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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiamse, The Other Way.
00:03In Roval, the house is already about water.
00:05What?
00:06I could never go in there.
00:08I feel like Chloe is not being honest with herself.
00:11Chloe likes much nicer things, and she's going to want those things.
00:16Since you've been going down here, I've given you a minimum of $20,000.
00:22I'm cutting her off.
00:23You're deciding to live here, and I can't finance it.
00:30I got you some flowers, and I brought a vase, because I didn't know if Dylan had one.
00:34I actually haven't seen Patia in 11 years, but I really hope she's happy to share Dylan with me.
00:40So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
00:42Probably this week.
00:43You might have to keep an eye on her Dylan.
00:45It makes me mad that she's already automatically inserting herself into our relationship.
00:50No, I've gotten better.
00:52Have you?
00:53Dylan so needs to stop talking about our personal business with his mom.
00:57I'm so damn sick of it.
01:07My sister, my mom, my dad, they assume Mano is starting ******, and Marie is like to create drama with
01:14everyone.
01:15I'm like, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow.
01:22I'm tired of always being the black sheep of the family.
01:26If your sister reacts like that, it's not for you, Mano.
01:29If you don't want to lose people, you might change your character a little bit.
01:38We're just making a buzz.
01:41From tomorrow onwards, please do come in.
01:43We made no money.
01:44We made no money.
01:45They're handing out whole plates of food.
01:48All I saw was food going out the door and no money coming in.
01:55We might as well be throwing money out.
01:58We might be stuck living with the family forever.
02:23Oh my gosh, babe, I'm so excited for our night out.
02:26Oh.
02:27She's had a good time.
02:28It's been about a week since Patia arrived in Tasmania.
02:32Oh, is it like an Irish pub or something?
02:34Yep.
02:35And tonight I'm taking her out to one of the best spots in town.
02:41What do you think about this place?
02:42Different.
02:44Uh.
02:47It's not that busy.
02:49Well, it's only a Tuesday night.
02:51Oh.
02:52I did not expect to go out to an Irish pub.
02:55I'm like, Irish pub in Australia?
02:58And it's so quiet.
03:00Where are all the people?
03:02We're a long way from Dallas and Vegas.
03:04Thank God we're going to be hanging out with his best friend Chris and his brother Glenn.
03:09Drink.
03:10I'll have a Moscato, please.
03:12Moscato?
03:12Oh.
03:12Do they have that here?
03:13I hope so.
03:14I'm not a beer drinker.
03:17Oh.
03:18Nice.
03:19Patia.
03:20Chris.
03:21How are you going?
03:23How long time no dream?
03:24Oh, no.
03:25Oh, my God.
03:26Chris was with Thunder From Down Under.
03:28They were really, really close.
03:30Oh, my God.
03:31Glenn.
03:31Oh, my God.
03:33Long time no dream.
03:35Oh, this is amazing.
03:36I haven't seen Glenn in 11 years.
03:39Glenn is a lot of fun.
03:40He loves to shop, loves to wine and dine, all in my category.
03:45This is to Patia.
03:46To Patia.
03:47To new beginnings, to her new life in Tasmania, Australia.
03:51I cannot believe I'm here, seriously.
03:54I've been teaching this in Australian slang, too.
03:56What have you got?
03:57Bugger.
03:58Yeah?
03:58Yeah, yeah.
04:00And tinnies.
04:01I love the way you said it.
04:03Tinnies.
04:06Have you met the rest of the fam, like Dylan's mom?
04:09I met his mom.
04:10She came over the other day.
04:12Oh, she's a sweetie.
04:13She's such a sweetheart, yeah.
04:14So you got on well?
04:15Huh?
04:15You got on well with her?
04:16Yeah.
04:17Okay, cool.
04:20Me and his mom have a long history of not liking each other.
04:25But it's not something I want to bring out in front of his brother.
04:27It's because Dylan always, like, tells me, oh, don't trust Glenn.
04:31He'll, like, be nice to your face and stab you in the back.
