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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 Episode 16 -
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03My little chef.
00:00:05Oh, babe.
00:00:09You have pregnancy cravings?
00:00:11Even though we started using protection
00:00:13since we left San Pedro,
00:00:15we had plenty of sex without a condom
00:00:17the first few days I got here.
00:00:20Do you want to take a test?
00:00:21I think we should.
00:00:27The annual income for petitioners
00:00:29for K-1 visa is $26,500.
00:00:33And, you know, disability benefits
00:00:35is not an income.
00:00:38It's easier for me to stay here
00:00:40because of the Pina visa.
00:00:42I don't know if I can leave my family.
00:00:45But I don't want to be apart from you that long.
00:00:53I don't want to be able to get the other people
00:00:57and get the money from you.
00:01:01What happened next day?
00:01:09Where is the honesty?
00:01:11Up to 20-something years
00:01:12with your fellow woman.
00:01:14This is an abomination.
00:01:18is there a way we can solve this
00:01:34you got that final warning at work and that's helping you out these question marks make me
00:01:40feel like it's super unstable i'm just sick of the peppering and peppering peppering you're
00:01:44flogging the same hole it's like because when i get a warning like that when you send me it happened
00:01:49but now it's i still have a job okay but it makes me worried that you could be using me
00:01:54if you think that then i would not expect anything less than you wanting to go so please please let
00:02:02me know
00:02:08are you kidding me he said he has a fiance
00:02:16pal jersey had dumped me and leave me alone in the desert mohammed standing me up like i'm just
00:02:22so over it this ring and everything that it represented i will find love somewhere else
00:02:55so over my love i'm just feeling hangry
00:02:59hangry hangry bear when i'm hangry i'm moody i see that you want some nuts
00:03:09i feel like a chipmunk
00:03:22yep i just want to stay here like this
00:03:26yesterday she and i met up with an immigration attorney and we learned some disappointing news
00:03:31turns out i don't make the necessary income to bring sheena over on a k-1 visa
00:03:36and that could take years to build up so the only option for us to be together right now
00:03:42really is for me to stay here so i can get my filipino visa instead but i'm not sure i'm
00:03:49ready to
00:03:50just pick up and move to another country
00:03:55sheena we have some real big decisions we have to make but i'm looking forward to tonight and i really
00:04:03just want to put that down for tomorrow i understand my love i can't write to you know visit the
00:04:11beaches
00:04:12at least no one's gonna disturb us
00:04:17i'm bringing forth the batangas the province along the south area it's quite popular for beautiful sandy beaches
00:04:25since talking the immigration lawyer causes a lot of emotional stress i'm hoping that some alone time
00:04:32will be relaxing and that it will give me the opportunity to get him to really consider living here with
00:04:39me
00:04:43also looking outside here
00:04:45nice and peaceful one thing i don't like about the beaches
00:04:50jellyfish well let's hope that we don't get started by jellyfish
00:04:53but turns out i didn't bring the jelly
00:04:57maybe if we have a kind of a special night tonight
00:05:00oh that would be great
00:05:05i'm gonna have to ask you if mom approves about this
00:05:11mom's gonna be there watching and cheering the entire time
00:05:15you're craving me now
00:05:18all right i think this is it nice it's a very tight fit oh that's tight fit oh my gosh
00:05:29she and i talked about it and uh now not having anybody to kind of hold us back i think
00:05:37now is the
00:05:37perfect time to kind of let our uh sexual tensions go lead away honey
00:05:44oh look there's a hammock honey
00:05:47wow this is such a beautiful place
00:05:50oh
00:05:51oh wow
00:05:55did you prepare this honey this is so sweet
00:05:58i i did
00:05:59to be honest i am quite nervous to lose my virginity and i'm quite excited as well
00:06:06i was like oh wow
00:06:09hey baby
00:06:13i'm quite happy because i wanted to give this to the person that who had loved me for the longest
00:06:20years
00:06:21and i think forest deserved that kind of love more than anyone else
00:06:28oh wait you know what i had to freshen myself i'm gonna get some sexy lingerie
00:06:35hmm okay
00:06:37it's c-dartel
00:06:42when i was younger i always thought you know my first time would be great and extravagant and amazing
00:06:48and i got older and it wasn't happening i did worry that that's just one of those life experiences
00:06:56that other people just get to have but not me so going into this love nest that i have made
00:07:04for
00:07:04sheena and i i am extremely nervous on what to do or how to do things but i have no
00:07:12doubts that i'm
00:07:13doing it with the right person
00:07:27you're looking so sexy
00:07:29what do you think about me
00:07:30oh yeah you look so handsome i got it all ready for you
00:07:34you're so making me love her
00:07:39i'm finally getting to be with the woman of my dreams the vixen of the internet
00:07:48i'm glad that i'm getting to give you my virginity
00:07:52and i wouldn't want to give it to anybody else but you
00:07:55you're gonna have to help me get this on by the way
00:07:57oh really oh my god
00:07:59oh there it is
00:08:00oh what
00:08:03you're ready to go honey
00:08:04ready
00:08:04oh yeah
00:08:08well wait
00:08:12you're gonna have to keep me waiting
00:08:15girl i come baby
00:08:16oh you're super macho
00:08:44are you a princess
00:08:47i wish i was a princess you're so sweet
00:08:49That's so sweet.
00:08:49That's beautiful.
00:08:57I kind of lost my appetite.
00:09:01I'm really nervous.
00:09:02It's not something I would do every day in my world.
00:09:07So, yeah, it's scary.
00:09:17You're up, handsome.
00:09:31Is this where we're going?
00:09:33Um, this is a big market.
00:09:41OK.
00:09:42We'll get our goat.
00:09:45Last night, Daniel's uncle was able to talk to the elders.
00:09:48And he talked to the chief priest.
00:09:51And the chief priest says, we have to do a cleansing.
00:09:54But first, I have to buy a goat, two yams, and bring money.
00:10:02We are going to the Makoko market to get the items.
00:10:05And then we'll go to see the chief priest in his shrine.
00:10:09And that's where the ceremony will take place.
00:10:12You're overly dressed.
00:10:15This whole thing is crazy.
00:10:17But I'm willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
00:10:22What are they washing?
00:10:23What is that?
00:10:26This is what I put in this suit.
00:10:29So that's how they prepaid.
00:10:31Be careful.
00:10:34My shoes are going to be a mess.
00:10:36My feet are going to be a mess.
00:10:37It's Marcus.
00:10:39Oh, God.
00:10:40This is so crowded, baby.
00:10:42How are we going to find goats?
00:10:44The uncle has said in the olden days they slaughtered the goat.
00:10:47Now they don't do that anymore.
00:10:48So now what it's done, it must be a female goat because I'm female.
00:10:52But the goat gives milk.
00:10:54So he will feed the tribe with the goat milk.
00:10:56But what are the yams for?
00:10:59The two yams, it's what the ancestors demanded.
00:11:04We don't know why.
00:11:08This is what we're looking for.
00:11:10They're huge.
00:11:11These are the biggest yams I've ever seen in my whole entire life.
00:11:14Have you seen it before?
00:11:15No.
00:11:15We have big yams in Nigeria here.
00:11:18Oh, my God.
00:11:19This one is as big as me, right?
00:11:22Yeah.
00:11:24All right.
00:11:25I think this is the biggest.
00:11:26This one we need.
00:11:36But baby, we need it for the cleansing.
00:11:39Negotiate.
00:11:40We are giving 10,000.
00:11:42This two.
00:11:43Yes.
00:11:43OK.
00:11:44How much?
00:11:4510,000.
00:11:4610,000?
00:11:47Yes.
00:11:47So you're giving him full price.
00:11:49You're not negotiating.
00:11:50You need to negotiate better once we get to the goats.
00:11:54Daniel is spending my money like it's water.
00:11:58He spent 10,000 on two yams.
00:11:59And I still have to buy a goat.
00:12:01I feel like we were ripped off.
00:12:03I don't think Daniel's a good negotiator.
00:12:04Look, look, look, look.
00:12:07Is this where we buy goats?
00:12:09Yeah.
00:12:09Yes.
