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90 DayFiance Before the 90 Days Season 8 Episode 17
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00:00:00Previous season, before 90 days.
00:00:03I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:00:07I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:00:08It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:00:10Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:00:13This has made me even more committed to do everything in my power to be with you.
00:00:18I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines,
00:00:23but I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
00:00:37I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:00:40Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife,
00:00:45then that's all I wanted.
00:00:47Here we have sex.
00:00:51On our second anniversary, you forgot.
00:00:55This is your thing, being a romantic.
00:00:58I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:01Like, making sure your lights is on because you're at home and then I'm working.
00:01:07I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:09Sometimes I feel uncomfortable that he has more say about the money.
00:01:13I don't like being controlled.
00:01:17Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:23Tell me you love her.
00:01:25If I was in love with her, I would have made a move.
00:01:28Dude, you made a move.
00:01:29You're blowing.
00:01:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:01:32Laura made a move on me.
00:01:35This is betrayal.
00:01:36Am I an alternative?
00:01:38Because she couldn't get what she wanted.
00:01:42My trust is broken right now.
00:01:45I love Trisha very, very much.
00:01:49I need more time.
00:01:52I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
00:01:59Today, not yesterday, you have to decide it.
00:02:02But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:02:07I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
00:02:11Hey, guys.
00:02:13Am I crazy or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially supported crazy?
00:02:19It's my guy.
00:02:20Good luck.
00:02:22You all right?
00:02:23Yeah.
00:02:24Are you okay?
00:02:25So cute.
00:02:26You run to her after this, right?
00:02:28Asshole.
00:02:30I feel like I was falling in love with her.
00:02:32But that I'm done.
00:02:55Go to the gym?
00:02:56No, I'm not feeling the best.
00:02:58Rough night.
00:02:59Another one?
00:03:01Her and Nat got right into it.
00:03:03She went off yelling, you know, in front of the whole bar.
00:03:06How many people were there?
00:03:08Oh, probably about 20.
00:03:09Oh, f*** off.
00:03:10She stands up and she's like,
00:03:12how do you feel if your boyfriend was getting supported by another girl financially?
00:03:17I feel sorry for you, bro.
00:03:19Still funny, but I do feel sorry for you.
00:03:22I just don't know what to do.
00:03:24I'm confused.
00:03:30It's going to be hard to come back from that.
00:03:32It was pretty damn embarrassing.
00:03:33Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
00:03:38This morning, I'm really deflated.
00:03:40There was a really big, you know, event last night between Nat and Elise.
00:03:45I didn't speak to her when we came back to the apartment.
00:03:47Because, you know, I needed to clear my head and just calm down.
00:03:52That was such a crazy, outrageous thing for her to do.
00:03:57I don't know how much damage she realizes she's done.
00:03:59It's thrown a lot of doubt in my mind.
00:04:01So, it's a lot to think about.
00:04:17I'm, um, really embarrassed.
00:04:26I couldn't sleep and I, I just am embarrassed.
00:04:29I should not have acted that way.
00:04:38Is that a, is that a sorry?
00:04:41I'm, I'm sorry.
00:04:43I'm embarrassed for myself.
00:04:44Like, I'm, I'm sorry that I did that to you.
00:04:49Did you realize what you did last night in front of people?
00:04:53I don't like embarrassment or personal coming up.
00:04:56I acted cool and I, I shouldn't have told everyone in the bar.
00:05:00I think that I was just really triggered.
00:05:04The fact that, like, I didn't know you lived with her.
00:05:06That just brought up a ton of emotions for me.
00:05:08And sometimes I let my emotions get the best of me.
00:05:12And I'm just worried now where this makes us stand.
00:05:22That should never happen once.
00:05:26There's going to be a common occurrence.
00:05:29That.
00:05:31You know, I'm out.
00:05:38Well, I'm, I'm sorry.
00:05:46Are we still going to go to the zoo?
00:05:53Like, I'm, I'm leaving soon.
00:05:55I, I, I don't know where your head's at.
00:06:02I would understand if you don't want to take me.
00:06:04I, I.
00:06:05Whatever.
00:06:06We can go to the zoo.
00:06:10I think it's a hard situation for Josh.
00:06:12For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
00:06:16But, um, I mean, the fact that it's not for him means he's either a stronger man than me
00:06:20or he really likes it, but I think it was a massive overreaction.
00:06:24Couldn't have been worse, really.
00:06:26And, you know, it's, it's not a good sign, especially so early in, in, in the, in the relationship.
00:06:32I'm going to get ready.
00:06:34Can I have a hug?
00:06:36Yeah, you can come here and give me a hug.
00:06:43I think I actually really embarrassed Josh big time.
00:06:48I'm sorry.
00:06:50Yeah.
00:06:53But I do still stand by my point that there is something off between him and Nat.
00:06:58My delivery could have been better, but my point is still there.
00:07:03Well, good luck with that.
00:07:06My actions were atrocious last night.
00:07:08And I feel like if we have some alone time and, like, I can explain to him how sorry I
00:07:12really am,
00:07:13I'll have time to, like, when I'm back.
00:07:22Baby, look, dingoes.
00:07:25Mm, they're cute.
00:07:27Coming in to see our koalas?
00:07:29Uh, yes.
00:07:29I can't come to Australia without seeing one.
00:07:32Scent, yeah.
00:07:33Hi!
00:07:35Her name is Kamira.
00:07:36Wait, she's so cute.
00:07:38She is very cute.
00:07:40Can I touch her?
00:07:40We can't touch her here.
00:07:41We are completely hands off.
00:07:43She does like people a lot.
00:07:45Hi!
00:07:46Oh, really?
00:07:48Hi!
00:07:49She's like a little teddy bear.
00:07:51She is like a little teddy.
00:07:52Most people probably think we're animals in Australia.
00:07:54They think of venomous, big snakes, big spiders.
00:07:58We have a lot of cute animals as well.
00:08:00Like, you know, koalas.
00:08:02Fun fact.
00:08:03I do know koalas do carry chlamydia.
00:08:07Really?
00:08:08Yes.
00:08:10Thank you so much.
00:08:12Thank you so much.
00:08:12It's an absolute pleasure.
00:08:13Anytime.
00:08:14Enjoy the rest of your day, guys.
00:08:15See ya.
00:08:17Well, I'm so happy we did that.
00:08:19We can check that off our bucket list.
00:08:22We can.
00:08:25I'm glad that Lisa's having a good time, but it's hard for me to enjoy the zoo with, you
00:08:29know, everything that went on last night.
00:08:40So weird that you're not, like, touching me.
00:08:44Is it going to be, like, just kind of quiet, or are we okay, or, like, I'm trying to just,
00:08:51I don't know how, like.
