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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:03You've never had my back.
00:04Yes, I have.
00:04You've never had my back.
00:05OK, have enough.
00:07I'm just done with Liz, and I'm just
00:08done with this whole trip.
00:10Liz.
00:10She just it all up.
00:12She's a horrible person.
00:15Sorry everything's kind of going the way it's going right now.
00:18Via is becoming someone that I feel like I can trust.
00:23Do you want to have a baby with her?
00:28We just established today that you're not
00:30talking to other women, and now we're talking about babies.
00:34I don't think he realizes that ship has sailed.
00:37I don't know about completely sailed,
00:39because there's always options.
00:44Courtney broke up with me a few days ago,
00:47and here you go.
00:48My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada
00:51to save the day.
00:52So you're not going to get back together?
00:54Having a relationship with another woman in Brazil.
00:58Thank you for seeing us.
01:00I wonder if Colt told his mom that he was sending jerk-off
01:03videos to other women.
01:05He thinks maybe if you two were together alone
01:09for a few days, you could work this out.
01:12On a relationship standpoint, I'm done.
01:14Like, .
01:16Your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me.
01:19I didn't know I was there to be grilled.
01:22My family can be a lot, but...
01:24And I'm going to lose you because my birthday party was wrong.
01:28I just need a bit of, like, time.
01:32Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya?
01:35You're worried that I'm a player.
01:36Yeah.
01:36Is that what you're getting at?
01:39Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanya because I feel like she's told her a lot about my past
01:45that now someone is using against me.
01:47I just don't appreciate her line of questioning.
01:49This trip is off to such a bad start.
01:52And something happened today that makes me feel like I don't even know Tony whatsoever.
02:10Hello, how are you?
02:12How are you?
02:40How are you doing?
02:43It's been four days since me and Liz had our big fight, and Julia texted Liz to come
02:47and join us for some drinks.
02:48You know, it's up to her if she wants to continue our friendship, but I would love if she wants
02:52to because I do value her.
03:06I was upset at Liz for talking to Pedro behind my back, but I did take it a little bit
03:14far,
03:14especially after being on the receiving end of Pedro's family's craziness.
03:18So if Liz does show up and she can see how we both went wrong, then hopefully we can just
03:23put this whole thing behind us.
03:27Hi!
03:28Hi, ladies.
03:29How are you?
03:30Hi.
03:36I haven't seen the girls in a few days, and I feel like shutting out a friend on a girl's
03:41trip is definitely mean girl energy.
03:43It doesn't feel good.
03:48I'm going to grab a drink.
03:49Can I grab you another?
03:51Can I get a pina colada?
03:53Yes.
03:55But when Julia reached out, I decided it was worth hearing what Sophie has to say.
04:01Can I get two pina coladas, please?
04:04We came on the trip together.
04:06We still have a couple days left, so I just, I need to clear the air.
04:11You're welcome.
04:12I'm glad you came.
04:15Because it's been a couple days silence, and now it's time to back to our girls trip.
04:21I've been super overwhelmed since I got here, not because of you, but because of me and
04:25Pedro.
04:26And it's been a lot.
04:27And I know, like, I probably came a bit too hard on you, and I apologize for that.
04:31I think I was projecting, like, my emotions.
04:37I really don't want, like, drama or pettiness.
04:40I really didn't have any intention of being malicious.
04:44I didn't have any intention of trying to harm you.
04:46Yeah.
04:47So I'm sorry.
04:49I hope you do know that.
04:50I appreciate you saying sorry.
04:52And I'm sorry, too, if I seemed like I was, like, emotional.
04:57No one's perfect.
04:58People bake it.
04:59So what you're saying is we got our first fight out of the way.
05:01Yes, yes, yes.
05:04I generally feel like Sophie had time to reflect on what had happened.
05:08Her apologies seemed very sincere.
05:10I really hope she believes my apology.
05:13I still feel like the outcast in some way.
05:17But I'm going to move forward and enjoy the rest of this trip.
05:20And, oh, my gosh, please just no more drama.
05:25I'm happy that this is all squashed.
05:28Like, even though, like, I wasn't with you this weekend, I want to know how you and Pedro are doing.
05:33It's fun.
05:34Well, it was really bad.
05:37It was really bad.
05:38It was bad.
05:39Really?
05:39Oh, my God.
