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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:04Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I am here.
00:00:22Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:31So, mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35Sure, pretty much, yeah.
00:00:37So I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount
00:00:48of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about dambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if he would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05OK.
00:01:05Yeah.
00:01:06You should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that you were here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:21I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26Trish is starting to warm up a little bit,
00:01:29but it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:34I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46What?
00:01:47She's the real camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51You're going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy
00:02:03before you.
00:02:05Because you're lying to me.
00:02:06I can't move on with you.
00:02:09I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:18You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:25and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:03:00How are you feeling?
00:03:04I'm hungover.
00:03:13I couldn't sleep.
00:03:15I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on
00:03:19with Daniel and what's going to happen next.
00:03:22And I don't, I don't know.
00:03:26I don't know.
00:03:29Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times
00:03:33and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:37So I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:43I've lost respect.
00:03:45I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see him or talk to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him.
00:03:53And then about 11.08 PM, I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:57He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:04:03I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what?
00:04:06And I say fears of losing you.
00:04:08He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said, um, he wants to be with me.
00:04:14Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:20I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now,
00:04:22what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days,
00:04:37and we're supposed to leave today.
00:04:39Really bad timing for me to tell him all this,
00:04:42when I've already made plans to take him somewhere special,
00:04:45and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So, what I'm hoping is seeing him,
00:04:52telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for,
00:04:55and hopefully he'll come with me.
00:05:00And hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night, I couldn't sleep because I watched her sweat.
00:05:14She was drunk.
00:05:17And she left the room.
00:05:18So I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:29She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:31I will talk to her.
00:05:33But I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like, on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way,
00:05:47shows that he's desperately in love with me,
00:05:49and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So I'm going to wipe the tears,
00:05:54and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good, and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:38Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:55Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um...
00:07:14You have to talk to my, um, uncle.
00:07:19This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law.
00:07:26Because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:39Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But at the same time, I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:04We have to talk to my uncle.
00:08:07If I didn't talk to my uncle about this,
00:08:09the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:18Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:22I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:26And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:34Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of a trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't...
00:08:47It's...
00:08:48There's no agenda.
00:08:50It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:56And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:06Okay.
00:09:11I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:15But I still love Lisa.
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:20She spent the money.
00:09:22And she told me that she had not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:27It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies, I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing and then have to go back and tell
00:09:57him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:09:59Whether he forgives me or not, I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:03Let me know.
00:10:03All right.
00:10:11Let's go.
00:10:14Let me know.
00:10:15Let's go.
00:10:15Let's go.
00:10:16Let's go.
00:10:17Let's go.
00:10:17Let's go.
00:10:19Let's go.
00:10:20Let's go.
00:10:20Let's go.
00:10:22Put your milk.
00:10:23I love mountains.
00:10:24I do too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me.
00:10:29This is Mount Saint Helens.
00:10:30I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:35From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:39That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:41You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:44Boobs bounced.
00:10:53I love that you figured out all of the things that I really like and surprised me with them.
00:11:00I have been doing, you know, homework.
00:11:05So sweet of you.
00:11:06We are mixing everything, history, art, holiday, vacation, love, everything involved.
00:11:12Everything on this trip, it's fantastic.
00:11:16Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir after our romantic getaway in Cheshmay.
00:11:23And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:29Are you excited?
00:11:31I'm really excited.
00:11:32Are you excited?
00:11:34Yeah.
00:11:35Are you full of surprises all the time?
00:11:38It's like I'm a Vulcan surprise machine.
00:11:42I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:48But since my conversation with Michael, I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:55It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:58And then something happened this morning that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:12:03And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:12:10Okay.
00:12:12Oh my God.
00:12:13This is amazing.
00:12:19Play, revisit, emphasis.
00:12:22We have obsession with marble.
00:12:26It's like so peaceful through here, too.
00:12:32It is one of the oldest places that Greek people built from Texas Central DC.
00:12:41Great.
00:12:41That's adorable.
00:12:44The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient historical places in the world.
00:12:51This place is huge.
00:12:53This place trying to talk.
00:12:56Nobody to listen.
00:12:59I love this place.
00:13:00I love this place, too.
00:13:02Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old, which is insane to think about.
00:13:07And being a teacher, I love seeing some of this history.
00:13:11So good.
00:13:13Every single surface is, like, carved or etched and just stunning.
00:13:19The detail in everything, even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:23Let's take a picture.
00:13:24Okay.
00:13:25With the hearts.
00:13:27No, it's mine's heart.
00:13:28Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:29There it is.
00:13:30There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:32Love it.
00:13:33That's adorable.
00:13:34I like it.
00:13:39Hey, kitty, kitty.
00:13:43I believe these all are some protective spirits about this place.
00:13:49You know?
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Chats.
00:13:51You want to have a seat?
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:54Okay.
00:13:56Okay, that's cold.
00:13:57It is a little chilly, but...
00:13:59Yeah.
00:14:01Ah.
00:14:04I hope you know...
00:14:07That I really do want this relationship to work.
00:14:13Yeah.
00:14:14That makes two of us.
00:14:15But I think I have way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:24So...
00:14:26The other night, I called my friend Michael.
00:14:31Why?
00:14:31Because I wanted to get his opinion on my concerns
00:14:37and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:41You have concerns?
00:14:44Yeah.
00:14:45About our relationship?
00:14:47I have concerns, and now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:50I have concerns, because you are still communicating with Michael.
00:14:57And talking about our relationship.
00:15:02He has no place in our relationship.
00:15:08Well...
00:15:09He wants to come here.
00:15:20He already bought a flight.
00:15:29What?
00:15:32He's coming.
00:15:35Yeah.
00:15:39Without asking.
00:15:41Without telling anything.
00:15:43Nothing.
00:15:45This is ridiculous.
00:15:51You know how much I've been anticipating her coming?
00:15:55Yeah.
00:15:55But, um, you know, I'm glad you came,
00:15:57because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:59Cheers.
00:16:00Cheers.
00:16:01I feel like that cheers was dug out, Chris.
00:16:05Yeah, it was.
00:16:06Thank you for coming.
00:16:07I just flew around the world,
00:16:09but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:16:11Who does that?
00:16:15So you ready to meet my family?
00:16:17I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
00:16:20to be introduced to your family.
00:16:22I told you, yes.
00:16:23So what else do you want?
00:16:26Seems like you were hesitating.
00:16:27Just tell me.
00:16:43Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:45Maybe put that little one in the back.
00:16:48Maybe you should offer to open the door for me
00:16:50so I can get in the car,
00:16:51because I'm really full.
00:16:52Yeah, you put her in, I'll do the best.
00:16:53I don't know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:55Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:59Thank you, boys.
00:17:01That's why I have two of you, two boyfriends.
00:17:04Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:17:05We could be a trio.
00:17:07Oh, Jesus Christ.
00:17:09You give, give, give me your heart.
