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Married at First Sight (AU) Season 13 Episode 32
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00:00:00It's with great sadness and heavy heart that today the Maffs family lost a colleague and a dear friend, Mel
00:00:09Schilling.
00:00:10She was someone that could light up a room.
00:00:13She was full of joy, had a huge smile.
00:00:16And whenever she was on set, everyone lifted.
00:00:21She bought fun and joy, humour.
00:00:24But she also bought an authenticity, which we all loved to be around.
00:00:32It was such a delight to watch her shine.
00:00:37She was a fighter.
00:00:38She was a leader.
00:00:40She was an inspiration.
00:00:42Never complained, just rolled her sleeves up and got on with things.
00:00:47Someone that has meant so much to all of us.
00:00:50And it's not fair.
00:00:53Married at first sight won't be the same without her.
00:00:58I would like to send all thoughts and prayers to Gareth, her husband and Maddie, her wonderful daughter.
00:01:07And also, take a moment now and remember, Mel, we love you.
00:01:47I've got everything that I want in an apartment.
00:01:49But I've got my reassurances.
00:01:51We are coming out stronger.
00:01:53Stephen stepped up, giving Rachel reassurance for their future.
00:01:57What I see is a wife outside the experiment.
00:02:03After a tense few days on the farm, Sam and Chris made a shock decision.
00:02:08I can't see this working.
00:02:11It's all good.
00:02:11It is what it is.
00:02:13It's not how I envisioned it would end.
00:02:15I really thought Chris would fight for me a bit.
00:02:18You want to have a family.
00:02:20You don't want to keep putting it off.
00:02:23Following advice from her mother, Alyssa began to spiral.
00:02:27Just getting very overwhelmed with what I have at stake here.
00:02:31And what I could potentially be walking away from.
00:02:34Leaving David disheartened.
00:02:35The way Alyssa is handling the situation, it is making me uneasy.
00:02:40Tonight.
00:02:41Throughout this experiment, I have been patient.
00:02:43But when you're dealing with the mom, the family, friends, they all said that I'm a great guy for her.
00:02:49And she still sees negatives.
00:02:51There's nothing else I can do.
00:02:53Has David reached his limit?
00:02:55That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:02:58You never say space.
00:03:01It's the second last dinner party of the experiment.
00:03:05I can see we can do life together.
00:03:07But I feel a lot more confident now that we can take this out onto the outside.
00:03:11Have Rachel and Stephen become this year's new power couple?
00:03:15Who would have thought?
00:03:16Who would have thought?
00:03:18The person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.
00:03:23But babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:03:25Tensions rise when Sam and Chris air their concerns.
00:03:28You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behavior, honey.
00:03:32And I've never been aggressive to you.
00:03:35And then.
00:03:36I think like for me, as a man, I feel like.
00:03:40Oh God.
00:03:41Oh my God.
00:03:43What are you on about?
00:03:45It's the shock debate that will divide the table.
00:03:48That was not what I was getting at.
00:03:51Are we serious for this?
00:04:07Our couples have returned from their homestay.
00:04:10And our brides and grooms are enjoying a new sense of closeness.
00:04:15After stepping into the life that could be waiting for them outside the experiment.
00:04:21Hi.
00:04:22Hey.
00:04:22Bonjour.
00:04:23Bonjour.
00:04:24Recharged and hopeful, the couples now turn their attention to the second last dinner party
00:04:30of the experiment.
00:04:31Eager to reconnect after time apart.
00:04:35Are you excited?
00:04:36I am excited because it's been a very long time since we caught up with everyone.
00:04:42We don't know what the hell is going on.
00:04:45It's going to be exciting.
00:04:47A lot of gossip.
00:04:49I'll be straight up with you.
00:04:50This is the most anticipated dinner party I'm looking forward to.
00:04:54Yeah.
00:04:54Really?
00:04:55How come?
00:04:55We went through.
00:04:57The ups and downs.
00:04:58We went through the ups and downs.
00:04:59The trenches.
00:05:00But coming out at the end of it, good.
00:05:02Yeah.
00:05:02Everything is exactly where it needs to be.
00:05:06For Rachel and Stephen, homestays sparked a breakthrough in their marriage.
00:05:11Unlocking a new confidence in their relationship.
00:05:14Hello, hello.
00:05:15Hello, sexy.
00:05:17Looking good.
00:05:17I appreciate that.
00:05:18I like the red.
00:05:19Right now, we've just come off the back of homestays and it was amazing.
00:05:23Something definitely clicked for Stephen and I.
00:05:25It was that this could work.
00:05:28I think that's really what it is.
00:05:30I'm ready to load up the boat again and get straight back up to the central coast and just,
00:05:35you know, start hanging out and, yeah.
00:05:38So, it was really good.
00:05:40We had such a great homestay and I'm actually just really excited to share that with everyone.
00:05:46And that's it.
00:05:47I'm glad you had a good time and you could see, you know, a little bit of my lifestyle.
00:05:51Well, after homestays, it's given me confidence.
00:05:55I feel a little bit better outside the experiment now.
00:05:58Like I said to Rachel, can I see myself falling in love with you?
00:06:03Yes, I can.
00:06:04And I mean that.
00:06:06And homestays really gave me confidence in that.
00:06:09I think we're really lucky.
00:06:11You know, other couples may not have had a good homestay.
00:06:15So, we're really lucky to have had the good experience that we did.
00:06:19While homestays brought some closer,
00:06:23for Scott, welcoming Gia into his home presented new challenges.
00:06:28What's that?
00:06:30It's a neck brace.
00:06:31Why is it pink?
00:06:32Why is it pink?
00:06:33Why not?
00:06:35You're trying to find a problem.
00:06:36Is it your ex?
00:06:37Gab and Maria.
00:06:38Do you trust me?
00:06:38Like, do you trust my words?
00:06:40Do you trust me as a person?
00:06:41Yeah, I trust you.
00:06:43Yeah, why?
00:06:45I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells because I feel like if I want to bring up something,
00:06:49I feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way.
00:06:52I know I trust you, but can I commit to moving and everything if you never feel like,
00:06:57you know, that you love me.
00:06:59But back at the apartments, eternal optimist Scott is determined to hit reset and look on
00:07:05the bright side.
00:07:06I feel great.
00:07:08I just feel good walking into this dinner party, being able to share, like, good moments
00:07:11that we've had.
00:07:13I feel like it'll be good.
00:07:14Like, I feel like tonight's going to be a really good, positive night to share what
00:07:18we've done for homestays.
00:07:20Yeah.
00:07:21At the end of homestays, we had a bit of a discussion, but we hashed it out.
00:07:27Today, we're going to the dinner party with positive attitude.
00:07:30We're great.
00:07:30We're in a really good place.
00:07:31I want to keep it like that.
00:07:34Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty happy with where we're at.
00:07:39Coming to the end now.
00:07:39This is the last or second last one.
00:07:41Mm.
00:07:43So, yeah.
00:07:44Do you think it would cause problems if you, you know, raised some concerns?
00:07:50Well, pretty much.
00:07:55Let's just do it.
00:07:56Get it done.
00:07:58I'm excited.
00:07:59You look good.
00:07:59We feel good.
00:08:00And I'm ready to walk into a nice dinner party.
00:08:04Yep.
00:08:04Me too.
00:08:07For Bec and Danny, what began as a promising homestay took a dramatic turn.
00:08:14If my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you, they would.
00:08:20I think, obviously, because Danielle fancied me, she didn't want to, like...
00:08:27I'm joking.
00:08:28I'm joking.
00:08:29It's like a serious moment.
00:08:33These moments make me feel like shit.
00:08:36It's serious for me.
00:08:37You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it and then not say,
00:08:41oh, your cousin wants to me.
00:08:43Like...
00:08:44I never said that.
00:08:45Yeah, I'm done.
00:08:46F***ing point.
00:08:48F***ing point.
00:08:49F***ing point.
00:08:52And now back at the apartment,
00:08:54an even bigger shock awaits.
00:09:00So, since we got back to Sydney from homestays,
00:09:04things are great.
00:09:06Cheers, baby.
00:09:07Cheers, girl.
00:09:08The last night, since we've been back,
00:09:11there's not really any need to talk about it.
00:09:12Like, he made a joke.
00:09:14It frustrated me.
00:09:16He got frustrated with me.
00:09:18And then we wake up the next morning,
00:09:19we give each other a cuddle,
00:09:21we have a shag and we move on.
00:09:23Cheers.
00:09:24It's all blown over.
00:09:26Like...
00:09:27Shocking.
00:09:28Oh, stop it!
00:09:29Ha, ha, ha, ha!
00:09:31For most couples, homestays brought them together.
00:09:34But for one couple,
00:09:36it marked the end of the road.
00:09:39Going to the dinner party tonight,
00:09:41yeah, I'm going alone.
00:09:42And obviously Chris and I left each other at homestays.
00:09:46I wrote some questions down and maybe we could just be, like,
00:09:50really raw and honest with each other about all the answers.
00:09:55First question is...
