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00:00How's my ass?
00:01Yeah.
00:02Previously, a 1,000-pound sisters.
00:05Describe your wedding vibe in three words.
00:08This is not what I expected.
00:09I thought there was going to be Halloween costume.
00:10That's more than three words.
00:14Well, what happened?
00:16Yeah.
00:17.
00:18Amy's got her underwear in a knot,
00:20and she shoved her up her butt.
00:22Amy backed out of going to the animal shelter.
00:24And Tammy lost her .
00:30I haven't heard from Amy since our text fight.
00:33She's blocked me on everything.
00:38We could, like, go out to eat or something, all three of us.
00:42You guys were so close.
00:44I'd just like to see y'all reconcile.
00:47Do you know what she said to me?
00:49Well, you shouldn't hurt my feelings.
00:51I can't handle her toxic ass no more.
00:56.
00:56that bitch.
00:57No, no, no.
00:58She's dead to me.
00:58.
01:18Y'all ready for this?
01:20Not really.
01:21It's been a few days since I tried to talk to Tammy
01:24and have her hear me out.
01:26And I haven't spoken to that bitch since.
01:28I mean, it did take me a couple of days to get over the fact that Tammy, yet again, was
01:33being Tammy.
01:35But I ain't going to let her stop me. My eyes is on the prize.
01:40Hello. Welcome in.
01:42We can head on to the back and we'll get you harnessed up and ready to go.
01:49With the wedding less than four months away, this girl needs to lose weight.
01:53I heard about a new exercise train called bungee fitness.
01:57So I was like, this might be fine, but I don't know what the I'm giving myself into.
02:03And I got Misty and Brittany with me.
02:06How are these connected to the ceiling?
02:09Jason, how are those connected to the ceiling?
02:12A little crazy glue?
02:14You better use some gorilla glue. I'm fat.
02:18I just thought we were just going to have some resistance bands.
02:21I didn't think there was a whole thing going out of the ceiling and stuff like that.
02:25But there's so much stuff hanging from the ceiling.
02:27It looks like an octopus coming down the damn ceiling.
02:30Look, cracking's out.
02:33So we're going to start off with some waist trainers.
02:36And what these are going to do is just kind of help with the friction of the harness and keep
02:40it from hurting you.
02:41I'm going to do that right there.
02:44Okay, don't do anything crazy.
02:46No jumping around yet.
02:50I feel like I was tied up.
02:52All it was missing was the fuzzy cuffs.
02:56These crazy workouts, I don't know why they keep roping me into it.
03:00Why in the hell wasn't Chris strapped in?
03:02I want to see his big ass do it.
03:05The first thing we're going to do is some squats.
03:08You're going to make sure you have all the weight in your heels.
03:10We're going to go in three, two, one, squat.
03:18Everybody's looking good.
03:20All right, we're there.
03:21Shake those legs out.
03:23Take a couple breaths in.
03:25Redo the wedgie.
03:29What's wrong with you?
03:32I don't know what to tell you.
03:34These harnesses were not meant for people with excess skin.
03:38I tell you that my fabric would go in between the strap and my leg.
03:44My done lap is getting caught under this.
03:46Oh, no.
03:47Does it need loosened up a little bit?
03:49No, it's fine.
03:50It just got caught for a second.
03:53Lately, I've been doing so good on my weight loss.
03:57And now that I'm skinnier, it's starting to bother me even more.
04:02Like, you can see my six-pack.
04:07No, it's not a six-pack yet.
04:09It's just a keg.
04:10It's a small keg.
04:14All right, so the running is the most fun thing,
04:16so that's what we're going to do next.
04:18You're going to run forward, and you're going to run back.
04:21If you don't run backwards, you're going to fall on your butt
04:25because it's going to drag you backwards.
04:26You're essentially strapped to a rubber band, okay?
04:30Are we ready?
04:31Everybody get back.
04:33Okay, here we go.
04:34Three, two, one, go.
04:41Oh!
04:42You okay?
04:43You good?
04:44Okay.
04:46I'm done with that one.
04:47Okay.
04:49I felt it when she hit the floor.
04:52It jarred the floor.
04:54I'm not doing that again.
04:55I ain't getting slammed on my ass again.
04:59It was a rubber band pulling me back on my ass.
05:03I got, like, pulled back like you were getting in trouble.
05:06My mama pulled me up out of my shirt.
05:08There you go.
05:09Good job, ladies.
05:11Good job.
05:11Yes.
05:12All right.
05:13This time, we're going to run and hop.
05:18All right.
05:20After Amy fell, it was like she didn't put forth as much effort.
05:24But I'm very surprised that she just didn't quit, because that's her normal go-to.
05:30She actually stayed and participated.
05:32There you go.
05:34It is a great stretch.
05:36On the other side of that coin, Brittany's lost quite a bit of weight since her bariatric surgery.
05:41And she really is trying.
05:43So, I mean, I'm proud of her.
05:46And last one.
05:48All right.
05:49Good job.
05:51You did it.
05:52High five.
05:57I think I broke my tailbone.
06:00But other than that, I really had fun.
06:04I'm really proud of myself right now.
06:06I got Brian, the boys.
06:08I got the wedding coming up.
06:10And in a few days, me and Brian are going to go see Billy to go over some wedding stuff.
06:15I feel nasty.
06:17I'm going to be sore tomorrow.
06:19Everything's starting to fall in place.
06:21I don't need to deal with Tammy's drama.
06:36Oh, Lee, girl, the sun's about to be the death of me.
06:39That's swamp ass.
06:41Well, that's what happens when it's 110 degrees outside.
06:46Hi.
06:46Hello.
06:47How are you all today?
06:48Good.
06:48How are you?
06:49Good.