00:17:13You're pumping through my veins.
00:17:15You make me feel alive.
00:17:19Elise, you're going to have to give me a horse number.
00:17:20I'll back it for you.
00:17:22And I've got about $1,000 on the thing,
00:17:24so I'm not, not watching it.
00:17:26You're an idiot.
00:17:27What do you mean?
00:17:28I'm going to win.
00:17:29No one ever wins in the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:30Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:31I'll give you the names,
00:17:32and you tell me which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:34Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:35Okay, what's the name?
00:17:37Chevalier Rose,
00:17:38Presage Nocturne,
00:17:39Middle Earth,
00:17:40Maidan,
00:17:42Al Riffa,
00:17:43No.
00:17:43Buckaroo.
00:17:43I like Buckaroo.
00:17:45That was two, there's 24 of them.
00:17:47Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:47Yes, I do.
00:17:48Okay.
00:17:50It feels very surreal
00:17:51having Elise here with me.
00:17:53Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:55I can touch and, you know,
00:17:57kiss and hug
00:17:57the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:18:01I wanted to be excited
00:18:02about being here with me,
00:18:03so we're taking her out on the town,
00:18:05see the biggest event of the year,
00:18:07the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:09But unfortunately,
00:18:09we're running quite late.
00:18:12Traffic today sucks.
00:18:14What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:18:17It's cute.
00:18:18Like, oh, wait,
00:18:19you're going down the wrong way.
00:18:20Ah, you scared the out of me.
00:18:22No, we're not.
00:18:23We're in Australia.
00:18:25F***ing hell.
00:18:26I thought you were
00:18:27on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:28Oh, that scared me.
00:18:31At least 200 metres to our ride
00:18:32is the place
00:18:33that we're going to be living.
00:18:34What metres?
00:18:37Oh, you guys working feet.
00:18:39F***, I don't know.
00:18:41I'm excited to see it.
00:18:47You're f***ing kidding me.
00:18:49Oh, we missed the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:51Oh.
00:18:52Ah.
00:18:53But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:54Oh, good.
00:18:56Well, I'm down a thousand.
00:18:58I'm going to get drunk.
00:19:01We missed one of the biggest days of the year
00:19:03because of airport delays and traffic.
00:19:06We're here.
00:19:07But honestly, I don't care.
00:19:11I have a lease with me,
00:19:12so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:19:16There'll be another one next year.
00:19:17It's about me for a moment.
00:19:19I lost money.
00:19:20I came to the airport for now.
00:19:21I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:19:22Nah.
00:19:26Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:28I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:30That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:33I can do it.
00:19:34Like the game, they're very bullshit.
00:19:36Yeah.
00:19:37Perfect.
00:19:48Oh, you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:50Yep.
00:19:51We're not that out of the way.
00:19:53We're not that third world.
00:19:54Third world?
00:19:55We have healthcare.
00:20:03Yum.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05Oh, this is much needed.
00:20:08Thanks, man.
00:20:09Wait, I think we need to make a cheer.
00:20:11Yeah, my cheesies, I was about to do it.
00:20:12So, you know, you know how much
00:20:14I've been anticipating her coming.
00:20:16Yeah, yeah.
00:20:16But, you know, I'm glad you came
00:20:20because you're one of my best friends
00:20:23and, you know, as soon as you come,
00:20:27I want you to meet my best, most entertaining friend.
00:20:30So let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:32Cheers.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:34Cheers.
00:20:38I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:41Yeah, it was.
00:20:43Thank you for coming.
00:20:44Yeah, I'm like, wait, what is going on?
00:20:46I'm like, hold on.
00:20:48I just flew around the world,
00:20:51but you're toasting to your buddy over me.
00:20:53I'm lost.
00:20:54Like, who does that?
00:20:57OK, let's start again.
00:20:59I know how far you've travelled, what you've given up,
00:21:01and, you know, what it's taken to get here.
00:21:04So I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:21:07So this cheers is to you.
00:21:11To you.
00:21:13Well, thank you so much for letting me drag you out.
00:21:18I didn't realise it was just, like, such a big holiday.
00:21:20It's a national thing.
00:21:21We have to go out and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:21:23It's the rules.
00:21:24I would imagine the Miami party scene's wild, right?
00:21:27It is wild.
00:21:28I used to be out probably five nights a week.
00:21:30But, like, I would say, like, this past, I don't know,
00:21:33seven, eight months, I've slowed down.
00:21:35Don't get me wrong.
00:21:36Like, I like a fun night,
00:21:37but I'm definitely trying to chill out.
00:21:40Do you guys go out a lot here?
00:21:44Um, we party a bit, yeah.
00:21:50Like, I socialise a lot.
00:21:51It's part of my job.
00:21:53He's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:56His job is to drive boats,
00:21:58and oftentimes there's parties involved with that.
00:22:00Okay.
00:22:02I mean, give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:22:05I think I've found it.
00:22:07Yeah?
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:11Listen, like, there's nothing wrong with going out
00:22:14and having a good time,
00:22:15but I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down,
00:22:17like, having nights in with me and my cat and snuggling,
00:22:21and I want Josh to be ready to change for himself,
00:22:24not me, you know?
00:22:25On top of that, like,
00:22:28it seems very weird to me
00:22:29that Josh was struggling financially,
00:22:31but he parties a lot.
00:22:33Like, I'm concerned.
00:22:34Is he, like, really irresponsible?
00:22:36I just got here.
00:22:37I really just want to focus on the positives,
00:22:39but I worry about that, yeah.
00:22:43Yeah, all right.
00:22:43Cheers.
00:22:44Cheers.
00:22:46To not party anymore.
00:22:48I'm not using that.
00:22:49No, no.
00:22:50No, no.
00:22:50No, no, no.
00:22:51No, no, no.
00:22:52No, no, no.
00:23:12How is he?
00:23:14He's okay.
00:23:15Hey, look at you standing, my baby boy.
00:23:25He seems better today.
00:23:28Oh, no, no, no, no, don't let him run.
00:23:31Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:35A little dirty.
00:23:36We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom,
00:23:39but my cat Mito got sick,
00:23:43so we had to run him to the vet.
00:23:46I look at you and your comb.
00:23:48You don't like the comb.
00:23:50Nobody likes the comb.
00:23:51Yeah, obviously.
00:23:53Unless it's ice cream cone.
00:23:55I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:24:01And so today, my mom will come over to make us breakfast
00:24:05and finally get to know Giovanni more.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:12Giovanni!
00:24:16What?
00:24:17Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:24:21It's clog.
00:24:23What happened?
00:24:25What did I do wrong?
00:24:27No tissues in the toilet.
00:24:29It's not going to flush.
00:24:31I don't remember doing that.
00:24:32Like, maybe I did and I wasn't aware.
00:24:36I don't want to see it.
00:24:38Why?
00:24:38I don't want to keep looking at your big American poof.
