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00:00Previously on 90 Day Gemps 8 goes away.
00:03I unpacked an entire bag.
00:05Not this one.
00:06So proud of you.
00:07It feels good to be back in Aruba.
00:11No, I don't like the noise.
00:13I'm afraid.
00:15Please help me.
00:16If you start it once, I'll restart it.
00:19She's always had everything done for her.
00:21But now we're living together, and I can't
00:23have her have this vacation mode all the time.
00:26Oh!
00:27Yay!
00:29You're so excited.
00:31Yay!
00:32Saying goodbye to Hazel feels like my heart is being
00:37ripped from my chest.
00:39Bye, Hazel.
00:40But I can't wait to see Matthew again and feel that spark
00:45with the person that I love.
00:50This is sarcastic.
00:53Broken hair is not possible at all, no?
00:55It's small.
00:56For years, I've been the black sheep of the family.
00:59It feels like I disappointed them again.
01:06I'm feeling super grateful to be moving in with Manon's parents.
01:10Oh, my God.
01:12There's no intimacy.
01:14There's no privacy.
01:15And honestly, staying at the house is just surreal.
01:20Yeah.
01:20It's surreal.
01:22Oh, my God.
01:24There's so many problems with the wedding.
01:26She told me if we don't give the money in two days, we're going to have to cancel the
01:29marriage.
01:30What?
01:31How much is?
01:36I sent over $4 million.
01:39I sent over $4 million.
01:39Do you not receive the money in December?
01:41No.
01:43Mentiroso.
01:44We can look at the bank account.
01:46Yeah, we can.
01:46I already have.
01:48Lo siento, pero es verdad.
01:50So don't get married.
01:52It's just simple.
02:19Today's the day.
02:22Greta is arriving in the UK.
02:26Hey, Apple, your mummy's coming home.
02:29Do you know that?
02:30Yes, she is.
02:31I feel like I have a butterfly sanctuary in my tummy right now.
02:37It's been six months since we've seen each other.
02:41That is the longest we've been apart, and it hasn't been easy.
02:47It's definitely a bit of a scramble to get things ready.
02:51But I want everything to be perfect for her.
02:55I better make some room for her here.
02:59Greta is sacrificing everything she has to be here.
03:04Her friends, her career, her cat, to be with me.
03:13It's a lot of pressure.
03:24I just arrived in England.
03:26I'm really excited to see Matthew.
03:28I haven't seen him in six months.
03:30I am on the train, and the next step is to reunite with my love, Matthew.
03:39I've been to England five times, but this time feels really different because I'm starting
03:44a whole new life.
03:45I'm an American woman on the way to my English fiancee who lives in the countryside.
03:52I feel like I'm living out of a romance novel right now.
03:56It makes me very excited.
04:21I'm a little bit nervous.
04:23I have no idea what to do with my hands, no idea what to do with my feet.
04:30There's a lot riding on this for me.
04:32I just want to make sure I get it right.
04:39I'm soaring like a mighty wind, now you know it.
04:45The sugar's on my skin cause you stole my heart.
04:50Now everything makes sense.
04:54But every night I'm kneeling, praying that it never ends.
05:01This has been two years in the making and it's an incredible feeling to finally start my life
05:07with a person who I love.
05:10But I am also sweating more than I would like to be in this moment.
05:34Hi, darling.
05:44How are you?
05:46Good.
05:49How are you doing?
05:50Very well.
05:52It's been a long time.
05:54I didn't realize you would be right here.
05:56Yeah.
05:57Right there.
05:58Hey, sweetie.
05:58Aw.
06:01Did you get a haircut?
06:02Yeah.
06:03You look very different.
06:04It's very short.
06:05I know.
06:06It will grow back out.
06:09All right.
06:10No, we did it.
06:11We're here.
06:11Yeah.
06:13I can tell it was a long journey for you because you stink.
06:17Yeah.
06:19I had to carry some very heavy suitcases so I got very sweaty and I smell really bad right
06:26now.