06:50Today, me and Amanda are shopping for vitamins.
06:54Amanda has been trying to get me out of the house to cheer me up.
06:58Because I'm still pretty upset after that bull meeting with Amy.
07:05I haven't heard from Amy since.
07:08But she texted Andrea.
07:11And it pisses me off.
07:14Because now she's blowing up Andrea, trying to talk to me.
07:18Bitch, if you want to talk to me, talk to me.
07:22Don't go through her.
07:24Your problems are with me, not Andrea.
07:28Leave her the f*** alone.
07:32I don't know what all there is.
07:34All this stuff is just, like, speaking French to me.
07:36But I was recently diagnosed with POTS.
07:39And I've made lifestyle changes, but I need to do better.
07:42Right.
07:43After, like, four months, I finally got diagnosed with POTS.
07:48And we ain't talking about the Mary Joanna.
07:53POTS is posterior orthostatic tachycardia syndrome.
07:56POTS is basically where when you stand up, your heart rate goes high and you just pass out.
08:02So my blood pressure is unstable.
08:04It's very common with bariatric patients.
08:07It's not something that you cure.
08:08It's something that goes in remission.
08:10You cannot have flare-ups for years.
08:12It's kind of like any other autoimmune issue.
08:15We have vegan-based protein.
08:16We have whey isolate, whey concentrate.
08:19We have real food.
08:20Now, your vegan proteins are different.
08:22They're different types of protein based on how it's sourced.
08:24This green superfood complex, you've got all your greens, like your alfalfa, your oat grass, your kale.
08:31You know, at this point, I feel like I just need to be backing my trunk up and saying just
08:35load me up.
08:36Because I'm looking for all kinds of different vitamins.
08:39And I want protein and then the super greens and then you've got the red stuff.
08:43And don't forget, you know, the big D.
08:45I mean, the vitamin D is really the best vitamin that you can get.
08:54Before I talk you into, like, buying a container, we make drinks here.
08:59And if you want me to make you all a protein drink, I'll make it.
09:03The way my stomach is absorbing, a drink would be better for me.
09:07Right.
09:08I'm going to go back there and get that made up for you all.
09:10All right.
09:10Sounds good.
09:11You're welcome.
09:13So how's everything been going?
09:16All right.
09:17Because I know that you and Amy kind of had a little bit of a issue the other day.
09:23I popped off, she popped off, and that was it.
09:26I guess.
09:27Amy's got a corncob stuck up her ass because she got bit by a camel talking about PTSD.
09:32I don't know about all that but I ain't never heard of no Campbell being at the Vanderville Humane Society.
09:38That's one thing I ain't heard of.
09:41But I'm also still heard from what she did to me in PA.
09:45Pittsburgh.
09:45Yeah.
09:46She did tell me that she was leaving that day.
09:52I literally just opened my eyes.
09:55Right after surgery.
09:57And she told me she was leaving.
09:59I do not remember.
10:00Honey, listen.
10:01I do not remember.
10:03And she's taking everything out of me.
10:05Listen, hey.
10:06Take a breath.
10:07Hey, stop.
10:08Look at me.
10:08Take a breath.
10:09It's okay.
10:12I don't really know what the hell's going on with Tammy.
10:14You know, like, we're in there and I'm thinking it's going good and we're looking at the snacks.
10:19And the next thing I know, she was upset and crying.
10:24I'm still surprised that Tammy is this upset about Pittsburgh.
10:27I didn't realize it was something that she was holding on to that hard.
10:31But that cut really deep that Amy left in such a time as it was because somebody made a comment
10:37about your bodily stench.
10:41And I didn't even, I didn't even react.
10:43I mean, the bitch stank.
10:46I can't help how I gagged.
10:49She just up and abandoned you.
10:51That's what you're feeling.
10:53Amy does not understand stuff like that.
10:55Or she doesn't care to understand.
10:58But Tammy, that's been months ago.
11:01Why can't we just sit down and have a conversation?
11:04We tried.
11:05Andrew, you know, I tried, but.
11:10I don't know why I'm having so many mood swings.
11:13But I know that I'm still hurt for what Amy done.
11:18Definitely.
11:20And I know I need to let it go.
11:22But at the same time, she's holding grudges too.
11:27Well, at this point, the ball's in her court.
11:30This is what pisses me off.
11:32My mental is not right right now.
11:34And she's pushing the issue.
11:36Okay, she'll stop herself.
11:36I don't give a .
11:37But I'm trying to help you.
11:39Okay, don't come for me.
11:41I'm trying to help you calm down because it's not that serious.
11:44I've done talked about it.
11:45I don't want to talk about it anymore.
11:49Tammy's all over the place in this conversation.
11:51And I'm walking on eggshells because, you know,
11:54hell, she can be pissed off at me next.
11:56At this point, let's just put a pin in it because you're getting angry.
12:00I think that we should just go up here and get these drinks
12:02because they sure are looking good.
12:05You know, I definitely feel like Tammy has had a place in her life
12:08where she should seek help.
12:10She's grown up a lot going through this process,
12:12but there's still work that needs to be done.
12:15It don't just stop at losing weight.
12:22How are you handling family dynamic?
12:25What's the hardest part?
12:26Just seeing how her family has treated her since I met her.
12:30I mean, I don't want to take her away from family, but...
12:36Tammy has not been herself lately.
12:38And after we saw Amy, it's just gotten worse.
12:41So I need some advice on what to do.
12:44Does Tammy even know you're here?
12:47That in itself could cause World War III for them too.
13:07Hey!
13:09Oh my goodness, girl, what are you doing?
13:12Not much.
13:12You look good.
13:14Billy's been in my family for donkey years.
13:16I was probably in my diapers.