00:12:10Yeah.
00:12:11Which ones are females and which ones are males?
00:12:13This one's female.
00:12:16This one's female.
00:12:17Yeah.
00:12:19Is she going to be good enough to cleanse me, though?
00:12:21Yes.
00:12:22Yes.
00:12:23What's the price?
00:12:25$200,000.
00:12:26What?
00:12:26$200,000 for a goat?
00:12:28No.
00:12:30I don't know.
00:12:32A lot less than that.
00:12:34How low would you go?
00:12:36How low would you go?
00:12:37I'm not paying $200,000 for her.
00:12:38I'm not.
00:12:39Baby, hold on.
00:12:40No, you're letting me.
00:12:41How much?
00:12:41Not $200,000, no.
00:12:43$200,000.
00:12:43Yeah.
00:12:45We are not paying.
00:12:46Hold on.
00:12:46Oh, God, we are not paying $100,000.
00:12:48We are paying $70,000, please.
00:12:52Oh, my God.
00:12:54We just bought a freaking goat.
00:12:57I have enough money for this, but we still have to pay the priest.
00:13:04Poor goat.
00:13:07Are you sure this is the right way?
00:13:09Oh, God.
00:13:11What the smell, honey?
00:13:14Everything comes down to this priest and this cleansing.
00:13:18He can say that I can't be cleansed.
00:13:22And that will be the end of everything.
00:13:24I will lose Daniel forever.
00:13:33Where are you taking me, baby?
00:13:35Just be careful.
00:13:36I am.
00:13:38This one right here?
00:13:39Yes.
00:13:40Go in.
00:13:41Oh, my God.
00:13:43Oh, my God.
00:13:47Hold on.
00:13:48He's yelling at me, Daniel.
00:13:50Give me your shoe, please.
00:13:52I will.
00:13:53Hold on.
00:14:09I have to be dreaming.
00:14:11This can't be real.
00:14:13Damn bitch.
00:14:15I want to run.
00:14:26I'm about to take this pregnancy test.
00:14:29All right.
00:14:30Should we get it over with?
00:14:32Aviva is really hoping that she's pregnant.
00:14:34But if she's not, I'd be a little relief.
00:14:38Okay.
00:14:38Bye.
00:14:41Babe.
00:14:42Oh, my God.
00:15:06Things are still, like, tense between Josh and I.
00:15:09He came back to the apartment, but he's barely speaking to me.
00:15:13And after talking to my parents, I am just so confused.
00:15:18My parents think that I'm judging Josh too harshly.
00:15:21And, like, I don't know.
00:15:23I am the queen at self-sabotaging.
00:15:25But I'm just trying to protect myself and my family.
00:15:27And it sucks because my heart wants one thing.
00:15:30My mind's telling me another right now.
00:15:31And, um, it's scary.
00:15:46You all right?
00:15:48Yeah.
00:15:49Are you?
00:15:52Yeah.
00:15:53I'm gonna get out of the apartment.
00:15:56Okay.
00:15:58Cool.
00:16:01I'm still feeling hurt by Elise.
00:16:03I'm starting to have a little bit of doubt creeping.
00:16:07I know I've fallen for her, but I don't want to be in a relationship where I have to explain
00:16:10myself 400 times.
00:16:12If she thinks that I'm using that, then I could use her.
00:16:15And that's not the case.
00:16:17And I would never want to use someone.
00:16:20It feels like she's attacking my integrity.
00:16:25So, like, the last night sucked.
00:16:31And I know you've got these worries, right?
00:16:33But, like, I don't want you to think that, you know, I would use you, you know, or I'd be
00:16:38like your past relationships.
00:16:40I'd take advantage of you.
00:16:42But that's what angered me.
00:16:44You know?
00:16:45Because it's the last thing I want to do.
00:16:47Okay.
00:16:48Just, I really like you.
00:16:51You know, I feel when you sort of say, you know, that I'm dependent on other people and I might
00:16:56be dependent on you.
00:16:58You know, and that, you know, she gave me a place to live.
00:17:01That's...
00:17:03That's weird.
00:17:03It's not weird.
00:17:04It's weird.
00:17:06You know, you've said it.
00:17:07You've made your point.
00:17:09I have nothing to hide with her.
00:17:11Have you...
00:17:12Let me ask you a question.
00:17:12Have you given me a reason for me to trust you?
00:17:15Do you not trust me?
00:17:17Not right now, no.
00:17:19I want to.
00:17:20I do.
00:17:20But let me earn that trust then.
00:17:22By showing you that, you know, I can look up for myself.
00:17:24I can depend for myself.
00:17:25I can be a partner for you without having to lean on, you know, friends or, you know...
00:17:30Please, I'm telling you right now, please.
00:17:34If you can't let me prove it to you, then you just don't trust me and it's not gonna work.
00:17:44Okay.
00:17:47I am sorry.
00:17:50I do sometimes poke and prod.
00:17:52Yep.
00:17:52That's just a character defect.
00:17:54I just don't want this to be words.
00:17:58Like, words are great to me and that's made me settle in my entire life with every relationship.
00:18:03I fell for words.
00:18:04And, like, I don't want to fall back into that.
00:18:06Like, I've been engaged 30 times.
00:18:07Like, I'm 32.
00:18:08I want to get married and I want to have kids.
00:18:10And it scares me because I do like you.
00:18:15And I didn't expect to like you so much so soon.
00:18:19It's good to hear.
00:18:20Because I didn't plan on, like, falling for you as hard as I've fallen for you so quickly.
00:18:26I don't want you to feel like you've, you know, you've settled and I've roped you in, I've made you
00:18:31fall in love and then I'm some, you know, I'm useless.
00:18:35You know, I wouldn't let you feel like you've made the wrong decision.
00:18:39I won't.
00:18:43Like, I'm crazy about you, to be honest.
00:18:48I'm glad that Elise is having a little more faith in me.
00:18:52The relationship needs to be built on mutual respect and not this sort of toxic, taped down mentality that I
00:18:57can see that she's doing.
00:18:59I'm hoping that things get better and we just keep building because I do see a future with Elise.
00:19:04So, I think we get that out of the way and then we can just get stronger and stronger.
00:19:11Well, you know what?
00:19:13Isn't it really sexy when the wind almost blows your top off?
00:19:16I hope it gets a bit windier.
00:19:17I hope it gets better.
00:19:19Go wherever you are, follow you this far.
00:19:24I hope it gets a bit longer.
00:19:27I hope it gets better.
00:19:27Follow you this far.
00:19:30I hope it gets better.
00:19:37I hope it gets better.
00:19:42Look at this.
00:19:43The moment of truth.
00:19:44No, it's true.
00:19:47Okay.
00:19:48How you feeling, babe?
00:19:51I'm freaking out.
00:19:53I am too, actually.
00:20:01All right, should we get it over with?
00:20:04I'm going to go in there alone.
00:20:07Why?
00:20:08Because I just want to do it on my own.
00:20:11How long does it take?
00:20:13I don't know. It's in Spanish.
00:20:15Oh, my.
00:20:18It just feels so surreal thinking about how far
00:20:21Stig and I have come over the past few weeks.
00:20:23Come on, let me get a little good little kiss.
00:20:27A few days ago, I was convinced we were breaking up.
00:20:30Now I'm taking a pregnancy test.
00:20:32So much has happened, but I'm leaving in less than two days,
00:20:36and I have a lot of mixed emotions.
00:20:39I would love to find out that I'm pregnant
00:20:41and get this incredible news,
00:20:43but leaving Stig is going to be really difficult.
00:20:48After this, there might be no drinking, no partying, none of that.
00:20:53For you, too?
00:20:54No, no, no, no.
00:20:56If it's this positive, I've got to celebrate later on.
00:21:02I would be excited about all this.
00:21:04We would make, like, beautiful kids.
00:21:06They would.
00:21:07And I would love to have a son,
00:21:08and by the grace of God,
00:21:11he wants to sing.
00:21:13I'm not saying he has to be an artist,
00:21:15because that's what I did.
00:21:16Nothing like that.
00:21:17Mm-hmm.
00:21:18I'm scared.
00:21:21All right.