06:26Your antiperspirant is fighting on for its dear life right now.
06:30Yeah.
06:31You're welcome.
06:33Let's take you home.
06:35Okay, let's go.
06:36All right.
06:36Can I help you with that?
06:38Um, I mean, why are you being so formal?
06:45I've almost forgotten what it's like to have Greta with me, to have you with me.
06:51And so, yeah, it's...
06:53I feel very sort of disjointed right now.
06:57So I'm just waiting for those sort of jigsaw pieces to come back together over the next
07:02few days.
07:03It's good to see you again.
07:06There is no return flight booked this time.
07:09That's the first time we've done that.
07:11And now it feels like this is where everything else begins.
07:16This is the crossroad of everything in the future.
07:20Yeah.
07:21It's...
07:21It feels very special.
07:27Let's go home.
07:29Yeah.
07:30Let's go.
07:31Damn, you are a really bad B.O.
07:33I know.
07:34Oh, wow.
07:35Thank God I got that loop for you.
08:03color's not good
08:04I'm not Indian
08:05what did they think
08:07progress is good at the cafe
08:10and things are moving along
08:12and today we're having a Hindu
08:15ceremony called a puja
08:17it's for blessings for our new house
08:20thank you
08:25Indian lady
08:28Indian lady
08:29my family is very religious
08:32they believe that
08:33a prayer is required because
08:36we all are moving in with a good
08:37intention so that's why they choose to
08:39do a housewarming ceremony
08:49hope it doesn't break the floor
08:52no don't worry
08:53coconut is a high-hanging fruit
08:56and it gets the water by itself
08:58if you consider it's pure
09:00and the cracking the coconut
09:02like it's like blessing the house
09:05it's like as many you'll do
09:06more blessings to the house
09:08okay hold it
09:30carrying the thing on my head it's supposed to be like I'm carrying in everything in the house with me
09:38like I'm gonna take control of everything
09:40it's a balanced thing
09:42if you want you can get it in your hand
09:43if you want you can get it in your hand
09:45I see it
09:47okay
09:47it's not easy if you're not used to carrying something on your head
09:52yeah come
09:59I find these ceremonies to be very beautiful
10:02the prayer that they're saying a mantra
10:06yeah
10:12I'm so fascinated by it
10:14how do they remember all these prayers and what to say
10:18and everybody all says it together
10:33it's been a surprise for me that Jenny and I leading the ceremony
10:38this is amazing this is a very good day
10:41and now all my extended family members are showing up and it's just really happy moment
10:55I don't spend a lot of time around his extended family
10:59most of them are going through the complexity of the culture and that's what make them
11:05like to resist against our relationship
11:27since my extended family members choose to come here for the pooja
11:30it's a really good sign that they start accepting our relationship
11:34I think that they need to get to know me and be happy for us and get over it
11:42make small flowers
11:44and small small flowers
11:46I'm making the middle dots
11:49you're making the middle dot?
11:51yes
11:51Sri is teaching me how to draw vangoli on the floor
11:56which is usually a flower, some sort of design
12:00and it's used to welcome the guests and keep negative energy out of the house
12:11how's my flower coming out?
12:14you like it?
12:16look at who's better by bringing it
12:18little bit more here
12:24sumit jenny
12:26what are you doing is this?
12:28make flower
12:28make flower
12:30flower, i made flower
12:32this one?
12:33i made the flower
12:34very pretty
12:35thank you
12:36very nice
12:37are you doing this?
12:39no
12:40no
12:40she didn't make a good
12:42okay you didn't make a good
12:44it wasn't the good
12:45He's saying Jenny didn't make it good.
12:47Why are you having a problem?
13:09Someone doesn't like my artwork, so I'm just going to watch.
13:13Should I complete this? Yours?
13:15Very good. Very nice.
13:27Why are you bothering? We're enjoying when you're bothering.
13:37Why are you taking my money?
13:43Why are you taking my money?