13:18And because he's an ordained minister,
13:20he's going to marry me and Brian.
13:22But before he does,
13:24Billy just wants to meet with Brian and me
13:27and do some wedding counseling.
13:29I made you something.
13:31Girl!
13:31It's a spray paint with a stone texture.
13:34Well, that is beautiful.
13:36I'm bringing Billy one of my paintings
13:39as like, I thank you for marrying me and Brian.
13:41I know you live far away
13:43and you're coming out here
13:44and doing all these things for nothing.
13:47At least I could give you as a painting
13:49that I made with my own two hands out of love.
13:52Be careful because there is some glass shards in here.
13:55Okay.
13:56You won't get cut, obviously,
13:58because I'm not,
13:59and I'm being pretty rough on it.
14:01Leave it to Amy
14:02to give me not also a beautiful painting,
14:06but a way to defend myself
14:08if somebody's in my house.
14:09I mean, I got a shield, I got some glass.
14:12I can throw and stab and run
14:13all at the same time.
14:15Thank you, Amy.
14:17I love Amy,
14:18and I do know how much it would mean to her
14:20if I marry them,
14:21but I haven't agreed to do it just yet.
14:24After having this conversation,
14:26if I see something that I don't think is right,
14:30there's tons of people who can marry them.
14:32I just wouldn't be that person.
14:34How did you two meet?
14:35At a concert.
14:36At a concert?
14:37Yeah, he interviewed me for the paper,
14:39and the next morning,
14:41I woke up to a DM from him
14:42asking me if I wanted to go get lunch.
14:46I really hope Billy will be the one to marry us,
14:48and actually thanks for a strong couple.
14:51I know we're good,
14:52but it's just nice to getting the validation
14:55from people on the outside sometimes.
14:58So we had a 26-hour date,
14:59a 23-hour date.
15:01The third date never ended
15:02because we've not been apart since the third date.
15:05It was a lot of a relationship
15:07in a short amount of time.
15:09I know you guys need each other.
15:10You depend on each other.
15:12But we need our own time.
15:14Yeah.
15:15You know.
15:15So are you able to function without each other?
15:22I can function.
15:23Well, and I don't mean that to say...
15:25He's got a separation exam.
15:26Okay.
15:27No, I do fine.
15:28I mean, I know there's times she's got to go do stuff.
15:30Right.
15:31I guess that's because I know she has to have help.
15:34She has to get around.
15:35Yeah, I'm kind of a burden.
15:36Well...
15:37Not at all, dear.
15:39And that's...
15:39No, I'm meaning to.
15:40It's only because I'm blind.
15:42The situation is a burden,
15:44but you're never a burden,
15:45and you've got to change that mindset.
15:48It's okay.
15:52I've had people tell me I'm a burden
15:54because I can't drive.
15:58Since the moment I was born,
16:00like, I've always had to rely on
16:02my siblings or my nephews or my niece,
16:06somebody to drive me
16:07because I was never able to drive.
16:09And it made me feel like
16:10I'm the inconvenience.
16:13I'm the burden of my family.
16:20That's how I feel with seduction.
16:25It's okay to cry about it,
16:26but I want you to start understanding
16:28your situation's a burden.
16:29You're not.
16:31Zero.
16:32And guess what?
16:33You found somebody
16:34to take care of that burden.
16:36Now you've got a burden
16:37of somebody who don't want to let go.
16:39And I don't mean that in a negative way.
16:42You know?
16:44Yeah.
16:45All right.
16:45Well, if you don't mind,
16:48I'm going to talk to Brian.
16:50I'll take a walk over there
16:51and y'all can talk.
16:55All right.
16:55I'll see y'all in a minute.
16:56All right, dear.
16:58First of all,
16:59when did you know
17:00and what inside you said,
17:03hey, I think this is it?
17:08I don't want to say
17:09the first 26 hours,
17:10but it might have been
17:11just in that getting to know her.
17:13I mean,
17:13she's funny,
17:14fun, smart.
17:15I mean,
17:16you just got all this
17:17out of that first date.
17:18And how are you handling
17:19family dynamic?
17:24What's the hardest part?
17:26I mean,
17:26just seeing how
17:29her family has treated her
17:30since I met her.
17:33I don't want to take her away
17:35from family,
17:36but I want to take her away
17:37from being mistreated,
17:39being looked down upon.
17:41I mean,
17:41that's been my pleasure
17:43to be there,
17:44to get her where she needs to be,
17:45to get the boys
17:46where they need to be.
17:47I mean,
17:47to be there for her.
17:49I mean...
17:50You have provided
17:52another way of protection
17:53for Amy,
17:54and I can't say
17:55thank you enough for that.
17:57Talking to Brian,
18:00I think the truth is
18:01he is in love with Amy,
18:02and if there's red flags
18:04to be seen,
18:05I'm blind.
18:06All right, Brian,
18:07give it just a few minutes.
18:08You're done with that?
18:08I'm good.
18:09I'm going to get
18:10some more in it.
18:12Well,
18:12I had some conversations
18:14with Brian.
18:15It was good conversations.
18:17So I will...
18:18But I will tell you
18:20he is...
18:21Smitten like a loveseep kid.
18:23He is.
18:24Yeah.
18:25Brian was, like,
18:26picking out engagement rings
18:28after three days.
18:29Because apparently,
18:30my vagina is, like,
18:31for style or something.
18:37I am not saying that again.
18:40Well,
18:41I just have to be honest with you.
18:43I think he's fantastic,
18:44and I don't say that lightly.
18:47My relationship
18:47has been validated today.
18:50If any of my siblings
18:51ever had a doubt
18:52why I'm marrying this man,
18:53they can just go to Billy,
18:55like,
18:56that's love, y'all.