00:08:53To interact right now.
00:08:54I don't know what to do.
00:08:58I told you, I told you how much I care about you, you know, how much you mean to me.
00:09:03And then, what, you go and do the most embarrassing thing I think I've been involved in.
00:09:09That was completely wrong, and I will own that.
00:09:12And I will take full responsibility that, like, that Elise last night was, like, that's
00:09:17not, that's not cool.
00:09:19And I'm sorry.
00:09:49All I'm trying to do is get you two to like each other.
00:09:50Tate, you know, on introducing you to more of my life.
00:09:57I think the bottom line is I am just so triggered that I didn't know that you lived with her,
00:10:03and it's just bringing up a lot of emotions, and I think just the...
00:10:07You've got answers.
00:10:09You've got answers.
00:10:12You're just not willing to accept them.
00:10:20I can understand why you're hurt.
00:10:22I can understand why you're upset.
00:10:24It will not happen again.
00:10:31No, I appreciate that.
00:10:34Are you giving me another chance?
00:10:40I'm not very confident.
00:10:42See how convincing you are.
00:10:45I'm sorry.
00:10:47When I hear Josh say he's falling for me, it, like, makes my heart feel so amazing,
00:10:53and it scares me to death that I literally almost lost him last night.
00:10:58Baby, they're so cute.
00:10:59Can we feed them?
00:11:00We can, yeah.
00:11:02I feel like I might be projecting my past traumas of my exes onto Josh,
00:11:06and that's not fair to him.
00:11:08You are so cute.
00:11:11I feel super fortunate that Josh is willing to give me another chance
00:11:14and not throw this all away for one crazy Elise escapade.
00:11:21But if I don't change now, and if I act this way again, I could lose him.
00:11:37Come on, I'm a train reader.
00:11:39I'm a train instructor.
00:11:41I've got my train reader.
00:11:42I'm a train instructor.
00:12:26I can't believe what he told me.
00:12:30She let me believe that Michael was the one who made the move,
00:12:34and she made the move.
00:12:39I always think that Michael has feelings for Laura, but now I see that she is the one
00:12:47who wanted to be more than friends.
00:12:51How do I know if she doesn't still felt that way now?
00:12:55Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
00:13:01Honestly, it's a big deal for me.
00:13:05Maybe this is not her first lie.
00:13:08Maybe there was a lot of lies.
00:13:10Maybe it's a solo lie.
00:13:29Maybe it's a good deal.
00:13:36Maybe it's a good deal.
00:13:38Maybe it's a good deal.
00:13:41Maybe it's a good deal.
00:13:41Maybe it's a good deal.
00:13:46Why?
00:13:47What did I do?
00:13:51He told me that you made a move on.
00:14:02There is one person.
00:14:04I was worried that she can come between us.
00:14:09That one person was your best friend.
00:14:12Yeah.
00:14:13That one person you kept secret about.
00:14:17I didn't say anything because it was like literally nothing to tell.
00:14:23You make me think like Michael is the enemy.
00:14:26He's trying to break us up.
00:14:27I didn't make you think that.
00:14:28You thought that all on your own.
00:14:30But you did not avoid it.
00:14:33It was almost a year ago.
00:14:36I didn't think I needed to tell you every little thing that's ever happened.
00:14:40This is a little thing.
00:14:41Are you sure?
00:14:41It is a little thing.
00:14:42It is not a little thing.
00:14:43It's 100% a little thing.
00:14:44It was one tiny little thing.
00:14:46We got drunk.
00:14:47We were on the couch.
00:14:48I tried to kiss him.
00:14:50Big deal.
00:14:53One night, almost a full year into our friendship, and before I met BeerCon,
00:14:59Michael and I were watching TV and we both had a pretty solid buzz happening.
00:15:04Pretty soon, we were kind of laying on top of each other on my couch.
00:15:09And I tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:12He stopped me and shut it down.
00:15:16Although it was really hurtful in the moment, Michael and I never talked about it after that.
00:15:20It's not something that ever came up again.
00:15:23And I never told BeerCon that I once tried to kiss Michael.
00:15:27Because I knew if I did, he would never be okay with Michael and me staying friends.
00:15:36I don't trust you.
00:15:40This is your obligation to tell me your past.
00:15:45You tried to kiss him, okay?
00:15:48Yeah, I did.
00:15:49That means you had feelings for him.
00:15:53You wanted something.
00:15:54They couldn't have it.
00:15:56Maybe you get drunk and try to kiss him again.
00:16:00He's still in your life.
00:16:01And you kept this from a secret.
00:16:04Nothing happened.
00:16:06And you are still saying nothing happened.
00:16:09It doesn't matter.
00:16:10You still didn't tell me this thing.
00:16:15What would you like me to say?
00:16:18Maybe you would like, sorry.
00:16:21I was drunk.
00:16:23I tried to kiss him.
00:16:24But he refused me.
00:16:25But we are still friends.
00:16:30That was hard?
00:16:31No.
00:16:32You didn't want it to say.
00:16:37I'm trying to change my country.
00:16:39I'm trying to make plans for us, for our future.
00:16:44Now, I'm thinking about, maybe I shouldn't.
00:16:50This is so ridiculous.
00:16:56I'm surprised at Birkan's massive reaction.
00:17:02I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I didn't tell Birkan.
00:17:06I mean, let's be real.
00:17:08He's kept a lot of secrets from me.
00:17:10And I'm still here.
00:17:12That pisses me off.
00:17:16You're missing all the points.
00:17:18I suspected something is going on between you and Michael.
00:17:23Nothing is going-
00:17:23Will you just shut up and listen?
00:17:26Don't tell me to shut up.
00:17:31I-
00:17:32No.
00:17:33Just admit it, you're wrong.
00:17:37Or just don't talk.
00:17:38Maybe when you grow up a little bit, you'll learn to communicate a little better.
00:17:42You wanted a young husband.
00:17:44Deal with it.
00:17:46You know what?
00:17:48I wish we never met.
00:17:51I didn't have to go through all of this-
00:17:52I'm sorry.
00:17:53I'm sorry.
00:17:53I'm sorry.
00:17:54You meant you wish that who never met?
00:17:57Us.
00:17:58You and me?
00:17:59Yeah.
00:18:01And I can trust you.
00:18:03That's fine.
00:18:04I will get back on a plane and leave.
00:18:13If you care this much-
00:18:15No, I don't.
00:18:16You, cross the line.
00:18:18If you're going to tell me that you wish we never met, I have nothing left to say to you.
00:18:24Okay.
00:18:36I'm sorry.
00:18:37I'm sorry.
00:18:39I'm sorry.
00:18:39There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:18:42What is that?
00:18:44Oral sex.
00:18:47Her fellow women have been giving her oral sex.