05:40Okay, so Pedro introduces me to his mom.
05:43He did great.
05:44He was like, look, this is Sophie.
05:46She's not my girlfriend.
05:47She's my friend.
05:47I'm getting to know her.
05:48The first thing she says to me, she goes, you're not dating him yet because you haven't had his banana
05:55and his eggs yet.
06:00His mom said that in front of everyone.
06:02This is, like, first, like, first encounter.
06:05And then the sister comes to me.
06:07She goes to me, I don't trust you.
06:11That's a lot, Sophie.
06:12It's a lot.
06:13After that, I do need to step back and be like, okay, well, let me focus.
06:16I am single.
06:17I don't need to have all these issues right now.
06:19And since I got here, there was a guy that I found on my social media that lives literally in
06:25this area.
06:27And we have been talking.
06:29This guy's fine.
06:31I didn't show you him.
06:32Oh, my God.
06:32I'm blushing.
06:33Like.
06:34Okay.
06:36I was scrolling through some of the local guys on social media, and there's this one guy in particular that
06:41looks really cute.
06:42And I just feel like he could be really fun to meet up with.
06:44Okay.
06:45This is him.
06:45This is him.
06:46Okay.
06:46Let's start with that one.
06:48Oh, yeah.
06:49Hell yeah.
06:50Sophie, you need all of this for you.
06:55He rides motorcycles.
06:56He's tall.
06:58He's good looking.
06:59And he's in shape.
07:01I'm single.
07:02I'm on holiday.
07:03And I've told Prejo I need some space.
07:05This is a little.
07:08And this guy looks like the right amount of space.
07:12So when do you plan on hanging out with him?
07:14Uh, in a couple of days.
07:16You know, I still get to know Prejo, but everything will happen in DR.
07:19Stay in DR.
07:22Cheers to this.
07:23Welcome to our crazy friendship party.
07:26Yes.
07:26Let's start with you.
07:30Cheers.
07:43Good morning.
07:44Good morning.
07:45How are you?
07:46I'm good.
07:47Ooh, yeah.
07:48Morning latte.
07:51Everything okay?
08:07Well, in terms of how the night ended, Tony was really upset.
08:11Did you really go so harsh at him?
08:13What happened?
08:14I wasn't hard on him.
08:15I was just kind of asking a question.
08:16Hey, what's up?
08:16What's your plan?
08:17I know Vinny is looking for a long-term relationship.
08:20Are you on the same page or not?
08:22I was nice-ish.
08:23Okay.
08:25I brought Tony to Maine to spend my birthday with my family.
08:29But instead, ever since we arrived, it's been a complete disaster.
08:34Last night, Tony stormed off to bed after Sanella started grilling him about his past.
08:40But before he even arrived to my cousin's home, I saw a side of Tony that I didn't know existed.
08:46And this could be a deal-breaker for us.
08:49I don't know if you picked up on what was happening when you were doing my eyebrows and my lips.
08:54Tony was blowing up my phone, and obviously I couldn't pick up because we were working on my face.
08:59And I called him back after we were done, and he was so angry that he ended up hanging up
09:05the phone on me.
09:06And you know that in my book, that's one of the most rudest things you can do to me.
09:11Triggering.
09:11Like, you do not do that.
09:13Then, you know, when he showed up to the house, he was trying to make it look like he was
09:18ignoring what just transpired.
09:20The reason why he was upset just because you didn't pick up the phone?
09:23That's it?
09:24Yeah.
09:25It's too soon.
09:27If this is happening this early in a relationship, it's only going to get worse later.
09:32He completely freaked out about not being able to reach me, and he hung up the phone on me.
09:38He just blew up.
09:41It was disrespectful.
09:43It was hurtful.
09:44And I just don't know how to process this or what to do about it.
09:49It sounds very controlling.
09:51Yeah.
09:51So this is something that I'm going to have to deal with.
09:54I'm going to have to address it with him.
09:57It has to be done.
09:59Better sooner than later.
10:00I know.
10:01Tony made plans to go paddle boarding today.
10:04And I want to use this time to really get an answer about what happened yesterday.
10:12How'd you sleep last night, Tony?
10:14Did not get a good night's sleep.
10:15Kind of thinking about the conversation last night and what transpired.
10:19And Sonella just unleashed on me.