00:24:43Are you crazy?
00:24:45Okay, my bad then.
00:24:47Aw.
00:24:48Here's the thing.
00:24:48The papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:53Mm.
00:24:54Oh, that's why I put this here.
00:24:57I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper
00:25:00that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:25:04That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:25:07How do I do it?
00:25:08Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this and then I just...
00:25:14Yes!
00:25:15That's the point of the water.
00:25:17Wow.
00:25:17Water was created to clean your butt.
00:25:22I'm gonna go wash up Mama's house.
00:25:25All right.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:39Oh, Ma, you cooked.
00:25:42Looks good.
00:25:45Good morning.
00:25:45Yeah, good morning.
00:25:47That's a lot of food.
00:25:48Are we gonna be able to eat all this?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51Okay.
00:25:54You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:58Tilapia.
00:25:58Okay.
00:26:00And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:26:05Okay.
00:26:07And, of course, we have some rice.
00:26:09Okay.
00:26:10Dig it.
00:26:11This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:26:15I was like, damn.
00:26:16Is this breakfast?
00:26:17Is this dinner?
00:26:18But the food is great.
00:26:19And I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time with my mother-in-law.
00:26:32I'm so happy that you're here.
00:26:37I'm so happy that you're here.
00:26:51I'm so happy that you're here.
00:26:53I'm so happy that you're here.
00:26:55I'm so happy that you're here.
00:26:55Until when you're staying here?
00:26:57I'll probably be here, like, I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:27:02It's so fast.
00:27:04She said it's too fast.
00:27:05I don't know.
00:27:05It's not one year?
00:27:06Why not one year?
00:27:10Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:27:12I don't want to.
00:27:14I don't want to.
00:27:16I don't want to.
00:27:16It was about my daughter.
00:27:19I don't want to.
00:27:24I don't want to.
00:27:31But the illness of our son has come over here,
00:27:34And this is often...
00:27:36May our parents have been here to live here.
00:27:41I suspect what I have on a fifty dollar now.
00:27:47If it has had change,
00:27:49it is already new.
00:27:49And what I still think of my son had in six years,
00:27:50I'm a little bit embarrassed for her.
00:27:53She said for six years,
00:27:55That's my that my daughter has been waiting for you. I was so worried about
00:28:02Because she was sometimes I could see she's losing hope and also me
00:28:09I'm sorry. It took so long though, but I'm gonna make it up. We're gonna come back very soon. I
00:28:15promise. Okay. All right
00:28:32I
00:28:33Understand why my mom is being skeptical
00:28:36I mean it took him six years to see me and
00:28:41We've been married for three years and we still don't have a definite plan for the future
00:28:49He didn't even apply for spousal visa
00:28:53What does that mean?
00:28:57We can't be going on with this long-distance relationship for the rest of our lives. I don't want to
00:29:04Right now. I don't feel secure about the future
00:29:13Can we just be done with the country of Marlco
00:29:18Don't be mad, but
00:29:22Don't be mad
00:29:26Oh
00:29:26Who's it? Mohammed. Oh my god
00:29:34Oh
00:30:06It's
00:30:07It's been a couple days since I got dumped and left in the desert
00:30:13I
00:30:13Didn't want to go back to the same Riyadh that I was staying at with Siyad
00:30:17It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself
00:30:23Luckily
00:30:23Luckily I was able to make some calls
00:30:26Um, I'm looking for a Riyadh and I was wondering if your place is available for tonight
00:30:31For, uh, for a single room or, uh, for, uh, two?
00:30:35Um, just one person. I just got dumped
00:30:39Oh, sorry to Riyadh
00:30:42Thankfully the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakesh
00:30:55And somehow I made it back to the new Riyadh in one piece
00:31:03But now I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing
00:31:20Emma!
00:31:21Maddie!
00:31:22Hi! I miss you!
00:31:24You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now
00:31:27I love you so much
00:31:30What's up? What's wrong?
00:31:32What, can you tell I'm sad today?
00:31:34Yeah, I can tell in your eyes
00:31:36No, I'm, like, really sad
00:31:38I, like, don't want to
00:31:39Wait, I don't want to cry already
00:31:40Hold up
00:31:43Sorry
00:31:44What happened?
00:31:46Um
00:31:48So, yesterday
00:31:50Basically
00:31:51I, like, told Siyad everything about, like, Muhammad
00:31:56And it literally, Maddie, went to s***
00:31:59Like, we got into a huge fight
00:32:00And it ended up with him, like, fully breaking up with me
00:32:04And leaving me alone in the desert by myself
00:32:09This is odd
00:32:10Yeah
00:32:13Like, I knew he
00:32:14That one there is crazy behavior
00:32:18To leave you alone in the desert in a country where you don't speak the language
00:32:22Yeah
00:32:23Like, he obviously doesn't care about you
00:32:26And he hasn't spoken to you since
00:32:29He's been sending me, like
00:32:31Like, rage texts
00:32:34Like, saying that I'm, like, a demon
00:32:35And, like, a liar
00:32:39And, like, this horrible monster
00:32:44And it's just, like, really annoying
00:32:46Like, I'm really upset about it
00:32:48You know, it's, like, I did
00:32:49Yeah
00:32:50I did all this, like, again
00:32:51And, like, just to get, like, treated like a piece of s***
00:32:57Like, what? Like, no, I'm sorry
00:32:59You're a catch
00:33:00And for him to, like, act like you're a gremlin
00:33:03Is crazy
00:33:04Why is he acting like he's just, like, Ryan Gosling
00:33:08As, like, Morocco?
00:33:12Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:33:18Don't be mad
00:33:21But
00:33:23Don't be mad
00:33:25What?
00:33:25So I may have been texting
00:33:30Muhammad
00:33:32Emma, Emma
00:33:34Maybe
00:33:45Why are we doing this to yourself?
00:33:49I mean, I don't know
00:33:50I think
00:33:51Just because things got so bad with Ziyad
00:33:53It's just making me, like, go back to Muhammad
00:33:56Because
00:33:56That was terrible
00:33:57Because he was just as bad
00:34:00Yeah
00:34:01But, like, the last time I was here
00:34:04Like, this was, like, a happy moment for us
00:34:06Like, when I was in Marrakesh
00:34:07So
00:34:07It's kind of made me miss him a little bit
00:34:10Are you going to go see him?
00:34:13If he wants me to
00:34:15Oh, my God
00:34:17Okay
00:34:17What are your intentions out seeing him?
00:34:20I mean, is your
00:34:21Are you going there to get closure?
00:34:23Or are you going there with the intent of
00:34:26Rekindling your relationship
00:34:28Engagement?
