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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Every time I go to the bathroom, it's like dribble, dribble, dribble.
00:05It's annoying.
00:06Well, I done told you you couldn't handle pregnancy.
00:09I'm Isabella.
00:10Me and Bryce have been dating for a year.
00:11We're fixing to have a baby.
00:13We're not fixing to do nothing.
00:14It's fixing to be me pushing out a baby.
00:17So how has the job search been going?
00:19Not too successful.
00:21Buddy, Bryce assured me that he was going to take care of the baby,
00:25and he's not even trying.
00:27Are we together or not?
00:29I don't know.
00:30I'm asking for the bare minimum.
00:31I'm not asking for the freaking moon.
00:33Leave.
00:34I don't care.
00:35All right, that's fine.
00:36Text me whenever your little attitude is over with.
00:40No, I'm scared.
00:42I'm scared.
00:43I'm Amaya.
00:44I'm 16 years old, and I'm having a baby, literally.
00:48You're just going to look at me and focus, okay?
00:50She just doesn't know what she's about to go through.
00:54There is going to be a moment where you steal everything that that girl won't cover.
00:58We call that the ring of fire.
01:00You know, there goes that worrying about your kid part.
01:02It's time to push.
01:04I can't.
01:05I'm scared, Mom.
01:14No.
01:16You okay?
01:16I can't.
01:18I can't.
01:19I can't.
01:20I can't.
01:21I'm so.
01:21No.
01:23It's time to push.
01:24You got to push.
01:25If I can be more ready, then you won't have the strength to push.
01:27Hold on.
01:28It's time.
01:29You're coming.
01:30Woo!
01:31Let's go!
01:36Oh, I'm scared, Mom.
01:38No, no, no.
01:39There's no point in being scared.
01:41Hold on.
01:41No, no, no.
01:41Hold on.
01:42I'm coming.
01:42It's okay.
01:43No, you have to do it.
01:45You have to do it.
01:46My butthole.
01:47It's okay.
01:48It hurts.
01:49What the is going on?
01:52It's the baby you're going to wait for.
01:55We've been in the hospital about 23 hours at this point, and here goes Amaya.
02:02I got it .
02:03No.
02:04I don't know if that's what she's saying.
02:05Yes.
02:06There's pressure in her butthole.
02:08And I'm like, that's the baby.
02:09That means it's time to push.
02:10No, it doesn't.
02:11I have to go to the bathroom.
02:13No.
02:14It is time to push.
02:16We're about to have as a baby.
02:19We have no bread.
02:20You're like, no, no, no.
02:22I don't want to do it.
02:24No, no, no, no, no.
02:25She started to realize, oh, this is not a joke.
02:28And she had to push throughout the pain.
02:30Even though she did get the epidural, she's still feeling pain.
02:34Just freeze my hand.
02:35Oh, my God.
02:36Just freeze my hand.
02:37No, it hurts.
02:38It's okay.
02:39No, it's not.
02:41I just felt bad.
02:43I couldn't do anything to help her.
02:45I was thinking, like, a hundred things all at once.
02:49A hundred things?
02:50What are those hundred things you were thinking?
02:52If something happened to the baby, if something happened to her,
02:55if something happened to both of them.
03:00You always need help?
03:03I'm scared.
03:04I'm scared.
03:08Is that normal?
03:11so they come in to reposition amaya and the baby's heart rate just drops and there wasn't
03:19a little my heart dropped with it i knew at that point like it was serious so baby's heart rate
03:30went down but baby's heart rate went up again okay if the baby's heart rate was down again
03:35that means you have to go for an emergency c-section okay i'm gonna go call the doctor okay i'll
03:42be right
03:42down nurse said if that happens again there's no other conversation being had we're going straight
03:48to the emergency room you know for an emergency c-section and that's it you can do this you're
03:56made to do this you're sammy's mama you got this
04:04my worst fear is she'll have to have a c-section and the baby won't make it
04:15and i just don't want her to go through that
04:21or have to experience that because it's not easy at all
04:56so last night me and bryce
04:57was talking about how he should get a job and he had the audacity to tell me that i should
05:03be
05:03working it's common sense you gotta get a job why don't you get a job too i cannot believe you
05:09just
05:09said this be real who's gonna keep our kid you i don't really know where me and bryce are at
05:17right
05:18now because he's not trying for anything i don't know if it's a maturity level i don't know but i'm
05:23worried that he'll never understand what he needs to do in order to fix the problems in our relationship
05:30i guess we'll talk more about how our conversation went
05:39after we do this
05:43that's fine
05:45because i don't want to get mad again
05:48and be in a bad mood
05:49you seem to get mad no matter what
05:51now you're gonna make me mad
05:53what?
