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Married at First Sight (AU) Season 13 Episode 31
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00:00:00Previously...
00:00:01I want to go put my dad hat on and I would like to leave.
00:00:04Chris wanted to leave the experiment.
00:00:07Stay.
00:00:07Before the experts gave some sound advice for the pair to turn it around.
00:00:12With a weenus can come change.
00:00:15Treat each other in a friendly way.
00:00:17And then...
00:00:19All around Australia...
00:00:22Homestays Week saw our couples take what they've learnt in the experiment into the outside world.
00:00:29Passenger Princess!
00:00:31A successful visit to his hometown saw Stephen give Rachel reassurance for their future.
00:00:37I have caught up in my feelings for you.
00:00:39I can see myself falling in love with you one day.
00:00:42It really reaffirms the feelings are real, the feelings are neutral.
00:00:47You've always told me, like, don't come here to Sydney for me.
00:00:51Well, deal with it.
00:00:53Phillip confirmed he would move from Melbourne to live with Stella in Sydney.
00:00:57This is it, like...
00:00:59We are coming out stronger than we came in.
00:01:02It'd be better if that wasn't there.
00:01:04My house is way cleaner.
00:01:05I couldn't live here.
00:01:06It was a tense few days at Scott's home on the Gold Coast.
00:01:10What's that?
00:01:11Why is it pink?
00:01:12Is it your ex?
00:01:13It's not me.
00:01:14It makes me feel like she doesn't trust me.
00:01:15You're in an experiment right now and you can't even voice how you feel.
00:01:18Scott finally asked Gia the hard questions about their relationship.
00:01:22Do you, like, fully 100% trust me?
00:01:25Do you know what I mean?
00:01:26Yes, God.
00:01:26No, no, no.
00:01:26What I'm saying is, like...
00:01:27I didn't know you wanted to argue today.
00:01:32Tonight...
00:01:32So good.
00:01:33...homestays continues.
00:01:35Welcome home.
00:01:36You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it.
00:01:40You're abusing me over a joke.
00:01:42...pisses me off.
00:01:42What comment has Danny made that leaves Bec seeing red?
00:01:47I'm done.
00:01:48In Adelaide...
00:01:49The biological clock is ticking.
00:01:52You want to have a family and you don't want to keep putting it off.
00:01:56Alyssa's mum shares words of wisdom from her own life experience.
00:02:01It's really stressful now.
00:02:03I'm full of...
00:02:03All the line.
00:02:04Alyssa is spiralling.
00:02:10Could this be the most awkward homestay ever?
00:02:18As things for Chris and Sam go from bad...
00:02:22Do you accept full responsibility for your defensiveness and the aggression I felt from you last week?
00:02:26..to worse?
00:02:29Um...
00:02:39With destinations far and wide, our remaining couples are on their way to homestays,
00:02:45where they will road test life together outside the experiment.
00:02:49We're here! We are here!
00:02:52The homestays have always been an essential part of the Married at First Sight experiment.
00:02:57We've just landed! I'm so excited to show David around my hometown!
00:03:02As our couples get a taste of their partner's natural environment, questions will arise.
00:03:07This is their chance to get to those answers before they head to their final vows.
00:03:17Brisbane-based David and wife Alyssa are arriving in her hometown of Adelaide.
00:03:23Can't believe I'm falling here, babe.
00:03:25Look!
00:03:27And for the nurse and social media businesswoman,
00:03:30the return-to-home turf is being met with a very special greeting.
00:03:34Look! Look who it is! Look who it is!
00:03:36Oh!
00:03:38That is nuts!
00:03:39Look who it is!
00:03:41It's me!
00:03:42Wow!
00:03:42It's me!
00:03:43Yeah, well, the pressure of this homestay has just doubled.
00:03:47I didn't realise how big of a deal Alyssa was until I saw a massive poster with her face on
00:03:54it.
00:03:54I was stunned and I'm still trying to take it all in.
00:03:57Like, are we going to walk down the street and get mobbed by a group of teen girls wanting to
00:04:01get Alyssa's autograph?
00:04:02Like, I feel like I'm with a celebrity in Adelaide.
00:04:07This is where I live.
00:04:09Is that it?
00:04:09Yeah, this is it here.
00:04:11I am Queen Adelaide.
00:04:12I live a very busy life, from nursing to all my client meetings, campaigns, deliverables.
00:04:20Welcome home!
00:04:21Wow!
00:04:22Look at this!
00:04:23I'm so excited to be able to bring my husband here.
00:04:26Okay, here's our bedroom.
00:04:27And for him to be able to get a taste of, you know, my life.
00:04:31Massive couch.
00:04:33I don't even know where to sit.
00:04:35It's bigger than our apartment in Sydney.
00:04:38Lots of room for extra kids.
00:04:42I'm excited to show you around.
00:04:44I'm excited to go around too.
00:04:47Tell me more about this huge billboard.
00:04:50I was literally stunned.
00:04:51I was like, is that my wife?
00:04:52Literally the face of Adelaide Airport?
00:04:54Yeah, do you know what?
00:04:55That was a campaign I did like three years ago with this big king-sized bed that we wheeled
00:05:00around on the tarmac and it was just me modelling on this bed by a plane.
00:05:04And it was just such a fun campaign.
00:05:06You know, that's only just one thing that I've done and, you know, a part of, like, my career.
00:05:13Seeing that at the airport, it was just like a wild moment.
00:05:16But despite Alyssa's clear connection to her hometown, the couple has no plans to move here after the experiment.
00:05:25I know Alyssa is very close to her mum.
00:05:27She's got her family here, the businesses and everything she does.
00:05:31But me and Alyssa spoke during Feedback Week of living in Sydney for a few years before we ultimately moved
00:05:38to Adelaide to start a family.
00:05:40I am a big city boy, so I feel way better about the Sydney idea.
00:05:44I'm from Brisbane, so we kind of meet in the middle.
00:05:47But right now, our relationship is hanging on the fact that, you know, Alyssa ultimately wants to raise a family
00:05:55in Adelaide.
00:05:56And, you know, if I can't see myself being here, there's no point leaving everything I've built in Brisbane to
00:06:02go on this journey to Sydney and then to Adelaide.
00:06:06Yeah, you have to get on one knee.
00:06:08When they met at the altar...
00:06:10We're not doing the vows until, until I get down.
00:06:13Alyssa and David found themselves in an unexpected standoff.
00:06:18You know, I gotta, you know, we'll see.
00:06:21But after an intense battle of wills, it was David who caved to pressure to give his wife what she
00:06:28wanted.
00:06:31Are you nervous for the experiment to end, Bo?
00:06:34I mean, look, I definitely don't take it lightly.
00:06:38Now, the plan for the Brisbane-based groom to relocate first to Sydney, then to Adelaide to raise a family,
00:06:45is proving another uncomfortable test.
00:06:49Figuring out where to live, it's not easy.
00:06:52Brisbane is definitely not on the cards for Alyssa.
00:06:55She said no, you know, and, I mean, it is a sacrifice.
00:06:59My family and my friends and everything I've built is in Queensland, you know.
00:07:06I hope that, yeah, you can see, potentially see yourself here, you know.
00:07:12And if you can't, then, yeah, that's just something that we're going to have to navigate.
00:07:16I don't know, I hope that you just enjoy it because long term, you know, I just, I want to
00:07:22have a family.
00:07:22And that is, you know, I want to be back here with my mum.
00:07:27It is, it's a huge deal.