00:09:57Do you accept full responsibility for your defensiveness
00:09:59and the aggression I felt from you last week?
00:10:04Yeah.
00:10:06You don't have to agree.
00:10:07Yeah, no, I agree.
00:10:08I just feel like we've just, I've already suffered enough from this.
00:10:12I honestly felt like I was, um, 15,
00:10:15getting in trouble by a teacher or something.
00:10:16Do you have feelings for me?
00:10:20Um, okay, um, in the beginning, uh, yes.
00:10:26But I just think, um, yeah,
00:10:29we also have some, um, differences as well.
00:10:32And I just want to put my dad a hat on
00:10:35and, like, live my best life.
00:10:38Homestays was my last plea
00:10:41to see if he was going to fight for me at all.
00:10:43But Chris just kind of gave up.
00:10:47So, I did break up with Chris on the farm.
00:10:50But I'm going to the dinner party
00:10:52because I want that last chance
00:10:54to sort of just, like, find out
00:10:56why Chris actually didn't want this relationship.
00:11:01I just want clarity on what the hell happened.
00:11:04But Sam isn't the only one struggling
00:11:07with the fallout of their homestay.
00:11:10During their trip to Adelaide,
00:11:12Alyssa received a wake-up call.
00:11:14Obviously, I want to settle down in Adelaide,
00:11:16but what are your thoughts
00:11:19about me moving to Sydney
00:11:20just for a couple of years?
00:11:22I would hate that.
00:11:26Um, you know, you want to have a family
00:11:28and you don't want to keep putting it off.
00:11:33People sometimes take ten years
00:11:35to fall pregnant.
00:11:36That's the truth.
00:11:37Yeah, I know, but, well, I don't know that yet.
00:11:38I've never tried.
00:11:39That's right.
00:11:40But you don't know that.
00:11:42A couple of years?
00:11:44I don't think you've got a couple of years to wait.
00:11:49It's really stressful now.
00:11:51It's a lot.
00:11:51All the time.
00:11:52And after a confronting conversation with her mum,
00:11:56Alyssa unravelled
00:11:57and David was left wondering where he fits.
00:12:00I will be honest with you.
00:12:04I started to spiral.
00:12:06Like, I want to have a family in the next few years.
00:12:10I don't want to miss out on being a mum.
00:12:11And if we're going to make this thing work,
00:12:14David might have to move to Adelaide.
00:12:16Alyssa, I'm really sorry, babe.
00:12:18I have to ask this to you.
00:12:20You've sat here and you've talked a lot about
00:12:21what your wants and needs are.
00:12:24Mm.
00:12:27What about...
00:12:27Yeah, David.
00:12:30Now back at the apartments,
00:12:32David has had a wake-up call of his own.
00:12:38Oh, man, I'm feeling at my limit.
00:12:42Post-homestays.
00:12:46Can I see myself living in Adelaide?
00:12:49Absolutely.
00:12:49But, you know, after having, you know,
00:12:52come back to Sydney
00:12:53and having time to just come down
00:12:56from the high of homestays,
00:12:57I am feeling a bit low.
00:12:59And that is because there were a couple of things
00:13:01that have still, like,
00:13:04trinkled in the back of my mind.
00:13:06Could you see yourself living here?
00:13:10To be honest, yeah.
00:13:13I know that you're willing to move here,
00:13:16which is great,
00:13:17but I don't know,
00:13:18I feel like I'm getting overwhelmed with it
00:13:20because you're, like, literally...
00:13:22Is you overwhelmed?
00:13:22Spiralling.
00:13:23I am. I am.
00:13:24I am.
00:13:24Because it's, like, a lot.
00:13:27David actually is everything
00:13:29that you've asked for.
00:13:30I know.
00:13:30Right now, this is too good to be true.
00:13:32Like, and that is also another reason
00:13:34why I'm scared, too.
00:13:36Throughout this experiment,
00:13:38I have been patient
00:13:39because I know there is something
00:13:41in this relationship to fight for.
00:13:43But when you get to that point
00:13:46where, like, you're dealing with, like,
00:13:47the mum, the family, friends,
00:13:49they all said that
00:13:51I'm a great guy for her
00:13:52and she still sees negatives,
00:13:54there's nothing else I can do.
00:13:57I've hit my limit
00:13:58and I'm not going to push any further.
00:14:01It's getting very real
00:14:02that I could potentially
00:14:03be putting everything on the line
00:14:06for someone
00:14:07who doesn't want to meet me halfway.
00:14:10So, today, I know I need to be honest.
00:14:13For me, I think it's important
00:14:14to just express how I feel.
00:14:17Looking handsome.
00:14:18Thanks, babe.
00:14:19You're looking gorgeous.
00:14:20I love the dress.
00:14:21Well, we're kind of almost matching.
00:14:25How are you feeling
00:14:26going to the dinner party
00:14:27after homestays?
00:14:31Homestays was a massive, massive week.
00:14:35So, I'm at the point where,
00:14:37like I said, you know,
00:14:38I'm happy to give all the space you need.
00:14:42I'll take the space I need
00:14:43because I definitely need space.
00:14:45Yeah, like I feel like
00:14:46I've just gone and put it all on the line
00:14:49and, you know,
00:14:50at the end of the day,
00:14:51I'm not going to force anything.
00:14:55That's the first time I've ever heard you say
00:14:57that you need space.
00:14:59I know, but I do.
00:15:00You never say space.
00:15:01You're always like,
00:15:02you're more like,
00:15:02let's, like, whatever.
00:15:04This is the first time
00:15:05you've ever said space.
00:15:06Yeah, I know.
00:15:08That kind of, like,
00:15:10rattled me a little bit.
00:15:11Normally, I'm the one that needs space.
00:15:13So, you know what?
00:15:14If he needs space,
00:15:15gladly,
00:15:16because I need space right now
00:15:18just from my head
00:15:19and I don't need any of this pressure right now.
00:15:21I feel like I'm at my tether.
00:15:23I feel like he's at his tether.
00:15:24We're both tired
00:15:26and he's been snoring louder than usual
00:15:28like it's just been
00:15:29a bit of an emotional rollercoaster.
00:15:32The reason I need space
00:15:33because, yeah,
00:15:34I am a calm person,
00:15:35but I'm getting to my limit
00:15:37where I just need
00:15:38to take some space
00:15:39for my own brain
00:15:40because I feel like
00:15:41I put my cards on the table,
00:15:43but it almost felt like
00:15:45you were just looking
00:15:46for the negatives
00:15:46and when someone's looking
00:15:48for the negatives too much
00:15:49of why things can't work,
00:15:50like, I'm not going to force that.
00:15:52I'm not going to force a connection
00:15:53if it's just me
00:15:54looking for the positives
00:15:55and someone else
00:15:56is looking for anything
00:15:57to be like,
00:15:58why this can't work.
00:16:01I would be lying to you
00:16:04if I said I wasn't questioning
00:16:05things right now
00:16:06and questioning our relationship.
00:16:08I am in that headspace.
00:16:11So I'm not going into the dinner party
00:16:13with Alyssa
00:16:14feeling my best self.
00:16:16I'm sure you're in a similar boat.
00:16:18Babe, I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:20Yeah, exactly.
00:16:21I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:22Exactly, yeah.
00:16:23I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:26I get it.
00:16:35It'll be the honour of getting up.
00:16:37Let's get out of here.
00:16:37Yep, let's go.
00:16:42Up for you.
00:16:43Up to me, thanks.
00:16:45Off to the gallows we go.
00:16:51Don't want to do this.
00:17:05Well, dinner party number seven,
00:17:07the second last one
00:17:09before we wind this all up.
00:17:12And it is a very important one
00:17:13because they've come back
00:17:15from the homestays.
00:17:17As they start to get a glimpse
00:17:19of what their life will be like
00:17:20with this person
00:17:21in the real world.
00:17:24This is a really crucial part
00:17:25of the experiment for them
00:17:27because some of them
00:17:27will bond closer together
00:17:30through the homestays.
00:17:31I think it's going to be really good.
00:17:33What about you?
00:17:34Are you excited?
00:17:35I'm excited.
00:17:36Whereas others will start
00:17:37to really fall apart
00:17:38and question their overall compatibility
00:17:40with their matches.
00:17:45It's noisy.
00:17:47They'll hear that
00:17:48in the mics.
00:17:48They'll hear that.
00:17:49And you do that all the time.
00:17:50You don't even realise.
00:17:56Well, the homestays throws up
00:17:58the ultimate question.
00:17:59Could this relationship last
00:18:01in the outside world?
00:18:02We're going to see you tonight.
00:18:09Oh, first in.
00:18:11First one's in.
00:18:15Rachel and Steve-o.
00:18:16No one to talk to you
00:18:17but ourselves.
00:18:19Are you sick of talking to me yet?
00:18:21Straight to the bar.
00:18:23Straight to the bar, babes.
00:18:24I don't think I've seen
00:18:25Stephen look so relaxed
00:18:27and so really walking in
00:18:29with Rachel.
00:18:30Yes.
00:18:31As he is today.
00:18:32Very unified.