00:18:50I am not a woman.
00:18:52I have my .
00:18:55There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:19:01My mom, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:19:07Babe, mom would strangle you everything she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:19:13We both needed some space away from my mother.
00:19:17But I'm terrified to tell her that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:19:22It's time for you to grow up and be a man, not just following her orders around.
00:19:29When you know, you know, that's how the story goes.
00:19:34I wasn't sure that I believed it.
00:19:36Then you came and made it so easy.
00:19:39I got this in a globe.
00:19:41It looks like we're going to get wrapped up in bananas.
00:19:44Woo!
00:19:45Banana.
00:19:46You going to put me in the plate?
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:56Oh!
00:19:57Oh.
00:19:58Hello, everyone.
00:19:59Hello.
00:20:00Hello.
00:20:01Welcome.
00:20:03Good afternoon, pa.
00:20:04Welcome to the banana leaf wrap.
00:20:06This is a good experience for you, ma'am and sir, because banana leaf wrap is good for skin.
00:20:11We need to proceed, ma'am.
00:20:13All right.
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:16Should I really need to remove my tops or something?
00:20:19No.
00:20:19If you want, ma'am.
00:20:20It's okay.
00:20:21It's okay.
00:20:22Last night, she and I, having the night away with each other, getting a chance to be with
00:20:27each other intimately, it was definitely something that we both needed.
00:20:32And I'm hoping the spa treatment is going to help us de-stress.
00:20:35Lie down, ma'am.
00:20:36Lie down.
00:20:37Oh, okay.
00:20:38Because I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines, and I have a lot of hard
00:20:43decisions to make about my future with Sheena.
00:20:47And then, we need to put a banana leaf wrap to your body, ma'am.
00:20:51Very great.
00:20:52Oh, wow.
00:20:53I sure hope the wrap fits me.
00:20:57Extra, extra long.
00:21:01This is my first time that I've done this banana leaf treatment.
00:21:05And it feels like you're being placed on, like, as a food.
00:21:08Which is, most people in my country, they would use banana leaves to wrap food around.
00:21:13It's kind of funny.
00:21:16How's things looking up there, ladies?
00:21:17Pretty good?
00:21:18It's okay, sir.
00:21:20Yeah.
00:21:20I feel like a giant wrap tamale here.
00:21:24Tamale, bro.
00:21:25They're going to throw me in the oven next.
00:21:27I was waiting to be steamed alive.
00:21:29They're going to steam you.
00:21:31This is so strange.
00:21:32Like, I don't understand why all my clothes are still on.
00:21:36Oh, my goodness.
00:21:38But it's very relaxing to be basically tied down with banana leaves and unable to move as
00:21:45the sun blasts me in the face and melts off my woes.
00:21:52It was highly recommended by the hotel.
00:21:56Hello, honey.
00:21:56This is quite relaxing.
00:21:58Yeah.
00:21:59I'm having a lot of fun here.
00:22:01And it's starting to rain.
00:22:03Oh, yeah.
00:22:04I love the rain.
00:22:05Yeah.
00:22:06Gotta love the rain and the banana leaf.
00:22:08Oh, the banana leaf.
00:22:13Just being here with you, it's just amazing.
00:22:16Yeah.
00:22:19I've been thinking about everything.
00:22:21And I feel like last night just strengthened the urge to be with you more.
00:22:26And so maybe I could get a job and start working here for the next few years.
00:22:33Wow.
00:22:34I kept praying for you to stay here.
00:22:37I love you, baby bear.
00:22:39I would try to prepare things as well for you to stay here.
00:22:43I would try to help you find a job.
00:22:45If not, then I could work on my own, find a better job.
00:22:49I'll do what I can, my love.
00:22:52Sheena and I, from the very start, have always dreamed about making our lives in the United States together.
00:22:58But at this point, living in the Philippines is, I feel, the best option.
00:23:04It means I get to be with Sheena faster.
00:23:08I feel that Sheena is always encouraging me to be my best self and to try to do things that
00:23:14are way out of my bounds.
00:23:16It's a big gamble, but just thinking now about being away from her just rips up my heart and tears
00:23:23out my soul.
00:23:24I personally believe you're my wife, even though we haven't signed any papers or gone to any, you know, church.
00:23:31You're my wife, and I don't want to be away from my second half.
00:23:36And I hope that your mom would happen to respect that as our decision to make, not hers, but to
00:23:44us only.
00:23:47Well, she's been blowing me up all morning, sending me tons and tons of text messages.
00:23:53Even though my mom has been giving me the cold shoulder ever since I proposed to Sheena,
00:23:59I felt like I needed to text her to tell her that we met with an immigration lawyer.
00:24:06That's when she really started blowing me up.
00:24:13My mom has always been a very controlling person.
00:24:16And I'm terrified to tell her and Deb that I'm planning on staying in the Philippines.
00:24:23I'm worried knowing that I'm going to disappoint my mom.
00:24:26Babe, mom would strangle everything that she can just to get rid of our relationship.
00:24:32Even though I happen to try to do many things for her.
00:24:38It's time for you to grow up and be a man and try to tell mom that you want to
00:24:42do some things that you wanted to do.
00:24:43Not just following her orders, her orders around.
00:24:48You have to make your own decisions.
00:24:52My mother, she's always been my safety net.
00:24:54But her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
00:25:00I think it's a good thing living in the Philippines because it's going to definitely give me some space away
00:25:06from my mother.
00:25:08Hello, mom, sir. Excuse voice, time's up.
00:25:10Okay, thank you.
00:25:12But at the same time, I am 100% defying everything my mom has told me not to do.
00:25:19And I'm scared.
00:25:23I'm tired of waiting and I'm ready to start life together.
00:25:26It's your time to shine, honey.
00:25:29I'm there for you.
00:25:41You have to decide it, yes or no.
00:25:43But if no, we cannot be together anymore.
00:25:55You have to decide it, you want to have a baby with me or not.
00:26:04Can you tell them that we haven't even been talking for a year yet?
00:26:34You just want the answer.
00:26:38You want to have a baby or not.
00:26:54My uncle said we are strict about having children because they represent our family line continuing.
00:27:03That's what we believe.
00:27:05And it's not going to change.
00:27:08So we only wait for you and you know that.
00:27:29It's not going to change.
00:27:31I'd like to turn my cis and my falsely attitude around.
00:27:40And you know, I think, man, she.
00:27:41They're waiting for our answer.
00:27:44OK.
00:27:46But at the same time, I'm feeling like I'm a piece of meat in a pressure cooker.
00:27:54I don't feel like I'm being forced to make a life-changing decision in such little time.
00:28:07I know how important it is to the family.
00:28:12And I really know how important it is to Trish.