00:07:29If David can't fit his life within my life, like that's going to cause troubles.
00:07:39Also in Adelaide...
00:07:40Oh, oh God, I'm scared.
00:07:44You okay?
00:07:45..Bec and Danny's homestay is already facing its first major test,
00:07:50as the Melbourne-based husband prepares to meet his wife's other great love.
00:07:56You ready to meet Coco?
00:07:58Where is she?
00:07:59Everything I do in life is for Coco.
00:08:01She is my daughter, she's my child, she is the most important thing to me.
00:08:05So if they don't get along...
00:08:06She's right here.
00:08:08..that'll be a huge spanner in the works for me.
00:08:10I need them to love each other.
00:08:15Oh, look at me!
00:08:18Hello?
00:08:19How many are?
00:08:20Hello?
00:08:20That's Daniel!
00:08:21You want to say hello to me?
00:08:23That's Daniel!
00:08:25Hello?
00:08:26Oh, you're gorgeous, aren't you?
00:08:29She's trying to make a wine with her.
00:08:32Hello?
00:08:32Oh, is that kisses?
00:08:34Oh, that's very nice.
00:08:36Oh!
00:08:36Yay!
00:08:37That's very nice.
00:08:39Give me a bottle, give me a bottle.
00:08:40I got a kiss.
00:08:41Oh!
00:08:42I'm not joking.
00:08:43She's just not like that with men, ever.
00:08:46Yeah, no.
00:08:47It's a really, really good start.
00:08:49Like, I could not have asked for it to go any better.
00:08:52Look at this place.
00:08:53This is my living room.
00:08:54Comfiest couch.
00:08:55Sit on a pillow couch.
00:08:57The comfiest couch in the world.
00:08:58It's such a good feeling, just to see the love that Danny has for Coco.
00:09:03Is that nice?
00:09:04This is my garden, boo.
00:09:06This is so nice.
00:09:08Now he will hopefully fall in love with the idea of what his life could look like here.
00:09:12This is my bedroom.
00:09:13Jeez, this is the size of this room.
00:09:16This is a nice bedroom, isn't it?
00:09:19Feels good being in Bec's home.
00:09:22She just seems softer, more relaxed.
00:09:26Obviously, some of the experiment, there's been a bit of drama and stuff like that.
00:09:30We're seeing Bec in her own home, she's very peaceful.
00:09:33It's nice to see Bec like that.
00:09:35I like that I buy my bedsheets to match my dog's colour, the aesthetic of it.
00:09:41I really do want Danny to like Adelaide.
00:09:43She loves a chest rub, don't you?
00:09:45This really is the time where we're going to decide where we're going to live.
00:09:50After the experiment ends, Daniel's been really vocal in telling me that he wants to come and move here.
00:09:58Because my family is here, you know, I've got a big house and, you know, with the dog and stuff
00:10:04like that.
00:10:05Feel comfy here, boo?
00:10:06Yeah, I feel very relaxed.
00:10:08I can picture him being here.
00:10:10I can't picture my life without him now.
00:10:12It's really scary to say, to be honest with you, but I can't imagine a world where he and I
00:10:18aren't together.
00:10:20I told you I was going to go find you a daddy.
00:10:24Thanks for the kiss.
00:10:27As Homestays gets off to a positive start in Adelaide, Sam and Chris are heading to Chris's southern New South
00:10:35Wales farm.
00:10:40In silence.
00:10:53In the city I run a very successful PT business.
00:10:56Are they my vows?
00:10:56I know, right?
00:10:57I know.
00:10:58In the beginning, Sam and Chris's uncanny compatibility set the course for steady growth in their relationship.
00:11:06You've just, like, made a decision on how this is going.
00:11:08Well, no, actually, no.
00:11:10That's not true.
00:11:11But in the past week, a disagreement about future plans proved impossible to resolve.
00:11:18It wasn't the first time I've witnessed you shutting me down, but it's the first time that I've spoken up
00:11:22about it.
00:11:25I am genuinely sorry that I hurt your feelings.
00:11:29I did not want to put pressure on you.
00:11:30Why are you laughing?
00:11:31Because I asked you to do this this morning and you couldn't.
00:11:34No, I'm doing it again.
00:11:34I'm doing it right now.
00:11:37A communication style has contributed to the real crisis that you're in now.
00:11:43After an intense commitment ceremony, Chris came to an abrupt decision.
00:11:48I've actually decided that I need and I want to go put my dad hat on and I would like
00:11:53to leave.
00:11:56Now, with both husbands required to stay in the experiment for one more week, their issues remain as unresolved as
00:12:04ever.
00:12:16Uh, yeah, like it's a bit awkward in the car.
00:12:37How are you feeling about going to the farm?
00:12:40I'm excited to see the animals.
00:12:41Yeah, cool.
00:12:42Yeah.
00:12:51This is the last way I thought we'd be going to homestays.
00:12:54I mean, Chris and I, you know, we had a pretty smooth sailing the first few weeks.
00:12:58And then all of a sudden we had one speed bump and a week later he wrote lead.
00:13:05And having him show me that he's done with the experiment kind of was a kick in the guts.
00:13:12Have you reflected much on like what the experts said and stuff?
00:13:15Of course, yeah.
00:13:16Yeah.
00:13:16Yeah, nice.
00:13:26The energy between us is awkward.
00:13:31Obviously, I understand there was a lot of shit that went down last week.
00:13:34I've had to apologise five times in total after our first little fight.
00:13:38But that's OK.
00:13:39I'm still here in the experiment.
00:13:41I took it on the chin and I've realised that I need to make some growth.
00:13:45Yeah, it's going to have some fun the next couple of days.
00:13:50It's been a bit heavy, you know what I mean?
00:13:52But it's one of those things that is going to be a process.
00:13:56I need us to not dwell on the past.
00:14:00You know, I've been pummeled enough for it.
00:14:03Probably do need to have some tough conversations at some point.
00:14:07You know, it's just about everything the experts said.
00:14:09So, yeah, hopefully we can move forward through home stays and see if we can try and change
00:14:15the energy and go down a positive route.
00:14:18Yeah.
00:14:20And now having arrived at Chris's farm in the southern highlands of New South Wales,
00:14:27the energy is still anything but positive.
00:14:35The car ride was super awkward.
00:14:38I said to Sam that I just want to try and have some fun over the next couple of days.
00:14:46But he did mention that he wants to have some tough conversations about my couch session.
00:14:54So, yeah, it's not it's not great.
00:15:04All right, I'll give you the tour.
00:15:06There's a bathroom in there.
00:15:09Nice.
00:15:13Yeah.
00:15:17Oh, look, I just, Chris and I aren't in the best space, obviously.
00:15:22And then this is our second room.
00:15:24Oh, yes, bump beds.
00:15:26Yeah, yeah.
00:15:27Do you feel like you're going to bump your head on that or is it going to be okay?
00:15:32I'll be fine.
00:15:36Yeah, it looks like we are not sharing a bed.
00:15:39You know, you could tell he didn't want to do that.
00:15:41The main room's in here.
00:15:42So, yeah, I'll be in the other room.
00:15:45Yeah.
00:15:46Which is good.
00:15:49Nice.
00:15:50Yeah.
00:15:53Great.
00:15:53Yeah.
00:15:54I said in the car that I want to have some big conversations and he didn't seem down for
00:16:00the idea and was like, he just wanted to have fun this weekend.
00:16:03These flowers are for you.