10:21And I just feel like I'm getting teamed up on.
10:23I feel like I'm alone in this.
10:25And I just feel a little bit awkward right now.
10:53I think it's good to get out of the house.
10:55And, you know, there's just a little bit.
10:58I mean, not even a little bit.
10:59There was quite a bit of tension yesterday.
11:03Sonella came at me pretty hard.
11:04What do you mean she came at you pretty hard?
11:07She kind of threw out a lot of history that was from a while ago.
11:10I think Sonella just has something against me.
11:12And I don't think it's fair that she just comes out and attacks me on the first night.
11:16I just feel like I was kind of blindsided by it all.
11:18Well, she's worried for me.
11:19She wants to make sure that you have the best interest for me in your heart.
11:23If you saw what happened, I was being attacked.
11:27She's just looking out for me.
11:28And I think that she went about it the wrong way.
11:31But I think she had good intentions.
11:36I know Sonella is Vanya's best friend.
11:39But instead of really trying to communicate with me, it becomes my cousin first.
11:44And let's see what her opinions are.
11:46And out of respect for me, I would just prefer that we work out our issues together.
11:52They don't have to be spread to the whole world.
11:56Howdy, folks. How you doing?
11:58Good, good.
11:59We have a reservation for Tony.
12:01Unfortunately, we got some thunderstorms.
12:03Rolling in.
12:04So, unfortunately, we just can't have folks on the water when we're doing thunder and lightning.
12:08All right.
12:09Okay, then.
12:10You want to just walk around?
12:11You can walk by the water.
12:19I feel like you can cut the tension with a knife.
12:22Tony's being really quiet, but you need to man up and own your mistakes.
12:27There's nothing that I have done ever to this point that would warrant somebody hanging up the phone on me.
12:35It's disrespectful.
12:36It's rude.
12:36It's childish.
12:37And I will not tolerate it.
12:40So, why are you so quiet?
12:44Something on your mind?
12:45Yeah.
12:48You hung up the phone on me, and you got upset at me.
12:52Not my cousin.
12:53You got upset at me.
12:56And I didn't do anything wrong.
12:57You knew what I was doing the whole time.
12:59She was doing permanent makeup on me.
13:00I couldn't talk, and you got upset because I couldn't talk.
13:04I mean, I'm in a new place, a new setting.
13:08You know, you have your family here.
13:10I have no one here.
13:10So, I thought I could just kind of rely on you more than, you know.
13:16I didn't know it was bothering you so much, though.
13:18So much.
13:19Like, this is so important for me, for you to meet my family.
13:23And it's all starting off on the wrong foot.
13:28This is a special weekend for me, and these are the most special people in my life.
13:33And did you hang up the phone on me?
13:35And you're just ignoring me.
13:39This is horrible.
13:44We have a great connection, but our connection hasn't really been physical.
13:50Don't get nervous.
13:52So far, we've fooled around, kissed a bit, but we haven't had sex.
13:57Okay.
13:59Tonight is the night, baby.
14:01Look at that big hoodie.
14:03Oh, thank God.
14:04That's how I like it.
14:05So, I have not told you, ladies.
14:08Wait, what?
14:09Yeah.
14:10I've been keeping a secret since arriving in the DR.
14:14The worst thing you could do is lead him on and not tell him.
14:16Yeah.
14:17That's the worst thing you could do.
14:18Feelings between Bea and I are evolving very quickly, and he might be hurt by what I have to share
14:24with him, and he might not want anything to do with me.
14:38I think I need a few shots.
14:39I need a nightcap for sure.
14:42You know what happens when I get a few shots of him?
14:44Oh my God, yes.
14:45No, I just care.
14:46I do.
14:46I do.
14:48I do.
14:48I do.
14:57Uncle Marco's interesting.
14:59He's an interesting character.
15:01He had a lot of, a lot of questions.
15:04You know what I mean?
15:05That was a lot.
15:06All those questions.
15:07There's a lot to absorb.
15:08Yeah.
15:08But, you know, I just think that we need to walk before we run.
15:16I invited Natalie to Michigan, and things are going good between us.
15:21Getting my Uncle Marco's blessing was a huge deal to me, but I'm a little concerned that he kind of
15:29came in a little hot about Natalie and I having kids.
15:33You haven't even met my children yet.
