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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 14: Prepare for Immediate Descent
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Wow.
00:00:05This is your room.
00:00:06Wait, wait, wait, wait, what?
00:00:09Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:00:10Didn't have one.
00:00:11I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate.
00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there.
00:00:18Good night.
00:00:19Good night.
00:00:20Feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:00:22But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life
00:00:25that she's not exactly happy with.
00:00:28You keep talking about your ex, you keep bringing him up.
00:00:31I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:00:34I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be
00:00:37introduced to your family.
00:00:39I told you, yes.
00:00:41These issues just keep popping up.
00:00:43And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me,
00:00:48I'm feeling this is like make or break.
00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena.
00:00:57I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself.
00:01:00And then you just pull this little sneaky .
00:01:02Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
00:01:05Sheena and I are going to move forward.
00:01:07You're going to be in our lives, but.
00:01:09You might be surprised, Forrest.
00:01:11I'm so disappointed.
00:01:12My mom would actually step away rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
00:01:16That's tearing me apart.
00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
00:01:23You see it like a power.
00:01:25I don't have any.
00:01:26Because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me.
00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:01:34I think that you got comfortable.
00:01:36Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
00:01:38You don't want a bitchy wife, don't be a asshole.
00:01:45Don't come home, ever.
00:01:49I love you so much.
00:01:50What?
00:01:51Stop telling me lies.
00:01:52There is more to tell him, and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
00:01:57So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
00:02:01I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
00:02:03You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
00:02:08It's not...
00:02:09Don't come...
00:02:10It's not as bad as...
00:02:11Don't come close to me.
00:02:42You're the best man that I've been with in 21 years.
00:02:42Okay
00:02:44Thank you for taking care of me last night. That's all right. I can't have you feeling sick as soon
00:02:50as you get here
00:02:55I feel so bad like every hour I was making you get up and get me water and so who
00:03:05needs like you're a very big caretaker
00:03:08Yeah, well long flight and you weren't feeling this so you know you're such a good boy
00:03:16I arrived in sydney yesterday and I met my boyfriend joshua for the first time face to face
00:03:23The plan was for josh to sleep on the couch last night, but I was up every hour of the
00:03:29night
00:03:30I was coughing. I was shivering and he decided to come in the bed with me and take care of
00:03:35me all night
00:03:36It just feels like it's like a sinus infection almost like it's just like yeah swollen here
00:03:41Maybe you can go get me on like nose spray
00:03:45Yeah
00:03:47I am a needy bitch
00:03:49Especially when I'm sick. I need my man to attend to me like a golden retriever puppy like running like
00:03:55catching a ball
00:03:56Joshua does that
00:03:58I feel a little better now with like all the water you've been making me drink and then I was
00:04:03took my medicine
00:04:04That's good. It's probably a good start
00:04:07What is it?
00:04:09It's Vegemite
00:04:10What's that?
00:04:11You have to try it. It's a big thing in Australia
00:04:13It smells like
00:04:15Sardines
00:04:16There's no fish in it
00:04:20Just take a big bite
00:04:26Suck!
00:04:26Is it good?
00:04:28It's not bad
00:04:30No, I don't like it
00:04:32I don't like it
00:04:34Joshua, what is that?
00:04:36Is that fish?
00:04:37It's not fish
00:04:40Do you want a tissue?
00:04:43It's a condiment
00:04:45I don't know how to explain it
00:04:46And you love it?
00:04:47Yeah, I do love it on toast
00:04:49You're not Australian. If you're not eating Vegemite
00:04:51Tastes like
00:04:53I hated it
00:04:58All right, take this Vegemite away from me
00:05:00All right
00:05:01There's other stuff like berries and yogurt and stuff
00:05:04So I'll grab you that
00:05:05Yes
00:05:06And then if you feel a bit better
00:05:07Maybe you want to go wander up to the beach
00:05:10And see Bondi
00:05:12Yeah
00:05:12All right, well don't make me sick
00:05:17I feel like
00:05:18I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night
00:05:21Well, we might get Toms too then
00:05:28Wow, so this is your beach?
00:05:31This is it
00:05:31Oh my God, all the guys that wear the what's the Speedo thing
00:05:36I can't, I can't, I can't
00:05:42Wow, the sand feels so nice
00:05:44Very different than Miami
00:05:45It's like really soft
00:05:49Do you want to go in?
00:05:51Yep
00:05:51Wait, I have to change
00:05:53Towels in my bag
00:05:55So let's figure this out
00:05:57So here's to cover me
00:05:59Okay
00:06:02How about you do that, by this?
00:06:03Well, this one, I can just go like this
00:06:05Yeah
00:06:09My top is off
00:06:11Hold me, hold me
00:06:13How do you do this part?
00:06:15All right, so now we're going to go down
00:06:16Okay
00:06:17So
00:06:18How are you going to do that now?
00:06:25I'm losing it
00:06:27Hold it
00:06:30Voila
00:06:31Well done
00:06:35That was pretty impressive
00:06:38Are you going to protect me if they're sharks?
00:06:41Yeah, I'll do my best
00:06:42Okay, ready?
00:06:45Okay
00:06:57It's actually insane to even think that
00:06:59I haven't even been here a full 24 hours
00:07:02And it's so natural
00:07:04There's a lot of sexual chemistry there
00:07:06We're so touchy-feely
00:07:09But he seems a little reserved
00:07:12So I'm just trying to feel him out
00:07:17I mean, I do have three weeks here
00:07:19And I came here to find my potential husband
00:07:22So getting to be alone with Joshua
00:07:24It's nice because I want to get into the deeper stuff
00:07:27For sure
00:07:32Holy cowl
00:07:33Holy cowl
00:07:34It's funny, you see adults in there freezing
00:07:36And then you see like little kids
00:07:38And they're just like policking around for hours
00:07:41I think when I was a kid
00:07:43I spent every day at the beach
00:07:44We'd be swimming in the pool every morning
00:07:47Okay
00:07:48But then in the afternoons
00:07:50We'd be like doing the board training
00:07:52Every single afternoon
00:07:54I love learning about you
00:07:56I want to get to know everything about you
00:07:58I want to know the heart
00:07:59Like I want you to open up
00:08:00I feel like you're reserved
00:08:04Were you reserved in your last serious relationship?
00:08:07Yeah, I probably was
00:08:08A bit reserved in my last relationship
00:08:10I was, yeah
00:08:11One big fear is probably, I don't know
00:08:13Opening up
00:08:13And then having it use
00:08:16Like against me
00:08:18You know
00:08:22In my previous relationship
00:08:24We dated for seven years
00:08:27But I never felt secure
00:08:29I just felt like I wasn't good enough for her
00:08:32She just wanted me to be, you know
00:08:34Super successful
00:08:37And I was constantly being told
00:08:39If I wasn't, she would walk away
00:08:42So I was always living in fear, I guess
00:08:45She could just end it at any time
00:08:48Ultimately
00:08:49I had my heart broken
00:08:50And I'm closed off because of that
00:08:54Like are you constantly thinking
00:08:56Like it's something on your mind
00:08:57Or like it's just
00:08:59Yeah, I'm always thinking
00:09:00Always, always thinking
00:09:01What's your top thought right now?