00:16:05And a little welcome to the farm card.
00:16:08Wow.
00:16:08Yeah.
00:16:08But then I saw some flowers and a thank you card sitting there.
00:16:12And I just had a glimmer of hope.
00:16:14This is why he hasn't said anything yet.
00:16:16He's written it all into this card.
00:16:19Because he told me he's reflected a lot over the last few days.
00:16:26But it just said, welcome to the farm, Sam.
00:16:33What do you want to do first?
00:16:38See that land over there?
00:16:39Yeah.
00:16:39Yeah.
00:16:40That's where the cows usually are.
00:16:44Yeah.
00:16:45Look, Chris wrote leave, but I think he kind of wants to sweep it under the rug.
00:16:49That'll do.
00:16:49Whatever your plan, this is your place.
00:16:51Yeah.
00:16:52And I can't just float through this weekend and be like, everything's fine, when it's not.
00:16:56I'll introduce you to the cows and the horses and then, yeah, we can just go for a bit of
00:17:00adventure.
00:17:01Cool.
00:17:02I need to see him be like, I did up, Sam, and I need to see him, like, suck up
00:17:06to me a bit.
00:17:07Alrighty.
00:17:11Instead, it was like, anyway, come see my cows.
00:17:15Like.
00:17:23Jesus, the size of this place.
00:17:26It's like a mansion in here.
00:17:28How are you?
00:17:29Good to see you.
00:17:30Good to see you.
00:17:31In Adelaide, Bec has brought husband Danny to meet Aunty Helena and cousin Danielle.
00:17:37Hello.
00:17:37Lovely to meet you.
00:17:39You too.
00:17:41How are you, mate?
00:17:41How are you?
00:17:42You good?
00:17:42Along with Dad Lee for a family get together over lunch.
00:17:46He's never met my cousin Danielle before.
00:17:48She's a little bit older than me, but we've grown up together.
00:17:51Isn't it?
00:17:51Thanks so much.
00:17:53We treat each other like sisters.
00:17:56Cheers, Danny.
00:17:57Cheers.
00:17:57Nice to meet you.
00:17:58You too.
00:17:59Cheers, kids.
00:18:01It's one of the most crucial things for me that my family like, love, accept Danny.
00:18:06Let's sit down.
00:18:08But I know that Dad and Aunty Helena like him already.
00:18:12When Bec's family last met Danny, the relationship was in crisis over an allegation made by Gia.
00:18:21One of the other brides here said that she asked Daniel, what is your type?
00:18:25And he said, someone like you that looks like you.
00:18:29Oh.
00:18:30It didn't happen?
00:18:31Never happened.
00:18:32But after accepting Danny's word on the matter, Dad Lee came to his son-in-law's support over concerns about
00:18:39Bec's outbursts during the crisis.
00:18:41I did have a chat with Bec and say, you're swearing and things like that.
00:18:46Yeah, it's true.
00:18:47I feel it's a bad reflection of you.
00:18:50Remember that those words aren't necessary.
00:18:55Last time I saw my family, I said to Dad, I'm just not too sure if Danny's into me.
00:19:00Where's everyone sitting?
00:19:02I know Danny was worried about my behaviour.
00:19:04True.
00:19:04I'll sit there and you two sit there.
00:19:06You're the head of the table.
00:19:07But ever since that moment, we've just come leaps and bounds.
00:19:11We've sort of gone through so much together that I actually have zero worries or doubts in my mind at
00:19:17all now.
00:19:19So Danny, how do you feel about Adelaide?
00:19:22I actually really like Adelaide, to be honest.
00:19:24Yeah?
00:19:24Yeah, it's been nice so far.
00:19:26This is the first time I've ever been to Adelaide.
00:19:28It's only been, how long, just over 24 hours?
00:19:31Yeah, just over 24 hours, but so far so good.
00:19:34First time?
00:19:35First time, yeah.
00:19:35Never been.
00:19:36Never been to Adelaide before.
00:19:38They gave me a tour of the city and stuff, but I like Adelaide.
00:19:41Yeah, it's nice.
00:19:43Could you see yourself living here?
00:19:47I could, yeah.
00:19:49I'd say so, yeah.
00:19:52We've kind of talked about it and Daniel says that because my family is here and my friends are here
00:20:00and stuff,
00:20:01that it would make most sense for him to move here.
00:20:04Yeah.
00:20:05Big change.
00:20:06Is it though?
00:20:07I don't know.
00:20:08All your friends in Melbourne?
00:20:10And I've got my mates, but I can always fly back.
00:20:12It's only, it's less, how long's the flight?
00:20:14Less than an hour.
00:20:15Less than an hour.
00:20:15Yeah, less than an hour.
00:20:17It doesn't really sit well with me, like, imagine if I was to say to Bec, come to Melbourne and
00:20:22she leaves her whole family and her life where I've not got family in Melbourne.
00:20:27Yeah.
00:20:27Do you know what you mean?
00:20:29You do have family, they're here.
00:20:32Absolutely.
00:20:33He's definitely moving to Adelaide.
00:20:36Very important.
00:20:37We have a big family and we have a great time.
00:20:40So there's no way she's moving to Melbourne.
00:20:42He's definitely moving here if they're going to work out.
00:20:45Because we've talked about long distance and it's not really an option, is it?
00:20:49I'd never do long distance, to be honest with you.
00:20:52Not for, I don't see the point.
00:20:53No, I tend to agree.
00:20:55You know, like, it's not really something I'd want to do.
00:20:59At the commitment ceremony I told him I loved him.
00:21:05Right.
00:21:05Dad's dying.
00:21:06Right.
00:21:07Yeah, that's okay.
00:21:09And now he calls himself Black Caviar.
00:21:10Do you know why?
00:21:11No.
00:21:12Because every single woman he's ever been with has told him that they love him first and that's like, Black
00:21:17Caviar, never missed.
00:21:19Never lost a race.
00:21:21No, but it always happened.
00:21:2425 group one wins in a row.
00:21:28It's a nice horse though, isn't it?
00:21:33And then?
00:21:35Danny doesn't love me back.
00:21:39Yeah, well, I'm not going to sit there and lie.
00:21:42I'm not in love with you back yet.
00:21:45You can't say to someone you love them if you don't.
00:21:48Yeah.
00:21:48I think that's very rude and not a good thing to do.
00:21:55Danny, let's go, boy.
00:21:56Come out here, son.
00:22:00Here we go.
00:22:02Are we going for a drink, Lee?
00:22:03Come out because it's not that far for me to fall.
00:22:06Yeah.
00:22:08Honestly, I'll be honest with you, I hope it works.
00:22:11She's a great girl.
00:22:12She's a good girl, yeah.
00:22:13Yeah, she's a good girl.
00:22:14She's a bloody good wife, to be honest with you.
00:22:17She dopes on me.
00:22:18A couple of weeks ago, she's like, what's your favourite pie?
00:22:22I said, I love a chicken and mushroom pie.
00:22:24The next day she's made it.
00:22:26She dopes on me like, sometimes it's almost too much, to be honest with you.
00:22:34You told Danny that you loved him.
00:22:38Oh, here we go, yeah.
00:22:39And Danny didn't say it back.
00:22:41Yes.
00:22:42How do you feel about that?
00:22:44I'm okay with it.
00:22:46We had a, I'm okay with it.
00:22:48I'm okay with it.
00:22:50He shows me that he loves me in so many different ways.