15:35They don't even know you.
15:36That's step one, right?
15:38That's step one, yeah.
15:38So if I ask you to marry me tonight, is that too fast?
15:43It's really important to me to have a child of my own.
15:47So if I move forward with Natalie, I'm hoping she can remain open-minded to make that a reality.
15:55We are home.
15:57Oh, look at those flowers.
15:58I got some nice flowers.
16:00Aren't they beautiful?
16:00Thanks to you and Uncle Marco.
16:02I know.
16:04Here we go.
16:06Okay.
16:09Go ahead.
16:10All right.
16:11Oh, this is nice.
16:12You like it?
16:13Yeah.
16:15Enter my home.
16:16Yes.
16:17Very nice.
16:17My bedroom is up there.
16:19Okay.
16:21And if you want, you can have a seat and wait for me while I get us a drink.
16:25This could be a big night for Natalie and I.
16:28So far we've fooled around, kissed a bit, but we haven't had sex.
16:33And that's not because I haven't wanted it.
16:36Cheers to...
16:37The future.
16:38The future.
16:38Cheers to the future.
16:40There we go.
16:40So let's hope tonight is the night, baby.
16:45What was your favorite part of the day?
16:47What was my favorite part?
16:49Mm-hmm.
16:51What I think was just hanging out with you today.
16:53My favorite part of the day was when you came to me and told me that you have decided not
16:59to talk to other women.
17:02Can you do that, though?
17:04Can you do that?
17:05Are you going to be able to do that, though?
17:07I don't know!
17:08See, that's the thing.
17:08No, just kidding.
17:09Listen.
17:11There's beautiful women on this planet.
17:14I mean, gorgeous women.
17:15I know.
17:15I get it.
17:15I get it.
17:17The thing is, is like, it's hard to find a good quality woman that has, like, good qualities like you
17:24have.
17:25Yeah.
17:25Having a good quality woman trumps everything.
17:29Aw, you're growing up.
17:30Trumps everything, right?
17:31You're growing up.
17:33Yeah.
17:34Yeah.
17:34It's nice to hear.
17:35Because you know what?
17:36It's true.
17:36You're absolutely right.
17:38So after everything that happened in DC, I took a big chance coming here.
17:42But wanting to be exclusive and introducing me to Uncle Marco is finally showing me that Gino may be serious
17:49about being in a committed relationship.
17:52I'm hopeful for the next step.
17:55And it's probably the most hopeful I've been in a long time with him.
18:00We have a great connection, but our connection has been very mental.
18:04And it hasn't really been physical.
18:07So, I mean...
18:10Wait, don't get nervous.
18:13That totally makes sense, baby.
18:16Okay.
18:29You are a good kisser.
18:30I will say that.
18:32I will give you that.
18:35I'm getting kind of tired.
18:38Really?
18:41I kind of think we should go to bed.
18:43So soon?
18:44So soon?
18:45Yeah.
18:46You know.
18:48Gino.
18:50I'm ready to go to bed.
18:52Yeah?
18:55I don't know how many more hints I could give you.
19:00I'm ready to go to bed.
19:02Okay.
19:02So let's go then.
19:05Let's go.
19:05Let's take the drinks.
19:07It's probably been a year and a half since I've been intimate with a woman.
19:14When I was with Jasmine, I was miserable.
19:17And I can't be intimate with someone that's yelling and screaming at me, fighting with me, and disrespecting me.
19:25After you.
19:26Okay.
19:27But with Natalie, I feel like I can be myself.
19:30She's a very good person.
19:32And I'm going to prove to her that I can be the man that she deserves.
19:37Look at that big booty.
19:39Oh, big.
19:39That's how I like it.
19:41Maybe we'll do it two, three, four, five times.
19:45Who knows how many times?
19:46We might even have sex till the sun comes up.
19:50Mmm.
19:53Yeah, baby.
19:54Oh, yeah.
20:18Okay, ladies.
20:20If you haven't found your man yet, may try to hug yourself.
20:24Oh.
20:24Oh.
20:26Julia, stop hugging.
20:27Yeah.
20:42Thank you for participating in our Zumba.
20:46We'll see you on the next Hangover Zumba.
20:48Yes, tomorrow.
20:50Bye.
20:51Let's take a shot.
20:53I am very relieved.