00:09:04That this is
00:09:05I like that you're sort of asking these questions
00:09:08But you know
00:09:09It's scary at the same time
00:09:11It gives us opening up
00:09:12And being vulnerable
00:09:14No, I get it
00:09:15Like
00:09:16Opening up can be scary
00:09:19But
00:09:19You know what?
00:09:21You made me feel safe already
00:09:22Really?
00:09:23That's like an early
00:09:24Early call
00:09:25So
00:09:26Hopefully I'll do the same thing
00:09:28Yeah
00:09:29I feel safe with you too
00:09:32Hi
00:09:33Hi
00:09:39I've never really had a guy say that to me actually
00:09:41Like
00:09:42Guys have said
00:09:43A lot of things to me
00:09:44But
00:09:44Feeling safe is not one I've heard
00:09:47It feels good
00:09:49I don't think there's anything sexier
00:09:51Than a man being vulnerable
00:09:53So
00:09:54Yeah
00:09:55The plan was to wait
00:09:56But like
00:09:57He's so sweet to me
00:09:59He's so attentive to me
00:10:00He's letting his guard down
00:10:01Like it's hard to resist a sexy man
00:10:03That's treating you well
00:10:04So we'll see
00:10:19It's not
00:10:20Don't
00:10:21It's not as bad
00:10:22Don't come close to me
00:10:25Daniel
00:10:28You're telling me you have been a lesbian
00:10:32Listen
00:10:32Don't
00:10:33Don't
00:10:34Don't
00:10:34Don't try it
00:10:34Listen
00:10:35Don't even
00:10:36Don't
00:10:36Don't
00:10:37Don't try it
00:10:37Listen
00:10:38I'm telling you the truth before we talk to your uncle
00:10:43I want it all out
00:10:44That's why I said I needed another day
00:10:46I wanted you to know everything
00:10:52Daniel
00:10:54Daniel
00:10:54Daniel
00:10:55Don't come close to me
00:10:57Please try to understand
00:11:01You don't know how hard it was to
00:11:03You have a lot of secrets
00:11:04I have no more secrets
00:11:06Just listen, please
00:11:08I'm trying to tell you who I am
00:11:10Jesus Christ
00:11:12I'm not a lesbian
00:11:14I'm not straight
00:11:15I'm not bisexual
00:11:17I just believe that people should love people
00:11:20People should love people by their soul
00:11:22And people should love people for who they are on the inside
00:11:25Not on what is on the outside
00:11:30I don't think there's anything wrong with that
00:11:32You told me you have had a series of, you know, relationships
00:11:35I didn't know it's your fellow women
00:11:38Same sex
00:11:41Yes
00:11:42And you have been lying to me
00:11:46I'm sorry
00:11:49You are evil
00:11:52I'm not evil
00:11:53You know me
00:11:54I take care of people
00:11:55And I've even taken care of you
00:11:57I'm not evil
00:11:58I have a good heart
00:11:59And I'm a good person
00:12:01What makes you a good person?
00:12:04Sleeping with your fellow women?
00:12:05That doesn't make me evil
00:12:08I'm still the same person you fell in love with
00:12:12The same person who tell lies and keep secrets
00:12:15I love you
00:12:17I don't want to hear that from your mouth again
00:12:19I love you
00:12:22Don't say that again
00:12:23You can't tell me not to say those words because I mean it
00:12:26I am in love with you, Daniel
00:12:28That's why I'm coming clean to you
00:12:29I could have kept this a secret forever and not told you
00:12:33But I'm telling you
00:12:34Shut your mouth
00:12:35You have been tortured by a woman
00:12:37Not even women, women
00:12:42You are a liar
00:12:44I'm just a person who has been lost
00:12:53Don't
00:12:53Can you hold this ring?
00:12:55No
00:12:57Hold the ring
00:13:00I've seen that from your head to toe
00:13:02It's full of secrets and lies
00:13:05You're full of evil
00:13:08I'm not full of evil, Daniel
00:13:11I'm staying in my room tonight
00:13:26I'm trying to have seen it all
00:13:28But she keep on vomiting secrets
00:13:32No, no, no, no, no, no
00:13:38I didn't think he'd call me evil
00:13:41I'm not evil
00:13:43I just believe a person loves a person
00:13:45And I don't think there's anything wrong with that
00:13:53Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am
00:13:56You know what?
00:13:58him
00:14:12You're officially on the deep knee
00:14:14I only have a week left here in the Philippines
00:14:17And I don't want to waste any time bringing Sheena to America
00:14:21So I have to be very clear here
00:14:24If you file today for the K-1 visa
00:14:27It will be denied
00:14:37But she can't for sure
00:14:54We are legacy
00:14:58The tattoos coming
00:15:19This is going to be like a village environment, right?
00:15:22Yeah.
00:15:25Yesterday, we traveled from Nusi Bay to Fort Dauphin.
00:15:28My hometown.
00:15:31We arrived late, so we stayed in a hotel.
00:15:34And now we are going to my family's village for a few days.
00:15:40I can't forget my baby wipes.
00:15:42I don't know how you guys wash your ass in the village.
00:15:45We used water.
00:15:50We had a big fight last night.
00:15:52I still love him, and I want him to meet my family.
00:15:56But I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick.
00:16:05I don't want to ruin this vacation.
00:16:07But the way you talked to me yesterday, I don't like.
00:16:16I went a little overboard.
00:16:18I'm sorry for that.
00:16:21I'm sorry for raising my voice to you.
00:16:25It's just I was so frustrated, you know, hearing about your ex-boyfriend constantly.
00:16:33I mean, I can't move forward if you're going to keep going back.
00:16:42Okay, I promise I'm not going to talk about my ex.
00:16:49Okay.
00:16:50We are going to see my family, and I don't want to go there in a bad mood.
00:16:56I want them to accept you because I want this relationship work.
00:17:03I do, too.
00:17:06I overreacted yesterday.
00:17:09It seemed like she was taunting me over something that she already knows that I'm insecure about.
00:17:15And it just totally set me off.
00:17:18I want to be here, and I want to really give this a chance.
00:17:25Yeah.
00:17:26There's definitely a strong connection between her and I.
00:17:30And I'm glad that Trish is willing to forgive me.
00:17:37So I think we can, like, get a quickie in before we go.
00:17:42What?
00:17:43No!
00:17:48Let's go now.
00:17:55Nice chips right here.
00:17:57Yeah, it's nice.
00:18:11It's quiet, you see?
00:18:12Not much people.
00:18:14Not what I expected.
00:18:17Ooh!
00:18:19This is rough roads.
00:18:23The roots are made of aluminum.
00:18:26It must get noisy when it rains, huh?
00:18:28Yeah.
00:18:30What?
00:18:34I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village.
00:18:40Everything is just simple.
00:18:42There is no running water, no fancy toilet.
