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#video #90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 07: Brace for Impact #drama2026 #movie2026 #hotmovie
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00:00:01Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03This one is for you, Aviva.
00:00:06The sex good and the vibe good.
00:00:09Would I breed you?
00:00:10Yes, I would.
00:00:12So you really like my guy, huh?
00:00:15You're aware of what happened to him in the past, right?
00:00:18Ex-girlfriend from Texas.
00:00:19She wanted to start a family with her, you know?
00:00:23Richie doesn't think you're fully over your ex.
00:00:26Richie was talking crazy.
00:00:28You really are like a one woman type of guy.
00:00:30Yeah, I could do that.
00:00:33I'm not convinced he's telling me the truth.
00:00:35I haven't been using protection,
00:00:36and I don't want to start a family with a liar.
00:00:40Trust me, baby.
00:00:44Baby.
00:00:49I'm wearing a child.
00:00:50I'm still sleeping.
00:00:52Daniel and I literally just got engaged, and I'm worried.
00:00:55He's second-guessing everything, and he doesn't want me, and I feel rejected.
00:01:03My ex contacted me and is trying to get me back.
00:01:08And how did you respond?
00:01:10I didn't even respond, Rick.
00:01:12Look.
00:01:14I've been insecure about Trisha's ex-boyfriend, because I know he has a lot of money, and I'm
00:01:19not in a position to be spore hunter like that.
00:01:22Do you believe me now?
00:01:24I do believe that you're not talking to him anymore.
00:01:27I'm not, Rick.
00:01:28I'm not.
00:01:31Sheena just told me I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:01:34So now I have to go and get their approval, while I have to tell them that their days are
00:01:39basically numbered with getting money away from their daughter.
00:01:42They have a lot of questions for you.
00:01:44First, it's your career.
00:01:46I'm going to have to tell my parents the truth about Forrest's financial situation.
00:01:52The pressure on my shoulders is quite hard.
00:01:55So, I don't know what's going to happen.
00:02:03With my jobless situation and my debts, I am just broke.
00:02:09Did you say your debts?
00:02:10Yeah.
00:02:11How much is it?
00:02:1250K.
00:02:15That's a lot of f***ing money.
00:02:18I'm avoiding telling the entire story.
00:02:21I'm worried if she finds out how I make money sometimes.
00:02:27She could leave me.
00:03:05You have the nicest ass I have ever seen.
00:03:15I'm blushing.
00:03:19And you know, I always thought your dimples were my favorite thing, but you know what
00:03:23my favorite thing is, Nail?
00:03:26You're not going to.
00:03:27Your belly button.
00:03:29It really is.
00:03:31And it's an outie.
00:03:33It's not an innie.
00:03:34It's so cute.
00:03:39I feel like I'm on a roller coaster already with Daniel, and it's not even 24 hours yet.
00:03:44I'm engaged.
00:03:46Day one, I'm freaking engaged.
00:03:48I didn't sleep last night.
00:03:50All I could do was stare at his face.
00:03:53He's everything I could have dreamed about, except he doesn't have booze.
00:03:59We have to talk about last night.
00:04:03It was awful.
00:04:06I was upset with you.
00:04:08Why?
00:04:11Because I expected more than what happened.
00:04:17Last night was uncomfortable, and it was strange.
00:04:23He didn't finish.
00:04:27And I don't think he was full on .
00:04:31And I had so much anticipation, I was very .
00:04:35So it was almost like we didn't have sex.
00:04:38Even though we had sex, it was almost like it wasn't there.
00:04:42So it just deflated me.
00:04:44I felt like, well, maybe I am too old.
00:04:46Maybe I am, you know, not the shape he wants me to be.
00:04:51I was really questioning myself.
00:04:55I was stressed last night because of all, you know?
00:04:58But it was really awkward for me, because it's been so long since I've been intimate
00:05:03like that.
00:05:04And then you didn't finish, and then it went, I don't know how to talk to you about this.
00:05:13I'm embarrassed.
00:05:16You know, when a man is stressed, he finds it difficult to perform well.
00:05:21So maybe that's what happened.
00:05:24From morning to night, preparing, getting ready to go and work on you.
00:05:30I was really tired after everything.
00:05:33It was a trial run.
00:05:36It was a test run.
00:05:38It was a test run.
00:05:39It was a test run, wasn't it?
00:05:40Yeah.
00:05:41I'm sorry for the first time, but I gave it to you this morning.
00:05:46You did.
00:05:47Yeah.
00:05:51But you want me to be honest?
00:05:53You're a little bigger than I expected.
00:05:56Really?
00:05:57So it was a little, it was a little painful at first.
00:06:01Is that why you were screaming?
00:06:05At first, it was uncomfortable and painful.
00:06:08Okay.
00:06:09And then it was really sweet and gentle and enjoyable, and I seemed to have stretched to
00:06:14fit you just perfectly.
00:06:15And I feel like, I feel like you're, you're made for me.
00:06:20I'm so happy.
00:06:21I'm so glad I'm here.
00:06:28And I love you so much.
00:06:31I love you, Ma.
00:06:32And I'm so happy trying to be here.
00:06:36Now that Daniel and I have been physical, and I'm engaged to him, I'm even more concerned
00:06:43how he's going to handle what I have to tell him about being still married, and it's a woman,
00:06:48and that I've been with women for the past 21 years.
00:06:53I'm already 100% into this relationship, physically and emotionally.
00:06:58And it's definitely going to be harder for me to handle if he can't accept my past.
00:07:03Yeah, one in a million.
00:07:05You keep saying things like that, we're never going to get out of this bed and get showered.
00:07:37You keep saying things like, hold on, hold on....
00:07:38Let's go ride on a trail.
00:07:40Oh my goodness, oh my god, oh lord, give me strength.
00:07:46This is worse than the bust.
00:07:49Sheen and I getting into this tricycle is like what a sardine feels like, being inside
00:07:55of a can.
00:07:56I would never do this with anybody else but you Sheen.
00:08:01That's pretty great, I get to, you know, get up nice and close, but she's also crushing
00:08:05me to death.
00:08:06I love those, woohoo!
00:08:08Oh!
00:08:09Wow!
00:08:11I wish they'd give us a nice, you know, extra wide for my American physique.
00:08:23I'm afraid I'm going to fall off and I don't want two broken legs.
00:08:27Today I'm going to meet Sheena's family for the first time in a province called Covide.
00:08:33So we're almost there though, we'll just have to get along.
00:08:35I'm so nervous, baby.
00:08:38Oh man.
00:08:40Ever since I met Sheena seven years ago, her family has been like these ominous figures.
00:08:46She's told me that they manipulate and exploit her financially.
00:08:56I've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down and letting them know that Sheena
00:09:01is going to completely cut them off financially.
00:09:04But now it's turned into something completely and totally different than what I envisioned.
00:09:09You didn't tell me that there was going to be a mountain treacherous hill to climb.
00:09:14Yeah.
00:09:15Oh man.
00:09:17First she told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:09:21And then she said that they're going to ask me about my career and how I make money.
00:09:26Well, the truth is I don't have a job.
00:09:28I don't have a lot of money.
00:09:30I'm just this loser who's on disability.
00:09:34Baby, we can do this.
00:09:36Just be careful, babe.
00:09:37Yeah.
00:09:38So at this point, I'm concerned that I won't be able to get the blessing for Sheena's family
00:09:43that I apparently need.
00:09:47Oh my gosh.
00:09:48Is that them?
00:09:49Yes, my love.
00:09:51Oh my goodness.
00:10:00You must be Forrest.
00:10:01Forrest.
00:10:02Yeah, Forrest.
00:10:03Wow.
00:10:08Hello, sir.
00:10:09It's finally nice to meet you after so long.
00:10:12Nice to meet you, too.
00:10:14Hello.
00:10:16Oh, this is my dad.
00:10:17This is my dad.
00:10:17He said it's Katrina.
00:10:20So...
00:10:21Yep.
00:10:22She's just a little bit shy.
00:10:23This is my dad's version, though.
00:10:26It's okay.
00:10:27I'm a little shy myself here.
00:10:29Yes, of course.
00:10:30I hope you enjoy your stay here.
00:10:33You know, I'm so happy that you're allowing me to stay here and I'm finally getting to meet you.
00:10:45Sheena told me that her mom is sick, so I won't be meeting her, but her dad and sister seem
00:10:49nice enough.
00:10:50A bit quiet, which I guess is kind of normal, but it's not what I was expecting.
00:10:57You want to take a break from traveling?
00:11:00Yeah, sure.
00:11:00To do that, can you show them?
00:11:02Yeah.
