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Married At First Sight Au - Season 13 Episode 26
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00:06:18So have you fallen in love with him?
00:06:21I'm not saying that, John.
00:06:23What are you waiting for?
00:06:24Him.
00:06:26Yeah, because I feel like he knows where I'm at
00:06:29and I need him to say it first, to be honest.
00:06:35For me, like, I don't know what it is.
00:06:36Like, I don't know whether I'm scared or it's fear.
00:06:39I don't know what it is.
00:06:43And when Scott returned home from the commitment ceremony last night,
00:06:47Gia revealed her feelings to him.
00:06:50Right now, I'm a bit numb, confused.
00:06:57Don't know how I feel.
00:06:58I don't know.
00:07:00Because, like, Gia's a beautiful person
00:07:03and I like her so damn much.
00:07:05I thought her relationship is on a really good level
00:07:08and I just, oh, I don't know what more to give
00:07:12to show that I care about her
00:07:13and that I'm in this experience for her.
00:07:15Like,
00:07:18I'll be honest, I feel like
00:07:21you just don't realise
00:07:24how much I really like you.
00:07:27I feel gross that I feel
00:07:29more than you do
00:07:30and it's just made me feel a bit, um,
00:07:34stupid, to be honest.
00:07:35Do you hear what you're saying, Gia?
00:07:37This is how I feel, yeah.
00:07:38You feel stupid that you liked me
00:07:40more than I like you.
00:07:41Can't you just let me
00:07:43go at my own pace?
00:07:44I don't want to look like I'm
00:07:47too in and someone isn't.
00:07:50So, no.
00:07:51Like, you need to come,
00:07:52you need to come step up as well.
00:07:55Um, I don't want to
00:07:56get to final vows
00:07:58feeling this way about someone
00:07:59and you say,
00:08:00oh, you're my soulmate.
00:08:01Oh, yeah, I'm falling in love with you for weeks
00:08:03and then you don't get there.
00:08:04then, to me,
00:08:05it feels like you played me a bit.
00:08:07Okay.
00:08:08This is the problem.
00:08:09That's what it sounds like.
00:08:11That's how I'm interpreting it.
00:08:12What makes you feel like I'm playing you
00:08:13when every single day
00:08:15you and I sit down
00:08:16and we plan our future
00:08:17outside this experiment?
00:08:18We've been looking on properties
00:08:20to rent together.
00:08:21We've been looking at
00:08:22what we're going to do
00:08:22with your daughter,
00:08:22putting you in school.
00:08:23Does that not show commitment
00:08:24to the relationship, Gia?
00:08:26I need to say I love you.
00:08:28That's what you're telling me.
00:08:29I'm getting so pressured right now
00:08:31in this environment.
00:08:31I'm not pressuring you.
00:08:32You are.
00:08:33No, I don't want you to do it.
00:08:34to say it anymore, Scott.
00:08:37I'm not going to sit here
00:08:38and beg for love.
00:08:39I'm not that person.
00:08:40I'm never going to be
00:08:40that kind of girl.
00:08:41I'm sorry.
00:08:43I'm just not like that.
00:08:45I can't be in love
00:08:46with someone
00:08:46who's not in love with me.
00:08:47That's just not going to happen.
00:08:49And if he feels like
00:08:50he's blindsided by that,
00:08:51so be it.
00:08:52If you're not in love, buddy,
00:08:53just say it.
00:08:55Just say it's you, darling.
00:08:57I don't...
00:08:58I'm not in love with you.
00:08:59I'm not going to respond
00:09:00to the way you're talking
00:09:01to me right now.
00:09:01You don't need to blame...
00:09:04Listen to how you're
00:09:05talking to me.
00:09:06It is what it is.
00:09:08Just f***ing
00:09:08don't understand any way.
00:09:11At the end of the day,
00:09:12I've got to protect myself,
00:09:13and if you're not there,
00:09:14then I'm leaving.
00:09:16anyways,
00:09:17I'm going to go for a walk.
00:09:41I don't know.
00:09:42It makes me emotional
00:09:44to think
00:09:44that this can really
00:09:45tear apart
00:09:46very quickly.
00:09:49Like,
00:09:49why not just
00:09:50let me take my time
00:09:52because I'm falling,
00:09:53but this stuff
00:09:53doesn't make me fall.
00:09:55It makes me concerned.
00:09:56It makes me
00:09:57retract.
00:09:58It makes me doubt.
00:09:59It makes me fear.
00:10:05Does not make sense.
00:10:06I'm so
00:10:07freaking confused.
00:10:09I'm so confused.
00:10:11I'm so confused.
00:10:12I don't know
00:10:13what to do anymore.
00:10:16Meanwhile,
00:10:18our other couples
00:10:19are still shocked
00:10:20by Juliet's revelation
00:10:22of the text
00:10:23sent by Beck.
00:10:24These bloody text messages,
00:10:26they've
00:10:26caught everyone
00:10:27by surprise.
00:10:28I think Gia
00:10:29just always
00:10:29keeps pushing
00:10:30about how she's
00:10:31out of the drama.
00:10:32Keeps making a point
00:10:33that she's so over it.
00:10:34I couldn't believe
00:10:35I was really
00:10:35taken aback
00:10:36by all of that.
00:10:37We've got a plethora
00:10:38of words
00:10:39in the English language.
00:10:41There's no use
00:10:42to use nasty ones
00:10:43to express
00:10:43how you're feeling.
00:10:47But down the hall,
00:10:49Beck is squarely
00:10:50laying the blame
00:10:51on Gia.
00:10:53Gia went to
00:10:54the effort
00:10:55of this week
00:10:55sending
00:10:56a screenshot
00:10:58of that group chat
00:10:59to Juliet.
00:11:01She's a vicious,
00:11:01vicious,
00:11:02vile little cow.
00:11:03Earlier on
00:11:04in this experiment,
00:11:05I was expressing
00:11:06my frustration
00:11:07to people
00:11:08I thought
00:11:08were my friends,
00:11:10but the texts
00:11:11aren't relevant.
00:11:13The problem is Gia.
00:11:14You're the one
00:11:15that's instigated it.
00:11:15You're the one
00:11:16that sent them.
00:11:17She takes no accountability
00:11:18for her actions.
00:11:19She actually,
00:11:20I believe that she doesn't
00:11:21actually even think
00:11:21that she's done
00:11:22anything wrong.
00:11:23Must be hard
00:11:23living in a brain
00:11:24like that
00:11:25because she
00:11:25is vicious.
00:11:27It's a pretty
00:11:28sad state of affair.
00:11:29She's got a lot
00:11:30of work to do
00:11:30on herself.
00:11:31A, it's irrelevant
00:11:33and B,
00:11:34it's Gia.
00:11:35She's the engine
00:11:36room of all the drama.
00:11:37When someone
00:11:38shows you
00:11:38who they really are,
00:11:39you've got to
00:11:39believe them.
00:11:41But unbeknownst
00:11:42to Beck,
00:11:44Alyssa has received
00:11:45the screenshots
00:11:46of her text messages.
00:11:49I can understand
00:11:50why Gia felt
00:11:51the need to
00:11:51tell me why
00:11:53she sent
00:11:54these messages
00:11:54to Juliet
00:11:55to discuss
00:11:56them on the couch
00:11:57because, yeah,
00:11:58I didn't realise
00:11:58how bad they were.
00:12:03Beck said,
00:12:05Alyssa is going
00:12:05down.
00:12:06Rat bitch
00:12:07with her rat
00:12:07husband.
00:12:11I'm going to go
00:12:12so hard on
00:12:14Alyssa
00:12:14and her fake
00:12:15relationship.
00:12:16You know what?
00:12:18Alyssa probably
00:12:19isn't a bad girl
00:12:20but her head
00:12:21is so far up
00:12:22her asshole
00:12:23she doesn't
00:12:24even realise
00:12:25what a
00:12:26she actually is.
00:12:30I'm sorry.
00:12:31This is like...
00:12:33It's just absolutely
00:12:35nice.
00:12:36Um...
00:12:37Anyways...
00:12:38It gets worse.
00:12:42Beck then goes on
00:12:43to say...
00:12:44the only fake
00:12:46in this place
00:12:47are those
00:12:48two
00:12:50influencer
00:12:50wannabe
00:12:52wow.
00:12:55still to come...
00:12:59the next critical
00:13:00phase of the
00:13:01experiment begins.
00:13:03Oh, no.
00:13:04You ready?
00:13:04Yeah.
00:13:05Hit me.
00:13:06It's feedback week.
00:13:07Oh, yes!
00:13:09So glad it's you.
00:13:11How do you think
00:13:12I approach
00:13:12this with Chris?
00:13:15So...
00:13:16Do you think
00:13:16like this would
00:13:17be an ongoing
00:13:17problem?
00:13:18If she can't
00:13:19manage her emotions...
00:13:20I know.
00:13:21How will the
00:13:21couples handle
00:13:22receiving raw
00:13:23unfiltered
00:13:24feedback from
00:13:25their peers?
00:13:26I don't really
00:13:27care what
00:13:27anyone's feedback
00:13:28is.
00:13:29There's no one
00:13:29here's relationship
00:13:30that I want to
00:13:30copy.
00:13:31I'm not joking.
00:13:32This experiment
00:13:33is fortune.
00:13:34Is Gia about
00:13:35to pull the pin
00:13:36on the entire
00:13:37experiment?
00:13:39And then...
00:13:41I did not
00:13:42want to see
00:13:42Beck today.
00:13:43What happens
00:13:44when Beck
00:13:45comes face-to-face
00:13:46with David
00:13:47after those
00:13:48text messages?
00:13:49The comments
00:13:50were vile,
00:13:51disgusting,
00:13:52like mean
00:13:52and vicious.
00:13:53But how do
00:13:53you know
00:13:54what they were?
00:13:55We've seen
00:13:56them.
00:14:06Our couples
00:14:07are about to
00:14:07embark on one
00:14:08of the most
00:14:09important phases
00:14:10of the experiment.
00:14:12Feedback week.
00:14:13And this year
00:14:15it's starting
00:14:16with a surprise.
00:14:19Yay!
00:14:24Chris and Sam.
00:14:26You ready?
00:14:26Yeah.
00:14:27You look nervous.
00:14:27I am a little bit
00:14:28nervous.
00:14:29Okay.
00:14:30Oh,
00:14:32hit me.
00:14:33As you know,
00:14:34the experiment is
00:14:35entering its final
00:14:36weeks.
00:14:36However,
00:14:37being with your
00:14:37partner day in
00:14:38and day out
00:14:39can make it
00:14:39tough to have
00:14:40a clear perspective
00:14:41on how your
00:14:41relationship is
00:14:42tracking and
00:14:43what you need
00:14:44to work on.