20:55Sophie and I put the drama behind us.
20:57And I really just want to enjoy the rest of our girls' trip.
21:03Okay.
21:03What do you want to see?
21:04Show us.
21:05I'll just sit over here.
21:06Okay.
21:07I really need some, like, guidance.
21:10I've been keeping a secret pretty much the whole time since arriving in the DR.
21:18Okay.
21:19You have a couple days left before home.
21:22Yeah.
21:23You're gonna have fun because you have this all, like...
21:26Not fun.
21:27I mean, you have some fun.
21:28I've been spending so much time with Fia, but I have not told you, ladies.
21:34So, there is someone that I'm talking to back at home as well.
21:38Wait, what?
21:40Yeah.
21:42Okay.
21:42Talking, talking or, like, like...
21:44Like, we're dating.
21:45Wait.
21:46Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
21:50About three months ago, right after I broke up with Jason, I met someone new.
21:55His name is Alec, and we just clipped.
22:00Really?
22:02Yes.
22:03Oh, my.
22:04I'm overstimulated.
22:07Alec wants a relationship with me, but I've never been single.
22:11So, I told Alec I was coming on this trip, and I wanted to date.
22:16I wanted to get it out of my system and then kind of come home and figure out if I
22:21wanted a serious relationship.
22:23I never expected to fall for someone.
22:27I made it very clear coming to here I wanted to express being single.
22:31And then now I feel very conflicted because I see my self-developing feelings for Fia.
22:37So, I'm scared to, like, tell Fia, hey, I am talking to someone back at home.
22:42As long as you communicate and tell him, hey, like, we're just hanging out, that's all you can do.
22:46You're being honest.
22:47If anyone understands how Liz feels, it's me, because I just got out of a toxic relationship,
22:52and I don't want to rush into anything either.
22:54My only thing is, it does feel a little shady that she's hiding it from Fia.
22:58Like, I'm in the same boat. Like, I'm also trying to get to know Pedro,
23:01but the thing is, I'm being extremely honest with him because I don't want to lead someone on.
23:05So, I hope she tells him soon, or this whole thing could blow up in her face.
23:10I think tell him, he seems like a nice guy, he's probably going to take it fine,
23:13and he'll probably still want to get to know you.
23:15The worst thing you could do is lead him on and not tell him.
23:18But I feel like it's so complicated now, and it scares me either way.
23:28When Courtney took my phone, she told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together.
23:33I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up.
23:37So, how you been?
23:38You're hurting me.
23:47Should've known how good you had it, thought I would love you out of habit,
23:53but you never heard it, so you don't deserve it.
23:58I miss her.
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24:23Courtney, are you okay? Let me know.
24:30It's been about five days now since Courtney broke up with me,
24:33and apparently my mother couldn't have convinced Courtney to give me a second chance,
24:38and I can't say I'm exactly surprised.
24:42I threw away a good relationship with a good woman,
24:45and I hate myself for that.
24:49I hate for all the pain that I caused to everybody.
24:55Living with her parents, I couldn't do anything without Courtney.
24:58I couldn't leave the house.
24:59It was just like I was completely relying on her for everything,
25:02and I felt trapped.
25:05And talking with Diana allowed me to escape that reality.
25:18Hello?
25:19I'm here.
25:20Hey.
25:22Hey, how are you?
25:23You look great today.
25:27I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up.
25:30When Courtney took my phone, she saw all the messages between Diana and I,
25:34and she decided to message her directly.
25:36She told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together,
25:40and this is a problem because I never told Diana the truth,
25:45that Courtney and I have been in a romantic relationship.
25:49So, how you been?
25:54Tell me.
25:56I'm angry because you told me about your plans, your promise to her.
26:05So, I'm feeling very stupid because you say, I love you, Diana.
26:14I do love you.
26:15I have a lot of feelings for you.
26:17That's why I wanted to see you.
26:19But then I broke my leg.
26:23Okay.
26:24You know, I wasn't expecting to see Courtney.
26:26I wasn't expecting to have her in my life.
26:33I love Courtney.
26:38But I love you.
26:40And if I haven't met you, I was supposed to meet you.
26:50You're hurting me.
26:52I'm hurting everybody.
26:55I feel terrible for causing Diana so much hurt and seeing her upset.
27:01But I want to be honest, yes, I still love Courtney.