18:59What I see is
19:01two people's found happiness,
19:03and I'm going to tell you
19:04that 1,000%.
19:06And I am happy
19:08and delighted
19:08to be the officiant
19:09for your wedding.
19:13Now,
19:14do you guys have
19:14any questions for me?
19:16Can we leave out
19:16the part where people object?
19:18Because I think
19:18I'm telling you now,
19:21there will be no drama.
19:22If you got something to say,
19:24go ahead and go outside,
19:25and when the wedding's over,
19:26you can talk to
19:27somebody else about it.
19:28But we're going to go
19:29and have the wedding,
19:30so, you know.
19:31So you've already
19:32got bridesmaids.
19:33Brittany,
19:34and then it will be Misty.
19:35Got it.
19:35Lili's the maid of honor.
19:36Okay, okay.
19:37And Amanda's coming
19:39to the wedding.
19:39Okay.
19:40But she is not in it.
19:42And what is Tammy?
19:44She uninvited herself.
19:45What do you mean by that?
19:47Me and her
19:47got into a fight,
19:48and she said
19:49some horrible
19:50that she can't take back,
19:52so she's out my life.
19:55I'm done.
19:56I'm done giving
19:57olive brushes.
19:58There's no more olives
19:59on that tree.
19:59I'll loan you a few, man.
20:02If she wants to be positive
20:03and quit being a bully
20:04and negative to me,
20:05then she can have
20:06something to do with me.
20:07Until then,
20:08I'm not giving in.
20:09I have done it
20:10my whole life.
20:11Well, because
20:12I had to.
20:13Well, you were the mother.
20:14But she ain't 700 pounds,
20:15no more.
20:16But you were the mother,
20:16and you have to realize that.
20:19You was left
20:21taking care of her,
20:22and you had nothing.
20:24What you had
20:25was a burden
20:26to take care of her.
20:29I didn't even realize
20:31that I was a mother
20:32to Tammy my whole
20:33life.
20:35I was a mother
20:36before I was supposed
20:37to be a mother.
20:39And it just means a lot
20:41that he knows
20:41how grown up
20:43I was back then.
20:45I do feel like
20:46I will say something
20:48to Tammy.
20:49I'm going to take
20:50care of that.
20:51But all I will ask
20:53at this time is,
20:55and it's your wedding,
20:55you do what you want,
20:56but I want you
20:57to reserve a spot
20:59in case a few months
21:01down the line
21:02this dynamic
21:03between you and her
21:04is different.
21:09You know what I'm thinking?
21:11That would be beautiful
21:12for your sister's wedding.
21:15Billy's trying to force me
21:17into going to the wedding,
21:18and I'm not doing it.
21:20She has not asked me
21:21to be there
21:22or anything.
21:23So,
21:24a little heart.
21:36Tammy has not been
21:37herself lately.
21:38It's been a while
21:39since I've seen
21:40the Tammy
21:41that I used to know.
21:42I really don't always know
21:43when Tammy
21:44is going to blow.
21:46It's kind of like
21:47zero to 60.
21:49And after we saw Amy,
21:50it's just gotten worse.
21:52So I need some advice
21:53on what to do
21:54because I feel like
21:55I'm in over my head.
21:58Oh, there you are.
22:00Nice to meet you, boss.
22:01Yeah.
22:01How you doing?
22:02All right.
22:03You know,
22:04this is the first time
22:05I've actually got to sit down
22:06and talk to Andrea
22:07since her and Tammy
22:08started dating.
22:09But,
22:10I really don't have a clue
22:11what Andrea really wants
22:13to talk about today.
22:15Um,
22:16I just want to tell you
22:17I talked to Amy
22:18and Tammy the other day.
22:20I don't know what you know.
22:21Well, I know they got into it
22:23about that day
22:23you was over there.
22:24Yeah.
22:25Well, the better question is,
22:26does Tammy even know
22:27you're here?
22:33No.
22:37I know.
22:38Set me up for failure.
22:40Me too, though.
22:42No.
22:42No, no.
22:44Andrea called me this morning
22:46and see if I was able
22:47to come and enjoy
22:49a lunch with her today
22:50and come to find out
22:51that Tammy wasn't aware
22:53that she was meeting
22:55with me.
22:56That in itself
22:57could cause World War III
22:58for them too.
23:00Because,
23:01I don't know why
23:02Tammy don't want us
23:03to get to know her
23:04very well at the moment.
23:05That's what it seems.
23:07Maybe she's afraid
23:08that we're going to
23:09run her off.
23:10Well,
23:12Tammy,
23:12if your ass
23:14ain't running
23:14the bitch off,
23:15ain't nobody else
23:15going to.
23:18But I tried so hard,
23:20Chris.
23:20Like, I mean,
23:21like, I was as calm
23:21as I am right now
23:22and I just couldn't
23:24and then Tammy
23:25walked out
23:26and that was it.
23:27It was...
23:28Welcome to my world
23:30of 45 years.
23:33Somebody's always fighting.
23:37Nobody in the family
23:39has ever chose
23:40to take on
23:41the peacemaker role
23:43in this family
23:44besides me.
23:45For her to go
23:46this far out of her way
23:48to try to get
23:49Tammy and Amy
23:49back together
23:52just shows how good
23:53of a damn person she is.
23:55You know, honestly,
23:56right now,
23:57I kind of feel
23:58Tammy's going through
23:59some shit.
23:59Apparently,
24:00she has a problem
24:01with my wife too.
24:03She does?
24:04Brittany?
24:04She said...
24:05Because she said
24:06something about Brittany
24:07when she lived with us.
24:08Brittany hit her
24:09with the purse
24:09trying to knock her
24:10out of the way
24:10or something.