00:18:47But everybody are kind in my village, and it's beautiful.
00:18:54Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
00:18:56Yeah, to see me.
00:18:58What about me?
00:19:01They going to be happy to see me, baby?
00:19:03I don't know.
00:19:04Meet me?
00:19:06They're happy because I bring a boyfriend.
00:19:09Oh, OK.
00:19:10And they will tell me if you were the good person for me or not.
00:19:18Yeah, I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast.
00:19:24I feel a little bit scared.
00:19:28My family won't accept Rick.
00:19:32Men in my tribe is very strong.
00:19:36When they don't like something, they are really aggressive.
00:19:42Rick thinks he can handle any situation, but he can't.
00:19:47I'm worried.
00:19:49He doesn't know what he's in for.
00:19:54Is it right here?
00:19:56Yeah, it's here.
00:19:58There's no turning back.
00:20:10So we're going to have to call a jeep.
00:20:12I'm super duper nervous about riding one.
00:20:15Oh, you're going to have to.
00:20:16How's that work?
00:20:18Well, you can see those signboards.
00:20:19Uh-huh.
00:20:20You just have to find the right location.
00:20:22Then, we just have to kill Para.
00:20:25Oh.
00:20:25Para is to stop.
00:20:26Oh.
00:20:31So here.
00:20:32Oh, here?
00:20:34Yes.
00:20:35All right.
00:20:37We're officially on the jeepney.
00:20:42Oh, there it is.
00:20:44The big car.
00:20:45Ah!
00:20:47Whoa!
00:20:49I'm surprisingly not tapping the top too hardcore.
00:20:53Yeah.
00:20:53It's hot.
00:20:54It smells like diesel.
00:20:59It's been a couple days since I proposed to Sheena, and we are just over the moon in love with
00:21:05each other.
00:21:06But not everyone's happy.
00:21:08Oh!
00:21:09My mom is still mad at me because I proposed to Sheena against her guidance.
00:21:16And the vibe in the condo is just really awkward.
00:21:22So Sheena and I have been trying to do our own thing.
00:21:24Oh, my gosh.
00:21:26So this is the volunteer.
00:21:28All right.
00:21:29Here we go.
00:21:30We're getting off.
00:21:31Oh, yeah.
00:21:31Thank you so much.
00:21:33While it really hurts that my mom has distanced herself, right now is not the time to put the brakes
00:21:37on things.
00:21:38I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:21:40And I don't want to waste any time in bringing Sheena to America.
00:21:46Good morning.
00:21:47Will you have an appointment with Mr. Alexander King, please?
00:21:50Yes.
00:21:51Now that we're finally engaged, I called an immigration lawyer in Manila just so we can get a consultation.
00:21:58Oh, hi, sir.
00:22:00Hi.
00:22:00Good morning.
00:22:01My name is Sheena.
00:22:03How are you?
00:22:04Nice to meet you.
00:22:05Nice to meet you.
00:22:07There you are.
00:22:07Good afternoon.
00:22:08Good afternoon, sir.
00:22:09Welcome to our office.
00:22:11And welcome to the Philippines.
00:22:13I've been enjoying my stay.
00:22:15Okay.
00:22:15So, for this consultation, I would like to, you know, make an assessment.
00:22:21Of course.
00:22:22Sure.
00:22:22If you are eligible for the K-1 visa.
00:22:25Yeah.
00:22:25Now, how long have you been in this relationship?
00:22:29Seven years.
00:22:30Seven years.
00:22:30Seven years.
00:22:32And you have never been convicted of any crime in the U.S.?
00:22:35No.
00:22:36Okay.
00:22:36Speak clean.
00:22:38Yeah.
00:22:39Yeah.
00:22:40When I walk, you can hear.
00:22:41So, are you working right now?
00:22:46Currently, I'm not working.
00:22:49But I can prove that I'm getting paid monthly.
00:22:52Okay.
00:22:53I'm receiving disability benefits, which is, it's a good enough amount to have me, you know,
00:23:00live my basic life and, you know, get an apartment and get food, all that good stuff.
00:23:08I see.
00:23:09So, I have to be very clear here.
00:23:14You know, disability benefits is not an income.
00:23:19You know, you cannot consider that income.
00:23:22The annual income for petitioners for K-1 visa is more or less $26,500 USD.
00:23:31Now, is that shared between the both?
00:23:33No, it's only the petitioner.
00:23:34Only the petitioner.
00:23:35That's for the petitioner.
00:23:35Okay.
00:23:38So, if you will file today, for example, it will be denied.
00:23:47My suggestion is you build your financial capacity, you know, find gainful employment, then you can proceed.
00:23:58I am in complete shock right now.
00:24:01I feel devastated to find out that my disability payments that I get monthly does not count towards the amount
00:24:09that I need to bring to the United States.
00:24:11Because, to be honest, because of my autism, I am terrified about working full-time and starting a job.
00:24:22In the past, I've had jobs that ended awfully because I didn't understand or I messed up.
00:24:31But, but my back is at a wall right now that if I don't get a job, our entire dream
00:24:39of bringing Gina to the United States is done.
00:24:43So, let's say, you know, I go back home.
00:24:46Yeah.
00:24:46So, let's say, you know, I go back home.
00:24:59Yeah.
00:25:00And I instantly start working.
00:25:02Yeah.
00:25:02And then you will meet another year at least to have the petition approved and bring your fiancé to the
00:25:11U.S.
00:25:12Yeah.
00:25:16It's quite frustrating for me that I'm the only one who's been working.
00:25:21If he happened to have a job, then he could have acquired the CAVA visa sooner.
00:25:30I'm worried that since Forrest has a disability, it will be quite difficult for him to get and hold a
00:25:37job long term.
00:25:39Is there any other options?
00:25:43So, depending on your goal, here in the Philippine immigration, we have a straightforward process.
00:25:49If you get married here and he comes to the Philippines and live here, there is no requirement of financial
00:25:54capacity.
00:25:55Okay.
00:25:56Okay.
00:25:56So, there will be a 100% chance that the petition will be approved.
00:26:02Okay.
00:26:04Okay.
00:26:05So, these options will depend on your goal.
00:26:12At this point, it's sounding almost impossible for Forrest to bring me to the U.S.
00:26:18I know it's going to be difficult, but I think he's going to have to consider other options.
00:26:29Yeah.
00:26:33I don't know. I'm just real pissed off. And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads. I don't know how
00:26:39to move forward.
00:26:52Can I at least have my wallet?
00:26:54No.
00:26:55Okay.
00:26:56Yeah.
00:26:57Don't talk to me. Don't come to me.
00:27:06You think you can just treat me this way, humiliate me all the time.
00:27:10All right.
00:27:11I'm going to just give you space, all right?
00:27:15All right, I'm just going to give you space, all right?
00:27:31All right.
00:27:43I'm going to leave my husband there.
00:27:56That's him.
00:28:15I will be very guilty if I leave him on the street, but just to be clear, I'm very pissed
00:28:22at him. He promised a really good day, but of course, he needs to ruin the moment, because
00:28:31it's not Jubon if he doesn't.