13:44What's she doing?
13:45I'm taking my money.
13:46How are you doing?
13:59How are you doing?
14:16Oh!
14:16I'm going to f*** up.
14:28I'm moving. I'm moving. I'm moving. I'm moving. I'm moving.
14:45I'm going to go to Marseille for a few days.
14:48It's a very tiny house, especially with a little 19-month-old baby boy.
14:54I'm going to walk Benjamin.
14:57I'm going to plan a little fun getaway to start fresh with my parents.
15:02Just get out of the house and we are going to go play some pétanque.
15:10Ah, et bonjour, et bonjour!
15:14The first time playing la pétanque.
15:17Yeah.
15:17Let's see how we do.
15:18Un, deux.
15:19Two people in the same team.
15:20On peut jouer à trois boules.
15:22With three balls.
15:24Deux boules.
15:25Three guys, two balls.
15:27Okay.
15:29La pétanque is actually a game that involves like a little cochonou, like we call it,
15:34a little small ball and big ones.
15:36Really funny.
15:37And you got to actually throw the balls really close to the smallest one.
15:41Et voilà !
15:42You want to actually knock down the balls that are close so yours can stay closer.
15:47And you steal the points, kinda.
15:49J'ai pas joué depuis très, très longtemps.
15:55Ah, c'est pas mal, ça.
15:57Ah, merci.
15:58Ok.
16:00Eh, je suis marseillaise, moi, dans le sang, eh.
16:08Merci.
16:08Cause you push mine.
16:11Oh!
16:13Okay.
16:13Oh, je suis trop...
16:14Je suis fégear, hein?
16:15Je suis trop grave.
16:16Wow, je suis trop fort, hein?
16:19Wow!
16:19Oh!
16:20Oh!
16:20Oh!
16:21C'est pas mal.
16:22C'est pas mal.
16:23Pétanque, it used to be a tradition as a family when I was young.
16:27During summer times, my parents didn't have a lot of money for fancy, expensive vacations.
16:32So they used to rent a townhouse in a very, very small Asshole of France type of city,
16:42where every day it's just aperitif, lunch, pétanque, and nap.
16:48And you start again in the morning.
16:51Ben!
16:52Attends.
16:53Eh, Ben, il faut que je joue!
16:54Bon, allez, okay.
16:57Voilà .
16:59Ah, Mano, il faut que je te dise, j'étais vraiment surprise quand tu m'as dit que tu voulais
17:03revenir,
17:04ça m'a...
17:05Je te dis la vérité, je n'employais pas mes yeux, hein.
17:08Enfin, j'ai mes oreilles.
17:10Toi qui, tout le temps, je reste là -bas, je reste là -bas, la France ou la France, voilà .
17:14Parce qu'ici, j'étais malheureuse, misérable.
17:17Je me sentais comme un... comme... comme un ovni ici.
17:22Je me suis toujours sentie pas acceptée avec la société, les amis, tout ça, mais dans la famille aussi.
17:30Mano, moi, ma fille, elle ne mange pas, mais pourtant elle est grosse.
17:34Il y a beaucoup de body shaming.
17:36Ok, je le sais que je suis différente des autres.
17:38On a tout le temps cru faire de notre mieux.
17:41Voilà , le mieux.
17:41Après, je ne dis pas qu'on a fait tout parfaitement, ça c'est loin de ça.
18:04C'est compliqué.
18:06C'est compliqué.
18:07C'est compliqué.
18:10Oui, je le sais.
18:11On aime nos enfants puisque tout le monde...
18:12Bien sûr.
18:13Vous m'avez toujours aimée.
18:15Je le sais, ça se voit et tout.
18:17Mais je ne peux pas dénier qu'il y a certains choix que vous avez pris et qui m'ont
18:21construit et fait devenir celle que je suis aujourd'hui.
18:24Qui était une fille pas confiance, qui pensait qu'il était un problème, qui pensait qu'il était une erreur
18:30de la nature.
