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00:00:00Previously...
00:00:01Here we are!
00:00:02Oh my God!
00:00:03Welcome home, doll.
00:00:05Oh, love it, love it.
00:00:07I am beside myself with happiness right now.
00:00:10The brand new Revelations Week
00:00:12encouraged our couples to be more vulnerable.
00:00:16And I don't think anyone ever looks at me with lust.
00:00:19Ever.
00:00:20I had no idea she felt that way about herself.
00:00:23I had to work my butt off
00:00:24to starve myself and go on these diet plans.
00:00:28It pained my heart.
00:00:30You're really amazing the way that you are.
00:00:32Don't ever question yourself.
00:00:33You're beautiful.
00:00:37I'm not gonna rank none of her
00:00:39because they're going out the balcony.
00:00:41Danny finally gave Beck the reassurance she needed.
00:00:44When I'm in a relationship,
00:00:45I only look at one woman.
00:00:48I loved it.
00:00:49I loved it.
00:00:50What turned you off?
00:00:51Fake Dan, needy and fat people.
00:00:54Chris's unfiltered comments...
00:00:56If I saw that at the beginning,
00:00:58I would not even give you a chance.
00:00:59..left Brooke with even more doubt about her husband.
00:01:03You're 31
00:01:03and you shouldn't be speaking about people like that.
00:01:06What about going on with kids?
00:01:08It's hard to say.
00:01:08If there's a kid old enough,
00:01:09they're gonna go after themselves
00:01:10and don't have to pay any more school fees,
00:01:11I'd probably consider it.
00:01:13Are you okay?
00:01:13This was my fear.
00:01:15Gia was shocked by Scott's views on parenthood.
00:01:18I can't get rid of her.
00:01:19I'm so sorry.
00:01:20I'm not gonna apologise for having a kid.
00:01:23I've just put you here.
00:01:23And after some eye-opening revelations...
00:01:26The most shocking thing I did after a break-up was
00:01:29drive past his house multiple times
00:01:31during the night time to make sure he was home.
00:01:34We love a stalk.
00:01:36Luke left the apartments,
00:01:37needing space to clear his head.
00:01:41Tonight...
00:01:42Oh, my God!
00:01:44A brand new Revelations Week task is unveiled.
00:01:47I'll start with green flags.
00:01:49Red flags.
00:01:50Surely he gets on your nerves at times.
00:01:52No.
00:01:53I don't believe you!
00:01:54What?!
00:01:54I don't believe you!
00:01:56In front of their peers,
00:01:58raw truths will be exposed.
00:02:00What he said...
00:02:01I think it's a fake showmance.
00:02:04100% agree.
00:02:05But it's Steve's brutal honesty about Rebecca...
00:02:09Now, red flags, um...
00:02:11...that leaves the room speechless.
00:02:13Rebecca needs to be talking all the time.
00:02:16There's no downtime.
00:02:17I don't understand some of her humour.
00:02:18Rebecca's not my usual type.
00:02:20Her emotions are very high and very low.
00:02:22That worries me,
00:02:23because you're not sure the person you're waking up next to.
00:02:30Plus...
00:02:30Um, I guess there's some things that I want to talk to you about.
00:02:33Luke's family and friends share some comments about Mel on social media.
00:02:54After being shocked by the revelations from the audition task...
00:02:59Do you want kids?
00:03:01I say yes and I say no.
00:03:03What about everyone with the kids?
00:03:05It's hard to say if there's a kid old enough,
00:03:07they don't go after themselves and don't have to pay any more school fees.
00:03:09I'd probably consider it.
00:03:11Gia is confronting Scott about his views on fatherhood.
00:03:16You just gave the vibe of, like, single bachelor dude,
00:03:19couldn't give a f*** about a kid being around.
00:03:21It's cramping your style,
00:03:22because you've got this lifestyle and you're doing all this.
00:03:24That kid is in the way.
00:03:27I love my daughter.
00:03:28And I'm not stopping any of this.
00:03:29And I'm not going to apologise for having a kid.
00:03:32My daughter is number one to me and he needs to be okay with that.
00:03:36I'm not asking a lot.
00:03:37I just want someone who is going to show her
00:03:40what it's like for her mum to be properly loved.
00:03:42I just wanted a little family.
00:03:44I wanted someone who will accept us both.
00:03:47And if he doesn't accept me and my daughter,
00:03:49then what the f*** am I going to waste my time for?
00:03:52So I'm asking you...
00:03:53This is me before going into an audition.
00:03:56Just remember this.
00:03:57Right.
00:03:57I don't know what to expect, right?
00:03:59But now you know.
00:04:00And how do you see that working?
00:04:01You don't want someone with a kid.
00:04:03That's the way that you came across.
00:04:05Well, I apologise you feel that way.
00:04:07And I can promise you right now, it does not bother me.
00:04:10This is the thing, Gia.
00:04:12I don't know until I'm in the experiment,
00:04:14until you tell me.
00:04:15I have a kid.
00:04:15I could have gone the other way and gone,
00:04:17no, I don't like this.
00:04:18But I've accepted it.
00:04:19Like, if I didn't accept it, I would tell you
00:04:22and I wouldn't even bother trying.
00:04:23I wouldn't...
00:04:24I wouldn't feel as affectionate.
00:04:25I wouldn't feel this way.
00:04:26So, obviously, I genuinely like you.
00:04:30Having a child does not bother me.
00:04:32It used to, but I'll tell you right now,
00:04:33it does not bother me.
00:04:34I'm financially stress-free.
00:04:36I've told you I'll look after you.
00:04:38I'm more than happy to look after another person.
00:04:40I do love my freedom.
00:04:41I do love that time.
00:04:42But this is where I've got to learn to adapt.
00:04:44Like, I need to accept someone.
00:04:46Because before, I didn't.
00:04:47And that's why I'm here.
00:04:49Because I don't know how to.
00:04:50And I'm learning that.
00:04:52I want to see if this works.
00:04:54I want to prove to you and show you that I can be a good father.
00:04:57I want to be accepted.
00:04:58You just grubbed me the wrong way,
00:05:00because I was like, great, here I am with a kid.
00:05:02I sound like what you don't want.
00:05:04Like...
00:05:04We're diving into the most in-depth stuff
00:05:08for, like, such a short period of time
00:05:09where a lot of these questions wouldn't get asked for months.
00:05:11Yeah.
00:05:12Do you know what I mean?
00:05:13Like, for us going through all these questions and everything so far,
00:05:15I feel like we're f***ing strong.
00:05:18Like, let's be real.
00:05:20Compared to everyone else,
00:05:20we have answered everything and we hug, we kiss, and we're like...
00:05:23Yeah, I'm, like, low-key happy that this happened,
00:05:25because it's like, I would rather get all this out now early...
00:05:28I would too.
00:05:29..and, like, figure out if this is going to work or not.
00:05:31You know what I mean?
00:05:32100%.
00:05:33I just want a good, healthy relationship
00:05:36where we communicate and we like each other so much,
00:05:39we walk out the experience holding hands and we're together.
00:05:41Like, that's what I want.
00:05:43I care.
00:05:44Like, I seriously care.
00:05:48I'm really happy that experts gave us this task
00:05:50because I didn't, you know,
00:05:52I didn't think anything could shake us.
00:05:55And this has.
00:05:56But, like, a good strength about us is our communication.
00:06:01And Scott reassured me.
00:06:03So, yeah, I think we brought it back around.
00:06:06Like, I wasn't expecting that.
00:06:07I thought I was going to be not sleeping here.
00:06:09Like, we're being open today.
00:06:11I think this is important that we're having these deeper,
00:06:13you know, combos, you know?
00:06:15I reckon.
00:06:16You okay?
00:06:17Yeah.
00:06:18Can I kiss?
00:06:21We're all right?
00:06:22I'm good.
00:06:23Jesus.
00:06:25You like him, don't you?
00:06:27Yeah, I like Scott, yeah.
00:06:28It scares me because I'm like,
00:06:30why am I so worried about what he thinks?
00:06:33Well, because I like him, you know?
00:06:34Like, it's becoming, yeah, more apparent to me.
00:06:38Yeah.
00:06:44You good?
00:06:44Yeah, I'm good.
00:06:46I'm good.
00:07:00It's the last day of a brand new phase in the experiment known as Revelations Week.
00:07:08Oh, good morning, darling.
00:07:11How many coffees have you had?
00:07:12This is my second, but they're tiny.
00:07:15Yeah.
00:07:16The experts have devised this phase to encourage our couples to be open and honest,
00:07:22with the goal to create deeper connections faster than ever before.
00:07:30Holy .
00:07:31I'm going to go get some coffee.
00:07:33Okay, thanks.
00:07:34I'm sick.
00:07:36I'm awake now.
00:07:38We've upped the ante this year in a big way.
00:07:41Testing all of our couples to get real with each other fast,
00:07:45in a brand new, intense phase we call Revelations Week.
00:07:50We're asking our participants to be raw, unfiltered,
00:07:54and to uncover their sincerest side,
00:07:57to accelerate a deeper understanding between our couples.