04:35Well, you've got to put a ring on that thing now.
04:37Ah.
04:38Yeah.
04:39I'm working on that.
04:40Thank you, Chris.
04:40I'm working on that.
04:41It's been, what, 12 years?
04:44Yeah, 12 years.
04:45It's been 12 years.
04:47We've had some issues to sort out first.
04:49Yes, we did.
04:50Well, that just got serious.
04:51What are the issues that you need to sort out?
04:54I don't know if now's the right time to bring them up.
04:57You know how many times we broke up, Chris?
04:59A lot.
05:00You know?
05:02Excuse me, guys.
05:03I'm just going to go to the restroom.
05:04Okay.
05:07I love Patia and I love Dylan.
05:09And I know that they have a rocky relationship.
05:12I know that it's a very passionate relationship.
05:15The happiest Dylan has ever been is when he's with Patia,
05:20but then things happen.
05:22It's all very good now, but six months down the track.
05:26I don't know.
05:28Moving to Tassie.
05:30This is it.
05:31Yeah.
05:32It's crazy.
05:34Oh.
05:35What is going on over there?
05:38That young lady over there, Patia.
05:42I've written a song for her.
05:45I'm a little bit rusty, but sometimes I feel like I don't express myself properly to Patia.
05:51But if I can put it in a song, that's how I feel like I can get the message across.
05:57My heart was jumping around like a kangaroo when I first laid my eyes on you.
06:08I never thought I could fall in love so fast.
06:13But then I gave you a ring and I took it right back and I'm sorry for that.
06:23Welcome down under, baby.
06:24From the outback to the ocean, you got all of my emotions and they're running like a river to your
06:38heart.
06:38You heard this song before?
06:39Have a voice.
06:40Yeah.
06:40If you are not coming, I'm not going.
06:44And I hope that I die knowing that we never spend another minute, huh?
06:55And I promise to be more gentle with your heart.
07:12Thank you so much.
07:18Hearing that song tonight makes me want to fight harder for a relationship.
07:21I want us to finally tie the knot, get married.
07:25I just hope we don't fall back into our old patterns and break up again.
07:29I honestly feel like, and I couldn't take it anymore.
07:33Oh.
07:52Maman, merci pour garder ben. Bye.
07:58It's a two-step walk. Come on.
08:00It's just water.
08:01No, I have my beautiful jacket on. Okay?
08:06It's been a little bit tense at my parents' house because of the drama that I had with my sister.
08:12Marseille sous la pluie, c'est encore plus triste.
08:15We texted last night, and I'm fine with my sister now.
08:19It is what it is.
08:20But the dynamic with my parents attacking my character, like, it just really lit the fire in me to just
08:26get the head out of there ASAP.
08:28And Antonio and I, we actually made it really clear from the start.
08:31We were only going to live there just temporarily until we found a house.
08:36I'm so excited to see this house, like, so freaking excited because it's exactly 100% what I want.
08:49Today we are going to La Provence Verte, which is a very nice place in Provence with lakes, waterfalls, a
08:59very nice small village to visit a beautiful house that we found online that's for sale.
09:07It's only an hour and something away from the city. It's, I think, three, four or five bedrooms, I don't
09:15remember, but it's, like, just in what we need.
09:18There's the pool and the view. You, you are going to love the view.
09:24How much is this one?
09:25It's under our budget.
09:27375, this one.
09:29I mean, it's the highest, highest of our budget, yeah.
09:32We have the 25% down for that.
09:36And then it's just wiped out.
09:39Yeah, so it's a little, it's, yeah, but that's negotiation. We are in France.
09:43And if they want, like, a guaranteed French income, we don't even have an account at a French bank yet,
09:50there's even the option of renting.
09:54No!
09:55It's an option to rent.
09:59There will be a lot less worry when it comes to renting an apartment. Plus, we have the money to
10:06do that long term.
10:08Or even, like, buy an apartment if we really wanted to. We have that one.
10:13Oh, my Lord. Get me out of here. Get me out the car now.