00:34:31I don't know
00:34:31My mind is, like, everywhere right now
00:34:34I mean
00:34:35I don't know
00:34:36I'm, like, getting emotional for you
00:34:39Stop, Maddie
00:34:40Stop
00:34:41Stop
00:34:41Get hurt again
00:34:43Like, this happens to you all the time
00:34:45Stop
00:34:46I just don't get it
00:34:47Like, it makes me so sad
00:34:50Like, I just want you to feel so loved
00:34:52You deserve that
00:34:54Muhammad hasn't ever been any better to you
00:34:56It's like, I just
00:34:57I just want you to come home
00:34:59Please don't cry
00:35:00Like, I just don't know what you're going to gain out of this
00:35:04Yeah, I don't know
00:35:07I guess we'll see
00:35:19Uh, Emma, interview
00:35:21I'll take one
00:35:22Hmm
00:35:24Who is it?
00:35:25Muhammad?
00:35:26Oh my God
00:35:29I'm going to answer it just one second
00:35:33Hello?
00:35:35Hey
00:35:39No?
00:35:40I don't have a boyfriend
00:35:44I swear I don't
00:35:46Why?
00:35:46You want to see me?
00:35:49So, do you want to talk?
00:35:50We can get, like, lunch or something?
00:35:56Alright, well, I'll call you when I'm there
00:36:01Two, bye
00:36:09What did he say?
00:36:12So, Muhammad just asked me
00:36:14Oh my God, hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety
00:36:17Really?
00:36:18I don't know, because I haven't talked to him in a while
00:36:20So, it's like
00:36:24Um...
00:36:24He sounded cute
00:36:27He asked me if I was with a guy
00:36:30I told him no
00:36:31He asked if I have a boyfriend
00:36:34I said no
00:36:36He wants to see me
00:36:38He told me to text him a place that we could meet
00:36:42I don't know, it's just like a lot of old feelings are coming back
00:36:48Me and Muhammad have been through a lot
00:36:50And we were madly in love for a lot of years
00:36:55So, that's something that doesn't just go away
00:36:59And I think if I don't see him, I'm always going to regret it
00:37:07I mean, you keep talking about, you keep talking about your ex
00:37:11You keep bringing him up after
00:37:13I thought that was, you know, the past
00:37:17I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me
00:37:21Because of what I did
00:37:22So, it seems to me that you want to be with him
00:37:43So, you ready to meet my family?
00:37:46I think I'm ready
00:37:48I'm nervous, but I'm excited
00:37:51Just relax
00:37:53You have to show them that you are a good guy
00:37:57It seems like you are not happy
00:38:00Are you sure you want to go?
00:38:03Are you sure you want me to go?
00:38:05Yeah
00:38:06I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
00:38:09To be introduced to your family
00:38:12I told you, yes
00:38:14So, what else do you want?
00:38:17Mmm
00:38:25It's like you were hesitating, just tell me
00:38:28Make things clear, Rick
00:38:30Please
00:38:33I mean, you keep talking about, you keep talking about your ex
00:38:37You keep bringing him up after
00:38:38I thought that was, you know, the past
00:38:45Tonight we're packing up to leave Nosee Bay
00:38:48To go to Trish's hometown to meet her family
00:38:52But after the merengue fight, we were walking around
00:38:55And she gets to talking about this great place that her ex took her to when they were here
00:39:01That upset me
00:39:03I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me, you know, because of what
00:39:09I did
00:39:11All you're trying to do is just make me jealous and it's a game for you
00:39:18Shut up
00:39:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me when I responded to you bragging about
00:39:24You said like, oh, this is a place that your ex took you and this is cheap
00:39:30I like it
00:39:31I like the place
00:39:33Why do you keep bringing it up?
00:39:34Because I like it
00:39:36I love it, I enjoy
00:39:38But do you think I want to hear that?
00:39:41What?
00:39:41Where's the problem with that?
00:39:43That means you appreciate what he has done for you more than what you appreciate what I've done
00:39:48That's what it is
00:39:50So it seems to me that you want to be with him
00:39:56I'd rather stay single than back to my ex
00:40:01I don't believe that's what would happen
00:40:02I don't believe that's what would happen
00:40:04Because that's what you did
00:40:07I'm not like you, I'm not
00:40:08I will never be back to that ex
00:40:12I'd rather
00:40:13Then leave him alone, then stop talking about it
00:40:15I don't want to hear it
00:40:17Because you hide your ex?
00:40:18No, I don't want to talk about my ex and I don't want to hear about your ex
00:40:22Because you hiding your ex
00:40:24Look what you did, you went to Columbia for your ex
00:40:27I just don't feel like it should be brought up
00:40:29I'm trying to work on us
00:40:32I want a relationship with you
00:40:35That's the goal
00:40:40You're getting far away from the finish line
00:40:43You're running backwards when we should be running forwards
00:40:50This is so ridiculous
00:40:52I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place, to this place and it was nice, that's it
00:41:00It's not like something, oh, I'm talking with him or I'm still with my ex
00:41:08I didn't cheat on him
00:41:10That's his action, not me
00:41:16So, if you want to go, just let's go
00:41:19If you want to stay, stay here
00:41:23I want to go, if you're going to be committed to this relationship
00:41:30If I know that you're committed
00:41:33I'm 100% on board with going to meet them
00:41:41Okay
00:41:46I love Trish so much and I want this relationship to work more than anything
00:41:53But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once
00:41:59Maybe I'm, you know, in my head, but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able to fully trust me after
00:42:07what I did
00:42:09And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me
00:42:13It's just all too much
00:42:16I'm feeling pressure, massive pressure
00:42:19This meeting with her family is like make or break
00:42:30I am miserable
00:42:33Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:42:37I just feel frustrated right now
00:42:40She didn't care what I think or what I say
00:42:43You don't respect me
00:42:45That's not true at all
00:42:46And now I have doubts
00:42:47This, us, could be a mistake
00:42:57Michael
00:42:58Michael
00:42:59He's coming
00:43:00Yeah?
00:43:01Without asking
00:43:03Without telling anything
00:43:06Nothing
00:43:17He cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision
00:43:26I told him, you know, that I would think about him coming
00:43:30But I woke up this morning to a bunch of texts from him saying that he already booked a flight
00:43:41The other night in Chesme, Michael offered to come to Turkey
00:43:45So he could give me his perspective on my relationship with Birkan
00:43:50I had planned to talk to Birkan about it
00:43:53But before I even had a chance to, Michael texted me and said he booked his flight
00:44:00Given Birkan's very strong feelings about my friendship with Michael
00:44:05I am concerned that this will complicate the progress that Birkan and I have made
00:44:11But on the other hand, Michael is always the person that I'm going to turn to when I need advice
00:44:18If Birkan and I are really going to move forward, I need my best friend's opinion
00:44:25This is not normal
00:44:28Something is wrong with him
00:44:30Is he out of his mind?
00:44:32Is he out of his mind?
00:44:33Yeah
00:44:33No, he wants to give me his opinion on this whole situation
00:44:37Or
00:44:40Some chance to blow this relationship so he can have his
00:44:45Am I right?