00:18:34Tell me when.
00:18:35That's good.
00:18:36Oh, my gosh.
00:18:37Thank you so much.
00:18:39Gotta look after you.
00:18:40Oh, I appreciate it.
00:18:43Me and Rachel, we're good.
00:18:44We've walked into the cocktail party.
00:18:45We're first in there.
00:18:46We're pouring drinks.
00:18:47We're cracking jokes.
00:18:48I'll just take this with me.
00:18:49Oh, you're going to take that?
00:18:50Okay.
00:18:52Probably the most relaxed
00:18:53I've ever been in a cocktail party.
00:18:54We're in a good place.
00:18:57Do you want me to open it?
00:19:00Do you want me to open it?
00:19:01Is there a pillow opener?
00:19:04Got it?
00:19:05There you go.
00:19:05We're both so keen to get out of this experiment.
00:19:09See where life takes us.
00:19:11Especially after the homestays.
00:19:13Alrighty.
00:19:14Oh, my gosh, babes.
00:19:15Here we are.
00:19:16Cheers.
00:19:17Hopefully, you know, it's just us.
00:19:20We can have all the food and the drink.
00:19:22I mean, I wouldn't be mad about it, babes.
00:19:26I think I'm just really, really excited
00:19:29to share how much fun we had
00:19:31and how good ours was.
00:19:35Isn't that nice that a couple
00:19:37is sitting here talking about themselves,
00:19:39not everybody else?
00:19:40Yes.
00:19:41This is great.
00:19:42Check it out, babe.
00:19:44You're going to make me blush.
00:19:46And the enthusiasm in Rachel's voice and face
00:19:50as she is just excited to tell people the good news
00:19:52they had a good week.
00:20:03Stop rubbing your name.
00:20:05Oh, me.
00:20:09I'm trying to understand you
00:20:10because I don't understand you.
00:20:11You're confusing the f*** out of me.
00:20:13Watch it.
00:20:14Well...
00:20:28This whole, I'm at my limit.
00:20:31I need space.
00:20:33It sounds really bad.
00:20:36Does it?
00:20:37Yes.
00:20:38So maybe we've got to word it differently.
00:20:40It's not taking space from each other.
00:20:43It's just taking space to process everything.
00:20:47Okay.
00:20:52Oh, look who it is.
00:20:59This whole, I'm at my limit.
00:21:01I need space.
00:21:02It sounds really bad.
00:21:04Does it?
00:21:05Yes.
00:21:15Oh, my God.
00:21:21Oh, my God.
00:21:23Oh, my God.
00:21:24Oh, my God.
00:21:25Oh, my God.
00:21:26Oh, my God.
00:21:27Oh, my God.
00:21:28Oh, my God.
00:21:29Hang on.
00:21:30How are you, mate?
00:21:31Dude, that's all I can do.
00:21:32Handshake.
00:21:32Good to see you, bro.
00:21:34Likewise, man.
00:21:34Looking good.
00:21:36Oh.
00:21:36That's some energy there, isn't it?
00:21:38Oh, at first.
00:21:39Yeah, at first.
00:21:40You guys at first.
00:21:40We got so stuck.
00:21:42Oh, yeah.
00:21:43We've got a lot to evaluate.
00:21:44Let's just get some...
00:21:46Evaluate?
00:21:47OK.
00:21:48OK.
00:21:48OK.
00:21:49OK.
00:21:55So, are you prepared for everyone to find out that I'm a better fisherman than you, or...?
00:21:59Oh, hang on.
00:22:00Whoa.
00:22:05Walking into the cocktail party tonight, you know, I was...
00:22:09Obviously, I've been on a low post the homestays.
00:22:13I've sort of just been feeling deflated.
00:22:16Ooh.
00:22:17Right in my face.
00:22:18And I did make it known to Alyssa that, you know, I am sort of one in my own space,
00:22:23you know,
00:22:23in my head just to sort of figure things out.
00:22:26So, I did walk in on a low.
00:22:32Oh, who is it?
00:22:33Hey!
00:22:34Here we go!
00:22:35Hello there.
00:22:35What's up?
00:22:36Scott and Gia.
00:22:38Just spin.
00:22:38Little...
00:22:39...podness fun here.
00:22:41Oh, so pretty.
00:22:42You both.
00:22:43Hi!
00:22:44Give me some love.
00:22:45Gorgeous.
00:22:46Hello.
00:22:49Walking into the cocktail party tonight with Gia, like, you know, we're not perfect.
00:22:53We still have a couple things to work on.
00:22:55Get a drink and get in here, brother.
00:22:56I always look at the bright side.
00:22:58If there's something that's really bad, I just see...
00:22:59...the more good in someone.
00:23:01Can we carry that?
00:23:02Thanks.
00:23:06All right, Chris, why don't you tell me what's running through your head and going into this?
00:23:10One saving grace for me is that last time I was in this car with, um, Sam, it was just
00:23:15so yucky and awkward.
00:23:16So, I'm grateful not to have that, you know, at the moment.
00:23:21Well, it was so awkward you could cut the tension with a knife.
00:23:24And I could not wait to get out of the car.
00:23:26I just hope this, um, you know, situation with Sam and I can get squashed pretty quickly
00:23:33so I can have a couple of shams and try and enjoy my night.
00:23:38Yeah, no, this is definitely not how I expected to be going to a dinner party in the experiment.
00:23:42I think Chris and I started off really strong and everything was going good
00:23:45and then at some point he just flipped and it all just sort of fell apart
00:23:48and I don't really know what that flip was into him.
00:23:54Do you know if Sam's coming tonight?
00:23:56Oh, I definitely know he'll be going.
00:23:58Yeah.
00:23:58He wants to go to get the whole group's opinion and two cents on our dirty laundry.
00:24:06But you know what?
00:24:06There's two sides to this story and coming to the dinner party to back myself
00:24:11and say my side of the story.
00:24:18Yeah.
00:24:19And that's where we're going to be.
00:24:20Oh!
00:24:21Oh!
00:24:22Oh!
00:24:25Oh!
00:24:26Oh!
00:24:26Chris is alone.
00:24:27Ew, how you going?
00:24:28Oh!
00:24:29Okay, that's a surprise.
00:24:30Hi.
00:24:31Hey, bud.
00:24:32So Chris walks in solo.
00:24:35Well, shit.
00:24:37That's not my prediction.
00:24:39Drink, drink, drink, drink, drink.
00:24:41I mean, they were very bad at the commitment ceremony.
00:24:44Chris had written leave.
00:24:45Sam was absolutely in tears about it all.
00:24:48There was a hope that the homestay, they might be able to turn it around.
00:24:51But this looks like it's actually not been salvaged.
00:24:55The brown torch.
00:24:56Yeah, yeah, I'm alright.
00:24:57You look very tanned.
00:24:58Thanks, babe.
00:24:59The fit's good.
00:25:00The fit's good.
00:25:01My life's not...
00:25:01I would love one.
00:25:02Your life is okay.
00:25:04Yeah, thanks, babe.
00:25:04You've got this shit, babe.
00:25:05You've got this shit.
00:25:07Yes, obviously it didn't work out.
00:25:08Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:25:10Wait, wait, wait.
00:25:11I feel like maybe Sam and I can unpack it together.
00:25:13Okay, alright.
00:25:14So you don't want to talk about that?
00:25:15No, I'll give you a little run.
00:25:17I'll give you a little rundown.
00:25:18It's really hard seeing them not walking together.
00:25:20Because I genuinely had hope that they would get past this.
00:25:25Seeing Chris walking in by himself, like, it was genuinely, like, pretty heartbreaks.
00:25:30But basically, yeah, Sam ended it with me two days into homestays.
00:25:36He ended it with you.
00:25:37This is the second day.
00:25:38He ended it.
00:25:39Yeah.
00:25:40Yeah.
00:25:40He ended it with you.
00:25:41Yeah.
00:25:42Oh, Sam ended it.
00:25:44I wonder why.
00:25:45Yes.
00:25:45I wonder why.
00:25:47Obviously, we had like a, you know, pretty bad couch session.
00:25:51I took accountability.
00:25:52I decided that I wanted to learn and grow from the feedback that I got.
00:25:56Yeah, that's what you said.
00:25:56So I went into homestays, trying to turn it around.
00:25:59Gia knows.
00:25:59I spoke with you about it.
00:26:00Yeah.
00:26:01Morning flowers, made him dinner.
00:26:02I tried everything that I could to turn it around.
00:26:04But unfortunately, yeah, it didn't work for us.
00:26:07And it was really, it was a real shock because I thought we were actually doing quite well.
00:26:11Like, you know, I started to get those feelings back for him again.
00:26:13So.
00:26:14So Chris was saying he started getting feelings for Sam again.
00:26:17Okay.
00:26:18So he was shocked by it.
00:26:20Blindsided.
00:26:22So it's pretty, it's pretty sad.
00:26:25But I respect Sam's decision to exit.
00:26:28And we actually weren't even going to come tonight.
00:26:29Like they, we, he left the farm.