00:21:22We'll do your thing.
00:21:23Okay.
00:21:25I just like boys,
00:21:27because I know they're, like, mama's boys,
00:21:29and they...
00:21:30It's going to be daddy's boys.
00:21:31What are you talking about?
00:21:32No.
00:21:32No, the girls always favor the dad.
00:21:34That's what I heard.
00:21:35The boys always favor the mom.
00:21:36That's what I heard.
00:21:36I've seen it.
00:21:36Not to sound bad,
00:21:38but I don't want the sins of my past
00:21:39to fall on me,
00:21:40so I'm scared to have a daughter.
00:21:42I don't want to have to kill anybody.
00:21:45Whatever.
00:21:46Gives me baby fever.
00:21:53Okay.
00:21:57I really want to know now before I leave.
00:21:59I don't want to find out
00:22:00when I'm back in Arizona without him,
00:22:02because that would suck for him and me.
00:22:09Even though we only had unprotected sex
00:22:12for, I don't know, four to five days,
00:22:16I still just feel like I might be pregnant.
00:22:20I just have that feeling.
00:22:25Babe.
00:22:26Mm-hmm.
00:22:27How's it going?
00:22:28Are you done?
00:22:29Not yet.
00:22:30Be patient.
00:22:34Here goes nothing.
00:22:36Moment of truth.
00:22:42I'm talking.
00:22:54Bro, my palms are sweaty.
00:22:58I can tell that she's really hoping
00:22:59that she's pregnant.
00:23:00If she is,
00:23:01I'm going to be right by her side.
00:23:04But honestly,
00:23:05if she's not pregnant,
00:23:07I'd be a little relief.
00:23:10Babe.
00:23:11Oh, my God.
00:23:16Okay.
00:23:19Una y cinco minutos.
00:23:22So you got to wait one to five minutes.
00:23:24Right now,
00:23:25I don't think we're ready.
00:23:27So,
00:23:28it's a little scary.
00:23:30If there's one line,
00:23:31it's negative.
00:23:32Two,
00:23:32it's positive.
00:23:44I feel like so much has happened
00:23:46in the last couple days.
00:23:47I think this has shown me
00:23:48I just want something different.
00:23:50I'll just be a few minutes.
00:23:53Before I leave Morocco,
00:23:55there's just one last thing
00:23:57that I need to take care of.
00:24:21Oh, thank you.
00:24:22Sorry, I have a lot of stuff.
00:24:26Thank you so much.
00:24:44Yesterday was another
00:24:46emotional day for me.
00:24:48I got stood up
00:24:50by Muhammad.
00:24:51I am single.
00:24:53I have no reason
00:24:54to be in Morocco anymore
00:24:55and I'm ready to go home.
00:24:59I just know that
00:25:00this wasn't meant for me.
00:25:04I feel like so much has happened
00:25:06in the last couple days
00:25:07and I think the best thing
00:25:09to do in this moment
00:25:10is to just get back home
00:25:12as soon as possible.
00:25:13So,
00:25:14I am flying back
00:25:16to the U.S.
00:25:17today.
00:25:20Last night,
00:25:21when I got back
00:25:22to my hotel,
00:25:23I received a text
00:25:25from Muhammad
00:25:27and he said,
00:25:29are you serious?
00:25:30You came to Morocco
00:25:31for someone else,
00:25:32not for me.
00:25:33I'm not your plan B.
00:25:36I think this was his plan
00:25:37all along
00:25:38to bail on me
00:25:39and humiliate me
00:25:40one last time.
00:25:43He knew I came here
00:25:44for someone else
00:25:45and he was really mad
00:25:46about it.
00:25:47So,
00:25:48he just had me
00:25:49running around Morocco
00:25:50and jumping through hoops
00:25:51for him
00:25:51like I always used to do
00:25:53in the past
00:25:54and I fell for it.
00:25:57I feel kind of dumb
00:25:59getting ditched
00:25:59by Muhammad
00:26:01but at least now
00:26:02I don't have to wonder
00:26:03about any more
00:26:04what ifs.
00:26:05That door is closed
00:26:06forever.
00:26:13I'll just be a few minutes.
00:26:16But before I leave
00:26:18Morocco,
00:26:19there's just one last thing
00:26:20that I need
00:26:21to take care of.
00:26:38I really want
00:26:39to leave Morocco
00:26:40in peace
00:26:40after both
00:26:41of these
00:26:42failed relationships.
00:26:43So,
00:26:44when I changed
00:26:45my flight,
00:26:46I decided
00:26:46to let Zied know
00:26:48and he actually
00:26:50agreed to meet me
00:26:50to say goodbye.
00:26:56Good morning.
00:26:58How are you?
00:27:00Okay.
00:27:01How are you?
00:27:02Fine.
00:27:04This day
00:27:05you're going to
00:27:05travel to your country.
00:27:07Yeah.
00:27:09So,
00:27:10I wish you
00:27:11a good word
00:27:13and
00:27:15that's all
00:27:15what I have to say.
00:27:16So,
00:27:17you don't want
00:27:17to say sorry
00:27:18for anything?
00:27:19Me?
00:27:21It's me,
00:27:22we should say sorry.
00:27:23I mean,
00:27:24I think we both
00:27:24have things
00:27:24to apologize for.
00:27:27Come on.
00:27:28What do you want
00:27:28to find out?
00:27:32I'm hurt
00:27:33with what happened.
00:27:35I came here
00:27:36because I loved you
00:27:37and because I wanted
00:27:38to be with you.
00:27:40Did you ever
00:27:41love me?
00:27:44before you come here,
00:27:45I was in love
00:27:45with you,
00:27:46yeah.
00:27:47But when you come here,
00:27:48we see each other
00:27:49in the reality
00:27:50how we are.
00:27:51Everything about us,
00:27:52it's not work.
00:27:56I'm really sorry.
00:27:59It's fine.
00:28:01Yeah.
00:28:22I tried to ride on love again,
00:28:26but it took me down
00:28:27on a dead-end street.
00:28:29I thought I struck
00:28:30the gold mine.
00:28:32I can't turn back
00:28:34the clock, rewind
00:28:35because it's too late.
00:28:37You know it's too late.
00:28:39Shame about the land
00:28:40we left behind
00:28:41because we were so great
00:28:43and we were so great.
00:28:45Talking to him
00:28:45didn't make me feel better.
00:28:47It's almost like
00:28:48it doesn't matter to him.
00:28:50I was just expecting him
00:28:52to care a little bit more.
00:28:56This has definitely
00:28:57been a learning experience.
00:28:59I think this has shown me
00:29:00and taught me
00:29:01what I don't want
00:29:02in a relationship.
00:29:09Thank you so much.
00:29:18Thank you very much.
00:29:20Hello.
00:29:21Hello.
00:29:23I want to go home
00:29:24and focus on
00:29:26becoming the best
00:29:27version of me.
00:29:31How many bags?
00:29:32Three.
00:29:33A lot of makeup.
00:29:34Here you go.
00:29:35Thank you so much.
00:29:40But I'm not giving up
00:29:42on my search for love.
00:29:43I'm a hopeless romantic.
00:29:44I love love.
00:29:46And no matter
00:29:48how many times
00:29:48people have left me
00:29:49or dumped me,
00:29:50that's never going
00:29:51to stop me
00:29:52because I know
00:29:53true love is real
00:29:54and I know
00:29:56somewhere in the world
00:29:57my person does exist
00:29:59who's happy
00:30:00to be with me.
00:30:03And I know
00:30:04that I'm going to find it.
00:30:06I know I'm going to find it
00:30:07and
00:30:10I'm not going to stop
00:30:11until I do find it
00:30:13because I know
00:30:13it's out there.
00:30:16and this isn't
00:30:17the end of my journey.
00:30:20And you never know.
00:30:21It could happen tomorrow.
00:30:25Or on the plane.
00:30:30Morocco, it's been real.
00:30:31A lot of ups and downs.
00:30:33But I'm ready to go home.
00:30:37I'm ready.
00:30:37So, goodbye, Morocco.
00:30:45This is the water.
00:30:48Let's do this.