05:54i don't get mad for no reason
05:56i get mad because i have logical things to get mad about
05:59you've had a lot of things that aren't logical
06:01my feelings are valid and you're trying to discourage my feelings
06:05like they don't matter
06:08i never said that
06:09it's how you act
06:12i guess
06:13can you pull over for a second
06:15yeah
06:16so i agreed to go to bryce's nan and papa's house but i don't know how it's gonna go because
06:22me and him still haven't figured anything out
06:24you think the world revolves around you
06:26if it's not on your timing and what you want to do
06:28if it's not on your way
06:29it's not right
06:30it's an argument
06:31you're not doing
06:33what are you doing?
06:34i do my school
06:35i clean my mom's house for her
06:37because that's my job you know
06:40because my mom pays for everything for me
06:42so that's what she expects from me
06:43so that's what i do
06:44i watch truly
06:45what are you talking about?
06:47you don't even watch her after the time
06:49she just comes in your room and you make her food when she asks
06:55like i do stuff with her we color
06:57my neck's hurting
06:58we paint
06:58i'm over with this conversation my neck's hurting
07:00okay
07:02because you're a cry baby
07:04yeah
07:05you are
07:05yeah
07:06glad you finally admitted it
07:07yeah
07:08keep saying yeah
07:09what about it
07:10i know i'm a brat
07:11but don't make me a brat
07:13like there's a reason i act like a brat
07:15i'm not just a brat for no reason
07:16bryce expects me to just sit there and take like whatever
07:21probably because that's how his nansu is
07:24and she just takes everybody's bull
07:26and she don't stick up for herself
07:29it's learned behavior
07:31whatever bryce
07:32you've changed ever since i got pregnant
07:39you have
07:41yes you have
07:42yes you have
07:44what do you mean how
07:46because we never fought this much
07:49at this point
07:50i'm like all right what are we arguing over it's like just stupid things
07:54and i'm not saying anything that she has to do is easy
07:57like
07:58taking care of a kid and doing school work is definitely hard
08:00i will give it to her
08:01and i'll make sure
08:02no matter what
08:03that i'll find a way to make money
08:05but i want her to understand that
08:08i need to do things my own way
08:10without her harping on me
08:12but
08:13it's like talking to a brick wall
08:14when have you ever said it was your fault
08:16ever
08:16ever
08:18what is my fault
08:19like what do i do that's my fault
08:21i get mad over
08:22what have you changed for me
08:23i get
08:24what have you changed for me
08:24i don't know how you expect us to sit here and talk if you can't even
08:28because you can't let me talk ever
08:29you never see myself
08:32i never see your side of what
08:33no never
08:33of what
08:34of anything
08:35it's always my fault
08:36my fault
08:37my fault
08:37my fault
08:38my fault
08:38i don't do nothing but sit in my bed
08:40how is it ever my fault
08:42okay that's the problem
08:44bryce doesn't seem like he even listens to when i talk
08:47it's going through one ear and right out the other like i just can't get through to him
08:51you know i feel like bryce is this way because there's nobody telling him what he's doing is wrong
08:57except isabella
08:58because his dad died and his mom she's worthless
09:02so his grandparents
09:03they're the only people he has
09:05to hold him accountable and to tell him you're wrong
09:07and if they can't understand and get it through his head then i'm done
09:10whatever bryce
09:15i see your belly
09:16i'm mia i'm 16 i'm 30 weeks pregnant
09:19there are headbands oh my goodness
09:22today me and my friends are going to pop for the baby shower
09:26oh lord and hopefully my dad doesn't flip out
09:30how much you spend on all this
09:32800 and
09:33800 what
09:36hard hard
09:37four
09:38six
09:39seven
09:39with the baby's heart rate going as low as it did i mean the heart it can stop at any
09:44moment you know
09:45and go to the count of ten go
09:47come on
09:47i can't hold my breath for that long
09:50i can't
09:51i was very scared
09:52she may have to have a c-section
09:55come on push
09:56go push
09:57hard
10:10she's making you got okay i think we need more butter i mean more milk