10:17Whoa, it's just an option.
10:19Antoni! Chill.
10:20I am not putting my money down the drain, and I am not living in an apartment.
10:25You will not put me in a cell jail. I am not living in an apartment.
10:30I've seen some pretty nice apartments.
10:32Good for you. Go live there. Go live in an apartment. I live in a house by myself.
10:36You're reacting as if I'm, like, saying, we're getting an apartment.
10:40Or we're moving somewhere cheaper.
10:41Because I know you, but you know what? Yeah.
10:43You know why? Why?
10:44You know why? Because I always end up doing what you want.
10:47And I'm tired of .
10:51If we can make getting this house happen, we'll do that.
10:55As long as we're in a good space.
10:58Yes!
10:58Where we're not, like, in the financially.
11:01Yes! I agree.
11:02But if I'm sitting here putting other options on the table, it's because those might have to be considered.
11:08No, I want to buy a house.
11:13I want to be out of Manon's parents' house just as much as she does.
11:17But there's options that we need to look at that are really what make the most sense, financially speaking.
11:24And if that means we have to stay at her parents' place for a little bit longer,
11:28I feel like that's a small sacrifice to be made.
11:30You got, like, tunnel vision.
11:34I want to buy a house.
11:42You want me to help you?
11:43No, no.
11:46I have no idea how to make this work.
11:53I'm doing my best, okay?
11:58There's a lot of costs involved, and you and Chloe are going to need a more solid plan.
12:04I'm doing all I can.
12:05We are doing all I can to figure it out.
12:08There is a way that I would be able to support both of you.
12:32We need a ladder.
12:34That's okay.
12:35We can fix it later.
12:37Today is the first day for our actual business.
12:41Yesterday, we were successful in the ceremony.
12:45We already served the samplers to a lot of people, so we are hoping that they will gonna show it
12:52up again.
12:53It's the first big day, so we're gonna try to make some money today.
12:56Whatever we spent yesterday, we try to recover as much as possible.
13:00All right?
13:01Assign yourself a job and don't sit idle, okay?
13:04Jenny, you go to your coffee stall.
13:08What do we do?
13:09You go.
13:12Yesterday, we made absolutely no money because we were giving it away for free.
13:17And I was just standing like, don't you guys understand the concept of business?
13:22I'm more worried about making money so I can get out of the house and go back into our own
13:28apartment.
13:29I want to make money.
13:30We need to make money.
13:34Excuse me.
13:40Cappuccino?
13:41Ah.
13:43Oh, I gotta find the milk container.
13:50This coffee machine that we're renting is so cool.
13:54It's the real deal.
13:55I mean, it comes with the fresh coffee beans grinder and everything attached.
14:00There's nothing like it anywhere else unless you go to Starbucks.
14:06Okay, I don't know where that container, the milk container is.
14:10Ha.
14:12Find it.
14:16I've been put in charge of the coffee machine by the family and Sri showed me how to use it.
14:22But I'm not totally comfortable with it yet.
14:26I mean, I can make coffee at home, no problem.
14:29But this thing, I don't even know where to start.
14:38Oh, I have to grind the beans.
14:41I don't know how to do that.
14:42Papa!
14:43I have a customer standing here waiting for his coffee.
14:47And I have no idea how to make this grinder work.
14:53Sorry.
14:53Eek minute.
14:56How?
14:57How, how, how?
14:58How?
15:01Sorry.
15:02New.
15:03I'm new.
15:04I know you are new, but...
15:06I have to go somewhere.
15:08Okay.
15:14Plug like ice.
15:17Connected electricity.
15:19Actually, it's not plugged in.
15:29We didn't plug it in.
15:31Come to find out, it wasn't plugged in.
15:34And that's why it wouldn't turn on.
15:38You want me to help you?
15:40Hey.
15:42Yeah.
15:44No, no.
15:47What do you mean, no, no?
15:48That's how you do it.
15:51Okay.
15:52Short.
15:53Two minutes.
15:54I need short.