27:05I love Courtney.
27:06And I also love you.
27:07And Diana needs to know that.
27:12Do you still want me to come to Brazil?
27:19I'm feeling like your last option.
27:26I could see that.
27:32I don't know what I'm doing with anything in life right now.
27:40I'm sad.
27:42I'm sorry that I've hurt you.
27:57Well, that sucked.
28:00I know I f***ed himself with both of them.
28:02I was treating both women equally wrong.
28:08I wanted the benefits of having Diana as an outlet.
28:12But I also wanted the benefits of having Courtney as a girlfriend.
28:16And now they don't want anything to do with me.
28:18And I take full responsibility for this.
28:22But I'm not ready to give up on love.
28:24And I'm gonna fight like hell to get her back.
28:27Which one?
28:31Good question.
28:38I like to be in control.
28:39I like whatever I plan to happen.
28:41But you can't alienate the person that's supposed to be so important to you.
28:46I have never seen this controlling side of Tony in the past.
28:50This is just all coming out of the blue.
28:52This has happened to me so many times in the past.
28:55A guy starts out one way, then it turns out they were just hiding their real personality.
28:59So is this who you are?
29:12This is a special weekend for me.
29:14And these are the most special people in my life.
29:17And did you hang up the phone on me?
29:19And you're just ignoring me.
29:27This is horrible.
29:30Yeah, I made the mistake.
29:31Like I said, I didn't communicate with you about what happened.
29:34But it was kind of awkward with me kind of to bring it up at their place and meet them
29:38for the first time.
29:39But I don't want this to be kind of blown out of proportion where it was, yeah, about an issue
29:43we had yesterday regarding time management, spending time together.
29:47Don't make it like I'm, like, blowing things out of proportion.
29:50You haven't really talked to me nicely since yesterday.
29:54I didn't intend for this to happen.
29:56I didn't.
29:57I overreacted.
29:58And one of my issues, one of my flaws, is I like to be in control.
30:01I like the situation or whatever I plan to happen and, you know, and done right, correctly.
30:07But you can't go with life thinking that things are going to go exactly how you planned it.
30:11You have to roll with the punches.
30:12And in the process, you can't alienate the person that's supposed to be so important to you.
30:20Tony hanging up on me yesterday, it took me by surprise.
30:24I have never seen this kind of controlling side of Tony in the past.
30:29This is just all coming out of the blue.
30:32What did I tell you when we were first discussing trying to take this into a relationship?
30:36I said, are you going to change? Please don't change.
30:39It's not much changing, though.
30:40Because this has happened to me so many times in the past.
30:42A guy starts out one way and then it turns out that it was the opposite the whole time
30:47and they were just hiding their real personalities.
30:49So is this who you are?
30:52No, it's not like a new me. It's not.
30:54The old me is the real me.
30:56That's the person you've known for the longest time.
31:00But the old you has never hurt me like this.
31:03I don't think someone should ever be judged on one reaction or one issue or one fault.
31:12I don't know.
31:15You think this is a real me?
31:17I don't know. That's why I'm trying to have this conversation.
31:20That's not fair, Vanya. That's not fair at all.
31:26This has been kind of like a running theme in some of my past relationships.
31:30A guy starts off being this amazing Prince Charming
31:34and then once they feel like they got you in their claws,
31:37then they do a 180 and they become a totally different person.
31:41And who knows?
31:42Is Tony becoming this totally different person this early in a relationship?
31:46And that's definitely a concern for me.
31:49Tony.
31:51I mean, if you really think I'm a person that's going to truly just hurt you,
31:54then you should walk away from me. I agree.
31:56I want to make sure that going forward,
31:58you're not going to just have a freak out
32:02and then have an explosion like hanging up the phone and then ignoring me.
32:08I can first of all apologize for what I did
32:10because hanging up the phone is not right.
32:12I'm taking full accountability for it.
32:18I like to be updated.
32:19I like to have things kind of go according to plan.
32:22But then I feel like sometimes I'm not even on her radar.
32:25So I felt like that yesterday.
32:26I didn't respond the right way.
32:28I hung up on the phone on her.
32:29So, you know, it was not a good reaction on my end.
32:33You know, going forward,
32:34I think communication and transparency is key.
32:36And, you know, I think Vanya in the end
32:38will see that this is still the real Tony
32:39and it's a pretty good version too.
