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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:03We went on this beautiful trip to Key West.
00:06Then I found out there was a girl living with you.
00:11I've been burned by guys who I thought had all the good intentions,
00:15only to find out that it was all in my head.
00:19I can label this right now.
00:21I would love to be your boyfriend.
00:26Whew! Yes!
00:30I wanted to see you face-to-face before I tell you.
00:33I have another daughter that I put up for adoption.
00:40Please don't hate me.
00:41You don't have to beat yourself up. It's out now.
00:45You know, I've been holding these secrets for 34 years,
00:48and it just feels like I'm finally free.
00:55Last night, Courtney came into my room. She grabbed my phone.
00:58Colt was exactly who everybody said he was.
01:03Courtney gracefully put all my stuff on the side of the road.
01:07An Uber came and took me away to the hotel.
01:10You don't love or care about me.
01:12You only care about yourself and your d***.
01:17I felt Colt was my happy ending.
01:19Now, like, my whole future just got ripped from me.
01:22I thought you were my best friend.
01:24I feel all of it's just a lie.
01:28See you, the famous selfie.
01:30You are making my brother suffering.
01:32First, Pedro's sister's making me uncomfortable,
01:35and then I have his mom just saying I should have sex with Pedro.
01:43There's only so much I can take before I'm going to lose my cool.
01:46I've been so nice to you and his momma.
01:48My momma's mother, my momma would never scare f***ing die away.
01:53You both don't love you.
01:54That's okay.
01:55My mom doesn't love me.
01:56My mom doesn't love me.
01:58You want to f***ing go there.
01:58You guys have a f***ing weird relationship.
02:01Okay, bye.
02:01You and your family are f***ing weird.
02:05Weirdos.
02:15Don't blame it on me.
02:23Don't blame it on me.
02:26Don't blame it on me.
02:31Don't blame it on myself.
02:33Don't blame it on your one-track mind.
02:40Courtney broke up with me a few days ago.
02:42I've been living in this motel ever since,
02:46and when I'm at the rock bottom of my life,
02:49there's only one person I can call.
02:53There you go.
02:55She's nice out here.
02:58My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada to save the day.
03:03How are you?
03:05Don't get up.
03:08Oh, my God.
03:10I'm doing okay.
03:12Yeah?
03:13How's it doing?
03:1641 stitches.
03:18Wow.
03:20I haven't seen my mother in person for six months,
03:22but when I told her that Courtney threw me out of the house
03:25and we broke up, she came down with her boyfriend from Canada
03:28to check it on me and make sure I'm okay.
03:31And I don't think she has a lot of confidence in my ability
03:34to take care of myself.
03:37Can you move it at all, or are you not allowed?
03:39Oh, yeah, I can move it.
03:40You're not supposed to put any weight on it.
03:42But I can't really put weight on it.
03:43I can't walk on it yet.
03:45What's going on with you and Courtney?
03:47We talked a little bit, but just, she's just crying
03:51and she's angry at me.
03:53She's upset, disappointed, very disappointed, very sad.
03:58So, I know I've been running from relationship to relationship,
04:01woman to woman, and I'm still doing that.
04:04But I love Courtney.
04:07So you guys need to be by yourself,
04:08away from her parents' home, and figure this all out.
04:11You can't keep doing this.
04:13Courtney's not going to take me back, dude.
04:16So you're not going to get back together?
04:19I don't think she wants to get back together with me.
04:24Like, you know what I did, right?
04:26Like, I'm having a relationship with another woman in Brazil.
04:33And it wasn't just a friendship.
04:35We were actually exchanging adult imagery.
04:41But you weren't with Courtney when that was going on.
04:45Well, I was doing this from her house.
04:48Wow.
04:49Really?
04:50I don't know.
04:50I don't want to get into that.
04:53I feel like there should be this sense of shame
04:55that my mother and I have about talking about my
04:57or my bad behavior.
04:59But we're pretty cool.
05:01We're like bros.
05:02She's always kind of treating me more like a friend
05:04than like a mother.
05:06So me talking to her about cheating,
05:08she's always kind of got my back.
05:12If you want to get back into a relationship
05:15with Courtney, I can talk to her
05:18and I can do my best to see.
05:22Colt has a way of doing this.
05:24He's in a relationship and all of a sudden
05:26he starts wandering, you know.
05:28And he did it several times
05:30with several different people.
05:31I don't want to name names.
05:33So bad.
05:34He can't do that.
05:35But I think I can talk to Courtney, woman to woman.
05:40I understand exactly how she feels.
05:43I went through something similar a long time ago.
05:45But if I make her realize how Colt feels
05:49and he really does care about her,
05:51I think I can break through that barrier
05:53and convince her to try it again.
05:57Just talk to her.
05:59I will.
05:59Try to tell her.
06:02I don't know.
06:02I know.
06:03I will.
06:03I'll talk to her.
06:06Well, thank you.
06:07Well, of course.
06:21My mom doesn't love me.
06:22I said, what the f*** am I doing to you?
06:24What am I doing to you?
06:25Your mom doesn't love you.
06:27Okay, well, you guys are too involved.
06:29This is Pedro's relationship.
06:30He's a grown f***ing man.
06:31Okay.
06:42She's acting like a crazy girl.
06:44Like, oh, your f***ing mother.