00:08:00Well, hopefully we'll get to go do something fun today.
00:08:02Not that this has not been fun.
00:08:05It's been interesting.
00:08:07It's been interesting.
00:08:08We've never set a greater challenge this early in the experiment.
00:08:12But if all our couples commit to this carefully thought out phase,
00:08:16it has the potential to strengthen connections
00:08:19and lead to longer lasting relationships.
00:08:23For Alyssa and David, the intensity of Revelations Week
00:08:27has had a positive effect and created a connection on a deeper level.
00:08:33Thank you for looking after me,
00:08:35because last night she was in a little bit of a frustrated place.
00:08:41She was in a spiral.
00:08:42Yeah, she's feeling good.
00:08:44She's feeling, you know, much more at peace.
00:08:47Have you been intimate with Alyssa, yeah?
00:08:52Well, well, well, well.
00:08:55Um...
00:08:57Yes, David and I were intimate.
00:08:59We just felt like it was right.
00:09:01Yeah, it was very good.
00:09:03It was very good.
00:09:04It was...
00:09:05It was...
00:09:06It was fun.
00:09:07Yeah.
00:09:08I mean, I'm not gonna lie, you know...
00:09:13I feel like Alyssa was very hot and heavy.
00:09:15And, uh, you know, she did let me know that, you know,
00:09:19even the night before, she was feeling a type of way.
00:09:23So, Alyssa, you know, blindsided me,
00:09:25because I was just chilling.
00:09:27I jumped him.
00:09:28Like, it was just...
00:09:29It was bound to happen.
00:09:31I had to jump him.
00:09:32Like, I made the first move.
00:09:36I was just like,
00:09:37I can't wait any longer, sorry.
00:09:38It's just happening.
00:09:46Yes.
00:09:47Yes, it was great.
00:09:48I mean, the...
00:09:49Yeah.
00:09:54Maybe I should do the little...
00:09:56I'm feeling a bit more...
00:09:58Yeah, a bit more relaxed.
00:10:00We, uh, look after each other.
00:10:02100%.
00:10:03The tasks of Revelations Week
00:10:05have also been transformative for Bec and Danny.
00:10:10Hiya.
00:10:10What about your mouth?
00:10:13Let me get it off of you.
00:10:15We went out for dinner last night, and it was just like, the vibes were so high.
00:10:24And then one thing led to another.
00:10:26Just give you a nugget.
00:10:29Spooning led to forking.
00:10:32So far, questions of their lack of sexual chemistry had halted the physical progress between Bec and Danny.
00:10:41One thing I asked the experts for that I didn't get is...
00:10:47Probably, like, rarely, rarely high sexual chemistry.
00:10:52And although Revelations Week has tested them, the tasks have brought them closer together.
00:10:58I'm not going to rank none of them, because they're going out the balcony.
00:11:05Your grass only grows where you water it.
00:11:08Do you know what you mean?
00:11:08Yeah.
00:11:11And the couple's focus has rekindled their intimacy.
00:11:16We had a little cuddle, you know?
00:11:19Yeah, it was good.
00:11:21You've been very coy.
00:11:24I met her dad.
00:11:26I shook his hand and looked him in the eye and said I was always going to be respectful.
00:11:30I'm not going to stand on national TV and talk about shagging his daughter.
00:11:36You can ask Bec, and she can tell you.
00:11:41That's what I needed.
00:11:42I needed that orgasm.
00:11:45A couple of orgasms, actually.
00:11:49Last time we had sex on our honeymoon, it was like...
00:11:53It was a bit like, this is what we should do.
00:11:57There wasn't the passion like there was last night.
00:12:01It was just a really romantic, passionate situation.
00:12:05It felt right.
00:12:08While intimacy has returned for Bec and Danny,
00:12:10outside, Stella and Phillip's physical connection remains strong as they take a morning dip.
00:12:19Oh, yeah.
00:12:20This is my sort of bikinis.
00:12:22How many more of these bikinis have you got?
00:12:24Can you bring ten or something?
00:12:27Yeah, things are really good, like marital bliss.
00:12:30We're very affectionate.
00:12:31We're very comfortable.
00:12:32We're very physically, like, kind of aligned.
00:12:36I'm definitely going to stay a little longer.
00:12:38I can unapologetically be myself, you know?
00:12:41Yeah, I'm enjoying it.
00:12:42I'm feeling pretty complete.
00:12:45When they first met, Phillip's vows...
00:12:48I'm a carpenter, but I'm also an online health coach, a YouTuber.
00:12:52...raised concerns of his sincerity towards the experiment.
00:12:57Him promoting himself on his YouTube.
00:12:59Exactly what I said.
00:13:01But at their honeymoon, the couple quickly got on the same page.
00:13:05Oh, yeah, OK.
00:13:08And in the cool climate, things began to heat up.
00:13:14Mmm. You kiss well.
00:13:16So do you.
00:13:17Love it, love it. Thanks.
00:13:18And ever since, their physical connection has continued to grow.
00:13:23She's hot ass.
00:13:24I am very PDA.
00:13:25And so is Phillip.
00:13:27I'm pretty happy.
00:13:30Me too.
00:13:31Yeah, I don't know, yeah.
00:13:33Yeah, I really like it.
00:13:36Like a lot.
00:13:38Like a lot.
00:13:40I'm very pleased with this ring.
00:13:41Yeah.
00:13:43Me and Phillip, we're great.
00:13:45We are on the same page.
00:13:49We are extremely physically attracted to each other.
00:13:54We did a disservice.
00:13:57Honestly, I've never felt anything like it before, ever.
00:14:00Ever, ever.
00:14:02It's just...
00:14:03It's cute.
00:14:04It's cute.
00:14:12Navigating intimacy in the early stages of the experiment can be difficult for our couples.
00:14:18For some, intimacy occurs straight from the beginning.
00:14:22For others, it takes time.
00:14:24Yeah.
00:14:24And sometimes the level of intimacy can fluctuate.
00:14:28But for couples, open and honest communication and the ability to listen to their partner's wants and needs will lead
00:14:36to strong physical and emotional connections.
00:14:40Hello, hello.
00:14:43Good morning.
00:14:45How's the gym?
00:14:46For one of the experiment's most intimate couples, Revelations Week has seen Gia and Scott face their first hurdle.
00:14:54How are you?
00:14:55I'm good.
00:14:57Last night was a bit crazy.
00:14:58I wasn't expecting that that was full on.
00:15:02This day was huge for us.
00:15:04Yeah, first, like, real breakdown I've had, first, like, kind of disagreement that we've had so far.
00:15:11It definitely put some pressure on us.
00:15:13I know.
00:15:14After, like, last night in bed, we had more conversations about it and he was like, I'm here for you,
00:15:19like, I want this.
00:15:20I don't care about you having a kid and all that.
00:15:23He's like, I, I, that was before I met you, now I know you and it's different.
00:15:27We're still power couples.
00:15:30Last night, that was probably the most intense conversation we've had, but it's probably, it's a blessing in disguise because
00:15:35we've gone into more depth about one another.
00:15:37We communicated well.
00:15:39We went to bed on no argument.
00:15:41We woke up with a smile on our face.
00:15:44There's so many good things we have with each other.
00:15:47We're not perfect, but it doesn't outweigh how good we are, you know what I mean, in general.
00:15:52So, we're just keeping things strong.
00:15:54I'm happy.
00:15:55Well, good.
00:15:56We did well.
00:16:00Have you learned her daughter's name yet?
00:16:03Well, she calls her bub and I am trying to get myself not in shit.
00:16:07I keep saying daughter.
00:16:11Shit.
00:16:13You know what's funny?
00:16:14After yesterday, I was like, I'm in trouble, but I'm not going to ask because then it's obvious.
00:16:19So, I'm waiting until I hear it and then I'm going to, yeah.
00:16:24One couple facing greater challenges than the remembering of children's names is Mel and Luke.
00:16:32As Revelations Week has seen an awkward move in.
00:16:36Yep.
00:16:37As well as some shocking revelations.
00:16:40We love a stalk.
00:16:42And Mel being the only participant in the experiment so far to not rank her partner first in the photo
00:16:49ranking task.
00:16:52All leading to Luke leaving to spend the night away from Mel.
00:16:59This morning, Mel is awaiting Luke's return.
00:17:03But overnight, fellow bride Brooke has come across some social media comments Luke's family have posted about Mel.
00:17:13I'm seeing some of Luke's sisters get involved and say some nasty things about Mel online.
00:17:19And I think that's petty to have your sisters comment rude things online about Mel.
00:17:26And, I don't know, it doesn't sit well with me.
00:17:31I don't like people that tear girls down in that way.
00:17:34I think it's not very nice.
00:17:36When I saw those comments, I thought they were horrible.
00:17:39So, um, he should shut that down.
00:17:42Being a man, he should shut that down no matter what.
00:17:44I don't think Mel deserves that.
00:17:46And I know that Mel's for those comments as well.
00:17:52So, last night, I read on social media some comments made from Luke's friends and family that really hurt my
00:17:59feelings.
00:18:00There were comments about my personality.
