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Love and Marriage: Huntsville - Season 10 - Episode 17: The Streets Are Talking
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00:03I know we talk about this wall, it seems like I have built up.
00:07I personally, man, I can't keep getting
00:08beat over the head for something I ain't doing.
00:12I can't go another six months going through this .
00:15If there's no actions taking place, it's not going to change.
00:20What did y'all think y'all doing here?
00:23Gang up on me?
00:24I'll dump your ass in that pool you keep calling at me.
00:28You won't dump me, dump me, dump me, dump me, dump me, dump me!
00:32Next question.
00:33I asked you a question, you got smart with me,
00:35so that's the energy that we're going to have.
00:36Who got smart with you?
00:36You did.
00:37I don't have a reason to give shade.
00:38I'm trying to have a good, amicable trip,
00:40and I don't understand the energy.
00:41Get the toll.
00:42Yeah, for no reason.
00:45You said before we even went to therapy,
00:48you want me to be happy even if we're not together.
00:52Is that what this comment you don't want to spill out is about?
00:57I'm not going to say it.
00:58Well, you shouldn't have said it then.
01:08You know what's going on with Chris, right?
01:11I don't know, but I know that them mothers are transparent about
01:13everybody else's business but theirs.
01:17We're all in real estate.
01:18There's no way in the world that they assumed we would never hear about it.
01:23Nobody wants to lose that livelihood or a portion of it.
01:27I hear the word revoke.
01:29That **** me though.
01:33It don't take but one client who felt like maybe you didn't do something the way they wanted it done.
01:38You're thinking about doing business with him.
01:40That affects you.
01:41That affects me.
01:42If we're talking about business, we're not just volunteering information.
01:45You're getting all up in my stuff and you're acting like you got it all together.
01:48You know, innocent or guilty, misunderstanding, whatever situation may be,
01:52these are questions that need answers.
01:54Had you communicated with me, your wife, as you should,
01:58then you wouldn't be in this situation.
02:01How are you not seeing if this impacts me?
02:03Who the **** are you?
02:05Apparently we **** with you, but we don't have to call you.
02:07It's going to be tough to be my condition.
02:13We keep it moving.
02:15All day, all night.
02:17Yeah.
02:19Ain't no stopping, I have to drop that.
02:21We ain't stopping.
02:23You know, you know.
02:26We keep it moving.
02:31All day, all night.
02:33Yeah.
02:35Yeah.
02:37All day, all night.
02:39Yeah.
02:40All day, all night.
02:40Ain't no stopping, I have to do it.
02:43Yeah.
02:45Yeah.
02:47Yeah.
02:49Yeah.
02:49Yeah.
02:49Yeah.
02:51Yeah.
02:51Yeah.
02:52Yeah.
02:53Yeah.
02:54Yeah.
03:01Yeah.
03:11I'm excited to meet with Tisha just to catch up and see how she's been doing haven't seen her in
03:16a
03:16while so I can't wait to see how life's been treating her and just have a little girl talk
03:21and see what's going on you know I spoke to Kimmy and she told me that your son was in
03:26the car wreck
03:27I had no idea girl yes went over to that parkway then the nurses and doctors about pissed me off
03:34because they was like oh my gosh did you see the car it's a worse parent I'm like look I
03:40don't I do
03:40not give about the car tell me what I'm looking tell me what I'm gonna walk into so he's doing
03:47better um good yeah a lot of bruises but yes almost tore my nerves up well I'm happy that
03:56nobody did tell my nerves he's he's better Jesus Christ I can only imagine we we make it through
04:01things and we share because you have to be the support system for each other I agree you spoke
04:07to Nell lately I have not really like at the 80s party I felt like Nell and I was like
04:14sort of kind
04:15of moving along in a better direction like as opposed to the wonery that energy was all off
04:23the winery was a lot for me yeah it was a lot because not only with Nell also with Destiny
04:30how was your ride Destiny it was great very peaceful oh was it peaceful after you switched cars
04:36yep I think that was some shade it was shade and I'm taking it I think Destiny and I we
04:42probably do
04:43need to have a conversation I don't know if we really resolved the whole um Destiny at the wineries
04:50I felt like Destiny was defending Nell and it hurt my feelings I've been missing you at black
04:56you've been missing karaoke I have yes I've been having a lot of stuff going on Ken and I still
05:02working on things we've been it's been rocky it's been very rocky actually I thought y'all was
05:07on the up and up no with social media it's like they be trying to point us out to be
05:13the bad
05:14people like what like somebody told him they saw me out with somebody I'm like where when do I be
05:21out
05:21did it where okay so it's what people are telling him about you like like he said they said he
05:29was
05:29out with a dude of course that's going to you know yeah some issues I'm like where who now what
05:35do you say oh I don't really care well no I don't know to you I don't know tell me
05:42even give you a
05:43description it was a small guy like him it's what they think well tell Ken don't be listening to
05:48everything on social media because they be saying stuff about him on social media too like one of the
05:52ladies came back to me and she was like you need to go tell Trish that can be in these
05:56girls DM
05:58mm-hmm okay I said how you know he been a girl DM you gotta stop that like if they
06:04saying they
06:05see you out with somebody like do bye well he went to stay with Will oh yeah how you and
06:12Ken gonna
06:13offense that though when you're married like if we get in so bad argument you can't leave for a
06:20couple of days that's not okay y'all still talking marriage though you and Ken
06:48yes where are you I'm in the kitchen making us some coffee oh okay we have been
06:55dealing with a lot the daycare program director it's no longer with us two new beautiful granddaughters
07:03us been spending a lot of time at the house my dad he's in household with us now so it
07:09could be
07:10challenging I mean you know no it is challenging how was work today thank you sure what about Lance