06:46Like, what is that?
06:49No, I said, we're trying to be crazy.
06:51We're trying to be worried about him.
06:53Okay, fine.
06:55The relationship between Pedro, his sister, and his mom is not normal.
07:00They're so full on about him.
07:02Do you want to go talk with them?
07:03Yeah.
07:04You can talk with them.
07:05My mom doesn't love me.
07:07They're just blocking Pedro from someone he should at least get to know.
07:12If I date Pedro, that's my in-law and his sister.
07:16Yeah, I don't know.
07:17Possibly doesn't mean-
07:18Your mom f***ing loves you f***ing in a weird f***ing way, bro.
07:21His mama's, as soon as I met him, hey, why haven't you?
07:23F***ing my son.
07:24That's a weird f***ing relationship.
07:26Sorry.
07:26Soon as I met her, she said, why have you not f***ing my son?
07:28Why have you not got his banana?
07:30She said that to me.
07:32How does she know this?
07:33He told her.
07:34I guess they talk about Pedro f***ing.
07:36What was that?
07:37Why are you telling her that her mom doesn't love her?
07:39No, no, no.
07:40No, no.
07:41Simplemente te voy a decir algo.
07:42Ella no puede me razon de mi, a decirme a mi, to your f***ing mother.
07:46No, but-
07:46O sea, no, excuse me.
07:47Yo no puedo tolerar eso.
07:49Porque ella me va a decir a mi, y porque ella respeta tu mamá.
07:52Es tu mamá también?
07:54Yeah, bro.
07:55Entonces, por qué?
07:56A mi cumpleaños.
07:58A mi cumpleaños.
07:59Es mi cumpleaños.
08:00Es mi cumpleaños.
08:00Es decirme a mi eso.
08:01Yeah, okay.
08:03Dile ya que se puede ir.
08:06The only thing I have done is asking you about what are your intentions with my brother.
08:12I am respecting you and you cannot be here to disrespect me, to respect my mom.
08:16You cannot talk to me like that.
08:19Pedro need to rethink about this because what she has done tonight just has demonstrated
08:26She is not a woman for Pedro.
08:29Sophie, let's go.
08:31Let's go, let's go, let's go.
08:32Why the f***?
08:33I was chill.
08:34I was chilling.
08:35I don't know if you ever-
08:35You called my mother.
08:37Like, you called my mother.
08:39You said your mom is a mother.
08:40That's why she got her like that.
08:41Let's go.
08:42What did I say?
08:42I didn't say about your mom.
08:43I said you guys are grilling me.
08:44No, no, no.
08:45That's what I said.
08:46I said you're the f***.
08:47Enough.
08:47I said, no, you enough.
08:48I don't want to see you here.
08:49I don't want to see you here.
08:50It's my birthday.
08:51I don't want to see you here.
08:52Happy birthday.
08:52I don't want to see you here today.
08:53Have a bright birthday.
08:57I said you-
08:58You called my f*** mom.
08:59That's what you say.
09:00What did I call her?
09:00I called your mom?
09:01Yeah, you said your f*** mom.
09:03You said that.
09:04I said you and your mom are grilling me.
09:05No, no, no, no, no.
09:06I didn't say nothing about your mom.
09:07You called my f*** mom.
09:08Been grilling me.
09:09You're your f***.
09:10Yeah, that's not-
09:11You know, I don't know if there's a language,
09:12but that's not insulting you.
09:13I said you and your mom, yes, are grilling me.
09:14That's why I get it like that.
09:17It was misunderstood that I said your f*** mom.
09:20I didn't say f*** mom.
09:22People swear they're angry.
09:23You and your f*** mom.
09:24Like, why would I say f*** your mom?
09:26I've been nothing but respectful to your mom
09:28who's been disrespecting me the whole night.
09:30Okay, English language, we say f*** this f*** that.
09:33Yeah, bro, no, no meaning-
09:34I never said anything wrong about your mom.
09:35I said you guys are grilling me.
09:36You guys are too involved.
09:37That's what I said.
09:38That's what I said.
09:39I never insulted your mother.
09:58Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
10:02I told Sophie, if you feel a little overwhelming, call me and can't diffuse this situation.
10:06I could hear them yelling and I could know it's about me.
10:09So I'd like put the umbilical forward, bro.
10:12I had a flash about the old rebel thing that Chantelle said about my family
10:15and I want to go through that again.
10:18I thought the Sophie was different.
10:21But I'm wrong with that.
10:23I never said f*** your mom.
10:24I said f*** you, your f*** mom.
10:27I was talking with Julia.
10:28I heard you say your f*** mom.
10:29Yes, I said your f*** mom.
10:31Yeah, but you didn't say Sophie, those things.
10:32Trust me, I was very respectful to your mom.
10:35Okay, whatever.
10:36We'll see you tomorrow.
10:39He was meant to have my back, but I'm like, okay, have your mom and your sister's back.
10:43And this is why he will be single forever.
10:46Damn.
10:51Woman, a lot of things have been happening.
10:54I am in Maine visiting my cousin Sanela.
10:56Now it's official.
10:58You don't have a single cousin anymore.
11:01Well, when I see Tony, I have a lot of questions.
11:06When it comes to people that I love, I don't hold back.
