56:11wrong very, very much.
00:56:14You don't need to be angry.
00:56:15You don't need to be vicious.
00:56:16It's just that behavior.
00:56:18It's just not acceptable.
00:56:20Yeah.
00:56:21You've learned some big lessons.
00:56:22I have.
00:56:23And then family and friends came along.
00:56:27We have both agreed that in order to get the most out of this, we had to be very, very
00:56:31honest.
00:56:33So I sort of expressed to dad some of the adversities that we had faced.
00:56:38And my father instantly turned to Danny, looked him in the eye and said, did you say Gia was your
00:56:42type?
00:56:43And Danny just looked at him and was just like, no.
00:56:47So I'm moving forward.
00:56:53So I really do want to commend you both for just really putting in the time, the focus and the
00:57:01work and having the conversations you needed to have.
00:57:06So just kind of highlighting the huge difference it makes when you actually really do go deep in conversation.
00:57:14Yeah.
00:57:17Maybe in past relationships, that's where I'll be doing the Usain Bolt and sprinting off.
00:57:22But yeah, bit down on the gum shield and sort of fought our way through it, didn't we?
00:57:28And yeah, now we're in a really good spot.
00:57:32I feel the most stable I've felt in this whole experiment right now.
00:57:37For sure.
00:57:39Amazing, amazing.
00:57:40Let's go to the decision.
00:57:42Let's start with you, Danny.
00:57:44Yeah, we're in a really good spot.
00:57:46So I'll see you once today.
00:57:50Oh, strong statement.
00:57:52Um, yeah, I don't think I felt more secure in this relationship out of the whole time in this experiment.
00:57:59So of course, I wrote stay.
00:58:02And then I wrote my love in Greek.
00:58:06Beautiful.
00:58:07Thanks, guys.
00:58:09I think right now you guys are listening to one another and I really think that you need to continue
00:58:16focusing on that.
00:58:18Have a great week.
00:58:19Thank you, guys.
00:58:20Thanks, guys.
00:58:20See you.
00:58:22Thanks, guys.
00:58:23See you.
00:58:23All right, let's get our next couple up.
00:58:33Tyson and Stephanie.
00:58:34Hear more.
00:58:39Hello.
00:58:41Alexandra.
00:58:42Looking fabulous.
00:58:44Well, where do we begin?
00:58:47You start.
00:58:48Uh, what about the crash course?
00:58:50How was that this week for you?
00:58:52It was interesting.
00:58:54Um, we did the tasks.
00:58:56Um, yeah.
00:58:59And what about you, Tyson?
00:59:00How was this week for you?
00:59:02I think, for me, he was actually quite good, John.
00:59:05Um, I, uh, took your advice, John.
00:59:07So, you said to get curious about Steph and I did get curious.
00:59:11I, uh, I took her to lunch.
00:59:13I took her to dinner.
00:59:15Got her some flowers.
00:59:15I was feeling a bit cheeky and saw a set of flowers there, bought them, gave them to her.
00:59:19I think she appreciated that.
00:59:20Hmm.
00:59:22And he paid for dinner.
00:59:23And he paid for lunch.
00:59:25I'm the gift that keeps on giving.
00:59:32Steph, you're sitting on the couch right now and you, you're pretty distant.
00:59:39So, tell us what's going on for you, Steph.
00:59:43Hmm.
00:59:43Um, yeah, look, like, I do have a few things on my mind.
00:59:48Like, I won't, I won't lie.
00:59:51But I'm very conscious of the progress that we have made and I'm very conscious that I don't want to
00:59:56unravel all of that.
01:00:00And I understand that.
01:00:01But at the same time, what that does then is it doesn't allow us to understand what's on your mind.
01:00:06Uh, what's getting in between for the two of you.
01:00:09Because you never know when you discuss it, open it up, you may be able to resolve it.
01:00:16Um, quite often when I attempt to have a constructive conversation, it, I feel like it falls on deaf ears.
01:00:25I feel like we go around in circles. We never come to an agreement. It's always he said, she said.