07:16has he been by the center Lance is too busy why it always seemed like when you need help
07:21he too damn busy that that part I don't I don't get it's like well mom have dad why dad
07:29ain't doing
07:29it that's the way I feel is he saying because my real estate license is revoked at the moment
07:36I mean is he trying to use that I don't know I mean I know you know your real estate
07:39license
07:40revoked yeah obviously there's been a lot of speculation and talk and rumors about my license
07:47status but it's under investigation right now I do have my lawyers working on it I know I will have
07:53a
07:53positive outcome but they have advised me not to discuss the situation until we get to a resolution
07:59man that's a big chunk of money out of our household you know of course you know I have the
08:06attorney
08:06working on it you know it could be 12 months a maximum 24 months but you don't see it taking
08:13that long for me to be able to get my real estate license back in order now well I ain't
08:17got that
08:18long I need you back in real estate because now that now you affected me I just feel like I'm
08:25taking
08:25on everybody whether it's the kids the grandkids my dad your license is being revoked I'm just in
08:35overload and I do not think no one sees that you're always so calm and acting like nothing's bothering
08:49you do you even have a care of any of this all this bothers me just like it bothers you
08:56it's a big deal that it happened but no I'm not gonna sit and sob and stress and cry over
09:04it
09:04I can't let this hold me down I'm Chris Fletcher when I'm stressed I can't show a sign of weakness
09:11I can't cry in front of you know the family or what have you because it's almost like oh damn
09:16if dad goes down then you know what are we gonna do what are we supposed to do we are
09:21human so you
09:22know we do make mistakes I just have to own it correct it and move on how you plan on
09:27supplementing
09:28the income where we don't have to take from the daycare there's not a plan for that yeah some money's
09:37gonna have to come from the daycare until I'm back on track that's part of us being married and the
09:46businesses being developed in case something happens here then we always have a backup here
09:53yes it's a big chunk of money that I'd usually bring in but I mean I don't know we have
10:00the cleaning
10:00company uh you're about to open posh and pritzy about the daycare you ever thought about partnering with
10:05someone I mean you're my partner in life but it's just like with your brokerage I have no ownership in
10:14your brokerage
10:14right that's different what makes it different you don't possess a real estate license either but you don't have all
10:23the accolades and certifications that I have
10:26you can't just have an ownership of a brokerage if you're not a real estate
10:30okay it doesn't matter you do not have all the experience that I have as a daycare owner I started
10:36out a daycare at the age of 19 you are nowhere to be thought of for as a daycare I
10:41could run the damn
10:42daycare with my eyes closed you and everybody in Huntsville know that
10:49coming up on love and marriage Huntsville when you said I want you to be happy whether it's with
10:56or without me I shouldn't make a statement you should be able to think through what you're about
11:02to say especially when it pertains to your wife we've we've been up and down I feel like the peace
11:09in the house went away we definitely in a space now to where it got bad because I ended up
11:14going and
11:14getting a whole nother apartment you do not have all the experience that I have as a daycare owner
11:23I could run the damn daycare with my eyes closed you and everybody in Huntsville know that
11:29nobody's no one it's so hard to say for me to say now about my business okay we have the
11:37daycare
11:37even though I'm the sole owner you're the sole owner of Welcome Home Realty and we have the
11:44cleaning company together and we have properties together we have other homes together I don't
11:50talk about that I don't talk about nothing I don't really know you said a lot no I did not
11:58I didn't say
11:59you know what all you said was my name ain't own the real estate and I'm telling you by law
12:04you sit
12:04there and you do all this and like you're just gonna sit there and discredit me move I'm sitting
12:09up there talking to you you don't have to move your persona I don't need a partner I'm 100%
12:14owner I'm not
12:15discrediting you that you don't help me you do you help a lot I don't even try to break it
12:20up but you're on
12:20my payroll like you even tell Martell half of our love Martell I see you running the sounds you're
12:27doing this you're doing that you're getting paid for it didn't I say yeah we're partners you're my
12:33husband but you still possess income okay I think you know my wife is carrying so much
12:45um there's so much stress and pressure there seems like every time I turn around she's crying about
12:51something she's um upset you know she's down you know about one or the other I mean you're handling
12:59it you're doing a good job everything's still running fine I'm handling everybody but me
13:09what can we do just tell me I need a nurse I need a nanny
13:15and I need a program director that's what I need if you want to help me help me figure out
13:20a nanny
13:21a nurse and a program director
13:25so I can get back I can get back to my life
13:29can't take back the words I've spoken
13:32can't fix all the trust I've broken
13:36rewind, rewind, rewind
13:38rewind, rewind
13:57just kind of wanted some extra little downtime before everything kind of gets popping off with summer and school and
14:06getting monster situated
14:07getting excited
14:10about monster going to college
14:11we're about to be here all by ourselves so we're gonna have to really see if we like each other
14:17I think we're gonna benefit
14:19from alone time
14:21using some of the tools some of the stuff that the therapists have given us to work over time
14:28therapy is definitely working
14:30and we're still in it
14:31and we're still in it
14:32and we're gonna be in it for a while
14:34until I'm fixed
14:38I've had time to process our conversation
14:43what conversation?