00:26:31We were just going to leave it at that because we unpacked a lot of it.
00:26:33And, um, but I've decided to give Sam the respect of coming tonight.
00:26:37So we can both.
00:26:37Amazing.
00:26:38Talk to you guys about it.
00:26:39Yeah.
00:26:39And, um, let you know what's happened and then sit in front of the experts and get their
00:26:43advice.
00:26:44But like, no ill feelings towards Sam.
00:26:46I respect his decision.
00:26:47But yeah.
00:26:48She's single.
00:26:49Again.
00:26:50Yeah.
00:26:52I love you.
00:26:53I love you.
00:26:53Yeah.
00:26:55Alyssa.
00:26:56How was yours?
00:26:57Uh.
00:27:01Good moment.
00:27:01I feel like I'm still processing everything.
00:27:03Yeah.
00:27:04It's crunch time, right?
00:27:05It's crunch time.
00:27:09Um, but we'll talk about it later at the dinner party.
00:27:13Okay.
00:27:18Hey!
00:27:19Hey!
00:27:21Hey!
00:27:23Hey!
00:27:23Hey!
00:27:24Hey!
00:27:25Hey!
00:27:25Hey!
00:27:26Hey!
00:27:28Hey!
00:27:29Hey!
00:27:39Hey!
00:27:40Hey!
00:27:41Hey!
00:27:43Hey!
00:27:44Hey!
00:27:45Hey!
00:27:46Hey!
00:27:46Hey!
00:27:46Hey!
00:27:46Hey!
00:27:46Hey!
00:27:46Hey!
00:27:46Hey!
00:27:46Hey!
00:27:46Hey!
00:27:46Hey!
00:27:46Hey!
00:27:47Hey!
00:27:54Hey!
00:27:57Hey!
00:27:59Beck and Danny.
00:28:01Hello.
00:28:02I'm feeling phenomenal walking into this cocktail party tonight.
00:28:06Danny and I are in a great spot.
00:28:09We are planning our future together.
00:28:13We had great homestays, and I've got no beef with anyone.
00:28:16Oh, my God, pigs fly.
00:28:17What the hell?
00:28:18I'm not arguing with anyone.
00:28:21Hello.
00:28:22How was homestays?
00:28:23Cheers.
00:28:24How'd you go?
00:28:25How was Adelaide?
00:28:27Oh, my God.
00:28:27Yeah.
00:28:28We had a great time.
00:28:30He's going to move.
00:28:32I got back and I was a bit drained, to tell you the truth.
00:28:36It's a lot.
00:28:37I felt a bit uncomfortable in our house, and I felt a bit out of place.
00:28:40And it made me think about the logistics of the move more,
00:28:44like how it's going to work.
00:28:46Because I'm not just going to move in with that.
00:28:48Of course.
00:28:49And live like, oh, put my feet up, this is rent-free.
00:28:52That doesn't sit well with me.
00:28:53So it just solidified there's more things we need to talk about.
00:28:57Of course.
00:28:57Of course.
00:29:01So, we're going to do it, I think.
00:29:03Yeah, awesome.
00:29:03Crazy.
00:29:05Love it.
00:29:06I think Danny and I are probably the strongest in the experiment, if I'm honest with you.
00:29:11And, like, it feels like it can only go up from here.
00:29:18Coming up...
00:29:19I would never just move in.
00:29:22Danny's jaw-dropping confession...
00:29:24From my point of view, anyway, I suppose everyone looks at it different, but it makes you feel like a...
00:29:28Has the whole table talking.
00:29:30What are you on about?
00:29:32I'll be honest.
00:29:33I'll be honest.
00:29:48I'll be honest.
00:29:58Um, the Friday, after he left, and all he said was that he wanted to come to the dinner party
00:30:03with Sam Rani.
00:30:06Yeah, I don't know what the energy is going to be like with Sam.
00:30:08I hope he comes in, like, nice.
00:30:12I just, yeah, I just can't deal with any more, you know.
00:30:36I just can't deal with him.
00:30:44Thanks, thanks, thanks, thanks.
00:30:45You're going to get a drink, come on, let's get your drink.
00:30:47Let's get a drink.
00:30:48I hope he doesn't come at me, like...
00:30:50Why are you worried?
00:30:50Oh, I just...
00:30:51Don't worry.
00:30:52Yeah, I just can't deal with it, like...
00:30:55All right.
00:30:57No, you're okay.
00:30:59How are you?
00:31:00Are you okay?
00:31:02Uh...
00:31:02I just feel a bit like there was no real effort while we're away.
00:31:06But we'll get into it at the table, yeah.
00:31:08No, no, no.
00:31:08He's given us a bit of a brief.
00:31:12What was he saying?
00:31:13Just...
00:31:13Um, you guys, you know, went to homestays and, like, he cooked dinner one night,
00:31:17or you guys had dinner together one night, and he thought the first night was going okay.
00:31:22Um, and then obviously you guys both had a chat and decided that it was a night.
00:31:26Yeah.
00:31:28Dude, he didn't drive.
00:31:31You took...
00:31:32You're eating up his bullshit.
00:31:34Don't eat up his bullshit.
00:31:39Dinner is served.
00:31:41Okay, let's go, babes.
00:31:43You got this.
00:31:44Let's go, mate.
00:31:47Alrighty.
00:31:49Well, let's hope that now that dinner's about to begin,
00:31:52we will get to the bottom of what actually happened at the homestay between Sam and Chris.
00:31:57Yes.
00:31:57We need to understand what actually went on there.
00:32:00Cheers, guys.
00:32:02Cheers.
00:32:09You got the, um, you got the tits out again?
00:32:12Oh, yeah.
00:32:13Well...
00:32:14Tits out for the boys.
00:32:15I love this beer.
00:32:18Dull.
00:32:18Yes.
00:32:19Yeah.
00:32:21Bust the butter.
00:32:22Yeah.
00:32:31Wow.
00:32:32It's very tense, isn't it?
00:32:34Chris, Sam.
00:32:44I really want to talk about, from our perspective,
00:32:47what led me to the decision to end things.
00:32:49Yep.
00:32:49And how I felt the whole homestay, so...
00:32:52Yeah.
00:32:55Tonight is going to be shit.
00:33:01I...
00:33:02Sam and I have already hashed this out at the farm.
00:33:04We're revisiting it in front of the group.
00:33:06So, for me, this is not comfortable.
00:33:09I'm hoping that we can get it out of the way quickly.
00:33:11And I just want to get this over and done with.
00:33:16I hope Sam gets the closure that he needs
00:33:18and we can, um, yeah, move on.
00:33:21I feel like we both just need to say
00:33:23everything that got us to this point.
00:33:25Um, especially with meeting the experts tomorrow,
00:33:28I want to get as much as I can out of this experience.
00:33:31Um, yeah, we've mentioned it at the cocktail party
00:33:33that we, you know, well, you decided to, um, end it.
00:33:38So, um, yeah, like, I didn't...
00:33:40You didn't really fight that at all.
00:33:42You were, like, also just, like, OK.
00:33:44Because I...
00:33:45I hadn't given so much to try and make it work.
00:33:48I don't want to come...
00:33:52Oh, my God.
00:33:53Here we go again.
00:33:57If Chris thinks that's loads of effort,
00:34:00I feel sorry for anybody he ends up with in the future.
00:34:03Like...
00:34:05Yeah.
00:34:08Can I ask a question?
00:34:11How did Sam end the relationship
00:34:13and where and how did it happen?
00:34:14Could I tell the whole story?
00:34:15I want you guys both to say it.
00:34:17Yeah.
00:34:19Yeah, so, homestays,
00:34:20obviously, you all saw the last commitment ceremony.
00:34:23Um, I wrote,
00:34:24stay and Chris for it leave.
00:34:25And that was really hard for me to battle with personally
00:34:28because I did have feelings for Chris.
00:34:30So, like, obviously now I'm very nervous going into homestays
00:34:33and we get to the car to drive down
00:34:35and I'm, like, just sitting in the car
00:34:39and it's so uncomfortable
00:34:40and I, like, literally just, like, shut my eyes
00:34:42and kind of pretend that I'm sleeping.
00:34:44And then I get to the farm
00:34:45and then I do try to have fun and have a good time.
00:34:49I wake up the next morning
00:34:52and Chris is nowhere to be seen.
00:34:55No message, no note.
00:34:58I'm just there sitting for an hour in his house
00:35:01at his place with no car,
00:35:03just by myself
00:35:04and then he rocks up.
00:35:05He's like, oh, I just went to the gym this morning.
00:35:06It was really windy last night
00:35:07and I'm like, okay, cool.
00:35:09And, like, this is when I'm starting to feel like,
00:35:11are you, do you really want me here?
00:35:12Do you, like, really want to show me
00:35:14how much you want this relationship to work?
00:35:19Look, for me,
00:35:21it was letting him sleep a little bit longer.
00:35:22Yes.
00:35:25We're not interrupting each other tonight, right?
00:35:29Oh, God.
00:35:30Okay.
00:35:31Can I keep going with my story then?
00:35:34Yeah.