00:28:41Anna, am I allowed to come in?
00:29:01We're just going to leave him for now. Just give her space, man, so she can just come. We'll
00:29:09talk about it when she's ready.
00:29:13I just feel really hopeless with Anna, because I'm putting in massive effort to show Anna that
00:29:21I can be romantic, and, you know, she storms out of the nail salon place, and it's just,
00:29:29I don't know, I'm just real pissed off that she would make a scene in public like this,
00:29:34and at this moment, I'm at a crossroads. I don't know how to move forward.
00:29:41Mama, your day good? It's okay.
00:29:46Every time he were having a good time, he would do this to me, right in front, in public.
00:29:54It's so humiliating. I don't think it's powerless. The fact that he could upset me this much
00:30:01definitely has power, obviously, relationship.
00:30:09Hello?
00:30:10Hello?
00:30:12Kumusta nung baby ni Nana?
00:30:17Nakainis ako kay Joon?
00:30:20Bakit?
00:30:20Makaka bad trip kasi.
00:30:23Bakit?
00:30:23Kasi gusto niya yung relasyon namin dahil lalaki siya, siya dumi nante.
00:30:27Ganito, ganyan, ganyan.
00:30:30Ayoko nang ginaganyan ako.
00:30:31Nakainis ako.
00:30:34Walang nakikita yan.
00:30:40Kasawa na kayo.
00:30:42Uusap kayo. Pag-usapan niya.
00:30:44Ayoko nga makikipag-usap kasi na uwi sa pagtatalo eh.
00:30:50Kaya, huwag mong hayaang masirang relasyon niyo.
00:30:55I am so, so, so tired of it, Jobo.
00:30:58I have to be this timid...
00:31:00Anna, I'm not trying to get you to change.
00:31:03Soft-spoken woman.
00:31:04It's like I've, like, sacrificed a lot of my life
00:31:10so you can be happy.
00:31:11And even when I do the things you want me to do,
00:31:13it's something else you want me to do.
00:31:18So I'm like, look, I just give up.
00:31:21There's nothing else that I can do to make you, you know, happy.
00:31:27I feel exactly the same sometimes.
00:31:39I'm so cold.
00:31:40Can I have a shower with me?
00:31:42Okay.
00:31:44I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:31:46Maybe.
00:31:48But, I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:31:51I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:31:53Ha-ha!
00:32:14That's it.
00:32:17It's so cold in here.
00:32:19Wow.
00:32:24I'm so cold.
00:32:25Can I have a shower with me?
00:32:27Okay.
00:32:29Never thought you would ask.
00:32:39How many f***ing things...
00:32:39No, no, no!
00:32:40I do not have a shower with you!
00:32:43No, no, no, no!
00:32:44I'm so cold!
00:32:44I'm so cold.
00:32:45I'm so cold, I'm so cold.
00:32:45Every f***ing thing here is cold!
00:32:53I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:32:56Maybe.
00:32:57but Joshua and I are both super sandy and gross from the ocean and I mean like I wanted to
00:33:04save
00:33:04water I'm a big environmentalist you know I'm trying to control myself but Josh is just like
00:33:14so hot and we've been making out all day you know in the back of my mind I do have
00:33:19some questions
00:33:20and I do want to see more of him and more of his life but like at this point like
00:33:25it feels right
00:33:26so I bought some massage oil and then I think there's some wine maybe you can have a glass and
00:33:32relax I love it okay perfect baby coming yeah everything feels really natural everything
00:33:53feels like it's progressing between us we're just drawn to each other which is you know really
00:33:59exciting we had an amazing day together and I want to pamper Elise now's the time to pour some wine
00:34:07um you know light a candle and you know show that I've got skills
00:34:16wow look at this
00:34:19welcome to Sydney making you feel better more relaxed cheers
00:34:34feel like a massage yeah I would love one this doesn't mean you're necessarily sleeping in the
00:34:40bed tonight it's okay I didn't speak it lay on your stomach okay
00:34:54it's all right wow that's a lot of oil
00:35:03you can go harder harder
00:35:10you're like trying to be like a little respectful but come on don't be a little bitch
00:35:18give me like everything slap on the ass yeah slap on the ass like grab my hair with the oil
00:35:23in it
00:35:23I mean I don't have extensions for nothing rip me around a little bit here
00:35:30wow it's a family show I thought you said
00:35:37yeah shaking I can feel it you reckon
00:35:49all right guys
00:35:50what the are you doing
00:36:00the timing on me
00:36:02hi Chris
00:36:04yeah hi nice
00:36:06now it's a party
00:36:07now it's a party
00:36:20you know there's better places to give a naked massage in the house than the communal area
00:36:25you know what you're absolutely right yeah but um you know I think I was just blind with lust
00:36:38all right well I'm gonna go to my room
00:36:44well that just ruined the moment
00:36:47this is exactly why I don't want a guy with roommate
00:36:52can you button me back up
00:36:55I'm like literally in my bra and underwear
00:36:58showing your skin to other people
00:37:01who is that not me
00:37:03who would have
00:37:03no I'm not embarrassed like I'll get naked in front of everyone we know that
00:37:06but like Chris walks in as your hands are groping my body and it's like such a sexual nice night
00:37:13and like
00:37:13yeah I probably should have done it in the bedroom
00:37:15not my finest hour
00:37:16oh sorry baby
00:37:18well that killed the mood
00:37:20for now
00:37:23okay
00:37:36oh hell no
00:37:43I'm a little bit I'm the rest of his reaction in front of my father
00:37:48paper for the
00:37:50this is paper to write on
00:37:53you wipe this
00:37:54yes
00:37:56stop it
00:38:19wow man this is where you grew up
00:38:22yeah it's here
00:38:35hey
00:38:37yeah
00:38:37that your rooster
00:38:38no not mine but my neighbors
00:38:41oh okay
00:38:42we just got to the area of Trish's family home
00:38:46I've never seen a home where you have to walk so far to get to off the main road
00:38:53oh this is a journey
00:38:54don't complain
00:38:57but I'm happy to be here with Trish because I want a future with her
00:39:02and if I can get her family's approval
00:39:35I think that she would be able to see that I'm a good person
00:39:36who is this
00:39:36my brother
00:39:37oh this is your brother
00:39:38yeah
00:39:39my brother
00:39:40yes
00:39:40yes
00:39:40for vod
00:39:44how you doing
00:39:46nice to meet you
00:39:47nice to meet you
00:39:47nice to meet you