14:44the conversation that we had at AC
14:46when you said
14:49I want you to be happy whether it's with or without me
14:53and that's kind of sat with me for a little while
14:56it looks like we're gonna
14:57we're gonna what?
14:59I don't know
15:01you said before we even went to therapy
15:04you want me to be happy even if we're not together
15:06mhm
15:07so is that what this comment you don't want to spill out is about?
15:12some stuff just comes out
15:14or it shouldn't
15:16you're saying it shouldn't but it's it
15:18I shouldn't make a statement?
15:20you should be able to
15:22think through what you're about to say
15:24especially when it pertains to your wife
15:27I think that you in general deserve to be happy
15:33like of all people
15:36you're probably the best human I've met
15:40I want you to do what makes you feel good
15:43I say babe I want you to quit your job
15:44you love real estate?
15:46let's get into real estate
15:46let's do other stuff
15:48because I want you to be happy
15:49what wife wants to hear you say
15:52I hope you're happy with somebody else
15:57coming up on Love at Mary's Hospital
15:58there has to be a measure of
16:02being mindful of your words
16:04when it comes to our relationship
16:05I feel like sometimes it's pulling teeth
16:07to help you learn thoughtfulness
16:12I know I've been on this journey
16:13looking for my brothers and sisters right?
16:15I found them
16:1827 years I've never even seen these kids before
16:21I say babe I want you to quit your job
16:23you love real estate?
16:24let's get into real estate
16:24let's do other stuff
16:26because I want you to be happy
16:28what wife wants to hear you say
16:30I hope you're happy with somebody else
16:32as opposed to
16:33I didn't say I hope you're happy with somebody else
16:35as opposed to
16:37I'm gonna do better babe
16:39I'm in love with you
16:41I love our life and our relationship
16:42yeah you say some stuff sometime
16:45absolutely
16:45you say some stuff you kinda don't think through
16:49absolutely
16:49do I?
16:50absolutely
16:51that doesn't mean I don't wanna be
16:53in the relationship with you
16:55I want us to be better for each other
16:57sweetheart
16:58it seems like you're caught up
17:01on something different than what I said
17:04this whole thing is about
17:05you being happy
17:06I'm not unhappy
17:08what I'm sharing with you
17:09are comments and things that you've said
17:12that quite frankly
17:14don't need to be said again
17:16I'm not gonna say it again
17:18uh
17:19I'm not gonna try to say it again
17:21I may say it again
17:22but I'm gonna get over saying it again
17:27there has to be a measure of
17:29being mindful of your words
17:32when it comes to our relationship
17:33like
17:34your interview
17:35your conversation with Carlos
17:37all of that kind of stuff
17:38I'm on chemo
17:39and how many times a day
17:40you want sex
17:41all that kind of stuff to me
17:43is
17:43not thoughtful
17:45of your wife
17:47nor in respect
17:49of your relationship
17:50there's a difference between
17:51wants and needs
17:52I'm a person who actually needs sex
17:55Kimmy is
17:56doing as admirable
17:58as a spouse
18:00to roll over
18:01and suffer through it
18:03I look at it as her standing by me
18:05while I'm standing by her
18:07I feel like sometimes
18:09it's pulling teeth
18:10to help you
18:11learn thoughtfulness
18:14mmhmm
18:14you acknowledge
18:16that you're not thoughtful
18:17but when I try to give you
18:19measures of thoughtfulness
18:20because I think
18:21I'm pretty thoughtful
18:22you are
18:23you give me pushback
18:25so it's like
18:26you don't really have
18:27the intent
18:27to be thoughtful
18:28opposites attract
18:31that's not funny
18:32that I throw this drink
18:33on you
18:34throw this drink
18:35on you
18:36that's not funny
18:37we've had enough drinks
18:37in this backyard throne
18:39and that's your problem
18:40you be trying to be funny
18:42and it's not funny
18:43it was a little funny
18:44no it wasn't
18:45why did you crack a smile
18:47because I'm trying
18:48not to punch you
18:49in your jaw
18:49when I'm trying to have
18:51a for real conversation
18:52with you
18:53that's half of the dilemma
18:55you think you say
18:55funny stuff
18:56and it's really
18:57it's not funny
18:58when we're talking
18:59about something serious
19:00this is like
19:01serious time
19:02you gotta know
19:03when it's time to joke
19:04and when it's not
19:05time to joke
19:05ask all feedback
19:07and I'm listening
19:08the conversation
19:09for me is just
19:12tenderness
19:13and being intentional
19:14okay
19:15simple and direct
19:17Kimmy you don't ask
19:18a lot from me
19:19right
19:19we make a really good team
19:21until I say dumb
19:22and then
19:25it bothers you
19:26not for a day
19:27not for a couple
19:28hours
19:28but it wears on
19:29your spirit
19:30and your soul
19:32and I'm learning