00:14:44Sometimes you
00:14:45need to step
00:14:46back and see
00:14:47things from a
00:14:48different angle.
00:14:49So today,
00:14:50you will part ways
00:14:51with each other
00:14:52for a few hours
00:14:52as you meet
00:14:53with another
00:14:53participant in
00:14:54the experiment
00:14:55to seek advice
00:14:56and feedback
00:14:56from someone
00:14:57who has been
00:14:57observing your
00:14:58relationship
00:14:59from afar.
00:15:00No!
00:15:01God.
00:15:02Whilst one of
00:15:03the most
00:15:03controversial tasks
00:15:04of Feedback Week,
00:15:06the partner swap
00:15:07allows couples
00:15:08to gain an
00:15:08outside perspective
00:15:09on their
00:15:10relationships.
00:15:11Participants will
00:15:12be hearing
00:15:12invaluable advice,
00:15:14potentially giving
00:15:15them the clarity
00:15:16they need to
00:15:17progress the
00:15:18relationship
00:15:18outside the
00:15:19experiment.
00:15:20Yes, you
00:15:21manifested
00:15:21and your new
00:15:21wife.
00:15:23It's only for
00:15:24today.
00:15:24Well, who's
00:15:24going where?
00:15:25Who's meeting
00:15:26more?
00:15:26Who are they
00:15:27putting us
00:15:27with?
00:15:28I need to
00:15:28know.
00:15:29This year,
00:15:30the participants
00:15:31won't know who
00:15:32they are meeting
00:15:32in the experiment
00:15:33at the partner
00:15:34swap.
00:15:34We wanted to
00:15:35create an
00:15:36environment that
00:15:37was real and
00:15:38raw, without
00:15:39any time to
00:15:40think about what
00:15:40they wanted to
00:15:41say or feedback
00:15:42they claimed to
00:15:43give.
00:15:44Instead, giving
00:15:45invaluable
00:15:46perspectives in
00:15:47the moment.
00:15:48I'm shitting
00:15:49myself.
00:15:50Hey.
00:15:52You know
00:15:52what?
00:15:52I'm actually
00:15:53really excited.
00:15:54Maybe you
00:15:54might be the
00:15:55difference,
00:15:55Stella, to
00:15:55make someone
00:15:57open their
00:15:58eyes in a
00:15:58certain way
00:15:59that they
00:15:59haven't really
00:16:00seen their
00:16:00partner.
00:16:00Yeah.
00:16:01It'd be good.
00:16:02I don't want
00:16:02to offend
00:16:02anyone.
00:16:03That's the
00:16:03thing.
00:16:04I feel like
00:16:05I'm...
00:16:05The chance
00:16:06to speak to
00:16:07another
00:16:07participant for
00:16:08feedback is a
00:16:09welcome surprise.
00:16:11I feel like
00:16:12if it was a
00:16:12few hours, it
00:16:13wouldn't be very
00:16:13daunting to
00:16:14anyone.
00:16:14Yeah.
00:16:16And I feel
00:16:16like it'd be
00:16:17good to get
00:16:18more like a
00:16:19non-biased
00:16:20opinion.
00:16:21this partner
00:16:22swap task
00:16:23couldn't have
00:16:23come at a
00:16:24better time.
00:16:25Chris and I
00:16:25are in a good
00:16:26spot and like
00:16:27things are going
00:16:27well, but I'm
00:16:29going to be
00:16:29honest, at the
00:16:30commitment ceremony
00:16:30Chris said some
00:16:31things that
00:16:32blindsided me a
00:16:33little bit.
00:16:34Are you starting
00:16:35to think about
00:16:36life outside the
00:16:38experiment?
00:16:38I think what it
00:16:39would probably look
00:16:39like is just like
00:16:40say we go well,
00:16:41everything ticks the
00:16:42boxes, we'd have a
00:16:43place in Sydney, so
00:16:44he'd go to Sydney,
00:16:45I would stay
00:16:46primarily at the
00:16:47farm and then
00:16:48maybe we can float
00:16:48back and forth for a
00:16:49bit from Sydney to
00:16:50the farm.
00:16:51Someone's been
00:16:51thinking about this
00:16:52in quite a bit of
00:16:53detail.
00:16:54I think that's what
00:16:55it would look like.
00:16:57That was the first
00:16:58time I heard that
00:16:59plan and it makes
00:17:01me feel like maybe
00:17:02I'm not really being
00:17:03heard nor have I
00:17:04really maybe had a
00:17:05voice in how it's
00:17:06going to work after
00:17:06the experiment, which
00:17:07is a bit of a
00:17:08concern for me.
00:17:09So it'll be nice to
00:17:11just talk honestly
00:17:12with someone about
00:17:13this today and get a
00:17:15third party opinion
00:17:16on what we should
00:17:18how we should tackle
00:17:18these big topics.
00:17:21Cool.
00:17:22All right.
00:17:22Well, I'm going to
00:17:23go.
00:17:24Have fun.
00:17:26Don't talk too
00:17:26much smack about
00:17:27me.
00:17:27I will.
00:17:29Absolute trash.
00:17:31For Gia and
00:17:32Scott, the mood is
00:17:34tense as they receive
00:17:36the partner swap
00:17:36task.
00:17:39After they argued
00:17:40over the progression
00:17:41of their feelings.
00:17:43Oh, God.
00:17:47Yeah, today it's
00:17:48just flat.
00:17:49OK.
00:17:51We didn't really go
00:17:52into discussion after
00:17:54that argument.
00:17:55I just let Gia cool
00:17:57off and get herself
00:18:00back together.
00:18:02But it hurts.
00:18:06Because she doesn't
00:18:08realise how much I
00:18:09really like her.
00:18:11like we're looking
00:18:12at places already
00:18:13houses to rent.
00:18:14I'm showing
00:18:15representing myself
00:18:15as a true father
00:18:16to a daughter.
00:18:18What more can I do
00:18:19to show how much
00:18:20I'm into someone?
00:18:21So, I don't know.
00:18:23I don't know what
00:18:24to do at the moment
00:18:25because all I can do
00:18:26is be here for her.
00:18:27That's all I can do.
00:18:30It's fun cobble swap.
00:18:33Can't believe we've
00:18:34got this today.
00:18:37Scott and I are not
00:18:38in a position to be
00:18:39accepting that.
00:18:41I don't see how that
00:18:43could be positive
00:18:44on our relationship.
00:18:45I don't think anyone
00:18:46has the ability
00:18:48to give someone
00:18:48some good constructive
00:18:49feedback either.
00:18:51I don't really care
00:18:53what anyone's feedback
00:18:54is.
00:18:54Like, there's no one,
00:18:56no one here's relationship
00:18:57that I want to copy.
00:18:58I need, like, answers
00:19:00on it.
00:19:01Like, like, literally who?
00:19:03Like, I need to know
00:19:04who it is.
00:19:05I need to know who.
00:19:06because if we had to do
00:19:07this with Bec and Danny,
00:19:09I don't want to do it.
00:19:10I'm not doing it.
00:19:12I don't even want to go
00:19:13get ready for it
00:19:14and do all that
00:19:14if it's someone
00:19:15that's wasting my time.
00:19:16To be honest,
00:19:17out of this,
00:19:19the couples left
00:19:20in the experiment,
00:19:21there's six couples
00:19:22including us.
00:19:24So,
00:19:26the majority of couples
00:19:27we get along with,
00:19:31if it's only a couple
00:19:32of hours,
00:19:32I don't see any harm.
00:19:33Well, it's a few hours.
00:19:35It's like three or four.
00:19:36It's not bad.
00:19:38Well, I just, like,
00:19:39don't feel the need
00:19:39of, like, getting ready
00:19:40to go and then
00:19:41ends up being someone
00:19:42I hate and just
00:19:42makes my,
00:19:43ruin my day.
00:19:45It's harmless.
00:19:47Yep.
00:19:47It is harmless.
00:19:49You're just giving
00:19:49each other feedback.
00:19:52I'm trying to support
00:19:53Gia,
00:19:54protect her,
00:19:54look after her,
00:19:55tell her I'm here
00:19:56every step of the way.
00:19:58But, like,
00:19:59I can see the purpose
00:20:00of this task
00:20:00because the only
00:20:02people that have
00:20:02really seen the
00:20:03relationship in this
00:20:04experience are the
00:20:05other participants
00:20:06and I wish Gia
00:20:07could understand
00:20:09don't look at
00:20:09negatives to outweigh
00:20:10the positives
00:20:11because we are
00:20:12going through
00:20:13some rough patches
00:20:14at the moment
00:20:14so they might
00:20:15give some feedback
00:20:16that could help
00:20:18us as a couple.
00:20:21Are we doing it?
00:20:22I think we should go.
00:20:25At least it's only a day.
00:20:27A few hours.
00:20:28A few hours,
00:20:28that's all right.
00:20:30All right.
00:20:33Let's go get ready.
00:20:38Down the hall,
00:20:40the partner swap task
00:20:41has arrived at a pivotal
00:20:42time for Bec and Danny
00:20:44as despite Bec's drama
00:20:46with the other brides,
00:20:47their commitment ceremony
00:20:49was revelatory
00:20:50for their relationship.
00:20:53So describe your feelings
00:20:55for him.
00:20:56Where are we at
00:20:57right now?
00:20:57Bec?
00:21:02F*** it.
00:21:03I love you.
00:21:04I love you.
00:21:11I don't even know
00:21:13what to say to that.
00:21:18but the prospect
00:21:19of receiving feedback
00:21:21from an outside
00:21:21perspective
00:21:22is still not
00:21:24sitting well
00:21:24with Bec.
00:21:27I'm nervous.
00:21:32just going to be open
00:21:34and honest.
00:21:35There's no way
00:21:36you can really
00:21:36approach it,
00:21:37is there?
00:21:38Do you know what I mean?
00:21:39Just go in there,
00:21:40be open and honest,
00:21:42have a good chat.
00:21:44The problem for me
00:21:45is the people here
00:21:46that I don't trust
00:21:47that I won't speak to,
00:21:48like I'll fluff around it
00:21:50and that's just
00:21:51the reality of it.
00:21:53No,
00:21:53I still think
00:21:54you should be honest.
00:21:54No way.
00:21:55Absolutely not.
00:21:56You think I'm going to
00:21:57go and sit with Scott
00:21:57and tell him truth?
00:21:59You're joking.
00:22:00You must be joking.
00:22:02True, but
00:22:03you're joking
00:22:03because all that does
00:22:04is get used against me.
00:22:06So no,
00:22:06I won't.
00:22:07Over my dead body
00:22:08am I going to be truthful?