15:59That's a bad sale.
16:03Then you have to try to do very quick.
16:06You know what I can do?
16:07I can go home.
16:10That's what I can do.
16:11You're a part of Family Cafe.
16:13This is our idea.
16:14You know, first customer loss is a big loss.
16:18Yeah, just like yesterday giving away free food was a big loss too.
16:22I'm doing my best, okay?
16:24If this is best, then you need to do a little more extra.
16:29I feel like so disappointed, so frustrated.
16:32We were preparing for such a long time, like our first customer, and we lost it.
16:39We were with her every day.
16:41We were with her.
16:41From the morning to the night.
16:42And the coffee machine woke up.
16:44We didn't understand anything.
16:45That's the time to ask her.
16:48You should have to practice.
16:50That's what she learned.
16:51Don't put pressure on her.
16:53Don't put pressure on her.
16:53Don't do so much work.
16:54Don't do so much work.
16:56I'm frustrated with her, but at the same time, I don't want other people to get mad at her
17:01because everybody in the family finally getting along.
17:04And I don't want the stress of the business to ruin that.
17:31Thank you so much.
17:34Oh.
17:37Earlier today, my mom and I went car shopping,
17:39and she kind of dropped the bomb
17:41that she's going to financially cut me off.
17:44Hello, hello, good evening, good evening.
17:46Oh, hi, Johnny.
17:47I thought you were a waiter the way you came over.
17:50I think, in a way, my mom is trying to create shocking situations
17:53so I can just switch up and be like,
17:55you know what, Mom?
17:57I'm coming home.
17:58But, no, this is not happening.
18:02So, how was the whole car lot thing?
18:05Did you find anything interesting, any cars?
18:07The price point was much higher.
18:10We couldn't even get it close to the range
18:12that you had thought it should be at.
18:15Okay.
18:16It would be something that we would need to purchase
18:18on, like, the Internet
18:20in order to get anywhere near that pricing point.
18:23Yes, that was a total fail today,
18:24but now we just need to find a plan B
18:27because that's not gonna work.
18:30Right.
18:30And I think, at that point,
18:33it should just bring her car, maybe.
18:35I don't know that that's an option either
18:39because Chloe and I had a conversation,
18:41you know, that I wasn't gonna contribute
18:44financially anymore.
18:49So, this is something that, you know,
18:51Chloe needs to work through, right?
18:56Right.
18:59The thing about Chloe is that
19:00she's always been catered her whole life,
19:02always had that safety net,
19:04so she doesn't really need the concept of money,
19:06you know?
19:07Like, maybe it's a good thing that Chloe's mom
19:09is actually cutting her off
19:10because, you know,
19:12I think she needs a more sense of reality,
19:14and I feel like if she doesn't have the funds
19:16to just do whatever she wants,
19:18she's gonna really have to think smart
19:20on what she's gonna do next.
19:22So, like, I feel like now is a good time
19:23to see if she really wants this
19:25and, like, who she really is, you know?
19:31Chloe's gonna need, you know,
19:33a more solid plan.
19:34You and Chloe are going to need
19:36a more solid plan.
19:38Yeah.
19:39You know, getting the worker's permit
19:41is a really big deal.
19:44What is needed to get them?
19:46Um, you, yeah,
19:47you have to pay for the first permit.
19:49How much do you have to pay
19:50for the first permit?
19:51$600.
19:53$600?
19:54Yeah, for the first permit.
19:55But if, you know...
19:55You have to pay, like,
19:56a permit every three months.
19:57But if a company signs for you,
19:59they pay it.
20:00Wait a second.
20:01$600 to $800
20:01and you have to do this
20:02every three months?
20:04The other way to go about it
20:05is if Jonathan and I
20:06went to the office together
20:07and Jonathan sponsors me.
20:10How can he sponsor you
20:11if he doesn't own a company?
20:13No, this is a different paper.
20:15This is, like,
20:15a partnership paper.
20:17Hang on.
20:18Partnership?
20:19What does that mean?