00:22:55I'll tell you that he asked me to be his girlfriend the other day.
00:22:58It's like, it was just that little level of security.
00:23:02Danny asking me to be his girlfriend, it's really important.
00:23:06Is it important to you or not?
00:23:08I'm not going to lie, not that important.
00:23:10Because it, like, any experiment, it means you're really, like,
00:23:13this is really, really serious.
00:23:15What, what inspired you to ask Beck that question?
00:23:19Uh, I'm trying to think.
00:23:23He is so attentive.
00:23:25All my previous partners have said I've been really hard to, like, live with and deal with.
00:23:30Not him.
00:23:30Not at all.
00:23:31You know, sometimes you do get into the back of your mind, shit, is he genuine?
00:23:35Not anymore.
00:23:36I don't think that anymore.
00:23:38No.
00:23:38But I was.
00:23:39It's very hard to go into this and think, is he genuine?
00:23:44Yeah.
00:23:44Um.
00:23:45But I know the type of person he is and he would not be here right now if he wasn't.
00:23:52Look, I think she probably likes him more.
00:23:57But he's charismatic, he's warm, he likes to have a good time.
00:24:01We're a family of, you know, fun, warmth and closeness.
00:24:06He seems to bring all those elements.
00:24:08We like him, right?
00:24:10Yeah.
00:24:10He seems lovely.
00:24:12It's the first time I've met him and I really like him.
00:24:14Of course Danny's charmed him.
00:24:16He's chucked on his maroon dinner jacket and popped his black caviar brooch on and he's on his way.
00:24:24I would love him and his friends to be in our family.
00:24:27I would too.
00:24:29He's one of them already.
00:24:30Like, I didn't think that I could feel stronger but now it's like, oh no, like, I really, really, really,
00:24:39really want this.
00:24:40And I think he wants it too.
00:24:41I don't know, I just feel like this is it.
00:24:50Also in Adelaide, Alyssa is bringing David to mum Belinda's and the home where she grew up.
00:24:56Hello.
00:24:57Hello.
00:25:01Despite being close, it's the first time Belinda's seen Alyssa since the wedding.
00:25:05Good to see you.
00:25:06Nice to see you.
00:25:07Hi Lorinda, good to see you again.
00:25:10Thank you for having me at your home.
00:25:12I'm looking forward to having an opportunity to speak to Alyssa and David about how their relationship is going and
00:25:19what tomorrow might look like.
00:25:22Oh babe, do you want to get the platter?
00:25:23Yeah, of course.
00:25:24Because it's all coming into an end.
00:25:26And I would be very disappointed to not have my daughter here.
00:25:32Honestly, I'm so like, glad we can catch up again because on the wedding day, we didn't get a chance
00:25:38to talk.
00:25:39Yeah.
00:25:39The wedding.
00:25:40Oh my gosh.
00:25:42I couldn't believe that you both were at a standoff.
00:25:46I'm a shit stirrer.
00:25:48I'm just reckless.
00:25:50I couldn't believe that she was digging her heels in and that you were digging your heels in.
00:25:55What was going through your mind?
00:25:58Honestly, when she told me to get down on the knee, I didn't want to do it because I didn't
00:26:01want to show her that I was a pushover on the first day.
00:26:04Yeah.
00:26:05So yeah, I was like, no, surely she's joking.
00:26:07And then I looked at her and she wasn't flinching.
00:26:09No, no, no.
00:26:10She, I couldn't believe it.
00:26:11I love her dearly.
00:26:13But she can be too much for me.
00:26:16I'm happy to admit that I'm now my husband's pain in the ass.
00:26:20You know, he's having to put up with me now.
00:26:24It's actually amazing to be here.
00:26:28I get a good vibe from Melissa's mom, which is very important to me because family is important.
00:26:33Is she too much?
00:26:34I don't think she is too much.
00:26:36I think she's, for me, it feels like someone that, you know, that I can see so much potential in.
00:26:44You know, I know she, she has a hard days, but that's why I've got two hands so I can
00:26:48carry her on those days.
00:26:49And I feel like the fact that we're still here, it just, it's a testimony to the connection we had.
00:26:55We have been through a lot.
00:26:57But yeah, I am excited for the future, but it's scary too.
00:27:00I am 33 years old.
00:27:02Obviously I want to settle down in Adelaide, but what are your thoughts about me moving to Sydney just for
00:27:08a couple of years?
00:27:13I would hate that.
00:27:17There you go, you asked, I said.
00:27:23Yes, I have concerns about having a plan to, to move for a year or two.
00:27:32You know, that has its risks.
00:27:35I worry about the fact that, you know, you want to have a family and you don't want to keep
00:27:42putting it off.
00:27:44You know, the goal is to find a forever partner and one day have a family.
00:27:52Unfortunately, the biological clock is ticking and we can't wait forever.
00:27:59A couple of years, you can say that just a couple of years, the next thing you know, it's five.
00:28:05I like David.
00:28:07He seems really nice.
00:28:08He's very respectful, but we don't want to be wasting time.
00:28:11We don't want to be playing games because that could possibly take away the opportunities you'll have of having a
00:28:22family one day.
00:28:27Coming up.
00:28:28You know, people sometimes take 10 years to fall pregnant.
00:28:31That's the truth.
00:28:32Yeah, I know.
00:28:32Alyssa's mum doubles down.
00:28:34I just feel torn and pulled and pushed.
00:28:37And Alyssa finds herself spiralling.
00:28:40It's really stressful.
00:28:41I'm feeling so overwhelmed right now.
00:28:45It's all just hit me.
00:28:56That doesn't make sense to me.
00:28:57It does.
00:28:57In Adelaide, Belinda has taken Alyssa aside for a one-on-one.
00:29:02After hearing about her daughter's plan to move to Sydney and delay settling in her hometown to raise a family.
00:29:09Now, people sometimes take 10 years to fall pregnant.
00:29:12That's the truth.
00:29:13Yeah, I know.
00:29:13But, well, I don't know that yet.
00:29:14I've never tried.
00:29:15That's right.
00:29:16But you don't know that.
00:29:18So you don't have a couple of years to just take it easy and see how you go.
00:29:23I just see that year or two turning into five years or ten.
00:29:28Because I've seen it.
00:29:30I've seen it before.
00:29:32Not with Alyssa, but I've seen it with other people.
00:29:35You know, time goes quickly for us all.
00:29:38A couple of years?
00:29:40A couple of years.
00:29:41I think you've got a couple of years to wait.
00:29:44She's very honest.
00:29:45She's down the line.
00:29:46Like, she's very direct.
00:29:47She's like me in a lot of ways.
00:29:49And she knows me and my core.
00:29:53And also, if you start somewhere else for a little while, you could lose what you have here.
00:29:58And that is the catch-22.
00:30:00This is where I'm at.
00:30:01And then I'm having a mini mental breakdown, thinking this is getting really real.
00:30:04And there's a lot on the line.
00:30:05Like, I know there's, I just feel torn and pulled and pushed.
00:30:10Ultimately, I want to start a family here.
00:30:12So, this, it's a lot.
00:30:16There's just, I'm feeling so overwhelmed right now.
00:30:19And because it's getting so close to the end, it's all just hit me.
00:30:26He's so calm and so kind.
00:30:29You know?
00:30:30So calm and so kind.
00:30:31They're pretty good attributes.
00:30:32I know.
00:30:33And like, as much as I've been maybe a little bit of a pain in the arse, like, I can't
00:30:36shake him off.