19:33through this maze
19:34of mirrors
19:34how to
19:35make sure
19:36I don't say stuff
19:37that
19:39you know
19:40will wear on you
19:41for a long period
19:42of time
19:43I'm gonna work on it
19:44and I'm gonna be better
19:48some of the things
19:49that we've learned
19:50over time
19:51is
19:52you know
19:52most things
19:53take time
19:54most things
19:55take time
19:55we're here
19:56seven years married
19:57seven years dating
19:58because of the resiliency
19:59of what we can do
20:00what we've gotten over
20:02in the past
20:02I love you kiddo
20:04you know that
20:07I need you to know
20:09that I love you
20:12well
20:12I know that
20:13I know
20:15at your core
20:17there's nothing
20:18that you wouldn't do
20:19for me
20:19I don't have any doubt
20:23coming up
20:24on Love and Marriage
20:24Huntsville
20:25the winery
20:26was just a random
20:28rah
20:31I felt like
20:31he was defending
20:32Neil
20:33you're gonna have to
20:34like me to stay
20:34in the middle
20:35or pick us up
20:42why can't we get closer
20:44why can't we get closer
20:47raise our glasses up
20:50get them high enough
20:51till it all spills over
20:53why can't we get closer
20:56why can't we get closer
20:59we don't open up
21:02thank you so much
21:03you're very welcome
21:06hello
21:07look at you girl
21:08trying to dress like me
21:10same color
21:11hi daddy
21:13so I'm meeting my dad
21:15at the bingo hall
21:15one of his hangout spots
21:17and my godmother is here
21:19Pauline
21:21my dad and Pauline
21:22have been best friends
21:23for over 40 years
21:26and when I was
21:30transitioning to live
21:31with my dad
21:32I met her when I was
21:33six or seven years old
21:35and from that moment
21:36I became her daughter
21:38what long?
21:40he's with the nanny
21:41oh okay
21:42yeah they went to church
21:43oh I love my man's son
21:44he love his grandpa
21:45so what have you been up
21:48nothing just working on
21:51I know I've been on this
21:52journey looking for
21:53my brothers and sisters
21:54right
21:55I found him
21:56yeah
21:57so guess what I'm doing
21:58going to Detroit
22:00oh you're going to need
22:02them
22:02yeah
22:02all of them
22:03all six of them
22:04and me being the oldest
22:05I'm like bringing
22:06everybody together
22:07is it six or seven?
22:10it's eight of us
22:11eight?
22:12but Terrell
22:13deceased
22:14so
22:15Rhonda Jo
22:16is my birth mother
22:18she did raise me
22:20until I was about five
22:25I remember
22:26leaving the neighborhood
22:28and I saw my mom
22:30come out of a building
22:31like I'm yelling
22:31like that's our mom
22:32right there
22:32me and my brother
22:33Terrell were in the car
22:38I remember just crying
22:40and like them trying
22:42to bribe me
22:43me and my brother apart
22:48my big brother Terrell
22:50who taught me
22:51how to tie my shoes
22:53who was my best friend
22:55who was always my protector
22:57and my dad wanted
22:58to get custody of him
22:59but my grandmother
23:02was like no
23:03I told Pauline
23:04I said
23:05I said
23:06I'm getting cussed
23:07in my child
23:07I said it's okay
23:09you know
23:10for her to stay here
23:11until you know
23:12I get myself together
23:13she said no
23:14not a problem
23:15I remember the day
23:16you walked in
23:17like a little lady
23:20I remember coming in there
23:22with some stuffed animals
23:23and I felt like
23:24everything was so big
23:26that's what I remember
23:27yeah you were just
23:27looking around
23:28you said come on
23:29show me the house
23:32it was a little rough
23:33at first
23:34yeah it was
23:35even it took me a while
23:36to call you mama
23:38I used to call you
23:39Pauline
23:39remember that
23:40you know
23:41I love you
23:42just like you were
23:43my real daughter
23:44and you never
23:45treated me any different
23:47I love you
23:48I love you too
23:52I'm kind of like
23:53emotional a little bit
23:54about meeting my siblings
23:55because I don't
23:56I don't know
23:5827 years
23:59I've never even seen
24:00these kids before
24:01I was sending them
24:02pictures in our
24:03little group chat
24:03they had never seen
24:04my mama
24:05they had never seen
24:06Rhonda
24:06they don't know
24:06what she looked like
24:08and so I'm having
24:09these conversations
24:09and I'm having to
24:10adjust because I'm
24:11realizing
24:12Tarell and
24:13me were the only
24:14two kids she ever had
24:16the rest of them
24:17went immediately
24:18into foster care
24:19and then got adopted
24:20and these last three
24:22like I never thought
24:24I never thought
24:25I'd find them
24:25it's nerve wrecking
24:26I'm a little nervous
24:27about it
24:28I ain't gonna lie
24:29the moment y'all
24:30get together
24:31and see each other
24:31all that'll change
24:34I hope so
24:35they will
24:35you should come
24:37not this time
24:39Rhonda gonna be there too
24:43oh my goodness
24:46you sure you don't
24:47want to go
24:47I think about it