18:33Mais maman, au plus tu apprends, au plus tu grandis, au plus tu changes et tu vois ce que c
18:37'est que d'avoir un enfant.
18:39En plus, je te dis, ils ont fait ce qu'ils ont pu.
18:42Et franchement, au final, je suis contente, je ne prends que le positif.
18:46L'important, c'est que tu sois heureuse et que tu sois bien où tu as envie d'être.
18:52Qui choisit ta vie, ce n'est pas les autres.
18:56Et nous, on sera toujours là pour toi de toute façon.
18:58Oui, on est là de toute façon.
18:59Oui, je sais, merci, je le sais.
19:01Tu as toujours, hein.
19:02J'étais dans un endroit tellement dure, mais je me suis dit, c'est mon vie passé.
19:08Donc je veux qu'ils soient conscients que toutes les manières de penser doivent évoluer.
19:13Parce que je suis commissée à faire ça, ici, en France.
19:17Donc j'espère qu'ils vont faire un changement.
19:19Mais on va voir.
19:21Je suis amoureuse.
19:26Je suis amoureuse.
19:28Je suis amoureuse.
19:30Je suis amoureuse.
19:37Je suis amoureuse.
19:41Je suis amoureuse.
19:42Je suis amoureuse.
19:43Je suis amoureuse.
19:45Je suis amoureuse.
19:46Je suis amoureuse.
19:46Je suis amoureuse.
19:48Je suis amoureuse.
19:48Je suis amoureuse.
19:49Je suis amoureuse.
19:49Je suis amoureuse.
19:49Je suis amoureuse.
19:50Je suis amoureuse.
19:50Je suis amoureuse.
19:58Please finish with her.
20:00I don't want the people to see me fighting.
20:02Okay, amor.
20:05It's so, so embarrassing.
20:08Lizana is my pageant coach.
20:11I work with Lizana.
20:12I cannot believe he's making me look like that.
20:16He say I talk the money when I don't talk anything.
20:19He's like, he f***ed up.
20:23You're going to have to have the biggest problems you're going to have later.
20:27Let's just maybe get back to it.
20:30Yo tengo 12 millones de pesos por esta boda.
20:36Es funcionado o no?
20:38Es que no.
20:41La decisión es o quitamos algo de lo que está o se cancela la boda.
20:49No es normal que una pareja que está a punto de casarse peleando enfrente mÃo.
20:55O sea, esta situación es bochornosa.
20:57LÃmpiate, por favor, acá.
20:59Gracias.
21:01Siento que en este momento deberÃan estar más unidos.
21:03Las diferencias y la reacción tan fuerte de Made en ocasiones, pues, me genera un poco de inseguridad en cuanto
21:11a la boda.
21:12Y de pronto, dudas que se generan de que, ¿será que sà hay matrimonio?
21:20Venga, yo miro la lista y le marco.
21:23Listo, los tachamos.
21:25Listo, los bailarines.
21:27¿Estás sacando de ese?
21:28SÃ.
21:29¿Y los mariachis?
21:31Desistir de los mariachis.
21:33SÃ.
21:33Ya ahora tenemos como pagar 12 millones, ¿cierto?
21:37Bueno, hermosa, entonces, ¿para cuándo tengo todo esto?
21:41¿Cuándo tengo que pagar aqu�
21:44Dime, dime hasta el domingo.
21:46Dos dÃas.
21:47Dos dÃas.
21:48Perfecto.
21:50Pues, pues, yo hablo con todos los proveedores a ver qué podemos hacer, pero también es que piensen si es
21:56que se quieren casar, porque, pues, espero que realmente, más que el dinero los una el amor, que es lo
22:04más importante.
22:08Gracias.
22:10Con gusto.
22:11Con gusto.
22:12Chao, hermosa.
22:14Chao.
22:14Chao.
22:15Chao.
22:26Chao.
22:27Chao.
22:41My question is, for how long he thinks I'm going to forgive him?