24:11Hell, I don't know.
24:12Yeah, it was some
24:13bull****.
24:14I've heard
24:15through the grapevine
24:16that Tammy said
24:17something about Brittany
24:18knocking her out
24:19of the way
24:19with her purse.
24:20You know,
24:21just everything about it
24:23is just kind of ridiculous
24:25to start thinking about it.
24:26But to be honest,
24:28if Tammy ever comes
24:29for my wife,
24:30there will be a problem.
24:34Tammy needs to go back
24:35to talking to her therapist
24:37and stuff
24:37because I feel
24:38that she's kind of
24:39slacked off her therapy
24:41and now we're getting
24:43in the wrong direction
24:44of being Miss Difficult again.
24:46But she has
24:47the best intentions.
24:48I love her to death.
24:49I try to take care
24:50of her and help her.
24:50She's got to figure out
24:51something to how
24:52to control her anger.
24:53If she can get
24:54that portion
24:55of her personality
24:57under control,
24:58you couldn't ask
24:59for a better person.
25:00Right.
25:00Do you think
25:01it's the surgery
25:02that's making her
25:03act different?
25:05Like with her hormones
25:06and stuff?
25:07I'm sure her hormones
25:08are screaming out of it.
25:10She was 727 pounds
25:12and s***.
25:13She probably needs
25:14to go get
25:14some level checks.
25:15Yeah, I agree.
25:16I agree.
25:18Tammy ain't been right
25:19since she come home
25:20from Pittsburgh.
25:21She's going through changes
25:22and she's still
25:24learning herself,
25:25especially after this
25:26first wave of skin
25:26removal surgery.
25:27But I really think
25:28she needs to get back
25:29on her mental health
25:30kick.
25:31So at first,
25:33when y'all started
25:34y'all's little
25:35running around together
25:36thing,
25:37I didn't know
25:38if you were just
25:40bashful and didn't
25:41want to meet us
25:42or if Tammy was
25:43trying to keep you
25:44from our crazy asses.
25:46I didn't know.
25:49Because it kind of
25:50felt like she was
25:51keeping you away
25:52from us.
25:54That is exactly
25:56why I haven't.
25:59I have been told
26:00numerous times
26:01that I never want
26:03you to meet my family.
26:04I never want you
26:05to meet them.
26:06I mean, I understand
26:07that, you know,
26:09we ain't rough
26:09and rowdy, loud
26:10and bunch of s***.
26:11But I mean,
26:12I am too.
26:13I mean, I can get
26:13those two.
26:15I mean, that might
26:16kind of makes it
26:17sound like it.
26:18Yeah.
26:20We've been told
26:21Andrea's shy,
26:21she don't want
26:22to meet nobody.
26:23Come to find out
26:23it's Tammy that
26:25don't want her
26:25to meet us,
26:27that kind of
26:28a catch-corny
26:28two feelings
26:29there for me
26:30because it kind
26:30of bothers me
26:31that Tammy
26:31don't want us
26:32to meet her,
26:32but yet it makes
26:33me feel glad
26:34because I was
26:34kind of starting
26:35to think she was
26:35a b***h
26:36and she didn't
26:36want to meet us all.
26:37You know what I'm
26:38saying?
26:39She's blessed
26:40to have you guys
26:41because I don't
26:41have that.
26:42We can do two.
26:43You've got five
26:43or six or seven
26:44of us now.
26:44All of us got
26:45kids and family.
26:46So you're just
26:47part of the big
26:47happy family.
26:49When Chris told me
26:50I was already
26:50part of the family
26:51that made me feel
26:52really great
26:52because family's
26:54so important
26:54and I don't have
26:55any so it's just
26:56like, it made me
26:58tear up a little bit
26:59to be honest.
26:59I mean, I'm so
27:01glad you said it.
27:04We should get
27:05together as a family.
27:06That's what I
27:07want to do.
27:08A couple weeks
27:08from now is when
27:09her birthday is
27:10or three.
27:11Yeah, so I was
27:13thinking about that
27:14but then I was like
27:15sometimes she'll say
27:16she wants a party
27:17and then one day
27:17she doesn't.
27:18I wanted to take
27:19her go-kart riding
27:20because she's never
27:21been able to do it
27:22but then she said
27:23she didn't want
27:23to do it.
27:25I'm just going
27:26to tell you
27:26the planet.
27:28If you know
27:28it's something
27:29she would love
27:30to try to do
27:31do it.
27:34I would keep
27:34it small.
27:36Like, we can't
27:37have the party
27:38and not invite
27:38Amy though.
27:39I mean, that's
27:40kind of rude.
27:41I'll worry about
27:42getting Amy there.
27:43You just have
27:44to get Tammy
27:44to either I
27:46pick her up
27:46or somebody
27:47pick her up
27:47and tell her
27:48hey, we're
27:48going to go
27:48here and then
27:49show up for
27:50a surprise
27:50birthday party
27:51or something.
27:52That's what I
27:52would do.
27:52It has to be
27:54a surprise
27:55because she knows
27:56it's going to
27:57be like Chucky.
27:59You know what I
27:59mean?
28:00Chucky.
28:06It's just
28:06that if she's
28:07in a bad mood
28:07that day
28:08I'm going to be
28:08like, oh lord
28:10where you going?
28:14That might be
28:15the easy way
28:15out, hey?
28:16Yeah.
28:18Just send me
28:18a 911 text
28:19and I don't know
28:19what that means.
28:20The bitch is on fire.
28:23If she's game
28:24to get everybody
28:25together
28:26I'm willing
28:26to help.
28:28Getting everybody
28:28together could do
28:29either one or two
28:30things.