00:30:38And he just, he's like, I know that I'm good for you.
00:30:42And he stands by me and I'm like, ugh.
00:30:45I am definitely getting drunk feelings towards him.
00:30:48Like, I'm definitely falling for David.
00:30:51Like, falling in love with this person.
00:30:52And I might have to pack up.
00:30:54Move to Sydney.
00:30:55And make that sacrifice.
00:31:04It's really stressful now on the line.
00:31:08Okay.
00:31:27Yeah.
00:31:28This is the cows.
00:31:39In the southern highlands of New South Wales, following an underwhelming welcome to the farm, the vibe between Sam and
00:31:50Chris is as awkward as ever.
00:32:08Come on.
00:32:10Come on.
00:32:12Come on.
00:32:12Come on, guys.
00:32:13Come on.
00:32:17Yeah, it's not what I wanted.
00:32:19You know, I didn't want to come out to the farm and have this awkward energy.
00:32:25So how are you liking the farm so far?
00:32:27Yeah, it's a beautiful place.
00:32:28Yeah.
00:32:29Beautiful part of the world.
00:32:31Stunning.
00:32:32Hey.
00:32:36I've also got, like, added pressure from outside the experiment.
00:32:40Like, the kids are coming and, you know, the farm.
00:32:42Yeah, it's very heavy.
00:32:44But, um, I want to take accountability and I want to make growth.
00:32:53So, that's what I'm doing.
00:32:58I know we had a rough week last week, so I just wanted to make sure that you feel at
00:33:02home as much as you can and, you know.
00:33:06Um, I think we're a long way from me feeling at home here.
00:33:12I can't just float through this and be like, everything's fine.
00:33:15I'm pretty hurt, like, last week, like, seeing you right leave so quickly.
00:33:23Like, it's going to take a lot to come back from that.
00:33:27Yeah, sure.
00:33:27Um, yeah, it's, like, left me in a really, really tough place and it really sucks because coming out of
00:33:33the retreat, I thought we were in an awesome place.
00:33:36Yeah.
00:33:37Well, you said you've done some reflecting and stuff.
00:33:39What have you worked out?
00:33:43I mean, I heard the experts loud and clear and I've taken on board what they've said.
00:33:49Yeah, I realised that I probably could have been a bit calmer and not got as defensive and they did
00:33:55hold a mirror up in my face.
00:33:58And they actually made me realise as well, like, I've got a lot of work to do.
00:34:05And my reservation is whether, you know, whether it is going to be too much pressure for me.
00:34:11But I just, I just try to, without putting too much pressure on it, I just want to try and
00:34:16see if you and I can clear the energy over the next couple of days.
00:34:18I'm working as hard as I can to make you feel welcome.
00:34:21I mean, I'm trying my best.
00:34:22Yeah, awesome. That's awesome to hear.
00:34:26Yeah.
00:34:26I'm proud of you.
00:34:27Yeah, thanks.
00:34:27This is big, like, well done.
00:34:29Yeah, thanks. Thank you.
00:34:30Yeah, it was really nice to see Chris actually has really had some time to reflect and really think about
00:34:34what the experts said and is starting to take that on board, which is great.
00:34:40I actually can be heard by Chris and he does have the ability to listen and to take in and
00:34:47look at another person's perspective because I hadn't seen that side of him until now.
00:34:54Should we have a hug through the horses?
00:34:55We should hug that out.
00:34:56Yeah.
00:34:57Groove hug.
00:34:59That was really amazing.
00:35:01Sam and I just had a little cute little therapy moment.
00:35:04And, you know, I could feel his guard come down a little bit.
00:35:07It's the horses that calm my energy.
00:35:10Good to know you.
00:35:12Obviously, I love the farm so much.
00:35:13This is my happy place and I just want to have a bit of fun now and see that playful
00:35:17side of him.
00:35:18If I'm bringing you out to the horses, you know what's coming.
00:35:20If you need to chat with me, just take me to the horses.
00:35:23We've got some fresh air.
00:35:24We're surrounded by animals and good vibes.
00:35:25So, yeah, maybe tomorrow we'll wake up in a better space.
00:35:28Thank you guys for mediating.
00:35:31Yes.
00:35:32Well, better than the experts.
00:35:34I know.
00:35:36While Sam and Chris are enjoying the benefits of time in nature.
00:35:40So far so good, hey?
00:35:41You happy boo?
00:35:43So far so good.
00:35:44Bec and Danny are settling into city life and all that it has to offer.
00:35:48Here's to Adelaide.
00:35:51Yeah.
00:35:52I don't know why you're laughing.
00:35:54Here's that.
00:35:55Yeah, obviously seeing family.
00:35:56We've had a really good day today.
00:35:58Um, Adelaide's been nice so far.
00:35:59Her auntie lives three minutes away.
00:36:02Her dad lives three minutes away.
00:36:03Her cousin lives five minutes away.
00:36:05But they're all so close.
00:36:07It's like a family, close-knit family here in Adelaide.
00:36:11Is Coco allowed a bit of, um...
00:36:14Cabana?
00:36:15Cabana.
00:36:15Yeah, she loves a piece of salami as well though.
00:36:18Coco, she's a sweetheart.
00:36:20So, um, yeah, I'm just, uh, I'm just enjoying it.
00:36:23Do you feel like there's a lot of pressure?
00:36:26I don't really feel like there is.
00:36:28Because if you don't want to live in Adelaide, I'll live in Melbourne.
00:36:32Like, I don't really feel like there's pressure.
00:36:36Do I look like a man who feels pressure?
00:36:39I am an animal.
00:36:45Like, sometimes you're...
00:36:46Because we're still in this experiment.
00:36:48No, but sometimes your brain can block out pressure.
00:36:54Nice and peaceful there though, isn't it?
00:37:03F***ing hell!
00:37:04Is there another plane?
00:37:06It's a flight path.
00:37:11I feel like...
00:37:12I'm like, seriously.
00:37:13I actually feel like we've worked so hard to get to this point.
00:37:21Yeah, good enough to say the least, though, aren't you?
00:37:26Stop.
00:37:26You wouldn't want to be a night shift worker living here, would you?
00:37:30F***ing me!
00:37:34F***ing hell!
00:37:36Point of contention in mine and Danny's relationship is that in some serious situations, he will crack a joke.
00:37:44But I know that it's a defence mechanism.
00:37:48You think he's just plainly cool?
00:37:49100%.
00:37:51Definitely.
00:37:52Why do boys do that?
00:37:55And look at us in comparison with some of the other couples.
00:37:58Honestly.
00:37:59You know?
00:38:00I'm proud of us too.
00:38:01Because, like, the...
00:38:03The patience I've had to have...
00:38:05To stick with you.
00:38:07Do you know what you mean?
00:38:08I've got the patience of a saint.
00:38:10Boys are just annoying.
00:38:12And they mess with your head.
00:38:15But, for me, I definitely feel like Danny's probably holding off on telling me he loves me.
00:38:19I think he's very much hoping to find the right time.
00:38:25I mean, I know he loves me already.
00:38:28I know he does.
00:38:40As the sun sets on another day of homestays...
00:38:45It was a lot.
00:38:46Yeah.
00:38:46I can imagine.
00:38:48Alyssa is still reeling, following an emotional lunch with Mum Belinda.
00:38:53Yeah, it was a lot today.
00:38:55Yeah, it was before.
00:38:55You got along with my Mum and she had nothing but, like, praise.