00:18:03There were comments about my character.
00:18:05I'm actually shocked.
00:18:07Luke's sisters left some comments saying that I've got a mad resting bitch face.
00:18:12That I'm not genuine.
00:18:14That I don't deserve someone like Luke.
00:18:17That I don't know what I've got in front of me until I've lost it.
00:18:21And what I thought was these comments aren't out of nowhere.
00:18:25These comments would have been from what Luke was telling them about me.
00:18:30So, I need to talk about it with Luke.
00:18:35What really hurt me about his sister's comments is this whole time on the experiment, Luke has consistently reminded me
00:18:42that he's positive, he's nice, you know, he's not rude.
00:18:47He's got a great outlook on life.
00:18:49But, you know, comments like that are the exact opposite of what he's been telling me.
00:18:55Um, I guess there's some things that I want to talk to you about.
00:19:05Um, I guess there's some things that I want to talk to you about.
00:19:14Um, and I guess it's kind of hard for me to talk about because, like, it really hurt me.
00:19:22The comments left by your friends and family on the social media posts.
00:19:28Because I felt like comments from your friends and family about me are because of what you would have told
00:19:34them about me.
00:19:37I woke up and I saw those comments and I want you to know that I'm sorry.
00:19:43I never wanted those comments there and when I saw them there I got really upset because I didn't say
00:19:48anything about the stuff that they had said to them.
00:19:53I had never said that. All I was saying is how I feel.
00:19:57I've tried so hard to keep positive, tried so hard to keep calm because of, you know, I've been in
00:20:04this and I'm trying to do this with you but, like, you haven't been giving me anything back.
00:20:06Let me just stop you right there.
00:20:08Do you think you were trying hard this week? Because you made my life hell.
00:20:15You know how it feels to feel isolated because I did that to you on the honeymoon and I know
00:20:21I did.
00:20:21But that's what you did to me this week.
00:20:24Oh, wow. I've not come back here to get into, like, I've already had so much anxiety about coming back
00:20:30here because the way you've traded me in this whole experiment has been horrible.
00:20:39So, I feel, like, so anxious being here right now.
00:20:44So do I.
00:20:47I've tried so, for so long.
00:20:50You've only been here for three weeks.
00:20:53I just feel like it's been a little bit unfair recently because I kind of came to my, like, not
00:20:58senses, but I kind of realised that this whole experiment, I've been, you know, like, saying things to Luke to
00:21:05speak.
00:21:05I can't bear his feelings, but at the expense of my own.
00:21:08And I don't really think that's fair for Luke to constantly play the victim where, you know, he's done wrong
00:21:13too.
00:21:14It's not just me.
00:21:15Like, I have done wrong for sure, but he doesn't take any other, any accountability for his actions.
00:21:27Okay.
00:21:51This week, our couples have not only begun living together...
00:21:55Thanks for doing that. You're amazing.
00:21:57No, that's fine.
00:21:58...they've also taken on a brand new, intense phase of the experiment, Revelations Week.
00:22:06Oh, my pleasure.
00:22:08Oh!
00:22:08Oh!
00:22:11But the experts have saved this week's toughest task for last.
00:22:16They still didn't put my name first.
00:22:18Honestly, we have a letter from the gods above.
00:22:22I'll do the honours.
00:22:24Stoll and Philip, today you will be spending the day apart.
00:22:29Oh, no!
00:22:30Alyssa, get ready because you're going for some girl time and, David, it's time to see the boys.
00:22:36Oh!
00:22:39Relax.
00:22:40Okay?
00:22:40We're all good.
00:22:41Okay?
00:22:42We said we would test our couples this year more than ever before.
00:22:47And today, we're really turning up the heat.
00:22:49All right. See ya.
00:22:51Firstly, we're dividing our couples.
00:22:54Have fun.
00:22:54Bye.
00:22:55Brides and grooms will be separated to test their honesty amongst their peers.
00:23:01All right, I'll see you soon.
00:23:02Enjoy.
00:23:03At the cocktail party, you know, the dinner party, sometimes you can tell when you're speaking to people
00:23:08that they're, like, almost looking over their shoulder for their missus.
00:23:12Yeah.
00:23:13Well, when it's a whole day apart, there could be some revelations.
00:23:20The brides and grooms will head off, and what may appear as a catch-up with their peers
00:23:26instead is a brand new and intense task.
00:23:31Oh, my God!
00:23:33Oh, my God!
00:23:34Woo!
00:23:36Look at the photos on the wall, girl!
00:23:39One that pushes everyone to be raw and unfiltered about their relationships.
00:23:44What is going on here?
00:23:47Oh, look at these pictures on the wall.
00:23:49Hey!
00:23:49Oh, wowza!
00:23:51It's time for Red Flag, Green Flag.
00:23:55With the brides upstairs and the grooms downstairs, the venue is set for this intense new task
00:24:02to begin.
00:24:03OK.
00:24:04Oh, my God, guys.
00:24:06Today is your chance to catch up and gain some fresh perspective on your relationship.
00:24:11Your task today is to share green flags and red flags you've noticed about your spouse.
00:24:16Be open, be honest, and dig deep.
00:24:20As a group, you should offer feedback, challenge each other's thinking, and help each other see things
00:24:25from an outside perspective.
00:24:27The experts!
00:24:32Downstairs, the first groom to take on Red Flag, Green Flag is Stephen.
00:24:39Stephen.
00:24:41Stephen, Rachel.
00:24:42Have a sit, mate.
00:24:45Have a little bit of Dutch courage.
00:24:47Up in front, mate.
00:24:47Get up there, Stevie boy.
00:24:50Well...
00:24:51That's me.
00:24:52That's you.
00:24:52Rachel.
00:24:53You look good.
00:24:54I'll start with the green flags.
00:24:57She is very selfless.
00:25:00She has the biggest heart.
00:25:03And she's actually willing to show me her interests.
00:25:06And she's actually interested in my interests as well.
00:25:10Yeah.
00:25:11Probably the only, what I'd call a red flag, is that I feel like our sense of humour doesn't align.
00:25:18And having that flirty banter is how I sort of initiate a romantic spark.
00:25:24I was trying to do that at the honeymoon, and I felt like that was taken, you know, out of
00:25:29context.
00:25:31So, I've sort of really pulled it back in fear that it's going to cause friction.
00:25:36So, we all wish we had personalities like you.
00:25:41True.
00:25:43So don't cover it up, man.
00:25:45Because that's a gift, what you've got.
00:25:47Don't cover your gift up.
00:25:48I reckon you should be yourself.
00:25:50That's why we love you, man.
00:25:51We all love you.
00:25:52Yeah.
00:25:53So why wouldn't she?
00:25:54Yeah.
00:25:55Thanks, guys.
00:25:57I'm just lucky to have the same name, mate.
00:26:02She has been saying to me, you know, come on, let's start bringing, we call it, we call it Stevo.
00:26:10You know, can we bring, can we see Stevo come out a little bit?
00:26:14But, in positiveness, we're working through it.
00:26:20You know, the boys are saying, I've got self-doubt, be yourself.
00:26:23And Rachel's telling me, be yourself.
00:26:26So, the writing's on the wall.
00:26:31Upstairs, it's Rachel's turn to discuss red and green flags about her husband, Steven.
00:26:37Rock it, girl!
00:26:39OK, so, green flags about Steven.
00:26:43I like how excited he gets when he talks about his passion.
00:26:46I feel like I see the real Steven come out, the real passionate, the light, that Steven.
00:26:51And I can see that he has a kind heart, and he really does mean well.
00:26:56Yeah, he does.
00:26:56And in our tasks, Revelations Week, he is honest, and he really leans into that vulnerability.
00:27:03I actually cried during his video, hearing a lot of his insecurities.
00:27:08He lost a lot of weight, and he starved himself because he believed he'd have to look a certain image.
00:27:13Wow!
00:27:14He felt like he had to, so, honestly, this week, Revelations Week, has been really good for us.
00:27:20It has made it lighter in our apartment.
00:27:22OK, love that.
00:27:23Yeah, it's fun, it's fun.
00:27:24We have done all of these tasks expressed by the experts, truly in honesty, and I can't ask anything more
00:27:30of him.
00:27:31We've come out in a really good place. I'm really happy.
00:27:35It was really nice, you know, getting all this positivity.
00:27:40Bec is up!
00:27:42Um, OK, Danny boy, Danny boy.
00:27:46Our communication is second to none.
00:27:50The other morning at 1am, I woke him up and I was like, I'm worried about this!
00:27:53And he was like, alright, let's talk about it.
00:27:57I've never ever felt so safe in my life with a human being.
00:28:00Hallelujah!
00:28:02And the loyalty, I trust him.
00:28:06Like, I trust him through and through.
00:28:08Oh, bless!
00:28:10I love that for you!
00:28:15Um, I think Danny's not loyal, because we all started at the dinner party.
00:28:20He was looking at me.
00:28:22Yeah!
00:28:22I feel like I'm probably more his vibe and that's why he was looking me up and down.
00:28:31Uh, red flags.