00:28:17If we're going to be together and get married, then I want to make you happy.
00:28:24I want you to feel like your life is complete.
00:28:32So I have to say yes.
00:28:37So you're saying yes now?
00:28:40Yes.
00:28:41Why do you change your mind like that?
00:28:44I didn't fully understand, you know, before.
00:29:05I'm really shocked that Rick said yes suddenly because he was not sure about his answer.
00:29:13Maybe because of my uncle's pressure, but I'm really excited.
00:29:20And also my family is very excited to hear that response.
00:29:29So when are we going to have the baby?
00:29:37I will file for the visa.
00:29:41Yeah, it's going to take at least eight months to a year.
00:29:44And then once she's approved, after we get married, then that's when we're going to start planning our family together.
00:29:51So, let's say yes, let's also do a lot of assistance.
00:30:21You say quick and quick and make this a quick.
00:30:28So what if it's after 20 years you will start?
00:30:32By the end of August, in about three months,
00:30:36then I will propose to Trish.
00:30:40So in three months we are going to be engaged
00:30:45and you will start the process?
00:30:47If everything goes in the direction it's been going in the last few days,
00:30:52then yes, that's what's going to happen.
00:31:12They are going to give a blessing for everything.
00:31:18This is great news. I'm so happy that it's turning out this way.
00:31:26Honestly, I felt bullied in this decision because I really wanted to be with Trish
00:31:33and the only way that I would be able to is to agree to have a baby with her.
00:31:40But seeing Trish's reaction on how excited she is, it's definitely making me feel more positive.
00:31:51I'm starting to get excited about the possibilities of having this family with Trish.
00:31:59She would be a great mother.
00:32:01And I'm actually starting to envision it.
00:32:06And things are looking really good.
00:32:09Her happiness is all I want.
00:32:22When you get back to America, you have to make an inquiry how I will get to America, right?
00:32:26I'm going to do that, right?
00:32:27You do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:32:34Every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer.
00:32:37I can't even spend money anymore. I'm done.
00:32:47You have to snuggle before we get up. One last snuggle.
00:33:02Now I have more sex with you. Before you go, before you...
00:33:07I hope so.
00:33:08I hope so.
00:33:11Baby.
00:33:12Baby.
00:33:13Here's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
00:33:16One promise.
00:33:18What is that?
00:33:18World sex.
00:33:19Oh.
00:33:22Why are you putting it off?
00:33:25I know you like it.
00:33:26Honey, you've been talking. You've been...
00:33:27How many of them that you've been?
00:33:29There's only a few things I've asked of you.
00:33:31And that's a major one right there for me.
00:33:34It's major for me.
00:33:37I've never had oral sex with Lisa.
00:33:40Because I've never tried it before.
00:33:42I don't know how to do it.
00:33:45Her fellow women have been giving her the oral sex she wants.
00:33:48And she wants me to be doing the same.
00:33:51I am not a woman.
00:33:53I have my .
00:33:56Yes, I give her what I have.
00:34:00When we get married, I'll make it up to you.
00:34:03Okay?
00:34:04Promise.
00:34:04I promise you.
00:34:06You better keep this promise because I've done so much.
00:34:09I'm sorry, okay?
00:34:11I will make it up to you.
00:34:16I wish it's possible for us to stay like, spend like one more week.
00:34:21It's not possible.
00:34:23You gotta start getting ready.
00:34:27Okay.
00:34:28I'm leaving to go home today after three weeks in Nigeria.
00:34:32And more than half of my trip was fighting with Daniel about my lies.
00:34:38And then, I had to make up for all those lies.
00:34:43And I'm finally at a happy point.
00:34:45Everything is done.
00:34:46I just want to stay here with Daniel and get married.
00:34:49I don't want to go home.
00:34:53Baby, you know I really wanted to marry you before you left.
00:34:59I sent you to help us to find my papers.
00:35:03So, that means when you get back to America,
00:35:06you have to make an inquiry how I'll get to America, right?
00:35:09I'm gonna do that, babe.
00:35:10My first step is to get back to work.
00:35:13And then, I am going to get in touch with an immigration lawyer.
00:35:17Okay.
00:35:18We are gonna find out which is better,
00:35:20the K-1 visa or getting married in Nigeria.
00:35:24Which one's gonna get you to America faster?
00:35:27That would be nice.
00:35:28Okay? So, that's what we'll do.
00:35:30That's okay.
00:35:33But, babe, you do know I can't keep sending as much money as I have been.
00:35:40At this point, every penny has to go towards an immigration lawyer,
00:35:45getting you to America, doing what we need to do.
00:35:48I cannot send any more money.
00:35:50I can't even spend money anymore.
00:35:52I'm done.
00:36:10You have to try not to, because I have to save for us to get you to America.
00:36:15Um, babe, there's no problem about that.
00:36:20I have you.
00:36:21So, we have a game plan now.
00:36:23Yes.
00:36:28All right, I have to get dressed.
00:36:30You have to get dressed. We have to get going.
00:36:31Yes.
00:36:33She said she's not going to give me money anymore.
00:36:35Fine, because I'm not getting married to her because of the money she's giving me.
00:36:39No.
00:36:40I'm getting married to her because she's the one I want to settle down with.
00:36:45She has good plans for me.
00:36:47She's the one possessing my visa to come to America.
00:36:50She's not expecting me to do it by myself.
00:36:53Babes.
00:36:55What?
00:36:55This is so funny.
00:36:56You gonna wear it today?
00:36:58What?
00:36:59Do you know what women would say to me?
00:37:00What?
00:37:01They would say, your wife is wicked.
00:37:03Will you wear it when I'm gone?
00:37:05Oh, my God.
00:37:07So, um, she deserves an applause.
00:37:09She's, she deserves a good, you know, good things.
00:37:12That's why I'll wait for you forever.
00:37:21All I want is love.
00:37:22And she has been giving it to me.
00:37:24I will miss her, um, her soft kiss.
00:37:28I will miss everything about her.
00:37:31Even the sky is crying.
00:37:33It's raining.
00:37:35You're my husband.
00:37:36I love you.
00:37:37I love you.
00:37:43I knew it was going to be hard.
00:37:44I didn't know it was going to be this hard.
00:37:46Last time we were here, I got engaged.
00:37:50To you.
00:37:52Oh, my God, baby.
00:37:59This trip was nothing what I expected.
00:38:02I didn't imagine getting engaged when I landed.
00:38:05I didn't imagine meeting his uncle and getting a blessing.
00:38:08I didn't imagine seeing a king of all people.
00:38:13I didn't imagine any of this.
00:38:14I didn't imagine I'd buy a goat.
00:38:17I mean, none of this.
00:38:18I never could have experienced without coming here.