00:30:50I'm making a real effort here
00:30:52to fit in.
00:30:56You never had a washing machine?
00:30:59Remember you called me boozy?
00:31:01I'm not boozy.
00:31:02Man, I think I got to take that back.
00:31:06My wife-to-be
00:31:07had an affair
00:31:09with her fellow woman.
00:31:13Woman,
00:31:14is it true
00:31:15what your husband said?
00:31:17Yes.
00:31:19This is totally sacrilege.
00:31:22This lesson is over.
00:31:28You're in Malaya, Africa.
00:31:31Whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:31:33Oh, man, Africa.
00:31:49I love the door.
00:31:51I love the door.
00:31:54Yes, that's it.
00:31:56I need to do some squats with this.
00:31:59Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:32:00Fine.
00:32:09Oh, that's not what I'm saying.
00:32:11Okay.
00:32:11All right.
00:32:15It's my second day
00:32:17with Trisha's family.
00:32:19And I've been trying
00:32:20to make myself useful today.
00:32:22You know,
00:32:23helping around the house.
00:32:25This is the water.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:27Yeah.
00:32:29All right.
00:32:29Let's see.
00:32:30Let's do this.
00:32:33How often you do this?
00:32:35Every day or?
00:32:36Yeah.
00:32:36Macaron and chanoni.
00:32:37Every day.
00:32:38You watch every day, huh?
00:32:39Oh, you cook every day.
00:32:41Oh, cook every day?
00:32:42Yeah.
00:32:43So you got to get the water
00:32:44for laundry,
00:32:46for cooking everything.
00:32:47All right.
00:32:47I'm making a real effort here
00:32:50to fit in,
00:32:51to, you know,
00:32:52do some of the chores
00:32:53that they do.
00:32:55Here's my shoulder.
00:32:56Oh!
00:32:57Oh!
00:32:58Oh!
00:32:58Oh!
00:32:59Oh!
00:33:00Oh!
00:33:01Oh!
00:33:02Oh!
00:33:03Oh!
00:33:03Oh!
00:33:05Oh!
00:33:06Oh!
00:33:06Oh!
00:33:06Oh!
00:33:08Oh!
00:33:10Oh!
00:33:11Is it good?
00:33:11It's not easy.
00:33:13Put it there.
00:33:13Bring the water here.
00:33:14Ah.
00:33:14OK.
00:33:15Thank you for showing me
00:33:16where the water was.
00:33:18Let me show Chetik.
00:33:19Show her.
00:33:24That's it.
00:33:26Yeah, this is not my soap here.
00:33:28Yeah.
00:33:29You have to.
00:33:33It's going to take forever.
00:33:36I think this is easier.
00:33:39I have never washed my clothes
00:33:41to the machine.
00:33:43Hey, are you serious?
00:33:44You never had a washing machine?
00:33:46We never had one.
00:33:48You even do this in Tana, huh?
00:33:50Yeah, even in Tana.
00:33:51I'm doing this.
00:33:55Remember you call me boozy?
00:33:57I'm not boozy.
00:33:58Man, I think I got to take that back now.
00:34:01I know you be doing this s**t.
00:34:05Man.
00:34:08So how was with my dad?
00:34:11Did you understand each other?
00:34:12Oh, yeah.
00:34:14But we didn't talk about anything serious.
00:34:18He didn't talk about babies, or I don't know.
00:34:22Nah.
00:34:23I thought it was best just to leave that subject alone for now.
00:34:29He's not going to leave the subject alone.
00:34:31He's really, really worried about the baby more than I thought.
00:34:41So you should not take a long time.
00:34:46He wants that you should decide it before you go.
00:34:53What do you think your dad would do if I don't come up with an answer
00:34:57about it in the next couple days?
00:35:02I don't know, Rick, but it's not just my dad.
00:35:07To me, having a baby means a lot.
00:35:13I want the mother-child relationship that I didn't get to have.
00:35:18You know, my mom, she left for another person.
00:35:29When I was one years old, my parents break up and my mom found another man.
00:35:40In my culture, when two people broke up and they have a child together,
00:35:49and the girl decided to marry with another man, she cannot touch the baby.
00:35:59She cannot see the baby unless her husband buy animals and she has to cut the throat.
00:36:10The blood, they put it here on the babies.
00:36:14My mom didn't do it after she left us because her husband didn't accept for doing it.
00:36:24So she left me with my dad.
00:36:29She just followed the guy.
00:36:32But she didn't care.
00:36:40Wash your clothes.
00:36:44I know.
00:36:46I know.
00:36:48I'm not used to talk about my mom because she makes me a little bit upset.
00:36:54Like, how?
00:36:55How she could not love a baby?
00:36:59It's cute, though.
00:37:02She left.
00:37:03I was just one years old.
00:37:05I know you're precious.
00:37:07Yeah.
00:37:09You had a daddy that loves you more than me.
00:37:15That's why I want to make them happy.
00:37:19They want grandchild.
00:37:22I think that Trish is trying to fill a void.
00:37:26And I want her to heal and have the life that she's envisioning.
00:37:31She deserves to be a mom.
00:37:33And I don't ever want to take that away from her.
00:37:36But at the same time, I'm not even financially prepared right now to have another child.
00:37:45My worst fear is to lose Trish.
00:37:47And it hurts me to think that I might have to let her go.
00:38:04Hi!
00:38:05You look sexy driving that boat!
00:38:08Today, Josh is taking me out on one of his company's boats.
00:38:11But he got a final warning because he took out a boat for a joyride and crashed it.
00:38:16I have so many questions.
00:38:18This whole boat thing is just super confusing to me.
00:38:21Squared away, so you can be at ease and put it to rest.
00:38:25Joshua, it was $20,000 worth of damage.
00:38:28How did you pay for that?
00:38:53You look like a serial killer.
00:38:58Ah!
00:38:58You look like a serial killer.
00:39:18I feel so much better.
00:39:20I can finish shaving now.
00:39:21I sprayed.
00:39:22Don't worry, it doesn't smell.
00:39:24Ah.
00:39:25Yeah.
00:39:26I like Chris.
00:39:27I do.
00:39:28He's a great roommate, really fun, and he's like a brother.
00:39:33That's hot.
00:39:34Whatever.
00:39:36But I'm not dating Chris.
00:39:38I'm dating Josh.
00:39:39Woo!
00:39:40And things have been a little rocky with Josh and I the past few days.
00:39:45Hopefully this red light mask did wonders.
00:39:47I need to get cute to go on this boat.
00:39:49We had an intense conversation at the beach the other day,
00:39:52but ever since then, things are starting to move in a better direction.
00:39:56And today, Josh is taking me out on one of his company's boats.
00:40:01You'll have a fun day out there. It'll be awesome.
00:40:03It's a fun job.
00:40:04Well, I know it's fun. A little too much fun.
00:40:08Please, focus on the positives for tonight.
00:40:09Positive.
00:40:10Let's have a positive day.
00:40:11Period. I like that.
00:40:12I'll give you a report card tonight.
00:40:14Okay.
00:40:15I get along well with Elise. I like Elise.
00:40:17But she's definitely looking for problems.
00:40:19Since she's been here, I've seen them go up and down very quick and very fast.
00:40:23Almost like a perfect little toxic relationship.
00:40:26So, short term, I think it's going to be fine.
00:40:29But long term, I don't know.
00:40:31I don't know.
00:40:44Have a good day.
00:40:51Hi.
00:40:53Does...
00:40:54Do you guys know if Josh is here?
00:40:56He's not here right now, no.
00:40:58But he's on his way.
00:40:58He works here, right?
00:40:59Yeah, he does.
00:40:59Yeah.
00:40:59Okay.
00:41:00Yeah, that's it.
00:41:00That's actually his desk.
00:41:01This one?
00:41:02Yeah.
00:41:03Should I sit at his desk?
00:41:03Yeah, go for it.
00:41:04Go for it.
00:41:05That's his desk.
00:41:06That is where the magic happens.
00:41:08Hi.
00:41:08I'm Joshua.
00:41:11You just go down here, turn right.
00:41:13Straight down to the right.
00:41:14Yep.
00:41:24Hi.