00:28:32Um, the only issue Danny and I have had over these past few weeks has been that,
00:28:39the sexual chemistry between us.
00:28:42So, up until a week ago, like, it was like, the sexual chemistry's low, he was saying that.
00:28:49But, we're intimate now.
00:28:51OK.
00:28:52Because we've had conversations about it and Revelation Week has helped us so much.
00:28:57Like, we went out for dinner and we, like, were just all over each other.
00:29:00We came home, we had sex.
00:29:02They love this!
00:29:05But it's not just that.
00:29:06Like, the next red flag is...
00:29:09Sometimes I think that he might think that, like, he's better looking than me.
00:29:13Oh!
00:29:15He's been shortchanged being with me.
00:29:18And I've talked to him about it and he's assured me so many times.
00:29:22I don't know, is it my, is it my past traumas?
00:29:25He does give that vibe a bit.
00:29:33When Gia told me that she could see that the vibes between Danny and I were off,
00:29:39oh yeah, I kind of get that vibe.
00:29:41She was, like, trying to suggest that Danny isn't into me.
00:29:46And it pissed me off.
00:29:50Based on everything you're saying, it sounds like he's into you.
00:29:56You are, like, you are the queen.
00:29:59He is!
00:30:00Absolutely!
00:30:01Yes.
00:30:01You need to start, like, talking to yourself.
00:30:03Yeah.
00:30:04Be your little hype queen.
00:30:06Yeah.
00:30:07I think because I've lost so much weight and I've got, like, loose skin on my arms and my stomach
00:30:13and my legs,
00:30:13maybe I'm insecure because, like, I'm like, look at all of these amazing girls.
00:30:19Oh my God, you're the most amazing!
00:30:22Babe, when I accidentally ran into you and Danny in the hallway,
00:30:25you can see that he's into you, babe.
00:30:28And I was like, wow, that's hot.
00:30:30Like, I, like, want that relationship.
00:30:33I don't agree.
00:30:36I saw them walking down the hallways and I don't see anything from Danny to babe.
00:30:40Honey, he's like, it's like he was a protector.
00:30:42Like, you can see it a lot.
00:30:43He's your protector, babe.
00:30:45He's into me.
00:30:46He's into you.
00:30:47I think you're going to Lulu.
00:30:48I'm to Lulu!
00:30:52Danny's type is not back, unfortunately, for her.
00:30:56I think he's just thinking it's a root, to be honest.
00:31:04Ugh.
00:31:06Coming up.
00:31:07See ya!
00:31:08Bec retaliates.
00:31:10I think it's early days and the cracks will show without a doubt.
00:31:15And Brooke reveals all.
00:31:18Oh!
00:31:19Oh!
00:31:20Are you joking?
00:31:21He did not see that.
00:31:23He did not see that.
00:31:24He did not see it.
00:31:25He did not see it.
00:31:26He did not see it.
00:31:35And our brides and grooms have been separated to participate in the red flag green flag task to highlight early
00:31:43success or discuss any issues that they may have.
00:31:47Oh, Scotty!
00:31:48Hey!
00:31:50Scotty!
00:31:51Come on, buddy.
00:31:52Let's go, mate.
00:31:52It's a safe place here.
00:31:53This is me.
00:31:55This is Gia.
00:31:56Just to let you know.
00:31:58So, green flags.
00:32:00Well, our genuine connection, our chemistry is inseparable.
00:32:04We have not let go of each other the whole time.
00:32:06So, that's a massive green light.
00:32:09Um, she's a very family girl.
00:32:10She is the best chef I've ever seen.
00:32:13And probably the best sex I've had in a long time, so.
00:32:16Yeah.
00:32:16Stop looking in.
00:32:17You guys look super, just, yeah, like together.
00:32:20I appreciate it.
00:32:21Straight up.
00:32:22Yeah.
00:32:23Um, red ones.
00:32:24Um.
00:32:26Gosh.
00:32:27What's a red flag?
00:32:28Just give us something.
00:32:30I'm trying to think.
00:32:31Oh, a red flag.
00:32:33She does.
00:32:34Here's a red flag.
00:32:35Like, I like to shave my body, but she wants me to have a hairy chest.
00:32:38That's a problem.
00:32:39That's the only red flag I can think of.
00:32:41That's it.
00:32:42That's it.
00:32:43I don't have a single red flag.
00:32:45And I would say, if there was someone, because I don't give a shit, I would say it.
00:32:48But we are actually really good.
00:32:49Yeah.
00:32:49Well done, mate.
00:32:50Thanks.
00:32:51Yeah, I feel like me and Gia are on cloud nine.
00:32:56I had nothing bad to say about my wife.
00:33:02Gia!
00:33:02Gia!
00:33:04Oh, Gia!
00:33:05Oh, Gia!
00:33:06Babe, get that jacket off!
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:09You guys all know, like, me and Scott are like, this.
00:33:14Um, green flags with me and Scott is like, communication is like, everything.
00:33:18And I think, with Scott, we go very deep.
00:33:21We talk about like, everything.
00:33:22And my ex and I didn't have that.
00:33:24It was like, constant like, like, he was just, didn't go deep.
00:33:28And I think, another green flag is like, the sex is like, off tap.
00:33:32Um, I've got to say, I hadn't had sex in three years coming into this.
00:33:36And so I told him, I was like, if you're thinking it, I'm just a girl who's, because I know
00:33:40what I look like.
00:33:40And I look like I'm probably going to put out.
00:33:42But I don't.
00:33:43You look beautiful.
00:33:43Please don't ever say that I look like this.
00:33:45No, but I think I get judged.
00:33:47And I think, initially.
00:33:48I judge you at the hens party.
00:33:53So yeah, he was like, you were so hot, you know, whatever.
00:33:57What did you say at the hens party?
00:33:57And I was like, I'm really into you.
00:33:59And it was like, immediate attraction.
00:34:00And we were just like, he's like, immediate, immediate, immediate.
00:34:03Wait, can we repeat what just was saying?
00:34:06Anyway, green flags, green flags.
00:34:09Other green flags, like, every morning he goes to the gym at 5am.
00:34:12He comes back with a coffee.
00:34:13Aw, yes.
00:34:14He makes the bed.
00:34:15He checks in with me.
00:34:16Like, he's very attentive.
00:34:17That's so good.
00:34:17So good.
00:34:18Bang!
00:34:19Right, red flags.
00:34:21Next.
00:34:25There's not many.
00:34:26Like, and I don't want to be an annoying bitch.
00:34:28But like, red flags is, I listened to his audition video and I literally cried because.
00:34:34Why?
00:34:34Because his audition tape was like, I don't care if she has kids or doesn't, but I don't
00:34:38want to pay school fees.
00:34:40And I'm a single mom.
00:34:41Yeah, totally.
00:34:41Not really.
00:34:42It hit me.
00:34:43Another red flag.
00:34:44He forgot my daughter's name.
00:34:46Oh!
00:34:47No!
00:34:47No!
00:34:48Wow.
00:34:50Why is he forgetting your daughter's name?
00:34:53Is he an airhead?
00:34:59Bec liked to comment that Scott's a bit of an airhead.
00:35:02I don't agree that Scott's an airhead.
00:35:04Um, but we know that bitch loves every minute that she can to start speaking, so she couldn't
00:35:09help herself.
00:35:10She should probably worry more about why her husband's looking at me and not her than why
00:35:14my husband's an airhead.
00:35:18That's so bad.
00:35:20Scott's great.
00:35:21I, I, Scott's not an airhead.
00:35:23Don't agree.
00:35:25She's a bit of an airhead to be f***ing honest.
00:35:28Do you think that it's more of a sexual thing between you two rather than a-
00:35:32No, no, no.
00:35:33We're like cuddling on the couch.
00:35:34We just-
00:35:35You can see it's real though.
00:35:36Yeah.
00:35:36Yeah.
00:35:37You can see.
00:35:38I think it's early days and the cracks will show up without a doubt.
00:35:43I just don't see that happening for us.
00:35:44I just think, like, we're so good.
00:35:46I really can't talk s*** about him.
00:35:48Like, I'm-
00:35:48I really like him.
00:35:50No need.
00:35:50I like him.
00:35:51Yeah.
00:35:52Yeah.
00:35:53Okay.
00:35:54Beautiful.
00:35:55Thanks Kyle.
00:35:56Go Gia.
00:35:59Listening to Gia and talk about her and Scott's relationship, to me, there's no way
00:36:05in the world that there's no red flags.
00:36:08No way.
00:36:09I mean, one of these red flags would be that disgraceful earring that he wears.
00:36:13Ugh.
00:36:14Give me a break and a bucket.
00:36:20I'm pissed off.
00:36:21Now she's come from my husband a bit.
00:36:23She's called my husband an airhead, which is crazy, which is why I need-
00:36:26I f***ing need to confront her.
00:36:28I'm so over it.
00:36:30I love you ladies as much as there's people I can't stand and people I absolutely adore.
00:36:34I think that we are actually a dynamic group and that we've all got each other's back.
00:36:40Who can't you stand though?
00:36:42Who can't you stand though?