00:39:48nice to meet you
00:39:49nice to meet you
00:39:50Trish has told me that she has a huge family
00:39:53and they all live on this compound together
00:39:56yeah
00:39:56hi I'm Rick
00:39:58nice to meet you
00:39:59oh this is your brother
00:40:00okay
00:40:05oh how are you
00:40:07this is your sister
00:40:09it's so nice to meet you
00:40:10you look like my grandmother
00:40:13I wasn't expecting that many people
00:40:16you know I keep seeing people pouring in one by one
00:40:21just when I'm thinking that should be everybody there
00:40:24and there's more people coming
00:40:25like how am I going to remember all these people's names
00:40:29and who they are
00:40:32bye bye
00:40:48my dad say you sleep down
00:40:57the Bunk beds remind me of when I was a kid and me and my sister
00:41:01I never imagined myself sleeping in the bunk bed at my age
00:41:06but I respect her dad and their culture
00:41:25there's no running water coming up to wrench you off
00:41:29no
00:41:29and where does this water come from
00:41:32from the river
00:41:33like something under the ground
00:41:36a whale
00:41:37yeah
00:41:40he's going to show you the bathroom
00:41:42okay
00:41:43oh man I smell something already
00:41:48oh hell no
00:41:51all I see is a wooden plank with a hole cut out
00:41:54yeah
00:41:57paper for the
00:42:00wait wait wait
00:42:02this is paper to write on
00:42:05you wipe this
00:42:06yeah
00:42:06wait stop it
00:42:09that's how I
00:42:09sit sit sit
00:42:10in this
00:42:13that's it
00:42:15I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father
00:42:20but I'm not surprised
00:42:23ever since Rick came to Madagascar
00:42:26he complains about everything
00:42:30I don't like the traffic I'll tell you that much already
00:42:33and they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration
00:42:38these are tight quarters right here
00:42:40kind of squished
00:42:43it's hot
00:42:44I hope it's not going to be this hot in those events
00:42:46shouldn't they have like some long tongs
00:42:49no we don't need the long tongs
00:42:51you are the only bougie here afraid of something
00:42:54oh my god terrible
00:42:58this is the living room
00:43:01yeah
00:43:01yeah this is the living room
00:43:11yeah
00:43:13yeah
00:43:19yeah
00:43:20yeah
00:43:25so they approve that you are here
00:43:28and it's going to give us a blessing
00:43:32thank you
00:43:33this blessing is just for accepting you
00:43:35to go around with me
00:43:38okay
00:43:39in my culture
00:43:41you cannot just walk around
00:43:44with a man outside there
00:43:46without your parents' acceptation
00:43:49like it's not a blessing
00:43:51to get engaged
00:43:52no
00:43:53it's just he's giving
00:43:55an authorization
00:43:56to having relationship
00:43:59just for a blessing
00:44:02that's it
00:44:03it is a silver
00:44:05yeah a bracelet
00:44:35that's it
00:44:54thank you
00:44:56thank you for this
00:44:57thank you for this
00:45:06oh is that his
00:45:07yeah he's wrist
00:45:09oh okay
00:45:35until he says i don't want to be with you
00:45:37until he says those words
00:45:38i'm not giving up hope
00:45:40i'm still deeply in love with daniel
00:45:43i believe that if he just gives me a chance
00:45:46he will see that we are meant to be together
00:45:49same sex is a disgrace
00:45:51this is something that you and i cannot settle
00:45:54are you still thinking that there's a chance for us
00:45:56or is there no chance for us daniel
00:46:04and i want to welcome back to the conversation
00:46:38I feel miserable, numb, really sad.
00:46:50But I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
00:46:53I just don't know what happens from here.
00:46:59Last night, I came clean to Daniel.
00:47:01I told him everything.
00:47:03There are no more secrets.
00:47:06And he didn't react good.
00:47:08He called me evil.
00:47:10He didn't talk to me.
00:47:12He looked at me with disgust.
00:47:13He's not accepting who I am.
00:47:16So he slept on the sofa.
00:47:17I slept in the bedroom.
00:47:20I'm mad, and I'm angry, and I'm hurt.
00:47:25But I'm still desperately, madly, deeply in love with Daniel.
00:47:31My plan is to go back to Lagos today.
00:47:33I'm cutting the trip short.
00:47:35There's a big fear he's never going to trust me again and that he's going to leave me.
00:47:39But until he says, I don't want to be with you, until he says those words, I'm not giving up
00:47:44hope.
00:47:47Telling the truth is a heavier weight between Daniel and I.
00:47:51I don't even know if he wants to talk to his uncle anymore about me lying about still being married.
00:47:57But I believe that if he just gives me a chance, looks at me as Lisa, sees me as a
00:48:03person he fell in love with those months ago,
00:48:06that he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:48:09I still want to be with Daniel.
00:48:11But now it's up to him.
00:48:19How do you feel?
00:48:21Lisa is full of lies.
00:48:23I don't think her lies is over.
00:48:25Because she keep on cooking new ones every day.
00:48:29Why did you call her evil?
00:48:31Because she's evil.
00:48:33Keeping all these secrets.
00:48:35I've been thinking that way of how to talk to my uncle about the one she told me already.
00:48:41that she has not been divorced.
00:48:44Not knowing that she has been in a relationship with her fellow women.
00:48:48She's been practicing same sex.
00:48:51So I don't know how I'm going to face him.
00:48:54It's against our tradition.
00:49:04Daniel, can I ask you a question?
00:49:10Just allow me to be.
00:49:12Like, we have to talk.
00:49:13You can't ignore me forever.
00:49:16Please.
00:49:18You need to give me time.
00:49:20I have to think.
00:49:25Can you grab your bags?
00:49:26I can't carry everything to the car.
00:49:30I'm not happy that the person I loved have engaged in this act of same sex.
00:49:37I'm not happy.
00:49:38Another love gone bad again, bad again, bad again.
00:49:44But what obsesses me the most is the lies.
00:49:48I love Nisa.
00:49:50I want to forgive her.
00:49:51But after what she did, I don't trust her anymore.
00:49:55I don't know if I can continue this relationship.
00:49:58You're on your own.
00:49:59Hope you feel the pain of your thoughts inside.
00:50:01Driving you insane.
00:50:03I mean...
00:50:10I think I can't hurt anymore, hurt anymore, and it's already done.
00:50:28I'm so sorry.