10:14okay let's see i'm mia i'm 16 i'm 30 weeks pregnant
10:19it's still so crazy to me like even i think like oh this baby's about to call me mom
10:24now i'm 16 years old like i'm like i still call my mom mom you know it's just so crazy
10:29like
10:30this little baby like it's depending on me
10:33let me move okay
10:36guess your belly's gonna hit the cupcake
10:40i work at a bakery in baton rouge i make 13 an hour
10:44i start it at 9.50
10:45so i'm earning a little over 500 per week before taxes
10:50i think i counted you made 70
10:53pretzel sticks
10:54which they are so beautiful
10:55they are so cute
10:56every time i get paid i put half in my savings and then i put the other half in my
11:00account
11:01just for me to be able to spend
11:03because i'm not gonna work all this and just put it all in my savings and get nothing from it
11:08because that's stupid
11:14hi mrs joe
11:17hello my beautiful ladies
11:18hello mia
11:21hello hello
11:26my pregnancy has been going very well um i don't think a lot has changed since i got pregnant besides
11:32like
11:32my belly got a lot bigger
11:35yeah and then my face has gotten better and my fingers have gotten better because if you see and you
11:40look where my ring's at
11:42you see that that wasn't that didn't happen before i got pregnant like there wasn't a big old mark there
11:48and like an indention in my finger and now it's hard to push my ring back on
12:06i'm jesse
12:07i'm jesse i'm her boyfriend and i'm also the dad
12:10me and jesse and jesse have been dating for a year and four months but we've known each other
12:15for like two and a half years
12:21i was the first person to say i love you
12:23so like i kissed her and then just like our whole future played in my mind i see like us
12:29being together probably till death do its part
12:36so what do you plan on getting i want to do like the pink and brown count print do you
12:41have like
12:42an inspo pic no no okay it's just in my brain today me and my friends are going to go
12:48and
12:48shop for the baby shower which is in a few days we are having around 50 people at my house
12:56and
12:56i'm going to try to stick to a budget of around three hundred dollars so where you want to start
13:04we gotta find we gotta find the western western okay oh i see cow prints oh perfect they have found
13:12it three four they're headbands oh my god that's cute one two three four five six yeah and then get
13:22these i'd say five and then get like the pink like we're saying like get the pink and go in
13:27the
13:27middle okay when i first found out i was pregnant i freaked out and i cried and cried for like
13:34weeks
13:34and weeks and then i found out i'm having a girl and i'm super excited i'm having a girl because
13:41me
13:41and my mom we never had a very good relationship and i want a relationship like i want it with
13:46my
13:46mom i want with her you can't be a hundred percent perfect mother you know but i think i'm gonna
13:52be
13:52a pretty good mom okay we put jesse and some chaps look something like this did you see him in
13:59that
13:59that is terrible i think i'll go with the thing after i found out she's pregnant i was sad and
14:05worried
14:05and frustrated but after the first few days it was like okay i can actually do this because i've always
14:09wanted to be a father because i never really had one but i've always wanted to be one well yeah
14:14but
14:14he wants to play good cop bad cop and he wants me to be the bad cop and he wants
14:18to be the good cop
14:19all the time he's a sucker
14:25what are you texting on your phone i'm texting jesse well we're having a fun time what's he mean
14:31he's supposed to come to the house when we're done and he's stressed out because he don't have a ride
14:35to the house and all that and he keeps texting me well he's putting that stress on me
14:42whatever i'm practically planning this baby shower and doing this baby shower by myself because my mom
14:48hasn't really helped during my pregnancy and even though me and my dad are a lot closer than me and
14:53my mom he just don't understand because he's a guy and then jesse's mom has bought a few things
14:59to help me decorate and everything but my mom can get kind of jealous it would just aggravate her a