00:36:43Who can't you stand though?
00:36:44Can I say one thing?
00:36:45Okay.
00:36:46I'm gonna shut it down.
00:36:47Sorry guys.
00:36:48Okay, can I say I'm gonna shut it down.
00:36:54I wanted that opportunity with Bec again but unfortunately that didn't come.
00:36:58But her calling my husband an airhead now has really pissed me off.
00:37:02I said the pot was simmering and now it's boiling over the lids off.
00:37:07Speaking from someone whose husband doesn't want a bar of her, she should really f***ing stay in her place.
00:37:13Coming up, one groom's revelations-
00:37:17Her emotions are very high and very low.
00:37:20Shock everyone.
00:37:21That to me is a red flag.
00:37:23And upstairs with the girls, Brooke doesn't hold back.
00:37:28I don't believe you.
00:37:29I don't believe you.
00:37:30I don't believe you.
00:37:31I think it's a fake showmance.
00:37:34100% agree.
00:37:47Green flag, red flag, huge opportunity for the boys to give their feedback.
00:37:52And in the real world, I'll always go to my friends for their take on my relationships.
00:37:58I see a handsome Nigerian stallion next to a Barbie doll.
00:38:02I'll start with green flags.
00:38:05Alyssa is very honest.
00:38:07She's family orientated.
00:38:09And family is something that is very important to me.
00:38:12So, she's really caring.
00:38:13Like, that's all I want.
00:38:15You know, I told you guys that I wasn't going to get intimate on the first night.
00:38:19And I'm so glad I didn't because I got to know her on a deeper level emotionally, spiritually, mentally.
00:38:25Good on you.
00:38:25And two weeks obviously after that, it just naturally, it felt right, man.
00:38:31And like, I have no regrets.
00:38:32I think that was the best thing I've ever done coming into this experiment.
00:38:35Just taking my time to get to know her and then getting to that, you know.
00:38:39And yeah, communication with her is like spot on because she's honest.
00:38:43Just an observation.
00:38:44You guys look great.
00:38:45Like even when you're talking, she's like looking at you like when you're talking.
00:38:47Like just you can tell how she looks.
00:38:49You can tell how she looks.
00:38:49I can tell like she likes you.
00:38:50Yeah, absolutely.
00:38:51I have worn my green shirt, which means by default I am a green flag.
00:39:09Daddy Steve.
00:39:11Daddy Steve.
00:39:12All right, you ready?
00:39:13Rebecca for president.
00:39:15Aww.
00:39:16When I first saw Steve at the aisle, I was completely wrapped and taken back.
00:39:21So I got my silver fox and I love that for me.
00:39:24Yeah, we just connected.
00:39:26It's like I'd known him for like years.
00:39:28So I loved that for us.
00:39:29And I love his family values.
00:39:31Like he's obviously got his four beautiful girls.
00:39:33So we have that in common.
00:39:34So that's really nice for us.
00:39:36Nice.
00:39:36Woo!
00:39:37We like that.
00:39:38Green flag is really simple.
00:39:40Yeah, green flags, there's multiple.
00:39:46Now red flags.
00:39:51We have spent...
00:39:52Hang on a second.
00:39:53What's going on there, brother?
00:39:55What the hell's going on here?
00:39:57Like the fact that Steve says, you know, I know she's got some green flags, but she's
00:40:01got a few reds.
00:40:02And when you say that, it means like you're on the lowest scale of liking the relationship.
00:40:08Rebecca is consistently that person where needs to be talking all the time or needs
00:40:14to be, you know, there's no downtime.
00:40:18Rebecca's humour.
00:40:19I don't understand some of her humour.
00:40:21Sometimes it's got a bit of a sexual innuendo to it.
00:40:24And I'm very conservative, so it just seems rude to me.
00:40:30Rebecca's not my usual type.
00:40:32And what I mean by that is just her personality's less conservative than mine.
00:40:37It's quite hard to get my head across because at the dinner party, Rebecca and Steve looked
00:40:42like proper husband and wife, like just a married old couple.
00:40:46On top of that, yeah, just the emotions, just her emotions are very high and very low.
00:40:54I'm not sure what I'm gonna get.
00:40:56That worries me.
00:40:57You kind of lose a bit of trust because you're not sure the person you're waking up next to.
00:41:02Rebecca's very opinionated, a bit more outspoken.
00:41:06I'm not.
00:41:07I'm almost the opposite of that.
00:41:10It's just such a shock that a relationship that from the outside looked very strong had size that none of
00:41:18us were seeing is just crazy to me.
00:41:21Are you playing tonsil hockey?
00:41:24Have you guys made out?
00:41:26Like, have you been hot heavy?
00:41:28What stages are we at?
00:41:29Oh, we haven't been intimate yet.
00:41:31Did you kiss?
00:41:32Did you play other parts of the menu?
00:41:34No, we haven't played any other parts of the menu.
00:41:36So we've only had appetizers?
00:41:38We've had a kiss and a cuddle.
00:41:39That's about it.
00:41:40That's all I'm saying.
00:41:41It's okay.
00:41:43It's okay.
00:41:44Well done.
00:41:45Steve and I, I'm happy where we're at.
00:41:48We're gold and we're going to get to platinum in a couple of days.
00:41:51So I'm ready now to go back to my husband and give him a hug and say, like, we've got
00:41:53this.
00:41:54Like, please.
00:41:54We're doing so well.
00:41:55So I'm, I'm here for it.
00:41:59It's just been a lot.
00:42:00Rebecca's just a lot in general.
00:42:03But definitely red flags are, look, Rebecca, I'm, she's got to slow it down a little bit.
00:42:08And I think her expectations were getting a little bit high with intimacy.
00:42:14I'm quite slow in that process because I need to be sure.
00:42:18I'm trying to do the right thing.
00:42:19Rebecca's just been a bit impatient and that has affected our relationship.
00:42:24That to me is a red flag.
00:42:26What do you need from Rebecca to move forward with intimacy?
00:42:32Yeah, with intimacy, Rebecca has to slow that down and understand that the intimacy and affection that I'm already showing,
00:42:39that, that's all I'm capable of at this point in time.
00:42:43You still feel positive about moving forward from it always?
00:42:46We had an amazing friendship.
00:42:49One step forward, two steps back.
00:42:51You know, that's, that's where I feel like we're at at the moment.
00:42:54Yeah, I'm quite shocked to hear that Rebecca and Steve actually are in the friend zone.
00:42:58I don't know.
00:42:59I'm not the type of guy who does friends.
00:43:01It's like you're in it or you're not.
00:43:06Moral of the story.
00:43:06He just went one, two, skip a few, went straight to red flags.
00:43:10Yeah, you're pretty much in the shit.
00:43:14Go, Brooke!
00:43:15Let's give it up for Brooke!
00:43:17Woo!
00:43:18I'm actually really excited to hear you.
00:43:20Really?
00:43:21Yeah.
00:43:23Alrighty.
00:43:24Chris.
00:43:25Green flags.
00:43:27He wears his hat on his sleeve.
00:43:29I would say is we're very honest with each other.
00:43:33There's nothing to hide.
00:43:36But then I get the ick very fast.
00:43:39Yeah.
00:43:40And this can delve into the red flags.
00:43:43You girls have all met Chris.
00:43:46He's a handful.
00:43:47Loves to have a wine.
00:43:49Loves to have a complaint.
00:43:50And I will tell him stop complaining.
00:43:53Stop being a diva.
00:43:55I would put him in his place.
00:43:58But then another red flag.
00:44:02And this is what has made me go into the friend zone.
00:44:08I watched his audition videos.
00:44:12In his videos he said I've got three red flags, three icks.
00:44:17Fake tan.
00:44:18Because that makes girls insecure.
00:44:20Oh!
00:44:21Are you joking?
00:44:23The second.
00:44:25Clingy girls.
00:44:26What?
00:44:27Well Chris is a very clingy boy.
00:44:29Yeah.
00:44:30So he was projecting.
00:44:31He's projecting.
00:44:32And the third.
00:44:36He said I hate fat people.
00:44:39Yeah.
00:44:40Oh!
00:44:41Fat people!
00:44:42Oh!
00:44:44Are you joking?
00:44:47Whoa!
00:44:56The final red flag.
00:44:59I watched his audition videos.
00:45:02He said I hate fat people.
00:45:06Yeah.
00:45:06Oh!
00:45:07Fat people!
00:45:08Oh!
00:45:09Oh!
00:45:11Are you joking?
00:45:14Whoa!
00:45:16I wasn't shocked to hear some derogatory comments Chris made about women.
00:45:21If I'm going to be completely honest.
00:45:23Just something about Chris that's a bit off for me.
00:45:26It's disrespectful to women.
00:45:27It's disgusting.
00:45:28I know.
00:45:29Horrible.
00:45:30That is such an unkind thing to say.
00:45:33That he doesn't like fat people.
00:45:36Being...
00:45:38Being the curviest girl here.
00:45:40Like instantly I just felt that insecurity f***ing flare in me.
00:45:44And it's not okay to say those things.