00:50:33so are you ever going to talk to me
00:50:37i am totally confused
00:50:40we dated for six months you have every opportunity to tell me whatever you want to tell me
00:50:45but you never did i was scared why didn't you tell my uncle
00:50:51because this is between me and you why does he need to know anything
00:50:56anything yeah you called it anything yeah same sex is a disgrace to any family that involved
00:51:03involved in it it's against our tradition but it's not against american tradition but
00:51:11you're in my country you're in my tribe this is something that you and i cannot settle
00:51:17my uncle i have to be involved are you promising me that you will not go back to practicing same
00:51:23sex daniel if we're married i plan on marrying you for the rest of my life there's not going
00:51:29to be another woman if i'm with you i'm with you are you still thinking that there's a chance
00:51:36for us or is there no chance for us daniel i don't know i don't think i will continue with
00:51:42this relationship until my uncle comes i should have told you i should have told you before
00:51:49i came and then you could have determined if you wanted to even be with me or not be with
00:51:54me and
00:51:54there wouldn't be all these emotions involved and there wouldn't be all this struggle i should have
00:51:58just told you i was scared to tell you and i was scared to lose you i'm scared of losing
00:52:06you
00:52:08this all comes down to his uncle when he finds out that i lied about me being with women for
00:52:1421
00:52:14years i'm worried that his uncle will never forgive me and never accept me and this relationship
00:52:21will be over i don't want to talk about this anymore until my uncle comes please
00:52:45help that now that does not hurt that really hurts yeah it's not that's how you know i'm so
00:52:51sexually attracted to you because i love popping your pimples good
00:53:04did you sleep well i'm pretty tired i can't believe after six months i had sex i feel like
00:53:13i'm not a virgin anymore like i'm a little mad at myself that i should have waited longer but it
00:53:20felt
00:53:20right it was a lot of fun do you think chris hurt us
00:53:28uh possibly how many times did you have sex last night twice it was just too hard to keep our
00:53:37hands
00:53:37off each other and just it felt like it flowed it was like missionary it was great and then like
00:53:43to
00:53:43the side was the other one did you get a glimpse of the picture of chris above i forgot that
00:53:49painting
00:53:50was in the room well you didn't even me doggy style it's like couldn't even see the painting
00:53:54yesterday last night
00:53:58i feel like we're an old married couple yeah like i'm so comfortable with you
00:54:02like usually like at home like if i like sleep with a guy like i just want to like go
00:54:08leave the next day but like i'm stuck with you and i'm here with you and then like
00:54:12i'm happy that i'm here and like i came
00:54:16you know did you
00:54:18i did
00:54:21chris walking in when i'm on the couch getting massage that definitely brought the mood down
00:54:25he had a lot of making up to do if he wanted to have sex and he definitely made it
00:54:29up
00:54:29it was everything i could have dreamed of and more everything about this man is so sexy except
00:54:36the uncircumcised
00:54:39this is the first uncircumcised
00:54:44it's a little weird it's like
00:54:49also there's not like a dictionary on like how to use the extra skin
00:54:53but like like i'm not complaining about it i can deal with that
00:55:01i'm glad that you felt comfortable very quickly
00:55:08i did i'm like one part of me is like super happy but the other part of me is like
00:55:13i should have i should i want to know more
00:55:15that and then but whatever like i shouldn't be so hard on myself
00:55:18just ask anything you want do anything you want say anything you want yeah okay i'll start asking
00:55:24don't hate me okay go
00:55:28so i'm confused about this rental situation like a little annoying that chris like walked
00:55:34in during that like why is he even here with you renting it in the first place
00:55:39because last i knew is you lived with your parents
00:55:42um i mean look we were living together and then we sort of had to get out
00:55:48after we moved out i dropped my stuff to my parents and sort of stayed there for a week
00:55:53but then you know i um i've been living with nat i've been staying at hers because you know
00:56:03she lives a lot closer to work so why i feel like i'm a detective and i'm trying to like
00:56:09navigate
00:56:10this like detective puzzle because you've confused me so much
00:56:14i know now we've talked on the phone a few times but living together i think their relationship's a
00:56:21little weird if it's so platonic and you're just friends why would you have to lie to me about it
00:56:26and tell me you're living with your parents this just smells fishy to me
00:56:33um i just i mean to me it's a little weird that you're living with a girl and like you
00:56:41talk about
00:56:42her a lot too and like i just i don't know like she's my friend you're here you're my you're
00:56:49my
00:56:49girlfriend so that's it's exactly the same as chris i would i would treat exactly the same as i do
00:56:54chris
00:56:55you know like do you guys like share a bathroom like does she see you naked like like how does
00:56:59that
00:56:59work why is that funny no it's funny because you know i get it that's you know i get why
00:57:05you'd ask
00:57:05those questions um yeah of course we share a bathroom but but um she hasn't seen me naked
00:57:11her and i are just friends she's like you know she's a really good friend but you know she knows
00:57:16about you and that you're my partner and you know um i really want you guys here along because it's
00:57:21important for me well you must feel some sort of way because you didn't tell me you lived with her
00:57:29maybe it was a part of me you know not wanting you to get you know jealous and back out
00:57:34of this
00:57:34before you got here so how do i know when you're telling me the truth well that's your job to
00:57:39believe
00:57:40me and it's my job to prove it to you
00:57:44i'm supposed to meet josh's friends tonight including that so i need to take advantage and
00:57:49get the whole picture of him i want to see how joshua treats me in front of her see what
00:57:54she says to
00:57:55me if there's any skeletons in the closet that joshua hasn't told me that i'm gonna find out
00:57:59like what else do i not know that i should know i want to give joshua the benefit of the
00:58:06doubt but i
00:58:06don't fully trust him after this at the end of the day like you know you're you know you're mine
00:58:12and
00:58:13you're my number one priority so
00:58:23oh i'm i'm 52 52
00:58:35they want babies
00:59:01you can help okay that's a goat we call it a wussi
00:59:09oh that's enough this is small enough there
00:59:26oh thank you
00:59:34i don't know if i can hold my legs like this
00:59:37i'm gonna sit like your aunt i'm gonna try that
00:59:47only women are allowed to sit like this
00:59:49she's not gonna sit like this till the end just serving the food so far everything is seem pretty
00:59:58good with rick and my family even though he's acting like an old man
01:00:06my father said you have to use to do it but i know my family is going to be asking
01:00:14him a lot of
01:00:15questions and i don't know how rick is going to respond
01:00:27like what is the intention
01:00:46i love her very much and i'm hoping that that she could possibly love me the same
01:00:54i love her very much
01:01:03i love her very much
01:01:15i love her very much
01:01:42i love her very much
01:02:10i love her very much
01:02:40i love her very much
01:03:10i love her very much
01:04:09i love her very much
01:04:17i love her very much
01:04:41i love her very much
01:05:31my feelings
01:05:32i have so so Seth
01:05:33odour
01:05:33i love her nails
01:05:38josh
01:05:39josh
01:05:39josh
01:05:39josh
01:05:40josh
01:05:41So are you jealous of me?
01:06:19I'm so frustrated with Javon, but it makes me feel good when I look good, so I'm just going to
01:06:26do my own thing.
01:06:30Can we talk?
01:06:40That's all we do, talk. So frustrating.
01:06:49I'm really starting to feel hopeless that we're never going to resolve this problem.
01:06:56Really can't do this submissive thing.
01:07:01I'm afraid that he's trying to change me.
01:07:06But, I mean, this is not like a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship where you can just back out.
01:07:14We're married, so I just can't ignore him forever, especially now that he's in my house.
01:07:27Hey.
01:07:29Hey.
01:07:34I like your outfit.
01:07:38Thanks.
01:07:39I mean, do you want to talk any about yesterday?
01:07:48Sometimes I just can't take your arrogance, Javon.
01:07:57I just think that I feel like I have to fight to be heard.
01:08:01You know, I know you want to come off like, you know, I'm not going to be pushed around.
01:08:04You're going to hear me.
01:08:09It causes more fights than it solves.
01:08:12I get what you're coming from, but this is what you married.
01:08:18I am not the type of woman who would just say yes, just to have peace.
01:08:25Ever since I was a child, I felt like I was voiceless.