00:22:10So what are you going to do?
00:22:11Just not tell him nothing?
00:22:12No,
00:22:13just lie.
00:22:14If I'm matched with Scott
00:22:16for this conversation,
00:22:17there's zero chance
00:22:19that I'm going to be honest
00:22:19with Scott.
00:22:20It's just the way it is.
00:22:22Sorry.
00:22:22Don't trust him.
00:22:24They use things against you
00:22:26when you've,
00:22:27you know,
00:22:28like,
00:22:29no.
00:22:29So,
00:22:30yeah.
00:22:32I can tell your energy's off.
00:22:35No,
00:22:35I'm not into it.
00:22:36Babe,
00:22:36relax.
00:22:37It's going to be all right.
00:22:38It's one of these tasks.
00:22:39and you've just got to roll with it.
00:22:41Come on.
00:22:42Stay positive.
00:22:43Daddy,
00:22:44tell me,
00:22:44how are you feeling
00:22:45about this task?
00:22:46I feel good.
00:22:47I feel calm
00:22:47and composed
00:22:48like always.
00:22:50Nothing ruffles my feathers.
00:22:52Do you know what you mean?
00:22:53Is there anyone
00:22:54that you're worried
00:22:54that it might be?
00:22:58Probably,
00:22:58I'd probably rather
00:22:59it not be Gia,
00:23:00but if it is,
00:23:01it's not going to bother me
00:23:02too much.
00:23:03I'll still roll up.
00:23:04She could probably
00:23:04actually give me
00:23:05some good advice
00:23:05to be honest.
00:23:07And I'll be brutally honest.
00:23:09today
00:23:10in the feedback
00:23:11that I'm given.
00:23:16Don't you stress about it.
00:23:18I am stressed about it.
00:23:19It's shitter for me
00:23:20than it is for you.
00:23:21No,
00:23:21it's not.
00:23:22Of course it is.
00:23:23Don't be silly.
00:23:24Of course it is.
00:23:25I'm over it.
00:23:29Can't be bothered.
00:23:32I need to go out
00:23:33and take a breather.
00:23:57What's happening to you?
00:24:01The thing that bothers me
00:24:02is like the idea
00:24:04of like,
00:24:05of like,
00:24:06my husband
00:24:07telling someone else
00:24:09things that he's worried
00:24:10about in our relationship.
00:24:12And who is that person?
00:24:15and compounding Beck's
00:24:17resistance to the task
00:24:18is Danny's lukewarm response
00:24:21to her admission
00:24:22of love last night.
00:24:24Do you know
00:24:24what else bothers me?
00:24:26Yesterday when he
00:24:28ummed and I
00:24:28that just killed me.
00:24:31That was just shit.
00:24:32Yeah.
00:24:34It's just a sense
00:24:35of rejection.
00:24:37I just,
00:24:38I just regret
00:24:39telling him
00:24:39that I loved him.
00:24:41I wish I didn't do that.
00:24:43He's got all the power
00:24:45in this relationship now.
00:24:47All of it.
00:24:54It's feedback week
00:24:56and our participants
00:24:57are meeting
00:24:58their anonymous matches
00:24:59for the partner swap.
00:25:00I'm so glad
00:25:01with you.
00:25:03Oh my God.
00:25:06Let's go.
00:25:07Oh yes.
00:25:09And after successfully
00:25:11convincing wife Gia
00:25:12to take part
00:25:13in the task
00:25:14Scott is on the way
00:25:15to his catch up
00:25:16for an outside perspective
00:25:18on his relationship.
00:25:19I'm always up
00:25:20for a challenge.
00:25:20I'm always up
00:25:21to hear what people
00:25:21have to say.
00:25:22Gia and I have only
00:25:24just started to have
00:25:24some problems
00:25:26and I'm just so confused.
00:25:28So this is a perfect time
00:25:30for some feedback
00:25:32um
00:25:33but at the moment
00:25:34all I'm thinking
00:25:35about is
00:25:36how I don't want
00:25:37to see back
00:25:37with Danny
00:25:40for both
00:25:40of mine and Gia's sake
00:25:42I'm more than happy
00:25:43to go with anyone
00:25:45but please
00:25:45don't let it be
00:25:46back with Danny.
00:25:59I was like
00:26:00this sounds cruel
00:26:01like if it's not
00:26:02back in Danny
00:26:03that's fine.
00:26:03Oh no.
00:26:04I would have been
00:26:05so uncomfortable
00:26:05I would have just
00:26:06walked out.
00:26:07Oh God.
00:26:07It's good that you're here.
00:26:08I know right
00:26:09but I
00:26:10cheers.
00:26:11Release.
00:26:11Cheers.
00:26:12I'm like
00:26:12that's a weight
00:26:13off my shoulder.
00:26:14Oh you poor thing.
00:26:15My reaction
00:26:15to having Stella
00:26:16I'm quite happy
00:26:17with that.
00:26:18How are you?
00:26:19I'm good now.
00:26:20I was like
00:26:20far out.
00:26:21Yeah.
00:26:22I've got a pretty
00:26:22good relationship
00:26:23with Stella
00:26:23she's always good
00:26:24to talk to
00:26:25she's pretty
00:26:25calm and collective
00:26:26and there's no doubt
00:26:27about it
00:26:28that Philip
00:26:28and Stella
00:26:29share something
00:26:29really special.
00:26:31You know
00:26:32their maturity
00:26:33the way they
00:26:33work through
00:26:34tough times.
00:26:35I really admire
00:26:36it so
00:26:37maybe she'll
00:26:39get some
00:26:39good insights
00:26:40about my
00:26:41relationship
00:26:41and vice versa.
00:26:44How are we
00:26:45feeling?
00:26:46We're going to
00:26:46start.
00:26:47Seeing Scott
00:26:48was great.
00:26:49He has a lot
00:26:50of great qualities
00:26:52that you would
00:26:52want in a man
00:26:53in a friend.
00:26:54You know
00:26:55knowing that
00:26:55Phil and Scott
00:26:56also have some
00:26:57sort of relationship
00:26:58is also reassuring
00:26:59because I can
00:26:59trust his opinion
00:27:01as well
00:27:01and I do
00:27:03want to give
00:27:04as best as
00:27:04advice as I
00:27:05can feel I
00:27:05can give
00:27:06to him
00:27:07as a person.
00:27:09So like I
00:27:10guess just
00:27:10where are you
00:27:12and Philip
00:27:12at?
00:27:13So you guys
00:27:13are good now
00:27:13like you guys
00:27:14have since
00:27:15the couch.
00:27:16We talked
00:27:16about it
00:27:17like let's
00:27:17put you
00:27:18know what's
00:27:18in the past
00:27:19you know
00:27:20whatever
00:27:21but it's
00:27:21hard because
00:27:22every time
00:27:23he says I
00:27:23love you
00:27:23I was like
00:27:24really?
00:27:24Like I'm
00:27:25questioning it
00:27:26like it's
00:27:27just something
00:27:27again from
00:27:28the past
00:27:28that's coming
00:27:29in my mind
00:27:30so will he
00:27:31have enough
00:27:31patience
00:27:32you know
00:27:32with me
00:27:32working through
00:27:33the old
00:27:34fears.
00:27:34It's just
00:27:35something where
00:27:35like you guys
00:27:36communicate.
00:27:37Yeah we do
00:27:37we do communicate
00:27:38so well.
00:27:39Yeah so like
00:27:39he's very calm
00:27:40and understanding
00:27:41and he's not the
00:27:41type to just be
00:27:42aggressive.
00:27:43He's in love with
00:27:44the person you
00:27:44are so I think
00:27:46he has patience.
00:27:47Yeah I think he's
00:27:48that's just him
00:27:48being able to accept
00:27:49these moments
00:27:50that you have
00:27:50and him
00:27:51understanding
00:27:52when you
00:27:52retract it
00:27:53it's just
00:27:53for a moment
00:27:54and for him
00:27:54to not run
00:27:55away.
00:27:55Yeah it's
00:27:56good to see
00:27:57that manly
00:27:58perspective
00:27:58and good
00:27:59to confirm
00:28:00that okay
00:28:01I can relax.
00:28:02He's good.
00:28:03Yeah he's good
00:28:04he's amazing.
00:28:04I love
00:28:04I love him too.
00:28:06If you don't love him
00:28:07I will.
00:28:07No I don't.
00:28:08Yeah.
00:28:09He reassured me
00:28:10that Philip
00:28:10is the right
00:28:11person for me
00:28:12to unpack
00:28:12my baggage
00:28:13about my
00:28:14old fears
00:28:15that he does
00:28:16have the
00:28:16tools to
00:28:17work with this.
00:28:22What's going on
00:28:22with you?
00:28:24Um so
00:28:28Gia
00:28:29left the
00:28:30other night.
00:28:30Are you guys
00:28:31okay?
00:28:31We're okay
00:28:32now.
00:28:32Okay.
00:28:33Yes.
00:28:33Um but
00:28:35to be honest
00:28:36this is probably
00:28:36the roughest
00:28:37time we're
00:28:37at right now.
00:28:40What happened?
00:28:41Are you okay
00:28:42to talk about it?
00:28:43Yes well
00:28:43what's what I'm
00:28:44here for?
00:28:45I need your
00:28:45perspective
00:28:46because I didn't
00:28:46know that she
00:28:47was feeling
00:28:47this way.
00:28:48Obviously
00:28:49Gia's felt like
00:28:50she's pretty much
00:28:50there like in
00:28:50love with me
00:28:51but she's not
00:28:51going to tell
00:28:52me because
00:28:52I need to
00:28:53say it first
00:28:54and I've been
00:28:54honest I said
00:28:55I'm not there
00:28:55but I am
00:28:56falling.
00:28:57But when I
00:28:58hear stuff like
00:28:59you know if
00:29:00you don't feel
00:29:01the same in
00:29:01the next couple
00:29:01weeks I'm
00:29:02out.
00:29:03Okay.
00:29:04That to me
00:29:05makes me scared
00:29:06and pressured
00:29:06hurts her.
00:29:07It's an ultimatum.
00:29:08Yeah pretty
00:29:08much.
00:29:10Oh dear.
00:29:11And it's
00:29:11stressing me out
00:29:12so much then
00:29:13just because
00:29:14she's there
00:29:14and I'm not
00:29:15it hurts her.
00:29:16So like
00:29:17and she's not
00:29:18used to that.
00:29:19Because you're
00:29:19giving what
00:29:20she needs
00:29:21in terms of
00:29:22the time
00:29:24the communication
00:29:25affection
00:29:25and all
00:29:26like she
00:29:26has that.