15:05little bit if jesse's mom helped out yep it's a lot good morning or afternoon how are y'all how
15:15are you
15:23going to grab another phone two of these yes is this in budget mail as i'm checking out the numbers
15:32are steadily going up and we do exceed three hundred dollars by a bit
15:40eight seventy one ninety one oh lord i might have went a little overboard with spending for the baby
15:52shower but it's my money i do what i want with it i just hope i didn't spend all that
15:56money for it to
15:57be a day filled with drama thank you only because our moms haven't met yet and the first time they're
16:03supposed to meet is at the baby shower i don't know how i feel about that me either because when
16:08you
16:08put my family and jesse's family together who knows what's gonna happen
16:23so it has been 24 hours since me my and mama g have been in that labor room
16:31i'm just in that constant pain just trying to push hard hard four six seven with the baby's heart rate
16:41going as low as it did i mean it can the heart it can stop at any moment you know
16:46and so she
16:49may have to have a c-section and that's my biggest worry
16:53and go to the count of ten go come on thank you i've run for that long thank you
17:01no no no just like that all right okay so here's what we're gonna do okay okay no more shouting
17:08don't people talking are gonna be you and me okay okay listen to me nice quiet delivery it's better
17:15for you and better for babies okay okay all you have to focus on is holding that breath and bearing
17:21down and pushing as hard as you can for that 10 seconds okay okay very good oh man the doctor
17:29had
17:30to tell everyone to shut up i mean i get it we are a very loud family you know he
17:37puts his foot down
17:38to be honest and just tells us we need to all be quiet and let him do his job but
17:44lord knows i'm
17:44praying and just hoping amaya's going to be able to push and can deliver this baby vaginally
18:11i was scared i was scared too i was very scared because it's been a long 24 hours for all
18:19of us
18:20and the maya was like come on you got to do this it's it's go time is and you got
18:26to put your all
18:27into it the nurse told her it could be three hours to push and she was like oh hell no
18:32at that point it kind of put a little fire under her and you know yeah
18:54he's got his hair mama oh my god
19:18he's got his hair mama oh my god
19:33alexander
19:36it's
19:37me
19:37all right this is gonna be snowballing by the way
19:39i'll no
19:39i don't know
19:41what do you
19:41is
19:48what am i
19:51Just like that.
19:51There you go.
19:55Cutting the umbilical cord was weird.
19:58It was like full of like blood.
20:00It's the thing where you don't cut it just one and done.
20:03You have to keep going.
20:04And it was like, ugh.
20:08Keep my hands right there.
20:09Okay.
20:11That's okay.
20:13Oh, boy.
20:15You did it.
20:17Oh, my gosh.
20:18Oh, my gosh.
20:20Oh, my gosh.
20:20Yeah.
20:21Oh.
20:22Good job, Mama.
20:23Maya pushes Sammy out.
20:25In 40 minutes, doctor gave him a pat on his back.
20:29He started crying, and I was happy.
20:31At 8 a.m., Sammy comes into the world.
20:35He was born, finally.
20:38Oh, my God.
20:40It takes me 24 hours and 10 minutes of labor to have Sam Sam.
20:46He was seven pounds and 14 ounces.
20:52Oh, my God.
20:53Seven pounds.
20:53I know how big my baby was.
20:55I can't believe I just forgot that.
20:56It's okay.
20:57I got it.
20:57He was seven pounds and 14 ounces.
20:59I thought he was 13.
21:00Almost eight pounds.
21:02This is why I'm the mom, because clearly they don't even.
21:05I have pictures.
21:06You want to bet?
21:07He's a big boy.
21:08I don't want to bet.
21:08Oh, you're not a betting man?
21:09You got pictures, but you don't know how big he was.
21:12I'm not trying to lose that money.
21:13He was seven pounds and 14 ounces, okay?
21:16Thank you, guys.
21:20Oh, look at him.
21:22Beautiful.
21:26We're meeting a very special person.
21:28We're meeting Samuel, Sammy.
21:31The little king of our, the little pride of our joy.
21:37His name is Samuel Maximino Georgiev Socares.
21:44He's so tired.
21:45Say hi.
21:46Oh.
21:47Oh.
21:48Oh, look.
21:49He's saying hi himself.
21:51Oh, no.
21:52He's going back to sleep.
21:54All he does is sleep.
21:55Can I hold him up?
21:56Yeah, I'll hold him.