23:02I don't know what you want, Madeleine.
23:04I've had a really long day, and I'm exhausted.
23:07So I apologize for being rude.
23:11I apologize for making you look bad.
23:13I am very sorry.
23:14That is not my fault.
23:15It's not my intention.
23:17I don't want to fight, but I've given up my life in the United States and all of my financial
23:23security.
23:24She doesn't understand the gravity of the situation.
23:28It's very troubling.
23:30Can we go to bed together on my first night here, moving here, or would she like me to
23:34go to the other room?
23:38Whatever.
23:41You have to understand, I work in hospitality, Chloe.
23:44I have to be nice to people.
23:45You can climb the rope, just don't put people on your back.
23:48I can't promise you that.
23:49His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain young, drunk girls.
23:55It's like if I worked at, like, a strip club.
24:05That's gonna be a beautiful sunset today.
24:07I know.
24:08Gonna be gorgeous.
24:09Just like you.
24:11Don't start.
24:21Hello.
24:22Good evening.
24:27Now that I'm living in Aruba and I'm finally back with Jonathan, it is a relief to put everything
24:33from long distance behind us.
24:35I really want to become a less jealous partner, but his job makes that much more challenging,
24:43considering his job is like a strip club located on the ocean.
24:49Oh, electronic mode.
24:51Jonathan has a lot of big dreams and he told me that he wanted to go into business together.
24:55I'm hoping part of him truly is considering it because I just, I don't think I could see
25:02the trust coming back truly at his job.
25:05I really don't.
25:07It's actually so pretty.
25:08Mm-hmm.
25:10That's like picture perfect.
25:11There it is.
25:14Enjoy, okay?
25:16You're welcome.
25:18Anyway, you mentioned that you want to open like a business type situation.
25:27Yeah.
25:28So does that mean you're going to lean towards leaving?
25:32Yeah, of course.
25:33I don't want to work for somebody, Chloe.
25:36I mean, like what kind of business are you thinking?
25:39Basically, if I'm thinking I'm starting a business where I could be in the water.
25:45And that's something I can't explain that feeling, you know?
25:49I would always want to work on the water.
25:51You understand?
25:52Yeah.
25:53I mean, but it's up in the air, but.
25:55Yeah, I know it's up in the air, but I mean.
25:57No, I think that.
25:58We're going to, we are going to have to help each other in this.
26:01Help you how, though?
26:04Help me create the business.
26:06We can come with a business plan now, and then maybe hopefully, luckily enough, we can
26:10find an investor who's willing to put money into it.
26:12Once I finally manage to get through that, then I will leave Jolly Pirates.
26:17But that's the whole idea.
26:19I think I want to believe him that he wants to open a business together, but I do feel like
26:24part of him telling me all these things is because he just wants to take my focus off
26:29of him quitting his job.
26:31So you think within the year?
26:33Within the year, I will start making bigger moves.
26:37I'll work really hard for like a year, maybe two.
26:40So you think you'll be there for two more years?
26:42Maybe two.
26:46But what if you find a job that I like sooner than two years or one?
26:56I mean.
26:57Because there's plenty of other jobs.
27:00I've asked Jonathan to quit multiple times.
27:05His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain young drunk girls in literal dental
27:13floss bikinis and then put these drunk dental floss girls on his back as they like cling
27:22onto him for dear life and then flip with them in the air.
27:26Even one more year is pushing it.
27:28Like you're going to be 33 working on a pirate ship.
27:31I think he would probably stay until the boat sinks.
27:35I don't know.
27:36It's an easy and fun job.
27:38I get good tips on that boat because of the things I can do.
27:41You know, I snorkel with the people.
27:42I show them all sorts of stuff.
27:44I feel like you don't have to be so much like the center of it anymore.
27:47Like I feel like you can slowly kind of step out of the limelight if you will.
27:52I mean, if I start getting like colleagues that start doing what I do, like nobody climbs
27:58the rope.
27:58Climbing?