00:11:03Follow me.
00:11:03You want to check the gardens?
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:05Yeah.
00:11:08So this is a place.
00:11:10Yeah.
00:11:14The small improvements over the years.
00:11:18Wow.
00:11:20Yeah.
00:11:22Yeah, this is the place where we have our group meals for guests.
00:11:28Boy.
00:11:28Okay, cool.
00:11:31Wow.
00:11:32Sheena told me that her family runs a bed and breakfast out of their family home.
00:11:35And I've heard over and over again that they need the money to fix this roof.
00:11:39Oh, they need the money to do this.
00:11:41Oh, they need money to do this.
00:11:42That's why they're stealing all this money from me.
00:11:44But it turns out that this is a nice, fancy place.
00:11:47Okay, welcome to our house.
00:11:51Oh, wow.
00:11:52I think you're going to be on the second master's bedroom.
00:11:55This place is huge.
00:11:57Wow.
00:12:00So Gary was under the impression that her family might be desolute or they are going to starve without her.
00:12:08It doesn't add up.
00:12:12Okay, come on, come on.
00:12:13Thank you very much.
00:12:15We're going to have dinner.
00:12:16Yeah.
00:12:16Yeah, all right.
00:12:17Enjoy and relax.
00:12:19Yeah, all right.
00:12:20Thank you, guys.
00:12:27My mind's just confused.
00:12:29I don't understand.
00:12:31So you like the place?
00:12:33Yeah.
00:12:34It was way worth the getting crushed in the bus.
00:12:37Yeah.
00:12:38Your dad seems like a really awesome guy.
00:12:43Yeah.
00:12:47Yeah.
00:12:47Well, I think I want to clean up my face real quick.
00:12:50Yeah, sure.
00:12:51Take your time.
00:12:51I'm going to head in the bathroom real quick.
00:12:52Yeah, go great.
00:12:53Go real quick.
00:12:56Do you think Forrest was expecting something different from what he's seeing at your family's house?
00:13:03Mm-hmm.
00:13:04Yes.
00:13:05Which is probably my fault.
00:13:08Test for the water if it's good.
00:13:09Wash your face around, wash your hands.
00:13:11Yeah.
00:13:13Yeah.
00:13:14Yeah.
00:13:14Yeah.
00:13:27Yeah.
00:13:33Yeah.
00:13:42Yeah.
00:13:44Yeah.
00:13:44I thought.
00:13:45I thought he was the man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:13:52the beginning.
00:13:53And now I don't know.
00:13:54The debt is a big deal.
00:13:58You excited about my show tonight?
00:14:01Yeah.
00:14:01I am.
00:14:02What songs are you singing at your show?
00:14:04Mariah, Dan, Vicky.
00:14:09So who is Vicky?
00:14:22Who is Vicky?
00:14:27Look at that.
00:14:28You can't tell me that's not beautiful.
00:14:30They have like the second most active Barbara Reese in the world.
00:14:32Yeah, yeah.
00:14:33I'm so grateful that I live here.
00:14:34It's so pretty.
00:14:36Do you want to jump in?
00:14:37Okay.
00:14:38Come on.
00:14:38You know I can't swim.
00:14:39Don't play with me.
00:14:51You know what you need?
00:14:52Mm-hmm.
00:14:53Right?
00:14:53Coconut water.
00:14:55Good for your brains and good for your soul.
00:14:59That sounds good.
00:15:00Wash off that butt energy.
00:15:03This is Aviva's second full day in Belize, and we're here in beautiful San Pedro because
00:15:10I'm going to perform tonight.
00:15:12Yesterday, Aviva was accusing me of not being over my ex from Texas.
00:15:17But in the hotel last night, I do believe that I was able to calm her down.
00:15:22I'm old.
00:15:23How are you going to be so fine and want to trip?
00:15:26Huh?
00:15:26Stop stressing.
00:15:28I'm trying.
00:15:36We had sex three times.
00:15:38No protection again.
00:15:40We're risking it all.
00:15:41We're just going with the flow.
00:15:44How is it?
00:15:46It's good.
00:15:47Mm-hmm.
00:15:47Refreshing.
00:15:47Do you have this in the States, in Arizona?
00:15:49No, not like this.
00:15:56Are you excited about my show tonight?
00:15:59Yeah, I am.
00:16:01What songs are you singing at your show?
00:16:03Marry your daughter.
00:16:05You know, TMTM.
00:16:09Vicky.
00:16:13I am trying to have this romantic beach moment with Stig, but he mentions the song, Vicky,
00:16:20and I can't help but think of when my Aunt Spring brought up that rumor to me.
00:16:26They actually just did a big concert, like, for Valentine's Day.
00:16:30The first song that was performed was Vicky, and she was at the concert, and they left together.
00:16:41So, who is Vicky?
00:16:46The concept of Vicky is a girl I was messing with who had a man, and the man wasn't treating
00:16:54her good.
00:16:54She was married, and I was the little bartender showing her love.
00:16:59You know what I mean?
00:16:59On the side.
00:17:02So, is it someone you still talk to?
00:17:05Is it someone that you have a pastor?
00:17:07I had a blast with you.
00:17:09That's years ago.
00:17:12So, my Aunt Spring, she knows a lot of people here.
00:17:16I've heard a lot of rumors that Vicky went to your last show with you, and you left the show
00:17:23with her.
00:17:24And I just, I'm confused, and I'm just hoping that you can clear some things up with me.
00:17:53But did you go home with her?
00:17:57No, I did not.
00:17:59You can go home with any girl.
00:18:02You don't believe me?
00:18:04Apparently, there was some article, or you were tagged in something, or she was tagged in something, of you guys
00:18:11going home together.
00:18:11So, I'm not really sure how I'm supposed to believe you.
00:18:14Belize isn't the fake news.
00:18:16Don't let get to your head.
00:18:22I'm definitely going to do my best to not be in my head about it, but you're apparently going to
00:18:28sing it tonight.
00:18:29How do I know she's not going to be there?
00:18:31Because that's one of my biggest songs in Belize.
00:18:32I can't not sing that.
00:18:34Yeah.
00:18:35You don't want me to sing the song?
00:18:37My biggest song?
00:18:38One of my biggest songs?
00:18:39Yeah.
00:18:41Come on.
00:18:42Don't do that.
00:18:46All of my exes, they start off saying, I'm not going to be jealous.
00:18:50Yes, I got you.
00:18:51What?
00:18:53I thought Aviva was going to be different.
00:18:55And now, I am worried how she's going to react when I perform, Vicky, when I do perform it.
00:19:02Tonight could the whole thing up.
00:19:07I don't want that.
00:19:08If tonight is a problem, that's going to throw me off.
00:19:11I don't know if I can deal with that.
00:19:14That's not what I signed up for.
00:19:18I mean, I'll do my best, but I just would feel more comfortable if you didn't perform, Vicky.
00:19:23That's all I can say.
00:19:36I had a lot of people before I came here say that you would only want to be with me
00:19:43because you would want a green card and money.
00:19:48And hearing that kind of makes it seem like that's true.
00:20:02Do you think, like, I'm going to marry you for your money?
00:20:09That's what everybody else thought.
00:20:12Did you think that?
00:20:13Well, I don't know right now.
00:20:15You know, I'm literally just hearing about most of this for the first time.
00:20:20Birikhan just told me that he's 50K in debt and that he'd flee the country and flee his debt and
00:20:26just ignore it.
00:20:27I'm frustrated and incredibly concerned because it's making me feel like he's just straight up using me to get out
00:20:36of his debt.
00:20:40You know, that's not who I am, actually.
00:20:44If I was someone like that, I would have lied.
00:20:49I would have never told you about my debt.
00:20:52You know?
00:20:56I know that, but I want to make sure that I'm making a smart decision when it comes to future
00:21:03plans, like getting engaged.
00:21:06I just got to hustle because money is money, you know?
00:21:13You know what? I'm ready to go.
00:21:15OK, let's go.
00:21:16Let's go.
00:21:34What's going through your head right now?
00:21:38I'm pretty frustrated.
00:21:40He told me a lot of things at dinner that were concerning.
00:21:44The debt is a big deal to me because he's talked about nothing but like honesty and pride and respect.
00:21:50And it's really hard to respect someone that's not outright and straightforward with the truth.
00:21:56I thought he was the man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:22:04the beginning.
00:22:05And now I don't know.
00:22:10What are you doing?
00:22:13Washing the dishes.
00:22:19Why are you upset?
00:22:21I told you why.
00:22:22I'm frustrated that you let things go the way they did.
00:22:26Why are you mad?
00:22:28Don't be cute.