24:48but I don't think so
24:49I just want to
24:50just remember Rhonda
24:51not the condition
24:53she's in now
24:55well it's bad
24:56I didn't think
24:57she would you know
24:58go that route
24:58where she used to
24:59pull my
25:00pull my whiskey
25:01and beer down
25:02the toilet
25:04you never thought
25:04that she would
25:05have done drugs
25:06no I never would
25:06have
25:09I haven't seen her
25:10in probably
25:12four years
25:13since my grandfather
25:14died
25:14and that wasn't
25:16a good meeting
25:16it was a little
25:18it was a little rough
25:19Rhonda Jo really
25:20struggled with her
25:22addiction
25:22she just really
25:23couldn't bring herself
25:24back from losing
25:26her children
25:26life has made her
25:28tougher
25:29because she had
25:30to survive
25:31and she's definitely
25:32hard to get close to
25:33when I first told her
25:36that I found
25:37my siblings
25:38she actually checked
25:39in the rehab
25:40oh she did
25:41she did
25:42I'm nervous about
25:43meeting
25:44the siblings
25:45and then telling her
25:46that they don't want
25:47to meet her
25:48right
25:49so she not gonna
25:50take that well
25:51cause um
25:53she kinda has a sense
25:54of entitlement
25:55because she got the
25:56title of mama
25:57mother
25:59you know
26:00I'm nervous about
26:00meeting with her again
26:03and sometimes
26:03it's good
26:04sometimes it's bad
26:08coming up
26:08on Love and Marriage
26:09Huntsville
26:10I feel like this
26:11is not gonna go
26:11anywhere
26:12cause I feel like
26:13once we're done here
26:14you gotta go back
26:14and be like
26:14oh they gave up on me
26:15so I feel like
26:16you split up with a one on one
26:17I don't need to run to nobody
26:18and say nobody gave up on me
26:19I feel like that's what you're gonna do
26:20but I don't need to go back
26:21and say that
26:21I'm a grown woman
26:23I can put my big girl panties up
26:25and have a conversation
26:25with y'all
26:26like I've always done
26:56Hey what's up brother
26:57how you doing man
26:57I'm good
26:58how you doing today man
26:59I'm good I'm good
26:59what we gonna do for you
27:00in and out outside
27:01yeah I'm gonna do in and out
27:03in and out okay
27:05life has been good
27:06you know
27:06trying to juggle
27:07you know
27:07new business venture
27:08children
27:10new relationship
27:11um so I just thought
27:12maybe the car wash
27:14should be a good place
27:14for me Ken
27:15and Chris
27:16to get together
27:17and debrief a little bit
27:18man how y'all been
27:20working bro
27:21we jipping it down
27:22how about that
27:23life
27:23no I know how that go
27:24people say life
27:25that means some tough
27:26going on
27:28I learned that
27:29life
27:30did you talk to Dustin
27:32oh so after I got
27:33through talking to you
27:34um about the listing
27:35or whatever
27:36I called her ass
27:37I told her about the
27:38listing
27:39um I said Chris
27:40you know I gave it to
27:41Chris but Chris said
27:42you know he wanted to
27:42look out for you
27:43or whatever
27:44and you know
27:44when I called her
27:45she was more like
27:47I'm doing a podcast
27:48at this time
27:48so I'm like
27:49alright well
27:50guess what
27:51she ain't hit me back
27:52she ain't
27:52I'm like girl
27:54that's $15-$20,000
27:55in your pocket
27:56you know what I'm saying
27:56right right
27:57to this day
27:58and it's been
27:59it's been about a week
28:00yeah a little longer
28:02yeah she ain't
28:03like girl
28:04I wish I wasn't
28:05in the damn situation
28:06I don't know
28:07you know
28:08my license got suspended
28:10real estate license
28:14what
28:16he danced too much
28:17me
28:18me trying to look out
28:19for someone
28:20and I feel like
28:21I really got set up
28:22in the situation
28:23and they went to the commission
28:25and
28:27that's where we stand
28:27at the moment
28:28but you know
28:29I got my
28:30legal people working on it
28:31my attorneys working on it
28:32trying to get the
28:33changed
28:34but
28:35right now
28:36can't do no
28:37with the story
28:37how you gonna feed
28:38your family
28:39oh well
28:40first of all
28:41that ain't the only
28:41thing I do
28:43you know
28:44I mean
28:44I got a business
28:45right here across the street
28:46too
28:46what did Neil say
28:47she mad
28:48you know what I'm saying
28:49she ain't liking this
28:50yeah
28:50she feel like
28:51it's an embarrassment
28:52but she
28:56she got enough
28:56on her plate
28:57I'm not gonna say
28:58that my wife
28:59discredits
29:00my efforts
29:01she has so much
29:02that's overbearing her
29:04that she doesn't
29:05see what it is
29:06or all the things
29:07that I actually do
29:08but I am a pillar
29:10of the community
29:11so not being able
29:12to sell a home
29:15that's an issue
29:15for the family
29:16how you and Trish
29:17doing
29:17everything going your way
29:20it's going
29:21currently right now
29:22with me and Trish's
29:23situation