27:59Okay, you can climb the rope.
28:01Just don't put people on your back.
28:02I'm trying to do that, lady.
28:03I'm trying, but I can't promise you that.
28:07You have to understand that like I did leave working on the boat to go work in a hotel
28:12because my ex didn't like me working on the boat.
28:15And I did it thinking that it would make things better.
28:18But it didn't.
28:19I know, but I'm not your ex.
28:20I understand that.
28:21So you can't, you can't compare.
28:23I can't compare.
28:23I understand.
28:24But it's going to put me in a situation I've been before.
28:27And I really don't want to do that again.
28:29I was just like mad that I had to go to work.
28:32Mad that I was doing what I was doing.
28:33But the work's not always fun.
28:35I mean, I think you can have a good balance.
28:37Yeah, I know.
28:38But that's why I'm trying to find a way to respect you as much as I can at work.
28:41So I can stay with my child because that's something I really, really love.
28:44I'm not asking you in this moment to go put in your two weeks.
28:47That's not what I'm asking you to do.
28:49I'm asking on the boat.
28:51Somebody asks, be like, listen, like, I have a girlfriend, whatever.
28:55I know you want to put on a show.
28:57But, you know, leave young girls and dental floss out of it.
29:02Leave them out of it.
29:06You got to understand, you met me on Jolly Pirates.
29:09You know, like, you can't expect me to just change for you.
29:14Just I met you a year ago and like, oh, I have to change my job and my lifestyle and
29:18everything.
29:20If you're going to sit here and tell me, no, I'm not going to stop flipping young, beautiful girls,
29:25then you can easily tell them no as well.
29:28At least have more respect for me.
29:30And if you're going to say no to someone, say it to them, not to me.
29:33The only way that I would leave Jolly Pirates is if I did something for myself.
29:39It's like if I worked at, like, a strip club.
29:43No, I don't work at a strip club.
29:45But it's like if I worked at a strip club.
29:47Because I'm saying most of your clients are girls.
29:49No, not about them. What do you mean?
29:50There's kids, there's families that come on the boat.
29:52In the morning trip.
29:53No, in all trips, Chloe.
29:55Like, Chloe, what is wrong with you?
29:58Anyway.
30:01Okay.
30:06Your parents are not here.
30:08Yeah.
30:09I'm seeing my fiancé for the first time in six months,
30:12and I'm sleeping down the hall from his parents.
30:15It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
30:20N, then altri work to Kensington Gardens.
30:43We're coming up, we're coming up now.
30:46In everyone to Kensington Gardens!
30:48In some gardens, we're coming up.
30:51You're not gonna stop us now.
30:55Wow, you're driving more smoothly than what I'm used to.
30:58Not doing any of your speeding antics.
31:01Oh, I've been practicing just a year.
31:04I just arrived in England. It's been a long day of travel
31:07and things were pretty awkward when we first saw each other.
31:11I think once we settle in together,
31:15we will feel more connected to each other.
31:18The town still looks the same.
31:20Not much changes in Sleepy Market, Barbara.
31:23Still pretty cute.
31:25Filled with old people.
31:27Uh-huh, yeah.
31:30Matthew's hometown is like the quintessential English countryside.
31:35There's lots of sheep, a lot of cute little cottages,
31:39and just long country roads leading to nowhere.
31:43Definitely not a place I would choose to live in my 20s.
31:46It maybe would be a place I would live in my 60s.
31:49I mean, I like a lot of the same things old people do,
31:51but I prefer city energy, not retirement home energy.
31:59Here we are.
32:06Your parents are not here.
32:08Yeah.
32:10Hi, Nellie.
32:12Hi, Nellie.
32:12Oh, you're my baby.
32:14Yeah, Apple.
32:14There you go.
32:15Hi, sweetie.
32:17I have stayed at this house three times before.
32:22Mommy's home.
32:23Yeah.
32:24But it's always been like a little bit awkward because it's a small space.