01:08:29And I saw my mom, you know, she gone through this domestic abuse in the past.
01:08:34Mm-hmm.
01:08:36The goodness in her was also the reason why she was abused.
01:08:42And I promised myself that's not going to happen to me.
01:08:47Every time you show some sarcastic remarks or arrogance or you raise your voice sometimes,
01:08:55I mean, we argue.
01:08:56My initial reaction is to stand up for myself if I have to.
01:09:04I know, but Anna, you understand I'm not your father.
01:09:08I don't raise my voice at you, and I'm not this person that's trying to, like, dominate you.
01:09:13I know you're not my dad.
01:09:15The point is, you're hard on me.
01:09:19I'm hard on you, but I'm not aggressive with it, you know?
01:09:22I know I've married a strong woman, but you're a little bit too strong.
01:09:27And that can sometimes work against you rather than for you.
01:09:33I grew up with an abusive father.
01:09:38He died a long time ago, but from hearing about my mom's relationship with my dad,
01:09:46I learned from a very young age when to speak up.
01:09:49If I'm not comfortable, I should know how to express my feelings and set boundaries.
01:09:57But maybe there's a way for me to be strong and independent without lashing out.
01:10:07I'm sorry because I haven't realized that I was...
01:10:15And I'll do my best to, you know, I guess just not be so, you know, sarcastic and arrogant, okay?
01:10:28All right?
01:10:30Deal?
01:10:30All right.
01:10:31Come on.
01:10:32Be all right.
01:10:35Work it out, okay?
01:10:39Oh, let's go to the room where it's cool, man.
01:10:42You want to?
01:10:43Yeah.
01:10:43All right.
01:10:46I just know, you know, whatever issues that me and Anna have had, I'm very proud to be worried.
01:10:54Thank you so much, Boo-Boo.
01:10:58I don't know what it is, but every time we make up, he starts to look hot.
01:11:05Oh, yeah?
01:11:06Oh, yeah.
01:11:08Yeah.
01:11:09Yeah.
01:11:10Take me a minute.
01:11:12It's ketchup.
01:11:24I get the feeling that we're going all the way.
01:11:29Because we're falling deep, boy, and I got so much to say.
01:11:33Baby, do I look okay?
01:11:35Absolutely perfect.
01:11:38But it might get a bit cold at night, so maybe grab a top or something.
01:11:43Yeah.
01:11:44And guess what?
01:11:45What?
01:11:45I have a purse that matches your outfit perfectly.
01:11:48So I have to carry it?
01:11:49Yeah.
01:11:50That's not great.
01:11:51Am I the one you wanted?
01:11:54Oh, oh.
01:11:56Am I the one you wanted?
01:11:58Oh, God, it's a little nipply out.
01:12:01A little nipply.
01:12:08Okay, so where do you want to sit?
01:12:11Um, is there upstairs?
01:12:13The plan for today is we're going to go and meet my friends to get her out in the city
01:12:18in
01:12:18the harbour.
01:12:19I am excited, but nervous more so.
01:12:22I explained to Elise that I was living with Nat, and she was not happy about it.
01:12:27But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about.
01:12:35Are you falling?
01:12:37Yeah, falling for you.
01:12:38Oh, that was cool.
01:12:42Wow.
01:12:46This is, like, stunning.
01:12:47Like, not what I expected.
01:12:50It's nice, huh?
01:12:50It's beautiful.
01:12:53Thank you, babe.
01:12:54I love how you hold my purse.
01:12:58Walking into this, I'm afraid of a lot.
01:13:00Like, I'm afraid, you know, am I going to catch him in any more lies?
01:13:03I'm nervous to see how he's going to act towards me.
01:13:06Is he going to be attentive?
01:13:07Is he going to make me feel comfortable?
01:13:08It's really important to be accepted into the friend group, but on the same time, like,
01:13:12I came here for answers.
01:13:13I want answers, and I want to figure out his life, and, like, I don't want to be lied to.
01:13:18Oh, hi.
01:13:20Hi.
01:13:20Hello, hello, hello, hello.
01:13:22Hello.
01:13:24Hello.
01:13:24Nice to meet you.
01:13:25Nice to meet you, girl.
01:13:26How are you?
01:13:27Are you a yore?
01:13:28I am tall.
01:13:29No, I meant yore, not tall.
01:13:31Hey, Liz.
01:13:32How are you?
01:13:33Steve.
01:13:33Nice to meet you, finally.
01:13:35Nice to meet you.
01:13:35Nice to meet you.
01:13:46We're all sitting on it, but I don't know where we're sitting, I guess.
01:13:49We'll get attacked by seagulls, but...
01:13:50Hopefully no one can look up my skirt.
01:13:54Just everyone, man.
01:13:55Yeah, sorry.
01:13:57This is great.
01:13:58Oh, my favorite people.
01:14:02I need this.
01:14:03Thank you so much.
01:14:05To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:14:06I don't know why that's so funny.
01:14:08Like, why are you saying it with a smile?
01:14:11Okay.
01:14:12To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:14:20I've spoken to Elise before, and she comes across lovely, but she comes across very Miami.
01:14:27Like, a lot of skimpy clothes, right?
01:14:29Very skimpy, but gorgeous.
01:14:30Like, this is skimpy for us.
01:14:32Yeah, well, very skimpy.
01:14:33Yeah, yeah, correct, correct.
01:14:34But she was skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.
01:14:35Yeah.
01:14:3816 hours, I'm so...
01:14:40I'm in this way.
01:14:41You guys, I don't like, I don't like, they're sitting too far away, so...
01:14:44Yeah, I know.
01:14:45Wrap up to this other bar?
01:14:46Yes, let's do it.
01:14:47Okay, let's do it.
01:14:51Are we gonna go in here?
01:14:52Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:53Oh, this face looks so cute.
01:14:55Yeah.
01:14:56My impression of Josh's friends is they're all nice.
01:15:01But when I see Nat, and I think my boyfriend lives with her, I'm like, is there something
01:15:07like, I'm not understanding?
01:15:08Because I don't think there's a sexual connection, but like, I think it's weird.
01:15:12I think it's so weird.
01:15:15Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.
01:15:19Okay.
01:15:19So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.
01:15:23I can make you love Sydney.
01:15:24I would love that.
01:15:26How are you staying in Sydney?
01:15:28Bond, I beat.
01:15:30I'm staying in a rental that Joshua and Chris have.
01:15:35Yep.
01:15:36Because today I found out that he was living with you.
01:15:39Yeah.
01:15:40I thought you knew that.
01:15:40Yeah, he was staying with me for a little bit.
01:15:46So, how did he ask to live with you?
01:15:48Like, how did this happen?
01:15:49He was kind of between places, and I was like, why don't you just come and stay with me?
01:15:53Because it was much closer for his work.
01:15:57And, you know, to be honest, I was going through a bit of a rough time.
01:16:00And I needed comfort.
01:16:03I needed someone there to...
01:16:04Somewhat?
01:16:05Yeah, shoulder to cry on.