20:19Like, married partner?
20:21No, that's a marriage certificate.
20:23It sounds like you have
20:24a lot more obstacles,
20:25um, just with papers
20:26than I thought that you did.
20:28Maybe you're just not listening.
20:30I am listening.
20:32Clearly not.
20:32So what's hard
20:33about walking into an office?
20:34Right, there's a lot
20:34of costs involved.
20:35Why are you being so negative
20:36about the situation
20:37and being like,
20:38oh, well, it sounds like
20:39you have so many obstacles.
20:40Well, I just...
20:41I wasn't aware
20:42of the high costs.
20:43But I'm not asking you
20:44to pay for it.
20:45And I've made it clear
20:45that I'm not going to.
20:46Exactly.
20:47So don't make it
20:48so, like, out of reach.
20:49Like, just trust me.
20:50I'm not. I'm not.
20:50She's going to do it.
20:51Enough of the drama,
20:52to be quite honest with you.
20:53I flew all the way out here.
20:55And you know what?
20:56This isn't the first time
20:56I've come out here, okay?
20:57I've invested a lot of money.
20:59many times.
20:59Yes, I have.
21:00But stop making it out
21:01to be like that
21:02because it's frustrating.
21:03And if I decide to move
21:04there permanently,
21:05then you know what?
21:06We need to have
21:07these conversations
21:07and I don't care
21:08if you're frustrated or you're not.
21:09But have it in the back
21:10of your mind
21:11isn't like, okay,
21:12like, you stop.
21:12I'm trying to give you
21:13some ease.
21:13No, I want specific...
21:14Yeah, right.
21:15But it's general ease.
21:16I need specific ease, okay?
21:17This is my daughter
21:18living in a foreign country.
21:20I don't want to make things up
21:21to make you feel better.
21:22I'm doing all I can.
21:23You're doing all I can
21:24to figure it out.
21:25I feel like a lot more
21:26could have been done
21:27up until this point.
21:28No.
21:29You have to get here
21:30to do it.
21:30It's not something
21:31you can do from home.
21:35Okay, if you say so.
21:39So I said that I will not
21:41financially support
21:42any longer.
21:43700 times.
21:45Yes, agreed.
21:48However, there is a way
21:49that I would be able
21:51to support both of you.
21:53The lottery?
21:55Trust me,
21:56I play every weekend.
21:58If you both move to Boston.
22:11Immediately to the left,
22:13you will find
22:14the bijou of the house.
22:17I love it!
22:19I thought we were supposed
22:20to be playing it cool.
22:22Yeah, that's exactly
22:22what I've done.
22:24Oh, look at that view!
22:50I'm excited.
22:53did hello hello hi hi nice to meet you nice to meet you speak french no french je suis francaise
23:02la marseillaise is parlanglais okay so let's do it in english and everybody will understand it
23:09let's uh start our journey yes please let's go i see that you are oh yeah oh yeah follow me
23:15enter in the living room thank you the kitchen everything together okay oh the kitchen
23:22i think that i like it you can still try to modernize it a little bit and keep the style
23:27of the keeping the style and without spending too much it's not like correct crazy expensive
23:32too bad to redo i want to see more please i want to see more so and then um you
23:38have the first room
23:39here okay for your guests children maybe you have one kid or even an office space because i do sometimes
23:46like remote work so i'm gonna need a room actually for work for sure oh yeah no there's multiple rooms
23:54wait and here you will find a bijou of the house handmade well not standard exceptional look at that
24:05sink it is really nice and then you can go to the left to the first big room and there's
24:16another shower
24:17yes yes yes there are three showers there are three showers
24:25i thought we were supposed to be playing it cool yeah that's exactly what i've done you show them
24:31interest you show them you're excited so they are like oh she wants it okay like who's the queen of
24:37networking like you said bb right here who doesn't have any friends doesn't have any network you so
24:45please trust me whoa i'm not on my own anymore i've got my companion his name is ben well he's
24:51a baby who
24:52doesn't speak yet speaks to me oh my gosh can you imagine waking up naked from your bed with your
24:59cup of
25:00coffee you just took your shower hear the birds hear the bird and oh look at that view
25:09can i cry go ahead it has charm it's not a prefab like you say it's not the standard yeah
25:17you can go
25:18in the pool naked no one see you it's so like private and stuff i love what i see there's
25:26a lot of
25:26potential even if it's not completely quite perfect yet there's a pool which i said it's what i want