11:10And I think Vanya can do much better.
11:13Noah's playing with my cousin.
11:16Now that it's all out, I'm ready to find her.
11:19If something traumatic has happened to my daughter,
11:22or she needed me for something,
11:23I won't be able to live with myself.
11:26And I want you guys on this journey with me.
11:33Um...
11:35I just do what I want, do what I want, do what I want to do.
11:40I just do what I do, do what I do, do what I'm gonna do.
11:44If you let me, I can take you.
11:48Where you wanna go?
11:49Hello.
11:51It's finally happening.
11:53I'm so excited.
11:55I just do what I want, do what I want, do what I want to do.
11:59I just do what I do, do what I do, do what I'm gonna do.
12:03I just arrived in Maine,
12:06and I'm super excited to finally get to see my cousin.
12:09This is awesome.
12:11I am in Maine visiting my cousin Sanela and her husband, Marinko,
12:15and, um, it is an amazing weekend because it's my birthday.
12:19My birthday is July 4th.
12:21As you can tell, I'm a firecracker.
12:25Tony is also coming in.
12:27He's coming in on a later flight,
12:29and he's just going to meet us at Sanela's place later.
12:34Ever since Tony and I went on our little romantic date,
12:38we're now official,
12:38and this is our first trip as a couple,
12:41and it's a big deal.
12:43I am a little nervous about Tony and Sanela hanging out.
12:47Um, you know how they always say,
12:49when you date a girl, you date a girl and her best friend,
12:51so poor Tony.
12:54Sanela can be very critical,
12:56but I totally believe that when the right guy comes along,
13:00Sanela is going to be able to recognize it,
13:02and she will fully support our relationship.
13:05And I hope it's Tony.
13:06It better be Tony.
13:09I am here!
13:12Finally!
13:14So good to see you again.
13:17Oh, my God, you're so pretty.
13:18I missed you.
13:19Look at you all from Florida.
13:21Well, very much Florida.
13:24Are you ready for a touch-up?
13:25Maybe.
13:26I'm excited.
13:28Can't wait to hear everything about you.
13:31Sanela has her own salon,
13:34and she's touching up my beautiful permanent makeup.
13:36All right, come on in.
13:38A lot of things have been happening.
13:40So I'm excited that I have someone like her in my life
13:42to keep this up.
13:45So now it's official.
13:47You don't have a single cousin anymore.
13:49I still don't understand what took him so long.
13:52I don't know.
13:53I don't know.
13:53It beats me, too.
13:54But good things come to those who wait,
13:56so here we are.
13:59Have you guys had a talk,
14:00a sex talk?
14:02You mean the celibacy talk?
14:04No, we have not,
14:05but that's definitely something
14:06that needs to be brought up.
14:08I wonder when it comes to sleeping at your house,
14:11what we're going to do.
14:12I think maybe it might be a good idea for me
14:14to not be in the same room with him,
14:15just to not give him any mixed messages
14:18or wrong ideas.
14:19Yeah.
14:20It would be too soon for that anyways.
14:22Yeah.
14:23Even though Tony and I have been friends
14:25for about a year and a half at this point,
14:27I still haven't shared with him
14:29my thoughts about sex and my celibacy.
14:32Because even though we were just friends,
14:34I always liked him.
14:35And I also felt that he always liked me.
14:38I feel like that tension between us
14:41prevented me from ever bringing up
14:43sexual encounters with other people
14:45because it would just be weird.
14:47But now that we are in a relationship,
14:50I just want to make sure that we're on the same page
14:52so that our expectations match going forward.
14:56You know, he had shown some red flags.
14:59I mean, he's been good to you,
15:00but he's also been a little bizarre
15:02with certain moves he has made.
15:04I know.
15:05There's something that did happen
15:07that really got me upset.
15:09So he took me out for dinner,
15:11and it was amazing.
15:13It was so much fun.
15:14And then he ended up going
15:16to another restaurant afterwards
15:17and a club by himself.
15:23No, I was livid.
15:25I would be too.
15:26And especially because he was just trying to defend it,
15:29like it's something perfectly normal.
15:31Like, oh, it doesn't mean anything.
15:32I'm like, uh...
15:33Normal?
15:34Oh, my God.
15:35Okay, we'll see how you feel
15:36when I start doing that.
15:39That's not something you do.
15:40You don't just send your girlfriend home,
15:42and then you go out to a bar
15:43and sit there by yourself.
15:45What's he looking for?
15:49Oh, wow.
15:50This is beautiful.
15:51And then we'll do a quick lip.
15:53I love it.
15:54Okay.
15:55When it comes to people that I love,
15:57I don't hold back.
15:58And I think Vanya's standards
16:01used to be pretty high,
16:02but recently,
16:03just looking at her past couple
16:05of relationship that she had,
16:07I think she can do much better.
16:09But I'm not sure if Tony's that person.
16:13All right, Vanya,
16:14just so you know,
16:15when I see Tony,
16:17I have a lot of questions.
16:19I have a lot of...
16:20Vanya, he's in my house,
16:22and I have the right
16:24to ask the questions
16:25because I'm always playing
16:26with my cousin.
16:28I wish I had the same talk
16:30with the stupid-ass Josko.
16:32Okay.
16:32I would have fair
16:33kick this ass.