21:57Let me see.
22:02Sammy is named after both me and Jose's grandfathers.
22:06And he has both of our last names.
22:10And this is our little creation.
22:15Our little creation.
22:20Little Sammy.
22:28That feeling of holding him for the first time was, like, the most rewarding part.
22:33Like, he's really there and I really did that, like, by myself.
22:38It was like, I don't know, there's no better feeling than that.
22:44You did it, baby.
22:47I'm so proud of you.
22:49You're going to be an amazing mother.
22:51Hopefully a better mother than I am.
22:53Oh, my gosh.
22:54Don't say that.
22:56She's already an amazing mom.
23:00I'm the best mom I could have, literally.
23:02I'm your only mom.
23:03That's all you did.
23:04Exactly.
23:04The best one, too.
23:06I got lucky.
23:08You did so good.
23:11So good.
23:12Thank you, Momma.
23:13Thank you, Momma.
23:15Thank you, Momma.
23:15I'm so proud of you.
23:17Look at my grandbaby.
23:19I feel like a big weight has been lifted off, and my prayers have been answered.
23:25Because that's all I hoped for, was that her and the baby make it through.
23:29And everyone be healthy.
23:34But now that the baby's here, the real work starts.
23:38We're, it's not a game anymore.
23:42Let's see if you guys can handle it.
23:48What do you think your nan and papa are going to want to talk about?
23:52Hello?
23:59Okay, now you're not going to talk.
24:08Let's go.
24:10Put your seatbelt on.
24:20Does it look good?
24:22Yeah, it looks good.
24:23You know, I'm making their favorite.
24:24So I'll hopefully choose them with the crab legs.
24:27There you go.
24:28She's going to love that.
24:29Okay, yeah.
24:29You'll be like, what's going on?
24:31Okay, crab legs?
24:32Crab coma.
24:34I'm Kevin.
24:35This is Sue.
24:37We're Bryce's grandparents, and we're fixing to be great-grandparents.
24:40My nan and papa are pretty much parents and grandparents.
24:43Like, I don't know.
24:44They play both the roles, so.
24:45We started raising Bryce when he turned about three years old, I guess.
24:51His mother was just partying a lot and, you know, not real responsible.
24:57And Bryce's dad, he went to jail.
25:00And then a few years later, sadly, his father passed away.
25:04It's a sad situation, and I just thought it would be better if Bryce permanently stayed with us.
25:12We've tried to give him the best life we could give him.
25:15I've always felt like we had to overcompensate, you know, to make up for hard times in his life when
25:21he was little.
25:22Did we spoil him some?
25:24Yeah, of course we did.
25:25But he's been a joy for us.
25:29He's so special.
25:31All righty.
25:36Bryce is just so closed off these days.
25:39That doesn't really talk about anything, so.
25:41I know he looks like he's in shock, doesn't he?
25:44Yeah.
25:45Yeah.
25:45That's it.
25:47Deer in the headlight look.
25:50We're very excited that a new baby's coming.
25:53It's a little surreal that we're going to be great-grandparents.
25:58You want to be a great-grandmother dead or alive?
26:01What does that mean?
26:03Do you want to be dead before you have one or no?
26:05Oh, of course not.
26:06That's one good thing about it.
26:07Yeah, at least we'll get to see the baby, huh?
26:09And, uh...
26:10Get to see it grow up.
26:11And see the baby grow up, you know, before we're too old to even enjoy it.
26:24I mean, it's just going to be a real change, and...
26:31I don't know, it's a very emotional thing.
26:34Yesterday, he was a little boy, and now he's like this man who's going to have a baby.
26:40When Isabella found out she was pregnant, me and Nan welcomed her, and, you know, we did everything we could.
26:46But it is a shock.
26:48It was just a little bit too soon for me.
26:55See what you did.
26:57I didn't do nothing.
26:58The old woman did it to herself.
27:02All good?
27:03You good?
27:03Yeah.
27:04Just nervous.
27:05You are? Why?
27:06Well, I know we need to talk about stuff.
27:09All we know is there might be some tension between Isabella and Bryce tonight.
27:15This pump up, ah, he hears him coming.
27:17With Bryce, we always say, you know, how's everything going?
27:20Everything's fine.