29:23we've been up and down
29:25I feel like the peace
29:27in the house went away
29:28like you know
29:29and for me
29:30it's like
29:31if I can't come home
29:32and feel peace
29:33like I
29:34I can't be there
29:35we definitely in a space
29:36now to where
29:37it got bad
29:38because I ended up
29:39going and getting
29:39a whole nother apartment
29:45I decided to
29:46take the next step
29:47and move out
29:47I feel like the energy
29:48in the house
29:49was a little off
29:50so much has transpired
29:52over the last few weeks
29:52so I want to kind of
29:53you know
29:54go somewhere
29:54where I can clear my head
29:56and you know
29:56try to really
29:58figure this thing out
29:59it sucks
30:00because I done said
30:00a million times
30:01I was done
30:02but in real life
30:04she was like
30:04man I love her
30:06so it's hard
30:07for me sometimes
30:08when I
30:08when I
30:09when I cut that
30:09switch off
30:10it's hard for me
30:11to cut it back on
30:11you know what I mean
30:13Kim moving out
30:14getting his own apartment
30:14I commend that
30:15I think that's
30:16I think that's good
30:17for any man
30:17I think Kim
30:18I need to go and get
30:19a woman without
30:21a husband
30:22possibly without kids
30:23because if I was
30:24in this situation
30:25and he don't have no kids
30:26I'd be with a woman
30:27with no kids
30:28you're going to get you
30:29a 20 something year old
30:29no I don't want that either
30:31anything under 30
30:32they act slow
30:33you make good money
30:34you're smooth
30:35you're cool
30:36what so you're a controller
30:37yeah that's what I know
30:38I ain't got no time for that
30:40man this one need to be controlled
30:41they want to drink
30:41if you control
30:42then they're going to control you
30:43you ain't seen that
30:44Trish trying to control him
30:45and he do everything
30:49Martell's biggest thing
30:50is control
30:52and you just
30:54it just doesn't work
30:55trying to control
30:56another person
30:57because
30:58they're their own human being
31:01stop trying to control him
31:02one thing I'm learning
31:03as I get older
31:04is like
31:05man times are changing
31:06it's like
31:07at the first sign
31:09of resistance
31:10people quit
31:10yeah
31:11there's no
31:13that's y'all
31:13yeah it's our generation
31:15but it's like
31:16for me
31:17I got a lot of fight
31:18you know
31:19people call it
31:20naive
31:20people call it
31:21you know
31:22being stupid
31:23and all that
31:24but it's like
31:25for me
31:25like when you love somebody
31:26like you just
31:27don't give up
31:28the reason people
31:28giving up these days
31:29so easily man
31:30because they got
31:30so many options
31:31well they think
31:32they got options
31:33no no no
31:34no no no
31:34so like I guess
31:35you got options
31:37and you got
31:38actual good options
31:39like something
31:40that's actually valuable
31:41something that's actually
31:42most of these women
31:43misinterpreted
31:44yeah for sure
31:44they think oh
31:44all these guys
31:45liking my stuff
31:46they in my DMs
31:46they just want to
31:47that's it
31:48I told a couple of you guys
31:49man I get married
31:50I'm gonna have to lock you
31:51all the way down
31:53man
31:53you can't even go
31:54nowhere without me
31:57you know how many women
31:58want to be
31:58taking care of
31:59bills paid
32:00right
32:01you know
32:03I don't know what
32:04Ken over there doing
32:05oh
32:06well you know what
32:07I don't doing either
32:08we're about the same
32:09I'll tell you
32:11I'll fucking win
32:28guess what it is
32:30your favorite holiday
32:31it's taco
32:32oh I get to the taco
32:33Tuesday with you
32:34oh my god
32:37taco Tuesday is like
32:38my thing
32:39see this is my whole
32:40little taco Tuesday
32:41get up
32:41so I invited Destiny
32:43and Tisha to come
32:43and join me
32:44Tisha says I never
32:45invite her so here you
32:46go girl
32:46welcome to my world
32:48never be humble
32:49yes
32:50we'll have all of these
32:52see the margarita
32:53right
32:54are you good
32:55been working
32:56she's been busy
32:57yes we've been trying
32:58to get all of those
32:59little properties together
33:00how is the restaurant
33:01for Joy and Lane
33:02coming along
33:02it's just like
33:03the process
33:05and the steps
33:06yeah
33:07Scott Realty is
33:08slower as well
33:09yeah Marceau's like
33:11his focus has been
33:12on Whitehall
33:12the Whitehall project
33:14is almost completed
33:15it's sleek
33:16it's modern
33:17it is a luxury feel
33:18and it's new
33:19for the Huntsville market
33:20so I'm super excited
33:22about this
33:22and what the future
33:24holds for Scott
33:24development
33:25I'm actually about
33:26to do like
33:26some marketing
33:27marketing photo shoot
33:28for it
33:29I'm collaborating
33:29with some ladies
33:30that's in real estate
33:31like you know
33:32residential is not
33:32my focus