00:44:47Michael and I have only ever been friends
00:44:51He's very logical, he's very insightful, and I value his opinion
00:44:58I see
00:44:59Your friends have scoped me out, so why don't I get to have that same opportunity to have my friends
00:45:05meet you
00:45:06And have you get along with them
00:45:08My friends doesn't want to f*** me
00:45:13He made that move, it's over
00:45:15He has no chance
00:45:20Before she came here, Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael
00:45:26And he said that I am the obstacle, those two having a relationship
00:45:31I took it as a move
00:45:33She said that it was meaning just friends
00:45:38But I don't trust Michael
00:45:40This is his opportunity to break us up
00:45:43While she is confused about our relationship
00:45:47This is a strategy
00:45:51Look, I want this relationship to work with you
00:45:56I would never let a third party come between me and you
00:46:07Maybe you should try to calm down and just meet him
00:46:16I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay and that I am not making a bad
00:46:23choice
00:46:25Okay?
00:46:27Okay
00:46:31I just feel frustrated right now
00:46:36I feel like I have no choice
00:46:39He's already f***ing coming
00:46:41He didn't care what I think or what I say
00:46:45I just hope that Michael doesn't f***ing up my entire future
00:46:50And my relationship
00:46:54Let's go
00:46:55Let's go
00:46:55We have a reservation
00:46:58Okay
00:47:07You can speak Turkish?
00:47:11Maybe I can speak English
00:47:13Okay, thank you
00:47:14You know the Turkish say cheers
00:47:16How?
00:47:17Cheers
00:47:18Oh, just cheers
00:47:18I don't know how you say it
00:47:20Sherefe
00:47:20Sherefe?
00:47:21Yes, perfect
00:47:21To your honor
00:47:23Sherefe
00:47:24Sherefe
00:47:26Cheers
00:47:32Oh, did you take the whole thing?
00:47:35Yeah
00:47:36After today, I can drink everything inside
00:47:41We had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the ruins
00:47:48But BeerCon's pissed and it feels so freaking awkward
00:47:57You don't seem like you want to taste wine, you're like pounding it like a shot
00:48:01Yeah
00:48:02That's not a wine tasting
00:48:05No
00:48:06I am miserable
00:48:07You're miserable
00:48:09I'm waiting for my best friend
00:48:11Michael
00:48:16This is 13.5% alcohol
00:48:19This one is the three different Turkish grape
00:48:24Okay, let's try
00:48:25Cheers
00:48:26Thank you
00:48:26You're welcome
00:48:27Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:48:33Okay
00:48:34There was no heads up
00:48:37You declined my existence in this relationship
00:48:44You just decide whatever you want
00:48:47You are not respecting the person in your life
00:48:53You don't respect me
00:48:54That's not true at all
00:48:55And now I have doubts
00:48:59When we get married, it will only get worse
00:49:04That could be my worst mistake
00:49:07I don't know
00:49:09What could be your worst mistake?
00:49:12This
00:49:13Us
00:49:17Here we are
00:49:19It's a nice place, I hope
00:49:21I have booked a resort
00:49:23The pictures online looked really nice
00:49:26So I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect
00:49:31What is it?
00:49:32It's moving!
00:49:34Kill it!
00:49:35Step on it, get rid of it, take it outside
00:49:38No!
00:49:39No!
00:49:40No!
00:49:41Daniel!
00:49:43Daniel!
00:49:53Guys, where are we going?
00:49:56Left here and we're there
00:49:57Just up here on the left
00:49:59Here we are
00:50:00Here we are
00:50:01Well, it looks super cute
00:50:02Yeah, I really like that
00:50:04Yeah, I really like that
00:50:05Yeah, I really like that
00:50:06Yeah, I really like that
00:50:07Get what you see
00:50:07Everybody like that
00:50:11I'm so excited to see your guys' place
00:50:14We'll tell you the code in about a week once we trust you
00:50:18Cute!
00:50:19Wow!
00:50:23At this point, it's been 40 hours that I've been up and I am completely delirious, completely foggy
00:50:29I put a game face on, I went to the mother bar and now I am beyond thankful we're at
00:50:34the rental and I'm going to be getting some rest soon
00:50:36Guys, I really have to pee, where's the bathroom? And then you can show me around, I'm really excited
00:50:42Someone didn't make their bed, Joshua
00:50:44Someone else
00:50:46Oh, her
00:50:47Oh my God, this is the bathroom we're sharing? Oh no
00:50:51Yes!
00:50:51This is too small!
00:50:55I'm going to die here
00:50:56You will not die
00:50:58I'm trying to put my best foot forward and like be positive and show him that like I'm not a
00:51:03complainer
00:51:03It's small as shit
00:51:06Sounds positive
00:51:08I'm super appreciative of like Josh getting the apartment in a nice location
00:51:12Maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial and like I would have settled for a smaller place without
00:51:19a roommate
00:51:19Like no offence, love you Chris
00:51:21This is your room
00:51:25Wait, wait, wait, what?
00:51:27It's the Moaning Lisa we call it
00:51:29You wanted this picture
00:51:30Chris thought it was hilarious
00:51:32No, I put it up
00:51:33You know
00:51:33Yeah
00:51:36Yeah
00:51:36Why would you let him do that?
00:51:38I didn't let him do that
00:51:40But I thought it was quite hilarious
00:51:42So like what, when we're having sex we have to look at Chris?
00:51:45That's f***ing weird
00:51:46When we have sex, it's pretty assumptuous of you
00:51:51Yeah?
00:51:51Yeah
00:51:55Excuse me
00:51:56So I'm really confused
00:51:57Like you could have put a picture of me
00:51:59Didn't have one
00:52:01In such high def
00:52:02I mean all of my social media
00:52:05It feels very surreal having Elise here with me in person
00:52:08She's just been a voice on the other end of the phone
00:52:11So it'll be interesting to see how, you know, we both react to living together
00:52:17Where do I put everything?
00:52:20I'll find space
00:52:22I asked you to get a steamer, did you get a steamer?
00:52:24Steamer?
00:52:25Yeah
00:52:26Do you think we should get like a closet organizer here?
00:52:30Do you not, do you just have a dryer?
00:52:36Um, it looks like it could be an adjustment
00:52:40There's like literally only one towel in here
00:52:44I'm gonna need more pillows
00:52:47Uh, we can organize that
00:52:49Pillows, steamer in the morning
00:52:53We should maybe make a list so you don't forget
00:52:54I'll write it down
00:52:55Set yourself up for success
00:52:56I'll write it down, promise
00:52:57Okay
00:52:58Let's go to bed
00:52:59Okay
00:52:59Come on
00:53:00Night, guys
00:53:02Goodnight!