28:30It could put a
28:31band-aid on it
28:32and we start
28:32doing what we
28:33do best
28:34and that's
28:34eating and
28:34conjugating.
28:36Or it could
28:37have a high speed
28:38come apart
28:39and we talking
28:39World War 3
28:40up in this bitch.
28:42I love my
28:43sister to death
28:44but planning a
28:45birthday party
28:46should not be
28:46this damn
28:47stressful.
28:50take a minute
28:51look at me.
28:54I don't think
28:55Tammy understands
28:57how to deal
28:57with her negative
28:58emotions at this
28:59point.
29:00I'm getting
29:00very overwhelmed.
29:14I haven't got
29:15to hang out
29:15with Lili in a
29:16while.
29:16I haven't seen
29:17her since
29:17I tried
29:18on wedding
29:19dresses.
29:20Hey, what's up?
29:21How's it going?
29:22I'm good.
29:23You're good.
29:24And I got
29:25an ID and I
29:26want to run
29:26it by Lili
29:27and see her
29:28point of view
29:29on it because
29:29she ain't gonna
29:30lie to me.
29:30She's gonna
29:31tell me like it is
29:32regardless if I
29:33want to hear
29:33the answer or not.
29:34She's gonna
29:34tell me.
29:35Catch me up
29:36what's been
29:37going on.
29:37Lili, I've
29:38just been like
29:39trying to move
29:40into Brian's house
29:41soon.
29:42That sounds good.
29:43What about
29:43the wedding?
29:45The only thing
29:46we really need
29:47is like
29:48bridesmaids
29:49and grooms
29:50tuxes,
29:51Brian's tux,
29:51the boys' tux.
29:53What about
29:54the bachelorette
29:55party?
29:55I was thinking
29:56about doing like
29:57kind of going
29:58to craft
29:59something.
30:07Let me take
30:08care of that.
30:09You should?
30:10Yeah, let me
30:10take care of that.
30:11I'd like to do
30:11that.
30:12Yeah, we could
30:13figure something
30:14out.
30:15Are we like
30:16Little House
30:17on the Prairie
30:17or something?
30:20No.
30:21I'm not gonna
30:22let her get away
30:23with a low-key
30:23bachelorette party.
30:24We're gonna
30:26make it a little
30:27lit.
30:29But there's
30:30something else
30:31I'm in keeping
30:31from you.
30:32What?
30:34I'm thinking
30:35about it.
30:35Doing an art
30:36show.
30:40I'm thinking
30:42I think
30:43that
30:44that would
30:44be possible.
30:45I think
30:45that you
30:45could do
30:45that
30:46because you
30:46really got
30:47some nice
30:47artwork.
30:49When me
30:49and Michael
30:50got a divorce
30:50I was going
30:51through a lot
30:52of stuff
30:52so I picked
30:54up painting
30:54as a step
30:55to like
30:56express myself.
30:59You know
31:00I feel like
31:00this damn
31:01duck
31:01the odd
31:01one out
31:02of my
31:02whole family.
31:03I'm the one
31:04that shines
31:04the brightest
31:06but I get
31:07lost because
31:08they overtake
31:09me.
31:11I kind
31:11of make art
31:12about what
31:12I'm going
31:12through.
31:13Like my
31:14weight loss
31:14journey.
31:15Or the
31:15family drama.
31:16I mean
31:17these are
31:17great baby.
31:18Have you
31:18thought about
31:18selling them?
31:19I never
31:19really thought
31:20about selling
31:21my art.
31:22I think
31:22I'm just
31:23too nervous.
31:25I didn't
31:25think they
31:26were any
31:26good.
31:26That's why
31:27I always
31:27kept it
31:27to myself.
31:29But it's
31:29just a way
31:30to keep
31:30my hands
31:31moving.
31:32I don't
31:32hands
31:33are a
31:33devil's
31:33bitch.
31:37What do
31:37you think
31:38about the
31:38art?
31:39That's why
31:40I brought
31:40you here
31:41to scope
31:41out the
31:42place with
31:42me.
31:43I like
31:44it.
31:45Like would
31:46you come
31:46if I
31:47put my
31:48paintings
31:48and stuff
31:49up?
31:49Yeah.
31:51Amy's
31:52art is
31:53unique.
31:53I don't
31:54even
31:54put the
31:55name on
31:55the style.
31:56It's
31:57just coming
31:57from
31:58some place
31:58deep
31:58inside her
31:59mind.
32:00Imaginary
32:00place.
32:01And I
32:02mean you
32:03know people
32:03you got
32:03the naysayers
32:04but she
32:04really
32:04puts her
32:05heart
32:05into it.
32:07And you
32:07know I
32:08guess the
32:08world deserves
32:09to see
32:09that.
32:11Why don't
32:12you ask
32:12him?
32:14That's way
32:15better than
32:15what I
32:15can do.
32:17I've seen
32:17a lot of
32:18your artwork.
32:18You're
32:18really good.
32:19I guess I'm
32:20my biggest
32:21critic.
32:22Like I
32:22nitpick
32:23every piece.
32:24That's what
32:24we do.
32:25But you'll
32:25never know
32:26unless you
32:26ask.
32:27Having
32:28my own
32:28art show
32:29would be
32:30my dream
32:31come to
32:31life.
32:32I never
32:33put myself
32:33out there
32:34as an
32:34artist
32:35when I
32:35was 400
32:36pounds
32:36because my
32:37self-esteem
32:38was so
32:38low.
32:39But now
32:40I think
32:41I'm kind
32:41of like
32:41a phoenix
32:42rising
32:43through the
32:43ashes.
32:45But the
32:46scariest part
32:47about putting
32:47yourself out
32:48there is
32:49what if
32:49people don't
32:50like it?
32:51What if
32:51people don't
32:52like me?