00:35:35So then, um,
00:35:37we come to the fire the next night
00:35:38and this is when I'm, like,
00:35:39this is my last plea here.
00:35:41Like, I'm going to try and see
00:35:43if he really wants to fight for this,
00:35:44if he really wants this relationship,
00:35:46to work
00:35:46and I had written down questions
00:35:49that were all just about
00:35:50what the expert said.
00:35:52Going through all these questions
00:35:53and then he starts to get a bit shorter with him
00:35:54because he's sick of talking about it
00:35:56and then I'm like,
00:35:57Chris, do you even have feelings for me?
00:36:00And he goes,
00:36:01oh, you know,
00:36:02with what's happened
00:36:02over the last couple of weeks,
00:36:04I feel like my feelings are pretty damaged
00:36:05and, like,
00:36:06I don't really know if I do anymore.
00:36:12And I'm like,
00:36:13well, then what am I doing here?
00:36:17Then I was just like,
00:36:18well, then do we just end it here?
00:36:19And you were just like,
00:36:20yeah, I think that's probably, like, right to do.
00:36:23And what I don't understand
00:36:24is where I hurt your feelings
00:36:28and where you lost your feelings for me.
00:36:33What I honestly feel like happened
00:36:35is that you just, like,
00:36:37did the bare minimum,
00:36:38got me flowers
00:36:39so that you could come here tonight
00:36:40and say,
00:36:41I did this for Sam,
00:36:42I tried,
00:36:43but, like,
00:36:44I know that you were checked out
00:36:45of this relationship already.
00:36:46I know you didn't want to give it a go.
00:36:53If I'm honest,
00:36:54and I'll have to be honest,
00:36:57it seems like you're putting a lot on Chris.
00:36:59Yep.
00:37:01And just because we have expectations
00:37:03to fill our cup fully
00:37:05doesn't mean this other person
00:37:06is not trying.
00:37:07Hold on, hold on a second.
00:37:10Let's not forget that,
00:37:12like,
00:37:13the week before,
00:37:14Sam was in a world of pain,
00:37:16alone,
00:37:18being correct.
00:37:19Yep, of course.
00:37:20But hang on a second,
00:37:21hang on a minute.
00:37:21Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:37:23Sorry,
00:37:23I've got to say something here.
00:37:26Bec needs to mind her business.
00:37:28I don't know how her homestays went,
00:37:30but that should be her focus.
00:37:31We're a couple weeks out of final bowels.
00:37:33Don't worry about your man, doll.
00:37:36I'm not going to let anyone sit here
00:37:38and say,
00:37:38your expectations are too high.
00:37:40When Sam sat there in tears,
00:37:43by himself,
00:37:44not knowing which way was up
00:37:45and which way was down
00:37:46for a whole week,
00:37:47because the person that he has
00:37:48these feelings for
00:37:49was quite aggressive to him.
00:37:51Like, let's all just take a step back.
00:37:53But, Bec, you've been aggressive too
00:37:54at the dinner parties.
00:37:58You're in no position
00:37:59to be giving someone feedback
00:38:00about their behaviour, honey,
00:38:01so just pipe it down a little bit.
00:38:28You're in no position to be giving someone feedback
00:38:31about their behaviour, honey,
00:38:32so just pipe it down a little bit.
00:38:36But I've never been aggressive to you.
00:38:39Can I speak now?
00:38:40First of all,
00:38:42like, hand on heart,
00:38:43I tried my hardest to turn it around.
00:38:47I got the feedback from the experts.
00:38:49I took it on board.
00:38:50I took accountability.
00:38:51I realised that I wanted to grow
00:38:52and learn as a person.
00:38:54And I wanted to come out the other end,
00:38:56and I'm sorry,
00:38:57but I was doing that.
00:38:58And I thought we had a good day.
00:38:59And, like, you pulled the notepad out
00:39:01and then asked me the questions.
00:39:03And I just, for me,
00:39:04I felt like, you know,
00:39:06like, can we just live in the moment?
00:39:07Can we just have a bit of fun?
00:39:09But do you understand with the questions,
00:39:10there are things that were burning inside Sam
00:39:13that he needs answers to?
00:39:14Yeah, cool.
00:39:15I'll keep talking, babes.
00:39:18So I felt uncomfortable,
00:39:20but I stayed calm
00:39:21and I answered the questions
00:39:23as best as I could.
00:39:24But you ended it with me.
00:39:26You said, like...
00:39:27Yeah, I know.
00:39:27Yeah.
00:39:28Can I just say something?
00:39:29The reason I ended it
00:39:31is because I asked Chris,
00:39:33do you still have feelings for me?
00:39:36If you were trying so hard
00:39:38and you thought that everything
00:39:39was what you're saying,
00:39:41then at that point,
00:39:42you should have said,
00:39:43Sam, yes, I have feelings for you.
00:39:48Can I ask a question?
00:39:50Do you feel like when Chris said leave
00:39:53the other week at the last commitment,
00:39:55sir, I know it really hurt you.
00:39:56Like, you were really upset.
00:39:57We could see that.
00:39:58Do you think that that really hurt you
00:40:01to a point where...
00:40:02Had you already made up your mind?
00:40:04I hadn't made my mind.
00:40:05That just hurt me to the point
00:40:06where this is why I think
00:40:07I needed so much from Chris
00:40:09because I was really hurt
00:40:10that he said he wanted to leave,
00:40:11that he had already given up.
00:40:12So I'm like,
00:40:13I need to see from you
00:40:14that you haven't given up completely.
00:40:15And I get maybe for you
00:40:17what you did was enough,
00:40:18but for me it wasn't.
00:40:19And then I decided
00:40:20that based on the fact
00:40:21that what you did
00:40:22wasn't enough for my expectations,
00:40:23the call that happened.
00:40:24I ended things
00:40:25because I wasn't getting
00:40:26what I wanted from Chris.
00:40:27And if that's not what he can give,
00:40:28because he's got kids
00:40:29and he's got fun,
00:40:30he's got everything else...
00:40:31Then you're not ultimately
00:40:32a good man.
00:40:39It's really upsetting
00:40:40that it hasn't worked out
00:40:42between Sam and Chris
00:40:43because I care for both boys,
00:40:45but listening to both sides
00:40:47of the story,
00:40:48I'm like...
00:40:50They're not speaking
00:40:51the same language
00:40:52and they're seeing
00:40:53different things
00:40:54and I don't think
00:40:55they're going to align tonight.
00:40:59Just, unfortunately,
00:41:00it hasn't worked.
00:41:00I don't want this to be yucky.
00:41:02I just want to be amicable.
00:41:03I don't want it to be yucky either.
00:41:04It's not yucky though, is it?
00:41:06It's not yucky.
00:41:07Don't mistake passion for anger.
00:41:09I think you're both passionate.
00:41:10It's not yucky, in my opinion.
00:41:12You're both just ironing it out.
00:41:14We do love you both.
00:41:16We love you a lot.
00:41:17Yeah.
00:41:18100%.
00:41:18Kings.
00:41:19I think it's really sad
00:41:21what's happened with Sam and Chris.
00:41:22I love them as people
00:41:23and I love them together
00:41:24and I'm getting this feeling
00:41:27of like Chris did try
00:41:29the way he knew how
00:41:30and it wasn't enough for Sam.
00:41:34It's a hard one.
00:41:44So, Beck and Danny,
00:41:46how about you guys?
00:41:48You're next.
00:41:49How was your homestays?
00:41:51We had such a good homestays,
00:41:52didn't we?
00:41:55If my family felt the need
00:41:57to have hard conversations with you,
00:42:00they would.
00:42:01I think obviously
00:42:02because Danielle fancied me.
00:42:06I'm joking.
00:42:07You should be able to say something nice
00:42:09and be genuine about it
00:42:10and then not say,
00:42:11oh, your cousin wants to me.
00:42:12I never said that.
00:42:13There's a camera in my face
00:42:15and you're abusing me over a joke.
00:42:16Dude, there's a camera in my face
00:42:18and you're making a joke of what I'm saying.
00:42:48Yeah, I'm done.
00:42:49place in the house.
00:42:50Like, up until that point,
00:42:51I felt so comfortable,
00:42:53like, so welcome.
00:42:55Not that I was ever, like, unwelcome,
00:42:57but in that moment,
00:42:59arguing like...
00:43:00Hardly an argument,
00:43:01a ding-dong.
00:43:01But, yeah.
00:43:03Or whatever you want to call it.
00:43:07Whilst Danny did call it an argument,
00:43:09Bec called it a ding-dong,
00:43:10so she's wanting to really contain it.
00:43:11Yes.
00:43:12When we had the disagreement at the house,
00:43:14I felt really uncomfortable
00:43:15because it's not my space,
00:43:16it's your space.
00:43:17Yeah.
00:43:18Do you know what I mean?
00:43:18I don't know if anyone else can...
00:43:19Hope so.
00:43:21Yeah, so that was sort of something
00:43:22that stuck with me
00:43:23in the sense of, like,
00:43:25moving forward.