00:29:28So I think
00:29:29at the moment
00:29:30you are not
00:29:31giving her
00:29:31any worries
00:29:33you're not
00:29:33giving her
00:29:34any drama
00:29:34she's seeking
00:29:35that drama
00:29:36to fulfill
00:29:37her internal
00:29:37need.
00:29:39Yeah.
00:29:42I was very
00:29:43pleased that he
00:29:43truly opened up
00:29:44about the
00:29:45relationship
00:29:45because thus
00:29:46far we only
00:29:47saw the
00:29:47rainbows and
00:29:48butterflies.
00:29:49No.
00:29:49I think I
00:29:50can be honest
00:29:51with Scott.
00:29:51I think
00:29:52Gia needs
00:29:53that external
00:29:53drama.
00:29:54The fact that
00:29:55she's almost
00:29:55forcing him to
00:29:56say I love
00:29:57you while in
00:29:57the experiment.
00:29:58All she's
00:29:59doing is just
00:30:00deflecting.
00:30:03how to put it
00:30:05so for me what
00:30:06came out like my
00:30:06biggest fear of
00:30:07like fear of
00:30:07abandonment right
00:30:08so that fear is
00:30:09within me.
00:30:10I don't know how
00:30:11to explain it but
00:30:12like you kind of
00:30:13you're looking for
00:30:14in your outside world
00:30:16in your relationships
00:30:17you're looking for
00:30:18confirmation of
00:30:19your beliefs.
00:30:20so she's looking
00:30:21for confirmation
00:30:22of that drama.
00:30:26It's so
00:30:27interesting like
00:30:28there's this
00:30:28internal parasite
00:30:30that just keeps
00:30:31showing up.
00:30:33She does say
00:30:34that she wants
00:30:34to stop the
00:30:35drama but
00:30:36with the same
00:30:37breath it's
00:30:38keeping
00:30:38continuations.
00:30:39So now she's
00:30:41bringing it into
00:30:42the relationship.
00:30:45How do I ask
00:30:46this in a
00:30:46question like
00:30:51for what you
00:30:52see in Gia
00:30:54is this going
00:30:55to happen
00:30:57outside the
00:30:58experiment like
00:31:04do you think
00:31:05like this would
00:31:06be an ongoing
00:31:06problem?
00:31:07This is going
00:31:07to be the same.
00:31:08Yeah.
00:31:09If she can't
00:31:10manage her
00:31:11emotions and
00:31:12her emotional
00:31:12turmoil what
00:31:13she's experiencing
00:31:14right now which
00:31:16is very secluded
00:31:16it's a bubble.
00:31:18We insulate it.
00:31:20We don't have
00:31:20any pressures.
00:31:21We don't have
00:31:22the pressures of
00:31:22you working,
00:31:23of her working,
00:31:24of the children
00:31:25getting involved.
00:31:28So I think
00:31:29that's probably
00:31:30a very deep
00:31:31conversation that
00:31:32you probably
00:31:32would need to
00:31:33have.
00:31:34Yeah.
00:31:36It's hard,
00:31:36yeah.
00:31:37I just...
00:31:38Because like...
00:31:41And it worries
00:31:42me because I
00:31:42know she's such...
00:31:43She's got such a
00:31:43good side of her
00:31:44and a very good
00:31:45soul.
00:31:46And that's why
00:31:47I said at the
00:31:48dinner party
00:31:48I said like
00:31:49she's my soulmate
00:31:50because everything
00:31:50we do together
00:31:51when we're together
00:31:52is so perfectly
00:31:53aligned.
00:31:54It is great.
00:31:54But this other
00:31:54shit does interact.
00:31:57Yeah.
00:31:57I never thought
00:31:58of it until now.
00:32:01Having this
00:32:01conversation with
00:32:02Stella it's made
00:32:03my relationship
00:32:03seem a bit more
00:32:04clear.
00:32:05It's giving me
00:32:06concerns.
00:32:07What Stella's made
00:32:08clear to me is
00:32:10this is Gia's
00:32:11package.
00:32:12Am I able to
00:32:12handle Gia's
00:32:13like to being
00:32:14involved in drama
00:32:15and stuff like
00:32:16that and you
00:32:17know maybe I
00:32:18should ask Gia
00:32:19if there's any
00:32:19past she wants
00:32:20to bring up
00:32:20that's made
00:32:21her want to
00:32:22be involved
00:32:22in this stuff.
00:32:25Actually I
00:32:26got you a
00:32:26present.
00:32:27Sorry I'm in
00:32:28my little
00:32:28crystals you
00:32:29know.
00:32:29Oh my god
00:32:30this is cute.
00:32:34Okay so
00:32:35Blue Quartz.
00:32:37Blue Quartz
00:32:38enhances
00:32:39organisational
00:32:39abilities,
00:32:40self-discipline
00:32:41and helps
00:32:41to improve
00:32:42one's
00:32:42communication
00:32:42skills including
00:32:43communication from
00:32:45the higher self.
00:32:46Yeah your future
00:32:46self like.
00:32:48To be honest the
00:32:49advice I got was
00:32:50quite reasonable I
00:32:51feel.
00:32:52That's so nice.
00:32:53Oh my god I'll
00:32:54keep this forever.
00:32:55Thank you so
00:32:55much.
00:32:56Pleasure.
00:32:57Definitely
00:32:57going to take it
00:32:58on board and I
00:32:59hope Gia does
00:33:00too.
00:33:00I just need to
00:33:01deliver it the
00:33:02right way for her
00:33:02to not feel
00:33:03offended.
00:33:04Well cheers.
00:33:05Well cheers I
00:33:05finished my drink.
00:33:07We had a great
00:33:08discussion with him.
00:33:09Fingers crossed it
00:33:10goes the right
00:33:11way.
00:33:16As Scott remains
00:33:17optimistic back at
00:33:20the apartments.
00:33:26Gia just explain
00:33:27to us what's
00:33:28happening Gia.
00:33:31Despite agreeing
00:33:32to participate in
00:33:34the task.
00:33:34Yeah.
00:33:36There's been a
00:33:36shocking turn of
00:33:37events for Gia.
00:33:40What's happened
00:33:41to you?
00:33:46All you have to
00:33:47do is explain.
00:33:50It's I'm not
00:33:51doing it.
00:33:53You guys can
00:33:54all **** yourselves
00:33:55at this point.
00:33:56I don't know why
00:33:57this is an important
00:33:58thing to do today.
00:34:00This experiment is
00:34:01full of ****.
00:34:03And I don't really
00:34:04care what the
00:34:04experts have to say.
00:34:13The partner swap is
00:34:15underway where our
00:34:16couples have been
00:34:17tasked to meet with a
00:34:18fellow participant in
00:34:19the experiment for
00:34:21another perspective on
00:34:22their relationship.
00:34:23And Sam is seeking
00:34:25some relationship
00:34:26insight from Philip
00:34:27following concerns over
00:34:29Chris outlining their
00:34:30plans for the future
00:34:31without consulting him.
00:34:33like I know that Chris
00:34:35has a lot.
00:34:36Obviously I just play it
00:34:36with kids on the way
00:34:37and the farm and stuff.
00:34:38But absolutely.
00:34:39Did you see the
00:34:40commitment ceremony
00:34:41when he was like I
00:34:42know how it will work.
00:34:43Sam will come to
00:34:43Sydney and then we'll
00:34:44do this.
00:34:45We had not spoken
00:34:46about that plan
00:34:47like at all.
00:34:49Like it has not come
00:34:49up in any way shape
00:34:50or form.
00:34:51Yes.
00:34:52So for me to still
00:34:53catch me like oh
00:34:53okay that's how this
00:34:55is going to work.
00:34:55Like not even a
00:34:56conversation with me.
00:34:57I just I think what
00:34:58I'm struggling with is
00:34:59not that maybe that's
00:35:00that's where it ends
00:35:01up but like I just
00:35:02feel like I didn't get
00:35:03a say or a voice at
00:35:04all.
00:35:05I feel for Sammy is a
00:35:06lack of empathy like
00:35:08where you know it's
00:35:09just assumed that
00:35:09we're going to be doing
00:35:10this and this is how
00:35:10it's going to work you
00:35:11know.
00:35:12It's kind of parallel
00:35:13with myself and
00:35:14Stella and how she
00:35:15does have a little bit
00:35:16of a kind of like a
00:35:17stern way of saying
00:35:18things you know.
00:35:19But we spoke about it.
00:35:21and we've come out
00:35:22through it strong.
00:35:23Hopefully that can give
00:35:24him some insight and
00:35:25there's a little bit of
00:35:26compromise there.
00:35:27I feel for you man.
00:35:29And when he did drop
00:35:30that at the commitment
00:35:31ceremony he was like
00:35:32oh okay cool we haven't
00:35:33really spoken about it.
00:35:34Did you have this chat
00:35:35with him after?
00:35:35Is that something you
00:35:36brought up with him or
00:35:37no?
00:35:37I said to myself like I
00:35:39would bring it up with
00:35:40him.
00:35:41I was just kind of like
00:35:43I don't know sometimes
00:35:44just avoid conflict right
00:35:45it's going to be a
00:35:46tough conversation.
00:35:48You really need to
00:35:50verbalise what's
00:35:51what your plans are
00:35:52because this is a
00:35:52partnership.
00:35:53So the silver lining
00:35:54is that you can work
00:35:55at this for the next
00:35:56few months potentially.
00:35:57You need to have
00:35:58more say.
00:35:59Kind of draw it up in
00:36:00real time and just go
00:36:01how is it going to
00:36:01look like in what
00:36:02time frame you know
00:36:04like kids how it's
00:36:07going to work and all
00:36:08this kind of stuff.
00:36:09And yeah you just you
00:36:10need to be heard and
00:36:11your feelings need to
00:36:12be considered.
00:36:12As Phil was talking
00:36:13I started to realise
00:36:15that he's right.
00:36:16I need to stand on
00:36:17my own two feet and
00:36:19speak to Chris and
00:36:19tell him everything I
00:36:20want to say.
00:36:21I just really want to
00:36:22be heard like to be
00:36:23empathised with this
00:36:25relationship.
00:36:26And this relationship
00:36:27should start marriage
00:36:27starts hard isn't it?
00:36:28It is.
00:36:29We should get more
00:36:30drinks.
00:36:30Let's do it.
00:36:31Yeah.
00:36:32As Sam finds clarity
00:36:34in Phillip's advice
00:36:37across town Danny has
00:36:39arrived to meet his
00:36:40mystery pairing.
00:36:42I'm really going to
00:36:43soak myself into this
00:36:44task.
00:36:45Bec's an amazing wife
00:36:46and I'm really enjoying
00:36:47the journey I'm on with
00:36:48her.