00:45:47Why the hell should anyone feel like a less of a person just because they're a little bit bigger than
00:45:52you.
00:45:53It's really changed my view on Chris a bit.
00:45:55Like I hate to say it but it's the truth.
00:45:58Sorry and he goes give me a brunette skinny girl on a silver platter.
00:46:02No!
00:46:03And I will be there for her.
00:46:05Oh!
00:46:07Are you joking?
00:46:08He did not see that!
00:46:09It's...
00:46:10It's...
00:46:11It's...
00:46:11Oh my god Chris!
00:46:13It's him!
00:46:13Oh my god!
00:46:16Sorry I said to him.
00:46:17One step forward two steps back with you.
00:46:21He is like but I'm growing with you.
00:46:23But I said to him I don't want to grow with you babe.
00:46:26I want you to be that person.
00:46:27Be a man!
00:46:28Be grown.
00:46:29I want to make you grown.
00:46:32Girls all I want to say is like I didn't come here to train a boy.
00:46:37And if it was me on the outside world I would tap out.
00:46:40Yeah.
00:46:42But...
00:46:43He's learning so much he's never been like this with a girl.
00:46:47And this is where I'm struggling with and this is where I'm like do I tap out?
00:46:50Yeah.
00:46:52I said you go and tell your mum what you said on camera.
00:46:55Cause you look like a piece of shit.
00:46:58Yeah.
00:46:58Go girl.
00:47:00Okay!
00:47:04I'm very undecided right now.
00:47:07There is a connection.
00:47:08There is something now with Chris.
00:47:10But...
00:47:11If he's not ready to step up...
00:47:14Then...
00:47:15What's my...
00:47:16What's the point of this?
00:47:23Oh god this is so intimidating.
00:47:27Green flags first.
00:47:28Green flags!
00:47:30Start with the good.
00:47:32Right so...
00:47:33Phillip and I...
00:47:34We communicate well.
00:47:36It's ridiculous how well we communicate.
00:47:38He's deep.
00:47:38We are attracted to each other.
00:47:40I didn't ask for any physicalities in the person.
00:47:42I asked for a kind heart, kind soul.
00:47:45No expectation.
00:47:46No expectation.
00:47:47I love that.
00:47:47And I feel like I got an old soul in a really hot body.
00:47:54Like...
00:47:54Um...
00:47:55You're in a Chanel watch?
00:47:59Um...
00:47:59Right so...
00:48:00It is isn't it?
00:48:01It is.
00:48:03Red flags...
00:48:04Um...
00:48:04Are there any?
00:48:05Well that's the thing like...
00:48:07It's...
00:48:07There has to be.
00:48:08I'm sorry I'm pulling bullshit.
00:48:11I'm sorry.
00:48:13Surely he gets on your nerves at times.
00:48:15No.
00:48:16I don't believe you.
00:48:18I don't believe you.
00:48:19I don't believe you.
00:48:19I'm sorry.
00:48:21There is no way.
00:48:22Surely he gets on your nerves.
00:48:24Yeah Brooke surprised me.
00:48:26Just the way she was speaking.
00:48:27Pretty disrespectful.
00:48:29And at that point I was kind of like...
00:48:30Yeah.
00:48:31I don't know about you.
00:48:34I'm proceeding.
00:48:35You all good?
00:48:35She's doing her.
00:48:36Um...
00:48:37Right so...
00:48:38Yet we have to have a fight.
00:48:40We haven't fought yet.
00:48:41Yet we have to have a disagreement.
00:48:43At the moment there's nothing I can list bad about.
00:48:45So you haven't had a disagreement?
00:48:47We haven't had a disagreement.
00:48:48Are you shagging?
00:48:49Yes.
00:48:49They're shagging a lot.
00:48:50Yeah they are.
00:48:51They are.
00:48:51Stella said she was in love picking up baby names at the dinner party.
00:48:56We gotta have a baby guys!
00:48:59I like the way that you guys were interacting at the dinner party.
00:49:04When you were talking about each other.
00:49:06But I also think that...
00:49:06Hang on babe.
00:49:07I'm not finished.
00:49:08When you were sitting together and he was...
00:49:10Do we want to be here all day?
00:49:11Because Alyssa will finish then.
00:49:15Let's install a talk.
00:49:17Are you done?
00:49:18Are you done?
00:49:19Are you?
00:49:20I was watching Alyssa talk.
00:49:23I'm like...
00:49:25Sip it!
00:49:25Anyway I just loved the way that you guys were communicating.
00:49:28And I feel like you're in the right direction.
00:49:31Yay!
00:49:33Alyssa is the expert.
00:49:35Yeah apparently.
00:49:36I'll talk about it later.
00:49:38Brooke was just trying to like provoke her and not letting the person who was sharing speak.
00:49:44And it's this kind of bitchy behaviour.
00:49:46It just...
00:49:46It makes me feel a little bit uncomfortable.
00:49:48I have never had that much connection with a person.
00:49:51I...
00:49:51I have never had that much intimacy with a person.
00:49:55Wow!
00:49:56Yes!
00:49:57How about you?
00:49:58Carol!
00:50:04Are we good?
00:50:05Are we coming?
00:50:05So stellar.
00:50:06I think people think you're done bullshit.
00:50:09Yeah.
00:50:11I definitely saw a different side of Brooke.
00:50:15She's very feisty.
00:50:16Like she's very icy.
00:50:18It feels like maybe lack of empathy in her.
00:50:23I don't know what it is, but she felt very cold.
00:50:27We good?
00:50:28Yeah.
00:50:28It's obvious.
00:50:29Anyone that is the real deal can see it.
00:50:34And the fact she struggled to pick out a red flag is absolutely bonkers to me.
00:50:39My f***ing arse, you can't figure out a red flag.
00:50:41My arse.
00:50:43It's so fake.
00:50:44It's so fake.
00:50:45It's so fake.
00:50:47I don't really care what they're saying because that's how they project.
00:50:51That's a projection.
00:50:53Because they probably feel, A, either they're not there for the right reasons,
00:50:56or their partners are not there for the right reasons, and they truly know that.
00:51:00You've got a red flag, and they're not there for the right reasons.
00:51:04You've got an orange flag for it.
00:51:06Hi, my vientre!
00:51:06With most of the brides having gone through the red and green flags in their relationship,
00:51:11it's now Alyssa's turn.
00:51:13Alyssa!
00:51:14Yay, it's my turn!
00:51:17It's my husband!
00:51:18Okay, it's my turn!
00:51:18Let's get on.
00:51:19Let's do it.
00:51:19Let's do it.
00:51:20So, we started with green, green flags.
00:51:22Yeah.
00:51:22I thought it was going straight in, I love this, green flags.
00:51:25So, in my wedding vows, David listened to everything that I needed.
00:51:30Like, date nights once a week, good morning and goodnight kisses.
00:51:34And he...
00:51:35Dragon breath.
00:51:38He took me on dates and I was saying I wanted to do the Titanic exhibition.
00:51:42He's like, babe, just so you know, I booked it.
00:51:44I was like, oh damn!
00:51:46He listens.
00:51:47He just...
00:51:47He's kind...
00:51:49He's house proud.
00:51:50But like, have you f***ed it?
00:51:54Oh my God.
00:51:56No, listen to my story.
00:51:58Have you?
00:51:58I'm curious.
00:52:00Shh.
00:52:02Listen to my story.
00:52:03So, I was literally sitting there doing some work.
00:52:06So, no.
00:52:07Gals, shut the f*** up.
00:52:10Like, listen.
00:52:11Okay, so I was doing some work.
00:52:13He's vacuumed, mopped the floor.
00:52:16Yes.
00:52:17And that's it.
00:52:17Put a load of washing on, put the washing in the dryer and I'm just sitting there like...
00:52:21Okay.
00:52:22Which is like...
00:52:24Tick.
00:52:24Tick.
00:52:25Tick.
00:52:26And our communication is second to none.
00:52:29So, we...
00:52:30So, it's all rainbows and butterflies and here's shits rainbows.
00:52:33Yes.
00:52:34Yes.
00:52:35No, let her talk.
00:52:36Let her talk.
00:52:36Let her talk.
00:52:37This is my moment.
00:52:38Yeah, go.
00:52:38Go.
00:52:39Go, girl.
00:52:40We have talked about the good, the bad, the ugly, the fugly.
00:52:44Really?
00:52:44The shit.
00:52:45The nasty.
00:52:46Whoa, let's give her a chance.
00:52:48Yeah.
00:52:48Our communication, like I said, is second to none.
00:52:51We talked at three.
00:52:53Brooke was definitely a little more vocal than I have ever experienced with Brooke to be completely honest.
00:52:58Like, I've got something to say.
00:52:59I've got something to say.
00:53:00We should actually be giving all the respect to each other and actually just listen.
00:53:04Like, hold space for each other and let each other speak.
00:53:09Okay.
00:53:09Red flags.
00:53:11Oh.
00:53:12Tell us.
00:53:13Okay, let's go.
00:53:13Are you ready for that?
00:53:14Yeah.
00:53:14Yeah, you are.
00:53:15Look at you thirsty bitches.