00:43:26It made me look at things
00:43:28in a different way
00:43:29in the sense that
00:43:31I'd probably want to...
00:43:32I don't know how I'd want to navigate
00:43:36if I was to move to Adelaide,
00:43:38how the logistics of it
00:43:40would look as a man.
00:43:43Oh, as a man.
00:43:47I feel like...
00:43:48Like, do you know what you mean?
00:43:49Like, it's more Bec's house
00:43:51than it is my house.
00:43:51Like moving into her house.
00:43:52Yeah, correct.
00:43:53Like, I'd want to sit down
00:43:54and speak to Bec
00:43:55on a deeper level about that.
00:43:59Because, like,
00:44:00I feel like if you move in
00:44:01with a woman
00:44:03and, like,
00:44:03I would never just move in...
00:44:08Like, we have to talk about that
00:44:09on a deeper level
00:44:09in the sense that, like...
00:44:12I'm not moving out of my house.
00:44:16No, I'm not asking you to,
00:44:17but what I'm saying is, like...
00:44:19It's how he fits into it, babe.
00:44:21Yeah, how I fit into it.
00:44:23That's more what I'm saying.
00:44:25And to you right now,
00:44:26you're probably like,
00:44:27like, that's easy.
00:44:28I know, like...
00:44:29It's just...
00:44:30But, like, I get from Danny's perspective,
00:44:31he's like, I move in,
00:44:33so, like, he's got to get his stuff out.
00:44:34Where does he put his stuff?
00:44:36And, like...
00:44:36And we would make space 100% for that.
00:44:39From my point of view,
00:44:40anyway, I suppose everyone
00:44:41looks at it different,
00:44:41but it makes you feel
00:44:43like a bit of a bitch
00:44:43moving in with a woman.
00:44:46What are you on about?
00:45:13Oh, no, that's not what I was getting at.
00:45:15Oh, God.
00:45:17Oh, my God.
00:45:18He's talking about feeling emasculated
00:45:21if she was the one who owned the house.
00:45:23And let's not use the term
00:45:25bitch in that way either, Danny.
00:45:27Not cool.
00:45:28We're on 800 square metres,
00:45:30five minutes from the city,
00:45:31with a $97,000 mortgage
00:45:34and a $3 million house.
00:45:37me.
00:45:41Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:45:43Like, firstly,
00:45:45you've never said that to me.
00:45:47Women have worked really, really hard
00:45:49to make sure that we've got
00:45:50this multimillion-dollar home
00:45:52in the most affluent suburb
00:45:54of South Australia.
00:45:56So, yeah, you're not going to be a bitch
00:45:57moving into my house.
00:45:59That was not what I was getting at.
00:46:02Are we serious for this?
00:46:04We're in the 2020s.
00:46:07It's emasculated
00:46:08by moving into a home
00:46:10with your woman.
00:46:12I'll be honest,
00:46:13I couldn't go to hers.
00:46:13I want to...
00:46:13Just grow up.
00:46:15You like to be a provider.
00:46:17Correct.
00:46:18Correct, yeah.
00:46:18I'll be honest,
00:46:19I couldn't go to hers.
00:46:20I'm going to buy the house.
00:46:21I'm going to pay for everything.
00:46:22Like, that's just a manly thing.
00:46:25Dan's a bit like me.
00:46:26He likes to feel like the man,
00:46:28the boss, the alpha male.
00:46:30So, I understand where Danny's coming from.
00:46:31He just wants to feel more emasculated
00:46:33in the relationship.
00:46:35We're more traditional
00:46:36in that way too.
00:46:37No, but, like, I get it.
00:46:38Like, I have a...
00:46:39My house is bigger than yours,
00:46:40but it's like, yeah, like...
00:46:42It's a different vibe.
00:46:43I do agree with Danny.
00:46:45I think for a man to feel masculine
00:46:48and his masculine energy,
00:46:49they want to have the house
00:46:50and the woman move into it.
00:46:52I know that's not, like,
00:46:53the norm these days,
00:46:54but, like, I like that,
00:46:55and that's what me and Scott are doing.
00:46:57So, I do agree with Danny on that.
00:46:59I think he wants to feel like the man,
00:47:02and he has every right to feel like that.
00:47:03I feel like it's emasculating.
00:47:05Like, I get what you're saying.
00:47:06Correct, yeah, yeah.
00:47:06You want your place to be, like,
00:47:08here, babe, like, come to me.
00:47:09Like, I'm the man.
00:47:11Like, I think that's, like,
00:47:12where you're coming from.
00:47:13Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
00:47:16I felt uncomfortable when we argued,
00:47:18and it sort of...
00:47:18It made me feel demasculated
00:47:19to, like, be in her house.
00:47:21Yeah, like a bit of a bitch.
00:47:23I've had that discussion with Beck
00:47:24two or three times.
00:47:26I'm not a hit 1990 song on R&B radio
00:47:30that keeps repeating itself.
00:47:31Do you know what you mean?
00:47:32I didn't feel uneasy
00:47:33until we had the disagreement,
00:47:35but then I was just like,
00:47:36do you know what you mean?
00:47:37No, I don't know what you mean, Danny.
00:47:39I do wonder if Danny's showing
00:47:41a little insecurity there.
00:47:42You know, I think some men
00:47:45would not see a barrier
00:47:47to moving into a house
00:47:48owned by the woman.
00:47:49It wouldn't feel emasculating.
00:47:51He's really dropped the ball here.
00:47:53And I'm old school too.
00:47:55I'm exactly the same.
00:47:56I can proudly say it as well,
00:47:57that if me and Rachel do something,
00:48:00I would feel more comfortable
00:48:01if Rachel moved into my place,
00:48:04feel like a provider.
00:48:05Well, I don't think that's very fair
00:48:07because at the end of the day,
00:48:08the difference is that I've got
00:48:10a massive house with a lot of space
00:48:12five minutes out of the city
00:48:13with a mortgage of 97 grand.
00:48:15I feel like you're a team.
00:48:16I feel like you're a team.
00:48:18A hundred percent.
00:48:19I was brought up on those values.
00:48:20That's just the way I think.
00:48:21If I moved badly,
00:48:22I'd be gambling.
00:48:23Yeah.
00:48:25I think that's why there's so many,
00:48:26like, I guess...
00:48:27Really?
00:48:28Unmet expectations.
00:48:30But I wouldn't like...
00:48:31We're going to work together.
00:48:32Do you know what I mean?
00:48:32I know we work together,
00:48:33but as a man,
00:48:34it's just what we want to do.
00:48:36As a man,
00:48:37maybe I'm old school like that,
00:48:39but I believe, like,
00:48:39the man should be the man of the house
00:48:41and take care of the big bills.
00:48:44It's nice to have your own thing,
00:48:45but ultimately you work together, right?
00:48:47Exactly, yeah.
00:48:48Ultimately, we're awesome.
00:48:49It's about how can we work together,
00:48:51how can we make this work,
00:48:52what are your needs, you know,
00:48:54vice versa.
00:48:55It doesn't have to be a demasculating thing,
00:48:57it just has to be teamwork.
00:48:59It's true to that.
00:49:00No, you're a teen.
00:49:02For some reason,
00:49:03it's just a mental thing.
00:49:05It just works like that.
00:49:08Females feel more secure
00:49:09when it is like that.
00:49:11It's just how it is.
00:49:12Unfortunately, it's a double set.
00:49:13It's just how it is.
00:49:14Gays don't have that problem.
00:49:18I understand where Danny's coming from.
00:49:20Don't agree with it,
00:49:21but I understand where Danny's coming from.
00:49:25Beck and Danny's homestay,
00:49:26I don't think was as great
00:49:27as they made it out to be.
00:49:30There's something not right there.
00:49:32This is a serious conversation
00:49:34you guys think it's wrong.
00:49:35Yeah, I know.
00:49:36For a dinner party.
00:49:39Don't like shut up.
00:49:41Excellent.
00:49:42So glad we're talking about it with everyone.
00:49:46Oh, goodness.
00:49:48No, I said it to you already.
00:49:50Not to that level, babes.
00:49:51I have. 100% have.
00:49:53No.
00:50:02Still to come.
00:50:04I did spiral a little bit.
00:50:06Dave, what's going through your head, bro?
00:50:08David finally finds his voice.
00:50:11I've hit my wall.
00:50:12I've been calm throughout this whole thing,
00:50:14but I'm at my limit.
00:50:16This is really a relationship in peril.
00:50:19Yeah.
00:50:20Before Beck confronts Danny.
00:50:23I would have appreciated it
00:50:24if you haven't been that open.
00:50:26It's answered a lot of relations.
00:50:28It's just made me...
00:50:29I can't tell you how you feel.
00:50:30I'm going to be an experiment now.
00:50:31Before Homestead.
00:50:40How about you?
00:50:41Alyssa.
00:50:43How was yours?
00:50:47Um...
00:50:48Do you know what?
00:50:49Alyssa and David really have not spoken about themselves at all.
00:50:53No.
00:50:53And that is not usual for them.
00:50:56David looks quite uncomfortable, actually.