00:38:27I don't want to go.
00:38:30But I have to go.
00:38:34I don't want to do with you.
00:38:36It'll happen soon.
00:38:38When you get sad, look at my picture.
00:38:51Shh.
00:38:53I love you.
00:38:56Shh.
00:38:58It's okay.
00:39:00It's okay, baby.
00:39:02It's okay, baby.
00:39:05I love you so much.
00:39:07I love you so, so much.
00:39:10We'll be together soon.
00:39:16Why, baby?
00:39:21I feel that I will not see her again because anything can happen she might go back to her
00:39:29country and she might change her mind on most of the promises like bringing me to her country you
00:39:35know the visa I am hoping she will do it but we are not married legally yet so it's very
00:39:43hard for
00:39:43men to say goodbye I miss you so much I love you baby I can't do it you have to
00:39:52walk away from me I
00:39:53can't do it
00:40:07okay I'll go I'll go
00:40:12it's very hard I feel like I'm not going to see him again even though I know I'm going to
00:40:16I'm making these plans but I'm thinking what if they fall through
00:40:22what if it's more than six months what if it's more than a year what if what if what if
00:40:28it's two years
00:40:30what happens between Daniel and I I don't know
00:40:49it's nice it's a big house we can have sex in a lot of rooms
00:40:55I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night but she's trying to
00:41:00make
00:41:00it up to me you know I've never used the kitchen in my house so the fact that I'm doing
00:41:04this must
00:41:04mean I really like you
00:41:11you said you're fine with the cheap stuff it tastes the same in the dark in the light of the
00:41:22cold gray cries for the old days it's a match in the dark
00:41:28okay we have everything you think yep okay to a trip just us Chris gets the place to himself now
00:41:36silence is coming soon it's finally peaceful on the moon
00:41:47blue mountains excited what's this uh it's called deodorant
00:41:57I was really upset with Elise and how she acted at the bar the other night but Elise has realized
00:42:01she was in the wrong and she's trying to make it up to me and she's organized a two-night
00:42:06stay at the
00:42:07blue mountains take me away the blue mountains are known for their hiking and waterfalls and
00:42:13it's a different part of nature besides the beaches that Sydney has so I'm excited yeah I've never even
00:42:18been I wouldn't say all is forgiven but she's trying and this is a good start
00:42:34oh my god are we here we are here nice it's a big house we can have sex in a
00:42:41lot of rooms
00:42:44yes we can
00:42:48I knew absolutely nothing about the blue mountains but Josh has always spoken about it and how much
00:42:53he wanted to go so I decided to book us a trip and there's hot tubs there so I was
00:42:58like love that
00:43:00look baby look what I got us whoa wow a lot of space for a lot of activity you're the
00:43:08best I know
00:43:10I thought it was a great idea to get out of Bondi away from Nat away from Chris away from
00:43:16boats I just
00:43:17want for us to really unplug and just be with each other more get out of the kitchen I was
00:43:24cooking for
00:43:28you you know I've never used the kitchen in my house so the fact that I'm doing this for you
00:43:32must mean I really like you that does mean a lot this should be fun
00:43:46this is not the right stuff I thought was gonna be in my mouth
00:44:02half of it went in my mouth my face my boobs maybe should I take it off why isn't this
00:44:10coming to a boil
00:44:11I don't know I don't know how to turn on the soap oh which pasta do you want that's so
00:44:18embarrassing
00:44:19what packet was that in I'm making you two types of pasta perfect
00:44:28nope not ready oh god this feels really good
00:44:40I read somewhere I heard that you'll know if pasta is ready if it sticks to the wall so like
00:44:45if you cook pasta and then it sticks to the wall then you know it's ready like yeah but I
00:44:49don't
00:44:50think that's the same with penne pasta let's throw in the pasta oh my god there's water in you
00:45:00oh I think I just ruined the sauce baby the kitchen is definitely not element but I love
00:45:09seeing the side of Elise is doing something that she's not used to doing at least she keeps me on
00:45:16my
00:45:16toes I don't like it when things get stagnant or boring or stale and I know it's not gonna be
00:45:22dull
00:45:22with that let's see here we go okay it's horrible be honest I'm not picky it was the most fun
00:45:39I've had
00:45:39making dinner I love my head off and I needed that me too you know what's so cute about Josh
00:45:47is like
00:45:48when I up or I do something stupid or I feel really awkward like he makes so light of it
00:45:53I don't know
00:45:54it's like it's the little moments like like then that I'm like you know what like I feel like he
00:45:59could
00:45:59be my forever but there's just one thing he hasn't followed through on and it's been constantly playing
00:46:05in the back of my mind I don't know if I can go back to Florida not having met your
00:46:12son to see how
00:46:14you are as a father you would have you would have met him already I would want you to but
00:46:18he's moved
00:46:18away so for now like can we face time will that work yeah I'm not trying to harp on him
00:46:26again after
00:46:27everything that we've went through but I'm leaving soon and I haven't met anyone in his family I haven't
00:46:32met his son and this is a huge part of his life that I'm completely missing out on so I
00:46:38really really
00:46:39hope that we can happen before the end of my trip pretty full me too wedding bands I like classic
00:46:52stuff
00:46:54it is really important for me to have the wedding ring 268 dollar I think he's not sure they don't
00:47:04want
00:47:05some men mistaken me as you know still available single woman they can have you sure why not
00:47:29we have a winner yeah you really wanted that don't you
00:47:41ready boo
00:48:05that was fun yeah that was so fun oh look at those jobs that's where you can find
00:48:12very nice wedding gowns and dresses like really pretty nice can't wait for the anniversary party
00:48:21yeah thanks with Giovanni and I are really good and now in a couple of days we're having our
00:48:31anniversary party where we're going to renew our vows since we never had a wedding in person
00:48:38basically it's basically it's just like a second wedding to me you know
00:48:45because last time we didn't get to touch each other face to face
00:48:49I've been dreaming about this and now it's happening and I just can't wait
00:48:57okay boo are you ready yeah I guess so now that we're going to renew our vows good afternoon
00:49:11we decided to look at rings we've been married almost three years and sometimes I still can't
00:49:20believe that jupon hasn't put a ring on it yet I feel like I'm the only woman in the world
00:49:28that got
00:49:28married without a wedding band hi hello what are you looking for uh we're looking for wedding bands
00:49:37we have different style okay what are you prepared for well I'm okay with a simple plain wedding band I
00:49:45want
00:49:45it more classic I like classic stuff this one it is really important for me to have the wedding ring
00:50:01my
00:50:02symbol of love you need a ring to symbolize that I assume you don't want some men mistaken me as