00:22:29That doesn't fix this.
00:22:31You think I'm cute?
00:22:33I'm not going to answer that right now.
00:22:35You've got to ask.
00:22:36No.
00:22:36You've got to ask.
00:22:37I do not have to answer.
00:22:39You've got to ask.
00:22:40Why are you mad?
00:22:41Stop.
00:22:49You think a couple of kisses will win me over?
00:22:53You think it doesn't?
00:22:55Oh.
00:22:57I'm still feeling nervous about what his intentions are.
00:23:01But this is probably all of the fantasies I had had kind of rolled into one in that moment.
00:23:08Having a hot Turkish guy push you up against the wall and make out with you.
00:23:12I don't know what it is.
00:23:14I just can't resist him.
00:23:16You're adorable.
00:23:17I know.
00:23:18That's why you love me.
00:23:23You are here.
00:23:24Oh, this is hot.
00:23:27Look, look.
00:23:28A little more.
00:23:30Maybe they should buy me some stuff in here.
00:23:33This bougie chick.
00:23:35There ain't nobody sugared at him.
00:23:37I don't know why he act this way.
00:23:40It's like he assumes the worst.
00:23:43I'm already doing things for you.
00:23:45So why are you asking for more?
00:23:48Is that what you want me for?
00:23:59Oh, man.
00:24:02I want to lie.
00:24:05Get out of here.
00:24:09Maybe they didn't give me any kiss since this morning, so...
00:24:13Any kiss?
00:24:16Baby, I'll go...
00:24:19Okay.
00:24:22Ready?
00:24:23Yeah, I'm ready.
00:24:24Okay, let's go.
00:24:32I'm so tired.
00:24:34Why?
00:24:36Because we were packing all night.
00:24:38That's why.
00:24:43Yesterday was tough,
00:24:45but after we had
00:24:47argument about my ex,
00:24:49we went back to the hotel
00:24:50and we did makeup,
00:24:52sex.
00:24:54It was really good.
00:24:57I love sex after
00:24:59argument.
00:25:00Oh, yeah.
00:25:04Woo-hoo! Excited!
00:25:06Get into the plane!
00:25:09I know that
00:25:11we still have trust issues
00:25:12to work through,
00:25:14but today we are going
00:25:16to a romantic trip
00:25:17that Rick booked for us
00:25:19in Noosie Bay.
00:25:21First flight together, baby.
00:25:23Noosie Bay is a really
00:25:25beautiful island.
00:25:27They do have loomers
00:25:29and a beautiful beach.
00:25:33If you have someone
00:25:35to spend time together,
00:25:37romantic,
00:25:39go there.
00:25:45Look how beautiful I am.
00:25:48Look how beautiful I am.
00:26:10You are here.
00:26:12Oh, very hot out.
00:26:14Really hot.
00:26:15Woo!
00:26:18Woo!
00:26:20It's nice and cold.
00:26:22Woo!
00:26:27Don't touch me.
00:26:28I'm hot.
00:26:29Oh, my God.
00:26:30Baby, are you serious?
00:26:34Okay, I'm gonna do you like that.
00:26:43Look, look.
00:26:46Maybe you should buy me some stuffing.
00:26:49Baby.
00:26:52Here we go.
00:26:54Here we go.
00:26:55Here we go.
00:26:55We'll see.
00:26:57I know you got expensive taste.
00:27:00You're so cheap.
00:27:05Tastes dope.
00:27:06That's cheap.
00:27:08Huh?
00:27:08This bougie chick.
00:27:11You serious?
00:27:12Yeah, I'm serious.
00:27:18There ain't nobody's sugar daddy.
00:27:27Ever been, ever will be.
00:27:32I don't know why he called me like that.
00:27:35Like, you are boozy girl Trisha.
00:27:38I'm not looking for a sugar daddy.
00:27:40And I'm not a sugar baby.
00:27:43I got my own money.
00:27:45I don't know why he act this way.
00:27:48I'm just asking for one thing.
00:27:51And it's like, he assumes the worst.
00:27:53It makes me really angry and hard.
00:27:58I will never ask you for anything.
00:28:01Look.
00:28:08Oh, it's a nice room.
00:28:11Okay.
00:28:12Look.
00:28:14See what I set up for you?
00:28:17I don't care.
00:28:19You don't care, of course.
00:28:22Because the roses aren't made of gold, huh?
00:28:31So what are we here to do?
00:28:34Huh?
00:28:34I thought we were here to, you know, have a good time.
00:28:37Yeah, but your answer in the car seems like, I don't know.
00:28:42Well, what are you talking about?
00:28:44You were the one that brought up buying you things.
00:28:47Yeah, but I'm just asking for a little things.
00:28:49You just say, oh, you act like a bougie.
00:28:52Oh, you act like, I'm not somebody's sugar daddy.
00:28:56Did I say that?
00:28:58You didn't say it, but you were acting like a sugar baby.
00:29:05I'm already doing things for you.
00:29:08Did I pay your rent?
00:29:09Yeah, you did pay my rent.
00:29:11So why are you asking for more?
00:29:13Is that what you want me for?
00:29:17It's not what I want you for.
00:29:19But I'm just asking for a little things.
00:29:21It's not that much.
00:29:25I'm going to get you what you need, but I'm not always going to get you what you want.
00:29:29All right.
00:29:35So make it easy.
00:29:37Keep your money.
00:29:38See, this type of attitude, I could have found this in the States.
00:29:43I didn't have to come all the way to Madagascar to get this.
00:29:46Because I thought you were different.
00:29:48Hmm.
00:29:50So I thought also you were different.
00:29:54Hmm.
00:29:55What did you think I was, like your ex-boyfriend?
00:29:58Because that I'm not.
00:30:03I didn't expect something like this.
00:30:07I'm not with him because of money.
00:30:10I'm just with him for love, but I don't know why he think the opposite.
00:30:17It's crazy.
00:30:19I don't even.
00:30:24What were you expecting from me?
00:30:27You know what I do.
00:30:31So what were you expecting?
00:30:34What were you expecting?
00:30:36I know that well.
00:30:41I feel like this trip is not starting in the right foot.
00:30:49I mean, what happened to just loving me for me?
00:30:53That's what you were saying in the beginning.
00:30:56What happened to that?
00:31:04Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:31:06I just want to look at them.
00:31:07Hello.
00:31:08Hi.
00:31:09Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:31:11I'm not gonna kill a chicken.
00:31:12You don't kill a chicken?
00:31:13I had chickens.
00:31:15They were my pets.
00:31:16They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:31:19Your chicken watch TV?
00:31:20Yes.
00:31:22Oh, my God.
00:31:25She and his family, they seemed pretty laid back, normal, caring people.
00:31:31What were you expecting when you go here?
00:31:34Oh.
00:31:35This is going to be mind shattering here.
00:31:38Well, I was expecting that I might be walking into a scam.
00:31:58I'll open the door for you, okay?
00:32:00Okay.
00:32:07I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:32:10You're such a gentleman.
00:32:12You treat me like a queen.
00:32:21I'll then begin.
00:32:23So, that is a taxi?
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:26Moilue.
00:32:27Moilue.
00:32:28Moilue.
00:32:29Moilue?
00:32:30Yes.
00:32:32And that means what?
00:32:34It's taxi.
00:32:35Oh.
00:32:40Is this where we're going?
00:32:44I have always wanted to go to a market, I can't wait to get out and see everything.
00:32:52This is my first time out of the country.
00:32:56This is nothing like the farmers markets that I have been to.
00:33:03No one thinks the same.
00:33:07Okay.
00:33:09It kind of reminds me of a flea market, but a flea market with food.
00:33:14And it's little tiny stalls right on top of each other.
00:33:18You can buy anything and everything.
00:33:21There are live poultry.
00:33:23There is dried fish, smoked fish.
00:33:26Hello.
00:33:27There are women doing hair right there in the middle of the market.
00:33:31It looks so beautiful.
00:33:35Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:33:37I just want to look at them.
00:33:39Oh, my goodness.
00:33:40Ooh.
00:33:42Be careful.
00:33:43Like this.
00:33:45Hello.
00:33:46Hi.
00:33:46Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:33:49She handed me the chicken as if I was going to eat the chicken.
00:33:51Okay.
00:33:52I eat chicken.
00:33:53No, no.
00:33:53I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:33:54You don't kill a chicken?
00:33:55I had chickens.
00:33:57They were my pets.
00:33:58My chickens were spoiled.
00:34:00They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:34:03Your chicken watch TV?
00:34:04Yes.
00:34:06Really?
00:34:09Oh, my God.
00:34:12Bye, chick.