00:36:49But she has told me she
00:36:50loves me and I haven't
00:36:51said it back to her.
00:36:53Because yeah I'm not
00:36:54there yet so that does
00:36:55play heavy on my mind.
00:36:58That's put a pressure on
00:37:00me.
00:37:00Which I don't really know
00:37:02how to navigate my way
00:37:03through.
00:37:04The last thing I want to
00:37:05do is hurt Bec.
00:37:06So I'd probably like to
00:37:07get some advice on that
00:37:08from a third party.
00:37:10I actually think that
00:37:10could really help.
00:37:11me.
00:37:12Because I've obviously
00:37:12just been going through
00:37:13it in my head.
00:37:14But it will actually be
00:37:16good to get advice from
00:37:16someone else.
00:37:19I don't really care who
00:37:21it is to be honest.
00:37:22You could go and meet
00:37:24someone who you really
00:37:25don't want it to be but
00:37:26they could actually give
00:37:26you the best advice in
00:37:28life.
00:37:30Sometimes you know a
00:37:32homeless man on the
00:37:33street could give you
00:37:34better advice than a
00:37:34billionaire.
00:37:35And that is true.
00:37:38So yeah I'll listen to
00:37:40anyone and I'll sit there
00:37:41and be open and honest
00:37:41and vulnerable and have
00:37:42a good chat.
00:37:53But unbeknownst to
00:37:55Danny his match is
00:37:58refusing to participate
00:37:59in the task.
00:38:02I'm not happy I'm not
00:38:02doing it.
00:38:04You guys can all
00:38:05yourselves at this point.
00:38:08I don't know why the
00:38:09this is an important
00:38:10thing to do today.
00:38:14So you don't you don't
00:38:15want to find out who it
00:38:16is?
00:38:17No.
00:38:19because I've got a fear
00:38:20like it's going to be
00:38:21Beck or Danny.
00:38:31How long are we going to
00:38:32be waiting?
00:38:40there's a lose-lose situation
00:38:42there's no win-win situation
00:38:43if it is Beck or Danny.
00:38:47This is awkward.
00:38:57Okay Danny.
00:39:00The participant who is going
00:39:01to give you some feedback is
00:39:02no longer coming.
00:39:04All right.
00:39:05What is that?
00:39:06They have decided they don't
00:39:08participate in this.
00:39:10That's cool.
00:39:12That's what we're doing.
00:39:13Just chilling.
00:39:16Who was it?
00:39:18It was Gia.
00:39:20Fair enough.
00:39:23She done a runner.
00:39:25Coming up
00:39:26Beck and David address
00:39:27those texts.
00:39:29In those text messages
00:39:30I wasn't rude about you.
00:39:32I wasn't rude about
00:39:33Alyssa.
00:39:34I am shocked.
00:39:36I felt like the comments
00:39:37were vile disgusting.
00:39:40How do you know what
00:39:41they were?
00:39:45We've seen them.
00:39:59Okay Danny.
00:40:02The participant who is
00:40:03going to give you some
00:40:04feedback is no longer
00:40:05coming.
00:40:06All right.
00:40:07What is that?
00:40:09They have decided they
00:40:10don't participate once.
00:40:13That's cool.
00:40:14That's what we're doing
00:40:15just chilling.
00:40:18Who was it?
00:40:20It was Gia.
00:40:23Fair enough.
00:40:25She done a runner.
00:40:28Gia, Gia, Gia.
00:40:30She's done it again
00:40:31isn't she?
00:40:32Like she's gone sprinting
00:40:34at the commitment
00:40:34ceremony.
00:40:35She's gone sprinting
00:40:36today.
00:40:37She's a sprinter.
00:40:38You know what you mean?
00:40:39I'm going to rename her
00:40:40Usain Bolt.
00:40:42There's no way to do
00:40:44this properly if it is
00:40:45Bec or Danny.
00:40:46There's just no way
00:40:47and I felt like it was
00:40:48going to be them
00:40:49and I just had to
00:40:50choose myself.
00:40:53It's cowardly.
00:40:54That's what it is.
00:40:56Thanks so much.
00:40:57But she couldn't risk it.
00:40:58She probably thought
00:40:59there's a slim chance
00:40:59she was going to get me.
00:41:02so obviously for her
00:41:03it would be very
00:41:03confronting to turn up
00:41:06and sit across the table
00:41:07and look at man
00:41:08in the eyes
00:41:08who you've lied about.
00:41:10Do you know what you mean?
00:41:13So what you saw today
00:41:14was a guilty conscience.
00:41:16There is no winning
00:41:18because if I walk out
00:41:19she'll manipulate the situation.
00:41:20If I sit with her
00:41:21she'll manipulate me.
00:41:21There's no way around this.
00:41:24They're horrible people
00:41:25and I do not want to be
00:41:27in the presence
00:41:28of those kinds of people.
00:41:28they're in a fake relationship.
00:41:31I feel a bit disappointed.
00:41:34This task has been
00:41:35taken away from me
00:41:37and I feel that
00:41:38it's a disrespect
00:41:39to the experiment
00:41:40to the experts
00:41:41and to the other participants
00:41:42if you don't give it 100%.
00:41:45I don't really care
00:41:46what the experts have to say.
00:41:48I just don't want to
00:41:48put myself in a position
00:41:49where I'm not actually
00:41:51doing anything productive
00:41:52for my relationship.
00:41:53I'm not having a good
00:41:54conversation
00:41:54and getting feedback.
00:41:55I'm just arguing with somebody
00:41:57and I just don't see
00:41:57the point in doing that.
00:42:01to be honest
00:42:02I'd probably rather
00:42:03chat to that wall
00:42:04than I would chat
00:42:05to Gia anyway
00:42:06so
00:42:11Back at the apartments
00:42:13Alyssa and David
00:42:14are about to leave
00:42:15for the partner swap.
00:42:17Right babe
00:42:18I'm off
00:42:19to get some feedback.
00:42:20And following
00:42:21the shock revelation
00:42:22of Beck's text messages
00:42:24against them
00:42:25Alyssa has some
00:42:26parting instructions
00:42:27for David.
00:42:28So just quickly
00:42:29before you go
00:42:31if you are partnered
00:42:32with Daniel Beck
00:42:33make sure
00:42:34that you don't
00:42:35bring up
00:42:36the text messages
00:42:38yet.
00:42:38Okay.
00:42:39That is something
00:42:40that I will clear up
00:42:41later.
00:42:42Let's get feedback
00:42:43for our relationship
00:42:44but let's not bring up
00:42:45text messages
00:42:46until later.
00:42:46cool.
00:42:47Okay.
00:42:47Easy.
00:42:48Okay.
00:42:49David and I
00:42:50are trying to focus
00:42:51on a whole new
00:42:52fresh start to the week
00:42:53but it's hard
00:42:55because obviously
00:42:57I have mended
00:42:58friendships with both
00:42:59Beck and Gia
00:43:00but the way that
00:43:02Beck spoke about me
00:43:03in these messages
00:43:04were absolutely
00:43:06vulgar
00:43:06vicious
00:43:08and reading
00:43:09that's brought
00:43:09back a lot
00:43:10of hurt
00:43:11from all the
00:43:12bullying
00:43:12at the start
00:43:13of this experiment
00:43:14that went on
00:43:15for weeks
00:43:15and weeks
00:43:15and weeks.
00:43:22I'm not everybody's
00:43:24cup of tea
00:43:24leave me alone.
00:43:26Oh shut up.
00:43:27I guarantee.
00:43:29You talk shit
00:43:30about Alyssa
00:43:30non-stop babe.
00:43:32So let's pull up
00:43:33the receipt
00:43:33shall we?
00:43:34Went home
00:43:35for the weekend.
00:43:36Turmoil
00:43:36in the relationship.
00:43:41What?
00:43:43Like there has
00:43:44been a lot
00:43:45of this going
00:43:46on
00:43:46where she's
00:43:47constantly
00:43:47trying to dig
00:43:48dig dig
00:43:49push push push
00:43:50she's relentless.
00:43:51I just want
00:43:52to let you know
00:43:53there's a bit
00:43:54of chatter
00:43:55around Adelaide
00:43:57about Beck
00:43:58trying to actually
00:43:59dig shit up
00:44:00on Alyssa.
00:44:03Like it's
00:44:04it's an active
00:44:04process.
00:44:07There is always
00:44:08something going
00:44:08on
00:44:11and she hasn't
00:44:12been able
00:44:12to tell me
00:44:12why.
00:44:14What's up to you
00:44:15Beck
00:44:15would you say?
00:44:18Why are you
00:44:18talking about
00:44:19their relationship?
00:44:21Do you know
00:44:21what?
00:44:21You're right
00:44:22and
00:44:22I know I'm
00:44:23right
00:44:23but what I
00:44:24don't know
00:44:24is why
00:44:25you're doing
00:44:25that.
00:44:27I don't
00:44:27actually
00:44:27don't have
00:44:28a reason
00:44:28for it.
00:44:29I'm just
00:44:30tired of it
00:44:32because it's
00:44:32been an ongoing
00:44:33thing.
00:44:34I've been in
00:44:34the chat.
00:44:34I've been
00:44:35you know
00:44:35in Beck's
00:44:36chat in
00:44:36this whole
00:44:36experiment.
00:44:38Enough is
00:44:38enough.
00:44:39So I just
00:44:40personally want
00:44:41to go up to
00:44:41Beck and just
00:44:42address this
00:44:42matter.
00:44:43Say babe
00:44:44I've seen
00:44:44the receipts
00:44:45like explain
00:44:46yourself.
00:44:47I'll see you
00:44:48soon.
00:44:49Bye.
00:44:49Bye bye
00:44:49bye bye
00:44:50bye bye
00:44:50bye.
00:44:54With
00:44:54Alyssa's
00:44:55request in
00:44:56mind
00:44:56David is
00:44:57waiting for
00:44:58his match
00:44:58to arrive.
00:45:03Seeing that
00:45:04we do spend
00:45:05most of our
00:45:06time with the
00:45:06people in
00:45:06this experiment
00:45:08any feedback
00:45:09will help
00:45:09in our
00:45:09relationship
00:45:10for sure
00:45:10but at the
00:45:11same time
00:45:11I don't
00:45:12trust many
00:45:12people in
00:45:13this
00:45:13experiment
00:45:15so it's
00:45:15like yeah
00:45:16I want some
00:45:17feedback but
00:45:17at the same
00:45:18time I'm
00:45:18very like
00:45:20wary so
00:45:21I'll see what
00:45:22I can take
00:45:23on board.
00:45:25I'm a bit
00:45:26nervous yeah
00:45:26because I
00:45:27don't know
00:45:27who I'm
00:45:27spending the
00:45:28day with.