32:43So I'm not trying to hurt you.
32:44I really am not.
32:45And I don't like to see you cry like it hurts me too.
32:48There you go.
32:56Are you going to get a smart chance?
32:58What?
32:59That's all right, man.
33:02You're never going to lose you.
33:05Right?
33:07After a year and a half of friendship,
33:09I thought that I knew Tony,
33:11but this whole experience now makes me feel like
33:14I'm walking on eggshells.
33:16And it's putting seeds of doubt in my mind
33:19because is this what I want to sign myself up for?
33:23Maybe the relationship Tony and the friend Tony
33:26are two totally different people.
33:33This one's good.
33:34Get things off your chest.
33:35I just felt like it was important to talk about.
33:38It's been really bothering me.
33:42Um, we've been having a great time.
33:44We have a great connection, I feel.
33:46I think, I thought.
33:48I guess I'm just going to be straightforward.
33:51There is somebody back at home
33:53that I've been seeing.
33:55Didn't expect that.
33:57Oh, this is hard.
33:58There's actually a lot of emotions involved.
34:02So, I don't really feel good right now.
34:04I feel bad.
34:26Hey beautiful.
34:27Hi.
34:28How are you?
34:29Good.
34:30You ready?
34:31You smell good as always.
34:33Ready for our dance lessons?
34:35I'm ready.
34:35Yeah?
34:36Yeah.
34:36Let's go.
34:47Julia!
34:49Oh my goodness!
34:51I think we're going to dance
34:52and you look like you're going to the wedding.
34:54Are you ready?
34:55Let's go.
34:56Ever since landing here in the DR,
34:58all I've wanted to do is go to a dance class.
35:00Okay!
35:01Julia!
35:03You're ready!
35:04For dancing!
35:06Julia is joining us,
35:07but Sophie decided to take some alone time for herself
35:10and I think that's a great idea.
35:11Girl deserves it.
35:12It's been a rollercoaster.
35:14It's so pretty!
35:16Hello!
35:17Coming!
35:18Coming!
35:18A little dance!
35:20This is exciting.
35:21Today we will give some merengue and bachata,
35:25like Dominican style,
35:26so follow me and enjoy.
35:28We are here for giving love.
35:29Can I pick this man?
35:30He have a crazy energy.
35:31Yeah!
35:32Venga!
35:33In my photo!
35:34Eso!
35:35You can have a big partner,
35:36for example, with him.
35:38So we will start with some both steps first.
35:42I feel like we've done this before.
35:43I feel like all that new.
35:46It's kind of natural now.
35:47And let's go!
35:48This will be fun!
35:50Yoo-hoo!
35:51Oh, we can do a spin.
35:52Oh.
35:54Open position!
35:55Again!
35:56Let's go, let's go, let's go!
35:57And we go!
36:00I'm sorry.
36:00I feel like I have to count my steps.
36:02I'm, like, thinking, I'm talking
36:03and, like, counting my steps.
36:04Two, three, one, two, three.
36:07You're making me really nervous.
36:09Why me?
36:10Why?
36:11I always get nervous with you.
36:14You're getting me all hot.
36:16Yeah.
36:17Well, yeah.
36:20Well, that can lead to that.
36:22I've really done nothing but hang out with Via
36:25on my whole singles girl trip.
36:28And as much as I'm enjoying being in the moment with him,
36:32it's making me feel guilty for the feelings
36:34that I have back at home with Alec.
36:37Eso!
36:39I think I'm really falling for Via,
36:41and now I'm so beyond confused.
36:43I've waited such a long time for just one good person
36:47to walk into my life that never did I imagine
36:50that there would be two.
36:52Okay, guys.
36:53I'm gonna see you.
36:54I'm gonna see you tomorrow.
36:55Yeah, I'm gonna see you tomorrow.
36:56So, rest now.
36:57After this dancing, can you walk me?
37:02Ooh.
37:03You seem so nervous.
37:05I know.
37:05I just wasn't supposed to come here
37:06and start falling for so long.
37:08It's true.
37:09But you're gonna be honest.
37:10That's all what you need to do.
37:11Okay.
37:12Yes.
37:13Thanks, girl.
37:14So, see you.
37:14Everything will be fine.
37:15Just breathe.