33:33so I need to partner
33:34with someone
33:35that's in residential
33:36so we can work
33:37together to get
33:37this house sold
33:38who you partnering with
33:40what do you mean
33:42how are you gonna
33:43say something like that
33:44Tisha's going
33:45to find another
33:46residential broker
33:48instead of me
33:49boy that 1.0
33:50something else
33:51ain't that
33:51just the simple fact
33:52that you said
33:53another residential
33:54real estate agent
33:56they're not listing
33:57the properties
33:58I'm gonna be the
33:59company that's gonna
33:59list it
34:00they're more
34:00better than what
34:01to show
34:01because at the
34:02end of the day
34:03I don't have
34:04the time
34:04to do all this
34:05stuff
34:06but you know
34:06we can make
34:07some magic
34:07happen together
34:08so that's what
34:09it was really
34:09what's all about
34:12then that works
34:13out perfectly
34:14yeah
34:16cause I'll be
34:16calling you
34:17Kimmy hey
34:17can you go
34:18show this house
34:18and I'm gonna
34:19say no ma'am
34:19you can go
34:20Tisha
34:20you can go
34:21show your house
34:21and I'll be like
34:22okay gotcha
34:23there
34:31hello
34:32hello
34:32hello
34:33hello
34:33hello
34:33hi
34:34look at you
34:36it's been a minute
34:37since I've seen the
34:38ladies
34:38but it's taco
34:39Tuesday
34:40and I'm excited
34:41to see Kimmy and
34:42Tisha
34:43how y'all been
34:44we've been good
34:45I haven't seen your
34:47shining face
34:47since the 80s party
34:4880s party was
34:49something interesting
34:50why you said
34:51it was something
34:52interesting
34:52what's that
34:53that's cause
34:54y'all had a little
34:55tiff
34:55that's what it was
34:57you had a little
34:58tiff
34:58at the winery
34:59and then when we
35:01got to the 80s party
35:02I'm glad y'all let it
35:03go
35:03we just haven't had a
35:04chance to talk
35:05about it
35:05what are we talking
35:06about the winery
35:07was just a random
35:09fry
35:13a wine
35:14there we go
35:15that's the blue
35:17for y'all
35:17thank you
35:18they didn't want
35:18any margarita
35:19um I'm not sure
35:20if I want a margarita
35:21but I will take
35:22a nice little shot
35:23to get the edge off
35:24because
35:27we're gonna leave
35:28that energy
35:29at the bottom
35:30of the shot
35:30I hope so
35:31with all of us
35:32I don't think
35:33she would have
35:34had that moment
35:35at the winery
35:36if
35:37what happened
35:38in the car
35:39had been resolved
35:40that's all I'm
35:41trying to say
35:41in the car
35:42did it
35:42I had a conversation
35:43with Nell about
35:44just coming in
35:45and having fun
35:46does she feel like
35:47she owes me an apology
35:48I mean
35:49I don't know
35:49yes and I said
35:50already
35:51that she's taking
35:52accountability
35:52and she's trying to
35:53be in a good place
35:54and have a good time
35:54and you said the same
35:55thing but then you're
35:56like well she need to
35:57say that in my face
35:57which one is it
36:00you know what
36:00I'm done
36:01we're talking about her
36:02okay
36:02you know what
36:03I think
36:03I think we should
36:04pull over
36:04and I'm gonna go
36:05check on that
36:06what you mean
36:06pull over
36:06no
36:08no
36:08the answer's no
36:09okay perfect
36:11I felt like
36:11you was defending Nell
36:13and I'm like
36:14you can't be
36:15like in the middle
36:16but also take a side
36:17you're gonna have to
36:18like either stay in the middle
36:19or pick a side
36:20but what did I defend
36:22I need a concrete
36:24statement that supports
36:25the fact that I support
36:26her being rude to you
36:27I'm not gonna remember
36:28word for word
36:29what you said
36:29well then if you're
36:31gonna hold me
36:31to the fire
36:32then you need to
36:32remember what I said
36:33no baby
36:34I don't have to
36:34remember what you said
36:35well how you gonna
36:36hold me to a fire
36:36or something you
36:37can't even remember
36:39I think that Tisha
36:40has so many feelings
36:41and I have learned
36:44that I just can't
36:45keep apologizing
36:45for people's feelings
36:46especially Tisha's
36:47because she got a lot
36:48of feelings
36:48about a lot of people
36:49as a friend
36:50you have to be like
36:52okay I can receive
36:53how I make you feel
36:54did I not do that
36:55on a winery trip
36:56so why are we talking
36:57about something
36:58that I've already
36:59acknowledged and said
36:59if I made you feel
37:00that way
37:01that wasn't my intent
37:03because obviously
37:04it didn't go
37:05anywhere there
37:06because we have
37:06this bad
37:07energy right now
37:08I came here to have
37:09some nachos
37:10and drinks
37:11and I didn't have
37:11no energy
37:19I don't need to run to
37:20I feel like this is not
37:20going to go anywhere
37:21because I feel like
37:22once we're done here
37:23you're going to go back
37:23and be like
37:24oh they gave up on me
37:25so I feel like this
37:25went up with a one-on-one