01:00:30So I feel like I've started to kind of suppress the things that I normally would say because I can't
01:00:40be bothered to have an argument.
01:00:41Hmm.
01:00:43It's those difficult conversations that take so much courage and are so hard to have that once they're had, they
01:00:49really bring you closer together.
01:00:51Indeed.
01:00:52So let's just talk about this and navigate it together as a team.
01:00:56Tell us, what are the key issues that you want to bring up?
01:01:03Um, I just want Tyson to be a bit more aware of like the things that he says and the
01:01:07impact that the words have.
01:01:12Um, two of my closest friends are gay.
01:01:17We've got Chris and Sam in the experiment.
01:01:20And something that came from Tyson's video interview was, um, I'm happy for you guys.
01:01:30Be whoever you want to be, but you know, you just keep it behind closed doors.
01:01:35KEY
01:01:52Something that came from Tyson's video interview was um, I'm happy for you guys, be whoever you want to be,
01:02:02but you know,
01:02:02you just keep it behind closed doors oh brother
01:02:13first of all i'm not against gay people i just feel like that whole topic can can really be
01:02:18pushed on us um and i don't know just for me i come from a traditional family and it's just
01:02:26i'm not really comfortable with like with it i'm just being brutally honest
01:02:32sorry man having awareness is not pushing anything on you like just being here
01:02:36like but i'm aware though we're just we're just here it is hurtful to our community to hear that
01:02:45um it's like us telling straight people to go to do it behind closed doors it's not right
01:02:51i don't think you have much empathy and you're not really putting yourselves in anyone else's shoes
01:02:56you can't say stuff like do it behind closed doors like it just doesn't make me feel like a person
01:03:01well no not that i don't know it's just maybe it came out wrong i don't i didn't mean it
01:03:06to
01:03:10the comment you made suppresses our people and therefore we feel like we need to stand up and
01:03:15create awareness and until that stops happening there will be pride all these things will still
01:03:20happen because we're still getting suppressed all the time and you're an example of that it still exists
01:03:24out there i don't mean to come here and offend people um but you know i am very black and
01:03:33white
01:03:33with my approach to communication have you always been in this way where you essentially don't have
01:03:40a filter and you just you know say exactly what comes to your mind
01:03:48so there is a filter there john but um i just i've got to be honest as well with what
01:03:53i believe in
01:03:54and that's fine but i just want tyson to be a bit more aware of like words have impact
01:04:01like again like the submissive thing still rings in my mind oh my god haven't said that in ages but
01:04:08anyway well a dinner party last night but okay let's keep going forward um you know i stand by
01:04:16that that is what tyson wants he wants a wife to sit down look pretty speak when spoken to don't
01:04:24have
01:04:24an opinion unless you're asked oh true true i completely disagree um he's only addressed you tonight
01:04:31john have you noticed that i actually said tonight alexandra is looking beautiful so what where i
01:04:39don't understand last week he said oh that johnny he's a great bloke isn't he he's a great bloke and
01:04:45i said oh what about mel and alessandra oh yeah but you know john lala so you very easily disrespect
01:04:53women tyson you have no i do not and sorry i'm not going to take that because i do not
01:04:57disrespect
01:04:58women at all i've got a lot of respect for women but right now you fly off the handle because
01:05:04it's
01:05:04disgusting she's putting words in my mouth saying i disrespect women just because i said john's a
01:05:08good guy i did not say anything bad about you guys at all and i actually said you look beautiful
01:05:12tonight
01:05:14like she's making out i hate i hate women and that's absolutely such a disgusting thing to say
01:05:18i'm very close to my sister and my mom they're two people that mean the world to me
01:05:23but i just feel like she's putting words in my mouth she's trying to make me look like this bad
01:05:27person when i'm actually not i don't hate gay people she's making out i hate gay people hey
01:05:32but i don't hate gay people i do like gay people i've got gay friends i do i like women
01:05:40as well
01:05:41the thing is i'm not a bad guy and she's portraying me as a bad guy no i try to