00:53:03Alright
00:53:05This is your bed
00:53:06Okay
00:53:07I just wanna get comfy clothes on
00:53:09Yep, and go to bed
00:53:10And where
00:53:11Okay, perfect
00:53:11And I'm on the couch
00:53:12Okay
00:53:14Before I got here
00:53:16I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow
00:53:18So, he's gonna sleep on the couch
00:53:20That way we're both avoiding temptation
00:53:22Okay
00:53:26Joshua gives me butterflies
00:53:27Like, he's hot
00:53:28Like, sending him away
00:53:29It's hard
00:53:30But like, I came here wanting to do things differently
00:53:33Like, not leading with sex
00:53:34But at the same time
00:53:36I wanted to make him, you know
00:53:37See a little glimpse of what he might be getting
00:53:46Josh!
00:53:53Are you gonna come say goodnight?
00:53:55Absolutely
00:53:56Why such a serious look?
00:53:59Because it's, uh...
00:54:02You know why?
00:54:03You look like someone killed you
00:54:05Yeah, I'm getting killed inside
00:54:07Painful
00:54:08Alright, well come take a night to me
00:54:10Thank you
00:54:23Goodnight
00:54:23Goodnight
00:54:26It's gonna be a hard sleep on the couch
00:54:27But yeah
00:54:28It's good to try and connect more on that emotional level
00:54:31Than the sexual level off the bat
00:54:33I think that probably, you know, that helps us
00:54:36But would you want to have sex?
00:54:39In an ideal world, of course I would
00:54:40As soon as I saw her I would
00:54:41Rolled on the airport floor
00:54:43But, um, you know
00:54:46I'm really happy that we have a really strong connection
00:54:49Straight away from the moment we met
00:54:52But, um, I haven't shared my whole life with, um, Elise yet
00:54:55I'm a bit worried that she might, you know, find out some things
00:54:58You know, parts of my life that she's not exactly happy with
00:55:01I just hope I can show her that I'm a good person
00:55:03You know, with flaws, but a good person
00:55:05And hopefully she falls in love with me
00:55:24Okay, we have to pack
00:55:37Daniel, are you sure you're okay going on this trip with me?
00:55:40Um, yeah
00:55:42Yeah, sure
00:55:45Things are now settled with Lisa
00:55:47I'm still really hot with all the offence she has committed
00:55:51By telling lies
00:55:54But I decided to go on this trip with her
00:55:57I hope we didn't forget anything
00:55:59I don't know, I don't think so
00:56:01I think we're good
00:56:03This is going to be difficult
00:56:05But I will try my best to have a good time
00:56:14I never wanted to hurt you
00:56:18Long ride
00:56:19We'll get there pretty late, so
00:56:21What is the place like?
00:56:23It's a lake
00:56:24Yeah, there will be a lot of nature in the area to look at
00:56:28And lots of activities to do
00:56:30So, I thought it would be enjoyable for us
00:56:34Thank you
00:56:36You're welcome
00:56:41I'll have mercy on you, baby
00:56:45I'll have mercy on you
00:56:48You're thinking, where the hell is she taking me?
00:56:51You know what we call these in America?
00:56:53The boonies
00:56:55The boondocks
00:56:56Where there's no real civilization
00:56:59It's just...
00:57:00It's just woods
00:57:04Here we are
00:57:06It's a nice place, I hope
00:57:10I have booked a resort in Bagari, Nigeria
00:57:15It's the western part of Lagos
00:57:17The pictures online looked really nice
00:57:20And it's in my price range
00:57:22So, I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic
00:57:26And can help us reconnect
00:57:29Oh, wow
00:57:30I like it
00:57:31What do you think?
00:57:35Nice little space, right?
00:57:37It's nice
00:57:37It's fine, it's nice, huh?
00:57:39Oh, my God
00:57:42What is it?
00:57:45Yeah, it's a spider
00:57:46No!
00:57:47That could be poisonous
00:57:48I've not seen someone bitten by a spider before
00:57:54I have
00:57:55I'm not gonna sleep in here with a spider
00:57:57I'm terrified of this spider because I don't know what kind of spider it is
00:58:01This thing is in Africa
00:58:03This could be dangerous
00:58:05Don't you dare fling it towards me
00:58:11Is it dead?
00:58:12Just smushed...
00:58:13It's moving!
00:58:16Kill it!
00:58:17Step on it!
00:58:18Get rid of it!
00:58:19Take it outside!
00:58:20No!
00:58:21Ah!
00:58:23Daniel!
00:58:25Alright, stop!
00:58:26Leave it, I will kill it myself
00:58:27Ah!
00:58:29No, don't kick it again!
00:58:31Stop!
00:58:32Stop kicking it!
00:58:36Where'd it go?
00:58:38Daniel, get it off my shoe
00:58:40Okay
00:58:41You don't kick it at me!
00:58:43I have a phobia of spiders
00:58:46It's just spider
00:58:47No, it's not just a spider
00:58:50It was huge, it was like tarantula-sized spider
00:58:54You are so rude
00:58:57I am terrified of spiders
00:58:58Why didn't you kill the spider?
00:59:02Is that bad?
00:59:02Just spider, ordinary spider
00:59:04It's not an ordinary spider, it's a vicious spider
00:59:07You know where the spider's coming from
00:59:10Kill the spider, kill it!
00:59:11No, you kill it
00:59:14We're here now, right?
00:59:18So, what are we here for?
00:59:21It's a romantic getaway
00:59:24Romantic, you said?
00:59:25Yes, yes
00:59:30She wants us to have a romantic trip
00:59:34But it's very hard for me
00:59:36I am feeling tense
00:59:40Because I don't know what my uncle is going to do
00:59:43Whether he will cancel this marriage
00:59:46I don't like waiting, you know, to talk to him
00:59:50You should enjoy it, you came
00:59:52Why'd you come if you're not going to enjoy it?
00:59:55Honest
00:59:55You know why I'm here, right?
00:59:57No, I have no idea why you decided to come
00:59:59No
01:00:01I'm here because, um, I didn't want the money you paid to be, um, to be a West
01:00:08That's the only reason why you came
01:00:14So, no, um, no sex
01:00:17No kissing
01:00:19Auntie, I call my uncle
01:00:20And I want him to consult, you know, the oracle, the ancestors
01:00:24Why don't you just wait a couple days?
01:00:27Just a couple days
01:00:29We can, we can make this work for a couple days
01:00:32Daniel, I need a couple days
01:00:33To do what?
01:00:35Just to get my head together
01:00:37And then we call your uncle
01:00:42I need a couple days because I have to come clean to Daniel about the rest of everything before he
01:00:47goes to his uncle
01:00:49But he's already so angry with me
01:00:52How am I going to get through it?
01:00:55I am terrified that Daniel's going to leave me forever once he finds out
01:01:00I need a day or two
01:01:02That's all I'm asking for
01:01:03I want to have a day or two with you
01:01:07Fine
01:01:12This, this one never ends
01:01:15Why do you do this?