33:04today Billy
33:05and I
33:05have a
33:05day to
33:06go shopping
33:06but
33:09I'm just
33:10not here
33:11today.
33:12I'm
33:13so much
33:14on my
33:14mind.
33:19Psst!
33:21Girl,
33:21what are
33:22you doing?
33:23Look at
33:25this.
33:25Wait a minute
33:26girl.
33:26Are you
33:27trying to
33:27be a
33:27model now?
33:28Bathing
33:28suit?
33:30What's
33:31good?
33:31Why?
33:31What's
33:31wrong?
33:33It's
33:33going to
33:33feel
33:34good.
33:35I knew
33:36right away
33:37something
33:38was
33:39offset.
33:41Normally
33:41with me
33:42she greets
33:42perfectly
33:43fine.
33:44We're
33:44cheery.
33:45We're
33:45down and
33:45we're
33:46ready to
33:46go.
33:47But
33:47today
33:48she's
33:48got
33:48something
33:49bothering
33:49her.
33:50I'm
33:50not
33:50really
33:50for
33:51sure
33:51what
33:51it
33:51is
33:51but
33:52she's
33:52down
33:53and
33:53out
33:53about
33:53something.
33:55Wait a
33:56minute.
33:56My
33:56Trump
33:56over is
33:57getting
33:57ready to
33:57get
33:57blown.
34:02I
34:02felt
34:02the wind.
34:04Listen,
34:04you're
34:05fine but
34:05we ain't
34:05doing
34:06like
34:06this
34:06while
34:06I'm
34:06talking.
34:07Hell
34:07to
34:07the
34:07no.
34:08No.
34:10So
34:10how's
34:11things
34:11been
34:11going?
34:12All
34:13right.
34:13mean,
34:15are
34:15you
34:17over
34:18wedding
34:18stuff?
34:20Yeah.
34:21And then
34:22like
34:22Sheila
34:23really
34:24I guess
34:25I'm
34:25still
34:25letting
34:25things
34:26build
34:26up
34:26from
34:28PA
34:29where
34:30she
34:30just
34:30kind
34:30of
34:30ditched
34:31me.
34:32And
34:32I'm
34:33just
34:33at the
34:34point
34:34where
34:34I
34:34don't
34:35care
34:35about
34:35her.
34:36You
34:36know
34:36where
34:37I
34:37live.
34:37You
34:37got
34:37my
34:37number.
34:39I'm
34:40serious.
34:42I
34:42personally
34:43have
34:45anger.
34:47It's not
34:48really
34:48anger.
34:49It's
34:49more
34:50of
34:51heartbroken.
34:52But I
34:53turned that
34:53into
34:54anger.
34:55And
34:56it's
34:57because
34:57how
34:58Amy
34:58has
34:58treated
34:59me.
35:00I
35:01kind of
35:02like
35:02these.
35:02I
35:03don't
35:03know
35:03if it's
35:04it.
35:05Yeah.
35:06If they're
35:06not stretching,
35:06we're not
35:07trying.
35:08The first
35:09thing that
35:10come out of
35:10Tammy's mouth
35:11was
35:11Pennsylvania.
35:12So I
35:13know
35:13she
35:13wants
35:14to
35:14talk
35:14about
35:14that
35:15and
35:15I
35:15know
35:15that
35:15she
35:15wants
35:16to
35:16vent.
35:16You
35:17know
35:17that
35:17is
35:17her
35:18sister.
35:18She
35:19misses
35:19her
35:19sister.
35:20But
35:21that
35:21was
35:21six
35:21months
35:22ago.
35:22It's
35:23a little
35:23bit
35:24upsetting.
35:25We're
35:26still
35:26back
35:27in
35:27Pennsylvania.
35:29Now
35:29listen.
35:31Okay.
35:32You
35:32know
35:32what I'm
35:32thinking?
35:34From
35:341982?
35:35No,
35:35no,
35:36no.
35:36Think
35:36real
35:37hard.
35:39No.
35:39Nasty.
35:40No.
35:41Oh.
35:42Come on,
35:42I'm nasty.
35:43You.
35:44Yeah,
35:45you nasty.
35:46But we're,
35:47this is for
35:48another conversation,
35:48but I do believe
35:50that would be
35:51beautiful for
35:51your sister's
35:52wedding.
35:54I mean,
35:55it's,
35:55it would be.
35:56That's a thing.
35:57Well,
35:58no,
35:58we're not
35:58doing all
35:59that now.
36:01Billy's
36:01trying to
36:01force me
36:02into going
36:02to the
36:03wedding,
36:03and I'm
36:04not doing it.
36:05She is
36:06not asking
36:06me to
36:07be there
36:07or
36:08anything.
36:10It's so
36:10hard.
36:13Don't worry,
36:14Tammy,
36:14you will get
36:15to go to
36:15the wedding.
36:16I think
36:17it'll be
36:17fine.
36:19You don't,
36:19I don't,
36:20you don't stress
36:21over things
36:22we can't handle,
36:23honey.
36:24This is one
36:24step at a time.
36:25Who knows?
36:27Everything's
36:28going to work out.
36:29Everything's
36:29going to be
36:29fine.
36:32Take a minute.
36:33Look at me.
36:35I said,
36:36look at me,
36:36not look
36:36the other way.
36:39You're tired
36:40and it's
36:41stressed.
36:44All of a
36:45sudden,
36:45Tammy's
36:45having a
36:46major meltdown.
36:47Something
36:48just
36:48wasn't
36:51right,
36:51and I was
36:52like,
36:52what's going
36:52on?
36:54Well,
36:55here,
36:56here.
36:56You can't
36:57just,
36:58everything's
36:59fine.
37:00Everything
37:00is fine.