32:28We all share one shower.
32:31I don't really have my own place to have my own alone time.
32:36Oh, wow.
32:37You got your new computer monitors?
32:39Yeah.
32:40I'm also seeing my fiancé for the first time in six months,
32:43and I'm sleeping down the hall from his parents,
32:46and the walls are pretty thin.
32:49It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
32:53Sorry.
32:53Just cut that out.
32:55.
32:57Is this where I put my stuff in these drawers?
33:00Uh, yeah.
33:00Everything with a G on it.
33:02But there's stuff in there.
33:03Oh, God.
33:03Really?
33:04Okay.
33:05Oh, yeah.
33:06These are my shirts.
33:08Oh.
33:09I'll figure that out.
33:11Um.
33:12I guess you have to figure that out now, right?
33:18That's mine.
33:19That's mine.
33:20Maybe we should just get, like, a bag and just, like,
33:21put everything in the bag and then figure it out later?
33:24Mm-hmm.
33:25I'm trying to.
33:26Okay.
33:28Put everything in here.
33:30Like, I just don't know why all of this wasn't done beforehand.
33:35There you go.
33:37Three functional empty drawers.
33:39Okay.
33:40I don't know if that's enough.
33:41Can you make me a fourth one right now?
33:43Yeah, I'll get one.
33:47I thought there was enough space.
33:49I mean, did you expect me to wear, like,
33:52four outfits over and over again?
33:54No.
33:54There's 20 hangers here.
33:56No space for about five or six pairs of trousers down there,
34:00seven pairs of shoes.
34:02Seven pairs of shoes are going to fit there and trousers?
34:05Yeah.
34:05Yeah, lined up.
34:06Yeah.
34:07So you don't see space as an issue right now?
34:11No.
34:11I think this is fine.
34:13This is fine.
34:13Should we lay out and start doing the suitcase, or...?
34:16Um, I feel like I just want to do that, like, alone,
34:18because it's, like, too cramped for me to unpack
34:20while you're sitting there.
34:21Sure.
34:22Okay.
34:22Sure.
34:22I'll let you unpack, then.
34:37I don't even know where to put anything.
34:51I know it's, like, so silly to, like, cry over, like,
34:54not having the space to put your stuff,
34:56but it just feels, like, really discombobulating.
35:02It just doesn't really feel like home,
35:04and I'm just, like, coming here
35:05and trying to just find the space to put my things
35:08and there's not enough space,
35:09and, like, I'll just be living out of a suitcase, basically.
35:14And, uh, it's just, like, a really weird situation.
35:23I just thought he would get ready more for me to come.
35:28So it just kind of feels like I'm not really welcome here.
35:33I left home to come here and then just, like,
35:35to feel like you're just taking up space
35:37that you shouldn't be taking up.
35:40It just makes me really realize, like,
35:42we need to find a place, like, of our own.
35:47Because it's just not really gonna work.
35:51I was already a little bit annoyed
35:53that Matthew hadn't seriously started
35:55looking at apartments for us,
35:56and then it doesn't even seem like
35:58he was expecting me to arrive here.
36:00It feels pretty inconsiderate.
36:03Like, I just left Hazel to move here.
36:06He's just not really making me feel at home right now.
36:11How's it going?
36:13Need any help?
36:16You can get me a bigger room.
36:19This one will have to do, I'm afraid.
36:25You're right.
36:26You won't have to do something.
36:28You're right.
36:29When you're here.
36:31You're already around here.
36:32You're running your child.
36:35When you're around here,
36:45I'm going to go.
36:46Hey, I'm going to go.
36:49What happened?
36:51Why she took your mom away?
37:18What happened?
37:19I'm happy with the son.
37:22I'm happy with the son.
37:23What happened?
37:26It's not like that.
37:27It's not like that.
37:28It's not like that.
37:30It's not like that.
37:33It's been married.
37:41I didn't expect that my aunt
37:44would start saying all this.
37:46She was fine in the starting.