00:34:15Okay.
00:34:15Let's go.
00:34:16Okay.
00:34:18I have to take you to the stars.
00:34:21I love fabric.
00:34:23Hello.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:26They're beautiful.
00:34:27You're welcome.
00:34:29I would like you to check the one that will fit you.
00:34:31Because, you know, my uncle came yesterday to welcome you.
00:34:34He was there.
00:34:35You saw him.
00:34:38I saw you!
00:34:43Tomorrow, we have to pay him a visit.
00:34:46Why?
00:34:47Yeah, because, you know, my uncle have to approve.
00:34:50You know, he doesn't know you that much.
00:34:53So, he'll ask you some questions.
00:34:57I'm confused.
00:34:58What has he not given us approval for?
00:35:00He was very happy at the engagement.
00:35:03Yes, but he has not given us the blessing to marry.
00:35:08The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
00:35:12In my culture, you get blessing from your parents.
00:35:15But my dad is not well.
00:35:17My uncle will have to call my father and report back.
00:35:20But I thought everything was said and done.
00:35:22I thought we were ready to start planning a wedding.
00:35:24I didn't realize there was going to be more to it.
00:35:26That is just a proposal.
00:35:28In America, you have to get blessings before you give the ring.
00:35:31This is Nigerian.
00:35:33I know.
00:35:33We have different cultures.
00:35:35We have different way of life.
00:35:37But you didn't warn me about that.
00:35:40You have to see you dress in traditional attire.
00:35:45Maybe one of the wrapper here.
00:35:48This?
00:35:48This one here.
00:35:49Yeah, this one.
00:35:50I love that one.
00:35:54You know, my uncle love her.
00:35:55He likes good things.
00:35:57And this is colorful.
00:35:58Yes.
00:35:59This is a hair tie.
00:36:00You have to tie this one on your head.
00:36:03OK.
00:36:03Yes.
00:36:04On the head.
00:36:07I'm confused.
00:36:08You're confused.
00:36:09You're confused.
00:36:09You're confused.
00:36:13OK.
00:36:14So it gets wrapped around.
00:36:15Yeah.
00:36:18And then it gets tied.
00:36:19Yeah.
00:36:20I'm just giving you the clue on how to tie it.
00:36:24I can't hear you.
00:36:26It's very loud.
00:36:30Oh, my gosh.
00:36:31How am I going to do this?
00:36:33I have no clue how this wrapping thing works.
00:36:36I have to do this myself when I meet his uncle.
00:36:39And there's no way I'm going to remember how to do everything.
00:36:43I don't want to look like a fool.
00:36:45I don't want to look stupid in front of his uncle.
00:36:48Very easy.
00:36:49Very easy.
00:36:51Yes.
00:36:51It's nice.
00:36:57What should I expect?
00:36:59Like, how will this be wrapped?
00:37:02We have to cut it.
00:37:03OK.
00:37:04Yeah.
00:37:04We have to give it to a teller.
00:37:06Oh, yes.
00:37:07I can cut.
00:37:08But I don't know because we are a bit fat.
00:37:12The wrapper, if I cut it, it may not go round.
00:37:18Because I'm too fat.
00:37:19Yes.
00:37:20Let me continue.
00:37:21I'm coming.
00:37:22All right.
00:37:24I'm too fat.
00:37:26Baby, you're not fat.
00:37:28You said you're fat.
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:30You're not fat.
00:37:32I'm feeling awful, and I'm kind of taken aback.
00:37:35I have to meet his uncle, and I have to wrap myself up in two layers of this wrap, this
00:37:42big headdress, and I'm going to look fat.
00:37:45OK.
00:37:46Make your wrap, please.
00:37:52I have to try to impress his uncle, but what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing?
00:37:58What kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:38:01I'm worried that I may have to reveal things that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:38:07This whole thing could be a disaster for me.
00:38:10So I'm scared.
00:38:12I'm sorry.
00:38:14You're welcome.
00:38:18What is that?
00:38:22Nikki, I'm Dali Cotton kind of .
00:38:26I'm trying to be supportive, but he's dancing and flirting with some random girl on stage right
00:38:32in front of me.
00:38:36What the is Aviva doing?
00:38:52See, I'm outside in San Pedro on the main street walking holding hands.
00:38:57I have to let the whole world know about my baby.
00:39:00You can't question my love for you or anything at this point.
00:39:12How are you feeling?
00:39:13Are we good?
00:39:14I'm nervous.
00:39:15Don't be overthinking.
00:39:17Enjoy the show.
00:39:18Enjoy the entertainment.
00:39:20OK.
00:39:21I'm an entertainer, all right?
00:39:22All right.
00:39:23We good?
00:39:24Yes.
00:39:24All right.
00:39:27I'm a little frustrated with Aviva still for not wanting me to perform my hit song.
00:39:31But listen, I'm still going to go and piece stick the artist and hype this place up.
00:39:35I don't want anything to throw me off my game.
00:39:39Ready?
00:39:40Semi-ready.
00:39:42Ready.
00:39:42You have to say it like me.
00:39:43No, you can't say ready.
00:39:43You can't say ready.
00:39:44Ready.
00:39:45I can't say ready.
00:39:49I can't say ready.
00:39:50You can't say ready.
00:39:51Come on.
00:39:54Yeah!
00:39:56That's good, bruh.
00:39:59Trouble money it's here, mother .
00:40:01Hey, Aviva.
00:40:08Welcome to all the party people tonight,
00:40:10Sting the party's in the Benhammen!
00:40:16I'm super, super excited to see Sting performing
00:40:20for the first time,
00:40:22but I feel super nervous.
00:40:27I still have my suspicions
00:40:29to what Sting's manager in Antspring
00:40:32had to say about Sting and other women.
00:40:35I know there's a lot of girls
00:40:36that throw themselves at him, at his shows.
00:40:41I don't know what to expect.
00:40:47Anybody from Belize?
00:40:48Me and some other nice.
00:40:51Nigga, to all the girls
00:40:53that came from far for this one,
00:40:54they're like, yo.
00:40:57Lessons on your life.
00:41:01Too many things.
00:41:02Long time you went for a wedding ring, girl.
00:41:06Today I'm gonna meet your father.
00:41:08This is what I'm gonna say.
00:41:09I'm gonna marry your daughter.
00:41:11Can I have your blessings?
00:41:13That would be amazing.
00:41:16I know you think that I'm a bad guy,
00:41:18and I'm gonna break her heart.
00:41:22What is that?
00:41:27Yeah, we're smoking, we're smoking,
00:41:28we're smoking, we're smoking.
00:41:30We're fucking here.
00:41:31I got some rum in my pool,
00:41:33I got some boozer,
00:41:34I drew up them to play.
00:41:35You see me?
00:41:48I'm trying to enjoy myself, and I'm trying to be supportive, but he started playing Vicky
00:41:54after I asked him not to.
00:42:02Not only that, but he's dancing with some other random girl and flirting with her on stage
00:42:09right in front of me.
00:42:15It's just really hard to watch, and it's making me feel pretty insecure.
00:42:20Hey!
00:42:21Hey!
00:42:22Hey!
00:42:23What show.
00:42:49What the f*** is Aviva doing?
00:42:54I'm seeing a sea of people partying, having the time of their lives, and Aviva head down in her phone
00:43:04while I'm singing.
00:43:06This is not the behavior I want in my future wife, much less my girlfriend right now, like, come on.
00:43:16Anyway, this is one of my favorite songs on release, yeah.
00:43:20You alone, you alone, you alone, you alone, yeah.
00:43:25They want to give you love till you come, baby, just you alone, yeah.
00:43:31Ooh, it feels alright, do the things your best.
00:43:37Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:43:42One, two, three, four, five.
00:43:46I f*** up.
00:43:47I forgot all the new songs I f*** forgot.
00:43:51You're distracting me.
00:43:53I am so pissed.
00:43:56I can't even Pink Street right now.
00:44:04Ah, make it round.
00:44:06Make this fufu to be round.
00:44:08How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:44:10Are you asking me?
00:44:11This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:44:14Call it very well.
00:44:15No, no.
00:44:18Stop raising your voice on me.
00:44:20Call it again.
00:44:21He's pushing me really hard and I'm getting angry.
00:44:24What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:44:26Can you stand up and walk?
00:44:27Let me see.
00:44:28You want to see me walk?
00:44:29Yes.
00:44:30Are you walking now, ma'am?
00:44:31Watch me walk.
00:44:32Come back.
00:44:33Come back.
00:44:54I'm fuming right now, by the way.
00:44:58You're angry?
00:45:00I'm still frustrated and angry because she called me fat.