00:41:25You look sexy driving that boat.
00:41:29Hi.
00:41:37I know Alyssa's been a bit worried about my position at work because of some of the mistakes
00:41:41I made.
00:41:42Of course, the main part of my job is selling boats.
00:41:44But I wanted to see with her own eyes that I've still got a job and, you know, she's got
00:41:49nothing to worry about.
00:41:50Are you ready?
00:41:51I'm ready, baby.
00:41:54It's so pretty around here.
00:41:56Wow.
00:41:57Yeah.
00:41:58It's a beautiful day and it's a beautiful boat with a beautiful man.
00:42:03So, when I walked in looking for you today, I went into your office and I met someone and
00:42:08I sat at your desk.
00:42:09Did you?
00:42:10Yeah.
00:42:11Did you get some work done?
00:42:13No, not at all.
00:42:15It was fun to show off a little bit.
00:42:17I do like being out on the water any chance I get.
00:42:20That was my first impression of you when I saw you on social media.
00:42:23She's on the front of her boat looking fabulous.
00:42:25I think it was on the back.
00:42:26Actually.
00:42:28You're on the front.
00:42:30Okay.
00:42:30He would know boats better than me.
00:42:32Yes.
00:42:34Can I see outside?
00:42:36Yeah.
00:42:36I got some champagne.
00:42:38Smart boy.
00:42:39This was like an ideal day for me.
00:42:41I'm glad.
00:42:46Well, I'm happy you took me on the boat.
00:42:48Did you ask your boss or?
00:42:51I did, yeah.
00:42:52And he gave you permission?
00:42:53Yep.
00:42:55Before I got to Australia, Josh had sent me a text saying he got a final warning from work
00:43:00because he took out a company boat that they were selling for a joyride with friends and
00:43:06crashed it.
00:43:08He has to pay back the damages.
00:43:10He owes $20,000.
00:43:11So, yeah, I'm happy he still has a job.
00:43:14But I feel like what he did was 100% irresponsible.
00:43:17I have so many questions and I still haven't had a proper conversation about it yet.
00:43:22Listen, it's like I'm not here to make you feel any worse.
00:43:27But this whole boat thing is just super confusing to me.
00:43:31So, what happened that night?
00:43:39Nat and a few other, Nat and another few friends, they have friends who were going to become clients
00:43:45of mine.
00:43:46And those clients who I'm trying to network with and get closer to are then going to come
00:43:52to me when they want to buy a boat.
00:43:54So, I took them out on one of our company boats and on our way back here.
00:44:01So, I got a bit too shallow and flipped through a rock and I was f***ing bricks.
00:44:05But, you know, it could have been way worse.
00:44:11It got fixed straight away.
00:44:13Joshua.
00:44:16You told me it was $20,000 worth of damage.
00:44:19Well, look, when I first, when I first did the damage, I thought that it was, you know,
00:44:24going to be a little bit more damage because I didn't know exactly.
00:44:27I couldn't swim under the boat and see what happened.
00:44:29But, no, it was like, it was a couple of grand.
00:44:32Thank God, you know.
00:44:33And is that paid off?
00:44:35Yeah, it is paid off.
00:44:36How did you pay for that?
00:44:38Well, before you got here, I sold a boat.
00:44:40I sold a share in a boat.
00:44:41So, that commission did not go to me.
00:44:43The money that you sold, you didn't get that money.
00:44:46It went to that damages.
00:44:47So, that squared away.
00:44:49So, you can be at ease and put it to rest.
00:44:52I'm still working.
00:44:53I'm still got a job.
00:44:54I'm responsible.
00:44:55I can, I'm trusted.
00:44:57And I got worried about it.
00:44:59But, all in all, you know, I have my s*** together.
00:45:03Yeah.
00:45:05Okay.
00:45:08Well, I understand that.
00:45:10And I'm really happy I came on the boat.
00:45:12But, I guess the only thing that's, like, really on my mind and, like, putting a damper on this is
00:45:18the gnat situation.
00:45:20Okay.
00:45:21Why can't I drop the gnat, then?
00:45:24I didn't realize she was on the boat with you that night.
00:45:27And, like, this emotional connection you have with her, the financial hold she has on you.
00:45:33I don't want to have to keep ten times having to tell you something and you not believe it.
00:45:38You're not letting things go.
00:45:39No, I'm letting it go.
00:45:40I just didn't.
00:45:41It doesn't seem like you are.
00:45:42I'm, I'm, I'm trying to get down to the bottom of this.
00:45:44Okay.
00:45:45Let's go and see her.
00:45:46Let's us three hang out so it's just us three.
00:45:48And, you know, hopefully I can put your mind at ease.
00:45:52We'll do it tonight.
00:45:57Of course she was on the boat.
00:45:59Did she pay for the damages?
00:46:01Should have been my first question.
00:46:03I mean, Josh clearly still has a job, but he depends on Nat financially.
00:46:08I'm just still really confused.
00:46:10So, I'm really glad that I'm going to see Nat tonight so I can get some answers and just finally
00:46:15put this to rest.
00:46:30I swear to God, I am about to be cursed.
00:46:33I am scared.
00:46:35This is no priest I have ever seen in my life.
00:46:38He will come after you.
00:46:50So, you got to wait one to five minutes.
00:47:07So, two lines is pregnant.
00:47:09One line is not.
00:47:19Well, there we go.
00:47:23It's a pretty strong, dark one line.
00:47:27Not two.
00:47:29Yeah, I know.
00:47:31Well, yeah.
00:47:32Two means pregnant.
00:47:34Two means pregnant.
00:47:36Think it's going to just stay negative?
00:47:38I think so.
00:47:41I don't know.
00:47:43I actually feel really disappointed.
00:47:46Stig and I have had so much fun the past few weeks.
00:47:48We've gotten closer.
00:47:50I've gotten to see a side of him I didn't know before.
00:47:52And I was really excited to think about having our baby and starting a little family.
00:47:58I'm really sad.
00:47:59I'm really bummed.
00:48:02Don't worry.
00:48:03I feel more let down than I expected.
00:48:06I don't know.
00:48:07I thought it would be a perfect end to our trip.
00:48:11I don't know.
00:48:12If we could, you know.
00:48:14I just don't know when I'm going to see you next.
00:48:16No.
00:48:17Why are you saying that?
00:48:18Like, you're acting like, well, we're going to break up when you leave or something?
00:48:21That would just, I feel like, make things happen quicker.
00:48:25Like, I would have motivation to hurry up, move, instead of go home and, eh.
00:48:31Don't stress yourself out.
00:48:33Don't think about it so deep.
00:48:37It's really hitting me that I'm going home and I just have no idea what to expect.
00:48:42Without a baby, it's hard to know how serious he is about our future.
00:48:50I'm worried that after I leave Belize, he's not going to be around me anymore.
00:48:55And Stig is going to go just right back into his old partying ways.
00:49:00I just feel a little unsure about what the future holds.
00:49:04And it's giving me a lot of anxiety.
00:49:14No!
00:49:15No!
00:49:16No!
00:49:17No!
00:49:18No!
00:49:18No!
00:49:18No!
00:49:18No!
00:49:19No!
00:49:20No!
00:49:21No!
00:49:39No!
00:49:42No!
00:49:43No!
00:49:46Oh, my God.
00:49:47Oh, my God!
00:49:50is yelling and screaming at me,
00:49:51and I don't know what he's saying.
00:49:56I know this is supposed to cleanse me from my lies,
00:50:00but I swear to God, I am about to be cursed.
00:50:02I am scared .
00:50:04This is no priest I have ever seen in my life.
00:50:41I have seen it.
00:50:46Somehow he knows when he throws these shells
00:50:49and they look at me,
00:50:50and if I land in a certain way,
00:50:51I'm there for a cleansing.
00:50:52This is craziness.
00:50:56Who is this man?
00:50:58He's to be my husband.
00:51:00Why are you here?
00:51:02I love Christ.
00:51:03My wife to be.
00:51:05I'm affair with her fellow woman.
00:51:12Woman?
00:51:14Yes, sir.
00:51:16Is it true what your husband said?
00:51:19Yes.