01:05:47have a constructive
01:05:47conversation with you and it always ends up this way when i just want to have like a chill conversation
01:05:53and share my point of view but that's never okay with you i disagree i feel like anytime things get
01:06:01hard tyson's just like all right well that's me i'm out of here i feel like it's tyson's way or
01:06:08the highway
01:06:10honestly i do not see a future here with this person at all and quite frankly after tonight i'm going
01:06:16back
01:06:16to the gold coast because i'm done with this i'm done with this bickering i'm done with this
01:06:35i feel like it's tyson's way or the highway honestly i do not see a future here with
01:06:41this person at all and quite frankly after tonight i'm going back to the gold coast because i'm done
01:06:47with this i'm done with this bickering i'm done with this i'm done with this experiment
01:06:59there's nothing here between steph and i she's not a traditional wife in my eyes she's but she's
01:07:05a go-getter which which is great but i don't like her attitude towards me she's always acting snobby
01:07:13and um i just don't see a future there john i really don't
01:07:20this whole conversation just blew out of proportion which it shouldn't have but it did
01:07:24and um there's there's no fixing this john for me
01:07:30i don't know how it blew out of proportion though because all you were doing you know was bringing
01:07:36up some of your worries about a relationship yeah essentially over language and that's it
01:07:42that's normal couple dynamics this is not about personality attacks it's just talking about
01:07:50problem patterns and what we've identified tonight and previously is that sometimes the language that
01:07:58you use can be polarizing it can hurt but it is certainly something that you can work with no i
01:08:06do
01:08:06agree in that regard so what's happened tonight that's changed your mind well just i can tell you
01:08:12look i opened my mouth oh come on we bicker when i speak up and share my opinion and you
01:08:21don't like
01:08:22it so am i supposed to be quiet am i supposed to be quiet i'm seriously just gonna bounce because
01:08:30i just don't want to be you guys i'm finished okay i'm just tyson don't do it you look you're
01:08:38a
01:08:38beautiful bunch of people i think steph's a beautiful girl as well it's just i'm finished okay
01:08:43you've given it two weeks like given it such a short amount of time like come on
01:08:50i really do wish you guys all the best i'm not a bad person
01:08:56you have really strong views and i'm just giving my really strong views back to you
01:09:00and if that's enough to make you leave yeah see you guys
01:09:30you have really strong views and there's a lot of people that are wrong with me
01:09:46I've just shared how I felt and as soon as I opened my mouth now he's gone he's just a
01:09:54child
01:09:57and just so disappointed you deserve your happily ever after babe
01:10:03you'll get it better than that's going to be lining up for you girl
01:10:14thanks guys thank you Steph thank you Steph
01:10:23you're amazing you're just a more mature man that's all yeah yeah you're amazing a mature
01:10:27man will come here and whoop you off your feet okay
01:10:31so come on everybody let's all pile it
01:10:42tomorrow night it's hard to say things like this I've definitely haven't been one to kind of lean
01:10:47into my feelings of emotions Alessandra I had a good point yeah why can't you just verbalize it
01:10:53to each other you know will Philip finally say those magic words that Stella's been dying to hear
01:10:59his leg is shaking it's okay baby and then it's time for the annual couples retreat
01:11:08very very content right now how good is this our newlyweds are loving the brand new location
01:11:16let's get away and the happy couples are all singing kumbaya I feel like the group vibes quite nice
01:11:25ladies and gentlemen can I have you guys over here please until it's the first night of retreat
01:11:30we've had
01:11:34one bad joke
01:11:36I just want to leave
01:11:38sends the retreat into meltdown
01:11:41stop
01:11:41you called her a liar
01:11:42I'm not being manipulated by you
01:11:44what is the punchline
01:11:46guys guys
01:11:47that will break bonds
01:11:49she is a liar
01:11:50I'm so sick of this
01:11:51stop attacking people
01:11:52and walk away
01:11:53and derail the course of the experiment
01:11:56get me out of here
01:11:57forever
01:11:58made me feel like a piece of shit
01:12:00it worked
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