00:38:59Oh.
00:38:59You know?
00:38:59She really likes you.
00:39:01I can see a lot of positive, like, traits she's given you, for sure.
00:39:06And that's definitely one of them.
00:39:09She's just a straight shooter.
00:39:10She knows who I am and what I need.
00:39:13Yeah, there's definitely things that Mum's brought up today that I know that I need to, you know, really consider.
00:39:22Yeah, like, it's huge.
00:39:24Yeah.
00:39:24It's a lot.
00:39:26Like, I just forgot.
00:39:28I forgot how much I have here.
00:39:30And, like, I can't just pack up and go.
00:39:34I think I'm just getting very overwhelmed with what, you know, what I have at stake here and what I
00:39:43could potentially be walking away from.
00:39:45Mm-hmm.
00:39:45So I'm at a bit of a catch-22 right now and I've got to mentally take it one day
00:39:49at a time right now because otherwise I'm going to overwhelm my brain.
00:39:52Alyssa is literally spiraling.
00:39:57She's already freaking out about having to move to Sydney.
00:40:01I don't take it lightly.
00:40:02I've got a lot to consider as well.
00:40:04I know Alyssa doesn't have much time.
00:40:06You know, she wants to be a mum, but I feel like this marriage could work if we both just
00:40:13stop stressing and just keep doing what we're doing.
00:40:18I know that the clock is ticking and all that, you know, but all I can do is say, like,
00:40:23you know, day by day I'll show, like, that I am here for the long haul and we're just going
00:40:29to have to take it as it comes.
00:40:30I know, just like, it's just everything.
00:40:33It's just the way our relationship works, you know, I have to normally be the one to emotionally anchor Alyssa
00:40:39a lot of the times and that's what's happening here again.
00:40:50Across town at the end of a long night, Bec and Danny are still reflecting on the success of time
00:40:56spent with Bec's loved ones.
00:41:00You appreciate the family dynamic?
00:41:04Of course, because I haven't got no family out here, so of course I appreciate it.
00:41:10On that note, I wanted to obviously say thank you for showing me Adelaide and letting me into your world.
00:41:17Obviously, you've took me into your house and that's not an easy thing to do.
00:41:21It was easy for me.
00:41:25Well, some people might have found it harder, but, yeah, I wanted to thank you for showing me your seat
00:41:31and welcome me into open arms with your family.
00:41:35One thing I've never told you in the past is like with, because I haven't got no family out here,
00:41:41when I'm with a partner, I take their family on as like my own.
00:41:47Yeah, so honestly, it means the world to me and I really want to thank you for that.
00:41:53Really?
00:41:54What do you mean, really?
00:41:55Of course.
00:41:56Thank you and cheers.
00:42:00Come here.
00:42:05Really?
00:42:07Why are you rallying me?
00:42:10Well, it's a nice night next to the fire, isn't it?
00:42:17That's a cute boot.
00:42:21When Danny opens up to me and tells me how he feels about his time in Adelaide, I love it.
00:42:26It's beautiful.
00:42:27It's what I want to hear.
00:42:28It's how I feel.
00:42:29It's how he feels.
00:42:30It's amazing.
00:42:34I, like, I relish in those moments.
00:42:37The way your family have been welcomed to me with open arms.
00:42:41They've been really respectful and really, like, generous.
00:42:45I feel like probably the luckiest girl in the world at the moment to have homestays going as well as
00:42:51they are going.
00:42:53Danny loves my family and my family loves him.
00:42:57So, so now, all I need is for Danny to tell me he loves me.
00:43:01That would be the most amazing thing ever.
00:43:12But, like, if my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you, they would.
00:43:18But you give them a sense of comfort and stability that you give me.
00:43:26And they can see that.
00:43:35I think, obviously, because Danielle fancied me, she didn't want to, like...
00:43:42I'm joking.
00:43:44I'm joking.
00:43:45It's like a serious moment.
00:43:48Oh, my God.
00:43:50It's gone down like a lead balloon.
00:43:53Sometimes we need, like, a moment where, like, it's not all a joke.
00:43:59You know?
00:44:02We've talked about it over and over.
00:44:04It's a defence mechanism of Danny's.
00:44:07He feels really strongly and then, all of a sudden, he wants to throw in a joke and make a
00:44:13mockery of the situation.
00:44:15And it pisses me off.
00:44:17I cracked a joke.
00:44:18I always crack jokes.
00:44:20I crack jokes 24-7.
00:44:22You're acting like I'm Mr. Serious.
00:44:24I'm Mr. Albert Einstein.
00:44:25And then I cracked an out-of-pocket joke.
00:44:27It wasn't like that big.
00:44:29Who's going to get...
00:44:31But, like, if you say something nice...
00:44:33Thanks, babe.
00:44:34Yeah.
00:44:34Really thanks for that.
00:44:36Very, very choked.
00:44:50I think, obviously, because Danielle fancied me, she didn't want to, like...
00:44:57I'm joking.
00:44:58I'm joking.
00:44:59It's like a serious moment.
00:45:02Oh, my God.
00:45:04It's gone down like a lead balloon.
00:45:08Sometimes we need, like, a moment where, like, it's not all a joke.
00:45:14You know?
00:45:16I crack the joke.
00:45:17I always crack jokes.
00:45:19Who's going to get...
00:45:19But, like, if you say something nice...
00:45:22Thanks, babe.
00:45:23Yeah.
00:45:23Really thanks for that.
00:45:25Perfect joke.
00:45:27In the edit, what are you talking about?
00:45:29This is real life.
00:45:31He's more worried about how he looks on camera now, because he knows you made a mistake.
00:45:35This is you and me.
00:45:36There's a camera in my face, and you're abusing me over a joke.
00:45:39Dude.
00:45:39There's a camera in my face, and you're making a joke of what I'm saying.
00:45:42It's serious for me.
00:45:44This relationship is serious for me.
00:45:46So, when he is making a mockery of the situation that we're in, it pisses me off.
00:45:53And it's those moments where he doesn't take things seriously that makes me second guess.
00:46:00And go, oh, God.
00:46:01Like, what if he's not into me?
00:46:04I might be looking like a fool who's just, like, grasping onto those tiny bits of seriousness.
00:46:12I'm Danny.
00:46:13I always crack jokes 24-7, and I cracked another joke.
00:46:17It diminishes it.
00:46:19Don't do that.
00:46:20To me, don't do it.
00:46:23If you feel that it's good, say it's good.
00:46:26And then don't joke about it.
00:46:28I just said it was.
00:46:28I know, but you joked about it at the end.
00:46:30But you know, but beg.
00:46:31It doesn't matter.
00:46:31I don't care.
00:46:32There's a time for serious, and there's a time for joking.
00:46:39I tried to open up and show my more vulnerable side, which I'm not good at.
00:46:44I find it a bit cringe, but I wanted to do it for her, because I knew it would be
00:46:47special for her.
00:46:48And so I cracked the joke to sort of lighten my mood.
00:46:52You can say something really nice.
00:46:54Hey, let's talk about it later.
00:46:55Just listen.
00:46:56Let's talk about it later.
00:46:57No.
00:46:58And then the joke was just met by her just coming at me.
00:47:04You say something really nice, and then I go to respond and you make a joke about what I'm saying.
00:47:10Diminishes the whole situation.
00:47:12Yeah, okay.
00:47:12The joke is the joke, but like, the moment was the moment.