00:45:29I'm just
00:45:30going to like
00:45:30rock up and
00:45:31be like yo
00:45:31we're about
00:45:32to spend a
00:45:32couple hours
00:45:33together and
00:45:33who knows
00:45:34who it is.
00:45:40Oh no
00:45:41you're
00:45:41kidding me.
00:45:46Oh crap
00:45:47oh my
00:45:47goodness
00:45:48you're
00:45:48kidding.
00:45:49I did
00:45:50not want
00:45:50to see
00:45:51Beck
00:45:51today.
00:46:03Oh no
00:46:04you're
00:46:04kidding me.
00:46:06What's up?
00:46:08I'm actually
00:46:09so glad
00:46:09it's you.
00:46:10Oh crap.
00:46:11I'm so glad
00:46:12it's you.
00:46:13I did
00:46:13not want
00:46:14to see
00:46:14Beck
00:46:14today.
00:46:16How are you?
00:46:17I'm good
00:46:17how are you?
00:46:18I'm okay
00:46:19not too bad.
00:46:20How are you
00:46:21feeling?
00:46:22Yeah
00:46:23alright
00:46:23alright
00:46:24how are you
00:46:24feeling?
00:46:25I'm alright
00:46:25I'm a bit
00:46:26nervous.
00:46:27Yeah I'm a bit
00:46:27nervous as well.
00:46:28Okay so we're
00:46:29both nervous.
00:46:30Yeah I was not
00:46:31like expecting it to be you.
00:46:35you're probably
00:46:36like why
00:46:36yeah low key
00:46:38low key
00:46:39I'm feeling
00:46:40very awkward
00:46:41because
00:46:42obviously
00:46:43you know
00:46:43it was fresh
00:46:44in my mind
00:46:45the text messages
00:46:46that
00:46:46we saw
00:46:48that Beck
00:46:48had sent
00:46:49but I know
00:46:50that Alyssa
00:46:51wanted to
00:46:51confront Beck
00:46:52herself
00:46:53about the whole
00:46:53situation
00:46:54so I'll be
00:46:55cordial with Beck
00:46:56and brush it
00:46:57to the side
00:47:02anyway like
00:47:03let's talk
00:47:04about what
00:47:05what we
00:47:06really
00:47:06what we're
00:47:07here to
00:47:07talk about
00:47:09so
00:47:09yeah you
00:47:10have some
00:47:11questions for
00:47:11me?
00:47:13Yeah do you
00:47:13know what
00:47:14I was hoping
00:47:14it was you
00:47:15why?
00:47:16I wanted to
00:47:16talk to you
00:47:17and Alyssa
00:47:17I think
00:47:18something that
00:47:20I need to
00:47:21say is
00:47:22obviously I've
00:47:23apologised to
00:47:23you guys
00:47:24right
00:47:24but it's
00:47:26it was
00:47:27it was from
00:47:27the first
00:47:28week
00:47:28that those
00:47:29messages
00:47:29were written
00:47:34make sure
00:47:35that you
00:47:35don't bring
00:47:36up
00:47:37the text
00:47:38messages
00:47:38yet
00:47:39yeah
00:47:40that was
00:47:41a group
00:47:41text with
00:47:42Mel
00:47:42Rebecca
00:47:43Brooke
00:47:43Gia
00:47:44and myself
00:47:45avoid
00:47:46any
00:47:47conversations
00:47:47this is
00:47:47feedback week
00:47:48let's get
00:47:49feedback
00:47:49for our
00:47:50relationship
00:47:50but let's
00:47:51not bring
00:47:51up text
00:47:52messages
00:47:52until
00:47:52later
00:47:52cool
00:47:53easy
00:47:54all I'm
00:47:55thinking about
00:47:56is how
00:47:57Alyssa
00:47:57wanted to
00:47:57unpack
00:47:58that
00:47:58with
00:47:58Bec
00:47:59Gia
00:48:00sent them
00:48:00to
00:48:01Juliet
00:48:01for
00:48:01God
00:48:02knows
00:48:02what
00:48:02reason
00:48:02this is
00:48:03my
00:48:03worst
00:48:03nightmare
00:48:04I
00:48:05am
00:48:07like
00:48:07I
00:48:08understand
00:48:08that I've
00:48:09been involved
00:48:09in certain
00:48:10aspects
00:48:10I
00:48:11understand
00:48:11that I
00:48:12take
00:48:12full
00:48:12accountability
00:48:13and
00:48:13responsibility
00:48:13but like
00:48:14the person
00:48:15that keeps
00:48:15on bringing
00:48:16it up
00:48:16keeps
00:48:17on engaging
00:48:17themselves
00:48:17out of that
00:48:18situation
00:48:18and being
00:48:19Alyssa's
00:48:19friend
00:48:20is
00:48:21Gia
00:48:21I
00:48:22had to
00:48:24hold back
00:48:24because
00:48:25Bec
00:48:25is trying
00:48:25to say
00:48:26she's
00:48:26doing
00:48:26nothing
00:48:27and she's
00:48:28just been
00:48:28influenced
00:48:29by Gia
00:48:29but from
00:48:30what I've
00:48:31seen
00:48:31in the
00:48:32text messages
00:48:32that's
00:48:33obviously
00:48:33not true
00:48:35and
00:48:35it's like
00:48:36I get it
00:48:37Gia has a
00:48:38problem with
00:48:38me
00:48:39but she
00:48:40keeps on
00:48:40making it
00:48:41out like
00:48:41it's me
00:48:42but those
00:48:42conversations
00:48:43started
00:48:44somewhere
00:48:44and it's
00:48:46just a
00:48:46vendetta
00:48:47and
00:48:48I understand
00:48:49what's a
00:48:49vendetta
00:48:50is it
00:48:50against
00:48:50me
00:48:51and
00:48:51Alyssa
00:48:51no
00:48:51I'm
00:48:52talking
00:48:52about
00:48:52against
00:48:52me
00:48:54you guys
00:48:55are always
00:48:56caught in
00:48:57the crossfire
00:48:57which is
00:48:58unfair
00:48:58yeah
00:48:59I am
00:49:00shocked
00:49:00Bec
00:49:00is trying
00:49:01to make
00:49:01herself
00:49:01look like
00:49:02a victim
00:49:03like
00:49:04am I
00:49:04in sleep
00:49:05paralysis
00:49:05right now
00:49:06it's not
00:49:07a shit
00:49:07on Gia
00:49:08day
00:49:08but
00:49:08because
00:49:09we've
00:49:09got our
00:49:10relationships
00:49:10to talk
00:49:11about
00:49:11but
00:49:11at the
00:49:13centre
00:49:13of
00:49:13everything
00:49:14is
00:49:15Gia
00:49:15right
00:49:16so
00:49:16she's
00:49:17sending
00:49:18screenshots
00:49:18both you
00:49:19and Gia
00:49:20are the
00:49:20centre
00:49:20of everything
00:49:21yeah
00:49:21listen
00:49:22but like
00:49:22I'm
00:49:23being
00:49:23brought
00:49:23into
00:49:24I'm
00:49:24just
00:49:24finding out
00:49:25more
00:49:25about
00:49:25Gia
00:49:25but
00:49:26from what
00:49:26obviously
00:49:27till this
00:49:27conversation
00:49:28all I've
00:49:28seen
00:49:29if I was
00:49:29being
00:49:30completely
00:49:30honest
00:49:30is
00:49:30Bec
00:49:31is always
00:49:31the centre
00:49:32of staring
00:49:32the pot
00:49:32in every
00:49:33relationship
00:49:36Bec
00:49:37is very
00:49:37good at
00:49:37manipulating
00:49:38and her
00:49:39lack of
00:49:39accountability
00:49:40makes me
00:49:41sick to
00:49:41my stomach
00:49:42look
00:49:43David
00:49:43was like
00:49:45well
00:49:47in those
00:49:48text messages
00:49:48I didn't
00:49:49I wasn't
00:49:50rude about
00:49:51you
00:49:51I wasn't
00:49:52rude about
00:49:52Alyssa
00:49:53I was just
00:49:54talking about
00:49:54your relationship
00:49:58like right
00:49:59now I don't
00:50:00know what
00:50:00to do
00:50:01I feel like
00:50:02I've got
00:50:02ants crawling
00:50:03underneath my
00:50:04skin
00:50:04and I feel
00:50:05like I want
00:50:05to be
00:50:05outside of
00:50:06my skin
00:50:06and out
00:50:07on the
00:50:07street
00:50:09because
00:50:09I read
00:50:10those text
00:50:11messages
00:50:11you know
00:50:12that was
00:50:13vicious
00:50:13you know
00:50:14that was
00:50:14disgusting
00:50:15Beck
00:50:16said
00:50:16her head
00:50:17is so
00:50:18far
00:50:18up
00:50:18her
00:50:19arsehole
00:50:20she doesn't
00:50:21even realise
00:50:21what a
00:50:22she actually
00:50:23is
00:50:26I actually
00:50:27look at you
00:50:28and Alyssa
00:50:29and your
00:50:29relationship
00:50:30and I
00:50:30really respect
00:50:31it
00:50:33I do
00:50:34rat bitch
00:50:35with her
00:50:35rat husband
00:50:36you go
00:50:38through my
00:50:38phone
00:50:38please
00:50:39I actually
00:50:39beg of
00:50:40you
00:50:40go through
00:50:41my phone
00:50:41the only
00:50:42fake
00:50:43in this
00:50:44place
00:50:44are those
00:50:45two
00:50:47influencer
00:50:47wannabe
00:50:50I've
00:50:51tried to
00:50:51be silent
00:50:53but this
00:50:54is my
00:50:54opportunity
00:50:55to stick up
00:50:55for my
00:50:56wife
00:50:57so I
00:50:57have to
00:50:58address it
00:51:00I mean
00:51:01obviously
00:51:02the whole
00:51:03like
00:51:04I just
00:51:05want you
00:51:05know
00:51:05we felt
00:51:06like
00:51:06felt like
00:51:07the comments
00:51:08were vile
00:51:08disgusting
00:51:12and very
00:51:13like mean
00:51:14and vicious
00:51:14but how
00:51:15do you
00:51:15know what
00:51:15they were
00:51:19we've
00:51:19seen
00:51:20we've
00:51:20seen
00:51:20them
00:51:23did Juliette
00:51:25send them
00:51:25to
00:51:25Alyssa
00:51:25she did
00:51:38but I
00:51:39felt like
00:51:40the comments
00:51:40were vile
00:51:41disgusting
00:51:44and very
00:51:45like mean
00:51:46and vicious
00:51:46but how