25:32a la pièce de résistance it's an hour away from my parents house far but not too far close but
25:39not too
25:39close you know what i mean all right um the price at the moment uh is 3.75 you were
25:48looking for this house
25:49so i guess it's in in your budget because i guess you already talked with the banks i guess or
25:54not
25:55yet not yet and we have great history i don't have any loan i don't have any debt nothing my
26:01husband is
26:02a stay-at-home dad he's not going to work just yet because he speaks english he has to learn
26:07french
26:07it's going to take time on my end i still have a little bit of source of income from
26:13my agency because i do have a business what are you doing what are you doing i have a social
26:17media
26:18and digital marketing agency we sold our house in los angeles we sold our car we sold everything we
26:24have right now a total of like around 100 000 cash cash that we have okay so based on your
26:33experience
26:34do you think it's possible for us to get a loan through a french bank um i think with everything
26:41what
26:41you were telling me i don't know that many persons today who has uh one third in cash immediately so
26:49uh i think it's gonna be doable but there there's a but i'm gonna be very honest that's my job
26:55also
26:55because i'm there also to be tell you everything in all transparency i will do the same so the place
27:00is perfect the house is perfect but there is in the um in the roof asbestos oh there's asbestos
27:08yes so there are the works to do on the roof and it's around 40 000 to 45 000 to
27:15do all the works
27:16oh wow so she is ready to deduct that from this price oh so like 335 instead of 375 correct
27:24correct
27:25minone really knows how to make a house a home i can see the wheels turning in her head
27:32but i'm sitting there thinking how well is it gonna hold up and there's asbestos this is the
27:38first house we're seeing and i know that we could find something better out there i just hope that she
27:45can step back and understand where i'm coming from because it always ends up in a fight or some type
27:50of
27:51argument and i don't want to get into it all right bon appetit bon appetit very tender
28:00mommy got a little something in your head i hope it's not kangaroo wait a minute is it really kangaroo
28:30oh my god that's beautiful look at that lake have you ever swam over there yeah i'm swimming there
28:36better watch out for the old crocs though you're not swimming there if there's croc it's so it can bite
28:43you you know tonight we're having a family dinner at mum's house and i know that patia can't stand my
28:53mum but at the end of the day my relationship with my mum isn't going to change she's always going
29:00to
29:00be in my life so tonight i'm hoping they can really bury the hatchet hello hi hi welcome patia how
29:10are you
29:10doing what about you good good are you settling in yes hi patia good to see you gorgeous thank you
29:18being at joe's house i'm putting on a little bit of a front what a beautiful view it's gorgeous isn't
29:25it
29:25yes like i really want to make a good impression and i want her to accept me but at the
29:32same time
29:32i'm like really dreading to have to sit down and talk to her because i really deep inside don't like
29:38her
29:39why don't i do some cooking you guys relax and uh i'll let you know when it's ready okay where's
29:45my sous
29:45chef here hey you look good with that apron on i'm so relieved that dylan's cooking because i have this
29:58phobia that if somebody else cooks for me and they don't like me i feel like just the thought of
30:05them
30:05not liking me that the food is going to be contaminated is that sausage you're cooking
30:10do you like sausages yeah good my mom always taught me not to eat out of your enemy's hands
30:18i'm surprised dylan hasn't kicked off those dirty big boots dylan yes ma'am i will take them off right
30:24now good boy you should know better you've got a lot of wallabies running around you end up with poo
30:29on the
30:29carpet it's naughty i feel like my mum and petea are both kind of putting on a performance dylan you
30:37didn't tell me that your mum collects elephants too appears we have quite a bit in common petea yeah i
30:42know crystals and elephants it's like i want to see them sort of get along and be friends but
30:50they both need to be honest first and stop pussyfooting around come on down
30:56it looks good all right bon appetit bon appetit
31:05very nice yes very tender mommy got a little something on your head i hope it's not kangaroo
31:18wait a minute that's not kangaroo is it