16:35I do want Sanalat to grill him
16:37because who takes
16:39their girlfriend out for dinner,
16:41send her home,
16:41and then you go on to a bar
16:43to sit there by yourself?
16:44Like, what's the purpose
16:45of you sitting at a bar?
16:46Like, unless it's to pick up
16:48another girl.
16:49I see no other reason.
16:50We need to find out, Vanya,
16:52if Tony has
16:53your best interest in heart.
16:55Of course he does.
16:57Well, we'll find out.
16:59We definitely need some answers
17:01because I've dealt with enough
17:02of Playboys in my life.
17:04I'm not looking forward
17:05to another one.
17:11Yeah.
17:12Uh, wait, hold up.
17:14Is that me?
17:15Looking in the mirror
17:15who I see?
17:16Know I can overcome anything.
17:18Not in my circumstances.
17:19Keep...
17:20Yesterday was such
17:21a rollercoaster,
17:23you know?
17:23It wasn't really
17:24a rollercoaster
17:25because it went down quick.
17:26I didn't have a place.
17:28But it got brought back up.
17:29I just had to do it.
17:30It was like overtaking my body,
17:32you know?
17:32I'm determined to do better.
17:35My future looking clean.
17:36I'm determined to do better.
17:38You know just what I mean.
17:40I know I could do better.
17:41Oh, here we are.
17:43Hey.
17:45Where's Mr. Larry?
17:46Where is he?
17:49Oh, there he is.
17:50Yo.
17:50Yo, yo, what's up, man?
17:52What's up, brother?
17:52All right.
17:54Nice fit.
17:54Oh, thank you.
17:56Yesterday I came clean to Larry
17:58about the daughter
17:58I put up for adoption.
18:00And it was one of the hardest
18:01things I've ever had
18:02to do in my life.
18:03How are you?
18:04I'm doing good.
18:05I'm doing good today.
18:05All right, no crying.
18:07No crying today.
18:08Hopefully no crying today.
18:10Larry was so accepting
18:12and so understanding
18:13more than I ever
18:15could think possible.
18:16I just feel like
18:17I'm ready to shed my past
18:18and move forward now.
18:20And I want Larry
18:21definitely in my life,
18:22you know?
18:23I want for us
18:24to build a family together,
18:25so.
18:27Let's just go walk
18:28and talk and I don't know.
18:29I just want to like
18:30hang out with my boys.
18:31All right.
18:31My boys.
18:32All right.
18:32My boys.
18:34I never thought
18:34I'd say that.
18:35My boys.
18:36All right, y'all ready?
18:38Yeah.
18:39Shotgun.
18:40I'm the older brother.
18:40Get in the back.
18:41Shotgun.
18:41Get your ass in the back seat.
18:42You got it.
18:43No, he's our guest.
18:45Then he should get
18:45in the front seat.
18:46No, he gets the best.
18:47Yeah, y'all are chauffeuring me.
18:50Put your seatbelt on, sir.
18:52Good on.
18:53Can you tell your brother
18:54to put a seatbelt on now?
18:55Put your seatbelt on.
18:56Yeah, you're right.
18:56She can't drive, for real.
18:59Even though Larry and Jamal
19:00weren't raised together,
19:02the energy between them
19:03is just crazy.
19:05Like, Larry has
19:06the typical older brother vibe
19:08while Jamal's just like
19:09the baby brother.
19:11It's very endearing to me
19:12being their mom.
19:14I feel the lightest I've felt
19:16in 34 years.
19:1830 years.
19:19Yeah.
19:20She's glowing.
19:21You are.
19:22You're glowing.
19:24That's why I'm wearing
19:25my shades today.
19:30Right.
19:31Let's go, guys.
19:33You make me want
19:34to play.
19:38Welcome to San Diego, Larry.
19:40Welcome to San Diego.
19:42I belong here.
19:44You too.
19:45Your roots are here.
19:45Yeah.
19:47Wow, isn't it weird
19:48seeing them?
19:49San Diego.
19:50Looks like me.
19:52Not as good looking.
19:53You look like him.
19:54I keep telling him that.
19:56What?
19:56You look like me.
20:00It's so cool coming out here
20:01and getting to spend
20:03pretty much the day
20:04with just them two.
20:05You know what I'm saying?
20:07It is real cool out here,
20:09isn't it?
20:11I'm definitely feeling
20:12the brotherly love.
20:13I don't know about you.
20:14I do.
20:14I feel like we should
20:15do things we were supposed
20:16to do, like play catch
20:18and raid the fridge
20:20with moms.
20:22You want to race?
20:23Let's do it.
20:23All right, we're going to race
20:25to that pole right there.
20:26You ready?
20:26You can even do the
20:27three, two, one.
20:28Okay.
20:29Three, two, one.
20:35Woo!
20:37Do you guys like each other?
20:39I love them.
20:40Do you love me?
20:41I love you.
20:42Aw.
20:43I'm told to say it back.
20:44I love you too.
20:46Aw.
20:50So how are you feeling
20:51since yesterday, Larry?
20:53Feeling good.
20:55It was a surprising news,
20:57absolutely, but, you know,
20:59glad it's out.
21:00I'm glad there are no more
21:01secrets, so she says.
21:04I'll let you know.
21:05There isn't.
21:06No, I know.