37:03Maybe
37:04we should
37:05go
37:05try
37:06these
37:06on.
37:08It's fine.
37:10I want
37:11to.
37:15Do you
37:16want to
37:16try those
37:17clothes
37:17on?
37:19I'm
37:20getting
37:20very
37:21overwhelmed.
37:25Look at me.
37:27Take a day
37:28breath.
37:30Everything's
37:31going to work
37:31out.
37:32Everything's
37:33going to be
37:33fine.
37:35You going
37:36to try
37:36these on
37:36or you
37:36going to
37:36check
37:37out?
37:37Put them
37:37back on
37:38the shelf.
37:41Um,
37:42do you
37:42want
37:42this?
37:47Girl,
37:47I don't
37:48even know
37:48where
37:48these
37:48things
37:48went.
37:49Hey,
37:50help me
37:50put these
37:50back.
37:53She
37:53gone.
38:10I
38:10met up
38:10with
38:11Tammy
38:11today
38:11because
38:11I
38:12know
38:12her
38:12and
38:12Amy
38:13have
38:13been
38:13going
38:14through
38:14a
38:14rough
38:14time,
38:15but
38:15she's
38:16just
38:16not
38:16acting
38:16herself.
38:18When
38:18Tammy's
38:19upset
38:19or
38:20uncomfortable,
38:20she
38:21immediately
38:22throws up
38:23a guard.
38:23So if
38:24you're
38:24around
38:24her,
38:25even
38:25though
38:26she
38:26doesn't
38:26mean
38:27it,
38:27you
38:28all of
38:28a sudden
38:29become
38:29a target
38:29to
38:30her.
38:30But I
38:31don't
38:31tolerate
38:32children
38:32having
38:32a fit
38:33in
38:33a
38:33store.
38:34That
38:34kind
38:35of,
38:36I
38:37didn't
38:38know
38:38what
38:38to
38:38do
38:38about
38:38that.
38:41So
38:42listen,
38:43something
38:43is stressing
38:44you and
38:44it's
38:45bothering
38:45me.
38:47I still
38:48feel
38:48good.
38:49I'm ready
38:49to go
38:49back
38:49home.
38:50Well?
38:51And it's
38:52nothing
38:52against
38:52you.
38:53I just
38:53don't
38:53feel
38:54good.
38:54And I
38:54know
38:54it's
38:55not
38:55listen,
38:56I
38:56know
38:56it's
38:57nothing
38:57against
38:57me.
38:58But
38:59you
39:00I'm
39:00trying
39:01to
39:01figure
39:01out
39:01how
39:02the
39:02best
39:02way
39:02to
39:03say
39:04this
39:04without
39:04upsetting
39:05you
39:05because
39:05that's
39:05not
39:05what
39:06I
39:31have
39:32somebody
39:32and
39:33then
39:33they
39:33say
39:33oh
39:34never
39:34mind
39:35because
39:36she
39:36could have
39:37called
39:37me
39:37on the
39:37telephone
39:37and
39:38I
39:38could have
39:39did a U-turn
39:40on the highway
39:41and go
39:41back home.
39:42I mean
39:42I didn't need
39:44a tantrum on me.
39:45I'm the one
39:46driving.
39:47If anybody's had a tantrum
39:48it should have been
39:48myself.
39:49So
39:49at this point
39:50I'm confused.
39:51I don't think
39:53Tammy really understands how to deal with her negative emotions at this point.
39:59Everything is too much today and I need
40:03I want to go home.
40:06I truly do wish you would understand
40:09that you've got so many people on your side
40:11and so many people love you.
40:12I really truly wish you would understand that Tammy.
40:16The choices that Tammy is making
40:19at this time
40:20is not
40:23it's really not Tammy.
40:25What I'm confused with is
40:27sometimes I feel like
40:28there's someone behind her
40:30that's winding her up
40:31and saying
40:32you
40:33need to
40:35focus more on
40:36being a bitch
40:37or you need to focus more on
40:39what you want to do
40:40and not worry about
40:41what somebody else thinks is best for you
40:43if it's not your way.
40:45But
40:46I think
40:46eventually
40:47Tammy needs to understand
40:48hey
40:50you know
40:50I do need to
40:51I need to consider somebody else's feelings
40:53and she used to.
40:55I need to go
40:57go home
40:58I don't want to be here
41:00I don't want to
41:03deal with this
41:04I don't want people in my face
41:05I just want to be left alone
41:11oh hey
41:12next time
41:14on 1000 Pound Sisters
41:15I recently got the idea
41:17of actually having my own art show
41:19was everybody invited?
41:21yes
41:21I invited Tammy
41:23and Andrew
41:23okay
41:24this morning
41:25Amy messaged me
41:26about her art show
41:28I don't know if you would want to go
41:30bitch
41:30if you really
41:31wants to make up
41:32then come to me
41:34I'm not going to you first
41:38I don't think you could pick me up
41:40come here
41:43Brittany's lost 50 pounds
41:45and that's great
41:46but
41:47for as long as I've known Brittany
41:48she's dreamed about being a mom
41:51I mean if it was going to happen
41:52it should have happened by now for sure
41:54so you think we should
41:55get checked out
41:56us both?
41:57well I know
41:58I ain't got no problems
41:59I've already got two
42:00running around here
42:04so there's Brian and Amy
42:05hey how are you?
42:07my time's running out
42:08on getting them
42:09to reconcile
42:10before this vacation
42:11that's about to happen
42:12so
42:13I didn't exactly tell
42:15everybody
42:15the main reason
42:17I wanted all of us here today
42:18hey sis
42:19hey
42:20happy birthday
42:23I didn't tell me
42:24birthday party for
42:27why she why why why
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