31:24shut up stop is it really kangaroo i don't want to eat kangaroo i know it was a little
31:31mean but i just wanted you to try it and i knew if i said it was kangaroo you wouldn't
31:34try it
31:35and this is how we eat down under
31:40i told him not to feed me kangaroo and he fed me kangaroo for dinner
31:44tasted like you know steak but still when i look at the kangaroo i'm like oh my god i can't
31:50eat
31:50you it's actually really good to see you and petea in the same space i know that petea sort of
31:58felt
31:58like we were sort of talking too much you didn't like our relationship that we were a bit close did
32:05you well i don't know you can be honest no no in the past dylan told me that you wanted
32:11him to marry
32:12somebody younger closer to his age and give him kids it just made me so mad i'm like oh i
32:17want
32:18nothing to do with her i don't want to talk to her i don't want her calling you that's been
32:22embedded in
32:22my mind and that's that's where the resentment with you talking to dylan comes from
32:33i've never said that and you know what i couldn't give a toss about grandchildren
32:36yeah that's not do you think maybe that was like just a thought no no no you we said it
32:42babe you said
32:42it you were very mad and you said that several times did you dylan because i've never ever said
32:48that i don't remember saying that no okay well i've never i've never said anything like that
32:55liar liar pants on fire i feel like they're in cahoots with each other and they won't admit that
33:00they said it i mean why would i make it up well i mean i'm not crazy who makes that
33:04crap up
33:05so that comment never happened so aside from that is there anything else underneath any of that that's
33:12it that's it that's it i can't believe it just sort of felt sometimes when dylan's been on the
33:17phone i'm just oh hi patia how you going like you know i'm happy to engage but i don't think
33:22you like
33:23that no it's because of what he said i've never said to dylan that he should be with somebody younger
33:32i can't imagine dylan saying that to patia i really can't it's an odd thing to say it's very
33:39odd it is an odd thing to say it just seems strange two and two is not adding up
33:47i'm so sorry joe really it it stemmed from from that well thank you i i really appreciate that
33:54yeah because all these years i thought god i haven't done the thing i just you know i was happy
33:59for you really yeah i've never ever had an issue with the age so he must have said that to
34:04try to
34:05make me mad or something he'll say some hateful things and that's where because he just lashes
34:10out yeah i get that but then he regrets it afterwards don't you dylan yes
34:20yeah well i apologize if i did say that let's move forward from that
34:26did you really never tell patia that your mom wished you were with somebody younger
34:34i may have said that when i was when i was angry but i don't remember the specifics it was
34:41a long
34:41time ago so that's that's put to bed all right finally but now there's still the constant issue of
34:48me talking to my mom and it's always a problem well that's where it stems from is the fact that
34:53you
34:53said that i think that's a bit of a cop-out really no it's not it's like no it's not
34:58a cop-out
34:59i just feel like us chatting on the phone every now and then is still going to be an issue
35:04no it's
35:05not going to be an issue are you sure yes if you want to talk to dylan as much as
35:09you want then i'm
35:10okay with it now problem solved i'm so mad at dylan because i hated her i resented her and i
35:21held
35:21this resentment and hate for many many years well thank you for having us come over you're very
35:26welcome now i'm looking at dylan and i'm questioning my relationship because dylan had been lying to me
35:34about it i don't want to be in a relationship like that it's going to take you so long to
35:42find a
35:42job here and you're gonna make pennies it's very hurtful to hear it makes me feel like i'm not good
35:49enough for her you are never ever going to be able to make like i do
36:16that was amazing that was insightful today antoni and i saw a home for sale and i'm excited just
36:24thinking about it oh well there's a lot to talk about honey oh my american boy no boy i am
36:36a man
36:37you're a man yes you are my american man who i love so much that went so well he said
36:46he's confident we
36:47made it happen you know i mean i definitely think it's possible but i think it's like looking at
36:54other stuff because you might find something else you like more that's not going to need a new roof