37:17Take a shot.
37:22Hey.
37:23Hey.
37:24You wanna go get a drink?
37:26You wanna drink?
37:27Yeah.
37:27You wanna drink finally?
37:28Yeah, let's go get a drink.
37:30Yeah.
37:30Everything okay?
37:31Yeah.
37:32I am worried about hurting Via's feelings.
37:36I don't know how he feels about me.
37:38Is this just a vacation fling?
37:40Did he expect to, like, have feelings?
37:44We just, we have to have this conversation.
37:47Cheers.
37:48Cheers.
37:50To dancing?
37:51To dancing.
37:52To chemistry?
37:53To chemistry.
37:54That was a lot of fun.
37:55Mm-hmm.
37:56I feel like dancing with you is always a lot of fun.
37:59Yeah.
38:00I think every time I'm with you, I have a lot of fun.
38:03So, I guess, I don't know where, like, your feelings are at with me.
38:08But I know that I am developing feelings.
38:14And same with me.
38:16Um, we've been having a great time.
38:19We have a great connection, I feel.
38:21I think.
38:22I thought.
38:23What?
38:24I have the best time with you.
38:28But I came on this trip to work on me.
38:33And now having feelings for you is making it super complicated.
38:37I guess I'm just gonna be straightforward.
38:40There is somebody back at home that I've been seeing.
38:47Okay.
38:49I didn't expect that.
38:52How serious, like, is this with this person?
38:56I don't know.
38:58The whole point of this trip was to see if I wanted to embrace being single or if I, where
39:05things can go potentially when I get back home.
39:10Oh, this is hard.
39:13This doesn't make a lot of sense to me.
39:16Single's trip.
39:17You're not single.
39:18Well, I am single.
39:20Right now, until you go back.
39:26I can see how it looks to you.
39:28Yeah.
39:30I just kinda feel like I'm, like, I've been wasting my time, you know?
39:38I'm gonna use this.
39:39You're not single.
39:42I got so scared of letting the truth be told.
39:46There's half in your head to hold.
39:49There's half in your head to hold.
39:50And I got freaked out by letting the truth be known.
39:55Safer to be on your own.
39:57There's actually a lot of emotions involved.
40:00So, I don't really feel good right now.
40:03I feel bad.
40:07I feel really bad right now.
40:11Thought we were doing well, you know?
40:14Thought we were on the right path, on the right track, I guess.
40:19I just didn't expect that, so.
40:22Feel a little betrayed.
40:26Deceived, I guess.
40:31How could I be so blind when I can't take it back?
40:36No.
40:40Yeah, I feel really sick to my stomach right now.
40:45Well, .
40:47I can't take it back.
40:51Next time on The Single Life.
40:53Hello.
40:54Hi.
40:56How are you?
40:57I'm good.
40:57It's so good to see you.
40:59Wayne is 52 years old.
41:00He lives in the UK, and we've been talking for a couple months.
41:04I've even put some aftershave on for this coffee date.
41:07You're so handsome.
41:08I have to tell you, you are a handsome little guy.
41:10Oh, thank you.
41:10You are as well.
41:11Oh, thanks.
41:12Wayne might legit be my person, but putting all the effort
41:16into another international relationship,
41:19it's just taking such a chance.
41:22This is my daughter.
41:24I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
41:25I didn't expect that.
41:26I'm surprised you're even here.
41:28I was expecting more of a nice initial greeting, you know?
41:32That was a little weird for me.
41:34Can you close that?
41:35I could.
41:36Well, you better.
41:38So far, I'm not impressed.
41:43I want to know if you like to, you know, to try again.
41:46So I'm being honest.
41:48There is someone today that I'm going to just, like, meet.
41:53That's the day you're going on a date with someone.
41:56We have a few days left.
41:58And you'd rather spend the time with somebody that you know
42:01than spending the time with me?
42:02This is bull .
42:04Are you free to dance?
42:05I am.
42:06All right, let's do it.
42:07I just don't see how dancing with other guys is respectful,
42:10the guy that you're with.
42:11It's my girl.
42:12Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
42:13No.
42:14I mean, like, are you serious?
42:16The fact that he's projecting this insecurity on me is not fair.
42:19It's not right.
42:20I'm not going to stand for it.
42:22I'm just, like, really done with this .
42:24We might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
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