00:51:47do you
00:51:47know what
00:51:48they were
00:51:49um
00:51:51we've
00:51:52seen
00:51:52we've
00:51:52seen
00:51:53them
00:51:56did Juliette
00:51:57send them
00:51:57to Alyssa
00:51:59she did
00:52:03yeah
00:52:03so
00:52:04like
00:52:04obviously
00:52:05you can
00:52:05imagine
00:52:06those
00:52:06comments
00:52:06were
00:52:07yeah
00:52:07of course
00:52:08yeah
00:52:08and it's
00:52:08hard
00:52:09to look
00:52:09past
00:52:09that
00:52:10yeah
00:52:10of course
00:52:10I want
00:52:11to listen
00:52:11to have
00:52:11her time
00:52:12to talk
00:52:12with you
00:52:12so I'm
00:52:13gonna
00:52:13not
00:52:13try and
00:52:14dive
00:52:14too deep
00:52:15in that
00:52:15just to
00:52:15give her
00:52:16the respect
00:52:16of that
00:52:16because I
00:52:17know
00:52:17like
00:52:17at the
00:52:18end
00:52:18of the
00:52:18day
00:52:19those
00:52:19were
00:52:19very
00:52:20very
00:52:20vile
00:52:21comments
00:52:21yeah
00:52:21I
00:52:22don't
00:52:22know
00:52:22how
00:52:23you
00:52:23had
00:52:23it
00:52:23in
00:52:23you
00:52:25you
00:52:25can
00:52:25see
00:52:26how
00:52:26for us
00:52:26like
00:52:30to make
00:52:31yourself
00:52:31look
00:52:32like
00:52:32a
00:52:32victim
00:52:32now
00:52:35we
00:52:35didn't
00:52:35realize
00:52:36the
00:52:36gravity
00:52:37of
00:52:37what
00:52:37was
00:52:38said
00:52:38and
00:52:38did
00:52:38see
00:52:39the
00:52:39other
00:52:39messages
00:52:39and
00:52:39stuff
00:52:40gosh
00:52:40only
00:52:41from
00:52:41what
00:52:41we've
00:52:42seen
00:52:42far
00:52:42out
00:52:43I
00:52:43didn't
00:52:43expect
00:52:44that
00:52:44from
00:52:44you
00:52:45I
00:52:45don't
00:52:45know
00:52:45what
00:52:45other
00:52:45messages
00:52:46just
00:52:46the
00:52:46ones
00:52:46we've
00:52:47seen
00:52:47just
00:52:48from
00:52:48me
00:52:48yeah
00:52:49this
00:52:50is
00:52:50what
00:52:50I'm
00:52:50saying
00:52:50David
00:52:51that
00:52:51was
00:52:51a
00:52:51group
00:52:51text
00:52:52with
00:52:52Mel
00:52:52Brooke
00:52:53Gia
00:52:54and
00:52:54myself
00:52:55and
00:52:56I'm
00:52:56not
00:52:56going
00:52:56to
00:52:56throw
00:52:56anyone
00:52:57else
00:52:57under
00:52:57the
00:52:57bus
00:52:57because
00:52:58I
00:52:58know
00:52:58what
00:52:58it's
00:52:58like
00:52:58when
00:52:58I've
00:52:59been
00:52:59thrown
00:52:59under
00:52:59the
00:52:59bus
00:52:59and
00:52:59I
00:53:00have
00:53:01to
00:53:01take
00:53:01responsibility
00:53:01for
00:53:02my
00:53:03actions
00:53:03which
00:53:03I
00:53:03do
00:53:06it
00:53:06pisses
00:53:07me
00:53:07off
00:53:09it
00:53:10annoys
00:53:10me
00:53:10that
00:53:11Gia
00:53:12she's
00:53:13the
00:53:13most
00:53:13manipulative
00:53:14person
00:53:14I've
00:53:14ever
00:53:15met
00:53:15in
00:53:15my
00:53:15life
00:53:16Gia
00:53:16sent
00:53:17them
00:53:17to
00:53:17Juliet
00:53:17even
00:53:18though
00:53:18she
00:53:18wasn't
00:53:18in
00:53:18the
00:53:18experiment
00:53:21like
00:53:22what
00:53:22was
00:53:23the
00:53:23point
00:53:23in
00:53:24sending
00:53:24those
00:53:25messages
00:53:25why
00:53:26are
00:53:27you
00:53:27doing
00:53:27that
00:53:27you
00:53:28want
00:53:28me
00:53:28to
00:53:28be
00:53:28in
00:53:28trouble
00:53:29babe
00:53:30I'm
00:53:30the
00:53:30one
00:53:30that
00:53:30takes
00:53:31accountability
00:53:31apologizes
00:53:33when
00:53:33I'm
00:53:33wrong
00:53:33and
00:53:34moves
00:53:35on
00:53:35to
00:53:35try
00:53:35and
00:53:35be
00:53:36a
00:53:36better
00:53:36human
00:53:36being
00:53:37for
00:53:37me
00:53:38it's
00:53:38like
00:53:39you've
00:53:39sent
00:53:39text
00:53:39messages
00:53:40that
00:53:41I've
00:53:42sent
00:53:42but
00:53:42not
00:53:43what
00:53:43you've
00:53:43sent
00:53:43and
00:53:44not
00:53:44what
00:53:45anyone
00:53:45else
00:53:45sent
00:53:46I
00:53:47get
00:53:47it
00:53:47that
00:53:47Alyssa
00:53:48and
00:53:48David
00:53:48are
00:53:48being
00:53:49used
00:53:49as
00:53:49pawns
00:53:50in
00:53:50this
00:53:50vicious
00:53:51game
00:53:51I
00:53:52just
00:53:53can't
00:53:53believe
00:53:53I've
00:53:53hurt
00:53:54you
00:53:54guys
00:53:54so
00:53:55much
00:53:55I'm
00:53:56so
00:53:56sorry
00:53:56sorry
00:53:57I don't
00:53:57mean
00:53:57to
00:53:57get
00:53:58emotional
00:53:58but
00:54:03I
00:54:03I'm
00:54:04sorry
00:54:04not
00:54:05sorry
00:54:07it's
00:54:07just
00:54:07tiresome
00:54:08it's
00:54:08tiresome
00:54:09and
00:54:10it's
00:54:11like
00:54:13it's
00:54:14taught
00:54:14me
00:54:14never
00:54:14to
00:54:15put
00:54:15anything
00:54:15in
00:54:15text
00:54:15messages
00:54:16that's
00:54:16for
00:54:16sure
00:54:26feedback
00:54:27feedback
00:54:27week
00:54:27continues
00:54:29and
00:54:30Scott
00:54:30is
00:54:31returning
00:54:31to
00:54:31share
00:54:32Stella's
00:54:32advice
00:54:33with
00:54:33Gia
00:54:33unaware
00:54:34that
00:54:35she
00:54:35has
00:54:35refused
00:54:36to
00:54:36participate
00:54:37in
00:54:37the
00:54:37partner
00:54:38swap
00:54:41I
00:54:42didn't
00:54:43go
00:54:43on
00:54:43my
00:54:43feedback
00:54:44meeting
00:54:44today
00:54:45I
00:54:46had a gut
00:54:46feeling
00:54:47and it
00:54:47was
00:54:47Danny
00:54:48you
00:54:49know
00:54:49I
00:54:49snapped
00:54:49a
00:54:50little
00:54:50bit
00:54:50and
00:54:50I
00:54:51just
00:54:51needed
00:54:51to
00:54:53regroup
00:54:53and
00:54:54just
00:54:54relax
00:54:54and
00:54:55block
00:54:55things
00:54:55out
00:54:56and
00:54:56wait
00:54:56for
00:54:56Scott
00:54:56really
00:54:57so
00:54:58I
00:54:58listened
00:54:58to
00:54:59Coldplay
00:54:59on the
00:54:59balcony
00:55:00like a
00:55:00depressed
00:55:00woman
00:55:06what are you doing
00:55:07sitting out
00:55:07of here
00:55:12tell you
00:55:13what
00:55:13there was a bit
00:55:13of heat
00:55:13in the room
00:55:14when I
00:55:14walked in
00:55:14the door
00:55:15oof
00:55:17Gia
00:55:17had the
00:55:18doors
00:55:18open
00:55:19and
00:55:19she's
00:55:20just
00:55:20looking
00:55:20outside
00:55:20and I've
00:55:21never
00:55:21seen
00:55:21Gia
00:55:21have
00:55:22the
00:55:22doors
00:55:22open
00:55:25how'd
00:55:25you go
00:55:25how'd
00:55:26you go
00:55:26I didn't
00:55:26go on it
00:55:27you didn't
00:55:28go on it
00:55:28no
00:55:31I didn't
00:55:31do it
00:55:36I don't
00:55:37really give
00:55:37a f***
00:55:37for anyone's
00:55:38feedback
00:55:38at this
00:55:39point
00:55:40there's
00:55:40no one's
00:55:40relationship
00:55:41that I
00:55:41want to
00:55:41copy
00:55:42there's
00:55:42no one
00:55:42here
00:55:42that I
00:55:43think
00:55:43is
00:55:43doing
00:55:43better
00:55:43there's
00:55:44no one
00:55:45here
00:55:45that's
00:55:45advice
00:55:46would be
00:55:46better
00:55:47than what
00:55:47I think
00:55:47you and
00:55:48I
00:55:48are
00:55:48doing
00:55:49already
00:55:49so I
00:55:50just
00:55:50thought
00:55:50f*** that
00:55:51I'm not
00:55:51doing it
00:55:53and I feel
00:55:54like it was
00:55:54going to be
00:55:54Danny
00:55:55so I didn't
00:55:56do it
00:55:57that's
00:55:58it could have
00:56:00gone two ways
00:56:00I could have
00:56:01sat down
00:56:01and been
00:56:01fake
00:56:02and been
00:56:02nice
00:56:02and I
00:56:03just know
00:56:04that would
00:56:04have turned
00:56:05into an
00:56:05argument
00:56:06because
00:56:07he thinks
00:56:08I'm a liar
00:56:08I think
00:56:08he's a liar
00:56:09it wouldn't
00:56:09have been
00:56:10good
00:56:10and then
00:56:10I thought
00:56:11if I
00:56:11go and
00:56:12he sees
00:56:12me
00:56:13and then
00:56:13I leave
00:56:14he's going
00:56:15to say
00:56:15oh my
00:56:16god
00:56:16she's so
00:56:17dramatic
00:56:17she can't
00:56:17even have
00:56:17a conversation
00:56:18so I was
00:56:18like
00:56:18it's best
00:56:19I remove
00:56:20myself
00:56:20from the
00:56:20potential
00:56:21drama
00:56:21that could
00:56:21happen
00:56:22today
00:56:22to be honest
00:56:23I don't care
00:56:24it's fine
00:56:25that you
00:56:25didn't go
00:56:26Scott
00:56:27I'm not
00:56:28going to
00:56:28hang out
00:56:28with somebody
00:56:29even for
00:56:30two seconds
00:56:30that disrespects
00:56:32me
00:56:32it's not
00:56:33happening
00:56:34so
00:56:34yeah
00:56:35I agree
00:56:35yeah
00:56:37yeah the only
00:56:38thing I was