27:21Everything's fine.
27:22Everything's fine.
27:23There he is.
27:24Yeah.
27:24So we have our concerns and a lot of questions.
27:28He's not real open about, like, his relationships and stuff.
27:32He doesn't talk to us about it.
27:33You know, he likes to keep that private.
27:35It can be easier communicating with Isabella.
27:39So we're hoping to get some answers tonight.
27:43Here we go.
27:44Gonna find out now, huh?
27:49Hopefully this is not gonna happen anytime soon again.
27:53I'm Mia's dad.
27:54And yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
27:58How would you prevent that, Mia?
28:00To have protection and to purposely take it off.
28:06Y'all are stupid.
28:07I'm gonna get out of it.
28:14Cause I don't know is all I said.
28:19But why the time so I can change it?
28:23Oh.
28:26Hey, babe.
28:27What you got going on right there?
28:28All the stuff I got for the baby shower.
28:31It's not a lot.
28:33Looks like a lot to me.
28:34OK, well, just a little bit.
28:41I'm going to show you everything I've got, but I've got to pee.
28:43I'll be right back.
28:45I'm Keith. I'm 47. I'm Mia's dad, and I'm about to be a grandfather.
28:50When I first found out I was pregnant, I was afraid to tell my dad because I was scared.
28:54I don't know, because I knew he was going to be disappointed in me.
28:57Yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
29:01And going through my head, when I found out, it was everything.
29:06It's like, kind of like, I guess, her life passing in front of my eyes in a blink, you know?
29:14Seeing her little bitty growing up, and then all of a sudden, out of left field, 100% this.
29:21But I do feel some type of way responsible.
29:25Because I dropped the ball, I feel like, and I should have went and got her on birth control.
29:29And I mean, that's on me.
29:31I mean, you know.
29:33But she wasn't knocking down my door either, saying, hey, dad, hey, did you forget?
29:37Because I forget stuff, you know?
29:38And I mean, unfortunately, this was one of them things I forgot.
29:44Okay.
29:45Hi.
29:47So, these are the centerpieces of the table.
29:50They're little hats.
29:51No, that's kind of cute.
29:52So, what else you got?
29:53These are going to be hanging from, like, above the tables.
29:57Jesus Christ, $4 for some freaking balloons.
30:01How much you spend on all this?
30:06$800 and...
30:06$800?
30:07What?
30:08$75.
30:10$900.
30:12It's like the $900 she spent on the baby shower is a prime example.
30:16How she's not ready to have a baby, and she's clueless about life.
30:20That's just money down the drain.
30:22Psh, psh, psh, psh, psh, psh.
30:24I do everything I'm supposed to do.
30:26I have good grades in school.
30:27I'm about to finish school.
30:28I work.
30:31It's going to be hard, man.
30:33It sucks.
30:34Struggling is hard.
30:36And I didn't want that.
30:37I don't want that on anybody.
30:39Definitely don't want that for my kid.
30:42Who's all supposed to be coming over here to help?
30:44Caitlin and Jesse and all of them are going to be here.
30:46And then Mom...
30:48She said she was going to be here, but I don't know.
30:54That's just how it is, babe.
30:57I just don't talk to my mom a lot.
30:59She's just...
31:00She's more absent.
31:04We don't have a good relationship, and we don't live together.
31:08Yeah.
31:10Well, at least you got people to help you.
31:12Yeah.
31:13But, I mean, it's...
31:14that she's not.
31:17Yeah.
31:19My mom and dad, they officially, like, split up, split up, like, two and a half years ago,
31:23and that's when I started living with my dad.
31:25Yeah.
31:26My mom isn't stable.
31:29She, uh...
31:29She doesn't have a stable...
31:32a work environment.
31:34She doesn't have a stable place to live.
31:36She...
31:36She has a lot to figure out.
31:39And I just knew, like, with my dad, I'd be in a stable...
31:43stable house.
31:44That's my daughter.
31:44That's my baby girl.
31:45I mean, you know.
31:47I love them.
31:48I'm a dad's girl.
31:50I just...
31:51I don't know.
31:52I just wish things would be better.
31:54You know?
31:55That's a sore subject.
31:59Well, what else you got?
32:01So, we're gonna put the banner up.