00:45:04Don't you know I got nothing to lose?
00:45:07I got something to prove.
00:45:10Ah, ah, ah, ah.
00:45:14No, no.
00:45:14You're not fat, baby.
00:45:15Come on.
00:45:17And I'm stressed.
00:45:20No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:45:21That's how stressed I am right now.
00:45:27Do you remember the promise you gave me?
00:45:29I said I wouldn't smoke.
00:45:31I tried to quit and I couldn't.
00:45:33And I, ah, I am so frustrated with you.
00:45:38It's not funny.
00:45:41There are a few things Daniel expects of me.
00:45:44He wants my hair a certain way.
00:45:46He wants me to ask permission for things.
00:45:49I, I have to ask to have a drink of alcohol.
00:45:52He doesn't want me to vape.
00:45:54And I did tell Daniel I would slow down vaping.
00:45:58But I just found out I have to try to impress his uncle for the blessing.
00:46:03And I am feeling so much pressure of who I need to be for Daniel.
00:46:07So I'm stressing out.
00:46:09And I want my vape.
00:46:16You surprised me with the uncle thing.
00:46:19How am I going to learn how to tie a traditional attire?
00:46:23I'm going to look ridiculous.
00:46:25So I'm from Igbo land.
00:46:27So we have to learn.
00:46:29Igbo people, we have tradition.
00:46:32And if Lisa wants to marry me, she have to learn all this.
00:46:39Am I dressed okay for this?
00:46:41Yeah, look good.
00:46:42Look good, come on.
00:46:44It's very important for Lisa to learn my language and culture.
00:46:47To impress my uncle.
00:46:51Oh, thank you.
00:46:52That would become white.
00:46:53That would be the one.
00:46:54There's a traditional way of blessing powai, okay?
00:46:57Okay.
00:46:58You have to shake it.
00:47:00After shaking it, you have to drop it on the ground, okay?
00:47:04The ground must test it first.
00:47:06Then pick it up again.
00:47:08Mm-hmm.
00:47:09Can I drink it?
00:47:16Yes, you can test it, but it's very strong.
00:47:19It's very strong.
00:47:20Okay, so don't put too much in my glass.
00:47:24Oh.
00:47:31Yes, sir.
00:47:32It's cassava.
00:47:34Did you pound it?
00:47:34Did you pound it?
00:47:35Oh, okay, pounded one.
00:47:37Okay.
00:47:39Oh.
00:47:41You eat.
00:47:42Okay.
00:47:44You do know that I studied the fufu online.
00:47:46Good.
00:47:48I've done so much research about fufu.
00:47:51It is fermented cassava.
00:47:53I learned how to roll it.
00:47:54I learned you flatten it.
00:47:56I learned you dip it.
00:47:57So I'm prepared, and I'm excited to show him I can do this.
00:48:01Throw it.
00:48:02Throw it.
00:48:02Throw it.
00:48:03Throw it.
00:48:07Ew.
00:48:09Ew.
00:48:13Did I do it right?
00:48:15You didn't boil the fufu.
00:48:16You have to boil it.
00:48:18You just swallowed it.
00:48:19Boil it again.
00:48:22All right.
00:48:24Dip your hand.
00:48:28Make it round.
00:48:29Make the fufu to be round.
00:48:30How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:48:32Are you asking me?
00:48:34Yes.
00:48:41This is really good.
00:48:42This is oha soup.
00:48:44I could just eat that.
00:48:45Good.
00:48:46I need a spoon.
00:48:47Use your hand to eat fufu.
00:48:48I am not going to eat soup with just...
00:48:50Use your hand.
00:48:51Dip your hand inside the soup and take it.
00:48:54Look, baby.
00:49:00I think Daniel is just trying to prove a point to me, but I didn't think he'd be so forceful
00:49:05about it.
00:49:07I am in the nursing field, and I work in caregiving.
00:49:11I know what kind of germs get under your fingernails.
00:49:15It's one thing to eat with fufu.
00:49:17It's another thing to dip your fingers into the soup, scoop it up, suck your fingers, and lick them dry.
00:49:25That's no.
00:49:26That's just nasty.
00:49:28I think he's being very rude.
00:49:31Um, have you taken your power wine?
00:49:33No.
00:49:36Can you taste it?
00:49:40Test.
00:49:41Go on.
00:49:41Go on.
00:49:42Test.
00:49:46You have to respect this too.
00:49:48I did.
00:49:49I tasted it.
00:49:56Do you know what we call it in our dialects?
00:49:58No.
00:49:59My uncle.
00:50:00My uncle.
00:50:01Eh?
00:50:01I can't say that.
00:50:02What does it mean?
00:50:03My uncle.
00:50:04My uncle.
00:50:05Oh.
00:50:07Call it very well.
00:50:08No.
00:50:08My uncle.
00:50:09No.
00:50:10You drink it.
00:50:11You respect it.
00:50:14Stop raising your voice at me.
00:50:17Call it again.
00:50:18Hey.
00:50:19Hey, don't talk to me that way.
00:50:21Eh?
00:50:22Relax.
00:50:25I'm done talking to you.
00:50:27I hope you're not drunk.
00:50:31What is that?
00:50:32I thought you were drunk.
00:50:33I took one sip.
00:50:34It doesn't matter.
00:50:35Just a drunk can make you change your system.
00:50:39No, I'm not.
00:50:39You're the one who's changing.
00:50:40Look at you.
00:50:40Put it down and talk nicely.
00:50:44This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:50:47I understand that he's pushing me really hard to do things a proper etiquette way.
00:50:53But he's being rude to me.
00:50:55What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:50:57Can you stand up and walk?
00:50:59Let me see.
00:50:59Let me see.
00:51:00You want to see me walk?
00:51:01Yes.
00:51:02Are you walking normal?
00:51:03Watch me walk.
00:51:05You're walking normal.
00:51:05Oh, come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:07Come back.
00:51:08Watch me walk.
00:51:09I'm back.
00:51:10Oh.
00:51:22For the last seven years, I've been hearing that Sheena's family has been treating her awfully.
00:51:26But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena.
00:51:31Hey, don't recall that.
00:51:32What's your job?
00:51:35The importance you have pants, you know?
00:51:38To help her.
00:51:41Well, for us.
00:52:04Are you ready to go?
00:52:06Yeah.
00:52:07It's already late.
00:52:08I think the boat is waiting for us.
00:52:19I think that's the boat right there.
00:52:22We better hurry up before they leave us.
00:52:25Last night was really rough.
00:52:27We got in this big argument.
00:52:31I just thought it was kind of bold of her to just tell me that, you know, she wants me
00:52:36to buy her stuff.
00:52:37I'm not here for that.
00:52:40We couldn't really come to an agreement.
00:52:43So eventually, we decided to put a pin in it and enjoy our evening together.
00:52:49Oh, my God.
00:52:51But I still feel concerned about whether or not I can fulfill her needs.
00:52:58Slow, slow, slow, slow.
00:53:03Wow, baby.
00:53:12So beautiful.
00:53:14Today we took a boat to an island called Nosy Aranja.
00:53:18This place, it looks like paradise.
00:53:21I see crystal blue waters, a sandbar that separates two islands that you can actually walk across.
00:53:29It's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time and reset, you know, take some scrolls along
00:53:37the beach.
00:53:41I'd be afraid to swing that thing.
00:53:45Thank you so much.
00:53:49Do you know how to put this on your head?
00:53:52Oh, I know.
00:53:54Seriously?
00:53:55No.
00:53:56We haven't learned a skill like that.
00:53:59We put it there.
00:54:01Like, you see?
00:54:02Oh, man.
00:54:02That's cool.
00:54:03Then we can walk.
00:54:03Oh, what?
00:54:05It's not going to fall?
00:54:07No.
00:54:08That's because you got all that hair up there.
00:54:10You got like a nest up there.
00:54:11No.
00:54:12You can do it.
00:54:14All right.
00:54:14Here we go.
00:54:15Here we go, baby.
00:54:19I'm here to find my future wife, and I'm serious about Trish being that one.
00:54:26Let's go.
00:54:27She has a presence that's so captivating.
00:54:31It just makes me want to be close to her.
00:54:34Yeah, I'm doing it.
00:54:36Let me see.
00:54:37Me?
00:54:38But at the same time, we need to work through issues that we have in order for us to have
00:54:44a future.
00:54:45Oh, my God.
00:54:46It's hot.
00:54:47I want to sit down.
00:54:51Man, baby.
00:54:52What?
00:54:53This is beautiful.
00:54:55Mm-hmm.
00:54:56I'm so glad that we're here.