21:07There isn't.
21:08But I'm good, though.
21:09It's all good, man.
21:11We're moving on from here.
21:13Now that it's all out,
21:14I'm ready to find her.
21:20And I want you guys
21:21on this journey with me,
21:22but how do you feel about it?
21:25I'm with you.
21:26I'm ready to find her.
21:28How about you?
21:30Yeah, I've been ready, you know?
21:33Before yesterday,
21:33I felt so alone with my secrets
21:36and really ashamed.
21:37But now,
21:38with the support
21:39of both of my sons,
21:40we can start the journey
21:41to find my daughter.
21:42I did name her Jennifer.
21:45And it might not be her name now.
21:47Right, right.
21:47You know,
21:48they probably did change it,
21:49but it was my way
21:51of identifying with her,
21:52you know?
21:54It was a closed adoption,
21:55so I don't have a lot of information
21:57about my daughter.
21:58The adoption agency
22:00will have to reach out to her
22:01and then see if she wants
22:03to contact with me.
22:06But there is the possibility
22:08she might not want to see me.
22:10You gave her a like,
22:11like you gave me.
22:12She don't know anything else.
22:14But you know,
22:14not everybody feels
22:16the same way you do, right?
22:17And I love you for that.
22:19I truly, truly love you
22:20because you've made this
22:21really easy for me.
22:22Mm-hmm.
22:23But she really might just,
22:25she might be angry.
22:27I'm preparing my mental for that.
22:29You know what I mean?
22:32The best case scenario
22:33is that I can fly her out here,
22:36get to know her,
22:37she can meet her brothers.
22:39That would be, um,
22:41that would be like
22:42a dream come true for me.
22:46Look, it's the seal.
22:47Oh, yeah.
22:48You haven't seen them here.
22:49Go right there.
22:50Isn't that crazy?
22:51They really right there.
22:52They're right there.
22:53Look at them.
22:54Look at them.
22:54I know.
22:56As for the worst case scenario,
22:58it's not the fact
22:59that she won't talk to me.
23:00It's that she's either not living
23:01or that she needed me for something
23:03and I wasn't there for her.
23:05And I wouldn't be able
23:06to live with myself.
23:09And if I can't make peace
23:10with my past,
23:12I don't know if I'll ever find
23:13love and happiness,
23:14which is something
23:15that I've been looking for
23:16my whole life.
23:18It's your favorite animal, right?
23:20It's my favorite animal.
23:21You know why?
23:21What?
23:22Because they're loud and fat
23:23just like I am.
23:24It's true.
23:29Your sister and your mom
23:30was acting crazy to me
23:31and you're mad
23:32because I said the word
23:34Yes, I am.
23:35Whoa.
23:36I have a flashback
23:38because I thought it was
23:39so toxic to my family.
23:40I thought it was
23:41going to be better than this.
23:43Your family are going to push
23:44people in your life away.
23:45You know that, right?
24:11Oh, this is when I feel a little bit, you know,
24:12like trash.
24:14It's supposed to be a fun day,
24:17but everything was, like, very overwhelming.
24:35It's a bit important because it's my mom and my sis and my partner.
24:37They got to get along.
24:40I don't want all the time, fighting, fighting.
24:43It's not good.
24:46Last night, the birthday party was terrible.
24:48I didn't feel very frustrated
24:49because the things between me and Sophie
24:51was good before.
24:53And right now, my family destroyed everything
24:56that I built with Sophie into this moment
24:58because they got big argument.
25:02I have a flashback
25:04because she said that was so toxic to my family
25:08that our relationship could have survived.
25:11I thought that Sophie was going to be better than this.
25:15I haven't talked to Sophie since last night.
25:19And I'm very concerned
25:20what's going to happen right now
25:21with the rap on the street.
25:25Good morning.
25:27Good morning.
25:28How you doing?
25:30I'm doing okay.
25:35How you feel?
25:37How was last night?
25:40Um, the whole night.
25:41Your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me
25:43and I still was respectful
25:45all the way up until the end.
25:46I wanted to have a fun time, you know,
25:48just be at your sister's birthday.
25:49I didn't think they'd really care
25:50that I was there, to be honest.
25:51I thought I'd meet them.
25:52They'd be like, hey, how are you?
25:53And that was it.
25:54I didn't know I was there to be grilled.
25:56But you called your mother in front of everybody.
26:02I have explained to you that it's a language barrier.
26:05Your mom does not mean your mom.
26:07Yeah, that's...
26:08So did you not see what they all were saying to me the whole night?
26:13I said, you and your mom.
26:15I didn't say, your mom.
26:18Like, there's a difference.
26:19All I was saying was you and your mom.
26:21I just swore.
26:22You and your mom.
26:23And what I'm finding hurtful is that
26:25Pedro is not even, like, standing up for me.
26:27It's kind of a turn off.
26:30They wasn't respecting it, and you're mad at me.
26:32Yeah, I remember.
26:33There's some problem they got before with Chantel.
26:34So I acted like Chantel.
26:35Eh?
26:36I know Chantel called your sister a bitch,
26:38and Chantel did a lot worse than me.
26:40I did not act like your ex.
26:41Sorry, but I didn't.
26:42Yuck.
26:43I did not act like...
26:51She was judging me the whole night, Pedro.