00:51:22There's more, though.
00:51:23I also lied to everybody.
00:51:26I wasn't married twice like I had told Daniel.
00:51:30I was married five times.
00:51:32And we're waiting on the divorce of the fifth one.
00:51:37This is totally sacrilege.
00:51:42In Africa, any woman that committed an abomination,
00:51:47there is something we call sacrilege.
00:51:49It requires I clean them up by the gods who are letting us.
00:51:54We are just the mouthpiece to the gods.
00:51:58And if they mess up the cleansing,
00:52:00the gods will say no.
00:52:02I'm going to go to my house.
00:52:04I'm going to go to my house.
00:52:06I'm going to go to my house.
00:52:08I'm going to go to my house.
00:52:12I'm going to go to my house.
00:52:19Give him all of what you have in your pocket that I gave you.
00:52:22Give him all of it, Daniel.
00:52:24Put it there.
00:52:24Don't put it there.
00:52:33What is your response?
00:52:35What are you saying?
00:52:39I'm going to go to my house.
00:52:40Do you think I'm going to go to my house?
00:52:45What is your response?
00:52:45You are going to go to my house.
00:52:46You are going to go to my house.
00:52:47There is another thing you're going to do.
00:52:52That is what they both say.
00:53:03Rodis, this is your husband.
00:53:06Rodis, this is you.
00:53:09You need to have done me.
00:53:11Me and my husband is one.
00:53:12Me and my husband are one.
00:53:14Forever and ever.
00:53:16Forever and ever.
00:53:17No man, no woman.
00:53:18No man, no woman.
00:53:19Put us under.
00:53:20Put us under.
00:53:21That is what I promise.
00:53:22That is what I promise.
00:53:23Kiss it.
00:53:25Give it to God.
00:53:26You have agreed.
00:53:33You are crying.
00:53:35Yes.
00:54:03I wish I knew what...
00:54:05What's going on.
00:54:06This is terrifying.
00:54:08I'm telling you, this is voodoo magic.
00:54:13After this cleansing today, will you mess up again?
00:54:18No.
00:54:19It's an agreement between you and Oracle.
00:54:22If you misbehave, they will come after you.
00:54:49Taking off the wrapper from the goat signifies that she has been cleansed.
00:54:54That is our tradition.
00:54:56That is our tradition.
00:54:57Embrace your husband.
00:55:03Am I clean?
00:55:10You are cleansed from today.
00:55:24I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:55:31I know I'm cleansed.
00:55:33I don't care about anything else.
00:55:35Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife, then that's all I wanted.
00:55:41Well done.
00:55:44I love you.
00:55:45I love you too.
00:55:54I am extremely happy that we are cleansed.
00:55:58We can go ahead and get married.
00:56:00I really appreciate you.
00:56:10Can we have sex?
00:56:15Why not?
00:56:16Come on.
00:56:17Oh.
00:56:17When you share it, share it, share it happy.
00:56:32Last night was more sloppy
00:56:36than what I thought it would be.
00:56:39I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:56:41It's way better than what I thought.
00:56:42Me and my hand, I'm sorry, we're gonna have to break up.
00:56:45I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:56:48You're so glad.
00:57:05Sheena, I feel lots of weight off my mind.
00:57:08Yeah.
00:57:10Last night, just being able to touch you and feel you,
00:57:15just makes me so, so happy.
00:57:20It was the most special moment that I've ever had with you.
00:57:27I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:57:30I hate myself.
00:57:31I hate myself.
00:57:39You're aint tidying me out.
00:57:40I know.
00:57:41Yeah, it's like you took the driver's seat and just kept going.
00:57:44As of today, I am not a virgin anymore.
00:57:47It was a great sensation.
00:57:49I never...
00:57:51It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:57:52Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:57:56Me and my hand, I'm sorry, we're gonna have to break up.
00:58:01I really enjoyed it last night with you and I'm so, so happy and I'm so glad that we've
00:58:07been come to this stage.
00:58:10Yeah.
00:58:11I was thinking about how it'd be before sleeping with you and I thought it'd be like this magical
00:58:16thing, like there was gonna be like sparks and fireworks.
00:58:20And last night was exactly kind of what I thought.
00:58:25Well, more f***ing sloppy than what I thought it would be.
00:58:31When you got on top and started going, my legs were so f***ed.
00:58:37I felt like I needed a life preserver to make sure I don't drown.
00:58:42It was the best 35 seconds of my life.
00:58:45No, okay, I lasted a little bit longer than that.
00:58:48But Sheena, Nan, she went and hopped on top of me and just showed me who was the boss.
00:58:54I didn't do that.
00:58:55Oh yeah, you did.
00:58:56You took charge.
00:59:01I'm happy because you're quite gentle.
00:59:03You're quite the gentle one for me.
00:59:05I mean, so I felt the respect and the love from you.
00:59:07I didn't want to hurt you.
00:59:09So that's kind of why I kind of laid back and let you go.
00:59:15I was, to be honest, I didn't know how to put a condom to this, you know.
00:59:21But I couldn't say the right word.
00:59:24There's a lot of learning.
00:59:27But I think that we haven't got it.
00:59:30And giving all myself to Forrest, I felt amazing.
00:59:33It's hard to describe.
00:59:36How would you rate me one to ten?
00:59:39Well, let me say around 11 perhaps for me.
00:59:47Sex was great.
00:59:49Yeah, I know.
00:59:50But the connection that we got afterwards, after, is definitely something I was not expecting.
00:59:55I just feel like, you know,
00:59:58the world is revolving around us now.
01:00:03Yeah, it's like a magnet.
01:00:06Mm-hmm.
01:00:08And I really feel like even though we're not legally married, we can work out the paperwork later.
01:00:15But last night, you became my wife.
01:00:19You are my wife till the end of the earth.
01:00:27And if I go back now, then I won't have you and I won't have, basically, my wife with me.
01:00:35So this has made me even more committed to, you know, do everything in my power to be with you.
01:00:43Having sex with Sheena definitely has changed a lot of things.
01:00:48I feel like our heart and our souls are one and the same.
01:00:53But I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines and I'm just extremely torn right now.
01:00:58Because you can go and you can be like, oh, I love you.
01:01:01I love you on the phone, but it's not the same as holding the person in your arms.
01:01:07I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines.
01:01:13But I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
01:01:19It's going to be like a typhoon hitting a hurricane and kind of just blow everything up.
01:01:28I love Trisha very, very much.
01:01:32I need more time.
01:01:35I'm not prepared to do so.
01:01:50Do you want to go see the Mayan Awards today?
01:01:53Yeah.
01:01:54What happened?
01:01:55You still in a bad mood?
01:01:57A little.
01:01:59There's plenty of time.
01:02:01We're going to make babies stop tripping.
01:02:14I'm excited to see these.
01:02:16Yes, it's amazing here.
01:02:20This is our very last day together on this trip.
01:02:23So I want to make it count.
01:02:25I want it to be special.
01:02:26So today I decided to take Aviva to the Mayan Ruins, one of Belize's main attraction.
01:02:34You're going to love this.
01:02:35I'm going to be your official tour guide.
01:02:40I'm glad we're at this place.
01:02:42This is very spiritual for me.
01:02:45So I want to experience this with Aviva.
01:02:59Hey, at one point, this used to be just like, imagine, just mountains and hills.
01:03:05And somebody, some bright mind came and said, yo, maybe we should check it out and dig and
01:03:10dig.
01:03:11Imagine finding all these stuff.
01:03:14Where's your stage, babe?
01:03:16Front and center.
01:03:17Go sing.
01:03:17This is one, right?
01:03:18Back in the day, I would be right here performing for all my peoples.
01:03:22And I would have been the group eight in the front row.
01:03:24Ah.
01:03:26I'm going to remember your daughter.
01:03:32I hope you're seeing that, babe, that I do want kids with you.
01:03:35I do want a family.
01:03:36This is not something just regular for me.
01:03:39Not just a little vacay you visited me.
01:03:41This is more than that for me.
01:03:44Okay?
01:03:45That makes me happy, babe.
01:03:47I love you.
01:03:48I love you, too.