00:53:17Have a drink.
00:53:17You might need one.
00:53:18Alright, so I woke up and I said to David, I'm just not feeling myself today.
00:53:23And I felt emotional and I said, it's got nothing to do with you.
00:53:27We had some breathing space for the day, okay?
00:53:30We got back together in the afternoon.
00:53:32We had a debrief.
00:53:33And what he said, you're going to die.
00:53:35Sorry, girls.
00:53:37He said I was a bit of a drama queen.
00:53:40Yeah.
00:53:41Yeah.
00:53:46Like, this is literally what I came in for.
00:53:48And he's like.
00:53:49Yeah, but have you guys had sex?
00:53:51Have you had sex or anything?
00:53:52Yes, we've had sex.
00:53:53Oh, okay.
00:53:54We had sex.
00:53:55Like, and it was hot and it was just, it was natural for us.
00:53:58We hear from our husbands.
00:53:59We hear from our husbands.
00:54:00At the box, your husband was saying that he is not having sex throughout this whole situation.
00:54:06Blah, blah, blah, I'm not having sex.
00:54:08End of.
00:54:10We both made a pact.
00:54:11We wanted connection.
00:54:12And when it felt right.
00:54:13And for us, that was our moment.
00:54:15That felt right.
00:54:16And it was amazing.
00:54:17And I don't go you.
00:54:20Because I will say, I think it's a fake showmance.
00:54:22100% agree.
00:54:24I'm sorry.
00:54:25Got to agree.
00:54:26What do you mean?
00:54:27Be real, guys.
00:54:28Like, do you agree?
00:54:31Stop with the facade, though.
00:54:33No.
00:54:34I was thinking.
00:54:35I was like, surely this is too good to be true after the dinner party.
00:54:38I thought it was bullshit.
00:54:39Yeah.
00:54:39I did.
00:54:40Yeah.
00:54:42I thought it was bullshit.
00:54:43Yeah, I agree.
00:54:44I agree.
00:54:44I didn't think it was bullshit.
00:54:46I didn't think it.
00:54:47I didn't think it.
00:54:54I did not get that.
00:54:59I did not get that.
00:55:00I did not get that.
00:55:01I did not get that.
00:55:01I did not get that at all.
00:55:04That hurt my heart, hey?
00:55:06Calling her fake.
00:55:07Her relationship was for show.
00:55:10I didn't get that at all.
00:55:11I was sitting next to them at the dinner party.
00:55:14We were talking.
00:55:15And I think Alyssa and Dave's relationship is, it's a true love story.
00:55:20And I think they're both lucky to have it.
00:55:22It's like it's an experiment.
00:55:23We're going through a lot.
00:55:24She was faking it.
00:55:25Yes.
00:55:27I have a different experience of you with you, Alyssa.
00:55:30Okay.
00:55:30And I just want to let you know that like, yeah, you came into the hands.
00:55:33And you had presents.
00:55:34And like, I'll be honest, I found it quite intimidating.
00:55:37Oh.
00:55:37But I didn't get to speak to you at all.
00:55:39I know.
00:55:39As soon as I came into that dinner party, you grabbed me.
00:55:42You sat down.
00:55:43And we had a conversation.
00:55:45And Steve and I didn't have a great honeymoon.
00:55:47And you instantly put me at ease.
00:55:49You instantly showed me kindness.
00:55:52You gave me what I needed.
00:55:55So please don't, like, get out of here thinking that everyone's thinking that.
00:55:58I just think you're a beautiful human.
00:56:02Look, I will say that Alyssa, initial judgement is like, oh, okay.
00:56:06Maybe it's just a performance, you know.
00:56:08But it's just the way she speaks.
00:56:10It's just who she is.
00:56:12I know.
00:56:12And I'm not fake bitches.
00:56:16I thought I was allowed one today.
00:56:18I know.
00:56:19Apparently not.
00:56:22So, I feel like Brooke and Gia did come on a little bit hard on me.
00:56:27Maybe, I don't know, I've upset them in some sort of way.
00:56:30Maybe I'm too loud for them.
00:56:32But it is me.
00:56:35It's not all rainbows and butterflies and I'm f***ing over it.
00:56:38I think that Alyssa's the actual call.
00:56:40And I think she sugarcoats everything.
00:56:42And I think that relationship's fake.
00:56:43And I don't trust Alyssa.
00:56:46That's it.
00:56:54The red flag, green flag task is coming to a close.
00:56:58All right, Mel, let's go!
00:57:00Let's go!
00:57:00And it's time for our final couple to flag the successors
00:57:04and any issues they have in their relationship.
00:57:11I'll start with green flags.
00:57:14Mel does have that capacity to be empathetic, caring,
00:57:18that kind of nature.
00:57:21I feel like she can have a very pleasant and sweet kind of aura
00:57:25about it.
00:57:26And I feel like that's nice.
00:57:30Red flags.
00:57:41Yeah, I don't know what to say for the red flags.
00:57:48I feel like you're holding back from something.
00:57:50Just be yourself.
00:57:51Just say it.
00:57:52Yeah.
00:57:56It's been tough.
00:57:59I feel like I've really tried to make it work.
00:58:02And, like, I've just gotten absolutely nowhere.
00:58:06That's been, like, just a really tough pill to swallow.
00:58:10Exhausting, yeah?
00:58:10Yeah, exhausting.
00:58:11And I feel like she's just been pushing me away from day dot,
00:58:15which, like, sucks.
00:58:17That's tough.
00:58:18I'm just in this position where, like, I'm trying to make it work
00:58:21and I'm just getting, like, blanked out.
00:58:23Like, I don't even exist.
00:58:26I would imagine you must feel so alone.
00:58:29Oh, mate.
00:58:31Even, like, Mel's body language towards me.
00:58:33Like, I've...
00:58:34I noticed Mel at the dinner party
00:58:36and I've noticed her, like, dealing with anyone else except for me.
00:58:39She's very, like, cold to me.
00:58:42I mean, you'd think that she'd be giving the best energy to me
00:58:46because, like, we're in this together.
00:58:47Yeah.
00:58:48But for whatever reason it is, like, I haven't received any of that.
00:58:53So how can I believe that she's trying?
00:58:56Oh, mate, I don't...
00:58:57You can't.
00:58:57That's horrible.
00:59:00I really feel for Luke because you can tell that he's a broken man
00:59:04and you can literally feel the pain coming out of him.
00:59:08I feel like my confidence has just been, you know...
00:59:11That's one thing.
00:59:12That's one thing I wanted to say.
00:59:14It's like, when I met you at the Bucks party, I was like,
00:59:16this bloke, he's got that swagger.
00:59:18You know what I mean?
00:59:18And I said, if I was a woman, I'd be looking for a bloke like Luke.
00:59:22Like, he's built, he's handsome, he's a farmer.
00:59:25I sound like I'm hitting on him.
00:59:31At least we know your type.
00:59:34Seeing you at the dinner party, I've never seen, like,
00:59:37someone take a hit like that.
00:59:39Like, it's like you've been smacked to the chin.
00:59:40Don't let it take away, like, that thing what makes you you.
00:59:44Yeah.
00:59:45Do you know what you mean?
00:59:45I appreciate it.
00:59:47Luke's obviously in a tough spot.
00:59:49It's pretty brutal.
00:59:52He...yeah, he looks defeated.
00:59:55And I'm in a position now where, like,
00:59:57I genuinely feel like I can't trust her, so, like...
01:00:01That's tough.
01:00:03I can see he's really hurting.
01:00:05He's a really emotionally in-tune guy.
01:00:07It's really unfortunate for him that his partner's not willing to open up.
01:00:11And, you know, how does she know that this guy's in the one for her
01:00:14when she's not actually opening up to him?
01:00:24Unfortunately,
01:00:27where we are at now,
01:00:29there is no green flags.
01:00:32None?
01:00:33None.
01:00:35Oh.
01:00:38Let's go to the reds.
01:00:40Don't pressure yourself.
01:00:43He's, um, red flags.
01:00:45Because I don't have feelings with him,
01:00:47he's made my life a living hell.
01:00:49Oh, my God.
01:00:50He's trying to be malicious to me.
01:00:52Like, every chance he gets...
01:00:55Can I have a say?
01:00:57Yeah.
01:00:58I think he's not here for the right reasons.
01:01:01Oh!
01:01:04He's there telling his sisters all this drama,
01:01:07and they're going online and slandering Mel.
01:01:10What?
01:01:11Was this in comment?
01:01:12I don't know any of this.
01:01:13This is his new home.
01:01:15It was hard for me to read comments about myself
01:01:17from his friends and family on social media.
01:01:19And I think that if he could have a voodoo doll of me,
01:01:22he would.
01:01:23Luke's constantly told me,
01:01:25you're not easygoing,
01:01:26you're uptight,
01:01:27you're regimented.
01:01:28Wait.
01:01:29What?
01:01:30Another red flag is when he doesn't like what I've said
01:01:34or the energy in the apartment.
01:01:35He sulks lying face first on the bed.
01:01:38Whoa.
01:01:39That is a lot to digest.