37:26I don't need to run to
37:27nobody and say nobody
37:28gave up on me
37:42make me feel a way
37:44about something
37:44that they can't even
37:45tell me
37:45or give me an example
37:46of
37:47give me something
37:48that I can actually
37:49maybe take and say
37:50okay I can own that
37:51or like
37:51get out of my face
37:53that's stupid
37:53whatever
37:53but I can't even get that
37:55besides your energy
37:57well at the end of the day
37:58I don't remember
37:59exactly what Destiny said
38:01however I do remember
38:02that I didn't like
38:03the way she was
38:04handling the situation
38:05I felt like she was
38:06taking a side
38:07and I felt like
38:07he was taking Nell's side
38:10so the thing is
38:12is that I don't want
38:13it to continue
38:13to be a pattern
38:15you said that
38:17even when it was
38:18with the Martell situation
38:19like well I was knowing
38:20I've known Martell longer
38:21and I met you guys
38:22through Martell
38:23it just started making me
38:24question everything
38:25like okay well
38:26because you have
38:27known Martell longer
38:28and you met us
38:29through Martell
38:30does that mean
38:30your relationship
38:31with Martell
38:32is more important
38:32than our relationship
38:35and you've known
38:36Nell longer
38:36than you've known me
38:37does that mean
38:38that your loyalty
38:40is more towards
38:41Nell
38:42have I shown you that
38:42you have not
38:44okay so why
38:45are you questioning it
38:46but because
38:46when I felt like
38:48you was defending Nell
38:49to me
38:50and I acknowledge
38:51how you felt
38:52and I apologize
38:53and I don't know
38:55what more you want me
38:55to do
38:56and I'm not
38:57groveling
38:57and kissing ass
39:01I don't want you
39:02to grovel
39:02I don't want you
39:03to kiss my ass
39:03but I do want you
39:04to acknowledge
39:05how I feel about
39:06how many more times
39:08do I need to do that
39:09well now
39:09you're trying to
39:09dismiss my feelings
39:11and I will give you
39:12an example
39:12y'all don't remember
39:13y'all gaining up
39:14y'all doing this
39:15y'all doing that
39:16boy that Tisha
39:17boy that Tisha
39:18Tisha for them streets
39:19I be trying to tell y'all
39:20like what are we doing
39:22there's no way
39:23that's productive
39:24Tisha
39:24you said you want to be
39:26to acknowledge your feelings
39:27right
39:27yes
39:28have I done that
39:29I haven't acknowledged
39:30your feelings
39:31so I didn't
39:32I didn't apologize
39:34why are you getting there
39:35why are you going there
39:36because I'm talking too
39:37I was speaking
39:38I asked you a question
39:39I asked you a question
39:43I'm not answering
39:43I feel like I'm being
39:44gaslight right now
39:45oh my god
39:45I asked you a question
39:46and you didn't answer
39:48gang up on gaslight
39:50yes
39:50what else girl
39:51you gonna be the victim to
39:52this season
39:58on love and marriage
39:59Huntsville
40:01Tisha tell Trish
40:02supposedly somebody
40:03came to her
40:04and I was in their DMs
40:05she told Trish that
40:06if there's anybody
40:07that shouldn't carry bones
40:09it's us
40:12it was Trish
40:13so Trish
40:13oh god damn
40:14oh hell no
40:15see heart eyes
40:16my picture that I post
40:18it was heart
40:18heart
40:19heart
40:20licky tongue
40:20I spent the block
40:22on someone
40:22I did
40:23I'm not gonna lie
40:23watch him
40:25let's not protect
40:26your best friend here
40:28now all of a sudden
40:29that my license revoked
40:30now you're trying to
40:30make a big deal
40:31out of this
40:32no I'm not trying
40:33to make a big deal
40:33out of your lack
40:34of disclosure
40:35I thought that we were
40:36going to business together
40:37am I supposed to get
40:38on a bullhorn
40:39and alert everybody
40:40that my license revoked
40:41no no just me
40:42who the you
40:44real talk
40:44I need you to tell
40:45your brother
40:46that needs to get
40:47finished
40:48it's a small project
40:49I'd like for you
40:50to pick up
40:51and get out
40:51your soft hands
40:52era
40:53motivate me Reese
40:54I guarantee you
40:55you're gonna be
40:55motivated
40:56a lawsuit
40:56your little slimy ass
40:58you Marisol
40:59horrible point
41:00what you said to me
41:01was that
41:01oh you don't defend
41:02me in room
41:02but I'm not in
41:03the only person
41:03that don't defend
41:04you is your husband
41:04oh my god
41:05wait a minute
41:06wait a minute
41:07you're probably a
41:08I think you're a husband
41:10who are you
41:10no you're not
41:12I just tell them
41:14you're wrong
41:15if I'm not
41:17talking about me
41:17behind my back
41:19you want me to fight
41:19with now
41:20don't walk out this door
41:21I'm leaving
41:21no I'm leaving
41:22don't walk out the door
41:23I'm leaving
41:24you need to stop
41:25with the
41:25it's victimization
41:28he's 이런
41:29he's
41:29know
41:30you
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