26:54And you're mad because I said the word...
26:57Yes, I am.
26:58Whoa.
26:59Before everything happened at the party,
27:01me and Pedro were actually having a really nice day.
27:03Like, I was really getting to know him.
27:05I felt more comfortable with him.
27:06And honestly, if all that didn't happen,
27:09I was even like, I might sleep in his bed,
27:10or he can sleep in my bed,
27:11because I was feeling a connection,
27:13and I was like, okay, maybe we can get closer.
27:15So, yeah, his family,
27:18which is weird, but they blocked him.
27:21Your family are going to push people in your life away.
27:24You know that, right?
27:26If that's how they talk to people,
27:27like, if you just introduce a girl,
27:28and they do that every time,
27:30I don't think it's possible that would ever work out
27:31with them acting like that, you know?
27:33You know, I understand that.
27:41I want to say I'm sorry for last night.
27:42My family can be a lot.
27:45But I'm not going to lose you
27:46because our birthday party was wrong.
27:50I want to be there for you.
27:52I'm sorry if I made you feel I disrespected your mom.
27:56That's not, wasn't my intention.
27:58And I should have been more chill with Nicole.
28:01Yeah, like, look, you and me,
28:04let's forget about this moment.
28:06Can we brush it up?
28:08Because I don't want to last night
28:10made this a disaster, okay?
28:12I think I just, like, after last night,
28:14like, it's just a lot,
28:15so I just need to, like, step back a little bit.
28:18I'm still getting over all the drama
28:20I went through with my marriage,
28:21so I'm not ready to deal with someone else's crazy.
28:25So even though I do really like Pedro
28:26and I'm not ready to call it quits with him,
28:28I do need some time to figure out
28:30what's best for me at this point.
28:32I still like you,
28:32and I still want to get to know you, you know?
28:34It's not, it's not changed my things about you.
28:37It's more so, like,
28:39well, what if I get to like you more?
28:40Now I also have to deal with your family,
28:43like, coming for me?
28:44Is that something I actually want?
28:45So I just need a bit of, like, time.
28:49So I feel different woman
28:50that being excited about it,
28:52saying my divorce.
28:54I put too much effort on this,
28:58and I don't want to lose her
28:59for the mistake that my mom and my sister did to her.
29:07Sorry.
29:16Thank you for seeing us.
29:18I think Debbie is an enabler.
29:20Oh, you want to go cheat?
29:22Oh, don't worry, son.
29:23I'll go fix that for you.
29:24He really does love you
29:26and swears that he'll never do this again.
29:29He's going to keep doing it.
29:30Like, what the f***?
29:33I don't know if Debbie even believes
29:34the words coming out of her mouth.
29:37Yeah.
29:50It's so bright and sunny.
29:53It is.
29:53I get blinded.
29:55Anyway, we have to really convince Courtney
29:58in a sweet way that it's making a mistake
30:02if he doesn't give Colt another chance.
30:04Give him one last chance.
30:06Yeah, one last chance.
30:07I think he really cares about her.
30:09I guess I'll park in front of the house.
30:17Okay.
30:18There we go.
30:22And then, yeah, we'll scoop it out
30:24and then we'll add all the good stuff.
30:28So Colt sent me a text.
30:29His mom's in town and she wants to talk to me.
30:31I'm like, what the f***?
30:33Like, why would she want to come talk to me?
30:36Hello.
30:37How are you?
30:37How are you?
30:38You're all help.
30:39Yeah.
30:39I haven't met Debbie in person,
30:42but I've gotten to know her over the past few months
30:44through video chat.
30:46Thank you for seeing us.
30:47Of course.
30:48You're so beautiful.
30:50Oh, thank you.
30:50You too.
30:51She has the history of meddling in all of his relationships,
30:55but I wonder if Colt told his mom
30:57that he was sending jerk-off videos to other women.
31:00I like his shirt.
31:01Cute.
31:02Hi.
31:03Hi.
31:03Welcome to our home.
31:04It's nice to meet you.
31:05Thank you for seeing us.
31:07Appreciate it.
31:10No problem.
31:11Nice meeting you.
31:12Nice meeting you.
31:13We have a lovely home.
31:14Well, thank you.
31:15I'm very surprised that Debbie came.
31:17Colt really hurt her flesh and blood.
31:20Yeah.
31:21Our daughter, you know.
31:22Oh, it was heartbreaking.
31:24Yeah, very much.
31:24Seeing Courtney so upset.
31:26I had totally lost respect for him.
31:28I told him he's in his own nest.
31:30Yeah, and she never cusses me.
31:35So first of all, Colt wants to apologize.
31:38And he knows he made a big-ass mistake.
31:40He knows it.
31:42And he wants to rectify it.
31:44He knows you guys have done everything in the world
31:46before I'm going to start crying here.
31:47Here's some tissues.
31:49I've been crying so much.
31:51Like, I have bags under my eyes.
31:52I've been crying so much the past, like,
31:54four or five days.
31:55And I saw he's, like, messaging this other woman.
31:59I'm like, okay, I'm done.
32:00Like, I can never trust you again.
32:03Yeah, that's not a good way to find out.
32:05That's for sure.
32:06Right.
32:06I mean, she's had situations like this before
32:10where she's been really serious with the guys.