00:47:15Maybe we're both bad at cracking jokes.
00:47:17No.
00:47:18You crack jokes when you shouldn't be.
00:47:20There's a time and a place.
00:47:21And you haven't done that?
00:47:24Yeah.
00:47:25I'm actually a bit mind-blamed.
00:47:28Can I have you guys over here, please?
00:47:29At the retreat, she cracked a bad joke.
00:47:33We've had I love you's.
00:47:35And we've had finger bangs, so like...
00:47:38And it landed wrong in front of the whole group.
00:47:42No, no, no, no.
00:47:43I think it wasn't appropriate.
00:47:45I backed her wholeheartedly.
00:47:47I went against the whole group for days.
00:47:49We had it.
00:47:50Moving forward, we can't go back, but moving forward, let's try and be better.
00:47:55And then for her to do the exact same to me, to like go at me over a joke, is
00:48:01so frustrating.
00:48:05You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it and then not say,
00:48:09or your cousin wants to me.
00:48:12Like...
00:48:12I never said that.
00:48:14I don't know.
00:48:15Don't put words in my mouth.
00:48:17I never said your cousin wants to F you, Amy.
00:48:20When she's in that mode, I can't speak to her.
00:48:24I just feel lost, like I can't speak to her.
00:48:26And I thought that side of her had left because we spoke about it.
00:48:30She's put so much work into herself.
00:48:32But to see it just come out, it's obviously still there, still fully alive.
00:48:38It's a poorly timed joke, dude.
00:48:40Like...
00:48:42Just take it on board and...
00:48:44I'm taking it on board.
00:48:45And take...
00:48:45Take what I'm saying.
00:48:47Hmm.
00:48:48Don't say thank you.
00:48:50I'm taking it on board.
00:48:50It's not about saying thank you.
00:48:51But take what I'm saying.
00:48:53Thanks, babe.
00:48:54And seriously, stop saying thank you.
00:49:05Yeah, I'm done.
00:49:08F***ing point.
00:49:09That's fine.
00:49:11This is what I mean.
00:49:13Yeah, and good luck for me for the rest of the night getting crucified.
00:49:19I don't want to be here right now.
00:49:21I don't want to be here with her right now.
00:49:23I feel very uncomfortable being here because I'm in her realm.
00:49:28Her...her house.
00:49:30I'm just here by myself.
00:49:32I've got none of my friends here, none of my family here.
00:49:34And if she can just turn on me like that, I'm not sure if I'd want to move here.
00:49:39And I was very open to the idea.
00:49:42But...
00:49:43Don't know about that now.
00:49:44...
00:49:51I just, like, miss her so much.
00:49:51In Adelaide...
00:49:52I just, like, miss her so much, she's being...
00:49:54... Bridesmaids Bec and Adriana are on their way to meet a still-spiralling
00:49:59alissa and husband david for drinks oh i'm terrified everything's just too much on my head
00:50:10last night alissa started literally spiraling
00:50:17hello how are you can i go this one so good to see you it would be good to talk
00:50:22to alissa's
00:50:23closest and nearest um adriana and beck you've been well i've been well yeah i'm good we are both
00:50:28putting on a brave face but right now the vibes are not vibing and you know i'm hoping that today
00:50:35will will change that tell me what's been going on uh it's all been going like really well for us
00:50:42but now we're getting to the end of the experiment and i feel like you know we've been living in
00:50:48our
00:50:48little bubble in sydney and now it's yeah it's hitting you guys a little bit more yeah yeah big
00:50:54time i will be honest with you like i i started to spiral because you know we said we'd move
00:51:04to
00:51:04sydney if it was going well what the did she just say yeah sorry i haven't i haven't even spoken
00:51:12to
00:51:12girls about it like softened that i know and that's something we discussed but the thing is
00:51:19landing in adelaide it's hit home i have so much here yeah it's so much that i'm putting on the
00:51:23line
00:51:24um you know i have a career that i've built a business that i've built the other thing that
00:51:30i've got like i want to have a family don't want to miss out on being a mum and if
00:51:36we're going to make
00:51:36this thing work after the experiment david might have to move to adelaide like you know at the moment
00:51:45could you see yourself living here
00:51:53to be honest yeah i'm not gonna lie i feel like i i'm at the point where you know if
00:51:59i had to
00:52:00you know take that risk i'm ready to do it right now i feel like she's on i'm ready to
00:52:05go all in
00:52:07it is slightly overwhelming you know moving to adelaide is not a small feat but i have sacrificed
00:52:12so much to come on to this experiment and i want to see it through i'm scared and i even
00:52:20said that
00:52:20to him today like the big question for me now is is that enough for alyssa i've laid all my
00:52:27cards out
00:52:27but i can only meet her as far as she's willing to meet me
00:52:35i know that you're willing to move here which is great but i don't know i feel like i'm getting
00:52:41overwhelmed with it you're like literally overwhelmed i am i am i am because it's like a lot because a
00:52:48lot
00:52:50i'm spiraling because i'm scared yeah and i'm spiraling in my head because it's becoming very
00:52:55real and i want to make sure david's like the right person i want to make sure that you know
00:53:00i
00:53:01guess we'll just time will tell alyssa i'm really sorry babe i have to ask this to you
00:53:07you sat here and you've talked a lot about what your wants and needs are and you've talked a lot
00:53:13around your career progression what about yeah david what about david and that's the other thing
00:53:21because like that is the other thing right now this is too good to be true like and that is
00:53:26also
00:53:27another reason why i'm scared too alyssa is definitely self-sabotaging i think and i think
00:53:33david is a very patient person but everyone has their limitations i don't i just just i'm overthinking
00:53:42everything hundred percent alyssa's friends pointed out very honestly that you know alyssa has made it
00:53:50all about her when you've put all your cards on the table for someone and they still unsure and they
00:53:56need more confirmation it's sort of like wait a minute you know i have sacrificed a lot already
00:54:03just by telling alyssa that i'm ready to come to adelaide i'm ready to do this i'm ready to do
00:54:07that
00:54:08and if alyssa still questions my intentions at this point in the experiment then we're just not for each
00:54:14other it's like just take it down a notch for yourself for a second right but i think what he's
00:54:20proven to you is he is stable he is calm and he's here and he's shown up for you which
00:54:26are three
00:54:26things yeah that you had not had i know in a really long time so first of all take that
00:54:32win okay second
00:54:33it's a win it's big it's a massive it's a big win obviously there's a bit of like you know
00:54:38this and
00:54:39that going on bit of bit of sort of like we're unsure but i think there's actually they're falling
00:54:44for each other i think you need to stop putting the pressure on right now you just have to keep
00:54:50the spark going between the two of you see how your lives integrate and time and remember that if
00:54:56you have something special this is the point of life i think he's handling it all really well and i
00:55:03think they could go all the way but i think there's got to be some give and take from like
00:55:07probably
00:55:08elisa to make that happen david actually is everything that you've asked i know you will
00:55:14be loved and supported that's going to be the test for both of them
00:55:26as elisa and david navigate a crisis of confidence
00:55:31back at the farm sam too has found himself spiraling
00:55:36following a difficult start to the day um i'm not i'm not feeling great
00:55:43i woke up and like chris wasn't here like he went to the gym and didn't even message my phone
00:55:50yeah i guess just being here and knowing how beautiful this place is and how much i would
00:55:55love to live here but then not feeling that i'm really a priority it's a bit of a concern i
00:56:02don't know
00:56:02like i find that very selfish behavior coming up do you accept full responsibility for your
00:56:09defensiveness and the aggression i felt from you last week chris's misdemeanors resurface
00:56:15yeah in the form of a book do you see that breaking this behavior means letting go of ego