01:03:52I was feeling pretty upset about the negative pregnancy test.
01:03:56But now, Stey and I are joking around, having a good time.
01:04:00And he's just making me feel so special.
01:04:03Look at the tree.
01:04:04Pretty, right?
01:04:05It's super cool walking around the Mayan ruins.
01:04:08It's beautiful.
01:04:09So much history.
01:04:10And I just love spending this quality time with him.
01:04:16Wow.
01:04:18That's huge.
01:04:20Right?
01:04:21That is so cool.
01:04:23I know.
01:04:25People go all the way to the top.
01:04:28That is beautiful.
01:04:29We should, for sure.
01:04:30You want to go to the top?
01:04:31Hell yeah.
01:04:31Me too.
01:04:33This feels...
01:04:37I'm full of gratitude at this point.
01:04:40We've been through so much.
01:04:42And there were days when it looked dark, when we thought that, you know, maybe this is it.
01:04:48I want to race you to the top now.
01:04:51But look at us.
01:04:52I think opposites attract.
01:04:54Like, she's the missing piece of the puzzle.
01:04:56I feel like we're a perfect balance.
01:04:59And I can see the future clearly.
01:05:02Want to go to the top for real?
01:05:04Yes.
01:05:04Let's do it.
01:05:05Let's go.
01:05:07Way, way up there.
01:05:10Oh.
01:05:13Babe.
01:05:14Maybe you should stop.
01:05:17For real.
01:05:18I want to tell you something.
01:05:22Since the first time I met you, babe, at the airport, something just made me feel like you're the one
01:05:27for real.
01:05:28I knew I was going to do this.
01:05:29I know you were scared.
01:05:31But I actually fell in love with you, Viva.
01:05:36And I want to be with you for the rest of my life.
01:05:39That's so sweet.
01:05:41So, babe, will you marry me?
01:05:44Ah!
01:05:48Yes.
01:05:50She said yes!
01:05:55That's so sweet.
01:06:00Love you.
01:06:06You got me shaking, babe.
01:06:09Is this on this left?
01:06:11Left.
01:06:13Hopefully it fits.
01:06:15Yes.
01:06:17What?
01:06:24I'm engaged to Stig.
01:06:26The artist.
01:06:27Like, how cool is that?
01:06:30Cute.
01:06:31I'm full of surprises, but this is definitely the best one.
01:06:34This is the most nervous I've ever been.
01:06:36For real, for real.
01:06:38I'm an engaged man now.
01:06:41I've been carrying around this engagement ring for a while.
01:06:44But at first, I wasn't too sure because I felt like she was questioning me and who I am.
01:06:49You know, that made me a little sad.
01:06:51But then closer leading up to today, I felt sure.
01:06:55In my heart.
01:06:57You still want to go to the top?
01:06:58Of course I do.
01:06:59Let's go.
01:07:00Let's go.
01:07:02This is my fiancée, Viva.
01:07:03This is my fiancée, Stig.
01:07:09You're walking in sync.
01:07:12You've got to call it Spring.
01:07:14I'm going to...
01:07:14I have to tell you it's Spring.
01:07:16Oh, no.
01:07:17I'm going to marry your niece.
01:07:23It's so cool.
01:07:24All right.
01:07:26Babe, there's always going to be people spreading rumors, trying to get into your mind.
01:07:31Forget about all that, right?
01:07:32I got you.
01:07:33We're a team now.
01:07:34I'm not going to lie to you.
01:07:35Okay.
01:07:36Promise you.
01:07:37I definitely believe you now.
01:07:48I love you, babe.
01:07:49I love you, too.
01:07:50It's cool.
01:07:51You make me love you crazy.
01:07:58Woo!
01:08:00I love you, babe.
01:08:01Okay, bring the honey before we're going to broke.
01:08:03I love you, too.
01:08:12Oh, look, baby, that's some bananas.
01:08:13Let's get some for your family.
01:08:15You want bananas.
01:08:17I think your family likes bananas, too, though, babe.
01:08:28So the dark green one isn't better?
01:08:30Yeah, this is better.
01:08:33Tonight, Trish and I are flying back to Antananarivo.
01:08:37Yeah.
01:08:41These past few days, I've seen more sides to Trish.
01:08:45I've fallen even deeper in love with her,
01:08:49but I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not I want another child.
01:08:54This is my grandma used to sell fruits before.
01:09:00This was her stand right here?
01:09:01Did you sell stuff out here?
01:09:04Yeah, like fruits.
01:09:06Oh, my God.
01:09:07I just cannot picture you doing that.
01:09:09Yeah.
01:09:09I know how important it is to Trish and her family,
01:09:14but I think the best solution to this
01:09:18is for Trish to ask her dad again for more time.
01:09:22Trish's dad seems like a nice guy,
01:09:25and maybe they could ease up a little bit.
01:10:01Dad wants to talk with us.
01:10:03Okay.
01:10:04No?
01:10:05No.
01:10:06No, Mandrus.
01:10:07Okay.
01:10:12No, Mandrus.
01:10:14No, Mandrus.
01:10:24What's the knife for?
01:10:29That's the knife for?
01:10:30Thank God.
01:10:31I didn't know what that knife was for.
01:10:33I didn't see nothing to cut.
01:10:42What's the knife for?
01:10:45Oh!
01:10:48That's a beautiful run.
01:10:59You say, how was your vacation?
01:11:03Oh, it's been wonderful.
01:11:05I love your daughter very much,
01:11:08and each day that goes by,
01:11:10I'm loving her even more.
01:11:12I love her.
01:11:23That's good.
01:11:31We're going to leave,
01:11:35so that's why he's called us here.
01:11:50Um, what about your answer?
01:11:57What about the kids?
01:12:04I want to respect your dad's demands
01:12:08for a decision now,
01:12:14but I'm not prepared to do so.
01:12:31I love Trisha very, very much.
01:12:35I know it's not that the problem.
01:12:40About the kids now.
01:12:42I need more time.
01:12:53You have to decide it, yes or no,
01:13:03but if no,
01:13:04they have to hold me.
01:13:09Like, we cannot be together anymore.
01:13:18You guys are emotionally tied.
01:13:20Yeah, absolutely.
01:13:21So why the am I here?
01:13:22Is this just sexual?
01:13:24And she's helping me financially.
01:13:26No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:13:27If you said that one more time,
01:13:29I'm going to leave.
01:13:29I don't want to think of my man
01:13:31living with another girl.
01:13:33Want me to go ask every single person here?
01:13:35Hey, guys,
01:13:36let me ask you guys all the questions.
01:13:39This guy's a psycho.
01:13:52Should I have a quick shower?
01:13:53I didn't shower.
01:13:55Yeah, but you don't need to shower.
01:13:57I think I'm going to maybe donate a show.
01:14:09Well, you look good.
01:14:14Is this okay for the bar or where we're going?
01:14:18I love it.
01:14:19Josh took me out on one of his company's boats today,
01:14:22and it honestly was great.
01:14:24It would be nice if he owned the boat,
01:14:26but, like, driving his company's boat,
01:14:28it's okay.
01:14:29I feel like I got some questions answered,
01:14:31but the Nat situation is not cleared up,
01:14:33and that's, like, the one thing
01:14:34kind of lingering over us.
01:14:37So we set up tonight for us
01:14:38to just all get together
01:14:39and put everything on the table.
01:14:42We can be dirty together.
01:14:43We'll shower later.
01:14:44I feel salty.
01:14:45It'd be two seconds.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:47Got to make sure you shower for Nat.
01:14:52I don't want this affecting our relationship,
01:14:54but, like, Josh hasn't been transparent from the start.
01:14:57He lied about his living situation with Nat.
01:14:59Now I'm just finding out
01:15:01she was there the night he crashed the boat.
01:15:03And on top of that,
01:15:04they text throughout the day,
01:15:06throughout the night,
01:15:07at all hours of the night.
01:15:08Like, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
01:15:12Not, not, not, not.
01:15:14It's, like, dude.
01:15:16Like, I haven't, like, looked at the messages,
01:15:18but it's just shady and weird.
01:15:21I need to figure out once and for all
01:15:23what is going on,
01:15:24because I am so confused.