00:50:09you
00:50:09know we're still available single woman they can have you okay okay she's on the market I'm playing
00:50:18you relax when is your wedding well we're actually married already we don't have an official wedding
00:50:27rings yet we did our marriage online that's why you know to be fair you know I did get you
00:50:36a ring
00:50:37okay you send me your money and I bought a ring that's under $100 that's turned my finger green
00:50:46but that's what I thought no I thought it's just a substitute drink how about poor sir what do you
00:50:55think when it come to bands like I prefer like like like this silver in the middle kind of sporty
00:51:03but
00:51:03they don't sell that I already bought myself a non-expensive ring before we got married and I like it
00:51:13a
00:51:13lot I'm not a jewelry person and I really don't want to spend money on something I don't need or
00:51:20want
00:51:23this one is good it's just that it's too skinny like do you have something that's a little bit wider
00:51:32I
00:51:33have different kind of design okay this one this one is good I like this one more simple white but
00:51:44it really looks like I'm married you know what I mean how much is this per gram no yes 15
00:51:53510 in
00:51:53peso 15 5 10 how much is that you are 268 in dollar 268 yeah you have anything budget no
00:52:03we didn't really
00:52:04have a budget but she's not sure are we gonna buy this we mean today yeah I can come back
00:52:18we can come back
00:52:34okay why would you bring me ring shopping if we're not gonna buy anything anyway what's the point of going
00:52:43out just to get an idea of what you want
00:52:54thank you so much bye bye
00:52:58I feel so humiliated I can't even have the cheapest ring it's not just a jewelry it's a symbol of
00:53:09our marriage
00:53:10I waited six years to be together in person he never applied for spousal visa and now I still don't
00:53:20have a ring
00:53:23once again he is making me feel like he's not invested in our relationship
00:53:45I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with him I really don't I mean you did jump
00:53:51on a plane and come to my rescue I don't think he's the only person that thinks that
00:53:59there's a lot of layers there and I mean
00:54:20hey hey what concern from that phone call you gave me yeah me too
00:54:36I'm assuming you've talked to Miracon yeah I did it was super great thanks for that I kind of partly
00:54:43blame you okay
00:54:49you don't know I don't know what was said between you and him I only know my end of the
00:54:55story okay so we have to come together
00:54:57okay super curious what was going through your head telling him that I hit on you like I don't understand
00:55:07what how that even came up
00:55:09we never did anything and he's pissed off about it because I didn't tell him told me that he wishes
00:55:16he never met me and I kind of feel like there was zero reason for you to bring that up
00:55:22okay and I'd like to know why you did okay I brought it up because Miracon was under the impression
00:55:30that I was in love with you
00:55:33that man kept pushing and pushing and pushing and at some point I need him to understand that I said
00:55:41no to us having a relationship but you were the one that asked and from that he got very upset
00:55:48and I tried to reassure him it was a year ago
00:55:50it didn't I mean it was before you met him I feel like honestly it feels like a backhanded way
00:55:57of trying to sabotage it
00:56:00how long have you been here with him how long have you been here with him
00:56:05two and a half weeks and in two and a half weeks you cannot convince him that was not a
00:56:08threat
00:56:16but that's not on me I did everything I could to defuse that situation
00:56:22I don't know why he insists that I'm in love with you I really don't
00:56:27I mean you did jump on a plane and come to my rescue
00:56:31I don't think he's the only person that thinks that
00:56:37there's a lot of layers there but no that's not something I want to happen
00:56:43anyhow we're friends I don't want to anymore
00:56:50at the end of the day I want you to be happy
00:56:53all I ever heard was little stories here and there about him from you
00:56:56you said all these bad things
00:56:59and just why does she keep talking to this guy
00:57:02so I came to meet him to see all the other good stuff
00:57:06and you don't have to worry about him and I anymore
00:57:09you just need to make sure that he's the right guy for you
00:57:11before you make a commitment
00:57:13I don't even know what to do right now
00:57:15like there's part of me that just wants to like go have another conversation with him
00:57:18but I don't even know what to say
00:57:19because he just told me he wishes he never met me
00:57:22okay but the opposite of love is not anger it's apathy
00:57:25so angry means he still loves you
00:57:30I don't believe Michael when he says he doesn't have any feelings for me at all romantically
00:57:36but I think ultimately he does have my best interest in mind
00:57:40and I think he does care about the future of my relationship with beer con
00:57:45beer con is the person I need in my life
00:57:48and I want to fix this
00:57:50I just don't really know how to go about it
00:57:54so what do I do?
00:57:56I feel like he never could understand that I didn't feel like that was that big of a deal
00:58:00you acknowledge that he felt the way he did it didn't matter whether he was right or not
00:58:06no I never said that
00:58:08at the end of the day
00:58:10the relationship is more important than the argument
00:58:15which means somebody has to say I'm sorry
00:58:19it's amazing how the words I'm sorry
00:58:21when said truly can defuse the situation
00:58:25okay I see your point
00:58:28I guess I'll go give him a call and see if I can fix that
00:58:32thank you
00:58:38I'll let you know how it goes
00:58:39thank you
00:58:40yeah
00:58:58how are you?
00:59:02how are you?
00:59:03I'm okay
00:59:06I was just wondering if we could talk
00:59:13uh uh
00:59:14not today
00:59:16I'm sorry did you say not today?
00:59:19yeah
00:59:23am I not supposed to come back to the apartment?
00:59:25I'm sorry
00:59:27just give me the space
00:59:32okay
00:59:32I guess I will get a room somewhere
00:59:37okay
00:59:38we both need time
00:59:40yeah
00:59:41and we both need to think about what's going on
00:59:44mm-hmm
00:59:47okay
00:59:49okay
00:59:50okay
00:59:50bye
00:59:53bye
01:00:00I don't want to force you
01:00:01but like
01:00:02am I ever going to meet your son?
01:00:04when Elise asked to meet my son
01:00:06I can see that she really really cares
01:00:08but honestly
01:00:09after all the fighting with Elise
01:00:10I've had my doubts about trying to let her in
01:00:13to the most important part of my life
01:00:22oh my god
01:00:23oh that's hot
01:00:24oh that's hot
01:00:25oh that's hot
01:00:25oh it's really hot
01:00:28that's burning me
01:00:30oh you found the champagne I got
01:00:32it did
01:00:33sound good
01:00:34I think we should open it
01:00:39wow
01:00:41cheers to that
01:00:49what a perfect ending to a perfect little guy
01:00:53what a drive
01:00:55good cooking
01:00:59it's so funny
01:01:00it's so funny huh
01:01:00it's so funny
01:01:01okay
01:01:01I tried
01:01:03so am I making it up to you?
01:01:05am I doing a good job so far?