01:01:17Is your mom always just bossy?
01:01:19You want traditional roles when it applies to you
01:01:23Ah, I'm just done with this conversation
01:01:26You know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter
01:01:29You don't want a bitchy wife
01:01:31Don't be a asshole
01:01:38Yo, you know, you used to be a two-year-old
01:02:02You worked for yourself
01:02:16what's wrong really yeah really you don't help me with anything like this laundry and this
01:02:26this one never ends why do you do this what the
01:02:34it's been nice having to bond in my house but i'm still thinking about my mom's concern about our
01:02:42long-distance relationship on top of that now that javon and i are living together in one house
01:02:54i get to see how he is he's very messy and i just put the clothes in the towel
01:03:03everywhere i feel like i have a toddler and i always have to pick up stuff from male to male
01:03:11is your mom always just bossy what i heard that we just haven't got time i heard that
01:03:21no me too loves me yeah well i love you too man i mean doesn't mean that you're not bossy
01:03:28what's wrong with telling your husband to pick up their socks there's nothing wrong with that
01:03:32anna it's how you're delivering anna what do you want from me instead of coming in the room say
01:03:38javon pick up your stuff you know you can just say oh if you don't mind could you just pick
01:03:45up your
01:03:45stuff
01:03:48javon yeah no matter how much i put it if you really would like to pick up that socks you
01:03:53would have
01:03:55see you don't see that i do actually you do but you don't do it
01:03:59no and like every time i talk to you you leave the room
01:04:18we all we do is talk that's all we do all right well i'm gonna try a little action today
01:04:25would you like to go get our like a manicure like our feet done
01:04:33well you definitely need a pedicure okay
01:04:46i feel sorry for whoever's gonna clean your feet
01:04:51dang how bad do you think my feet is anna's always complained that i'm not romantic enough
01:04:59but it's hard to be romantic when you're being nagged a lot still you thought it'd be a good idea
01:05:07to do something nice for anna to show her you know what i appreciate what you do
01:05:11hi good afternoon hello hello pa i just hope that she sees that i'm making a real effort here
01:05:20so it's like barbie threw up in here
01:05:24suits you so well look at you yeah sitting like a queen it's all pink i like it i know
01:05:32you did
01:05:35there you go yeah yeah see i told you
01:05:44it just feels weird oh that's nice oh my god boo that's a lot you doing okay over there
01:05:56i'm so tired
01:06:02is this being romantic
01:06:05yeah did i pass the test today
01:06:06kind of okay yeah thank you some cool points i like that
01:06:13you still have to be nicer to me though and i'll do more nice things
01:06:19like if i leave like underwear or socks on the floor you know will you be nice
01:06:28no no i mean you can be nice to me but not by not dropping them on the floor
01:06:38i know but anna you know you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and
01:06:43you know more patient with me you know what i think it is it's just i think that you knew
01:06:48i
01:06:48wasn't going anywhere and you got comfortable
01:06:53being too comfortable is not a good thing because you feel like okay well i got this person
01:06:59i don't have to try anymore you know he's always going to be there no matter what
01:07:06don't ever get too comfortable ever
01:07:13i don't understand where did this come from do you get it from those videos that you've
01:07:19been watching about masculinity and other things no that's my that's that's that's all
01:07:26my idea i take full credit for that
01:07:32it's just odd because i feel like over the couple of years watching all these videos you've changed
01:07:39and i love who you are but anna this is who i was when you first met me no you're
01:07:47not
01:07:47you were not that prideful before i feel like your idea of being a husband changed
01:07:55you see it's like a power i don't have any that's the problem like i feel like probably you need
01:08:01to
01:08:01feel powerful no and you're not i feel like i have all the responsibility with no authority
01:08:06because when i tell you to do something you don't listen to me so what are you talking about
01:08:13you want traditional roles when it when it applies to you i always have to take care of
01:08:19everything financially so as your husband i feel like having to say is nice you know it just means
01:08:26you're just respectful ah just done with this conversation
01:08:37why did you bring me here well i wanted you to have a good time
01:08:42yes but if you do i look like i'm having a good time but you set me up you were
01:08:47asking me
01:08:47questions and i just answered them honestly you ever heard the term you know you don't want to hear
01:08:53the answers so cease from asking dumbass questions you ever think about that and you don't wanna
01:09:00bitch your wife don't be a asshole i can just sit here and get my feet done like i don't
01:09:07have to
01:09:07it then they should stay here okay don't come home you need to calm down
01:09:17i don't want to see you ever again
01:09:22don't come home ever
01:09:26jerk
01:09:29you're disgusting
01:09:33hey i will see you soon all right i cannot believe michael is actually here in turkey
01:09:41he said to tell you hi i'm nothing
01:09:47you want to open it hey hi friend oh my god
01:10:13i have a phone call
01:10:20hello
01:10:22hey good morning good morning how are you
01:10:28you doing well
01:10:30oh my hotel won't be ready until like two o'clock
01:10:34uh is there any chance i can point and i say hello
01:10:40it's totally fine with me i mean
01:10:42i was just gonna say i pin dropped you my location
01:10:47okay i will uh i will see you soon i wish for walking in your direction
01:10:51all right be careful thanks bye bye
01:11:06i'm a little bit worried that michael's here
01:11:09now now now that this is real and he actually showed up in turkey
01:11:14my stomach is about to explode on itself i'm incredibly nervous and i feel like i'm about to die
01:11:28hey hey that was michael what is he saying
01:11:35he said to tell you hi
01:11:38what
01:11:40why
01:11:41because i'm not saying hi
01:11:44well
01:11:46he's gonna be here
01:11:49at this apartment
01:11:50this apartment
01:11:51and about
01:11:52turkey is okay but this apartment
01:11:5510 minutes
01:12:01i cannot believe that michael is actually here in turkey
01:12:07he dropped everything to get on a plane for me
01:12:11i mean it does feel pretty good that someone cares about me enough to do that
01:12:16but it is definitely wild
01:12:19and complicated
01:12:22so you think this is normal
01:12:27well
01:12:29i think he's just concerned about me
01:12:33yeah
01:12:34sure
01:12:36that's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other
01:12:40yeah i believe him
01:12:42he's such a good heart
01:12:50i'm not five years old i don't eat that
01:12:55your friend is trying to this connection and you're like yay
01:13:01okay
01:13:03it's like i don't get it
01:13:06i never wanted him to come and i still don't want him to come
01:13:11i think he's coming in turkey to mix up laura's mind
01:13:17maybe talk some about me give laura more doubts
01:13:21but if our relationship is gonna end because of michael