32:12And then all of a sudden, she finds out
32:15they're two-timing her.
32:17I understand that.
32:18I mean, I really do.
32:20But on the other hand, if he really does love you
32:24and swears that he'll never do this again...
32:27He's going to keep doing it.
32:29No, he thinks maybe if you two were together
32:34alone for a few days,
32:36you could work this out.
32:39So he goes back and forth on what he wants.
32:41I feel he's lost and confused.
32:43So it's like, I'm not going to be one of his options
32:45or in his love triangle.
32:47It's like, you had me and you lost me.
32:50I think Debbie is an enabler.
32:52Oh, you want to go cheat?
32:54Oh, don't worry, son.
32:54I'll go fix that for you
32:56and go tell them what a great guy you are
32:58and to give you another chance.
32:59Like, I don't know if Debbie even believes
33:01the words coming out of her mouth.
33:02Like, oh, he learned his lesson
33:05after the hundredth time he's done this to a woman.
33:09So, I mean, I can talk, you know,
33:13all I can, but if you're sure about this...
33:17Yeah, I feel like on a relationship standpoint,
33:19I'm done, like...
33:24I was so proud of Courtney.
33:26To tell Debbie that she's done with Colt.
33:29This is a betrayal on us as well as Courtney
33:32because we opened up our house to a stranger.
33:36And he was taking advantage of our hospitality.
33:41Again, I apologize for everything
33:43and thank you so much for taking him in.
33:46I'm really sorry the way it turned out.
33:48I really am.
33:49Yeah, it's disappointing.
33:52I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom,
33:54but I need to be honest with her.
33:56I need to be honest with myself.
33:58There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
34:01All right, bye.
34:02Bye.
34:02Thank you.
34:03It's nice meeting you.
34:04I've pretty much been a full-time nurse
34:07for this lying, cheating piece of...
34:09Like, I need Debbie to just take over now
34:11so I can move on.
34:13Bye.
34:14Bye-bye.
34:16Okay.
34:19Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya?
34:22You're worried that I'm a player.
34:23Yeah.
34:23Is that what you're getting at?
34:24You had a girlfriend living with you
34:25and then you were hanging out with Vanya.
34:27Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanya.
34:30She's told her a lot about my past
34:32that now it's almost using against me.
34:34She just, like, full-out assaulted me out there.
34:48Come on in, Vanya.
34:50Okay.
34:51Ooh, need your help?
34:52Come on.
34:54That's a big one.
34:56This is packing for three days.
35:07Look who it is.
35:09That was good to see you.
35:10Good to meet you, honey.
35:10Good to see you.
35:12I am just arriving to Sunil and Marinka's house in Maine
35:15and they are hosting Tony and I for my birthday weekend.
35:19Thanks for having me.
35:21So, what are you making?
35:23I gotta feed my rabbits.
35:26She's got two of them now.
35:28I know.
35:28Two vegans.
35:29You guys can catch up.
35:30I'm just gonna go change my clothes
35:31because I'm sweaty.
35:33Okay.
35:33All right, I'll see you in a minute.
35:34Sounds good.
35:36So, tell me a little bit about this guy.
35:40Tony.
35:40So, he's actually a doctor.
35:43He's very, very smart.
35:44And that's one of the things that I really love about him
35:46is that, you know, we can have all these
35:49awesome intellectual conversations
35:50and that's important because, you know,
35:52I get bored so easily.
35:54So, I love that.
35:56Well, I can't wait to meet him, so.
35:58Mm-hmm.
35:58I hope you like him.
36:01Hi, Tony.
36:01Hello.
36:02How are you?
36:02Come on in.
36:04Thank you, thank you.
36:05Nice to see you.
36:06Nice to see you, too.
36:06I'll leave you here?
36:07Yes, that's fine.
36:08Welcome to Maine.
36:09All right.
36:09All right, come on in.
36:10Thank you for having me.
36:11It's a beautiful house.
36:13Marinko?
36:13Tony.
36:14Nice to meet you.
36:15Nice to meet you.
36:15Nice to meet you.
36:16My lady.
36:18So, Tony, can I get yourself a drink?
36:19Yeah, actually, I could use a bourbon neat.
36:21Sure.
36:22We gotta go downstairs to the bar.
36:24My expectations for Tony this weekend
36:26are to get along with everybody,
36:29present himself in the best light.
36:31I definitely want Sanala to give her a stamp of approval.
36:35It would mean the world to me
36:36to know that she is on board with this relationship.
36:39This is beautiful.
36:41Thank you.
36:41Absolutely serene.
36:42Thank you.
36:42How long have you guys lived here for?
36:44Uh, about nine years.
36:46Nine years.
36:46Yeah.
36:47You guys are married for how long?
36:48Nineteen.
36:49Nineteen years.
36:50What's the secret?
36:51The foundation is very, very important.
36:54You know, building a strong, strong foundation.
36:57You were a friend.
36:57We were good friends back then.
36:59Me and Vanya were best friends for a year and a half.
37:01Yeah.
37:01But I think after my divorce, it's a little bit harder.
37:04So I'm being extra cautious.
37:07Yeah.
37:08Well, how long were you married for?
37:12I was only married for eight months.
37:13Very short.
37:15There was a lack of communication on both ends in the end.