01:01:07yeah
01:01:07absolutely
01:01:10well
01:01:10have I made it up to you enough
01:01:12that like
01:01:13you can let me in your own world?
01:01:16yeah
01:01:18well
01:01:19well
01:01:20I want to be with you
01:01:21and
01:01:22I'm scared that
01:01:23I've came literally around the world
01:01:25and all I've met is like
01:01:26a few friends
01:01:28and
01:01:28I don't want to force you
01:01:30but like
01:01:31am I ever going to meet your son?
01:01:38when Elise asked to meet my son
01:01:39or you know
01:01:40talk to my son
01:01:41I find that endearing
01:01:43but honestly
01:01:44the last couple of days
01:01:45after all the fighting with Elise
01:01:46I've had my doubts
01:01:48about whether I'll introduce him or not
01:01:50obviously
01:01:51I'm very protective of my son
01:01:52so I want to be confident
01:01:54that
01:01:54this relationship
01:01:55is going to work
01:01:57I understand he's young
01:01:59and
01:01:59it's like
01:02:00a video call
01:02:01and it's probably like
01:02:02a lot to explain to him
01:02:04yeah
01:02:05I do want to prove
01:02:06how much you mean to me
01:02:08but
01:02:09um
01:02:10that's been
01:02:11playing on me heavily
01:02:14what's been playing on you heavily?
01:02:16explain that
01:02:17it's just been
01:02:18a tough year
01:02:21I didn't
01:02:22I didn't move him away
01:02:23but you know
01:02:23he's an hour and a half
01:02:25plane ride
01:02:26and
01:02:27I don't see him as much as I want
01:02:30I still feel like he thinks I can get up there a lot more than I can
01:02:33so
01:02:34it's just
01:02:37a guilty feeling for me at the moment
01:02:39so
01:02:41I miss him
01:02:42you know
01:02:43especially when you're here
01:02:44you know
01:02:45really?
01:02:46well yeah well because when you're here
01:02:47I think you know
01:02:48if he was here as well
01:02:49it would be like
01:02:50I'd love you two to get along
01:02:51and then it would be like
01:02:53perfect little world
01:02:57I guess it's just painful to
01:02:59to think about it
01:03:02it's okay to have feelings
01:03:04it's okay to be upset
01:03:06if you weren't emotional about your son
01:03:08and you didn't feel this way
01:03:10I would be worried
01:03:11I'd be very very worried
01:03:13it means you're a good dad
01:03:15and it means you care
01:03:20you know
01:03:21it's like having a son's a responsibility
01:03:22and like excitement
01:03:23and you do things with him
01:03:24and then when something like that gets taken away from you
01:03:27you're like
01:03:28I feel like I lost myself
01:03:31yeah I feel like I've sort of lost a bit of myself
01:03:36my relationship with my son
01:03:37we're really tight
01:03:39I've been there since he was born
01:03:41he's my little partner in crime
01:03:42um
01:03:43we go camping
01:03:44we go fishing
01:03:45surfing
01:03:46you know we kick footballs
01:03:47we go and play golf
01:03:48it's such a good part of my life
01:03:51so
01:03:52it really did hurt
01:03:53this year
01:03:54when I didn't have that
01:03:57I want to help
01:03:58make you feel like
01:04:00you're back together
01:04:03I want to be that rock for you
01:04:07I ain't gonna do that
01:04:10be there for you
01:04:11support you in any way I can
01:04:12but you have to let me into your life
01:04:15I can't do that without getting brought into your life
01:04:20this is very emotional
01:04:22because being away from my son
01:04:23affected me
01:04:24you know more than I thought
01:04:26but I don't want that to hold me back
01:04:28from bringing Elise fully into my life
01:04:30I can see that she really really cares
01:04:33she's shown that she's worthy of you know
01:04:35getting to know my son
01:04:37but at the same time
01:04:38it is scary to let her in
01:04:40the most important part of my life
01:04:42what if things don't work out
01:04:43you know that's going to be
01:04:44pretty devastating for all of us
01:04:47well I'm here for you now
01:05:10I mean, after getting her family's approval
01:05:17I just f*** it up.
01:05:51My family is happy that you're going to give me a baby.
01:06:15I'm nervous that I've agreed and told them yes, that I'm willing to have a child, but it felt great
01:06:23to get Trisha's father's blessing.
01:06:25Overall, I've been enjoying my time with Trisha's family, but I'm sure glad that we're headed back to Antananarivo.
01:06:33Now Trisha and I, we can sleep together and, you know, take a nice warm shower together and not have
01:06:39to worry about the eyeballs on us.
01:06:44They were really happy.
01:06:47Wasn't it?
01:06:50I thought there was going to be, like, fireworks set off after I said that after I agreed to have
01:06:57that baby.
01:06:58They are so sweet.
01:07:00Gonna miss them.
01:07:04I'm ready to have a baby, but what if you change your mind?
01:07:13Baby, as long as we're going and moving in the right direction, I'm all on board with having a baby
01:07:20with you.
01:07:21Because I know that it'll make you happy. I know that's what you really want.
01:07:27I still have these doubts lingering in the back of my mind about whether or not I'm financially ready to
01:07:35have another child.
01:07:37But I know that if I don't follow through with my promises, this could put Trish in a very bad
01:07:44situation with her family.
01:07:46I know how much her family means to her. So I feel like I have to keep my word.
01:07:54I'm hoping in time that I'd be in a better situation to financially support another child.
01:08:03Yeah, I'm kind of banking on that.
01:08:07Looks like we're starting to get everything mapped out, huh?
01:08:11Our future.
01:08:15Yeah.
01:08:18Do that.
01:08:20Baby, I love you more than anything.
01:08:32You have to eat in the restroom or anything?
01:08:35No, I don't. I don't eat anything but Trish dog or any chicken.
01:08:45Well, damn.
01:08:47I'm flying to Linda Lane. That's it.
01:08:50We wait for one hour.
01:08:52Hope this bad boy is going straight to Tanner.
01:08:57Couple of days in Tanner before my baby.
01:09:07That's really sad.
01:09:09Sad story.
01:09:12It's just all beginning.
01:09:15I'll go.
01:09:39We were waiting on our flight and it just kept getting delayed.
01:09:44The whole while Trish is asking me if I loved her.
01:09:48I kept telling her, yes, I love you.
01:09:52Eventually, she says, you know why I'm asking?
01:09:56And then Trish demanded that I give her my phone.
01:10:02It kind of hit me that I noticed she kept looking over at my phone.
01:10:10And she probably saw that my ex had texted me.
01:10:15Is this the same ex you went to see in Columbia?
01:10:20Yes.
01:10:41And she was telling me that, you know, she misses the times that we had together.
01:10:47And I responded.
01:10:49And I responded inappropriately.