37:48She came to a celebration
37:49and all of a sudden she's getting mad
37:52and talking about Jenny.
37:54It's really like, make me,
37:55why and what is going on over here?
38:02Still having a problem with our age gap?
38:05Yeah, age gap thing.
38:06Well, we love each other.
38:07Love each other.
38:09Love each other.
38:14Well, if you don't like it,
38:16you don't have to come over here.
38:17Look at that.
38:18You're a little girl.
38:19You're a little girl.
38:22You're a little girl.
38:24You're a little girl.
38:24I loved her.
38:26She helped me with her.
38:28When I was very frustrated,
38:31that Jenny is a perfect girl.
38:35She's married.
38:36She's not a girl.
38:41She's not a girl.
38:42She's a woman.
38:43But we're together.
38:46And we're happy.
38:46The biggest thing is that
38:47she's happy.
38:48She's happy.
38:49You're happy.
38:50You're not a girl.
38:52I don't know what to say.
38:53I don't know about this.
38:54But she's happy.
38:56She was happy with her.
38:58She's happy with her.
38:59She's happy with her.
39:01She's happy with her.
39:13She's happy with her.
39:15She's happy with her.
39:15She's happy with her.
39:16I went out of her.
39:17I wanted to see her.
39:19Because I had to see her.
39:22I wanted to see her.
39:23Many people say,
39:24what did you say to your son?
39:25I thought I wouldn't go anywhere.
39:29I'd be keeping in my house.
39:32I'd be keeping my husband alive.
39:32But after a while,
39:35my husband also explained me
39:37that I couldn't do anything.
39:40I couldn't afford to pay for both.
39:42And then I thought,
39:45I've also thought that
39:45they've been doing it.
39:47I wouldn't have to change your life.
39:49I'd have to be able to do your life at all.
39:55I'm so happy.
39:57I've always thought that
39:59if you felt a mistake,
40:01it's just my fault.
40:03And if you think that it's a mistake,
40:05it's alright.
40:05What's wrong with you?
40:08Let's do anything.
40:10This is your house.
40:13I want to tell you this.
40:15Why are you wearing her name?
40:18No one will wear her.
40:21If you leave Jenny,
40:23you will wear her.
40:26Jenny is a very good lady.
40:28You are part of our family.
40:31Okay.
40:31If you have to wear your clothes,
40:33then you can wear your clothes.
40:36If you have to wear your clothes,
40:37then you will wear it.
40:42Chachi, listen to me.
40:45It is like all the good work we've done till now
40:48can be spoiled by one loud person.
40:51It might make my opinion feel like
40:53fighting against the society and culture
40:56is not worth it.
40:58I don't know,
41:00but I think it's very risky for us.
41:02You are going to wear your clothes.
41:12Next time on 90 Day Fiance,
41:14The Other Way.
41:15I'm Patia.
41:16I'm 58,
41:17and I'm an exotic dancer.
41:19But now I'm hanging out my cowgirl hat
41:22to move across the world
41:23to be with my boyfriend, Dylan.
41:27G'day.
41:27I'm Dylan.
41:28I'm 38 years old
41:29and I live in Launceston, Tasmania.
41:32We've been together for 12 years
41:34and have broken up 20 times.
41:37I'm just tired of the back and forth.
41:39You know?
41:40I'm not going to keep the break-up,
41:42the make-up, the break-up,
41:43make-up going for the rest of my life.
41:45It's either get off the pot.
41:48In Oklahoma,
41:50I get weekly massages.
41:53I feel like you don't necessarily appreciate
41:56how much I give.
41:58He's never said anything like this before.
42:00I couldn't afford the life that you want.
42:03I'm engaged you for the money.
42:05Is that what you're saying?
42:08Aw, you're so cute.
42:10Sometimes.
42:11We're going to have a day night
42:13and we can put all the fighting behind us.
42:19I didn't do anything.
42:22I just...
42:26I didn't do anything.
42:28My God.
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