32:04Let's look at it.
32:04And then, we're gonna put, like, the balloon arch around the banner.
32:08Hopefully, this is, uh, not gonna happen anytime soon again.
32:15How are you gonna prevent that from happening again?
32:19Don't look at me.
32:20She's talking to you.
32:23So, how would you prevent that, Mia?
32:27My plan for, after having the baby, to have another baby, preventing it, is to be put on birth control.
32:33I want to get an IED or some type of birth control in my arm so I know it's reliable.
32:37Because, like, we did use protection in the beginning, but Jesse took off the condom.
32:45Wow.
32:50What?
32:50What?
32:51I don't know!
32:53Hmm.
32:55Yeah, well, I don't feel so guilty now.
33:03Y'all are stupid.
33:07To have protection and to purposely take it off in chances of creating a freaking other human being that you're
33:19responsible for for the rest of your life, baby.
33:23See, it dumbfounds of me.
33:25It really does.
33:26I mean, it really, it's ridiculous.
33:29You think I wanted to get pregnant, huh?
33:31No, I hope not.
33:32What?
33:33But you need to be, hey, bro, I mean, do what you got to do.
33:37I don't want to get into all that , but I mean, golly, kind of obvious.
33:42I'm just saying, y'all still children, whether you having a baby tomorrow or in a year.
33:53And then, eh, whatever.
33:56I'm sorry, I'm sorry I made you upset, but that's just how I feel.
34:21I don't know.
34:29I don't know.
34:59I don't want to get pregnant for $10 an hour.
35:00$10 won't do nothing.
35:02You would just make an effort.
35:03That is all my mom is asking.
35:04It's a waste of my time.
35:05Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
35:08I think her mother's sticking her nose in it.
35:10You know, that's not right.
35:11That's not the life he dreamed of.
35:13They're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything, and he does because he helped make this
35:18kid.
35:33I don't really think Bryce understands that if he doesn't get his together, I'm done.
35:38Like, I've explained over and over again why he needs a job.
35:41I mean, I've tried, my mom's tried, there's fixing to be a baby here.
35:45So, hopefully, Bryce's grandparents can get through to him.
35:53Mmm.
35:55That's good, man.
35:57I'm really surprised.
36:00Kevin.
36:01What?
36:02You're blocking the sunlight.
36:04Mmm.
36:06How's your mom doing?
36:08Oh, she's doing fine.
36:10Working.
36:13You're a little sister, you've been looking after her or what?
36:16Yeah.
36:18You got a lot on your plate, don't you?
36:21Maybe more than most.
36:23At your age.
36:28Isabella seems a little standoffish previously.
36:32She was always nice and smiling, and tonight, she just doesn't seem very inviting, or there's
36:42a wall there, I feel like, between us.
36:46She looked the same to me, like she's on the defensive or something's wrong.
36:52But I just shook it off as...
36:54We haven't seen her.
36:55We haven't seen her in a while, and she's nervous, and, you know, we'll see what happens.
37:01Well, what's y'all's plans?
37:03What do you want to do?
37:04I got no clue.
37:05What do you mean?
37:07Plans for what?
37:07As far as where y'all are going to live, are y'all going to try to live together?
37:10No.
37:11You don't want to live with Bryce?
37:13No.
37:15Not at anybody's house.
37:16Well, no, I mean, like, when it's time for y'all to live together.
37:21Oh, yeah, but...
37:22Or get married, or whatever.
37:25My nanopopo had felt like that we should get married, because we're really religious.
37:31Well, my family's Christian, too, but my mom didn't think that we should get married just
37:35because we was having a kid.
37:36If we can't financially support a baby, why would we get married?
37:40It's not like, I'm going to go to hell because I had a baby out of wedlock.
37:47So your plan isn't for y'all to get married anytime soon?
37:53Or ever.
37:55Not anytime soon.
37:57Got to get a job first.
37:59Right now, we have two months until she comes, and nothing's bought.
38:03I mean, she has a couple outfits that my mom's bought.
38:06You know, you're talking about y'all don't have anything.
38:09What about having a baby shower?
38:11Are you interested in that at all?
38:13No, no.
38:14I don't want a baby shower.
38:16People bring you and give you gifts.
38:18It's not about the gifts.