00:54:58That was a rough night last night.
00:55:00Yeah.
00:55:03I want to apologize for what happened yesterday.
00:55:07Um.
00:55:13I just want you to know, like, I know that you are not rich.
00:55:19So, I'm not asking a lot.
00:55:22Just, you go, man.
00:55:24You go, man.
00:55:24You go, and that's it.
00:55:28I think when you were asking me for things, then that, you know, kind of triggered some
00:55:35things that I've gone through in the past.
00:55:37What you need?
00:55:40Just past relationships, and I felt like, you know, once I wasn't giving enough, you know,
00:55:49they didn't want to be with me anymore.
00:55:52I just need to make sure that, you know, that won't happen again.
00:55:59Money has been an issue in previous relationships.
00:56:04I was married to Samson and Frederick's mom, Chini, for seven years.
00:56:09Chini is from Nigeria, and I brought her over on a K-1 visa.
00:56:14I think, uh, Chini had higher expectations than what I could realistically provide.
00:56:20And it caused a lot of issues between us.
00:56:24That's why I've tried to be really straightforward with Trish about my financial situation.
00:56:31You run with that money.
00:56:34I'm not going to leave you if you don't buy me anything.
00:56:38But I just want to make sure if you buy all my needs, that's it.
00:56:44That's what I'm asking.
00:56:47You know when you bring me to your country, I have to let everything in here.
00:56:54My life, my job.
00:56:57Yes, I know that.
00:56:58So I just want to make sure that you will take care of me when I'm there.
00:57:05That's the promise that I'm making to you.
00:57:07I promise that I'm going to take care of all your needs.
00:57:10I may not be able to give you everything you want, like your ex.
00:57:15But everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:57:20My ex did a lot for me, but I was not happy.
00:57:25With you, it's different.
00:57:29The way you talk, the way you're giving affection, I love that.
00:57:38You think that I'm enough for you?
00:57:41Yeah, yes you are.
00:57:42You are enough.
00:57:46That means a lot to me.
00:57:48And I love you.
00:57:49That's why I want our relationship work.
00:57:53This is what I want too, baby.
00:57:59You ready to go have some fun?
00:58:01Yeah, I want to get in the water.
00:58:03Yeah, let's go.
00:58:06I'm starting to feel better that Trish is reassuring me that I'm enough for her.
00:58:13That's what I need to feel.
00:58:15Because I think that being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
00:58:23I really do care about Trish and want this to work.
00:58:28But it's hard because I still haven't told her what happened between me and my ex in Columbia.
00:58:36We're finally getting into a good place.
00:58:40And everything always feels so fragile between us.
00:58:44I really don't know how to tell her.
00:58:46But eventually, it needs to come out.
00:58:54Do you love me?
00:58:55Of course, baby.
00:58:57Now, you're back.
00:59:12I think it's ready.
00:59:16Oh, good.
00:59:17I'm just in time.
00:59:18I'm just in time for dinner.
00:59:20We hope you enjoy this.
00:59:24This is our native food.
00:59:25grilled chicken grilled squid and pork and our natural tropical fruits that
00:59:31sounds awesome oh dinner is served
00:59:45see how it works in in America or in my culture we normally start with the
00:59:49eldest and we go okay I just met Sheena's family and so far they're definitely not the evil dragons
01:00:06I was expecting for the last seven years I've been hearing that they're manipulating her and
01:00:11just treating her awfully and now I'm hearing they are decent people
01:00:18I feel confused but all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena and then go
01:00:27from
01:00:27there
01:00:30so um how's your travel here from America it was long and it was hard but I got to see
01:00:39uh
01:00:40machine for the first time finally yes finally I'm curious though what were you expecting when you
01:00:48go here
01:00:49I was expecting um
01:00:57well I was expecting
01:01:02it's kind of hard to say I you know my mom's uh under the impression that um
01:01:09um I might be walking into a scam
01:01:17every I know there's in every place there there are scammers no no no no no she'll be meeting us
01:01:24tomorrow prove her wrong prove her wrong that's the rest thing that's that's it
01:01:32how'd you guys feel uh when you guys heard I was actually here
01:01:40yeah I thought finally because it's so long um we're not really we're not really sure if we're
01:01:48gonna meet you in person you know I have to say a lot of it what had to do with
01:01:54uh finances I
01:01:56don't make that much money unfortunately
01:02:01just eat babe enjoy your meal okay
01:02:05um
01:02:07but uh question is uh I don't recall it what's your job
01:02:15yeah
01:02:18so this is kind of going to be mind shattering here
01:02:23I'm unemployed right now
01:02:30I'm actually uh receiving disability
01:02:33disability for for what
01:02:35so I have uh autism I have problems talking with with others like right now I'm having a terrible
01:02:42awful time
01:02:47so that that's enough for you for your daily life
01:02:51it cover it covers everything in my life right now
01:02:54but I realize I'm not making enough to support a family right now
01:03:02but I believe I'll be able to get a full-time job
01:03:07just I just want the world for your daughter and I was hoping I could get your blessing
01:03:20well Forrest of course the importance you have pants you know
01:03:30so without any funding how will you survive you know
01:03:36the only way to survive is to get a job
01:03:39yeah
01:03:39proper job
01:03:40I have I have the energy I have the drive I just want to make sure you guys know I'm
01:03:45completely and totally serious I'm going to be working full-time
01:03:48and yeah be support for her
01:03:53I prefer that uh Sheena has a boyfriend that is capable
01:03:58because it's the guy's uh obligation to support a wife
01:04:04and Sheena also is ano
01:04:08she's very helpful ano
01:04:11so talagang hindi mawawala sakin yan
01:04:21okay
01:04:21you have my blessing
01:04:26but
01:04:27you're going to help her
01:04:29and she's been helping us also
01:04:32oh
01:04:34how has she been doing that
01:04:37sometimes if we lack funds for her
01:04:40she would help us
01:04:42you know pay like that
01:04:43no
01:04:44oh
01:04:45I understand
01:04:48yeah
01:04:48yeah I'm really looking forward
01:04:51to meeting your parents tomorrow
01:04:55my mom and dad
01:04:56they definitely have a lot to kind of talk about tomorrow with you guys
01:05:02we're looking forward to it
01:05:05it's going to be a blast
01:05:07I should be happy that I got their blessing
01:05:09but I feel like Sheena hasn't been 100% honest with me
01:05:13what I've seen
01:05:16it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years
01:05:20the way she described her family
01:05:23the way they live
01:05:24the whole money situation
01:05:25the stories are not adding up
01:05:28and I'm really worried that tomorrow
01:05:31my mother is going to come in
01:05:33and going to think everything has been a lie this entire time
01:05:38she's going to
01:05:40basically flip out
01:05:52Michael
01:05:53I want you to cut him out of your life
01:05:58so
01:05:59you're basically
01:06:00giving me the ultimatum of
01:06:02you or him
01:06:03yes
01:06:04you heard me right
01:06:06this kind of changes my thinking a little bit
01:06:09and I'm in a ball team
01:06:21and I'm in a ball team?
01:06:25no
01:06:32yeah I mean that was definitely fun
01:06:42I know I killed it but
01:06:43I forgot my lyrics
01:06:45middle show
01:06:47my mind but
01:06:48don't be so hard on yourself
01:06:49I'll always be hard on myself
01:06:51it's okay
01:06:54I'm so tired
01:06:55it's been such a long night
01:06:57yeah
01:06:59we're just getting back to the hotel
01:07:01from Stig's performance
01:07:02and I felt a little uncomfortable
01:07:06but
01:07:07I think I did well
01:07:09I knew I had to hold it together
01:07:11and just push my feelings to the side
01:07:16my feet are killing me
01:07:18you want to give me a foot massage?
01:07:21maybe
01:07:24maybe
01:07:25maybe
01:07:28I had a good time
01:07:30I thought you did really well
01:07:32thank you
01:07:35so
01:07:35did I handle it okay?
01:07:38like
01:07:41I guess
01:07:43you guess?
01:07:44yeah
01:07:45what'd I do?
01:07:49how does this girl think
01:07:50that she handles this well?
01:07:52like
01:07:52how?
01:07:54you're mad at me?
01:07:57Aviva made me feel like
01:07:59she wasn't interested
01:08:00in my performance
01:08:01she's on her phone
01:08:02texting
01:08:03while I'm performing
01:08:04I'm
01:08:05boiling inside
01:08:08and she
01:08:08she
01:08:09she
01:08:09thinks everything
01:08:10is fine and dandy
01:08:13please tell me
01:08:15what I did wrong
01:08:16when you were on your phone
01:08:19texting
01:08:21hmm
01:08:23hmm
01:08:26oh no
01:08:28it wasn't like that
01:08:30like
01:08:30actually hurt my feelings
01:08:32being on my phone?