00:56:20i honestly felt like i was um 15 getting in trouble by a teacher or something
00:56:25yeah you can take the list for someone else it's not my vibe
00:56:34a controversial sign while filming here's where people are upset now the sign says
00:56:40quote you may be captured on film and if you think you are fit and or attractive enough to feature
00:56:45in
00:56:46the background please make yourself known to our production team justin is it just a joke are they
00:56:51just sort of you know it's a very bad one the public's response to the sign i mean i was
00:56:57not
00:56:57expecting that they don't want to have an instagram clip with someone of a normal size in the background
00:57:02right the amount of response the amount of articles the level of um anger people got to i thought
00:57:09it was kind of funny the last thing we want in this world is reality tv producers sort of picking
00:57:15who's
00:57:15good-looking and who's not good-looking i honestly laughed when we were filming um the part with the
00:57:19sign i didn't really think anything of it does anyone think this is just a joke no it's not a
00:57:24joke
00:57:24they mean it i'll do that oh absolutely oh yeah
00:57:47the last thing we want in this world is reality tv picking who's good-looking and who's not
00:57:58at the farm chris has returned from a morning at the gym and attending to the animals look at this
00:58:04what a day already set up yeah and has set aside the afternoon for some quality time with husband sam
00:58:11chin chin chin um yes we're about to have a scotch by the fire um two of my favorite things
00:58:18i'm so
00:58:19excited it's been such a big day today you can probably tell i'm a little bit happier it's just my
00:58:24vibe i love it out here so much i'm not a city boy and this really helps my mental health
00:58:29it gives me
00:58:29clarity you know last night i was making sam dinner and i kind of had a reminder of what those
00:58:36feelings
00:58:36were like in the beginning looking at his face and just you know wanting to like kiss it so yeah
00:58:41it's been great for me there's a glimmer but i mean i'm having the best time and i love having
00:58:46you
00:58:46here and everything so yeah but while life on the farm appears to be working its magic on chris
00:58:53sam is still struggling with doubts after being left to fend for himself all morning
00:59:02how was your day um yeah no it's cool here yeah i'm glad you like it it's not for everybody
00:59:17but um
00:59:17yeah yeah it's a nice life yeah yeah it's the last night of homestays right um i think we need
00:59:30to
00:59:30like really i don't know if it's like cut the bullshit and just make sure we're being super
00:59:34super honest with each other yeah obviously like last week i think both of us were pretty checked out
00:59:39from each other um for obvious reasons with the whole commitment ceremony and stuff like that so
00:59:43i mean i don't think i checked out i think the reason i was so hurt is because i was
00:59:49very checked in
00:59:49yeah um so i wrote some questions down and maybe we could just be like really
01:00:00raw and honest with each other about all the answers um would you mind if we went through the
01:00:06yeah of course cool okay okay get him yeah sam loves to really dig deep
01:00:13whereas i was actually just looking forward to kicking back and relaxing i don't know what's coming
01:00:20my glasses okay you're ready um yeah so the first question is do you accept full responsibility
01:00:32for your defensiveness and the aggression i felt from you last week um what are you referring to
01:00:39uh like the way you treated me at the dinner party the rolling your eyes the like i guess sass
01:00:45you were
01:00:46giving me about what happened even on the couch before yeah do you think it was fair what the experts
01:00:54said to you on the couch because for me their feedback felt accurate yes do you realize my
01:01:04awkwardness and silence towards you was a direct result of your behavior not me being cold for no
01:01:08reason yes do you understand why i raised that issues at the dinner party i was scared to bring them
01:01:15up with just the two of us because of the way you've been reacting i do now yes um do
01:01:22you see that
01:01:23breaking this behavior means letting go of ego and actually unpacking why you react like that
01:01:28uh yes and we've i feel like we've gone through this yeah yeah i'm so over it like honestly i'm
01:01:35so
01:01:35over it like you've seen how hard i worked on a daily basis i've got so much going on um
01:01:40i'm so over it
01:01:42can you promise me that if i bring up my feelings and give you feedback you won't speak to me
01:01:46like
01:01:46that again yes i promise you don't have to agree yeah no i agree i just i feel like we've
01:01:52just i've
01:01:52already suffered enough from this um it's not cute no i hate i hate that and i and i hate
01:02:00that it was
01:02:01written down i honestly felt like i was um 15 getting in trouble by a teacher or something
01:02:06i mean we can stop this no keep let's let's go through it okay yeah um
01:02:14do you um do you have feelings for me um okay okay um you know um
01:02:28well i don't want to dwell on the the negatives of the past and i just want to put my
01:02:33dad hat on
01:02:34and i just want to focus on the positives um yeah i mean i i feel like with you saying
01:02:42i want to put
01:02:42my dad hat on like i i kind of want to be someone's number one priority yeah i think i've
01:02:47realized i
01:02:47understand i think i've realized that being here
01:02:52i think i think my feelings are like they're pretty gone i
01:03:03i can't see this working
01:03:16i think my feelings are like they're pretty gone
01:03:25i can't see this working
01:03:32um sam and i have just broken up
01:03:35yeah um i appreciate you being honest i think this is what we needed i feel like um
01:03:40yeah i wasn't expecting that but also i'm actually kind of glad
01:03:45it's all good i'm not used to someone bringing out a book with like a list of um questions for
01:03:51me
01:03:51it's not how i roll i've apologized seven times in total for that now yeah it's probably the answer
01:03:58that we both knew was you know we both knew it in the back of our mind it's it's bittersweet
01:04:04and
01:04:05you know the sweet part is a i think we learn a lot about ourselves so yeah it's sad but
01:04:08it's also
01:04:09it's also a touch the sweet yeah i'm letting it go as well just to be clear yeah but it's
01:04:14like it's all good
01:04:19yeah it's not how i envisioned it would end i'm a little annoyed to be honest
01:04:28yeah i really thought chris would fight for me a bit yeah anyway look it is what it is
01:04:42you want a hand packing no i should be fine
01:04:49um yeah it kind of sucks
01:04:53and i still wonder what the real reason is that he didn't fight for it at all
01:04:59um job my honest opinion uh i've tried my hardest um i have made growth but yeah that wasn't good
01:05:08enough so yeah there is a part of me that's looking forward to the next journey and my next love
01:05:14and
01:05:15that's my children but um yeah you can take the list for someone else that's not my bud
01:05:28tomorrow night throughout this experiment i have been patient but when you're dealing with the mom
01:05:34the family friends they all said that i'm a great guy for her and she still sees negatives
01:05:40there's nothing else i can do as david reached his limit that's the first time i've ever heard
01:05:45you say that you need space you never say space it's the second last dinner party of the experiment
01:05:53i can see we can do life together i feel a lot more confident now that we can take this
01:05:58out onto
01:05:59the outside had rachel and stephen become this year's new power couple who would have thought
01:06:06the person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him but babe you've been
01:06:12aggressive too at the dinner parties tensions rise when sam and chris air their concerns you're
01:06:17in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behavior honey and i've never been aggressive
01:06:22to you and then i think like for me as a man i feel like oh god oh my god
01:06:31are you on now it's the
01:06:34shock debate that will divide the table that was not what i was getting at are we serious for this
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