01:01:41Yeah, that was a lot.
01:01:43He hates me so much that he's trying to find any reason
01:01:47just to be mean,
01:01:49but the only thing I've done is not have feelings for him back.
01:01:52He doesn't hate you, honey.
01:01:54No.
01:01:55His ego is so bruised that he has to bring you down now
01:01:58to make himself, like, compensate for that.
01:02:00100%.
01:02:02I don't know about what I heard.
01:02:04Like, Mel is really sweet.
01:02:06But then hearing her say that Luke is quite rude to her
01:02:09behind closed doors,
01:02:10I don't know whether I'm buying that, to be honest.
01:02:14The Luke I know
01:02:15and that I've sort of got to know at the dinner party,
01:02:17he seems really lovely.
01:02:20So...
01:02:23I don't know.
01:02:23I don't know.
01:02:24It's not sitting well with me.
01:02:26I feel like you were a bit salty at the start
01:02:30and he's obviously salty now because, you know,
01:02:32vice versa.
01:02:33It's gone both ways.
01:02:35There's a rejection ping-pong.
01:02:36You got hurt.
01:02:37He got hurt.
01:02:38And you don't know how to deal with that.
01:02:40Yeah.
01:02:41Obviously, I'm looking out for my girl
01:02:42because I've got your back.
01:02:43No, no.
01:02:44You're acting like you're on the man's side
01:02:45and fucked up where girls go.
01:02:47No, no, no.
01:02:47We heard shit.
01:02:48I'm not.
01:02:48I'm literally saying...
01:02:49It doesn't matter.
01:02:51It doesn't matter.
01:02:51Girls, girls, boys, boys.
01:02:52There's humans.
01:02:55Because the relationship is 50-50 love.
01:02:58No.
01:02:59It's not a 50-50.
01:03:00We need both of you speaking at the same time.
01:03:04Get all the facts first.
01:03:06No.
01:03:06No.
01:03:07No.
01:03:07No.
01:03:08No.
01:03:10There's always two sides of the story.
01:03:13Let's just not bash each other.
01:03:16Just wait until you speak in front of each other,
01:03:19in front of everyone else,
01:03:20and keep each other accountable.
01:03:22Babe, the thing with him is,
01:03:24you need to stand up for yourself, babe,
01:03:26and do not sit there and let this boy tear you down.
01:03:30You need to bring this shit up at the commitment ceremony
01:03:32because we need to all, like, we got you.
01:03:35It's like, what if you lie?
01:03:36He'll be called out.
01:03:38If this is just a rejection wound,
01:03:39then he'll be called out on that.
01:03:41We got you.
01:03:42We got you.
01:03:43We got you.
01:03:44We got you.
01:03:45We got you.
01:03:48I am so happy and so appreciative
01:03:52to have the support of the other brides.
01:03:54You got this, babe.
01:03:56But I feel like what Stella said to me was really unfair.
01:04:00She told me that, you know, every situation is 50-50.
01:04:03Oh, back to you.
01:04:04No, we will back to you.
01:04:06I didn't feel like Stella had my back in that situation.
01:04:09OK, so, guys, it's been great.
01:04:11I'm out.
01:04:12All right, let's go.
01:04:13Back to our husband.
01:04:14I'm taking that photo.
01:04:16Can I just say, Mel has something to say.
01:04:21Stella, for every other woman here,
01:04:22you were on their side.
01:04:24But I was the only one that you said,
01:04:27you have to go 50-50.
01:04:28There's two sides to every story.
01:04:30Always, babe.
01:04:31But you didn't say that to anybody else.
01:04:45Stella, for every other woman here,
01:04:47you were on their side.
01:04:49But I was the only one that you said,
01:04:52you have to go 50-50.
01:04:53There's two sides to every story.
01:04:55Always, babe.
01:04:56But you didn't say that to anybody else.
01:04:57Oh, my God.
01:05:02I said, no, you didn't.
01:05:04OK.
01:05:05I saw the same thing.
01:05:06We all backed Mel,
01:05:07and you were kind of trying to, like,
01:05:09take the guy's side and, like,
01:05:10let's see both sides.
01:05:12I don't think it's valid,
01:05:13but I'll take it on board.
01:05:18Gia and I can vouch for this.
01:05:19We're girls, girls.
01:05:20Yeah, same.
01:05:21You were very women, women, women.
01:05:23Yeah.
01:05:23And then it was Mel.
01:05:25Yeah.
01:05:25And that's how Mel felt.
01:05:27I didn't really support it.
01:05:29I didn't really support it.
01:05:30Stella is a girl that, like,
01:05:32backs men more than she does women,
01:05:33and it's really gross.
01:05:35She didn't back Mel,
01:05:36which made me feel yuck.
01:05:38We get it.
01:05:39You don't have friends.
01:05:40We get that girls don't like you.
01:05:41You don't need to, like, scream it.
01:05:42Like, it's very obvious.
01:05:43So let's validate Mel.
01:05:45Yes.
01:05:46OK, I apologise, Mel.
01:05:47Look, I apologise, Mel.
01:05:49I didn't even realise.
01:05:51Did you realise that?
01:05:52I do have a man problem.
01:05:53I thought she was quite diplomatic with everyone.
01:05:55No, she wasn't.
01:05:58I'm a girl's girl.
01:06:00Trust me, I'm a girl's girl.
01:06:02And I think you can see
01:06:04who actually has each other's backs.
01:06:07I'm iffy about Stella.
01:06:08I smell a f***ing fish.
01:06:11I don't trust her.
01:06:13But you're also someone that, I think,
01:06:16you are like,
01:06:16OK, there's no red flags for my husband.
01:06:19But your husband is also one of the,
01:06:21one guys here that has a YouTube channel
01:06:23trying to promote himself,
01:06:24but you're saying he's here for the right reasons.
01:06:26100%.
01:06:29Look, again, everyone's perception, right?
01:06:32Everyone's opinions are valid.
01:06:33And I apologise if you actually felt that way.
01:06:36Look, I really genuinely apologise
01:06:38if you felt that way, babe.
01:06:39I really do.
01:06:40I really do.
01:06:42Yeah, yeah.
01:06:43I really do apologise if I made you feel that way.
01:06:45Like, it's not my intention.
01:06:46I do truly believe in any relationship.
01:06:48There's always 50-50.
01:06:49Yeah.
01:06:49And, you know, all of you.
01:06:53I'm not gonna lie, I felt a little bit attacked.
01:06:55But I truly, deeply, like, apologise.
01:06:59Mel really felt unsupported
01:07:01because that's definitely not my intention.
01:07:04I don't personally agree with girls, girls,
01:07:07or boys, boy concept in general.
01:07:10Like, I just don't agree with that.
01:07:13I was definitely holding space for both Luke and Mel.
01:07:18It just felt like Mel was saying, Luke did that, Luke did that, Luke did that, Luke did that.
01:07:23And I'm like, but there's two people.
01:07:25It's always two people, you know?
01:07:27I do yoga and I just...
01:07:28It's just so unfair and unballaged just to bash Kim.
01:07:32It's always, always these sides of a story.
01:07:35Hi!
01:07:35Whoo!
01:07:36That was good.
01:07:37I needed to vent.
01:07:38I was sick of being nice, girl.
01:07:40You were...
01:07:41You owned it today.
01:07:43I can say this whole experiment so far,
01:07:46I've been so true to myself and saying what I actually feel
01:07:50because I don't care anymore.
01:07:52And this is the thing.
01:07:53I was all for caring about what people thought
01:07:56and I've just thought, you know what?
01:07:58People love me for me and I'm my trueness self
01:08:02because I just see so much fakeness going around and I'm over it.
01:08:07And now, I feel like I'm on fire.
01:08:13Sunday night.
01:08:16Who will stay and who will leave?
01:08:19At the very first commitment ceremony of the experiment.
01:08:24How's it going?
01:08:25Very happy.
01:08:27Nothing but progress.
01:08:28Steve's positive spin leaves everyone confused.
01:08:32Nothing wrong, connection, everything.
01:08:34But the experts aren't buying it.
01:08:36What's going on for you, Rebecca?
01:08:40Mel has delivered some tough love.
01:08:42You need a wake-up call.
01:08:45Hi!
01:08:46I really like Steven.
01:08:49You are so special.
01:08:50Romantic connections will be celebrated.
01:08:53Things are fantastic.
01:08:55Yeah, we're going great.
01:08:56I'm fully into her, like I'm kissing her all the time.
01:08:58You think he could be a soulmate for you?
01:09:01If we're heading the way we're heading, yes.
01:09:04But I feel like not everyone likes your happiness.
01:09:09Brooke lashes out.
01:09:11You can't blame me for that.
01:09:13Get me out of here.
01:09:14No one cares.
01:09:15We'll just bring it back down.
01:09:16Derailing the entire commitment ceremony.
01:09:21She's a fool.
01:09:23Bend off.
01:09:24I want to see that go again.
01:09:28I'll see you in the next video.
01:09:29I want to see you in the next video.
01:09:31I wish I could a show of you.
01:09:32I wish you had a show of you.
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