01:16:06So, it worked out well.
01:16:09I mean, look, as I said, like, she's one of my closest mates.
01:16:15There's a lot to unfold.
01:16:16I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:16:19I've tried that.
01:16:19It's never succeeded for me.
01:16:21I have so many guy friends.
01:16:22Oh, yay!
01:16:22I have so many guy friends.
01:16:25And this is probably Australia.
01:16:27It's a culture thing.
01:16:28It's a culture thing.
01:16:29It's definitely a culture thing, yeah.
01:16:30It's a bit more laid back.
01:16:31We're a bit more easy about it.
01:16:33Yeah.
01:16:33We trust more, I think.
01:16:35Yeah, we trust.
01:16:36Yeah.
01:16:38I think men and women can be friends.
01:16:40I have a lot of male friends.
01:16:41I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.
01:16:43He's my brother to me.
01:16:45So, I find it very weird.
01:16:47I think of Eliza and insecurities.
01:16:49And hopefully, they'll grow together and go through that.
01:16:52Yeah.
01:16:53And that's how trust is built.
01:16:57I think that he's going to have a struggle maintaining you and maintaining me, if I have to be completely
01:17:03honest.
01:17:04Yeah.
01:17:08So, are you jealous of me and our relationship?
01:17:12I feel uneasy about it.
01:17:15Yeah, well, look, I get it.
01:17:17And hopefully, that can change, you know.
01:17:19I think it's more of the fact that you're living with her.
01:17:21Yeah.
01:17:22I guess the question I have, are you paying?
01:17:24Like, are you letting them lay there for free?
01:17:27I'm always paying for both, for the whole rental, right?
01:17:31Great, but, uh...
01:17:32You have been generous.
01:17:33I've been generous.
01:17:33I'm a generous person, and I love doing that for my friends.
01:17:36Yeah, no.
01:17:36Yeah.
01:17:37Well, I think that she's helping you financially.
01:17:39I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of way.
01:17:43No, no, no, no, no.
01:17:44Financial hold?
01:17:45No, I don't.
01:17:46No, that's...
01:17:46No.
01:17:47That's...
01:17:48That offends me.
01:17:54She took me in and, like, helped me out.
01:17:57So, yeah, you could say financially, help me there.
01:17:59But in saying that, like, it's temporary.
01:18:01Everyone knows it's temporary.
01:18:03Probably, I should have been more clearer, and I should have been more transparent.
01:18:07Let's put two and two together.
01:18:09Joshua's struggling financially.
01:18:11He's lied to me about living there.
01:18:15Something's fishy, something's shady.
01:18:17I don't want my boyfriend getting financially supported by another girl.
01:18:20That's disgusting and weird.
01:18:22Like, that's not what I signed up for.
01:18:30Why do we have to live in your country?
01:18:32If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:18:35I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:18:38I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:18:41If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:18:47Sorry.
01:18:48I'm so sorry, Sheen.
01:19:03So, that was eye-opening.
01:19:06Yeah, I know.
01:19:17It's just so much information all at once.
01:19:21Yeah, it's a lot to think about it, to be honest.
01:19:24Sheen and I just met with an immigration lawyer, and everything kind of blew up in my face.
01:19:32I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months to get Sheen to the United States
01:19:37and everything figured out.
01:19:38But now, after hearing that my disability payments that I get monthly does not count, and it's going to take
01:19:45years, this is the biggest setback ever.
01:19:52There's just so many things going on in my head right now.
01:19:55I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.
01:19:59Well, for me, it's like, I wanted to move in the U.S.
01:20:04But the thing is, it's been like seven years.
01:20:08Plus, you're going to add another two or three years while you'll find a job and save enough money for
01:20:13the K-1 visa.
01:20:17I don't know.
01:20:20I know that you wanted to go to the U.S., my love.
01:20:24But why do we have to live in your country?
01:20:26That's my good question.
01:20:31It's easier for me to stay here, get a Filipino visa.
01:20:35And I'm a professional here.
01:20:37If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:20:41Then I'll try to help you to find a job as well.
01:20:44I think that's the best option for us.
01:20:51I still have my worries about that, though.
01:20:54With my autism, it makes things hard.
01:20:58And I know I am fighting with my mom, but I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:21:07What makes you upset is, like, he loves his mom, his family.
01:21:12I understand that.
01:21:13But what about me?
01:21:15I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:21:18If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:21:24So I will be the one who's stranded, and I will be hurt as well.
01:21:29Reach up, fly low, when I'm thinking.
01:21:39I just really felt sad, disappointed.
01:21:43I was expecting you.
01:21:45That I could be with my partner for the last seven years.
01:22:01I don't want to be apart from you that long, and I don't want to...
01:22:08I don't want to give up my mom.
01:22:15Sorry.
01:22:16I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.
01:22:25Now that I know that I can possibly stay here and be with Sheena every single day,
01:22:32I feel kind of stuck.
01:22:34Any option I make, I'm either going to hurt the woman I love or my mother.
01:22:43This, this is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make.
01:22:47She's my second half.
01:22:48I know she's the one for me.
01:22:52And just being with her, being able to talk, joke, have everything, I don't want to lose that.
01:22:58I won't give up, I won't keep trying.
01:23:10Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:14Teamwork makes the dream work, babe.
01:23:15Ah, you're going to play.
01:23:16Oh, I'm sorry.
01:23:17This is kind of turning me on, babe.
01:23:20I did not know.
01:23:22Rolling some panther, yeah.
01:23:23Could be sexy.
01:23:24I'm so hungry.
01:23:26I'm a pregnancy clearance.
01:23:29I haven't gotten my period yet.
01:23:32How would you feel if I was?
01:23:38Tell me you love her.
01:23:40I was in love with her.
01:23:42I want to make a move.
01:23:43Dude, you made a move.
01:23:44You blow it.
01:23:45No, no, no, no, no, no.
01:23:47Laura made a move on me.
01:23:49I am thinking about sharing my life, and you are keeping secret from me.
01:23:55This is better.
01:24:03See, this water is cold.
01:24:05Ha, you can survive.
01:24:07I hope Trish's family can see that I'm trying, and that I am a good partner for Trish.
01:24:24Going to Casablanca right now to see Mohamed, it's kind of surreal.
01:24:28I mean, I have my engagement ring Mohamed gave to me when he proposed.
01:24:33Putting this ring back on is actually bringing up old feelings.
01:24:37But I don't know how this meeting is going to go.
01:24:42My heart's racing.
01:24:49Why did you just leave?
01:24:57After what I found out about Nat, my mind is just in so many directions, and I'm freaking
01:25:04out.
01:25:05I don't know what the f**k is going on right now.
01:25:10I want to go home.
01:25:15She has gotten married five times, and from 21 years, she has been in a relationship with
01:25:22several women.
01:25:24Why am I hearing this one now?
01:25:27This is an abomination.
01:25:28No.
01:25:29I can't help what my past is like.
01:25:31I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
01:25:34I can't believe you.
01:25:37Because of this, the marriage will be over.
01:25:41I can't breathe.
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