01:08:34yes
01:08:34not the right time for that
01:08:36you weren't even watching
01:08:37you were
01:08:37yes I
01:08:38I'm literally performing
01:08:41singing to you
01:08:45I wasn't trying to be disrespectful
01:08:48it wasn't intentional
01:08:50but
01:08:51he was dancing
01:08:52with another woman
01:08:53in front of me
01:08:54and
01:08:55he played Vicky
01:08:56even though I asked him not to
01:08:57so
01:08:58it's a little annoying
01:08:59that he couldn't have
01:09:00just skipped the song
01:09:01it wasn't even a big event
01:09:03I just feel like
01:09:04it's not fair
01:09:12sorry
01:09:13hi
01:09:13I don't have anybody out here
01:09:15like you have to understand that
01:09:16there is all these girls
01:09:17on the stage with you
01:09:18so I'm going to talk to my people
01:09:20I'm going to text my friends
01:09:22I can do that
01:09:23do what you want
01:09:25cool
01:09:26to me that's
01:09:30you're supposed to be on
01:09:31on my team
01:09:32a part of my team
01:09:33that dude did not hype me up
01:09:35kind of killed my vibe actually
01:09:38that's why I felt like I forgot my lyrics
01:09:40I was just distracted
01:09:43you keep talking about these other girls
01:09:44these other girls having fun
01:09:46hyping me up
01:09:47and my girl is there just
01:09:49on her phone
01:09:51it's
01:09:52my first time in a situation like this
01:09:54there's lots of beautiful girls around
01:09:56I just
01:09:57I felt awkward
01:09:58I didn't feel confident
01:09:59and I just wanted
01:10:00you really think that's the best way to handle it?
01:10:13I didn't mean to make you feel a certain way
01:10:15but okay
01:10:19BRB
01:10:21BRB
01:10:23BRB
01:10:26I'm kind of at a loss
01:10:28because I am trying my best to not get super jealous
01:10:34not overreact
01:10:35but apparently I didn't do a very good job
01:10:42I am worried that if he thinks I'm too jealous and crazy
01:10:45he might just break up with me
01:10:48I don't want to scare him off
01:10:50but part of me is terrified that I already have
01:11:07we are in the middle of nowhere
01:11:09there is dogs
01:11:12I don't like dogs
01:11:14why?
01:11:15because you got bit
01:11:16either they beat me or bark me
01:11:19bark at you
01:11:21bark at me
01:11:22okay
01:11:23no you're fine
01:11:25my English is
01:11:26your English is perfect
01:11:27reboot
01:11:28reboot
01:11:38last night
01:11:39I found out that
01:11:41beer con
01:11:41has an immense amount of debt
01:11:45and I was worried that
01:11:46he really just does want a green card
01:11:50but I have put a lot into this relationship
01:11:53so maybe I just need to give it a little bit more time
01:11:56to see how red the red flags actually are
01:12:02maybe they're just a little pink
01:12:04I don't know
01:12:10there's lots of evil eyes
01:12:12yeah
01:12:13I like that tree full of them
01:12:16today my plan is taking Laura to another cave
01:12:20I wanted to show her different areas
01:12:23and different villages
01:12:25and also it is the place
01:12:28that makes evil eye beads there
01:12:34you there
01:12:35thank you
01:12:39evil eye beads when you hear it
01:12:41it's like something bad
01:12:43but it is not
01:12:44it is for good luck
01:12:45can işçiliği gibi
01:12:54when people see you
01:12:56if they get jealous about you
01:12:58thoughts about you
01:12:59the evil eye consumes bad thoughts
01:13:02and protects you
01:13:08perfect
01:13:09oh you did it
01:13:11I got one
01:13:12I know
01:13:16in Turkey
01:13:17everybody believes
01:13:19that superstition
01:13:19because
01:13:20you know
01:13:20people needs to believe something
01:13:23not me
01:13:25I mean the reality actually
01:13:26but
01:13:28I know that
01:13:28Laura
01:13:29she loves crafting
01:13:30so she would enjoy
01:13:35it is for good luck
01:13:36oh that's cool
01:13:38it's not perfectly round
01:13:40but that looks good
01:13:41and I suck at
01:13:43every talent thing
01:13:44no you don't
01:13:46yeah I am
01:13:46check at this
01:13:47I have no talent
01:13:48no it's good
01:13:49now you just roll it
01:13:50it has a tail
01:13:55and it just roll
01:13:58apparently I suck at
01:14:00evil eye beads
01:14:01yeah he does
01:14:03it just makes me angry
01:14:05I can't even get it out
01:14:06but this is part of life
01:14:09you know
01:14:09sometimes I can suck
01:14:11enjoy the moment
01:14:20all of the evil eye stuff
01:14:22yeah
01:14:22is this something like
01:14:24that's common in Turkey
01:14:25like you're taught as a kid
01:14:26is that something that
01:14:27your family taught you
01:14:28your parents taught you
01:14:29yeah yeah yeah
01:14:30yeah they taught me
01:14:31okay
01:14:34we hardly ever talk
01:14:35about your family
01:14:36yeah
01:14:36usually we kind of
01:14:38dance around that topic
01:14:39and I'd like to know
01:14:40more about them
01:14:43we never had a good
01:14:44relationship
01:14:46do you see them
01:14:48very often
01:14:50no actually
01:14:52my parents
01:14:53are
01:14:54not so happy
01:14:56because
01:14:57I'm with you
01:15:03Birhan has been
01:15:04a little evasive
01:15:05about
01:15:05the relationship
01:15:07with his parents
01:15:08we haven't
01:15:09talked about it
01:15:10in a lot of detail
01:15:11so hearing that
01:15:13Birhan's parents
01:15:14don't approve
01:15:15of me
01:15:16is really upsetting
01:15:19my family already
01:15:20doesn't approve of this
01:15:22and it's just
01:15:23kind of frustrating
01:15:25to have a relationship
01:15:26where I feel like
01:15:27everything is against us
01:15:31do you think that
01:15:32there's a point where
01:15:33I would ever
01:15:34meet your parents
01:15:36I don't know
01:15:37but I do feel like
01:15:40meeting someone's
01:15:42family
01:15:43is a good way
01:15:44to get to know
01:15:45more information
01:15:47about a person
01:15:47my family
01:15:49is my friends
01:15:52I understand that
01:15:54for me
01:15:56that's how I feel
01:15:57about my friend
01:15:57Michael
01:15:58you know
01:16:00Michael
01:16:07I don't want you
01:16:08to be too close
01:16:10with him
01:16:10because I don't trust him
01:16:14also I don't like him
01:16:16well
01:16:17he is very important
01:16:19in my life
01:16:21we literally do
01:16:23everything together
01:16:24all the time
01:16:24I will give you
01:16:27a solution
01:16:29I want you
01:16:31to cut him
01:16:32out of your life
01:16:35so
01:16:36you're basically
01:16:37giving me
01:16:39the ultimatum
01:16:39of you or him
01:16:41no
01:16:42actually
01:16:43it's not an ultimatum
01:16:44you know
01:16:45what is it then
01:16:46you're gonna choose me
01:16:50this is the point
01:16:51we are thinking
01:16:52about marriage
01:16:53when we get married
01:16:55he is not gonna be
01:16:56a part of our lives
01:16:58and yes
01:16:59you heard me right
01:17:04I don't like that
01:17:06he's just my friend
01:17:08and he's not trying
01:17:09to make me cut you out
01:17:10he can't
01:17:12this is relationship
01:17:15this is the one
01:17:16who you get married
01:17:17not
01:17:19some
01:17:19activity buddies
01:17:24I've always known
01:17:25that Birkan
01:17:25doesn't love
01:17:26the fact
01:17:26that Michael
01:17:27and I are friends
01:17:28but when Birkan
01:17:30tells me
01:17:30that I'm gonna
01:17:31have to cut
01:17:32Michael out
01:17:32of my life
01:17:32it absolutely
01:17:33feels like
01:17:34some weird
01:17:35controlling side
01:17:36of him
01:17:37that I haven't
01:17:37seen yet
01:17:38and I really
01:17:39don't like
01:17:40this kind of
01:17:41changes my thinking
01:17:42a little bit
01:17:43and I'm