37:36So I thought we were going to be making s'mores.
37:39What happened to that?
37:40Let's get them.
37:41Let's go get it.
37:42Let's go get it.
37:42Yeah.
37:44I know that Sanela wants to grill Tony, and with me and Marinka walking away, I am definitely
37:49giving her the opportunity to do that.
37:52Now there's two of us.
37:55He went to a bar alone after our date, and I still can't figure out what he was doing,
38:02where his head was at.
38:03I'm hoping Sanela can get to the bottom of that, because I still have questions on it.
38:11Vanya is my best friend, as you know.
38:13We talk every day, and I've seen her hurt before.
38:17Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya, or is it something just for the
38:23fun?
38:24She told me about the story when you guys went to a restaurant and took her back home,
38:28and then you went to a bar sitting by yourself.
38:31Were you seeking for another friend?
38:33No.
38:33Yeah, I went to a bar afterwards, but it was nothing more than that.
38:37And I told her about the whole experience.
38:39Another girl could have come and approached you.
38:42Do you know how that looks?
38:43You're worried that I'm a player.
38:44Yeah.
38:45Is that what you're getting at?
38:47You had a girlfriend living with you, and then you were hanging out with Vanya.
38:50I mean, if I was that girlfriend, I would be pissed.
38:53I never hung out with her, or I never hung out with Vanya when I was dating her.
38:57We were always friends.
38:58We kept it.
39:01Are you sure?
39:02Absolutely, 100%.
39:03Well, I don't know.
39:04Yeah, timeline doesn't match up.
39:07I am coming here for Vanya's birthday, and I spend time with the family, and I've barely
39:12been here for an hour, and Selena's just giving me a third degree.
39:17Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanya because I feel like she's told her a lot about my past
39:23that now Selena's using against me.
39:25I just hope you're not playing games with my cousin.
39:28You're looking at my past, you're not looking at right now.
39:30What did we miss?
39:32A lovely talk, a lovely discussion.
39:34Yeah?
39:35All right, well, dessert's here.
39:37I'm going to hit the hay.
39:39I'm tired.
39:39I'm exhausted.
39:40Why?
39:41It's tired.
39:42I mean, a long day.
39:43Long day.
39:46Really?
39:47Yeah, I'm tired.
39:47I'm exhausted.
39:48I just need to get out of here.
39:49Okay, well, I'm going to come with.
39:52All right.
39:52Thanks, guys.
39:53Good night, guys.
39:54I'm sorry.
40:01What happened?
40:03I hope you didn't go too far.
40:06You're just getting defensive over nothing.
40:08Like, he's just not giving me anything to prove to me that he really means well.
40:14So you did go too far.
40:19What have you been talking to her about?
40:21I mean, she just, like, full-out assaulted me out there.
40:23And, I mean, I just don't appreciate her line of questioning.
40:27What did she say?
40:29I mean, I don't want to get into it.
40:31I'm exhausted.
40:34Is this where we're sleeping tonight, or?
40:36Well, this is where you're sleeping.
40:37I'm going to be sleeping upstairs.
40:39Right.
40:47I planned on talking to Tony about my celibacy and the reason for not sharing the bed with him.
40:53But he's really angry, and he's shutting down.
40:56And now might not be the best time to have that conversation.
41:02I guess that is what it is.
41:03Good night.
41:25It's dangerous playing with the heart of a woman.
41:36Still to come on The Single Life.
41:44Oh, my goodness.
41:47You're getting me all hot.
41:48Oh, yeah?
41:50Well, that can lead to that.
41:51I'm really excited to see where this can take us.
41:54Because I like you.
41:59Whoa, is that the Queen of England?
42:01Hello, peasant.
42:02Hello.
42:03I've been talking to a man from Derbyshire, England, named Wayne.
42:07Hi.
42:08Oh, wow.
42:11This legit might be my person.
42:15Ah.
42:18I'm single.
42:19I'm on holiday.
42:20And I've told Fredro I need some space.
42:22Let me touch it.
42:24Oh, wow.
42:26This guy looks like the right amount of space.
42:30This is my daughter.
42:35I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
42:37I didn't expect that.
42:38I'm surprised you're even here.
42:40If there's going to be any chance for our relationship to work, I'm going to have to win Bella over.
42:46I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself with a troll like Gino, a spineless loser like him.
42:55You okay?
42:56No.
42:58I want to throw up.
43:02Diana and Kourtney, I was treating both women equally wrong.
43:07It hurts so many people.
43:11I'm going to fight like hell to get her back.
43:14Which one?
43:18Good question.
43:21You kiss him.
43:24Yeah.
43:25Bye.
43:26What the hell?
43:28I care about him and he thinks I don't because I went on one date.
43:32One date.
43:32I went on one date.
43:35This.
43:36I just feel bad.
43:37I just feel terrible.
43:38Disgrace.
43:43Do you mind if I have a dance?
43:45It's my girl.
43:46Are you serious?
43:47I'm just like really done with this.
43:49The fact that he's projecting this insecurity on me, it's not right.
43:53I'm not going to stand for it.
43:54So you're stopping me from being who I am.
43:57You don't see a problem here at all.
43:58What is the freaking problem?
44:00The problem is actually us.
44:01We might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
44:05I'm done with this.
44:08I'm done, Tony.
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