38:19It's just more about, like, support.
38:21It's crunch time.
38:22Like, this isn't going to happen, and there's just, like...
38:25Hey, that baby's not going to hurt for nothing.
38:27I can promise you.
38:29I'm very frustrated because it has nothing to do with them not buying anything.
38:34It has everything to do with their enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything,
38:40and he does because he helped make this kid.
38:43We're willing to do whatever we can, and Bryce is going to get a job.
38:46Yeah, but I ain't selling them for $10 an hour.
38:50No, you have to have a decent job.
38:52You have to crawl before you walk.
38:54Like my mom said, you don't have to work...
38:55$10 an hour won't do nothing.
38:56Okay.
38:57It won't.
38:58You would just make an effort.
38:59That is all my mom is asking.
39:00It's a waste of my time.
39:01Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
39:06I'm still her daughter, and I'm not going to be in a relationship, me and him dating,
39:12but me feel like a single mom and my mom taking care of me and Haisley.
39:16That's just not...
39:16Like, it don't make any logical sense.
39:19I think her mother's sticking her nose in and telling Bryce what to do.
39:23You know, that's not right.
39:24He needs to do what he thinks he needs to do to be able to raise a family.
39:29Okay?
39:29Not just anything.
39:34Bryce has a future, a bright future.
39:36Okay?
39:37He's smart.
39:37He's very smart.
39:38But it takes a little time.
39:40You can't just get that overnight.
39:42And if you go settle for a, you know, minimum wage job, that's what you're doing, is just
39:47settling for that.
39:48That's not the life he dreamed of.
39:50He wants to have a life, too, you know, and a good life.
39:54What I'm asking is they tell Bryce to get his head out of his ass and get a job.
40:00But, oh, well, who cares?
40:02Not them, because bringing a baby in this world doesn't fall on them.
40:06It falls on my family.
40:09It'll be all right.
40:10Relax a little bit.
40:11Well, I'm sorry I sit here and worry, because...
40:13I understand.
40:14I understand.
40:15But it's Bryce's baby, too.
40:17Let's not forget that.
40:19Okay, well, let's make an effort.
40:22We had this crab dinner, you know, to reconnect with Isabella.
40:30And I feel like I have been under attack the whole time.
40:36It's getting dark out here.
40:37We need to get all this stuff and get it inside.
40:41So, I'm hopeful that if we just had some time to reflect, we can all come together and try
40:49to form a plan that works for everyone.
40:53Well, I hope so.
40:55But I'm not holding my breath.
41:03How's it going, bud?
41:04Next time on Unexpected.
41:06When I first met Jesse, I kind of didn't like him.
41:09Then this happened.
41:11Well, I definitely don't like the kid now.
41:13Can Jesse stay the night?
41:14No.
41:15He's making it hard.
41:16He is making it harder than it has to be.
41:18I don't know why he don't let you sleep over.
41:20It ain't like she's going to get pregnant again.
41:24Let's go.
41:24He's ready.
41:25You want some clothes on?
41:26Okay.
41:28Jose, you going to help her over here?
41:30Taking Sammy home is really scary, because it's, like, really setting in that this is my
41:35whole life now, you know?
41:36Um, can you get a band-aid?
41:38We don't have band-aid.
41:39Okay.
41:40Can you call them and ask for a band-aid, please?
41:43I have to go back to work.
41:44And so you need to be able to do this.
41:48Have fun, Hunter.
41:49Thank you, I love you.
41:49We'll see y'all later.
41:51Today, Hunter's going to see his dad.
41:52But I am worried that he might not show up.
41:55When I was away there, it's going to be, like, 30 minutes.
42:02He's a piece of s***.
42:03When does the disappointment stop?
42:05I do think it's important for Hunter to have his dad in his lap.
42:08He's a 13-year-old boy about to have a child of his own.
42:11But his dad needs to be consistent.
42:13I don't want to hurt.
42:15I've done this stupid-ass s***.
42:17Bill, stop.
42:18Wait.
42:18Dinner?
42:19It was f***ing miserable.
42:21I'm not going to sit in the room with a little crybaby because y'all enable his f***ing behavior.
42:29She's going to regret this.
42:30It's all now, okay?
42:32We can do it like that.
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