01:17:44about him
01:17:46no
01:17:48he's not
01:17:49trying to force me
01:17:50to make a decision
01:17:50that I don't want
01:17:51to make
01:17:52so
01:17:54why don't you
01:17:55think a little
01:17:56you know
01:17:57I just get
01:17:58some air
01:17:59maybe
01:18:01or
01:18:01some peace
01:18:03I don't know
01:18:07I am shocked
01:18:10that Birkan
01:18:11decides to walk
01:18:12out on me
01:18:12as a way
01:18:13of ending
01:18:14our conversation
01:18:16it's super
01:18:17disrespectful
01:18:18to me
01:18:19especially
01:18:20when I've
01:18:22tried to be
01:18:23very understanding
01:18:24with a massive
01:18:26amount of debt
01:18:27that he revealed
01:18:28to me
01:18:30this doesn't
01:18:31really feel
01:18:32like
01:18:33the man
01:18:34that I thought
01:18:34I knew online
01:18:39I'm out of
01:18:39the way he
01:18:40talked to me
01:18:41the way he's
01:18:42shaking his hand
01:18:42in front of my face
01:18:43and no
01:18:44no
01:18:44he's not going
01:18:45to do that
01:18:45and if he doesn't
01:18:46come and apologize
01:18:47I'm getting in the car
01:18:52oh shoot
01:19:09I'm mad
01:19:10and he better
01:19:11come and apologize
01:19:12and if he doesn't
01:19:13come and apologize
01:19:13I'm getting in the car
01:19:15I'm mad at
01:19:15the way he talked
01:19:16to me
01:19:16the way he's
01:19:17shaking his hand
01:19:18in front of my face
01:19:19and no
01:19:20no
01:19:20he's not going
01:19:21to do that
01:19:22he's not going
01:19:22to shake his hand
01:19:23in front of my face
01:19:25let me go
01:19:26where is my woman
01:19:51baby why are you here
01:19:56why are you talking
01:19:57to me like that
01:19:58you raised your voice
01:19:59you put your hand
01:20:00in my face
01:20:01no I gave you
01:20:02I wanted to know
01:20:03if you had fallen asleep
01:20:04that's why I did
01:20:05like this
01:20:07it makes someone
01:20:08I took two sips
01:20:09I don't want to
01:20:09I'm not even
01:20:10going to drink it anymore
01:20:11even a drop
01:20:12can make someone
01:20:12go
01:20:13then why are you
01:20:14drinking it
01:20:14why did you order it
01:20:15I wanted to let you
01:20:16know that we have
01:20:17traditional drinks
01:20:18in our place
01:20:18and don't get mad
01:20:22at me
01:20:22because I can't
01:20:23pronounce everything
01:20:24I am an American
01:20:25Daniel
01:20:26you can't pronounce
01:20:27everything properly
01:20:28you came to Africa
01:20:29you came to Nigeria
01:20:30so what
01:20:31don't raise your voice
01:20:32oh come on
01:20:33how can I raise my voice
01:20:34I'm a beautiful queen
01:20:35come on
01:20:35you are raising
01:20:36your voice on me
01:20:37I'm sorry
01:20:37okay
01:20:38no
01:20:56I am so upset
01:21:03with Daniel
01:21:04right now
01:21:05this is our first
01:21:06full day together
01:21:07and I'm seeing
01:21:08this whole other
01:21:08side to him
01:21:09the way he's behaving
01:21:11is giving off
01:21:11warning signs
01:21:12I don't like it
01:21:16I'm sorry
01:21:16I'm a little nervous
01:21:18my uncle will see you
01:21:20tomorrow
01:21:21I told him
01:21:22that you a Christian
01:21:23I am a Christian
01:21:24good
01:21:25we don't smoke
01:21:27so you're not
01:21:28allowed to smoke
01:21:28as a Christian
01:21:29you're not allowed
01:21:30to
01:21:31I'm trying to quit
01:21:32so should I tell
01:21:33my uncle that you
01:21:34don't pay
01:21:34no you shouldn't
01:21:36you don't talk
01:21:37about it at all
01:21:38I don't want
01:21:39to be a liar
01:21:42in my family
01:21:45we don't tell lies
01:21:46we always tell
01:21:47the truth
01:21:48no matter how hard
01:21:50let me ask you
01:21:51this
01:21:52if your uncle
01:21:53does not give you
01:21:54the blessing
01:21:54does that mean
01:21:55that we are not
01:21:56getting married
01:22:08you told me
01:22:09you are a man
01:22:10who can make
01:22:10his own decisions
01:22:11I came to Nigeria
01:22:12for a reason
01:22:14and now you're
01:22:14telling me
01:22:15without a blessing
01:22:15that you can't marry me
01:22:17yes I'm a grandma
01:22:19but I came from
01:22:20somewhere
01:22:21in my family
01:22:23we have
01:22:23the way we do
01:22:25our things
01:22:26and I want
01:22:27everything possible
01:22:28to make sure
01:22:29that my uncle
01:22:29gave us blessing
01:22:31that's my concern
01:22:32and that's
01:22:33and the vaping
01:22:34is the only thing
01:22:34that you're very
01:22:35concerned about
01:22:36that's your biggest
01:22:37concern
01:22:37yeah
01:22:42are you worried
01:22:44I'm thinking
01:22:48Daniel is so worried
01:22:50about the vape
01:22:51but that seems
01:22:52really small
01:22:53compared to all
01:22:54the other things
01:22:55that Daniel
01:22:56doesn't know
01:22:57about me
01:22:58I'm terrified
01:22:59to tell him
01:23:00my truth
01:23:00I have no idea
01:23:02if he'll be able
01:23:02to forgive me
01:23:03and even if he
01:23:04accepted my past
01:23:05once I reveal
01:23:07my secrets to him
01:23:08is he gonna have
01:23:08to tell all
01:23:09of his family
01:23:09that I've only been
01:23:10with women
01:23:11for the past
01:23:1221 years
01:23:12and that I'm still
01:23:13married
01:23:14if we tell his
01:23:16uncle about that
01:23:17I'm scared
01:23:18I'm not gonna
01:23:18get the blessing
01:23:20I don't wanna
01:23:21lose Daniel
01:23:27we're here huh
01:23:28next time on
01:23:30Before the 90 Days
01:23:31so cute
01:23:33makimaki
01:23:34yeah the kids
01:23:35will love this
01:23:36yeah
01:23:37it'll be worth it
01:23:38if I can bring
01:23:38a step mommy home
01:23:39but
01:23:41I wanna have
01:23:42my own
01:23:43if he decided
01:23:44does not wanna
01:23:45have kids
01:23:46I don't know
01:23:47if I could
01:23:47be with him
01:23:49you want
01:23:50what you don't want
01:23:54now that I'm
01:23:55in person
01:23:55with my husband
01:23:56he's giving me
01:23:58trust issues
01:23:59remember what
01:24:00you promised me
01:24:01before you
01:24:02came down here
01:24:03I was gonna
01:24:04stop
01:24:04talking to that
01:24:05person
01:24:06so can I
01:24:08see your phone
01:24:10now
01:24:14tell me something
01:24:15interesting
01:24:16about Birkan
01:24:17Birkan'ın
01:24:18bilinmeyen bir anı var
01:24:22I'll tell you
01:24:23Laura is already
01:24:26worried about
01:24:26my finances
01:24:27I don't want
01:24:29to make things
01:24:29bigger
01:24:34wait
01:24:35what is she saying
01:24:38oh yes
01:24:39moment of truth
01:24:42man
01:24:43this is so
01:24:45beautiful here
01:24:46holy
01:24:48well would you
01:24:49look at that
01:24:50Sheena's expecting
01:24:51me to believe
01:24:52that if her parents
01:24:54don't take her money
01:24:55that they're gonna
01:24:56starve
01:24:56tonight
01:24:57we'll get the truth
01:24:58for Sheena
01:25:00She told us
01:25:01if she didn't
01:25:03give the money
01:25:04that you would
01:25:05mistreat her
01:25:06Do you say that?
01:25:12Uncle
01:25:13you are not
01:25:15an Igbo
01:25:16woman
01:25:17I want to know
01:25:18you more
01:25:20I'm sitting next
01:25:21to the man
01:25:21I love
01:25:22and he doesn't
01:25:22know
01:25:22about me
01:25:23I don't want
01:25:24to lie
01:25:25to his uncle
01:25:25but I want us
01:25:27to have this
01:25:27blessing more
01:25:28than anything
01:25:28in the world
01:25:29Are you a
01:25:30practicing person?
01:25:31I have not
01:25:32always been
01:25:32but Daniel
01:25:33makes me
01:25:33into a better
01:25:34woman
01:25:36Are you
01:25:37or were you
01:25:37a lesbian?
01:25:40Do you
01:25:41practice
01:25:41lesbianism?
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