00:50:58Yeah.
00:51:01I feel like we had highs and lows.
00:51:04I did spiral a little bit.
00:51:06Like, I did get in my head.
00:51:08Because, you know, as soon as we touched down in Adelaide,
00:51:12I felt like this weight...
00:51:16I felt like, oh, my goodness, I...
00:51:18You know, I said I was going to move to Sydney
00:51:20and, like, we're going to make this thing work in Sydney
00:51:22and we'll meet halfway,
00:51:23but I have a lot of responsibilities in Adelaide.
00:51:27I have contracts in place.
00:51:28I have my business.
00:51:29I have a house.
00:51:30I have a cat.
00:51:32But I'm almost 34.
00:51:33And in the next few years, I want to start a family.
00:51:35So I kind of put pressure on myself
00:51:38and that's where I started to spiral on homestays
00:51:40because I was like, shit, this is not going to work.
00:51:44Like, I don't think I'm going to be able to stretch myself out of Adelaide
00:51:48like in the next three months.
00:51:49It might look like six to 12 months
00:51:51if we're going to make this work in the real world.
00:51:58Beforehand, you were saying potentially you'd give it three months
00:52:01to move to Sydney.
00:52:02Is it the move to Adelaide now?
00:52:04Well, that's what it would probably be.
00:52:09It would be Adelaide, yeah.
00:52:10Oh.
00:52:12We haven't heard that from her before.
00:52:15A lot came out of homestays,
00:52:16but it's just like, how do we move, like, forward?
00:52:19But I feel like the way that we process things are very different.
00:52:23And I'm wondering why am I spiralling?
00:52:25You know, we're all under pressure,
00:52:26but some people also deal with pressure differently.
00:52:29When I need to just process,
00:52:31my mind's going, bing, bing, bing, bing.
00:52:33I retract.
00:52:35Things have kind of turned on its head a little bit.
00:52:38Alyssa's now saying I can't move.
00:52:41David's going, look, I'm willing to sacrifice everything
00:52:43and move down to Adelaide
00:52:45to give this relationship the best chance,
00:52:47but her retracting and pulling away from Dave,
00:52:50freaking Dave out.
00:52:51You know, I sort of felt for Dave a little bit.
00:52:53If anything, all the risk is on David.
00:52:56And there was one other thing.
00:52:59I know that I can be a bit full-on.
00:53:03And, like, he does ground me,
00:53:05but maybe I'm finding a little bit sometimes too much
00:53:08where I feel like I'm not myself.
00:53:10Like, it's really shifting my energy,
00:53:14and that's not something I'm used to.
00:53:16My husband also snores,
00:53:18so I've had, like, lack of sleep the last three months.
00:53:20Like, it's just...
00:53:21It's a compiling thing.
00:53:25I feel like right now Alyssa is trying to look
00:53:28for any little thing she can pull from the sky
00:53:33to question things in the relationship,
00:53:35and that is pushing me away.
00:53:37She says she doesn't want to push me away,
00:53:39but her throwing all these doubts,
00:53:41there's only so much I can take
00:53:43before I start feeling like an idiot, you know?
00:53:47I think I was fine with just continuing
00:53:50to be that emotional shoulder to lean on
00:53:54until her home stays.
00:53:56We've been on this experiment for two months,
00:53:58and it's been long enough for her to, like,
00:54:01be a bit more certain.
00:54:03You know, if this ultimately isn't going to work,
00:54:05I'm not going to force anything.
00:54:07Like, it's up to her to come from her head into her heart
00:54:10for this to work long-term.
00:54:14Dave, what's going through your head, bro?
00:54:22I've hit my wall.
00:54:23I've been calm throughout this whole thing,
00:54:25but I'm at my limit.
00:54:28You know, and I sort of need that mental space as well,
00:54:31just as much as she probably needs it
00:54:32from coming back from home stays.
00:54:35And it's something we both need.
00:54:36But it's at the point, emotionally,
00:54:38I don't have much to give.
00:54:40I'm invested in this relationship.
00:54:41I am prepared to move for this relationship.
00:54:44But for me, I bonded with her mum and her two best friends.
00:54:48And I've got her mum saying,
00:54:49this is all good for you,
00:54:50her friend saying, this is good for you.
00:54:51They really love David a lot.
00:54:54So I'm just like,
00:54:56what other green checks do you need ticked off?
00:54:59Like, you know?
00:55:04Well, this is David being really raw, isn't it?
00:55:07I mean, he's saying that he's exhausted
00:55:09and also he's hit his limit.
00:55:12And I know that they talk about it
00:55:15in relation to the experiment,
00:55:17but actually, you know,
00:55:19the experiment for some people,
00:55:20it brings them closer right now.
00:55:22And I get some real worries
00:55:24that he's started to step back.
00:55:27We got cracks, man.
00:55:28We've got cracks like everyone.
00:55:29We got cracks.
00:55:30But that's something that, you know,
00:55:32we will talk to the experts about.
00:55:35We actually haven't seen them
00:55:36in this state before, have we?
00:55:38No.
00:55:39I'd say absolutely more questions
00:55:41than answers we got tonight.
00:55:43So that's where we've got to go tomorrow night.
00:55:46We are going to need to ask
00:55:48about the homestays
00:55:50and particularly where they see themselves
00:55:52in the future.
00:55:54This is really a relationship in peril.
00:55:57Yeah.
00:56:02It sounds like you've been approached
00:56:03by some producers to do another show.
00:56:05Is that right?
00:56:06I've had the producers from Aussie Shore
00:56:09reach out and see
00:56:10would I do the season three with them?
00:56:11Gotcha.
00:56:12All right.
00:56:13I had one of the female cast members
00:56:15slide into my DMs like four or five days ago
00:56:17and I think it's come from there.
00:56:19Yeah.
00:56:20Is that something you want me to go and do or?
00:56:22My job is not to advise you
00:56:24on what to do or what not to do.
00:56:25We're documenting your life on flags.
00:56:27If this is where your life goes, you know.
00:56:30No, it's entirely up to you.
00:56:31If you decide that you want to pursue it further
00:56:33I can talk to them
00:56:34and see whether we can capture
00:56:36some of the journey.
00:56:40Gosh.
00:56:41Mate, I've already...
00:56:42So I obviously have blocked my parents
00:56:43in there on social media
00:56:44so they didn't see my escorting videos
00:56:48and then it took two days
00:56:49and they've seen them
00:56:50because a friend had gone and seen them
00:56:52and been like,
00:56:53have you seen what Marcus is doing in Australia?
00:56:54Now they obviously have no idea.
00:56:55So I'm just dealing with that at the moment
00:56:57and I think to drop the bombshell
00:56:58that yes, I'm an escort
00:56:59and I'm also going to go on Aussie Shore.
00:57:04Alright, you're on flags,
00:57:05you're an escort
00:57:06and then you're going to go on Aussie Shore.
00:57:08It's a big wait for Marcus.
00:57:09I've had a busy three days this week, mate.
00:57:11Yeah.
00:57:11I don't know if it's going downhill or uphill.
00:57:13I can't quite decide.
00:57:30How are you all home today, guys?
00:57:32I went out on his Harley.
00:57:34Like, I grew up there
00:57:35so I'm like,
00:57:36I went to school there,
00:57:37I had my first kiss there,
00:57:38I did this there
00:57:38and it's like,
00:57:39it's not like a foreign place for me.
00:57:41It's just easy the fact
00:57:42that she's lived there before.
00:57:43So that was pretty big for us to have.
00:57:45That's amazing.
00:57:46Yeah, it was really good.
00:57:47The taste of the outside world,
00:57:49you know what I mean?
00:57:49We know.
00:57:50Yeah.
00:57:51So what's your plan
00:57:52on a truck, guys,
00:57:54after the experiment?
00:57:55I do like Cronulla.
00:57:57Yeah.
00:57:57That's good.
00:57:58I could see myself there.
00:57:59That's very important.
00:58:00That's the whole point of it.
00:58:01That's great.
00:58:01The home visit is like,
00:58:02can I see myself there?
00:58:04Yes, I can.
00:58:05Let's just do it.
00:58:06Just give it a go.
00:58:07Just give it a go.
00:58:08And that was a realisation I had.
00:58:10And you have a plan moving forward.
00:58:12And you guys are great.
00:58:14Yeah.
00:58:16Rachel and Stephen,
00:58:17homestays.
00:58:18Hey, guys.
00:58:19Who's talking?
00:58:21You can talk.
00:58:22Captain Steve-O.
00:58:23I reckon Rachel goes first
00:58:24and I'll...
00:58:25Can Steve-O go first, please?
00:58:26I agree.
00:58:27I think Steve-O can go first.
00:58:29I'll go first.
00:58:29I always talk.
00:58:31Can you hear me down there?
00:58:33Yeah.
00:58:33Yeah, boys.
00:58:34Loud and clear.
00:58:35All right.
00:58:35So, look,
00:58:37I'm happy to say
00:58:37that Rachel and my family
00:58:39did get along.
00:58:40Everyone loves each other.
00:58:41A lot of the drinks were flowing.