00:56:38surprised was
00:56:39that Gia
00:56:40just didn't
00:56:41attempt the
00:56:42task
00:56:42because for me
00:56:43to be honest
00:56:44it's good to
00:56:44listen to
00:56:45someone else's
00:56:45perspective
00:56:46when you
00:56:46give them
00:56:47you know
00:56:48an overlook
00:56:48on the
00:56:49relationship
00:56:49and where
00:56:49we're
00:56:49sitting
00:56:57anyway
00:56:57you go
00:57:00I saw
00:57:01Stella
00:57:06okay
00:57:06what'd she
00:57:07say about
00:57:08us
00:57:11it was
00:57:11just
00:57:14I hear
00:57:15stuff like
00:57:15you know
00:57:16if you don't
00:57:17feel the same
00:57:17the next couple
00:57:17weeks
00:57:18I'm out
00:57:18that to me
00:57:19makes me
00:57:19scared
00:57:20and pressured
00:57:22ultimatum
00:57:22yeah
00:57:23pretty much
00:57:23oh dear
00:57:30you know
00:57:32when I felt
00:57:33there's a bit
00:57:34of tension
00:57:34there
00:57:36I feel a little
00:57:37bit nervous
00:57:37to say what
00:57:38was said
00:57:38a bit
00:57:40because
00:57:41what I
00:57:41said to
00:57:42her
00:57:43um
00:57:43oh god
00:57:45I'm so
00:57:45damn
00:57:45remembering
00:57:45stuff
00:57:46like
00:57:48you know
00:57:49um
00:58:01anyway
00:58:01you go
00:58:04I saw
00:58:05Stella
00:58:10okay
00:58:10okay
00:58:10what'd she
00:58:11say
00:58:11about
00:58:11us
00:58:15it was
00:58:15just
00:58:16um
00:58:17walking
00:58:17into
00:58:18this
00:58:18I was
00:58:18going
00:58:18to
00:58:18just
00:58:19open
00:58:19up
00:58:19and let
00:58:19it all
00:58:20on the
00:58:20table
00:58:20of
00:58:20exactly
00:58:20everything
00:58:21that went
00:58:21down
00:58:22with
00:58:22Stella
00:58:22but
00:58:23when I
00:58:23felt
00:58:24there's a
00:58:25bit of
00:58:25tension
00:58:25there
00:58:26um
00:58:27I feel
00:58:27a little
00:58:27bit
00:58:28nervous
00:58:28to say
00:58:28what was
00:58:29said
00:58:29a bit
00:58:31well
00:58:31for starters
00:58:32this was
00:58:33like at
00:58:33the end
00:58:33though
00:58:33it was
00:58:33pretty
00:58:33nice
00:58:34obviously
00:58:34she didn't
00:58:34know
00:58:34who she
00:58:35got
00:58:35but it
00:58:35was
00:58:35like a
00:58:36little
00:58:36um
00:58:37blue
00:58:37quartz
00:58:38thing
00:58:41okay
00:58:41it's
00:58:42like about
00:58:43feeling
00:58:44you feel
00:58:44it from
00:58:45your
00:58:45um
00:58:45what's
00:58:46it
00:58:46called
00:58:46your
00:58:46chakra
00:58:47and then
00:58:47your
00:58:47lower
00:58:48and stuff
00:58:48it's
00:58:48like
00:58:48about
00:58:48feelings
00:58:49and stuff
00:58:49uh
00:58:50I don't
00:58:51get it
00:58:51but anyway
00:58:53well maybe
00:58:54the crystal
00:58:54gives you
00:58:55good energy
00:58:55or something
00:58:56should I
00:58:56put it
00:58:56between my
00:58:57tits
00:58:57I don't
00:58:57know
00:58:57I need
00:58:58it
00:58:58probably
00:58:59actually
00:59:00thanks
00:59:00Stella
00:59:00because
00:59:01I'll
00:59:01take it
00:59:02it was
00:59:02pretty nice
00:59:03gesture
00:59:03thank you
00:59:04that's so
00:59:04cute for you
00:59:05guys
00:59:05anyways
00:59:06what happened
00:59:07oh god
00:59:08sorry
00:59:08I don't
00:59:08want to
00:59:09show you
00:59:09anyway
00:59:10so
00:59:11um
00:59:13but
00:59:14what else
00:59:15was there
00:59:15just
00:59:15I think
00:59:16since
00:59:17at the
00:59:18moment
00:59:18you are
00:59:19not giving
00:59:19her
00:59:20any
00:59:21worries
00:59:21you're not
00:59:22giving her
00:59:22any drama
00:59:23she's
00:59:23seeking
00:59:23that drama
00:59:24outsourcing
00:59:25the drama
00:59:25to fulfill
00:59:26her internal
00:59:27need
00:59:27that's
00:59:28probably
00:59:28a very
00:59:29deep
00:59:29conversation
00:59:30that you
00:59:30probably
00:59:30would need
00:59:31to have
00:59:32to be
00:59:33honest
00:59:33the advice
00:59:33I got
00:59:34was quite
00:59:34reasonable
00:59:35I feel
00:59:36we were
00:59:37just rehashing
00:59:37stuff that
00:59:38you and I
00:59:38have already
00:59:38spoken about
00:59:40you know
00:59:41what I mean
00:59:41I said
00:59:41that we're
00:59:41really good
00:59:42now and
00:59:42stuff
00:59:42I said
00:59:42we just
00:59:43found
00:59:43difficult
00:59:43to go
00:59:43through
00:59:44a hurdle
00:59:44where
00:59:45you know
00:59:46you're
00:59:47you're
00:59:47don't want
00:59:48to go
00:59:48through this
00:59:49whole experiment
00:59:49and I
00:59:50haven't met
00:59:50the same
00:59:51feelings yet
00:59:52if that
00:59:52makes sense
00:59:53and she
00:59:54just said
00:59:56go with
00:59:57every day
00:59:58like just
00:59:59not think
01:00:00about or
01:00:00talk about
01:00:01when Scott
01:00:01didn't say
01:00:02he's in love
01:00:03with me
01:00:03and stuff
01:00:04but she
01:00:05said the
01:00:05time will
01:00:05come
01:00:06to be
01:00:06honest
01:00:06she's
01:00:07like
01:00:07just
01:00:07keep
01:00:08doing
01:00:08what
01:00:08you're
01:00:08doing
01:00:09and the
01:00:09time is
01:00:10right
01:00:10the time
01:00:10is
01:00:10right
01:00:10you know
01:00:11what I
01:00:11mean
01:00:13and then
01:00:14just
01:00:14what else
01:00:14is this
01:00:15going to
01:00:16happen
01:00:18outside the
01:00:18experiment
01:00:19like
01:00:21this is
01:00:22going to be
01:00:22the same
01:00:23yeah
01:00:24if she
01:00:25can't manage
01:00:25her emotions
01:00:26and her
01:00:26emotional turmoil
01:00:27what she's
01:00:28experiencing
01:00:28right now
01:00:30which is
01:00:30very secluded
01:00:31it's a bubble
01:00:33we spoke a
01:00:34little bit
01:00:34about the
01:00:35outside noise
01:00:36and stuff
01:00:37and how
01:00:37sometimes
01:00:37it bothers
01:00:38our relationship
01:00:39when she was
01:00:40saying like
01:00:40if there was
01:00:42drama outside
01:00:42like are you
01:00:43someone that
01:00:44likes to be
01:00:44involved in
01:00:45other people's
01:00:46stuff
01:00:46do you know
01:00:47what I mean
01:00:47like in that
01:00:48environment
01:00:48I don't know
01:00:49do you know
01:00:49what I mean
01:00:50like I'm not
01:00:51sure if you
01:00:51like to be
01:00:51involved in
01:00:52people's stuff
01:00:52yeah I don't
01:00:53I don't
01:00:54partake in
01:00:55drama in real
01:00:55life so
01:00:56I'm a mum
01:00:57like I don't
01:00:58really have time
01:00:58for that shit
01:00:59so yeah
01:00:59outside of
01:01:00here I
01:01:00don't
01:01:00yeah
01:01:06you alright
01:01:06yeah I just
01:01:07don't really
01:01:08care for her
01:01:08feedback that's
01:01:09so fine
01:01:11my whole
01:01:12thought process
01:01:13I was going
01:01:13to just open
01:01:14up about what
01:01:15we spoke
01:01:15about
01:01:17but you
01:01:18know we're
01:01:19still recovering
01:01:19the past few
01:01:20days I
01:01:21thought I'll
01:01:22go light on
01:01:23this because
01:01:24I knew if
01:01:26I went too
01:01:27deep I'd be
01:01:28I wouldn't
01:01:29be here
01:01:30I'd be
01:01:30over the
01:01:30balcony
01:01:33alright cool
01:01:35tomorrow night
01:01:37oh my god
01:01:39it's Alyssa
01:01:40and Stephen's
01:01:41turn to get
01:01:41some fresh
01:01:42feedback
01:01:43maybe this is
01:01:44your opportunity
01:01:45to jump
01:01:45Rachel
01:01:45take the lead
01:01:47Stephen
01:01:48alright that's it
01:01:49but not all our
01:01:50participants will see
01:01:51this week as
01:01:52constructive criticism
01:01:54just like made a
01:01:55decision on how
01:01:55this is going
01:01:56actually no
01:01:57that's not true
01:01:58as a tense
01:01:59standoff ensues
01:02:00for one of our
01:02:01strongest couples
01:02:03even now I feel
01:02:04like you're getting
01:02:04defensive
01:02:04I'm not getting
01:02:05defensive I'm
01:02:05having a conversation
01:02:06I am sad I'm
01:02:09disappointed
01:02:10do you see me as
01:02:11the mother father of
01:02:11your children
01:02:12yes I do see you as
01:02:13the father of my
01:02:14children
01:02:16and as feedback week
01:02:17continues
01:02:19no thanks
01:02:22bye
01:02:23what's in the
01:02:24anonymous letter
01:02:25we just get through
01:02:26this
01:02:26oh I want to get
01:02:27out of here
01:02:27that pushes Gia to
01:02:29breaking point
01:02:31because Gia wants
01:02:32to leave
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