01:15:37Just do me a favor.
01:15:39Don't kick off.
01:15:40Can't promise you anything.
01:15:44Can't promise you anything.
01:15:46Hi.
01:15:49How are you, though?
01:15:50How are you?
01:15:50Good. Good to see you.
01:15:51It's good.
01:15:52Thanks for coming, guys.
01:15:54Don't mind me.
01:15:55I just brought some hand warmers.
01:15:56It's so cold.
01:15:57I'm freezing.
01:15:58It's not that cold.
01:15:59I'm freezing.
01:16:01How are you?
01:16:02I'm good. I'm good.
01:16:04Busy day today.
01:16:05Poured a couple of things.
01:16:06What'd you get?
01:16:07I got this nice dress.
01:16:10I feel like everyone in Australia wears black.
01:16:14Yeah, I don't know.
01:16:15I love black, so...
01:16:19I really want Elise to see that I'm taking her concern seriously
01:16:22and that I'm committed to building a relationship with her.
01:16:26But I know for that to happen, she needs to trust me,
01:16:29especially when it comes to Nat.
01:16:30What are we choosing, Gil?
01:16:32Do you guys?
01:16:33We need to sort of get her to realise that we're just friends
01:16:36and that we can finally move on.
01:16:38We went on the boat today.
01:16:40Oh, DJ, how was it?
01:16:41It was beautiful.
01:16:42Yeah, it was beautiful.
01:16:43And what else is happening?
01:16:44Obviously, like, we've been talking a lot.
01:16:47Yeah.
01:16:47And, like, there's so much to digest, you know, everything.
01:16:50Yeah, of course.
01:16:53I mean, I do feel, like, uncomfortable.
01:16:55One of our problems in our relationship is not you necessarily,
01:16:59but, like, I just feel very uncomfortable about this connection.
01:17:08Every single time I see him on his phone, he's talking to you.
01:17:12You're together all the time.
01:17:14You were even on the boat together that night he damaged it.
01:17:18Yep.
01:17:19So what's the problem?
01:17:21You guys are emotionally tied.
01:17:24Yeah, absolutely.
01:17:24I wouldn't want to be best friends with someone
01:17:26if I wasn't emotionally tied with him.
01:17:28But it's not just an emotional aspect to it.
01:17:31I'm going to be honest.
01:17:32Like, I'm scared he's so close financially with Gil.
01:17:37So I want to get to the bottom of this once and for all.
01:17:41Like, how does it work?
01:17:45What do you mean?
01:17:47Well, he lives there.
01:17:49He doesn't say rent.
01:17:51You help him.
01:17:52Like, yeah, I've loaned money.
01:17:55He's paid me back.
01:17:57I don't know what you want me to say.
01:17:59When people talk about money, to me, it's really icky.
01:18:02Like, that's, I just think it's gross.
01:18:05I just, I think it's weird.
01:18:08I don't want a guy I'm dating and a guy that's literally telling me he's falling for me to be
01:18:13supported by another girl.
01:18:15Like, so why the f***ing like her?
01:18:17Is it just, is this just sexual?
01:18:19Because you have an emotional relationship with a woman and she's helping you financially.
01:18:23So like...
01:18:24No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:18:25If you said that one more time, I'm going to leave you.
01:18:28We have both said that that's not the case.
01:18:32But then what's your f***ing game plan?
01:18:36What?
01:18:36I want to know, when I leave, you are going to go look with Nat, yes or no?
01:18:44Well, I probably would go back to hers, but it is short f***ing f***ing term.
01:18:51I don't want to f***ing think of my man living with another girl.
01:18:54Why can I not have a friend and a female?
01:18:57I think it's f***ing weird.
01:18:58Do you want me to go ask every single person there?
01:19:00Because I will.
01:19:00I wouldn't, and it would be massive to you.
01:19:02Yeah.
01:19:05Okay, let it be embarrassing for me.
01:19:07I don't give a f***.
01:19:09Hey guys!
01:19:11Let me ask you guys all the f***ing questions.
01:19:14Am I crazy?
01:19:16Or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially f***ing f***ing supported crazy?
01:19:24No!
01:19:26She's f***ing lying to me!
01:19:28That's pretty crazy.
01:19:30Thank you!
01:19:32We've been talking six months.
01:19:33We've been talking six months.
01:19:34I hadn't met until just recently, though.
01:19:38He shouldn't be living with her, right?
01:19:40And getting financially supported, right?
01:19:41Yeah.
01:19:41Thank you!
01:19:42He shouldn't be living with her and he's getting financially supported.
01:19:45Do you think that's crazy?
01:19:47Thank you!
01:19:50I mean, is this not crazy now?
01:19:52It could be.
01:19:52Is this not crazy now?
01:19:54Yeah, but I'm having two against one.
01:19:56What the f*** am I supposed to do?
01:19:57You're not saying that.
01:19:58Tell her half the story.
01:19:58You're not yelling at a bar.
01:20:00You're here!
01:20:01This girl's a psycho.
01:20:03She's toxic.
01:20:04I'm sorry.
01:20:05You don't know which one you're getting, is it?
01:20:07F*** you, bitch.
01:20:08F*** you.
01:20:08It's off.
01:20:09Good luck.
01:20:13Like, honestly, I'm not doing that.
01:20:16She's a f***ing psycho.
01:20:17What the f***?
01:20:18Who does that?
01:20:19Who yells at people in a bar?
01:20:20Like, she's creating all of these issues that aren't even there.
01:20:23Yeah, that's, yeah, that's a big red flag.
01:20:26Huge red flag.
01:20:31Hey, Matt.
01:20:33You all right?
01:20:34Yeah.
01:20:35Are you okay?
01:20:36Cute, you guys are together.
01:20:37So f*** you.
01:20:39Give me my purse.
01:20:40So f*** you.
01:20:41So you run to her after this, right?
01:20:43She's both.
01:20:45Do you want to go?
01:20:46Bye, guys.
01:20:47I'm just an arsehole.
01:20:51Oh, I'm just embarrassed.
01:20:52Like, I'm confused as well now.
01:20:54What do I do?
01:20:55I feel like I was falling in love, though.
01:20:58But that s***, I'm done.
01:21:06Like...
01:21:07Next time on Before the 90 Days...
01:21:12I miss you.
01:21:13There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
01:21:17What's that?
01:21:19Oral sex.
01:21:22I feel like I've been given her the oral sex.
01:21:25I am not a woman.
01:21:26I have my d***.
01:21:29It's major for me.
01:21:34Ready, bro?
01:21:35Woo!
01:21:36Woo!
01:21:37In a couple of days, we're going to renew our vows.
01:21:40And I just can't wait.
01:21:42Barnacles or wedding bands?
01:21:45$268.
01:21:46Dollars.
01:21:48I think he's not sure.
01:21:50I assume you don't want some men mistaken me as, you know, still available, single woman.
01:21:56Make it happy.
01:21:57Okay.
01:21:58Okay.
01:22:00She went off yelling from the whole bar.
01:22:03F*** that.
01:22:06I'm...
01:22:07F***.
01:22:08Angry, angry.
01:22:09Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
01:22:11I think it was a massive overreaction.
01:22:13For me, a public embarrassment like that would be... would be... that... that would be the end.
01:22:19Hey.
01:22:22I'm worried I'm going to disappoint my mom.
01:22:25It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
01:22:27Not just following her orders around.
01:22:30My mother, she's always been my safety net.
01:22:32But her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
01:22:37Did you guys make any plans?
01:22:39Because we are leaving tomorrow.
01:22:43Yeah.
01:22:44I have decided I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:22:50This is our choice.
01:22:53What's that f*** that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:58Was it okay?
01:22:59Yeah.
01:22:59He's a good guy.
01:23:01But it turns out, we're not so good.
01:23:06Something is going on between you and Michael.
01:23:08Nothing is going on.
01:23:09Will you just shut up and listen?
01:23:11Don't tell me to shut up.
01:23:14I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I tried to kiss Michael.
01:23:19BeerCon's massive reaction, that pisses me off.
01:23:26Hey.
01:23:27Hey.
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