00:58:42Everything was fantastic.
00:58:44And, yeah,
00:58:45we had a really good time
00:58:46and took Rachel out
00:58:47on the boat
00:58:49and she got to experience
00:58:50a little, you know,
00:58:52a little snapshot
00:58:52of what my life is about
00:58:55and what I'm passionate about.
00:58:56So I took her out fishing
00:58:58and I can definitely say
00:58:59very impressed with Rachel.
00:59:01She full on...
00:59:01She's a country girl.
00:59:02Full on leaned in.
00:59:04She's a cat.
00:59:05I am the cat.
00:59:07She's a cat.
00:59:07That's right.
00:59:08The cat of the day.
00:59:09Right.
00:59:09Amen.
00:59:10And, look,
00:59:11I was very impressed
00:59:12with her fishing skills.
00:59:13She kissed a couple fish.
00:59:15I did.
00:59:16But I'm looking at this woman
00:59:17going, look,
00:59:18it's not just that
00:59:18she's leaning into fishing.
00:59:20It's more the fact
00:59:21that I'm seeing a woman
00:59:23there that is having a crack
00:59:25and I can see that
00:59:27outside fishing,
00:59:29Rachel will have my back in things.
00:59:35I can see we can do life together
00:59:37but I feel a lot more confident
00:59:38now that the foundation
00:59:39has been laid on my side anyway
00:59:41with Rachel
00:59:42that we can take this out
00:59:44onto the outside
00:59:48and have somewhere to start
00:59:50because it's been done and dusted.
00:59:52I'm still going to meet her side
00:59:53but I feel more confident
00:59:55on my side
00:59:55that Rachel and my family
00:59:56and my lifestyle
00:59:57will match now.
00:59:58So, we had a good time.
01:00:00That's a bad example.
01:00:06Who would have thought?
01:00:08Who would have thought?
01:00:10Hearing Stephen talk about
01:00:12our homestay
01:00:13and, like,
01:00:13the beautiful things
01:00:14he was saying,
01:00:15yeah.
01:00:16You sound emotional.
01:00:18I am emotional.
01:00:19I'm so emotional about it
01:00:21because
01:00:23I've got this guy
01:00:24that I truly, truly care about.
01:00:27and I'm developing
01:00:28such strong feelings for
01:00:30and
01:00:31every time he talks about us
01:00:33with the group
01:00:34and everything,
01:00:35it's beautiful.
01:00:36It's just so nice
01:00:37and
01:00:39what
01:00:40an amazing journey
01:00:41and opportunity
01:00:42we've had
01:00:44and
01:00:44the fact that we get
01:00:45to be with each other
01:00:46is just even better.
01:00:50Some guys are going to buy
01:00:52girls flowers.
01:00:52My guy bought me
01:00:53a fishing rod.
01:00:54I know.
01:00:55I'm just saying.
01:00:56I was happy.
01:00:58Your girl's got her
01:00:59third fishing rod.
01:01:01Oh,
01:01:01Rachel looks so happy.
01:01:04Look at Stephen's smile.
01:01:06We've never seen him
01:01:07smile like this.
01:01:08We've never seen him
01:01:09as relaxed
01:01:10and as confident
01:01:12as he has been tonight.
01:01:13That was a full-bodied smile.
01:01:15He's really transformed
01:01:17but watching him now
01:01:19is just such a joy
01:01:20and he's so comfortable
01:01:21in her space.
01:01:23Look,
01:01:24we went through hard times
01:01:25at the start of our relationship.
01:01:27You all saw it
01:01:27and you know what?
01:01:29We,
01:01:30we've just saw it
01:01:31and you know,
01:01:32we're now hitting weeks
01:01:33where
01:01:33it should test us
01:01:35and
01:01:35instead it's strengthening us
01:01:37and it's really nice.
01:01:38I love it.
01:01:39Yay!
01:01:41Well done.
01:01:43Rachel and Steve-o.
01:01:45Welcome, Steve-o.
01:01:55at the dinner table tonight,
01:01:58Danny,
01:01:58we said
01:01:58that
01:01:59he
01:02:02would feel like a bitch
01:02:04moving into a girl's house.
01:02:07I hadn't heard that yet
01:02:09and like
01:02:10I would hope
01:02:11that my husband
01:02:12knows that he can talk to me.
01:02:14Like,
01:02:14we talk about everything.
01:02:16So,
01:02:17yeah.
01:02:20I feel blindsided by him.
01:02:25I feel completely utterly
01:02:26betrayed by my husband
01:02:32They got dragged
01:02:34back
01:02:35into
01:02:35the drama
01:02:37and
01:02:37we've got them.
01:02:39Mavs royalty
01:02:40Jamie
01:02:41and
01:02:42DeBinnaker
01:02:42the spiciest
01:02:44sofa showdown
01:02:45plus
01:02:46the footage
01:02:47you won't believe
01:02:49after the dinner party
01:02:51tonight.
01:02:57If I was to move to Adelaide
01:03:00as a man
01:03:02it makes you feel like a bit of a bitch
01:03:03moving in with a woman.
01:03:13I've never experienced a slow burn
01:03:15before
01:03:16and here I am
01:03:18a slow burn
01:03:19and
01:03:19like I said
01:03:20we went for a hard yard
01:03:22earlier
01:03:22and now
01:03:23we're so drunk
01:03:24because of that
01:03:25and so
01:03:26Yeah,
01:03:27I'm saying this
01:03:28I think I would have appreciated
01:03:30having been that open
01:03:32it's answered a lot of questions
01:03:33it's just made me
01:03:35that much more confident
01:03:36coming out of the experiment
01:03:37before home stage
01:03:38Frankly,
01:03:39Danny
01:03:39time and time again
01:03:41has not stepped up
01:03:42and made the commitment
01:03:43that she
01:03:44wants and craves
01:03:45She's been transparent
01:03:47Yeah
01:03:47He hasn't said
01:03:48that he loves her back
01:03:49He's now saying
01:03:50I don't want to live
01:03:51in your house
01:03:53So there's a number of things
01:03:54that are now adding up
01:03:55Yeah
01:03:55that Bec's starting to worry about
01:03:57when it comes to Danny's
01:03:58level of commitment
01:03:59Yes
01:04:00and rightly so
01:04:02I mean
01:04:06the idea
01:04:07of
01:04:07like that
01:04:08it
01:04:09like
01:04:10that you
01:04:11like you basically just said
01:04:12if I was to move to Adelaide
01:04:14I don't know if I'd want to
01:04:16move into my house
01:04:17I didn't
01:04:19I would have rather
01:04:21you had said that to me
01:04:22before announcing it
01:04:23to a table of people
01:04:24I didn't say
01:04:25I didn't say
01:04:25I didn't say
01:04:26I was saying
01:04:26we have to like
01:04:28I'd put money into a house
01:04:30and we'd renovate it
01:04:30or I'd pick up the mortgage
01:04:31because we're just moving
01:04:32and now it is
01:04:33would make me feel
01:04:34demasculating
01:04:34Yeah
01:04:35Well
01:04:36I'm excited
01:04:37because I was like
01:04:37I said just then
01:04:38I'm like
01:04:38only 50% of us are not still good at me
01:04:40and I was like
01:04:41cool or what's the other
01:04:43so
01:04:43I'm not moving out
01:04:46I think Bec revealed
01:04:51how hard
01:04:51that conversation was
01:04:53for her
01:04:53you know
01:04:54when she said
01:04:55oh here we are
01:04:55having this conversation
01:04:56in front of everyone
01:04:57she felt really uncomfortable
01:04:58and I think
01:04:59after the dinner tonight
01:05:01they'll be going home
01:05:01for quite a big conversation
01:05:21okay so the purpose
01:05:22of this conversation
01:05:23is to talk about
01:05:24what's been happening
01:05:25within the group of women
01:05:32not to make comparisons
01:05:34between men and women
01:05:35and who does it better
01:05:36wow
01:05:37I just hope that there's
01:05:38some insight here
01:05:39with the ladies
01:05:40that yes
01:05:41in the future
01:05:41you are going to be
01:05:42in contact with other women
01:05:44who have strong personalities
01:05:45have strong judgements
01:05:47about you
01:05:47or opinions about you
01:05:53but that doesn't mean
01:05:54that you have to play dirty
01:05:56as a woman
01:05:57I think it's important
01:05:58that we support each other
01:06:03love that
01:06:05that we empower each other
01:06:07I'm so excited
01:06:09this is amazing
01:06:12that we don't compete
01:06:13with each other
01:06:17that we give other women
01:06:19an opportunity to shine
01:06:20Jules
01:06:21were you married?
01:06:24yes
01:06:28just like we do
01:06:29I'm falling in love with you
01:06:31and that does not
01:06:33take away any of our power
01:06:34you're the last in the party
01:06:36thank you
01:06:49you're the last in the party
01:06:49you're the last in the party
01:06:49you're the last in the party
01:06:49you're the last in the party
01:06:49you're the last in the party
01:06:50you're the last in the party
01:06:50you're the last in the party
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