37:01honestly i was really in love with the house but there's asbestos in the roof so
37:09i understand antoni and i'm kind of grateful for him nitpicking
37:13but the good news that you talked to me about financials and everything saying it's totally
37:18possible so let's just go visit a little more and maybe i can manifest actually my dream house you know
37:26so like a big thing i feel that need to be addressed the most is employment
37:34that's the next step i agree we cannot buy a house without income if i build a business for a
37:40long time
37:41i'm not going to be able to get a salary or to make money so i don't know i can
37:45find something
37:46else too part-time remote
37:51but you know speaking of like working i like where we are now i know we're living with your parents
37:58but ben has been way better with you oh yeah i know i love it you've taken a lot more
38:04initiative
38:04with the food with everything you're instead of like asking me if i need help you're actually like
38:09doing things i'm gonna run some errands yeah it'll be time for his lunch soon so you just bread cheese
38:18whatever
38:21okay i love you i love you too
38:25we're starting to get the balance we need but granted we're not working but i'm starting to see
38:32the positive changes already in moving to france but we cannot deny that in life we are not rich
38:38we don't have like money coming in from the sky every month we're still gonna need to find income
38:44i understand that but i'm saying i'm just scared that you are gonna go over i know how passionate
38:53i know how passionate you get with work and you're already talking about starting your own business
38:58here and another thing about moving here was that you would step back and maybe i would take over the
39:04providing more right and now it seems like you're full steam ahead on you doing the solo providing again
39:11it's because it's going to take you so long to find a job here and even if you find a
39:17job here
39:17you are never ever going to be able to make like i do
39:24still you don't speak french i how are you going to find a job and what type of job
39:29what type of without speaking french the only thing that comes to mind is speaking english to kids so
39:35they can learn are you going to make pennies doing that here
39:44it's very hurtful to hear she would love for me to be providing but i'll never make as much as
39:51her
39:52and the term i hate the most that she uses is that i would make pennies i feel like it's
39:57not true
39:58it just would take time for me to get to that space and it makes me feel like i'm not
40:04good enough for
40:05her essentially i love you and we moved here to stay together i want to be married i want our
40:14family to be together i am just scared because i've seen how passionate you can get with work
40:22if i work less i'll be fine
40:27antonia and i wants to be out of my parents house and i'm not trying to be harsh or anything
40:32you know
40:32like i know france and he doesn't i know the economy here so i'm just trying to be practical and
40:39me
40:39working maybe our best shot i don't want to survive in france if i moved to france it's to actually
40:49be
40:49more comfortable and thrive or i would have stayed in the us so no way i'm just surviving here sorry
40:55not
40:57sorry next time on 90 day fiance the other way all right i know he's here to judge and to
41:06be negative
41:08i don't trust him at all you don't have chefs your parents are cooking food who does that
41:15this is not a real business what he's doing it will be closed soon
41:22no i'm not going there this is awesome this is like all i've wanted to do since we've been here
41:29seeing menone's reaction to the farm i'm questioning my decision on the surprise
41:37i found out on social media that he was with a girl for her birthday i am absolutely pissed that
41:45johnny was not faithful to my daughter i can't even put into words how disappointed i am if you can't
41:52trust somebody you shouldn't be committing anything to him let alone um changing your entire life
41:58look at this i had to move some money around it was two thousand dollars is this a good use
42:07of money
42:07i don't know i think i like give you a pretty good life and seem like you're always mad at
42:12me yes i am
42:13you always making me mad and you never making me happy exactly so like what are we doing here if
42:20this
42:20is anything like what our marriage is gonna be holy do we have problems this isn't the life that i
42:27is going to sign up for it you
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