01:11:10And I responded inappropriately.
01:11:17I can't wait for him.
01:11:18Why?
01:11:26He told me that he's not talking to his ex.
01:11:29That it's just completely over between Rick and that girl.
01:11:34But they start talking while we are at my father's house.
01:11:42baby
01:11:48he makes me sad
01:11:58like i love him we talk about the babies the future and
01:12:07i wish my dad just give him blessing
01:12:24i mean after getting her family's approval everything just felt it felt different than
01:12:31it the whole couple weeks prior how did i come so close to getting my what i wanted and then
01:12:41i just
01:12:46i'm not sure if i'll get another chance to make things right with trish
01:12:50and it feels like this is really the end and the final chapter
01:13:03are there plans being made and arrangements made to get you over to the united states
01:13:09we are leaving tomorrow
01:13:11i know my mom is not going to accept it but i'm ready to do what i need to do
01:13:17to ensure
01:13:17she and i are together i have decided i'm going to stay here in the philippines this is our
01:13:24choice what's that you just came out of your mouth
01:13:46man i'm super glad that we were able to sleep in today
01:13:48i know he feels relaxed with mom is sitting around in her bed and sorrow
01:14:05so when i talked to forrest he's like oh surprise mom i went and met with a lawyer and the
01:14:12lawyer
01:14:12says he has to have like certain amount of income something like like that he didn't do anything
01:14:18right at all
01:14:20i'm upset right now forrest is coming back and for the last few days dev and i haven't heard
01:14:26anything from forrest or sheena and we've just felt like we're kind of been left in the dark
01:14:31you know i don't know what to expect when they get back from their little rendezvous romantic vacation
01:14:41i don't know what the conversation is gonna be
01:14:47we're supposed to be flying out tomorrow and we're not sure what they're thinking or planning at all
01:15:03hey mom how's things going it's going pretty good how are you guys
01:15:13well i think we need to have a talk yeah i think we need to figure things out a little
01:15:19bit
01:15:19yeah that's kind of why we're here
01:15:25today is supposed to be my last day in the philippines but she and i have made the decision
01:15:31for me to stay here and basically start a life here with her you ready yeah we're gonna go let's
01:15:38go all right guys i know that my mom is not going to accept it but she has to understand
01:15:45that i'm not
01:15:46the child that you know she's seen all these years i have changed a lot this trip and i'm ready
01:15:53to do
01:15:53what i need to do to ensure shannon and i are together
01:15:59oh my god wow look at that
01:16:15came from originally from a punishment during the spanish era that people would have to put their
01:16:21feet and they have to avoid the bamboo while hitting its feet
01:16:24it's just it's just it tells a whole story it's just a damn i agree oh my goodness oh look
01:16:30at that
01:16:31yay oh thank you oh that's beautiful good job guys that's awesome well you realize you have to be
01:16:39not only in a rhythm with the bamboo but you have to be in a rhythm with your partner too
01:16:45at the same
01:16:46time kind of like life well i think she and i will work moving in perfect rhythm
01:16:56yeah definitely
01:17:02so she and do we get menus or how does how does it work
01:17:06there's a set menu that's going to be prepared so you can try guys
01:17:13oh
01:17:15thank you so much
01:17:19so with the the um where where you guys went just fill me in what happened and give me all
01:17:26the details
01:17:28um yeah i feel like me and sheena we really bonded
01:17:35in more ways than one
01:17:44you had sex didn't you
01:17:49you know what yeah we did
01:17:53now time i enjoyed it it was fun yeah
01:18:01you guys think that you have a good physical connection with each other yeah i feel like
01:18:10our souls really connected when now we can really understand each other
01:18:18i'm happy that you know my son finally lost his virginity finally you know
01:18:29then also too that's an important aspect to know if they had compatibility on all aspects including
01:18:36sexuality well that's good i'm glad you guys are both de virginized finally that's yeah mom
01:18:45you
01:18:48well you know it's a sad thing that we have to leave you and that forest has to leave you
01:18:54tomorrow
01:18:55but it must be very painful but are there plans being made and arrangements made somehow to
01:19:06try and get you over to the united states
01:19:10do you guys talk make any plans because this is we are leaving tomorrow
01:19:20yeah we we talked a lot yesterday um with the k-1 visa i found out that being on disability
01:19:30i don't make enough money so she and i have decided that i'm going to stay here and live here
01:19:38in the
01:19:39philippines forrest i'm tired of being alone oh my god i did not expect to be staying here long term
01:19:50oh you didn't expect to fall i want my love with me in my second half this is our choice
01:19:58what's that you just came out of your mouth
01:20:01mom where's your list of pros and cons that you wrote out was that in between the
01:20:07excuse me you could say one thing something you want to say but for me i have him he had
01:20:12me i don't
01:20:13care if you're here for my i'm doing my best because i love your son and i've worked everything
01:20:18for hard for him for our future i want you to trust your son for once in a while
01:20:26i trust my son i don't trust you
01:20:34sorry i just want to need space sorry
01:20:47next time on before the 90 days when do you plan on applying for the fiance visa
01:20:53i thought you were gonna apply for me in the u.s
01:21:01no stig never mentioned wanting to move to the u.s it's two hours before i'm leaving it's just really
01:21:07weird timing you won't be able to make any money i swear you're gonna be my sugar mama
01:21:13i wish we could have talked it out last night you've been texting with him this morning what has
01:21:18he been saying i asked him if we could talk and he said sure so i want to show him
01:21:25that my feelings
01:21:26for him are so much stronger than how i ever felt about michael why did you mislead me like michael
01:21:33made
01:21:34the move i was worried you would try to put a stop to my friendship with him can you do
01:21:41that
01:21:45are you excited about today i think i should ask you that question though
01:21:50i just don't know what i'm gonna say for my vows
01:21:53it's just gonna be like the basics i just wanted today to be full of love but it just feels
01:22:02like
01:22:03any other day for him i don't know you can't pretend that everything is fine
01:22:12i love your son and i'll do anything my best for you love doesn't pay the bills gina you know
01:22:18i'm like
01:22:18in panic mode that he's going to move to the philippines it's not going to work it won't work
01:22:24how much do you think that you're going to make working here where are you going to live for us
01:22:30have you even factored how much it's going to cost i don't know what to do
01:22:37all the messages and the text why did you betray me why don't you block her
01:22:44if you want this relationship tell her that you don't want her anymore that i'm with you
01:22:51i love trish but love isn't so black and white i need to be honest about my feelings
01:23:00i don't know what to do
01:23:04oh my god stunning i don't think at least realized you know what she signed up for
01:23:14come on baby
01:23:18yeah first i'm just thinking she's being a drama queen
01:23:23i start to think oh is she okay
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