01:13:28i don't blame michael i will blame laura
01:13:37you want to open it
01:13:39yeah i do actually thank you
01:13:47hey
01:13:48hi friend
01:13:49oh my god
01:13:50i cannot believe you're in turkey
01:13:53is it safe to come in
01:13:55yes
01:13:55oh my god
01:13:56wild
01:13:57oh my god
01:13:59you're making a palace here
01:14:06i cannot believe you're in turkey
01:14:08i know
01:14:09this is crazy
01:14:10amazing
01:14:11the most spontaneous thing i've ever done in my life
01:14:13i have
01:14:14and i do it for you
01:14:15i do it for you
01:14:18so
01:14:19oh my god absolutely
01:14:22wow oh wow
01:14:23yeah this is fantastic right
01:14:25i hope my hotel room looks like this holy cow
01:14:29hi michael
01:14:31nice to meet you finally i've heard so much about you
01:14:35yeah it probably hurt
01:14:37okay
01:14:47you want something to drink tea yeah anything like that
01:14:51okay just have a seat right here i don't know how it works
01:14:54do the women make tea here or do the boys do it
01:14:57boys
01:14:59the boys make the tea
01:15:01they call men if they are grown up
01:15:03oh okay
01:15:08um would you like anything
01:15:10no
01:15:11i am perfect thank you
01:15:27so buddy what you're watching
01:15:30scarface
01:15:36you like american classic movies
01:15:38you like american classic movies
01:15:43i like mob stuff
01:15:46i enjoy pretty much violence
01:15:54do you like
01:15:55do you like
01:15:56do you like i like this movie or violence
01:16:03uh
01:16:04uh
01:16:06golly i'll be honest with you i don't know what to make of beer con
01:16:10i know i just kind of dropped it on him but he's talking about violence to me on the couch
01:16:14if that's truly who he is then i can't imagine that's healthy for laura
01:16:20my first impression of beer con is that laura and i are more compatible than i think uh than beer
01:16:24con and she are
01:16:25so i want to make sure that she makes the right choice
01:16:35i love you so much
01:16:37stop telling me that stop which hurting some secrets all i can think about is how there's more to tell
01:16:45him
01:16:45and i have to get it said before he goes to his uncle it has to be tonight so i
01:16:51have more to tell you then
01:16:52more to tell me
01:17:17good morning
01:17:20oh good morning
01:17:25you're going to sleep
01:17:26you're going to sleep or i
01:17:28you kept me awake all try tonight
01:17:30i know i didn't mean to keep you awake i couldn't help it i was sad
01:17:33now you almost went to bed with tears
01:17:42why were you crying
01:17:44i feel bad about everything that transpired
01:17:48but i feel better this morning
01:17:50yeah because i i coded you right
01:17:53and you were crying so loud so i have to
01:17:56i have to cuddle you you know
01:18:01last night i cried myself to sleep and all i could think about is how i have to tell daniel
01:18:07my secret
01:18:07and i'm scared i'm gonna lose him forever but daniel held me all night so i'm waking up feeling a
01:18:14little
01:18:14hopeful today is a new day and i'm hoping that we can explore and have some fun together
01:18:21yes hello where are we breathing i'd like to look at the lake and i'd like to walk around and
01:18:26see what
01:18:27else there is that's fine all right let's get dressed
01:18:40come on let's go down towards the water
01:18:46oh my gosh
01:18:49this is a whole resort and there's nobody here
01:18:59it's not like it's pictures it's pretty desolate actually and it's a bit run down
01:19:10i'm gonna smile a little bit but maybe that it's desolate is gonna help me with daniel
01:19:20maybe it's a little bit more intimate for the two of us
01:19:25wow water is so big yeah it's so big the water
01:19:33oh look at this this is neat let's have one two please
01:19:41i feel that things are going back to normal like this is trying to rebuild our relationship
01:19:48oh wow delicious let's go for a bike ride can you ride a bike
01:19:56i don't know i'll try it to me i welcomed it i want us to be together because i love
01:20:04her
01:20:07you know it takes muscle to pull this yes that's why you're doing the pedaling and i'm doing the
01:20:12steering look up the pace no not that fast i think you're maybe not that fast
01:20:24i feel so light and so good in this moment with daniel he is having fun and seeing the smile
01:20:31on his
01:20:31face as he's doing it i really feel like we're reconnecting are you having fun yes i am see this
01:20:40is
01:20:40exactly what we needed i want to just enjoy myself but i can't because all i can think about
01:20:47is how there's more to tell him and i have to get it said before he goes to his uncle
01:20:52it has to be tonight
01:21:16it's a bonfire honey we're dancers i'm enjoying the sun
01:21:24this is beautiful
01:21:26have a seat let's watch them let's enjoy it
01:21:33it's beautiful isn't it
01:21:37thank you thank you
01:21:42this is nice
01:21:45are you glad you gave me one more day
01:21:50i'm enjoying spending time with you this is what this few days is about do you feel like you're
01:21:56reconnecting with me a little bit yeah i really want us to um reconnect you know i miss the way
01:22:03we
01:22:03used to be but i'm trying to respect our tradition we have to call my uncle when i call him
01:22:12i will beg on our
01:22:13behalf i love you i love you i want to make you i want to you know love you forever
01:22:20but stop telling me that
01:22:29okay i understand okay so i have more to tell you then more to tell me
01:22:40what do you mean
01:22:43so like in nigeria it's not legal for men to marry men or women to marry women right
01:22:51it's not legal it's not in america it is yes i've had of that
01:23:01so my last marriage wasn't with a man
01:23:07i'm divorcing a woman daniel
01:23:12and i've been with more than one woman
01:23:16you're the first man that i've been with in 21 years
01:23:30it's not don't it's not as bad don't come close to me
01:23:39next time on before the 90 days
01:23:44i'm good having female friends can be hard to juggle but i want to prove to her that she has
01:23:51nothing to worry about today i found out that he was living with you yeah yeah yeah i think that
01:23:55she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of way
01:24:01are you jealous of me and our relationship
01:24:08you're officially on the gp
01:24:11i only have a week left here in the philippines and i don't want to waste any time in bringing
01:24:16sheena
01:24:17to america so i have to be very clear here if you file today for the k1 vision it will
01:24:26be denied
01:24:30i just feel really hopeless because i'm putting in massive effort and at this moment i'm at a crossroads
01:24:39i don't know how to move forward
01:24:47i'm excited to see my family do you think they're gonna be happy to see yeah just see me
01:24:52what about me i don't know i feel scared my family won't accept rick when they don't like something
01:25:03they are really aggressive rick doesn't know what he's in for
01:25:08they want babies
01:25:20you have a lot of secrets i have no more secrets
01:25:24shut your mouth you have been touched by a woman
01:25:27not even woman women
01:25:30where they range
01:25:34daniel's not going to accept me for who i am
01:25:36you know what him
01:25:39f*** him
01:25:40f*** him
01:25:40f*** him
01:25:40f*** him
01:25:42f*** him
01:25:43f*** him
01:25:45f*** him
01:25:46f*** him
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